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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally. Lala. Hey, babes,
- 0:06Speaker 1: it is Laala Kent, Welcome back to untraditionally.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Lala.
- 0:09Speaker 1: Hello, Tete, how's it going? Did you get your earring fixed? Now?
- 0:17Speaker 3: These are my other These are my big Bangers. I
- 0:20Speaker 3: stole from Lisa.
- 0:21Speaker 1: They're really good.
- 0:22Speaker 3: I know she said I used come on me so
- 0:24Speaker 3: much he gave them to me.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I used to wear those, yeah, and I love the
- 0:29Speaker 1: Ravens hat.
- 0:31Speaker 3: I got sunburn on my forehead. You're wearing that?
- 0:35Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys. There's something about Newport Beach in California,
- 0:40Speaker 1: because I know we're all fixated on Real Housewives of
- 0:43Speaker 1: Rhode Island right now, so don't get confused. Not Newport
- 0:47Speaker 1: out that way, but Newport out this way and the
- 0:52Speaker 1: sun there, like, I haven't been burned in years, and
- 0:55Speaker 1: I think, obviously it's because I don't go in the sun,
- 0:58Speaker 1: like I'm terrified of it. But when you're just out
- 1:01Speaker 1: on the beach and you got a few little umbrellas
- 1:03Speaker 1: that are, you know, staked into the ground, and as
- 1:07Speaker 1: the sun moves, you know it just I got the
- 1:11Speaker 1: top of my stomach is burned. I looked like a tourist.
- 1:14Speaker 3: Yeah, just everywhere was burnt on me. And then I
- 1:19Speaker 3: had a softball practice and my softball party that you saw.
- 1:24Speaker 3: So then I went to more and I put sunscreen on.
- 1:27Speaker 3: But when you're playing, like I was sweating, so I
- 1:30Speaker 3: was like rubbing my face and then before you know it, I.
- 1:33Speaker 1: Guess it's just this this strip of forehead.
- 1:36Speaker 3: And I didn't want to it's burnt. Yeah, And I
- 1:39Speaker 3: didn't wear I just didn't take a hat. I was like,
- 1:40Speaker 3: it's just practice, we'll just throw them around and now.
- 1:43Speaker 3: And then the one thing that I really did me
- 1:45Speaker 3: dirty was the pool. The reflection of the pool. That's
- 1:48Speaker 3: what I always forget.
- 1:49Speaker 1: I know. But you have to be careful because you
- 1:51Speaker 1: have such fair skin. I know, I know, like skin
- 1:55Speaker 1: cancer is no joke. You have to be diligent, even
- 1:58Speaker 1: if you're the guy who walks around like yes, I know,
- 2:01Speaker 1: but you get burned all the time, just here and there,
- 2:05Speaker 1: no anytime you're in the sun. And Easton just bakes
- 2:08Speaker 1: out there and he's like, yeah, but it'll turn to tan.
- 2:11Speaker 1: And in my mind, I'm like, it's going to turn
- 2:14Speaker 1: to skin cancer.
- 2:15Speaker 3: Who else does that? Who else doesn't go out in
- 2:17Speaker 3: the sun a good amount. So when they are, they're like,
- 2:19Speaker 3: just give me whatever you can and then it'll be
- 2:21Speaker 3: a tan for a good minute. Earn me again.
- 2:25Speaker 1: That is like giving me the most anxiety of my life, thinks,
- 2:29Speaker 1: I think, maybe an uneducated thing. A I don't think
- 2:33Speaker 1: about the future, kind of live fast.
- 2:36Speaker 3: I'm here. Whatever comes with me being here is going
- 2:39Speaker 3: to come. I I you know, I.
- 2:43Speaker 1: Just thinking about the way you're talking, especially because of
- 2:47Speaker 1: Mom right now. No I can That's where I am. Okay,
- 2:51Speaker 1: So we went. We went to Newport Beach for the week.
- 2:54Speaker 1: I think I told you guys a little bit about
- 2:56Speaker 1: our plan. We left on a Monday. I rented a
- 3:00Speaker 1: beach house with our family friends, the Russins. We had
- 3:03Speaker 1: two houses for you know, however many people we had,
- 3:08Speaker 1: it was a lot. The rust and clan just keeps growing.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Keep in mind, we've been going to Newport since the
- 3:15Speaker 1: time Easton and I were like tiny little tots. I
- 3:18Speaker 1: mean yeah, since I could form memories like that was
- 3:22Speaker 1: just our go to every summer, and my dad would
- 3:26Speaker 1: wake us up at the crack of dawn to get
- 3:29Speaker 1: to the beach where if anybody knows about June gloom
- 3:33Speaker 1: on the West coast. It is frigid. You need a snowsuit.
- 3:37Speaker 1: And we would be out there with literally nobody. It
- 3:39Speaker 1: would be so gloomy and almost dark, just wrapped in blankets,
- 3:44Speaker 1: and my dad would make us rocket until the sun
- 3:46Speaker 1: went down. And every single year I would break out
- 3:50Speaker 1: in a heat rash, and so I had to wear
- 3:55Speaker 1: like full clothing. I'd to wear full clothing. And my
- 3:58Speaker 1: dad cared, but not enough to like not have as to.
- 4:02Speaker 3: The point where he was like, grab another umbrella for you.
- 4:05Speaker 3: But we were still going on that beach.
- 4:07Speaker 1: We're still going to that beach. So I take my
- 4:10Speaker 1: two kids and you guys, both of them head to
- 4:15Speaker 1: toe heat rash. I originally thought it maybe was like
- 4:18Speaker 1: an allergic reaction to the sunscreen, and then I was like,
- 4:21Speaker 1: maybe it's little like sand mites that are biting them.
- 4:25Speaker 1: Sosa is still recovering from her rash on her face.
- 4:28Speaker 1: It felt horrible.
- 4:29Speaker 3: I'm no doctor, but I also think it's like sand
- 4:32Speaker 3: is the rocks. Yeah, and then you have like this
- 4:36Speaker 3: baby skin and where it is on her face like
- 4:41Speaker 3: everywhere with face, where like kids sleep with their butts.
- 4:44Speaker 1: Up like a stink bug position, and she would.
- 4:48Speaker 3: Push her face on the towel, but the towel was
- 4:51Speaker 3: full of sand, and I think that is another reason
- 4:55Speaker 3: that could very well.
- 4:56Speaker 1: Doctor, I don't know. All I know is she was
- 5:00Speaker 1: in a sweatsuit when I took her the last day
- 5:02Speaker 1: to the beach, and we were we had one more
- 5:04Speaker 1: day that we were going to stay down there. And
- 5:09Speaker 1: once I took the sweatsuit off because it started getting warm,
- 5:12Speaker 1: her entire body had a rash within like minutes. So
- 5:17Speaker 1: I don't know. I ended up leaving a day early.
- 5:19Speaker 1: I was like, I'm headed home. I gotta like take
- 5:21Speaker 1: care of this rash. I gotta get this sand off
- 5:23Speaker 1: of us. I need to like get back to normalcy.
- 5:27Speaker 1: I left midweek. Uh So we checked in Monday. All
- 5:31Speaker 1: of us went back to LA on Wednesday to prepare
- 5:34Speaker 1: for Ocean's graduation, and then we filmed the reunion, which
- 5:39Speaker 1: Andy posted the seating chart. As you guys know, I
- 5:43Speaker 1: cannot deep dive into anything with the valley, but I
- 5:46Speaker 1: am very very excited. I think it's going to be
- 5:50Speaker 1: a great one. I loved my look. The one thing
- 5:54Speaker 1: I'm nervous about, you guys, is the one thing I'm
- 5:57Speaker 1: nervous about I was in head to body makeup, and
- 6:03Speaker 1: when I took my dress off, it was like makeup
- 6:06Speaker 1: all right here? And I knew I was I like
- 6:09Speaker 1: told myself because I get like nervous sweats, like I'll
- 6:12Speaker 1: be freezing, shaking like a baby deer, but like sweating.
- 6:15Speaker 1: And I was like it was disgusting.
- 6:18Speaker 3: I'm revulsive.
- 6:19Speaker 1: But a few other of my cosmembers like we're saying,
- 6:22Speaker 1: They're like, what is this? I don't understand. I'm like, nerves.
- 6:25Speaker 1: This is called nerves. We're all just freaking nervous as fuck.
- 6:28Speaker 1: We're also probably very hormonal, and some of us could
- 6:31Speaker 1: be entering like perimenopause. But we're not even gonna summon.
- 6:35Speaker 3: That too up. We're not bringing that there. We're not
- 6:37Speaker 3: bringing that.
- 6:38Speaker 1: Onto us right now. No, And so I told myself.
- 6:42Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just gonna keep my arms down.
- 6:44Speaker 1: You guys know how I talk. I talk like this,
- 6:47Speaker 1: I'm hands I'm up in the air.
- 6:50Speaker 3: I'm like, she's really aggressive, she adds feet, She's like
- 6:53Speaker 3: a dancing spider when she's really pissed off.
