Latest / DidiLawren / Keeping Up with The Yul-Edochies - Christmas Bonus

Transcript

Keeping Up with The Yul-Edochies - Christmas Bonus · DidiLawren

0:08
Hello and welcome back to another episode of bunted
0:11
lorenza. For today's episode, we're going
0:12
to be talking about you later chair and his wives.
0:17
So Yesterday met the chair release the statements, where
0:21
she basically told you to shut it.
0:28
She knows you release the city. You saying that she has no heat
0:32
because I don't even know where to start.
0:35
So previously, let's say last week, you'll release the
0:39
statements where he was saying that he's an old dugu.
0:42
He is a proud polygamist that God has blessed him.
0:46
Go to them, to be a polygamist. Go through them to 22.
0:51
That's am, his wives are successful made the chase a
0:55
successful Judy has to be successful.
0:58
And that is Prove that he that God told him to give polygamist.
1:04
Now that went viral a lot of who talked about a lot of bashed.
1:09
You you did it 360. He released an apology for the
1:14
first time. Since you laid to Che, not only
1:19
God's do the Austin pregnant, marry Judith in our the back of
1:23
his wife. I mean, everything that wife is
1:26
not whether it was philandering, but that is this story is
1:32
complicated, but I am just going to try to uncomplicate it for
1:36
you. Let me start with Judy Austin.
1:38
The second wife of eulogy, maybe then you can follow the
1:42
timeline, we can untangle this way above, you know, the seeds
1:47
from the beginning. Judy hasta más, her husband not
1:51
her first husband in when she was in her late.
1:55
Teens early twenties. Now shall not going to school.
1:58
She met the man. Do they think she got pregnant
2:01
for him? The man Peter bride price to
2:04
carry him. He was living in oneisha.
2:06
They started living together as husband and wife, Judith and
2:09
said, well after had been the first child, she said she wants
2:12
to go to school. The man bought jumped from for
2:16
her. She Roots Jam.
2:17
She feel Jam several times. You could not pass Jam.
2:21
According to the man, what he did was that, maybe I'm going to
2:25
Boom. Play what he said.
2:26
So that you guys understand the story.
2:28
But according to To the man, he was later, he will when she was
2:34
feeling Jam, he decided to get her admission into IMT and go he
2:40
paid. He said it about 500,000 because
2:43
a result was very poor even after she Roots.
2:46
Why he worked in his house, the result was still poor so he was
2:50
able to pay like 500,000 to secure an admission in IMT for
2:55
her Judith and said she does what she wants his university.
2:59
I AMC's, I don't know what I am seeing is for maybe the
3:03
Polytechnic. I am not sure what Judy said she
3:07
wants University, after paying all those money.
3:10
Children refused to go to school, she decided, okay, that
3:14
she's willing to go to war car. That's okay.
3:15
Is the best place? The man said, he went to a car,
3:18
he paid another 300,000 to them, Judas are going to school when
3:23
she was in 200 level, then she has had their second child, she
3:28
was in 200 level. When she decided she wants to go
3:32
into Nollywood. She wants to start acting.
3:35
And this was at the points, this was not in 2012.
3:39
When she met eulogy in Orca, I think they came to shoot a movie
3:45
or something, she met him, she was smitten, she liked him and
3:49
then she went to her husband and said that she wants to be an
3:52
actress. The other one was like, but
3:54
you're still in school, you know, finish school.
3:56
Before you start thinking of acting, Judy said, no.
4:00
He wants to relocate to a new that that is where it is
4:02
happening. Just one was like, boring
4:04
200-level, why don't you finish? And now you won't even relocate
4:08
to, and when they are family house, they are based in
4:10
oneisha. Why do you want me to rent a
4:12
house for you? In any way to decide know that
4:15
she wants a house in any wish, you want to be an actress?
4:18
And all that before? You could say, Jack Judy stop
4:21
talking to her husband, dark Christmas, which was December
4:26
2012. There was a possible to the
4:29
Village was Then Judy was still the man thoughts, you do with
4:32
stealing a car going to school. Not knowing that this point you
4:39
need to change has already rented a place 2012.
4:42
We're talking about 2012, you let the children, be rented a
4:45
place in any before Judy Austin. Judy awesome.
