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Work Every Hour: Build Positive Habits & Master 2023 Like a Pro · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: I just have a value system that says it's not
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  Speaker 1: about the money, it's about building something you believe in.
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  Speaker 1: It's about serving other people, and it's about work ethic.
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  Speaker 1: It's about showing up and working.
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  Speaker 2: The only thing that stops you from getting what you
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  Speaker 2: want in life is the bullsh story you tell yourself.
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  Speaker 3: Don't be a follower, be a student. Take advice, but
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  Speaker 3: not orders. Take information, but don't let somebody order your life.
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  Speaker 3: Make sure what you do is the product of your
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  Speaker 3: own conclusion. Not to do what someone else says. Take
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  Speaker 3: what someone else says. Process it, think about it, Ponder it.
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  Speaker 3: If it makes you wonder, If it makes you think,
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  Speaker 3: then it's valuable. Then when you go take action, make
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  Speaker 3: sure that the action is not what somebody told you
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  Speaker 3: to do. Make sure the action is the product of
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  Speaker 3: your own conclusion. You'll follow just a little bit of
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  Speaker 3: those simple guidelines telling you the learning process can be speedy, swift, powerful,
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  Speaker 3: your learning curve can go up, and then applying it
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  Speaker 3: to your business, your life, your family, conversations, equities of
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  Speaker 3: all kinds, you'll find some progress. Like I did that
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  Speaker 3: first five years when I met a teacher willing to
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  Speaker 3: share with me. Turn my life around progress. I couldn't
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  Speaker 3: believe happened for me.
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  Speaker 1: There's a gap between who people are and what they
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  Speaker 1: tell you they want to accomplish. Now, the process of
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  Speaker 1: taking myself from scrounging in my couch cushions to find
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  Speaker 1: enough change to put gas in my car to building
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  Speaker 1: a billion dollar business was all about building a set
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  Speaker 1: of beliefs. Now, I believe that the Matrix has us all.
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  Speaker 1: I don't actually think we live in a simulation, but
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  Speaker 1: I think the movie The Matrix is the perfect metaphor
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  Speaker 1: for the human experience. We have all pulled a web
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  Speaker 1: of lies over our own eyes, and the web of
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  Speaker 1: lies is what you tell yourself about what's possible for
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  Speaker 1: you and for the world.
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  Speaker 4: And once you get.
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  Speaker 1: That web of lies over your eyes, you simply see
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  Speaker 1: it as reality. And you don't understand that each one
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  Speaker 1: of those fundamental beliefs is alterable, that you could choose
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  Speaker 1: to believe something else. In fact, you don't even realize
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  Speaker 1: that they are beliefs. Einstein has a quote. It's one
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  Speaker 1: of the most important quotes in my life. The most
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  Speaker 1: important question any man must decide for himself is whether
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  Speaker 1: or not he lives in a friendly or hostile universe. Now,
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  Speaker 1: what I love about that quote, So what's hiding in
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  Speaker 1: it is that it's a decision. You get to choose
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  Speaker 1: whether you're living in a friendly or a hostile universe.
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  Speaker 1: There's no objective reality. It just is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna get what you see. You're gonna get what
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  Speaker 1: you focus on, and you see what you focus on.
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  Speaker 3: You could much more easily survive the next crisis, the
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  Speaker 3: next winter of your life.
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  Speaker 4: If you have well set goals.
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  Speaker 3: Finally tune places you want to go, things you want
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  Speaker 3: to do, people you want to meet, skills you want
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  Speaker 3: to develop, fortune you want to make, benevolence you want.
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  Speaker 5: To engage in.
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  Speaker 3: If all of that becomes powerful and clear and you're
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  Speaker 3: on your way, I promise you, no matter what happens,
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  Speaker 3: those goals will pull you through. You won't be lost
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  Speaker 3: in the middle because you'll be able to see beyond.
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  Speaker 5: But I believe, ladies and gentlemen, if we can accept
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  Speaker 5: the possibility of that this is the decade of consciousness.
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  Speaker 5: That's what I believe, that this is the decade of consciousness.
