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The One About Threesomes, Dope Personalities, and PumpRules · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Hello, golgeous, Welcome back to Give Them La La Podcast.
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: I'm hyped on this episode because it's all about me,
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: just kidding. I asked you guys on the gram, uh,
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: what questions you had for this episode?
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  Speaker 2: And I won't even lie.
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: These are the best questions that we've ever gone, Like
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  Speaker 1: to the point where I reposted again and was like,
• 0:29
  Speaker 1: what is everyone on this Monday? Because these questions are
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  Speaker 1: so well rounded and actually, like, as much as I
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: love Bravo and vander Talk and all of the things,
• 0:44
  Speaker 1: my inbox was not filled with only those questions, right,
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: because a lot of times it's like, okay, well these
• 0:51
  Speaker 1: questions are different, but like essentially the same. These people
• 0:56
  Speaker 1: who showed up to the Give Them La Lap pod
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: instagram page, We're not messing around.
• 1:04
  Speaker 2: Not today, not today, Junior. So I'm just gonna get
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  Speaker 2: it on and pop in. Get it on.
• 1:11
  Speaker 1: The first question, I said, as much as I love
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: talking about Bravoid, like to talk about something else. The
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: first question is do you know if Jack's went to
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  Speaker 1: Sheena's second wedding? And if so, why didn't we see him.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be totally open and honest with you. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: Jack's and Kristin Doty and Brittany were at the wedding.
• 1:34
  Speaker 1: We're talking about three people who are fantastic reality TV personalities.
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  Speaker 1: So they're at a wedding, but guess what, you want
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  Speaker 1: to put a camera in their face. I'm gonna need
• 1:45
  Speaker 1: a paycheck for that. Otherwise keep me away. So that's
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  Speaker 1: the real reason why you didn't see any of those
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  Speaker 1: people at Sheena's wedding. When they filmed it, it was like,
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  Speaker 1: I will show up. You're more than welcome to film me,
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  Speaker 1: but I there has to be some sort of transaction
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  Speaker 1: and I respect it. Right at that point, Okay, you're
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  Speaker 1: now putting me to work. I'm not just sitting here
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  Speaker 1: and having fun at a wedding. Yea, right, Okay, there's
• 2:10
  Speaker 1: that one. Do you have any sympathy for Rachel Raquel
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  Speaker 1: now that the dust has settled? I wanted to read
• 2:17
  Speaker 1: that one because we've at this point wrapped season eleven.
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  Speaker 1: We now know she didn't come back, which is fine.
• 2:26
  Speaker 1: I wasn't planning on her coming back anyway. Do I
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  Speaker 1: think it was like not the greatest move. We talked
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  Speaker 1: about this when we touched on the Bethany Frankel Raquel
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  Speaker 1: Levis podcast, You're gonna see a lot in season eleven
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  Speaker 1: that I don't think people expect from me ever, because
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  Speaker 1: I'm very much like this all the time.
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  Speaker 2: And actually, you know who pointed this out to me, Jess.
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  Speaker 1: I won't say her name, but my agent. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to blow her spot up. She's like, please don't
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  Speaker 1: talk about me. I'm like, you're being talked about. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: she was like, it's so interesting to me that you
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  Speaker 1: don't know how to say what you mean, but like
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  Speaker 1: be calm, Like you either are like really really down
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  Speaker 1: for somebody or you're ripping their head off. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know how to be like, hey, I really like you.
• 3:14
  Speaker 1: This annoys me. Can you please stop doing that? She's like,
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  Speaker 1: you sugarcoat it. You're it's black or white, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how to change that. I think for the
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  Speaker 1: first time, maybe this season you'll see me in the
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  Speaker 1: gray and I don't want to give a storyline away,
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  Speaker 1: but you will see my feelings on how I feel
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  Speaker 1: about Raquel or Rachel. That's interesting, she means maybe just
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  Speaker 1: in general in life, oh cause I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Feel the la la we see a lot or me.
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  Speaker 3: I can't speak for Easton I feel you can. I
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  Speaker 3: feel I've seen it before where you're like, hey, I'm
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  Speaker 3: not a big fan of this and I'm just going
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  Speaker 3: to tell you straight up and be and I've seen it.
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  Speaker 3: I've seen it. But maybe it's because you get passionate
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  Speaker 3: when it's different people and other people. Maybe you're I
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  Speaker 3: don't know, but I've seen it before, but I get
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  Speaker 3: I get what she's saying. But I've also seen you
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  Speaker 3: be like, I'm not a big fan of this. I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna let you know and move on.
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  Speaker 1: And you still feel like I'm being like direct but
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  Speaker 1: all direct, but I'm sweet.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I've seen it myself. You know what I'm saying, Like,
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  Speaker 3: I've seen it, So it's just interesting. Maybe you choose
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  Speaker 3: the people that you give that to. Maybe some people
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  Speaker 3: it's not worth it. You're like, I'm either gonna blow
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  Speaker 3: up on you or not.
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  Speaker 1: You know what?
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  Speaker 3: Are you?
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  Speaker 4: Guys like you?
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  Speaker 3: You are like that? Yeah you can't if you're pretty.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm there's no middle ground for me. It's
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  Speaker 4: either I'm like just going through it and eating my
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  Speaker 4: words or eating what I want to say to somebody,
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  Speaker 4: or then I'm just really lethal and on a hundred.
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  Speaker 1: That's so true.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'll just eat it and I won't let
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  Speaker 4: anybody know that it's like affecting me to eat it
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  Speaker 4: and eat it. And then there's one and then once
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  Speaker 4: I break them at one hundred. But that's I feel
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  Speaker 4: like how law is though, Yes, okay, like I will
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  Speaker 4: say I know that from Dad. Yeah, like i I'll
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  Speaker 4: just the straw that breaks the camel's back, like.
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  Speaker 3: You hold it, hold it, hold it and.
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  Speaker 4: Hold it and then break. Yeah, and then sometimes it'll
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  Speaker 4: usually bust, like I'll rip open the people that I
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  Speaker 4: love because.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like I can come back from it with you
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  Speaker 2: unconditional life.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm just having a bad day, so I'll
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  Speaker 4: take it out on like my homies or you guys.
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  Speaker 4: But I do it because it's like I have to
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  Speaker 4: let it go, but I have to have like I'm
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  Speaker 4: doing it on people who know me, and we'll be like,
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  Speaker 4: all right, we see it. We we accept your apology
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  Speaker 4: because I usually apologize, but I usually just go from
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  Speaker 4: there to one hundred.
