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Singspeak with Natascha Bennez · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio. That's right, we're back once again to
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  Speaker 1: the almost in his podcast, UM, Ashley and I have
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  Speaker 1: spoken all week about a plethora of topics, uh, mostly
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  Speaker 1: relating around other people's dating lives. Um, we've talked about
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  Speaker 1: listen to your heart. And Ashley and I are here
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  Speaker 1: again another week of self isolation, both remote, so please
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  Speaker 1: give us little grace there uh in our own homes, UM,
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  Speaker 1: to talk about everything going on a bachelor nation and
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  Speaker 1: also just to share with you, uh some common feelings
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  Speaker 1: and emotions that everybody's experiencing during isolation. What's up? Ash? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: not much uh sitting here talking to you. Ben. Do
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  Speaker 1: you know that I've always been the most awkward responding
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  Speaker 1: to the question what's up? Is anybody really good at
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  Speaker 1: responding to that? Because every time I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just here talking to you? Yeah, okay, so here let
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  Speaker 1: me try this then? Because I was encouraged this week, UM,
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  Speaker 1: because I have felt a little disconnected from people. That's
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  Speaker 1: my own personal thing, and somebody encouraged me to stop
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  Speaker 1: asking the question, Hey, how are you doing or what's up?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, what's alternative? Like, and they said,
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  Speaker 1: start asking a question that enters into their life. And so,
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  Speaker 1: for example, if you walk up to a clerk at
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  Speaker 1: the grocery store, instead of saying hey, how you doing,
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  Speaker 1: say hey, tell me why you walk through these doors
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  Speaker 1: and applied for this job? And like that's intimidating, is it?
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  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna ask you this. Actually, We're gonna start
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  Speaker 1: at the beginning again, I'm gonna say this, Actually, why
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  Speaker 1: did you say yes to being a co host of mine?
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  Speaker 1: And also, I guess we we decided the same time,
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  Speaker 1: So why did you say yes to doing the almost
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  Speaker 1: famous podcast three years ago? Well? UM executive producer Amy
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  Speaker 1: Sugarman was a friend of mine for like at least
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  Speaker 1: a year and a half leading up to her asking
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  Speaker 1: me that question. And what was really crazy is that
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  Speaker 1: she started really mulling the idea over when she invited
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  Speaker 1: me to lunch with David Spade at the Beverly Hills Hotel.
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  Speaker 1: It was three of us, and I was like, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think this lady would be great to work with.
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  Speaker 1: And Ben is just like the master smooth man of
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  Speaker 1: the franchise. He's like probably the most respected character there is,
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  Speaker 1: So of course I'd love to do anything with him.
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  Speaker 1: It's wild, ash I mean, how along I think we're
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  Speaker 1: going on our what third year and third yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so we've completed three years as of May. We got
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  Speaker 1: to get account producer tor is on the line right now, Tory,
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  Speaker 1: as we're on the podcast, can you get a rough
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  Speaker 1: estimate of how many listens we've had in the three years,
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  Speaker 1: like in total? If you can buy them all? Um,
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  Speaker 1: I would just love to celebrate this with the almost
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  Speaker 1: famous family. It feels like a good time to be celebrating.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't we have six or seven million when we celebrated
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  Speaker 1: the second anniversary? So I would I would talk like
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  Speaker 1: maybe three or four million more onto that. That's pretty insane.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, that'd be insane. But I bet Torria, we'll
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  Speaker 1: come back to us with af you like numbers. I
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  Speaker 1: want to see if we're shocked or not, because obviously
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  Speaker 1: due to isolation, like our numbers are up. Um you
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  Speaker 1: know what what's not up? Though, Ashley, and I think
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  Speaker 1: you and I both need it right now, especially me.
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  Speaker 1: Um well, I would I want to hear reviews and
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  Speaker 1: see reviews on iTunes. So if you can and you're
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  Speaker 1: listening and you enjoy the podcast. Uh you know what,
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  Speaker 1: We're all in a weird place right now, I think,
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  Speaker 1: and we're all I mean maybe maybe I'm just speaking
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  Speaker 1: for myself, but I just think I'm feeling really disconnected
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  Speaker 1: and kind of like somewhat uh more emotional than ever.
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  Speaker 1: I think Ashley and I would really enjoy and appreciate
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  Speaker 1: if you love the podcast or if you hate it,
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  Speaker 1: I guess, go on and review and comment on on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast on iTunes wherever you listen to it. It It
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  Speaker 1: would mean a lot to me at least, and Ashually,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it mean a lot to you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I love I love to find out what
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  Speaker 1: the fans are thinking. And I'm thinking, what if we
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  Speaker 1: did something where we did like a live podcast on
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  Speaker 1: Zoom and then people could watch and then we could
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  Speaker 1: connect to them on a live feed throughout it Wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: that be interesting so that we can get questions from
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  Speaker 1: them live based on whatever we were talking about in
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  Speaker 1: the moment. That would be really awesome. Ash that's a
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  Speaker 1: great idea. Let's do it. So if that's let's just say,
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  Speaker 1: if that's a good idea, how about you comment on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast on iTunes rate us. We would appreciate. But
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  Speaker 1: then also, yeah, we love the zoom with you. We
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  Speaker 1: just did that the other night with Cameo. You and
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  Speaker 1: I were in the same team. So if we did
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  Speaker 1: it with Cameo and they figured it out where we
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  Speaker 1: could get like I think they said they had over
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  Speaker 1: a thousand viewers and that we should be able to
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  Speaker 1: do it for the podcast, would be really awesome. I
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  Speaker 1: think it would be so fun, uh, to be live
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  Speaker 1: just chatting talking. I mean, I'm gonna have a mustache.
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  Speaker 1: I do have one right now. But yeah, so that's
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  Speaker 1: some big news and batination. Ashley and I participated in
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  Speaker 1: a Cameo trivia night. Ashley, Jared and I took on
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  Speaker 1: J Jason, John, Paul Jones, UH, Peter Webber, Kelly and
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  Speaker 1: UH and Dustin and Dustin and Uh. Ashley, Jared and
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  Speaker 1: I just smacked them, I mean just destroyed them. If
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  Speaker 1: you're wondering why their team had so many more players,
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  Speaker 1: it's because we just didn't need any more support them.
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  Speaker 1: We did. It was it was ugly, but hey, it
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  Speaker 1: was a lot of fun. Ashley. Let's take a break here.
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  Speaker 1: We have a big show coming up. We have Jamie
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  Speaker 1: from Listen to Your Heart Uh, we also have kindall
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  Speaker 1: coming on to talk about her most recent updates in life.
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  Speaker 1: I think, uh, listeners are gonna be really excited here
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  Speaker 1: if she's dating again. Yeah. You know, the last time
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  Speaker 1: I heard, she said that her sister was her soul
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  Speaker 1: mate and she felt, like anyone that her her future
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  Speaker 1: will always revolve around her sister first and foremost, which
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  Speaker 1: I actually get it, don't. Yeah, you're an only child,
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  Speaker 1: so you don't get it. But like when my sister
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  Speaker 1: is gone, I miss her a lot, and I when
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking to Lauren, it's different than when I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: to Jared. Lauren gets me without me having to explain
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  Speaker 1: myself or my feelings very much. It's just something that
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  Speaker 1: like this, this really weird sibling connection that you have.
