Latest / So Shameless / The Last Homie Court - Daj Leaves The Pod
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- 0:00Speaker 1: And said, I'm by your house. No, no, no, no.
- 0:02Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.
- 0:03Speaker 3: No, you called me and said that she was in
- 0:04Speaker 3: Jersey and I was checking on my Sims and I'm like, oh,
- 0:06Speaker 3: this nigga just, I'm like, oh, you just drove right
- 0:08Speaker 3: past my house.
- 0:09Speaker 4: I said, wait for me.
- 0:09Speaker 5: He said, no.
- 0:10Speaker 1: What did you just say? I called her and she
- 0:13Speaker 1: checked her Sims. You called me to do what, though?
- 0:15Speaker 4: I called you.
- 0:15Speaker 1: You called me to do what? To see where you
- 0:17Speaker 1: was at.
- 0:17Speaker 4: To say I'm driving past your house but I'm not
- 0:18Speaker 4: going to wait for you?
- 0:19Speaker 1: Matter of fact, last time I came to Jersey, you linked.
- 0:21Speaker 4: Of course I did because I had no problem linking.
- 0:23Speaker 4: The last time I came to Jersey, you linked. I
- 0:24Speaker 4: linked because you called me and said I'm hanging out
- 0:26Speaker 4: and I linked.
- 0:26Speaker 6: Exactly.
- 0:27Speaker 7: Immediately.
- 0:27Speaker 4: And the time before that, I called you. And you
- 0:31Speaker 4: was at school. And so now... But I call you
- 0:34Speaker 4: when I'm near you.
- 0:35Speaker 3: So now that I'm intentional.
- 0:36Speaker 1: And what's my issue with you?
- 0:37Speaker 4: You come out here and don't say nothing to me.
- 0:40Speaker 3: Nigga, I'm from here.
- 0:41Speaker 4: But you come out here, don't say nothing.
- 0:43Speaker 6: All the time.
- 0:43Speaker 1: I come close to your crib, I call you.
- 0:45Speaker 7: Where you at?
- 0:46Speaker 4: And somehow you try to flip it into me. First
- 0:48Speaker 4: of all, I ain't been close to your crib.
- 0:49Speaker 6: I'm not choosing sides. However... Oh, of course you are.
- 0:53Speaker 6: It's a little different because... Dodge has more people in
- 0:56Speaker 6: Brooklyn than you've got people in Jersey.
- 0:57Speaker 3: I'm always here.
- 0:58Speaker 6: So if she's going to come to Brooklyn, everybody is here.
- 1:01Speaker 6: This is true.
- 1:02Speaker 4: Exactly.
- 1:02Speaker 6: This is true.
- 1:03Speaker 3: And this is why anytime I do come to Brooklyn,
- 1:05Speaker 3: anytime I come to Brooklyn, I'm going out or something
- 1:07Speaker 3: like that. Like, I always post where I'm going. Like,
- 1:10Speaker 3: if it's in my story, it means I'm going to
- 1:11Speaker 3: be there. Like, I'm not a fucking promoter. Like, why
- 1:15Speaker 3: else would I post it? Because I'm going to be there.
- 1:17Speaker 3: That is my bat signal to my friends. Like, yo, I'm...
- 1:20Speaker 3: But for me to hit everybody, I'm never going to
- 1:22Speaker 3: do that.
- 1:23Speaker 1: I can't.
- 1:24Speaker 4: It's not sustainable. But when I say to my friend, like.
- 1:27Speaker 6: Yo, let's go out on a date.
- 1:28Speaker 1: She said for me to hit everybody. I'm just a
- 1:30Speaker 1: part of everybody.
- 1:31Speaker 3: Let's do a double date. Come to Jersey. Because we
- 1:34Speaker 3: could pick a place in Brooklyn like that. But nobody sees,
- 1:38Speaker 3: nobody hangs out with me in Jersey. I had to
- 1:40Speaker 3: build my, exactly. I had to build my own friends.
- 1:43Speaker 3: I had to build my own community in Jersey because
- 1:45Speaker 3: none of my New York friends ever come out to
- 1:48Speaker 3: see me. So I'm literally like.
- 1:49Speaker 1: Yo, friend, let's link. You're hanging out with Jersey people now.
- 1:52Speaker 4: I said, yo, friend, let's link. The nigga left me
- 1:54Speaker 4: on read.
- 1:55Speaker 3: But I'm the problem. This is crazy as hell.
- 1:57Speaker 1: That's not what happened.
- 1:58Speaker 4: You just said that.
- 1:59Speaker 1: No, that's not what I said.
- 2:00Speaker 8: You do this thing where you try to take little
- 2:03Speaker 8: key moments.
- 2:04Speaker 3: Tell me if I'm wrong.
- 2:05Speaker 1: You said, yo, let's link. I said, bet. Let's do it.
- 2:08Speaker 1: You said, yeah, y'all come out to Jersey.
- 2:10Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 2:11Speaker 4: I left you on read. I said yes.
- 2:14Speaker 1: Then, Jersey? I'm not paying Adam no mind. Who does that?
- 2:18Speaker 4: You just said nobody does that. You literally just said
- 2:20Speaker 4: nobody does that.
- 2:21Speaker 1: You want me to do it. You literally just said
- 2:25Speaker 1: nobody does it.
- 2:26Speaker 4: That's not what I said. What I said was I
- 2:27Speaker 4: had to build my own community.
- 2:29Speaker 1: Because nobody from here does that. No, because my.
- 2:32Speaker 4: Friends were not coming out to Jersey. But you want
- 2:33Speaker 4: to know what's so good?
- 2:35Speaker 3: See.
- 2:36Speaker 1: You got Jersey friends.
- 2:36Speaker 4: No, not only that.
- 2:38Speaker 1: Then you quit in the show now so you can
- 2:39Speaker 1: just stay in Jersey.
- 2:40Speaker 3: You want to know what's so funny?
- 2:41Speaker 6: Hmm.
- 2:41Speaker 3: My Jersey friends, when I'm like, yo, I want to
- 2:43Speaker 3: hang out in New York, they be with the shits.
- 2:46Speaker 3: But on the flip side, I had a conversation. I
- 2:49Speaker 3: had a conversation with some of my friends this summer
- 2:51Speaker 3: in August, and I was super duper clear.
- 2:54Speaker 1: Your Jersey friends?
- 2:55Speaker 3: No, my New York friends. I was super duper clear
- 2:57Speaker 3: with my New York friends. Like, I'm not linking.
- 3:01Speaker 1: I'm not.
- 3:02Speaker 3: You can invite me to whatever you, I'm not linking
- 3:05Speaker 3: because for the last five years, I I never miss
- 3:09Speaker 3: a beat in anything that happens in New York. And
- 3:13Speaker 3: the only time niggas even think to come visit me, like.
- 3:15Speaker 4: I'm not right the fuck there, is on my birthday.
- 3:19Speaker 1: I didn't come know your birthday. We know. But when
- 3:22Speaker 1: I'm out there, I try to link you. And when
- 3:25Speaker 1: I'm out there, I call you.
- 3:26Speaker 4: But I intentionally try to make a link with you.
- 3:29Speaker 1: Do I go out? Am I an out person?
- 3:32Speaker 4: So when I'm close to her, I say, yo, where
- 3:34Speaker 4: you at?
- 3:35Speaker 1: Let's do something.
- 3:36Speaker 3: Oh, I'm at work.
- 3:36Speaker 1: You just said, I don't go to Jersey. I'm at work.
- 3:38Speaker 1: When I'm close to you, I call you. When you're
- 3:40Speaker 1: close to me, you don't. Yet somehow, you get to
- 3:44Speaker 1: cry freedom. Oh, I'm not linking. Oh, niggas don't. Yo,
- 3:49Speaker 1: when I'm out, I hit you.
- 3:50Speaker 8: When you're out, I cry to you. Like, why you
- 3:55Speaker 8: ain't hit me? See, we got to talk about, we
- 3:57Speaker 8: got to think about who's actually putting who on a
- 3:59Speaker 8: high pedestal here.
- 4:02Speaker 1: I don't go out.
- 4:03Speaker 8: When I see you out, I'm like, yo, why you
- 4:04Speaker 8: don't hit me? When you come out, you're like, I'm
- 4:07Speaker 8: not calling everybody and all this. So we see where
- 4:10Speaker 8: people put people.
- 4:12Speaker 6: You understand? Yeah.
- 4:13Speaker 5: I see where you're taking it.
- 4:14Speaker 3: I see where you're taking it.
- 4:15Speaker 4: So my question, this is my question to you, friend.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Look at me. Let's talk about this.
- 4:20Speaker 6: Yes, ma'am.
- 4:20Speaker 4: So now that this is my.
- 4:22Speaker 3: Last episode and I'm not mandated to see you once
- 4:25Speaker 3: a week oh my god am i never gonna.
- 4:27Speaker 8: See you again i mean i don't see you no
- 4:30Speaker 8: i'm asking when i try to link you know you
- 4:32Speaker 8: don't you don't be there when.
- 4:34Speaker 3: Last time i was at work and i said wait
- 4:37Speaker 3: for me and you know i worked 10 minutes away
- 4:39Speaker 3: from my crib i literally said.
- 4:40Speaker 1: Wait for me yeah i mean i would have but you.
- 4:43Speaker 8: Chose not to because i was there for longer than
- 4:46Speaker 8: 10 minutes you you was where i was at the
- 4:49Speaker 8: restaurant for longer than 10 minutes.
- 4:52Speaker 1: When I tried to link you, I was at a restaurant.
- 4:53Speaker 1: You knew where I was at. I called you from
- 4:55Speaker 1: the restaurant.
- 4:56Speaker 3: And I said, what?
- 4:57Speaker 1: Wait for me.
- 4:59Speaker 3: My friend is by my crib.
- 5:01Speaker 4: I will come home. And you said no.
- 5:03Speaker 1: No, you said, and I got to go get Parker,
- 5:04Speaker 1: meet me at my crib. You still haven't seen my
- 5:06Speaker 1: crib yet.
- 5:06Speaker 3: Yeah. And you said no.
- 5:08Speaker 1: I got to leave here. I'm here.
- 5:10Speaker 2: Pull up.
- 5:10Speaker 4: But you said no.
- 5:11Speaker 6: Couldn't do it.
- 5:12Speaker 3: So you wanted me to leave my baby at school?
- 5:13Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying. What you wanted?
- 5:15Speaker 3: What you wanted me to do in that moment?
- 5:16Speaker 6: Tell me.
- 5:16Speaker 1: I backed myself into a corner. Yeah, because you fucking stupid.
- 5:20Speaker 6: I'm mad. What did you want me to do?
- 5:24Speaker 1: We see each other depending on the plans that we make.
- 5:27Speaker 3: And I tried to make a plan with you and
- 5:29Speaker 3: you love me.
- 5:30Speaker 1: No, you want me to come out there.
- 5:32Speaker 2: Okay.
- 5:33Speaker 4: So my question stands.
- 5:34Speaker 3: Now that you're not going to see me every week,
- 5:39Speaker 3: I'm not going to see you at all if I
- 5:40Speaker 3: don't come to New York?
- 5:41Speaker 1: I'm asking you. I don't know. Is it that serious?
- 5:44Speaker 3: I'm just asking a question.
- 5:45Speaker 6: I got a suggestion.
- 5:46Speaker 5: That's crazy.
- 5:46Speaker 6: Damn, that was nuts.
- 5:48Speaker 1: What happened to you?
- 5:50Speaker 6: What was that?
- 5:53Speaker 1: I can hear you.
- 5:54Speaker 6: I don't talk to nobody all day. All right. Oh,
- 5:55Speaker 6: that's rough. It's my first time talking, so. Oh, shit.
- 5:58Speaker 3: What was his suggestion for you?
- 6:00Speaker 5: I was in silence all day.
- 6:01Speaker 6: Let us New Yorkers know about the fly shit in Jersey.
- 6:04Speaker 6: Invite us to some stuff so we could be.
- 6:06Speaker 2: Like, oh.
- 6:06Speaker 4: Why would I do that?
- 6:07Speaker 3: He just said he not coming.
- 6:08Speaker 4: He don't give a fuck.
- 6:08Speaker 6: We don't come to Jersey because there's nothing going on
- 6:10Speaker 6: in Jersey that we know about that's worth coming to.
- 6:12Speaker 6: But if we knew about things, then it's like, oh,
- 6:14Speaker 6: all right.
- 6:15Speaker 5: You could be like our Jersey ambassador.
- 6:17Speaker 3: Why would... That's a lot.
- 6:19Speaker 6: I went to this brunch in Jersey and the shit
- 6:21Speaker 6: was popping.
- 6:22Speaker 1: I was like, oh.
- 6:23Speaker 3: I have a lot of fun in Jersey.
- 6:24Speaker 9: I'm saying you're saying that we don't come out. So
- 6:25Speaker 9: you're like, yo, you said like your friends haven't come out.
- 6:27Speaker 9: So I'm like, be the Jersey ambassador. Like you got
- 6:30Speaker 9: to get niggas in.
- 6:30Speaker 3: But you want to know what's so crazy? So when
- 6:33Speaker 3: I made that declaration, the next weekend, my friends came
- 6:37Speaker 3: out and we had a fucking time. And I think
- 6:41Speaker 3: the thing that irritates me the most.
- 6:42Speaker 1: She's bullying niggas.
- 6:43Speaker 4: I didn't bully anybody. No, I didn't bully anybody.
- 6:46Speaker 1: It wasn't a bully.
- 6:46Speaker 5: She got some my collar up. She got some my
- 6:48Speaker 5: collar up.
- 6:48Speaker 1: You definitely a bully.
- 6:49Speaker 4: That's not... No, that's not bullying.
- 6:50Speaker 1: You just told her, yo, I'm not linking nobody.
- 6:52Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:52Speaker 1: Oh, the next week, everybody showed up. That you bullied them.
- 6:55Speaker 3: No, it's not.
- 6:56Speaker 4: It wasn't an intentional bully.
- 6:57Speaker 2: It was.
- 6:59Speaker 4: I don't think that.
- 7:00Speaker 3: People understand how lonely it is for you to move away, one,
- 7:04Speaker 3: and the only time you see the people that you
- 7:07Speaker 3: really fuck with is if you have to go out
- 7:09Speaker 3: of your way and nobody ever gives you the same
- 7:12Speaker 3: in return.
- 7:12Speaker 4: It hurts my feelings.
- 7:15Speaker 3: So I'm tired of overextending. I've been doing this for
- 7:18Speaker 3: five years. Whether it's a block party, whether it's a
- 7:22Speaker 3: random ass dinner in the middle of February, I always
- 7:25Speaker 3: pull up. And nobody ever links. Nobody ever says like, oh, Dodge,
- 7:29Speaker 3: you home this weekend? What you doing? Let's link. So
- 7:33Speaker 3: I'm done.
