Latest / HBCWestminster / 9.22.24 Acts 21:1-16 Pastor Danny Gardner
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- 0:00church, would you pray with me? Our Heavenly Father, we know that Christ is supreme over all
- 0:09of creation. And we pray that he would reign supreme over our hearts, over our mouths, and
- 0:16over this church. Lord, be magnified in the preaching of your word this morning in Jesus' name.
- 0:23Amen. Amen. Thank you, church. Well, let's jump right in. You notice in verse 1 it says,
- 0:29and when we had parted from them. The Greek actually says when we had been torn from them.
- 0:36Their departure was painful. It was reluctant. I left off last Sunday by describing the book of
- 0:42Acts as a book of goodbyes. When Hallie and I were steadfastly praying for the Lord to reveal his
- 0:48will for our family regarding a possible move to Colorado 10 years ago, I was asked by another
- 0:54pastor what the most difficult thing about the prospect of moving was. And I replied,
- 0:59with, well, saying goodbye to our friends. And he replied simply by saying, you know what, Danny,
- 1:03next time you read your New Testament, and especially the book of Acts, read it with
- 1:08goodbye goggles on. He said, the people of God are always saying goodbye to one another because
- 1:14they know that a heavenly reunion awaits. Oswald Chambers has said it this way, the one who says,
- 1:21yes, Lord, but is the one who is fiercely ready but never goes.
- 1:27The exacting call of God is the one who says, yes, Lord, but is the one who is fiercely ready but never goes.
- 1:28The exacting call of God is the one who says, yes, Lord, but is the one who is fiercely ready but never goes.
- 1:29The exacting call of Jesus Christ has no margin for goodbyes because goodbye, as it is often used,
- 1:34is pagan, not Christian. I reminded us simply last Sunday how temporary Christian goodbyes
- 1:41actually are. And this morning, we study the correlation of friendship to discipleship.
- 1:49Can one be had without the other? Do you and I honestly need friends
- 1:54in order to accomplish what God has called us to do? Or
- 1:57can we legitimately fly the Christian journey solo? Has the Lord ever given you
- 2:05reminders, maybe sometimes very vivid reminders, of your need for good friends?
- 2:12What about when you need someone to watch your kids? It's nice to have good friends.
- 2:18When you're not sure which dentist to choose or which hairstylist is best. That one,
- 2:24I don't often struggle with. Maybe where the nearest,
- 2:27the nearest shooting range is. I mean, what do you do? You phone a friend.
- 2:31What about for more intense situations? What about when you need somebody to pray for you?
- 2:37Or you just need godly advice when you've experienced loss and need someone to help
- 2:43absorb your tears? What about when you just need someone to back you up?
- 2:50As you can probably tell, my body was not designed for fighting.
- 2:56These arms,
- 2:57were built for seminary. I've never actually even been in a fight. I've never punched a man in the
- 3:03face. I have never been punched in the face, but that doesn't mean I haven't been really close.
- 3:09I've been threatened many times. After all, I'm a pastor. Pastors sometimes get called into really
- 3:15sticky situations and the pastors are the guys who say the things that no one else wants to say.
- 3:22There's a moment during those intense conversations when it becomes clear that it's probably more of a
- 3:27more intense than it should be. When your heartbeat quickens, you realize this could get ugly.
- 3:35And in those moments, I honestly, I usually get a little jittery and a little nervous,
- 3:40but I have a friend whose heart rate does the opposite. It seems as though when he's right on
- 3:47the edge of those intense situations, he actually gets calmer. He was trained for moments like those.
- 3:55Before he came to Christ, he spent a decade in the midst of those intense situations,
- 3:57Marine Corps. He was stationed for many months, even upward of years in Somalia. That is the
- 4:04horn of Africa, specifically in Mogadishu. Now, if you ever saw the movie Black Hawk Down,
- 4:09that's where he was. And after the events of that movie were over, his unit was tasked
- 4:14with hunting down war criminals and either eliminating them on site or calling in airstrikes
- 4:22to whatever building they were hiding in. He had to perform duties I can't even imagine having to
- 4:27do. He served bravely. He was recognized for his service when he left the Marines. Fifteen years
- 4:33ago, that man visited our church. He was not a believer yet. His girlfriend at the time invited
- 4:39him. He was told to come talk to me about nightmares he'd been having after leaving the
- 4:44Marines. He was having trouble sleeping, and it had turned him basically into a borderline alcoholic.