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  Speaker 1: Now Jared understands me, but I have to explain myself
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  Speaker 1: more than I am with Lauren. Wow, I've never thought
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  Speaker 1: about this initially. I'll be honest when I when you
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  Speaker 1: just said that comment, I was like, oh, that's a
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  Speaker 1: little weird, right, And then I can't relate, so I
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  Speaker 1: can't comment, and you're saying you get it, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I have to think. I think I feel the
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  Speaker 1: same way I feel like my sister is my soulmate,
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  Speaker 1: and Jared's like my partnering. I only even think that
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  Speaker 1: he'd be annoyed by me saying that he would probably
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  Speaker 1: get it. Huh, I think gets that so interesting. I've
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  Speaker 1: never thought about it, but obviously I could never think
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  Speaker 1: about it. It's not something I've ever felt. Yeah, that's sad.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, that's a whole other thing we'll talk about
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  Speaker 1: when we do an in depth Ben Higgins podcast. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot down here. Actually, I'm actually, I'm actually
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I'll say, because I always want to
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  Speaker 1: do this, but I'm back in therapy. I've been in
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  Speaker 1: therapy for the last like two months, and it's been
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  Speaker 1: a really healthy thing for me. But I've never shied
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  Speaker 1: away from the fact that I've gone to therapy in
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  Speaker 1: my life to talk through stuff. Yeah. I think that's
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  Speaker 1: very important to be open about because therefore it encourages
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  Speaker 1: other people to go to therapy because they're like, oh man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not alone. Even Ben is open about going to therapy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and then maybe, I mean that's why I said it
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  Speaker 1: is because, like I don't, I feel more prepared than
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  Speaker 1: ever doing an in depth at some point because everything's
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  Speaker 1: out there. At this point, I'm about as open as
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  Speaker 1: can be. Hey, actually, we do have to get to
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  Speaker 1: batch returning topics, so let's take a break. We'll come
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  Speaker 1: back and catch everybody up on what's going on in
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation. So we're back with Bachelor trending topics. Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say the headline, Uh, you can do
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  Speaker 1: you feel comfortable explaining of course. Okay, here we go.
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  Speaker 1: Fans found evidence Chris Souls and Victoria Fuller are staying
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  Speaker 1: together based on couch pillows. You're gonna say, couch potato.
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  Speaker 1: What a headline? Yeah, so this is really interesting. She
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  Speaker 1: was um doing a Instagram live with a couple of
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  Speaker 1: the girls from her season, and people saw the couch
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  Speaker 1: and the pillows looked exactly like the couch and the
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  Speaker 1: pillows looked in a recent Instagram post from Chris Souls
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  Speaker 1: in which he said, Oh feels so good to be home,
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  Speaker 1: and then um, so that was like sleuthor's first clue.
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  Speaker 1: But then reality Steve came out and said that they
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  Speaker 1: were like officially like you. There was like confirmation somehow
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  Speaker 1: that they were together. So speculation is that one of
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  Speaker 1: the girls that was on the phone call with Victoria
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  Speaker 1: tipped off Reality Steve to like, really nail the head
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  Speaker 1: in the coffin there. That is one of the wildest
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  Speaker 1: things I've ever heard. Like, how crazy that couch pillows? Now, hey,
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  Speaker 1: kudos to you. I'm not calling you crazy, but crazy
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  Speaker 1: good investigation. Like that is Ashley i Conetti style investigation.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that is like, don't with caps style investigation. Did
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  Speaker 1: you watch that? I haven't? I am a little No, no no, no,
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  Speaker 1: it's so good. You have to watch that. That's the
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  Speaker 1: kind of thing they like took one piece of furniture
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  Speaker 1: in the room and they would figure out what country
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  Speaker 1: that furniture was made in and where it's sold. And
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  Speaker 1: they figured out so much just based on furniture in
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  Speaker 1: a room. So props to you Bachelor saluthors out there
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  Speaker 1: for the tea this week. That is so crazy. Good
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  Speaker 1: for them. Well that is the headline. The next headline
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  Speaker 1: that we're reading his Bachelor Paradise. Jenna Cooper feels vindicated
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  Speaker 1: after being cleared in Jordan's Kimball scandal. Yeah, so remember
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  Speaker 1: last week or last year when the whole Jenna Jenna
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  Speaker 1: has a sugar Daddy controversy came out, and then quickly
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  Speaker 1: after that came out and there was a whole bunch
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  Speaker 1: of screenshots that were again posted on reality Reality Steve site,
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  Speaker 1: um Jordan Dumpter, and it was just so splashy because
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that those screenshots were revealed the same
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  Speaker 1: day as like their engagement aired or something like that,
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  Speaker 1: or that they had a live show to tape together.
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  Speaker 1: So basically all of Bachelination felt that Jenna was this cheater,
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  Speaker 1: a girl who was relying on a sugar daddy, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just not loyal to Jordan's And then we joked kind
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  Speaker 1: of on this podcast about the fact that she had
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  Speaker 1: hired lawyers and forensic investigators to go through her computer
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  Speaker 1: and her phone. Um, and while the results came back
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  Speaker 1: and the investigators, I guess I've gone through like all
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  Speaker 1: like the backlog, whatever, whatever evidence you can get through,
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  Speaker 1: like if a text message is actually sent versus like
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  Speaker 1: whether a screenshot was manipulated to make it look like
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  Speaker 1: texts were sent, and she is an innocent woman. So
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  Speaker 1: they found that no texts were exchanged between Jenna and anyone. Sketchy,
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  Speaker 1: what does this mean for Jordan Kimbledon, Well, Jordan's Jenna
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  Speaker 1: says in her interview with Reality Steve in which he
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  Speaker 1: apologizes for basically ruining her life, that she thinks that
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  Speaker 1: Jordan's possibly could have been in on creating the controversy
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  Speaker 1: because he said something along the line of publicly, I
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  Speaker 1: can't defend you, but privately I could be a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more on your side. Uh, I mean they think,
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  Speaker 1: do you think that he manipulated I'm starting to think
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  Speaker 1: that possibly he was in on it all. Well, now
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  Speaker 1: it just so confused. Well, yeah, I remember back in
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  Speaker 1: the day, you and I both kind of jumped to oh,
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  Speaker 1: this is for publicity. I mean maybe I did. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna say I jumped to it. This is for publicity,
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  Speaker 1: that was my response, because it's not unheard of in
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  Speaker 1: the bachelor world. To be in the public for a
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  Speaker 1: headline like that isn't uncommon, so it would it wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have been an outrageous thought. And now I'm going this
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  Speaker 1: gets really confusing. So if if Jinnah is completely clear,
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  Speaker 1: um and just completely you know above reproach here, then
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  Speaker 1: somebody is to blame, right, I mean, there has to
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  Speaker 1: be somebody that manipulated the text, and there's somebody, um
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  Speaker 1: that lad us to a false narrative. And I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's Jordan or whoever would be.
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  Speaker 1: But this is the part that is is sad, is like,
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  Speaker 1: this is a big deal for Jinna. It's a year
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  Speaker 1: of her life now that she spent spent trying to
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  Speaker 1: prove herself innocent, and it's had to have like drained
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  Speaker 1: on her. She has to be tired. Oh yeah, Um,
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  Speaker 1: she feels really liberated right now that the truth is
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  Speaker 1: out there. And you know, maybe it all happens for
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  Speaker 1: a reason because now she's been with a boyfriend for
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  Speaker 1: the past year and a half and she's pregnant with
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  Speaker 1: her first child. But you don't it doesn't make you
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  Speaker 1: think who would be out to get her so much
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  Speaker 1: that they would create these these public rumors and it
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  Speaker 1: would lead to the dissolving the you know, demise of
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  Speaker 1: a engagement. I have zero idea, and I wonder she
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  Speaker 1: has any clues. I wonder if we can get her
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast at some point, so we definitely have to. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that'd be good. I'd like to to find out because
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  Speaker 1: if not, we're just speculating. But hey, good for Jinna,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm glad the truth is out there. We've said
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  Speaker 1: it before. The truth is the truth is the true.
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  Speaker 1: So next headline is Caitlin Bristow Sin's love to ex
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  Speaker 1: fiance Sean Booth after his dog Tucker dies. Important caveat
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  Speaker 1: here is that my buddy, your friend, a Bachelor Nation favorite,
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  Speaker 1: Sean Booth uh did lose his his dog, Tucker, who
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  Speaker 1: I spent many of nights talking about during our time
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  Speaker 1: on the Bachelorette. Ashley tell us about this. M hmm,
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  Speaker 1: there's not much to say in the fact that we're
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  Speaker 1: all very sad about Tucker doodle dying. Um Uh. I
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  Speaker 1: had a quite a sob fest. I felt like I
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  Speaker 1: knew that dog, you know through Instagram. I never met him.
