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The Breakfast Club BEST OF - Jill Scott, Kelly Rowland, Method Man & DeVon Franklin interview · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake, Wake, wake that ass up on the program your
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  Speaker 1: alarmed the power one oh five point one on iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 2: She call eight hundred and five eighty five one O
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  Speaker 2: five one. We want to hear from you on the
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  Speaker 2: breakfast club.
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  Speaker 3: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Who's this?
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  Speaker 4: Hello?
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  Speaker 5: He just be here from Longallo.
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  Speaker 2: What's up? Brother Jay?
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  Speaker 6: Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 7: Brother? How you're doing?
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  Speaker 5: Man, I'm sorry to bother you this morning.
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  Speaker 8: Man, keep bothering us. Brother with my wife.
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  Speaker 5: Now, my wife's had a baby in the bathroom at
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  Speaker 5: the hospital. Man, she was neglected the entire time.
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  Speaker 2: Man, what hospital?
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  Speaker 5: This hospital in Long Gallen.
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  Speaker 9: How did that happen? How did they end up leaving
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  Speaker 9: her in the bathroom? Why wouldn't they take her in
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  Speaker 9: the room.
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  Speaker 5: So that's the situation. We arrived there at two fifteen am.
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  Speaker 5: I begged them three times at the reception. Is my
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  Speaker 5: wife hed the room? My wife had the room? They
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  Speaker 5: talking about, Oh, she's just diolated. This is normal. Normal.
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  Speaker 5: My wife went to the bathroom. She texted me, I'm bleeding.
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  Speaker 5: I run back to the leady again. My wife says
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  Speaker 5: she's leading. She said, oh, that's normal. Worried about I
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  Speaker 5: don't worry about it. So a housekeeper, my wife comes
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  Speaker 5: to the whole way. Now a housekeeper that that's cleaning
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  Speaker 5: the whole way. She demanded, get this woman a doctor.
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  Speaker 5: She she's in pain. She clearly says she's in pain.
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  Speaker 5: My wife was like, I think I got these the bathroom.
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  Speaker 5: She goes to the bathroom a water break. She touched
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  Speaker 5: me again. So I run out and tell the nursery
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  Speaker 5: or my wife's.
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  Speaker 10: A water break.
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  Speaker 5: Nobody moved, nobody does not, does nothing. So I run
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  Speaker 5: it there myself. She said, the baby is coming. I'll
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  Speaker 5: run back to the nursing station. I'm yelled, the baby's coming.
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  Speaker 5: By the time we get there, real the baby fell
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  Speaker 5: out head first.
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  Speaker 11: BYRD Jesus Jesus Jesus.
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  Speaker 9: And no doctors, no nurses came in the bathroom, even.
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  Speaker 11: Trying to hold no nothing.
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  Speaker 5: We got, we got images, we got video, we got everything.
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  Speaker 12: Is the baby is the baby okayabya?
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  Speaker 5: So so far, so far, so good, like I've been
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  Speaker 5: taking it. Took me to the neurologists, pediatrician. It's just
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  Speaker 5: scary because even my wife, at the percent of everything
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  Speaker 5: came out, was like, right now, there, she's okay.
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  Speaker 8: What was the excuse to the hospital gave you after that? Like,
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  Speaker 8: what did they say to let.
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  Speaker 5: Me explain this part too? And again, I'm sorry, I'm
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  Speaker 5: so I'm so so sorry.
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  Speaker 8: Son.
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  Speaker 5: A woman came in fifteen minutes after us. She was screaming, agonize, opinion, Oh,
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  Speaker 5: this baby is coming in, this baby is coming. They
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  Speaker 5: allow her to get a room. Their excuse was that
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  Speaker 5: she was a lot more louder than my wife. Her
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  Speaker 5: to me and show like she needs more attention only
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  Speaker 5: for us to have our baby seven minutes before our
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  Speaker 5: Still was.
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  Speaker 13: She a white woman?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 12: And what was all the other all the nurses, like
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  Speaker 12: all the nurses and staff they're white.
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  Speaker 5: Too, yeps. And that's the that's the that's the fight.
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  Speaker 5: We're trying to We're trying to, like literally, I be
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  Speaker 5: in the all of you guys. I sent you guys emails,
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  Speaker 5: like I'm trying to get this message out there. Man,
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  Speaker 5: I come up there. I just want to expose this
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  Speaker 5: situation because we was we was an hour. Winess moved
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  Speaker 5: so far, but I need to get this message out here,
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  Speaker 5: like I put the wrong out and it's horrible.
