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Welcome Welcome... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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  Speaker 1: Okay, welcome into the after Show, justin here, Welcome in everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you to everybody for checking in on the talkbacks.
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  Speaker 1: I'll try my best to get to them today. Probably
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  Speaker 1: not though, because I do have a guest in here,
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  Speaker 1: and this one is going to be quite the trip.
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  Speaker 1: I've been teasing this for like a week now, because well,
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  Speaker 1: she's a big star. You know her, I know her.
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  Speaker 1: Her name is Ashley Feldman, and she is the host
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  Speaker 1: of the gem In morning show right down the hall
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  Speaker 1: here and also one of my closest friends in the
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  Speaker 1: whole world. And you know what makes her so close
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  Speaker 1: to me is she loves to tell me about myself always, always,
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  Speaker 1: so welcome to the after Show, Thanks for having me.
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  Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions. I don't know where
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  Speaker 1: to start. We don't have a ton of time. I
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  Speaker 1: just want to say that, well, I will say thank
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  Speaker 1: you for being my friend, no, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: For me my friend. And let me tell everybody a
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  Speaker 2: fun fact.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think people might believe this, but we literally
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  Speaker 3: speak on the phone every day.
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  Speaker 1: You're the only person that I talk on the phone too.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know how you feel, but how things
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  Speaker 3: go in your house, But like my husband just knows
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  Speaker 3: if I'm on the phone and I'm talking about work,
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  Speaker 3: it's yeah.
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  Speaker 2: With you, we don't even address it anymore. He's like, gosh,
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  Speaker 2: she's alw with just.
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  Speaker 1: The same thing in my house. Yeah, yeah, Well we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about work things always, yeah, or I'm asking for advice,
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  Speaker 1: you know. So you and I though, real quick, go
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  Speaker 1: way back to twenty thirteen. Did you know that twenty thirteen?
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  Speaker 2: Is that what it is?
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  Speaker 1: That's when you started. So I was working on JAMM
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  Speaker 1: in ninety four to five. They needed a new co host,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll never forget. It was a week of auditions.
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  Speaker 1: They had a different girl every day, and so we
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  Speaker 1: did a couple of the girls and then Santy said
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  Speaker 1: one morning I went in, he said the girl today
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  Speaker 1: is she's from the Real World And I didn't watch
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  Speaker 1: your season and he said her name is Ashley. Feldman
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  Speaker 1: said cool, and then he went to go get you
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  Speaker 1: and he walked down and I was sitting in the
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  Speaker 1: office in the old building, and I'll never forget Santy
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  Speaker 1: walked in and he goes, justin, this is actually and
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  Speaker 1: you walked into the doorway, and you know how like
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  Speaker 1: memory is funny, like that yeah, like seven feet tall
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  Speaker 1: and you were all done up, and I remember I
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  Speaker 1: said high and you were like hey, and it gave
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  Speaker 1: me a hug, and I was just like, who is
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  Speaker 1: this person?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: What is this?
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  Speaker 3: I will never for I remember that as well, because
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  Speaker 3: I was supposed to do two full days on Jaman
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  Speaker 3: of My audition was supposed to be two days, but
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  Speaker 3: unfortunately there was a snowstorm out of my control. But
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  Speaker 3: the whole time, Santi Ramiro on air being like, she
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  Speaker 3: thinks she's better than Oscar.
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  Speaker 2: She on the road.
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  Speaker 3: Now we have to Now we're stuck with her for
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  Speaker 3: a whole show. And this is before I'm even I'm
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  Speaker 3: listening to this, before I'm even.
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  Speaker 2: Doing my audition. And then I come in and I
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  Speaker 2: got to act like I didn't hear any of that,
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  Speaker 2: but then of course that came out within ten minutes.
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  Speaker 3: Of course, I was like, remember what you guys were
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  Speaker 3: saying about me yesterday, because because I do, Yeah, but.
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  Speaker 1: You got you meshed. Well, I remember, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: they were kind of auditioning and then talking about who
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  Speaker 1: it should be. But I remember them saying like she's
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  Speaker 1: going to be the one.