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  Speaker 5: If you please a time where we can begin to
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  Speaker 5: create in folks minds, the idea, the possibility that we
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  Speaker 5: can create a more humane society, the possibility that we
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  Speaker 5: can create more love, communication, and understand in relationships, The
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  Speaker 5: possibility that we can create a drug free America, the
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  Speaker 5: possibility that we can create the kind of respect for
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  Speaker 5: diversity and difference in our multicultural society. The possibility that
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  Speaker 5: we can begin to develop the mindset to bring out
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  Speaker 5: the best in people, to encourage them to achieve their
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  Speaker 5: greatness and support them.
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  Speaker 4: In their dreams.
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  Speaker 5: That if we can, in this decade of consciousness, to
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  Speaker 5: begin to see it in vision that happening, and that
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  Speaker 5: we all can play a role.
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  Speaker 4: That we were born for such a time.
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  Speaker 5: As this, that we showed up for this, that we
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  Speaker 5: survived one out of nine million sperms, that we have
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  Speaker 5: been chosen.
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  Speaker 4: For this great work. What an exciting time to be alive.
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  Speaker 5: Here's something else to recognize wherever you are on the
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  Speaker 5: ladder of life.
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  Speaker 4: And I was reading in.
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  Speaker 5: Doctor Norman bensent Peel's latest book called The Power of
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  Speaker 5: Positive Living, which I think is his greatest, and he
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  Speaker 5: has something in there.
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  Speaker 4: A section called comeback twer.
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  Speaker 5: Wherever you are in life, ladies and gentlemen, you've got comeback, talent.
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  Speaker 4: I don't care how low you are. I don't care
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  Speaker 4: what you have done. I don't care what you have experienced.
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  Speaker 5: I don't care how devastated your life might appear to be,
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  Speaker 5: the shambles it might be.
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  Speaker 4: In there's a power even you that can enable.
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  Speaker 5: You to be stronger and better than anything that's out here.
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  Speaker 5: One man who came for the training, he was not
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  Speaker 5: a kid, and I knew he had a drinking problem.
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  Speaker 5: And he was looking at me and I can spell
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  Speaker 5: alcohol on him. I said, excuse me, come here, come here,
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  Speaker 5: Come here.
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  Speaker 4: He said, what is it? I said, let me tell
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  Speaker 4: you something. I want you to know.
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  Speaker 5: You've got something in you that's stronger than that poison
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  Speaker 5: you're putting in your body.
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  Speaker 4: Do you understand me? And he was looking at his
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  Speaker 4: back and up he said. He said, uh, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: He said, I don't know. I said, it is. I said,
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  Speaker 4: that's why you here. Something due you here, that which
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  Speaker 4: caused you to come.
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  Speaker 5: You set you want some help, and you need to
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  Speaker 5: be around some people that can help you get in
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  Speaker 5: touch with your power, because you know that your life
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  Speaker 5: deserves this.
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  Speaker 4: See.
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  Speaker 2: I think that the reason that we abused ourselves with
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  Speaker 2: drugs and alcohol, is that we're trying to numb something
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  Speaker 2: in us that's aching us, that's urging us, that's nagging
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  Speaker 2: us to do something bigger and better.
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  Speaker 4: It can't be because it tastes so good.
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  Speaker 5: It can't because crack feels so good.
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  Speaker 4: A cocaine is not that simple that when we.
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  Speaker 5: Are deluting ourselves or polluting our minds, it numbs us
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  Speaker 5: where we don't have to face reality because we don't
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  Speaker 5: know what we've got going for us.
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  Speaker 4: Say, once you discover.
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  Speaker 5: Who you are, the truth of knowing who you are
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  Speaker 5: will set you free from ever wanting alcohol, from ever
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  Speaker 5: wanting any kind.
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  Speaker 4: Of drug that's going to destroy who you are.
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  Speaker 5: Once you begin to know who you are, it will
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  Speaker 5: step you free from believing I can't see myself doing
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  Speaker 5: any better. Once you discover this power of this the
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  Speaker 5: perfect essence of who you are that's in all of us,
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  Speaker 5: that's permeating out be that enables us to be the
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  Speaker 5: directors of.
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  Speaker 4: Our lives, that you truly can.
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  Speaker 5: Live a healthy, happy, prosperous life, and that you can
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  Speaker 5: make it in what are called the worst of times.
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  Speaker 4: I think it was Robert Julie said, tough times never last,
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  Speaker 4: but tough people.