4:48
Moved to any group this man thinking, his wife is still in
4:54
Orca. Told her to come back, let them
4:56
go to the village for Christmas. Judy Austin said she will not
5:00
Would you go to the Village? The man went to the village for
5:03
Christmas Judy, Austin, and you need to check came to the house
5:07
with a van and moved all the properties to the house that
5:11
they rented in Telugu. This man said he came back from
5:14
the village and his house was played, he went he called Judy's
5:18
parents and said, I'm here I've been complaining to the parents
5:22
even when she said she was moving to any go, she called the
5:25
parents I said, see what is going on?
5:27
What Duty already called? The parents to tell them that.
5:30
Asha Singh, a big fish, imagine the chair family, you need to
5:33
chair and he's willing to help her.
5:35
So when her husband was complaining to the parents, the
5:39
parents were not even, they don't even.
5:41
They were like, I bet that big a big.
5:43
We don't need you anymore, you know, that kind of thing.
5:46
The man said he started picked up his life.
5:49
He was like okay, if Judy wants to go to and that there's
5:55
nothing I can do about it as long as he has access to his
5:58
children. He said at that.
6:00
Queens. He was able to see his children
6:01
because, you know, and we'll Anoka and aneisa.
6:05
He was able to travel Triumph through maybe we can see the
6:08
kids. That was not a problem, but that
6:11
point in time, the relationship had already ended.
6:14
They told him like compound people already told him that.
6:16
I mean you need each other point is, is popular.
6:19
So everybody knew him. So they already told him that it
6:22
was related to share that him to the compound to pick his wife,
6:25
Judy Austin. So even 2012, their marriage was
6:29
already Ready. Dunzo, Bots, people tradition.
6:34
They have to give you like a bride price back or you have to
6:37
go and request for your bride price before.
6:40
Like the marriage can be properly dissolved, but because
6:44
he has children, he was just like, no, let me know.
6:46
Just going to all these things because of my children.
6:50
As long as I have access to my children, I am fine that has
6:53
been working all through. So the point here is that Judy
6:59
of Austin and unit, which has been dating from 2012.
7:04
They've been in a relationship sexually.
7:07
In fact, they said that this child at UT.
7:10
Austin gave birth is not the first child that she and like
7:13
she's gotten pregnant for you before and you know the
7:17
pregnancy evaporated. So when this whole thing broke
7:23
that's Judy Austin was pregnant for you later.
7:26
She made it she was aware of it for she felt like okay.
7:30
This is a mistake. It has happened.
7:32
My husband. If you you've done this thing,
7:36
no problem. We just have to sort it out as a
7:38
family. Well they sure can come out and
7:40
deny that. So she never knew that Judy
7:42
existed. But I I seriously doubt that but
7:46
I think she felt that regardless of anything that he is doing.
7:49
She is the wife, he is going to respect that fact.
7:53
He is going to still come back to her, you know, as long as
7:57
they have that family Union. That's there's no.
7:59
No problem with that, before she could say p am gdr single
8:04
pregnant before you could blink, you leadership went and paid
8:08
you, your sins bright fries. Now, after the payments of that
8:12
bright phrase, do the Austin tonight.
8:15
Now, her husband when they broke of twelve years ago.
8:19
He was able to still have access to the children, immediately,
8:23
Judy. You leadership a junior sales
8:25
price. She started denying the husband
8:28
access to the children. The more Like okay, in what is
8:32
going on? He went to the family at that
8:36
point. He didn't even know that they've
8:37
paid the price. He went to the family and said,
8:40
listen, what is going on? And I don't have access to my
8:44
children. This woman is named me access to
8:46
my children. The family said, I leave the
8:48
whole thing. You know, what is this?
8:50
It was actually the Elders of the village.
8:52
They are called the man and said, because normally
8:55
traditionally for you to collect a bride, price of you and
8:59
already married A person, they have to call the husband, the
9:02
first husband and give him, it is the first husband, you're
9:05
actually going to give that money to.
9:08
So they called the man that the Elders of the land called the
9:11
man and said, your wife is about to get married.
9:14
They told us she wants to marry our you are.
9:18
We going to give you the bride price.
9:21
That the second husband is paying, the man said that.
9:24
Well, since you already have a child for this month, what is
9:28
the point of him? Right price.
