Latest / Wine & Audacity / 106: Q&A - In But Not Over
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, So I got I got a specific set
- 0:27Speaker 1: of scales.
- 0:29Speaker 2: I want my family back. Give me back my family.
- 0:35Speaker 3: She probably running behind tree because you think you got snacks.
- 0:39Speaker 2: You want to we love snacks. I got some combos
- 0:42Speaker 2: at home, you know, I started eating combos again. They
- 0:44Speaker 2: still make combo. I ain't seen the combo in a
- 0:48Speaker 2: long time. I got the pizza combo. I get this.
- 0:50Speaker 3: It's combo at the past school for five some of
- 0:56Speaker 3: those pizza pizza Rea combos.
- 0:57Speaker 2: Wow, my feet up on the couch. I ain't seen
- 1:00Speaker 2: combos and years.
- 1:01Speaker 4: My favorite is the My favorite is the partsel, the
- 1:03Speaker 4: cheese and partel.
- 1:04Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is They got those fun with them,
- 1:09Speaker 2: the combos, weagings.
- 1:12Speaker 3: We have.
- 1:13Speaker 2: I love Wegmans so much. This really is my favorite
- 1:15Speaker 2: grocery store. Everything in that damn stool.
- 1:17Speaker 4: I used to say.
- 1:18Speaker 5: No, I used to say Wegmans was like if if
- 1:22Speaker 5: Sam's Club and Walmart had a baby.
- 1:27Speaker 2: At Sam's Club and Walmart had a baby, it would
- 1:30Speaker 2: be it's the same company.
- 1:33Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they all like cousins. My bad.
- 1:35Speaker 2: They both owned by Sam's Club is own by Walmart.
- 1:38Speaker 2: That's a good color. Mm hmm. Yeah, m that Malin.
- 1:43Speaker 4: Yes, Gord, yes, she said, yeah, yeah, we're blessing you,
- 1:49Speaker 4: just the we're gonna beat your face.
- 1:53Speaker 2: To the well, you just turned that around. I thought
- 1:55Speaker 2: that was kitty. Let's talk about Yeah, tonight's conversations far oh,
- 2:03Speaker 2: well they thus far cha.
- 2:08Speaker 4: Oh, I'm saying there chap As Jackson.
- 2:12Speaker 3: Chow mojo Jojo Mojo chap.
- 2:18Speaker 5: As, my brother says, I'm playing superprises. I mean playing
- 2:21Speaker 5: stupid games winning super prises, my nigga, especially when you
- 2:26Speaker 5: especially when you're not, uh, you can't.
- 2:28Speaker 3: Be playing with people playing folks money, honey, playing people coins.
- 2:33Speaker 4: I'm saying with that and then trying to then trying
- 2:35Speaker 4: to play with their heads. Joe, that's it. Ain't cool.
- 2:37Speaker 2: Fucking inflation and all that ship.
- 2:40Speaker 3: People bound to knock your head between the washing and
- 2:42Speaker 3: dry about their money, my guy, Well in your case between.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Backstage and in the stage.
- 2:50Speaker 3: Because yeah, yeah, yeah, now being brand and have set
- 2:59Speaker 3: in the audience for tonight's conversation and it was a vibe.
- 3:02Speaker 3: It was it was fun, you know music and even
- 3:06Speaker 3: do the DJ on blend very well what that's a
- 3:08Speaker 3: whole other story you got.
- 3:10Speaker 2: But uh, you know, it was fun.
- 3:14Speaker 4: It was enjoyable.
- 3:15Speaker 2: It was an environment, it was enjoyedable. You know. We
- 3:18Speaker 2: mainly went for tripping giddy to be perfectly on it,
- 3:22Speaker 2: really Kitty. I went for.
- 3:25Speaker 3: I'm not kidd Jesus, I at Keita the rose just
- 3:28Speaker 3: be throwing me off. We were for Tripp and Keita
- 3:31Speaker 3: Keta makes me.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Get because my initial introduction to Next Conversation was Randy
- 3:35Speaker 2: Razzario used to be on a lot of their recorded
- 3:37Speaker 2: content and she started to tour out a couple of
- 3:40Speaker 2: years ago, but she ended up leaving and we never
- 3:41Speaker 2: knew why she left.
- 3:42Speaker 6: She was just.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Yeah, she was there one day and then gone the next.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Same of Richie fontem b Richie mm hmm.
- 3:51Speaker 4: With the colder mm hmm, Big Richie with the colder,
- 3:55Speaker 4: big big Richie with the colder.
- 3:56Speaker 2: But uh yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 4:00Speaker 3: My first introduction was of course seeing the eclips online
- 4:03Speaker 3: and whatnot. And Brandon hit me one day and was like,
- 4:06Speaker 3: you wanna go.
- 4:06Speaker 2: To the Night's Conversation. I was like, I let's go.
- 4:11Speaker 2: And like I said, it was a vibe, it was cool,
- 4:13Speaker 2: it was fun. But this drama, baby is it's a lot.
- 4:20Speaker 2: It's a lot.
- 4:23Speaker 3: You know, people gonna take sides, because that's what folks
- 4:25Speaker 3: do on the end of the line, you know, and
- 4:28Speaker 3: you know they say it's three sides to a story.
- 4:30Speaker 3: Hits side, her side in truth and the kida coming
- 4:34Speaker 3: with seats.
- 4:35Speaker 2: So I mean, yeah, you actually don't go into what's
- 4:40Speaker 2: happened or you just bought it up there to talk
- 4:44Speaker 2: about what I mean, we can we can discuss it
- 4:46Speaker 2: if you want to me.
- 4:49Speaker 3: You know, a couple of months since it really came
- 4:50Speaker 3: on and came out about late January.
- 4:53Speaker 2: And it's now the second Wednesday in March. It is
- 4:56Speaker 2: a part of the information we have so far far.
- 4:59Speaker 3: H It appears that Ace was playing with Keita's money.
- 5:02Speaker 3: In addition to playing with Keitha's money, she was being
- 5:05Speaker 3: harassed by his people.
- 5:09Speaker 2: She used the word abuse.
- 5:11Speaker 3: I don't she said financial abuse yet first yeah, she
- 5:14Speaker 3: used the word financial abuse, the phrase rather. And it
- 5:19Speaker 3: all boils down to he apparently has been making a
- 5:23Speaker 3: lot of money off these tours. And if you see
- 5:25Speaker 3: how many people are in those rooms, you can see
- 5:29Speaker 3: how considering how the lowest ticket just damned there one
- 5:31Speaker 3: hundred dollars uh. Once she had the Texas and the
- 5:35Speaker 3: fees and all that other stuff.
- 5:36Speaker 2: They have upgrades. You can upgrade to rades VIP.
- 5:40Speaker 3: Well, actually you can actually buy either general general tickets,
- 5:44Speaker 3: VIP tickets or super VIP tickets ahead of time, and
- 5:48Speaker 3: if you don't, you could upgrade the day of if
- 5:50Speaker 3: they have room, like if the VIP is not completely before,
- 5:53Speaker 3: they give you a day of upgrades that you pay
- 5:56Speaker 3: an additional I think when me and Brandon went this
- 5:58Speaker 3: last time, we was going to upgrade the super vi
- 6:00Speaker 3: P and they wanted the additional one hundred and fifty.
- 6:03Speaker 2: Dollars damn, I think it was. But then this time
- 6:06Speaker 2: we went, they also had a platinum I said, what
- 6:09Speaker 2: the fuck is the Platinum VI P? I guess to
- 6:11Speaker 2: get you.
- 6:11Speaker 3: Safe that we set in for super v to a
- 6:14Speaker 3: VI player super vi I P layst time was the
- 6:17Speaker 3: Platinum v I P.
- 6:18Speaker 2: I said, I think we got there a little later,
- 6:22Speaker 2: but we were sitting like in the second row.
- 6:24Speaker 3: Was the first row second round, we were in the
- 6:26Speaker 3: first row, the right section because the hit it up
- 6:30Speaker 3: into like three sections and then it's the The first
- 6:34Speaker 3: section was super vi P and then behind that was
- 6:36Speaker 3: VI P and then general admission. When we went back
- 6:40Speaker 3: this time, we were in the second we were in
- 6:42Speaker 3: the middle road where we were in the second section
- 6:44Speaker 3: of seat, still a good view. We were directly in
- 6:48Speaker 3: front of the stage this time versus last time. We
- 6:49Speaker 3: were to the right of the stage, like fifteen to
- 6:53Speaker 3: the right of the screen. We had a screen in
- 6:55Speaker 3: front of us.
- 6:55Speaker 2: Just go around. They were directly in front of us. Am,
- 7:00Speaker 2: so they're making some coinage and it was packed in.
- 7:02Speaker 3: Then they pretty much sold out. If we're not If
- 7:06Speaker 3: I'm not mistaken, they were sold out.
- 7:08Speaker 2: Yeah, to show up. But before and I forgot how
- 7:10Speaker 2: many people that room hosts. We'll get in ten a second.
- 7:12Speaker 2: Welcome to this week's episode of waning O That Seat
- 7:14Speaker 2: the podcast. I'm your host, Brand's cart and I'm joined
- 7:16Speaker 2: by two my favorite people to worry. How you finished week?
- 7:18Speaker 4: I I'm cool.
- 7:19Speaker 2: I'm yeah. He had leaptop open, got his classes on
- 7:26Speaker 2: the he over there doing what they're doing research. You
- 7:30Speaker 2: want to do some homework, nigga, I got I got
- 7:33Speaker 2: the homework you could do.
- 7:35Speaker 3: Oh no, I don't because as of this week, as
- 7:38Speaker 3: of yesterday, it was my last day of class.
- 7:41Speaker 2: I am officially I'm about to have a bad I graduated, y'all, Yeah,
- 7:50Speaker 2: we graduate. Graduate congratulations, thank you. I'm proud of you.
- 8:03Speaker 2: Thank you. I'm thinking about going back and get my masses.
- 8:06Speaker 2: But in this climate right now, chat out.
- 8:08Speaker 7: We just got to look for scholarships, yes, God, because
- 8:10Speaker 7: I ain't got it, baby.
- 8:12Speaker 2: I'm not checking, no more taking on more debby another degree.
- 8:16Speaker 4: I got it.
- 8:18Speaker 2: That's that's the only thing that's holding me back yard,
- 8:20Speaker 2: I ain't got it away.
- 8:24Speaker 4: That's what I mean. That's what you're being honest right now.
- 8:26Speaker 8: Listen, Ship is tight.
- 8:28Speaker 2: Put your back to tonight's I guess earlier today's conversations.
- 8:34Speaker 2: When I walked we walked in the room, I think
- 8:36Speaker 2: the second time my brain started computing Ship because, like
- 8:39Speaker 2: Shauna said, they offer on site upgrades everybody selling merchant
- 8:42Speaker 2: and they got hit one bar for two thousand people.
- 8:46Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, no, very much. Get but with
- 8:49Speaker 2: the they charging for tickets and then you can do
- 8:51Speaker 2: on site of grace to either Super VP or Platinum
- 8:53Speaker 2: v P, and then you can buy the card game
- 8:55Speaker 2: and you could do all the stuff. I was like,
- 8:57Speaker 2: I think I told Sean before the show started. I
- 8:59Speaker 2: was like, she has to be pulling at least two
- 9:02Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars from this one show at least between
- 9:06Speaker 2: like one fifty and two hundred thousand dollars for the
- 9:08Speaker 2: Baltimore show alone. If you're doing do they only do
- 9:12Speaker 2: show Saturday Sunday or was it Friday, Saturday Sunday?
- 9:15Speaker 3: Last I saw it looked like if it was Saturday
- 9:16Speaker 3: and Sunday we went out, she said, I mean I
- 9:18Speaker 3: looked out.
- 9:19Speaker 5: You said she would disappeared like Friday Saturday. Kid, it
- 9:21Speaker 5: was like, shouldn't leave Friday, Saturday Sunday and then go
- 9:24Speaker 5: back to work, go back to work Monday. And but
- 9:28Speaker 5: just for that, I mean, you know, Friday Saturday and
- 9:31Speaker 5: then you know they travel back home for Sunday. But
- 9:33Speaker 5: like you just said, two hundred thousand the show, No.
- 9:37Speaker 2: They do Sunday shows. Yeah, no, But and they said
- 9:39Speaker 2: they made she said up as a four because they
- 9:41Speaker 2: could do like an early show Saturday, depending on the
- 9:43Speaker 2: city there, and if it's enough to man, they could
- 9:45Speaker 2: do the regular like eight o'clock show, and they also
- 9:47Speaker 2: do like an earlier show like maybe you want to
- 9:49Speaker 2: back to back shows.
- 9:50Speaker 3: Some cities say did back to back shows like a
- 9:51Speaker 3: Friday and a Saturday, depending on what the city is
- 9:54Speaker 3: a bigger city.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Yeah, they pull it in.
- 9:57Speaker 3: Coin, but the final day was reponsible for their own lodging.
- 10:01Speaker 2: And that's the thing that got me all the stuff.
- 10:03Speaker 2: I felt like that should have been once I thought,
- 10:07Speaker 2: once I saw like everything and she Keena made the
- 10:11Speaker 2: comment that Ace allegedly smoke o Joe Jojo was pulling
- 10:16Speaker 2: in five hundred thousand dollars a weekend ship off of
- 10:19Speaker 2: off of three at a minimum of three tour dates.
- 10:22Speaker 2: And you're basically off all week to do whatever else
- 10:25Speaker 2: from your content, working of a job, and then you
- 10:27Speaker 2: back on the road Friday, Saturday, Sunday. It's a grind
- 10:30Speaker 2: because you missed your people. Everybody's off work but you're working,
- 10:32Speaker 2: or you traveling in different cities. But you're pulling in
- 10:36Speaker 2: two million dollars a month again and gross before you
- 10:43Speaker 2: have to pay venues out and pay it paid even
- 10:45Speaker 2: money today. We'll get there eventually.
