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Ep. 318 - Divorce Unfairness: The Lie We Tell Ourselves That Keeps Us Stuck & Resentful (Premium Panel Rant) · Dear Divorce Diary: A Fresh Approach To Healing Grief & Building A Life Of Confidence After Divorce

• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: Hi, love.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary, the podcast helping divorcees go beyond talk therapy to process your grief, find the healing you crave, and build back your confidence.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Don Wiggins, a therapist, coach, integrative healer, and divorcee.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_00: Join me for a fresh approach to healing grief and building your confidence after divorce.
• 1:24
  SPEAKER_00: This is the thesis of what we're saying here, right?
• 1:26
  SPEAKER_00: Is that this entire belief about how freaking unfair it all is, right?
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_00: How unfair my childhood was, how unfair my the ending of my marriage was, how unfair even how my freaking wedding weeks leading up to and wedding day went, like how unfair it all felt, is all grounded in a deep sense of insecurity and unworthiness.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why shit feels unfair because we feel so unable, so unworthy, so small, so helpless, hopeless.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_00: It's so weird to walk around the world and know and hear people's pain, like whether it's their relationship pain or like their children's illness stories, or like so-and-so has cancer, or this one is that, and like to know that homeopathy can heal all of it, and people can't can't receive that solution.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_00: It's like it's one of the weirdest.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: This is a different panel rant for a different day.
• 2:29
  SPEAKER_00: So weird to know that there's a solution for all of your pain, and you might not be able to hear it, probably can't hear it.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: It's reminds me often of there's a verse, and maybe Joy knows where it is, but there's a verse in the Bible that talks about it's easier for a camel to go through an eye of the of a needle than it is for a wealthy man to go through the gates of heaven.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_00: And like, whatever about what that's about.
• 2:50
  SPEAKER_00: But I think it really is about being a vibrational match for the solution or choosing alignment.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_00: It's it's not common.
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_00: It's we often choose denial and avoidance and addictive like behaviors over the truth.
• 3:05
  SPEAKER_00: And homeopathy can heal your life, man.
• 3:07
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, amongst other things, it's not any one thing.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_00: Like that's I'm not trying to celebrate one thing.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 3:11
  SPEAKER_00: It's a beautiful integrated way.
• 3:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we don't we don't recommend one without the other around here, but it's the missing piece, I think, for most people.
• 3:19
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• 3:26
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• 3:46
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