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  Speaker 3: Well, and the fun fact is our boss, Dylan Sprague
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  Speaker 3: didn't want it to be a miss.
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  Speaker 1: Did you just say that?
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  Speaker 2: It's true?
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  Speaker 1: It is true. I didn't know you could say that publicly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he did. He didn't want me. He was pushing
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  Speaker 2: for a different woman out of Philadelphia.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't because I know, but it was. We should explain.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't because he didn't like you.
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  Speaker 3: No, you didn't think I was the He thought she
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  Speaker 3: was the better fit. And she was older, and I
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  Speaker 3: think she's way more experienced than I was.
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  Speaker 2: I hadn't done radio. Well, I had done a small
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  Speaker 2: sports station. I hadn't done radio like this.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and yeah, he pushed for for this other woman
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  Speaker 3: from Philly and Santina Romiro pushed for me, And.
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  Speaker 1: Here we are, all these years later, through many changes.
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  Speaker 2: So many change, too many changes. Yeah, so like recent changes,
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  Speaker 2: A lot of changes, A lot.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean we'll talk about that, the
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  Speaker 1: changes recently. But okay, So twenty thirteen I met you.
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  Speaker 1: You're from New Jersey. You're a D one basketball player.
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  Speaker 1: You are excellent a basketball We know what I know
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  Speaker 1: it Northeastern. You love to tell people that you are.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I have a few records out of all,
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  Speaker 2: I don't bring it up.
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  Speaker 1: It's fine. Don't they have your poster at Northeastern? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: there you go. So you grew up in Jersey, went
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  Speaker 1: to Northeastern and played D one ball, went on the
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  Speaker 1: Real World in what year?
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  Speaker 2: I was on the Real World in two thousand and
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  Speaker 2: nine in New.
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  Speaker 3: Orleans and we went back to New Orleans because there
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  Speaker 3: was an original New Orleans series and we went back
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  Speaker 3: to Neworleans like pretty much right when I graduated college.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Actually, it's funny. I remember when I found out
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  Speaker 1: you were on the show after I met you, and
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  Speaker 1: I looked up New Orleans and you weren't in the cast.
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  Speaker 1: I was so confused.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's crazy because I had just graduated college.
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  Speaker 3: I was what twenty two years old, about to be
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  Speaker 3: twenty three, and I was one of the older people
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  Speaker 3: in the house, Like most of the people in there
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  Speaker 3: had just her and they were fresh twenty one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So if you could sum up that experience in
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  Speaker 1: like the thirty seconds, wow, would you?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I would literally say it was pivotal to
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  Speaker 2: my career.
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  Speaker 3: I launched and got my first radio gig out of
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  Speaker 3: the real world, and I think going into it That's
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  Speaker 3: what I always knew I wanted to.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to be seen.
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  Speaker 3: I need somebody in the industry to see me and
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  Speaker 3: be like, wow, maybe she's meant for for more than
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  Speaker 3: just this. And I was able to kind of like
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  Speaker 3: pivot and get my first radio job in Saint Louis
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  Speaker 3: from that sports station.
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  Speaker 2: Like I said, but my boss at the time, he was.
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  Speaker 3: A real world fanatic, and after the season was over,
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  Speaker 3: he sent me a message and was like, listen, we
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  Speaker 3: have an opening here in Saint Louis.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you'd be willing to move, but
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  Speaker 2: I think you'd be great. And then there.
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  Speaker 1: It was, so you wanted to do sports radio or radio.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to do sports. I actually wanted to do TV.
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  Speaker 3: I think was my first like love to do like
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  Speaker 3: sports TV stuff. But then when I was playing basketball
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  Speaker 3: at Northeastern, I did the local radio station there and
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  Speaker 3: I was doing color commentary. So you know, for sportshead
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  Speaker 3: they'll understand, but if you don't really watch sports, there's
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  Speaker 3: gonna be the guy that actually passes the.
