Latest / Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast / 🍎 RHONY Recap plus Drones, Bethenny, Sprinkle Cookies, Holiday Flights and more
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Drama, Darling Drama, Darling Drama, Darling.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Coming at you from Gross Pointe, Michigan, right outside of Detroit, Michigan.
- 0:24Speaker 2: It is December twentieth, you guys, Friday, and we are
- 0:28Speaker 2: going to be recapping the Real Housewives of New York.
- 0:31Speaker 2: And speaking of New York, Deanna Chang is coming to
- 0:33Speaker 2: us live from New York. Deanna, is the snow falling there?
- 0:38Speaker 3: It is just lightly falling. I'm looking at it out
- 0:42Speaker 3: in the window and wow, wow, wow, what a picturesque scene.
- 0:47Speaker 2: True, you know, and it is snowing here. So both
- 0:50Speaker 2: of us gorgeous California gals are now amidst some beautiful
- 0:56Speaker 2: falling West and East coast snow. Wow, it is nice.
- 1:01Speaker 2: I will say, it is proper. It's the way it
- 1:04Speaker 2: should be done. And the holiday season that is, you know,
- 1:08Speaker 2: and happy holidays to all, just so the darlings all know.
- 1:13Speaker 2: I between the tech setting up a whole new tech
- 1:18Speaker 2: system here, traveling family, I had real high hopes to
- 1:23Speaker 2: be able to do two recaps today. The Southern Charm
- 1:26Speaker 2: has been bumped to I don't know when. I'll probably
- 1:29Speaker 2: do like a solo recap of that at some point.
- 1:32Speaker 2: Maybe this weekend or on Monday. So I just wanted
- 1:35Speaker 2: to let you know, but happy that we could to
- 1:37Speaker 2: at least talk about New York. Yeah, Deanna, just lovely
- 1:44Speaker 2: to be here with you on different coasts. So happy holidays.
- 1:49Speaker 4: I love you.
- 1:49Speaker 3: Like I guess we can just be flexible like that.
- 1:52Speaker 3: You know, it's like coast are not going to slow
- 1:55Speaker 3: us down.
- 1:57Speaker 2: No, they're really not. At a very unevent full trip,
- 2:01Speaker 2: which was great. The flight was wonderful, everything was great.
- 2:04Speaker 2: We left our home at four am, took a five
- 2:08Speaker 2: forty five flight, and.
- 2:11Speaker 4: I know, I know, what what airport do you catch?
- 2:15Speaker 2: Well, we went to Lax because there's no direct flight
- 2:18Speaker 2: to Detroit from Burbank, though that would be so ideal.
- 2:21Speaker 2: We don't want to do a transfer, you know, a
- 2:24Speaker 2: connecting flight.
- 2:25Speaker 3: How did you get from four am onto it five
- 2:29Speaker 3: something flight from Santa Clarita.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Yeah, five forty five.
- 2:35Speaker 4: That's why just feels like cutting it tight.
- 2:39Speaker 2: Oh I see, well you know what it was pretty
- 2:43Speaker 2: tight first of all. Yeah, truth be told. So we
- 2:47Speaker 2: left it four We knew at least I know you
- 2:50Speaker 2: were out the door at four. Well, let's say four ten.
- 2:54Speaker 2: Let's say four oh five, four ten, Okay, we took
- 2:57Speaker 2: we had a trans we had an uber, I mean,
- 3:00Speaker 2: and we weren't driving ourselves. Okay, okay, so you really
- 3:03Speaker 2: deal with that time?
- 3:05Speaker 3: Oh well, I guess parking time. Yeah, okay, great, Yeah,
- 3:08Speaker 3: uh dropped off. We checked our luggage outside. Always, by
- 3:13Speaker 3: the way, if you do that, make sure you tip,
- 3:14Speaker 3: because that's what they're it's a special service.
- 3:16Speaker 2: You know, it's very convenient. You just want to tip
- 3:19Speaker 2: those folks inside. It's a different story outside. Tip. And
- 3:25Speaker 2: then from there the only thing that we would have
- 3:29Speaker 2: been just fine in terms of boarding on time, but
- 3:31Speaker 2: we went and grabbed breakfast I mean meaning we were
- 3:35Speaker 2: going to take it on the plane, and that took
- 3:37Speaker 2: all longer than expected. It was ten minutes because we
- 3:40Speaker 2: got like, you know, a little French toasticks and a
- 3:43Speaker 2: breakfast sandwich. So while we walked up to the flight,
- 3:49Speaker 2: they were like Brett Canell, Amy Phillips, Madeline Canel. They
- 3:55Speaker 2: were calling us on working speaker. That has never happened
- 3:59Speaker 2: to me ever. But it was not even it wasn't
- 4:02Speaker 2: five forty five, obviously, it was five thirty five that
- 4:06Speaker 2: we were walking up to the plane. Yeah, so I've
- 4:10Speaker 2: never cut it that close before and that was because
- 4:13Speaker 2: of the breakfast. If we had we not done that,
- 4:15Speaker 2: we could have gotten snacks on the plane. But I
- 4:18Speaker 2: don't know. I just it's scary. You don't know what's
- 4:20Speaker 2: going to be on there. We really no, I know,
- 4:22Speaker 2: especially that early, and you just don't know. So I
- 4:25Speaker 2: that was a mistake, but we made it. And uh
- 4:29Speaker 2: but just truthful. Last, that would have been fine had
- 4:31Speaker 2: we not gotten the breakfast. Last question five forty five
- 4:36Speaker 2: was boarding no flight flight. Yeah, so it was tight.
- 4:42Speaker 3: Hey, Amy, you played games there, Okay, we did.
- 4:47Speaker 4: You played. You played a lot of games right there.
- 4:50Speaker 3: I gotta tell yeah, you got you were playing fast
- 4:53Speaker 3: and loose.
- 4:54Speaker 4: I know, we know we really did. And you're you
- 4:57Speaker 4: saw it for what it is. Mattie.
- 5:00Speaker 2: Mattie had to go to the bathroom. That's always a thing.
- 5:03Speaker 2: So look, here's the thing. We would have gotten to
- 5:06Speaker 2: that gate at five point fifteen if there wasn't a
- 5:10Speaker 2: child bathroom break and a.
- 5:12Speaker 4: Breakfast and some friend sticks.
- 5:14Speaker 2: We made room for that and that was where we
- 5:16Speaker 2: you know, yeah, we faltered. That being said, there's never
- 5:22Speaker 2: traffic from Santa Claric aalex that early in the morning.
- 5:25Speaker 2: And then we landed at one o'clock this time, and
- 5:29Speaker 2: so there's no traffic mostly from Detroit home, which is
- 5:33Speaker 2: a nice game changer, very nice. But anyway, that night
- 5:39Speaker 2: before I left, I didn't sleep at all because I
- 5:42Speaker 2: had to pack and I had to clean the house
- 5:44Speaker 2: and get it ready. So I didn't have any sleep
- 5:48Speaker 2: whatsoever because everything. I was so busy with work and
- 5:51Speaker 2: everything else that there was a shock. I had to
- 5:54Speaker 2: pack for myself, I had to pack for Maddie. I
- 5:56Speaker 2: had to clean the house. And while I was doing
- 5:59Speaker 2: all that, everyone's you know, sleeping away. I had a
- 6:03Speaker 2: great time, trust me, it was Oh, I had a
- 6:05Speaker 2: great time. But I was watching I was on uh
- 6:10Speaker 2: what do they call it, TikTok drone drone talk. I
- 6:15Speaker 2: was on drunk.
- 6:17Speaker 3: I literally just wrote about that on the How to
- 6:19Speaker 3: Be Less old substack.
- 6:21Speaker 2: If I had it in my mind to text you
- 6:23Speaker 2: and say you better be covering the plasmoids, you are right.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Literally just posted about it a few hours okay.
- 6:31Speaker 2: Because i'mn'a check my email because I obviously am a subscriber.
- 6:34Speaker 2: So let me see what we got here. Here we go, literally,
- 6:39Speaker 2: the drone invasion is being too demure.
- 6:42Speaker 4: Oh my God, it's not. That's hilarious. I love this
- 6:47Speaker 4: so much.
- 6:49Speaker 3: Well, you know, listen, you know what, you and I
- 6:51Speaker 3: have both had our own separate journeys with Bethany Frankel.
- 6:55Speaker 4: That's just a fact.
- 6:57Speaker 2: But I preach on this.
- 6:59Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 7:00Speaker 3: Well, I released her after the election because I did
- 7:04Speaker 3: not like how she came for Alex Cooper on call
- 7:08Speaker 3: her Daddy.