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  Speaker 3: I feel that's so hard to do something taking stuff
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  Speaker 3: out on poor Kyle, poor mom, poor dad, poor Katie,
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  Speaker 3: and they're like it's from because I know they'll forgive
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  Speaker 3: me and it's from other outside, but I'm like, I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna take it out on them and there and because
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  Speaker 3: I know I can come back from it. And that's
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  Speaker 3: not good.
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  Speaker 4: No, it isn't good. I've I've no, but I warned you,
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  Speaker 4: I like warn my mom.
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  Speaker 1: See, but that's like, why are you like this right now?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, because everyone's annoying me and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna need you to fucking take it for a moment.
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  Speaker 2: And she's like, by all means.
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  Speaker 4: She'll be like, Lauren is on a hundred today, just
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  Speaker 4: make sure just step on eggshells.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, she send you.
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  Speaker 4: For she'll text me. Yeah, she'll be like, or she
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  Speaker 4: usually doesn't text me, she'll call me. I'm letting the
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  Speaker 4: dogs out. Lauren's on one, all right, you want to
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  Speaker 4: come over.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, Lisa calling me Lauren my child.
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  Speaker 1: Now, I don't know if any of you guys saw
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  Speaker 1: the video I posted a while back of Ocean like
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  Speaker 1: having a mind blowing moment of me being Lala and
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  Speaker 1: Mama and being like, it's so funny. But now she
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  Speaker 1: calls me Lauren, so not even my child can say
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  Speaker 1: my name. She Lauren, Yes, she'll say I love you Lauren,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, Lauren. So I've been trying to
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  Speaker 1: teach her how to say Lauren. But I told mom,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, mom, you gotta call me like something different,
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  Speaker 1: because I it hurts my soul that a child I
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  Speaker 1: gave birth to can't pronounce my name correctly.
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  Speaker 3: Do you care that she calls your first name? Because
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  Speaker 3: I remember my dad when I would say Amy just
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  Speaker 3: joking to my mom, he'd be like, disrespectful, you call
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  Speaker 3: her mother. But I think it's so cute when I
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  Speaker 3: hear little kids say like their parents first names. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: that is so cute.
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  Speaker 2: I don't mind it at all.
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  Speaker 3: You don't care, y no.
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  Speaker 1: And she also messes with me at times where she'll
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  Speaker 1: say she'll say la la and I'll like give her
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  Speaker 1: like grumpy face, she no Mama, and then.
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  Speaker 2: I'll give her love.
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  Speaker 1: But she's also into telling me lately that she's proud
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  Speaker 1: of me, which is so stinking cute because obviously she's
• 7:44
  Speaker 1: just saying things that we probably say to her. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I now know why she says stop it all the time,
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: because when I discipline, I tell her you stop it
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  Speaker 1: right now. So now I know. I was like, where
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  Speaker 1: is she getting this?
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  Speaker 2: You don't realize how you talk.
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  Speaker 1: Until your child starts saying things and you're like, where
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  Speaker 1: are they learning things? And then it's like, oh, that
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  Speaker 1: makes sense, and you catch yourself.
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  Speaker 3: I the other day I said to you. You came down,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, you're so pretty. And then five
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  Speaker 3: seconds later, Ocean looked at you and she's like, Mammy,
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  Speaker 3: you're so pretty, even though she says it anyway. But
• 8:19
  Speaker 3: then I was like, oh, and smart and why And
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I gotta put other describing words
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  Speaker 3: in there, because she's faking up on that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the one that I always tell her, like, we're.
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  Speaker 2: So proud of you. So I I'm so proud of you.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, it's the cutest freaking thing in the world.
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  Speaker 1: Having children is really fucking epic. What would everyone's last
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: meal be if you were on death row? Loved the
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: Podessin and I have talked about this before. I do
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  Speaker 1: not ever eat lamb because it makes me so sad,
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  Speaker 1: but if it were my last meal, I would have
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  Speaker 1: a hero yeamn. Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: What about you?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm this, give me a steak lobster tail, garlic,
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  Speaker 3: mashed potatoes and broccoli.
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  Speaker 4: Done and mashed potatoes, potatoes.
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  Speaker 1: The bab so just the one that can't come straight
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  Speaker 1: out the package. Yeah, those are pretty bomb. No, I
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  Speaker 1: would do full Mediterranean meal.
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  Speaker 3: Would you do this? Zekey?
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  Speaker 1: I do like the lamb euro with the yummy pita
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  Speaker 1: and like the lemon rice, all of that stuff, right,
• 9:32
  Speaker 1: such good hummus, and then a plethora of sparkling water.
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  Speaker 1: But to wash all of that down, I would order
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  Speaker 1: a bottle of honey Jack Daniels.
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna say, would you alcohol do a.
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  Speaker 1: We're breaking sobriety, bitch, I'm on death row, about to croak.
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  Speaker 1: I'm relapsing. M Okay, don't get upset about it.
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  Speaker 4: You're dying.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm a assuming there's no way, like no one's
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  Speaker 1: coming in to like do some sort of reform and
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  Speaker 1: bring me out of prison. Like I'm going down. I'm
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  Speaker 1: putting me straight to sleep. Yes, I'd like to numb
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  Speaker 1: a bit.
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  Speaker 3: All right, Well, the last meal, there's no I think
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  Speaker 3: it's the day before or the morning of, so there's
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  Speaker 3: no room.
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  Speaker 1: My bigger question is why am I on death row?
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  Speaker 1: I wonder what I did to get there? Oh, I
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  Speaker 1: know what you did.
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  Speaker 2: What did I do?
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  Speaker 3: Someone must with your child?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: I killed someone done a lot of people. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: can think of a few.
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  Speaker 4: Headline.
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  Speaker 1: Do you ever think like when you get asked these
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  Speaker 1: questions like you're on death row, It's like, this is
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  Speaker 1: less about the meal.
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: Now what exactly did I do to get here?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: Was I like some like crazy serial killer that left
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  Speaker 1: like notes and tried to lead the police in different
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  Speaker 1: directions or was it like I just kind of like
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: stat like I just kind of lost my mind?
• 10:56
  Speaker 2: This got dark?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, this got.
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: Very very dark?
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: La La.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have any new future business plans that you're
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  Speaker 1: thinking of?
• 11:05
  Speaker 3: Ooh, that's a good one.
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  Speaker 1: I actually really love this one, and I want to
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: combine it with this other beautiful woman who asked me,
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: how are you planning to grow your brand in the
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: event vander Pump Rules gets canceled?
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of things in the works.
• 11:21
  Speaker 1: Jessica and I hustle our little asses off because the
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: goal is empire, Empire, Empire. So yes, I've looked at
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: my brand and reevaluated it because when I created it
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: and when it started, let's remember I was also drinking
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: a lot, not saying that I don't love the brand.