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  Speaker 2: Ball to Justin and Justin's you know, five for two.
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  Speaker 3: I was the color so I would be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, Justin actually has quite the story and
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  Speaker 3: I would kind of fill in, you know, and that
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  Speaker 3: was like my first taste of radio. So then I
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  Speaker 3: think after Real World course TV was number one. But
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  Speaker 3: when I got that off or, I was like, this
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  Speaker 3: is great, let's go. I went to Saint Louis and
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  Speaker 3: the rest is history.
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  Speaker 1: And then you applied here. Now you knew Jaman and
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  Speaker 1: kiss wana wait I.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't apply here if that was actually another funny story.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you didn't.
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  Speaker 2: No, I wrote Dylan.
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  Speaker 3: Just like a threatening email, essentially being like you need me,
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  Speaker 3: and he was like, who are you? He tells this
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  Speaker 3: story all the time because they had no openings on
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  Speaker 3: Jaman at the time, and I wanted to.
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  Speaker 2: Be back in Boston so much because obviously I went to.
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  Speaker 3: School here and my friends were here, and I was like,
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  Speaker 3: you you may not have any openings, but you need me.
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  Speaker 2: I have an X factor.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you, like I'm made for this radio station,
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  Speaker 3: like you should, you should meet me. So he was like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: I guess like here's when I have an opening, and
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  Speaker 3: I came and I sat down with him.
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  Speaker 2: The full circle moment was when Pebble's left and.
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  Speaker 3: There was an opening and he sent me and he
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  Speaker 3: will be like, hey, we're going to audition some women.
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  Speaker 2: You can finally come in. You bulled off. Oh okay,
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  Speaker 2: see if you work.
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  Speaker 1: Out see wow yeah yeah okay. But you knew of
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  Speaker 1: jammen from going to school in Northeastern.
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  Speaker 2: Used to listen to Jim and all the time, went
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  Speaker 2: to monster jams all of.
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  Speaker 3: The things, like we would pregame at Northeastern parties games
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  Speaker 3: and we would put Jammin on.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and a huge Drake fans that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I named my dog after Drake and like old
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  Speaker 3: school Drake, like I you know, I liked Drake when
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  Speaker 3: Drake wasn't really as popular obviously as he is now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. So that's so. Then, you know,
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  Speaker 1: all through all the changes on Jammin, eventually you get
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  Speaker 1: your own show.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you know, it was. There was a build up
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  Speaker 2: to it. It didn't happen.
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  Speaker 3: I had done pretty much every single day part to
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  Speaker 3: get there. And then uh, Dylan again had asked me
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  Speaker 3: to go. He wanted to say, I want to take
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  Speaker 3: you out to dinner, like let's have a conversation and
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  Speaker 3: you'll understand this.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I don't want to get a
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  Speaker 2: dinner to just take me to Chick fil A. I
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  Speaker 2: love Chick fil A.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So we went to the Burlington Mall and we
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  Speaker 3: sat it at Chick fil A and he's like, it's time.
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  Speaker 3: Like He's like, I wanted to do this over a
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  Speaker 3: steak and like maybe some champagne and tell you that
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  Speaker 3: it's time. You've you've you're ready for your own morning show. Like,
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  Speaker 3: but here we are.
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  Speaker 2: Eating nuggets and Chick fil A sauce and yeah. So
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  Speaker 2: he said, you know you finally you're ready. Who do
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  Speaker 2: you want?
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  Speaker 3: I said, I won't do it if it's not with
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  Speaker 3: Santi And Santio was at a country station at the time,
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  Speaker 3: so he came over and then speaking of the recent changes,
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  Speaker 3: I also.
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  Speaker 2: Was like, I want to DJ FORRN on the show.
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  Speaker 2: And that's how we started.
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  Speaker 1: You built your own show.
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  Speaker 2: I got to build my own show.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, which I think is a testament to him because
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  Speaker 3: he trusted me enough to know what I needed at
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  Speaker 3: the time to like get this going. I mean, he
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  Speaker 3: will leaves in me a lot, but you know, I
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  Speaker 3: think he just was like, what's going to make you
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  Speaker 3: feel the most comfortable doing this?