- 7:33Speaker 1: It sounds to me that you understand how it feels
- 7:38Speaker 1: when you pull up out here and you don't say, yo,
- 7:41Speaker 1: I'm in town. Nigga, I'm from here. Yo, I'm going out.
- 7:43Speaker 1: And you say, nigga, I told my man that's all
- 7:45Speaker 1: I care about.
- 7:46Speaker 8: It sounds to me like you understand what it's like
- 7:49Speaker 8: when your friends is out lit doing them lit shit
- 7:52Speaker 8: 10 minutes from your crib and don't even call you.
- 7:55Speaker 1: When have I been 10 minutes from your crib?
- 7:57Speaker 5: I have a solution. I have a solution.
- 7:59Speaker 3: What's the solution, honey?
- 8:02Speaker 5: Okay, so everybody, I think everybody has valid points. Tyler,
- 8:04Speaker 5: you have valid points?
- 8:05Speaker 3: What's his point?
- 8:06Speaker 4: I invited him out and the nigga left me all right.
- 8:09Speaker 1: There is no point there.
- 8:11Speaker 3: The next time the nigga linked me, I said, let
- 8:13Speaker 3: me go pick up my baby.
- 8:14Speaker 9: And he said, bitch, fuck you. I'm going home. That
- 8:17Speaker 9: was the time before that.
- 8:18Speaker 3: Hold on.
- 8:18Speaker 5: I was with Ty one time. He called. We was
- 8:20Speaker 5: out in Jersey. He said, yo, let me hit dog.
- 8:22Speaker 5: I was with him. I seen him.
- 8:23Speaker 4: I seen through it.
- 8:24Speaker 1: And I was laying on my couch.
- 8:26Speaker 3: How long it took me to pull up?
- 8:28Speaker 9: To your credit, you pulled up immediately. To my credit,
- 8:32Speaker 9: I called you. And he mentioned it early.
- 8:34Speaker 3: Because that's the right thing to do.
- 8:35Speaker 9: So here we go. I think this is what we
- 8:36Speaker 9: can do. You asked the question, Dodge. You said, now
- 8:39Speaker 9: that you're not going to be on the show, you're
- 8:40Speaker 9: not going to be here once a week, are you
- 8:42Speaker 9: still going to see each other with some type of frequency?
- 8:45Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 8:45Speaker 9: I think to maintain the sovereignty of the friendship, y'all
- 8:49Speaker 9: should link up once a month.
- 8:51Speaker 5: I think so too. Y'all should alternate by the month.
- 8:53Speaker 3: But I'm always here.
- 8:54Speaker 5: One month it's New York, one month it's Jersey. I
- 8:56Speaker 5: think for the, for me, I think. That's fair.
- 9:01Speaker 4: How do you feel about that, Tahoe?
- 9:03Speaker 1: Whenever you want to do.
- 9:05Speaker 4: Are you going to answer my message so we can
- 9:07Speaker 4: plan our date?
- 9:07Speaker 6: I like this.
- 9:09Speaker 1: Sure.
- 9:10Speaker 6: Okay.
- 9:10Speaker 3: Are you going to show up?
- 9:11Speaker 5: Yes.
- 9:12Speaker 1: I'm a stand-upper.
- 9:15Speaker 4: Are you asking that question in front of all of
- 9:16Speaker 4: these people?
- 9:17Speaker 1: Hold on.
- 9:17Speaker 3: That know that you are a stand-upper?
- 9:19Speaker 6: Hold on.
- 9:19Speaker 10: No, no, no.
- 9:19Speaker 6: I stood you up.
- 9:22Speaker 3: Are we going back?
- 9:23Speaker 6: Yeah, birthday. Y'all can meet in Manhattan at the halfway point, too.
- 9:26Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying.
- 9:26Speaker 3: We could do that.
- 9:28Speaker 9: But I think once a month, wherever you decide. Jersey,
- 9:31Speaker 9: New York, y'all can meet in the middle. I just
- 9:33Speaker 9: feel like- I think that works. One thing I don't
- 9:36Speaker 9: like doing, right?
- 9:38Speaker 8: I don't like conceding my point when the person doesn't
- 9:41Speaker 8: hear my point, but I have to hear them.
- 9:44Speaker 1: I didn't even make- Literally, you come.
- 9:46Speaker 8: Here, you go out, you pick and choose who you link,
- 9:49Speaker 8: and you never link me. Somehow, the one time- that
- 9:54Speaker 8: I called you and you couldn't make it, I'm at full.
- 9:59Speaker 1: Or the time that you said, yo, let's link. And
- 10:01Speaker 1: I was like, sure.
- 10:03Speaker 8: And you said, okay, drive to Newark, Jersey City, butt
- 10:07Speaker 8: fuck West New Jersey.
- 10:09Speaker 3: And I was like, ah.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Now I'm at, you said, let's link. Let's go out.
- 10:16Speaker 6: Right.
- 10:17Speaker 8: And somehow, because I said, well, I didn't say, but
- 10:20Speaker 8: I didn't respond, I'm the bad guy. My thing is,
- 10:22Speaker 8: you always come here.
- 10:23Speaker 3: No, Travis, there is not a state between. Actually, I
- 10:25Speaker 3: can see New.
- 10:26Speaker 1: York out my window.
- 10:27Speaker 6: You always come here. Yeah, it's true.
- 10:28Speaker 3: I can see New York City out my window is
- 10:30Speaker 3: that close and nobody give a fuck.
- 10:32Speaker 1: And the thing is, like you said, you always come here.
- 10:34Speaker 1: I am always here. And you never link me. Never.
- 10:37Speaker 4: You never say, yo, let's call.
- 10:40Speaker 1: Hey, yo, yesterday, what'd you say? Oh, yo, let me
- 10:43Speaker 1: call Dodd.
- 10:43Speaker 6: You was here.
- 10:44Speaker 1: You seen did it. That's what you said, right? It's
- 10:46Speaker 1: never happened.
- 10:47Speaker 3: Okay.
- 10:47Speaker 4: And somehow I have to concede my point.
- 10:50Speaker 1: You don't have to.
- 10:50Speaker 8: When you're not realizing how that makes me feel when
- 10:53Speaker 8: you do it to me constantly.
- 10:54Speaker 4: But can I say something? Can I ask a question
- 10:56Speaker 4: to the room? Not to you, but to you, to
- 10:58Speaker 4: you guys.
- 10:59Speaker 6: Mm-hmm.
- 10:59Speaker 3: Tahoe also started this off by.
- 11:01Speaker 4: Saying, I'm not a go-outer.
- 11:02Speaker 3: I don't go out, right? Isn't that what he said?
- 11:04Speaker 1: And when I do, I call you.
- 11:06Speaker 3: Be quiet. Be quiet. This is not to you. Is
- 11:08Speaker 3: this a homie court? It feels like a homie court.
- 11:10Speaker 6: Is it? Which way?
- 11:11Speaker 3: When I go out... Which way? When I go out
- 11:14Speaker 3: in New York... I'm going to like a party or
- 11:17Speaker 3: something or like some type of like like a day
- 11:20Speaker 3: party or a party or an event or something like
- 11:22Speaker 3: that something that I probably bought tickets for months ago
- 11:24Speaker 3: so it's not one of them Ayo you around pull
- 11:26Speaker 3: up now when Tahoe hit me up it was literally
- 11:29Speaker 3: to go to a restaurant so that's that's different like
- 11:32Speaker 3: if I'm you understand what I'm saying.
- 11:33Speaker 1: So I have a really good question okay.
- 11:35Speaker 6: To that point the things that you see Dodge going
- 11:38Speaker 6: to would you go no if you got an invite from.
- 11:41Speaker 8: Her if Dodge hits me like yo we over here
- 11:43Speaker 8: I'm most likely pulling up So.
- 11:45Speaker 3: Why you ain't come to teacher hop with us? Because
- 11:47Speaker 3: we spoke about it right here. So the last time
- 11:49Speaker 3: I was in New York, the last time I was
- 11:51Speaker 3: in New York.
- 11:51Speaker 8: We went to teacher hop. Nobody ever said, come to
- 11:55Speaker 8: teacher hop. Y'all acting like it was a buddy-buddy thing.
- 11:58Speaker 8: Y'all acting like it was a buddy-buddy thing between y'all two.
- 12:02Speaker 8: And people, I just respected it.
- 12:03Speaker 5: It's a teacher thing.
- 12:04Speaker 4: We didn't talk about it in here. Y'all did, but
- 12:06Speaker 4: y'all acted like it was y'all.
- 12:07Speaker 5: We didn't throw the umbrella out there.
- 12:09Speaker 4: Why wouldn't I link y'all? Why wouldn't I link him?
- 12:11Speaker 4: He don't really go there places, but I'm just joking
- 12:14Speaker 4: with him.
- 12:14Speaker 3: The next teacher hop, are you coming?
- 12:16Speaker 6: Am I?
- 12:17Speaker 1: Yo, this is what I be talking about.
- 12:18Speaker 3: I'm just asking a question.
- 12:19Speaker 1: It's not a, are you coming? Am I invited? Are
- 12:22Speaker 1: y'all going to say, yo, Tahoe, pull up? It's not, yo,
- 12:25Speaker 1: are you coming? I'm not just running into a teacher.
- 12:27Speaker 4: I didn't run to school when I was in school.
- 12:29Speaker 8: Why the fuck would I go hang out with a
- 12:30Speaker 8: bunch of teachers now?
- 12:31Speaker 5: I respect that. I respect that, Tahoe, because there's a
- 12:33Speaker 5: lot of niggas that don't take that.
- 12:35Speaker 9: There's a lot of niggas that don't take that, and
- 12:37Speaker 9: I respect you saying that.
- 12:39Speaker 5: I respect the my friend.
- 12:41Speaker 1: Niggas pull up to teacher hop, though.
- 12:42Speaker 6: They didn't go to school.
- 12:43Speaker 3: Yo, you want to know what's so crazy? The last
- 12:44Speaker 3: teacher hop that I went to, because me and Fave,
- 12:46Speaker 3: we went in the summertime, and then it was another
- 12:49Speaker 3: one last weekend.
- 12:50Speaker 5: My co-workers told me they seen you.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 12:52Speaker 3: It was another one last weekend, and I was like, yo,
- 12:55Speaker 3: the next teacher hop is Labor Day.
- 12:56Speaker 4: Fuck it.
- 12:57Speaker 1: I'm going.
- 12:57Speaker 3: I just posted it in my story. Here go Greg.
- 13:00Speaker 4: Fuck it.
- 13:01Speaker 3: We pulling up to teacher hop. I'm like, fuck it.
- 13:03Speaker 3: We pull up and it's Greg.
- 13:05Speaker 1: It's Davey. It's Will.
- 13:06Speaker 3: None of them niggas is educated.
- 13:07Speaker 1: They like, but we had a time. But you always
- 13:09Speaker 1: link them.
- 13:10Speaker 6: They hit me.
- 13:10Speaker 1: So they don't feel, but you all, y'all went to
- 13:12Speaker 1: Jay-Z together. Y'all do other things together.
- 13:14Speaker 5: That was different.
- 13:15Speaker 4: You always link them.
- 13:16Speaker 2: That was necessary.
- 13:16Speaker 8: Y'all make plans to go out together. This is a
- 13:18Speaker 8: thing for y'all. Whenever y'all go out, yo, Greg, where
- 13:21Speaker 8: you at? Yo, Davey, where you at? When they come here,
- 13:23Speaker 8: they link you. When you out there, you link them.
- 13:26Speaker 8: It's not a thing for them to see you somewhere.
- 13:27Speaker 1: And say, yo, I'm on my way.
- 13:28Speaker 4: Because they know what it is.
- 13:31Speaker 3: It wasn't a yo you on your way. It was
- 13:32Speaker 3: a I posted it.
- 13:34Speaker 8: Yo, to anybody out there that's listening to this, if
- 13:36Speaker 8: you see your friends out amongst other friends of yours
- 13:40Speaker 8: and they never invite you, are you inviting yourself?
- 13:42Speaker 1: To anybody that's.
- 13:42Speaker 8: Out there listening, amongst these four cameras in here and
- 13:45Speaker 8: all of these mics, if you see your friends out
- 13:48Speaker 8: amongst other friends of yours, and nobody hit you and
- 13:52Speaker 8: said we're out, are you inviting yourself?
- 13:55Speaker 6: Consistently. No.
- 13:56Speaker 3: That's crazy as hell. I don't like the way you
- 13:58Speaker 3: frame that, because that's not what happened. I just told
- 14:00Speaker 3: you what happened.
- 14:01Speaker 6: Oh. But, but.
- 14:02Speaker 3: That's not what happened.
- 14:03Speaker 5: But hold on.
- 14:04Speaker 6: Exactly.
- 14:04Speaker 4: There's only circumstances. Oh, right, right.
- 14:06Speaker 1: Madam.
- 14:07Speaker 4: Madam, you don't have to do this.
- 14:09Speaker 1: Madam, you don't have to do it. I want to.
- 14:13Speaker 3: Be very clear.
- 14:13Speaker 4: I was going regardless.
- 14:16Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 14:17Speaker 4: I didn't give a fuck if any of them niggas
- 14:19Speaker 4: pulled up because they're not teachers.
- 14:20Speaker 3: I post where.
- 14:21Speaker 4: I want to go. I post where I want to go.
- 14:25Speaker 4: And if my friends hit me like, yo, you going?
- 14:28Speaker 4: We out, nigga.
- 14:28Speaker 6: We out.
- 14:30Speaker 3: And you see the shit and you don't say nothing
- 14:33Speaker 3: because it's like, oh, I don't want to invite myself.
- 14:35Speaker 3: I'm going regardless. So whether they made it or not,
- 14:37Speaker 3: I was still going.
- 14:38Speaker 1: No, I understand.
- 14:39Speaker 6: I got a group of friends that not only do
- 14:41Speaker 6: they go out without inviting me, but they have a
- 14:42Speaker 6: whole separate chat where they discuss where they're going out.
- 14:46Speaker 6: We're in a chat together. They have another chat.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Oh, that's nasty.
- 14:48Speaker 6: That I'm not in.
- 14:49Speaker 1: Oh, that's nasty.
- 14:50Speaker 3: How you find out?
- 14:50Speaker 1: Did they make that?
- 14:51Speaker 4: You're not supposed to find that out.
- 14:52Speaker 6: But here's the thing. When I did feel a ways
- 14:54Speaker 6: about it, but to your point, I did start inviting
- 14:57Speaker 6: myself to things.
- 14:58Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 14:58Speaker 6: Because I understood, they explained to me why I wasn't included.
- 15:02Speaker 6: Because I was never coming out.
- 15:03Speaker 11: Yeah.
- 15:04Speaker 1: I was always on daddy duty.
- 15:05Speaker 6: Or I was DJing or I wasn't coming out. So
- 15:08Speaker 6: it was like, all right, we're not going to keep
- 15:09Speaker 6: hitting him if he's never available. So I get it.