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: I do, but just there's been a shift on what's
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: important to me in my life and things that really
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: have always been important to me, but they were on
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: the back burner. They should have been on front burner
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: the whole time, and now they are. So we are
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: in a space and now I have a phenomenal team
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: around me where I can sit there and spew my
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: ideas on what I want something to look like, and
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: then I have these amazing minds who know how to,
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: you know, make that come to fruition. And so I
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: cross my fingers and I manifest and I work really hard,
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: and what's meant to be will always be. But when
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: it comes to worrying about if the brand is okay
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: with or without Vanner Pump Rules, I mean, my brand
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: is rarely shown on vander Pump Rules, you know. I
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: think the first time it was ever even acknowledged that
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: I had a brand was season nine. And I've noticed
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  Speaker 1: that I'm fortunate enough to have the brand do well
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: on its own, like with or without the show. Is
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: it nice to be relevant, absolutely, but I don't feel
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: like that part fuels the brand, just from what I've
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: seen just looking at the numbers. I have not made
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: a parallel of like, okay, because I'm on TV.
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  Speaker 2: This is why the brand thrives.
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  Speaker 1: People know of the brand because of my But I
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  Speaker 1: think I'm out in the world where that's the show
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  Speaker 1: I'm on. But I'm a standalone and that could be
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  Speaker 1: in my own mind. But I like being in my
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: own mind.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny because working for you, I don't even like.
• 13:13
  Speaker 3: Of course, as an outsider, you asked that question, but
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  Speaker 3: I think those are to me two completely separate things.
• 13:18
  Speaker 3: It's like the show and then Lalla and her brand,
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  Speaker 3: and to me it's like they never cross over. Of
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: course they sometimes do, but I'm like, rarely ever.
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  Speaker 4: Those are separate, use together.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: I don't put them together at all. Yeah, And it's
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: actually kind of weird when cameras say, like we're gonna
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: film that. I'm like, no, no, no, you're in. We
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: have a well oiled.
• 13:42
  Speaker 5: Machine over here, Like please don't come over here and
• 13:46
  Speaker 5: try to fuck with it with the cameras. You know,
• 13:49
  Speaker 5: like we we move in a certain way, right, we're
• 13:52
  Speaker 5: plugging right along the moment, they're like, we like to
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  Speaker 5: film that.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, why are things getting a little walk.
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  Speaker 4: Aren't tight.
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  Speaker 1: So let's just hope that the way that I want
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: to rebrand, restructure, whatever you want to call it, when
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: that does take place, that we are off to the races.
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  Speaker 4: And I've heard some of your ideas on your rebrand,
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  Speaker 4: and I think everybody should be very excited.
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: Ooh is that tea?
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: I love this. I love the tea.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: Easton.
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: You can participate in this conversation. Can you talk about
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: your journey with vaping. I know you talked about quitting,
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: but I'm interested, Easton.
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: Do you vape here? I do, yes, but it's either
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  Speaker 4: yours or my roommates. Here's the thing, I don't know
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  Speaker 4: why I do it. It's a fixation of like I
• 14:48
  Speaker 4: just do it, pantamize, yeah, and then I always feel
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: like shit and I'm thinking why did I hit it?
• 14:54
  Speaker 4: But if it wasn't around, like if like when I
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: go with Mom and ron errands for a full days
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: am with just her and O and you're not near
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  Speaker 4: and I'm just her. If there's not a vabe, I
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  Speaker 4: don't need it, like I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Not you don't think about it?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I don't need. No, I don't need It's
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  Speaker 4: just like when it's around. I'm just like, oh, there
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  Speaker 4: it is, let me het that thing. But I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't feel like I need it. But when I
• 15:18
  Speaker 4: see it, I'm like, all right, I'll hit it.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get what you mean. Jessica, you don't vabe
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  Speaker 1: ever thought about it.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I've tried it, and I don't know why I
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: hate it. So this was years ago, but I was like, sure,
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: i'll try it. It's strawberry fun. And I was like, oh, gross,
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: get it away.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: It makes me depressed when people who don't smoke the
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: vapor like sure, I'll give it a hit, and they
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: hack hack hack.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, you got healthy law.
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: Oh, you probably just need to try a different flavor.
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: Easton's like here, all I'll give you. Well.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: It is fun because like all of us who vape
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: on vander Pump, we all have different flavors. So when
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: we get together, for me, it's like the equivalent to
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: like wine tasting.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Ooh, Ariana's got the lead she berry.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, we got James Kennedy coming and clutch with the watermelon.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, and then we've got.
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  Speaker 1: Katie who's a little bit wild and she's got the
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: naked flavors. Like, we don't not really sure what it is.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Tastes a little minty, tastes a little something something, you know.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: It's like do you hit each other? Is it like
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: a fun Yeah?
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: Past that Dutch baby, past past past the Dutch baby.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? Past the Dutch I thought it was.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: Isn't it the passa blunt?
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: That's what I don't know.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: I learned it from Missy Elliott.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: Wait, oh for Missy Elliott. But I have a question
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: about the vape. Actually it's not a question, it's just
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: think about I thought about this the other day because
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: I was driving in Everyone I see is smoking their
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: vape ten years ago. If we just flashed into the
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: future and drove down and you guys saw it, wouldn't
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: you be like, what the fuck is everyone doing? What
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: is happening? It's not cigarettes? Or would you think like,
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: I don't know, it's.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: Just so we grossed out because I've always been grossed
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: out by any type of smoking.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: And I never smoked.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: I've actually that's a lie, and I've talked about this before,
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: apparently the night I hooked up with Arianna. And I'm
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: sorry if you guys have been Day one listeners I've
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: talked about this before. Apparently I smoked a cigarette the
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: night I hooked up with Ariana. In the back of
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Santaval's car. We went to the Nice Guy. I don't
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: remember much, smoked a cigarette, tried to fight some person
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: half naked. I was half naked, so that did happen,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: but I don't recall. So my mind never smoked a cigarette.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Cut to I get sober and all of the sudden
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I'm in AA meetings and people are smoking vapes or
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: they're having their cigarettes outside, and I just like hit
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: my friend's vape outside. And after that it was like,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: this is my new vice and I can and I'll
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: I'll kick it later and worry about it later.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: I did take.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: Obviously, when you and I, I think we talked about this,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I took. I said I'm quitting the vape. I quit
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: for I hardly quit four days, No, it was actually seven.