- 4:51He approached me after the service. He said, are you Pastor Danny? I said, yes. And he said,
- 4:55I was told I'm supposed to come talk to you about some nightmares I'm struggling with.
- 4:57And I said, you want to come to my office? And he said, sure. I just asked him what's going on,
- 5:02and he explained to me every time he closed his eyes. He said, all I can see is the things I had
- 5:06to do. And so he said, I basically have to drink myself to sleep every night. I can't even close
- 5:13my eyes, he said. And I've been doing this for nearly a year. And you could tell he was just at
- 5:19the end of himself. And I just said, man, it sounds like you're just out of hope. You sound
- 5:23hopeless. And he said, that's exactly what I am. I'm hopeless.
- 5:28I said, well, the only hope that I've actually found on this earth is through the gospel of
- 5:33Jesus Christ. That's the only hope that we have as a species. Do you know who Jesus is? And he
- 5:39had visited a Catholic church a couple of times when he was really young. And so he'd heard the
- 5:42name, but honestly, guys, he knew nothing. He knew nothing about the gospel. So I explained to him
- 5:48who Jesus is, what Jesus accomplished. I talked to him about the crucifixion, the burial of Christ,
- 5:52the resurrection and ascension of Jesus Christ. I talked to him about forgiveness in his name.
- 5:56I told him that if we will confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to
- 6:00cleanse us from all unrighteousness. I talked to him about being saved by grace through faith in
- 6:05Jesus Christ and what all of that means. I explained the whole gospel to him. He listened intently. And
- 6:10I said, if you want to, you can pray right now and receive Jesus Christ and he will put your heart at
- 6:17peace. Is that what you want to do? And he said, that's exactly what I want to do. And the very
- 6:21first day I met him, he gave his life to Jesus Christ right there. He prayed and he just, I'm not
- 6:26I mean, very sincere, very short, but very sincere prayer of salvation. He was, I'm not kidding,
- 6:34immediately infused with the hope and peace that only the Holy Spirit provides. But
- 6:40the alcohol, the language and the attitude took some time for Christ to clean up.
- 6:46He and his girlfriend broke up shortly after that. And when he broke up with his girlfriend,
- 6:50he didn't know what else to do. So he just started hanging around our house a lot.
- 6:56And I spent just about every day with him for the next five years, for five years, until I moved to
- 7:02Colorado. I spent just about every day with him. He became a tow truck driver for a long time, for a
- 7:07couple of years. That's what he did. And so I would sometimes go with him to work. I'd just sit in the
- 7:11cab of his truck for hours. We talk about theology. We talk about the gospel. We talk about life.
- 7:16He's jumping cars and he's picking up wrecked cars and he's doing whatever. And for hours,
- 7:20I'd just be sitting there in his tow truck. Or he would say, you know, Danny, I've got the day off.
- 7:25What are you doing today? And I said, well, I'm studying in my office. Okay. I'll bring a book.
- 7:28And he'd just sit in my office and read. What are you doing today? I'm counseling people. Okay.
- 7:32I'll sit and listen. And if I can't sit and listen, I'll just sit in a chair outside in the hall.
- 7:36Okay. What are you doing today? I'm taking a guy to lunch. Can I come? Yeah, sure. What are you
- 7:40doing today? Staff meetings today. Can I come? Yeah, I guess. You want to come? He even ended up
- 7:48assistant coaching my son's little league team with me. Pearson was probably eight. Zach was
- 7:54about five at the time. He was a little bit older than me. He was a little bit older than me. He was
- 7:55about five at the time. Zach was playing up so they could play on the same team.
