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ALITTLE "Q" AND "A" WITH MIA AND EVIE - LISTENERS WANT TO KNOW! · CALL ME MISTRESS

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Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today we've got with me Edie
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Boleyn. You know, you got to spice it up
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a little bit. OK, let me fix that.
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Hello darling, you went old Hollywood on me.
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No, I can't do a transit linen accent.
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What was that? I don't know, but live always
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does The British accent which is fucking hilarious.
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I love her. Yeah.
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Yeah. So.
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What are we talking about today? Yeah.
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Oh my God, Evie, we're doing so much talking today, so.
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Much. So we always have really cool
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things from different people that write in.
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And I will say that there was a gentleman and he wrote me a nice
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little comment on a picture. I think it was on Fetlife, but I
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had posted that we're in 190 countries and that we were
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number one out of all these sexual BDSM type podcasts.
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All sexual podcasts I should say.
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Not specifically just BDSM. Anyway, this gentleman is a sub
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for you now 79, he said. Wow, that is such a huge
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accomplishment. I've been a long time listener
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of your podcast. You've helped me so much in
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learning how to get back into being a good submissive after
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being out of the scene for so long.
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Thank you. And that's sweet.
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Yes, yeah. So sub for you now.
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You're awesome. I think that's that's so sweet.
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But but yeah, we were #2 in feed spot of call me mistress of, of
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podcasts that are specific to BDSM on that one.
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OK, but some just some different ones in general.
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And I was like, wow, you know, we're right up there with, you
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know, call her daddy. I love call her daddy.
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You know, I think Alice Cooper's really cool is, yeah, it's Alex,
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but I, her voice to me is kind of annoying.
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They need to be ugly. It's just a little.
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Bit it's a little bit, a little bit, a little bit much for for
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my ears. But, you know, I was a vocal
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major in school and I'm really sensitive to hearing different
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sounds. Yeah, I sing in like, let's see,
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4-5 languages, I think. Yeah.
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Guys, Mia doesn't know it right now, but she's going to teach me
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how to sing, and then one day I'm going to have a voice like
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an Angel. You will very well have a voice
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like an Angel. I hope you're out there.
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But I didn't know you sing. Yeah, I went to originally.
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I went into college early and I was telling someone the other
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day I was like, yeah, you know, I finished high school in a year
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and a half and I went and dual enrolled and I started taking
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vocal instruction, vocal training from a very, very well
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known person. That's amazing.
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It was incredible and. I just like to know how to carry
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a tune. Well, my thing of it is it was
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generalized just to operatics. OK.
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So I am a mezzo soprano. Really.
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Yeah, interesting. OK, that's yeah though.
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OK, correct misinformation, but mezzo soprano is they're the
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types that can sing really, really, really.
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High in the correct Mendo OK. Yeah.
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Sweet the other day I was just it was crazy because last year
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in October and it's been almost a year now.
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This is how I'm saying your voice, how fucked up things can
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happen. But I went to a wedding in
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October last year. You would have loved it because
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one of the servers at the wedding event hit on me and it
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was a woman and she wanted to go back with me and my husband
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after the event and she was hot. I'm just saying, hot Evie.
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You would have loved it. It's tribute.
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I know, I trust me. I would have taken her back, but
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we were staying in an Airbnb with other family members, so
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that was a boner kill. That was a no go.
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Yeah, I can't do that. Can't goon with the family
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listening. But anyway, I got sick and I got
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like a severe infection and attacked my vocal cords.
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So it's taken me a year, almost a year to recover.
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I just. Started getting my yeah, I
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started just getting my vocal range back on some level.
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It's not even what it was. It's like a six or seven where
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it should be like a 10. Oh my gosh.
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But yeah, I had to get this, this really extensive thing
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shoved down my throat so they could check my vocal cords a
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couple of times. So that was fun.
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OK, that actually sounds like a nightmare.
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Nothing killed. It was, but yeah, I did have
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polyps on my vocal cords, but I ended up having like holes and
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like. Yeah.
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It was not fun. It was very unpleasant.
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That's awful. Yeah.
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So it it was a motherfucker. But anyway, I started doing, I
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was doing a little vocal practicing the other day.