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: It was seventh a week.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: However, I smoked other people's vapes. My big thing was like.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: I'm just not gonna buy one.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Then we go into filming a reality TV show and
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I said, fuck this, I cannot I cannot deal with
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: not one single thing right, So I buy the vape again.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Obviously there's gonna be stressful situations. It's not like I
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: wrap this season and then life stops and it's like, Okay,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: go into quarantine and like, never remove yourself from it
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: because life is bliss. But I'm trying to get life
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: insurance for Ocean right now, and smoking vape cigarettes doesn't
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: matter is like a huge red flag and definitely plays
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: a part in what kind of life insurance you can
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: get for whoever. And so I told the person who's
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: working this out for me, I said, please just give
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: me until we rap filming. I was like, and then
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I swear to God if it's about my care and
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: making sure she's set up, God forbid, something happens to me,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I will give up the vape like there will be
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: no if ans are butts about it. And I was
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: telling a lot of my friends this and they were like,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: why didn't you just lie? And this is where my
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: mind goes. Let's just say I lie about it. Something
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: happens to me, I'm dead, they do what they do
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: to a dead person an autopsy. They then are dealing with, Okay,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: she has life insurance, it goes to her daughter, Ocean.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: They obviously have to go through protocol to make sure
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: that all is good before Ocean gets that money. They
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: take my blood. They see this bitch said she doesn't smoke.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: She definitely smokes. She's been smoking for a while.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Ocean then does not get that money. One bucked up
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: eye light on the paperwork. I'm telling you what. I
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: will not do it. I will not do it.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: I will not tell a lie. Who is that like
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: Uncle Sam or something? I don't know that is so?
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: But do you remember quitting? Why do I remember like
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: month or two of you.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: I slept really well last.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Year, wasn't it. You slept well. You I think gained
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: a little way, in a great way. And I'm not
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: saying you told me that. That's why I'm saying I did.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I did gain weight and.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: You felt better. This was like last year. You quit
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: for like a month or two and then I don't
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: know what. I think you picked it back up or.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: My life happened life, And for some reason I think
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: that I can't I need something like that. And yes,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: the vavee is awesome. The most fantastic part of my
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: day is in the morning.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: First hit with your coffee. That's a way.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, with the coffee in my bathrobe house.
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: Day. Every morning I walk into the house with her
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: hitting her vape, her cup of coffee in her robe.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: So let me tell you, I feel you, though, because
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: if someone told me I had to give up coffee
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: and say no, my best moment is the morning that
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: first nip of coffee.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Totally.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: But I feel so much better when I'm not vaping.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: So I am going to get rid of it. And
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I will think every time I feel like, oh my gosh,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: i'm feeding go My daughter needs a healthy parent, but
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: also deserves if something happens to me, she you know,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: is well taken care of. So there's that. The journey
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: is hard. If you have never smoked a vape. Do
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: not pick it up. I have heard, because I've said
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: to people in AA who do not smoke, I tell them,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: you know, I've given up alcohol. I'm gonna be fine.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: They're like, giving up the vape is as hard as
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: giving up heroin. It's no fucking joke.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Yes, So it's terrifying. Do not do not pick it up.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I'm warning everybody, it is a nightmare. Okay, I fiend
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: for it, So I'm gonna be tweaking for a little bit,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: but you know what, all is good Easton. This girl
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: wants to know if you're single. She plans she's asking
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: for a friend, but to me, it sounds like they
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: want a tag team.
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: Oh I'm up for a tag Wait what do you mean?
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: It's oh the friend and her got it?
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: She said?
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Is east and single? I'm asking for a friend and I'm.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Like the lies, the lies.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm single and ready to threesome.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: Out o red Flash.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: You don't want him?
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: Ladies right, you're such a good guy.
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: What to do?
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Have you ever had one?
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: No, I could get too scared. Have you l one time?
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: It wasn't fun.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: There's too many hands, freeze a crowd.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: It was just like weird, like someone's and there's like
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: trying to make you feel like you're a part of it,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: and then the swap happens and you're like, you know,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I think it's.
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: Like playing twister.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: Stupid twister would probably be more like naked twister with
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: two others would probably be more fun than a threesome.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: But I've never had one, so I don't know.
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: But you have never had one either?
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Never that wasn't like a thing. I don't know. I
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: don't know what situation I would have ever been in.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I was wasted at the Grand America Hotel in downtown
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Salt Lake.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: City with who just a group of friends.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I won't talk.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: It was someone you knew.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: This isn't like a random no, no, no, I knew them
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: for since I was in like high school.
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: Good okay, okay, yeah it makes more sense Easton.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: What do you look for in a chick? We know
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: that they have to be as cool as you. I
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: don't know that's hard. Nope, Personality, somebody you can keep
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: their own. Somebody who walks in a room and it
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: changes the whole aura of the room. Really does age matter?
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: No? Okay, age doesn't matter. Looks really doesn't matter that much.
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: I like it. I like a certain body type though,
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: Like I like short, like shorter girls.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, like what like five five three four?
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: I'll get five four, That is what I like. I
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: like I like compact. Yeah, I like some curves on it.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: To five four is not that short. I'm over here five.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: Foot nod I like five Like five ft to five
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: four is perfect for me. That's what I love. But
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: I know guys with like like five sevens how.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Tall are you.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: I'm like five six and a half.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: You've got height.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: When I tried to like be a model, I said
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I was five to seven, which it's like, well.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: You're short, you have to be five. Yeah.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like five to seven. Thinking they were gonna
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: freaking just sell me and Peri. They did not. Bravo
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: did Bravo for sure?
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: Did?
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, where does your friendship stand with Ariana? I think
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: we have a great friendship. We'll see what the feels
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: are after the season airs again. Like we're always open
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: and honest with each other as a cast, but then
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: you see things where you're like, wait a minute, the
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: breaks here. And for some reason, I always say something
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: something that doesn't land right, something that I try to
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: like put in a way where it's like I want
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: to let you know I'm coming from a good place here.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: So I don't know right now, we're good. Right now,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: I'm just like sailing away. In friendships, right was a
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: bonding experience. What happened? There was like so much time
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: that had passed where it was like, Okay, this friendship
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: obviously needs to, you know, be laid to rest. We're
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: never We're never gonna be what we once were. But
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: then when you have a common hatred for someone, not
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: saying that I'm that we're there now the hate part.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: But when that happened and we were all likeh to
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: sand of All, it's like bonding moment. Right then sand
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: of Aal says the epic words to Raquel. We'll see
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: how long that lasts and we will see who knows. Right,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: it's a weird environment to have friendships in gets toxic. However,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I will say the one thing that I love about
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: reality TV is without cameras around, right, if you're feeling
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: some type of way about a friend, it is easier
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: to just push things under the rug, you know, don't
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: deal with it, take a little break, decline, go into dinner.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Being on reality TV forces you to have uncomfortable conversation
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: that you don't want to have, but they could also
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: lead to where you should be in a friendship. You
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: could then thrive. You could realize, like, this friendship is
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: not for me. So it does force you to like
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: kind of take the bull by the balls in all relationships.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: So there's that.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: I kind of like that, though I feel like that
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: people need to do that more often.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: I also like the texting Yeah, the communication, and I
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: like that you call it bull by the balls because
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: it's technically bull by the horns.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: But you're going straight to the ball.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, straight to the ball sack. That's where you get
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: the baby.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, So you guys, this person wrote in and said,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: are you interested in any other Bravo celebrities? The captain
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: from below deck down under is interested in meeting you?