- 10:48Speaker 4: Five Now can you pay me?
- 10:54Speaker 6: Can pay us now? Sponsor yes, the episode title, but
- 11:05Speaker 6: I don't.
- 11:07Speaker 2: But we were talking about, like, how was Seana just
- 11:12Speaker 2: said about having to go in and pay for your
- 11:16Speaker 2: own travel and lodging to come, you know, to do
- 11:20Speaker 2: a tour, and Keida made the coming like, well, I'm
- 11:22Speaker 2: essentially having to pay to work. And my thought process was,
- 11:25Speaker 2: wait a minute, if you have if you are a
- 11:29Speaker 2: part of a tour. And this again, this is me
- 11:31Speaker 2: looking at it from my perspective of somebody who is
- 11:34Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I think Keith is slightly younger than us.
- 11:36Speaker 2: She might be in her early to mid thirties. But
- 11:40Speaker 2: and this is how I think we talked about this
- 11:42Speaker 2: in our group chat. This is where like having knowledge
- 11:44Speaker 2: is like knowledge base of contracts and what you knowing
- 11:46Speaker 2: what you sign in and having paid schedules and all
- 11:49Speaker 2: this stuff you know basically where you should have knowledge
- 11:53Speaker 2: of it. And I'm not blaming Keta for not nomer,
- 11:55Speaker 2: because you're not. It's not her fault. You trusted somebody
- 11:58Speaker 2: and they did you dirty. But knowing how to read contracts,
- 12:02Speaker 2: know oning what to put in your contracts to me,
- 12:05Speaker 2: my question would have been, okay, if I'm coming to
- 12:07Speaker 2: do this tour, is travel to each of these venues
- 12:11Speaker 2: in this city, not a part of not a part
- 12:14Speaker 2: of it. If you put them in two million dollars
- 12:16Speaker 2: a month, you can't spring for me to get a
- 12:20Speaker 2: flight and do my lodgers so I can come on
- 12:22Speaker 2: this tour and work. That's not a part of us
- 12:24Speaker 2: coming city city. That's what I'm say. Am I getting
- 12:28Speaker 2: like like? And I even explained to them. I was like, yo,
- 12:30Speaker 2: I can understand if you was like, just to make
- 12:31Speaker 2: it easy for everybody. Everybody can book they on travel,
- 12:34Speaker 2: but it's part of your here, yeah, it's part of
- 12:36Speaker 2: your part of your payment. When you get back home
- 12:38Speaker 2: by tuesday, I need your receipts to reimburse you for
- 12:40Speaker 2: your hotels and your flight so you can book be
- 12:43Speaker 2: responsible for getting there on your own, but you'll just
- 12:45Speaker 2: get paid for it on your next check because I
- 12:47Speaker 2: have your receipts and I just give you the money back.
- 12:49Speaker 2: So that way, it's like, Okay, I got to pay
- 12:51Speaker 2: for it out of my own pocket, but I'm getting
- 12:53Speaker 2: it back them when payday come in a week or
- 12:55Speaker 2: two weeks. You know. That way, that's you know, you're
- 12:59Speaker 2: not responsible for paying for people's travel and booking flights
- 13:02Speaker 2: for twenty thirty people. And I get that. But also
- 13:08Speaker 2: there were claims made about like is she she Keida
- 13:12Speaker 2: made the claim that you know, ACE dock money out
- 13:16Speaker 2: of her paycheck because they gave her boyfriend money and
- 13:19Speaker 2: they took it out of her paycheck. And my question
- 13:23Speaker 2: when I sent Sean to the video because it was
- 13:25Speaker 2: a lot of fucking videos, I was like, so, but
- 13:29Speaker 2: regardless of regardless of what money they sent him, my
- 13:34Speaker 2: response to Ace or whoever was on the phone on
- 13:36Speaker 2: his behalf would have been, you gave him money, but
- 13:40Speaker 2: who did you sign? Who signed the contract?
- 13:42Speaker 6: Right?
- 13:42Speaker 2: Like?
- 13:43Speaker 3: Was he was he acting as her manager? Something that
- 13:45Speaker 3: would be something different?
- 13:46Speaker 2: Even still, where where's the agreement in right and saying
- 13:50Speaker 2: that this person can act as my proxy? That was
- 13:54Speaker 2: a good fucking question. And she said that they sent him,
- 13:57Speaker 2: They and his team sent her like a like a
- 14:00Speaker 2: like a promissory agreement saying that this one will we
- 14:03Speaker 2: paid back. But it was unsigned. It wasn't It was
- 14:05Speaker 2: an unsigned agreement. His a signature wasn't on it. Key,
- 14:08Speaker 2: the signature wasn't on it, The boyfriend signature wasn't on it.
- 14:11Speaker 2: So then my question would have been something like, Okay,
- 14:13Speaker 2: well you gave him this money, but what does you
- 14:14Speaker 2: giving him money have to do with my paycheck when
- 14:18Speaker 2: there's no agreement in place saying that he can take
- 14:21Speaker 2: money on my behalf and y'all can dock it out
- 14:23Speaker 2: of my paycheck. That's not how that works. It's not
- 14:27Speaker 2: it's not how any of this works.
- 14:29Speaker 5: You can't.
- 14:30Speaker 4: I don't like it.
- 14:31Speaker 5: I mean I didn't like it even, you know, like
- 14:33Speaker 5: I didn't like even just reading the ship, like you know,
- 14:36Speaker 5: reading the ship. That didn't It's like, go, because I'm
- 14:38Speaker 5: asking you about my money, because I'm telling you that
- 14:41Speaker 5: you owe me money, and now because you owe me money,
- 14:43Speaker 5: I'm letting the world know, nigga, you owe me money.
- 14:46Speaker 5: And because I'm because I'm speaking out about it. What
- 14:49Speaker 5: you're saying is now you're trying to say like, yo,
- 14:52Speaker 5: I'm crazy, like or I'm crazy, I'm overreacting.
- 14:56Speaker 2: I'm being like traumatic.
- 14:58Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm being dramatic.
- 15:00Speaker 2: I'm bitter that. My thing is she left the show.
- 15:03Speaker 2: They didn't fight her, she left.
- 15:06Speaker 5: I hate that word, like I I hate that. That's
- 15:10Speaker 5: how I hate that. That's how how we're interpret it.
- 15:15Speaker 5: When we started, when we start questioning, you know, when
- 15:17Speaker 5: we start questioning what's old to us, and then it's
- 15:19Speaker 5: like if we start like when niggas do ship and
- 15:21Speaker 5: you know, you know you like ship, say you loan
- 15:24Speaker 5: all money and then that person say, I'm gonna pay
- 15:26Speaker 5: you back. And then it's like, yo, you see this
- 15:29Speaker 5: motherfucker get paid eight, ten, twelve times.
- 15:34Speaker 3: Like I'm gonna give you a little funky as a
- 15:35Speaker 3: hundred dollars, right, and what a little funk undred dollars
- 15:39Speaker 3: for bitch, right, And it's.
- 15:40Speaker 5: Like yo, So for me to be like yo, now,
- 15:43Speaker 5: it's like, oh, now, bitch, I'm bitter. Like I'm bitter
- 15:46Speaker 5: because I'm asking you. I'm asking you for the money
- 15:48Speaker 5: that you owe me.
- 15:50Speaker 4: I got it.
- 15:53Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's but then trauma, but.
- 15:55Speaker 5: Nah, but then niggas you now you're being a fucking
- 15:57Speaker 5: false prophet and it's and you're being exposed to being
- 16:01Speaker 5: a falster profit like it.
- 16:04Speaker 2: Yeah, once once you start on something, if we have
- 16:07Speaker 2: a contract for me to get paid after doing this work, also,
- 16:11Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I also did ask when Sean
- 16:13Speaker 2: and I was talking, Like I said earlier, lodging and
- 16:17Speaker 2: flights weren't a part of the payment contract that wasn't
- 16:21Speaker 2: ironed out beforehand to say, okay, yeah, if I'm traveling
- 16:24Speaker 2: to the city's duds work, it's the company paying for
- 16:26Speaker 2: my lodging at hotels that am I getting reimbursed from
- 16:28Speaker 2: looking my own stuff? Up to a certain dollar amount.
- 16:30Speaker 4: What is it?
- 16:31Speaker 3: This point, you have to write everything into your contract
- 16:34Speaker 3: because people will find any type of way to enable you.
- 16:36Speaker 3: Of course, you have to have everything in writing because
- 16:40Speaker 3: verbally somebody can tell you anything. I can tell you
- 16:42Speaker 3: right now, all right, put a thousand dollars towards this,
- 16:44Speaker 3: this and this, and then when the day come, I'm like.
- 16:46Speaker 2: Oh, well did not I ain't.
- 16:49Speaker 4: Did you get it a writing?
- 16:51Speaker 2: I didn't say when did I say that? You know
- 16:53Speaker 2: what I'm saying? What did I say I was gonna
- 16:54Speaker 2: have for you on this?
- 16:55Speaker 3: That's why you know, I watched a lot of judge
- 16:57Speaker 3: shows and a lot of times when i'm judge shows
- 16:59Speaker 3: like Judgement to say that was the promise of a gift, right,
- 17:03Speaker 3: That's what it was. It was the promise of a
- 17:04Speaker 3: gift in at anytime, the promise to that gift can
- 17:06Speaker 3: be withdrawn. You don't have a right today, you don't
- 17:09Speaker 3: have a contract, you don't have nothing to support it.
- 17:13Speaker 2: So unfortunately it ain't that fake.
- 17:16Speaker 5: So but it's fucked up. I mean, like I said,
- 17:19Speaker 5: it's fucked up, yo. Like if you old, if you old,
- 17:22Speaker 5: like she did a job, she did a job.
- 17:25Speaker 4: She know she earned that much.
- 17:26Speaker 2: She should be paid for it. Absolutely she deserves She
- 17:29Speaker 2: did she did with you.
- 17:30Speaker 4: You know, she did what was she did, what was
- 17:32Speaker 4: in her contract. She performed. She performed every dudy what
- 17:36Speaker 4: was asked for her. And it's like, YO, pay her,
- 17:38Speaker 4: pay her accordingly, like you know, it'd be real funny.
- 17:42Speaker 5: She was like ice Cube and tour and tore ship
- 17:44Speaker 5: up because you because you ain't paying the money, inflicting
- 17:48Speaker 5: the cards all the where.
- 17:49Speaker 2: But one thing about it. At first, nobody knew what
- 17:52Speaker 2: was happening when we when the story first came out,
- 17:54Speaker 2: when Keith started sharing her story, I think Keta Rose
- 17:58Speaker 2: and I guess who I would cons there to be
- 18:00Speaker 2: the draw of the next conversation. Trip Fontaine. They left,
- 18:04Speaker 2: I think, if not the same day they left. One
- 18:06Speaker 2: left one day and the other one left the day.
- 18:08Speaker 3: He literally just texted me and told me that Trip
- 18:11Speaker 3: was leaving. And then the next day he was like,
- 18:14Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on, but Kitty just known
- 18:16Speaker 3: she leaving to you. It was like really like literally
- 18:18Speaker 3: back by Trip. His was just just the straight to
- 18:23Speaker 3: the point I'm stepping away and pursuing the other endeavors
- 18:26Speaker 3: type thing. Kids wasn't guying like that, and Trip still
- 18:32Speaker 3: has been pretty much silent on you know why he's leaving,
- 18:36Speaker 3: But he also did may not be the same, or
- 18:39Speaker 3: he may not just be with the ships, and he
- 18:41Speaker 3: just like, I'm head of this ship on the back end.
- 18:43Speaker 2: You know, we don't know. So I followed Trip. I've
- 18:45Speaker 2: been following Trip Fontaine on on Instagram and on socials
- 18:48Speaker 2: for for about a year or two now. Every I
- 18:51Speaker 2: think Monday Tuesday, he goes live on his own pages
- 18:54Speaker 2: and he started promoting his own trip podcast called Trip
- 18:56Speaker 2: after Dark, which is pretty good. It's on YouTube or
- 18:58Speaker 2: Patreon where he actually posts full episodes. But somebody he
- 19:03Speaker 2: does like he asks he enables the Q and A function,
- 19:07Speaker 2: so he'll go through, He'll start talking for a little
- 19:09Speaker 2: while and then he'll start let people ask questions. They
- 19:11Speaker 2: will answer him. So he did post. Somebody basically asked
- 19:14Speaker 2: him like, why did you leave to nice conversations? What's
- 19:16Speaker 2: a nice conversation? And he basically answered it like I
- 19:20Speaker 2: can't answer for anybody else's situation, but for me, it
- 19:24Speaker 2: was time to go. I've been doing it for a
- 19:25Speaker 2: couple two or three years at this point, and he
- 19:28Speaker 2: did also say if I had an issue with somebody,
- 19:30Speaker 2: it was dealt with before I left, and that's all
- 19:33Speaker 2: he said. So I mean people can handle stuff the
- 19:40Speaker 2: way they want.
- 19:41Speaker 3: I think you can't cut somebody and tell them how
- 19:43Speaker 3: to bleed. So Trip handled it his way, and Kitty
- 19:46Speaker 3: is Kita is handling the way that she feels the
- 19:49Speaker 3: need to handle a lot.
- 19:51Speaker 2: Of people are being exposed. The thing that also got
- 19:55Speaker 2: me was the fact that Randy Rosario came started going
- 20:00Speaker 2: lived with Keida, started being you know, she was in
- 20:02Speaker 2: comments they were responding to each other's video bas just saying, yeah,
- 20:05Speaker 2: my situation with tonight's conversation and as metaphor was the
- 20:08Speaker 2: exact same. I wasn't getting paid, the money wasn't right.