- 7:58One game, our team was hitting. I was coaching third base. He was coaching first base. The other
- 8:03team's coaches were really mouthy, consistently complaining about umpires calls, yelling at their
- 8:10own players, at times even yelling at our players. I mean, these were seven and eight year olds. I
- 8:14was like, what is your problem? There was a point in the game when, and to this day, I don't actually
- 8:20know what the guy said, but my friend just walked casually over to the other team's
- 8:26coach's box. I mean, his face was right here. And he just said, are we going to have a problem?
- 8:33Some muffled words were exchanged that I couldn't hear. My buddy casually walked back over to the
- 8:38first base coach's box and waited for the game to resume. That was it. After the game, I asked him
- 8:44what happened. All he said was this. That other coach said some things about you that I didn't
- 8:49appreciate. I said, really? What did you say back? And he said, well, I asked him what happened. I
- 8:55asked if we were going to have a problem that needed to be solved out in the parking lot.
- 9:00And the guy said, no. And then he said, I will keep my mouth quiet for the rest of the game.
- 9:08Honestly, I was a little shocked. I asked my buddy, what would you have done if he said yes?
- 9:14And he, with no expression at all on his face, said, I would have hit him in his five squishy
- 9:20spots. I didn't know what to say. Honestly, my initial thought was, wait, there are five
- 9:30squishy spots? I didn't know what to say. I didn't know what to say. I didn't know what to say.
- 9:31I took anatomy in high school. I could only come up with three. Now, listen, I didn't actually say
- 9:38anything in response. I just thought, you know what? Would you please accompany me to my car?
- 9:44Today, that guy is married. I just talked to him this week. I said, listen, I'm going to share
- 9:48your testimony in church. And he said, that's fine. He's married. He has four beautiful little
- 9:53kids. He is a logistics manager for a major defense contractor in LA. He and his wife,
- 9:58he just told me on Thursday, took over the kids ministry.
- 10:02He's a kids pastor now. You know, one time we were doing a young adult's Bible study
- 10:07and he was brand new. You know, so I said, hey, you should do a young, come to our young adult's
- 10:11Bible study. It was in our living room at our house. We had all these kids over and I just was
- 10:15going to introduce them, stand up, tell us your name and tell us kind of who you are. And so he
- 10:19stands up and he says, this is my name. And he said, I don't know. You know, I drive a tow truck
- 10:22and whatever. And I always just ask the same question. I just said, do you have any weird
- 10:26or special skills we should know about? Do you have any crazy things that you can do? And he
- 10:30says, like what? And I said, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't
- 10:31know. You know, when people are like, I can roll my tongue or I can tie a cherry thing, you know,
- 10:35and I can do all these funny little things. I can do a somersault or I can do what that's the
- 10:39normal response. He didn't know that. So he just stood up and he said, like what? And I said, I
- 10:44don't know. Can you do something that nobody else in here can do? And he said, well, I can
- 10:51shoot a man at 500 yards using only iron sights. And then he sat back down.
- 11:01And I said, it was crazy.
- 11:02Quiet, you guys. I said, well, welcome. I didn't know what to say. Now listen, why do I share that
- 11:12story? For two reasons. First, to give glory to God for his testimony. You know, when I'm
- 11:18tempted to doubt the saving power of the gospel, I think of men like him. The gospel really can
- 11:23save. And then second, to remind us of the value of friendship in hard situations.
- 11:32If you are a disciple of Christ, if that is true of you, then you are going to be called to do
- 11:36something difficult. And if you're going to succeed, then you need godly friends.
- 11:44One of the Lord's greatest means of grace and a means of grace is just the mode by which the
- 11:48Lord infuses power and grace into your life. It's how he gives you the power to do what you need to
- 11:55do. And one of his greatest means of grace is the gift of Christian friendship. And I believe that
- 12:01many of us either turn away from God or we turn away from God. And I believe that many of us either turn
- 12:02our noses up at it or unwittingly neglect it, not realizing how valuable Christian friendship
- 12:08actually is. We see in our text this morning that Paul was willing to fulfill the commission of God
- 12:14on his life all the way to the end, all the way to his own execution. And even through hardship,
- 12:20he had counted the cost of discipleship and he determined that the glory of God was worth whatever
- 12:25the payment. But as we will see, he also understood that in order to fulfill that commission, he needed
- 12:31some good friends.