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Googling naturally, naturally, I google this shit, Jason Chambers.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: He is fine.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Google this guy, Jason, let's see.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: I was like, I wanted to have no part of
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: that until I saw Captain Jason.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Jason come through.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: Do you see him?
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: He's hot?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: If not, I can just pass my phone, do you.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I took screenshots that's him.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: He is so hot, and he's a captain.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: That's even from down on duck down un duck.
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: You can get below deck.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Not Dick below deck, Dick below deck.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I'm sweating, I'm getting wet.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: He's handsome. Can we look up his age? Not that
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: it matters, I just want to know.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I look up the age because he is pretty fine.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: That's daddy. That's so daddy, isn't it. He's like silver Fox?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: What are we thinking, what are we thinking?
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: How?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: How old is he?
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: Is he single too? That's important I.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Know, because oh, that's not a bout at all.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: That's not about it at all. I'm gonna be thirty
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: three that I am thirty three. By the time this airs,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I'll be thirty three.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's healthy. I say, holler.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: I say holler too. But I need to know his sign.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: Well, let's get to it.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I need to know his sign and all of these things.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: And I also need to know I wish that this
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: girl would have written more contact forty three he said, sorry, law,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: it just does suck up. He doesn't look no Jason
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Chambers age. Do that back up a little? You have
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: to put Jason Chambers below day down on three. Yeah,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say he does not look fifty.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Well, that's even better.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: Seat.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: But this says right here because I don't know if
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: he's lying about his age, but it says right here
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: the captain shows he is in fact fifty, So I
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: don't know if he's trying to lie about it.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: No, he doesn't look like someone that would lie.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: Well, now it sounds like red flags everywhere. Is he
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: forty three or is he fifty?
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: You guys.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: I can't tell if I'm looking at the right guy
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: or not. No, you are, I don't think so, because
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: this guy looks totally different than the one that I
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: was looking at before. Let me do some research and
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: i'll get back to you. Maybe I need to go
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: and get onto Peacock and watch down under.
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: Down below deck Yeah, below deck, down down.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: No, you're looking at the right guy. It's this guy.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: We're all looking at the right guy.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but he looks a little different in the photo
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: that I just saw, like, looks completely different.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: So I need to do some research.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know about this he's age fishing. Let's just
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: say I probably wouldn't dat anybody from Bravo. That just
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: sounds like a clusterfuck that I don't want to be
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: a part of, doesn't it.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think it sounds beautiful, but I also
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: see you. I have high hopes with your next dating person.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: I've I've shouted out some names to you before that
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: I won't say here. But I have high hopes, and
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: I don't think I.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Love high hopes.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I just don't think Bravo. I only
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: want to I want to be the only Bravo leb
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: in the relationship. That just seems like a lot of chaos. Okay, uh,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: do you feel like the show has more fans during
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: filming posts Scanaval? Yes, And I don't know what is
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: going on, but my anxiety is that an all time high? Filming,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: not filming or just in general? Just my what is
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: that called social anxiety? Is that an all time high?
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Like I remember doing this podcast and someone had asked
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: when we did an ame, do you like when people
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: come up to you?
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: What are you showing?
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: Producer John sent me a link to to below deck.
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: Now it's stating he's thirty nine, but he's forty three, but.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Red flags, red flags everywhere.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: We don't know this for.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: Fact, we do not, but producer John sent it to me.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Producer John is on his ship.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: He's on his ship, John, But god damn he.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: Does what the difference?
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Look at the difference, though, look at the difference?
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I think the captain one is very face tuned,
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: like he's got no, he's hot, he's no matter what,
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: he looks good. But this looks like it they face
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: tuned the ship at well, it's.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Been on for a while.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: You know that's like showing me this season and then
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: season four and it's like a little different human.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: It's called agents.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Back to your social anxiety, just because I'm.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Fascinated all time high.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: And when we did AMAS a while ago, someone had
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: written in and asked, do you like does it get
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: annoying when fans come up to you asking for pictures?
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: And I said, absolutely not. The whole reason I get
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: to do what I love is because of my people,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: the fans watching the show, supporting, you know, the brands,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: whatever it may be. That's why I get to do
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: what I love. Cut to where we are now, I
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: don't want to say that I get annoyed. I start
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: having anxiety. It's the strangest thing, and I don't know
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: what to do to fix it. But when we go
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: and film and there's a lot of people that come
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: up and want pictures and things like that, normally, I'm like,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: let's take all the pictures in the world. Recently, it's
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: been kind of debilitating where even talking about it right now,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: I can feel my mind fogging up, like my brain
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: starts to kind of shut down, and they'll be telling
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: me these beautiful things, and I'm like starting to kind
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: of not like the heart starts racing, the mind starts
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: going foggy, and it's like I have to get out
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: of here, Like I feel like I want to crawl
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: out of my own skin. Has nothing to do with anybody,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: like asking for pictures. I do love that, but it
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: is strange what's been happening these past few months.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like something you're dealing with, because I
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: watched you on tour spend I mean hours just talking
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: and hearing people and engaging. I would have been exhausted
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: after five minutes, So it must be an anxiety you're
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: dealing with right now. I couldn't imagine it.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: No, I mean no, I don't think that. I'm thinking.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: We talked about this in one of the episodes, just
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: like looking at the bigger picture of what I'm thinking
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: about doing with my life, and maybe I'm just looking
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: to kind of ice for a moment. It's been back
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: to back, non stop high energy, you know, whether it's
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: talking about the show or like we said, rebranding, talking
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: about you know, maybe having another baby. It's a lot
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: and I'm just feeling like I'm taking on a lot
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: of energy that I just can't take on right now,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: right like, I need to kind of I need to
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: go to Palm Springs. I need to put the phone away,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: tell everyone to leave me alone for a few days
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: and just kind of recharge.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I feel like I need.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Then that's what you should get. I also feel do
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: you think you're an EmPATH? Because I've watched you, like
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: I said, on tour, and people tell you these stories
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: and I almost see, like if it's a sad story,
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: like your body change like you're I'm like, she's physically
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: taking on this emotion and that can drain someone quickly.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Do you think that's you're an EmPATH?
