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OFF THE RECORD: When do you hit the voice memo level? · Flava Breakfast

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  Speaker 1: The Flavor podcast Network.
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  Speaker 2: You're listening to Staycissur and Charlie's Off the Record.
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  Speaker 3: Your record. Welcome to Off the Record with the Zira
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  Speaker 3: and Charlie this morning. Things come here because they didn't
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  Speaker 3: go on the air.
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  Speaker 2: I want to pick your brain. This is something that's
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  Speaker 2: I find this pretty weird, like first time followers, and
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  Speaker 2: we follow each other. Now it's a good friend, like
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  Speaker 2: we've been friends for quite some time.
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  Speaker 1: But oh this is you.
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  Speaker 2: No, me and this person. But like what I don't
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  Speaker 2: get and I don't find this very nice unless you know,
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  Speaker 2: we have a very very close relationship, like me and money.
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  Speaker 2: Let's just say that me and money. Where we are,
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  Speaker 2: we're businies, but we usually do voice memost because we
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  Speaker 2: just can't be bothered.
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  Speaker 1: Tisie.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so, like you know, the conversation starts off with hey, bro,
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  Speaker 2: like blah blah blah. This is all texts. But then
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  Speaker 2: it gets to a point it moves, it moves. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: this is the first time we've ever talked on social media.
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  Speaker 2: But it goes from that to like voice memos and
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  Speaker 2: I'm replying back via text.
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  Speaker 1: But wait, this is with someone else, not someone else, No,
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  Speaker 1: this is with someone else.
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  Speaker 3: So you're weird it out about the fact that this
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  Speaker 3: new friend of yours is sending you voice memos.
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  Speaker 2: Well, firstly, I don't want to really hear the voice.
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  Speaker 2: And secondly, it's like.
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  Speaker 1: What a said, guy? You know what that's said, Charlie.
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  Speaker 3: Think Okay, look, I'm not, but it's why don't you
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  Speaker 3: want to hear their voice?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think. I'm just not really in that relationship
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  Speaker 2: to like.
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  Speaker 3: This'm ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm getting I want I want to hear your
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  Speaker 2: opinion on this.
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  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So you're weirded out that you're getting voice memos
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  Speaker 3: from someone that you've recently become friends with and also
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  Speaker 3: added on social media.
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  Speaker 1: I get that.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes when you hear a voice memo, you're like, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 3: like there you are there, So I get the surprise.
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  Speaker 3: But it's also some people actually talk like that bro
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  Speaker 3: like you, you don't know this person well enough to
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  Speaker 3: know that they probably sent.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone voice Like I notice, it's well convenient. It's like,
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  Speaker 1: forget about whether you're like, we're not on that level.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's just convenient. This person may be a busy person.
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  Speaker 3: They maybe on the move, you're already talking. What's the
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  Speaker 3: difference between hearing their voice and seeing it written down
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  Speaker 3: in a message. It's because I'll tell you why you
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  Speaker 3: don't like the voice memos. You're lazy because sometimes when
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  Speaker 3: you get voice memos or you're sitting there by the
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  Speaker 3: way it's about to go silent, because that's kind of
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  Speaker 3: what it's like, right, you're holding your phone up and
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  Speaker 3: you're like waiting for them to just like finish a
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  Speaker 3: voice memo, and you know you can't skip through, you
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  Speaker 3: can't leave the chat because you need to get to
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  Speaker 3: the end of it, and it's kind of a bit boring.
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  Speaker 1: So maybe it's not the fact that you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: we're not on that level.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe they're not good at like telling the story quickly
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  Speaker 3: or like getting.
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  Speaker 1: To the point caull.
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  Speaker 2: So you're forced to sit through the voice memos. So
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  Speaker 2: if I was lazy, I would just send a.
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  Speaker 3: Voice in my back. But you don't want it to
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  Speaker 3: be like that. You're like, pick up on the hem, bro,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not voice memo.
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  Speaker 2: There you go.
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  Speaker 3: So you know, like don't let communication, let the communication
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  Speaker 3: just go that way. If it's a text, it's yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you're right, You're right, there's a bit of self awareness
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  Speaker 3: that has to come with voice memos, Like I actually
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  Speaker 3: totally get that because you know, if Manu, you're BISDI
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  Speaker 3: noticed that you weren't sending voice memos back, he'd be okay, sweet, now,
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  Speaker 3: now's not the time. But it's sometimes where you're sitting
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  Speaker 3: as well, like were you are in there, it's like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna listen to this voice memo, you know,
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  Speaker 3: in front of x y Z people. And that's what
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  Speaker 3: it's like with me and the girls Snapchat, Like there's
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  Speaker 3: a group Snapchat that we've got and bro, I sometimes
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  Speaker 3: I don't I can't open it for a few days
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  Speaker 3: because of who I'm around. You know, I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: stay with like Nan tonight, I sat with you guys.
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  Speaker 3: When am I going to open it? I don't know
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  Speaker 3: what they're gonna say, so I would rather not until
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  Speaker 3: I'm in the right mindset. But then it sort of
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  Speaker 3: ruins the conversation flow.
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  Speaker 2: I get when they said, sorry, hey, look, sorry for
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  Speaker 2: the voice member. I'm just driving at the moment. That's fine,
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  Speaker 2: there's an exception to that, But when you're telling me
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  Speaker 2: you're just bro, I'm just waking up.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: hear that.
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  Speaker 3: I know that is weird.
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  Speaker 1: That is weird.
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  Speaker 3: Okay I think, don't ever think it. But also this
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  Speaker 3: person should be self aware enough to go, oh, they're
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  Speaker 3: not picking up what I'm putting down.
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  Speaker 1: Sweet, We'll move to mistad. So for those of you
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  Speaker 1: out there, let's be a little more self aware.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Thanks for listening to Stace Azura and Charlie's Off
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