- 6:56Speaker 1: Yeah, like a little kick here and there. No, I
- 6:58Speaker 1: didn't do any of that. I stayed in my seat,
- 7:02Speaker 1: but that's still want.
- 7:03Speaker 3: That's the one thing I'm nervous about that when.
- 7:06Speaker 1: I stand up, no one stood up.
- 7:08Speaker 3: That's okay. I needed a little bit of tea if
- 7:11Speaker 3: anybody got the pointing standing up, but no one pointing.
- 7:14Speaker 3: But no one stood up. No everyone.
- 7:20Speaker 1: It was a good reunion. And everyone looked like so
- 7:24Speaker 1: stunning and beautiful, you know, that's it. I looked around
- 7:28Speaker 1: and I was like, this group cleans up.
- 7:30Speaker 3: Nice, No, you've a it's a really good looking cast.
- 7:34Speaker 1: I don't know how Jasmine dealt with it, because going
- 7:37Speaker 1: from like the highest hige of like marrying the love
- 7:40Speaker 1: of your life and then going into that setting like
- 7:45Speaker 1: I have been in love, and let me tell you something,
- 7:47Speaker 1: when you're in your love bubble, nothing can burst.
- 7:49Speaker 3: But if I were, if I were them, I would
- 7:52Speaker 3: have been like, Okay, so that's we're gonna get married.
- 7:55Speaker 3: We're going to go do this fucking reunion, and then
- 7:59Speaker 3: we're gonna get on a plane and go on a honeymoon.
- 8:02Speaker 3: So you get like a high and then back and
- 8:05Speaker 3: then you get another high. All different types of life too,
- 8:08Speaker 3: because the reunion.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Is a high.
- 8:10Speaker 3: It is, but and most people go and travel after
- 8:14Speaker 3: the reunion. Everybody's like they're fleeing. No matter who it is,
- 8:17Speaker 3: they're fleeing. It's like, no, they're done working. So what
- 8:20Speaker 3: do you do? Like NBA players when the season's over,
- 8:23Speaker 3: they all usually travel. They're not fleeing and seasons over.
- 8:26Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, so like that season's over. Now we
- 8:30Speaker 3: go have function and it's our honeymoon.
- 8:33Speaker 1: Yeah, and we went into but you guys came back
- 8:36Speaker 1: and had Ocean's graduation, and because you and Mom were
- 8:39Speaker 1: nervous about doing Ocean's hair, so.
- 8:43Speaker 3: I couldn't can't.
- 8:44Speaker 1: It wasn't nervous, your mom was nervous, and so we
- 8:47Speaker 1: had CC the nanny come to do Ocean's hair the
- 8:50Speaker 1: way she wanted it that morning. But on Wednesday, when
- 8:53Speaker 1: I brought the kids home, which was the day before
- 8:55Speaker 1: reunion and graduation, Ocean knew that I would not be
- 8:58Speaker 1: able to go her graduation. And when I had told
- 9:02Speaker 1: her teachers, like I'm not going to be there, they said, oh,
- 9:07Speaker 1: we know, Ocean told us. She came up and said,
- 9:12Speaker 1: my mom isn't going to be able to make it
- 9:14Speaker 1: to graduation because she's all over people's TV. And that
- 9:18Speaker 1: day she has to film.
- 9:20Speaker 3: She was not wrong.
- 9:21Speaker 1: She was not wrong. But when we got back, I
- 9:25Speaker 1: told her, why don't we go to the mall and
- 9:28Speaker 1: get you the dress that you want to wear for graduation?
- 9:31Speaker 1: And she was like, can I pick it? Can I
- 9:33Speaker 1: pick whatever I want? I was like, anything that you
- 9:35Speaker 1: want to wear, I am not going to fight you
- 9:38Speaker 1: on it. Well, we did fight about it.
- 9:40Speaker 3: She wanted some horrific shit she wanted.
- 9:42Speaker 1: She wanted really got awful white shoes to go with
- 9:45Speaker 1: her dress. She had on like this red frilly dress.
- 9:49Speaker 1: The dress was amazing, dress was great. The shoes.
- 9:51Speaker 3: I was like, you look the accessory she was picking
- 9:55Speaker 3: with the dress looked like the three blind mice were
- 9:58Speaker 3: picking the Yeah.
- 10:00Speaker 1: And she said, you said I could pick whatever I wanted.
- 10:04Speaker 3: And I don't like to match.
- 10:05Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, I said, you picked
- 10:08Speaker 1: the dress, and now I'm giving you options. These are
- 10:11Speaker 1: your options for shoes.
- 10:13Speaker 3: Like if you would have let her, you would have
- 10:16Speaker 3: had big daddy type scene of her I can't do it,
- 10:21Speaker 3: I can't do it, goggles on. She ended up really
- 10:24Speaker 3: digging the.
- 10:24Speaker 1: Shoes though, that she because once she put them on,
- 10:27Speaker 1: because I actually really loved these shoes mom. I was like,
- 10:29Speaker 1: I know, it looks freaking great. So you roll up
- 10:33Speaker 1: to graduation. She's in her fit, in her fit, all
- 10:37Speaker 1: the other kids.
- 10:38Speaker 3: It's just so special. It's a special day. And I
- 10:41Speaker 3: walked in and it is the cutest little thing. They
- 10:45Speaker 3: have huge posters of their like of each individual kid
- 10:51Speaker 3: their photo, like their little yearbook photo, and every little
- 10:54Speaker 3: kid is just the sweetest, cutest And then they all
- 10:59Speaker 3: had like the little like saying what they want to
- 11:02Speaker 3: be when they're older and what they would do to
- 11:04Speaker 3: help the world. And I lost it. I actually started
- 11:09Speaker 3: crying there there. She's she's special. That child holds a
- 11:18Speaker 3: very special place in my heart.
- 11:20Speaker 1: But look at the photo, her photo, She's so And
- 11:24Speaker 1: this is what she wrote, Ocean kent Emmett. When Ocean
- 11:28Speaker 1: grows up, she wants to be a soldier to save
- 11:31Speaker 1: the world. Oh no, I'm going to cry. Her favorite
- 11:36Speaker 1: part of being at the school that she went to
- 11:39Speaker 1: is playing in the big yard, snack time and lunchtime.
- 11:43Speaker 1: My kind of girl. If she could spread kindness in
- 11:46Speaker 1: the world, Ocean would help those in need by giving
- 11:49Speaker 1: them food and cozy jackets. And then this is her
- 11:53Speaker 1: self portrait that she Drew, this is how she sees
- 11:55Speaker 1: herself beautiful. It's a freaking stunner.
- 12:00Speaker 3: See the eyes again.
- 12:04Speaker 1: Sorry, my sweet baby. And Easton sent me videos of
- 12:09Speaker 1: her on stage and they were like singing and doing
- 12:13Speaker 1: the dance and you guys, my child is so into it.
- 12:17Speaker 1: And there was a moment where like something funny happened
- 12:19Speaker 1: but she was into it. But the performance stopped and
- 12:22Speaker 1: she looked so thrown off and she was like laughing
- 12:25Speaker 1: because everyone else was laughing. But it's like, this isn't funny.
- 12:27Speaker 1: Let's get back to what we're doing here. And then
- 12:29Speaker 1: the music started again and she was right back in it.
- 12:34Speaker 3: Dun She needs to be on television? What do we
- 12:39Speaker 3: do about that?
- 12:40Speaker 1: I don't. I go back and forth because I'm like,
- 12:42Speaker 1: she's such a performer and she wants to be on TV.
- 12:44Speaker 1: But then I also see like child stars, and I'm like,
- 12:47Speaker 1: do I really want that for her?
- 12:51Speaker 3: Like?
- 12:51Speaker 1: Do I really want to expose her all of that?
- 12:55Speaker 3: Here's the thing, yes and no. If it's something that
- 12:57Speaker 3: she wants to do, who are you to hold her back?
- 12:59Speaker 3: And all? So, you're an amazing mom, and I think
- 13:02Speaker 3: you would be step by step, And there's one girl
- 13:05Speaker 3: that I'm talking about. And I met her when I
- 13:08Speaker 3: was working on movie sets and she I think she's
- 13:12Speaker 3: doing amazing still. But when I met her, she was
- 13:15Speaker 3: she was an actress on the movie sixteen or seventeen
- 13:19Speaker 3: years old Beautiful, and her mom didn't leave her side.
- 13:23Speaker 3: And I was like, I feel like, you know the
- 13:25Speaker 3: girl and I think she's still going. But I feel
- 13:27Speaker 3: like you would be that mom where there's nothing she'll
- 13:30Speaker 3: be exposed to because I'm here right and I'm not
- 13:33Speaker 3: leaving her side. And if you tell me that I
- 13:34Speaker 3: need to leave her side, I'm really not leaving her side. Yeah,
- 13:38Speaker 3: And that would be you. So I don't think I
- 13:39Speaker 3: think people get exposed to too many things because parents
- 13:43Speaker 3: get a little.
- 13:45Speaker 1: Back off a little too much.