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  Speaker 1: You had you ever met him? I have never met Tucker,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm not kidding, Ashley. During the Bachelorette, Sean and
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  Speaker 1: I would share a room and he would lay in
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  Speaker 1: his bed and he would tell me about Tucker. And
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  Speaker 1: one of the first texts I sent him after I
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  Speaker 1: found out him and Caitlin were engaged and I congratulated
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  Speaker 1: him was how happy was Tucker? I I remember this
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  Speaker 1: when he saw you again? Like the Sean talk to
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  Speaker 1: like about Tucker like it was his his brother, his friend,
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  Speaker 1: like a human being. Yeah, I know. And then I remember,
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  Speaker 1: you know, when Caitlin and Sean were good, her talking
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  Speaker 1: about Tucker and her just being so enamored with the
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  Speaker 1: dog's soul, and she said, you know, I think this
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  Speaker 1: is like when he the dog was eight and passed
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  Speaker 1: away at eleven. And she was like, I know he's eight,
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  Speaker 1: and I know he has a couple of good years
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  Speaker 1: in them, but like, I still will start to cry
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  Speaker 1: today just thinking about that dog passing away. He was
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  Speaker 1: a special a special creation. And uh, it's it's it's
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  Speaker 1: sad actually that that Actually my mom, who um is
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  Speaker 1: not up on a lot of the Bachelor news all
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  Speaker 1: the time, she came downstairs and said, hey, Ben, I yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Sean boost dog has passed, and she told me the same.
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  Speaker 1: She was crushed. Like it feels like Sean not only
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  Speaker 1: did a great job highlighting that dog, but that dog
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  Speaker 1: just was an incredible an incredible character and always was
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  Speaker 1: bringing entertainment to Sean's life. So our thoughts with Sean,
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  Speaker 1: especially during this time, and Hey, Tucker, you're awesome. I
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  Speaker 1: was gonna say, you had a dog when you were younger,
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  Speaker 1: and you haven't been able to have a dog ever
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  Speaker 1: since because your connection with that dog and my Lucy
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  Speaker 1: passed away four years ago. And I think everybody has
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  Speaker 1: like that one dog in her life, Like you love
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  Speaker 1: all your dogs, but I think there's like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: there's one that will just always be like your best friend. Um.
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  Speaker 1: And it was a week ago that it was the
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  Speaker 1: four year anniversary of Lucy, and I just like cried
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  Speaker 1: all day long. It's just so crazy. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: I know exactly what he's going through right now. But
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  Speaker 1: I want to talk about your dog just because, like you,
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  Speaker 1: you don't really even bring up dogs very much because
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  Speaker 1: you say that you were so scarred by the passing
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  Speaker 1: of that dog. Yeah, I mean Zoe. Uh, she's a
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  Speaker 1: black lab. Um like it. It's true, it's weird. I
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  Speaker 1: think as my grandma, uh maybe got me this gift
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  Speaker 1: where it's a black lab and it has Zoe's collar
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  Speaker 1: on the black lab like stuff doll, which is a
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  Speaker 1: little weird, I think, but but like, let's if we
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  Speaker 1: can forget that it's weird. I found it in my
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  Speaker 1: closet about a year ago in my parents house, and
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  Speaker 1: I started crying again, Like, um, I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: it is, and maybe only children could write in and
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  Speaker 1: like tell me if I'm crazy or not. But maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's just an everybody thing. But because I was an
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  Speaker 1: only child and because Zoe came into my life, she
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  Speaker 1: was like a sibling to me, and when I lost her, Um,
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  Speaker 1: I cannot imagine losing like like, I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: I could sign myself up for like every ten or
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  Speaker 1: fifteen years, losing something I love so much, Like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I can put myself through that. Again,
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  Speaker 1: isn't it crazy? When looking at all the Tucker coverage
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  Speaker 1: because man if Tucker only knew how famous he was
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  Speaker 1: going to be, Like, you know, um, I was thinking.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about um, just you know, dogs and
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: how it's just so unfair that they live for, you know,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: fifteen years at the max. You know, that's you know,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: the average max age pretty much, and it's just unfair, Like,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be amazing if they live a human lifespan. I
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: think we would all love that, ash, I think a
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: lot of people would. Uh, well, hey Tucker, you're awesome, Sean.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Our thoughts are with you, Caitlin, great job reaching out
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: to Sean during this time. Uh. Next, headline is Tyler
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: Cameron just unfollowed Jed Wyatt following their Twitter beef, So
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: basically I wouldn't call it a huge Twitter beef. I
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: think that is a headline trying to get some clicks.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: But Tyler Kavan did tweet a lot last week during
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Listen to Your Heart, and I'll go through the tweets
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: real quick. First, he said they should give Jed a
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: producer credit because he's definitely the creative idea for this show. Um, okay, yeah,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I could agree there a little bit. Um. Another one
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: is we've seen this whole seen how this whole look
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: turns out already. He's referring to, you know, Trevor seeming
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: like a cheater with like a girlfriend and he screwed
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: over at home. And then he said, Jamie obviously didn't
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: watch the bachelorrette and doesn't understand what comes with that
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: jacket because in the shot, Trevor is wearing a jacket
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: that we have seen on Jed before, or at least
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: the jacket very similar to it, So you know, he's
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: busting his chops for sure. He obviously isn't a close
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: friend of Jed's. And then Jed responds, which is where
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: they allude to the beef with that Zach Galafanakis in
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: the middle of the woods, turning around slowly and nodding gift.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like, yes, I see you. It's
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: like I get it. Thanks. Thanks. First Off, how does
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Tyler remember the jacket that Jed was wearing? Well, I
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: mean he was on his season with him, and he
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: did wear a jacket. This a lot. Come on, you
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: don't think about Nick and his Jeane jacket and Nick
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: always wore a gene. That's a good point. Yeah, that's
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: a good point. Ye're right now, you're right. Um well,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: uh so it's not like a beef as much as
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: just like, hey, they're not friends or like that doesn't
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: seem like they're gonna be hanging out anytime soon. Yeah,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: and then Tyler unfollowed him on Instagram and then Jed
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: went and did the same. It's like, okay, it seems
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: like a healthy breakup. Feels good. Uh. Final headline of
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: the week is Hannah Brown says she's actually no sorry,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: there's two more Hannah. Yeah. Okay, So Bachelor fans are
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: legit venmowing Tyler Cameron money to buy Hannah Brown an
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: engagement ring. Where were you at about a month ago,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation? Come on now, yeah, you guys, stop benmoing Tyler. Okay,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I think he is set. If you really wanted to
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: buy Haley Hannah an engagement ring, it's really funny. There's
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: a screenshot of all of the venmost coming his way.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: One says, my generous contribution to Hannah Brown's engagement ring.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I hope it's not too much. Get her something nice now.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I don't see how much this girl sent over, but
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I'm a little bit alarmed. Um. Somebody said thank you
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: for entertaining us during quarantine. Um. Another says a little
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: something to add to the ring fund to get her
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: something sparkle. And another one says, I know engagement rings
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: are expensive, so I thought i'd help you out for
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: miss Hannah Brown. Ashley. Do you know where this is
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: coming from? Like did he put it on Instagram or
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: something like hey you can vin a money money, or
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: like did just just come out of nowhere? No, this
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: is coming out of nowhere. Now. I wonder if a
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: whole bunch of fans got together on a message board
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: and said, like, wouldn't it be funny if we started
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: doing this because it would be bizarre if so many
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: people independently came up with this idea so wild. Well, Goodford, Tyler,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: I guess he's got a little extra cash because he's
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: not buying an engagement room anytime soon. Because Hannah Brown
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: says she's single after a month long quarantine with Tyler Cameron. Well,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: and there's not much more to that article. She says
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: that she would be thinking a couple of years ago,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: at the age of she'd be married and planning to
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: have kids right now, but that's not where she wants
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: to be in life, and that she's single, so there's
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: nobody who could make that child with her anyway. Okay, well,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: there we go. Hannah Brown's single. Tyler Cameron's getting I
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: guess now at this point free money to his venmo,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: And I mean, I'm sure he's not collecting the money.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: He's probably sending it right back. And if not, you know, Tyler,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: it's a great uh chunk of money to just donate
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: to anybody. Indeed, right now, all right, guys, let's do
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: a quick recap of this Listen to Your Heart episode
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: starts out with eight men and eight women, so of
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: course people need to walk into to mix things up.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Chris Harrison walks in at the top of the show
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: with a date card and this goes to Jamie. Man,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: this girl is getting so much airtime. It says, grab
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: your guitar, grab your guy, and go make some music.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: So of course she's bringing Trevor. As you guys know
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: if you listen to the episode last week, I strongly
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: think she's making a mistake choosing Trevor overran, but whatever
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: is her prerogative. So Trevor and Jamie are walking to
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: the Venice boardwalk where they're going to be you know,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: street performers. They choose to sing girl Crash, which is
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: a great song. She's nervous. Trevor is just so smooth.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: He lets her pick the songs, trying to get her comfortable,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: and um, they kind of crush it out when they're singing.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: But I I still think that he has like the
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: most mediacre voice ever. She sounds great, but he sounds
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: like you're average guy singing in a bar. You agree
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: with me, Ben, well, then how like k yes, but
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: just saying that I agree with you. But here's the thing,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I am the worst at judging musical talent. I watched
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: these voices and American Idols and I and I watched
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: him and I listen to your Heart, and I go, oh,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: that person is a great singer, and then they always
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: get kicked off the show, or hey, that person is
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: a bad singer and he they here she wins the
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: like contest. I don't know who's good and who's bad
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: anymore because I'm so bad, Ashley. How does he get
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: such praise from American Idol if he's not a I guess,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: a good singer. I guess I don't remember. I mean,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: should we see how far we got on American Idol?
