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What is Infidelity? Ft. Emez · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
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  Speaker 2: new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to
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  Speaker 2: these niggas and these hoes. This is your co-host AJ
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  Speaker 2: Holiday 2.0 on Instagram. What's up, Tam?
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  Speaker 1: In 2024, I don't want to dedicate it to niggas
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  Speaker 1: and hoes no more.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So we got to stick with dreamers and chasers.
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  Speaker 4: We'll come up with something. Let's revamp. Yes, revamp. I'm
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  Speaker 4: sick of niggas and hoes. Niggas and hoes I despise.
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  Speaker 3: Really?
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  Speaker 2: I don't despise them. I like niggas.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, the term niggas and hoes. Is that our audience?
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  Speaker 1: Anyway Hey y'all It's Tam Bam I love y'all man
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  Speaker 1: Shay was that our audience?
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  Speaker 4: AJ Holiday How was your weekend baby?
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  Speaker 2: Uh Uneventful I chilled out this weekend I needed some
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  Speaker 2: rest Christmas is coming up y'all Y'all started doing some
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  Speaker 2: Christmas shopping and shit like.
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  Speaker 1: That I'm giving out Pecans, mints, oranges and apples And
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  Speaker 1: love that's it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm giving out $ 1 scratch offs and I'm signing the.
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  Speaker 4: Back of them how you gonna sign the back.
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  Speaker 2: Cause if I win I'll give you 50% I mean
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  Speaker 2: if you win I need 50% but I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 2: the one to cash it in my.
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  Speaker 4: Nigga that is such a backhanded.
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  Speaker 2: Gift I do it every year i do it every.
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  Speaker 1: Year um i what did i do this weekend oh
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  Speaker 1: we had our girlfriends gift exchange so every year me
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  Speaker 1: and this a group of friends that i have we
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  Speaker 1: pick a thing we take terms being the host and
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  Speaker 1: we pick a theme and we host this big party
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  Speaker 1: with lots of food and drinks and games and this
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  Speaker 1: year it was barbie themed and leather and lace girlfriends
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  Speaker 1: so you had to wear leather.
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  Speaker 4: Or leather pictures Yes.
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  Speaker 1: And they create a Barbie box and I'm in there
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  Speaker 1: like I was podcast Barbie and I brought my black
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  Speaker 1: effect mic and I had, and I was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's so cute.
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  Speaker 4: It was so cute. It was so much fun.
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  Speaker 2: So I want to see that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I'll show you your pictures. Um, and that's all I
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  Speaker 4: did this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: Went to that party on Saturday and then Sunday I
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  Speaker 1: rested all day because I drank so much at the
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  Speaker 1: party Saturday.
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  Speaker 4: It took me the full Sunday to recover.
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  Speaker 1: And, All I did was get up to clean my
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  Speaker 1: house and wash clothes and literally that was it and
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  Speaker 1: lay around all day.
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  Speaker 2: Shit, that's a full day.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, so that was it.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get into stupid internet news. Okay, guys, we have
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  Speaker 1: some good news.
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  Speaker 4: We're pregnant!
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  Speaker 1: Well, not me or AJ. It's Ashanti who's actually pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so happy for her. So, She did the black
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  Speaker 1: and white ball with her.
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  Speaker 4: Baby daddy, Nelly. Not baby daddy.
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  Speaker 1: He is her baby daddy until they get married. They engaged.
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  Speaker 1: But her baby daddy, they did the ball. And someone
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  Speaker 1: was on the mic saying, seal the deal, seal the deal.
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  Speaker 1: They kept chanting it. And Ashanti and Nelly grabbed her stomach.
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  Speaker 1: And then they were kind of like. giggle and then
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  Speaker 1: were ushered themselves off the stage and then it came
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  Speaker 1: out that she is in fact pregnant so congratulations and.
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  Speaker 2: Go Ashanti look people in the comments fake hearing talk
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  Speaker 2: about oh why she didn't get a ring first girl
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  Speaker 2: however they doing it and whatever order is being done
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  Speaker 2: some 40 something year old people I'm happy for Ashanti
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  Speaker 2: Half y'all ass got higher standards for these celebrities than
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  Speaker 2: you got for your goddamn self in your relationship.
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  Speaker 4: The fuck? You ain't got no damn husband. But I
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  Speaker 4: love it, man. I love it. I love that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: That might be my story, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: I think. i'm here for it bitch how we gonna
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  Speaker 2: podcast pregnant what that gonna look like what you mean.
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  Speaker 1: You sitting on your ass doing it right now you
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  Speaker 1: sit on your ass and do it then.
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  Speaker 2: My nose gonna be even bigger during the pregnancy.
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  Speaker 4: Wide is all outside big back big.
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  Speaker 1: Everything nosy as hell Stupid internet news is going to
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  Speaker 1: be extra good because you're going to be nosy as fuck.
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  Speaker 2: Congratulations, Nelly and Ashanti.
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  Speaker 4: I said this to my therapist last week that I'm jealous.
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  Speaker 4: Not of Ashanti.
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  Speaker 1: Well, now them too, but I've been having some jealousy
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  Speaker 1: in my spirit lately and I don't know how to
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  Speaker 1: overcome it. It's just because I'm like, I've been single,
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  Speaker 1: like completely single for so fucking long.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not jealous.
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  Speaker 2: Anytime any of my old ass friends or any old
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  Speaker 2: ass celebrities get pregnant, it always gives me like this
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  Speaker 2: extra boost of fucking faith and hope.
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  Speaker 4: Like, bitch, I'm next. I ain't got to worry about nothing.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not too old. I can still have a baby.
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  Speaker 2: Like, it gives me hope.
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  Speaker 4: I'm hopeful. I love it. I'm still like, ugh. When
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  Speaker 4: is it going to be me?
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  Speaker 2: When you make it you, you have to prioritize those
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  Speaker 2: type of things.
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  Speaker 4: Bitch.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Are you prioritizing relationships? Are you prioritizing finding a mate?
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  Speaker 4: I am.
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  Speaker 2: How?
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  Speaker 4: I think so. On the next episode of With my therapist.
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  Speaker 2: Bitch.
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  Speaker 4: Go to hell, AJ.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Bitch. Your therapist don't got all the answers. He do. Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: But I am happy for them. I am happy for
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  Speaker 1: everybody that's in a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy for you.
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  Speaker 4: And it's cold outside. I'm happy.
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  Speaker 1: Until summertime and y'all booed up. And then I'm outside.
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  Speaker 4: Uh-huh. Sorry, I'm joking. Usher, very final show in Las Vegas.
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  Speaker 1: And as he was doing his final bow out, he
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  Speaker 1: kind of lost his cool and started crying and fell
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  Speaker 1: to his knees. And it was like very monumental and
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  Speaker 1: nice to see him just standing that gratitude of this
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  Speaker 1: experience for him.
