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Justin Timberlake was just caught yelling over Britney Spears’ pregnancy. Cuba Gooding Jr. pleads guilty to forcible touching of woman at NYC nightclub. Queer Eye‘s Karamo is getting his own daytime talk show · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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  Speaker 1: Scalable advice, sugar Spice, Lama Loa, La La Loa. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to the Naughty but I Show. I'm your host, Rom Shooter.
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  Speaker 1: jumping in is our girl a friend, Miss Day Delna Dixon. Hey, Delene,
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  Speaker 1: are you there? I am Oh. I love being with
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  Speaker 1: had a fantastic night. A couple of nights ago, DELANNEA
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  Speaker 1: and I went to the opening nights of Harmony, Brows
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  Speaker 1: and Barrow's new musical. What a night, mister Ah. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, the show is fantastic. All those young men
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  Speaker 1: the actress who plays Josephine Baker gorgeous abs to die for.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm just I'm just so happy for you, Rab,
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  Speaker 1: for your husband, Bruce, for Barry. This is their legacy,
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  Speaker 1: this is what they're going to be. I mean, they're
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  Speaker 1: definitely there's Yeah. The Jewish Telegraph said today this is
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  Speaker 1: Dana was there on Opening Night. I saw her. Dana
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  Speaker 1: told me this is their legacy and she just said
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  Speaker 1: it on CNN. So if you're in New York City,
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  Speaker 1: go see Harmony. Hey, let's jump into our show. What
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  Speaker 1: time is it? My frowns at us just think timber
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  Speaker 1: Lee was caught yelling over Britney spears is pregnancy and
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  Speaker 1: now some of his fans are concerned. So Justin was
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  Speaker 1: asked by the paparazzi about Brittany's pregnancy and he yelled stop,
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  Speaker 1: go away. Then he gestured to the papa ranzzi to leave.
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  Speaker 1: He waved his hands and he started to stamp his
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  Speaker 1: feet like a little spoiled boy. He said, you've got
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  Speaker 1: me stomping. So they finally went away, but he clearly
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  Speaker 1: isn't happy about all these These two dated between nine
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  Speaker 1: remember that was a while ago, and two thousand and
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  Speaker 1: two they were together as they rose up on the
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  Speaker 1: ladder of fame twogether. In the past, Justin has been
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  Speaker 1: criticized for making misogynistic comments about Brittany and also to
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  Speaker 1: about his Super Bowl performer Janet Jackson. He issued an
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  Speaker 1: apology to both of them. Now, this strange reaction to
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  Speaker 1: Brittany being pregnant. His fans are a little concerned, and
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  Speaker 1: some of Britney's fans are saying, why are you not
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  Speaker 1: just happy for her? You could have just said congratulations?
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  Speaker 1: What do you think is going on here? All right? Well,
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  Speaker 1: and first of all, he didn't say anything, so he
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  Speaker 1: can't be rude. If he didn't see anything, he didn't
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  Speaker 1: want to deal with it. But let's think about this realistically.
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  Speaker 1: Do we ask people, oh, are you happy that your
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  Speaker 1: ex is expecting a baby? Now it only happens to Selembritties.
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  Speaker 1: He was probably caught off guard. I mean, he has
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  Speaker 1: his own wife to deal with, his own babies, to
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  Speaker 1: deal with it. He wasn't thinking about Brittany. However, if
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  Speaker 1: you are a celebrity, you should always have an answer
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  Speaker 1: plan And he could have just said something so noncommittal
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  Speaker 1: like I wish her nothing but the best, which just
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  Speaker 1: basically says, you know, let her live her life. So
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  Speaker 1: that's why I can see people are saying, but he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't rude. He didn't say anything. So we'll watched the
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  Speaker 1: video carefully. He wasn't rude, but you know, he's been
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  Speaker 1: a celebrity a long time. It's not just the new celebrity.
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  Speaker 1: It's been around for years. Celebrities have to realize they're
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  Speaker 1: going to be asked about what's going on in the news,
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  Speaker 1: particularly if they were once connected to it. Just thinks
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  Speaker 1: people should have told him next time you're round and about,
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  Speaker 1: they're going to ask you about Brittany, that's going to happen.
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  Speaker 1: Same way a Rod's always going to be asked about
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  Speaker 1: j Lo. It's just the fact of life, is it right?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe not? I'm not sure. But if you had a
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  Speaker 1: famous X and they got engaged or got pregnant, your
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  Speaker 1: friends at boty, you know we're going to ask about it. Mister,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna ask about it, and I'm gonna say I
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  Speaker 1: wish him nothing but the bad, and then I'll probably
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  Speaker 1: give some side. It's gonna go down, which brings Sister Paul.