- 13:47Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're like I need to like a little
- 13:49Speaker 3: stage mommy. Yeah, or they're they're like, this is my child,
- 13:52Speaker 3: but I need to let them fly, and it's like,
- 13:53Speaker 3: but there's still a kid hover them.
- 13:56Speaker 1: Yeah totally.
- 13:56Speaker 3: So that's where I'm at, happy medium, But I feel
- 13:59Speaker 3: like hover in that industry until you die.
- 14:04Speaker 1: Yes. And before so, they had told me the school,
- 14:09Speaker 1: they were like, we know that you can't make it
- 14:11Speaker 1: to actual graduation, but we're having a rehearsal today if
- 14:14Speaker 1: you can make it, which we were supposed to record
- 14:16Speaker 1: the podcast that day, so I called our producer. I
- 14:19Speaker 1: was like, Hey, we got to cancel this recording today
- 14:22Speaker 1: because I need to go to my baby's school.
- 14:25Speaker 3: And I watch the rehearsal.
- 14:26Speaker 1: No, So I draw Ocean off, go home, do my thing,
- 14:31Speaker 1: go back to the school, and when I walk in,
- 14:33Speaker 1: Ocean is like beaming.
- 14:37Speaker 3: Mom, You're crazy.
- 14:40Speaker 1: What are you doing here? And I looked at her
- 14:43Speaker 1: and I was like and she was like, Mom, what
- 14:47Speaker 1: are you doing here? I'm like, I'm here to watch.
- 14:51Speaker 1: So they go up and she does her little thing,
- 14:53Speaker 1: and at the very end they sing Golden by the
- 14:57Speaker 1: K Pop do You and Hunter Clan or whatever, and
- 15:00Speaker 1: then she runs up to me and she says, why
- 15:02Speaker 1: did you come? I said, because I can't come to graduation,
- 15:04Speaker 1: so I wanted to see you guys perform. She gives
- 15:06Speaker 1: me the biggest hug. I'm telling you. She was beaming.
- 15:09Speaker 1: And there were so many moms, even in the comment
- 15:12Speaker 1: section when I originally spoke about this, that really were
- 15:16Speaker 1: very uplifting, And in that moment when I went to rehearsal,
- 15:21Speaker 1: It made so much sense what a lot of moms
- 15:24Speaker 1: had said to me, which is like, they're not going
- 15:26Speaker 1: to remember the actual day anything, things the little things
- 15:33Speaker 1: that you showed up and tried to do and showed love,
- 15:37Speaker 1: And it just all clicked in that moment where I
- 15:40Speaker 1: was like, I think she's I think she's going to
- 15:42Speaker 1: be okay.
- 15:43Speaker 3: Yeah, how funny that you said that. I have a
- 15:45Speaker 3: like a vivid memory of sixth grade where we were
- 15:50Speaker 3: in a play and I had to read into the
- 15:53Speaker 3: next scene. Do you remember that, like in yeah Shakespeare,
- 15:56Speaker 3: and like I hated that. Yeah, And guess what Mom
- 16:00Speaker 3: came and I'll never forget because we weren't there for it.
- 16:03Speaker 3: We went to I think we went to Newport Beach
- 16:06Speaker 3: leaving and.
- 16:07Speaker 1: So I was just doing it and then we wouldn't
- 16:09Speaker 1: be in school if it was summertime.
- 16:11Speaker 3: I have no idea where we were going, but I wasn't.
- 16:13Speaker 3: George was on the Point Pale whatever it may have been.
- 16:16Speaker 3: At that time. We were not going to be in
- 16:18Speaker 3: so we weren't there for but I was doing the
- 16:20Speaker 3: reading and things like that. But Mom came in just
- 16:22Speaker 3: saw me do like it, and I remember that. Yeah,
- 16:26Speaker 3: And then we just left and she was like, yeah,
- 16:27Speaker 3: I just came to see you do your reading and
- 16:29Speaker 3: I and now thinking about that, it just brought it up.
- 16:32Speaker 3: But yeah, that was in like six fifth or sixth
- 16:33Speaker 3: grade Shakespeare Place. Yeah.
- 16:35Speaker 4: I remember with like Christopher Walter, the whole clan. I
- 16:43Speaker 4: had some friends man, Danny.
- 16:45Speaker 1: Wait Christopher that you would call tofer good Old and
- 16:49Speaker 1: he always had ski goggle.
- 16:51Speaker 3: Uh oh he always had the raccoon tan.
- 16:53Speaker 1: Yeah, so many kids at our skill did because Fridays,
- 16:55Speaker 1: if you signed up to go skiing, you got to
- 16:58Speaker 1: miss school. And my mom and dad would be like.
- 17:00Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure to go skiing.
- 17:03Speaker 1: I was like, how I would rather be stuck in
- 17:06Speaker 1: a math class? Didn't you strap shit to my feet
- 17:09Speaker 1: and send me down.
- 17:09Speaker 3: To Eil Walter. Me and Walter we were like, oh, yeah,
- 17:12Speaker 3: we get to miss Fridays and then before you know it,
- 17:14Speaker 3: you have to be up at seven and then you
- 17:16Speaker 3: don't get home till four and you're like, I've been
- 17:18Speaker 3: out of school at one fifteen on a Friday. Yeah.
- 17:21Speaker 3: So then we started to pretend we are sick, did
- 17:24Speaker 3: not go anywhere. We really hated it. I was not
- 17:28Speaker 3: a Utah man.
- 17:29Speaker 1: I wasn't built for you. I was built different. Oh
- 17:33Speaker 1: my goodness, the biggest thing. And I know a lot
- 17:37Speaker 1: of you mothers will relate, especially my single mothers. By choice.
- 17:41Speaker 1: Best decision I ever made, by the way. However, I'd
- 17:45Speaker 1: be lying if I didn't say there are moments where
- 17:49Speaker 1: I go I wish it was someone else this weekend,
- 17:52Speaker 1: right now, because Sosa is kicking my ass. She is
- 17:58Speaker 1: a mama's girl. And I said to God and the universe,
- 18:03Speaker 1: I just want a baby that is all mine. They
- 18:07Speaker 1: took that and ran with it. The universe heard that
- 18:11Speaker 1: as a manifestation and said, you want a baby that's
- 18:14Speaker 1: all yours. Girl, Here you go. I mean, she is tough, y'all.
- 18:21Speaker 3: I'm trying to find a better way to reword it.
- 18:26Speaker 3: But I tell Lauren and she gets pissed off. Or
- 18:28Speaker 3: I tell law and she gets pissed off because she's like, well,
- 18:30Speaker 3: it's rude, it is. But I'm like, she is rough
- 18:34Speaker 3: on you, like this child. You guys are saying she.
- 18:39Speaker 1: Wants to be inside of me. She will put her
- 18:41Speaker 1: head into my neck and just like try.
- 18:43Speaker 3: To mama, mama, all of us are.
- 18:48Speaker 1: You can't get any closer to me?
- 18:50Speaker 3: Bart, and Bart was like, you're You're as close as
- 18:53Speaker 3: you can get, kid.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Yeah, like literally, you could not be any closer unless
- 18:58Speaker 1: you were to crawl back and my body. Yeah, and
- 19:01Speaker 1: I think she would.
- 19:02Speaker 3: But that's what I say to her, and she goes,
- 19:04Speaker 3: it's and it is rude. I'm trying to find a
- 19:06Speaker 3: better way to him. But when I tell you, if
- 19:09Speaker 3: law is not around, and it's just me and I wasn't.
- 19:12Speaker 3: I was filming the reunion after they had you have
- 19:16Speaker 3: the other, you had a whole other family even agreeing
- 19:18Speaker 3: with like it was not yeah, it wasn't just my mind.
- 19:21Speaker 3: It was like the entire Russian is an angel. She
- 19:26Speaker 3: just will walk up to me, I pick her up,
- 19:27Speaker 3: we go and walk around. But when she sees you,
- 19:31Speaker 3: nobody else exists. And it's almost like she knows that.
- 19:36Speaker 3: I don't even know what she knows. But it's like
- 19:38Speaker 3: when I'm with her, it's like fun, she's easy, but
- 19:40Speaker 3: then she's like it all builds up, all the fear
- 19:43Speaker 3: and all that. She's like, Okay, we'll just suppress it
- 19:45Speaker 3: until I see my mom and then we'll blow up
- 19:47Speaker 3: on her. I was scared forever. Where are you? It's
- 19:52Speaker 3: like you're all right, man.
- 19:54Speaker 1: Yeah, even Nick and Joe yesterday they came over and
- 19:57Speaker 1: so So was doing her thing with me again, and
- 20:02Speaker 1: they were like, it's so crazy because Easton brought her
- 20:05Speaker 1: over to the house this weekend while you were gone. Guys,
- 20:08Speaker 1: I almost took a picture because she was like the
- 20:11Speaker 1: easiest child.