- 20:11Speaker 2: I was getting left out of stuff. At first we
- 20:13Speaker 2: had a percentage of the door and now they was
- 20:15Speaker 2: taking out. Stuff was being changed. So she was like,
- 20:17Speaker 2: from my own mental health, I had to step back
- 20:19Speaker 2: because they were being funny with money. As we mind.
- 20:23Speaker 2: The fact that there were other people that came out
- 20:25Speaker 2: and corroborated that was kind of like, that's what I'm saying, Like, Okay,
- 20:30Speaker 2: it's one thing. If Keitha is saying it, and if
- 20:32Speaker 2: Ace Metaphor never mentioned it and it was that, then
- 20:35Speaker 2: it could have been miss It could have been taken
- 20:37Speaker 2: as oh, well you just somebody got fired and they
- 20:39Speaker 2: discruntled and they just making noise.
- 20:41Speaker 3: Yeah, because the crave what he did call himself trying
- 20:44Speaker 3: to expose her and out her, claiming extortion. The video
- 20:50Speaker 3: that he posted as his evidence actually kind of fucked
- 20:54Speaker 3: him up. It bucked him up and kind of made her.
- 20:57Speaker 3: It made her well, So it proves her point and
- 21:00Speaker 3: not his because I comprehended pretty damn well. Yeah, and
- 21:08Speaker 3: based on my comprehension based on the video and he
- 21:12Speaker 3: released she tried to offer her something to shut her up.
- 21:16Speaker 2: Didn't sound like extortion.
- 21:17Speaker 3: To me, so like you were trying to shut up.
- 21:20Speaker 3: So I don't know, Keeta try the best because you know,
- 21:26Speaker 3: she's funny to me. She tickles the shit out of me,
- 21:30Speaker 3: you know, I watch her tiktoks and stuff like that.
- 21:32Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, it's it's it's a lot of drama, y'all.
- 21:37Speaker 3: But never thought I would see this. But I mean,
- 21:41Speaker 3: it ain't no different than when the group break up
- 21:43Speaker 3: and a bunch of shit come out. Now we haven't
- 21:45Speaker 3: seen it happen for years.
- 21:47Speaker 4: Yeah, like like you.
- 21:49Speaker 2: Saying the old saying was done. An adult comes to
- 21:52Speaker 2: the light, the chicken's gonna come home to roost, which
- 21:56Speaker 2: yourself and I think actually posted it on to nice
- 21:59Speaker 2: conversation and podcasts like the business page and then his
- 22:03Speaker 2: his personal page was was I guess was linked to
- 22:06Speaker 2: it as like to show up with both of their
- 22:07Speaker 2: account But if you like Sean said, you go and
- 22:10Speaker 2: listen to the video. He made it seem like he
- 22:11Speaker 2: was being black man, but the video he did not
- 22:14Speaker 2: sound like that at all, and the comments was were
- 22:17Speaker 2: now on his side. He deleted it. He deleted the
- 22:19Speaker 2: whole post after about an hour.
- 22:21Speaker 3: One more if it if it don't come out on
- 22:23Speaker 3: the walls, she come out in the rents. That's all
- 22:28Speaker 3: the old school satans, all of them old sayings.
- 22:32Speaker 4: Yeah, you keep sweeping under the bird bro. Mmm mmmmmm
- 22:38Speaker 4: should have less sleeping those live mm hmm.
- 22:42Speaker 3: You leave pickles a Vinica long enough they turned I
- 22:44Speaker 3: mean nica long enough they turned the pickles conversation.
- 22:49Speaker 4: You mess with the bull, you hit the horns.
- 22:56Speaker 3: You catching more bees with honey than vinegar, BlackBerry molasses,
- 23:06Speaker 3: don't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining.
- 23:08Speaker 4: A favorite commercial, bro favorite commercial.
- 23:15Speaker 3: Yeah, yam, yeah, we forgot to talk about that when
- 23:19Speaker 3: it first happened.
- 23:21Speaker 5: You know, I think, but I think it's I think
- 23:23Speaker 5: the thing that always it just exposes you as money
- 23:29Speaker 5: hungry and you're doing you're doing this ship that you know,
- 23:32Speaker 5: you be doing this ship for a cash grab money?
- 23:34Speaker 2: Is the reader all evil high five? You know?
- 23:41Speaker 4: But I mean, but I believed, I believe that that's
- 23:44Speaker 4: what happened.
- 23:45Speaker 2: Yo.
- 23:45Speaker 5: You you you saw your you saw your what we
- 23:49Speaker 5: call it the prodecessor, like the first you know, you've
- 23:52Speaker 5: seen Derrek Jackson do the ship and you saw how
- 23:55Speaker 5: much money he was making from this ship.
- 23:58Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying.
- 24:00Speaker 3: You watched Derek and Stephen speaks, wasn't it?
- 24:04Speaker 2: But for tonight's conversation, I think three, I know you
- 24:07Speaker 2: were Steven, Steven speaks. I can't remember. I'm trying to
- 24:09Speaker 2: remember if it was them three.
- 24:10Speaker 3: It was them three on tour together at one point
- 24:12Speaker 3: I think, I think, yeah, I think it was Steve,
- 24:14Speaker 3: Stephen seeks Derek Jackson at eight Metophore and when all
- 24:18Speaker 3: that ship came out with Derek and his creeping and
- 24:20Speaker 3: hoing and his pandemic and all that stuff. You phil
- 24:25Speaker 3: be running the ride egg, but now it looked like
- 24:27Speaker 3: you've been doing the same ship behind the scenes, so
- 24:29Speaker 3: many differences. You ain't got a wife, mo Jo jojo,
- 24:31Speaker 3: so yeah, you'll be careful.
- 24:35Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying.
- 24:35Speaker 5: It's like, Yo, you saw you saw the bread this
- 24:37Speaker 5: nigga was making, and it's like, yo, I can do
- 24:40Speaker 5: that ship too. And then now you you started with
- 24:42Speaker 5: your little rinky dank podcast and then it became and
- 24:46Speaker 5: then that ship became a became a monster, and it's
- 24:49Speaker 5: like you pulling you seeing numbers between never like you
- 24:53Speaker 5: ain't never seen and then you cut and try and
- 24:55Speaker 5: cut everybody else out of it. I don't know you
- 24:57Speaker 5: just you just come off as a as a false
- 24:59Speaker 5: produ for then you you you praying off for the
- 25:02Speaker 5: mean you're making this bread off of these women that's
- 25:04Speaker 5: seeking advice for advice for how to deal with their
- 25:07Speaker 5: relationships and everything.
- 25:09Speaker 4: You're sitting here talking that that ship. What you you
- 25:13Speaker 4: you're cussing us out, cussing us the fuck out. You
- 25:19Speaker 4: need pay attention to your women because but you know.
- 25:23Speaker 2: People, but I hate to say it, but people. Some
- 25:26Speaker 2: people are goable and they'll line up I wouldn't say
- 25:30Speaker 2: false prophets, but they'll line up behind essentially anybody to
- 25:34Speaker 2: get them, you know, in like who makes them feel
- 25:38Speaker 2: good right when they feel a speaking truth and speaking
- 25:42Speaker 2: power to you know, truth to power with what they
- 25:44Speaker 2: feel is right. And that's all well and good. But
- 25:46Speaker 2: at the same time, you know.
- 25:50Speaker 5: You're using your gifts. You know you're using your gifts
- 25:52Speaker 5: are evil. So we'll come with great power comes great responsibility.
- 25:56Speaker 2: But also we also don't know these people, Like we
- 25:59Speaker 2: don't know what goes on by closed doors until it's exposed.
- 26:02Speaker 5: You know, we don't know, well, when all this ship
- 26:05Speaker 5: be coming out about celebrities and cheating and all that
- 26:07Speaker 5: ship that's I'm always told you to like I tell
- 26:09Speaker 5: me I.
- 26:10Speaker 4: Like, yo, were like usually we don't give a fuck,
- 26:14Speaker 4: but we only.
- 26:14Speaker 5: Care, like society only cares because it's I don't know,
- 26:19Speaker 5: like it's it's it's it's it's the it's the big mister,
- 26:21Speaker 5: big celebrity in the moment, Like because if this is
- 26:24Speaker 5: a little Keyandre and Cornesia down the street.
- 26:28Speaker 4: Carne, I'm just.
- 26:37Speaker 5: A vacation now, but on some world ship like if
- 26:41Speaker 5: it was you know, if it was the people down
- 26:42Speaker 5: the street shor yeah, nigga wouldn't give a fuck. I mean, granted,
- 26:45Speaker 5: if they was outside, y'all be trying to cut your
- 26:47Speaker 5: grass with fingernail clippers trying to hear what's going on.
- 26:50Speaker 5: I can, But at the same time, it's like, you know,
- 26:53Speaker 5: you be like that's life, Like that's life. But it's like, yo,
- 26:58Speaker 5: niggas wild God, stop stealing from people. Yeah, that's that's
- 27:03Speaker 5: that's the biggest thing right here. Or stop trying to
- 27:05Speaker 5: stop stealing from people and then trying to make them
- 27:08Speaker 5: then try to make them seem like.
- 27:09Speaker 4: They're crazy you fucking with you fucking with their head
- 27:13Speaker 4: and they and they bread and it's like, yo, like.
- 27:16Speaker 2: You know, I had to do.
- 27:23Speaker 5: Real ship show you messing like you in their head.
- 27:26Speaker 5: Then you you fucking wouldn't got these motherfucker thinking that
- 27:28Speaker 5: they're crazy for feeling how they feel all the while
- 27:31Speaker 5: you're doing the ship.
- 27:33Speaker 2: But that's that's catslighting.
- 27:34Speaker 5: And then when you and then now and then when
- 27:37Speaker 5: you out of it, I mean, when you finally wake
- 27:39Speaker 5: up and be like this nigga fucking with me, and
- 27:43Speaker 5: then you ask them, are you fucking with me.
- 27:44Speaker 2: You're fired, Like, so we'll be getting into this episode,
- 27:50Speaker 2: Sean brother. It's the second week of the month, Happy
- 27:55Speaker 2: Happy Wainstein happen and then it's the Q and A episode,
- 28:00Speaker 2: does it not?
- 28:02Speaker 3: So of course I'm busy with more fuckery because that's
- 28:06Speaker 3: what I do. So before we get started, if you
- 28:10Speaker 3: have any questions, comments Vince, topic ideas, a movie review ideas.
- 28:19Speaker 2: They don't have to be TOBR. They could be something else,
- 28:21Speaker 2: but to be it's just absolutely hilarious.
- 28:25Speaker 4: She's just like squirming us all.
- 28:27Speaker 2: What's fun?
- 28:29Speaker 3: Constructive criticism or any feedback or anything else that you
- 28:33Speaker 3: want her here on this head, Parcas. You can reach
- 28:37Speaker 3: us via social media. No, I'm sorry, you can reach
- 28:40Speaker 3: us via email. First, we are asked going to part
- 28:42Speaker 3: at gmail dot com. That is a s k W
- 28:44Speaker 3: A N D A p O D at gmail dot com.
- 28:47Speaker 3: You can also reach us via social media. We are
- 28:51Speaker 3: winding all dancy to podcast on YouTube and Facebook. Don't
- 28:54Speaker 3: forget that Amber saying we are wonder part Underscore on I, I,
- 29:00Speaker 3: G and X and for the time being, the Tikety
- 29:04Speaker 3: Tip because we don't know what the hell ass is
- 29:06Speaker 3: gonna do again.
- 29:08Speaker 2: You know how they took it for a day and
- 29:09Speaker 2: then it came back the next morning.
- 29:11Speaker 4: Scam better off on social media because you don't answer emails.
- 29:17Speaker 3: First of all, bitch, make me sick, old waterhead ass,
- 29:24Speaker 3: and you can reach us on.
- 29:26Speaker 4: Wal You got that girl, You got that girl? Burger
- 29:29Speaker 4: that girl cheeseburger on blue Sky.
- 29:33Speaker 5: No five guys, God damn, I send the five guys.
- 29:36Speaker 5: Couple thought you got that girl.
- 29:37Speaker 3: You interrupted my spill with your ignorant ass. I told
- 29:43Speaker 3: you you are no longer in the class. Well y'all
- 29:46Speaker 3: got to hold hands to go to the launch truck.
- 29:50Speaker 4: If I was in if I was in that class
- 29:53Speaker 4: right next to me, bitch.
- 29:54Speaker 2: Your mammy, oh ship wait, I like her?
- 29:58Speaker 4: My bad.
- 30:02Speaker 2: You know what I'm sitting in.
- 30:03Speaker 3: Anyway, let us know if you want to be anonymous,
- 30:06Speaker 3: if you want to use the suiting them first name,
- 30:10Speaker 3: last initial, or vice versa, or if you don't give
- 30:13Speaker 3: a damn because in the words of Charade Whitfield Circle,
- 30:16Speaker 3: Real Housewives of Atlanta some about ten fifteen years ago,
- 30:20Speaker 3: who watchack you bo see I left out the party about.
- 30:23Speaker 5: The original party, you're not You're not if you're talking
- 30:26Speaker 5: about shut the fuck up, Eric, get.
- 30:31Speaker 2: On my damn nurse shop like that annoying ass little
- 30:34Speaker 2: brother that nobody fucking asked for.
- 30:36Speaker 4: Stop blying to the public.
- 30:37Speaker 3: Shut up, bitch, anyway, you're ready to get into these questions.
- 30:47Speaker 3: We are starting on six brown chicks. Right, I didn't Right,
- 30:52Speaker 3: he's thead go being sassy again.
- 30:56Speaker 2: Day being say, I don't think Sharona stuck.
- 30:58Speaker 3: Want me that time I will talking about you because
- 31:00Speaker 3: I didn't like that deep breath you took.
- 31:02Speaker 2: That was a exaggerated breath. Exaggerate this bitch. God damn
- 31:10Speaker 2: talking ship with the nigga that got controlled. God damn recorder.