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  Speaker 1: Question of the day. Justin was called sort of yelling
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  Speaker 1: over Brittany's pregnancy. Should he have just said congratulations? I
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  Speaker 1: think I know your answer? Hey? Gay votes on Twitter
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  Speaker 1: Gossip and b she want to check back a Monday
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  Speaker 1: to hear your results. Hey, mr, what you're working on? Well?
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  Speaker 1: Justin timber Lake isn't the only one And kind of
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  Speaker 1: dealing with Brittany's pregnancy, her sister Jamie Lynn Spears kind
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  Speaker 1: of gave a subtle reaction that our big sister is
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  Speaker 1: expecting a baby. So Jamie liked her big sister's post. Now,
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  Speaker 1: outside of this post, she has not publicly addressed that
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  Speaker 1: Brittany is expecting a baby. As we know, Brittany had
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  Speaker 1: a conservatorship, and she's kind of put it out there
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  Speaker 1: that her sister wasn't very supportive through this more than
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  Speaker 1: a decade situation that brit He went through. She actually
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  Speaker 1: slammed her little sister, and other family members were finally
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  Speaker 1: coming to her defense publicly years and years later. And
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  Speaker 1: we of course we know that Jamie Lynn wrote a
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  Speaker 1: memoir about her life and Brittany actually came out and
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  Speaker 1: kind of basically put out a cease and desist letter
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  Speaker 1: to stop the memoir. So, I mean, you you can't
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  Speaker 1: not say that you're not happy for your sister. You
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  Speaker 1: have to put something out there. But should Jamie Lynn
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  Speaker 1: have done more? What do you think that I'm told
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  Speaker 1: that they have no contact now, that even if Jamie
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  Speaker 1: Lynne wanted to contact her privately, she couldn't. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think Jamie lynn has her email or her phone number,
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  Speaker 1: and so this is the only way she can respond.
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  Speaker 1: And obviously, if she doesn't like the picture, we're all
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  Speaker 1: going to be talking about that. If she does like it,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna be talking about that. It's not like she
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  Speaker 1: can win. But at the same time, this family, this
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  Speaker 1: relationship is so messy and it's so toxic. To use
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  Speaker 1: one of Brittney's words there, do you like what I
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  Speaker 1: did with that? And so I don't know what the
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  Speaker 1: solution is, Like I think Jamie Lenny is thrilled about this.
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  Speaker 1: You know, hopefully a baby can bring a family together,
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  Speaker 1: But I'm told there is so much water under the
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  Speaker 1: bridge here, there is so much ill will within this
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  Speaker 1: family that I don't think it's going to happen. So, yes,
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  Speaker 1: liking a picture might be a very nice thing to do,
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  Speaker 1: It's not going to result in these being friends any
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  Speaker 1: time soon. That's really hard. I just can't imagine not
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  Speaker 1: having a relationship with my sister. And I think Rob
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  Speaker 1: you have said many times, what celebrities need to do
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  Speaker 1: when they have a situation among family members. Cut out
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  Speaker 1: the social media, cut out going to the press. To
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  Speaker 1: solve your problems, you need to sit down in a
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  Speaker 1: little room, no cameras, no recording, and solve it like
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  Speaker 1: normal people do. And then afterwards you can decide how
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  Speaker 1: you want to take it to the media. But you've
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  Speaker 1: got to sit down. Family is blood. Listen to misd everybody.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you're listening. Brittany level leave moving along. Cuba
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  Speaker 1: Gooding Junior has pled guilty to forcibly touching a woman
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  Speaker 1: in a New York City nightclub. So he played guilty.
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  Speaker 1: He's fifty four years old. He was accused of violating
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  Speaker 1: three different women at three different Manhattan nightclubs between two
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  Speaker 1: thousand and eighteen two thousand and nineteen. This story was
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  Speaker 1: huge and it seemed to disappear, but now it's back.
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  Speaker 1: He made the plea deal and he has played guilty
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  Speaker 1: to one counter forcibly chinger a misdemeanor against one of
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  Speaker 1: the women, and as part of the deal, he has
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  Speaker 1: also admitted to subjecting two other women to non consensual
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  Speaker 1: physical contact. It's all on video. These clubs had cameras
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  Speaker 1: in them. Now he's got to continue his alcohol and
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  Speaker 1: behavior modification treatment. I'm not sure quite what that is.