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: My? One of my biggest pet peeves is when anyone
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: says I'm an EmPATH. So I'm not gonna say that
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I am because it literally kills me. And someone says
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: that to me, not about me, But when someone refers
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: to themselves as an EmPATH, I'm like, please shut up, right,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: my god, be quiet, okay, And they're usually so up their.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: Own ass okay. So I don't know if I am
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: or not.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I know I get affected by people's stories and then
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I start spiraling a bit.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: So if you want to call it that, let's call it.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: That sounds like it's your absolute favorite cosmetic procedure. You
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: look bomb emoji, fire emoji. That's right, got eyebrows to
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: the ceiling. Sometimes when I'm watching the podcast on YouTube,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like I need to go like this.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: Look how high they get.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: That's your face shape. Lah, those are your natural brows.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Look at ocean her browser.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they are like that.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: There was a time that I got bot talks and
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: my eyebrows and they were like this high and it
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: was terrifying.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: Can you please tell us because I need to know
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: what I need to get first, and I think I
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: know what you're gonna.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Say, my favorite procedure I have too.
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: Can we take a guest first, Well, take a guess.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I want you to guess what mine would be.
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna say botox.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Oh I love the body?
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: Is it love the body? But I.
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: That's a good guess.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't even think about the lip filler.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about injections and then like a facial
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: procedure that that you don't need, like needles injecting something
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: into your face. I would say my favorite procedure with
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: needles would be botox.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: I think filler gets scary.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: I love my jawline that I have not injected in
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: years upon years. The last time I had my jaw
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: line injected by Doctor Diamond was probably right before going
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: into season eight of filming.
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: So long ago in on twenty twenty four.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to somebody about getting your jaw filled up,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: because genetically, we just don't have that on our side.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I would say for it. The procedure like just topical shit.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I love, love, love love the PRP. I like the
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: laser beforehand, and then the PRP is where they take
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: the plasma and you guys are gonna think I'm a weirdo.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: But they now have man made.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Plasma that they can put on your face so that
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: you don't have to draw your blood. I don't think
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: it works as well. I've tried it. I like the
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: results after when they take my blood and spin the
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: platelets and then take the plasma, put it on the
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: face and then roll it in. You definitely need numbing
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: cream because they're like digging into your face with these
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: micro needles to create little wounds that then he'll back
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: up perfectly.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: That's my favorite.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: But I think i'm gonna have a new favorite soon
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: because Lee from skin Tight Aesthetics is doing this Pico
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: laser on me to get rid of my malasma. That
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: is like it just will not not go away, It
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: will not go away.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: Does the laser hurt?
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: I have to imagine you're numb?
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, because my laser tattoo. I'm like, if it
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: felt like that on my face, I'd pass out.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: It's not as intense as that. You can go, Supert,
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: you can go.
• 37:26
  Speaker 4: It does lasering like.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: Hurts worse than tattoo? Yeah, under time hurts, under times worse.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, never had it done.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: Oh god, it's awful.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I'd rather just cover it up with something huge.
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: But that's not what it That's not what it feels
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: like when you guys like.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Affleck and just get a rising phoenix. I'm gonna get
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: a rising phoenix on my face and just want to
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: really give it just neck to face.
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: That's sick.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: The flames should be on your face.
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah so, but I do so. It doesn't feel like
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: when you when you guys are getting like your legs lasered.
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: What does that feel?
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Law, does legs feel like your face when you're
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: getting legs vagina. No, oh, so.
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: Face is different.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: No, the legs.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: It feels like a rubber band whipping me like a
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: hot rubber band. But they don't numb your legs. They
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: numb your face.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Some of the hardest laughs I've ever gotten. And I
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: won't say exactly why unless Lava wants me to. Is
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: going to lawless laser appointments.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you exactly.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Jessica, by the way, she consents to this, by the way, Okay,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: I can, by the way, by the way, by the
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: way she consents.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: Not only do I consent, I go? Can I go
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: in with you?
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Because there is a point in time where they do
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: the cookie and then they tell me to lay on
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: my stomach and pull my ass cheeks apart to get
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: the butthole, and I die. It's so hard, and she's
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: like oh oh in her like ass, Oh shit, I'm rying. No,
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: it's the most vulnerable you'll ever feel getting your cookie
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: and buttole as he is so intense and you feel
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: very exposed.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: It's so funny. I feel it in my own vagina
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: and butthole. So I'm like about to pass out, crying, laughing,
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: like it's so many emotions in a matter of seconds.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: How do you feel about bleached assholes?
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: By the way, bleached assholes, we've had a conversation about this.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: I like your opinion on them, because at first I
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: was like, yes, I would bleach my asshole if I
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: got the chance.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: But then you said something I was a great point.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: And what did you say, law, I just kind of
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: like it to be a little brown. You like it
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: to be brown.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: It kind of looks like it's gonna kill you, eached?
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: What is? What do you guys like a man's asshole
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: to look like?
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: I'm not going near that thing, so I don't really care.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I don't go near that area. I mean, I've done
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: years and years and years ago, thank god, in with
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: a not thank god, and with a partner who doesn't
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: enjoy butt stuff. Years ago, I was I hooked up
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: with one guy who liked a finger in his ass,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: and I did it.
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: But it was like I had nails, like, so, how
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: do you like this?
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: No?
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: But how far? Oh my god? It was okay, here's
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: the butthole. No, it was like scary. And not only
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: was it one finger, you guys. Then he put his
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: hand down there and he put the second finger and it.
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: Was probably like I started like this and I ended
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: probably like whole finger deep in the asshole.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Like to me, I then do you swirl or do
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: you just leave?
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: I was just kind of no, I don't.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Just I'm not soaking my finger and his asshole.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like moving it around because we're doing
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: others around.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: But it was.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: Like I'm moving it around nail with the nail, so.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: Oh my god. But in my mind I was it
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: was like a chemistry lesson because I'm like, yeah, okay,
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: this is what the inside of an asshole feels like.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Oh interesting, man.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: I was just like feeling around. Never in my life,
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: you are the ass man. It was the one and done.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: I'm just feeling around. But Easton, do you like a
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: bleached asshole on a lady or a man.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: I'm just lucky to get there. Okay, I'll take whatever's giving.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: That's so nice guy have.
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: But for me, Lala made a great point. She goes,
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: I don't bleach my nipples. That would be weird.
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: If it's weird if I saw a bleached asshole, I'd
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: be like, you can do this too much.