- 15:13Speaker 1: That's kind of girly.
- 15:14Speaker 6: You got to be self-aware. You got to understand. Why
- 15:16Speaker 6: are you not being invited to these things?
- 15:19Speaker 8: She has never had to go through that process of
- 15:22Speaker 8: inviting me places and me not pulling up.
- 15:24Speaker 1: She's never had to go through that process.
- 15:26Speaker 3: I never?
- 15:27Speaker 1: That's actually.
- 15:27Speaker 3: You see how people say things in definitives?
- 15:29Speaker 2: They go crazy.
- 15:30Speaker 1: No, I'm saying it's happened, but it's not like a thing.
- 15:32Speaker 1: What he's saying is continuous.
- 15:34Speaker 4: He said it's a thing, it's a process of self-elimination.
- 15:37Speaker 3: I'm not inviting you to a party, but if it's
- 15:40Speaker 3: a dinner, if it's like some coach.
- 15:45Speaker 1: I've seen you at places you know I would pull
- 15:47Speaker 1: up to.
- 15:47Speaker 3: That's crazy as hell.
- 15:48Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm surprised I didn't do the whole thing together
- 15:50Speaker 9: at least one day.
- 15:50Speaker 4: We was there.
- 15:51Speaker 3: I saw him.
- 15:52Speaker 1: She got me in the third day.
- 15:53Speaker 12: Exactly, you bitch ass nigga.
- 15:55Speaker 1: That's not bitchy. I'm admitting.
- 15:57Speaker 3: But I knew you were there already and I pulled
- 16:00Speaker 3: up anyway. You want to know what's so crazy? The
- 16:02Speaker 3: first night, I didn't buy the tickets for the first night.
- 16:04Speaker 3: So how the fuck am I going to invite you
- 16:06Speaker 3: to something that I didn't even invite myself to?
- 16:09Speaker 13: How?
- 16:10Speaker 1: Yes.
- 16:10Speaker 3: You say you didn't link with me for the Jay-Z concert.
- 16:14Speaker 3: You want to know what happened for the Jay-Z concert?
- 16:15Speaker 8: All your friends got together and somehow you just fell in.
- 16:18Speaker 4: No, you want to know what happened? I was at work.
- 16:21Speaker 3: I could not get a ticket to save my fucking life.
- 16:23Speaker 3: We're all in the queue. I couldn't get shit. Davey
- 16:26Speaker 3: winds up scoring seven tickets. Hits the chat. Yo, I
- 16:30Speaker 3: got seven tickets.
- 16:31Speaker 1: We all out.
- 16:32Speaker 4: What the fuck I'm supposed to do with that? And
- 16:34Speaker 4: I didn't even bring my husband that day. I said, oh, no,
- 16:35Speaker 4: that's the friend's day.
- 16:37Speaker 3: The next time it was my birthday. I caught tickets
- 16:39Speaker 3: for my birthday. I'm like, all right, I'm going with
- 16:41Speaker 3: my man on my birthday. So that's why I went twice.
- 16:44Speaker 1: My man, my man, my man.
- 16:45Speaker 3: I'm confused.
- 16:46Speaker 6: That's peace.
- 16:47Speaker 4: Yeah, that's peace.
- 16:48Speaker 3: The fucking garden party. The garden party. I go to
- 16:51Speaker 3: the garden party every year. I post when the tickets
- 16:53Speaker 3: drop every year.
- 16:54Speaker 1: I've never seen it.
- 16:54Speaker 3: Niggas don't give a fuck until we at the garden
- 16:57Speaker 3: party and there's no invite.
- 16:58Speaker 4: The tickets drop in fucking June.
- 16:59Speaker 1: Yo, baby, have you ever been to the garden party?
- 17:01Speaker 3: Of course she has it.
- 17:02Speaker 8: Has anybody ever invited you? We've been around each other
- 17:04Speaker 8: for seven years. Has anybody ever hit you up, baby girl?
- 17:07Speaker 8: And say, hey, you want to go to the garden party?
- 17:09Speaker 8: Bring your bum ass man.
- 17:11Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten that invite, Nate?
- 17:14Speaker 2: Huh?
- 17:14Speaker 6: From your friend?
- 17:15Speaker 1: We're going to see.
- 17:16Speaker 14: Huh?
- 17:16Speaker 1: We're going to see.
- 17:17Speaker 3: Everybody pop shit like this.
- 17:18Speaker 8: And then when it's really time. It's just everybody else.
- 17:21Speaker 8: It's just sometimes say, yo, you know what?
- 17:22Speaker 1: You're right. I see where I could have. Nah. You
- 17:25Speaker 1: always know the hits in today to get me to
- 17:27Speaker 1: do something. You know that.
- 17:29Speaker 4: You know that.
- 17:30Speaker 8: Have you ever hit Tenay to hit, yo, come to
- 17:33Speaker 8: the garden party.
- 17:34Speaker 4: Hey, come do this.
- 17:35Speaker 1: Yo, we going to brunch. Yo, bring that bum ass
- 17:37Speaker 1: nigga to Jersey.
- 17:38Speaker 6: Yo, bring him.
- 17:39Speaker 1: Yo, bring him. She knows to hit her.
- 17:40Speaker 3: You going to go to the garden party? That is
- 17:43Speaker 3: the new thing?
- 17:43Speaker 1: I literally just, see. Would you go? See, this is
- 17:45Speaker 1: the thing. It gets to a point, instead of just saying, yo,
- 17:49Speaker 1: you know what? You got it.
- 17:50Speaker 8: You want me to say, I'm literally sitting here complaining
- 17:53Speaker 8: about not going.
- 17:54Speaker 2: All right.
- 17:54Speaker 1: And now you're going to ask me, would you go?
- 17:56Speaker 3: Say less.
- 17:56Speaker 1: Would you go?
- 17:57Speaker 3: Come on, don't do that.
- 17:57Speaker 6: Say less.
- 17:57Speaker 3: Now I'm your fucking assistant. Every time I go out,
- 17:59Speaker 3: I'm just going, instead of posting it on my story
- 18:02Speaker 3: where all my friends can see it, let me post
- 18:03Speaker 3: it to you personally.
- 18:04Speaker 1: I don't watch Instagram stories.
- 18:06Speaker 4: You live on Instagram.
- 18:08Speaker 1: No, I do not.
- 18:09Speaker 3: What do you mean?
- 18:10Speaker 4: Your little green bubble always on.
- 18:13Speaker 1: I post and go. I have things to do. I'm
- 18:16Speaker 1: not cheating. I post and go.
- 18:20Speaker 3: That's crazy as hell.
- 18:21Speaker 6: Okay.
- 18:22Speaker 1: Yesterday, you see me in your like?
- 18:23Speaker 5: I know you look through your views. No, he never
- 18:25Speaker 5: watched my shit at all.
- 18:27Speaker 7: I don't.
- 18:28Speaker 1: It's not that I wouldn't. I just don't.
- 18:29Speaker 6: Why do you know that?
- 18:32Speaker 9: Because he says something to me about it one day.
- 18:33Speaker 9: I'm like, nigga, I never see you in there. So
- 18:35Speaker 9: what are you talking about?
- 18:36Speaker 1: He looks. No, he looks. He's that guy.
- 18:38Speaker 6: Okay.
- 18:38Speaker 3: Well, you know what? All right. So I will concede.
- 18:41Speaker 3: I'm wrong. I'm the bad friend.
- 18:43Speaker 6: See?
- 18:44Speaker 3: Nope.
- 18:45Speaker 5: There's a pathway forward for both of you guys.
- 18:48Speaker 3: No, I'm wrong.
- 18:49Speaker 4: I concede.
- 18:50Speaker 1: Just peep what she's doing. I'm the bad friend. I concede.
- 18:53Speaker 1: You got all these people here.
- 18:55Speaker 3: They already said I was wrong.
- 18:56Speaker 6: Who are....
- 18:58Speaker 1: On your side. They don't want to see you go.
- 19:01Speaker 8: And now you're going to pull a big ass anonymous
- 19:04Speaker 8: guilt trip on everybody here.
- 19:06Speaker 1: I can't win.
- 19:06Speaker 6: You're being hard on her. Just go.
- 19:09Speaker 1: She's asking you if you would go. Why you got
- 19:10Speaker 1: to be.
- 19:12Speaker 3: All right, Tanae, we outside. Let's go. See?
- 19:18Speaker 14: You see?
- 19:19Speaker 3: Tanae, we outside. Let's go.
- 19:20Speaker 6: That's probably the best solution though. Hit Tanae if y'all
- 19:23Speaker 6: want a link.
- 19:24Speaker 3: I think that the part that y'all are continuously missing
- 19:27Speaker 3: is I don't hit people up to hang out with me.
- 19:30Speaker 3: So we already asking for something that I don't do.
- 19:35Speaker 6: Right there.
- 19:36Speaker 9: We've already established that upon you leaving the show, y'all
- 19:38Speaker 9: both are going to have to do things that y'all
- 19:39Speaker 9: normally don't do to maintain a friendship.
- 19:42Speaker 3: I can't wait. I can't wait to see it.
- 19:45Speaker 8: At the end of the day, I do want to
- 19:47Speaker 8: say that I believe certain shit... becomes performative. I love
- 19:56Speaker 8: this girl no matter what. She's in a different level
- 19:59Speaker 8: of friendship for me. So regardless of whether I go
- 20:02Speaker 8: to Jersey or not, to me, I do hear what
- 20:08Speaker 8: she's saying.
- 20:09Speaker 3: Right?
- 20:10Speaker 1: You've never come to see me. You don't even pull
- 20:12Speaker 1: up on Parker.
- 20:13Speaker 6: You don't. Listen.
- 20:15Speaker 1: See, look, look, look, look, look.
- 20:17Speaker 8: See, when I'm trying to be accountable and say, now
- 20:19Speaker 8: I got to go through the bullshit. Because when I
- 20:21Speaker 8: do it, when I say how I feel, I don't
- 20:25Speaker 8: get this.
- 20:25Speaker 4: But I'm man enough to.
- 20:26Speaker 1: Say, yeah, I hear you saying, yo, it could be lonely.
- 20:30Speaker 1: You know, I got the car. She don't have to whip.
- 20:32Speaker 8: I could do certain things. My time is super limited.
- 20:35Speaker 8: I will put that out there. But Effort can be made.
- 20:39Speaker 8: I don't mind admitting that.
- 20:40Speaker 6: You know what's funny? I'm laughing because I'm like, are
- 20:43Speaker 6: all women like this? Because I go through this.
- 20:44Speaker 14: Yo!
- 20:45Speaker 6: Like, I'd be in my most vulnerable... I'd be like,
- 20:47Speaker 6: you know what? I'm going to try to do better.
- 20:49Speaker 6: You know what? And she'd be like, yeah, that's right.
- 20:51Speaker 6: She'll double down. Yeah, that's right. Instead of being like... Damn,
- 20:54Speaker 6: you can't be like, oh yeah, I'll do better also.
- 20:57Speaker 6: It's an exchange.
- 20:59Speaker 5: It's an exchange, right?
- 21:01Speaker 3: I conceded first.
- 21:02Speaker 1: Nah, it was a bullshit concede. It wasn't a real concede.
- 21:06Speaker 9: Can y'all agree to move forward in harmony? I'm not
- 21:11Speaker 9: in a harmonious mood right now. I understand that, but
- 21:14Speaker 9: I think there's a pathway forward. At least starting on
- 21:16Speaker 9: the seeing each other point. I don't know about everything else.
- 21:19Speaker 1: Last week on this podcast.
- 21:21Speaker 3: You don't want to hang out with me.
- 21:22Speaker 1: I mentioned that me and this woman had smoke anywhere.
- 21:25Speaker 6: Oh, shit.
- 21:26Speaker 1: I don't know why. I didn't even do shit.
- 21:28Speaker 8: One of y'all, I was about to say some nasty things, went,
- 21:34Speaker 8: ran down the block to go tell her.
- 21:38Speaker 5: They ran?
- 21:39Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 21:43Speaker 4: So we only live down the block.
- 21:44Speaker 1: He said that he got beef with you. By the way,
- 21:48Speaker 1: what's up, y'all?
- 21:48Speaker 8: How y'all feeling out there today? I feel like we
- 21:53Speaker 8: didn't introduce the show today. Just came in hot.
- 21:55Speaker 6: Hot. Look hot.
- 21:58Speaker 3: I'm just here, y'all.
- 21:59Speaker 1: It's 9-11.
- 22:00Speaker 6: Oh, wow.
- 22:01Speaker 1: Very ironic that today is 9-11.
- 22:04Speaker 6: Why is that ironic?
- 22:07Speaker 1: Whole shit come down. Oh, my God.
- 22:11Speaker 6: This is crazy.
- 22:13Speaker 1: Old shit go down.
- 22:16Speaker 3: This is so disingenuous.
- 22:18Speaker 1: The symbol of New York. Right? The symbol.
- 22:22Speaker 8: This is the anniversary that the symbol of New York crumbled.
- 22:26Speaker 8: I think that's one of the things about this show
- 22:28Speaker 8: that we've always been, that people appreciate across the world.
- 22:32Speaker 8: We got listeners in all different countries. Is that you
- 22:35Speaker 8: got these three people. Yesterday, I'm sorry, you wasn't there.
- 22:39Speaker 8: That are from Brooklyn, represent New York. ideas from different
- 22:44Speaker 8: parts of it.
- 22:44Speaker 1: You know what I mean? And one of these motherfuckers decides,
- 22:49Speaker 1: I want to move to Jersey.
- 22:52Speaker 6: And quit.
- 22:55Speaker 3: That's what happened? That's the narrative?
- 22:57Speaker 4: So I just moved to Jersey and quit.
- 22:58Speaker 6: That sequence is so.
- 23:02Speaker 1: Nasty.
- 23:04Speaker 3: Yo, it's actually insane. It's actually insane.
- 23:08Speaker 6: Oh, man.
- 23:10Speaker 9: Never had a frame shit boy just a villain out
- 23:15Speaker 9: here I've.
- 23:15Speaker 1: Been the guilt troop king for mad long but what
- 23:18Speaker 1: is that why am I like that.
- 23:19Speaker 6: I don't know you're an artist with it boy you
- 23:22Speaker 6: paint the picture.
- 23:23Speaker 3: Yeah for sure are you gonna tell the truth now
- 23:26Speaker 3: or what's the truth tell me what's your truth I'm
- 23:28Speaker 3: gonna tell your truth you just told it you said
- 23:32Speaker 3: I moved to Jersey and I quit that's what you
- 23:33Speaker 3: just said that's.
- 23:34Speaker 1: My truth what's your truth what is the reason why
- 23:36Speaker 1: you're leaving the show.
- 23:39Speaker 6: Got them. I want to know.
- 23:43Speaker 3: Well, I didn't talk to you.