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  Speaker 13: Man, is your wife is your wife okay, like more now.
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  Speaker 5: I mean she's she's gonna have best to be okay
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  Speaker 5: for the baby. But you know, in and out every
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  Speaker 5: other hour, every other day.
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  Speaker 6: It's just a fight, a damn And what town is
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  Speaker 6: that long, Alan, brother, it's.
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  Speaker 5: A new high park, it's a hospital court women's hospital.
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  Speaker 8: And you gotta get you an attorney.
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  Speaker 9: Get an attorney, brother, you definitely got to get an attorney.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, that's that's what we're working on now.
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  Speaker 5: But I just feel like for the most part, people
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  Speaker 5: only you know, with what they don't hear, they steel
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, I just I just really gotta
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  Speaker 5: get the message, of course, like so you got you got,
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  Speaker 5: you got, you gotta let people know that. Ain't know
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  Speaker 5: telling how many times it happened that nobody's soaked up
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  Speaker 5: but under.
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  Speaker 2: The road, right, good luck, brother, I'm glad.
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  Speaker 6: I'm glad you your baby's doing fine.
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  Speaker 5: Man, Yo, Can I say it one more thing, man,
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  Speaker 5: I'm extremely thankful for you guys. I appreciate you guys, man,
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  Speaker 5: like I really you know, you guys really motivating me.
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  Speaker 5: So please thank you man. Keep pushing the.
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  Speaker 9: Message for blessing to you and your family.
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  Speaker 8: Healing energy. Wow, you never know people going through board
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  Speaker 8: all that mercy.
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  Speaker 14: Get it off your chest eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 14: one oh five one. If you need to vent, hit
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  Speaker 14: us up now. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, right right yo, Charlotte man, what up.
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  Speaker 12: Are we list?
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  Speaker 2: This is your time to get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 6: Indoor pool pool.
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  Speaker 2: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 12: Get on the phone right now.
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  Speaker 6: He'll tell you what it is.
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  Speaker 13: Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Who's this yo?
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  Speaker 7: The boy dj E, the Good Morning Team, Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: You call it from easy.
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  Speaker 7: From Brooklyn, the Big Floor, Big floors, Brooklyn.
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  Speaker 8: What's up brother, Big floors? Why are you call it
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  Speaker 8: the big floors?
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  Speaker 7: Kanasi the home of the home of the wood the
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  Speaker 7: Homo pop from.
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  Speaker 2: Up the lake Griz.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, okay, get it off your chest, brother, Yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 7: So you know I hate what artists put out storms
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  Speaker 7: and they don't have a d D and they circle
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  Speaker 7: to the prove it, see like mvu of DJ with
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  Speaker 7: d D twenty years in the game. And then you know,
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  Speaker 7: just like DJ many first at a while back, like
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  Speaker 7: if you don't got a DJ in your circle to
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  Speaker 7: approve her songs, because that canna be a club backer.
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  Speaker 7: Who you talking about? You're talking about somebody in particular.
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  Speaker 6: What's song you're talking about?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, the baby, the pop that's just
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  Speaker 7: not rocking with me right now.
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  Speaker 5: I can't feel it as a d D.
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  Speaker 7: I can't put that in rotation for me.
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  Speaker 8: Man, I got you can't find you why your might?
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  Speaker 2: It may be a little bit.
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  Speaker 6: How old are you YOURRD i'mbout forty.
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  Speaker 9: And you don't you forty is a little You aren't
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  Speaker 9: outside with Uncle Luke and Georgia, Baby, judge.
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  Speaker 7: Baby, get let me see.
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  Speaker 4: I'm doing a round.
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  Speaker 6: I run, I want to run.
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  Speaker 9: Shut up.
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  Speaker 7: You don't like all I'm outside, I'm up listed. I'm
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  Speaker 7: one of the one.
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  Speaker 8: You don't tell eric one of it.
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  Speaker 7: So that's what I'm saying. I feel like they need
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  Speaker 7: to have a DJ.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm gonna tell you why.
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  Speaker 15: Right.
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  Speaker 7: A lot of artists don't know about bpms, and a
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  Speaker 7: lot of artists don't know how to match songs and
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  Speaker 7: beat matt and if you playing our song that's in
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  Speaker 7: the wrong bpm, if I'm in the one sixty, if
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  Speaker 7: I'm in the seventy b pm, seventy two bpm or
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  Speaker 7: eighty bpm, and then you think you got a song
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  Speaker 7: that's like a ninety and you think it's a banger.
