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108: Q&A - Hunchback of Notra Don · Wine & Audacity

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  Speaker 1: M hmm, it's raining, it's pooring. My love life is boring.
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  Speaker 2: Was no funny, she said, ain't nothing better than that.
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  Speaker 2: It smell a hot grease in the morning.
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  Speaker 3: That's feelings. You're cooking at.
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  Speaker 2: Doing your hair.
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  Speaker 3: He tree, Wait, you're gonna be recording. You're getting him
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  Speaker 3: a cup so we can get some jerks. Yes, it's
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  Speaker 3: it's the killing. This what you was thinking about it.
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  Speaker 2: This is not Jesus chic. She's too young for Jesus Jews.
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  Speaker 3: It's just a little Jesus Jews. Jesus just gonna little
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  Speaker 3: Jesus is gonna have me a big.
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  Speaker 2: You don't get that reference because you're too young, old
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  Speaker 2: gen Zays.
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  Speaker 3: Just a little Jesus juice. I hate that. It sounds funny,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't know what it means. So seanna know
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  Speaker 3: what that man? I will not confirm.
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  Speaker 4: Nordern you never had Jesus juice before it drink that
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  Speaker 4: so like, that's up the devil.
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  Speaker 3: That sounds like somebody name he's us made it.
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  Speaker 5: No stop, that's it's no stop, mister blink, it's me
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  Speaker 5: your famous to Jefferson.
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  Speaker 3: Son. No stop wait, no stop, it's evening. Stop stop.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to this whee episode of Wine and a Desk. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: shut up train. I am your host, Brandon Scart. Then
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  Speaker 2: I'm joining about one and a half of my favorite
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  Speaker 2: people in the world. How are you feeling shown, not
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  Speaker 2: one and a half.
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  Speaker 3: I'm cooling. I'm chilling them straight.
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  Speaker 2: That's good. So for the first time season three, we
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  Speaker 2: got our accidental half co hosts actually sit down and
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  Speaker 2: cool with us. Say hi to the people, Tray.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, how y'all doing? Baby?
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  Speaker 2: That's a grown ass man, doog.
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  Speaker 3: Baby, I'm only seventeen alone.
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  Speaker 2: Nigga, I was on alone when I'm seventeen.
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  Speaker 3: It's a baby, y'all. I gave him life came from
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  Speaker 3: my wound and tennis. That dropped like an album. But
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  Speaker 3: I take my brother.
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  Speaker 2: You know, Aaron is out again this week, so we
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  Speaker 2: asked nephew Son slash Ship nephew slash Son come on
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  Speaker 2: and hang out with us for a little bit, since
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  Speaker 2: he's always walking past being nosy in any.
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  Speaker 3: Damning and got the same personality.
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  Speaker 2: And basically he's just shown them with just braids official
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  Speaker 2: in the in the Button Mustad show. She got that
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  Speaker 2: first of all.
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  Speaker 3: Now about my mama like that I just didn't think
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  Speaker 3: you son, check yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's just meth like mother like son son.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, m hmm, hush, mm hm.
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  Speaker 3: How y'all feeling disrespected? Disrespect this?
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  Speaker 4: You what I talk? Well, my goddamn mustard should one
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  Speaker 4: of the family, ain't my damn folk family? Harry you
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  Speaker 4: at your head?
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  Speaker 3: I guess that's why I'm had no man. Some men
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  Speaker 3: like old Biscus, they don't want to shed his nail.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Now if he using nasist, jam might have to reevaluate.
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  Speaker 2: Just sending my way, I will. I mean, I don't
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  Speaker 2: mind body here.
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  Speaker 3: M hm m m oh. How y'all do mm hmm.
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  Speaker 6: It's only been five minutes and nobody busting out laughing.
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  Speaker 2: Cancel's meeting of vaccine experts scheduled to advise.
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  Speaker 3: On flu shots. I seen it this morning.
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  Speaker 2: First they said postponed. Now the meeting is canceled. That
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  Speaker 2: means no flu shots next year. It's a six month
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  Speaker 2: production cycle, so one can only assume that we're not
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  Speaker 2: picking flu strains this year. Fundamentally, that's a form of
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  Speaker 2: mass murder.
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  Speaker 4: They put that damn Kennedy off as Caroline try to
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  Speaker 4: tell us she wasn't that Carolina tried to warn us.
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  Speaker 4: She didn't you dry to warn us. She tried to
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  Speaker 4: tell us that her family member was and shit, I
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  Speaker 4: didn't want to listen.
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  Speaker 2: But he will kill us all. Look, no flu vaccines
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  Speaker 2: this year.
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  Speaker 4: Vaccines now look and been crazy this year. I know
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  Speaker 4: a lot of people who had it that was down
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  Speaker 4: for two and three weeks.
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  Speaker 2: One of my employees actually had to be sitting home
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  Speaker 2: yesterd my boss Stone because I was I was in
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  Speaker 2: a different site yesterday, so I wasn't in my actual
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  Speaker 2: assign office. And when I came in a like two
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  Speaker 2: thirty in the afternoon from being out all day, he
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  Speaker 2: was like, I had to send such and such on
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  Speaker 2: because he was over there hacking.
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  Speaker 3: Like you could hear him. Yeah, home.
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  Speaker 2: It's only gonna get worse now that everybody's back in
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  Speaker 2: the office. Over we're required to be back in the office.
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  Speaker 2: You will see people getting sick. If COVID especially now
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  Speaker 2: well thankfully COVID season because it's not the winner anymore,
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  Speaker 2: but it's going in the spring. It shouldn't be as bad.
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  Speaker 3: But trying to fight for air PURI file file off.
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  Speaker 2: But if another COVID string comes through and knocks people out.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna have people just damn.
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmm yep down for the count. Unfortunate. This is crazy.
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  Speaker 3: It's unfortunate. But that's a mattha for you. What you
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  Speaker 3: know about that? Try? I know we're going for the
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  Speaker 3: bull crap.
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  Speaker 6: I know that's a fact, the nays yous government.
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  Speaker 2: So how would you feel the number? Everything happening in
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  Speaker 2: the news, Michael, let's say, let's have a conversation.
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  Speaker 6: Wow, for the most part, one of my classmates is
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  Speaker 6: about said something about Donald Trump shutting down the electricity.
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  Speaker 3: Is something going on. I don't know. I don't know, Tristan,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know the power around everyone. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. She says, she saw it on the
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  Speaker 3: news yesterday. I'm like, what I remember? I remember.
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  Speaker 6: I remember we went over the how much depth the
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  Speaker 6: US is in ninth grade. We When I looked at
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  Speaker 6: that number, I'm like, there's no way were all over
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  Speaker 6: in ninety two, like ninety two trillion dollars in debt.
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  Speaker 2: Let me let me look up the actually, let me
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  Speaker 2: see US debt clock. Okay, well, no, that's not it.