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  Speaker 6: Do, and you are tough, and so goals are really
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  Speaker 6: empty to me. I have a thing on goal setting,
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  Speaker 6: But like, my big thing is that you show me
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  Speaker 6: someone with compelling, emotional, gigantic reasons. I'll show you someone
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  Speaker 6: who's changing their standards all day long. So like, give
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  Speaker 6: you one quick version that you've not heard before. One
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  Speaker 6: of the reasons I'm relatively fit is not just peak state.
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  Speaker 6: I have an uncle and my family that died at
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  Speaker 6: fifty years old of a heart attacks. My godfather, my
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  Speaker 6: dad's only brother. I kind of resembled it and I
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  Speaker 6: look like them a lot. So on the way back
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  Speaker 6: from his funeral, my reticular activators on heart attacks. On
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  Speaker 6: the TV screen on the airplane, I'm listening to music
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  Speaker 6: is the Oprah Winfrey Show. She's going through a new
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  Speaker 6: heart scan. I've unplugged my headphones, plug it into the
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  Speaker 6: airplane one for some of this new scan at cedar
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  Speaker 6: sign I had that at that time was new. It
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  Speaker 6: could read the plaques in your arteries, the calcifications without going,
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  Speaker 6: you know, really evasively. I scheduled it.
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  Speaker 4: I went in.
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  Speaker 6: I had a world class doctor who understood reasons and
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  Speaker 6: leverage instead of just prescribing. When we coach, boy, you
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  Speaker 6: need to do this, you need to do this that.
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  Speaker 4: Doctors do it.
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  Speaker 6: Take this pill, take this. He understood leverage and reasons.
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  Speaker 6: What you do is you take the scan, then you
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  Speaker 6: go to lunch, you come back. I took the scan,
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  Speaker 6: I went to I had a burrito. I came back
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  Speaker 6: and I'm in the law. When I walk in, I
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  Speaker 6: sit down. The doctor comes up and he says, oh my,
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  Speaker 6: I can't believe these arteries are in That young body
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  Speaker 6: got my attention. We walk back in, We sit down.
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  Speaker 6: He could still go, you need crestore, eat clean, get
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  Speaker 6: out of here. Is that what an average doctor does?
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  Speaker 6: Right now? Wired me with huge reasons. He goes, let
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  Speaker 6: me ask you a question. I heard your wife's pregnant.
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  Speaker 6: I said, I have a son. And he says, do
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  Speaker 6: you want to be there when he graduates from high school?
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  Speaker 3: To be there for that day?
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  Speaker 4: I said, yes, sir.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: He goes, your wife's pregnant.
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  Speaker 3: What do you have?
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  Speaker 6: And I said, a daughter? Is where you get a dad?
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  Speaker 6: He goes, but she was six months pregnant. He goes,
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  Speaker 6: do you would you like to walk her down? The
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  Speaker 6: isle on her wedding day, or are you okay that
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  Speaker 6: it's some other man? I went, what the wasung the
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  Speaker 6: skin right, and he goes. I want to be very
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  Speaker 6: clear with you, if you keep going down the road
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  Speaker 6: you're going there'll be some other man with your son
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  Speaker 6: at graduation in high school and a stranger's walking your
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  Speaker 6: daughter down the OUs it's not even born yet on
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  Speaker 6: her wedding day and I went to boom and he goes.
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  Speaker 6: But if you do exactly what I tell you to do,
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  Speaker 6: you'll be there. And so to this day, brother, there
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  Speaker 6: are mornings when I wake up, not every morning.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to go to the gym.
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  Speaker 6: I go Bella's wedding, Belle's wedding, belle Is wedding. So
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  Speaker 6: my standards are high because of my big old reasons.
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  Speaker 6: Other dudes may miss the gym that day because they're
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  Speaker 6: not going to miss their daughter's wedding if they don't go.
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  Speaker 6: But I've convinced myself on or what they're going to emotional.
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  Speaker 6: I've convinced myself phone missed my daughter's wedding. So I
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  Speaker 6: will get my out to bed at four o'clock in
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  Speaker 6: the morning, and I would get to that gym because
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  Speaker 6: my reasons are bigger, so my standards are higher. So
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  Speaker 6: that's what I think causes us to have great standards
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  Speaker 6: as huge reasons