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  Speaker 4: And I hate that I did not get to go.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going right now, y'all, to see how many shows
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  Speaker 2: Usher did.
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  Speaker 4: I think it was 100.
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  Speaker 2: That's a lot. Like, he literally played basketball every night.
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  Speaker 4: I had a whole season. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So, I hate that I missed his show. We should
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  Speaker 1: have went, AJ. I actually, I bought tickets to go
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  Speaker 1: in March. I bought myself one ticket by myself, seated
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  Speaker 1: by myself, close to the stage, because I was just
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  Speaker 1: trying to get real close to Usher and see if
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  Speaker 1: I could get a serenade. I was going to smile
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  Speaker 1: real big with these big, pretty teeth and see him
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  Speaker 1: come over to me, even though I ain't a celebrity celebrity.
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: But my doctor, if y'all remember, I had my fibroids
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  Speaker 1: removed earlier this year. And the surgery was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: be prior to the show. But then they moved it
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  Speaker 1: to the day after the show, so I could not
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  Speaker 1: go to Vegas.
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  Speaker 4: I was so disappointed.
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  Speaker 1: So I missed it, and then I just never made
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  Speaker 1: it back. But at least Usher's doing the Super Bowl,
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  Speaker 1: so I get to see him there.
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  Speaker 2: Girl, he was only scheduled to do 28 shows initially.
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  Speaker 2: That's how successful his residency would be.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: He ended up doing 100 shows. That's amazing.
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  Speaker 4: That nigga's exhausted. Yeah, he tired. How?
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  Speaker 2: Even, like, aside from him, like, you know, he has
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  Speaker 2: other people perform. He got strippers, all that type of stuff. How?
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  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
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  Speaker 4: It's when you love what you're doing. When you love
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  Speaker 4: what you're doing, it does not feel like work.
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  Speaker 2: I want to know how much money he made now.
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  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm. He's straight. His kids straight. Everybody's straight. Because them
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  Speaker 4: tickets wasn't no punk-ass hoe. Them tickets was expensive.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody's tickets expensive, though. I can't think of nobody worth
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  Speaker 1: seeing whose tickets ain't expensive. Americans, we gotta work.
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  Speaker 2: I want free tickets, because I know y'all go overseas,
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  Speaker 2: and y'all charging them $ 150 to see y'all ass, but
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  Speaker 2: over here it's inflation. On top of inflation, and that's
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  Speaker 2: fucked up.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I want a discount. I want the European discount.
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  Speaker 4: Go to Europe.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna have to pay for a plane ticket to
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  Speaker 1: get there. It's just equal out in the end.
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  Speaker 2: Shame. So, Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Did you see him, like, try to touch Mary Lake?
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  Speaker 2: Girl, marriage advice is not that shit.
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  Speaker 4: Don't get off me, sir.
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  Speaker 2: I had so many thoughts about that. It's like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: people be, they be knowing them people in the industry.
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  Speaker 2: We don't really know them. So it's like, I don't
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  Speaker 2: want that nigga energy on me. Because she even made
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  Speaker 2: him wipe his face. Did you see that? She was like, like,
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  Speaker 2: he's sweating. And he was like, oh, yeah, I'm sweating.
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  Speaker 2: And wiped his face. And then she hugged him. it's
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: another video people producing now um with Tyrese Tyrese trying
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  Speaker 2: to touch her leg while posing in the picture and
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: Mary J Blige shoot his hand.
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: Too like Mary J Blige is not doing that but
• 9:54
  Speaker 1: did you see him in J-Hud I don't know if
• 9:56
  Speaker 1: y'all saw that but Jennifer Hudson and Common were there
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: at the show together let me just say this Common
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: is the male Lori Harvey nobody talk about him though Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: don't nobody say shit about him, but he be dating
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  Speaker 1: these women in the end, and he don't say a word.
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  Speaker 1: We don't hear shit from him about why it's over
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  Speaker 1: or nothing, but he be having... He's been connected to
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  Speaker 1: so many beautiful black women. It's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Energy harvesting. So, J-Hud... When she cut her hair off,
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  Speaker 2: we already know they broke up.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, Tiffany?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: J-Hud stepped over Carmen to get the Usher... Step right
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  Speaker 1: over his legs.
• 10:39
  Speaker 4: Excuse me. Watch out. Watch out, baby.
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  Speaker 2: Excuse me. Pardon me.
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  Speaker 1: Usher kind of grabbed close to the side of her
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  Speaker 1: hip and everything.
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  Speaker 4: He was a little bit more.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if he knows that Common was actually
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  Speaker 1: dating her because he was doing a lot with J-Hud,
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  Speaker 1: in my opinion, to say Common was sitting right there.
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  Speaker 2: Is that infidelity?
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  Speaker 3: Is that cheating?
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  Speaker 1: It depends on what Common and J-Hud have decided for
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  Speaker 1: their relationship. That's a conversation we definitely got to get
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  Speaker 1: into though.
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  Speaker 4: What is infidelity? What is it really?
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  Speaker 2: It is just, it's essentially cheating. It's just a nice
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  Speaker 2: fancy word for cheating. And it doesn't have to actually
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  Speaker 2: just be with somebody you're in a marriage with. It
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  Speaker 2: could be with somebody who you're in a committed relationship
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  Speaker 2: with and you step outside that relationship. Physically or mentally, apparently. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: let's get into it when we come back from this break.
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  Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we're back. And we have a special
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  Speaker 2: guest on We Talk Back this week. Y'all, we have
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: the nominee for QG's Man of the Year. M. Yeezy
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  Speaker 2: is the producer of the Angie Martinez Show. And what
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  Speaker 2: was the show you.
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  Speaker 3: Said you also created? The Sit Down with M. Yeezy.
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  Speaker 3: It's an interview show.
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  Speaker 2: The sit down with M-Eazy. Okay. He's also the co-host
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: of one of our favorite people, Taylor. Fun Size T
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  Speaker 2: on Empty Thoughts Podcast. Y'all welcome M-Eazy to We Talk Back.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, hello. We love you, M-Eazy.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, how many times did I ask you to come
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  Speaker 2: on We Talk Back?
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  Speaker 5: Oh. This is my first time, but I've been asked
• 12:30
  Speaker 5: a couple times, but it's the scheduling stuff.
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  Speaker 3: You know how that goes.
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  Speaker 4: We finally good enough.
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  Speaker 1: We're finally good enough for M-Eazy to join us.
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  Speaker 4: It only took three years.
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  Speaker 5: You got a cool 55 minutes before I got to
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  Speaker 5: get back to my nine to five.
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  Speaker 4: All right, so let's get into it.
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  Speaker 2: So we know y'all have been seeing what's been going
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  Speaker 2: on with Jeezy and Jeannie Mai, his soon to be ex-wife.