- 20:12Speaker 3: It was an uncle mistake for sure, but like there
- 20:14Speaker 3: was a piece of cardboard that was like flapped. This
- 20:18Speaker 3: child hits it, face plants and it's just gust white
- 20:23Speaker 3: dust from saw boards and what do they puts? Yes,
- 20:31Speaker 3: and she just looks up at me kind of pouts
- 20:34Speaker 3: and I go, come me here, come here. I dust
- 20:36Speaker 3: her face off. He didn't even cry.
- 20:38Speaker 1: Yesterday she ate it and sobbed for five hours.
- 20:41Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 20:41Speaker 1: We now she's just really hard on me. So as
- 20:44Speaker 1: of right now, I don't want any more kids. I'm
- 20:46Speaker 1: freaking exhausted. We celebrated Father's Day in not any sort
- 20:53Speaker 1: of way. It was nice to kind of not have
- 20:57Speaker 1: a holiday. Here's the thing.
- 20:59Speaker 3: Love my dad. He is like a hands on uncle. Day.
- 21:02Speaker 1: All right, Well that's yesterday.
- 21:06Speaker 3: I didn't feel like it. Here's the thing.
- 21:08Speaker 1: Holidays with children are hard because I feel like there's
- 21:11Speaker 1: so much pressure where you're like make a reservation, what
- 21:13Speaker 1: are we doing? Like there's so much behind, Like I know,
- 21:18Speaker 1: that's how I feel about mine. That's why I secretly
- 21:20Speaker 1: wanted so said to come on my birthday because I
- 21:23Speaker 1: wanted to share that day. And it's like what a
- 21:25Speaker 1: beautiful gift, but like it's your day now, like I'm
- 21:27Speaker 1: handing it over to you. Go fly have a heyday.
- 21:31Speaker 1: But there's just the pressure of like how do I
- 21:33Speaker 1: make it special where we're doing something special, but also
- 21:37Speaker 1: the feeling is alive. It's kind of like Christmas where
- 21:39Speaker 1: I'm like, how do I get the spirit of Christmas?
- 21:42Speaker 1: Yesterday or Father's Day, Easton had a barbecue with his
- 21:46Speaker 1: baseball teammates, my.
- 21:48Speaker 3: Gay baseball teammates. Yeah, I saw all of them. Like
- 21:51Speaker 3: that was the other thing that I kind of liked
- 21:53Speaker 3: because we were all like, well it is Father's Day,
- 21:55Speaker 3: and everybody was like, well, I'm no.
- 21:57Speaker 1: Dad, and so everybody would you like to see him?
- 22:02Speaker 3: But everybody kind of came here from like a different stage,
- 22:04Speaker 3: so nobody so they were like, I just call I'm
- 22:07Speaker 3: just going to call my dad. So it was like
- 22:09Speaker 3: it was fun having a Father's Day with a whole
- 22:11Speaker 3: bunch of like guys that weren't fathers. Yeah, it was
- 22:15Speaker 3: like fun totally.
- 22:17Speaker 1: I agree. I think Mother's Day the kids should go
- 22:20Speaker 1: with the dad and on Father's Day and on Father's
- 22:23Speaker 1: Day all take the kid and you go do your thing.
- 22:26Speaker 3: I think that's kind of how it is. Though, No,
- 22:28Speaker 3: like on Mother's Day, I do know like a group
- 22:31Speaker 3: of girls that go to brunch altogether and they leave
- 22:34Speaker 3: the kids with that sounds awesome, yeah, and then they
- 22:37Speaker 3: go home and they do their thing. And then on
- 22:38Speaker 3: Father's Day, I know, the same group of dudes all
- 22:41Speaker 3: leave the kids. They all go golfing in the morning
- 22:43Speaker 3: and grab like lunch, and then they go home and
- 22:46Speaker 3: hang out with the family.
- 22:47Speaker 1: I was talking to Michelle, Janet and Brittany and I
- 22:50Speaker 1: was like, for Mother's Day, we should start a tradition
- 22:53Speaker 1: where we stay at the we check in on Saturday
- 22:55Speaker 1: night at Beverly Hills Hotel. We go to brunch in
- 22:58Speaker 1: the morning where someone brings the kids to us we
- 23:01Speaker 1: can all eat together. When brunch is over, we punt
- 23:04Speaker 1: the kids and we lay by the pool and have
- 23:08Speaker 1: the best day ever, and then we'll check out.
- 23:11Speaker 3: Better to me than a staycation.
- 23:13Speaker 1: I love a staycation. Janet does it all the time.
- 23:16Speaker 1: Our Father's Day was easy, and I did wish my
- 23:19Speaker 1: fellow single mothers by choice and not by choice, a
- 23:23Speaker 1: happy Mother's Day because I have a friend Meredith, who
- 23:25Speaker 1: also had a baby via sperm donor. However, her donor
- 23:29Speaker 1: is her gay best friend, so fun. I tried to
- 23:32Speaker 1: get Logan ear Leo to donate sperm to me, but
- 23:34Speaker 1: they said it would be weird and I was.
- 23:37Speaker 3: Like, why, Like, not for you, weird for them, and
- 23:40Speaker 3: I can get Logan said to me.
- 23:44Speaker 1: He was like, I'll just feel guilty. I'm like, I
- 23:46Speaker 1: don't expect anything from you, and he goes. You realize
- 23:49Speaker 1: I'm around ocean and when I leave her, I feel guilty.
- 23:51Speaker 1: Imagine if it was my.
- 23:52Speaker 3: Own kid, even though it's not your child. You're like,
- 23:55Speaker 3: I donated that kind of mine. Yeah, I have that
- 23:59Speaker 3: back there, so helpless thing but kind of like wonky,
- 24:02Speaker 3: you know, Like yeah, that's why I couldn't know the person.
- 24:15Speaker 1: Can I ask you, how do you feel on Father's Day?
- 24:18Speaker 1: With dad being gone?
- 24:21Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 24:23Speaker 1: Enough past, enough time has passed.
- 24:25Speaker 3: Why it's like it's a good Yeah, true day, You've
- 24:27Speaker 3: done amazing things I don't think like there's no it
- 24:30Speaker 3: doesn't take you out. No, yeah, I think I'm getting
- 24:33Speaker 3: over the taking me out. I'll cry and things like that,
- 24:36Speaker 3: but like, I don't think anything will debilitate me where
- 24:39Speaker 3: it's like this case putting me in bed.
- 24:42Speaker 1: You know, kind of what happens to me is Dad's
- 24:45Speaker 1: been gone for over eight years now, and I some
- 24:48Speaker 1: like whenever I hear the word dad, I kind of
- 24:53Speaker 1: shudder a bit. And yesterday when I was firing off
- 24:57Speaker 1: like uh, happy father Day text messages and posts to
- 25:02Speaker 1: like other single moms do I know, I was like,
- 25:07Speaker 1: You're such a fucking asshole lot. You haven't taken one
- 25:11Speaker 1: moment to be like you had an amazing dad. And
- 25:14Speaker 1: the only reason I thought about this was because Sosa
- 25:17Speaker 1: for five minutes was not freaking out and I had
- 25:21Speaker 1: a moment to kind of sit on the day and
- 25:24Speaker 1: be like, I'm I need to like really work on
- 25:29Speaker 1: that to not be triggered by the word dad, because
- 25:34Speaker 1: I had such a great one, and I think had
- 25:37Speaker 1: he not passed before everything went awry, I would be
- 25:44Speaker 1: able to look at men and fathers differently. But you
- 25:48Speaker 1: have to remember, like he died like three years before
- 25:52Speaker 1: all that shit happened, so had if he were still here,
- 25:59Speaker 1: I think I would look at dad differently. I think
- 26:00Speaker 1: I would look at men differently because I would see
- 26:03Speaker 1: my own dad and see him with my mom and
- 26:06Speaker 1: treating her kindly, and see him with my kids and
- 26:08Speaker 1: be like and see them see Brandon, I do, but
- 26:13Speaker 1: you guys are my brothers, Like that was my dad.
- 26:17Speaker 3: That was my dad. But also like you can see
- 26:19Speaker 3: Brandon and he's in like a very help he is
- 26:21Speaker 3: Dad really is.
- 26:23Speaker 1: And when I see them we talked about this on
- 26:25Speaker 1: the last episode. When I see Brandon and Chryl, I'm like,
- 26:28Speaker 1: this exists. It does exist, maybe just not in Los Angeles.
- 26:33Speaker 3: Just the right person. There's no matter where how to
- 26:36Speaker 3: find the right person. I don't think it depends on
- 26:38Speaker 3: where you are.
- 26:39Speaker 1: I know, what are you supposed to go out and
- 26:41Speaker 1: like search for the right person or do they like
- 26:43Speaker 1: fall with their laugh?
- 26:44Speaker 3: I don't know. Well, here's the thing, and I think
- 26:47Speaker 3: a lot of people, maybe I'll ask that I don't
- 26:51Speaker 3: like dating apps, okay, like swiping. I don't like that.
- 26:57Speaker 3: I like authentic in person. So what do I have
- 27:00Speaker 3: to do? I have to go to go out yeah,
- 27:02Speaker 3: because I don't want to just meet somebody on a
- 27:04Speaker 3: dating app. Is it There's something wrong with that?