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  Speaker 7: It's not gonna be in the right John when I'm
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  Speaker 7: trying to take a crowd. And if you don't know that,
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  Speaker 7: if you don't learn that science, be like yo, get
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  Speaker 7: a song that's gonna match any situations, so you can
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  Speaker 7: over get plugged in. Your songs will never.
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  Speaker 5: Be in rotation in the MB. These artists need.
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  Speaker 2: To know that.
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  Speaker 7: They don't know that.
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  Speaker 5: Getting songs, they just haveing.
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  Speaker 7: Any producers make any type of song, any type of
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  Speaker 7: BT of any type of genre, any type of temple,
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  Speaker 7: and it just be warm blood.
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  Speaker 5: I can't take it.
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  Speaker 14: It's funny that you said that, because I was watching
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  Speaker 14: fifty and the Baby yesterday and the baby said he
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  Speaker 14: met this DJ at a club and Rocket and became
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  Speaker 14: his DJ. And now the DJ is actually producing and
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  Speaker 14: helping engineer his records.
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  Speaker 6: So I believe the DJ actually did that record. I
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  Speaker 6: don't have that records tough, I don't know.
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  Speaker 14: Eat out of Brooklyn a little bit because anyway, HBC
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  Speaker 14: all over the world.
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  Speaker 7: Dude Bay by Ray Kowait Germany, trust me up around
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  Speaker 7: the world, big blow following your step.
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  Speaker 5: I'm following your foot.
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  Speaker 2: That record tough to me.
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  Speaker 6: You can tell about keep talking like anything should you be.
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  Speaker 9: He's saying that he probably listening to the Baby record
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  Speaker 9: and thinking about all the records that's out now. It
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  Speaker 9: may not fit in with that, but when you're doing
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  Speaker 9: your parties and you get into your bag and you
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  Speaker 9: playing them them old Uncle Luke and Georgia Bays, that
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  Speaker 9: fit right in.
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  Speaker 6: It don't matter.
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  Speaker 14: Is what makes women dance, and that record we make
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  Speaker 14: women dance. And if you're a good DJ, you can
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  Speaker 14: transition into anything from that record like it is what
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  Speaker 14: it is. Like the Shake record that that Baby did
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  Speaker 14: and put Sexy Red on. That was another record, lick
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  Speaker 14: that was about one hundred and thirty five tempo. Because
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  Speaker 14: he's talking tempos and that record still rock.
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  Speaker 13: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 12: See, when we're in the club and we're working, we
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  Speaker 12: don't care about the vpms and all of that. I
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  Speaker 12: just wanted something, said.
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  Speaker 14: Excuse me, can you send me a record that's a
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  Speaker 14: seventy five so I can shack?
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  Speaker 2: No, they just go up.
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  Speaker 9: Back and they shaken after that on TikTok and social
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  Speaker 9: media too.
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  Speaker 8: So that's the other part you got to think about.
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  Speaker 6: Get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 14: Eight hundred and five eighty five one oh five one.
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  Speaker 14: If you need to vent hit us up now. It's
• 7:41
  Speaker 14: the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning, warning everybody. It's DJ n V Chess and
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  Speaker 6: Maria Charlamaine the guy. We are the breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 14: Now if he's just joining us. We're talking about a
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  Speaker 14: conversation that Corey Larray and Justin lea Boy had about
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  Speaker 14: liking people's pictures on social media.
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  Speaker 2: This is what they said.
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  Speaker 8: What do you consider cheating?
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  Speaker 13: Liking for cheating? Why are you shaking your head?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that's hitting.
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  Speaker 13: Why is Tell me why you don't.
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  Speaker 16: I don't want to chase that.
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  Speaker 13: Why because you could be scrolling on your page and
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  Speaker 13: accidentally like a picture accidentally.
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  Speaker 6: Right now, because accident accidentally something else. So that is
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  Speaker 6: the question. Eight hundred and five eight five one oh
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  Speaker 6: five one. Is that considered cheating?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think? I don't.
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  Speaker 13: I don't think that's considered cheating.
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  Speaker 12: I know a lot of women who would. I know
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  Speaker 12: a lot of men who would get upset at their
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  Speaker 12: women or girls wives liking pictures of half niggad dudes.
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  Speaker 12: You got the physical trainers that be out there flexing
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  Speaker 12: and you know, appealing to the women trying to get
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  Speaker 12: more clients.