- 12:32With him, we see that the Lord was faithful to provide those good friends.
- 12:38I'm going to break our text into two points, the value of friendship and the cost of discipleship.
- 12:43So let's look first at the value of Christian friendship. And the text answers a couple of
- 12:48questions about Christian friendship. First, do we actually need friends? Do you actually need
- 12:56friends? The apostle Paul clearly had friends. We pick up the story in 21 with Paul saying,
- 13:02his final farewell to the Ephesians. After studying his impact on Ephesus and especially
- 13:08considering how long it was. Remember, he was in and out of Ephesus for nearly three years.
- 13:13We can understand how much these men must have loved each other. They knelt on a beach together
- 13:18and prayed and cried together. As one studies the life of Paul, it's remarkable to read how
- 13:25often the apostle is surrounded by believing friends. And pick up right there in verse one,
- 13:32he says,
- 13:32we came by a straight course to Kos and on the next day to Rhodes and from there to Padua.
- 13:39And having found a ship crossing to Phoenicia, we went aboard and set sail. When we had come
- 13:43inside of Cyprus, leaving it on the left, we sailed to Syria and landed at Tyre. For there,
- 13:47the ship was to unload its cargo. Having sought out the disciples, we stayed there for seven days
- 13:53and through the spirit that we're telling Paul not to go on to Jerusalem. But when our days were
- 13:57there, we're ended. We departed. We went on our journey and they all with wives and children
- 14:01accompanied us. We went on our journey and they all with wives and children accompanied us.
- 14:02Until we were outside the city and kneeling down on the beach, we prayed and said farewell
- 14:07to one another. Then we went on board the ship and they returned home. We see throughout this
- 14:14plural pronoun, we and us. He was constantly surrounded by friends. In verse four, Paul
- 14:20ports in Tyre, immediately seeks out the disciples. The first thing he does getting off the boat
- 14:26is looks for believers. As was done in Ephesus, the believers in Tyre accompanied Paul to the
- 14:32beach. They prayed for him. They embraced him. They sent him on his way. I looked down at verse
- 14:39seven. When we had finished the voyage from Tyre, we arrived at Ptolemaeus, a new town. And what's
- 14:45the first thing he does? We greeted the brothers and sisters and stayed with them for a day.
- 14:51Paul made his way eventually to Caesarea in verse eight. And he does the same thing. On the next day,
- 14:57it says, we departed and came to Caesarea. We entered the house of Philip, the evangelist,
- 15:02who was one of the seven.
- 15:03He stayed with him. Now, the one of the seven means he was one of the original seven deacons
- 15:08of the Jerusalem church. Remember Acts chapter six. He was one of the original seven. I heard
- 15:13a commentator called them the magnificent seven. That's a clever name. And he stayed with them. So
- 15:19over and over, no matter what city he gets off the boat in, the first thing he does
- 15:24is looks for the believers. Look down at verse 15. After these days, we got ready and went up
- 15:32to Jerusalem, new city.
- 15:34Some of the disciples from Caesarea went with us, bringing us to the house of Manassin,
- 15:38of Cyprus, an early disciple with whom we should lodge. We read some of the believers accompany
- 15:44Paul all the way to Jerusalem, despite the knowledge that they would likely be imprisoned
- 15:49there. Now, consider for a moment, and let's look specifically at verses 15 and 16.
- 15:55Consider for a moment who it was that was speaking in verses 15 and 16. Who is the we?
- 16:04And why is the we?