- 23:44Speaker 5: Yeah, you never actually talked to me.
- 23:45Speaker 1: I actually didn't actually tell you. We was partying.
- 23:47Speaker 3: Yeah, I was with you.
- 23:47Speaker 10: Hold on.
- 23:48Speaker 5: Can I say something?
- 23:49Speaker 6: So, right?
- 23:51Speaker 5: So, remember what she said earlier, guys? We went to T-Chop, right?
- 23:54Speaker 3: I didn't quit then.
- 23:56Speaker 5: So, prior to that.
- 23:57Speaker 3: I quit after. No, I quit in July.
- 24:02Speaker 1: Did I quit in July?
- 24:02Speaker 5: Well, listen. We went to T-Chop.
- 24:04Speaker 6: I quit in July.
- 24:05Speaker 9: So, I'm like, yo, me and Dr. B on the text.
- 24:07Speaker 9: She get there. I get there. It's a great time.
- 24:10Speaker 9: Great time. I see my other coworkers and shit. We
- 24:13Speaker 9: had a great time. I'm thinking everything is good. I'm like, yo,
- 24:16Speaker 9: I'm like, yeah, this is real team bonding right here. Like,
- 24:19Speaker 9: you feel me? Off to the side.
- 24:20Speaker 5: Like, I'm thinking we really cooking right now. So I
- 24:24Speaker 5: speak to Tahoe the next day. So he like, yeah,
- 24:26Speaker 5: how was that little teacher hop shit?
- 24:28Speaker 9: I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, nah,
- 24:32Speaker 9: I'm like, nah, I'm like, nah, it was good.
- 24:34Speaker 5: I'm like, nah, me and Dodge, we was in there.
- 24:35Speaker 5: It was vibes.
- 24:36Speaker 1: It was good vibes.
- 24:37Speaker 5: And he like, Oh, oh, that's funny. He's like, she
- 24:41Speaker 5: told you that she leaving?
- 24:42Speaker 14: I said.
- 24:43Speaker 3: Yo, that's hate.
- 24:44Speaker 6: Huh?
- 24:45Speaker 3: Why you said it like that?
- 24:46Speaker 5: I said, wait, what you mean leaving?
- 24:48Speaker 1: How you going to hang out with the nigga that
- 24:50Speaker 1: you're leaving, that you're stranding?
- 24:51Speaker 5: And I said.
- 24:52Speaker 1: And not telling nigga like, yo.
- 24:54Speaker 9: That's crazy as hell. I said, yo, I said, yo,
- 24:55Speaker 9: we was hands in the air. I'm like, yo, I
- 24:58Speaker 9: thought at least at some point she would have.
- 25:00Speaker 5: Been like, yo, big dog.
- 25:02Speaker 3: I hadn't decided at that point.
- 25:04Speaker 5: Yes, you did.
- 25:04Speaker 4: No, I did not. Yes, you did.
- 25:06Speaker 5: No, you had to because the day after.
- 25:07Speaker 6: You already told me.
- 25:07Speaker 5: Yeah, the day after Tyler, he told me that. He
- 25:09Speaker 5: said that you already decided.
- 25:10Speaker 1: Damn, my timeline is fucked up.
- 25:11Speaker 8: And then you went and jammed out and didn't talk
- 25:13Speaker 8: about why you ain't coming because you didn't invite me.
- 25:15Speaker 1: You quit and then went out and partied.
- 25:18Speaker 4: That's what you did.
- 25:20Speaker 5: And what did I say to you that day? I said, damn, bro,
- 25:22Speaker 5: I would have loved to know that.
- 25:23Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 25:24Speaker 4: I would have loved to have the information. And this
- 25:26Speaker 4: is a true story.
- 25:27Speaker 1: That's a fact.
- 25:28Speaker 9: No, I'm not saying, nothing I'm saying is cap. Everything
- 25:30Speaker 9: I'm saying is for real. I said, I said, I said,
- 25:34Speaker 9: I said, did I tell you how she quit?
- 25:37Speaker 3: All right. Can we not do that? Can we, we
- 25:39Speaker 3: can do anything, but let's not do that.
- 25:41Speaker 1: Why not?
- 25:42Speaker 3: Because it's petty.
- 25:43Speaker 6: It's petty.
- 25:43Speaker 3: It's petty as fuck. That's petty as fuck. So we're
- 25:47Speaker 3: not going to, I'm not going to do that with you.
- 25:50Speaker 1: All right. But you will admit that you quit fucked up.
- 25:53Speaker 4: I admitted that to you.
- 25:54Speaker 1: All right, good.
- 25:55Speaker 4: Are we done?
- 25:55Speaker 1: Yeah, we're good. You a bitch ass nigga. Yeah.
- 25:59Speaker 14: Yes.
- 25:59Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 26:00Speaker 4: It's three quarters of my power.
- 26:02Speaker 3: You a bitch ass nigga for real.
- 26:03Speaker 4: It's three quarters of my fucking power. That's crazy as hell.
- 26:06Speaker 1: That I don't give a fuck about having to be
- 26:08Speaker 1: this stand up masculine. Yes, I'll be a bitch ass
- 26:11Speaker 1: nigga for likes and clicks and views. That's crazy.
- 26:14Speaker 6: What the fuck?
- 26:15Speaker 1: Yes.
- 26:17Speaker 3: What do y'all want from me? Y'all want me to
- 26:19Speaker 3: be better and I can't today.
- 26:24Speaker 1: Make boys cry. That's on your show today.
- 26:27Speaker 3: Yeah, make boys cry.
- 26:30Speaker 1: Make boys cry.
- 26:31Speaker 3: So, all right. No, because no, we're not going to
- 26:33Speaker 3: do that.
- 26:34Speaker 6: Hey, y'all.
- 26:35Speaker 7: Hey.
- 26:37Speaker 3: So what had happened was.
- 26:38Speaker 5: Flat lever.
- 26:44Speaker 1: Oh, please.
- 26:45Speaker 3: All right. So this is really what it is. I, friends,
- 26:52Speaker 3: am tired. And I'm not tired of the pod itself.
- 26:59Speaker 3: I'm tired like in life. I feel like I am
- 27:03Speaker 3: consistently the type of person, like as soon as I
- 27:05Speaker 3: have like a moment of peace, I add something else
- 27:08Speaker 3: to my plate.
- 27:08Speaker 4: And I don't know why I do that.
- 27:10Speaker 3: It could be the ADHD. It could be the anxiety.
- 27:12Speaker 3: It could be like having to deal with silence. But
- 27:17Speaker 3: my last year, this is my last year of grad school.
- 27:20Speaker 3: I'm fighting for my fucking life.
- 27:23Speaker 4: Also, Parker is seven.
- 27:25Speaker 3: She's about to be eight. And I don't think that
- 27:28Speaker 3: y'all understand or see it in context because we had
- 27:30Speaker 3: this conversation.
- 27:31Speaker 1: That nigga is, that she, yo, that's a person now. Yeah.
- 27:34Speaker 1: That's a person now.
- 27:35Speaker 3: I have to frame it for y'all in context bigger
- 27:38Speaker 3: than just the pod.
- 27:39Speaker 4: When I started the pod, I was pregnant. I gave birth.
- 27:44Speaker 4: Tahoe was in.
- 27:45Speaker 3: My ear like a fucking crazy nigga. When you coming
- 27:48Speaker 3: back to the pod, I said, bitch, I just had
- 27:50Speaker 3: a baby.
- 27:50Speaker 4: Bring the baby.
- 27:51Speaker 6: Remember. No, for real.
- 27:54Speaker 1: Bring the baby.
- 27:55Speaker 6: That's true.
- 27:55Speaker 5: That part is true.
- 27:56Speaker 3: You got to remember, for those of us that's been here,
- 27:59Speaker 3: Parker used to be a little ass baby on my
- 28:02Speaker 3: chest mid-pod. I have not spent an entire weekend with
- 28:08Speaker 3: my kids for more than maybe... a few weeks in
- 28:14Speaker 3: seven years parker done with this shit like she's just
- 28:18Speaker 3: like oh you're going to new york to work with
- 28:21Speaker 3: uncle tahoe so you're gonna be back in the night
- 28:23Speaker 3: when i'm sleep so i guess i'll see you tomorrow
- 28:26Speaker 3: i worked six days a week for eight years because
- 28:31Speaker 3: we're talking about from from pregnancy like i've worked six
- 28:34Speaker 3: days a week for eight years I don't want to
- 28:40Speaker 3: leave when it's beef. I don't want to leave because
- 28:43Speaker 3: I'm tired of y'all niggas. And I've been tired of
- 28:45Speaker 3: y'all niggas collectively for years on and off.
- 28:48Speaker 4: But I don't want it to be like that.
- 28:51Speaker 3: But at one, I had to sit with myself and like,
- 28:53Speaker 3: it has to end at some point. Like, this is
- 28:55Speaker 3: not a 360 deal. Niggas ain't signing shit in perpetuity.
- 28:59Speaker 3: So why? I said that to you.
- 29:01Speaker 6: On the quit.
- 29:02Speaker 3: On the quit. But I'm like, so why? At some point,
- 29:06Speaker 3: it has to stop. And once I moved to Jersey,
- 29:09Speaker 3: you have to realize I've been traveling to come to
- 29:13Speaker 3: the pod longer than I was in New York on
- 29:17Speaker 3: the pod.
- 29:19Speaker 1: It's a lot.
- 29:20Speaker 3: It's a lot on me. It's a lot on the family.
- 29:22Speaker 3: It's a lot on my kid. My kid was like, oh,
- 29:25Speaker 3: so now I can see you on the weekends.
- 29:27Speaker 4: You don't understand how her face lit up and I
- 29:29Speaker 4: felt fucking bad.
- 29:30Speaker 6: Mm-hmm.
- 29:31Speaker 4: So honestly, I love coming here.
- 29:33Speaker 3: I love the conversations. I love kicking and shit with y'all,
- 29:36Speaker 3: but it's not worth missing out on. so much time.
- 29:41Speaker 3: Like I've, I only been gone for a month and
- 29:45Speaker 3: I did mad shit with my kid. I, dead-ass tired
- 29:50Speaker 3: by the time I get home from work on the
- 29:52Speaker 3: weekends I'll come here on a Friday or I'm here
- 29:54Speaker 3: on a Sunday I'll have one day to myself and
- 29:57Speaker 3: that day is in the bed because I need to
- 30:00Speaker 3: recoup for the next week like I I can't I'm
- 30:03Speaker 3: not fucking superwoman and I had to be really honest
- 30:06Speaker 3: about where my capacity is Bitch.
- 30:10Speaker 8: Fuck you.
- 30:11Speaker 1: How long is you talking about?
- 30:12Speaker 3: I gave you eight years.
- 30:15Speaker 4: When is it going to be enough for you? Like,
- 30:17Speaker 4: when are you going to be, like, when is it
- 30:18Speaker 4: going to be like, you know what, Dodge?
- 30:20Speaker 3: Like, I understand. It's not about you.
- 30:23Speaker 1: Dodge, I understand. I know.
- 30:25Speaker 3: It's just not, it's not about anybody at this point. Like,
- 30:28Speaker 3: I just, I gotta, I need to calm down.
- 30:31Speaker 1: I'm chilling. When you got here, Cudi had left.
- 30:38Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
- 30:41Speaker 1: I don't remember.
- 30:43Speaker 6: It was.
- 30:44Speaker 3: Kay Vega.
- 30:44Speaker 6: Kay Vega.
- 30:44Speaker 3: You asked me to be a fucking guest.
- 30:47Speaker 1: Everybody hated Kay Vega because she's just nuts.
- 30:51Speaker 6: Hey, Kay.
- 30:54Speaker 12: Oh, yeah.
- 30:54Speaker 3: No Come Girl. I forgot about that person.
- 30:56Speaker 8: No Come Girl was here. Trom was here. And in
- 31:00Speaker 8: the midst of that, my life did.
- 31:04Speaker 1: A series of swoop, down, up, swoop, left.
- 31:08Speaker 8: Right, And you continuously came. You continuously held it down.
- 31:13Speaker 8: You continuously stood by me, schooled me. Sometimes I got
- 31:18Speaker 8: on your nerves to the point where you wanted to quit.
- 31:19Speaker 6: You never quit. You never quit. You.
- 31:25Speaker 1: When the world was like, fuck that nigga. You was like, no,
- 31:29Speaker 1: fuck y'all. That's my friend. Always.
- 31:35Speaker 6: I understand.
- 31:35Speaker 2: I love you.
- 31:36Speaker 1: I'm in a good place. We're in a good place.
- 31:38Speaker 6: Mm-hmm.
- 31:39Speaker 1: You nigga.
- 31:41Speaker 8: What I want to know, because I know I feel
- 31:43Speaker 8: myself getting weird. I used to be the villain.
- 31:48Speaker 1: When did you choose to be the villain?
- 31:50Speaker 3: I've always been the villain.
- 31:51Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, no.
- 31:52Speaker 8: You used to try to stop me from being the villain.
- 31:54Speaker 8: When she first got here, it was always correcting me
- 31:57Speaker 8: and saying shit. When did you start saying, like, when
- 32:00Speaker 8: did you decide, I'm going to go.
- 32:02Speaker 1: Hard at these niggas now?
- 32:03Speaker 6: Fuck that.
- 32:04Speaker 3: Well, we can't both be the villain.
- 32:05Speaker 1: Because for the last three or four years, we've been
- 32:07Speaker 1: trying to correct her.
- 32:08Speaker 8: Like, yo, you can't say that.
- 32:10Speaker 4: You can't say that.
- 32:11Speaker 6: When the fuck.
- 32:13Speaker 4: Did that happen in your head?
- 32:15Speaker 3: You know what? I've always been a villain. But I
- 32:22Speaker 3: don't like being the villain. And there's something about this room.
- 32:28Speaker 3: That y'all really make me say the things that I
- 32:31Speaker 3: really think on the inside out loud.
- 32:33Speaker 4: And I hide it from the rest of the world.
- 32:35Speaker 4: And I think I do a pretty good job.
- 32:37Speaker 3: But y'all get to talking and y'all get to triggering.
- 32:40Speaker 4: And I'm just like, you know what, man? Fuck all
- 32:43Speaker 4: this shit.
- 32:44Speaker 2: All right.
- 32:44Speaker 3: Let me tell you how I really feel.
- 32:47Speaker 4: I love it here.
- 32:49Speaker 3: And for so many years, so many people was like,
- 32:50Speaker 3: I don't understand why you do that podcast. You got
- 32:53Speaker 3: so many other things going on for yourself. How are
- 32:54Speaker 3: you the principal of a school? And I'm like, this
- 32:58Speaker 3: is my safe space. This is a space where I
- 32:59Speaker 3: can come and literally 100% be myself and say the
- 33:02Speaker 3: shit that I really feel. Because I can't do this
- 33:05Speaker 3: shit in my regular life.
- 33:07Speaker 4: But also, it's just like, mama is tired.
