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(#21) Stop Making This #1 Manifestation Mistake · Alignment With Jenn

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  Hello, hello, welcome to this episode of Receive.
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  I am your host, Jen Ditzesi, and I am a premier transformation
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  coach for women. And I help women use the
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  universal laws, manifestation, quantum physics, personal
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  development principles to create the lives that they desire and
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  to get out of their own ways. And today, what I want to talk
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  about is some misperceptions around manifestation that I have
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  heard over and over and over again through the many women
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  that I have coached through talk, talking to people about
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  manifestation. And the reason I wanted to bring
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  this up is because I was at a Tony Robbins event this past
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  week. I was at UPW in Anaheim and
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  there was a speaker on stage, his name was Trent Shelton.
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  And he said, do you guys believe in manifestation?
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  And like the whole crowd was like, yes, they went wild,
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  right? And there was 10,000, maybe
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  11,000 people in the audience who went wild for this idea
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  around manifestation. And I loved that because it was
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  not so long ago that Manifestation was really kind of
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  this niche. It was kind of weird, right?
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  It was like, I was like, that's weird, that's woo woo, yada yada
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  yada. And now it's really cool is it's
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  really stepped into the mainstream.
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  It is something that's talked about a lot, right?
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  You can go into different stores and you see manifestation
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  merchandise, things like that. It's a really big deal now.
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  And that is largely because of the book, the secret or the
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  movie, whichever 1 you saw. But we've all heard of it,
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  right? And when it came out, it created
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  this massive ripple effect where people started to see things
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  differently. It really elevated the
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  consciousness, I believe, of the general society where they
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  started to open up their mind and see, you know, what things
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  can be a little bit different than I've been perceiving them
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  as, right? It opened this door so a little
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  stream of light could start to come in and people could start
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  to see things differently. And that is remarkable and
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  amazing and so necessary. The flip side of that is that a
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  lot of people think that the law of attraction, which is
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  primarily what the secret focuses on, is it right?
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  They think that's how manifestation works is if I
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  focus on what I want and I keep reiterating what I want, I will
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  get it. And unfortunately, that's only
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  part of the equation. There are dozens of universal
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  laws just like the law of attraction that influence and
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  guide how we live our reality. And so it's really, really
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  beneficial and helpful for us to understand how we might be
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  perceiving manifestation incorrectly so that way we can
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  start to utilize it correctly in our lives.
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  So one, I want to start off with a couple of different pieces.
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  So the first one is the law of attraction, basically that like
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  attracts like. And this is true in certain
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  ways, but just like any other laws, right?
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  If you think about math, right, there's laws and there's rules
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  to math, and there's a hierarchy of those laws and rules, right?
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  And so when you're doing a math equation, you're going to start
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  with a certain part of the equation in order to solve it,
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  and you'll follow those rules in a hierarchical order.
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  That's the same with the universal laws is they're not
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  all going to influence reality in the same way.
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  And in AA equals B kind of way. They're more nuanced than that.
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  And so that's been one of the biggest issues that I've seen is
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  that people think like all manifestation is, is like, I
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  just focus on what I want and then I get it, right?
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  And that leaves out a massive part of the equation.
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  And that is so detrimental for many people because it leads to
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  frustration, right? It leads to feeling like I don't
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  deserve it. It leads to feeling like, man, I
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  must not be good enough or I can't do this.
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  When in reality, every single person is always manifesting
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  something, whether or not they realize it.
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  Because all manifestation is, is your vibrational frequency
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  influences and informs reality around you.
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  And it is going to unfold in a specific way based on your
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  vibrational frequency. And we can even ground that down
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  a little bit more into practicality of your thoughts,
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  your feelings, your emotions are going to influence the reality
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  that you experience, right? And the simplest example of this
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  is if I'm in a super good mood and I go to the gym and I'm
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  saying hi to everyone and you know, I'm high fiving people,
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  I'm smiling at people, right? I'm just, I'm in my vibe.
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  It's going to be a completely different experience.