9:30
Now, there's no need for those any of those things, as long as
9:33
she allows him to see his children that he is fine with
9:37
the whole team. The problem telling them that
9:39
the problem now is that Judy Austin is not allowing him to
9:42
see the kids. They said, well, they were
9:45
quality bride price and you do be married to another man after
9:49
that marriage. When Judy, when the whole
9:52
Instagram thing was happening, the whole social media was on
9:55
fire about the fact that you later she married.
9:59
The And wife, Judy all since husband was running around,
10:02
trying to see his children. He said, he went to or car
10:05
child, support to help them even if it's a joint stock, the cost
10:09
of the, like he said, he's not even trying to collect their
10:11
children. He just want to be seen as
10:13
children regularly. Let's say, weekends or like, he
10:16
is the father of those children, but you do your thing, because
10:20
she is now not legally traditionally married to eulogy.
10:24
She felt that he does not have any rights to see the children
10:28
or two. Like so you could I just want to
10:33
paint the picture of Judy Austin in this situation.
10:37
You know, let's say, I don't even want to blame you the
10:41
Austin leaving her first husband because we all talk about our
10:45
growing situations are growing people.
10:48
There's no problem of you thinking, okay?
10:50
This man who helped you to you know get admission to the
10:55
university for you to be able to even see you later.
10:59
Ciao. Say, or for you to now, think of
11:02
you want to go into the career of acting.
11:05
That is not a problem. But most, you know, break
11:07
another persons whom she just looked like, she just looks like
11:11
an opportunist. She used the man to get, you
11:14
know, getting to school and then now she's using you to get Fame
11:20
for you. Liz knows is my Victim yet.
11:22
The victim here is made. She now saw the whole thing,
11:26
Judy Austin, change her name to Judy Austin, Usually Duty as per
11:31
second wife, Judy has been peppering.
11:33
Everybody on social media today has been doing there.
11:36
I am your Excellency Her Excellency, like it is so
11:41
embarrassing that you have to marry somebody's husband, and
11:47
you're not even ashamed of it. I mean, polygram is nobody
11:51
saying a polygamy Africans? We are we we know that okay, we
11:55
some of us grow up in polygamy. Some of us know people that grew
11:59
up in Bigamy. Some of us grandparents are
12:02
politically they were they married multiple women so it is
12:06
not news but the way they went about it and I know that okay
12:11
those people like you were talking about using, these are
12:14
people who are polygamists, sometimes it is even the first
12:18
one to go and approve who the husband Mary's as his second
12:22
wife, or even if she doesn't approve, she will be aware of
12:27
the whole situation, cause you let the chase claiming that The
12:30
reason why he married you the Austin is because she gave birth
12:34
to his son. So for him to now lay claims,
12:37
that child, which is true, because in Hebrew tradition for
12:41
you to make claims to child, you have to like Drop you like doing
12:46
and do an introduction. But not necessarily marry, you
12:49
can you can do those things but not to claim your child born on
12:54
necessarily married, the person. But you let the she felt that he
12:58
needed from our I I mean they've been dating since 2012 so it's
13:04
not shocking that he went through that, he chose to have
13:09
Judy as his wife. Now when all these things will
13:12
happen, people were bashing you. They said even if you're going
13:16
to marry second wife, you should at least let your first wife
13:19
know. And I think I believe that he
13:23
actually told me about Mia was like, just the way she see her
13:27
stance is now that she does not want police.
13:30
She does not want polygamy so Judy, you felt okay, let me just
13:35
be behind her back, she will be able to accept it but me saying
13:39
that she's not accepting polygamy, Judy Austin's.
13:41
First husband is still 49 courts to go to for him to be able to
13:45
see his children. Made the chair is currently just
13:49
you know, sitting it out, cities, other waiting for
13:55
something to happen. Now, coming back to the present
13:57
situation, a couple of Of weeks ago.
14:02
You let the chair released a statement saying that.
14:04
Oh, he's a power polygamous. His wife is successful.
14:07
This was one made. He traveled to UK to.
14:12
I don't know. She will.
14:13
She's just living my best life basically.
14:15
So he released the statement statement that he's a probably
14:18
got missed. His first wife is very
14:21
successful. His second wife is very
14:23
successful. He is this that God told him to
14:26
be a polygamist. He just talked to her boss.