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  Speaker 2: What is the national debt right now? Per the per
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  Speaker 2: the Peter G. Peterson Foundation. The United States is thirty
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  Speaker 2: six trillion, two hundred and twenty four billion, four hundred
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  Speaker 2: eighteen million, seven nine hundred and six thousand, seven hundred
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  Speaker 2: and fifteen dollars in debt.
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  Speaker 3: That should not be a film number.
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  Speaker 4: Fortunate it is these simpletons out here thinking that fucking
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  Speaker 4: the musty muskrat is about to be giving people five
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  Speaker 4: thousand dollars a person. You got five thousand dollars a person.
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  Speaker 4: Give no motherfucking mid well.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, where's gonna go from Chancellor? You know, elon,
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  Speaker 3: don't give a billionaire give a don't I don't give
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  Speaker 3: a damn. But No, I looked at Weddy named the sun.
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  Speaker 3: I can't even pronounce that. What even is that?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what is up?
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  Speaker 6: What is up with people with billionaires naming their kids
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  Speaker 6: at the wet stuff? No, I seen this video of
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  Speaker 6: this woman who named the baby meth and fatamine rules.
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  Speaker 6: I am serious. It was on the birth certificate and
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  Speaker 6: every tree. Please, I wish I was lying.
• 9:10
  Speaker 3: I hope you. I wish we could say that's the
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  Speaker 3: strangest name that we've ever heard. Oh, I heard some
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  Speaker 3: crazy baby name. Strange h.
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  Speaker 4: Celebrity who named that child moxy crime Fighter. Another one
• 9:26
  Speaker 4: named their baby apple Apple Apple.
• 9:28
  Speaker 3: You can get away with people crime? What is that?
• 9:32
  Speaker 3: Let's look this up online. I am confusion. No, someone
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  Speaker 3: named that kid Hamburger. I'm so serious. I'm bad guy.
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: Weird baby names. Hold on, so I'm on Reddit and
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  Speaker 2: this is from thread from a year ago, from the
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  Speaker 2: as thread, and it says, what are the weirdest names
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  Speaker 2: you've seen people name their children? I want the girl
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  Speaker 2: name Merry Christmas spelled m a r Y Christmas.
• 10:03
  Speaker 3: I met a girl named Valentine's Day. I might have
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  Speaker 3: got named March. First name day I might have got
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  Speaker 3: named March. I used to work with a girl named January.
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  Speaker 3: So there was another.
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  Speaker 2: Another plane crush yesterday and today. FedEx plane makes an
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  Speaker 2: emergency emergency landing Nork after a bird strike and the engine.
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  Speaker 3: Is on fire.
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  Speaker 2: Oh oh god, I'm not flying no time soon. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I used to know a dude named Moonshine. Parents were
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  Speaker 2: raging alcoholics. H Yeah, that makes sense. My husband taught
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  Speaker 2: a kid named Jack Daniels. The kid thought it was hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: The parents were sort of cool people. I guess it
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  Speaker 2: worked for him.
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  Speaker 4: Ye mom my mother, are you listening? I am so
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  Speaker 4: sorry for ever judging you for what my full name is.
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  Speaker 3: I'll take it.
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  Speaker 2: This reminds me of a guy used to deliver to
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  Speaker 2: His name was Philip Morris. Them like the company that's cigarettes.
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  Speaker 2: I know you, Phillis Morris, A company.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy. I know you. Fucking line. Okay, I had
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  Speaker 3: I had this, I had some. I know someone.
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  Speaker 6: I met someone who said that parents named them Phili McCracken.
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  Speaker 2: School with a kid named the Vodka. The kids made
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  Speaker 2: fun of him, asking his mind the past.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 2: A classmate named her son dakery.
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  Speaker 3: That what another one?
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  Speaker 2: Tragedy spell t R A G E d E I
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  Speaker 2: g H what.
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  Speaker 3: What the way I would change my name in two
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  Speaker 3: that I was old? No, I gotta, I gotta, I
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  Speaker 3: gotta do like Stewie.
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  Speaker 1: What what?
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  Speaker 2: I met a family at a restaurant. Her daughter's name
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  Speaker 2: was Champagne.
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  Speaker 3: I know what, Champagne.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone kept saying that it was a beautiful name. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: it's not a bad name from any worse together because
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  Speaker 2: my mind and what the fuck?
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  Speaker 3: Well?
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  Speaker 4: I met a girl name she's African American. Her name
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  Speaker 4: is Champagne. I mean, I thought that was her nickname.
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  Speaker 4: That's her real name.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, it's not a bad like a bad name.
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  Speaker 6: But then again, why you going some more names? Jamison
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  Speaker 6: after the whiskey, Jamis's name, that's not that's not a
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  Speaker 6: bad name.
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  Speaker 2: Alexander, that's not a bad name. Spelled e A l
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  Speaker 2: e x x z A n d r. That's what Alexander.
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: How is a L e x x z A n
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  Speaker 2: d r. Just spell Xander, just spelled the normal way.
• 12:56
  Speaker 3: Sparkle and gave my child a regular Douglas Meglin name.
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  Speaker 2: By Jackson, but spelled j A c k x S M.
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  Speaker 3: Huh.
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: Friend from high school had twins tiki for the female
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  Speaker 2: and torch for the male.
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  Speaker 3: Because the honeymoon to Hawaii. I still can't believe it
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  Speaker 3: three years later.
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  Speaker 8: Absolutely that that's just a Vietnam tree.
• 13:35
  Speaker 4: You're about to be banned from the show because you
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  Speaker 4: started this conversation.
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: Twins. You just got here, Tweeler and Twiler.
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  Speaker 2: I went to school with twins born in December, so
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  Speaker 2: their parents named them Decee and ember D e c
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  Speaker 2: E and b E M b e R.
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  Speaker 6: Someone named the kid Denise, and then no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 6: get this the boy's name was the nephew it was.
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  Speaker 3: It was.
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  Speaker 2: A former co worker named her daughter Breck Aspen because
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  Speaker 2: she got pregnant on a ski trip to cass where.
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  Speaker 3: Please say it, say it.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: I guess his name is Breck Breckenridge. I'm a teacher,
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: and I think the worst name I heard was Wiley Minx.
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  Speaker 2: If you can see my mom's face fighting now Vanilla
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: first name, pepper, middle name. If you're going to name
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: your kid after ingredients, at least make sure make it
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  Speaker 2: a combo that makes sense. But maybe they wanted to
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  Speaker 2: name her vanilla.
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  Speaker 3: Doctor p.
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  Speaker 2: Imagine if the girl's name was Pepper and she became
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  Speaker 2: a doctor, that would be too bad. Come on, come,
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  Speaker 2: please become a doctor. Become a Jon like the mustard
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  Speaker 2: in the city in France. And then somebody responded. His
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: last album was Fire though you know that this DJ
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  Speaker 2: Muster is real. First name Jon, that's where he seriously
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  Speaker 2: so that's where he got this is where he got
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  Speaker 2: mustard from. His first name is de Jon.
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  Speaker 3: I mean he does make up music. His last album
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  Speaker 3: was Fired though it was My go Today. You didn't
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  Speaker 3: know that my first name. That's where he gotster from.