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  Speaker 2: They have had a, what, two and a half year relationship.
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  Speaker 2: They got a one year old daughter out of the
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  Speaker 2: whole situation. He filed for divorce back in June. We
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  Speaker 2: didn't hear about it until like September, July, September, some
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  Speaker 2: shit like that. Recently, they're back in court because he
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  Speaker 2: said she's gatekeeping the kid and And Jeannie Mai countered
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  Speaker 2: with infidelity. And when we think about infidelity, we always
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  Speaker 2: think about marriage. You don't really think about infidelity when
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  Speaker 2: you're in just a committed relationship with a man. The
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  Speaker 2: word usually only comes up in court when you're getting
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  Speaker 2: a divorce.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: So we wanted a married man on the show, right?
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  Speaker 2: Or someone married to talk about infidelity and what exactly
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  Speaker 2: does it mean to them? Because based on this prenup
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  Speaker 2: that Jeezy and Jeannie Mai has, listen, it's very detailed
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  Speaker 2: what they consider cheating slash infidelity. And if you don't
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  Speaker 2: know what infidelity is, it's cheating in your marriage or
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  Speaker 2: in a relationship with a committed partner is essentially what
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  Speaker 2: it is.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: What do you consider cheating?
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  Speaker 3: Anything that you can't do in front of me. Anything
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  Speaker 3: that you can't do in front of me is cheating.
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  Speaker 4: So putting on my tampon is cheating.
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  Speaker 3: Why can't you do that in front of me?
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  Speaker 4: Oh, my life. Why am I putting my tampon on
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  Speaker 4: in front of you? That's none of your business. Some
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  Speaker 4: things are meant to be done privately.
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  Speaker 5: That's not something that you could get in trouble for cheating. Like,
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  Speaker 5: you can put a tampon in by yourself.
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  Speaker 3: That's fine.
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  Speaker 4: You said anything.
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  Speaker 3: You said anything.
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  Speaker 5: Anything dealing with the opposite sex that you wouldn't do
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  Speaker 5: in front of me is a problem.
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  Speaker 2: Just opposite sex?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, here we go.
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  Speaker 2: These people grown.
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  Speaker 3: This is why I said anything.
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  Speaker 2: But that might be another level now because some people,
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  Speaker 2: you fuck with a woman, they may not consider that cheating.
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  Speaker 2: Some men may not consider that cheating.
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  Speaker 3: Is she penetrating you?
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  Speaker 2: Possibly. Get the strap.
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  Speaker 1: So it's cheating if it's a strap, but if they're
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  Speaker 1: just scissoring, I think you should see that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm cool.
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  Speaker 3: It's cool. See, now it's getting into, can I watch?
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  Speaker 3: Am I involved? Is this behind my back? Like, what
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  Speaker 3: are the parameters here?
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  Speaker 4: Does it matter? Does it matter?
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  Speaker 5: If I'm involved in the scissoring, like I can sit
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  Speaker 5: and watch and have a drink and smoke while that's
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  Speaker 5: going on, yeah, we're cool. But if it's behind my back,
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  Speaker 5: I think we might need to have a conversation.
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  Speaker 1: So basically, infidelity is different based on the couple, in
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  Speaker 1: your opinion.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I don't think there's one direct definition
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  Speaker 5: of infidelity. I mean, as a young man, I was like,
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  Speaker 5: you can't even, I wouldn't even allow you to say
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  Speaker 5: hello to somebody without me being there.
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  Speaker 4: And when you got older, what changed that? You stopped caring?
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  Speaker 5: I got more secure with myself. Like, I don't, I mean,
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  Speaker 5: if that's what you want, go do that. I'll find
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  Speaker 5: somebody else. I'm not, I wasn't, I'm not defined by
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  Speaker 5: who was next to me anymore. Like, I'm cool with
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  Speaker 5: who I am.
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  Speaker 2: Nice. Self-awareness. We had an episode on that. Paragraph eight
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  Speaker 2: of the prenuptial agreement between Jeezy and Jenny, it specifies
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  Speaker 2: what Each one of them could be hit with a
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  Speaker 2: financial penalty if they partaken, if they participated. So it says,
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  Speaker 2: in the event that either party engages in sexual relations,
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  Speaker 2: an emotional relationship, or is emotionally or sexually suggestive in
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  Speaker 2: communication with the third party via all forms of electric communications,
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  Speaker 2: including but not limited to texting, sexting, FaceTiming, social media,
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  Speaker 2: and or direct messages shall result in a significant financial
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  Speaker 2: penalty upon the adulterous party. So y'all saw Jeezy on
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  Speaker 2: the sit down with Neil Long, right? And he said,
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  Speaker 2: real niggas don't cheat. So how is that possible? Now
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  Speaker 2: for your wife to say that you cheated.
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  Speaker 3: Isn't Jeezy the one that's filing for divorce? So how
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  Speaker 3: is that possible?
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  Speaker 2: So she's countering.
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  Speaker 5: What?
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  Speaker 3: Because he cheated?
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  Speaker 2: Infidelity. Infidelity. So based on their prenup, right? He said
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  Speaker 2: real niggas don't cheat. We know men really consider cheating penetration.
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  Speaker 2: They don't take into consideration. Exactly. They don't take into
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  Speaker 2: consideration sometimes. I'm a fraternizer. I make it known oftentimes.
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  Speaker 2: And I need to be in a marriage with somebody
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  Speaker 2: who's okay with me flirting here and there. Not like
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  Speaker 2: just outright being disrespectful to my partner. But let's not
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  Speaker 2: pretend like people don't entertain random DMs from random people occasionally.
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: Let's not act like we ain't got fans out here.
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: What the fuck? I got to entertain the fans? What
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: are you talking about?
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: I'm taking it back.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: I'm on hold.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think there's levels to that as well.
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: Like, You can't be just out here just flaunting that
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: you're entertaining these other people while you're in a committed relationship.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Absolutely. I mean, if she went through his phone.
• 18:25
  Speaker 5: There's a lot of different variables that could be why
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: they're separated. Because if he was a person that was
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: looking for the divorce first, it had to be something
• 18:35
  Speaker 5: before the cheating or the infidelity that made him want
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: to get out of the relationship.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: And I think maybe she's just doing that as a
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: get back. No, that can't be what we're looking at here.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: I mean, that's very possible.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: But, I mean, when you put all those things very
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: specific in your prenup, it was almost like her attorney
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: was preparing her for him to cheat.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: Sexting, texting. I just feel like every man.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: They both agreed to it, though.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: They both had to sign the prenup.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't have agreed to that shit. Would you have agreed?