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  Speaker 1: And to give some reference to the listeners right now.
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  Speaker 1: Santi worked for years on JAM and was let go,
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  Speaker 1: laid off. That was kind of a hot situation, Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because when he was like, oh him and
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  Speaker 3: Ramira did this podcast at things, and so it was
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  Speaker 3: uncomfortable around here for sure.
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  Speaker 1: And then look at the power that you have. You said,
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  Speaker 1: I want him, and they brought him back, which is amazing.
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  Speaker 3: Well, and you know their relationship has certainly had its
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  Speaker 3: up ups and downs, but that they're in a really
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  Speaker 3: good place now.
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  Speaker 2: And they've come a long way.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, Santi's in his soul, he's not He's a
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  Speaker 3: really great person and I think they just needed to
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  Speaker 3: get past that.
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  Speaker 2: And they did, absolutely did.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I mean he wouldn't be here if they didn't. There
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  Speaker 2: was no He's here because of it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So you brought up the changes, obviously, which is
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  Speaker 1: partly of the reason I wanted to have you on
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  Speaker 1: other than you're my friend and I love talking to you.
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  Speaker 1: You're very easy to talk to.
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  Speaker 3: Well, thank you, And to be honest, I'm glad you
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  Speaker 3: brought it up because you are one of my best
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  Speaker 3: friends and I'm very offensive of that and I have
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  Speaker 3: been seeing you know, some of the comments and things
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  Speaker 3: you've been getting and it hurts my heart.
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  Speaker 2: And if it was worth it for me to.
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  Speaker 3: Comment back to some of these people, I would, but
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  Speaker 3: it pains me to see kind of like some of
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  Speaker 3: the heat that you've been taking, as if you no offense, respectfully,
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  Speaker 3: have any sort of power to stop a situation like this.
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  Speaker 3: That day was so hard for every single one of us.
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  Speaker 3: It was such a shock for every single one of us.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I think a good example and I always
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  Speaker 3: give this to people, is we were kind of told, hey,
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  Speaker 3: stay in studios, go back. I texted my husband, I said,
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  Speaker 3: I'm losing my job and we're gonna have to move
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  Speaker 3: from the house in Marshfield, Like we're not going about
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  Speaker 3: to afford it. I am losing my job today. That
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  Speaker 3: is how much I didn't know. We didn't know. So
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  Speaker 3: when I see people say things like that, you know
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  Speaker 3: they're not listening to Kis Winwait anymore because of what
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  Speaker 3: you did to Winnie or whatever. The situation like that
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  Speaker 3: breaks my heart because that's so far from the truth.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm sorry they have to deal with that. But
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  Speaker 3: that's also like the nature of our business, which sucks.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, where public figures yea as they say that morning
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  Speaker 1: that it all went down people. I really I've told
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  Speaker 1: the story on this podcast before I realized I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know what's happening. I walked out, I saw something was
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  Speaker 1: happening with Winnie. I saw her crying. I immediately texted
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  Speaker 1: you and I wrote, oh my god, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: something's happening with Winnie, and you wrote back DJ farign too,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, holy shit. Yeah, so it all
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  Speaker 1: went on at once.
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  Speaker 2: I have said this a million times.
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  Speaker 3: I get emotional every time anybody losing their job is
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  Speaker 3: just it's so horrifying. And the thing about the two
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  Speaker 3: of them, they're going to be fine because they have
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  Speaker 3: they have in it factor, they have something special that
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  Speaker 3: doesn't make it any better. And you know when people
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  Speaker 3: people will call in my show to tell me about
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  Speaker 3: something else in the middle be like I miss born
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, the truth of the matter is.
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  Speaker 2: I do too. Like I'm not going to hide that fact.
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  Speaker 2: I do too. And it sucks because this is radio.