- 7:09Speaker 4: I didn't like that she was being dicey with Bogu.
- 7:14Speaker 3: Yeah, so I unfollowed her everywhere, and I have been
- 7:20Speaker 3: zooming past.
- 7:21Speaker 4: You know, even if you're on follow, she's still going
- 7:23Speaker 4: to try and get you.
- 7:24Speaker 2: You know, I don't follow her, and she's all up
- 7:28Speaker 2: and I have her blocked on Instagram, by the way,
- 7:30Speaker 2: so I don't get her shit over there.
- 7:32Speaker 4: But TikTok, I can't quit her.
- 7:34Speaker 3: Nowhere to run, nowhere to run, nowhere to hide. So
- 7:37Speaker 3: between her covering Melissa's sprinkle cookies, that was amazing, very much.
- 7:45Speaker 3: So she was right, Okay, okay, have you guys dealt
- 7:49Speaker 3: with the sprinkle cookies.
- 7:51Speaker 2: I haven't tried them yet, no, but I loved everything
- 7:53Speaker 2: she said about it.
- 7:55Speaker 3: Yeah, and I didn't know if you've covered it on
- 7:57Speaker 3: the podcast.
- 7:58Speaker 4: Yeah, the fact that they they it looks like a
- 8:02Speaker 4: perfect Housewives product.
- 8:03Speaker 2: It's so exciting and Bethany's right, the packaging, everything about it.
- 8:07Speaker 3: It's beautiful, adorable, The cookies sound delicious. It's it's a
- 8:16Speaker 3: perfect callback. It's simple. It's not extraordinarily priced. You know,
- 8:22Speaker 3: a lot of the Housewives try to charge like.
- 8:24Speaker 2: It does dreams kind of expensive, isn't it forty four
- 8:27Speaker 2: dollars for this box of four cookies or something?
- 8:30Speaker 3: No, you can get like a twenty dollars thirty five
- 8:33Speaker 3: thirty Oh are they expensive for cookies?
- 8:36Speaker 4: Sure?
- 8:37Speaker 3: But like if you're giving someone a fun gift and
- 8:39Speaker 3: it's like a nod, a Housewives nod.
- 8:41Speaker 2: Oh, I'm glad that you did the research on this.
- 8:43Speaker 3: Okay, I think I think it's a decent price for
- 8:48Speaker 3: something that's a good cookie plus a fun nod. You know,
- 8:54Speaker 3: I'm putting those two things. Those two things have value great.
- 9:00Speaker 3: So like a she by sure, right, jogger is going
- 9:03Speaker 3: to cost you one ninety you know, so like right,
- 9:07Speaker 3: it's hard to just casually hand a jogger to a friend,
- 9:10Speaker 3: you know it just no.
- 9:12Speaker 4: You're not gonna do that. No one's gonna do it. Well,
- 9:14Speaker 4: you're yeah, no one's able to do that any who.
- 9:19Speaker 3: So between her her review of the Sprinkle Cookies and
- 9:24Speaker 3: her being the president of Drone Talk, I'm I had
- 9:28Speaker 3: to cite her as a correspondent on my post you
- 9:32Speaker 3: know you.
- 9:32Speaker 2: Should, and I've I will give it to bethany anytime
- 9:36Speaker 2: she gets it right. And she's nailed it on both accounts,
- 9:40Speaker 2: in terms of those cookies and on Drone Talk. And
- 9:44Speaker 2: thank you for mentioning all, mentioning it at all in
- 9:48Speaker 2: how to Be Less Old, And this is why I
- 9:51Speaker 2: love how to Be Less fucking Old, Substack. This is
- 9:54Speaker 2: why these are the things you go from right to
- 9:57Speaker 2: you don't know where you're like a drone, you don't
- 9:58Speaker 2: know where you're gonna go or show up, you know,
- 10:00Speaker 2: and then you pep in on the most poignant things.
- 10:04Speaker 2: And it's not it's not always in the exact same niche,
- 10:07Speaker 2: but you get into all the little nooks and crannies,
- 10:09Speaker 2: and that's why.
- 10:10Speaker 5: I like it so So you and I are living
- 10:14Speaker 5: parallel universes in that I was on Drone Talk and
- 10:19Speaker 5: between her.
- 10:21Speaker 2: Between her posts, and then of course it led me
- 10:24Speaker 2: to so many more. I was introduced to plasmoids, which
- 10:27Speaker 2: I had no idea that even existed. And it's all
- 10:29Speaker 2: blowing my mind. It's all so fascinating and truly miraculous.
- 10:35Speaker 2: It's certainly not something that we're going to be able
- 10:37Speaker 2: to even begin to scratch the surface of. But just
- 10:39Speaker 2: know that it's.
- 10:40Speaker 4: On our radar, it's on everybody's radar.
- 10:42Speaker 2: We're aware. And so look, I don't know, I don't
- 10:48Speaker 2: know what you think of Bethany, but it doesn't matter.
- 10:50Speaker 2: When she gets the content right, she gets the content
- 10:53Speaker 2: right right.
- 10:55Speaker 4: I mean, this is what she does.
- 10:58Speaker 3: She man's an area, you know, she she has institutional
- 11:04Speaker 3: knowledge about an area. She has people reporting to her
- 11:07Speaker 3: from this CAA and beyond, you know, with information. It's
- 11:12Speaker 3: like and she has credibility when it I.
- 11:16Speaker 2: Mean, and curiosity and that, and so we're part of
- 11:19Speaker 2: it along.
- 11:21Speaker 3: She goes hard, you know, and then you can't help
- 11:24Speaker 3: but get swept up in it, you know.
- 11:27Speaker 2: And I will say, just lastly on Bethany's TikTok, she
- 11:32Speaker 2: recently reviewed Harry Hamlin's Sauce and just gave it a
- 11:38Speaker 2: horrible review. I mean, just ripped it to shreds, not
- 11:42Speaker 2: just once, but twice. Okay, so she was sent the product.
- 11:48Speaker 2: But here's the thing. I was like, Wow, that's just
- 11:52Speaker 2: what are you doing? Like, why would you do that?
- 11:54Speaker 4: Number one?
- 11:54Speaker 2: This is a housewife, she's in your zeitgeist. It's just
- 11:58Speaker 2: don't even bother talking about the what are you doing?
- 12:00Speaker 2: That's just mean.
- 12:03Speaker 4: However, but then.
- 12:07Speaker 2: I saw the follow up second video because she was
- 12:10Speaker 2: told by Amelia Rinna's daughter, like because she tasted it
- 12:15Speaker 2: cold and was like just ripped it to shreds, was
- 12:17Speaker 2: just you know, it's awful, and then Amelia's like, you
- 12:21Speaker 2: have to warm it up, and so she warmed it
- 12:23Speaker 2: up and then tasted it again and then was like
- 12:26Speaker 2: it's even worse and so.
- 12:31Speaker 4: Hotly cow. It's like fall back Hammel's.
- 12:35Speaker 2: It was Hammels. But she's basically saying like, this is
- 12:39Speaker 2: what happens when you have people making a product that
- 12:43Speaker 2: you I'm sure it's great in your kitchen, but then
- 12:46Speaker 2: after all of putting it into a jar and sending
- 12:50Speaker 2: it out, something happened between then and here, and it's
- 12:52Speaker 2: not good. And then her point is this, and this
- 12:54Speaker 2: is what changed my mind about her in this Hamlin review,
- 12:58Speaker 2: because I was really frank, like what just what an asshole, Like,
- 13:01Speaker 2: why are you doing this to her?
- 13:03Speaker 4: You probably know RHNNA, Yes, you know RNA. Yeah, just
- 13:07Speaker 4: why are.
- 13:07Speaker 2: You shredding her? Like go after pray go, like why
- 13:10Speaker 2: shred them? But it's not it's not like she picked
- 13:14Speaker 2: it up and was like, oh, this is what I'm
- 13:15Speaker 2: gonna do today. No, so she gets sent. She came
- 13:19Speaker 2: back on again, probably a third time. It was like,
- 13:21Speaker 2: look you guys, wow, I am sent tons of stuff.
- 13:25Speaker 4: If you want.
- 13:25Speaker 3: She was like, listen, Amy, I know I haven't even
- 13:28Speaker 3: talked about it.
- 13:29Speaker 4: I even like yeah, but she felt it.
- 13:32Speaker 2: She probably did, yeah yeah, And she was like, I
- 13:35Speaker 2: if you don't want an honest review from me, you
- 13:38Speaker 2: must not send me something. So in right ways, if
- 13:42Speaker 2: that the marketing people for Hamlin's Sauce, they obviously know
- 13:46Speaker 2: what Bethany does because this is what she does. People
- 13:49Speaker 2: send your stuff for their honest reviews. So if you
- 13:53Speaker 2: want to be reviewed honestly, you better be ready for
- 13:56Speaker 2: an honest review because she's gonna be no bullshit about it.