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I was doing a little, you know, range play and that kind of
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thing. And my husband looked over at
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me. He's like, are you singing Snow
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White? He's like, that sounds like Snow
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White. I'm like, oh, thank you.
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No, I'll be Snow White. That bitch gets high.
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She does. And I was doing really good.
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I was like, Oh yeah, it's coming back.
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It's coming back. I'm not bad.
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But I was doing, I did, I study operatics for, you know, two
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years and then I switched over to psychology.
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It's amazing. College.
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It's not. It's trust me.
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The only amazing part of all that was it was prior to the
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Internet. Oh, so yeah, like the learning
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part, yeah. Yeah, yeah, I had to do it all,
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but we had to actually go to a library.
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Not the library. I love the library.
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You're a nerd, that's why. Ohh guys, I'm never gonna be the
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allegations. But you know, this past week we
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did an episode that I read Tony his emails.
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He's a gentleman and upstate and he just struggles with a lot of
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like his bisexual fantasies and then he follows with, he really
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can't follow through with them anymore.
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He just seems kind of disinterested.
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So we talk about Tony quite a bit.
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I love Tony, I love his vibe, but we get other emails and it's
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a lot to go through. I got a lot of texts and you see
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my phone just goes off all day long.
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Constantly going up, I held it for one minute.
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I'm like, we gotta get we gotta get Mia an assistant because
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like a lot of people. And then it's not, I feel like
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people might take it like a personal slide if Mia doesn't
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reply right away. But I'm telling you guys, I've
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seen it just I glimpsed at her phone and there is, it's a
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pretty consistent stream of messages, so.
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Don't take it personal, it's consistent.
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It's pretty crazy, but I went through a couple of emails and
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we have some people that have asked us questions and I thought
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you could help me with those questions.
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Evie Yeah. You know.
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Totally. So I think this one's right.
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Up your alley, OK? When do I know when I should use
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my safe words? OK.
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So that do you want me to answer first?
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Yeah, I want you to go ahead and answer it.
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Just do it. OK, what I would say is it's not
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a static question. It depends on all these
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different factors get instinct for me, the moment that you know
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in your body, you feel something wrong play, it hits wrong and
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you feel it. Another one would be if
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sensations are getting too high without appropriately being
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built to that, but also there's levels to safe words.
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So there's yellow, which means stop and assess, and there's
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red. And a lot of people will,
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they'll think red just means stop what you're doing right now
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and then we can continue the scene.
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But in traditional circles, red means the scene has to end.
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Like it's gone to a point where you're like, you're too far.
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And so lean on your safe words. It's.
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You can never call them too much.
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I think anybody else cover your bases?
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I love it. I'm like.
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I love it. Trust your body.
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Trust your body, your Fifi's guys.
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My only issue is, and that is I've been in events, I've known
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people, I've done scenes with people, I've watched other
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people do scenes with these same types of people.
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And these are people who are so submissive.
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They don't want to disappoint. Yes.
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And so ultimately, they don't want to use their safe word.
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And then when they realize, oh shit, I didn't do it and now I'm
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in the predicament that I'm in. Yeah, they're either injured
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1-2. They've really crossed the
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boundaries of themselves. Like, OK, I feel like dog shit
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now kind of deal. There's like a self loathing
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there. And three more or less is like
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they feel like they failed themselves and the Dom because
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now both parties, sometimes the Dom doesn't even realize what
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has transpired. Because I've seen this, I had
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this gentleman. I've done many, many, many, many
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scenes with him over the years, but he's the type of guy he can
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never say no. And I started, I saw him do a
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scene with someone who I know did not follow the boundaries
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of, of what should be done in the scene and the rules for what
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his, his limits were. And he didn't want to call Red.
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And then afterwards he just kind of stayed away.
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And I was like, why did you do that?
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And then I, and I said, you know what?
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I know why? Because in life you don't want
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to set boundaries for yourself. Therefore, even in a scene you
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don't want to disappoint and you want that constant approval of
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someone, we offer BDSM, whatever is under that umbrella, whether
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it's you want feet or latex or cross dressing, humiliation to
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any of those things. We'll cater to just about
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anything. Honestly, what we're doing
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specifically is catering to specific fetishes.
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And so in that hour session, or however long they want, it
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encompasses their fetish, their kink.