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I think we should. Yeah, let's look it up, okay,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Trevor American Idols, Yeah, listen to your heart. Um, he
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: made it to the top t American Idol, which it
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: seems about right because with American IDOK, they're going to
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: take into certain things and can duration his personality charm um,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: and then his appearance, like that sex appeal that he's
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: got going on, that's definitely top twenty four worthy. But
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: then you know, once the live shows start and it's
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: up to the American vote, oftentimes guys like that, you're like, oh,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: they're a dime a dozen flash in the pan type thing,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: so that's when you start weeding them out. So I
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: think that makes sense him being here and listen to
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: your heart and providing more of like the sex symbol character. Well,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: that's not all we know about Trevor, though. There's like
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: these Bachelor esque storylines going on behind the scenes of
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: each one of these dates. There's a lot of what
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: behamersnes like Bachelor esque storylines, Like all of a sudden,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: we have a Trevor and Jamie on a date. They're singing,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: and now we find out that Trevor, oh totally you know,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: has an X back home that he supposedly did not
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: treat well. And now we have this story and for
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: the first time during the season, we're starting to see
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: that drama will actually happen on this show. Right. I
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: don't think it'll ever get as dramatic as The Bachelor.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be like Bachelor when her games,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: where it was more relationship focused. But I do think
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: that with the Tasha coming in, a thirty three year
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: old from the East Coast, we're gonna have later on
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: the show who's looking for something serious, a husband or
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: a baby daddy. We do see um kind of like
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: a drama bomb dropped right. That girl shows up and
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: she's not somebody who could be overlooked. She is very
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: commanding and just her appearance sort of says dramas here.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying I'm not being judge you when
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: I say that that's just how she carries herself. Yeah,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I mean I think why when she walked in, I
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: think the whole house went, oh, like, this is either
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: our our best friend or like, are like I think
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: the guys like, I think we gotta ask her. We'll
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: have her on here later in the podcast, But like,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: what was the take from the guys when she walked
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: in or the people like, were they taken back the guy?
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: They were Yeah, I feel like the guys were like whoa, um,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: powerhouse um and then somebody super womanly right, and then
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: the girls I think felt a little intimidated. She did
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: become friendly with the girls though quickly when she started
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: to say that you know Trevor has she's friends with
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Trevor's eggs, he didn't treat her right, and that she
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: was standing up for Jamie. She definitely seemed like a
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: girl who's looking out for the other girls. So I
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: don't even think she was like she wasn't trying to
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: get with anyones man, She's just kind of like a
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: good girls girl. I've been interested how quickly the contestants
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: on this show have kind of been interested in bringing
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: up the drama, like they're actually for being the first
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: week of a show whatever. It is, Like they're all
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: pretty engaged in each other's storylines and engaged in like
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: discussing some really hard topics like somebody cheating, who's loving who,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: who's in who, and I'm into that person too, Like
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: drama has happened very quickly. They're very open with each other.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: And I'm thinking that maybe that's because there's a group
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: of guys and girls together, um where we're used to
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: that in Paradise, after we've already been kind of jaded
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: to the process, the experience, and so we kind of
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: know to look out for drama. But these people are
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: very trusting of one another, like they're like, hey, I'm
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: into him. It's like, oh, I'm into him too, Whereas
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: in Paradise, I remember being asked, who are you into,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not telling anyone because then
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: people are going to go after him. And then like,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I have to worry about other girls, right, Alright? So
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: anyway back to Jamie and Trevor's day there on the
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Venice boardwalk, and then they go into jacuzzi, Or opens
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: up about his ex girlfriend and why it didn't work out.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: He never mentions that he emotionally cheated on her after
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: two and a half years, which is what's being talked
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: about back at the house with Natasha, and we'll get
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: more that storyline later. So I actually want to pause
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: you there. Should he have brought it up? So I
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: don't think it's right what he did. But I'm wondering,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: if you're on a first date with somebody, is it
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: expected within that first day that you tell them, Hey,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: in the past, I've made a mistake. Yeah, probably not.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: It's a great question because I feel like on reality
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: TV you're totally villainized if you're not super honest upfront.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: But you're right, that's not normal date conversation, and it
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily mean that he wouldn't have come out with
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: it eventually. Yeah, I mean, I think the problem lies
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: and we'll see it later on. We'll talk about it.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: But when Natasha confronts him, he starts to you know,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: stutter and I have the clear words and he doesn't
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: own up to it. But yeah, on a first date, like,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: I'm not sharing that much about my like dating life.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get to know the person. Yeah, great,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: great points. So the next day we see is between
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Brie and Chris, and now I really feel like Brie
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: and Chris have a strong relationship. They're really falling in
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: love with each other, and I'm buying it. However, felt
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: the state was a little bit awkward. Um. They went
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: to the Guitar Center on Sunset, which is a pretty
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: big deal for musicians, and she talks about her past relationship,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: how it was. It was an engagement that ended a
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: year ago and it was so sad to hear how
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: this guy broke up with her. She calls him and says,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I found my wedding dress while shopping for a wedding
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: dress with her mom, Like, I found the one, and
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: he says, don't buy the dress. It was heart wrenching. Yeah,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: it just hurts, like I am in a position right
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: now that can relate that would hurt right ash, Like
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: that would be the worst possible timing. Oh the worst.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: So she confides in Chris, confides in Chris about all that,
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: and then she talks about how she feels like she
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: has difficulty expressing her emotions when she's not doing it
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: in song. Some they kind of like sing to each
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: other sing speak about how they're feeling about each other.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: And I think that was a little cringe e. I
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: know producer Tori has some thoughts about this. Tori, you
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: want to jump in and tell us for Chris and breathe, man,
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: can we just talk about their rifts that they created
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: their own song where it was like saying, yeah, yeah,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: then you give me the rose and he was like
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I said yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes, and it
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: was all over the place. It was so awkward. And
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: then like two or two seconds after, she goes, I'm
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: falling in love with you. Okay, So I bought that
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: they were falling in love with each other. I think
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: that's totally fine. I just felt like the sing songy
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: back and forth trying to express what they've been through
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: together so far in song lyrics like rifting was just acky.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I think it was all a little bit too much
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: for me on my end because I was like, oh,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: if we're trying to figure out if musical connection is important.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: I don't feel that connection from them. But then now
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: they're saying they're falling in love with each other. So
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: here's a scenario for later on the season. What if
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: they have amazing chemistry romantically, but they don't have any
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: musical chemistry. How does that? How does that work? I
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: completely pressing, I completely agree. I don't understand how it's
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: supposed to work, because, yeah, like I don't know if
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: it's supposed to be okay with them not singing well
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: together and just that's cute and daring, or if that's
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: because all these people are saying I've never had anybody
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: write a song about me, and I've never had um
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: somebody sing a song with me and feel that connection.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, am I supposed to feel a connection
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: every time you guys sing? Or is it okay that
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I don't you guys are in love with each other.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just don't know where my heart
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: is right now on that, Yeah, be honest. Yeah, And
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: I told Ryan this last week. Any time, I mean,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: there's been one moment, one moment other than okay, let's