- 13:59Speaker 2: And and so that's why when the Sprinkle Cookies came around,
- 14:03Speaker 2: I was delighted for Melissa and knowing how much she
- 14:07Speaker 2: was praising everything about it because she's not going to
- 14:11Speaker 2: give you any bullshit. And so that's why people like
- 14:13Speaker 2: her reviews, because she's not necessarily getting paid off. People
- 14:17Speaker 2: are sending her stuff on the hope hopefully that she's
- 14:22Speaker 2: actually going to like it. So in many ways, I
- 14:24Speaker 2: was like, well, Hamlin, this is your fault. You know
- 14:26Speaker 2: what she does or Hamlin marketing. She's not going to
- 14:29Speaker 2: do you any favors just because you're this, that or
- 14:31Speaker 2: the other thing. She doesn't care. She's going to say
- 14:33Speaker 2: what it is.
- 14:34Speaker 3: So I thought, well, and I'm sure he thinks his
- 14:36Speaker 3: sauce is good, so you know, I have to imagine
- 14:39Speaker 3: he thinks it's good, I would think. So he sent
- 14:43Speaker 3: it with the thought that she love it, you.
- 14:47Speaker 2: Know, which is too bad.
- 14:50Speaker 4: But I bet you literally did see the review.
- 14:53Speaker 3: But I didn't know it was Harry Hamlin's sauce, so
- 14:56Speaker 3: I didn't understand why she was making like where she
- 14:59Speaker 3: was like, oh my, oh god. You know, I didn't
- 15:01Speaker 3: know why it was such a big deal because I'm like,
- 15:03Speaker 3: I've never heard of that sauce. REOs is my whole life.
- 15:06Speaker 3: I lived my whole life by Rayos. It's my favorite sauce.
- 15:11Speaker 4: The planet and I get a Costco and I know
- 15:14Speaker 4: you do too.
- 15:15Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, thank you, thank you. So that being said,
- 15:18Speaker 2: I completely had a one eighty on her in the
- 15:20Speaker 2: Hamlet Sauce review because I was like, well, yeah, you're right.
- 15:24Speaker 2: If you people are going to want to send you stuff,
- 15:26Speaker 2: they better know this is what you this is what
- 15:28Speaker 2: you do, So don't send it if you don't want that.
- 15:31Speaker 4: And they shouldn't have sent it.
- 15:32Speaker 2: No one should shudn't send her shit if they don't
- 15:34Speaker 2: want an honest review, period dot. So I have to
- 15:37Speaker 2: ack her up on that. And then the drone talk
- 15:40Speaker 2: stuff is just fantastic. So AnyWho, you guys, glad we
- 15:46Speaker 2: got all that out of the way and now we
- 15:48Speaker 2: can get into the Real Housewives of New York.
- 15:51Speaker 4: Ohb duh.
- 15:53Speaker 2: So I know that so many of us were upset
- 15:57Speaker 2: about the second prank that occurred, Sienna, how did you feel.
- 16:05Speaker 3: Second prank? Okay, first prank was roaches in the in
- 16:07Speaker 3: the pie. Oh second yeah, okay, okay, we had roaches
- 16:13Speaker 3: in the in the specialty dessert. Then we had, you know,
- 16:18Speaker 3: rumors that Rebecca was part of a gang bang and pregnant,
- 16:24Speaker 3: that pregnant impregnated by a fellow that wasn't her husband.
- 16:32Speaker 3: Third prank is what jess souls suitcase. I don't even
- 16:39Speaker 3: file that under prank. I file that under get the
- 16:43Speaker 3: fuck out of here.
- 16:44Speaker 4: You know, just come on.
- 16:48Speaker 2: Yeah, I was so annoyed because that is a very
- 16:55Speaker 2: scary feeling.
- 16:56Speaker 4: Yeah, horrible feeling.
- 16:58Speaker 2: I mean that's Aarin has some serious issues. She likes
- 17:05Speaker 2: to in some level torture people in a very odd way.
- 17:11Speaker 2: I think it's very strange what she does. And honestly,
- 17:15Speaker 2: the suitcase almost seemed worse than the Rebecca Minkov is
- 17:19Speaker 2: pregnant with you, because it's like she is wandering all
- 17:23Speaker 2: around the house looking for her suitcase.
- 17:26Speaker 4: Is it was it payback? Did did?
- 17:27Speaker 2: Did?
- 17:28Speaker 1: Did?
- 17:28Speaker 2: Did someone do that to Aaron last year? I want
- 17:30Speaker 2: I feel like they had another situation where that happened,
- 17:32Speaker 2: but there was a cell phone situation.
- 17:34Speaker 4: No erin was the she did that. She's sick because
- 17:41Speaker 4: this is like she's sick in the head, mother sick.
- 17:46Speaker 2: When you have personal items like that, it is very scary.
- 17:50Speaker 2: When you're in a different place and you've lost your
- 17:52Speaker 2: personal items, You're like, I don't know if I need
- 17:53Speaker 2: to be calling I don't know, if I need to
- 17:55Speaker 2: be on the phone with the airline, if I need
- 17:57Speaker 2: to be on the phone with Apple, what am I doing?
- 18:00Speaker 2: And it's just a panic that you don't need and
- 18:02Speaker 2: it's stressful and I don't like that, and so fuck
- 18:06Speaker 2: you Aaron for that. I'm really upset about that. Now
- 18:10Speaker 2: let's move on. We're here this week, and I'm okay
- 18:13Speaker 2: to continue on and just separate myself from that trocity. Okay, Yeah,
- 18:20Speaker 2: now we are. We're in Puerto Rico and we are
- 18:26Speaker 2: picking up at the dinner where Brynn is talking about
- 18:31Speaker 2: she has a problem. Well, they're talking about the room situation,
- 18:34Speaker 2: and Rebecca had wanted to have her own room and
- 18:37Speaker 2: she had said, well, I thought, you know, I have kids,
- 18:39Speaker 2: and so it's just and then she says to Brin
- 18:42Speaker 2: it's different, you know, because Brin's like, we no, we're
- 18:45Speaker 2: all busy. She's like, well, I have kids, so I
- 18:47Speaker 2: don't know when you stay busy. I didn't say, oh, yeah,
- 18:50Speaker 2: that's right. What did she say?
- 18:51Speaker 3: Which I appreciate it because I was kind of saying
- 18:54Speaker 3: that along with her. I've been speaking along with certain
- 18:58Speaker 3: people on this show, right right, you know, I've been
- 19:03Speaker 3: chiming in, you know, over here.
- 19:10Speaker 4: Yeah, so she right.
- 19:12Speaker 3: She We had a little taste of what felt like
- 19:17Speaker 3: last episode at the end of the episode that Rebecca
- 19:20Speaker 3: was going to sort of lay into her.
- 19:23Speaker 4: We didn't quite get that.
- 19:25Speaker 2: No, I was like, and you're like Jenna Lyons, so
- 19:32Speaker 2: what are you gonna get do sort of start things like,
- 19:36Speaker 2: I mean, get in there.
- 19:38Speaker 4: It, get in here, do something.
- 19:40Speaker 2: Rebecca's like, I thought, I did. I mean I did
- 19:43Speaker 2: think she did a good job in that moment to
- 19:45Speaker 2: be like I didn't say busy, I said had kids,
- 19:48Speaker 2: And that was really she really she insulted her, and
- 19:52Speaker 2: she she definitely used it in a way to check her. Now,
- 19:59Speaker 2: I think she's right in the sense that there is
- 20:01Speaker 2: definitely something to that when somebody I understand what Rebecca
- 20:07Speaker 2: was saying, but it does come across as completely smug
- 20:13Speaker 2: and also dismissive, and you'll know you're not in that situation.
- 20:21Speaker 2: I'm a little better, so I understand how it can
- 20:23Speaker 2: rub people the wrong way because you do say something
- 20:26Speaker 2: like that, it can be taken way wrong if you
- 20:29Speaker 2: say it in the wrong way, and she said it
- 20:30Speaker 2: in the wrong way. But she said it the wrong
- 20:32Speaker 2: way on purpose, and so I don't blame her because
- 20:34Speaker 2: Brnn has been pissing her off this whole time.
- 20:36Speaker 1: So good on.
- 20:37Speaker 3: Her, right, right, Yeah, you're right, cause if it's like certain,
- 20:43Speaker 3: it's sort of like, well, yeah, she's one hundred percent correct.