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  Speaker 1: He began this in two thousand and nineteen, and he
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  Speaker 1: can have no new arrest or he will be in
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  Speaker 1: real big trouble. If he does, he would face one
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  Speaker 1: year in jail. On a separate note that mister, he's
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  Speaker 1: embroiled in another lawsuit, accused of raping a woman twice
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  Speaker 1: in a hotel room in two thousand and thirteen. So
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  Speaker 1: it seems as if on this fast incident he's got
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  Speaker 1: off pretty lightly, but he's not over yet. For him,
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  Speaker 1: what are you here? And now? Oh my goodness. He
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  Speaker 1: actually said in the courtroom that he was a quote
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  Speaker 1: celebrity and didn't want anyone to quote feel slighted. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just I'm personally sick and tired of hearing people in
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  Speaker 1: the public eye who are so used to hearing yes
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  Speaker 1: that they forget how to be human and they think
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  Speaker 1: they can get away with anything. And this is this
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  Speaker 1: has been several times that that allegations have come out
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  Speaker 1: that he's touched someone. But let's talk about the financial impact,
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  Speaker 1: because that's the only way people can learn a lessons
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  Speaker 1: when you take away their money. And I think that's
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  Speaker 1: the situation. He's going to see who's going to want
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  Speaker 1: to work with him on the set, male or female,
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  Speaker 1: knowing that he has this situation or how he acts
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  Speaker 1: uh in certain situations. So I think financially this is
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  Speaker 1: going to be a problem for him. And obviously dealing
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  Speaker 1: with an alleged rape case, I mean he may see
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  Speaker 1: some serious jail time and you have to pay for
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  Speaker 1: the consequences of your actions. We've heard rumors about him
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  Speaker 1: for a very very long time. Now it looks as
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  Speaker 1: if he is going to be facing them head on.
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  Speaker 1: Hey maybe along what was Elton John? Well, Charlie Pooth
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  Speaker 1: is a singer and he really likes Elton John. And
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  Speaker 1: he got to meet Elton John in a restaurant in Craigs.
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  Speaker 1: Elton John walked up to him and he was like, Hi,
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  Speaker 1: how are you? And I'm like, you're Elton John. This
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  Speaker 1: is what Charlie Pooth says, and he goes and John
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  Speaker 1: says back, yes, I am. You know your music sucked
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  Speaker 1: in two thousand nineteen. It wasn't good. Of course, of
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  Speaker 1: course Charlie was taken back a little bit. It was
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  Speaker 1: a bit of a gut punch and a wake up call.
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  Speaker 1: But Elton did add, you can be so much better
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  Speaker 1: at songwriting than this, So that was really important because
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  Speaker 1: if Elton John's telling you you have the talent, you
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  Speaker 1: just need to put it into effect, that's a good sign.
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  Speaker 1: So the two actually collaborated later on a song called
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  Speaker 1: after All from Elton John's collaboration album called The Lockdown Sessions,
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  Speaker 1: and he encouraged Charlie to tell the truth with his
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  Speaker 1: songwriting and to be authentic and honest. So yeah, it
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  Speaker 1: kind of it kind of is not cool to get
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  Speaker 1: insulted by Elton John, but if it makes you a
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  Speaker 1: better songwriter, Rob, has anybody ever told you you were
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  Speaker 1: about every day people? It doesn't hell Elton in this case,
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  Speaker 1: maybe you did. You could have told him. I think
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  Speaker 1: there's so much more for you, or tell the truth more.
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  Speaker 1: I encourage you to go this direction. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: telling anybody they suck helps. I just don't think that's
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  Speaker 1: the case. I think telling people they can be better
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  Speaker 1: or might want to explore this or that ad is
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  Speaker 1: the way I go. I don't react well to that
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  Speaker 1: sort of criticism. What about you, mister It all depends
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  Speaker 1: if you say that I'm bad at something, because I
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  Speaker 1: have had people tell me that I'm bad at something.
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  Speaker 1: If you give me the tools to fix it, then
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  Speaker 1: I'm okay with it. So when I was working on
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  Speaker 1: Gossip Turbal, I wasn't getting lead stories all the time.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to produce her, and she said, you
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  Speaker 1: don't really prepare the stories the way we need them
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  Speaker 1: to do A, B and C. And after that I
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  Speaker 1: got better at it. So in that sense, I don't mind.
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  Speaker 1: But if you just tell me I'm horrible and you
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  Speaker 1: walk away, then I have a problem. Hey, before we
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  Speaker 1: get a break, let's talk about j Lo. She's revealing
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  Speaker 1: the release dates of a new documentary about her iconic career.
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  Speaker 1: It comes out on June four. I'm really excited about this.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be on Netflix. I'm told too. It's going
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  Speaker 1: to premiere at the Tribeca Film Festival, which is a trick.