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: That's too specific.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I know I couldn't. But the partner you have should
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: know you can't not, not text niggas. I can't not,
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: not deal with niggas. Y'all bugging, y'all bugging. I'm going
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: to be honest. Too specific.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, hold on. No, hold on.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I don't ever initiate bullshit. I never initiate stuff, but
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to say that there hasn't been a
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: time where somebody hit me up and I don't send
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: a little eye or just something. Not to just diss
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: them completely. So what if my partner, because I had
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: a nigga logged into my social media for a whole year.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: So I'm pretty sure he saw all types of shit.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: The only difference between me and him is that I
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: am not that intrusive I'm not going through your shit
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you live and usually like the truth
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: I'm knocking on the door I'm just not gonna be
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: the one to go out looking for shit to hurt
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: my own feelings some people do that So if you
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: happen to see some shit, just know that this is
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: regular human. So M-Eazy, you, damn, you married. I ain't
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: trying to get you caught up.
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: I'm very transparent with my wife. She knows the password
• 20:13
  Speaker 5: to my phone. After this conversation, she can look through
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: my phone. There's nothing there. But have I entertained? Well,
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: to a level, like I'll say hello.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: I'm like, no.
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: And once it gets to a point where she's talking
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: that talk, listen, we can't know.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: You know, if you follow me, you know I have
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: a wife and all that. We can't continue this conversation.
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: But yeah, I would hope that she's deading those conversations
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: when it gets to that level as well.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Because that's... See, I definitely will dead them, right? But
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: then if the messages is for my eyes and my
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: significant other happens to see this thing, they can create
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: whatever narrative around it that they want to, to fit
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: whatever story they may have in their head already, right?
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: I may just say, hey, wave back or not even
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: really entertain the conversation, but that still can be consider
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: cheating to my partner. You know what I'm saying?
• 21:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and this goes back to my original statement.
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: Anything that you wouldn't do around me, I would consider cheating.
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: Because if we're in the bed at 2 o'clock in
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: the morning and this person texts you and I can't
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: be over there and be like, yo, so who's texting us, bae?
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: Then that's not a conversation you need to be having.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: I agree there. Because shouldn't nobody be texting you?
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Because texting, all right, do you feel like texting and
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: DM is the same thing?
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Same access to you.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I don't think so.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: It's not the same. Texting is very more personal.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: They got your phone number and they feel comfortable to
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: text you at 2 a.m.
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: Versus somebody.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Somebody could be some nigga in Kenya who is, it's
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: 7 a.m.
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: Where he at? I don't know this person, you know,
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: so I feel like those are different.
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah, the text message is definitely a little more personal.
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: I have changed my stance.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: You're right.
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: I think the fact that you gave this person your
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: number and you guys have had conversation and interaction that
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: makes it way more personal than a DM that anyone
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: has access to.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: You're right.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: And I'm sure she know you got a man. He
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: know you got a man, so he just disrespectful at
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: this point.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: At 2 a.m. Don't text me at that time.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: Come on. At all.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: That don't cost plenty of people out like you. What
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: make you think that you can do that?
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: I'm single and I be mad when people call me.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: If you call me at that hour, I be like,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: who died?
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: Who's dead?
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: That's how I answer the phone because what the fuck?
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Are you well?
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: Right. You locked your damn mind, nigga. I got to work.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: That'll be an emergency. So some of the fans are
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: saying that on a reel that Jeannie Mai posted once
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: while they were on vacation, how Jeezy snatched his phone
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: and hit it real quick when she walked by him.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: So he probably thought she'd never seen his fraternizing, but
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: she held on to it for an opportune time like now.
• 22:57
  Speaker 5: I mean, just because I don't want you going through
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: my phone doesn't mean I'm doing something. That's my privacy. That's, like,
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: that's my diary. I go through a whole bunch of stuff.
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: Doesn't mean I'm cheating. I just don't want you to
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: go through my things. Oh, no.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: No, I'm not buying that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: So why, so, but you said you let your wife
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: have your password and she can go through it anytime
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: she wants.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: That doesn't mean, okay.
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: Damn. at the time i could be doing something i'm
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: not supposed to be doing what if i'm watching a
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: porno and i'm sitting here and she's trying to look
• 23:31
  Speaker 5: at what i'm watching like what you're doing get away
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: from me like that doesn't you're.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Not supposed to watch porno you just said something i'm
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: not supposed to.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: Be doing according to her like you know.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: I'm saying like she don't like so she don't like
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: so if.
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: I'm watching porn and she comes up behind me of
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: course i'm gonna like yo nah what do you you
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: know what i'm saying there's a lot of that could
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: make him not want to pass over his phone right away.
• 23:56
  Speaker 5: Doesn't mean he's talking to a chick or doing something erroneous.
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: Well, it is erroneous.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: If you said cheating is doing anything that your partner
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: doesn't want you, you can't do in front of them. So, technically,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: watching porn would be cheating by your definition.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Yes, it would. What?
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: Does your wife know how much you like porn? Have
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: you discussed it with her?
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: Exactly.
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: Because I be seeing these bitches mad because they have
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: me beating their dick in the bathroom or boyfriend, like,
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: just because they're home. Like, why you beat your dick?
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: I'm home. I don't feel that type of way. Sometimes
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: I really want to beat up. And I don't really
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: want you sweating on me.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: If you try to not try to do that, what
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: I'm supposed to do?
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: Listen, I don't have no problem with porn.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Me neither.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: No, go ahead. Have fun. Enjoy yourself, my nigga.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: Why did I agree to y'all? Y'all are crazy.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: If it's not an actual virtual bitch where you can
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: be like, all right, now touch yourself right there.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: If she's not responding to you in a real way,
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: then go ahead. Knock yourself out.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: That's the next level. That's the Oculus.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: We're going towards that eventually. I don't know if I'm
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: going to be with that style.
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: That's too much.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: It's going in.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: But if you just watching some random girl from Utah
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: playing with herself, that's fine.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: Why Utah?
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: What the hell?
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: I don't know. That's just where she was from in
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: my mind.
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: What about commenting, y'all? What about commenting on social media?
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: I remember one time, Tammy, you sent me a screenshot
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: of my nigga lusting over Erica Menez on Instagram. You
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: was like, you see that shit? I'm like, I don't care.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: I don't care about commenting. I wouldn't do it. I
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: wouldn't be putting no fucking gooey faces underneath a dude's
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: page on Instagram. Now, in retrospect, I'm like, that was
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: some bitch ass nigga shit. I'm just telling you. because
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: it's public. You know what I'm saying? Other people can
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: see you, nigga. It's not like you're just doing this
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: in the privacy of your own phone. Other people can
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: see you putting googly eyes even if you don't have
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: access to this bitch. Like, you're lame for doing that publicly.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: Go ahead.
• 26:22
  Speaker 5: I was put in my place with that with my wife, too.