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: Oh oh, it's just you think it's.
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: Mainly like the bleach. Yeah, I'd be like, you're showing
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: this off to too many people there, right, Yeah.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: I just think a little cute brown pucker is right, well,
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: it should be like I'm not I'm not looking. I'm
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: looking for nipples to be colorful, my asshole to be colorful.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: I just want a.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Nice, little colorful body.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Don't know, everything's the way it's supposed to be, the
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: way God intended mave that mater to me, you know,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: you know, I just feel like if it was like
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: supposed to be like super white. But then again, you know,
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: if you want your asshole bleached, I just feel like
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: that's a lot of work, and like how do they
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: get it bleached? How do they get it bleached? Is
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: it actual bleach?
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Is it dangerous?
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Can we move on from bleached households?
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: I know I'm the one that brought us onto.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: The topic, but it's taking a turn. This person wants
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: to know, how do you deal with everyone drinking around you?
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: I'm newly sober one month and struggling easton.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: How do you deal with it?
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: Because you have been sober for a little bit now, well,
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: you don't.
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: Drink honestly, because everybody. Most people repeat themselves a thousand times.
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: That's what I've noticed. But it's you can kind of
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: be a dick, not like but like when they're telling
• 42:54
  Speaker 4: you can.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: All this establishing boundaries.
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like you've said that before or things like that.
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: So like when when I'm out, I mean, I always
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: usually have like something in my hand so I fit
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: in mm hmmm. And then usually I'm going around with
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: just a couple of my friends, but I usually just
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: go and talk to multiple people at it just so
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: I can hear the story once. Oh yeah, so I
• 43:15
  Speaker 4: just mingle a little bit more. And the one thing
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: that I always remember is most everyone's drunk here, so
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: it doesn't matter what the hell I'm doing.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: That's so true.
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: So like yeah, like it's honestly, it's even better because
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: I'm like, you know what, half of these motherfuckers are
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: gonna forget this tomorrow and I can just move through
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: whatever I need to do. Even I'm not gonna I've
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: walked away from conversations like right, I'm already done, I
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: mean with multiple people involved, right, but like no one
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: says anything. They keep talking and they're drunk, and then
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: they're just going to keep talking drunkly to their friends.
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: So it's just like it's almost like an anxiety relief
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: being sober and out.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: I think so too, And I think it's been easy
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: to not I'm not easy. I put a lot of
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: work into sobriety, but it's been okay being around people
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: who drink because I immediately again, I'm in a program, and
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: I think it's very important to remember what got you sober. Right,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: That's why I always talk about like a rock your
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: rock bottom moment, like what changed. It doesn't have to
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: be insane where you know something horrific happened. Your rock
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: bottom could be anything, just the day you decided not
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: to pick up. And if you always remember that moment.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: And I learned this in a meeting, how important the
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: first step is, right, like admitting you have a problem,
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: because you go into why am I here?
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: I hit a rock bottom moment? What did it look like?
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: And if you can remember.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Those moments, then being around people who are drinking, you
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: know how it ends. Right Tomorrow, they're going to feel
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: like shit, They're going to deal with the Sunday scaries tonight.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: They're talking a million miles an hour, but they're on
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: loop it's like they're it sounds fun if you if
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: you don't have a drinking problem by all means like
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: droll pound, I don't give a shit. But this sweet
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: girl is talking about she's been one month sober, which,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: first of all, like congratulations. The first thirty days are
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: the hardest and that's huge, but like, don't go to
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: places that are gonna trigger you. And if you know,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: like I can go out and you'll as the longer
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you stay sober, you start noticing like, okay, we're at
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: the tipping point right now, like everyone's had too much
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: and this is where I leave. Yep, like I know
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: it like the back of my hand. I'm like, I'm
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: gonna go the first few drinks. Everyone's gonna be fun.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fun. But then they start being not fun.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: That's my time to like go home and enjoy my life.
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: And you leave because it gets tempting, or you leave
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: because you know it's gonna get messy.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: It gets messy.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I don't want to listen to your stupid story three
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: more times, Like no sense, I'm not interested. I wasn't
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: even interested the first time, but like I pretend it
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: to be interested now you're gonna make me sit here
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: because you're drunk until it's seventeen more times I'm out. Yeah,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: And the amount of respect you get when someone knows
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: that you are not drinking, it just changes.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: So keep it up.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: You got this girl. Bravo, Bravo, bravo. How do you
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: not compare your kids to the others? It's so hard
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: at this age. I don't compare Ocean other kids, and
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I just don't. That could
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: change with a second baby. I'm telling you what. The
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: only time in my life that I've been able to
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: find the gray and haven't been so high strung is
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: being a mom, which is so crazy. You would think
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: Ocean is my third child because I'm just like whatever.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: You know, she doesn't get an app today, what are
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: you gonna do?
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: I think it's good having Gigi around, thom just exactly
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: like I feel. I feel like she's a good like yeah,
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: and she had you and obviously you turned out amazing.
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: So when you aren't putting her down for an APP
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: and Gigi's like, also not, it's like it's reassuring, like, Okay,
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: she doesn't need it. Gg also right, because you know
• 47:02
  Speaker 4: so it's like you just having that.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: Because she's dealt with two kids who are totally okay,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: And so when.
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: I see her dealing with Ocean, I'm like, you know what,
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: we're here, so I trust you by all means, right,
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: So yeah, No, I think Gg's a good one on that.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: I know. I don't because with my I think a
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: lot of people do compare their kids to other people's kids,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: especially when you have kids the same age.
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I do wonder. Yeah, if, because you've said this
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: before on the podcast, that you've at doctor's appointments, Ocean
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: has been told she's ahead, and I wonder if it's
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: been different if she was told or you were told,
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: maybe she's a little behind. If you then start comparing.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I think maybe if that were to happen, yes, you
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: would start comparing. But when I watch Ocean and then
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I watch Summer Moon, Summer is very good at sitting still,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: and she will go through her flash cards A through.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: Z like a champion.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: My daughter will get to E and then everything's a
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: w You know this, she's messing with you, she wants
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: no part of it, and she's get sarried. She gets
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: up and walks away. She's all over the place. My
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: mom watched Summer the other day and was like, law,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Summer Moon compared to Ocean is so fucking chill.
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: She even told me that she goes watching this kid
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: is the greatest she goes. She sat down for forty
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: five minutes and colored and didn't do anything. She goes
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: Ocean could.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Never, Oh, she could never.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: Ocean goes from Plato time, chop it up, bored, Let's
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: play doctor bored, let's cook bored, Let's color bored, let
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: me bounce all over the furniture. She's got why from
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: what people have told me, girls are more chill usually,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: and boys are kind.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: Of off the wall.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: Ocean's got boy energy. She's hucking shit, throwing balls into
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: the wall. She's stacking up chairs to jump off the
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: chairs into the ball pitch. She's bouncing off the freaking.