- 27:07Speaker 1: Now?
- 27:07Speaker 3: Not at all. I just here it is. I know
- 27:12Speaker 3: what I like, and when I'm out and about, I'm like, Okay,
- 27:14Speaker 3: I like that. I'm going to go and talk to you.
- 27:16Speaker 3: I don't want to hope to god you're somebody I
- 27:19Speaker 3: like through a photo and then I meet you and
- 27:20Speaker 3: I have to hang out with a thousand girls to
- 27:23Speaker 3: meet one good one. I just not like that. Yeah, like, yeah,
- 27:27Speaker 3: I have a Tinder date. Like I know people who
- 27:28Speaker 3: have like Tinder dates nine ten times.
- 27:31Speaker 1: Friends that have a coffee date and a dinner date.
- 27:33Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. They have like a coffee and
- 27:35Speaker 3: then they'll go to dinner. They'll every day they have
- 27:38Speaker 3: one to two Tinder dates, and I'm thinking, what a
- 27:41Speaker 3: waste of time because you have to see her, and
- 27:43Speaker 3: like they'll even say they're like right when I sat
- 27:45Speaker 3: down and we like talked for the first minute, I
- 27:47Speaker 3: knew And it's like that is why I'm not wasting
- 27:49Speaker 3: my time on these dating apps, because if I saw
- 27:52Speaker 3: you in person right then, and I don't even need
- 27:56Speaker 3: to sit down and the pressure has gone to yes,
- 27:58Speaker 3: and I would have just been like, hey, I'm.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Numbers, continue the conversation.
- 28:02Speaker 3: Yeah. So like that's where I'm at. So there's people
- 28:06Speaker 3: who like dating apps and just want to flip through
- 28:09Speaker 3: them and they know that that's easy, and that's their character.
- 28:13Speaker 3: My character is reserved. I'm not just going to go
- 28:15Speaker 3: by the way. It's like shopping. I go in a
- 28:19Speaker 3: store and I day and if I see something, I
- 28:21Speaker 3: go and look. I don't go rack for rat M Totally.
- 28:25Speaker 3: I'm the same way. If I see something, I'll look
- 28:27Speaker 3: at it, not it I daze around. I do not
- 28:31Speaker 3: And that same with dating. I see it all I
- 28:34Speaker 3: like this and then you go and then.
- 28:36Speaker 1: I can Yes, you hung out with a girl the
- 28:39Speaker 1: other night, and I was proud of you.
- 28:40Speaker 3: I mean until five am. Everybody I know and I feel.
- 28:44Speaker 1: The same way though Easton I'm like, I do not
- 28:47Speaker 1: enjoy dating and sitting down and like Amber.
- 28:51Speaker 3: Graded gram is a little different. I will say, oh,
- 28:54Speaker 3: fire off like that, like that's a person I'm seeing you.
- 28:57Speaker 3: You're aesthetic on what you post. I'm getting a little
- 28:59Speaker 3: bit like I can't tell off of four hinder pictures but.
- 29:04Speaker 1: Just feels a little too formal and a little too
- 29:06Speaker 1: much pressure.
- 29:06Speaker 3: Yeah, so, like I will meet somebody that I've never
- 29:09Speaker 3: met through Instagram, if you know.
- 29:11Speaker 1: So.
- 29:12Speaker 3: I'm not against it. I'm just not a dating app
- 29:14Speaker 3: kind of guy. And I hear dating apps are just
- 29:15Speaker 3: like fuck apps, and I'm sorry, I ain't trying to fuck.
- 29:19Speaker 1: Oh, I'm trying to do it all. I met this
- 29:22Speaker 1: I was looking for this woman. Someone had recommended her
- 29:27Speaker 1: to me for like I forgot what it was like,
- 29:30Speaker 1: some publicist or something. I can't quite remember why I
- 29:35Speaker 1: was looking for her. But in the midst of trying
- 29:37Speaker 1: to find her on Instagram, I came across this really
- 29:39Speaker 1: hot guy and he lives in London, and it was
- 29:43Speaker 1: really fun and cute and we were like facetiming or whatever.
- 29:46Speaker 1: But then I think we both got over it because
- 29:48Speaker 1: of the time difference. By the time we would exchange
- 29:50Speaker 1: literally one message exactly, I was like, this, this is
- 29:58Speaker 1: maybe a little too much distance. It was fun while
- 30:01Speaker 1: it lasted. You look hot on the FaceTime. Wish you
- 30:04Speaker 1: the best. But by the way, if I ever end
- 30:05Speaker 1: up in London, I will be hitting him up because
- 30:07Speaker 1: he was fine, six', three looking like a whole snack.
- 30:11Speaker 3: OOH i don't get. Them that's WHEN i love THE.
- 30:14Speaker 3: Dms i'm no, Pressure I'M adm or. TWO i will do.
- 30:17Speaker 1: THAT i love A. Dm i'm old, school like it's
- 30:21Speaker 1: going down in THE, dms which came OUT i think
- 30:23Speaker 1: WHEN i was in LIKE i stay for.
- 30:25Speaker 3: Me it's still that.
- 30:27Speaker 1: WAY i am old school antiquated Af, anyway moving on
- 30:32Speaker 1: to some pop. Culture SO i just, finished, Uh Real
- 30:37Speaker 1: housewives Of Rhode, island the finale. EPISODE i was expecting
- 30:40Speaker 1: for it to be a little bit more, explosive but
- 30:43Speaker 1: THEN i started the reunion And i'm, like this is
- 30:46Speaker 1: gonna get. GOOD i had to pause it BECAUSE i
- 30:49Speaker 1: had to come on here with you. Guys But i'm
- 30:51Speaker 1: in the middle Of rula dancing around If liz had
- 30:58Speaker 1: cheated on her husband at any point in, time and
- 31:00Speaker 1: they're talking about How rula Saw liz out with a
- 31:04Speaker 1: man and they were very close and. Kissy i'm really
- 31:08Speaker 1: obsessed With Rhode island and what's wild is watching. It
- 31:12Speaker 1: sometimes with these, shows there are people who you dig
- 31:16Speaker 1: in people who you. DON'T i actually like all of.
- 31:19Speaker 3: THEM i like all of. Them is it first?
- 31:21Speaker 1: Season it's the first, season BUT i mean they were
- 31:24Speaker 1: putting it all out. THERE i Think brian is a
- 31:26Speaker 1: fucking clown AND i want to get into his arrest
- 31:31Speaker 1: because that happened we found out on the finale. Episode But,
- 31:36Speaker 1: rula the star of the.
- 31:37Speaker 3: Show is her new. Nose she got a new.
- 31:40Speaker 1: Nose people are calling it The Jennifer Aiden Knows. LIKE
- 31:44Speaker 1: i think it's very. CUTE i like.
- 31:46Speaker 3: It it does have that like that little, point like
- 31:49Speaker 3: the swoop. Happening, YEAH i won't. LIE i like a swoop.
- 31:53Speaker 3: Nose do you think they're going to they're. Cuter they're
- 31:56Speaker 3: cuter when they're all, natural, Though but if you got
- 31:59Speaker 3: to get, it you got to get.
- 32:00Speaker 1: It, well how lucky for someone to be able to
- 32:03Speaker 1: have it all natural? NOSE i, mean look at, Mine
- 32:06Speaker 1: look at my. Nostrils THIS i like this side of
- 32:09Speaker 1: my face because it tilts to the side, right but
- 32:12Speaker 1: it's crooked like my nostril and ocean is the same,
- 32:15Speaker 1: Thing like this one goes this. Way this one's. Straight
- 32:17Speaker 1: But i'm worried IF i fuck with, it get it like,
- 32:20Speaker 1: that Then i'm not gonna like either. SIDE i almost
- 32:24Speaker 1: want them to make this one more like that. One
- 32:26Speaker 1: but then you've got a straight, nose and THEN i
- 32:28Speaker 1: don't have one side THAT i.
- 32:30Speaker 3: LIKE i was just looking at my nose for a.
- 32:33Speaker 3: While look up in.
- 32:34Speaker 1: The, Air look up in the air like, this so
- 32:37Speaker 1: you've got a straight.
- 32:38Speaker 3: Nose then look at it this. Way this one's bigger
- 32:42Speaker 3: than this, one and it looks like, squidward just like somebody.
- 32:45Speaker 3: Through that is not.
- 32:46Speaker 1: True you have such a cute little. NOSE i went
- 32:48Speaker 1: to Doctor diamond AND i told HIM i really want
- 32:51Speaker 1: my nose, fixed and he told, me if you find
- 32:53Speaker 1: a doctor that will touch your, Nose i'm gonna need
- 32:56Speaker 1: you to run the.
- 32:57Speaker 3: Way so that was.
- 33:00Speaker 1: GOOD i also stated on the reunion multiple, times, y'all
- 33:05Speaker 1: if you're looking At, ANDY i don't care If i'm
- 33:08Speaker 1: next to him on the very very. END i don't
- 33:12Speaker 1: care if you have me sitting on the fucking. FLOOR
- 33:16Speaker 1: i have to be on the left side of, him
- 33:20Speaker 1: so camera hits the right, side and please don't call
- 33:24Speaker 1: me you know.