14:30
You know, kokum bun in that pressed that statement I hearing
14:35
is online. So why was trying to do is make
14:39
everybody feel, that's okay. His wife is in support of the
14:43
present situation because the plan was to move since May is no
14:46
longer in Nigeria to move Judy, Austin into the family house
14:51
into the house that he and me built together.
14:55
I mean may say that it is a jointly owned property.
14:59
So what's you lady Jays trying to do is since Judy Asti and
15:04
since made the chase not around he moved Judy into the house.
15:10
Just lover called reached out to me.
15:15
DJ and said, are you hearing what I am hearing that your
15:21
husband is trying to move do deals in into the house, easy to
15:25
easy. True may say that she's not
15:27
aware, she's not aware of their plan.
15:30
But the house is enjoying your own property so he cannot do
15:33
anything like that. I think she reached out to Julie
15:37
Duty and then you'll additional issued a public apology
15:41
apologizing to his wife for the first time.
15:44
Since all these things has happened, he issued an apology
15:48
saying that he is sorry. And that he has been paying
15:51
today, has been a very good. Those bank has been paying
15:53
children's school fees. I mean, is it me?
15:56
There's going to come a children's school fees?
15:58
I don't understand. Does that make you a good
16:00
husband? Yes, you are.
16:01
You're, you will be a good father, taking care of your
16:04
children, but you have not been a good husband to your wife.
16:09
That is for you to have detailed started.
16:11
Dating giudices 22. 2012, you went and removed.
16:16
The married woman in her husband's house and you're still
16:18
dating that person. Are you claiming you're saying
16:21
no, you pay school fees. You take care of your sweetheart
16:23
is your responsibility. I don't know why people want to
16:26
be hailed for doing what they are supposed to do.
16:29
Fighting my rents. Now be healing myself.
16:31
That I am a very good mood. That is your responsibility,
16:35
your responsibility as a father, is to take care of your
16:38
children. He just played that card, pity
16:41
party. I'm a good husband.
16:43
Forgive me, don't be angry. I am just asking you for your
16:47
forgiveness. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
16:51
Hmm. We're just sitting there minding
16:53
our business thinking that maybe the chairs just going to
16:56
overlook the thing. Ha me release the OWN.
16:59
Means if you see me said mi band, you know, I have forgiven
17:06
you, I don't hate you. I don't have a bone in my body
17:10
to hit anybody not stock of to hit the father of my children.
17:13
What she's asking for is that she is not going to be party to
17:16
polygons that she is a Catholic. She Mets, you know, you'll they
17:22
did what they did, they do before they got married and
17:26
they've been together for 18 years, only for you to just That
17:30
she didn't buy gain for polygamy.
17:32
Now, you're bringing polygamy and respecting her to accept to
17:35
share. You want to control her into
17:37
accepting polygamy that she's not going to accept it that he
17:41
should stop this. Childish sinner is doing online,
17:43
releasing a statement, begin that it will affect their
17:47
children that their children. Even if it does not affect the,
17:50
it's going to affect them will do that because they're going to
17:52
go to school and people are going to be asking them why is
17:55
your father of modern social media drag?
17:59
In each other. So, she just made a statement.
18:02
I was a very much all statement that she made.
18:04
Everybody's blaming Judy, Austin.
18:06
The oh Judith in, is this? Yes, she has owned blame or but
18:10
let us remember that. You really do.
18:12
She practically drag this woman out of her husband's house in
18:17
2012. They've been together.
18:19
They've been dating since to altitude since 2012 for Judy.
18:23
Austin. That is why she had the audacity
18:26
to come online. I be calling herself her accent.
18:29
See, this did not start today. So anybody that is dragging to
18:34
the Austin. Yes, he needs to be tracked, but
18:37
the person in the center of this whole thing.
18:40
The person that left his wife and went on to another man's
18:45
wife is also to blame and he's busy shouting will.
18:50
Do you do go to the me to be a polygamist?
18:53
This is that I think he never begin for the reaction that he's
18:56
getting from his wife. I think he felt that once he
18:58
married you there, the team made the chobe like I am divorcing.