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  I'm probably going to attract different people, different
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  opportunities to myself. Then if I go to the gym and I'm
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  on my phone, I'm looking down. I've got this kind of scowl on
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  my face, right? That's the simple way.
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  But the thing about manifestation is all of those
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  different frequencies compound. Happy Jen versus pissed off Jen
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  are going to create very different realities and that's
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  kind of a very simple way to think about it.
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  And so the moving from thinking that like attracts like to
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  realizing that you don't attract what you want, you attract who
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  it is that you are on many different levels, right?
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  We have an emotional, spiritual, physical, like mental, all of
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  these different levels of who we are are going to attract things
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  to us. And then if you look at the
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  larger scope, which I'm not going to get into this today, we
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  could honestly have a entire course dedicated to just this
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  topic. But you look at the larger
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  scheme of things of you are a soul that has incarnated on
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  earth to learn certain lessons. And so part of those lessons are
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  going to be overcoming certain challenges, overcoming certain
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  parts of yourself in order to manifest the things that you
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  want, right? Your desires.
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  I think of manifestation is basically like a game of
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  Monopoly where you're moving along that path and there's
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  going to be different obstacles in the way because you need to
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  learn and gain the lessons from those obstacles in order to
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  become the version of yourself that you need to be in order to
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  manifest the thing that you want.
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  And I believe that Kabbalah explains this the absolute best
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  that I've ever heard it. And so I'm going to share that
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  with you because it's so valuable and it's so beneficial.
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  So the way that Kabbalah explains it is basically this
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  idea of the light and the vessel and that each soul is a vessel.
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  You can think of a vessel as like a cup.
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  That's kind of how I see it in my own mind.
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  It's a cup that can expand or contract in size based on the
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  consciousness, the evolution of that soul, right?
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  Higher souls like Gandhi, Mother Teresa, those sorts of elevated
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  beings have a much larger vessel than somebody who is in lack
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  fear, low consciousness states often, OK.
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  And so your vessel is basically what allows you to hold the
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  things that you desire and call in the things that you desire.
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  I almost even think of it as like a little vacuum that when I
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  am at the level to receive my next manifestation, whether
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  that's a new level in business, whether that's a relationship,
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  whether that's a car, a house, I don't know.
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  Whatever it is that you want, it'll almost like get pulled
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  into that vessel because you've reached that level of
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  consciousness. It's inevitable that you will
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  receive it when your vessel is able to hold it.
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  But what happens is that there can be a short circuit.
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  OK, so you can think of a short circuit as like if you have a 60
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  Watt light bulb and you put it into a lamp that is designed to
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  pump, pump through 150 watts, that light bulb is going to go
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  and it's going to break basically because it's having
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  too much light pumped through that vessel, it's not able to
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  hold it. And that is what happens when
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  people receive too much too quickly and they're not ready
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  for it. And so that's why you really
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  want to grow and expand your vessel because it's not just
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  about receiving it, it's about being able to hold it in a
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  healthy, sustainable, long, longitudinal way.
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  And so outside of the vessel is the light.
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  The light is basically the universal intelligence, God, the
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  creator, the universe, whatever you want to call it, that
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  resonates with you, give it that name.
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  The light is essentially everything you could possibly
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  want, right? It's fulfillment, prosperity,
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  wealth, love, all of these things that we desire in life.
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  All the good juicy bits, right? The gifts, all of those already
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  exist outside of the vessel as light, OK?
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  And this is the same as they already exist in the quantum
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  field in the way that Doctor Joe or someone else that talks more
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  about the quantum might explain it.
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  They already exist, right? Because there is no time.
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  There's just this moment now. So everything already exists.
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  And so when you recognize that, you recognize that, Oh my gosh,
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  everything that I desire is already available to me.
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  It's literally already here. And eventually your soul will
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  have every single thing you could want.
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  It's inevitable that you will receive it all.
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  It might not in this lifetime, but you will receive it all.