- 20:47Speaker 3: You can't calculate what it is to just not have
- 20:52Speaker 3: for your body, to kind of not be your own
- 20:54Speaker 3: and have children lying on top of you. That's its
- 20:56Speaker 3: own thing. But when when people who don't have kids,
- 21:01Speaker 3: it's like, you know, I can I can't imagine what
- 21:05Speaker 3: that is. I can also like I also am still
- 21:09Speaker 3: a person who has other things that may need privacy,
- 21:12Speaker 3: and who knows. Maybe I'm very flatulant and I need
- 21:16Speaker 3: my own space for that reason.
- 21:17Speaker 4: You know.
- 21:18Speaker 3: It's like, don't you know there's a lot of reasons
- 21:21Speaker 3: for why you should have a nice room to yourself.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Absolutely, but.
- 21:28Speaker 3: Brynn was I thought it was a ridiculous response from her,
- 21:31Speaker 3: and she just wants to paint this Rebecca. I just
- 21:36Speaker 3: think Brynn is so like it's interesting, and I know
- 21:41Speaker 3: there's something wrong with me because Aaron doesn't land on
- 21:45Speaker 3: me as hard as I know she should. For some reason,
- 21:49Speaker 3: I give her. I cut her a lot of slack
- 21:51Speaker 3: and I don't know why. I don't know why, you know,
- 21:55Speaker 3: but Brynn feels more mean spirited for means spirded sake.
- 22:01Speaker 3: Aaron feels more like I'm on a TV show and
- 22:05Speaker 3: this is I think what I'm needed is needed pranks
- 22:08Speaker 3: and shenanigans, you know what I mean. Like, I kind
- 22:10Speaker 3: of feel like it comes from that.
- 22:12Speaker 2: Please, that's really funny, I hear you. Actually, I'm going
- 22:15Speaker 2: to really take that into consideration.
- 22:18Speaker 4: That's really funny. Okay, I'm listening. I'm listening, all right,
- 22:26Speaker 4: you know.
- 22:26Speaker 3: And again, it may just be a way for me
- 22:29Speaker 3: to just give myself a break for not taking Aaron
- 22:33Speaker 3: to task, like I know I probably should.
- 22:35Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe I'm too large. I just know that,
- 22:39Speaker 2: like I'd be freaking the heck out and I would
- 22:41Speaker 2: not like that. And then when someone's I think someone
- 22:44Speaker 2: must have told Jessel someone did take your suitcase as
- 22:48Speaker 2: a joke, and that's why she was like, okay, you guys,
- 22:51Speaker 2: come on, where is it? Come on? Where is it?
- 22:53Speaker 2: Which is why Aaron's like, Okay, it's over there. So
- 22:57Speaker 2: clearly they had to like the jig is up, because
- 23:00Speaker 2: Essa was gonna have a nervous breakdown. But I just
- 23:02Speaker 2: left it for so long. She leaves her jokes out
- 23:05Speaker 2: there for too long. The Uba wing that's the thing,
- 23:08Speaker 2: the prank, I hear right, that's what it is, Deanna.
- 23:12Speaker 4: You're right.
- 23:13Speaker 3: It's insane that she would dip back into the same
- 23:16Speaker 3: well after what went down with Uba.
- 23:18Speaker 2: It's insane, yeah, because if she just cuts the prank
- 23:22Speaker 2: by like fifteen minutes, then we might have a little
- 23:27Speaker 2: bit of a relief laugh. But she does it for
- 23:30Speaker 2: like twenty five thirty minutes. Like UBA's phone was practically
- 23:34Speaker 2: gone all night long, you know.
- 23:36Speaker 3: Yeah, so totally anyway, it just it's not fun at all.
- 23:42Speaker 4: It's not.
- 23:44Speaker 2: But anyway, getting back to Brinn and her overreaction, I
- 23:48Speaker 2: think to Rebecca was I think a combination of oh,
- 23:52Speaker 2: she's responding to me finally, and so now I've got
- 23:55Speaker 2: something to pop off right back at her and now
- 23:59Speaker 2: let's play. I think was part of it, which was
- 24:01Speaker 2: like whoa, oh, I see.
- 24:04Speaker 4: Its like a little bit too yeah.
- 24:07Speaker 2: But at the end, when Rebecca did apologize to her
- 24:11Speaker 2: after she was told that, you know, she and Gideon
- 24:13Speaker 2: were trying to figure this out, I think it was
- 24:16Speaker 2: really great of Rebecca to say she was sorry first,
- 24:20Speaker 2: and also for Rebecca to somewhat recant her overreaction and
- 24:27Speaker 2: then open up and say, you know, the Gideon thing,
- 24:29Speaker 2: he's having a hard time trying to get this to happen,
- 24:32Speaker 2: and this is really frustrating. It's hard and it's difficult
- 24:34Speaker 2: for me, which is why I had that type of reaction.
- 24:37Speaker 2: So I appreciated her vulnerability coming out in that and
- 24:42Speaker 2: all is forgiven. I mean, it does seem like it's
- 24:45Speaker 2: not moving in that direction at all, even in real time,
- 24:48Speaker 2: because when Brenn was on Watch or Happens Live, she
- 24:50Speaker 2: did say there has been no movement in that space.
- 24:56Speaker 4: Damn. That's hard.
- 24:57Speaker 3: And I have had such a hard time though with her.
- 25:01Speaker 3: And I don't like the Gideon thing. It's not that
- 25:06Speaker 3: I don't think you can have It's not because you
- 25:09Speaker 3: shouldn't have a baby with someone you're not white with
- 25:11Speaker 3: with there's just I find her very manipulative and I
- 25:17Speaker 3: feel that she's using his adoration for her to do this,
- 25:26Speaker 3: and it just freaks me out, Like I just.
- 25:29Speaker 4: Don't like it.
- 25:30Speaker 2: Did you have any shift in that thinking when she
- 25:33Speaker 2: told her story about the assault and that her kneeling
- 25:39Speaker 2: can't really she doesn't want to wait to be fully
- 25:42Speaker 2: healed to have a child because she doesn't know when
- 25:47Speaker 2: that's going to happen, so she's.
- 25:49Speaker 3: Technically I get why she's doing it, you know, one
- 25:53Speaker 3: hundred percent. I just think it's I guess it would.
- 25:58Speaker 3: It's like if a guid, if a guy did that
- 26:00Speaker 3: to a woman, I think we'd see it differently. I
- 26:04Speaker 3: think that because he's so I think in love with
- 26:07Speaker 3: her is where it feels, because I think she's just
- 26:14Speaker 3: using that to get what she wants and not including
- 26:21Speaker 3: him at all. Like I'm you know, I'm like, I'm
- 26:24Speaker 3: the soule parent, like we'll maybe let you in. There's
- 26:27Speaker 3: just something about it. I just don't like it. It
- 26:29Speaker 3: feels so usurish to me.
- 26:32Speaker 2: And it doesn't feel clean for a child to like,
- 26:36Speaker 2: oh we'll figure it out later, what will actually happen.
- 26:39Speaker 2: And that's very true, Yeah it is.
- 26:43Speaker 4: But then like la la, you know, is the sperm
- 26:45Speaker 4: make better? Probably not. I don't know. I have no idea.
- 26:48Speaker 3: I think I like, using Gideon's sperm to make a
- 26:54Speaker 3: baby is not what doesn't make sense to me?
- 26:56Speaker 4: That makes sense to me. There's just a manipulation piece.
- 27:03Speaker 3: That feels like he may feel that that that that
- 27:08Speaker 3: means more than it does.
- 27:10Speaker 2: Oh right, I see what you mean. Wow, did you
- 27:17Speaker 2: know that he works he works with Mauricio.
- 27:21Speaker 4: Did you know that? Shut up?
- 27:22Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what she said on Watch Happens Live, because
- 27:25Speaker 2: after she said nothing has happened in that area, she
- 27:28Speaker 2: was like, well, you know, getting in works for the
- 27:31Speaker 2: agency with Mauricio. So he's he's never home. He's always
- 27:34Speaker 2: you know, flying around with those boys and stuff. Isn't
- 27:37Speaker 2: that crazy?
- 27:38Speaker 3: Can't imagine it? Can't imagine him selling real estate. He
- 27:41Speaker 3: does doesn't seem like his area. Is he a real
- 27:44Speaker 3: estate broker?
- 27:45Speaker 2: I had no idea that he was, and that I
- 27:48Speaker 2: guess he is weird. Also, I mean Mauricio, we talked
- 27:53Speaker 2: a little bit about it yesterday. But Mauricio out in
- 27:56Speaker 2: Aspen and taking that gal over to Chemo Sabi, Wow,
- 28:04Speaker 2: that is wow. Wow.