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  Speaker 8: I like them, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 12: But I like a lot of women's pictures as well.
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  Speaker 12: I like what you're saying, bitches t work, you know
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  Speaker 12: what I mean. I like Yeah, But I don't get
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  Speaker 12: upset when Chris looks at those things. It's not something
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  Speaker 12: that he constantly does, like you know, a lot of
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  Speaker 12: time out the day.
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  Speaker 13: But you know, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't get mad at I don't.
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  Speaker 14: I don't know if it's considered cheating, but it's inappropriate. Yeah,
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  Speaker 14: I think it's I think it's inappropriate. And let's say
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  Speaker 14: with Chris, right, because at one time you like women. Yeah,
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  Speaker 14: so if I'm Chris, I know you're not going back
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  Speaker 14: down that route. You start liking these chicks and start
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  Speaker 14: liking these strippers, start liking these dances, start liking these
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  Speaker 14: beautiful girls.
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  Speaker 6: Now I got a problem.
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  Speaker 13: We had a baby.
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  Speaker 9: I'm ried.
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  Speaker 13: You have to trust me, because how I know he
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  Speaker 13: not in that in box.
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  Speaker 8: That's right?
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  Speaker 9: If you say that, you know what I'm saying, because
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  Speaker 9: I'm sure he'd be liking Cardi b You know what
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  Speaker 9: I'm saying, even Onoria.
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  Speaker 6: J Lo, how about you shut up, shut up.
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  Speaker 12: It ain't all that and it ain't name no black
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  Speaker 12: woman or nothing.
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  Speaker 8: He got a black woman.
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  Speaker 9: Wow, you want to go back to the root of
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  Speaker 9: what he let Listen.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't think. I don't I don't like it.
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  Speaker 9: I think it's inappropriate. I wouldn't call it cheating. Yes,
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  Speaker 9: I wouldn't do that. Like, I think that's disrespectful. Like
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  Speaker 9: I have no business as a married man liking I
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  Speaker 9: don't like pictures, no way. But I definitely don't have
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  Speaker 9: no business liking uh no, no woman's pictures like for
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  Speaker 9: what now? And also to context matters as well, right,
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  Speaker 9: because we're clearly talking about pictures when a woman is
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  Speaker 9: like half neked, Like if a woman graduate from college.
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  Speaker 2: And I like it, that's to be fine, right, absolutely
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean.
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  Speaker 8: Like it's some contact matters, right, It depends what the picture.
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  Speaker 13: Depends on what kind of picture it is.
• 10:06
  Speaker 7: Hello, who's this Hey, Jammy?
• 10:09
  Speaker 10: Can you hear me?
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: I can hear you.
• 10:10
  Speaker 6: What's your name?
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  Speaker 2: Mama?
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  Speaker 17: So this is Jackie from Jersey.
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  Speaker 4: But I live in the craziest place in the world.
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  Speaker 4: Charla ain't always stay yes.
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  Speaker 14: Jackie from Jersey that now lives in Florida, talk to us.
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  Speaker 14: Is it considered cheating?
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  Speaker 10: Absolutely?
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely?
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  Speaker 17: Can you imagine walking down the street and double tapping
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  Speaker 17: on every woman you see? If I'm walking with my man,
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  Speaker 17: right and every time you see a pretty woman, he
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  Speaker 17: tap on her.
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  Speaker 18: That is different, not double tapping in person, going to jails,
• 10:39
  Speaker 18: accomplishing all that fonder than you're doing.
• 10:42
  Speaker 17: Wait and listen, I need to say this. I used
• 10:45
  Speaker 17: to call all the time, and I used to be
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  Speaker 17: able to get through. Hey, Jacks, hilarious. Every since you've
• 10:49
  Speaker 17: been on there, I have not been able to get through, damn.
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  Speaker 8: But no, it's y'all than you, Jackie, Thank you.
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  Speaker 13: All right?
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  Speaker 10: Hello, who morning, CCC.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning. Is liking other people's pictures a form of
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  Speaker 6: cheating with your thoughts?
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  Speaker 19: As a married adult, I wouldn't call it a former
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  Speaker 19: speeding as much as I would allay just completely inappropriated oncast.