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  Speaker 3: I had no Jon Mustard. I had no idea that
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  Speaker 3: that was his name for real.
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  Speaker 2: I was at a tourist site in Colorado years and
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  Speaker 2: years ago. It started raging in parents started calling their
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: kids to come inside. A woman yelled, and it was
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  Speaker 2: like Tom stopped. I thought it must have been weird
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  Speaker 2: acoustic in the dwellings, but it wasn't. She actually was.
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  Speaker 2: She was actually yelling for her daughter, Labia.
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  Speaker 3: The labia. Do you know what a laby is? I
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  Speaker 3: know it's I'm not gonna say that the podcast, but
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  Speaker 3: know what it is? You can say it on the
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  Speaker 3: podcast part of a woman's Yeah. This reminds me of
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  Speaker 3: a woman who named her kid you know more than
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  Speaker 3: most men know.
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  Speaker 2: This reminds me of of the woman who named her
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  Speaker 2: kid Maconium after she heard her doing a predator ob visit.
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  Speaker 3: Comes out. Wait what mm hmm, people, we have too
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  Speaker 3: much feed.
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  Speaker 2: I met a twelve year old named Wisdom with w
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  Speaker 2: h I Z d O m.
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  Speaker 4: W A O took the wiz, but they damn sure
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  Speaker 4: left the dumb.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, do you want to let's talk about Nick
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  Speaker 2: Cannon's kids names Awful, Queen Cannon, Rise, Messiah Cannon, Extra
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  Speaker 2: Dark Ciero, Musk Techno, Mechanic, Mechanicus, Musk Apple, Martin, Moxie
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  Speaker 2: c Gillette, Your Majesty, Jackson, Diva, Muffett, Muffin, Zappa, Moon Unit, Zappa, Zooming,
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  Speaker 2: that's the Rock Pilot, Inspector Fife, Trixie Bell, Becalus, marlinis
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  Speaker 2: Amans a shout out to Cardi.
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  Speaker 3: Bname and.
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  Speaker 2: Radis Man Audio Silence, Audio Science, Cricket, Pearl, Indio, Falconer,
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  Speaker 2: twomorrow Snow film on dot Com, Nick Cannon.
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  Speaker 4: All of those weren's names, just the first few ones
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  Speaker 4: his kids.
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  Speaker 2: Reminds me that Jamie Oliver's kids names are Poppy, Honey, Rosie, Daisy, Blue, Pam,
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  Speaker 2: the Pedal Blossom, Rainbow, Buddy Bear, Maurice, and River Rocket
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  Speaker 2: Blue Dallas. I suppose some of them those are middle names,
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  Speaker 2: and without knowing them, their names are otherwise alrightish except Buddy.
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  Speaker 2: But jeez, it's like they put a bunch of qt
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  Speaker 2: silly names in the hat for each kid and decided
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  Speaker 2: that way they did.
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  Speaker 3: That's what it sounds like to me. What is up
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  Speaker 3: with people name that kids?
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  Speaker 2: I used to volunteer with Scouts. The worst I heard
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  Speaker 2: Raccaine and Abel two twin boys. Their dad thought it
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  Speaker 2: was badass, but I think it's just stupid.
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  Speaker 3: It is stupid.
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  Speaker 4: In the Bible, you pick the story of the brothers.
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  Speaker 4: One was jealous of the other and unlived him. That
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  Speaker 4: made sense to you.
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  Speaker 3: What people this drugs?
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  Speaker 2: They want that stuff?
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  Speaker 3: What the dog doing? They wanted? Oh this ship to
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  Speaker 3: make your mouth go? And the new yor getting boo.
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  Speaker 5: Know what?
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  Speaker 1: I miss my love and my fucking Doug love.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Bobby. So we didn't have a topic this week.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: We decided that we're going to do a bonus Q
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  Speaker 2: What did you get apple from making stuff up? They
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  Speaker 6: Baby Boom, baby boomers, gen X millennials, gen z jen Alpha.
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  Speaker 3: What you are? Also known as gen y.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody calls us that though, ye this what we are?
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  Speaker 3: I guess chat.
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  Speaker 4: I had an immediate heart surgery and I was in
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  Speaker 4: the ICU for a week. My girlfriend, who was with
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: me when I fell ill, took my wallet, had another
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: man dressed like me, and got approved for an apartment
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: in my name. She claims she got the apartment so
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: we could it stopped spending money on hotels, and it's
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: a month to month rental that she would end as
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: soon as I left my wife.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: She's hinting that she'll move in with me.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: In my home after I put my wife out. Firstly,
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: thank you, I'm not getting divorced. Secondly, I'm not paying
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: her rent. I told her that I have no choice
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: but to follow the poet. She is begging me not
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: to press charges because she's pregnant, doubtful, and she'll tell
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: my wife everything. I can't afford to pay rent, and
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: I don't want to lose my wife over this. My
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: heart is fragile and this dress can be harmful.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: What to do tell your wife and file for fraud
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: charges because that's frauduct.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's the most logical thing.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Does she find like your evil doppel ganga like to
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: look like you? But did she have did he have
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: on in.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: Your id like like or he had that she had
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: looked as close to you as possible and went like, oh,
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: he just lost weight.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: You know he's got the hospital like that.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: That's just even Still, they run a credit check on
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: you if you got to stay in the mortgage take
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: on if strey you don't know the check, you ain't
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: never try to buy get your own apartment.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: But when you go and.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, when you when you go to apply for an apartment,
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: they run what's called a credit check and they will
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: see if you have any current liken like rental contracts
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: in place, if you have a mortgage, they will check
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: and they will ask you questions. So the fact that
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: one way I think these stories are six chicks faith.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: If he wasn't able to verify the the mortgage information
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: that it was was already in his name, he wouldn't
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: have been able to get approved for no apartment, let
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: on a month to month so how.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: That makes sense exactly? Sh it's crazy. Make it makes sense,
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: naked make.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: If she was willing to scam that much, she might
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: have went through a private landlord that she may have
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: done anything to be able to get there. First of all, sir,
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: it wouldn't happened if he asked. Wasn't now cheating that
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: that too? Three rounds don't make a left at that point.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: Three lefts make a right though, Well.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: I mean, oh yeah too, oh dang.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I had to check real quickly on mine left left.
• 24:42
  Speaker 6: But yeah, mhm, okay, that's what they say.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: Tell your wife, because all it takes for your wife
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: to run a credit check, or she goes up op
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: for something in both of your names, and what do
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: you mean as an apartment in my husband's name?
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: We got a mortgage, then you covered in hot grits
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: and you already got a bad heart.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Or she come home, you come onto an empty house
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: and her came and take one but yourself.
• 25:13
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna take the light bolts, take the walk, take
• 25:16
  Speaker 9: the batteries out of the remote, take the take the
• 25:20
  Speaker 9: buttons off the remote, take that off the wall, take
• 25:23
  Speaker 9: the smoke detectives, take the battery, off the smoke detective.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: Take pull off the off the wall, take off the pavement,
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: off the wall. God, take off the wires, take the
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: shower head, take the micro take the micro away.