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: actually take that moment out, I really felt something when
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: Lady Gaga and uh Um Bradley Cooper performed together, like,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I felt something deep in my heart there, as did
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: we everybody. But there's very few, let me preface it
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: with this, very few moments in my life where two
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: people have sat down across from each other and they've
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: sing a song to each other and I felt anything
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: in that moment other than like, oh, this feels like
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't be watching. This feels super awkward. And I
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe it's because I don't have any musical talent,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: but I could never do that myself. Yeah, I have
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: to say, like there's a vulnerability to singing to each
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: other that may go beyond anything that Ben and I
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: could comprehend. I don't get it. All right, Let's move
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: on to date number three. Sheridan, who I think is
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: just the sweetest, chooses to go public with Julia Um.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: They go to the I Heart radio station, they go
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: to our station there on Valentine in the morning, and
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: they perform Bones by Mary Morris. Now. I liked this
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: performance because I think it just showed off Julia's talent, like, Wow,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: she has an amazing voice. Share it in. I don't
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: think it expressed how good he could be because it
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: seemed like he didn't know the lyrics to the song
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: and he kept looking down at a piece of paper
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: so he couldn't quite belt it. Yeah, I mean he's
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: he's a nice dude. He cares about her a lot, right, Um.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: I again, I mean, first off, really cool to see
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I heart represented there. There you go hear that was
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the little studio that we had myrt Earl Bachelor. Yeah,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: I wondered, Yeah, because because I remember, Because he said,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: like so many iconic artists have been on the stage.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, of course, actually, like Eddie's been there. Um,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: but the he seems like a nice dude. I mean again,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: actually I'm enjoying some of the show, like I'm joining
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: these storylines. I don't connect in these musical parts, Like
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I think it's a lot to do with me and
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: me not having any musical talent. But it doesn't like
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: pull at my heart as much as like a conversation
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: about life does. And I could be crazy there, but
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not connecting. Like even when they're saying I'm like
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: that's good, like she's really good and he doesn't know
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: the words great, Like I want to hear him talk interesting.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: I enjoy the musical numbers. That's fair. I mean, maybe
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: this is just me. I I just don't make I
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: think a lot of it is to do I have.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: I cannot relate at all with any musical talent. Okay,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: all right, let's get well. Well, I understand, I understand.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Back at home, Matt and Rudy. Very funny dynamic between
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: these two. Last week she chewed him out. This week
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: she comes to him, apologizes for freaking out, that she
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: feels bad about how she handled the last rows Ammoni
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: cocktail party, and then they end up making out again.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: And she is so freaking funny. She's so unfiltered, she
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: does not care what people think about her, and she's
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: all over the place emotionally. But I kind of love
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: the two of them together. And then the fourth date, damn,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: there are four dates out of the house this week
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: is Savannah. She picks Brandon, who is a hot commodity
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: in the house. Mel is really into him, as well
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: as Julia. The two of them, Savannah and Brandon go
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: to a jazz bar. I felt this date was forgettable
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: and I don't really feel anything between them, although than
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: maybe a physical attraction um. Then Sheridan and Julia are
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: back at the house. Julia is very honest to Sheridan
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: that she's um kind of torn between him and Brandon.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: And then you know, Brandon gets kissed by everyone at
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: the pre Cocked you know, pre rosermon a new cocktail party,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: and he ends up giving his rose to Savannah, and
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Julia is upset, but she of course gets her rose
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: by Sheridan, and she thinks that, you know, Brandon and
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: her just completely put But Brandon whispers for her something,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: saying that that they can now have time to explore
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: what's going on between them further, which which leaves her
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: very confused. Actually, we actually have a clip of this.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: You want to play it? Yeah, roll it when Brandon
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: will chose Savannah, I thought, okay, got it, duly noted,
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: and then Brandon hugged me and said, like, you're still
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: here and we can still figure this out. You just
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: chose Savannah literally two minutes ago, and you still want
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: to figure things out with me. So to the best
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: days of our lives and the worst nights of our lives.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: They're all part of life, and we're still alive. Is insummation.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: The rose ceremony. Roses go as follows. Chris obviously gives
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: it to Brae after their awkward but loving date. Trevor
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: chooses Jamie and their drama seems to be subsided for
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: the moment. Matt chooses Rudy and all of that craziness.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: Ryan chooses Natasha, which was probably the most one of
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: the more shocking roses. Danny chooses Becca. We know nothing
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: about them still, Brandon chooses Savannah, Gabe chooses Ruby. We
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: also don't know much about those two. And then Sheridan
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: chooses Julia, who um he's hopelessly in love with, but
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: she is not necessarily reciprocating the feelings that is UH.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: The second week episode of the Uh Bachelor. List into
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: your Heart, Ashley. We did it last week, We'll do
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: it this week. You're rating now on the whole entirety
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: of the show A to F. What are you giving it? Um?
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: I mean I'll give it a B. This week's a B.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Last week was a B plus. I'm dropping to a
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: B minus now. I'm intrigued. Still, I will be tuning in.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I will be excited to talk about it and share it.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: But I'm hoping next week Art we're just gripped like
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: we're ready for the next couple episodes. Well, those are
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: live performances, so you may be able to relate even less.
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: Corp Uh dang it. Well, hey, Ashley, we do have
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Natasha from this week's episode of Listening to Your Heart
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: coming on the Almost finst podcast. Here in just a second,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: before she does, let's take a break. We're back with
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Natasha from Listen to Your Heart. Natasha, Welcome to the
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast. Hi, Hi, I'm so excited to be
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: here you guys, I'm a big fan of this podcast.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: That's so sweet. Thank you. Natasha. So you are a
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: pop singer from New York City and you come into
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: the episode today is a big splash. We saw a
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: teaser of your entrance last week, so we knew that
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: you were going to come in and call out Trevor
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: for being a cheater. Can you tell us a little
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: bit more about your friendship with his ex Sierra? And um,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: what exactly she always alluded to him doing wrong in
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: the relationship. I mean, it wasn't like she was alluding
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: really to anything. You know, as girlfriends, we you know,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: you chat about things, and you know I was seeing
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: her on Instagram, like crying all the time. We're saying this,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, what happened? What's going on. She's like,
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: he's been cheating on me, He's been lying to me.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: I've been deceived this whole time. I mean they were
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: dating two and a half years, so it wasn't like
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: a flame that didn't work out. This was a full
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: on relationship. They were living together, she was supporting him,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: we were living together emotionally, financially, she was supporting him,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: like she really helped his career, she helped push him
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: for American Idol. Like this was a real thing. This
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: wasn't just like, Okay, we're dating and he's being silly,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: you know. And she's a woman who's she's a smart girl,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: she has a business. You know, she's she's not just
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: some like silly girl who couldn't tell the difference. You know.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: He's just so good at what he does. He's just
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: and I could see it, you know, even on the
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: show on the first episode, I was like, he's just
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: so good. You know, he's like a master manipulator, and
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: he gets them right where he wants them, and it's
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: just tough to see man observing his behavior. I am like, oh, man,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: a lot we are seeing a lot of jet in him. Um,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: he definitely comes across maybe too smooth. You know, he's
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: a musician with a guitar, who's got a great face.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: He could probably pick up a ton of girls. I mean,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: Katie Perry even talked about him being hot, and I
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: it seems as if he's he just comes across that way.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: You know a lot of guys are really great guy
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: and they still come across too smooth, and you kind
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: of need to like you're like, oh, where's your flaw?