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  Speaker 3: This is our business, and it's there's great things about
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  Speaker 3: our business and there's really just shit things. I was
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  Speaker 3: shocked that you said shit, because I forgot you can
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  Speaker 3: say shit on here something.
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  Speaker 1: Went not regulated by the FCS. So both of us
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  Speaker 1: and both of our shows are adjusting to this kind
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  Speaker 1: of new thing. Yeah, that's what it is. We're trying
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  Speaker 1: to find our way. You know, you took a major
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  Speaker 1: piece out of each show, and so here we are
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  Speaker 1: trying to.
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  Speaker 2: Like move forward fake time. But they hate has died down.
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  Speaker 1: I think people are Initially we're very angry, and now
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  Speaker 1: they're kind of like, okay, like we get it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think in your situation too, if they
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  Speaker 3: actually spoke to Winnie directly, she would say exactly what
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  Speaker 3: we're saying. I talk to her me too, Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 3: and I And the same thing goes for foreign I
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  Speaker 3: mean they love all of us.
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  Speaker 2: It had nothing to do with us.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it sucks. It sucks.
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  Speaker 3: I think in general, people get mad, they want to
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  Speaker 3: blame somebody, they want to point fingers. I'm one of
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  Speaker 3: them when things happen, like I kind of resonated in
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  Speaker 3: my brain with like I love certain shows so much.
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  Speaker 2: I fall in love with characters, right.
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  Speaker 3: And when you watch a show like let's use Game
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  Speaker 3: of Thrones for example, Kalisi dies, You're like, fuck this show.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to watch this show without Kalisi?
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  Speaker 3: How am I gonna? And then you continue to watch
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  Speaker 3: the show because you love the show. But there's a
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  Speaker 3: part of the show. Oh that's missing, and that's kind
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  Speaker 3: of where we're.
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  Speaker 1: At transition here. You just brought something lease here, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: no about the TV shows. Well, I want to say
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  Speaker 1: that you have two daughters I do all right, who
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  Speaker 1: are beautiful, and you actually just posted a Halloween.
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  Speaker 2: Video Halloween photos job.
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  Speaker 1: It's on your Instagram at Ashley. It's the most extra
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  Speaker 1: thing you'll ever If you know Ashley, if you follow
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  Speaker 1: her on Instagram, you know that she is the most
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  Speaker 1: extra person.
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  Speaker 2: Ever beyond I will say that about myself.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, it's at Ashley Feldsman as h L
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  Speaker 3: E E F E L D m an.
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  Speaker 2: Please go look at my Halloween photohoo. I'm not a
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  Speaker 2: big like.
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  Speaker 3: I don't post on my feed a ton, but when
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  Speaker 3: I do, you better believe there's been.
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  Speaker 2: Some thought put into that. And my Halloween shoot is
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  Speaker 2: like my super Bowl.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. One time I had an endorsement when I first
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: started getting them, and the client wanted social media as
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: part of it, and they wanted something like one feed
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: post a week and I was such a newbie to it.
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: I remember I said that to you, and you go,
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: are you fucking out of your mind? Do you know
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: how much they have to pay to get on my feed?
• 12:59
  Speaker 3: I was like, I was like, are you to First off,
• 13:01
  Speaker 3: you're taking me sound bougie, But I was like, the
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: fee pos?
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: What such a big deal.
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: It is a big deal. It's gonna live, It's gonna
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: live on.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: So go check that out. It's a Halloween I don't
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: even know video photo shoot. It's incredible.
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: It's a combination. Listen.
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: It was extremely hard for me to get pregnant for
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: the second time, and when I did, I remember, this
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: is crazy.
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: This is crazy, ABC, All visits are crazy. I'm nuts.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: I was pregnant and I thought to myself, we didn't
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: know what we were having.
• 13:26
  Speaker 3: But if it's a girl, oh my god, we can
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: beat the Sanderson Sisters for Halloween.
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: One year. Here we are. It has come to fruition,
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: the iconic Sisters.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: I don't even know, like what went into this and
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: how much this possibly costs. All I know is I'm
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: sure your husband has no idea.