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  And So what happens is as we do our spiritual work, that could
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  be meditation, it can be service, it could be overcoming
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  our triggers and our fears and stop reacting like an asshole to
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  people, right? All of these different things
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  that allow us to grow and expand our vessel, that is going to
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  allow us to call in and hold more light.
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  That's going to allow us to hold more wealth, more fulfillment,
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  more prosperity, more love. OK, so thinking of manifestation
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  in this way is so much more beneficial and so much easier
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  because, A, everything you want is already available to you.
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  B, it's inevitable that you will receive it.
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  It's guaranteed that you will receive it.
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  Check that off. You don't have to worry about,
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  am I worthy of receiving it? Am I not worthy of receiving it?
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  All it is is that you need to play the video game or the board
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  game in order to receive it. You will receive challenges and
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  opportunities for yourself to grow that vessel, to receive it.
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  OK. You'll receive everything that
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  you could possibly need in order to become that version of you.
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  And as you begin to go along this journey, you will begin to
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  see that challenges and opportunities are actually
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  miracles in disguise. So I'll give you an example of
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  this. This morning I woke up and I had
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  set my alarm for 5:00 and I'm still in bed around 5:30 and I'm
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  feeling super duper tired. And I was thinking, you know, I
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  could just lay in bed for a while longer, right?
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  My first call is not till 9, like I've got time.
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  And I then I had this thought of, Oh my gosh, you know what?
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  There's something amazing and miraculous that's gonna happen
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  for me today because there's this resistance that I feel
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  anytime I feel resistance, I know that there's more light
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  that is trying to enter my vessel.
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  I know that there's more goodness, more gifts, more
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  deliciousness that's trying to come to me.
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  And that's why I feel this resistance because the universe,
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  the creator is trying to make sure is she ready to receive
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  this next level, right? And as I do that, I get to move
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  my little board game piece along the board game and to that next
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  tile, to that next tile, because I'm showing up as that elevated
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  version of myself. So what did I do?
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  I got up, I moved my little body, I turned on some music,
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  and I felt great, right? I overcame that resistance.
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  And you can kind of think about it as like working out, right?
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  When you go to work out, there's going to be challenge, there's
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  going to be resistance. But afterward, you're better off
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  for it, right? Then the next day or the next
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  week, you can lift more weight, you have more capacity.
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  That's what you're doing is because if you were to receive
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  every single thing that you wanted today, if you're not
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  ready for it, you're not going to be able to hold it, right?
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  It might be, you could manifest your dream partner, but if you
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  have not healed your fear of rejection, if you have not
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  healed your people pleasing, you could easily mess up that
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  relationship, right? And so we need to elevate
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  ourselves. We need to elevate our
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  consciousness in order to be able to hold these things.
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  So it's not just the manifestation of it, it's the
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  holding of it because that's what we really want, right?
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  Nobody wants to manifest a ton of wealth and then lose it all.
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  That just wouldn't feel that great, right?
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  It's better to have the vessel for it.
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  So rather than thinking of things as like, attracts like or
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  that simplified version of it, you're going through a process
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  to become the most elevated version of yourself, like a
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  hero's journey in order to create the life that you truly,
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  truly, truly desire. That is far beyond what you
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  could imagine. This is another part to this.
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  Is that what you are dreaming of right now as your dream
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  ultimate? Ultimate dream life is a tiny,
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  tiny, tiny, tiny fraction of what's actually available to
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  you. There's so much more available
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  to you that you can't see yet because your consciousness is
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  not in that place to be able to perceive it yet.
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  You know, it's kind of like when you're going on a hike and
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  you're hiking and hiking and hiking, you can't see the
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  summit, you can't see the summit, you can't see the
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  summit, right? You have to do that work in
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  order to be able to see that summit.
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  And then the last piece I want to add to this is stop thinking
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  of manifestation in terms of time.
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  So we often, because we live in a reality where time exists,
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  right, where we where we perceive time, let's say it that
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  way. So we often times will attach
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  timelines to things unconsciously.