• 26:24
  Speaker 5: I didn't think anything of it. It was just a
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: little hard. Like, not even just liking the picture. She's like, yeah,
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: but Instagram says that you like that. So any person
• 26:32
  Speaker 5: that sees that you like that could be like, yo,
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: you for the streets.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: I'm cool with the liking i'm cool with the likes
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: it's the extra comments and googly eyes and emojis underneath
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: a bitch a bitch picture because i've had niggas try
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: to check me for just simply liking for real just
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: liking a male friend's picture like you don't like every
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: single picture of his like because it came across the
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: timeline at some point in life And I clicked the heart.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: No, my nigga. Unless she at church, she get baptized
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: or she's feeding the elderly. She's volunteering that you can
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: like those. But if she's just standing there in some clothes,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: don't like that bitch picture.
• 27:14
  Speaker 5: Do not play with social media was meant for us
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: to be social.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: You do know that, right?
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: Yes!
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: What?
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Don't I rather you watch her play with herself in
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: a video that she posted to Xvideos that you can't
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: comment on than like her picture?
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: You can leave comments on there.
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: I would rather you just watch.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: I wish that was my mouth. You don't see your
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: niggas seeing some shit like that.
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: No, you can't. I said watch, not participate. Just watch.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: You're going to be commenting, man, I wish I was there.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: I'd kill him.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I'd kill his ass. But don't comment and don't like.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Unless it's just something very.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Commenting might be a little too much.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: That is too restrictive.
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: Especially if you're thirsting in the comment. Like googly eyes
• 27:59
  Speaker 5: and hard emojis and all that. That might be a
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: little much. But the liking, to me, has never been
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: a big thing. Like whoever you like.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: So it's okay for, let's say I like, it's this
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: one guy that I follow on Instagram and he posts
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: videos of him doing just regular stuff, but his dick
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: is really big in every video and it's just more
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: about the dick than the laundry or anything else. It's
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: obvious that he wants us to look at his dick.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: It's okay for your girl to just be liking.
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: All of those?
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: My wife, I don't know who the guy's name. She
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: watches this one YouTuber dude. Niggas always got his shirt
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: off talking about some real nigga shit. I'm like, you
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: love watching this dirty nigga with his shirt off, huh?
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: She was like, why are you talking the truth?
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: You don't understand.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: I'm like, it's because he got his shirt up. But
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: I don't... Whatever.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: You need to start talking with your shirt on, nigga.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: I don't got the muscles. It used to be a
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: bunch of ribs and shit.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Get the muscles. Get the muscles. Niggas is buying them now.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: You know what? I might have to do that. Get
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: me some muscles for sale.
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: That is the thing. Get you some breasts.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: What else is cheating, y'all? Y'all too strict. Commenting and
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: liking is cheating for these niggas. I'm doomed.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Commenting and liking is a problem. Porn is fine, though,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: for me. Knock yourself out. Don't go too crazy. My
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: ex used to go too crazy, though. And I didn't
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: know what it was. I've told this story before, but
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I was working two jobs at the time, so I
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: was gone a lot. And I would find two little
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: pieces of tape in the living room, two little pieces
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: of tape in the bedroom, two little pieces of In
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: the kitchen.
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: In the stairwell. Tape.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Masking tape. Two little tiny pieces of masking tape. all
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: over the house all the time. And I would just
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: be cleaning up, picking them up, picking them up.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: I'm like, what the? One day I finally said, what
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: the fuck?
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: Every day is some tape, just some random fucking place
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: in the stairwell.
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: In the bathroom, in the garage.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Like he was beating his dick and covering up his
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: camera on both.
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: Sides of the.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: And she said, man, I heard niggas can fucking blackmail
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: you while you watching porn.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: So I just cover up the cameras and tape everything.
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: And I was like, bro, you're beating your dick too much.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: How often are you beating your dick?
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: Good grief.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: It ain't even about the beating the dick. It's having
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: my bitch work at two jobs is a problem for me. Like,
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: you work at two jobs and he got time to
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: beat his dick excessively? That is a problem.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: That's why we're not together no more.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Sirs, what's up?
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: The fact that you're worried about people watching you beaching me.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Should make you not want to beaching me like that.
• 30:35
  Speaker 5: If I was afraid that people would be watching me
• 30:37
  Speaker 5: and I'm afraid of the reaction, stop beating me.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: You know what my issue is? Throw the tape away.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Why do I have to pick up the tape when
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: I get off from work? That's my only problem with this.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Get rid of your evidence, nigga. I clean it up
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: after you every day.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: They just randomly taking a tape off his cell phone
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: going up the stairs and putting that shit on the
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: wall yeah with.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: Your dirty nut fingers so that's not cheating to.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: You no that's not cheating to me as long as
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: it's not a girl who's like a real girl on
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: the other side of the phone go ahead.
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: What if he was beating his meatball couldn't perform when
• 31:18
  Speaker 5: it was time to.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: Please you.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Oh no that's a problem Because now you're more engaged
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: with this virtual sexual experience than me. So, no, that's
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: a problem. But if you like to do that in
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: your free time, I don't care. As long as you
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: still can satisfy me when I want it, I don't
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: have no problem with that.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: I can dig it.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: Is that a thing? Where guys beat on so much
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: that they can't have sex?
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: I mean, niggas ain't robots out here.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: They used to be. They ain't robots.
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: I mean, if....
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, after a good one, if she comes in right
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: after the expected one, you're.
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: Going to have a problem for him.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: See, I never knew. I never knew. And we had
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: an active sex life. He just was, I guess.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: I mean, he's young, right? He was young. So, of course,
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: you got to.
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he was younger. Yeah.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: That was a young story. But at 40, yeah, boy,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: leave your dick till I get off work. If you
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: can't make it work two times in a day.
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: When you come home, because I'm trying to beat this me.
• 32:19
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to figure out where you at so I
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: can make sure I got time for you.
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: You good? You close?
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I'm going to hold up.
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: You good?
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: You close?
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: You close is crazy.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because women, man, we be in our sexual prime
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: around this time, man. Like, mid-30s into, like, mid-40s, we
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: be trying to smash. And niggas, like, y'all lose the momentum,
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: I feel like, by 35. A lot.
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: Like, it's hard for a black guy at 35. Like,
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: y'all are like.
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: How so? How so?
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: It's actually soft. Let's be clear.
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: They said it's not convenient to live a soft life.
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: She's rough out here. No, I agree.
• 33:08
  Speaker 4: I understand. You know what?
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: And that's why you just got to catch them young
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: so you can get all their good years.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: Like how they do us.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: Yes. I was definitely a dick smith in Miami.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: It's some 40-year-old nigga's dick out here slinging dick at 40.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: It's something. You got to catch the 40-year-old dick slingers.
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: I haven't had... You don't want that.
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: You wouldn't question a nigga in his 40 still out
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: here just slaying shit?