- 33:24Speaker 3: Who it has.
- 33:25Speaker 1: Nothing i'm. Not if they would have put me on
- 33:28Speaker 1: the other couch where, this it would have been, like all, right, fine,
- 33:30Speaker 1: whatever you, know like we.
- 33:31Speaker 3: Deal BUT i just.
- 33:32Speaker 1: Prefer to hit him with the cute tilt, side you,
- 33:37Speaker 1: know because it does have a little swoopy effect from
- 33:39Speaker 1: this side, anyway. Stupid she was the star of the,
- 33:44Speaker 1: show she, said Meaning rula's. Nose she also said that
- 33:48Speaker 1: she had a little lip, lift AND i was, like,
- 33:51Speaker 1: oh that's.
- 33:52Speaker 3: Cute Though.
- 33:56Speaker 1: I've been told like a little bit of botox just To.
- 33:58Speaker 1: BOB i can tell you some zoning. Out my most
- 34:01Speaker 1: favorite topic injections and. SKINCARE i do need up.
- 34:04Speaker 3: Here that's the only.
- 34:05Speaker 1: THING i Need some boatoks for My, yeah you could
- 34:10Speaker 1: use you could use a little in the, forehead BUT
- 34:13Speaker 1: i don't like when men are frozen like they.
- 34:15Speaker 3: Got to have a little no and TO i just
- 34:18Speaker 3: want to. Do here's the.
- 34:20Speaker 2: THING i have a, MOM i had a. Dad but
- 34:24Speaker 2: my dad was a wrinkly old. Man he was a very,
- 34:27Speaker 2: rinkly wrinkly. Guy so like that's Where i'm, like you,
- 34:31Speaker 2: Know i'm very like wrinkly.
- 34:33Speaker 3: Too like my eyebags are like LIKE i DON'T i
- 34:36Speaker 3: won't pull, them but like they're there this like.
- 34:39Speaker 1: You're elevens stop doing. That but, yeah a little bit
- 34:45Speaker 1: WHAT i want to like put IN i tell you.
- 34:48Speaker 1: Something you continue to get in the, sun you're going
- 34:51Speaker 1: to start getting, lines.
- 34:52Speaker 3: Right, oh, well that is WHAT i needed. Today but
- 34:55Speaker 3: dad is really playing with. Fire, okay well it was
- 34:58Speaker 3: a week in the sun and.
- 35:00Speaker 1: Yesterday do it all the time you need to Be
- 35:03Speaker 1: you should be the guy who walks around in full
- 35:06Speaker 1: zinc And i'm not a Shoking, well then you're going
- 35:09Speaker 1: to be a wrinkly old man like you're. Doing, well
- 35:12Speaker 1: you're not chaking very well of preventing it right. Now
- 35:16Speaker 1: so When brian was, arrested it's Because rula had a
- 35:21Speaker 1: feeling that she was being. Tracked, now keep in, Mind
- 35:24Speaker 1: brian has been accused the entire season of having an.
- 35:27Speaker 1: Affair rula knows about this. Affair what she doesn't know
- 35:30Speaker 1: is that it's still. Ongoing so the season wraps And
- 35:37Speaker 1: rula has this like weird suspicion that she is being.
- 35:40Speaker 1: Followed so she takes her car TO bmw and, SAYS
- 35:43Speaker 1: i have this like feeling that there's a tracker on my.
- 35:46Speaker 1: Car can you guys try to find. It they're, like
- 35:48Speaker 1: we can't touch the, car but you got to go
- 35:49Speaker 1: to like the nearest body. Shop she goes the nearest body.
- 35:53Speaker 1: Shop they do find a tracker on her. Car rula
- 35:56Speaker 1: in scene, SAYS i think that he had a tracking
- 36:01Speaker 1: device on my car because he wanted to know WHERE
- 36:05Speaker 1: i was IF i was approaching the house or IF
- 36:08Speaker 1: i did a drive by to the mistress's. House And i'm, like, Yes,
- 36:11Speaker 1: rula all season, long you have been denying that this
- 36:14Speaker 1: affair has been going, on and let me tell you.
- 36:16Speaker 1: Something where they's, smoke there's, Fire but this is the
- 36:18Speaker 1: first time where she's right on the. Money this guy
- 36:22Speaker 1: was tracking her car because he needed to make sure
- 36:25Speaker 1: that he was not caught with this woman if she
- 36:28Speaker 1: just shows up at the office and the mistress is
- 36:30Speaker 1: in there and they're doing funky. Business he needed to
- 36:34Speaker 1: know if the mistress needed to abort. Mission AND i
- 36:39Speaker 1: always found it so in my ex's old office space
- 36:44Speaker 1: and it all clicks. Now he chose this office where
- 36:47Speaker 1: you walk in but you enter through one. Wave but
- 36:50Speaker 1: then on the side where his desk, was there were
- 36:53Speaker 1: stairs to exit the. Building And i'm, like oh my,
- 36:57Speaker 1: God i'm sure every TIME i arrived and that door
- 37:01Speaker 1: was closed and, locked and he would yell, Like i'm
- 37:05Speaker 1: on the, phone someone, UNLOCKED i can't unlock the. Door
- 37:08Speaker 1: that there was probably a girl and he would sneak
- 37:10Speaker 1: her out the.
- 37:10Speaker 3: Bag what a piece of Shan't we.
- 37:13Speaker 1: Won't even get into, that But i'm curious to know
- 37:17Speaker 1: in this reunion it's only two, parts which is normal
- 37:19Speaker 1: BECAUSE i think they only had twelve episodes if she
- 37:22Speaker 1: acknowledges any of, this Because brian is at the fucking,
- 37:27Speaker 1: reunion he sits Behind, rula and he's been arrested for domestic.
- 37:32Speaker 1: Violence AND i learned so much ABOUT dv you guys
- 37:35Speaker 1: during my custody battle and what falls under that, category
- 37:39Speaker 1: and that very much a tracking device does fall under domestic.
- 37:45Speaker 1: Violence there are so many little things THAT i freaking,
- 37:49Speaker 1: learned AND i didn't like how they downplayed. It they were, like,
- 37:53Speaker 1: no it was nothing. Physical it's, like bottom line is
- 37:56Speaker 1: this man was fucking tracking. You it's, stalking focking.
- 38:00Speaker 3: You that is a big.
- 38:01Speaker 1: Deal like, no he didn't lay his hands on, you thank,
- 38:05Speaker 1: God BUT i didn't want it to be so, like,
- 38:10Speaker 1: oh you, know the headlines made it a bigger. Deal it's, like,
- 38:13Speaker 1: well it is a big. Deal it's a fucking big
- 38:15Speaker 1: deal that this man took it upon himself without you
- 38:19Speaker 1: knowing to purchase a fucking tracking device and attach it
- 38:23Speaker 1: to your car so that you wouldn't. Know that's a big.
- 38:26Speaker 1: Deal this guy's. Insane this guy is, insane and he should.
- 38:31Speaker 1: BE i loved that he wasn't allowed in the, house
- 38:33Speaker 1: like she filed some sort of restraining order or like
- 38:36Speaker 1: a no contact order where like he couldn't come. Around
- 38:39Speaker 1: clearly that went. Away because he's at the reunion with.
- 38:42Speaker 1: HER i am so curious to see what he has
- 38:45Speaker 1: to say for.
- 38:45Speaker 3: Him it's gonna be so.
- 38:46Speaker 1: Crazy And i'm curious to see How rula comes At,
- 38:49Speaker 1: joellen because let me tell you, SOMETHING i didn't Think
- 38:52Speaker 1: joellen was in the wrong at.
- 38:54Speaker 3: All neither was the.
- 38:55Speaker 1: One she was the one exposing. Things and WHEN i say,
- 38:59Speaker 1: exposing she would bring it To, rula like these things,
- 39:02Speaker 1: exist and, yeah she talks about it amongst the, group
- 39:04Speaker 1: because that's just what we fucking do when we're filming a.
- 39:07Speaker 3: Show you.
- 39:07Speaker 1: Know But i'm, like how are we so mad At
- 39:12Speaker 1: joellen when, like your man is in a car with
- 39:16Speaker 1: this mistress who you know he's cheated on you with
- 39:18Speaker 1: before there's a timestamp and they're, like well you can
- 39:20Speaker 1: make up time, stamps like not, really not, Really she
- 39:25Speaker 1: like is filming him the mistress and then takes a
- 39:27Speaker 1: video of the car dashboard where it says the date and.
- 39:31Speaker 3: Time i'm, like you can't make that. Up does anybody
- 39:47Speaker 3: Knows steve McBee Senior bravo, Show oh.
- 39:51Speaker 1: The McBee, Dynasty, yeah that. Guy know what happens in?
- 39:54Speaker 3: Prison oh the dad? Right?
- 39:57Speaker 1: Ye like two million dollars something For, oh he's.