- 33:11Speaker 3: I'm tired. I'm tired of traveling. I'm tired of.
- 33:17Speaker 3: The late nights.
- 33:18Speaker 4: I'm tired.
- 33:19Speaker 3: I've been tired of the comments. I didn't stop talking, child.
- 33:22Speaker 3: I don't even have the time. And I just, I
- 33:24Speaker 3: just want to chill. And it's not like a goodbye forever.
- 33:28Speaker 3: And we discussed this. It's not a goodbye forever. Like
- 33:30Speaker 3: if this is like real housewives of Brooklyn, you know,
- 33:33Speaker 3: I'm the friend of housewives.
- 33:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 33:36Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 33:36Speaker 1: Why we can't, there's really a real husbands of right.
- 33:39Speaker 1: It was right there. Why we can't do that?
- 33:40Speaker 3: No, because like, because real housewives, you know, you get
- 33:43Speaker 3: like your peach, you get your apple, you know, I
- 33:44Speaker 3: got my Tim's.
- 33:46Speaker 6: I'm the Tim's.
- 33:47Speaker 3: No, we all got the Timbs.
- 33:48Speaker 1: I don't know which one of you niggas is going
- 33:49Speaker 1: to be the peach.
- 33:50Speaker 6: I don't even know what y'all talking about. I don't
- 33:51Speaker 6: even know what's happening.
- 33:52Speaker 4: Y'all don't get it.
- 33:54Speaker 3: The people don't get it. But no, it's like I'm
- 33:56Speaker 3: just a friend of. And I'll be here and I'll
- 33:58Speaker 3: be around. And when I get that itch, I'll be
- 34:01Speaker 3: back and talk my shit. But like every week? Nah,
- 34:06Speaker 3: I'm chilling with my kid. And I've been enjoying chilling
- 34:10Speaker 3: with him. I've been enjoying being home.
- 34:12Speaker 6: I was just thinking about this earlier today, what you
- 34:14Speaker 6: said about just being here and the way you talk.
- 34:17Speaker 6: I talk on this podcast in a way I don't
- 34:20Speaker 6: really get to talk anywhere else. And what made me
- 34:23Speaker 6: think of that today was the whole controversy about Fat
- 34:28Speaker 6: Joe and the N-word. I was like, yo, I say
- 34:30Speaker 6: nigga all the time on the podcast, but outside of here,
- 34:32Speaker 6: I don't really say it that much. But it's like,
- 34:35Speaker 6: I'm here kicking it with y'all. And, you know, Tahoe's
- 34:40Speaker 6: my best friend, so it's a level of comfort where
- 34:43Speaker 6: we just talking like nobody is watching.
- 34:46Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
- 34:46Speaker 4: Yo, I be forgetting that there's actually people that watch
- 34:49Speaker 4: this shit.
- 34:49Speaker 6: I've definitely got in trouble for that.
- 34:50Speaker 1: Yo, for real.
- 34:51Speaker 6: For talking like nobody's watching. So I've had to, you know,
- 34:54Speaker 6: figure things out. But, yeah, there's some comfort in that. Like,
- 34:57Speaker 6: I enjoy being here.
- 34:59Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it here. And I didn't want to
- 35:01Speaker 3: do it, but it's just like, when I'm here, I'm happy.
- 35:07Speaker 4: When I'm getting here, I'm tight. When I'm going back home,
- 35:10Speaker 4: I'm tight.
- 35:12Speaker 3: And it's just like, if I still lived in New York,
- 35:15Speaker 3: it would be easier. But it's been years of not.
- 35:18Speaker 3: When I lived in Jersey City, I used to take, what,
- 35:20Speaker 3: $ 80 cab? Because we was later than this. We would
- 35:22Speaker 3: be out of this bitch 10, 11, 12 o'clock.
- 35:25Speaker 6: I live two blocks away, and it's hard. So I
- 35:27Speaker 6: can only imagine.
- 35:28Speaker 1: Yeah, man.
- 35:30Speaker 6: I can imagine.
- 35:31Speaker 4: It's bittersweet, and I don't like being late.
- 35:36Speaker 3: You know, trauma. I don't like having to force y'all
- 35:41Speaker 3: to be remote when it's not the same feeling. I
- 35:45Speaker 3: be feeling bad that so many allowances have to be
- 35:50Speaker 3: made because it's so hard for me. So at some point,
- 35:54Speaker 3: I'm the common denominator.
- 35:55Speaker 1: That's not true.
- 35:57Speaker 3: That's how I feel. I don't want to feel like
- 35:59Speaker 3: the common denominator.
- 36:01Speaker 6: In what?
- 36:02Speaker 3: And scheduling issues. Because I only have two days to
- 36:06Speaker 3: give y'all niggas. And if y'all can't get it, I'll
- 36:08Speaker 3: be like, well.
- 36:10Speaker 4: I'll be feeling bad.
- 36:11Speaker 8: I feel like that was what was happening for the last...
- 36:13Speaker 8: I felt like I was preparing for you to leave
- 36:15Speaker 8: way before you decided to tell me.
- 36:16Speaker 4: You've been trying to get me to quit for years.
- 36:19Speaker 1: Trying to get you.
- 36:21Speaker 3: How? But you don't do it like... on purpose it's
- 36:24Speaker 3: kind of like a let me break up with you
- 36:26Speaker 3: before you break up with me you've been doing this
- 36:27Speaker 3: shit for years like because i.
- 36:29Speaker 4: Know you won't leave anyway because everybody leave.
- 36:31Speaker 1: I'm like bitch i'm not leaving you.
- 36:32Speaker 8: Calm down i never that's crazy you did you used
- 36:36Speaker 8: to do that shit all the time especially in the
- 36:38Speaker 8: earlier days when you was really going through it like all.
- 36:40Speaker 1: Right i was going yeah i.
- 36:42Speaker 8: Was saying this the other day on the internet about
- 36:44Speaker 8: megan right because now she's crying about clay thompson That
- 36:48Speaker 8: was real?
- 36:49Speaker 1: Uh-oh, Travis.
- 36:50Speaker 6: That was real?
- 36:50Speaker 1: I don't know, but I saw that. I don't know.
- 36:52Speaker 8: And people was attacking Megan for, oh, you seem to
- 36:56Speaker 8: always be the problem.
- 36:58Speaker 1: It's always something. You always crying, whatever, whatever, right?
- 37:00Speaker 8: And I said, yo, with all due respect to whatever
- 37:04Speaker 8: y'all think Megan may have done, I really don't give
- 37:06Speaker 8: a shit or not, right? But I know what it's
- 37:08Speaker 8: like to go through some traumatic shit.
- 37:10Speaker 6: Mm-hmm.
- 37:11Speaker 1: And not be yourself for years. She lost her mom.
- 37:15Speaker 8: I know people that lose their mom and are lost
- 37:18Speaker 8: and in abyss for a minute. Let alone getting shot.
- 37:22Speaker 8: Let alone beefing with Nicki Minaj and her fucking... The armada.
- 37:27Speaker 1: What do they call them?
- 37:27Speaker 5: The idiots? The barbs.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Loudly on social media.
- 37:31Speaker 8: Every time you drop something, they call you all types
- 37:33Speaker 8: of big feet and all this and all that. While
- 37:36Speaker 8: you're still trying to heal, you got niggas in cells,
- 37:39Speaker 8: niggas that love Tory. You never really allowed a chance
- 37:43Speaker 8: to find a base level of okay.
- 37:46Speaker 1: So, yeah, you're not going to be okay. You're not
- 37:50Speaker 1: going to be okay for a long time. She could
- 37:52Speaker 1: use a little grace. And this is.
- 37:56Speaker 8: Because I really wasn't paying attention until I watched that
- 37:58Speaker 8: documentary y'all made me watch. But I thought of like, damn,
- 38:02Speaker 8: just losing your moms alone could fuck you up. And
- 38:05Speaker 8: you in the public eye, millions and millions of people
- 38:07Speaker 8: expecting you to be a certain way and you don't
- 38:09Speaker 8: really know who the fuck you are anymore. So what
- 38:12Speaker 8: I'm bringing back to myself is, yes, when all of
- 38:15Speaker 8: that shit happened, I didn't realize until.
- 38:17Speaker 1: Early this year, when the debt start calming down, how
- 38:21Speaker 1: fucked up I was about all of the things that
- 38:23Speaker 1: happened over the last six, seven years where I wasn't
- 38:26Speaker 1: even myself. I didn't even know who I was.
- 38:28Speaker 3: It's real.
- 38:29Speaker 1: So, yeah, I might have said to you, like, oh,
- 38:30Speaker 1: everybody leaves.
- 38:31Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 38:32Speaker 4: I was going through some shit.
- 38:33Speaker 3: And I was just like, like, anytime I would get mad,
- 38:35Speaker 3: I'm just like, yo, like, I'm good. Like, I'm going
- 38:36Speaker 3: to be mad for the moment. You mad, fucking annoying.
- 38:38Speaker 3: But I'm going to stick beside you through it all.
- 38:40Speaker 1: Yeah, you would say, I told you I'm not going to.
- 38:43Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 38:43Speaker 6: So, whatever.
- 38:45Speaker 1: In any case... Joy's birthday was a couple days ago.
- 38:54Speaker 1: That shit comes up on my calendar. I'm like, y'all
- 39:00Speaker 1: remember Joy?
- 39:01Speaker 6: Of course.
- 39:01Speaker 3: I don't want to do it.
- 39:03Speaker 4: Are we doing this?
- 39:04Speaker 6: Hey, Joy.
- 39:05Speaker 1: If she knows you're quitting, I'm sure she's going to
- 39:06Speaker 1: tune in.
- 39:07Speaker 6: Hey, Joy. I don't know.
- 39:11Speaker 3: No, that was before your social.
- 39:13Speaker 1: Joy was an intern.
- 39:14Speaker 6: What was she?
- 39:15Speaker 1: Intern? I don't know what she was. And she stole
- 39:18Speaker 1: like $ 8, 000 from us.
- 39:20Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 39:21Speaker 1: That had the card or something.
- 39:23Speaker 8: I can't remember how she got the numbers, what she
- 39:25Speaker 8: was doing, but embezzled thousands.
- 39:30Speaker 6: Embezzled.
- 39:30Speaker 3: No, she really did. And then, and then, yo, every
- 39:33Speaker 3: time some wild shit happened on staff, Tahoe always be like, yo, Dodge,
- 39:37Speaker 3: go talk to her. You deal with it. Dodge, go
- 39:39Speaker 3: deal with it. Dodge, go deal with it. And I'm
- 39:41Speaker 3: just like, all right, so I'm going to put you
- 39:42Speaker 3: on a payment plan. Like I had to like, yo, Tahoe, yo, son,
- 39:46Speaker 3: it was just crazy. It was crazy.
- 39:47Speaker 6: Did she make any payments?
- 39:48Speaker 5: You put on a payment plan for eight bands?
- 39:49Speaker 6: She made like four bands.
- 39:50Speaker 3: She made a few and then she disappeared.
- 39:52Speaker 5: I don't know.
- 39:52Speaker 1: And we was like, fuck it. Yeah, we just... She
- 39:55Speaker 1: owed like four change too.
- 39:57Speaker 3: Yeah, I had to put on a payment plan. This
- 39:59Speaker 3: is fucking crazy.
- 39:59Speaker 12: Yo, Tom, you.
- 40:02Speaker 3: Yo, Tyler's crazy as hell, son. Yo, these last couple
- 40:06Speaker 3: years have been nuts. This nigga bought a fucking restaurant.
- 40:09Speaker 3: We was recording in the fucking restaurant at the table.
- 40:13Speaker 3: We used to record everywhere. We recorded in your house.
- 40:18Speaker 3: We recorded downstairs when the walls was red. Remember the
- 40:22Speaker 3: red walls?
- 40:23Speaker 7: Actually, I.
- 40:25Speaker 1: Actually have a video to play.
- 40:27Speaker 3: Oh my God.
- 40:28Speaker 1: As I always do.
- 40:29Speaker 2: Right?
- 40:30Speaker 8: I want y'all to Give me grace with the video
- 40:35Speaker 8: because I just sat here and edited a video because
- 40:40Speaker 8: I wanted to pay homage to you being here for
- 40:44Speaker 8: so long.
- 40:45Speaker 6: What?
- 40:46Speaker 5: Fire.
- 40:46Speaker 6: You all right?
- 40:47Speaker 1: No.
- 40:49Speaker 6: Y'all ready? I'm ready. I'm super ready.
- 40:51Speaker 3: I'm not ready.
- 40:52Speaker 6: Oh, my God.
- 40:53Speaker 8: I'm going to put it into the new episode folders.
- 40:59Speaker 8: I don't know if it's going to go through because
- 41:00Speaker 8: it's kind of long. If not, I'm going to play
- 41:04Speaker 8: it here and then y'all can figure it out if,
- 41:06Speaker 8: you know, how you want to figure it out.
- 41:10Speaker 6: What?
- 41:10Speaker 2: What?
- 41:10Speaker 6: Nice little montage.
- 41:11Speaker 3: That shit is going to stress me out. I feel it.
- 41:14Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 41:15Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 41:15Speaker 1: It's not going to. I got to figure it out.
- 41:17Speaker 1: Let me see. Hold on a second.
- 41:18Speaker 6: You think it's going to stress you out?
- 41:19Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 41:20Speaker 3: I don't know what you compiled together. We said some
- 41:23Speaker 3: horrible things. Yo, you remember when we used to record
- 41:25Speaker 3: in that restaurant in Flatbush before the pandemic? Or was
- 41:28Speaker 3: it after?
- 41:29Speaker 1: No, it was before.
- 41:29Speaker 3: Yeah, before the pandemic.
- 41:30Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 41:31Speaker 3: And it was so convenient because it was right by
- 41:33Speaker 3: my job. I used to have the world having to
- 41:36Speaker 3: babysit Parker just so I can come record with these niggas.
- 41:39Speaker 6: The world is funny.
- 41:39Speaker 3: The whole world.
- 41:40Speaker 5: It's a community.
- 41:43Speaker 3: Tahoe got me in trouble because he called one of
- 41:44Speaker 3: my friends an au pair and then she got mad
- 41:47Speaker 3: at me. The girl I don't talk to no more.
- 41:49Speaker 5: She was shaped like a pear?
- 41:51Speaker 3: No, an au pair.
- 41:53Speaker 6: That's what I was thinking.
- 41:55Speaker 3: No an au pair like the French word it means
- 41:58Speaker 3: a nanny he called my friend a nanny to her
- 42:00Speaker 3: face and I'm like I did? yes nigga that's tough
- 42:03Speaker 3: that's tough that's super tough yes nigga.
- 42:05Speaker 5: Calling somebody a nanny and they're not a nanny.