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: You ain't got nothing? You really wouldn't question him at all?
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: You ain't decided to slow down and have a family
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: or bail time?
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: No, no, no.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying he's still able to perform. You got
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: to get niggas that are runners. Niggas who came up
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: with their cardio health. Those are the dick slingers, okay?
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: You don't have to worry about them having to pop
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: a pill to get active. Yeah. That's all I'm saying.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying, like, actually be out.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: Here hoeing at 40.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: Which a lot of them still do be out here
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: hoeing at 40. If that dick still working, niggas are
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: still hoeing. Niggas really don't slow down until the dick
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: stop working for real.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: That's what my mama said. She said they don't slow
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: down until they pencil don't write. She knew that.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: It's crazy.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: It's probably right.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: So y'all agree with with uh the prenup i.
• 34:26
  Speaker 5: Mean if he signed it he she read it so
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: he knew what he was getting himself into me personally
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: i'm not signing no prenup what you came with is
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: what you're leaving with um but um.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: But you have to put that in the prenup because
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: the laws are stepping. So in the prenup, you would
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: have to say what we came with is what we
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: leave with. And anything we acquired together, that's what we'll split.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: Because if you don't, you leave it up to the
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: states to determine what the split is. Not really everything,
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: but they'll calculate it in a way.
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: Depending on the laws. Like in South Carolina, the laws
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: are still built on women being at home and men
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: being the breadwinners. And if you leave your wife or
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: if your wife leaves you, she gets a lot of
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: your shit. Pension, all that stuff. At least half.
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: Properties. Which she is entitled to.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: I feel like prenups, I think people think prenups are
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: just for rich people. I don't think so, man. It's
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: for anybody who has any type of assets.
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: Anything.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Goddamn. You want half of
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: this dick?
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: You got this house? You split this house up and
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: that's all we got, baby. In this love. That's what
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: we came with.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Poor people marry for love, boy. We should all be
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: marrying for love. I think rich people have an option.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: They have a little bit more leeway. But is that love, though?
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: I think the first one should be for love. The
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: first marriage.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: The first marriage? Mm-hmm.
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: The second, you know.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: So you already anticipating number two?
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: No, I'm not.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying if the first one don't work, don't
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: do it for love the second time.
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: Do it for stability.
• 36:19
  Speaker 5: I have that running joke with my friend. I always say,
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: if I ever leave my wife, the next one's for legacy.
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: I'm going back to Haiti. I'm getting me a girl
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: that's like six foot two, and I'm building an NBA,
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: NFL player one way or another.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: Is that it? I can understand that. The next one's
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: for legacy. I hear you. I hear you.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah. But I'm never leaving my wife, just in case.
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: You're watching.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I know this is a little bit off topic, but
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Boosie said something here recently. He said that his daughter
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: could date her guy and it would be okay for
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: him to cheat on her, but don't put his hands
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: on her. That's the only thing he got a problem with.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: You can cheat on her, but don't beat her. What's
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: your stance on that?
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: I don't think he's saying like he wants her to
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: get cheated on.
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: I think he's talking from a realistic standpoint where like,
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: you cheat on my daughter, I can't beat your ass
• 37:19
  Speaker 5: for that.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: I can't take you, I can't do anything to you
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: because that's, you chose to do that.
• 37:25
  Speaker 5: But putting hands on my nigga, me and you gonna
• 37:27
  Speaker 5: have a real discussion about these hands. But cheating on her,
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: breaking her heart, I think that's something every father is
• 37:34
  Speaker 5: has to come to terms with.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: And I think that's what he's trying to say. Like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: cheat on her or you are, my nigga. But put
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: hands on her. Now we got a problem. I don't
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: think he's okay in cheating.
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: He's just saying.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: He is.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: He is.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: No, I don't think he's okay in it. We all
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: know Boosie has like a, he can't articulate. You know
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying? He says exactly how he's thinking. And
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: it's just the truth.
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: The comments.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: I understand what he's saying, but I just, don't hurt
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: my daughter would have been just good. Don't hurt my
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: daughter would have been across the board it's like saying
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: that is almost like giving a pass in a way
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: Nah he gotta be specific nigga don't put your hands
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: on my kid or we gonna have a problem well.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: He should say okay then just say that but don't
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: say cheating you can cheat on her all you want
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: but don't put that's what he said all you want
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: don't say that don't fucking say that.
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: Listen don't fucking say that As a father, that's a prerequisite.
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: You better know not to cheat on my daughter. But
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: a nigga's going to be a nigga. You cheat on her,
• 38:38
  Speaker 5: just know you're out of here. There's no coming back
• 38:41
  Speaker 5: from that. But you put hands on her, forget coming back.
• 38:46
  Speaker 5: You may not breathe tomorrow. There's a whole different levels
• 38:49
  Speaker 5: of angriness.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: You cheat on her.
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: I'm going to tell her, I told you not to
• 38:53
  Speaker 5: fuck with this dirty ass nigga. I told you it's
• 38:54
  Speaker 5: a dirty dick nigga. Stop fucking with him.
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: He beat you?
• 38:57
  Speaker 5: Oh, now we getting the boys and we going to
• 38:59
  Speaker 5: go come see you.
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: Come outside, my man. That's different.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, I feel that. But imagine giving someone that pass.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: You just can't say that.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: Even if... It's not a pass. It's not a pass.
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: You just can't. That is giving. You can cheat on
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: me all you want, but if you put your hands
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: on me, it's over.
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: No, you not supposed to say that.
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: Nobody should fucking say that.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: But you right, Tammy. Thinking about it like that, just imagining...
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: I'm now imagining if I was this young boy dating
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: this girl, and I'm seeing her dad... say some shit
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: like that, it is sort of a green light. You
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? Like, because men already subconsciously do shit.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: They don't even realize what they're doing when they're doing
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: it for real.
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: This man is now saying, you could cheat on her.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: Go ahead and cheat on her, but you better not
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: put your hands to her. In Boosie's mind, This is
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: going to happen. I can't stop it. Whatever, right? But
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: just imagine a young boy listening to you. You're basically
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: greenlighting him to not respect your child.
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: And imagine being the daughter and hearing your daddy say that.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: I'm going to have to disagree with this one.
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: I don't think how he said it was correct, but
• 40:11
  Speaker 5: I understand what he means by that.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: I can't stop you from loving who you love because
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: As a father, if I'm telling you don't date that
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: nigga and you date him, what am I supposed to do?
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: Lock you in a room?
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: Lock you in a house all day long? No, you're
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: going to do what you're going to do. So if
• 40:25
  Speaker 5: this nigga cheats on you, I told you not to
• 40:27
  Speaker 5: be with him. But if he beats you, that.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know how to explain this.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, but it's just some things
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: you just shouldn't say.