- 28:07Speaker 3: Holidays to the Motherland geez Okay.
- 28:13Speaker 2: Well, at that dinner in New York, I did appreciate
- 28:17Speaker 2: Sy breaking the tension after Rebecca and Brinn were, you know, arguing,
- 28:22Speaker 2: saying like Si, that Shenna's pussy hair right like a
- 28:29Speaker 2: wet cat laugh, and Jenna's like, oh my gosh, I
- 28:35Speaker 2: just well, all right, I just it means.
- 28:40Speaker 3: Yeah, there you know size, having you know size, I'm
- 28:47Speaker 3: a little bored, but like she's a.
- 28:50Speaker 4: Good addition to what we have. You know.
- 28:53Speaker 2: I love her. I think she's great. I really do.
- 28:56Speaker 2: And she's pretty uncensored and she says what she says,
- 29:00Speaker 2: and I really appreciate that.
- 29:02Speaker 4: I agree.
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- 32:47Speaker 2: Real Housewives of New York with Dianna Chang who is
- 32:51Speaker 2: in New York and I am in Michigan. The snow
- 32:53Speaker 2: is falling amid both of us. So it is the
- 32:56Speaker 2: next morning in Puerto Rico and Raquel is, you know,
- 33:03Speaker 2: waiting for her mom to arrive. She has a conversation
- 33:06Speaker 2: with Cy. They talk about her mom and how her
- 33:11Speaker 2: mom has had these excuses for coming to New York,
- 33:14Speaker 2: COVID and then the dog and all this stuff and Si.
- 33:17Speaker 2: She and Si really, I really love their friendship and
- 33:21Speaker 2: me too. They've been bonding a lot, and I think
- 33:24Speaker 2: Ci does a great job with filling in some of
- 33:27Speaker 2: the blanks for this and relating with her because of
- 33:29Speaker 2: these you she's had with her mom. And in her
- 33:32Speaker 2: confessional she says that a lot of old school Latinas
- 33:34Speaker 2: have a hard time admitting their faults and that they
- 33:38Speaker 2: sweep things under the rug. And so she is there
- 33:42Speaker 2: for rock Helen a way that perhaps maybe some of
- 33:44Speaker 2: the other ladies can't be, and so I love that
- 33:47Speaker 2: she can relate to her on that level.
- 33:51Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind of like I was having the same
- 33:53Speaker 3: exact thought, and I'm like, this is this is the
- 33:56Speaker 3: vision I think Andy had when he put together a
- 34:00Speaker 3: more diverse, new younger New York, right, Like this, this
- 34:03Speaker 3: is it. And you can't manufacture that type of connection
- 34:11Speaker 3: just because it's cultural and there's a frame of reference
- 34:15Speaker 3: that you have to have in order to understand it.
- 34:19Speaker 3: And like, wow, that's great. That's what's so cool about
- 34:22Speaker 3: having to Are they both Puerto Rican?
- 34:25Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 34:25Speaker 4: I believe so size Puerto Ricana. They're both Puerto Rican. Yeah,
- 34:28Speaker 4: So you know that's cool. I love it.
- 34:31Speaker 2: It is cool.
- 34:33Speaker 3: So it's just it's just been it's just been rough overall.
- 34:36Speaker 3: But like that is the stuff that I think the
- 34:39Speaker 3: purpose of putting this show together, And like having that,
- 34:42Speaker 3: it's just like, oh, I wish we could have, you know,
- 34:45Speaker 3: more of that. I like walk Hell so much and
- 34:47Speaker 3: I like her story and I feel like it's getting
- 34:50Speaker 3: a little lost, but yeah, I.
- 34:52Speaker 4: Love that loved.
- 34:55Speaker 2: You know. SI continues to talk about her mother, and
- 34:58Speaker 2: she does say in her confession know that she her
- 35:02Speaker 2: mom gave up on her life and she still resents
- 35:04Speaker 2: her for that, for allowing addiction to take over her life.
- 35:06Speaker 2: It is tough, and that she acknowledges that she wasn't
- 35:11Speaker 2: the mother that she was when she raised her. And
- 35:14Speaker 2: I think that's really important. I know that's happened. People
- 35:18Speaker 2: can really relate like that, relate to people. There are
- 35:20Speaker 2: a lot of people who can relate with that. And
- 35:22Speaker 2: I know several people who are in a similar situation
- 35:26Speaker 2: where the parent who was there when they were growing
- 35:30Speaker 2: up is just not at all who they became or
- 35:34Speaker 2: evolved into becoming later in their life. And that's really
- 35:37Speaker 2: hard to back ensile, thank you. That's that's the word. Yeah,
- 35:43Speaker 2: very difficult.
- 35:44Speaker 4: It totally.
- 35:47Speaker 3: It's got to be a real mind f you know,
- 35:51Speaker 3: just like oh, okay, you got your groove back and
- 35:55Speaker 3: you're now doing X, Y and Z and or whatever
- 35:59Speaker 3: they can, or you've fallen apart, and you know, yeah,
- 36:05Speaker 3: whatever it is, I think that is really really hard.
- 36:09Speaker 2: Yeah, truly. So Raquel says that she's been talking to
- 36:15Speaker 2: her mom and they've had a little bit of headway
- 36:17Speaker 2: because her mom opened up about having these heart palpitations,
- 36:20Speaker 2: and Raquel said, well, maybe it's anxiety, which totally makes
- 36:25Speaker 2: sense because it was two weeks ago from this trip,
- 36:28Speaker 2: so she's anticipating seeing Raquel, and I would imagine she's
- 36:32Speaker 2: has a ton of anxiety, so it could very much
- 36:34Speaker 2: be that. So let's see. Oh yeah. Then Raquel's mom
- 36:41Speaker 2: arrives and her boyfriend's there too, and it's a beautiful, beautiful,
- 36:46Speaker 2: beautiful of reuniting of the two of them, and it
- 36:50Speaker 2: doesn't get to like they keep it together, as Raquel
- 36:53Speaker 2: says later, and they do a really good job at
- 36:55Speaker 2: being excited to see each other. The iPad thing was
- 36:58Speaker 2: just like, you know, she didn't think she thought it
- 37:01Speaker 2: was charged. She hasn't been using it, but I guess
- 37:03Speaker 2: people don't understand when you don't use a device, it's
- 37:07Speaker 2: gonna lose its battery. And so the whole thing about facetiming,
- 37:10Speaker 2: I don't think the FaceTime even happened with the grandkids
- 37:13Speaker 2: that did it. It didn't seem like it didn't.
- 37:16Speaker 4: You know.
- 37:16Speaker 3: She was way younger seeming, and like with it in
- 37:20Speaker 3: cool way more than I was anticipating. I was anticipating
- 37:25Speaker 3: more of like a a mama that was like classic,
- 37:32Speaker 3: you know, like an old boil O exactly. And I'm like, oh,
- 37:37Speaker 3: this woman is super cool with it. Yeah, and I
- 37:45Speaker 3: was cold. So, I mean, she hasn't seen a picture,
- 37:49Speaker 3: she was. I mean, she hasn't seen a photograph, she
- 37:52Speaker 3: hasn't hit the FaceTime button.
- 37:55Speaker 4: That seemed very strange to me.
- 37:56Speaker 2: Well, very sad, very deep, and it just shows that
- 37:59Speaker 2: she just has like completely caught her off. I was
- 38:02Speaker 2: really impressed by the way Raquel was like, oh and
- 38:04Speaker 2: look at the pictures and like let's reset. Yeah, boy,
- 38:08Speaker 2: did she handle that well. And to hear her say
- 38:12Speaker 2: are you excited to see them? And to have her
- 38:15Speaker 2: leave and say, you know, I'm worried about flying, you know,
- 38:18Speaker 2: my anxiety and my heart palpitations, and it just starts
- 38:20Speaker 2: to sound like excuses. But when Raquel said, we'll fly
- 38:24Speaker 2: out here and come get you and bring you back,
- 38:26Speaker 2: and the mom seemed very down for that, but I
- 38:29Speaker 2: don't who knows that she's gonna do you think she's
- 38:31Speaker 2: gonna come through?
- 38:33Speaker 4: I don't know. That's why I was confed.
- 38:34Speaker 3: I was confused because it didn't there was no feeling
- 38:38Speaker 3: around it of like there's a lot of tension. I
- 38:42Speaker 3: didn't feel any tension heavy tension between them. The mom
- 38:47Speaker 3: seemed pretty open. It was confusing. I didn't understand what
- 38:52Speaker 3: was going on with her mom. And maybe it is
- 38:55Speaker 3: all health stuff and she's genuine. I mean, it probably isn't,
- 38:58Speaker 3: but yeah, she may be putting on an act for
- 39:05Speaker 3: the cameras and to your point, won't show up and
- 39:09Speaker 3: was never going to show up and is never going
- 39:11Speaker 3: to have her iPad charge to see the kids, Like,
- 39:13Speaker 3: oh wow, but why are you? But she did a
- 39:17Speaker 3: television show which seems like a really big deal and
- 39:22Speaker 3: really crazy.