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And therefore, when someone comes in for the first time and
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they want an introductory session, I always do some
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sensory play. So we have blindfolds and we
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will cuff them. So then we do some light bondage
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in that sense. We do light impact.
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And then from light impact you can go from A2 to A6, you can go
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to a six to an 8. And it really just depends on
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the individual. And that's what I try to explain
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to people. And So what I've done to a lot
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of people that come in is they've never cross dressed in
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their life. They've never worn women's
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panties and they've never had humiliation or degradation.
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First thing I might do with someone, based on the vibe that
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I have with them, is I'll put a pair of panties on them.
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I'll put stockings or a bra on them.
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And I'm like, you're going to be my Sissy bitch today.
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And they're like, yeah, it's hot.
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It's hot. You know, and that's what we
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like, you know, that's what I like.
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I love, I love sissies, you know this.
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But I have always done that with people, even when they haven't
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asked me to do that. I'll say here, put this pair of
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panties on. So, you know, that's just
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something that I do. But I think that everyone gives
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a different take and gives a different idea of what they
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expect and what they want. So like live when when they come
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in, she wants them naked on their hands and knees.
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She wants the utmost respect. Yeah.
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She doesn't smile in her session.
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She's very serious, you know, That's where she gets into that
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Dom headspace. That's what she enjoys.
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I'm more of a centralist at Times Now.
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I can be rough, I can be hardcore and everything else,
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but my thing is when they come in for a first time, I give them
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a four. Liv will give them a six or
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seven. And I just think that if if
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that's what she's vibing with and they like it, they're going
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to come back and see her. Yeah.
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So it's whatever works. It really is.
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I've just had that power. I always say it's kind of like
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my superpower of seeing someone for the first time, engaging
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with them just that short amount of time, and I can look at them
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and I can usually pinpoint A fetish or two that they have
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without ever asking them. Yeah, it's just the thing that I
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have. She's gifted.
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I am gifted with that. It's funny, but I know that
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there's another dominatrix. I, I'd watched a video on this
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years ago because this was only like maybe 6-7 years ago, but
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she did a video and different people would come in, in their
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regular clothes, however they dressed, whatever their
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preference was, whatever their preference was.
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And she was able to pinpoint their fetish or their king.
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And people are like, Oh my God, the cameraman and the director,
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they were just like, Oh my God, how do you do that?
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She's like, I'm just telling you, there's certain things that
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you look at an individual. And just now, yeah, there was a
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thing the other day. I had my friend come over and I
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hadn't seen her in a couple months.
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And I was just like, oh, you know, I saw her at a party, oh,
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so long ago, and she brought her new boyfriend.
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And I had no idea at the time, you know, that she was bringing
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a new boyfriend. I'd never met him.
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First time I saw him, he seemed very nice.
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But there were certain things about him.
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And I was thinking, you know, she only really dates dominant
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men. Why is she dating that
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crossdresser 0? Yeah.
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And see, she didn't know. Really.
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Yeah, She didn't know when she met him.
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And I guess he finally told her, you know, maybe after a week or
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two that they were dating. And.
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And she told me the other day and I was like, yeah, I kind of
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saw that the first time I met him.
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And she's like, really? I'm like, yeah, I know the
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giveaways, guys. I really do.
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I remember this story. I remember this story you told
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me back when I first started coming to the dungeon how you
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were on the phone with an insurance suggestor or something
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like. That yes, he was an insurance
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suggestor. And how you you just asked of
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mid conversation. Do you like to wear women's
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clothes? And like the fact that you
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caught that on the phone to me is it is crazy because I've seen
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it in in person, I've seen it with the people.
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She can, she can peg them haha double on time but she can she
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can get them. You know, yeah, I'll never
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forget it. I was in the line at Chick-fil-A
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getting coffee that morning, and this insurance adjuster had
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called me and we were talking about my car.
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So I had a little Fender Bender, no big deal.
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The car was in the shop and I was talking to him about it and
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I could hear this tone in his voice and I was just like,
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David, tell me, do you like to wear women's panties?
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I would. Leap out the fucking window.
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If someone just, I'm randomly out at work and I'm just like,
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yeah, hi, this is Evie calling, blah blah blah blah.