- 31:15Speaker 4: Is choked, That's what he said.
- 31:25Speaker 2: I mean.
- 31:31Speaker 4: Like that, and I don't want to miss a thing.
- 31:43Speaker 3: All right, we started those six bro chicks. Okay, independent
- 31:51Speaker 3: truckle from Ohio ship. I came home from the road
- 31:55Speaker 3: a day earlier than my wife expected, so I can
- 31:58Speaker 3: visit my lady friend.
- 31:59Speaker 2: We had a good night.
- 32:01Speaker 3: At five am, I was walking to my rig when
- 32:03Speaker 3: the driver struck me. He knocked me into the air
- 32:06Speaker 3: and I landed on fresh snow. The driver kept going.
- 32:10Speaker 3: I was in pain, but nothing was broken. I didn't
- 32:12Speaker 3: want an ambulance because I would have had to report
- 32:14Speaker 3: the incident and I would would have been out of work.
- 32:18Speaker 3: I returned to my lady friend's house, took some pain pills,
- 32:21Speaker 3: and slept. The next day, I got into my rig
- 32:24Speaker 3: to drive home and I got involved in a minor accident.
- 32:27Speaker 3: Long story short, my brake lines were cut. Police got
- 32:32Speaker 3: involved after this incident. After a pair shop, they found
- 32:35Speaker 3: a tracker on my rig. I suspect my wife knows
- 32:38Speaker 3: that I've been with my lady friend and she's trying.
- 32:41Speaker 2: To delete me.
- 32:44Speaker 3: She's been trying to delete me for months. She is
- 32:47Speaker 3: a money hongry Capricorn. Capricorn is a social path, so
- 32:51Speaker 3: I know she'll in me and not look back.
- 32:55Speaker 5: What to do, alright, First of all, listening to this ship,
- 33:02Speaker 5: like listening to the ship, I thought he was calling
- 33:04Speaker 5: his wife, his lady friend bro and then and then
- 33:07Speaker 5: when he got when he got into the accident, when
- 33:10Speaker 5: the motherfucker hit him, that was his wife to hit
- 33:12Speaker 5: his I thought that I thought his wife was sucking
- 33:15Speaker 5: around on him. And and the person, you know, the
- 33:17Speaker 5: person left out there and left out like crept out
- 33:19Speaker 5: the back door and sped the funk off.
- 33:21Speaker 4: They got damn but you got everything. You're getting everything
- 33:26Speaker 4: that you deserve.
- 33:27Speaker 2: Sir.
- 33:29Speaker 4: You did it, you you you.
- 33:33Speaker 5: Fucked around and found out. You know this bitch trying
- 33:37Speaker 5: to kill you. And you know she's trying to kill
- 33:38Speaker 5: you in the most crucial way that this bitch to
- 33:41Speaker 5: cut your brakes.
- 33:42Speaker 3: She's trying to make it look like an accident. Got
- 33:45Speaker 3: an insurance palacy?
- 33:47Speaker 4: Yeaps trying to get you did get you did?
- 33:52Speaker 6: Uh?
- 33:53Speaker 4: Get you did?
- 33:54Speaker 2: Because you know people was dying. They ain't never died before.
- 33:57Speaker 2: He get That's what mister Brown said, Yo, people ain't
- 34:07Speaker 2: never die before.
- 34:09Speaker 4: No, I can't.
- 34:11Speaker 2: You Are you in danger? Maley?
- 34:15Speaker 4: You are a donkey?
- 34:17Speaker 2: You in danger? Danger?
- 34:19Speaker 5: Will Robertson because nigga, they all said the first sentence,
- 34:23Speaker 5: he stepped out before he got in the car.
- 34:26Speaker 4: Nigga, I landed on soft snow.
- 34:30Speaker 3: You better be lucky if a soft snow his is
- 34:32Speaker 3: landed on. He could have been something words no, but
- 34:38Speaker 3: you know what a brick this?
- 34:40Speaker 5: No, but this goes to show you, This goes to
- 34:41Speaker 5: show you that because he the bread won on here's
- 34:45Speaker 5: he Yeah, think about it. He said he's an independent trucker.
- 34:49Speaker 5: So independent trucker and his wife, his wife probably stay
- 34:52Speaker 5: home wife. So he out here making bread, making all
- 34:55Speaker 5: this money. Now he believes he liked that nigga from
- 34:58Speaker 5: from the front, that one two B movie that you
- 34:59Speaker 5: had a watch, the choke dumb and choked dumb choked
- 35:01Speaker 5: the girlfriend because she was trying to leave.
- 35:04Speaker 4: It's like, yo, you think that's O God.
- 35:08Speaker 5: They're all here and fucking around because because I take
- 35:11Speaker 5: care of everything in this motherfucker.
- 35:15Speaker 4: Well, it ain't worth your life, mister. You fit to
- 35:17Speaker 4: get dead, and it ain't worth your life. Tell you
- 35:23Speaker 4: ain't no pussy worth dying over?
- 35:25Speaker 2: Bro dying in but not over? Mm hmmm, because how
- 35:31Speaker 2: do you die on?
- 35:32Speaker 3: Time?
- 35:32Speaker 2: Put me? Is that the episode title? But not over?
- 35:36Speaker 6: I like that. I like that.
- 35:41Speaker 4: And but not over?
- 35:44Speaker 2: Can you find this?
- 35:46Speaker 4: Can you tell me where?
- 35:47Speaker 6: Oh?
- 35:48Speaker 2: Yeah, do you want me to put it?
- 35:50Speaker 6: Remember that you.
- 35:53Speaker 2: Come? I remember when you were driving and your.
- 36:01Speaker 4: Inland. Yeah it was jam.
- 36:07Speaker 2: Push with my shoulder, I d my fads car where
- 36:16Speaker 2: I go? I can never go far? I think that's just.
- 36:22Speaker 4: So, it's it's so much better than push.
- 36:25Speaker 5: You got to.
- 36:26Speaker 2: Poosh go back of this episode. They came in the
- 36:30Speaker 2: February nineteen called Q and a still here, Yo, it's
- 36:35Speaker 2: the journey.
- 36:37Speaker 5: Jesus is my favorite. Well, I say that ship, I
- 36:40Speaker 5: say that I've seen the Martin clip.
- 36:42Speaker 4: Mad to send that to y'all. I was crying real
- 36:45Speaker 4: doing that. Continue you getting push.
- 36:59Speaker 2: And Banado was the yeah, okay, we're moving along, so
- 37:08Speaker 2: you're gonna die in the story.
- 37:09Speaker 3: Moving it on, we ain't going to the ex reddit thread,
- 37:12Speaker 3: and this question is labeled nicely for work just in
- 37:15Speaker 3: case you're listening to this ship out loud, like, what
- 37:17Speaker 3: did my sisters be doing?
- 37:18Speaker 2: Because she don't give a fuck?
- 37:21Speaker 3: What's the most awkward moment that you've had during seconds?
- 37:26Speaker 2: Didn't you ask this question? I remember? I feel like
- 37:29Speaker 2: we talked about this before office stuff you've done doing sex,
- 37:32Speaker 2: awkward moments we've had. I think we've talked about this before.
- 37:37Speaker 2: I don't know, it's still on my list. It's possible.
- 37:41Speaker 2: It's very possible.
- 37:44Speaker 4: You gotta puss.
- 37:45Speaker 2: I don't remember. Come on now, we might have. But hey,
- 37:49Speaker 2: if y'all listening, y'all answer the damn question in the comments.
- 37:52Speaker 2: Moving on, We're going to the.
- 37:54Speaker 4: Ashole answer in the comments show because I need the laugh.
- 37:58Speaker 2: Yes, I appreciate it. Yes, I need uh.
- 38:04Speaker 4: Chipotle in and napkin.
- 38:08Speaker 6: Him.
- 38:08Speaker 2: Damn Timbotle you did? Oh? Anyway? All right? Am I
- 38:19Speaker 2: an asshole?
- 38:20Speaker 6: Oh?
- 38:20Speaker 2: I'm sorry?
- 38:20Speaker 3: This comes from the ass whole thread on Reddit and
- 38:23Speaker 3: its title was am I the ass over for reminding
- 38:25Speaker 3: my mom that she disappeared.
- 38:26Speaker 4: For six years?
- 38:29Speaker 2: My eighteen?
- 38:31Speaker 3: My eighteen female mom and dad divorced six years ago.
- 38:37Speaker 3: Her new husband didn't want her to see my dad,
- 38:39Speaker 3: and so she let my dad have custody in me
- 38:41Speaker 3: and didn't exercise visitation. She contacted us last month saying
- 38:45Speaker 3: she had divorced him and would like to reconnect. Dad
- 38:49Speaker 3: told me that it was up to me, so I said,
- 38:51Speaker 3: why not. Things have been kind of awkward between us. Obviously,
- 38:55Speaker 3: I've changed a lot since the last time she saw me.
- 38:58Speaker 3: When she came over yesterday, I was reading an offer
- 39:01Speaker 3: from a gentleman. My mom said, you're too young to
- 39:05Speaker 3: be reading those toxic romance books. I just stared at
- 39:08Speaker 3: her and said, I was twelve when you disappeared six
- 39:10Speaker 3: years ago. I'm eighteen now. She sput it for a
- 39:13Speaker 3: moment and then told me there was no need to
- 39:15Speaker 3: use that word. And then she made a mistake and
- 39:18Speaker 3: there's no reason to throw it in her face. Am
- 39:21Speaker 3: I the asshole?
- 39:22Speaker 2: Absolutely?
- 39:23Speaker 4: The fuck?
- 39:24Speaker 2: Why would you be the asshole for reminding her of
- 39:26Speaker 2: what the fuck she did? If you ain't want to
- 39:28Speaker 2: be behind of it, should have did it.
- 39:29Speaker 4: That's my favorite line, Like bitch, where you been? He
- 39:32Speaker 4: was gone?
- 39:33Speaker 2: He was gone for six years, He's gone for a
- 39:34Speaker 2: long time.
- 39:35Speaker 4: I've been reading. I've been reading this since I was eight.
- 39:37Speaker 3: You will come back in those six years later when
- 39:40Speaker 3: I'm a technically legally damn adult and try to parent me.
- 39:45Speaker 2: Bitch, you chose to diggle over me my face.
- 39:48Speaker 4: You don't get. They don't get to do that. I'm
- 39:50Speaker 4: sorry you don't get. You don't get to tell me
- 39:51Speaker 4: what to do, like just like that, you have to
- 39:53Speaker 4: be a parent.
- 39:54Speaker 5: You don't get to make suggestive, suggestive comments like hey,
- 39:58Speaker 5: you don't think you should read that?
- 39:59Speaker 6: Man?
- 39:59Speaker 4: Fuck you, fuck you. I've been reading. I've been reading
- 40:02Speaker 4: smut since I was five, reading was five.
- 40:11Speaker 5: Oh trymad bit, Oh melly mouth, bastard, and shut up, yo,
- 40:18Speaker 5: that's why you got foot, bitch, not a club foot.
- 40:23Speaker 2: Not club foot cole. Okay.
- 40:28Speaker 3: This one comes from the Reddit Tiger's thread, and this
- 40:32Speaker 3: is also in my past.
- 40:33Speaker 4: Whole question shout out the shout out the big b raing.
- 40:37Speaker 3: Mmm, because that's where I got this ship from.
- 40:40Speaker 2: I don't know who that is. Proceed I see, that's
- 40:48Speaker 2: what I get for half listening. Be right, yeah, I
- 40:53Speaker 2: just I'm distracted by this fucking fucking news. Marco Rubio
- 40:57Speaker 2: is in Panadama trying to resume take retake Troy the PANMACA. Sorry, sorry, Like,
- 41:08Speaker 2: what what're you gonna do? Write a letter? We run
- 41:11Speaker 2: it back? What you're gonna hold a sign? Hand it here?
- 41:17Speaker 5: Now you're gonna stand on the Panama Canal panel canal,
- 41:19Speaker 5: hold in the bone box.
- 41:21Speaker 2: Not playing all by myself? Come back. You're gonna let
- 41:26Speaker 2: it all.
- 41:28Speaker 4: But Chinese.
- 41:29Speaker 2: So that's that's who. That's who owns the pan That's
- 41:31Speaker 2: who runs the Panama Canal.
- 41:33Speaker 3: Sir, hell oh am, I asshole for refusing to move
- 41:38Speaker 3: so my gay husband doesn't lose the love.
- 41:41Speaker 2: Of his life. What the fuck perceive question?
- 41:45Speaker 3: I forty two female and married to my husband forty male,
- 41:51Speaker 3: and we have two kids, twelve and nine. My husband
- 41:54Speaker 3: is gay and I've known this since.
- 41:56Speaker 2: The beginning of our relationship.
- 41:59Speaker 3: We've been married for fourteen years, and while I love
- 42:02Speaker 3: him deeply, we've always had an understanding. Did we never
- 42:06Speaker 3: we never be the romantic couple he truly needs.
- 42:10Speaker 4: How the fuck y'all together?
- 42:11Speaker 2: I ask the same question.
- 42:14Speaker 3: He had a long term partner, thirty eight male for
- 42:18Speaker 3: seven years now, who I consider family.
- 42:21Speaker 2: Our kids adore him. The problem started, Uncle Joe.
- 42:28Speaker 3: The problem started when my husband's partner was fired from
- 42:31Speaker 3: his job and lost his H one B visa, which
- 42:35Speaker 3: means he's going to leave the US.
- 42:38Speaker 2: This has been devastating for my husband.
- 42:40Speaker 3: And our kids, who love his partner like a second dad.
- 42:43Speaker 3: The original plan was for us to divorce so that
- 42:46Speaker 3: he couldn't marry, but the immigration process for his nationality
- 42:50Speaker 3: is slow. I'm sorry, it's really slow, brightness, really small, Sorry, y'all.