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  Speaker 1: They're doing that to get j Loo and Ben to
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  Speaker 1: the festival on the red carpet. The first movie of
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  Speaker 1: the festival. It's meant to be a film festival. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's a documentary. I get it's a film, but the
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  Speaker 1: first one is meant to be a big, high profile thing,
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  Speaker 1: and there's nothing more exciting than Jlo on the red carpet.
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  Speaker 1: What I'm hearing though, is that she's very much in
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  Speaker 1: charge of the documentary, So it's a bit too much
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  Speaker 1: of a love letter. If you're going to do a
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  Speaker 1: documentary about your life, you've got to tell the good,
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  Speaker 1: the bad, and the ugly, and, believe it or not,
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  Speaker 1: as beautiful as Jaelo is, there have been some moments
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  Speaker 1: in her life that have not been that great. I
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  Speaker 1: encourage everybody to tell the truth, all of it, all
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  Speaker 1: of it, don't gloss over it. I'm told this is
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  Speaker 1: a very flattering documentary. Don't get me wrong. I worked
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  Speaker 1: for j Loo. There's lots to be flattered about her
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  Speaker 1: sex as the extraordinary. But I think sometimes if you
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  Speaker 1: put it in the bad as well as the good,
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  Speaker 1: it just makes it even better. What about you, mis Steve,
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  Speaker 1: we did a documentary of your life, How honest would
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  Speaker 1: you be? Oh, my life is just chocolates and rainbows
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  Speaker 1: twenty four seven, So there would be no about there's
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  Speaker 1: your answer, that's it, that's it. I struggled a little
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  Speaker 1: bit with this when I was writing my book and
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  Speaker 1: I really dug deep in my first draft. Everything about
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  Speaker 1: me was just marvelous. There was no problems, happy, happy, happy,
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  Speaker 1: and I am a happy guy, but I'm not always happy.
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  Speaker 1: And my editor really encouraged me to dig deep and
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  Speaker 1: talk about those moments. And you know what, mystery, those
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  Speaker 1: are the moments in the book that more people connected
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  Speaker 1: with than anything else, when things are not going well
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  Speaker 1: and you have to really struggle and you have to
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  Speaker 1: fight through it, push through it. We all have to
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  Speaker 1: do that. And I don't care if you're jail, miss
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  Speaker 1: D or my good self. There's all those moments, and
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  Speaker 1: I think it makes life more interesting. Guy. Maybe I'm wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I am, but I wish Jennifer would
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  Speaker 1: put those moments in the documentary. To Hey, mister, we're
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  Speaker 1: going to take a quick break and we will be
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  Speaker 1: right back. Welcome back to the Naughty but Night Show.
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  Speaker 1: I'm your Hey from Shooter with our dear friend m
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  Speaker 1: D on a Friday. It's a treat having you on
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  Speaker 1: a Friday, mister. Hey, let's get to the polls dot
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  Speaker 1: dot do Charling. So, last year we talked about Jennifer
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  Speaker 1: Lopez who was naked. Naked, she was in a bathtub
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  Speaker 1: when Ben Affleck proposed a really naughty question. What we
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: asked was, do you think that Ben got naked? After
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: he proposed? Two? Were the two of them doing? You know? What?
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  Speaker 1: Is what? Basically what we're asking said, Yes, I agree,
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  Speaker 1: I think Ben's closed. We're probably off pretty fast too.
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  Speaker 1: After that, What do you think, Mr? Do you think
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  Speaker 1: he got naked? Um? Actually, if somebody proposed to me
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  Speaker 1: and put a ring on my finger, the first thing
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna want to do is put on my clothes,
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  Speaker 1: get my makeup done, and shoot the pictures. So I
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  Speaker 1: think she did that first and then they got busy.
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  Speaker 1: She he was like, you want me to get in
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  Speaker 1: that tub? She's like, oh no, baby, I gotta take
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  Speaker 1: to social media. She did take to social media in
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  Speaker 1: the tub. There's a picture of her and the ring
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  Speaker 1: in the tub. Jayla, don't forget to vote on days, Poul.
