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- Lucas: Most senior leaders spend more time negotiating their starting package than their exit package. That's a costly oversight, because the moment you resign or are let go, your leverage drops to nearly zero if you haven't locked terms in advance. Luna: And yet a lot of executives assume severance is standardised—like you get three months and that's it. But that's rarely the full picture. Lucas: Right. At the senior level, almost every component is negotiable. The question is when and how you negotiate it. And that's what we're digging into today. Luna: Before we get into the tactics, I want to note something. This episode—like every episode of Executive Careers—is ad-free because of listeners who support the show. If you find value in these conversations and want to help keep them free of sponsors, you can do that at buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. It's a small gesture that makes a big difference for us. Lucas: Absolutely. And it means we can talk about topics like severance without any conflict of interest. Now, let's start with a concrete case. Lucas: I spoke recently with a chief marketing officer at a mid-cap tech company—about 800 employees, revenue around $400 million. She was recruited away by a competitor and wanted to leave gracefully but also protect herself financially. Luna: So she was the one initiating the departure. That changes the leverage dynamic, doesn't it? Lucas: It does. When you resign, the company usually isn't obligated to give you anything beyond what's in your contract. But she had a clause in her employment agreement that triggered a severance package if she left for 'good reason'—a defined term that includes things like a material reduction in role or a forced relocation. Luna: So she needed to find a 'good reason' to trigger the clause. That's clever. Lucas: Exactly. In her case, the company had recently reorganised and shifted some of her responsibilities to the chief revenue officer. That gave her a credible argument. She negotiated a six-month garden leave—meaning she'd be paid but not required to work—plus a $200,000 transition bonus and accelerated vesting of her unvested equity. Luna: That's a package worth well over half a million dollars if you include the equity. How did she get that? Lucas: She started the conversation six weeks before she planned to resign. She scheduled a meeting with the CEO and said, 'I want to ensure a smooth transition, and I'd like to discuss terms that reflect my contributions.' She framed it as a mutual benefit—the company avoids disruption, she gets a clean break. And she had a lawyer review the final agreement. Luna: So the key is to negotiate before you give notice, not after. That makes sense because once you've resigned, the company has no incentive to be generous. Lucas: Precisely. And the components you can negotiate go beyond just months of salary. Equity acceleration is often the biggest lever. Many senior leaders have restricted stock units or options that vest over four years. A typical severance might accelerate vesting for the next 12 months. But you can push for full acceleration of all unvested grants—especially if you have leverage. Luna: What kind of leverage? I'm thinking if you're a top performer or if your departure could cause a talent exodus. Lucas: Exactly. If you're a key person, the company may worry about morale or clients following you out. That's leverage. Another piece is outplacement support—career coaching, resume help, networking introductions. That can be worth $10,000 to $30,000 and is often on the table even if salary isn't. Luna: And health insurance? COBRA is expensive. Lucas: Absolutely. Many executives negotiate for the company to cover COBRA premiums for the duration of severance—sometimes up to 18 months. That's easily tens of thousands of dollars. Also, some negotiate a 'non-disparagement' clause that protects both sides, and a reference agreement that specifies what the company will say to future employers. Luna: Let's talk about the timing again. You mentioned six weeks before resignation. What if you're being laid off—do you still have leverage? Lucas: You do, but it's different. In a layoff, the company has already decided to let you go. Your leverage is around the terms of the separation—the amount and duration of severance, benefits, and sometimes a transition role to delay the effective date. You can ask for more time to find a new role, or for a 'retention bonus' if you stay through a transition period. Luna: I've heard of executives getting a 'severance enhancement' by signing a release quickly or by waiving certain claims. Is that common? Lucas: It's a trade-off. Some companies offer an extra month or two of severance if you sign a release within seven days. But you need to weigh that against the value of consulting a lawyer. I'd always recommend having an attorney review the agreement before signing anything. The cost is usually a few thousand dollars, which is trivial compared to what's at stake. Luna: And the legal review can also uncover things like non-compete clauses or clawback provisions that might be buried in the fine print. Lucas: Right. Non-competes are less enforceable now in many states, but if you're a senior leader, companies often still try to enforce them. A good lawyer can help you negotiate a carve-out or a shorter duration. In the CMO's case, her original contract had a one-year non-compete. She negotiated it down to six months, which aligned with her garden leave. Luna: So the garden leave actually served double duty—it paid her while she couldn't work, and then she was free immediately after. Lucas: Exactly. And one more thing—tax treatment. Severance payments are typically taxed as ordinary income, but some components like outplacement services can be tax-free if structured correctly. And if you have deferred compensation, you might be able to negotiate a lump-sum payout instead of installments, which gives you more control. Luna: This is such a dense topic. I think many senior leaders don't realise how much is negotiable until it's too late. Lucas: That's why we're doing this episode. The goal is to normalise negotiating your exit with the same rigor you'd apply to your entry. It's not adversarial—it's professional. Both sides want a clean, respectful separation. Luna: Yeah, and it protects your reputation too. A well-negotiated severance can set you up for a successful next chapter without financial stress. Lucas: So to wrap up the tactical part: know your contract's triggers, build your case early, negotiate before you give notice, and get everything in writing with legal review. The components to push for are salary continuation, equity acceleration, benefits coverage, outplacement, and a clean reference. Luna: And if you're on the other side—the company—this also applies. Offering a fair severance can prevent litigation and protect your employer brand. Lucas: Great point. So whether you're the one leaving or the one managing departures, treat severance as a strategic tool, not an afterthought.