- 42:07Speaker 3: Is on my wrist she was just my friend like
- 42:09Speaker 3: holding me down like so I could fucking have fun
- 42:12Speaker 3: and do my other job that's dead that's pretty tough
- 42:16Speaker 3: that nigga was like yeah like you acting like you
- 42:18Speaker 3: got an au pair right here I said what? yo
- 42:22Speaker 3: she was Hot.
- 42:24Speaker 1: I'd have been upset at that. That was crazy.
- 42:27Speaker 5: That was out of pocket.
- 42:28Speaker 3: To her face, bud.
- 42:30Speaker 5: She's 100% not a nanny.
- 42:31Speaker 4: While she had the baby.
- 42:33Speaker 1: We seen her recording.
- 42:34Speaker 4: She sitting there with, had the baby in a stroller
- 42:36Speaker 4: like this.
- 42:37Speaker 3: And this nigga.
- 42:38Speaker 13: Ha!
- 42:38Speaker 1: Oh, was that on Ivory?
- 42:40Speaker 6: No.
- 42:41Speaker 1: No, it was not.
- 42:41Speaker 3: We don't say, we're not doing that here.
- 42:44Speaker 6: Tahoe says out loud my inner thoughts. You know what
- 42:47Speaker 6: I mean? I might think shit like that. I was like,
- 42:49Speaker 6: you know what? That's me.
- 42:50Speaker 3: Niggas be like, I don't have a babysitter. Nah, go
- 42:52Speaker 3: call your homegirl. They'll be watching the baby. Yo, that's crazy.
- 42:56Speaker 6: Let me see if this goes through.
- 42:57Speaker 3: The nigga snuck in the fucking hospital when I had
- 42:59Speaker 3: the baby.
- 43:02Speaker 5: That's funny.
- 43:02Speaker 6: Right?
- 43:04Speaker 1: At work.
- 43:04Speaker 3: Yes.
- 43:05Speaker 6: While at work.
- 43:05Speaker 4: While at work.
- 43:06Speaker 1: Pulled up.
- 43:08Speaker 6: While you were at work?
- 43:09Speaker 1: Yeah, I was at work. Pulled up in the sanitation uniform.
- 43:12Speaker 3: Yeah, because they was like, oh, you can only have
- 43:13Speaker 3: three people in the room.
- 43:14Speaker 1: And he hit me.
- 43:14Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, they said I can only. He was like, man,
- 43:16Speaker 3: fuck that.
- 43:17Speaker 4: Popped up a couple minutes.
- 43:18Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, what the fuck is that?
- 43:20Speaker 1: And that was seven people.
- 43:21Speaker 5: In my room.
- 43:21Speaker 1: They got right in there. It's not going through the
- 43:25Speaker 1: discord because of... Oh, wait, it's going.
- 43:28Speaker 6: It's going. It's going. Pulling up in a sanitation outfit
- 43:31Speaker 6: is kind of crazy in the hospital.
- 43:33Speaker 1: Shut up, nigga. I thought that, but.
- 43:36Speaker 3: Remember when y'all used to carry the... One of y'all
- 43:39Speaker 3: used to carry the baby up the stairs and one
- 43:41Speaker 3: of y'all used to carry the stroller up the stairs?
- 43:42Speaker 1: The stroller, yeah, I remember. We did that?
- 43:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 43:45Speaker 1: We had the baby here? Yeah, you psycho.
- 43:48Speaker 3: She used to be right here on my chest, and
- 43:50Speaker 3: I'm here recording, talking mad shit.
- 43:52Speaker 1: She used to be right here.
- 43:52Speaker 6: Or the stroller would be right to the side.
- 43:54Speaker 1: Right next to us. Damn, that is kind of harsh.
- 43:57Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 43:57Speaker 3: You ain't shit.
- 43:58Speaker 1: That's kind.
- 44:01Speaker 6: Of.
- 44:01Speaker 4: I can't... I have nothing to say. Nigga said, fuck that,
- 44:03Speaker 4: bring the baby.
- 44:03Speaker 3: What if she start crying?
- 44:04Speaker 4: Then bring the baby.
- 44:05Speaker 3: Bring the baby to the pod.
- 44:06Speaker 5: She said, we'll figure it out.
- 44:09Speaker 8: You became very important very fast. That oxtails conversations. Basically,
- 44:15Speaker 8: that cemented it. Oh, no, you got to be here.
- 44:18Speaker 8: That just cemented it.
- 44:19Speaker 3: So they called me like, no, you can't leave. I said,
- 44:21Speaker 3: what you mean I can't? Like, you asked me to
- 44:23Speaker 3: be a guest, hoe.
- 44:24Speaker 8: All right, before we start, I just want to let
- 44:29Speaker 8: y'all know I uploaded this video to Instagram. So if
- 44:32Speaker 8: you go to the So Shameless Instagram, you can watch
- 44:36Speaker 8: it instead of just listening to the sound.
- 44:39Speaker 1: So, you know, it hits a little harder if you see.
- 44:42Speaker 8: You know, the different time periods that we recorded, all
- 44:45Speaker 8: of this stuff.
- 44:47Speaker 6: But, here we go.
- 44:50Speaker 3: What is this music?
- 44:56Speaker 1: I have to play the music. Is this an obituary?
- 45:13Speaker 3: I love that video shoot. So if you deny a
- 45:19Speaker 3: white man a job right now, and you have this
- 45:21Speaker 3: DEI initiative, and you give that job to somebody Black,
- 45:24Speaker 3: they will sue the f * * * out of
- 45:25Speaker 3: you and call racism and call discrimination. So these companies
- 45:29Speaker 3: are trying to save themselves. I love that! It's always
- 45:35Speaker 3: the woman for making a mistake that the man made
- 45:38Speaker 3: for two.
- 45:38Speaker 4: It's the man too.
- 45:40Speaker 3: Literally a man cheating on a woman, on his wife,
- 45:44Speaker 3: on his family. Literally.
- 45:46Speaker 4: It's like one of the most forgivable sins.
- 45:48Speaker 3: Like everybody looks at women like they're. Stupid, how dare
- 45:52Speaker 3: you walk away from.
- 45:52Speaker 4: Your family just because he did that, that, that.
- 45:55Speaker 3: It's like women have to be like, like, like this
- 45:57Speaker 3: pillar of like perfection because oh my God, I can't
- 46:01Speaker 3: imagine the possibility of my girlfriend doing these things with somebody.
- 46:05Speaker 3: If you are in a relationship and you can't be
- 46:08Speaker 3: vulnerable or you don't see yourself being able to be
- 46:11Speaker 3: vulnerable with that person, that relationship needs to cease. There's
- 46:16Speaker 3: one thought process where I am 100% there for and
- 46:20Speaker 3: will be there for my husband. But then there's another
- 46:23Speaker 3: thought process where every day we go through trials and tribulations.
- 46:27Speaker 3: Every day we go through the ups and downs of life.
- 46:30Speaker 2: And.
- 46:30Speaker 3: Coming home every day complaining about the ups and downs
- 46:33Speaker 3: of life is disgusting.
- 46:35Speaker 4: That's what your boys is for. Hey guys, it is
- 46:38Speaker 4: Impala Crush.
- 46:40Speaker 3: So I just want to wish you the best of luck.
- 46:43Speaker 2: Thank you for spending years upon years. with us here
- 46:48Speaker 2: so shameless i've been around since before you even met
- 46:50Speaker 2: your husband um so it's been a while and i
- 46:54Speaker 2: appreciate the energy that you bring the insight that you
- 46:58Speaker 2: bring to the show in a way that only you
- 47:00Speaker 2: can do but i do understand that to everything there's
- 47:03Speaker 2: a season and you know sometimes um it's time to
- 47:07Speaker 2: move on to something else in life And I respect it.
- 47:11Speaker 2: So I wish you much success in whatever you are
- 47:15Speaker 2: going to do, whether that is a new endeavor or
- 47:17Speaker 2: whether you're just going to embrace being a wife, a mother,
- 47:20Speaker 2: and an educator.
- 47:21Speaker 3: Because being busy all the time is a fucking trauma response.
- 47:25Speaker 3: That's another combo.
- 47:27Speaker 2: Anyway, good luck on whatever you have going.
- 47:31Speaker 3: And if it is something that.
- 47:32Speaker 2: We can support, we will continue to do so, even
- 47:36Speaker 2: if you're not on Soul Shankless anymore. So God bless.
- 47:39Speaker 3: They don't have that type of relationship that you can
- 47:42Speaker 3: just walk up to the door and say, hey, I
- 47:44Speaker 3: would like to see my child. And she says, hey, okay,
- 47:46Speaker 3: that's fine. Here's your kid. You know that that's not
- 47:50Speaker 3: the type of relationship that you have. So you put
- 47:52Speaker 3: yourself in this predicament. But at some point, I can choose.
- 47:56Speaker 3: And I've decided I want to be with a woman.
- 47:58Speaker 3: I've decided I want to be with this woman.
- 48:00Speaker 4: And I'm going to be transparent about it.
- 48:02Speaker 3: And I'm going to be honest about it. And so
- 48:04Speaker 3: easily and frequently, we've got to work for that. So
- 48:07Speaker 3: it's not about you.
- 48:08Speaker 6: That's easy.
- 48:09Speaker 4: Can we talk about you for a second?
- 48:11Speaker 14: Now.
- 48:13Speaker 3: I hate to see you go, but I wish you
- 48:14Speaker 3: well in all your dreams and your future endeavors.
- 48:17Speaker 6: I know that everything, anything that you put.
- 48:19Speaker 8: Your mind to, they're going to succeed because they're intelligent.
- 48:23Speaker 6: You were the best mind on the podcast, and I
- 48:25Speaker 6: would love to hear your opinion.
- 48:28Speaker 3: And just the intelligence and common sense that you brought
- 48:34Speaker 3: to the podcast.
- 48:37Speaker 5: It is what it is, but you gotta go be great.
- 48:40Speaker 6: Good luck.
- 48:42Speaker 5: And I hope to see you pop in every now
- 48:45Speaker 5: and then.
- 48:46Speaker 1: I wish you well.
- 48:48Speaker 3: It's like at the moment. Stop making excuses for dumb shit.
- 48:52Speaker 3: A school is an institution for learning. It is not
- 48:57Speaker 3: the corner store. You don't walk into your child's school
- 49:00Speaker 3: with your slippers on, your head tie.
- 49:02Speaker 1: On, your pajama pants.
- 49:03Speaker 4: You don't do that.
- 49:04Speaker 3: It's inappropriate. And then coming from the perspective of an educator,
- 49:09Speaker 3: you cannot tell these kids anything nowadays. And if the
- 49:13Speaker 3: parent does it, that makes the kid feel like they
- 49:15Speaker 3: can do whatever.
- 49:16Speaker 4: They want to. You know how many times we.
- 49:18Speaker 3: Got to tell little girls in school to take their
- 49:20Speaker 3: bonnets off that you can't come to school with your
- 49:22Speaker 3: flip-flops on that you need to dress appropriately in school
- 49:25Speaker 3: and if your mama can come into school looking crazy
- 49:28Speaker 3: then why can't you come into school looking crazy you
- 49:30Speaker 3: can't say nothing to my mama my mama let me
- 49:32Speaker 3: wear my bonnets to school so I'm gonna wear my bonnets.
- 49:33Speaker 12: To school yeah because your ghetto ass mother wear her
- 49:36Speaker 12: bonnet in this building too it's inappropriate Period.
- 49:40Speaker 3: Y'all bitches is not wearing bonnets to the club.
- 49:43Speaker 12: When y'all going out, when y'all going on dates and shit,
- 49:46Speaker 12: you look presentable.
- 49:47Speaker 3: It's not a problem then. So you can't take something
- 49:50Speaker 3: off that the school deems is inappropriate for one moment.
- 49:53Speaker 3: It's that big of a deal that y'all want to
- 49:55Speaker 3: start whole conversations and discussions and arguments all over the
- 49:59Speaker 3: internet about it. Like, oh, she's doing too much.
- 50:01Speaker 4: She's going too hard.
- 50:02Speaker 3: Y'all niggas don't like rules.
- 50:05Speaker 4: Life is about rules.
- 50:06Speaker 3: Like there are things that you can do and why
- 50:08Speaker 3: would you want to wear your dirty ass bonnet outside
- 50:11Speaker 3: anyway and then what you're gonna do lay in your
- 50:13Speaker 3: bed with the same bonnet you had on outside is
- 50:15Speaker 3: dust and dirt flying around you dusty bitches stop like
- 50:19Speaker 3: stop at some point like it has to end that
- 50:22Speaker 3: list did not say anything that was inappropriate and what
- 50:26Speaker 3: people don't understand is just think about How these parents
- 50:31Speaker 3: was coming to that school for her to even have
- 50:33Speaker 3: to implement some shit like that. Think about that.
- 50:37Speaker 4: It's not one parent.
- 50:38Speaker 3: Even when that shit was on the news, they.
- 50:40Speaker 4: Stopping parents in the car.
- 50:41Speaker 12: They looking like they literally just rolled out of bed. Like,
- 50:44Speaker 12: did you brush your teeth before you walked up to
- 50:46Speaker 12: this school? Every day can't be, oh, it's an emergency.
- 50:49Speaker 12: You bald-headed, you ain't feel like putting on your wig,
- 50:51Speaker 12: put on a hat, go get your kid, and go
- 50:54Speaker 12: back home and go back in your bed.
- 50:55Speaker 3: Nobody's stopping you. People are disrespectful. You disrespect your own places.
- 51:01Speaker 3: And then you're worried about gentrification and white people this
- 51:04Speaker 3: and white people that. You disrespecting your own environment. Your
- 51:08Speaker 3: own community. I'm just saying this right there. I'm not
- 51:11Speaker 3: going to stand here advocating for nothing and nobody. I
- 51:15Speaker 3: don't give a fuck. Because at the end of the day...
- 51:17Speaker 3: You snitching on that man does not take away the
- 51:19Speaker 3: fact that you did those crimes too. So you throwing
- 51:22Speaker 3: him under the bus is actually doing what? That does
- 51:25Speaker 3: not make sense to me. If you're in some hood
- 51:28Speaker 3: shit and you're in some street shit and you live
- 51:30Speaker 3: by that code, I understand where you're coming from, trauma,
- 51:33Speaker 3: because me personally, I'm in the same boat with you.
- 51:36Speaker 3: But we civilians, once you step off that porch... You're
- 51:40Speaker 3: not a civilian no more, so you don't live by
- 51:42Speaker 3: civilian laws. You can't just be like, well, he violated me,
- 51:45Speaker 3: so now I get to tell on him for everything. Like, nah, no,
- 51:49Speaker 3: fuck that. No, that shit is weird. Please do me
- 51:52Speaker 3: a favor. Can you please put moving clouds behind Tomo's shit?
- 51:56Speaker 3: He's like, bitch, I'm at work. What the fuck? And
- 51:59Speaker 3: I'm just like, can you please? And he was like, aight,
- 52:01Speaker 3: I'ma do it. I sent Tomo the fucking pictures with
- 52:06Speaker 3: the moving clouds.