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: You know, you don't need to say, cheat on her
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: all you want. You know, that's wild to me. I
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: was like, wait a minute.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck if you cheat on her.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Just don't put your hands on her, dog.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: Daddy, no. That's not it.
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: You guys are crazy. I understand it, though.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: You understand it. Do you have daughters?
• 41:00
  Speaker 5: I have two stepdaughters and one biological daughter, yes.
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: You wouldn't present it.
• 41:05
  Speaker 5: I had to pull up on some guy Sunday morning,
• 41:09
  Speaker 5: Saturday morning, as a matter of fact.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: She went to the park to go play basketball.
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: And she's 13, so it was her first time trying
• 41:15
  Speaker 5: to be outside and stuff.
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: And she walks back in the door. I'm like, oh,
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: nobody grabbed you. It was a kidnap. She goes, no,
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: but this strange guy was at the park. Then I'm like,
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: excuse me? Get in the car. Let's go. I got
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: in the car. This guy was sitting there. I'm like, yo, yo,
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: what you doing here? Waiting for my girlfriend. What kind
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: of grown-ass man waits in the park for his girlfriend? Oh,
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: I live in town. I was like, yo, what's your name?
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: He gave me his name. I was like, yo, if
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: I ever catch you in this park by yourself, we're
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: going to have a problem. Took my daughter and we left.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: I don't play by mine. I don't play by mine.
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: That is one thing. The earth would be more safe
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: without men. Oh, shit.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: It would.
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: But you know what? I can't even deny it. I
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: can't even deny it.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: I have this ongoing argument with one of my friends.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: We argue about patriarchy and matriarchy. all the time because
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: he doesn't understand what he doesn't understand that the world
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: used to be patriarchy ran you know women in power
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: right and it's not to me like the matriarchy yeah
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: it's not to what.
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: Was i saying you said patriarchy.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: Oh no patriarchy is for men matriarchy is for the
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: women he doesn't understand like what a world would look
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: like like that because all he could think about is
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: like men and overpowering and all that but we didn't
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: have wars like that when it was a matriarchy You
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? It wasn't a bunch of dick-slaying
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: contests between groups of people. It was an annihilation of
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: groups of people. We're not saying we want to dismantle
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: and just do away with men. Men are supposed to
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: be the muscles of women.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: That's exactly what you're saying.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: Men are the muscle and women are the brains. You
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? We organize. We keep shit together.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Women are more logical than men. I said it. Because
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: when men get illogical and get emotional.
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: People die.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: People fucking die.
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: Period. This is true, man.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: Bitches twerking is not killing anybody.
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't hear about women shooting places up. It's
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: only men. You don't ever hear... You never hear about
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: women going to shoot no shit up. It's only these.
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: Dumbass men.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Stupid ass niggas.
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: Stupid ass niggas doing that shit.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: Y'all want to be in charge.
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: Nah, man.
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: It's time for us to take this shit back over
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: because y'all been fucking up the planet and Mother Earth
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: is tired. Okay.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: Go ahead, M-U-Z.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: You got some rebuttal and all.
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: Listen. My mama raised me smarter than that. You got it.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: I mean, there is some truth to it.
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: That men are really, you know, but I think it's
• 44:01
  Speaker 5: because they're in power and power corrupts. Just because women
• 44:05
  Speaker 5: get power don't mean they can't be corrupted. Let's not
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: play that role.
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: That's true.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: No, that's not what I'm saying.
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: Eventually, the pendulum will turn and women will be in power.
• 44:16
  Speaker 5: We're going to see a woman president soon. We're going
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: to see a whole lot of stuff.
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: And we're going to be able to determine who did better.
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: I guess we'll have to wait and see. AJ for president.
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: You got my vote.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Listen i i have been saying recently i want to
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: get into politics i already want to go to law
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: like i don't really want to go to law school
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: i just want to be a lawyer i'm gonna have
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: to go to kim k route i might have to
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: move to the west coast for a little while because
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: i know cali vermont it's certain places where not vermont
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: washington state it's someplace you can go you don't have
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: to go to uh to school to get to to
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: be a lawyer you don't have to take the bar
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: with me No, you got to take the bar, but
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: you can like practice under an actual lawyer, right? Being
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: an apprentice. And then you go for the bar. That's
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: what Kim K ass did. So yeah, I want to
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: do that, man. I might get into politics.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Do y'all feel like there's a difference between infidelity and adultery?
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: Like what is the difference between those? It's just another
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: word to say the same thing or no?
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and cheating. They all cheating.
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: I think adultery, you got to be married for it
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: to be adultery, though.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: Is that what it is?
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm guessing at this point.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: Or is adultery just a physical act of cheating and
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: infidelity can be emotional and physical?
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: I think all cheating is cheating. Emotional, physical, mental, it's
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: all cheating. If you're emotionally cheating, you already left.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: I think adultery and infidelity are just different words for cheating.
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: What about work wives and work husbands?
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: Necessary i need a nigga that's gonna buy me lunch
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: every day.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: As long as it doesn't get nah sexual i'm okay
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: with it but you know how am i gonna keep
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: my handsome beautiful charming witty husband from entertaining women at
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: all in this earth it's impossible it's impossible right I'm
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: not even going to try to do that. It's just
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: impossible to even try to manage. You'll lose your hair. Bitches,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: you'll lose your edges trying to control some shit like that.
• 46:27
  Speaker 4: So why even do that?
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: That's what I lean towards. I think that men feel
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: like they can control us in that way and they
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: shouldn't be controlled in that way. I just want to
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: be equal in that department. I don't want to control anybody.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: I don't want nobody to control me. Yes, that's where
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: communication comes in at. I can find somebody that's okay
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: with all this shit. I can find, and I'll be
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: okay with this shit.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: That means he loves you more than you love him.
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: That's how it should be.
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, there it goes again.
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: Whoever loves a person more is at a disadvantage.
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: There's no such thing as equal love in a marriage.
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry. It's just not.
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: 100%, you're right.
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: It's not.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Somebody's going to be chasing the other one. And it flip-flops.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: And I feel like it should. It should flip-flop back
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: and forth. But mostly in my direction, I'm hoping, you know?
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: So I'm not going to be wasting my time trying
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: to make sure my husband at work without a work wife.
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: No, but if he's like, oh, babe, what's up? I'm
• 47:39
  Speaker 5: going to lunch with... Lashawna, whatever her name is. And
• 47:43
  Speaker 5: you're like, what? He's okay to go to lunch with
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: some girl?
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: Yes, you cannot police everything.