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Where's your flaw? Right? It's like Tyler Cameron's a great example.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: So many people are like, Okay, what are you going
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: to see Tyler's flaw? I mean, we haven't really seen it.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Um never will. So do you think that Trevor Trevor,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: you know, in this episode, goes up to Jamie and
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: he's like, look, I did emotionally cheat and it's because
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: of you that he ended up having to tell her
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: that so early on? Don't you think that men have
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: to be like co coherence into actually telling the truth
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: to the girl they're dating. Like, for me, that just
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: sounds so crazy. If you're starting a relationship, aren't there
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: like certain I mean, there's a basis of how you
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: wanted to start right. Integrity, respect, communication, honesty, These are
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: all things that you look for, especially on a dating show,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: like we're here to find our one, We're here to
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: find the one, Like why are we starting off things
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: being like shady like that? For me? Just doesn't you know?
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: And this is not like like had I not shown
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: up on the show at all, this would have still
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: come out. It's not like I'm the only one who
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: knows the secret. It's all over the internet. It's all
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: over everything. And this is not just a singular girl.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: It's not just my girlfriend who I care for deeply.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: It's more it's there are tons of girls and it's
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: all over you know, it's all online. So it would
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: have come out anyway. And it's just something that because
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I was there and because I knew it before Jamie
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: knew it, basically, you know, I felt like it was
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: my duty to really tell her the truth and then
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: with that information she can do what she will with it.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: But it's like if you know that someone you care
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: for was so hurt by someone, like, wouldn't you want
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: to prevent that from happening to the next girl. You know,
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: we were all twenty one at one point where we
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: didn't maybe see things the way we do now. You know,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: there's so many red flags you're not able to see
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: when you're younger. I'm sure I've done that plenty, you know,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: but at at the age I think that we're at now,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: we're smarter, we're better, we're we're realizing, like who is
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: really here for us? Or he was here just for themselves? So,
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: you know, I just felt like it was the right
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: thing to do there. I would have hated myself had
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: I stayed quiet throughout the whole show and then later
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: on been like, hey, so guess what, you know, there's
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: this thing maybe you should know. It's too I somebody
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: that to me, I'd be like, why did you tell me? Sooner?
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: This would have helped me in so many different ways.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: You know. I just feel like the person needs to
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: know the truth, and then with that truth, they can
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: make their decisions based on that, and I would completely
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: support and respect whatever that decision would be. My mom
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: was saying, like, oh, she's thirty three, Like you can
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: tell her confidence. Yeah, I mean it comes with age,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: you know, Like I think every every time you go
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: in a relationship where you go, I've had my heart
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: broken so many times, I've been upset, I've been lied to,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: I've been cheated. There's like there's just so many things
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: you start to realize as you go on in your
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: relationships where you're like, you know what, I'm not going
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: to put up with this, and you're gonna be held
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: accountable for the citty things you've done and said or
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: have been and like everyone's made mistakes. You know, I'm
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: not saying like, how dare he has made this terrible mistake.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: What I don't like is not owning up to your
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: mistakes and not trying to be better after those mistakes
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: have been on. You know. That's what bothers me. Instead
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: of like I confront him and the first thing he says, no, no, no,
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: I didn't cheat, or no, no okay maybe a little okay, yeah,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: well I emotionally cheated. Well I did. It's like, dude,
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: I know what happened. You're like telling me is that
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's up, you know, And I'm very
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: like East Coast about that. It's like if I if
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: I say it, it's like it's because I mean it,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I'm not beating around the book about stuff. It's like,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: come on, dude, just own up to it, be a
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: man about it, and I can respect you for it.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: But the fact that he is what I'm like now,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: I still just can't get with you, because I mean
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: momentally get with you, because you know it's just not
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: adding up and that it's not cool. What I did
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: like is the fact that you you called him out
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: for it. You had the conversation, he went to have
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: the conversation with Jamie, and then you didn't really bring
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: it up again, and you're like, Okay, well now it's
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: like your thing to deal with. Yeah, well that's the point. Like,
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: that's not my goal going into this. I came into
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: the house really excited and a little nervous. You know,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: I'm the new girl in school. I don't know what
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: to expect when I get there. I'm like, Okay, everyone's
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: had a couple of days, they've all gotten to know
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: each other. I'm like the last one to find out everything.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's been going on. A roads ceremony happened.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: I got so out of the loop, and everyone's getting
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: to know each other, and I'm really behind and getting
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: to know, you know, who these guys are and building
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: connections and relationships, so that my focus was definitely not Trevor.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: It was kind of like, Okay, let me do what's right.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: Let me do what I would want a girl friend
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: to do for me, you know, defend her and really
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: make it obvious, like, Okay, this person needs to just
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: be aware of what's going on in her relationship. And
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: then all, you know, power to you if that's you
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: decide to continue with it. I respected. Everyone needs to
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: go on their own journey and have their own path,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: and I'm not like, who am I to stop that,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: you know, So as long as they have the info
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: that they need, I can move on doing whatever it
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: is I'm there for, which is to find someone and
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: to make a connection. And I, uh, yeah, that's just
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: my My mission is totally differ Natasha, did you know
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: that Trevor or any of the other castmates were going
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: to be there before you walked into the house? Um?
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: You mean like specific people who was going to be
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: in the house. Yeah, yeah, definitely, I had no clue
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: who anybody was. I walked in the front door very
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: excited and very nervous. But I found out that day
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: when we were all kind of chatting and they were
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: they were talking about like who's not there, and just
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: the name, like something had come to me. I was like, no,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: this couldn't be, Like, I mean, I don't know that
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: many Trevors who are like guitar player musicians in l A.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: You know, there's not like a trillion of them. And
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: you know, just for fun, I was like, this isn't
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: the American Idol Trevor. There might there might be a
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: trillion of them. That's why I'm glad Ben asked that
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: because I was a little curious. I was like, with
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: just the fact that he was on a singing show
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: and he lived in l A. And his name was Trevor,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: you were able to deduct that he was the Trevor
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: for our American idol. And I was like, mother Trevor.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: And I've been like, okay, but like, what are the odds?
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: It's just as crazy to me, is what are the
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: odds that I know? I thought I was going to
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: know like a potential musician there because obviously, you know,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: the music world in l A, New York is kind
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: of small. And I was like, oh, maybe it could
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: be someone that I've worked with before, someone you know
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: I played with, or I'm a bandmate or something from
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: some gig um, But it was Yeah, what was your
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: thoughts that? I mean, if you didn't know when you
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: start hearing his name and he walks through the door
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: after the date and it's time for you to confront him,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: what were your thoughts in that moment? I was just
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: thinking about my girlfriend, really, you know, like what would
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: I what would I want her to feel, how would
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like I would be doing her right? You know? Um?
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: And also just the fact that I'm like shocked that
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: he's even there in the first place, Like this isn't
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: a dude that just made one mistake with one girlfriend,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Like this is a serial issue that he's been having.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: And clearly I didn't even know half of it until
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: you know, filming was over, until I found out all
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: these other things. Oh my god, let us know the
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: other things. It's been a serial issue and physically kidd
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: before and does he always emotionally cheat? You gotta let
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: us in. I mean, you don't don't take it from me,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: just google it. You know, there are tons of girls
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: that are who wanted from nah, it from you. I mean,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: I can only say what I've been told and what
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: people have been coming to me saying. It's more like,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: there have been girls that he's been with for a
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: few months and then they feel like they're in a
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: relationship with him, and then one girl was like, yeah,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: you know, um, he was being a little funny. He's like, yeah,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: I'm going a business trip I see in a couple
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: of days, and then she finds out he's on vacation
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: with another girl, like in the middle of this relationship.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: So it's just crazy. Yeah, it's just very crazy to
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: me how people can say yeah, I'm ready to find
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: the one, like a couple of weeks later after pulling
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: something like that. You know, it just doesn't sounds like, dude,
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: come on, well we watched you in this episode, and
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: actually I'm gonna uh just ask this because for you, Um,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: but what's it like kissing Ryan? I'm a fan girl
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: about Ryan. That's why he says like that, who doesn't adorable?