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: Taking I ain't taking the bakeway and take the plate
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: of the bakeway because it can't spend.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: But take the knobs up the stove.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Take the little thing out the hold the thing, take
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: thebs off, take the take hmmm, take the handles off
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: the jaws.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: Painting on the wall. Take take out the outlets. Okay,
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: that's evil. Wow it is Yeah, good luck. I'm not
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: saying I do it. Tell your wife.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Just suggestion, but he thought his wife might already know
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: to be honest if he that there sloppy.
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: Because how is she with you when you had the
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: heart attack? You in the hospital. I'm assuming you're rafe
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: is coming to see ye sign I see you? So
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: when is the girlfriend coming?
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: That I mean if just if she pulling capers like this,
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: maybe she had, maybe she was dressed up like a nurse.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: Or something actually made him man to use a needle,
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: put a bubble on. Yes, I've seen him on a
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Lifetime movie. That was eve.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: That was evil.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: Oh god, I would say you can do that. Maybe
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: y'all shouldn't show that on TV people.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I did. Also, I heard that you could also and
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: checked somebody with insulin between the toes to kill them. Yep,
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: because it's.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Gonna look like they sugar spiked.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but they also won't check between the toes for
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: like shots needle marks.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: So that's the lady on TikTok.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Also, you could bury him twelve feet below underground and.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: Then and then put dirt on them.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: And didn't bury your animal six feet and then put
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: dirt on it because when they go to sniff all,
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: they gonna smell a stand.
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: Oh that's what the lady on tiktoks. How should tell
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: people that I don't know.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: Allegedly, I ain't never done that.
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: I don't I do no crime shot. I ain't built
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: for just hope. I like being woken up with cracker
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: dog until go to be it at ten o'clock and
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: then and stuff. All right, next question, moving on, please,
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: we are going to rudd it saw goods and this
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: is a my the ass whole question.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I know this is going to be stupid.
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: Am I the asshole for not wanting to share my
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: honeymoon with my best friend No. Twenty four female and
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: getting married soon, and my fiance twenty five male, and
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: I have been planning our honeymoon. We decided on the
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: dream destination, somewhere we've always wanted to go, just the
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: two of us, recovering everything ourselves, and we've been saving
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: up for this trip for over a year. And too
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: my best friend Anna twenty four, she's been super involved
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: in my wedding planning and has been joking for months
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: about crashing all honeymoon. I always laughed it off because
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: I assumed that she was literally joking. I always I'm sorry.
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: Well turns out she wasn't.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: She told me she and her boyfriend just booked the
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: trip to the exact same place at the exact same
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: time as us. She was all excited, like, oh my god,
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: we can meet up for dinner, do things together.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: It'll be fun.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: I was stunned and just said, wait, you're serious. She
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: acted like it was no big deal and that it
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: would be even better having another couple around. I told
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: her as nicely as possible that this is supposed to
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: be our trip for me and my husband, and I
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: wasn't comfortable with her tagging along.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: She got super offended and.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: Said that I was being dramatic, that it was not
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: like we would have to spend every moment together, and
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: that I was making her feel like a burden. Now
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: she's upset, and some of our mutual friends think I'm
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: being harsh because it's not like she's staying in our
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: hotel room. But I feel like a honeymoon should be
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: our time, not a group trip. So rended sawas am
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: I the asshole?
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: No, not buy any stretch of the imagination.
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: Why I mean, she didn't take Here's the thing, the
• 29:12
  Speaker 6: best friend didn't take it into consideration that that she
• 29:16
  Speaker 6: wanted to spend time alone with her husband and not
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: doing any group not doing anything as a group. She
• 29:21
  Speaker 6: wanted to spend time with her husband alone.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: But it's weird in general to I can see if
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: you booked the trip months in it, the fact that
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: she was having joking about at the length of the
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: engagement was red flag number one. Ye, Now, coincidences can happen.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: You could have legitimately been playing in the trip before,
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: at the beginning of their engagement, or before and never
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: mentioned the location. Girl, you go on your honey move.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: Should we go on to vacation two? See you when
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: you get back. Walk up to the breakfast line at
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: the resort. Bit what you're doing here.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: Into a vacation. I didn't tell you.
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: It be kind of sus but but at the same time,
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: a girl, Yeah, we booked this like last year before
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: y'all said trub was coming here.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: I didn't know. But we're not gonna getting your way.
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: We're gonna do your.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: Thing even if you want to get done on somebody
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: you here. If not, we understand.
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: But this sounds like it was premeditated. It was very premeditated.
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: Out when you're doing your honeymoon, your goal is to
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: spend time with your new husband and wife.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: And be fucking, fucking, fucking, fucking I can't say the word.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: You're supposed to be your honeymoon getting nasty as a
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: restaurant in Baltimore's City.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: Time.
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: They just got put on the health Department list because
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: of infestation and improper storage. As no friend, you're not
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: the asshole. I would have to re evaluate our friendship
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: because I would feel like that she's trying to take
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: your moment and there are people. Again, we talked about
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: this last episode about people who are envious to you,
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: who sit around and pretend to be your friend and stuff,
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: but they are genuinely envious up you and the things
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: that you haven't going on, and they will try to
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: throw your moment at any.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: Time and place. And this is one of them times
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: I don't like it.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: I'd be stuck if I pulled up at a resort
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: and save your friend.
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: Queen. Hi, why are you here? Huh?
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: Oh, this is where you said you was coming. I
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: ain't like this three you you were talking about is
• 31:21
  Speaker 4: both seventeen over here, my.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Baby, miss man, we got you, We got you the
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: sweet next to the couple. But the question you requested
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: congratulations your best friend on your honeymoon.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: Oh you look so surprised. You said you would be surprised.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: You look ecstatic. Look here, Oh how did you fall
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: off to the zip line?
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: Oh no, get back and j get it.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: You better get it, man, look at your dumb as
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: flying back on a meta vac because.
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: As when you was able, what happened? How you breaking
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: your leg? How did you put.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Girl? Y'all hap.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: Y'all be like Sheila? And why did I get married?
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: No?
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: The go over to him that's reality TV. Anything can
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: happen anywhere.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: Moving along, please to the next question. Mm hmmmmmmm, boy,
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: I'll tell you how.
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. So we're going to go ahead and stick with.
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: This one comes from Reddit uh, and is would I
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: be the asshole if I don't share the inheritance that
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: I received from a friend with her daughter. Now, this
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: one is pretty long, y'all, So I'm a summarizer a
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: little bit for y'all because it's kind of long. Okay,
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: So basically, I, thirty two female, recently came into an
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: inheritance to when my neighbor and close friend, Valerie female.
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: Sixty eight died.