- 39:24Speaker 4: So I don't know.
- 39:26Speaker 2: I was I mean, I didn't think she was going
- 39:28Speaker 2: to show up at all.
- 39:29Speaker 4: Deanna Wow.
- 39:31Speaker 2: I was very worried because the way that she was
- 39:34Speaker 2: talking to Si and she said, you know, we'll see
- 39:36Speaker 2: she's planning on coming here, and she said she's excited,
- 39:39Speaker 2: and I thought this is going to not She's going
- 39:42Speaker 2: to be a no show. So I was shocked she arrived,
- 39:46Speaker 2: and I was shocked that she was saying the things
- 39:49Speaker 2: that she said and was so positive.
- 39:53Speaker 3: Yeah, she's either putting on a bit of an act
- 39:56Speaker 3: or there's a deep disconnect and confusion about like why
- 40:02Speaker 3: her mom, Like, I don't think her mom is said
- 40:04Speaker 3: point blank anything to the effect of, you know, you,
- 40:08Speaker 3: being a lesbian is going to put distance between us, Like, I.
- 40:11Speaker 4: Don't think those words have been said.
- 40:12Speaker 3: I think Raquel's been filling in the blanks, which of
- 40:15Speaker 3: course you would, but who knows what's going on.
- 40:19Speaker 4: I don't. I was confused. I really thought it.
- 40:22Speaker 2: Was I don't I hate to be this way, but
- 40:26Speaker 2: I thought it was kind of an insensitive of Brinn.
- 40:31Speaker 4: Didn't.
- 40:31Speaker 2: Brynn comes in and she kisses Jenna on the lips.
- 40:33Speaker 2: That's just who she is and that's just what she does,
- 40:36Speaker 2: Like she didn't think about it at all, and that's fine.
- 40:39Speaker 2: But then when they were kind of making a point
- 40:43Speaker 2: of size, like that's weird. I can't believe she did that.
- 40:46Speaker 2: And then they came over and then Jenna's like, oh,
- 40:48Speaker 2: I'll give you a kiss, And then she kissed all
- 40:50Speaker 2: the women on the lips. And I thought, well, I mean,
- 40:52Speaker 2: you know the story, her mom's obviously sound comfortable. It
- 40:56Speaker 2: was okay, good, I thought it was. I just thought,
- 40:59Speaker 2: why would you do that? I mean, you want to
- 41:01Speaker 2: make people feel comfortable. And I'm not saying that it's
- 41:04Speaker 2: okay to be homophobic. That's not what I'm saying at all.
- 41:06Speaker 2: I'm just saying, be sensitive to the situation. It's just
- 41:10Speaker 2: odd to me that she would make that choice.
- 41:13Speaker 3: I don't know if they're just up their own butts
- 41:15Speaker 3: and aren't thinking, or they wanted to have a moment,
- 41:18Speaker 3: who knows. I mean, yeah, I thought, like, give this one.
- 41:22Speaker 3: Let her take her coat off, you know.
- 41:25Speaker 2: She Yeah, I think you might be right about that.
- 41:27Speaker 2: They're just they weren't thinking and they're just being themselves.
- 41:30Speaker 2: And that's great. That would have been just fine on
- 41:33Speaker 2: a regular day in the world of our lives. But
- 41:37Speaker 2: the mom and the boyfriend were sitting at that table,
- 41:39Speaker 2: right unless they edited it in a way there were
- 41:42Speaker 2: they weren't even in the room, and they edited it
- 41:45Speaker 2: to look like they were, so that then that would
- 41:50Speaker 2: be something that we would be thinking happened, and it
- 41:53Speaker 2: actually didn't happen.
- 41:55Speaker 4: Right, I mean, but then they talked about it in
- 41:59Speaker 4: the know.
- 42:00Speaker 3: I think it was Cy who said they're gonna think
- 42:04Speaker 3: or Jessel that we're just having like a giant, you know,
- 42:07Speaker 3: lesbian romp over here.
- 42:09Speaker 2: Right, that's true. She did say that, yeah, and Raquel's
- 42:14Speaker 2: probably not gonna say anything or make a big deal
- 42:16Speaker 2: out of it. But I could see in another situation
- 42:20Speaker 2: if it was another person like, why are you doing this?
- 42:22Speaker 2: What are you doing? Hello? Can you just breathe?
- 42:27Speaker 4: Put a pen in it?
- 42:28Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, so before we move on, I just want
- 42:34Speaker 2: to say that I did love when Rebecca and Jen
- 42:39Speaker 2: Jenna and Jessel were talking and uh, besides like do.
- 42:44Speaker 4: I look rich? Do I? Because I like to feel rich? Yeah?
- 42:52Speaker 2: I just love cute. And that's when Jenna I was like, Rebecca,
- 42:57Speaker 2: when are you going to get into it with Brnn
- 42:59Speaker 2: like stir it up or whatever.
- 43:02Speaker 3: Jenna was like, I'm not really a housewife, like I'm
- 43:05Speaker 3: doing this for my lashes, but I do know that
- 43:08Speaker 3: you should actually like she's kind of been pushing you
- 43:13Speaker 3: against the wall for the last three weeks, so it's time.
- 43:17Speaker 4: Yes, you're right.
- 43:18Speaker 2: It was so strange to see Jenna try and tee
- 43:21Speaker 2: up some drama, very unlike the Jenna that entered this show.
- 43:27Speaker 2: It just goes to prove that all housewives can, you know,
- 43:32Speaker 2: reform themselves into the housewives structure because they know how.
- 43:35Speaker 3: It works, right, Like She's like, I only know very little,
- 43:40Speaker 3: but I do know this, Like at some point you
- 43:44Speaker 3: need to use your.
- 43:45Speaker 4: Words, use them, use them.
- 43:48Speaker 2: Okay, this was amazing, Jessel. When the mom was like, oh, yeah,
- 43:53Speaker 2: you know, she came down after Maria, and Jessel's like,
- 43:56Speaker 2: and Maria is is that your cousin or you know
- 44:00Speaker 2: the fact that she I died? I was like, this
- 44:05Speaker 2: is amazing. And then Aaron's confessional saying, Jesselton is where
- 44:09Speaker 2: you're always getting ready for the ball.
- 44:15Speaker 4: It's so perfect.
- 44:16Speaker 3: It's a perfect character, Like Jessel is just feminine and
- 44:21Speaker 3: light and ditsy and innocent, and you know, there's just something.
- 44:29Speaker 2: It's just perfect. It's amazing, amazing. So they go shopping
- 44:33Speaker 2: in town and we've got the two groups. We've got
- 44:35Speaker 2: Brenn and Aaron and Jenna who are just having a
- 44:37Speaker 2: very organic, lovely time and they end up having drinks
- 44:40Speaker 2: and Brynn loves it when Aaron drinks, and then you
- 44:45Speaker 2: have Jenna loves it when Jenna drinks, Brynn loves it.
- 44:51Speaker 2: Oh Brinnan loves it when Jenny drinks.
- 44:53Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they love it when thank you, Okay, I
- 44:56Speaker 3: got I got it because she loosens up her little self.
- 45:00Speaker 2: Well that makes way more sense.
- 45:02Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 45:03Speaker 2: And then the other groups Si, Uba and Jessel and Raquel,
- 45:08Speaker 2: but mostly Si and Uba and maybe some Jessel. They're
- 45:12Speaker 2: like the group of as they call them, group of influencers,
- 45:15Speaker 2: and they're just having their moments and their outfits. And
- 45:17Speaker 2: I'm just like hysterical the difference.
- 45:20Speaker 4: Between the groups. Where would you be.
- 45:24Speaker 2: I would not be in the influencer group, no way.
- 45:27Speaker 2: How about you?
- 45:28Speaker 4: Yeah, we'd be having drinks and looking at it Dick pics.
- 45:31Speaker 2: You know that was amazing. I thought, this is it's
- 45:35Speaker 2: the time and the place for a Dick pic. You know,
- 45:37Speaker 2: that was the time and the place for Dick pick.