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And then that person on the other end is like, you want to
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get fucked up by a Russian? Lady.
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I would be like, OK, goodbye. That's like I have.
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To go, she said. Evie, this is for Solana.
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I would like fucking shit bricks man.
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But the fact. That you did that and I'm like,
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what was his reaction? He was like stuttering for a
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minute and then he's like, yeah, how did how did you know?
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And I'm like, I just heard it in your voice.
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And I hear in your voice, I hear this vulnerability.
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And I just hear that, you know, you're sweet and sensitive and,
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you know, I just see you in my mind wearing these cute little
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red pair of Lacy panties and stockings and sexy little heels,
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prancing around and with a little butt plug in your butt.
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And he was just, like, I mean, it was like a hushed whisper,
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you know? And he wasn't local either.
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If he'd been local, that man would have been in for a
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pounding. I would have fucked his ass raw
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with my biggest strap on. I would have put a collar on him
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and pulled his hair. Just saying.
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Yeah. Oh my God.
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I'm like, do I get your panties wet?
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A little bit because I'm like, I need to have the freaking Spidey
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sense to find them to cross dressers.
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I'll be like you, a cross. Dresser.
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And like I don't need it wrong. It's like I pointed something
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like hi, my name is Steve and I'm like.
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Well, get it wrong? Here's the thing.
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The Griswolds. The Griswold.
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You met them briefly at a party? Yeah.
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It was so funny. Evie thought they snuck in and
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that they didn't pay. So.
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That's so embarrassing. Yeah.
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Also, I'm really sorry. Yeah, sorry.
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They're emailed that he's trying to be a good little, you know,
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dumb. Like.
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Now he's getting in here without being.
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Funded by. Leo it.
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Was great. Ellen and Clark laughed their
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ass off. But it was so funny because they
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had rented this space that that I had, I had helped originally
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with a friend and they could basically go in and rent a kink
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room, OK? And they did it and they rented
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it with this other couple who were swingers.
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And I had never met the swingers, never met them.
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And that day the swinger couple walked in and I saw the woman
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and I was like, OK, she kind of looks like my friend's wife,
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like Clark's wife. And I thought, OK, I get that.
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But then I see the the husband come in and I was like, oh, oh,
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look at him. And so the new couple and Ellen,
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they went back to the room. And then my friend Clark, Mr.
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Griswold, I said, hey, Clark, come here, come here, come here.
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I said, why? Why are you with that that
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couple? He's like, oh, you know, we met
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him on SLS. I said, well, does does Ellen
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know that, that he's a cross dresser?
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He's like, yeah, he's not a cross dresser.
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He's a swinger. You know, I'm like, no, no, no,
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no. Clark, this is just, man, just
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passing by me, OK? We were two feet apart, but I
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saw him. And let me tell you something.
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These are the signs. Ready.
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OK. He smelled like a French whore.
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It was a sweet smell of perfumed Cologne.
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Bliss. Love.
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French horse. Right.
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It wasn't a masculine Cologne whatsoever.
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It was very, you know, floral, put it that way.
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He had longer hair in the back because as we do, women like to
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grow their hair long to be more feminine, also to cross
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dressers. And he had hair in the back that
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was long and pretty and feathered.
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And he had great skin care. Like he had flawless skin.
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He could tell he was, he had a little money because he had
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Italian leather shoes on that were shiny and perfect.
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I'm telling you, you go by a guy who has all these qualities with
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them, manicure, fingernails. When they go all out and there's
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so many aspects to their parents, they can say it's
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business professional all day long, but Mama me is gonna know
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that bitch across dress. That bitches cross dressing.
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So I told Clark. He told Ellen in private and I
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told Clark. I said listen, go get Alan, come
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here. I'll tell him he's like OK, OK,
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so here she comes. I said listen Alan, he's a cross
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rusher. Take him out to the dungeon.
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When you get him upstairs, take your panties off in front of
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them. Stick your panties in his mouth.
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OK, Then have another pair of panties.
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Make him put your panties on and then pull those panties up his
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ass and tell him that he belongs to you for the next fucking
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hour. Oh my God.
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I kid you not, Ellen did just that.
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I said this man is Sissy. This guy came and got so fucking
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hard he couldn't stop himself. Like he was still begging Ellen
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even after their relationships kind of dissolved.