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: I met Valerie when I moved into my condo in
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: twenty eighteen, and she became my next door neighbor. I
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: placed this on the top floor and have almost connecting balconies.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: We used to spend every Saturday morning outside taking care
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: of our plant babies and chatting. I had learned that
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: Valerie had been a widow since she was fifty five.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: I got the impression that she had married young and
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: never had a true chance to learn who she was
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: until after Gary had died. I always thought that Valerie
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: was alone in the world. Turns out Valerie had only
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: one child, a daughter, Sam, forty four female. However, they
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: have been a strained since the early two thousands. The
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: story Valerie told me was that Sam had come out
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: as gay when she was in high school. Just out
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: of high school, I'm sorry, and that did not sit
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: well with Gary. He told Sam that she was no
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: longer his daughter and kicked her out, telling her to
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: never contact them or come home again. The whole situation
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: broke Ballarvy's heart and it was her biggest regret in
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: life because she did stand up or fight for Sam
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: the way that she should have. When I first heard
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: the story, I asked her she ever tried to reach
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: out and BALLYI told me that she had because she
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: didn't know how it.
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: Would turn out.
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: She hadn't because she didn't know how it would turn out.
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: So I did some internet sluton and I found Sam
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: on Facebook. It turns out that Sam had managed to
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: build a really good life for herself. I helped Valarie
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: draft the heart felt message to Sam Failu. We apologized
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: for everything and told Sam how much her perspectives had
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: changed over the years. Valerie k if they could try
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: and build a relationship, sent the message to Sam. Sam
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: saw the message, didn't respond.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: Oh God. About a month.
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: Ago I got home to find that Valerie had passed
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: away on the balcony.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: She had suffered the embolism.
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: I sent the link for her obituary and the memorial
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: paid to Sam, but I didn't see Sam at the funeral.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: Oh they had.
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: There was a lawyer that was handling Battery's affairs, and
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: come to find out.
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: Valerie had left everything to me. Oh wow, okay.
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: A few days ago I got a message from Sam,
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: and she was upset and demanded that I give her
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: her mother's things, claiming that I took advantage of an
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: old widow. I was upset when I first read Sam's
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: message and thought, who does she think she is? She
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: hasn't spoken to Valerie in literal decades and never responded
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: when Valerie tried to reach out to her. Now Valerie
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: is her mother and that entitled her to Valerie's stuff.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Question.
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: Now I wonder if I should do something for Sam.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: I go back and forth if Valerie will want me to.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: Valerie knew where Sam was, and Sam knew where Valerie was,
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: so Valerie wanted Sam to be included she would have
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: included Sam.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: Correct.
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: The lawyer that I talked to said that the inheritance
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: Hurriitans was completely mine based on the instructions that Valerie
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: left behind. Have any worries about Sam being able to
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: try to fight me for it and you know, trying
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: to come after me for everything. So there is an update,
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: and the update was just her basically Claren find some things.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: Is basically her.
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: Clarence find that that when Sam was kicked out, which
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: was around two thousand and two, that Gary died in
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: twenty eleven, that they had a family home. But Valerie
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: has sold a family home around twenty thirteen after Gary
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: died because she felt.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: Like the house was too big work, and that's when
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: she moved into the condo in two thousand and thirteen.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: When she sold the house.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: I got to come up, though, you saw your family
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: house that you had for years and look for cash,
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: and did you take that money and buy from all
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: the place?
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: And it's this recent because Valerie just died in January
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: of twenty twenty five, oh wow, And the funeral was January.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Thirty first of.
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: And she messaged the stuff to Sam on July to
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: thirty first. All the funeral range and everything. Sam didn't
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: reach out to her until February to twenty third.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: D so this is reason. So what's the girl's name
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: for this post? Did they give her name? No?
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: It, she doesn't give her name, Okay, just a friend's name, Dallery.
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: The daughter's name is same.
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: I feel like given the fact or were you done?
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry?
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: I feel like in this situation, given the fact that
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: the woman who wrote this post was aware of the
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: strained relationship between Valerie and her daughter, the fact that
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: Valerie reached out to the daughter in an attempt to
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: reconnect before she died, She's in the clear as far
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: as giving her anything like monetarily, because, like you said,
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: Valerie knew where her daughter was, her daughter knew where
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: Valerie was, and even after Valerie tried to connect with her.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: After the fact, she's still now.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: To be fair, now, the money I keep for myself
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: and would fun that death the accounts, like to say
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: something into my family, the proceed I would know the
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: proceeds from like the condo or anything.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: I would keep that for myself.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: However, if Valerie had grandchildren that she didn't know about,
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: I might set up like a trust fund for them
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: or put money into an account for them. But personal
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: effects like family photos and like mementos that that she
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: could actually like keep. I give her all that stuff
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: because again, that's her mother. She might want pictures of
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: her mother and what she does with that after the fact. Cool,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: because I would unless me and Valerie had like a
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: picture together, you know, because we were neighbors and friends,
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't have any use for her personal effects because
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: I'm not We're friends, but were not like tight.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: So the daughter could keep the personal effects. But money,
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: no coda, no, no, no, no, no. I guess my
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: candle just got paid on that money. Hello. Yeah, yeah,
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: and I think you Valerie, thank you so much. I'll
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: keep your plants in your own sure plant. It pays
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: to be good folk. Yeah.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: But I mean, like I said, I would, I might
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: if let's say, for example, just throwing a number out there,
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: if the val the value of Valerie's retirement accounts and
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: the sale of her condo was like one hundred thousand dollars,
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: I put like ten k aside for value she had
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: like a grand kid or two maybe five k in
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: an account for each or ten k, and like a
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: trust fund that they can access when they turn eighteen,
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: the daughter can get the personal effects, and then after.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: That I'm done. Yeah, yeah, because what else do I
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: need to do for you?
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Just being more than generous, more than generous, because I
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: don't have to give you that don't all.
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: So what's your thoughts, Trey?
• 39:58
  Speaker 6: If I going off, going off base, what you said,
• 40:01
  Speaker 6: if she had like like you were saying about the
• 40:03
  Speaker 6: family photos, if she had any family photos with her,
• 40:06
  Speaker 6: what that's very The only thing I would give give
• 40:08
  Speaker 6: to her, like a value of her moms that like say,
• 40:11
  Speaker 6: like she has some old toys or something that she
• 40:13
  Speaker 6: wants to cherish and maybe give to her kids.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: I would give her damn. But when it comes to
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: the money, I woke up here and I knew, boy
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: got it.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: My son, because what money is mine, it's legal, free,
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: is clear. The lawyer said, that's mine. I don't have
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: to get your ship.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: Not a goddamn thing.
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: My thoughts and prayers, that's all you're getting from me.
• 40:39
  Speaker 4: Get your mama reached out. You're this is the thing
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: I under I understand daily Rey's pain. Yes, being so
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: you know she was disowned for her sexual preference. You know,
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: I'm totally against her. Course, against that, totally against that.
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: It's millions of reasons in the world to hate people.