- 16:05we significant see if you can figure it out find those we pronouns those personal plurals right we
- 16:11and us and figure out who is it talking about obviously Paul is one right some of the Caesarean
- 16:22believers you see in verse 16 but that's not all the other we is the author of the book Luke
- 16:29himself Luke was part of the group that actually tried compelling Paul not to go to Jerusalem and
- 16:39yet verse 14 says that Paul insisted on going and so Luke caved look at verse 16 since he would not
- 16:45be persuaded all of those friends including Luke gathered around Paul and said don't go why would
- 16:54you go but verse 14 says he would not be persuaded so we ceased and said we'll let the will of
- 16:59of the Lord be done this means that Luke stayed with Paul all the way to the end
- 17:08Paul had many traveling companions coming and going we've read about many of them in Acts
- 17:12but only Luke remained the book of Acts ends with Paul under Roman house arrest and
- 17:20we are only two months from being concluded with our study of Luke at the end of November
- 17:25beginning of December we will conclude Acts chapter 28 and it ends with him at a Roman
- 17:30house arrest and Luke stayed with him eventually church history records and I believe that Paul
- 17:37was actually released from that Roman house arrest he took a fourth undocumented missionary
- 17:43journey we know about the big three because they're recorded at Acts but I actually think
- 17:46he was released from there did a fourth missionary journey and then was re-imprisoned and Paul stayed
- 17:52with him the whole time
- 17:55you
- 17:55A second Timothy chapter 4 is Paul's account after that fourth missionary journey now he's
- 18:01re-imprisoned and now he knows he's going to die he knows this one does not end release
- 18:06but ends in execution and he says do your best to come to me soon for Demas in love with the
- 18:12present world has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica so there's one of his traveling
- 18:16companions the only thing we know about Demas is that he's in love with this present world
- 18:21and it makes me glad that my name is not recorded in the annals of scripture
- 18:26I'm not positive the words would have been good Demas in love with the present world has deserted me
- 18:32Crescens has gone to Galatia Titus to Dalmatia what does it say Luke alone is with me
- 18:40Luke is here he's the only one who stayed and listen friends wouldn't you love to have a friend
- 18:46like that don't you need a friend like that who will stay with you arm and arm all the way to the
- 18:55end
- 18:57I genuinely wonder sometimes if Paul could have done what he did if Luke had not done what he did
- 19:05we are often called in scripture to exhort one another to exhort means to come alongside it
- 19:15means to tether yourselves together it it's the same word that was used of tethering together
- 19:20to oxen or to horses pulling a cart it's said that those great big draft horses you know they're
- 19:28the big like Budweiser horses the big Clydesdales those things can pull on their own 8,000 pounds I
- 19:36I can't even imagine that number they say my truck has 200 and something horsepower if that's true
- 19:43it's not those kind of horses okay because my truck can barely pull more than that one of them
- 19:49can pull 8,000 pounds on their own but if you harness two of them together the two can pull
- 19:57three times the weight of the truck and that's a lot of work and that's a lot of work and that's a lot of
- 19:58weight one of them can pull 8,000 two of them can pull 24,000 pounds now experts speculate that the
- 20:07reason is psychological horses are pack animals they need one another in order to become most
- 20:14effective and friends guess who else is a pack animal you are you need one another the same
- 20:26phenomenon I believe happens in the church
- 20:28in order to become most effective we've got to tether ourselves together because two believers
- 20:34harnessed together have more than twice the impact so do you need Christian friends yes but the text
- 20:46also answers this question and we'll spend a few minutes here what do Christian friends actually do
- 20:51okay so I need Christian friends why do I need them what do they do now according to the text
- 20:57Christian friends do several things
- 20:58first Christian friends practice hospitality in cubbies parlance they share in fact the word for
- 21:11fellowship means to share that's what the word fellowship means our lives are shared one to
- 21:19another so what affects you also affects me and so in the body of Christ it is actually in your
- 21:25best interest to ensure that your
- 21:28neighbor succeeds spiritually the person who's sitting next to you even if you don't know them
- 21:33it's in all of our best interest for all of us to succeed spiritually because we share in one