- 42:57Speaker 3: My husband is terrified of waiting years while his partner
- 43:00Speaker 3: is stuck in another country. Instead, he wants us all
- 43:03Speaker 3: to move to his partner's country together. Now, logistically this
- 43:07Speaker 3: could work. My husband and I both went to undergrad
- 43:11Speaker 3: in that country, so we speak the language and we
- 43:13Speaker 3: could get decent jobs, but the pain in my field
- 43:16Speaker 3: would be significantly lower. The country is also equally conservative
- 43:21Speaker 3: as our home country, and gay marriage isn't legal there.
- 43:26Speaker 3: I have already left one country behind, and I do
- 43:28Speaker 3: not want to upread my life again, nor do I
- 43:30Speaker 3: wish to settle in a third country permanently.
- 43:33Speaker 2: I have built a.
- 43:34Speaker 3: Life here, and while I have been supportive of my
- 43:36Speaker 3: husband and his relationship for years, this is simply too
- 43:39Speaker 3: much to ask. My husband, however, is heartbroken. He argues
- 43:42Speaker 3: that this is about family and that I am refusing
- 43:44Speaker 3: to make a necessary sacrifice for the sake of keeping
- 43:47Speaker 3: our family together.
- 43:48Speaker 2: He is not angry, but I can.
- 43:50Speaker 3: See how deeply this pains him, and our children are
- 43:52Speaker 3: beginning to sense detention. I cannot help but feel like
- 43:56Speaker 3: the villain in this situation, but I also.
- 43:58Speaker 2: Believe I have the right to say no.
- 44:00Speaker 3: Am I then asshole for refusing to uproot my life
- 44:03Speaker 3: so my husband can be with his partner.
- 44:05Speaker 2: If it's not seemingly a marriage convenience. If he wants
- 44:11Speaker 2: to go, let him go. Why you got to go
- 44:12Speaker 2: with right, Because it sounds like to me he wants
- 44:15Speaker 2: to take the children. That's but one that got to
- 44:18Speaker 2: somebody else. You better get on a plane. I mean,
- 44:21Speaker 2: it's not safe nowadays to get on a plane. You
- 44:24Speaker 2: don't want them want to move some move right. Why
- 44:27Speaker 2: why should I have to I'm speaking like, this is me.
- 44:30Speaker 2: Why should I have to uproot my kids from their life,
- 44:32Speaker 2: their school, their friends, their programs to move across the
- 44:35Speaker 2: country to whatever else so you can be with somebody
- 44:38Speaker 2: or whatever, whatever the fuck else you're chasing. Nigga, go move,
- 44:41Speaker 2: Go be with horn Cardinals.
- 44:44Speaker 5: So all right, First of all, all right, I said it,
- 44:47Speaker 5: I said fucking anyway. My thing is Brandon. Brandon is
- 44:52Speaker 5: correct in the fact of if his marriage out a
- 44:55Speaker 5: convenience show, you can go, like bitch, go. But Sean
- 44:59Speaker 5: also said that that it's a very conservative country, So
- 45:03Speaker 5: why would you go over there? Like, why would you
- 45:04Speaker 5: want to go over schol somewhere where you can't you know,
- 45:06Speaker 5: where you can't love freely? Mit, you better wait like
- 45:08Speaker 5: these motherfuckers in ninety day fiance go over there, like Yo,
- 45:11Speaker 5: Michael Michael Angela was together, and you know Michael was
- 45:15Speaker 5: not Jerry Angela was here.
- 45:17Speaker 4: I mean she might even stealing from that nigga.
- 45:19Speaker 2: Discuss, I said it didn't quite work out.
- 45:20Speaker 5: But I'm saying they they look, they made their ship
- 45:23Speaker 5: work until Mike got over here. This the fucking pit
- 45:26Speaker 5: or the other lady who's fucking food fucking with old boy,
- 45:30Speaker 5: like understand that the understand that the immigration process, that
- 45:34Speaker 5: ship might that that ship might run slow. But that's
- 45:36Speaker 5: not your fucking problem, that's theirs. He already knew what
- 45:40Speaker 5: the fuck was going on or what was going to happen.
- 45:42Speaker 5: He knew what could have happened. And you know what
- 45:45Speaker 5: visa you hear on. So if you want, if you're
- 45:48Speaker 5: here on the work visa, you lose your job.
- 45:50Speaker 4: That's on you. Yep, that's on you. I don't got nothing.
- 45:56Speaker 4: I don't got nothing to do with that shit. Fuck
- 45:58Speaker 4: you ain't got nothing to do with me. I love you.
- 46:02Speaker 5: You're a great second father to my children. I'm okay,
- 46:06Speaker 5: Like I'm cool with that, but I'm not root in
- 46:09Speaker 5: my life to go live, go live temporarily because they
- 46:14Speaker 5: said because the process is slow.
- 46:16Speaker 4: So you don't want to be without this nigga for
- 46:20Speaker 4: however long.
- 46:21Speaker 3: And I've been waiting up until you get home because
- 46:23Speaker 3: I can't sleep without your baby.
- 46:25Speaker 4: Bit you feel, but you feel what I'm saying.
- 46:27Speaker 5: It's like it's it's it's stupid, like you you only
- 46:31Speaker 5: want to go over there so you can stay with
- 46:33Speaker 5: him throughout the fucking process just to come right back.
- 46:37Speaker 3: I'm not my life for you, bitch. Fuck it, I'm
- 46:40Speaker 3: not gonna do it. Sorry, noting with the taking. Figure
- 46:44Speaker 3: it out, figure it out.
- 46:46Speaker 4: Don't care my kid, my kids.
- 46:48Speaker 5: Be alright, y'all be alright that ye dad are gonna
- 46:50Speaker 5: get a new Your dad gonna get a new a
- 46:52Speaker 5: new little person.
- 46:53Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 46:54Speaker 3: Maybe all right, you alright, you're find this person. I
- 46:58Speaker 3: I just still don't understand that you married to him,
- 47:01Speaker 3: so basically you're a bigger yep. I mean, the marriages
- 47:05Speaker 3: are an extual. I just literally found out what the
- 47:06Speaker 3: labin the marriage is recently. Really, I didn't know exactly
- 47:11Speaker 3: what I heard term before, but I didn't know exactly
- 47:13Speaker 3: what it was. And then recently I went down a
- 47:15Speaker 3: rabbit hole on TikTok, of course and found out what
- 47:19Speaker 3: it was.
- 47:19Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, okay, it sounds like you
- 47:22Speaker 4: need to go to help and talk yep mm hmm.
- 47:26Speaker 2: Problem. Yeah, I didn't know.
- 47:28Speaker 4: I was like, okay, well, whatever, that's crazy.
- 47:33Speaker 2: That's interesting.
- 47:34Speaker 4: You're not the ass whole baby because you because you
- 47:36Speaker 4: weren't about your life.
- 47:37Speaker 3: You be making less money in the country, your children nine,
- 47:43Speaker 3: he wants to move, let him go. He come back
- 47:45Speaker 3: to visit kids. He's still a citizen, you know what.
- 47:49Speaker 4: And it is visit.
- 47:51Speaker 2: I don't know because he might try to keep the kids.
- 47:53Speaker 4: No kids ain't no fun that My kids not going
- 47:55Speaker 4: to another country. And I'm not dead.
- 47:56Speaker 2: Fuck you take the kids with the daddy, come visit
- 48:00Speaker 2: for the summer. I'm not doing it beachas nigga.
- 48:06Speaker 5: Yep, because you are, because you because it's inconveniencing you.
- 48:11Speaker 5: So you want me inconvinenced myself for you.
- 48:13Speaker 2: As if I ain't done that for all these damn
- 48:15Speaker 2: years in this fucking man, do you.
- 48:18Speaker 3: I hope you gotta sign piece too. I hope he
- 48:20Speaker 3: ain't the only one that got a side peace.
- 48:23Speaker 2: You got one, because but what are you getting out
- 48:26Speaker 2: of this deal?
- 48:27Speaker 4: Making a bread? You know she probably can pay. She
- 48:29Speaker 4: can pay for her penis. Hey, little boy, come on
- 48:33Speaker 4: over here, lest you for the lead? How old you
- 48:38Speaker 4: as twenty two? Come on me, all right, Drea, let
- 48:42Speaker 4: me take you.
- 48:43Speaker 2: Out back to six Grand Chicks.
- 48:47Speaker 3: Lord, I became pregnant by a wealthy married athlete. He
- 48:52Speaker 3: said it would be bad for his brand. If I
- 48:54Speaker 3: were to have his baby. He cried and explained that
- 48:57Speaker 3: he loved me, but he would lose his brand partners
- 49:00Speaker 3: because his money is built on his family man image.
- 49:04Speaker 3: He promised me a house and a hell cat if
- 49:06Speaker 3: I sign the NDA.
- 49:09Speaker 2: The house and chap. You know what a hell care is?
- 49:13Speaker 2: A healthcare a Dodge charger. When I looked up the
- 49:15Speaker 2: health care, that's what came up, sir man, you could
- 49:19Speaker 2: have got to roll out. He could have got a
- 49:21Speaker 2: rose or something. Anyway, he promised me a house and
- 49:25Speaker 2: a hell caare that by sign the NDA and deleted
- 49:29Speaker 2: the pregnancy.
- 49:30Speaker 3: He also promised to leave his unhinged wife. I signed
- 49:34Speaker 3: the n d A, I did what he wanted. Well,
- 49:37Speaker 3: he changed his number and it's been almost a year
- 49:39Speaker 3: and I don't have a house or a car recently,
- 49:42Speaker 3: like a few of my I G pitchures, Please tell
- 49:44Speaker 3: me the truth. Is he coming back to me? Or
- 49:46Speaker 3: did I fumble the ball?
- 49:48Speaker 6: Us? So?
- 49:50Speaker 3: Also, if he's not coming back, can I sue him
- 49:52Speaker 3: for the house and the healthcare he promised. I ate
- 49:55Speaker 3: his ass and sucked his sour tols regularly, So I
- 49:57Speaker 3: deserve something and you just that the mouth some self
- 50:03Speaker 3: esteem and some South words.
- 50:05Speaker 6: That's what you do.
- 50:09Speaker 2: Put your toes in my mouth. I never loved the
- 50:12Speaker 2: nigga enough to suck no tools or eat no ass.
- 50:19Speaker 3: Hmm.
- 50:20Speaker 2: And that's somebody else man. You don't like no ass
- 50:26Speaker 2: brand and I can't do a baby. We've had this conversation.
- 50:30Speaker 2: I been doing friends.
- 50:33Speaker 9: I'm willing to try some things, but that ain't want
- 50:35Speaker 9: to us. She said, I gotta be readly read.
- 50:44Speaker 2: Ain't much in the word.
- 50:50Speaker 8: It was nice, It was all right, but she's okay,
- 50:53Speaker 8: but she said, she said, I'm not cool.
- 51:01Speaker 3: I can't go past as far as I can. That's
- 51:10Speaker 3: a little too And that's that's a little too close
- 51:12Speaker 3: for me.
- 51:12Speaker 2: Right now, do it? Got?
- 51:17Speaker 4: He got was like just a little bit further. That's
- 51:21Speaker 4: a little further.
- 51:22Speaker 2: I punched, right, don't you track. I don't eat no booty.
- 51:30Speaker 2: I don't even eat pig ass. No AnyWho. I'm sure
- 51:39Speaker 2: to know he's not coming back. She's probably looking to
- 51:41Speaker 2: have another day of a fail. That's all you ever
- 51:44Speaker 2: word in him with a.
- 51:45Speaker 3: Fair And you should have got your ship before you
- 51:46Speaker 3: signed anything with your stupid ass. You wanna sign damn
- 51:49Speaker 3: paper and delete his feet is and you ain't got
- 51:51Speaker 3: nothing and a health care says you couldn't get a
- 51:55Speaker 3: range of rose Roys something something.
- 52:00Speaker 4: No, No, oh, I guess I mean that's that's you know,
- 52:05Speaker 4: that's what that's what they like. That would be like
- 52:08Speaker 4: the little bit is like that.
- 52:10Speaker 2: You should have got the writing in the first place
- 52:12Speaker 2: with your stupid ass.
- 52:13Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying, bro, That's what I'm saying.
- 52:14Speaker 3: I thought he was gonna leave his wife for you.
- 52:16Speaker 3: Y'all need to tickle the hell out of me with
- 52:18Speaker 3: this foolishness.
- 52:20Speaker 2: Thinking you special.
- 52:21Speaker 3: You ain't special. He was doing the ship his wife,
- 52:25Speaker 3: don't you. She probably don't eat ass or suck told
- 52:27Speaker 3: even she got a ring.
- 52:29Speaker 4: She doesn't want to you know, she don't want to
- 52:30Speaker 4: have sexy ship. She ain't to be special, I can't.
- 52:36Speaker 2: She don't do the things to me you do to me.
- 52:39Speaker 2: That's what they all say all along.
- 52:41Speaker 3: This lady probably talking and cooking in the damn kitchen
- 52:44Speaker 3: that it got ban.
- 52:45Speaker 2: D Probably not bullshit.
- 52:47Speaker 4: I'm just saying. Usually, Oh, that's what Usually, that's what happens.
- 52:50Speaker 2: Bullshit.
- 52:53Speaker 4: No, no, no, they be wanting something. They be wanting
- 52:55Speaker 4: something like you just you.
- 52:56Speaker 2: Just said it you said something they can dick on
- 52:58Speaker 2: the handstand. Nigga.
- 53:00Speaker 4: You just said you ain't gonna eat no ass, and
- 53:03Speaker 4: he like.