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: They race, their gender, their sexual preference. None of that
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: you ever be one of the reasons taste people are
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: genuine ass wholes.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: There's more than enough reason right there. They just want, okay,
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: to hate.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: So I am totally against parents turning their backs on
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: their children. Don't give a damn about no religious beliefs.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: Don't care about none of that. You hate the sin
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: and not the ciner. You see the quotes the sin,
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: because there are plenty of other sins outside of that
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: one that y'all like to focus on.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: Even dice because bit what you mean, hate the Senate,
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: hate the center, the fact that you mixed fabrics, you
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: got tattooed.
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: You don't see me yourself because about yourself.
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: You wasn't married.
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: You think I don't realized that I was born in
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: junior and your daddy got married in April.
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: The house with you, in the house, with your with
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: your wife, while you don't have monthly cycle hat in
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: the Bible to.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: Let's supposed to be you want to let's not talk
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: about it, but let's talk about it. Okay, that's what
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: said having a conversation. This is a public Curves announcement.
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so yes, I'm totally against people this older their
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: children based on their sexual orientation.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: That's stupid. And so.
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: I understand Vallerie being hurt that her dad turned his
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: back on him. They never recovered their relationship before her
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: father passed away, and then her mother, you know, went
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: right along with her father, which a lot of married
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: couples do they support each other, especially you know a
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: lot of times women staying with their husbands even if
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: they feel a different type of way. I got an
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: issue with that too, but that's a whole nother conversation.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: That is now.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: My issue comes in with the fact that Vallerie did
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: try to reach out to her yet, and she chose
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: to ignore Valerie, which is her right, because no, don't
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: wait all these damn years later. You put me on
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: two thousand two, you don't reach out to me to
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: twenty twenty three. It's been over ten years and a
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: little more, and now you you want to reach out
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: and apologize. I'm not required to accept your apologies, and
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: if I do accept your.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: Apology, I'm not required. Uh. You know, forgiveness does not
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: require reconnection. You what is giveness is not required reconnection.
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: She could have responded, but maybe she chose not to
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: because she wasn't ready. She may still be battling with something,
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: she may still be.
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: Hurting, so that was her right.
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: However, then you don't get to then turn around and say, oh,
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: well I should be entitled to her stuff.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: Okay, it don't work like.
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: That, like you either don't want nothing at all to
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: do with her or what.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: But also to your point, even though they didn't have
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: a relationship, could have still left all her personal effects.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: Now that's stuff she could have, but she chose not to, right,
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: so she couldn't. So Sam is entitled to her feelings.
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: She really is.
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: Because that's a hurtful thing for your family to turn
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: their back on you for any reason, you know, especially
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: something out of your control or because they didn't agree
• 44:14
  Speaker 4: with your you know, lifestyle or whatever. That's not a
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: reason to turn your back on your child, somebody that
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: you brought into this world that you did, especially as
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: a mother. That there's the first person to hate your
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: heartbeat from the inside. You know what I'm understanding, You
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. So again I understand Sam's feelings. However,
• 44:34
  Speaker 4: that doesn't just because she was your mother don't means
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: you're entitled to anything. Y'all didn't have a relationship and
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: that sucks. And I wish y'all could have made up
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: before she passed away, and she tried, she did, but
• 44:45
  Speaker 4: you weren't receptive.
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: And that's okay.
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: But it's also okay that op don't have to give
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: you a goddamn thing, and if she does, it's from
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: the kind of he She don't have to give you anything. Clearly,
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: your mother clearly felt, you know, some type away about Opie.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: She built a relationship and the rapport with her, and
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: she felt that she was deserving of it, because who's
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: to saying it might have been other family members that
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: she may have. Heaid, she could have left that stuff
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: before a reason. She left it to Opie. So Opie, no,
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: you're not there. You wouldn't be the asshole. You're not
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: the asshole. You don't oh saying anything. I'm sorry, but again,
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: if it's some personal effects or something that you feel like,
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: she may be entitled to go in and give it
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: to him.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: But I was out of that NA do nothing else.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Like I said, if Valerie wanted to leave to her daughter.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: She would have written into her will at that point,
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: regardless of their relationship agreed.
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: So I'm sad. Yeah, that's upsetting, but that's life. That's
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: what I said. That, that's that's life.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, congratulations, Opie.
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah you lost your friend, you know, but you have
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: memories of it, so that's great.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: Yep, we probably kept the plans. You probably to get
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: you a new hand, a cord or something too.
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: Maybe not court you know.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: You know I love a car.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: I could drive three hundred thousand miles. All right on this,
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: this is nice. Give me some tense and some rams.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: Just gonna little brain. I staying one day, boy when
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: you got to stupposed to been in your own money
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: for real? I want a new car because mama got
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: to have a life to Jody, all right, Mas and
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: six round chicks.
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: Aaron is the third man who has moved in, ate
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: my food, spent my money, gave me a baby and
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: left that. I met Aaron at a church event. He
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: was kind to my children. He spoke about getting married.
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: Eight months later, I co signed for a Dodge Challenger.
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, a Doutch Charger. That that's not even better,
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: and Aaron drove off into the sunset. Why do I
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: keep linking up with subpart men who have the audacity?
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: But you're gonna pay us for using that word the
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: audacity today multiple women at the same time. My question
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: is this haf we run out of decent loyal men?
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: Is it a generational curse on us?
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: The men who worked for got married and raised happy
• 47:18
  Speaker 4: family seem like a long agold fairy tale. I look
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: at all the men I link with, and they are
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: not of the same caliber as my grandfather. My grandfather
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: was responsible and beloved in the community. My father was
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: a ghost during my childhood. I went Aaron back home
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: and living in love with me and the kids? Am
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: I asking for too much? Do good men exist anymore?
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: Please be honest, baby? When should discernment?
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: I have a feeling that she has a type, most
• 47:46
  Speaker 3: definitely has a type. How you know?
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: True?
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: I have a feeling, but I.
• 47:51
  Speaker 6: Am a seventeen year old kid in high school. Almost
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: everyone has a type never and the types and the
• 47:58
  Speaker 6: types be stupid as.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Tacks hunch back of no tru.
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: Do not tell Jesus no, here's a it's a thing.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: You said that wrong little shown psacky mother does.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: First, it's but he's a mine on alcohol.
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: That's how it tradn well, it's it's also not specific
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: to gender.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: It's a it's a people think what I mean people? People? People?
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: Let your mom explained this to you.
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: What what what I mean about people who have a
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: type is that people say.
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: That they want a good man, a good woman.
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: They want somebody who's loving and who's caring and who
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: is going to take care of them and take care
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: of home and this, that and her.
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: But the type of people that they keep being attracted
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: to or attracting aren't aren't that at all.
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: They aren't that at all. They are the complete opposite
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: of that. But then they say, oh, well, he know
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: what I.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: Was looking for.
• 49:14
  Speaker 4: Change, and then they ignore a lot of flags.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: I can fix them, I can fix them all that
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: stuff kind of stuff. And then.
• 49:25
  Speaker 6: And then you end up breaking them, breaking them more,
• 49:27
  Speaker 6: or breaking yourself more instead of fixing.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: Don't preach. Okay, this boy really be listening to my contation.