- 21:40another's burdens and successes and notice that the believers in our text shared their homes in
- 21:47particular did you notice that Paul got off the boat and he stayed with these guys then Paul got
- 21:51off the boat and he stayed with this guy and then Paul got off the boat and he stayed with these
- 21:54people four times in this brief passage it states that Paul stayed
- 21:58in another believer's home some of whom he had probably not met until he was moving in
- 22:04so you're Paul yep and he's got his bags great you'll be staying downstairs in the basement
- 22:10right because that's where we put everybody great welcome early Christians I notice in chapter 21
- 22:17did not adopt the attitude of my home is my refuge these believers I believe properly understood
- 22:26their homes as a gift from God their homes were taken from them and they were taken from them
- 22:30to be used for the glory of God and to bless God's people Tim Keller defines the word hospitality as
- 22:39love for strangers or love for new people and our displays of hospitality are just an extension
- 22:46of the hospitality that the Lord has shown us at one time we were new people at one time we
- 22:52were strangers and the Lord gave hospitality he showered hospitality upon us he loved the
- 22:58stranger the outcast the new person and we were invited to the new person and we were invited to the
- 23:01new person and we were invited to come and eat with him at his heavenly table and so let me ask
- 23:05you honestly is that how your home is being used is your home your refuge or is your home a refuge
- 23:15for the gospel and you know you don't have to have a large home in order to practice hospitality
- 23:23I know that homes where we live are astronomically expensive and so as I'm talking to my own kids
- 23:30about hey buying a house and whatever it appears something's like that I don't know
- 23:33I can afford about a hundred square feet that's what I can afford how are we going to do this I
- 23:39don't know did you know oftentimes that the excuse that is used for not practicing hospitality is we
- 23:44don't live in a big enough house maybe if we had a bigger house I will promise you whatever house
- 23:48you live in is bigger than the houses Paul was staying in in Acts 21 I'll promise you none of
- 23:54them had indoor plumbing none of them had central air or heat none of them none of them had granite
- 24:00countertops none of them
- 24:04dishwashers laundry can you imagine none of them we live in palaces compared to any of those you
- 24:11do not have to have a large home in order to practice hospitality I promise you that every
- 24:15one of our houses is big enough you don't have to host a connect home in order to practice
- 24:20hospitality like only 14 homes get to practice hospitality in our church because we have 14
- 24:25connect homes no that's not what it says you don't have to wait for an invitation from the
- 24:30church elders to practice hospitality well maybe if somebody asked
- 24:33no you don't have to wait to be asked all you got to do is look around the room for new people
- 24:38and I will promise you there are new people here today every single Sunday there are new people to
- 24:43our church you're sitting within 30 feet of one look around for the people you don't recognize
- 24:48introduce yourself ask them over for coffee and if you're thinking listen pastor Danny you really
- 24:55don't understand I honestly I can't use my home that way that's okay no problem invite them out
- 25:01to coffee
- 25:03it'll cost you five bucks unless they have very expensive taste then it'll cost you seven
- 25:10okay seven bucks now listen while you sip your coffees share testimonies speak encouraging words
- 25:17to them offer to get them a refill and then say listen I'm going to refill your cup and when I
- 25:22come back I'm going to pray for you I will promise you you will leave with a new Christian friend
- 25:27that's how it works second so what do they do they practice hospitality but second Christian
- 25:32friends show a third of the time they don't have to be a Christian friend they don't have to be a
- 25:33Christian in the text we see Paul's friends kneeling with him twice right embracing him
- 25:40kissing him I understand that different cultures have different expressions of affection and let
- 25:45me be clear I am not in favor of going around kissing each other but our love for one another
- 25:53should be expressed tangibly at least to some degree I had lunch one time just in the last
- 26:00couple of years with a Russian pastor whose church is in the heart of my heart and I'm
- 26:03part of Moscow that was a cool lunch I asked him about cultural differences in the church and he
- 26:10said this in the American church men shake hands and I said that's because that's the way the Lord
- 26:16intended it okay men shake hands in America and I said yeah and he said in Russian churches men hug