- 45:38Speaker 2: I had no problem with it. I thought, wow, I
- 45:42Speaker 2: really didn't. At the lunch when so many people had
- 45:47Speaker 2: an issue with it, I thought, well, yeah, you should
- 45:48Speaker 2: have an issue with it, but not with the group
- 45:52Speaker 2: that it was. There was no issue there. I think
- 45:55Speaker 2: it completely depends on the situation and the people. So right, organically,
- 46:00Speaker 2: happened where Jenna's like, okay, size large. I don't think
- 46:03Speaker 2: there's anything large about Abe, and then Aaron's like, well
- 46:06Speaker 2: do you want to see? And then it just it
- 46:09Speaker 2: was funny to me. And honestly, I don't think my god,
- 46:13Speaker 2: Brett would die. I mean, I would never do that
- 46:15Speaker 2: to Brett. But again, it depends on the people and
- 46:19Speaker 2: the person in the situation and the D and I
- 46:21Speaker 2: mean everything.
- 46:22Speaker 4: So I don't think a ABE would have a problem.
- 46:24Speaker 3: That it depends on the D itself. Don't count out
- 46:28Speaker 3: that it does.
- 46:29Speaker 2: These are all factors, okay, right, I mean I do
- 46:33Speaker 2: not see my friend's you know, husband's dess. I don't know,
- 46:39Speaker 2: But like, it just completely depends upon the situation. That's
- 46:45Speaker 2: all I'm saying. Now, man, ask you a question. Yes,
- 46:48Speaker 2: of course I had a different reaction. I was horrified.
- 46:53Speaker 2: I was disturbed. I was shook it.
- 46:58Speaker 3: I'm agook it sure, because I just thought, like, if
- 47:04Speaker 3: a husband showed his pals a vagina, his wife's vagina,
- 47:10Speaker 3: there's no way that would be fun. And there's just
- 47:14Speaker 3: no path to that being okay that I can see.
- 47:18Speaker 3: And maybe that's somewhere I need to maybe I need
- 47:21Speaker 3: to loosen up.
- 47:22Speaker 2: You know, you always make a great point by saying,
- 47:26Speaker 2: and this is always something that sometimes I don't think about,
- 47:29Speaker 2: but you are very good at saying if a man
- 47:31Speaker 2: did this, how would this come across? And if a
- 47:33Speaker 2: woman did this, how would this come across? And I mean,
- 47:36Speaker 2: I can't argue with that that would be completely inappropriate.
- 47:39Speaker 2: And I guess I look at it in the sense
- 47:42Speaker 2: that probably an antiquated view where it's different between men
- 47:48Speaker 2: and women, and a D isn't and shouldn't be as
- 47:53Speaker 2: revered as of as of veget so in that respect, Yeah,
- 48:00Speaker 2: and then.
- 48:00Speaker 4: These are always getting floated around like fright.
- 48:05Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, wait, so I called it meat mail,
- 48:09Speaker 3: which really made me laugh.
- 48:11Speaker 2: That was amazing.
- 48:13Speaker 4: That was amazing, mushroom.
- 48:16Speaker 3: I guess to that, I think, what what maybe.
- 48:20Speaker 4: You're saying, and like I want to lean into that.
- 48:24Speaker 3: A little bit more is you're like, Okay, we're dealing
- 48:26Speaker 3: with the former you know, CFO or whatever her title
- 48:30Speaker 3: was of j crew head designer, head stylist, whatever it was.
- 48:34Speaker 4: We've got hardcore lesbian Jenna Lyons.
- 48:38Speaker 3: We've got Brinn who's been trying to get with Abe
- 48:42Speaker 3: in a playful way.
- 48:44Speaker 4: This whole time.
- 48:45Speaker 3: We have Aaron and Gate and Abe who may or
- 48:49Speaker 3: may not swing a little bit.
- 48:51Speaker 4: Here and there.
- 48:52Speaker 3: So all in if we put that, and we've got
- 48:55Speaker 3: a nice a nice d So what we put all
- 48:58Speaker 3: of those ingredients is in a in a little soup
- 49:01Speaker 3: and we swirl it around.
- 49:03Speaker 2: It's not that deep, right, which is what Aaron said
- 49:07Speaker 2: at the table. She's like, don't make this and do
- 49:08Speaker 2: a big deal, like especially because you weren't even there
- 49:11Speaker 2: and I didn't show it to you. I'm not going
- 49:12Speaker 2: to show it to you.
- 49:15Speaker 3: Right, But I don't know how Abe would feel about that.
- 49:20Speaker 3: I'm not convinced he's thrilled about it, but maybe he is.
- 49:25Speaker 2: Well, you know, and you have a great point, because
- 49:28Speaker 2: at the table, when people were starting to have a
- 49:30Speaker 2: problem with that, Aaron did say, oh geez, well, I
- 49:34Speaker 2: mean god, I hope that I didn't do anything wrong
- 49:36Speaker 2: or else I'm going to really feel bad. So she
- 49:39Speaker 2: was starting to second guess herself about that she did
- 49:42Speaker 2: that to Abe. I would think that before she even
- 49:48Speaker 2: showed it and even had the thought to do that,
- 49:50Speaker 2: she would automatically think Abe would not care if I
- 49:53Speaker 2: did this. So she really surprised me at the lunch
- 49:56Speaker 2: by saying, gosh, I'm starting to feel bad because I
- 49:58Speaker 2: hope that he's okay with this, I thought, oh shit, well,
- 50:01Speaker 2: if you didn't think he would be, then that's not
- 50:03Speaker 2: good either. I thought immediately she would have the idea
- 50:08Speaker 2: if she was going to do that, Abe wouldn't give
- 50:10Speaker 2: two shits if I showed his jem, you would love it, right,
- 50:13Speaker 2: So yeah, I had him thinking she's very confident that
- 50:15Speaker 2: he wouldn't care. But then if he does end up caring,
- 50:19Speaker 2: that's going to be a whole different scenario, and then
- 50:22Speaker 2: that's not good. That's definitely not good. That's definitely not good.
- 50:26Speaker 2: So I wouldn't approve in that situation. But if all
- 50:29Speaker 2: of the other factors in the equation are there, like
- 50:33Speaker 2: we were just saying, then I don't have a problem
- 50:36Speaker 2: with that. Everything just has a time and a place.
- 50:40Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't know that that had a time and
- 50:43Speaker 3: a place, but I'm happy to know it does. Like
- 50:45Speaker 3: I wasn't aware there was a time and place to
- 50:49Speaker 3: see my pals husband's d but now I know that
- 50:53Speaker 3: if the right ingredients are there.
- 50:56Speaker 4: That like, yeah, it can line up. But I know
- 50:59Speaker 4: someone could.
- 50:59Speaker 2: Are you that Brnn is the last person you would
- 51:02Speaker 2: want to show that too. And I would also say
- 51:04Speaker 2: that's probably not good that you showed her. The fact
- 51:07Speaker 2: that she showed Jenna, I'm all for. I'm like, I
- 51:09Speaker 2: don't have a problem with that from beginning to end.
- 51:11Speaker 3: So Jenna seemed truly pleased by it, like she was
- 51:17Speaker 3: delight she was surprised and delighted, which was nice.
- 51:21Speaker 2: Very nice, very nice. So so funny that that even happened.
- 51:25Speaker 2: And uh, what if it's a prank? Oh my god,
- 51:30Speaker 2: what if she showed somebody else's d No, it's just
- 51:33Speaker 2: a picture.
- 51:34Speaker 4: It sip porn. She pulled that up pretty quick. Amy.
- 51:38Speaker 4: Oh no, no.
- 51:40Speaker 2: If it's a rank, we can't come back from it.
- 51:44Speaker 3: I will start tipping cows like I can't.
- 51:50Speaker 2: I will start don't Niana, don't talk crazy now, Deanna.
- 51:55Speaker 2: When you start threatening cow tipping, I know that you
- 51:57Speaker 2: get serious here. I don't know.
- 52:01Speaker 3: I will just like run into the streets and kick
- 52:04Speaker 3: over trash cans like I will not be able to
- 52:07Speaker 3: go forward.
- 52:08Speaker 4: I actually will have to bow out.
- 52:10Speaker 3: And I and I love doing the podcast with you,
- 52:12Speaker 3: and I love talking about New York together, but I
- 52:14Speaker 3: won't be able to survive it, and I do want
- 52:16Speaker 3: to say that publicly right now, I can't.
- 52:21Speaker 2: I completely understand. I would absolutely respect that choice. And
- 52:27Speaker 2: I don't know she back from that either. So she
- 52:30Speaker 2: showed base.
- 52:32Speaker 3: They the reactions, they're not that good, they're not that
- 52:36Speaker 3: Oh you're saying it could be now it was.
- 52:40Speaker 4: So again, we're talking about lining things up.