• 13:41
  Speaker 3: If he's not involved in it. He doesn't ask me anything.
• 13:45
  Speaker 3: But when he's involved. Then the questions come, so I.
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: Don't include him. Yeah, we don't need him.
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: So you have your two daughters. How old? How old
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: are they?
• 13:52
  Speaker 3: Daisy is a little over one and Leila is going
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: to be four in December, which is crazy.
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that is crazy. So so Leila and Gemma are
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: right around the same age. Yes, And what's so funny
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: about this is I had children first, okay, And so
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: years ago we were working together. I was the show guy.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: I watched all the shows. I had the recommendations. If
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: he needed the show, you came to justin.
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: Oh first, okay, And he was like at my disposal guys,
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: because I didn't have kids.
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: So I would call him six seven times a day,
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: and but did you watch? Did you watch? Did you watch?
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: And he'd be like, what do you not understanding?
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: Like, I'm knee deep in diapers right now, I'm trying
• 14:28
  Speaker 3: to figure out how to parents. I can't watch the
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: shows actually, Like I can't do this anymore like I
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: was doing.
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: You didn't get it.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: I didn't get it. And fast forward.
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: If I watched ten minutes, ten minutes of one episode,
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: I'm like, honey, I'm winning for the day.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: Ten minutes.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: And if you have young kids like that, you understand
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: it's the fucking wild West in my house wild West.
• 14:47
  Speaker 3: So I get it now, and it obviously took me
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: having kids dinners.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Well, we connect a lot about the kids stuff too,
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: we do, and we talk on the phone every day,
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: and it's so funny because either your kids or my
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: kids are both will be in the background and we
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: don't even I don't even here.
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: We don't.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: And by the way, when one of them starts crying,
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: we just go okay and we just hang up. We
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: don't need to say good bye anymore because it's like
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: an unwritten thing.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Nobody. You don't want to hear your own own kids
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: crying and whiny. I certainly don't want to hear someone
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: else is like, I'm good goodbye, right.
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. Yeah, So all right, So all is good
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: in your world?
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: I mean, today's a big day for me with the
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: Halloween photo shoot. Yeah, I mean, all is good is relative. Obviously,
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: we just chatted about it. Things have changed, but we
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: just we did a big live show on Friday in Salem,
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: and I cry. I get emotional, but I started crying
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: a little bit on air because it was six am
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: in Salem at Rockefellers, and there was already like thirteen
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: people at this bar and I couldn't believe it. Like
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: they set their alarms in the three to come see
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: us do the show, and then by eight thirty I
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: blinked and the place was just swamp.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: There was so many people.
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: And you know, I say this all the time on
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: the show, And there are so many good radio stations
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: in Boston, yours included, So.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: When people actively wake up and they choose.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: To listen to ours or they listen to the podcast,
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: it really is the greatest compliment of all time because
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: you have so many options at your disposal, podcasts, all
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: the things. So I'm very appreciative when people choose to
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: listen to our show as.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Am I and I feel like with Kissing jam And
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: they've always been kind of, you know, competitors in a sense,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: but we work.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: And we're the ghetto.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: Okay, Like kiss hits all the money, kiss one a
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: week gets all of the good prizes, Kiss one Awake
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: gets everything, Jamming gets nothing, and so that's the real,
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: that's the real.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: All right. But I have noticed and I've found that
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: since your show has launched, right how many years now,
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: like seven? Yeah. I feel like before people either listen
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: to kiss or Jamming, they chose, they stuck with them,
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: but now they go back and forth. Yeah, so when
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: we go to commercial, they go to Ashley. When you
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: go to commercial, they come to us.