- 52:09Speaker 12: Hey, you guys.
- 52:10Speaker 3: This is I, aka 90s Vegan.
- 52:13Speaker 10: Just wanted to take a moment out to give you
- 52:15Speaker 10: your flowers to let you know that you are so appreciated.
- 52:21Speaker 13: You've helped me with activating my.
- 52:25Speaker 3: Critical thinking skills again. You've helped me with.
- 52:31Speaker 13: Changing my own mindset and deprogramming.
- 52:37Speaker 3: And just giving a voice to someone who really didn't
- 52:40Speaker 3: even identify with me out here. And you said the quiet.
- 52:44Speaker 4: Things out loud and challenged things.
- 52:46Speaker 11: And helped so many people grow in so many ways.
- 52:50Speaker 3: And I never claimed to be a good person.
- 52:55Speaker 10: But you have a lot of wonderful, wonderful qualities and traits.
- 53:01Speaker 3: You are a wonderful being.
- 53:04Speaker 13: And say that you're a wonderful being and I'm just
- 53:09Speaker 13: so glad that I discovered this show slash podcast and.
- 53:15Speaker 10: You have made a true impact on my life and
- 53:20Speaker 10: I just wanted to thank you and show you some
- 53:23Speaker 10: love and appreciation and know that you know you're going
- 53:27Speaker 10: to go far and we'll savor the times that you
- 53:30Speaker 10: will regress us with your presence on the show But.
- 53:33Speaker 4: You know, it's all love, and we want nothing but
- 53:36Speaker 4: the best for you.
- 53:37Speaker 3: I want you just to keep on thriving and.
- 53:39Speaker 13: Showing Parker and Aaliyah just how it's done.
- 53:43Speaker 14: Okay?
- 53:43Speaker 3: So I just wish you nothing but the best.
- 53:45Speaker 8: Look, remember that person who thought I started the book club?
- 53:53Speaker 11: So, Dodge, who is supposed to be the book club
- 53:58Speaker 11: president now that you have decided to leave? Because it
- 54:02Speaker 11: can't be him. And we know that it cannot be
- 54:06Speaker 11: Saho because clearly he's not going to read the books.
- 54:11Speaker 11: But yeah, with that being said, we are so proud
- 54:14Speaker 11: of you and we appreciate your.
- 54:17Speaker 3: Voice on the podcast.
- 54:20Speaker 11: And we cannot wait to see you go forward and
- 54:25Speaker 11: be great. And we know that you will succeed in
- 54:30Speaker 11: all of your future endeavors.
- 54:32Speaker 3: We will miss you.
- 54:35Speaker 11: You will be greatly missed because, you know, you're leaving
- 54:38Speaker 11: us with Tahoe and he is unhinged.
- 54:42Speaker 1: Unhinged.
- 54:44Speaker 11: But we'll be looking forward to, you know, you popping
- 54:47Speaker 11: in from time to time and, you know, blessing us
- 54:50Speaker 11: with your presence.
- 54:51Speaker 3: So go forward.
- 54:54Speaker 6: Be great.
- 54:56Speaker 11: And just know that you're NSG family.
- 55:00Speaker 3: Will always be here for you. We love you. I
- 55:05Speaker 3: mean that shit. Like, I'm not that person. Like, there's
- 55:10Speaker 3: no ha-ha-ki-ki about a sucker like this. Like, I don't
- 55:13Speaker 3: give a fuck who you are. I think privilege is
- 55:16Speaker 3: how you are looked at by the world. And I
- 55:19Speaker 3: feel like a black man that has his shit together
- 55:22Speaker 3: and that is educated has the privilege over.
- 55:26Speaker 6: Niggas from the hood.
- 55:28Speaker 3: The black man in the suit is going to go
- 55:30Speaker 3: over the nigga in the fucking.
- 55:32Speaker 1: The Vanson!
- 55:33Speaker 3: Like, I don't know what you want me to tell you.
- 55:34Speaker 3: That is a privilege. Education puts you in a privileged position.
- 55:39Speaker 3: So then we find ourselves, like, heart wide open, eyes
- 55:44Speaker 3: with the freaking hard eyes on it, and you're expecting
- 55:48Speaker 3: men to, like, love you and praise you and respect you,
- 55:50Speaker 3: and then you get disrespected and you get violent and indifferent.
- 55:53Speaker 3: I sucked his dick countless times from him actually getting
- 55:56Speaker 3: up and putting it in my face. and me sucking
- 55:58Speaker 3: it out not trying to have him feel rejected or
- 56:07Speaker 3: like my titties stuck but he does it anyway in
- 56:11Speaker 3: a previous dm i told you that i'm awakened by
- 56:14Speaker 3: dick already inside of me and.
- 56:16Speaker 2: I'm like you like fucking corpses now What do your
- 56:23Speaker 2: family think about you?
- 56:24Speaker 3: What do your friends think about you? Like, are you
- 56:26Speaker 3: the type of person that will sacrifice for their family?
- 56:29Speaker 4: That's the who.
- 56:30Speaker 3: The what is going to come. you good because you
- 56:32Speaker 3: just walked in with this face like nigga what this
- 56:34Speaker 3: is just my face why did you make my existence
- 56:38Speaker 3: about you 75 things could have just happened it's not
- 56:41Speaker 3: about you but like say if you're with your significant
- 56:44Speaker 3: other or your friend and you just rocking with them
- 56:46Speaker 3: all day and then their whole vibe switch up are
- 56:48Speaker 3: you good like i'll do something but why would it
- 56:50Speaker 3: be you though especially if you was with that person
- 56:53Speaker 3: all day and he was in one space that's trauma
- 56:55Speaker 3: i think i think Ooh, that's stressful.
- 56:57Speaker 4: I think it's trauma, and it is stressful. But I've also.
- 57:00Speaker 1: Dealt with women where it was like, it was about me.
- 57:04Speaker 8: And then that is exactly how they was acting.
- 57:06Speaker 3: What's your male best friend's name?
- 57:07Speaker 6: Alex.
- 57:07Speaker 3: What's your female best friend? This is Christine.
- 57:09Speaker 6: Christine?
- 57:10Speaker 11: Yeah.
- 57:10Speaker 3: So Christine.
- 57:12Speaker 1: I just wanted to throw that in there.
- 57:14Speaker 3: If you're gonna lie, be love.
- 57:16Speaker 4: Don't be hot.
- 57:17Speaker 3: So you lying, you cheating, and I go to the
- 57:19Speaker 3: spot with my man, and I see him, what the
- 57:21Speaker 3: f * * * is this? But me, I ain't.
- 57:22Speaker 3: So I'm like, who you?
- 57:24Speaker 6: Who is this?
- 57:24Speaker 4: In front of your face, because I want you to
- 57:26Speaker 4: know you're not valid. I never wanted a man to
- 57:29Speaker 4: have a sister or a brother.
- 57:30Speaker 3: Like, your mom's gotta be.
- 57:32Speaker 4: You got a sister?
- 57:34Speaker 3: How many sisters you got?
- 57:36Speaker 6: Three?
- 57:36Speaker 1: Nah, get on with it.
- 57:38Speaker 4: I was dead.
- 57:38Speaker 1: Your mom has to be.
- 57:40Speaker 3: First of all, don't judge me when I'm speaking my truth.
- 57:42Speaker 1: Ha ha ha ha ha ha!
- 57:45Speaker 3: I will never again work for a man. My boss
- 57:48Speaker 3: has to be a woman because every negative experience I've
- 57:52Speaker 3: ever had in a work environment has been because of
- 57:55Speaker 3: male leadership and not understanding what it is to be
- 57:59Speaker 3: a woman in a space. You see how he always
- 58:02Speaker 3: equates my tone to being like, I'm Aggie and I
- 58:05Speaker 3: just be chilling.
- 58:06Speaker 4: It's crazy.
- 58:08Speaker 3: Yes, he said.
- 58:09Speaker 8: I did not even get to finish my point without
- 58:12Speaker 8: her jumping on top of it with her angry black woman.
- 58:20Speaker 7: So you're leaving oh no I still remember the very
- 58:25Speaker 7: first episode I listened to when you told us how
- 58:28Speaker 7: you had to beat up your taxi driver since then
- 58:30Speaker 7: I've been locked in waiting for the next wild event
- 58:34Speaker 7: and you never disappoint wishing you more blessings more blessings
- 58:39Speaker 7: and even more blessings of all your future endeavors until
- 58:42Speaker 7: next time.
- 58:43Speaker 1: Much love.
- 58:46Speaker 14: Dodge, dodge, dodge. Well, it is definitely a bittersweet ending
- 58:55Speaker 14: to a chapter. We wish you nothing but the absolute best.
- 58:59Speaker 3: You're going to kill whatever you do next.
- 59:01Speaker 14: Just promise you'll pop up as a guest from time
- 59:03Speaker 14: to time, even if it's only the check up through
- 59:07Speaker 14: the discord or keep the chaos in check. Just know
- 59:12Speaker 14: that you'll be deeply missed.
- 59:14Speaker 3: In my head. You're my cousin. You're my big cousin
- 59:16Speaker 3: in my head.
- 59:18Speaker 14: We're definitely going to miss you.
- 59:22Speaker 3: We don't know.
- 59:23Speaker 14: How we're going to survive without you being there to
- 59:25Speaker 14: put a muzzle on Tahoe because we all know that
- 59:28Speaker 14: he be saying some absurd unhinged outlandish ass shit um
- 59:34Speaker 14: but just know that we are super proud of you
- 59:37Speaker 14: you're gonna kill whatever you do next and we're sad
- 59:42Speaker 14: to see you go and you're gonna be deeply messed
- 59:46Speaker 14: go be great with whatever you do we're proud of
- 59:50Speaker 14: you we love you.
- 59:52Speaker 3: And we wish you nothing but the absolute best.
- 59:58Speaker 4: What happened.
- 1:00:08Speaker 6: You really leaving, huh?
- 1:00:10Speaker 8: After eight years of calling me raggedy, you're packing your bags.
- 1:00:17Speaker 8: And honestly, it's bittersweet because at least I got worried
- 1:00:21Speaker 8: about getting called raggedy anymore.
- 1:00:23Speaker 4: But on the other hand, I don't know who I'd
- 1:00:26Speaker 4: be without you.
- 1:00:28Speaker 8: I don't know if I would see life the same
- 1:00:30Speaker 8: today without the talks we've had.
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: The way you friend me, the way you've.
- 1:00:37Speaker 8: Taught me how to love myself, the way you've taught
- 1:00:41Speaker 8: me how to love my friends, how to love my community.
- 1:00:47Speaker 8: I would not be the same without Daja Bell. So
- 1:00:51Speaker 8: on behalf of everybody here, I just want to say
- 1:00:53Speaker 8: thank you.
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: Thank you for your candor. Thank you for your truth.
- 1:00:57Speaker 8: Thank you for loaning us your voice for so long
- 1:01:01Speaker 8: in a room full of men and a world built
- 1:01:04Speaker 8: by men.
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: And just knocking this shit the fuck down every single week.
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: You stood so tall for us and we are all in.
- 1:01:18Speaker 6: Your debt. We owe you.
- 1:01:21Speaker 8: A debt that we will never be able to repay.
- 1:01:23Speaker 8: Thank you for everything that you've done for us. Thank
- 1:01:27Speaker 8: you for everything that you've done for me. I know
- 1:01:31Speaker 8: that one day we part again.
- 1:01:33Speaker 4: You gotta part.
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: You gotta part.
- 1:01:35Speaker 4: You're born for it.
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: But until then, I'm.
- 1:01:43Speaker 6: So shameless.
- 1:01:54Speaker 3: Oh, it's lilies and roses.
- 1:01:59Speaker 4: You hit my husband up asking what my favorite flower was.
- 1:02:01Speaker 6: I know, I've known you for that long.
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: Oh, this is so fucking pretty.
- 1:02:10Speaker 4: This is so fucking.
- 1:02:12Speaker 3: Yo, what is going on?
- 1:02:13Speaker 4: This is so fucking pretty. Thank you.
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: Ah, yes, we.
- 1:02:20Speaker 6: Yeah, Brandon did have to be.
- 1:02:22Speaker 5: Yo, that was.
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: Yo, Brandon.
- 1:02:25Speaker 3: Yo, Brandon, what the fuck?
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: What the fuck is wrong with you?
- 1:02:30Speaker 6: Really? Why did you.
- 1:02:32Speaker 4: And this is why it's a thousand degrees outside.
- 1:02:35Speaker 3: In September and we don't have no water in the world.
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: Why?
- 1:02:37Speaker 3: Because Brandon making shit like that on.
- 1:02:38Speaker 8: A.I., Why the fuck did you do that?
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: Why you couldn't just make a regular video, bro?
- 1:02:45Speaker 3: These are so fucking pretty.
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: Why did you make an AI video?
- 1:02:49Speaker 6: Do you love the flowers?
- 1:02:50Speaker 3: I do.
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: Tron, you picked those out?
- 1:02:53Speaker 6: I did.
- 1:02:54Speaker 3: You picked these out?
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: Oh, you did such a good job.
- 1:03:00Speaker 3: I'm such a girl.
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: I'm just a girl. He's so thoughtful.
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: This is so nice. Did you pick this out before
- 1:03:07Speaker 3: you took the shower or.
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: Yeah, right before. That's what took him so long. Well,
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: those are from yesterday.
- 1:03:14Speaker 6: The ones with the blue is from yesterday. Come on.
- 1:03:17Speaker 5: You know, babe.
- 1:03:20Speaker 3: Oh, y'all love me.
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: I should quit more often.
- 1:03:24Speaker 6: Guys. That tribute was fire, by the way.
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: No, that shit was so fucking good.
- 1:03:30Speaker 5: Smoked that.
- 1:03:31Speaker 6: And Dodge, you deserve it all. Yeah. Oh, come on, guys.
- 1:03:34Speaker 3: You guys are like, come on.
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: You really took.
- 1:03:37Speaker 6: It back like, It's really been fucking eight years.
- 1:03:40Speaker 3: This is what I'm trying to tell y'all.
- 1:03:41Speaker 6: So many moments I'm looking at.
- 1:03:44Speaker 8: We was in your crib in that video. I made
- 1:03:46Speaker 8: sure I included that. We was downstairs.
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: She was pregnant.
- 1:03:49Speaker 4: Pregnant.
- 1:03:49Speaker 3: He got me reading bullshit in my baby.
- 1:03:52Speaker 9: In my belly. You could tell by the mic setup.
- 1:03:55Speaker 9: The mic just kept upgrading.
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: The mic, the videos.
- 1:03:59Speaker 5: Everything is going up, but that's a testament to the work.
- 1:04:01Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much for the videos. Y'all are
- 1:04:04Speaker 3: so fucking sweet. This is crazy.