- 52:43Speaker 3: So much would have to line up in order for
- 52:46Speaker 3: us to get that moment organically, for her to have
- 52:49Speaker 3: a faux dick on her phone.
- 52:55Speaker 4: No, okay, there's no way.
- 52:58Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, was she on Watch What
- 53:01Speaker 2: Happens Live? No, she wasn't, because wait when when was she? Okay,
- 53:13Speaker 2: so I don't know who was on Watch what Happens
- 53:15Speaker 2: Live on Tuesday night? But I do know that my
- 53:19Speaker 2: my video, my twenty my ten Days of Bravo Christmas aired?
- 53:25Speaker 2: Was it last night? I don't know, but anyway, watch
- 53:29Speaker 2: what happens? Yeah, my ten.
- 53:33Speaker 3: I have you know, I've been dealing with some things
- 53:35Speaker 3: and I've been off social media completely, so like I
- 53:38Speaker 3: didn't even know what you had going on.
- 53:40Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm sorry.
- 53:41Speaker 2: Did I say ten? I meant twelve? Twelve Days of
- 53:43Speaker 2: Christmas is twelve days of Bravo Christmas is what I did,
- 53:49Speaker 2: and I did the video. I did it and for
- 53:51Speaker 2: Watch Happens Live it aired and then they also posted
- 53:54Speaker 2: the the on social the full version, so that aired
- 54:00Speaker 2: with bronwyn On and Melissa Gorga.
- 54:04Speaker 3: Oh my god, yeah, so that was super Wow, that's
- 54:08Speaker 3: really fun.
- 54:09Speaker 4: Was Melissa talking about her cookies? She was there talking
- 54:12Speaker 4: about her cookies.
- 54:14Speaker 2: Wow, mm hmmm. So Jessel was on Aaron wasn't. That's
- 54:20Speaker 2: who was on for representing New York. It was Jessel
- 54:24Speaker 2: and Kyle as a matter of fact, So I was
- 54:26Speaker 2: gonna say, we would have gotten an answer about it then, right,
- 54:31Speaker 2: and Andy would definitely jump on that, you know, probably
- 54:35Speaker 2: probably asked for a little looxie. So any who. After that,
- 54:48Speaker 2: then we go to oh yeah, so oh that was
- 54:53Speaker 2: funny at the lunch when then they showed Jessel's feet
- 54:56Speaker 2: in comparison to Kim Kay and they sent it to
- 54:59Speaker 2: the group chat. Who wore it best? Kim Kay n Jess, Well,
- 55:02Speaker 2: that was very funny. It's like I've been walking around
- 55:07Speaker 2: all day and she's pregnant.
- 55:09Speaker 4: Come on, how could you? Oh no, no, no, my
- 55:16Speaker 4: feet off.
- 55:19Speaker 2: That was really cute. And then Rebecca pulls Bryn aside
- 55:23Speaker 2: and apologizes, which was a lovely ending and it was fine. Yeah,
- 55:28Speaker 2: perps and she apologizes back. So that was it. It's
- 55:33Speaker 2: pretty much it. Go ahead, Diana, You're to say something
- 55:36Speaker 2: and then I want to ask you a question.
- 55:37Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, mm hmm no, I'm realizing.
- 55:44Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Did something happen?
- 55:46Speaker 4: I think I have.
- 55:48Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm just looking at Twitter to see if
- 55:52Speaker 2: there's any updates on abes d if it was a prank.
- 55:57Speaker 2: No one is saying that it is, and there are
- 56:01Speaker 2: most people are disagreeing with the fact that she should
- 56:04Speaker 2: have sent that or showed them that. So people are
- 56:07Speaker 2: more on your side than nine.
- 56:12Speaker 4: Look, look, yeah, listen, that's that.
- 56:19Speaker 2: I definitely feel like even though New York has been difficult,
- 56:25Speaker 2: at least you know, this was fine to watch. I'm
- 56:28Speaker 2: fine with it. I am in it. We just they
- 56:32Speaker 2: need to continue to give us more solid episodes in
- 56:34Speaker 2: the future, and hopefully when we come back from the
- 56:37Speaker 2: holiday break we will receive those.
- 56:41Speaker 4: I will before we wrap up.
- 56:42Speaker 3: I do want to speak to the Uba thing at
- 56:45Speaker 3: the end, because Uba, to me, did not have a
- 56:49Speaker 3: strong reaction at all at the table to me. She said,
- 56:53Speaker 3: and I quote, I would be dump if I showed
- 56:58Speaker 3: Oliver's dick. I would be She said, I would be
- 57:00Speaker 3: dump if I showed Olive's stick, Right, That's what she said. Yeah,
- 57:04Speaker 3: that's not that strong of a reaction. I actually thought
- 57:08Speaker 3: it was a light reaction, and I thought she was
- 57:10Speaker 3: just stating the facts.
- 57:11Speaker 2: Who said she had a strong reaction. Aaron oh Year and.
- 57:15Speaker 3: Bryn at the end where she's like, I wouldn't say, like,
- 57:18Speaker 3: I can never tell whether UBA's gonna have such an
- 57:20Speaker 3: intense reaction. And then Brinn jumped on that and she
- 57:24Speaker 3: was like, yeah, like when they were in the car together,
- 57:27Speaker 3: she was like, did you see how they reacted?
- 57:29Speaker 4: Did you see how Uba like had this like.
- 57:31Speaker 3: Super strong reaction, which I really like Uba.
- 57:37Speaker 4: I get a kick out of her. I get a
- 57:38Speaker 4: kick out.
- 57:39Speaker 3: Of her like little asides and her little things. And
- 57:44Speaker 3: this is what these girls do to her where they
- 57:48Speaker 3: this is why she looks batshit on this show because
- 57:52Speaker 3: they guess like her, like classic, classic, no way to
- 57:58Speaker 3: cut it. They are her and then she feels crazy
- 58:03Speaker 3: and she is then she has a really strong reaction.
- 58:06Speaker 2: You know, yes, I completely agree, and you're right. I
- 58:09Speaker 2: didn't even get I didn't. I think I was wrapping
- 58:11Speaker 2: up and then I was trying to set up my
- 58:13Speaker 2: new situation whipment. So I think at the very end
- 58:17Speaker 2: I lost grasp of what happened then, and I didn't
- 58:21Speaker 2: realize they were really leaning into Uba having such a
- 58:24Speaker 2: huge reaction. I completely agree because I could see everyone
- 58:28Speaker 2: in the world being like, I would never do that
- 58:31Speaker 2: to my husband, just like I said, I was like,
- 58:32Speaker 2: I would never do that to Wrap.
- 58:34Speaker 4: But in this situation, and as we pointed out.
- 58:36Speaker 2: If everything aligns and it's a perfect you know, you're
- 58:39Speaker 2: gonna have any clips, you know, but it's any clip
- 58:43Speaker 2: situation clips.
- 58:45Speaker 4: Yeah, it's totally clips of the heart. It's not every
- 58:47Speaker 4: daylipse of the d you know. Yeah.
- 58:52Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean Uba just had a normal ass reaction,
- 58:56Speaker 3: right that actually seemed kind of lighthearted to me. So
- 59:01Speaker 3: I these two seem to like to cause some trouble
- 59:05Speaker 3: and then pin it on Uba, and I'm like, guys,
- 59:09Speaker 3: and then Uba does look like she's overreacting then, because
- 59:15Speaker 3: her that reaction when she knows she's been pinned against
- 59:18Speaker 3: the wall by frickin' frack, she gets yes, she's like wow,
- 59:24Speaker 3: you know, yes, totally.
- 59:26Speaker 2: You are so right. I'm so glad that you pointed
- 59:29Speaker 2: that out because we're going to see the backlash of
- 59:31Speaker 2: that next week, and UBA's not wrong, and everybody who
- 59:35Speaker 2: has a problem with that is not wrong.
- 59:37Speaker 3: So you're like, I don't I am expecting to get
- 59:43Speaker 3: floated some husband's d's in the next in the following
- 59:47Speaker 3: few months throw.
- 59:49Speaker 2: My way, Darling. I don't want to. I don't want them.
- 59:52Speaker 2: I don't have any interest. I think it would be
- 59:55Speaker 2: inappropriate for me to see that. But I am also
- 59:58Speaker 2: open to total eclips of the D happening in my life.
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: I would not you know.
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: Right, Wow, I actually if you have a totally eclipse
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: of the D like I'm actually twenty twenty five, I
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: do hope you find your way to a total eclipse
- 1:00:12Speaker 3: of the D.
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: You know, I appreciate that you. Thank you so much.
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- 1:00:43Speaker 2: Rony and I will be back soon you guys. We
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- 1:00:50Speaker 2: Bye for now, Bye Diana, Bye.
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