19:02
You I am not marrying again, all these kind of things and then
19:05
she like I think me personally that's the the reaction that I
19:10
will basically divorcee. The next day he did not bargain
19:13
for his wife to basically sit down there and say you know we
19:18
are not going anywhere. I am not divorcing you so you
19:22
better one fix your mess, you know so he was expecting Or the
19:30
expectation of even everybody for me to divorce him bomi is
19:35
not amazed not giving him that satisfaction to divorce him so
19:39
that I can be with you Judy. She's like no, this is not
19:41
happening. This house will be together.
19:44
You cannot bring you the into this house.
19:46
So go and sort your mess. I will not be, I will not be
19:51
known, but as his wife, I will not be cajoled into polygamy.
19:55
Stop this, your social media runs.
19:58
Stop this, your You media charade that you're doing to get
20:02
people to think that you're a good person?
20:06
I have forgiven you but I will not be numbered.
20:09
This is what made the chair has maintained from the beginning.
20:15
And he did not bargain for this thing.
20:18
She felt that's okay. If she's here, she gives this
20:22
guy what he wants that she's not going to get anything out of it.
20:25
The fact that Judy Austin is the audacity I mean, it is the same,
20:31
it was the same audacity that you'll had when he took her out
20:36
of her husband's house. So I can't even, I can't even
20:39
blame her. I can't even blame her.
20:41
The people, the people in this, the like the victim in this
20:45
situation, are the children start with me because me, you
20:49
knew your husband has been cheating.
20:51
You not tell me you've been in that industry and nobody told
20:55
you that your husband has been. There's he Judy Austin since
20:58
2012. Meenu.
21:01
But she felt he will not bring her home.
21:05
She was shocked when she learns the house while married to the
21:09
Austin. I think that was he never
21:11
bargained for that aspect of it. You know sometimes your own
21:14
women's are happy for their husbands who you know cheese
21:17
have side chick have children outside.
21:20
As long as they remain wife, they are happy with that aspect.
21:25
I think maybe the chair was also happy to accept.
21:29
Everything that you because if you need, if she had done
21:33
something about their relationship in, 2012 up until
21:37
they say 2020, this situation will not be here talking about
21:42
videos and having a child 444 eulogy or even you later, she
21:47
married your sting. So she tolerated all these
21:50
things. She accepted it because she felt
21:53
regardless, she will be the wife.
21:55
But now that position has been threatened A position.
22:00
She's she's not a known bad wife, which is saying that she's
22:03
not accepting. I don't even know when this
22:05
thing is going to end because this is episode 105 of the other
22:13
chairs. You led the chase family, family
22:17
drama, it is not going to end soon.
22:19
I understand that maze basically telling him to stay off social
22:23
media for the sake of their children.
22:25
But you know, the chase an attention seeker.
22:29
He's an attention seeker. I don't think it's going to end
22:32
soon. And Judy, Judy does not give a
22:35
flying bird about what is going on because she, she has nothing
22:42
to lose this man. Took out of her husband's house.
22:45
So she has nothing to lose. She's already married to him.
22:50
Is he going to come and oppose? Our to make me happy?
22:54
That relationship is fractured regardless.
22:57
I don't think they would ever. Come back has ignited family.
23:02
After there's a child involved, there is a wife involved.
23:06
Not just a child by whole wife. So even if you're saying you're
23:09
going to divorce, even if you listen is going to divorce
23:13
Studios thing, that Titan is there already his Judy, Austin.
23:19
You need to change regardless regardless.
23:23
So I don't know, I don't know. I just think they all need to
23:27
stay off social media deal. With their issues of social
23:31
media. This is what made you change
23:33
setting eulogy, stay off. Social media and deal with the
23:38
issue. Let us deal with its by.
23:41
I'm not going to be numbered. I am not going to be cajoled
23:43
into polygamy, I don't know. We just have to sit down and
23:49
watch it and unfold and there were happy to sit down, talk
23:54
about it so that people will learn lesson people.
23:57
Anybody that is thinking of polygamy, like, I don't know
24:02
why. How are you doing?
24:04
Wife is stressful. Those are evolving to.
24:07
He is not seeing the reason why his father married one wife.
24:11
Anyway, thank you for watching today's episode.
24:15
Please like like, like and share.
24:16
Thank you very much. Bye, bye.