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: Let me see. There was this clip that's going around.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen it, but there's a
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: young lady in the car and she was discussing going
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: through her guy's phone. And she was saying like, you
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: shouldn't do that. And I wish I had found him
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: talking to women. But what I found was him talking
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: to his boys. And he was talking shit about me.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: And he said that sometimes I don't feel like she's beautiful.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like my girl is pretty. And she
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: was very upset with what he said. And she was like, me, nigga? Like,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: are you talking about me? So do you feel like
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: it's okay? And how do you feel about that situation?
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: What, talking shit about your girl to your friend?
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 48:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: Niggas do that shit all the time.
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: It's normal.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: Niggas do that shit all the time. I'm sorry.
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: Mind your business, bitch.
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: Maybe not to the extent of niggas talking about, I
• 48:40
  Speaker 5: don't think she's pretty or I'm tired of her type shit,
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: but Listen, my wife will absolutely go to my phone
• 48:45
  Speaker 5: and see me and my best friends talking about it.
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: She said this shit. How the fuck? Did your wife
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: do this?
• 48:51
  Speaker 5: Niggas do that type of shit all the time.
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: And women too.
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: We vid.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: I definitely done called my ex nigga ugly when I
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: was mad at him.
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: Tell you what this ugly ass nigga did.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: He was probably actually ugly. That girl was cute, but
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: I guess beauty is in.
• 49:02
  Speaker 5: The eye of the beholder. But she did something that was...
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: Someone that can be very attractive, you can be with them,
• 49:09
  Speaker 5: but certain shit they do annoys you.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: And it will.
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: will detract from their attraction. Just because you're already annoyed
• 49:17
  Speaker 5: at them.
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? So I get that part
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: of it. So maybe they've been dating too long.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Well, she said it was only a couple months. But
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: who looks pretty all the time?
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: My wife.
• 49:27
  Speaker 4: That's right, MZ.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: You better say that shit, nigga. But I promise you,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: she done had some boogers hanging out her nose.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: Some crust.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: Some crust in the morning hanging off the side of
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: her mouth. Like, you know, we're all human.
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: It's just like everybody.
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: Nobody looks good all the time. I feel like that
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: wasn't that bad to be mad about.
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: No.
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: As a woman, like.
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: You don't want to see it, though. That's why you
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: should stay the fuck up out of people's shit. Right.
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: Stay out of their fucking shit.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: Stay out of people's stuff.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: Cause you definitely look for shit you find for shit
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: for sure I used.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: To be that girl would I will dump a nigga
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: over not really for fraternizing in the DM's but if
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: I see you hollering at bitches and they like ugh
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: nigga ugh like not hollering back I'ma dump you I'm
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: going to dump you because you can't get bitches.
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: Hold on.
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: Hold on. No, that's stupid, AJ.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: Imagine if you see your man trying to holler at
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: random women on the internet and everybody curving him. Everybody
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: he's DMing is curving him. Everybody's curving him. Like, that
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: is so embarrassing.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, see, at first I was going to get on you. Like,
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: what you mean? But now you with the homie that
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: nobody wants?
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: That's a question. You got to figure that out. That's right.
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: I don't need everybody to want my nigga.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: So I don't need y'all to want my nigga. Now,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: typically they would, though. I don't understand how I would
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: be with somebody that nobody else want.
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: That's crazy.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I had to start looking in the mirror at myself. Like,
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: how did I end up with this nobody want nigga?
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: You know, how did I end up with him? Something
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: happened to him.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: Something happened to him. What happened to him?
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: Something happened.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: Clearly, he's in a space where something bad has happened
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: to him, and I stuck beside him. Because there's no
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: way I started with the nobody wants nigga.
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: There's no way. If I want you bitches to want you,
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: I promise.
• 51:30
  Speaker 5: See, I think that's another topic for another thing. I
• 51:33
  Speaker 5: think women forget the guy you want, you're not the
• 51:36
  Speaker 5: only one that wants him. There's a lot of women
• 51:38
  Speaker 5: that want that same body.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be the only one that want him.
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: I just want him to choose me every day. That's it.
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, choose me. Because I'm choosing you. You think you're
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: the only person who want me?
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: Well, niggas know that, though.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: That's why he hop in his cell phone once every
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: fucking quarter to see what's up. So he can behave.
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: Don't with your cell phone. Don't go in mine.
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: If not come in mine, you'll be a real uptake.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: So he can behave.
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: Not because I'm doing anything. It's just like a lot
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: of people in there trying to shoot a shot.
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: That's intimidating, man.
• 52:15
  Speaker 5: Like, I don't want to have to compete with 75
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: other niggas.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: Then stay out of my phone because it's 75. It's
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: a whole NFL team in there trying to get.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: It's a whole request box.
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: So stay out of there and I'm going to stay
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: out of yours. I'm going to learn my lesson. M-Eazy,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: I know you got to go. Your life is very,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: very busy, and we appreciate you for joining us. Do
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: you have any advice for Black men, married or not,
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: on infidelity?
• 52:48
  Speaker 5: Think about your mama. Every decision you're about to make,
• 52:52
  Speaker 5: think about your mama. If she's going to be in
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: your ear like, yo, listen, you shouldn't do that, don't
• 52:56
  Speaker 5: do it. Think about your mama. Treat every woman with respect.
• 53:00
  Speaker 5: Think about your mama. Think about your daughters. Think about
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: your aunties. And I think life will be a lot
• 53:04
  Speaker 5: more easier to go along with because I think there's
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: too much negativity. There's too much aggression. Women are supposed
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: to be held with a little.
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: Feminineness. Like, you're supposed to be careful with them.
• 53:17
  Speaker 5: And I think there's a lot of aggression going on
• 53:19
  Speaker 5: because there's too much of nastiness going on between sides.
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: So think about your mom. Think about your grandma. Think
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: about your aunt. Think about your daughters. When you think
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: about doing things and reacting with women, you'll be better off.
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, I agree. Thousand percent.
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: I'm a dad. What you thought?
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: No, I know a lot of dads out here ain't shit.
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: Ah, here we go. Just another one. When y'all waiting
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: for that topic, call me back.
• 53:43
  Speaker 4: We appreciate you, M-Eazy. Thank you so much for joining
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: us on We Talk Back.
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Appreciate you guys. Thank you ladies.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on. You don't want to plug yourself right quick?
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: No?
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: Hey, yo. But yeah, M-Eazy.
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: I am M-Eazy on all your social platforms and all that.
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: Keep a lookout for the family page, Meet the Maisels.
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: Power 105.1 and all that. Yeah. Thank you, guys.
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: Thank you. Later, Gator.
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: Bye, guys.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: Y'all, listen.
• 54:09
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• 54:15
  Speaker 2: This is your co-host, AJ Holiday. It's 2.0 on Instagram.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Y'all, once again. I remind y'all that you are loved
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: by me every week.
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: Shut up, bitch. It's OfficialTambam on Instagram. Y'all follow me.
• 54:31
  Speaker 4: And remember to speak now.
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: And never hold your peace.