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: I know, we do have a lot of people that
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: go back and forth, and they love when we fight
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: or we have like something going on.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: But I even got DM's like, oh my gosh, Justin
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: said you're coming on the.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: After show and you're going to come on his podcast,
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: and so that just proves that people do go back
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: and forth. I don't want to cause beef. I think
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: our show is better, respectfully, but I have to, right,
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: you should you should feel that I should.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not well.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: You also have an advantage, you know what that advantage is,
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: but the audience is different. You can talk about things
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: that are more sexual.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I can't talk about that.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: I know you can, but you can't like you would,
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: but you can't.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: Well, I also think like there's ways you don't have
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: to say like penis at six am like I do,
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: but you guys could.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Billy can't be trusted.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll just say things because I want. I want
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: to know Lisa's thoughts on some things, you know.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean they can't be trusted to not
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: to kind of ride the line if you will. So
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. But I know, I know, yeah,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: So I love you.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: You know that, Thank you for having me.
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: I will come on more often if the people want
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: it at Oh, really, sure we can make it.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: We can make it a thing.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Can I share one final story?
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Please? I'm wondering.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: It's a good story. It's a good story. This really
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: just goes to show the kind of friend that you are.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I told you this recently. I reminded you. But years ago,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I was going through a tough time with my wife Jen,
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: and I was under the belief I really believed that
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: she didn't love me anymore, and that she didn't find
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: me attractive, and that she did not want to sleep
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: with me, and that she was just with me because
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: we had kids. That's it, I convinced myself. And it
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: got to a point where we weren't talking and I
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: was like it's over, Like it's over. So one day
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I called Ashley. I was walking in a park by
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: myself and I called her and I'm like, I'm just
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: gonna tell her, like I'm gonna leave my wife. And
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I laid it all out to her, like an hour
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: long talk, and she was like, are you fucking out
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: of your mind? She goes, are you done? I go yeah,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: she goes, okay, and then she proceeded to just lay
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: into me for like twenty minutes, and I'll tell you,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: by the end of it, I was like, oh my god, yeah,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: like what am I thinking? Yeah, you know, and you
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: gave me advice, which was between us of things that
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I need to do and to work on. And I
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: did those things and I'll never forget like when it
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: wore turned around and we entered this new chapter in
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: our marriage and we were all good. I was thinking
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: about you and I'm like, imagine if I never called culture, I'm.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: So thankful that you did.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: And you know what, this is a real testament to
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: our friendship because we will both you know, we will
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: say what we want to say, and sometimes it's hurtful.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: But you look at someone like Britney Spears and you're like,
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: it's sad she has no real friends, she has no
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: one to sit her town and be like, get out
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: of your foolia get better, extensions, stop, be a good mom.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Just have anybody she just has. Yes, people say you
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: always need someone that's going to tell you by yourself
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: you do and by the way, and let's and also
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: marriage is a lot of work.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Just in general, we can get a lot of Marriage
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: is a full time job as well.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: It's definitely a lot.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely a lot.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh oh. We didn't even mention Mike, your husband.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: Shout out to We don't say his name, shout out
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: to the fireman.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Fireman.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: He doesn't like to be known. He hates. He has actively.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Said to me many a time, sometimes I wish you
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: just worked at like Duncan. Yeah, you know, he hates
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: the the attention of it all. But he's the best dude.
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: He definitely compliments me. He's the office, yeah of me.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: One of the first things that was said to me
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: by an experienced person in radio when I was an
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: intern was that they said, if you continue to work
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: in radio, you're gonna learn that the people that matter
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: the most in your life, right, that mean the most,
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: do not give one fuck that you work on the radio.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? And it's so true. My
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: wife doesn't care. My wife listens to your fucking show. Okay,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: she's a.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Big fan of the passion you have morning shoes.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: It's great, okay, all right, see now now we've gotta
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: wrap things up. But thank you very much, and you'll
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: come back.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: I'll come back.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I'll come back, DM me or leave a talk back
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: if you want Ashley back. All right, but oh go
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: check out your post, Ashley with two ease.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Ashley Felman.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: Guys, go check out my post and check out our
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: show too, where you know, I know you guys. A
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: lot of you listen to Kiss obviously, and you probably
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: listen to a podcast.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna plug your show?
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: I am trying to pluck listeners, is what I need.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Ratings, all right, check them out. We'll come back. We'll
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: see it by