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  We'll say, OK, you know what, if I start working on my business
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  now, maybe in six months I can be here and then in a year I can
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  be here and then three years I could be here.
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  When in reality, that's not your job.
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  Your job isn't to figure out the time.
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  Your job is to keep showing up. Keep showing up and you'll be
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  able to collapse time because all it is is it can be a very,
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  very simple shift in consciousness that allows you to
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  receive the things that you want.
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  It can literally be a simple idea, just an insight that you
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  have that can shift everything for you.
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  So the other misperception I want you to move away from is
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  attaching time to things, right? And it's a duality because we
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  live in a reality where, yes, right, we wake up at a certain
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  time, we do things for a certain amount of time.
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  And also recognizing that things can leap and move so much faster
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  than we ever realized because all we can see right now is from
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  our current vantage point, our current level of understanding,
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  our current level of consciousness.
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  But I know you've had moments where something happens and you
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  perceive things completely differently and that is what
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  allows you to shift and change rapidly is those moments of
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  insight. So recognizing and allowing in
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  those moments of insight anytime.
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  So I hope you have loved this. I hope you have enjoyed it.
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  It has been so fun to get to share this with you.
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  I am going to be launching something very, very exciting
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  next Monday, October 20th. I'm going to be launching a 22
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  day challenge called The Visionary.
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  I'm going to go much deeper into this concept of how to expand
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  your vessel, how to become that version of you who receives
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  insights, who receives opportunities easily and
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  effortlessly, right? I have a one-on-one client I'm
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  working with right now and we just had our call right before
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  this and she shared with me like 5 opportunities that she
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  manifested in the last week. How did she do that?
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  She shifted her consciousness. She became a match for those
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  things. And that is available to all of
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  us. That's available to you right
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  now. And So what I'll be going over
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  in that challenge, this challenge is not for everyone.
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  It's really for the woman who has a vision on her heart to
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  create and gift something into the world.
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  So that could be a business, that could be a book, that could
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  be that next level in your business, that could be a
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  podcast, but somebody who has a calling to do something
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  creative, to expand that and build that.
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  And what we're going to do in this challenge is overcome the
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  blocks and the fears and build the vessel to hold that vision.
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  So that could be overcoming the fear of being seen, of posting
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  your authentic truth on social media, of putting your ideas out
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  there, right? Getting out of that preparatory
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  mode and actually getting into the creation and the doing of
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  it, the living of it, right? It could be calling in those
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  opportunities that you need in order to bring your vision to
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  life. So it is going to be phenomenal.
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  I'm going to give you so many methods and frameworks and tools
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  to help you as you bring this vision to life.
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  Over the course of the 22 days, you will completely transform
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  your perception of yourself, your perception of reality.
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  You'll learn so many spiritual truths and Nuggets that will
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  allow you to create that vision easily, effortlessly, joyfully.
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  We're going to talk about expanding your creativity so you
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  never run out of content ideas. You're never sitting there
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  thinking what should I write or ideas for your book.
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  We're going to talk about tapping into limitless
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  creativity and give you tools for how to do that.
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  So it's going to be phenomenal for my women who want to birth
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  an idea into the world. So if that sounds like you watch
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  my stories, you can send me a message and I'll let you know
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  when it's available. My Instagram is at alignment
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  with Jen and you're already probably on my e-mail list.
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  If not, you can message me and I'll get you on there because
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  that's where I'm going to be launching it.
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  I'll be launching into my Instagram stories as well.
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  So you don't want to miss out on that.
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  It's only going to be $22.00, so it's incredibly inexpensive.
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  You are going to get get thousands and thousands of
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  dollars worth of value from this.
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  So don't miss this opportunity. I don't know if I'll ever even
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  do this again. So get in there, get yourself in
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  there, show up for yourself, and I promise you, you will be
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  lavishly rewarded for your time and your effort.
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  So I adore you. I cannot wait to chat with you
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  and have a fabulous, fabulous evening, afternoon, morning,
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  whatever it is for you.