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: Choose batter man. And I hate to be the person
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: to say stuff like that, but it does come into
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: play in some of these situations. Choose better and.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: Stop thinking you gotta have a baby by everybody that
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: you claim they love you.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: You don't want to have a baby by everybody. They
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: don't need to need you to keep sake. This is
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: not six flags, bitch.
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: You need to work on your discernment. You need to
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: work on se I said, not giving a baby to everybody.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: Just tell you they love you and want to coddle
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: up to you at night.
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: Because to you, you don't have to have baby. Male.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: All your children got different last night.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: You always John's Lewis Miller, Williams the third.
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: And all of that. My mother kids got different. Let
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: me shut up anyway.
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: Next question moving along, and thisadies and gentlemen, is why we.
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: Got one child. You can't can't deal with to me, now,
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: can you? I learned my lesson. I mean, Joe got
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: the dog, so that that tell you know, And that's
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: like Toddler's staying on six here you call him what
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: your dog right now? Just talking about it, staying on
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: six brown chicks.
• 50:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I had dreams of becoming a model many years
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: ago when I was a team. I'm fifty eight now,
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: but I take good care of my body and I
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: wear what I like and I passed for forty. Like now,
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: my thirty six year old boyfriend thinks I'm only a
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: few years.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: Older than him, but his mother knows better.
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: They were on FaceTime in another room and his mother
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: told him to go on my person get my ID.
• 51:07
  Speaker 3: He refused.
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: His mother told me, why are you dating that mummy?
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: I'll never get grandkids. Her eggs are powdered. His mother
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: says she's going to look me up on Facebook because
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: I bet all her friends are in hospice. Oh no,
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: lot about my age, A lot about my age because
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: originally he was just a summer connection. We're getting serious,
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: and I'm afraid to tell him my true age, especially
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: since I'm older than his mother.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: She's only fifty five.
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: First of all, how is your mother talking shit when
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: she only three years younger than this woman? Like, ma'am,
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: you are slipping fall away from a hip replacement, you
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: goddamn south.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: So why are you talking about this lady?
• 51:57
  Speaker 9: I can't, I.
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: Will not, I will mm hm. First of all, his
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: mamma ain't ship because she called you a mummy.
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: She said eggs were powder. We're bit yours is too,
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: so what is we doing? Yours is liquid?
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: So now what?
• 52:21
  Speaker 9: Now?
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: What? Now? Please should not have lied to this man
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: about her age.
• 52:27
  Speaker 4: I agree with that too, But I wouldn't want my
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: son to bring somebody home that's a couple of years
• 52:33
  Speaker 4: older than me neither, because we got a tussled it.
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: What the is you doing with my kid? I'm making
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: someone that old in the house, Like come on, notice,
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: he said, in the house. I'm not gonna get it
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: without thirty eight yard trying to send me to.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: He wants something with some miles, trying to get some
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: cool cat. Baby that's paying a cat trying to get that.
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna hurt you both, y'all. That's not one of
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: my teachings. He got that from his father, ya y'all.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: So enough, Like I said, I can't my limit of
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: deep oldest at most maybe ten years. The down side
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: of having siblings who are almost twenty years older than
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: older than you, and cousins who all following that age range.
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: I can't suck with nobody that old because it's gonna
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: be just my luck.
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be in common. I'm gonna be.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: Out with mister Ernest, I'm gonna be out with with
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: mister Tyrone. At the chicken spot and one of my
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: cousins gonna say, hey, Tyrone, man, what's good warbroo clus
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: two or something?
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Man, hey, man, you know here with my booth thing,
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: you know where, because that's my motherfucking's standing right there.
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: That's my nig that's my fucking cousin Brindan, Like what like,
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: why are you over there? The way? I'm back off
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: the room, like homo sis. She's gonna like motherfucking Calton,
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: that old bitch. She said, good, ain't never gonna get
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: no grand kids. That baby can't can't have no babies.
• 54:20
  Speaker 6: I should know, no baby the liquid and powders going
• 54:26
  Speaker 6: through minimum.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: There was a post I saw on social media, and
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: now I don't know if it was real or not,
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: but it was a woman who was older talking about
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: the sixties six or something.
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: Bitch, I'm pregnant with the sexties, I say, man, so
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: getting a cycle up here? I said, ma'am, no, that's
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: your hormones.
• 54:43
  Speaker 4: That is a false positive and just got a just
• 54:46
  Speaker 4: in too much, get you a sound. It ain't nothing
• 54:48
  Speaker 4: there you it's going you is going through the change
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: them dumb night sweat.
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: Ain't got nothing that baby at all the nights. What's
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: is crazy? I don't know about it. I just had
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: that just sounds funny.
• 55:04
  Speaker 4: That's what she said that you say, Mom, tell that
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: man your real age before it come out, because.
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: He may not dump because your age. He may dump
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: because you lie.
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: Damn.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: And that wasn't right. That wasn't right. You can't start
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: in the relationship with lies, even if he was only supposed.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: To be a little sneaky lank and not a hip
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: out of we but really not that bitch out of
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: because he stroking.
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: To city murgercy. I hate. That's why I didn't. That
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: baby wants working. It's a lot. Next next question, please
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: question question.
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: This comes from Reddit and is am I overreacting for
• 55:46
  Speaker 4: being upset that my daughter was baptized with all us
• 55:49
  Speaker 4: being told. Our daughter thirteen, has been asking for a
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: while to attend a Wednesday Nights kids service at a
• 55:55
  Speaker 4: local church with her friend. My wife and I aren't
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: super religious, but we've been o been to finding a
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: church to explore together as a family, with the focus
• 56:04
  Speaker 4: on somewhere welcoming, inclusive, and not overly conservative. We originally
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: told her no because we wanted to approach religion as
• 56:14
  Speaker 4: a family, but she was already planning to hang out
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: at the friend's house on a particular Wednesday, and we
• 56:19
  Speaker 4: didn't want to mess up their plans, so we said, fine,
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: she could go just this once. Well, she came home
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: that night and casually told us that she got baptized
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: at the service. We are completely caught off. God, no
• 56:34
  Speaker 4: one from a church contacted us, and her friend's dad,
• 56:36
  Speaker 4: who was the adult responsible that night, apparently gave the
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: okay but never even mentioned it to us. We see
• 56:42
  Speaker 4: baptism as a pretty significant milestone, something we would have
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: wanted to be a part of or at least consulted about.
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: It's not just a fun activity, it's a serious spiritual commitment,
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: and least in our view, it feels like a major overstep,
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: and not just by the church, but also by the
• 56:57
  Speaker 4: other parent. Now, on top of feeling, we're also rethinking
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: how much time we want her spending with this particular
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  Speaker 4: friend and her family.
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: It's not that we're mad at our daughter.
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: She was excited, but we feel like this crossed a
• 57:09
  Speaker 4: line and disrespect of our role as her parents, So
• 57:12
  Speaker 4: write it Sawgas.
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: Are we overreacting for being upset? Should we be addressing
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: this with the church, the other parent or both, or
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: should we just let it go.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: The church is only doing but what they thought was
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: the right thing, and the church, it's not the church
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: church decision to say, well, did you get the actual
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: parents permissions?