- 40:01Speaker 3: Up he's in. Tweble he's in. Tweble and not only
- 40:05Speaker 3: is he In, tweble my Homie moe is with. Him
- 40:13Speaker 3: he called me yesterday and he, goes, BRO i got
- 40:15Speaker 3: something crazy for. You he, goes you Know steve. McBee
- 40:19Speaker 3: i go, no he goes he said he was On
- 40:21Speaker 3: bravo or. SOMETHING i was, like, no, ship, wait he's
- 40:26Speaker 3: in prison With steve. McBee what a small?
- 40:30Speaker 1: World? Right didn't tell him my friend is On.
- 40:34Speaker 3: Bravo So bravo was on some of the shows while they're,
- 40:38Speaker 3: there And The valley was on review and he, goes no.
- 40:41Speaker 3: Way he was, like The valley was on.
- 40:43Speaker 5: And he, goes, hey that's like my, sister and that's
- 40:47Speaker 5: when it's. Started he was, like that's like my sister right,
- 40:49Speaker 5: there and that's when it. Started he was, like, OH
- 40:51Speaker 5: i was On bravo and he, goes and, then, yeah
- 40:54Speaker 5: there it.
- 40:55Speaker 3: Was but he told me. Yesterday he was, like, Yeah
- 40:56Speaker 3: i'm in here With steve McBee. Man, Wow, Mo.
- 41:03Speaker 1: Wow, Yeah i'm so happy you brought that. Up how
- 41:08Speaker 1: did you not tell me this after the phone?
- 41:10Speaker 3: CALL i kind of forgot until right. Now that's WHY
- 41:13Speaker 3: i looked at. IT i have, that BUT i was,
- 41:16Speaker 3: LIKE i have to look it up next TIME i
- 41:17Speaker 3: chat WITH, mo, Though i'll bring.
- 41:18Speaker 4: You in on.
- 41:19Speaker 1: It. Wow that's fucking amazing next.
- 41:21Speaker 3: TIME i don't know when he'll, call But i'll be.
- 41:23Speaker 3: Ready you stay ready for those.
- 41:26Speaker 1: Already you have a call from an inmate at the
- 41:30Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah.
- 41:31Speaker 2: Blah you can look up where they are now, obviously
- 41:35Speaker 2: and Is?
- 41:36Speaker 1: Mo?
- 41:38Speaker 3: Mo CAN i talk about talk About?
- 41:40Speaker 1: Mo how we know?
- 41:41Speaker 3: Them funny? Enough So PALAZZO. M my mom and sister were.
- 41:48Speaker 1: THERE i was.
- 41:48Speaker 3: There they WERE mo was literally two units away from
- 41:54Speaker 3: my mom and. Sister so they were moving a HUGE
- 41:56Speaker 3: tv in and they were waiting for the elevator and
- 41:59Speaker 3: people just kept going in front of. Them so my mother,
- 42:02Speaker 3: goes do you guys not see that they're trying to
- 42:04Speaker 3: move A tv? In the elevator and so like they,
- 42:07Speaker 3: said thank. You so my mom got in with. Them
- 42:10Speaker 3: they started, talking and then every time they'd see each
- 42:13Speaker 3: other lily and then Had lily and they looked at
- 42:18Speaker 3: me and they, go isn't this some old lady and
- 42:21Speaker 3: girls old? Dog, yeah isn't this an older lady's. Dog
- 42:24Speaker 3: AND i was, like, oh, yeah my, mom and they,
- 42:27Speaker 3: go we were about to press you because we didn't
- 42:30Speaker 3: know if you were stealing the. DOG i was, like
- 42:32Speaker 3: oh my. Goodness so they had my mom's back already
- 42:36Speaker 3: AND i was, like no. Way so that Was that's
- 42:38Speaker 3: the reading of.
- 42:38Speaker 1: Moment they moved.
- 42:39Speaker 3: In, moo, Sico, FYI i do have to make music
- 42:46Speaker 3: With you've talked about. It, yeah they are coming out now,
- 42:49Speaker 3: yet we got the the files. Back everything is now
- 42:53Speaker 3: hours were, licensed So i'm going to release.
- 42:55Speaker 6: Them THIS i.
- 42:56Speaker 3: Love we got two songs coming. Out one is Called
- 42:58Speaker 3: baggage and the other one is Called shovel And baggage
- 43:02Speaker 3: is coming. Out but we want to do a remix with.
- 43:04Speaker 1: You really, yeah if you want, TO i do want.
- 43:07Speaker 3: To we want to do one with you for the
- 43:09Speaker 3: hell of.
- 43:09Speaker 1: It sounds so.
- 43:10Speaker 3: Cute here's the, thing, guys baggage is about my ex
- 43:12Speaker 3: and how MUCH i love. Her that's WHAT i wanted to.
- 43:16Speaker 3: WRITE i. Know, yeah we talked about, it just to
- 43:19Speaker 3: let you guys. Know, also when you hear these, Songs
- 43:21Speaker 3: i've been sing on them for like three, years so
- 43:24Speaker 3: like one is LIKE i was still like popping pills and,
- 43:27Speaker 3: Shit i've just been sitting on them for three. YEARS i,
- 43:29Speaker 3: thought why not release?
- 43:30Speaker 1: THEM i think it's. Great so that's Who moe. Is SO.
- 43:34Speaker 3: I shook it to my very. Core IF i can
- 43:38Speaker 3: get some inside stories from the, penitent yeah you. Should.
- 43:43Speaker 3: Yeah love it.
- 43:46Speaker 1: To. Mo thanks for the, content. Buddy in other, news
- 43:50Speaker 1: WHEN i was In, NEWPORT i saw the headline come
- 43:52Speaker 1: through That Jelly roll And bunny ix so are getting, divorced.
- 43:54Speaker 3: AND i was so. SHOCKED i was, shocked and THEN
- 43:57Speaker 3: i was sad to hear her. Side, well tell us
- 44:00Speaker 3: about her. Side it wasn't, mutual it was one. Sided
- 44:07Speaker 3: she didn't want.
- 44:07Speaker 1: It, well she, SAID i feel LIKE i always loved
- 44:11Speaker 1: my husband a little more than he loved.
- 44:13Speaker 3: Me, yeah and then to see, Like I'm i'm sorry
- 44:18Speaker 3: she was with you when you were he.
- 44:20Speaker 1: Was a, bigger a bigger. Guy and then he knew,
- 44:22Speaker 1: that like it was a health, issue so that and
- 44:26Speaker 1: it's like and THEN i started booking really huge collaborations.
- 44:29Speaker 3: With like really big. Artist, yeah and it's, like you
- 44:32Speaker 3: had A ride Or die and it's LIKE i feel
- 44:34Speaker 3: like you think you outgrew her or something or there's
- 44:36Speaker 3: better out, there and it's, like, dude you had the.
- 44:38Speaker 3: Best she's So ride Or. Die she's. BEAUTIFUL i bet
- 44:42Speaker 3: She's AND.
- 44:42Speaker 1: I think she was down for like open relationship type
- 44:45Speaker 1: not open, relationship but like bringing.
- 44:49Speaker 3: Which Is But i'm not going to lie to you
- 44:51Speaker 3: if that was my, wife nobody. Else i'm not sharing
- 44:54Speaker 3: that with, anybody And i'm not being shared with anybody that's.
- 44:57Speaker 1: Mine she also talked to on their podcast that they
- 45:01Speaker 1: fully even though the divorce is, happening they fully intend
- 45:04Speaker 1: on having a baby via surrogate and agreeing to co.
- 45:09Speaker 1: Parent And i'm, like, NO i just want to get
- 45:13Speaker 1: it out to say, no don't do, It, yes don't do.
- 45:16Speaker 1: That the person that you were once in love, WITH
- 45:18Speaker 1: i have heard is is not the person you. Divorce
- 45:21Speaker 1: and even THOUGH i didn't go through a, divorce the
- 45:23Speaker 1: person that you break up with just in general is
- 45:26Speaker 1: not the person who you met at the. Beginning the
- 45:30Speaker 1: person that you're gonna coparent with is not the parent
- 45:34Speaker 1: you thought you were going to. HAVE i really hope they.
- 45:36Speaker 3: Don't just do, It just do it by. Yourself, yeah
- 45:41Speaker 3: if you want a. Baby but by the, way he's
- 45:43Speaker 3: always on the Road's i'm, like what do you mean
- 45:45Speaker 3: you're now seeing.
- 45:46Speaker 1: Now you're giving this never going to be around, Success.
- 45:50Speaker 3: But, like there's my. Thing it's, like you might as
- 45:52Speaker 3: well just do it yourself and not have him, attached
- 45:55Speaker 3: BECAUSE i don't think he's going to give you. Much,
- 45:57Speaker 3: no he. Can't he's always on the, road the.
- 46:00Speaker 1: Performer now you're gonna have to ask him for permission
- 46:04Speaker 1: for things like school and freaking. Medical you want a,
- 46:08Speaker 1: baby go have it on your, own or go find
- 46:11Speaker 1: like the love of your life or What I've if
- 46:14Speaker 1: she is also into, women go have a baby with another.