- 53:05Speaker 2: Getting your ass is that important? You I ain't need
- 53:08Speaker 2: ass before you buried me, bitch, you knew that. I'll
- 53:13Speaker 2: let you know anytime. I'm an upfront bitch, sir. If
- 53:17Speaker 2: I look to my.
- 53:18Speaker 3: Left and your ass is too or your legs is
- 53:21Speaker 3: in the air, working the fuck out, walking out.
- 53:26Speaker 4: I don't actually don't want you don't want the Amazon.
- 53:30Speaker 2: Style, nigga? What that sounds like a lot of work.
- 53:35Speaker 2: I got a little bag, I got you. I'm scared
- 53:42Speaker 2: that ass. I don't even know if I want to know,
- 53:45Speaker 2: because it sounds like.
- 53:49Speaker 3: I'm being the bed for two days, taking Moultri and
- 53:52Speaker 3: Tylan though with a heating bed on my back. M
- 53:57Speaker 3: it's not like I need to do some yoga.
- 53:59Speaker 2: Well that's a lot. That's a lot.
- 54:10Speaker 6: So that.
- 54:14Speaker 4: He put his legs up, I'm trying.
- 54:16Speaker 2: To visualize hottest action. That looks painful. My pelvis hurt. Well,
- 54:22Speaker 2: I think I've seen this before. I know there was
- 54:24Speaker 2: the name of it, but I think I've seen that before.
- 54:31Speaker 2: What fun So basically, you got to have the shmak
- 54:36Speaker 2: of a certain size, because basically what they do is
- 54:38Speaker 2: they toss your legs back and then push the dick forward,
- 54:41Speaker 2: and then they hop on with your legs back and
- 54:43Speaker 2: they looks uncomfortable. They bask on top of it while
- 54:46Speaker 2: the legs back. Mm hm my knees, babe, what I've seen.
- 54:54Speaker 2: It also works in reverse cowgirl as well. Next age
- 54:58Speaker 2: of cawgo. So I've done that before.
- 55:02Speaker 4: But what I'm saying you, all you're doing is putting
- 55:04Speaker 4: his legs up.
- 55:04Speaker 2: I don't put you gotta hold the legs back. I
- 55:08Speaker 2: ain't got hold push forward legs up what looks like
- 55:14Speaker 2: put you bounce on the other side of the stock.
- 55:15Speaker 2: I ain't going if I hold your legs if I'm
- 55:19Speaker 2: not going to respect you in the morning. Sorry, respect
- 55:22Speaker 2: not holding. I'm like, Daryl, let me tell you how
- 55:27Speaker 2: this nigga legs in the air like this. He was like,
- 55:33Speaker 2: I'm talking about you in the group chat. I'm just
- 55:35Speaker 2: gonna tell you that now me too. So finally.
- 55:45Speaker 3: I ain't calling him no more nigga eyes rolling back
- 55:49Speaker 3: here he was clawing at my shoulders side I had.
- 55:51Speaker 5: All the time, yo, you know what's crazy? You know
- 55:53Speaker 5: what's crazy that, Like I've talked to I talked to
- 56:00Speaker 5: you know, her old friend Kesha said she used to
- 56:02Speaker 5: deal with her dude and he said he wanted to
- 56:04Speaker 5: be pegged and I was like and I said that.
- 56:06Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, oh, did you? I said,
- 56:08Speaker 4: did you? And she was like no, because I wasn't
- 56:10Speaker 4: able to looking I won't be able to look at him.
- 56:12Speaker 5: Mad to that, like at that, Benet, if I bend
- 56:16Speaker 5: you over, I wouldn't even respect you after that.
- 56:18Speaker 4: Now I'm gonna.
- 56:19Speaker 2: Snaking you on yours. I'm gonna pull your head but
- 56:22Speaker 2: choke you like this.
- 56:24Speaker 6: Where you go.
- 56:26Speaker 3: I'm a dog walking I'm not calling and I'm gonna
- 56:29Speaker 3: change my number of the moth can have something life.
- 56:33Speaker 2: Thank you, I'm not I'm not. I'm not gonna not
- 56:37Speaker 2: want to call you. Thank you back be backing up,
- 56:45Speaker 2: start up. I'm gonna ask you, what's my name? Who
- 56:50Speaker 2: is this sister? You in the busy doing that? You
- 56:54Speaker 2: you money a little too far? So I ship in
- 57:00Speaker 2: the group chat like yo, I didn't.
- 57:04Speaker 4: And that's gonna know what she did.
- 57:07Speaker 3: Let me tell you how I hated nigga. Face down,
- 57:08Speaker 3: ass up, y'all take y'all happy pitchery last night bottimall
- 57:13Speaker 3: on five it was It was a dark and rainy night.
- 57:21Speaker 2: I said, I was opening new things, but I didn't
- 57:24Speaker 2: know that you too would be opening. The birds were
- 57:26Speaker 2: screaming like a bandchee.
- 57:30Speaker 4: Hey sounded like bro. It's like he's not he he
- 57:36Speaker 4: never rating, He never rating.
- 57:37Speaker 7: The show on to see, he asked, and she obliged,
- 57:48Speaker 7: all right.
- 57:50Speaker 4: Cut to that. Nigga said, what is gonna be more time?
- 57:55Speaker 2: Larry staying in with six brown chicken?
- 57:59Speaker 9: Oh my god, snake Sean a wusson the man.
- 58:07Speaker 2: Standing inside of the bed like this.
- 58:12Speaker 4: Then she flying like a kie like job well.
- 58:18Speaker 2: Done, bitch. M hmm, go a warm time, clean yourself up,
- 58:24Speaker 2: bitch being in the group, chat like.
- 58:36Speaker 4: All right, I'm out.
- 58:38Speaker 2: Standing on six brown chicks.
- 58:42Speaker 3: After four kids and two fail marriages, I decided to
- 58:45Speaker 3: date women. I don't like pussy. After what four kids,
- 58:51Speaker 3: four kids and two fail marriages, I decided to date women.
- 58:55Speaker 3: I don't like pussy, but I need a companion, a
- 58:59Speaker 3: rip paying roommate in the babysitting. I knew a stud
- 59:02Speaker 3: can handle that. I met a stud on Facebook dating app.
- 59:07Speaker 3: We met one on a few dates one aqua kiss,
- 59:09Speaker 3: and I moved her in. She didn't press me fantomacy
- 59:13Speaker 3: at all. She helps with my kids and pays her
- 59:15Speaker 3: portion in the rent. I was curious, though, why didn't
- 59:18Speaker 3: she want me? She confessed she doesn't like pussy either.
- 59:22Speaker 3: What she just needed a place to crash for the
- 59:24Speaker 3: winter after her boyfriend dumped her. I mean, so I
- 59:28Speaker 3: was cool living together as fake lesbians. One weekend she
- 59:31Speaker 3: went on the trip she came back to. She came
- 59:35Speaker 3: back two days later with her newborn. I thought she
- 59:37Speaker 3: was just a big girl, but she was pregnant the
- 59:39Speaker 3: whole time.
- 59:41Speaker 10: What.
- 59:42Speaker 3: I'm the only baby mama at my house. I wanted
- 59:44Speaker 3: her around the babysit. Now I'm helping her with her
- 59:46Speaker 3: new baby.
- 59:47Speaker 2: Plus my kids.
- 59:48Speaker 3: I'm not the type to put a newborn out in
- 59:50Speaker 3: the snow, But the fake stud gotta go. She hit
- 59:55Speaker 3: her pregnancy and this crime newborn is disrupted my life.
- 59:59Speaker 3: So I can evict her for this right? If not,
- 1:00:02Speaker 3: how do I get rid of them?
- 1:00:05Speaker 2: Ship? Yeah, you gotta go through the process of sugar.
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: You want her out, but she didn't you. I mean
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: they exchange. Ain't no robbery.
- 1:00:17Speaker 4: I mean, why you just thought she was fat, bitch.
- 1:00:20Speaker 4: You didn't, she didn't hide ship.
- 1:00:23Speaker 2: That's it. You're the next.
- 1:00:26Speaker 5: You used her and she used youse bitch reverse.
- 1:00:32Speaker 4: So that's my question to you dizzy bitches. Why every time.
- 1:00:42Speaker 5: Y'all have failed relationships with men you feel like you
- 1:00:49Speaker 5: can turn to women.
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: I was like, that's what I told her. I told
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: her she was a part time lesbian.
- 1:00:57Speaker 3: I'm like, because when you get the drinking and stuff, baby,
- 1:00:59Speaker 3: you want to be the lusting and rubbing on women
- 1:01:02Speaker 3: and all this other stuff. But you swell up to
- 1:01:03Speaker 3: dawn you don't like girls. But I don't know, they
- 1:01:07Speaker 3: said a drunk tongue. Don't tell no lies, It's all
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: I'm saying.
- 1:01:13Speaker 4: Or spread thighs.
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: No, spreading thighs is the problem.
- 1:01:16Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, it's like, Yo, why why wohn't
- 1:01:19Speaker 4: y'all like why when't you.
- 1:01:20Speaker 5: Fuck up like you know or you you know you
- 1:01:22Speaker 5: have failed relationship with men, you go running to women
- 1:01:26Speaker 5: and you you don't like, you don't.
- 1:01:28Speaker 4: Like pussy women is just as bad. Then on top
- 1:01:33Speaker 4: of that, they move fast as fuck. Y'all go out
- 1:01:37Speaker 4: on the date.
- 1:01:38Speaker 5: Y'all go out on the date on the Saturday Tuesday,
- 1:01:40Speaker 5: y'all goot y'all behind puppies, and then.
- 1:01:42Speaker 4: Wednesday y'all, Thursday, y'all y'all together. Friday is a wedding.
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: Now you're the baby, stood daddy, you're.
- 1:01:50Speaker 4: Talking about only baby. My man in my house is me?
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: Bitch?
- 1:01:53Speaker 5: No, no, no, that's that's your roommate now, bitch y'all
- 1:01:58Speaker 5: full house pretty much, that's what it sounds like to me.
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: Now you want to put out because you don't got
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: your feelings hurt? Well, what your feelings hurt?
- 1:02:06Speaker 7: Fool?
- 1:02:06Speaker 2: You was using her just as munch as she was
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: using you.
- 1:02:09Speaker 5: She feelt like, I mean, but I understand you feel
- 1:02:11Speaker 5: I'm understand you feel like she lied to you. And
- 1:02:13Speaker 5: as my wife will saying, with held information, it's still lying.
- 1:02:15Speaker 5: I mean, omitting something is still lying. However, however, yo,
- 1:02:20Speaker 5: you you you are you are a sizeest honey, because
- 1:02:23Speaker 5: you just thought she was fat.
- 1:02:26Speaker 2: She was with child.
- 1:02:27Speaker 4: I can't, oh, well, not seriously.
- 1:02:32Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's one of you. So you know you
- 1:02:35Speaker 5: got if she got mail coming to the house. Baby,
- 1:02:37Speaker 5: you gotta you gotta go through the whole viction process
- 1:02:40Speaker 5: and don't do that to them kids.
- 1:02:46Speaker 2: Them kids, them kids is her kids. She only got
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: the newborn the fix.
- 1:02:50Speaker 4: Does you know what I'm saying. It's like, yo, yeah,
- 1:02:56Speaker 4: then both of y'all bentually don't like pussy, So I'm sorry.
- 1:02:58Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
- 1:02:59Speaker 5: So once once y'all had that that come to Jesus
- 1:03:01Speaker 5: moment and you, y'all, y'all, and you decided to just
- 1:03:06Speaker 5: live to live as roommates from the from that point on,
- 1:03:10Speaker 5: when when y'all both admitted to each other that y'all,
- 1:03:13Speaker 5: you know.
- 1:03:13Speaker 4: Y'all don't like you know, y'all don't y'all not lesbians,
- 1:03:16Speaker 4: y'all wanted to get you accepted it. Sorry, you accept
- 1:03:21Speaker 4: You accepted her like you accepted her and her.
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: I don't understand. I'm not understanding.
- 1:03:28Speaker 5: Because you you wanted a babysitter. You still you still
- 1:03:31Speaker 5: got that babysitter now you but you got a babysit.
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: Well more, we are going to the too hot takes
- 1:03:39Speaker 3: thread on ready, That's like I said, And this question is, well,
- 1:03:46Speaker 3: it's more so somebody who said that they need advice,
- 1:03:49Speaker 3: and the title of it is my brother in law
- 1:03:51Speaker 3: confessed feelings for me as I went wedding dress shopping
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: with his fiance. Okay, this just happened today, and I'm
- 1:04:01Speaker 3: using to throw away because I promote my small business
- 1:04:03Speaker 3: on my main and I want to be anonymous with this. Okay,
- 1:04:07Speaker 3: I'm pretty overwhelmed, so I'll start with some background. I
- 1:04:11Speaker 3: have been with my husband for five years. We've been
- 1:04:13Speaker 3: married for two. Since early on in our relationship, I've
- 1:04:16Speaker 3: been great friends with his older brother, partially because I
- 1:04:19Speaker 3: always wanted the older brother.
- 1:04:21Speaker 4: Oh.
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: When he started dating a.
- 1:04:23Speaker 3: Girl about two years ago, I went out of my
- 1:04:24Speaker 3: way to make sure she knew she had a friend
- 1:04:26Speaker 3: in me if she wanted since we're the only girls
- 1:04:29Speaker 3: in the family. We're great friends now, and since they
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: got engaged three months ago, I have been helping with
- 1:04:35Speaker 3: wedding planning and was asked to be a bridesmaid. Okay,
- 1:04:39Speaker 3: we went dress shopping today and had a blast. We
- 1:04:41Speaker 3: went to brush excuse me, I had some mimosas, found
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: the dress and went back to their house to celebrate.
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: I ended up alone in the kitchen with my brother
- 1:04:50Speaker 2: in law a bit.