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  Speaker 19: If you're married and you're with someone, I would question
• 11:23
  Speaker 19: why would you feel the need to pay that kind
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  Speaker 19: of attention to compliment to someone's not your styuse. But
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  Speaker 19: if you're not married, then I would say, you guys
• 11:32
  Speaker 19: are both go shopping and I think that's still fair,
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  Speaker 19: especially if you're a couple that like both the ship
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  Speaker 19: clubs or watch this scorns. I don't think you should
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  Speaker 19: be allowed to get mad at like six years old
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  Speaker 19: if you're probably very suckle, I would think that's inappropriate.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it's inappropriate too, Thank you.
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  Speaker 9: Me and my wife definitely enjoy a script club, you
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  Speaker 9: know what I'm saying, And like that, if there's a
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  Speaker 9: really pretty girl on Instagram or like some unbelievable like
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  Speaker 9: god damn, we'll show.
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  Speaker 8: Each other, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, that So that's what me and Chris do.
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  Speaker 13: Like, that's what we do.
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  Speaker 12: Is like he's not just sitting there scrolling. Let me
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  Speaker 12: correct that, he's not just sitting there scrolling and liking
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  Speaker 12: bitches pictures and bitches working or whatever, but like.
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  Speaker 13: He sees something. He showed me.
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  Speaker 12: I see something I show him when we out in
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  Speaker 12: public and we see a fat ass or something like.
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  Speaker 6: We that's real, you know what I mean, That's just
• 12:15
  Speaker 6: what it is real.
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  Speaker 13: Hello, what's good morning, shant.
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  Speaker 2: What's your what's your thoughts?
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  Speaker 9: Well?
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  Speaker 10: First, I want to say happy birthday to my daughter
• 12:26
  Speaker 10: and my brother. It's their birthday today. Happy birthday, o
• 12:31
  Speaker 10: Cali and can't.
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  Speaker 8: Troll happy born.
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  Speaker 10: We all call him from we in Columbia, South Carolina.
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  Speaker 11: My daughter.
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  Speaker 10: Right now on her birthday.
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  Speaker 13: Hey, that's what's up.
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  Speaker 6: What's your thoughts though?
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  Speaker 10: But my thought is, I feel like social media and
• 12:48
  Speaker 10: social media it's just engaging. I don't think people in
• 12:51
  Speaker 10: relationship should take that serious. And I think if they
• 12:53
  Speaker 10: take it seriously, you got some insecurities issues because it's
• 12:56
  Speaker 10: not that serious, Like it's just a like of a picture.
• 13:00
  Speaker 10: Maybe they think something about them look good, like personally
• 13:04
  Speaker 10: because they sitting behind the spring or living their own
• 13:07
  Speaker 10: life doing whatever. You know what I'm saying.
• 13:09
  Speaker 8: Yeah, like it in your mind. You ain't gotta like
• 13:11
  Speaker 8: it for.
• 13:11
  Speaker 9: The world with you.
• 13:13
  Speaker 10: Man, it's social media. You're supposed to engage on social
• 13:17
  Speaker 10: with the people it's supposed to be social.
• 13:20
  Speaker 7: If they didn't, if they weren't.
• 13:21
  Speaker 10: Supposed to like it, then why is it like button there?
• 13:23
  Speaker 6: You got a man?
• 13:24
  Speaker 10: Yes, I do. He be tripping. He's tipping about the
• 13:27
  Speaker 10: whole sharing stuff and engage and stuff too.
• 13:29
  Speaker 6: So I be I'm going to to you, the one, you,
• 13:31
  Speaker 6: the one that pictures and doing all.
• 13:36
  Speaker 4: About it.
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: I share a.
• 13:37
  Speaker 10: Post that I think I agree with and he be
• 13:40
  Speaker 10: tripping And I don't understand that because it's social media,
• 13:43
  Speaker 10: because that's what you're supposed to do.
• 13:45
  Speaker 9: Tell you got to give me an example of a
• 13:46
  Speaker 9: post that you agree with. Like, so it's like somebody
• 13:48
  Speaker 9: will say something or like a political stance.
• 13:50
  Speaker 8: So what you mean, like, I.
• 13:53
  Speaker 10: Can't really come up with an example.
• 13:55
  Speaker 12: It's something like relationship, isn't it.
• 13:57
  Speaker 10: Yeah, something about a relationship or something like that. Maybe, Okay,
• 14:01
  Speaker 10: So matter fact, the other day I shared something like
• 14:04
  Speaker 10: about cheating, like a dude would have multiple females but
• 14:09
  Speaker 10: the only one I mean that has in the past.
• 14:11
  Speaker 10: But it's not going on now.
• 14:13
  Speaker 13: So you said.