- 1:04:07Speaker 5: Yeah, he bodied that. I ain't going to lie.
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: It was, I might have cried maybe three times making
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: that video.
- 1:04:14Speaker 6: Dead ass.
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: Because, like I said, from the beginning, like from downstairs.
- 1:04:21Speaker 6: What?
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: Nigga, you going to be all right. From downstairs, we
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: didn't know what the fuck.
- 1:04:26Speaker 3: We was going to do. I'm sorry, I just hear vibes.
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: Them little ass fucking mics.
- 1:04:32Speaker 4: Did you see that shit? Put your headphones. We didn't
- 1:04:36Speaker 4: have none of that.
- 1:04:37Speaker 3: We had mics connected to that little fucking box and
- 1:04:40Speaker 3: we couldn't move too far.
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: There was people I had to edit out. You know
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: I left Orlando in there.
- 1:04:46Speaker 4: I appreciate that.
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: That's your boy. You know what I mean?
- 1:04:51Speaker 3: Niggas had me in the kitchen chefing up drinks.
- 1:04:54Speaker 8: No, you had you in the kitchen. You wanted your
- 1:04:56Speaker 8: own drink thing. I made sure to include that. Yesterday
- 1:05:01Speaker 8: she wanted her own show. where she made drinks for the.
- 1:05:04Speaker 3: Because during the pandemic, I used to, we all used
- 1:05:07Speaker 3: to be on Instagram or whatever. During pandemic, I used
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: to give people like a recipe and then we would
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: get on live and we used to make drinks together.
- 1:05:15Speaker 3: So then after, I'm like, let's just do it in
- 1:05:18Speaker 3: a thing.
- 1:05:18Speaker 6: Try to say you did one episode. Yo, Trav.
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: Yo, Trav.
- 1:05:24Speaker 6: Yo, Trav.
- 1:05:24Speaker 2: Yo, chill.
- 1:05:25Speaker 6: What's up? Grand opening, grand closing. Yo.
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: Yo.
- 1:05:29Speaker 6: Yo.
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: When did Trav become your number one hater?
- 1:05:32Speaker 3: He's always been my number one hater. Trav been good
- 1:05:35Speaker 3: instead of me.
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: What?
- 1:05:36Speaker 4: I don't know what I did.
- 1:05:38Speaker 3: He hate me, but I love him so much. Him
- 1:05:41Speaker 3: and his beautiful family. I like to see them on Facebook.
- 1:05:44Speaker 4: They look like a Hallmark card black family.
- 1:05:47Speaker 5: I love Dodge.
- 1:05:51Speaker 6: That is dope.
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: So yeah, man. Shout out to the fucking growth. Shout
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: out to whatever you have coming.
- 1:06:01Speaker 8: Because we all know it's going to be fucking amazing.
- 1:06:03Speaker 8: There's no way it's not going to be fucking amazing.
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: I'm glad to go to school.
- 1:06:11Speaker 6: Girl, shut up.
- 1:06:13Speaker 8: You're going to have a 4.0.
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: What's your grades right now?
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: I have a 3.8, y'all.
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: Oh, no. Oh, no.
- 1:06:26Speaker 3: That shit made me fucking mad. I was mad as
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: fuck for a minute. But I graduate. Guess when my
- 1:06:33Speaker 3: graduation date is?
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: August 28th.
- 1:06:34Speaker 3: Nope. May 20th.
- 1:06:37Speaker 6: What else is that?
- 1:06:38Speaker 3: My wedding day.
- 1:06:39Speaker 6: Oh, wow.
- 1:06:40Speaker 3: That is my graduation date. It's my wedding day. Andrew
- 1:06:43Speaker 3: was like, damn, I can't have nothing.
- 1:06:44Speaker 4: I got to share every day with you.
- 1:06:48Speaker 3: And then I'm going for my PhD immediately after. So
- 1:06:50Speaker 3: I'm going to start applying for my PhD program, y'all.
- 1:06:54Speaker 5: Oh, yeah.
- 1:06:55Speaker 3: Trying to be a doctor by 40.
- 1:06:57Speaker 5: That's fire.
- 1:06:58Speaker 6: That's amazing. Yeah.
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: That's amazing. A doctor of English.
- 1:07:03Speaker 3: No, of education.
- 1:07:04Speaker 6: Education.
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: I don't understand that. Y'all know that. I'm not hating.
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: I just don't understand. It's ignorance. It's pure ignorance.
- 1:07:09Speaker 8: I don't understand why the fuck a doctor can't just
- 1:07:12Speaker 8: be medicine. Why they can't have a whole nother thing equivalent.
- 1:07:16Speaker 6: To a doctor. To a doctor.
- 1:07:18Speaker 3: Nah, that shit so fire.
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: Doctor education. What the fuck?
- 1:07:22Speaker 4: Dr.
- 1:07:23Speaker 3: Burke, put some respect on my shit.
- 1:07:25Speaker 6: For Dr. B. It's another level of mastery.
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: Master Burke. There you go. Master Burke.
- 1:07:32Speaker 6: Yeah, but that sounds too reminiscent. Masculine? Slavery.
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: That actually makes sense.
- 1:07:40Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right. You cooked a little bit.
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: You cooked a lot.
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: That actually makes sense.
- 1:07:43Speaker 6: He did that.
- 1:07:45Speaker 3: Oh, man. This is so dope. Y'all did a good job.
- 1:07:52Speaker 6: That shit really, like, hold on. I'm still bugging because
- 1:07:57Speaker 6: sometimes time just goes by and we just be in
- 1:08:00Speaker 6: the moment. I don't look back and I just forget
- 1:08:03Speaker 6: all the stuff that we've done, like the photo shoot.
- 1:08:05Speaker 6: And hey, we've been through the pandemic and just so
- 1:08:09Speaker 6: much shit together. How many live shows have we done?
- 1:08:13Speaker 6: Atlanta live show, New York live show.
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, yo.
- 1:08:18Speaker 6: I want to say at least three.
- 1:08:19Speaker 3: Yeah, we did three. We did about three.
- 1:08:22Speaker 6: Did we?
- 1:08:22Speaker 3: Mm-hmm. It's been about three.
- 1:08:26Speaker 6: We had Atlanta.
- 1:08:28Speaker 3: We had two in New York and we did one
- 1:08:30Speaker 3: in Atlanta.
- 1:08:30Speaker 1: We did one in Atlanta. All of that was before
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: the pandemic? The pandy? No, we had one after the pandy.
- 1:08:36Speaker 3: The panda?
- 1:08:37Speaker 1: The panda.
- 1:08:39Speaker 4: Yo, that shit was great.
- 1:08:42Speaker 3: We did a lot.
- 1:08:45Speaker 4: And that was it.
- 1:08:46Speaker 3: I'm just like, yo, it's been years. I see you
- 1:08:50Speaker 3: so shameless in the eyes of Parker. Like, she is
- 1:08:53Speaker 3: my timeline.
- 1:08:54Speaker 4: Like, I could see.
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: I'm like, yo.
- 1:08:56Speaker 3: I ain't spent the whole weekend with my baby since.
- 1:08:59Speaker 3: she been born. Like, God damn.
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: What's the good memories for you about the show?
- 1:09:04Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
- 1:09:05Speaker 4: There's so many good memories. Well, define good.
- 1:09:07Speaker 3: Oh, is it cake in this hole?
- 1:09:12Speaker 8: You don't have no timing. Your timing is just ridiculous.
- 1:09:16Speaker 8: Your timing is just.
- 1:09:19Speaker 3: I thought about it after the flowers, but y'all was
- 1:09:22Speaker 3: still talking.
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: It just seems like there could have been more of a, like, yo,
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: you know what?
- 1:09:27Speaker 8: Let me get the cake ready. And when there's a
- 1:09:29Speaker 8: good time for it, I'm going to walk it in.
- 1:09:33Speaker 6: Right?
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: So when we got the flowers, I'm sitting here like, okay,
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: where's the cake? She's sitting there.
- 1:09:42Speaker 6: What does it say?
- 1:09:43Speaker 3: Dodge's diaper is crazy.
- 1:09:46Speaker 6: What does it say?
- 1:09:46Speaker 3: We love you, Dodge's diaper. That is insane.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: From Dodge's diapers.
- 1:09:50Speaker 4: That's so fucking crazy.
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: Thank you, God. You got to stop.
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: Clip that, please. Nah, you got to stop. The good memories.
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: The context is they would call themselves Dodge's diamonds.
- 1:10:07Speaker 6: Yes. Dodgers Diamonds?
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: Yes.
- 1:10:09Speaker 6: Nice.
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: And I was like.
- 1:10:10Speaker 3: And then whenever we posted something in emojis, it would
- 1:10:12Speaker 3: be Diamonds. And he was so fucking... He was such
- 1:10:15Speaker 3: a hater.
- 1:10:15Speaker 4: And he's like, fuck Dodgers Diapers.
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: They're diapers. Now they're the diapers.
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: So we got you a little cake. But yo, tell
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: us some of the things that you actually remember that
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: you love before we go. And what do you want
- 1:10:33Speaker 1: to tell your people that are.
- 1:10:37Speaker 6: Sad to see you go?
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: Honestly, I love all aspects of this show. I promise y'all,
- 1:10:42Speaker 3: if you niggas just moved to Jersey like I asked
- 1:10:45Speaker 3: y'all two years ago.
- 1:10:47Speaker 4: But I think that I enjoy the conversations.
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: I enjoy some of the relationships that I've made with
- 1:10:55Speaker 3: guests over the years, like the ups and downs. We've
- 1:10:58Speaker 3: been through it all and we could really honestly say
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: we got it out the mud. It just went from
- 1:11:02Speaker 3: just us just sitting on that fucking porn star couch
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: in that red wall talking shit And we've been places
- 1:11:11Speaker 3: and we've grown and we've had so many different people
- 1:11:16Speaker 3: that have worked around us and some for the good
- 1:11:19Speaker 3: and some for the bad. But it was an experience nonetheless.
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: I think that I've grown so much as a person
- 1:11:28Speaker 3: just because of the conversations that we've had on this show.
- 1:11:32Speaker 3: Just having to sit down and talk to niggas once
- 1:11:35Speaker 3: a week for my whole life. It seems like just
- 1:11:41Speaker 3: the support from the No Shame Gang, the growth on
- 1:11:48Speaker 3: just having different people say how impactful we have been
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: and how much they've learned and how much they've grown.
- 1:11:56Speaker 3: I'm a lifelong learner and I'm an educator at my heart.
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: So whether it's educating kids at work or talking to
- 1:12:04Speaker 3: and educating adults, like I want to do it all.
- 1:12:08Speaker 3: And I'm forever grateful. I'm forever appreciative. Like I'm happy.
- 1:12:19Speaker 3: It's not, I don't, I never wanted it to be
- 1:12:22Speaker 3: like a, I'm gone or I always wanted to end
- 1:12:28Speaker 3: on a high and I love y'all I.
- 1:12:32Speaker 6: Do think that.
- 1:12:35Speaker 8: There's something to be said throughout all the people that
- 1:12:38Speaker 8: have left this show or other shows how many times
- 1:12:42Speaker 8: we've seen people that have sat together that we believed
- 1:12:45Speaker 8: in y'all bond and then one day all of the
- 1:12:48Speaker 8: truths came out about y'all relationship I think this is
- 1:12:51Speaker 8: monumental for you to reach this chapter in this fashion.
- 1:12:57Speaker 8: And I don't know if that was purposeful, if you
- 1:13:00Speaker 8: thought about it that way, but I have so much
- 1:13:05Speaker 8: gratitude for everything, for all of the times when you
- 1:13:08Speaker 8: was like, fuck this nigga.
- 1:13:10Speaker 6: Did that nigga just say that?
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: This motherfucker disrespectful or this motherfucker over here did this or,
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: you know, the trips or it's fucking raining or he
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: wants me to come in the snow. Yo, it's like
- 1:13:24Speaker 1: for you to give that much grace over that much
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: time and reach a point where you said, they're going
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: to be good. I can go and leave.
- 1:13:35Speaker 3: Ah! Stop.
- 1:13:37Speaker 4: Because if my lash full off in this cold.
- 1:13:39Speaker 3: If my lash fall off, I'm going to flip all
- 1:13:43Speaker 3: this shit.
- 1:13:44Speaker 8: But this is how, yo, with all of these people
- 1:13:51Speaker 8: that we believe in, y'all, and then y'all just break
- 1:13:53Speaker 8: up and that's it? And this is to the people
- 1:13:57Speaker 8: that's going through trauma from that happening, which I'm not
- 1:13:59Speaker 8: trying to sub y'all.
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: I'm not trying to sub y'all. I'm just proud that
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: that didn't happen to us.
- 1:14:03Speaker 6: Yes.
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: I'm just proud that that didn't happen to us. You
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: know what I'm saying?
- 1:14:06Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:14:06Speaker 3: And it was never going to happen to us. I
- 1:14:08Speaker 3: love you. Because regardless of so shameless, we were friends first.
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: We were friends first. We were friends first. You always
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: came to all my shit and sat right there. If
- 1:14:18Speaker 1: I was chopping pineapples, you was right there.
- 1:14:20Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: With whatever nigga that you was calling your man that
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: you said ain't your man.
- 1:14:26Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen.
- 1:14:27Speaker 6: Yo.
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: Yo. We are going to cut this cake. We have,
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: I do have, do you want that to be it
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: for this week?
- 1:14:36Speaker 6: Are y'all good? We have time.
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: Do you want to pod one last time?
- 1:14:39Speaker 3: Yeah, I came here to pod.
- 1:14:40Speaker 4: I ain't come here for y'all to be a bunch
- 1:14:42Speaker 4: of bitch ass niggas.
- 1:14:43Speaker 3: Let's go.
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: You want to pod one more time?
- 1:14:45Speaker 6: I'm down.
- 1:14:46Speaker 3: Let's pod, niggas.
- 1:14:48Speaker 8: We're going to pod. We'll see y'all in a couple days. Or,
- 1:14:52Speaker 8: y'all already know on Patreon, we'll see you there.
- 1:14:56Speaker 6: You want to do it?
- 1:14:57Speaker 3: Yes.
- 1:15:02Speaker 4: Oh, I forgot where I was at. Go sing with us.
- 1:15:07Speaker 3: I was like, what you want.
- 1:15:09Speaker 5: Me to do?
- 1:15:11Speaker 6: So.
- 1:15:13Speaker 5: No, because.
- 1:15:13Speaker 3: You're trying to get me in my feelings and shit.
- 1:15:15Speaker 4: This is some bullshit.
- 1:15:17Speaker 6: Oh, man.
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Cut it, cut it, cut it.
- 1:15:19Speaker 6: That was good, right?
- 1:15:21Speaker 3: Thank God I had a drink first. My God. This
- 1:15:24Speaker 3: is so good.
- 1:15:26Speaker 6: Jesus, I'm so impressed that you.
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: Bro, I've been doing this shit for a month.