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: Walls, which is crazy because she has two other sisters,
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: no boys. There's no boys, so she's just doing It's a.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: Freaking wild child, wild child living her best life. I
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: want to end this on a super positive note. How
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: do you stay motivated and not listen to the negative thoughts? Jessica,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: How do you stay positive and not listen to negative
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: thoughts you are now on the podcast. You've noticed it
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: for a long time, people commenting on your voice or
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: whatever the fuck they comment on.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: How do you stay above?
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: That's a good question. I feel like it's not maybe
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: fair for me to answer this, but I was just
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: talking to Kyle about this. I come from a family
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: who good or bad, a ton of siblings. We all
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: just teased each other and made fun of each other.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: I mean constant ragging on each other in a fun way.
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: I still go home, and that's our dynamic and our energy.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: So I don't take myself too seriously and I don't
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: take comment I laugh things off like crazy. That's just
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: my way of doing things. I understand other people take
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: comments seriously, but I just think, like, like I've told
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: you before, a lot, it's like when I see a
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: mean comment, especially if it's so off base, it's like
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: someone looking at me and being like, your blue hair
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: is so ugly and disgusting. It disgusts me that you
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: have blue hair. I would look at them and be like, okay, honey,
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: are you okay? Like I would be concerned for them
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: and be like sure, and just kind of like laugh
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: it off or walk away, and that's how I feel.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: So that's how I just, I mean, stay positive, and.
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: It's actually brilliant, Jessica.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: And I surround myself with people I love and anybody.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I don't care about anyone else's opinion. I appreciate when
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: I get love, but I kind of I just don't care,
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: just like you. You've said that to me before, right,
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: like you care about the people who are around you
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: who love you, but everyone else like who cares? I
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: don't know you.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: I find that there's like two different things, right, like
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: the comment section and then my own negative thoughts when
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I'm having negative thoughts, because they do happen where I'm like,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I'm never going to reach the goals that I want.
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: I'm never gonna have this, because you're like, how could
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: I you think I'm gonna have that? Look at the
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: way that I'm like living right now, how could those
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: things ever even exist? And then you remember, I try
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: to go to a time where everything was all good,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: and how quickly it became not good? Right, the same
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: thing can happen with everything not being good and then
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: the next day it being fucking great. So I like
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: to purge onto a page everything that I'm feeling right like,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: I feel like I can't accomplish this, and then dig
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: into the why right, write it down, write it down,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: write it down. Once you purge onto a page or
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: onto a person, then I feel like the real work
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: can start where you're like, Okay, this is how I'm feeling.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I now know the reason, and now I need to
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: switch my way of thinking. We always talk about mind
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: over matter, and if you don't mind, it don't matter.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: A That's why I love therapy. That right, I'm like
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: a therapist. You are without any.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: Sort of degree, miss freelance.
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: And the comments section.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: I avoid it all casts because I have seen how
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: mean people get and it will put me in my grain.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: So it's just better than.
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: All look so you don't look my laugh it off?
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: How do you feel if you get any negativity, which
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: I haven't seen.
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: No, to everybody who's been saying something, thank you very much.
• 52:21
  Speaker 4: It does mean a lot to me because this is
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: new ship to me.
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: Everyone's trying to swoop in and make you their husband.
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: I kind of like, you don't have a husband.
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: You don't have a husband.
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, keep going.
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: I there's nothing that somebody can say to me that
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: I've already that I haven't said to myself or thought
• 52:44
  Speaker 4: of myself. Okay, so there's nothing that you can say
• 52:47
  Speaker 4: to me that is already like, that's that's new information
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: because I already ate I'm my worst critic. So even
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: if I read something, I never take it like this
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: person Like like I always, I'm like, all right, how
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: can I learn from what they're saying? How can I
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: be better? So I don't really care because I've thought
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: about it and I've said it to myself, so I'm like,
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: all right, just they just point it out again.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you the best way to get over
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: a troll? Have Lisa my mom read the comment out
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: loud and she laughs?
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: Or what how does she read it?
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: So monotone, you are the best. When you read a troll,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: read a troll, it'll be like you are so fucking stupid,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: you bitch. It's like the way she reads it, it
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: makes you go, wow, if I read that out loud,
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: it actually isn't that bad. Like she read one that
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: was talking about like a forehead and she was like,
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: you stupid five headed bitch?
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Am I definitely a comment to me?
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: What is that five headed?
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I'll show you what a five headed bitches right here, honey,
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: five headed bitch.
• 53:58
  Speaker 4: That's a forehead.
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no no, this is
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: a forehead. That's a forehead. Yeah, this is a ten head.
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: But we love it. We love that about me because
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: it means big brain.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: You know what.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Oh, she's got a big brain.
• 54:09
  Speaker 4: Tips. Oh, she's got a noggin on it.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: You watch it, you watch a salthy fucking mouth control
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: they I have multiple neutrol nogginghead.
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: I love a big head.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: She's got the greatest, a gorgeous head.
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah Walter Hogan remember how big his head was.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got a brain that's beautiful and smart and kind.
• 54:33
  Speaker 4: Shout out to Walter Hogan and.
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: Filthy fucking mouth.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: Just kidding.
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: She's It's true. That's why she's got lethal on.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Me because she's a genius. She's a genius, and she's
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: gorgeous and she's perfect and she.
• 54:47
  Speaker 4: Looks like a little kick.
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: Pop Houston, I'm about to beat your ass. My daughter
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: can never.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: Listen to this.
• 54:54
  Speaker 4: Why she's the cutest.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I too, she's p shit, you're a cake, Pop too.
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: I got this big bobby wobbly head. Kyle's always like you.
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: He'll hug me and he'll go it's so big your
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: head right now.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: You know what, Like mom said, she's perfect, You are perfect.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: Every one of us is perfect. Ocean's perfect. We can't
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: help the way that we look.
• 55:22
  Speaker 4: What Lisa says, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right.
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: That's exactly right, Lisa, that's exactly right.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: Someone who you think is busted someone could come in
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: and be like gorgeous, and they're the beholder beauty.
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: And man's trash is another man's barbie.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: One man's trash, that's another one's whole. Hurry, I don't
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: know what's coming kind of shoot.
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: I'm so glad that movie is colored back.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: All right, you guys, I promise we're sober here. I
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this episode of the Give Them All
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: a Podcast, the
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: Version We will catch you next five