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: He's adorable. You know, he goes in hard on on
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: the tongue. I don't know what he thought, because you know,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know that, not myself, Okay, but you know,
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: it's got a it's a it's a flow. The good
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: thing is is that it was instant connection. I think
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: between the two of us. Uh, when we first got
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: to talk and have some more intimate moments and our
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: first kiss was really nice. There was chemistry. I felt it.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: There was just something different about him, between me and him,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: and the words with a lot of the other guys
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: in the in the house, were you talking up until
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: the rose ceremony, because we really only see you and
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: Ryan connect during the pre rose ceremony cocktail party and
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden you're making out hardcore and
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: I'm just it was that. Was there a build up
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: to that? Yeah, I'm not a crazy how guys? Yeah? Yeah, No, definitely.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: It was a little tough in the beginning, you know,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: because I get there and then a lot of like
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: half the guys are terrified. They're like, oh God, what
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: is this girl like starting to talk, you know, two
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: people about our beloved Trevor and then and it was
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: hard to kind of start. So I was talking to
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: a few boys, you know, I was trying to get
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: to know everybody, and um, everyone was just so sweet
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: and lovely and and it it took me and Ryan
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: like a little bit. But then we had a few moments.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: We had a few moments by the fire Pim started
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: talking and he just made me feel so at ease
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: and so relaxed and very myself and comfortable. And you know,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I loved I loved his energy. You know, he was
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: very relaxed, and there was just like a quiet confidence
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: about him that I was attracted to. And yeah, I
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: felt like it was mutual. Say his name without smiling.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: This is my mom's test. Now you're asking me for
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: crazy things. Oh see, she can't do it it. She
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: still smiles when she says the name Ryan. Guys. In
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: the in the scenes for for the next episode, we
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: see Ryan up on stage with a girl with the
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: long brunette ponytail. Do you have a different color hair
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: that you debuted next week? Because I'm a little bit confused. Okay,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: So when you put your hair in a certain way,
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: it gets darker. Okay, her under bottom is darker. Guys, Um,
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of different highlights in my hair,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: and I might have used a little fun extension ponytail
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: to make it. Okay, so it is you with him
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: on stage? I am naturally you know Brunette, So I'm
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: I am Alina under there. Okay, alright, well Ben, do
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: you have anything else for Natasha? Natasha? After watching episode
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: one and knowing that you're coming on episode two, what
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: were your feelings like now as you watch this week? Um,
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: it's just it's nerve wracking because you you know, you
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: guys have to really pay attention to what's coming up
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: next because there's so many different dimensions to this show.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: I know, you guys obviously know the ins and outs
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: of how it's done, but I feel like this specific
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: show is so unlike any other Bachelor's show because the
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: contestants are like different levels of of intents, you know,
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: like the creativity I think that musicians have naturally just
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: brings every emotion to like another level. You know. If
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: we're sad, we're like, we're like down there. If we're happy,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: we're going crazy. It's like, you know, we're overly passionate
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: in every direction of emotions. So I think it's just
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: gonna be crazy to see what happens next. So I've
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: been kind of on that roller coaster as well. I'm like,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: oh God, I don't know what's to come, um, and
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: how things are going to go down because you know,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: when you live them sometimes it's not always the way
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: you see them. So I don't know. I'm excited to
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: see how it goes. I'm happy with how you know,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: how things have been going so far, and let's hope
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: it keeps going that way. Okay, Well, Natasha, you've been awesome.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: Final question from me. Would you rather they a country
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: singer or a pop singer? Yeah? You know, it's hard
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: because country boys are real good boys. You know, they love,
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: they love their family there there they can write a
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: mean love song. You know. I love that about country boys.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: I was actually excited to have, you know, to have
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: maybe like a lot of country boys are going on
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: in the house, but it seems like a lot of
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: us are more pop focused. Um, I'm a pop girl,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: so yeah, you know, country music is fun. I like,
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: I like to mix stuff up and be different. But
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: you know, pops were my heart's at and I need
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: to ask you to tease a little bit more of
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: what's to come and listen to your heart. Are there
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: any couples that seem so strong right now that we're
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: going to see break apart? And are there any people
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: in the house that are going to form a relationship
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: like we never imagined. Oh my goodness, that's a good question,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: to be honest. Things happened that you would not expect
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: at all. Things happened that I did not expect at all.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I think things happened that the people that were in
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: it didn't expect it to happen at all. It was
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: literally one of the craziest things seeing things go from
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: like full one eighties consistently. And that's what's so cool
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: about this is that you really don't know what's coming
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: next until you watch, because it's crazy. It sounds like
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor and Bachelor Natasha. We appreciate you coming on.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: Thanks for answering our questions. Uh we we look forward
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: to watching your journey along the way. Remember everybody listening
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: to your heart uh airs Monday nights on ABC. Natasha,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: thank you so much. Then, thank you and Ben, congratulations
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: on your engagement. Thank you very exciting, Thanks very much.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: Thanks guys. Then, there's one thing I didn't talk to
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Natasha about that I was thinking about. Can you believe
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: that house, like that Bachelor house is unreal. It's like
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: a it's like a Saudi Arabian prince house. It's insane.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: Do you think there's any chance that this will become
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor Mansion? I kind of do, And it kind
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: of makes me sad because I have so much austalgia
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: and memories of watching the show back watching you know,
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: the house, but this house just seems so much more
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: equipped for the show. It looks a lot bigger, right,
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: so much bigger. I mean the Bachelor Mansion, of course,
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: is a nice big house, but you know, with thirty
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: or twenty four people in it, plus it's tight, and
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: then that house looks like, oh yeah, you could sleep
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: thirty people in there. Yeah, that house looks huge. You're right, Ash,
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: I look at the house and it is insane. I mean,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: I think anybody watching it's not only beautiful, but it is.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: It is. Uh, it is well done and really good
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: for the show, and you've got to think about it.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: They have a rose ceremony and then there's a whole
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: separate room that they can all hang out in and
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: wait for people to walk down the hallway, and it's
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: always a huge so wild. Yeah, you're right. Now, I'm
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: not going to be surprised if that becomes Bachelor Mansion
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: number one, which would be it would be sad. I
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: don't know if I like that. I wonder if it's
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: somebody else's house or I'm sure it's somebody else's house.
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: That's not just like for shoots, because I'm wondering if
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: Marshall would be kind of happy that he wouldn't have
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: to move in and out so many times throughout the year.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: I think Marshall has been taking care of over the years.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: I think he's I think I think he has a
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: house up there for a reason. Also, that is not Uh.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: Some opinions came out there thinking that that was Chris
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Harrison's house that there now and that is not Chris
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: Harrison's house. Um, it's not his. Like we can promise
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: that a Bachelor Nation. Uh, it wouldn't be uh an
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: off season without one of our favorite guests, and one
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: of our favorite guests is always Kindle, Long Kindle, Welcome
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: back to the Almost Fair podcast. Hello, thank you for
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: having me again. Hello. Before we got you on the phone,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: we were talking about how you call your sister your
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: soul mate and then like you're just looking for a
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: guy to be like a lover companion, Like what would
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: you call like the guy that you're looking for in
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: your life. Um, I probably just like a side like
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: not a sidekick, but you know, like a companion, opinion. Well,
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: someone that would kind of be my be my strength
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: when I feel weak, gotcha. And I know I've heard
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: you say this before, but not until I was talking
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: to Ben about it, was I thinking, yeah, you know what,
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: I think my sister is my soul mate too. Yeah.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like I think maybe if my sister and
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: I were kind of like puzzled pieces because we've grown
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: up super close to our entire we've learned to adapt
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: to each other's ways, and um, like she's strong where
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: I'm weak and i'm you know, because we kind of
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: go back and forth like that. So that's kind of
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: the best way I describe it with her. Have you
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: always felt this way? Like I want to ask both
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: of you? I mean, actually I know this, yeah, like
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: kind of like a realization, but kindle, even when you've
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: been in relationships in the past, like romantic relationships, have
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: you still felt like your sister is that that missing
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: puzzle piece? Um, I mean, I think she's probably there
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: as my best friend when it comes to a romantic
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: relationship that fulfills like a whole different side of what
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: I'm looking for in somebody. Um, but she is. I
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: think in a way, I feel like I don't feel
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: pressured to have to find someone like that because I
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: have such a strong family and I have such a
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: strong like home base that I don't necessarily for the
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: pressure for that. Just a question. When I'm when I'm
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: with Jared and Lauren together, then I'm like, I'm a
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: whole crew here. Am I got everything right here? Yeah?