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He was still begging Ellen if she could dominate him because
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that's what she would do. She really wasn't having sex
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with this guy because traditional sex was not turning
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him on. When he knew that Ellen knew his
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secret, it was done. It was done so.
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The human psyche is amazing. I know it's.
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Crazy. All right, So guys, if you don't
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want to be outed in your crossdresser, those are the
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things that people need to look for.
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Also Mia can do it, I don't know, telepathically this bitch.
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Is this bitch is? Gifted I'm a bitch, I say bitch
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with. Respect.
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I know you're good. I'll allow it.
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She'll allow it. So Edie, how do how do you ask
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to be pushed into something new? Well, don't marry an outcome, so
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don't. If you want to try something
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new, don't attach that to the ending of I love it or I hate
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it. Just experience it.
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Are you asking to go harder? Are you asking to be pushed past
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your limits? Are you genuinely wanting to try
20:49
something new? Just communicate.
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Communicate. Negotiate.
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Yeah, that's a good way of pushing it.
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Yeah. OK, so listen, what is the
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strangest fetish you've ever heard of or participated in?
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Vore actually. OK, explain that to them.
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So I knew someone who was into a type of fetishes within that
21:08
very fetish umbrella. So vore, this person I knew was
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into war. And so basically that is being
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eaten whole or swallowed whole, I guess like being consumed, but
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it's not. It's distinct from cannibalism
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because the the part of that makes it war is that you are
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alive when you are consumed. Well, I actually, I met a man
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that him and his wife were very much into the lifestyle.
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She was a Dom over him and he was her cook.
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But it's interesting because he encompassed a lot of fucking
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fetishes so much where I was just like, holy shit, balls.
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Like, what else do you really want?
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What else do you like? So he loved being a cup.
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He loved watching his wife with other men and or just knowing
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that she was fucking other men. Yeah, he wanted to go down on
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her after men had come in her. OK.
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He loved a little bit of cross dressing, wearing panties.
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He loved humiliation, degradation, and he loved the
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concept of cutting off his Dick and balls.
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Complete castration. He contacted me and said that he
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used Castrator, which they actually use on livestock, and
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he was going to try to do it to himself, but he was just going
22:30
to do it for like a fun little thing, but without actually
22:34
doing it, just knowing what it felt like.
22:36
And I think he had a little medical problem pop up, but
22:39
ultimately his spinal fetish was vore.
22:43
Really. Yeah, he wanted to be consumed.
22:46
And I said, you know, let's break this down.
22:48
Let's break it down. Like, obviously you didn't get
22:50
love from your mother for you that you wanted to be a Sissy
22:54
crossdresser. You wanted to feel an emotional
22:56
connection to your mother that you did not get.
22:59
And then as far as the level of being a cup, a lot of times it's
23:04
because you're emasculated by your father and sometimes it's
23:08
because you have a desire to be bisexual, so you kind of live
23:12
vicariously through your wife. Other aspects is you might feel
23:18
inferior to another man or it might just be taking pressure
23:22
off of you in general having to actually perform.
23:25
So then there's that. But then there's the fact that
23:29
he was willing to castrate and completely thing hurt off his
23:33
actual by his actual Dick and balls, you know, and it's just
23:37
like, OK, So what does that mean to you?
23:40
Does that mean that you don't feel like a man that you want to
23:43
take those things away completely?
23:45
Will that will that kind of eradicate a problem?
23:48
Does it cause a problem for you in your life?
23:51
Or do you feel like it's less than anyway, and you don't feel
23:53
like a complete man? Like, yeah, where is his thought
23:56
process? Yet you're speechless.
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I try. Not.
24:00
To I know, but think about it this way.
24:01
Then he wanted to be eaten. And if he was going to be eaten
24:05
in actuality, he would no longer have an existence.
24:08
And I said to him, I said, darling, do you not love
24:11
yourself? And he says, no, I don't.
24:14
And I'm like, you know, baby, your wife loves you.
24:18
Your children love you. Like you legitimately have
24:21
people in your life that value you as a person.
24:24
You didn't have that when you were a child.
24:26
And that's OK. It's not your fault.