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  Speaker 1: to hear your results. And now it's time for our nicest. Well,
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  Speaker 1: our nicest of the day is Queer Eyes Karamo because
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: he's getting his own daytime talk show so he is
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  Speaker 1: already an Emmy nominated host for Queer I, but this
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: has been on his bucket list to host his own show.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to be named after himself title. It's gonna
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  Speaker 1: premiere this fall. It's already clear nine of us households
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  Speaker 1: for syndication, so you know he's getting He's gonna have
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: a pretty good audience there. And he said, growing up,
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: hosting a daytime talk show seemed unrealistic and unattainable, but
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  Speaker 1: it was my dream. I used to run home for
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: school as a kid to watch people like Sally Donna
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  Speaker 1: Hugh and Mari Povich. He actually did a couple of
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: shows hosting Mariy, just kind of filling in, and this
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  Speaker 1: will be a great He's he's working with some really
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  Speaker 1: good production teams. They also put out Judge Jerry, that
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  Speaker 1: a Springer Show, and the Steve Wilkos Show, so he's
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  Speaker 1: working with some heavy hitters here. So it's just coming
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  Speaker 1: full circle from him from kids two kid dreams to
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  Speaker 1: grown up dreams. Congratulations, Congratulations. Now I'm nought Yester the
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  Speaker 1: day nor Nor nor Nor No Chris Rocks brother Kenny
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  Speaker 1: is saying that he wants to fight Will Smith. So
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  Speaker 1: several of Chris Rock's brothers have spoken out about that situation.
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  Speaker 1: The latest one is saying he would love to challenge
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  Speaker 1: Will Smith to a fight. Talking to TMZ, Kenny revealed
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  Speaker 1: that he is that he has recently signed up to
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  Speaker 1: do a celebrity boxing match. Who does he want to fight?
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  Speaker 1: Will Smith? Kenny, this is not helping your brother. Chris
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  Speaker 1: doesn't want to talk about this, and I'm guessing MD
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  Speaker 1: he would rather you didn't to stop talking about it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think the brothers are doing it awful publicity,
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  Speaker 1: although the fact he has a celebrity boxing match coming
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  Speaker 1: up makes me sort of question it. I think they
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  Speaker 1: love him, and if somebody hit my brother I was
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  Speaker 1: certainly would be very angry and have a lot to
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  Speaker 1: say about it. But this is not helping your naughtiest
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  Speaker 1: of the day, Norty, norty, norty, naughty. Hey, before we go,
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  Speaker 1: let's have a moment of wrong. You're gonna rom you
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  Speaker 1: got wrong wrong. I realize the only reason people attack
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  Speaker 1: is because they are in pay and they can't show
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  Speaker 1: kindness to others because they can't show kindness to themselves.
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  Speaker 1: So the next time somebody is cruel to you. Remember
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  Speaker 1: that that cruel comment. It's not about you, it's about them, Misty.
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  Speaker 1: It took me a really long time to figure this out,
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  Speaker 1: but now I have, and I realized the only reason
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  Speaker 1: people attack it is because they are in pain. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I have to agree. I had a had a some
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  Speaker 1: discourse with a friend and she may a comment about
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  Speaker 1: my mom uh and uh. But I realized that she
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  Speaker 1: doesn't have the same type of relationship with her mom,
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  Speaker 1: and I think it was coming more out of the
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  Speaker 1: fact that she was, you know, sad that she doesn't
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  Speaker 1: have that relationship. And I could have said something incredibly
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  Speaker 1: mean back, but I chose to hold my tongue because
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  Speaker 1: I realized I didn't really mean that. I wouldn't have
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  Speaker 1: meant it. I would have just been saying it out
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  Speaker 1: of anger. And once I was able to kind of
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  Speaker 1: put that pain in place and we had a conversation afterwards,
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  Speaker 1: I knew that's where it was coming from, and that's
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  Speaker 1: what she admitted. So UM just realized that when people
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  Speaker 1: say mean things to you, it's because something in their
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  Speaker 1: heart is wrong. And you, if you're calm enough in
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  Speaker 1: this situation and it's and you feel you can say
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  Speaker 1: it you could be like, hey, what's going on with you?
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  Speaker 1: They say it to tear you down, to build themselves up,
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  Speaker 1: and it never works. They just feel even worse. And
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  Speaker 1: so I don't fight back now, not because I'm not tough,
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  Speaker 1: it's because it's not about me. Wouldn't you realize that
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  Speaker 1: cruel comment is not about you. It's easy to just
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  Speaker 1: walk away from it. It's not it's not that neut
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  Speaker 1: about you. You're in so much pain and you can't
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  Speaker 1: be kind to yourself, so how can you be kind
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  Speaker 1: to anybody else? My superpower in life is empathy. I
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  Speaker 1: do really feel it. I don't get angry, I get empathetic. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's it for this week. What a lovely way to
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  Speaker 1: end the week. Mister, thank you for jumping in at
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  Speaker 1: the last minute, and thank you for listening. So They're
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