- 46:17Speaker 1: Woman mm.
- 46:18Speaker 3: Hmmm, yeah we just were so in.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Sync we think, ALIKE i don't, know have a baby
- 46:26Speaker 1: with your. BESTIE i have a baby just, so that's
- 46:29Speaker 1: WHAT i. RECOMMEND a baby with, him a baby with your,
- 46:32Speaker 1: mom who with your brother or your, Sister that's WHAT i.
- 46:35Speaker 1: Recommend easiest co parent exiguation and villain on the. Planet all,
- 46:41Speaker 1: right let's jump to our aches and relief of the.
- 46:43Speaker 1: Week do you have an ache te? Teeth?
- 46:46Speaker 3: Yeah this and needing to get my life. Together my
- 46:49Speaker 3: ache is me not being smart this, uh this past
- 46:51Speaker 3: week on. Sunscreen i'm feeling. It last NIGHT i was
- 46:55Speaker 3: hot as could. Be and my relief of the week,
- 47:02Speaker 3: is honestly mom's doctor's. Appointments, OKAY i like. That, YEAH
- 47:08Speaker 3: i think we're going to get some answers for. Her
- 47:11Speaker 3: and it's not like for, me it's. Not, YEAH i
- 47:13Speaker 3: think my relief is for somebody, else AND i hope
- 47:16Speaker 3: it's for my mother to get some. Answers, yeah and
- 47:18Speaker 3: that would be a relief for me for the.
- 47:20Speaker 1: WEEK i Think i'm having so much anxiety right. Now,
- 47:23Speaker 1: Well i've had anxiety this whole. Reside here's the, thing
- 47:25Speaker 1: it's just it's not my. Mother but the sad thing
- 47:29Speaker 1: is is my mother knows it's not. Her. Yeah and
- 47:34Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have been asking for her
- 47:36Speaker 1: to be on the, podcast and you're, saying like she looks.
- 47:38Speaker 1: GREAT i, like did she have a? Facelift not a hip?
- 47:41Speaker 1: Surgery and, like my mom does not look like my.
- 47:46Speaker 1: Mother my mom is not acting like my. Mother and
- 47:48Speaker 1: as much AS i want to get her on the,
- 47:50Speaker 1: PODCAST i don't even think she could be on the
- 47:52Speaker 1: podcast right. Now my ache is definitely my mom BECAUSE
- 47:56Speaker 1: i like do not recognize her at, all And i'm really.
- 48:00Speaker 3: Scared i'm like really really, scared and.
- 48:05Speaker 1: This morning because she just got back From newport last
- 48:08Speaker 1: night and she's really trying to like be out and
- 48:10Speaker 1: about and keep her mental, strong but like she has
- 48:14Speaker 1: tremors and she feels foggy and she's having a lot of.
- 48:17Speaker 1: Anxiety the sleep abnea mask is not. Helping SO i
- 48:21Speaker 1: did look at your GUYS'S dms and.
- 48:23Speaker 3: Because the CLAUSTROPHOBIA i could, work, yes but the, claustrophobia.
- 48:29Speaker 1: My amazing our amazing listeners talked about like a mouthguard
- 48:32Speaker 1: that she goes in tomorrow to explore and hopefully we
- 48:35Speaker 1: can get. Her that she comes home last night and
- 48:39Speaker 1: we wake up this morning And i'm making coffee AND
- 48:41Speaker 1: i asked her how she's, feeling and she, said you,
- 48:43Speaker 1: KNOW i googled and then she just loses it and, said,
- 48:47Speaker 1: Like i'm really worried THAT i have parkin since BECAUSE
- 48:50Speaker 1: i have a lot of those symptoms And i'm, like
- 48:54Speaker 1: really pranking To god that.
- 48:55Speaker 3: It's not THAT i will say right. Now my mother
- 48:58Speaker 3: has been to enough doctor's appointments THAT i think this
- 49:00Speaker 3: would have been pinpointed. ALREADY i don't know saying this and.
- 49:03Speaker 1: THAT i called her doctor like very early this, morning
- 49:07Speaker 1: AND i, said you, know this is what she's feeling.
- 49:09Speaker 1: Like AND i know that we've done blood, work but
- 49:12Speaker 1: she googled and now she's worried About Parkinson's and he,
- 49:16Speaker 1: said is there any family? History AND i, said, yeah her.
- 49:20Speaker 1: Grandmother so he, SAID i want her to go into
- 49:22Speaker 1: a neurologist two. Days so after we wrap this, Episode
- 49:25Speaker 1: easton AND i are going to take her to that doctor's.
- 49:27Speaker 1: Appointment so just, LIKE i don't, know.
- 49:31Speaker 3: Send good vibes and. PRAY i.
- 49:33Speaker 1: GUESS i don't. KNOW.
- 49:34Speaker 3: M i'm freaking out, though mm.
- 49:38Speaker 6: Hmm and my, RELIEF i guess is, just you, know
- 49:42Speaker 6: one more doctor's appointment that we can check off the
- 49:45Speaker 6: list and hopefully it's nothing and we will get to.
- 49:48Speaker 3: The bottom of.
- 49:48Speaker 6: It i'm just feeling very. NERVOUS. M, Sorry, no you're.
- 49:56Speaker 6: GOOD i MEAN i feel nervous and just worried about
- 50:01Speaker 6: her and she's she was really really struggling this, morning
- 50:06Speaker 6: just like sobbing with her whole.
- 50:09Speaker 3: Body it was really hard to. Watch, Anyway.
- 50:15Speaker 6: I'm gonna keep positive thoughts and just put positive energy
- 50:20Speaker 6: out there that my mom is, gonna you, know bounce,
- 50:24Speaker 6: back and maybe this is just a reaction to a
- 50:27Speaker 6: foreign object in her.
- 50:28Speaker 1: BODY i don't.
- 50:29Speaker 3: Know that's the other thing THAT i keep telling everybody
- 50:33Speaker 3: in this family IS i was there WHEN i picked
- 50:36Speaker 3: up my mom from the, hip and they, said three
- 50:39Speaker 3: months is like when you start to feel better and get.
- 50:45Speaker 3: Better some people are better at three. Months and he
- 50:48Speaker 3: looked at me and he, said but with her, age
- 50:50Speaker 3: it could be six months to a, year because a
- 50:53Speaker 3: lot of people do take a full. Year my mom
- 50:56Speaker 3: is at two. Months, Yeah AND i tell, her like
- 51:01Speaker 3: because she, can't she won't just sit, out like she won't.
- 51:04Speaker 1: Wants to crawl out of her own. Skin and she,
- 51:05Speaker 1: SAID i feel like my feet are on fire and
- 51:07Speaker 1: there's pins and needles in, them and like when she
- 51:10Speaker 1: goes to do anything like even yawn like. Face but
- 51:16Speaker 1: WHEN i was hugging, her LIKE i know she was,
- 51:19Speaker 1: crying but you could it was almost like there were
- 51:22Speaker 1: tremors on the inside of her.
- 51:23Speaker 3: Body, YEAH i JUST i, mean there's obviously a solution to,
- 51:28Speaker 3: EVERYTHING i feel, like and we'll find. It but the
- 51:32Speaker 3: one THING i always want mom to do is like
- 51:34Speaker 3: give YOUR i, know your feet her And i'm, sorry
- 51:36Speaker 3: but LIKE i need you to give Yourself grace's in two,
- 51:39Speaker 3: Months you're allowed to go up on the. Couch you're
- 51:42Speaker 3: allowed to just sit there and watch a show at eleven. Am,
- 51:46Speaker 3: one put your feet, up order some. FOOD I i
- 51:52Speaker 3: just want my mom to take care of herself because
- 51:54Speaker 3: she never. Has, yeah but WHEN i told, her you
- 51:58Speaker 3: were not prepared for this in any. Capacity BUT i have,
- 52:03Speaker 3: hope AND i have high, hope AND i feel good about,
- 52:06Speaker 3: it AND i feel like we'll say.
- 52:08Speaker 1: Get back, yeah And i'll keep you guys posted on
- 52:12Speaker 1: what that doctor's appointment looks like. Today i'm really hopeful
- 52:17Speaker 1: that that's not. It but we just have to keep
- 52:19Speaker 1: like doing the process of elimination until we get down
- 52:22Speaker 1: to the bottom of. It so my my relief is
- 52:24Speaker 1: definitely THAT i know with every doctor's appointment that we
- 52:29Speaker 1: check off the, list we're closer to finding out what's
- 52:33Speaker 1: what's going on with my. Mama, ANYWAY i love you
- 52:37Speaker 1: guys so. Much thank you for listening to another episode
- 52:39Speaker 1: Of Untraditionally. Lala we're gonna catch you On monday for the.
- 52:41Speaker 1: Bonus remember regular episodes air Every, wednesday And An Unlikely
- 52:46Speaker 1: affair With myself And Amber childers is Every thursday night
- 52:49Speaker 1: at nine. Pm love you. Guys, bye