- 26:24but he said we always hug with left hand up which is funny because I always hug with right hand up
- 26:33but he said we always hug with left hand up and we press our chests together so that when we hug
- 26:40our hearts are pressed against one another's they hug he was very specific he said in the church
- 26:47men hug heart to heart first John 3 16 says let us not love in word or talk but in deed
- 26:54and in truth and so it doesn't matter to me how you do it but don't just say you love your Christian
- 27:00friends prove it
- 27:03through your actions they show affection third Christian friends pray together they pray together
- 27:10and especially over important decisions the Ephesian elders we saw last week prayed for Paul
- 27:14this week the believers at Tyre prayed for Paul John Polhill in his commentary has said these
- 27:19references to prayer are not incidental it's not just saying and they prayed right everyone was
- 27:25fully aware of the difficulties facing Paul at Jerusalem they were also aware that prayer was
- 27:30the disciples best fortification in a time of suffering and they prayed for Paul and they prayed
- 27:33for Paul in a time of suffering and trial it was their best line of defense the Romans 12 12 says
- 27:38rejoice in hope be patient in tribulation be constant in prayer genuine Christian friendship
- 27:46should involve times of fervent prayer and especially with faced when faced with difficult
- 27:51decisions may I encourage you we can go and I only know this because I've practiced it myself we can
- 27:56go months and months and months at a time without praying with our friends we can just coast we can
- 28:02cruise control and we can go to the Lord's house we can go to the Lord's house we can go to the
- 28:03Lord's house we can go to the Lord's house we can go to the Lord's house we can go to the Lord's house
- 28:03Christian friendship without ever praying for one another don't be afraid to be the person who says
- 28:09let's pray let's pray let's pray right now let's pray right here on our knees in our living room
- 28:16that don't be afraid to pray with your brothers and sisters because after all it is your best
- 28:22fortification the gospel creates genuine friendships deeper friendships in fact than
- 28:30exists anywhere else in the world and my encouragement as you pray for the Lord's house
- 28:33your pastor is that you would lean hard into Christian friendship because you will be able
- 28:38to accomplish far more for the kingdom if we are all tethered together than we ever could flying
- 28:43solo so that's first the value of Christian friends but now let's turn our attention to the
- 28:48cost of Christian discipleship pick up in verse eight it says on the next day we departed and
- 28:56came to Caesarea we entered the house of Philip the evangelist who was one of the seven and we
- 29:01stayed with him
- 29:03he had four unmarried daughters who prophesied while we were staying for many days another
- 29:08prophet named Agabus came down from Jerusalem from Judea coming to us he took Paul's belt this is a
- 29:16funny scene right I don't know if it was sitting there on the table or something maybe he had
- 29:20taken his belt off or maybe the guy walked over and took off his belt I gotta be honest if some
- 29:24dude walks into church today and says Danny give me your belt I'm like I don't think I'm gonna do
- 29:28that but he took Paul's belt he bound his own feet and he took Paul's belt and he took Paul's belt and
- 29:33and hands. He tied it around his own feet and hands, cinched it together and said, thus says
- 29:37the Holy Spirit, this is how the Jews at Jerusalem will bind the man who owns this belt and deliver
- 29:43him into the hands of the Gentiles. Notice that is where the prophecy stops. The divine utterance is
- 29:50over in verse 11. Do you guys all see that? So there is the divine prophecy. Now let's look at
- 29:56the very human reaction. I'm not saying it was a sinful reaction. I'm just saying it was not an
- 30:03inspired reaction in verse 12. Okay. So it did not say that the Holy Spirit is saying, do not go.
- 30:10All the Holy Spirit was saying is once you get to Jerusalem, you're going to be bound.
- 30:13All right. Their human response is similar to our human response. Well, then we shouldn't go.
- 30:20I'm not going. When we heard this, we and the people that urged him not to go up to Jerusalem,
- 30:26and Paul answered, what are you doing, weeping and breaking my heart?
- 30:30I'm not only ready to be imprisoned, but even to die in Jerusalem for the name
- 30:35of the Lord Jesus Christ. Now, as we said last Sunday, and is now repeated in this morning's
- 30:40text, it had been revealed to Paul by the Holy Spirit that waiting for him in Jerusalem was
- 30:43nothing but imprisonment and affliction. And so many times his friends encouraged him not to go.