- 1:04:52Speaker 3: Asked of being there, and he said he just had
- 1:04:55Speaker 3: to tell me something because it has been eating away
- 1:04:57Speaker 3: at him. I was a little buzz confused, but read
- 1:05:01Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but was not at all expecting him to
- 1:05:05Speaker 3: say what he did. I think I've had feeling to
- 1:05:08Speaker 3: be you for a few years and I've never been
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: able to tell you, and just needed to know if
- 1:05:12Speaker 3: you ever felt the same.
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: I completely froze and just shook my head.
- 1:05:18Speaker 3: I told him that no, I have never thought of
- 1:05:20Speaker 3: him in any way other than a friend and a brother,
- 1:05:22Speaker 3: and I never would. Before he can say anything else,
- 1:05:25Speaker 3: I bolted back to his fiance and the other girls
- 1:05:27Speaker 3: there and very discreetly told her that my cycle had
- 1:05:30Speaker 3: came and I wasn't feeling well and would have someone
- 1:05:33Speaker 3: come get me and then come by soon for more
- 1:05:37Speaker 3: wedding planning. She thow nothing another end. I called my
- 1:05:40Speaker 3: best friend to come get me. She dropped me off home.
- 1:05:43Speaker 3: My husband is working right now, and there is no
- 1:05:45Speaker 3: question that I'm going to tell him as soon as
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: he gets home. But I just have no idea where
- 1:05:50Speaker 3: to go from there. Do I tell his fiance? Do
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: I make him tell her?
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: Do I leave it?
- 1:05:55Speaker 3: Do I have my husband talk to him? Has anyone
- 1:05:58Speaker 3: ever had something like this happened, or have any advice?
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: Anything is appreciated. That's a tough one.
- 1:06:07Speaker 4: No, tell your husband.
- 1:06:09Speaker 3: That's a tough one because with the fact that this
- 1:06:12Speaker 3: is not like just a front of somebody, like this.
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: Is his blood brother.
- 1:06:16Speaker 3: Tell your husband and he can deny it, so it'll
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: be your word against he. He can deny it, change
- 1:06:22Speaker 3: and it being like oh I ain't never say that,
- 1:06:24Speaker 3: or she came at me or anything. That's a that's
- 1:06:27Speaker 3: a tough one.
- 1:06:27Speaker 2: One thing you can do to play it to try.
- 1:06:29Speaker 2: If you're not sure you could get him, you could
- 1:06:32Speaker 2: always go to him and follow up and maybe to
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: have your phone just like on one and like recording
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: but turn face down. But like I just want to know,
- 1:06:41Speaker 2: but you're not using it in legal court. You can
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: use that in case the husband says, oh my brother
- 1:06:46Speaker 2: says you line, Oh yeah, I'm lining, but I record this.
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: I mean that's or just call your husband and had
- 1:06:50Speaker 2: more on the phone than he. I know, right, But
- 1:06:54Speaker 2: that's a dangerous that's dangerous. I would protect yourself first
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: and foremo first. Dangerous like speaking you know this the
- 1:07:04Speaker 2: other day I set up like man, man, that's what
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: that's dangerous.
- 1:07:08Speaker 5: But speaking speaking as speaking as the resident married man,
- 1:07:11Speaker 5: tell your husband, like keep your husband a breast of
- 1:07:14Speaker 5: the situation. So you know, so sold nothing. So you
- 1:07:18Speaker 5: stay in front of that ship because anything can happen.
- 1:07:21Speaker 5: Like anything can happen. They can switch it on. They
- 1:07:22Speaker 5: can switch it on. He can switch it around on you.
- 1:07:24Speaker 5: If he get caught with them, he get caught by
- 1:07:26Speaker 5: the fiance. Like that means that that makes lying blase bla.
- 1:07:31Speaker 5: So it's like, yo, tell you tell your husband, let
- 1:07:33Speaker 5: your husband know, and with Brandon and with Brandon and
- 1:07:36Speaker 5: Shauna saying if you gotta if you gotta record that ship,
- 1:07:39Speaker 5: then you know, by all means do that ship, but
- 1:07:43Speaker 5: like let that like let your husband know, and you know,
- 1:07:46Speaker 5: so he can handle his brother. You know he can
- 1:07:48Speaker 5: handle his brother because you're you're about to put yourself.
- 1:07:51Speaker 5: You know, you already in the world of trouble all
- 1:07:53Speaker 5: this time, you got.
- 1:07:54Speaker 2: A whole fiance.
- 1:07:55Speaker 3: I've been married to your brother but two years, been
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: with him for five years, and now you got a fiance.
- 1:08:01Speaker 2: You're playing the wedding and you say some ship like
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: this to me, that's crazy. That is crazy.
- 1:08:06Speaker 5: Also not worth it, you know, like and his like
- 1:08:09Speaker 5: in that aspect of tell your husband, and then you
- 1:08:12Speaker 5: stopped going around because that meuse you feel uncomfortable. Yeah,
- 1:08:16Speaker 5: that shit, that should make you feel uncomfortable. Man, You
- 1:08:19Speaker 5: also putting yourself on.
- 1:08:20Speaker 3: The wedding like that's a lie, and that's a lot
- 1:08:24Speaker 3: you'd got close with the fiance, Like, that's a lot.
- 1:08:29Speaker 2: That's gonna be a messy situation.
- 1:08:30Speaker 3: Neither do anyway, go for real, for real, because if
- 1:08:34Speaker 3: you just stopped coming around and people gonna start asking
- 1:08:36Speaker 3: questions and he if you don't say anything to your
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: husband first and then you back out of the wedding,
- 1:08:42Speaker 3: or you stop coming around and she start asking questions,
- 1:08:45Speaker 3: she's probably gonna go to her husband for her fiance first.
- 1:08:48Speaker 3: And he spend that narrative and say, oh, well, I
- 1:08:51Speaker 3: didn't want to say anything to you because I knew you.
- 1:08:52Speaker 3: Guys said became good friends.
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: But you know she came on to me.
- 1:08:55Speaker 3: But who do you think she gonna believe? She gonna
- 1:08:57Speaker 3: believe the man? Is she about to pledge her like
- 1:08:58Speaker 3: to over his sister in little you know? Geah, we friends,
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: but I know you threw him. You know, it's a
- 1:09:04Speaker 3: mess either way. I always I was in a similar situation.
- 1:09:11Speaker 3: I was in a similar situation. The girl wasn't my
- 1:09:13Speaker 3: friend or anything like that. But the dude tried to
- 1:09:16Speaker 3: come on to me. I knew of his girlfriend, and
- 1:09:21Speaker 3: the girl tried to come the guy tried to come
- 1:09:22Speaker 3: on to me or whatever and.
- 1:09:25Speaker 4: Be hell, you're back, shut up, bitch. And we had a.
- 1:09:31Speaker 3: Me and the girlfriend had a mutual friend, and I
- 1:09:32Speaker 3: said something to the mutual friend, and a mutual friend
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: ended up saying something to the girlfriend. When I tell you,
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: this guy went off like he made her call a friend,
- 1:09:39Speaker 3: and I happened to be with the friend and he
- 1:09:42Speaker 3: was on the phone calling us all kinds of bitches,
- 1:09:45Speaker 3: and we was jealous and thissioss and this, and guess
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: what the girlfriend went for stopped talking to my friend,
- 1:09:51Speaker 3: and everything went forward, and everything, of course ended up
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: coming out later on with somebody else, and she was
- 1:09:57Speaker 3: looking to karat crazy, but at the.
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: Time she won't believe that she she was in love
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: with the nigga though.
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
- 1:10:04Speaker 2: So this can go any kind of way, I'm telling you,
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: and not a lot of times. Chicken. Now, youybody don't.
- 1:10:09Speaker 3: Believe in chicks for dicks or bros before hose.
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: Anybody don't believe in that.
- 1:10:14Speaker 3: So hey, I mean, cover your ass, always cover your
- 1:10:22Speaker 3: I do agree you should tell your husband, but just
- 1:10:24Speaker 3: be prepared for that could possibly go, you know, and
- 1:10:29Speaker 3: then you just make a decision from there how to
- 1:10:33Speaker 3: handle it.
- 1:10:33Speaker 2: But also, like I said, you could always go back
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: on the back end and record the conversation to have
- 1:10:37Speaker 2: in your back pocket. So if you're telling me, can
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: call your husband and you have your phone flipped over
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: so you're just like you're sitting there just having a conversation.
- 1:10:45Speaker 3: Or call him and have a conversation with him and
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: have your husband sitting right there. Well, like, what was
- 1:10:50Speaker 3: that that you said? Like, I just felt really uncomfortable
- 1:10:53Speaker 3: with what you.
- 1:10:53Speaker 4: Said to me.
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: Why would you say that to me? How long you
- 1:10:55Speaker 2: been feeling like this? Blah blah blah blah, Just to
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: see what he's gonna say. Always, he may think it's
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: a setup and be like I never said that. He
- 1:11:02Speaker 2: may not even think about it though he may think
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: like if especially if you approach your like, hey, I
- 1:11:05Speaker 2: just wanted to talk about what we talked about them, Like,
- 1:11:08Speaker 2: I just want.
- 1:11:08Speaker 3: To get it better on yourself, because he can very
- 1:11:10Speaker 3: well else say you were drunk, you miss hurt, niggas
- 1:11:13Speaker 3: just stupid. I was just saying I valued our friend,
- 1:11:15Speaker 3: our relationship.
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: You know, motherfuckers would do that.
- 1:11:18Speaker 3: You donna make it And now you said it like
- 1:11:20Speaker 3: maybe I did him wrong. You know what I'm saying, Like,
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: it's a lot of ways that can go sweet, but
- 1:11:27Speaker 3: I think you should go with your first mind, tell
- 1:11:28Speaker 3: your husband.
- 1:11:29Speaker 2: And then go for them.
- 1:11:30Speaker 4: Niggas is stupid that said.
- 1:11:33Speaker 3: And then if the fiance do believe him and she
- 1:11:35Speaker 3: decided to leave him, he could try to He might
- 1:11:37Speaker 3: want to blame it on you. You ruin my relationship, No, bitch,
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: you ruined your relationship. You know it's it's it's it's
- 1:11:43Speaker 3: a lot of ways. All right, We're gonna move on.
- 1:11:46Speaker 3: Chair were going to the m O asshole three. The
- 1:11:51Speaker 3: title of this is am I the asshole for telling
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: my fiance that her sister can't come to our wedding.
- 1:11:56Speaker 3: My girlfriend thirty two female and I twenty eight female,
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: have been together for five years. This year we recently
- 1:12:03Speaker 3: got engaged. During the planning, we were talking about whose name.
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: We would take. Excuse me.
- 1:12:08Speaker 3: We decided to take my name as it would be
- 1:12:11Speaker 3: nice to keep my family lying going. When my fiance
- 1:12:14Speaker 3: told her family, her mom was happy for her and
- 1:12:17Speaker 3: thought it was a nice idea, but her sister, Lucy
- 1:12:20Speaker 3: was extremely rude. She said she didn't understand why my
- 1:12:24Speaker 3: fiance would take my name, and she is the more
- 1:12:27Speaker 3: masculine out of our relationship, and that is not usually
- 1:12:31Speaker 3: how it's done. My fiance said, it's a gay wedding,
- 1:12:36Speaker 3: it doesn't have to be traditional. Lucy didn't say that
- 1:12:41Speaker 3: wasn't the reason she didn't want her to take my name.
- 1:12:44Speaker 3: When my fiance asked, y Lucy said, I just don't
- 1:12:47Speaker 3: like her. My fiance got upset and told her we
- 1:12:50Speaker 3: don't like her spouse. When my fiance asked, y Lucy
- 1:12:53Speaker 3: said I don't like her, my fiance got upset and
- 1:12:56Speaker 3: told her we didn't like her spouse because he's not
- 1:12:58Speaker 3: a good person and he's extremely rude, but that we
- 1:13:01Speaker 3: put up with him because they are married. My fiance
- 1:13:04Speaker 3: told me all this when I got home. I was
- 1:13:07Speaker 3: really angry at first because I don't understand how she
- 1:13:11Speaker 3: can be so blankly rude and ignorant.
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: But now I feel.
- 1:13:13Speaker 3: Uncomfortable someone coming to celebrate us on our wedding day
- 1:13:18Speaker 3: that clearly doesn't support it. For background, she has not
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: liked me since my fiance and I started dating, and
- 1:13:25Speaker 3: I cannot understand why she really only comes over when
- 1:13:28Speaker 3: she knows I won't be there, So am I then
- 1:13:31Speaker 3: asshole nobody?
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: Why don't you want somebody there that don't support you?
- 1:13:36Speaker 10: For?
- 1:13:36Speaker 3: Why weddings are supposed to be about surrounding yourself with
- 1:13:41Speaker 3: the love of those who care about you and the
- 1:13:46Speaker 3: person that you are marrying, or people who are there
- 1:13:48Speaker 3: to wish you well, who want to see you thrive,
- 1:13:50Speaker 3: who want to see you grow, who want to.
- 1:13:52Speaker 2: See your marriage last. It makes absolutely no sense.
- 1:13:56Speaker 3: Rather than your mother, father, grandfather, aunt, uncle, the parakeet,
- 1:14:01Speaker 3: the dog, the cat.
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: I don't give a damn who it is.
- 1:14:04Speaker 3: If you are going to cause havoc at my wedding
- 1:14:07Speaker 3: or you don't support my relationship.
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: Do what you need to be here for. This is
- 1:14:11Speaker 2: something that I've kind of as a totally single and
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: un involved person, have thought about if if, hopefully it happens,
- 1:14:21Speaker 2: But when I get married, who I would invite would too?