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: What it was?
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: It's not as far as I know, it's not because
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: again I can't.
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: Remember because I was adult when I got baptized. But
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: also I think it.
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: Could be a thing of like maybe maybe I've heard
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: the story before, but I think in the story I
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: heard years ago, it was the grandparents took took the
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: grandchild to church and had the child baptized because the parents,
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: it's not that they were on the face, but they
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: were holding off because they were trying to work through
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: how they were going to approach relation like religion in
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: there in their children with the children, and the grandparents
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: took them, took it themselves to the child baptis with
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: their parents consent. But if it's one parent, right, it's
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: sticky because it's one. But again, if the other but
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: it's not their parent, is the friends and parents that
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: that's a that's a gross that's over, that's a.
• 58:20
  Speaker 4: Your habitual line step up because who are you to
• 58:25
  Speaker 4: take my child to get my child faith and your faith.
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: You don't know what our faith is, what our religion is.
• 58:32
  Speaker 4: As thirteen, the child really doesn't know what their faith,
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: that their religion is.
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: I do believe in.
• 58:37
  Speaker 4: I understand that most parents want to raise their children
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: and whatever the religion or faith is that they grew
• 58:43
  Speaker 4: up on. But they also I also agree with the
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: fact that as children get older and start to grow
• 58:49
  Speaker 4: and have their own personalities, they not want to may
• 58:51
  Speaker 4: not want to stay in that same faith that they
• 58:53
  Speaker 4: were brought up.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: And I've seen people change religions. Yeah, all the time. Change.
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: I'm saying at thirteen, you would you know you no,
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying that.
• 59:01
  Speaker 4: But again, that other parent, as a parent, I just
• 59:06
  Speaker 4: feel like it's something that you should have contacted that
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: child's parent about before you did it, Before you say
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: it's a simple phone called, Hey, they having baptism at
• 59:17
  Speaker 4: church tonight. Your daughter says she wants to get baptized.
• 59:19
  Speaker 4: I just wanted to let you know what's going on.
• 59:22
  Speaker 4: And if I said hell no, because I want to
• 59:24
  Speaker 4: be there for that, then it should have been hell no,
• 59:26
  Speaker 4: and that should have been the end of it. But
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: the fact that that parent, the friend's parent, didn't even
• 59:29
  Speaker 4: contact them or let them know what was going on.
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: I don't like that parents need to communicate with each
• 59:35
  Speaker 4: other when you know you're letting your children go to
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: other people's houses and all that other stuff.
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know. I don't know. But no,
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: you're not overreacting for feeling some type of way. Definitely
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: not not at all.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: Now a parent had to hear my mouth, that's an overreach.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: I'm not sure if that's even illegal, but that's that's
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: not that person's place.
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: They would have to see me because no, you don't
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: do that. You don't do that at all. That's not right.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 4: And it's gonna be the last question. I'm ready, hm
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 4: m mmmmm, okay, last question. I'm gonna finish it with
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 4: six brown chicks. I'm a poor pre med student. I
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: have a few scholarships, and my dad pays my off
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: campus apartment rent. Mom calls and tells me we have
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 4: a family emergency with my dad and to harry home.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 4: I drived six hours home with my dad's credit card decline,
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: and at every gas station along the way, he gave
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 4: me his call for such emergencies. It has never declined.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 4: I couldn't reach my mom, so my aunt sent me
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: a cash app. I made it home to see our
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 4: house smoldering. Firefighters save what they could, but it wasn't
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: much left. My mother was sitting on the curb with
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: my cradkid uncle, and my father had been arrested for arson.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: What happened?
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: My father caught my mother in bed with his crackhead
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 4: older brother. My mother told my dad that she's been
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: fing his brother and I wasn't his son anyway. Dad
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 4: beat his brother, then locked them both in the bedroom
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: and set the house on fire. What At some point
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: during the auson an attempted double homicide, Dad also.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: Cut off his credit card.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: Mim and my craighead uncle are trying to build a
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 4: relationship with me, but I want my dad, who raised
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 4: me back in my life.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: He won't accept my letters or my visits advice. Can
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 3: you can okay commission to you be fucking fuddled beef?
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: Okay permission permissioners.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: I can't give him that permissions okay?
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: The bee fucking fight apart? Yes? Also, what the ever
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 3: loved fuck that.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: Was?
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 3: Don't get muted? I give him an inchy take him out?
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: What?
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: How's the awesome? How's my homicide? What is wrong with people?
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 3: Why are we like that? Ass? I don't know why
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: they like this. They're not like us. Don't don't don't start.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: Don't you on liter apartments? I hear you go to
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 3: sell back on should still so as you can hear
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: my kid this big photo op. I'm sorry.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: I don't even know what to tell you for you
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: because you were blind sided. I think that it may
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 4: be a chance that you can build your relationship with
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 4: who you now know is more than likely. Your uncle
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 4: is not your daddy, but you you might have to
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: give him time.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: He's hurt.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 4: He's hurt, and he's not thinking about you at this moment.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 4: He's thinking about the fact that he's raised you your
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: entire life, and that the two people in his life
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: who he loved clearly because it's with your mama and
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 4: you know that's his brother, and the two people in
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 4: his life betrayed him and he had un alive and
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 4: on his mind.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: He wasn't thinking about you or nobody else. He's hurting.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 4: It may still be a chance for him to still
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 4: be in life rather as your daddy or as your uncle.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 4: I think a DNA test need to be done just
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 4: to be sure, because she could have been just saying
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: that to hurt his feelings. I don't blame you for
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 4: not wanting to build a relationship with possible uncle, daddy
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: and your mother or whatever, because your mother betrayed you.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: If that's really true, that is the possibility that your
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: uncle is your daddy and your daddy is your uncle.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: I say, give your dad, who raised you some time
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 4: to guess, comes to terms of what's going on, to
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 4: try to get the DNA ask and see if he
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 4: really is your dad, and maybe y'all can rebuild your relationship.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: And if you don't, never speak to your mom and
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 4: your possible daddy or current uncle, because that's.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 3: That's the ultimate betrayal. That's a betrayal. That's just do
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: y'all be involved with kids and this ship. That's what
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: pisses me up. That's just disgusting. I don't have a response.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 6: Uncle Brandon is say it be fucking fatal exactly. Yes,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 6: I can't say it again because I don't give him one.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: Trust me. I could have said a whole lot more,
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 3: we're done, please, let's be done that. Let's thot that
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 3: let's do it. Just took it out of me, took
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: it out of you know, I mean, I mean I
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: love doing this. Incorporate exactly you are distressed, Yes, I
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: and I am. I'm also I am b fuddled. I
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 6: I've had some crazy stories from from Ray William Johnson,
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 6: Ray Wim Johnson. That sounds exactly like that. But now
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 6: I'm but now that I'm actually but now that that
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 6: you're actually saying it.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: Out loud m hm, So for out, he is distressed.
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