24:29
But you need to go back and you need to forgive yourself as a
24:32
child and let that go. And that's just so hard for
24:36
people. And it's so difficult.
24:38
And that's why there's people who have kids that are horrible
24:42
fucking people, and they need to die.
24:44
Yeah. You know.
24:46
It's like, why have bring beautiful children into the
24:49
world when you suck as a human being?
24:51
You know, we've had those experiences.
24:54
We haven't we? Yeah.
24:56
It's it's pretty like, I don't know how you, I don't know.
25:01
Sometimes I think that I try to get into the mindsets of people
25:04
that are. Just horrible.
25:06
Horrible. But you can't, because you're
25:08
not bad. You're too sweet.
25:11
Oh, you're too nice. Stop.
25:14
Stop. All right, Evie, All right,
25:17
Yeah. You don't need to go down that
25:18
rabbit hole because you're too nice of a person.
25:21
All right, but I haven't been to Germany yet, so Germany, I'm
25:24
waiting for that. But but I'm like you.
25:27
The umbrella of BDSM is extensive.
25:30
Because we can experiment with bondage.
25:31
Is it, are you more into your masochism?
25:34
Do you want to feel the sensations of pain?
25:37
We can dip our toes into that. There's tons of you.
25:39
Just you don't need to have it all figured out, but you don't
25:42
need a direction and you do need to at least know what you don't
25:45
want. It's like, what if you're what?
25:47
I know people who are really, really into bondage, but then
25:50
they cannot do any kind of impact play or there are people
25:53
who are really, really into impact play who just cannot
25:56
handle any form of degradation. You just need to think about,
25:59
OK, what do I like, what I don't like?
26:00
And so like I tell people like, look at porn.
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What do you what kind of porns? Porns.
26:05
That's great English. Check out the porns.
26:08
Check out the porn. What kind of pornography do you
26:11
go back to? I knew someone that used to call
26:14
it Pronos, not the. You know what, words mean
26:19
nothing. Let's just call them some
26:21
pronos. We're going into Wonderland.
26:27
So to the point, I think people should just kind of watch porn
26:31
and really find out what they like and watch porn and see what
26:34
they don't like in porn. And then you could take that as
26:37
like, obviously things that happen in porn are not real
26:39
life, but you can get inspiration and then, you know,
26:43
see what piques your interest. OK, that's great advice.
26:47
Let's watch some fucking porn. Let's watch Cronos.
26:52
All right. Yeah, I I agree with you, Evie.
26:54
I think that people just need to branch off and to explore and
26:58
they need to read. So our last little promo for
27:01
this, doing an interview with these two.
27:03
Lovely. OK, that's a big mouthful.
27:05
I'm sorry, yes. I love that.
27:08
I was going to say they teach sociology.
27:11
One does at Missouri State, but any who they've written together
27:17
this lovely book bound by BDSM and they basically interviewed
27:21
2500 people on all of this and they were talking about on all
27:25
different types of BDSM, but they said that all of these
27:27
people they were talking to, they were all fucking happy.
27:32
Yeah. They were like really out of the
27:35
closet with their with their kinks.
27:37
They were open. They had, you know, great sexual
27:41
lives and and a lot of dynamics that they they really valued in
27:45
their own life that made it special.
27:47
So anyway, we're going to talk to them and I'll do a nice
27:49
little interview with them next week.
27:51
So they're going to be on the podcast off yes, and we have a
27:54
few other people that's going to be on the podcast soon too.
27:57
We have a a lovely lovely gentleman.
28:01
Used to be a stripper than a gigolo and now he's like a guru
28:06
for November and he is sexy as fuck.
28:08
Oh yeah, we saw he's got tattoos for days.
28:10
So that's cool. Oh my God.
28:12
Nick Hawk. Oh my God, he's so sexy.
28:15
I. Can't wait for that interview.
28:16
Right. Yeah, He was on Showtime Gigolos
28:20
back in 2011, and he did it for six seasons.
28:23
I've never seen that show. You know, I remember watching
28:26
it, but I don't remember from 2011 how it went down.
28:31
So right, I'm excited. Who?
28:34
So until then, let's wrap this shit up.
28:36
Absolutely. So until next time eating.
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This has been the latest episode of.
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Call me Mistress.