- 30:49And yet, despite what was no doubt good advice from his friends, Paul was determined to go to
- 30:55Jerusalem anyway.
- 30:58The story actually sounds a little bit similar to Christ's own determination to go up to Jerusalem
- 31:05despite the counsel of his friends. Jesus was not eager to endure the cross. He knew exactly
- 31:13what awaited him. In fact, he spelled it out many times in detail. At one point,
- 31:19Peter actually stands in his way. Do you remember this? And tries to compel him not to go. And do
- 31:25you remember how that ended? Get behind me.
- 31:29You devil. You are not speaking the words of God. You may be giving loving advice, but it is not
- 31:36godly advice. And so, Satan, get behind me. You're either with me or against me, but get out of my
- 31:44way. Jesus prayed in the garden at the end of all of that, that the will of the Lord would be done.
- 31:51And that's exactly how our passage ends. Verse 14, let the will of the Lord be done.
- 31:59One commentator even calls this passage Paul's Gethsemane. I thought that was interesting. A very
- 32:06similar reflected story in the gospels. Paul's Gethsemane. It was John Shedd who said a ship is
- 32:13safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for. And it's true that if you're going to follow the
- 32:19Lord's leading for your life, he will lead you out of the harbor. And it is true that once you
- 32:25abandon the safety of the harbor, those storms, those storms, those storms, those storms, those
- 32:29storms breaks. You are going to get tossed around a little bit. You'll probably collect a few
- 32:33barnacles. You could even get seasick. But don't forget, it is only the one who doubts, James 1
- 32:42says, who is tossed to and fro. The following the Lord may not be safe, but it is certainly secure.
- 32:48The Lord himself said, so no one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom
- 32:55of God. He said, we don't stay in the harbor, but we
- 32:59put out to sea because that is what ships are for. And the apostle knew what the Lord had commanded
- 33:04him to do. The question was not whether he would go to Jerusalem or not. The question was, will I
- 33:09be obedient to the Lord or not? He knew that although the message from Agabus was divine,
- 33:14the urging from his friends was human. And so he stayed the course, but don't neglect what he did
- 33:20next. Don't miss verses 15 and 16. We're going to read them again. After these days, we got ready
- 33:27and went up to Jerusalem. And some of the disciples from
- 33:29Zeruiah went with us, bringing us to the house of Manasseh of Cyprus, an early disciple with whom
- 33:33we should lodge. Don't neglect what he did as he left from one place to go to Jerusalem. What did
- 33:40he do? He took friends. I'm going, he said. And you guys are all coming with me. You know, that
- 33:49same quote from Oswald Chambers that we began the sermon with ends this way. When once the call of
- 33:55God comes, begin to go and never stop going. And may I ask you, I'm going to go and never stop going.
- 34:00And when it's time to go, consider taking some good friends. Allow me to pray, Lord, thank you
- 34:08for the friendships that exist in this room. Lord, thank you for surrounding us with believers,
- 34:14so many, Lord, that we can actually be picky about the friends that we've got. God, thank you
- 34:22for the encouragement that we draw from one another as we tether ourselves together for
- 34:26the sake of the gospel. And Lord, may we be genuine Christian friends who practice
- 34:32hospitality, who show affection toward one another, and who pray fervently for one another.
- 34:38Because we know, Lord, that that is our best fortification against evil, our best defense
- 34:43against the wicked one and the schemes of the devil, that we would pray fervently for one
- 34:48another. And so, Lord, may we not just say we have Christian friendships, but may we practice those
- 34:53in deed and in truth. And Lord, may we also count the cost of discipleship and determine
- 34:59that it is worth.
- 35:02And whatever the payment, but God, may we not neglect the people that you've sent to
- 35:07go with us. We thank you, Lord, for the church. We thank you for the bride of Christ. And
- 35:14it's in Jesus' name we pray. Amen.