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Trick Or Treat? · Second Date Update

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  All right, let's do this. Oh, I got Marissa and Vernon on
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  the line. Marissa, good morning, good morning, Hey, welcome to
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  second date update. Obviously, you know that that's when you get ghosted after
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  a great first date. So before we can try to get you some answers,
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  Marissa, you need to tell us about this great date. Yeah.
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  So I went on a date with a guy that I actually met at a
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  Halloween party, which I thought was really Yeah, it was really fun.
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  We had a great conversation with an awesome night, and then we took to
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  a very romantic dinner and it was that Italian restaurant and the night was great.
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  The date was amazing and I thought it was awesome. You didn't have
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  too much red wine, did you? No? I had one glass of
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  red wine? Okay, okay, and an Italian restaurant. I guess.
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  The producer says his name is Derek. How was the conversation with Derek?
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  Was a good conversation during the date? Oh yeah, she was amazing.
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  I felt like it was ending, like I just like didn't want it to
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  end. We just kept talking and talking and talking, like I barely even
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  ate because I was like talking so much. Okay, So I know this
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  is gonna sound dumb, but I always had a rule no salad on the
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  first date, because there's like no polite way to eat a salad. Did
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  you in fact have a salad? I did have a salad. Oh,
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  there we go. But I mean, if that's the reason, I'm going
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  to be very shocked. And if that's the reason he's not worth dating.
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  If a dude kid, like, if he's gonna not call you back because
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  because you ate a salad, I mean really, all right, So it
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  sounds like it was a great date. It sounds like it was fantastic,
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  and you're getting ghosted. So have you reached out to him and you're just
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  and he's not responding? Is that what's happening? I did. I waited
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  a little bit because I didn't want to be clinging or weird, so I
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  kind of just like waited till the next day to say, hey, thanks
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  for the date. It was awesome. And he didn't respond, and then
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  I was like, Okay, maybe he didn't get it or he's busy.
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  So I texted him again the next day and just said, you know,
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  hey, just want to recount to your things again. I had a really
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  good time. Hope you too like something like that, and then I have
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  not heard He never responded to either text. Okay, okay, well then
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  listen to texts. I'm gonna call him. We're gonna call Derek. You're
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  gonna be listening in. I'm gonna ask him about the date. I'm just
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  gonna tell him he's on the radio. I'm just be honest with him,
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  sud He has to say, are you ready? Okay? Oh, I
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  just think I'm weird about sal thing, but it's true. It makes you
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  look like a messy eater. Yeah, when you think about it, when
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  you really think about it, Yeah, there's no like pretty way to eat
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  a salad. Hi is Derek there? Derek? Hey, Derek, it's
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  Courtney. Hey, what's up. It's Walmart Jeff. Hey, Derek,
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  it's Savannah and you're on Kiss ninety five seven this morning. Derek. Okay,
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  hello, Hey? Oh no, all right, well I'll tell you
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  why you're on. It's called second date update. It's something we do on
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  the show here, Derek, where if you go on a first date and
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  you really enjoyed yourself, but you're getting ghosted and you want answers because you
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  really want to see that person again. You call us. Marissa called us
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  to tell us about your date. Okay, okay, yeah, this is
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  what I'll feel you in. So, Derek, Marissa said, you guys
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  met at a Halloween party, had a great time at the party, and
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  then you took her out for a romantic like dinner at an Italian restaurant.
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  She said, the conversation was great. She thought you guys were totally hitting
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  it off. She'd love to see you again. She even reached out twice
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  and sent you a text message, you know, thanking you for the date,
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  but you're ghosting her. Is there a reason for it or is it
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  just like miscommunication? Uh no, listen, I mean the date was all
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  right, I just it wasn't what I expected. Well, I mean,
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  what did you expect you went to it? Like, were you expecting what
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  not to be at an Italian restaurant? The atmosphere. We met at a
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  Halloween party and she was dressed as this sexy cheerleader, and you know,
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  I was expecting that on the date, But when once she showed up,
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  she just looked nothing like it. Like she just looked so disheveled and it
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  was just all she wasn't put together and slippers, no makeup, Her hair
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  wasn't done, just wasn't anything like she looked like at the Halloween party.
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  Okay, so you expected her to show up as a sexy cheerleader. Tid
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  Oh, she's here with her pomp pomps. Can't we pick her up?
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  Is that what you expected? Not what I expected. I just expected her
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  to really, you know, kind of come done up like any girl would
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  on a on a first date. You know, you know Corney, I
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  kind of know what he's talking about. You will not out of it.
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  It's like when women wear push up bras. It's like guys are expecting one
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  thing and then they take the bra off and it's something completely different. So
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  I kind of like when you walk around in a lear chart in here and
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  we're all like, whoa, Jeff, But really, you know what the
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  truth is exactly? Yes, Kim, listen, I want to bring Marissa.
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  Marissa is listening? Are you there? Marissa? Yeah? I mean
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  honestly, my jaws on the floor, Like, are you is this for
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  real? You're disgusting? Did you not shower? He says, you didn't
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  shower? Get tre you were wearing slippers? Like, what's going on.
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  I mean, I just look how I normally look every day, like in
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  everyday life, like and then you said something about slippers, like those are
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  proud of What are you talking about? Slippers? Girl? You got the
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  product loafers. Yeah, I have style. I'm so confused by this guy,
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  Like you expected me to come in a sexy cheerleader out hit. I
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  actually want to throw up. Yeah, it seems a little shallow, Derek
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  on your end, Listen, I'm not trying to be shallow here. I
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  just I have my expectations. I just thought that you would come kind of
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  done up, and you weren't. Oh my god, Derek, how can
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  you not appreciate the Proda loafers? What's wrong with you? They were just
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  they looked like you just got out of bed, Like you got out of
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  bed and you slipped on the slippers. Okay, I'm so confused by this,
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  Marissa. It just sounds like he expected you to be a sexy cheerleader
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  at dinner. I think that's yeah, I'm kind of getting that because I
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  just looked like how I look every day, which no one has ever told
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  me. I looked like I rolled out of bed. So I think you're
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  just choving a stick and you want maybe some like disgusting girl with fake boops
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  or something, but that's like not me, very natural, so I don't.
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  Yeah, I am like just so wow, like my well, I'm
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  sorry, I have my jobs on the floor. I'm like, well,
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  that's okay. I get it. You want to be yourself, and you
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  want to you want the person you're going on your day with to be like,
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  oh my gosh, she's beautiful and beautiful being yourself, not being a
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  sexy cheerleader or sexy stripper that they met at a Halloween party. I don't
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  think this is a love match. I'm just saying I usually offer a second
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  date, try it one more time, and I pick up the tab.
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  But I think, are we good, Marissa? Are you? Am I
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  correct in thinking that doesn't even matter. You don't want to go out with
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  him again? Oh I'm great to never see him again. Yes, all
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  right, Well listen, I guess we'll just wrap it up with Derek.
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  Thanks for being honest. I think I mean, at least we can thank
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  you for being honest. Yeah. I hope she doesn't go on another day
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  looking like the way she did. Oh my god, my all right,
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  I can't. Marissa. Hopefully we helped you out. I'm glad you found
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  out now instead of later. Okay, wow yeah, thank you guys,