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: They have to get along with this is my sister
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: freaking lately? Are you speaking of that? Are you dating
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: at all these days? Is there anybody in your life? Uh? No, Yeah,
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: I mean I feel like social distancing helps with with
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: not I'm dating right now? Um, but no one. I'm
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: not in any dating apps or anything. I feel like
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: I'm just focusing on like me and my family and friends,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: and um, that doesn't include a guy right now. Not
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: that I'm opposed to it. I guess it's just not
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: my number one priorities, do you? I guess for the audience,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: how long has it been since you and Joe broke up?
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: I think it's been ever since June January. I'm sorry.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: Anywhere I was gonna say that was the quickest year
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: of my life, right five yeah, so it probably board
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: five months, I would say, And during one of the months,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: we were like living together while we're broken up, So
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: um yeah, it's been a significant amount of time, which
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: is interesting. Its weird how the fast time goes. How's
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: your heart and how often are you talking to joel I?
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: Joe and I talked kind of not a lot, but
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: we talked a couple of times a week. Um. I
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: think it's difficult once you feel like you see that
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: future with somebody for me and I'm sure for him
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: in a lot of ways to we thought we were
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: going to get engaged, um and we're going to spend
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: the rest of our lives together. So um yeah. I
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: feel like we still kind depend on each other for
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: a lot of emotional support and that way, we're still friends.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: We didn't break up for any kind of reason besides
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: wanting to be in different places in the future, so
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: um yeah, there's still a lot of love there. The
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: for any of our listeners out there who have been
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: through a breakup and you know out I don't know
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: and Nolly sit in a time of isolation. They're not
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: dating any advice for them. Um, I feel like there's
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: ways to still find like human connection, and I find
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: that the people that have that in relationships all with already,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: like my friends and family, those relationships were growing so
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: much stronger because of this. So I've been focusing that
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: making sure that people are okay in my life and
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: kind of like I'm kind of more like a how
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: do I describe it? Like I feel like not like
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: a mom, but I feel like I like to cater
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: to people and make sure they're okay. So like for me,
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: that helps a lot to have that and then getting
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: that back from them. But dating wise, like you're dating
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: long distance right now, right unless you're quarantined together. You've
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: heard stories of people actually being quarantined with someone that
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: they just met like intwo for like two weeks and
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: they're dating. So that's that's absolutely crazy. I mean, for
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: for me, quarantine has been interesting because just Gonna didn't
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: get to spend a lot of time together and now
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: we do. UM. But I do think there's been really
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: creative ways that people have been connecting and talking and
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: sharing their lives with each other. Kendle, You've always been
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: an intentional person. You've always been curious, and you've always
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: found intrigue and others. What have you been up to
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: during this time of isolation? Um? Right, I mean I've
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: been focusing a lot of time with my family. My
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: family is pretty close by and OXNRDS, so I've been
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: seeing them a lot um. And I've been writing, um,
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: doing a lot of writing. I'm doing this question book
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: thing and it's been really fun to do that. Working
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: on the podcast. Uh, Pistachio has been absolutely crazy my
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: little dogs, so I've been uh yeah, hanging out with
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: him a lot um. Reading. I've been reading so much
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: so I feel like it was taking time to invest
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: in things that I'm passionate about. Cooking a lot of pasta.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: I've been cooking so much process every other day pasta dish.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: It's like the only thing I know how to make well.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: And plus, I mean it's the best fit in the
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: entire world. Kendall. I feel like you and I are
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: kind of the same. I feel like we're kind of
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: people that don't really ever get bored. Have you felt bored? No?
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: But but I think I owe that to my mom
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: a lot. I used to put us alone in a
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: crew with like one toy and we'd have to entertain ourselves.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: I think she made it a point to feel like
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: you don't have to be overly stimulated by a bunch
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: of stuff to happiness. To find happiness like simple things
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: in life. So do I give credit to you for that?
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: My mom always says people who get bored are boring. Yeah,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: that's what we should even like do art projects like
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: painted a lot and I attempted a puzzle, but I
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: don't know. I can't get into I don't know why.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: I think it's an amazing characteristic for you guys not
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: to get bored. I as an only child, I feel
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: like I was kind of gifted with the ability that
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: I can't ever get bored. I have to entertain myself
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: from gonna be the most like and so here here's
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: a good rebuttal. Sometimes I get called boring. But if
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: you're right that boring people boring people get bored, Well,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: I don't get bored, so you're not boring. That's my proof. Kindle.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: It's always a pleasure to catch up with you. Uh,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: We're wishing the best before we go. You are our
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: host this week on What's Cooking Batch Nations. What's cooking
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: Batch Nation Kindle, you have a recipe that you want
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: to tell our almost famous listeners all about. Yes, So
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: something I've been making a lot is vegan, like macaroni
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: and cheese. So I've been expermenting a lot with pasta.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: So I make pasta with UM two cups double zero flower,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: UM two tablespoons of water. Zero flower is the key
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: you how to use that for pasta. And so it
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: makes kind of I think it just makes it. Really,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know, a lot more. You can help build
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: the glue minute a lot more um and so you yeah,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: the gluten. You don't get any sort of reaction. I'm
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: all about gluten. It's it's oh yeah. But like the
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Durham wheat, which is the zero zero just makes you
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: digest it so much easier in my personal opinion, Yeah,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: that's yeah. I feel like I I do that because
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: I went to like this one Italian shop and they
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: said you have to use the double zero flower. So
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: that's what I always get whenever I make pasta. And
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: I put three eggs yolks in an egg and then
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: you create a little nest of m flour with a
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: pinch of salt and you put the eggs in water
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: and olive oil inside the middle, and you whisk it
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: around and create a dough and you need that for
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: like five or six minutes, and then I push it
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: through like a pasta machine. Um, and then you put
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: it in water. And then when I make the vegan sauce,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: and you have a pumpkin, um, and then I do
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: nutritional yeast um, nutritional yeast, smoked pepper, salt, olive oil,
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: and then an onion, and I put it in a
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: food processor and then it's veg and cheese. That can
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: you taste kind of lobster bits? Really it's weird. Yeah,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: it's really good. Where does the lobster? Wait? Where where
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: does the lobster bisk come from? Where does that flavor
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: come out? Last time I made it? It's weaste like that.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: I think it's because the olive oil mixture of pumpkin
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: kind of taste lobstery. It's really weird. Interesting my friends
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: and orange cream sauce. How long does this cook take
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: to make? Um? I would say pasta is pretty quick,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: but this let's sit for thirty minutes. So it's like
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: you want to prep it before and then after three
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: minutes of waiting, then you push it through and then
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: the sauce itself, you just have to probably have a
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: pumpkiny probably bake it like forty five minutes and you
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: just a pure everything. Don't forget garlic. We won't more
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: garlic the better. It's it's it's good to keep people
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: at a social distance right now. Um, hey, kindle things again.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Uh, we'll talk to you again very soon.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: Uh and uh and we do truly wish you the best.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: You guys do relations by the way, and you're engagement then,
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: thanks Kendall. That's awesome, Thank you. Uh, Ashley. I've got
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: to get going my uh my family tonight. I don't
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: know what it's gonna be. Um, but they we we
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: drove up here, I'm not kidding you, NonStop um to
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: be with my dad for his birthday, and uh my
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: parents then in return, because they hadn't been able to
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: celebrate Jessica and I, they asked if tonight they could
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: do us a date night. So I don't know what
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be, but I'm locked upstairs right now in
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: a room, and I know my mom and dad are
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: downstairs setting up the bottom floor and Also they are
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: preparing to be uh to cook us dinner, to serve us,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: and to uh make us have a date night, and
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: they want to I guess, I don't know yet. It's
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: all surprised. But Jessica has to be in my room
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: locked in, and I have to be upstairs, and we
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: can't go downstairs until dates ready, So I've got to
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: keep going. That's adorable, Okay, have fun. I'm jealous. That
• 1:09:11
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• 1:09:16
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• 1:09:23
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