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: Who would honestly like get an invitation that will know
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: I mean, I love you, but I don't accept the
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: fact that you are marrying something like your your wedding
- 1:14:38Speaker 2: is about you and your life with the person you
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: choose to wed the thought your wedding is supposed to
- 1:14:46Speaker 2: be about celebrating your life with somebody and celebrating the
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: joining the two people into a union and then starting
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: your life together with that person. And unfortunately this isn't
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: something specific to gay couples left being couples. But sometimes
- 1:15:01Speaker 2: there will be people to say, I don't agree with this,
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: I don't like this, and I can't support you in
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: this for whatever reason. They're entitled to that, but you're
- 1:15:10Speaker 2: also entitled to just invite them and then not deal
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: with them after that, because you don't want people at
- 1:15:16Speaker 2: your wedding or involved in your ceremonies that are gonna
- 1:15:19Speaker 2: take the focus away from you and your person because
- 1:15:22Speaker 2: they feel a type of some type of way or
- 1:15:23Speaker 2: something that doesn't really involve them. Yep, but so you're
- 1:15:27Speaker 2: not the asshole, doesn't affect them all. People are entitled
- 1:15:32Speaker 2: to their opinions, but you are also entitled to your
- 1:15:35Speaker 2: opinion and your feelings about everything.
- 1:15:40Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, it's just I mean, but it's just bad.
- 1:15:45Speaker 5: Like it's bad, like it don't ever feel don't ever
- 1:15:48Speaker 5: feel bad for those that don't.
- 1:15:50Speaker 2: Put yourself first.
- 1:15:51Speaker 4: Yeah, for those that don't. For those that don't want
- 1:15:53Speaker 4: to come, that's on them, you know.
- 1:15:56Speaker 5: Like I mean, like Brandon said, if you know, if
- 1:15:58Speaker 5: I extend the invitation to you and you give it back,
- 1:16:01Speaker 5: and you give it back to me, and you tell
- 1:16:02Speaker 5: me that, you know, you tell me that you don't
- 1:16:04Speaker 5: support them, you don't support my gearing, and you don't
- 1:16:05Speaker 5: support anything about my wedding, that's fine, you know, that's
- 1:16:08Speaker 5: fine with me. That's probably you know, But that that, uh,
- 1:16:12Speaker 5: you're dead to me after that, So you know what
- 1:16:14Speaker 5: I'm saying. So at that point, it's like I know,
- 1:16:17Speaker 5: I know, you know you won't be part of and
- 1:16:19Speaker 5: you won't be part of nothing else because I don't.
- 1:16:22Speaker 5: I mean, also also exercise the fact that I don't
- 1:16:25Speaker 5: have to invite you, Like I don't have to invite you,
- 1:16:29Speaker 5: But a lot of people that.
- 1:16:31Speaker 3: I'm related to, who if I have a wedding or
- 1:16:35Speaker 3: some kind of event or something that I wouldn't invite
- 1:16:37Speaker 3: them to because for what, you don't invite me to shit.
- 1:16:39Speaker 3: First of all, that's one, and for two, I don't
- 1:16:42Speaker 3: want your negative energy around me. I have a lot
- 1:16:44Speaker 3: of people I wouldn't invite this stuff. I you know,
- 1:16:46Speaker 3: I'm planning to give myself a forty your birthday parday.
- 1:16:49Speaker 3: I got a list of folk who ain't invited. Don't
- 1:16:51Speaker 3: even look my way. No, you can't come, but everybody
- 1:16:55Speaker 3: can't be involved.
- 1:16:57Speaker 2: And it's it's sobering to realize that that people won't
- 1:17:04Speaker 2: show up for you the way that you show up
- 1:17:06Speaker 2: for them, in the way that you That's why I stopped.
- 1:17:07Speaker 3: Showing up for certain stuff for certain people, like especially
- 1:17:10Speaker 3: I learned that lesson when Trey was smaller and I
- 1:17:13Speaker 3: would give trade birthday parties or get you know, take
- 1:17:16Speaker 3: them out to places, and when I would invite certain
- 1:17:18Speaker 3: people and they would never show up, so I stopped
- 1:17:19Speaker 3: inviting them. And then when I'm at the all day
- 1:17:21Speaker 3: to they ask me, oh my god, was like, I
- 1:17:22Speaker 3: posted the pictures online. I'm my god, why you ain't
- 1:17:24Speaker 3: tell us for what? But you ain't showed up in
- 1:17:27Speaker 3: the first five.
- 1:17:27Speaker 2: Years of his damn life.
- 1:17:28Speaker 3: The firk, I'm gonna keep inviting you this stuff for
- 1:17:30Speaker 3: and especially the kind of stuff that you gotta pay
- 1:17:32Speaker 3: for him and time, and I hot to count your
- 1:17:33Speaker 3: kids in because you told me.
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: They was coming, and then you don't show up, don't
- 1:17:36Speaker 2: call and say we gonna make it.
- 1:17:37Speaker 7: Don't send a text message pigeon that if you notice.
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: That's why you never see any of my cousins at
- 1:17:43Speaker 2: my birthday brunches of functions, of parties and thinners I've
- 1:17:46Speaker 2: had because there have been times where I've invited them
- 1:17:48Speaker 2: to stuff and they'll say they're coming but then don't
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: show up.
- 1:17:52Speaker 6: Uh.
- 1:17:52Speaker 4: But I even text like, Yo, my bad, this.
- 1:17:56Speaker 2: Wants sorry, I'm not feeling it. I don't feel like
- 1:17:59Speaker 2: I can't come down, I'm tired, or something came up.
- 1:18:01Speaker 2: And it was the same excuse every single meening. So
- 1:18:05Speaker 2: and even it was funny to me actually when they
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: asked me this past December, when about my birthday plans,
- 1:18:10Speaker 2: because you know, my one cousin's birthday is her birthday
- 1:18:13Speaker 2: is four days after my, so they usually do stuff
- 1:18:16Speaker 2: here in Baltimore. They go out, they go bar hopping, brunching, dinner,
- 1:18:19Speaker 2: and I'll get an invite to that. But when it
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: comes time to do stuff for my birthday the weekend
- 1:18:24Speaker 2: prior or immediately before, that is so fun Nobody nobody comes.
- 1:18:29Speaker 2: And I said it when my one cousin asked me,
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: she said, bring it, you know, off your birthday. I said, well,
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: what's the point of telling y'all y'all not coming like
- 1:18:38Speaker 2: y're not gonna come just like that. So just like
- 1:18:41Speaker 2: I tell y'all about the plans and extending, y'all have
- 1:18:44Speaker 2: never shown up, So why keep extending the invitations? Love,
- 1:18:46Speaker 2: it's so funny, you have to make peace. It's a
- 1:18:50Speaker 2: This is a sober and a sober reality about getting older,
- 1:18:55Speaker 2: especially you know. The running joke in my family, amongst
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: my mother and her siblings is we have a family
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: that only shows up for each other for when to
- 1:19:02Speaker 2: funerals yep and Chris, Christmas and Thanksgiving, than the baby showers. No,
- 1:19:08Speaker 2: they don't do baby showers. The don't show for that anyway.
- 1:19:12Speaker 2: All right, this be a final question, y'all.
- 1:19:14Speaker 3: Let me swing on over back on the six rund Chicks,
- 1:19:20Speaker 3: cause it's funic. The weekend before my birthday, my best
- 1:19:24Speaker 3: friend took me to an underground sex club.
- 1:19:25Speaker 4: What the fuck?
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: A dancer drugged me and stole my fourteen thousand dollars diamond.
- 1:19:30Speaker 3: Grow out my mouth. I know, y'all, little rock walkings
- 1:19:34Speaker 3: all play games win stuper prizes. I found the stripper
- 1:19:40Speaker 3: and she confessed that my best. He paid her to
- 1:19:42Speaker 3: drug me so that he can still and pawn my grills.
- 1:19:45Speaker 3: I hit him up for my grills. He responded by
- 1:19:48Speaker 3: sending picts of me passed out with the neket stripper
- 1:19:50Speaker 3: in my lap. In the group text that included my fiance,
- 1:19:54Speaker 3: he texted, I ain't take your teeth son, you took
- 1:19:58Speaker 3: him out to eat her cat. Engagement is canceled. I
- 1:20:03Speaker 3: grew up with this man when I was homeless two
- 1:20:05Speaker 3: years ago. I moved in with him and hunched his
- 1:20:07Speaker 3: mom until I got engaged. He said, his mom used
- 1:20:10Speaker 3: to cry about me whatever. But for this man to
- 1:20:13Speaker 3: pawn my teeth before my birthday? How low can you
- 1:20:16Speaker 3: go from here? A shootout or do our hunch and
- 1:20:18Speaker 3: dump his mom again? Advice sir, So you ain't tell
- 1:20:23Speaker 3: the whole story. You ain't say that that man that
- 1:20:26Speaker 3: you can stay with him when he was homeless and
- 1:20:28Speaker 3: you was hunching on his mama and you broke her heart.
- 1:20:31Speaker 2: So whatever he did to you after that was your fault.
- 1:20:34Speaker 5: Wait wait talking about come on, come on, come on,
- 1:20:36Speaker 5: come on, come on, a little bit of sympathy because
- 1:20:38Speaker 5: he had to fuck for why because he had to
- 1:20:39Speaker 5: fuck for a place to stay.
- 1:20:41Speaker 4: Please that homeless so.
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: Your friend let you come stack. You ain't had to
- 1:20:47Speaker 2: hunt you on his mama.
- 1:20:48Speaker 4: He had to earn his keeping.
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: Ad shaw, Aaron, go to hell today.
- 1:20:54Speaker 4: I'm just saying, go to hell.
- 1:20:56Speaker 2: You betrayed him first man.
- 1:20:57Speaker 3: They cost you fourteen thousand dollars and gold teeth and
- 1:21:01Speaker 3: your fiance.
- 1:21:02Speaker 4: Sorry, sir, I'm gonna say, stay here for free. Nigga.
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: You got heard this.
- 1:21:10Speaker 4: Walking on to that like my guess, oh my bad.
- 1:21:16Speaker 4: Grace Jones, m.
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: Hm, teddy swinging little le cherry y'all. He said you
- 1:21:22Speaker 2: that's what she said. Ms. Grace was playing with you
- 1:21:25Speaker 2: covered down to her moon move tell us something. I
- 1:21:28Speaker 2: know you see the same thing. It Ain't that what
- 1:21:30Speaker 2: a young boys say? Ain't there with the wayans say,
- 1:21:34Speaker 2: what's what's? What's the young nephew? But that's what I mean, nephew.
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: You got a lot of Wiians what they call son
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: young nephews, all of them young. Yeah, this is my
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: wyan right here, Auntie Grace. Why is you calling me
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: a why? Because they're staying for your nephew, ain't it?
- 1:21:53Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: Ain't that what y'all saying?
- 1:21:55Speaker 5: Same time they told they said what I told you
- 1:21:58Speaker 5: that they said white man worship and praise.
- 1:22:06Speaker 4: Is that a show?
- 1:22:08Speaker 2: Please tell that? Yeah, because I'm ready to get ready
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: for this. Why worship and praise? Ain't that what that
- 1:22:18Speaker 2: stand for? We going to that new OP service down
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: at the church. You know before before before you know,
- 1:22:23Speaker 2: a Bible study. You know that the deacon praise God
- 1:22:28Speaker 2: is I.
- 1:22:29Speaker 3: Can't feel the President Lord, and now I'm going to
- 1:22:33Speaker 3: give my place.
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: Deacon Jones is a revolutionary pastor that stays up with
- 1:22:41Speaker 2: the times that he came up with. Why in you know,
- 1:22:49Speaker 2: you know he came up with this new service called
- 1:22:51Speaker 2: the WOP Service, and it's revolutionizing to turnout of all
- 1:22:55Speaker 2: the people, so many people. We never just fall down
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: to my knees, raise my hands and open my mouth.
- 1:23:02Speaker 2: Why for some? Why love? We love hallelujah?
- 1:23:08Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, Pastor Jones, why n is up there?
- 1:23:12Speaker 3: You know he didn't went to ministry the ministry. Yes, yes, yes,
- 1:23:21Speaker 3: he good at what he does.
- 1:23:22Speaker 2: He said it was the cream. That's what he told him.
- 1:23:25Speaker 2: If you have any questions, he said, my way to
- 1:23:28Speaker 2: ask one part dot com that's we do love you
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: won't pass them to the praise the Lord I asked
- 1:23:38Speaker 2: one of the part of gmail dot com that is
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: a s k W A D A p O D
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: g mo dot com. You can find us all over
- 1:23:44Speaker 2: the internet, and I'm getting out on more fucking breath.
- 1:23:46Speaker 2: That's a lie. You can find us on x X,
- 1:23:53Speaker 2: Instagram and TikTok and wanted upon underscore, Facebook and YouTube
- 1:23:56Speaker 2: that wanted on that seat the podcast and on blue
- 1:23:58Speaker 2: Sky at wonder Pard crap, you know you got the
- 1:24:04Speaker 2: asthma last week? I was on the one because I
- 1:24:08Speaker 2: could get shut off.
- 1:24:09Speaker 10: Like I said, Brad, it wasn't it, God, damn it,
- 1:24:18Speaker 10: I haven't edited. By the time y'all had this, it
- 1:24:20Speaker 10: will be all right.
- 1:24:21Speaker 2: But by the moment a quick, I haven't got haven
- 1:24:24Speaker 2: edited the last week's episode joke, So I don't know
- 1:24:26Speaker 2: if I would have left kept it. I might have
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: known me. But we don't let the show go here,
- 1:24:32Speaker 2: y'all be easy to be said, We love y'all. What's
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: talking y'all? Next week? Praise the Lord. We got to
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: go to the waer. We fall down and why gets up?
- 1:24:46Speaker 6: Bro?
- 1:24:47Speaker 4: You fell down? We're past them.
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: Lord, I'm running. I'm trying to make one hundred because
- 1:25:00Speaker 2: have won, said Praise Amen, sense never want to be
- 1:25:08Speaker 2: with our whole. Would have little brother by probably