• 14:15
  Speaker 10: I wasn't speaking to him. It's just something that I
• 14:18
  Speaker 10: agree with. It's not as the next pretense to what
• 14:20
  Speaker 10: I got going on now. But I mean, I feel
• 14:22
  Speaker 10: that post by share it is it don't want nothing
• 14:25
  Speaker 10: to do with me.
• 14:25
  Speaker 7: Now, but you know I feel it.
• 14:29
  Speaker 18: Oh, she reposted it and you saw it on You
• 14:33
  Speaker 18: know why, I though, because that'll make that make if
• 14:35
  Speaker 18: people are following you, that know y'all, they'll think that
• 14:39
  Speaker 18: he cheating and they think that you subbing him.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: So I get it.
• 14:42
  Speaker 8: I understand. I understand why he would be.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Upsetting real place.
• 14:46
  Speaker 16: Huh.
• 14:47
  Speaker 10: Social media is not a real place.
• 14:48
  Speaker 12: Yes, it is, absolutely and create real problems, you see.
• 14:53
  Speaker 10: I guess so I didn't look at it from this perspective,
• 14:55
  Speaker 10: but I guess hearing this from y'all, I guess I
• 14:57
  Speaker 10: shouldn't look at it because he feel like you should
• 14:59
  Speaker 10: post part of the stuff that represents you and this,
• 15:02
  Speaker 10: that and the herd. I'm like, I feel you, But
• 15:04
  Speaker 10: it's just social.
• 15:05
  Speaker 8: Media, all right. Let that man.
• 15:07
  Speaker 9: Let that man put in his clothes. Friends today, can
• 15:10
  Speaker 9: you'll be mad as hell to his friend's.
• 15:12
  Speaker 8: Gonna be mad.
• 15:13
  Speaker 13: Niggas gonna be like.
• 15:20
  Speaker 14: Five one if you're just joining us. This conversation comes
• 15:24
  Speaker 14: from Coy, Lil Ray and just a little Boy. They
• 15:26
  Speaker 14: were talking about liking picks on social media.
• 15:29
  Speaker 8: This is what they said, What do you consider cheating?
• 15:32
  Speaker 13: Liking photos is cheating? Why are you shaking your head?
• 15:36
  Speaker 8: I don't think that's cheating.
• 15:38
  Speaker 13: Liking photos is cheating.
• 15:40
  Speaker 14: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one on
• 15:43
  Speaker 14: five one? Is liking somebody's pick on social media?
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: Cheating? Hello? Who's this?
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: I'm clear?
• 15:49
  Speaker 14: Okay, mama, we're asking it's liking somebody's pick a form
• 15:52
  Speaker 14: of cheating. Yes, it is.
• 15:54
  Speaker 10: And I say that because especially from my city. Let's
• 15:58
  Speaker 10: just say, if I have a dude and he likes
• 16:01
  Speaker 10: somebody's picture, the females will be like, oh, ain't this Claire, dude,
• 16:06
  Speaker 10: what's you doing back in my picture? They'll try to
• 16:08
  Speaker 10: turn it into something that is not so.
• 16:10
  Speaker 13: Y'all are known.
• 16:11
  Speaker 12: Y'all are actually popular in the city.
• 16:13
  Speaker 10: I wouldn't say me and my boyfriend. I just say
• 16:17
  Speaker 10: in general, like the people who wouldn't know me, Oh,
• 16:20
  Speaker 10: if they'll, if they'll, if kill like one of their pictures,
• 16:26
  Speaker 10: that's tight programs like similar to Charlomage's question for Valentine's
• 16:31
  Speaker 10: Date and my the problems, Yes I am.
• 16:35
  Speaker 9: I don't think you the problem. I agree with what
• 16:37
  Speaker 9: you're saying that people will use that stuff against you.
• 16:40
  Speaker 10: They will, and if it he's so innocent, just trying
• 16:43
  Speaker 10: to make it feel like they have a one up
• 16:45
  Speaker 10: for liking a picture. Okay, but baby, he just say
• 16:48
  Speaker 10: my wrint thought. We're strict around here.
• 16:54
  Speaker 6: Okay, Well, thank you, mama, Thank y'all so much.
• 16:58
  Speaker 10: Wednesday, I love the club.
• 17:01
  Speaker 8: We love you more.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this talk to us.
• 17:04
  Speaker 14: Good morning, good morning.
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: So I don't think if they're local, well, if they're local,
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: then you're definitely cheating because I feel like you might
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: go to her house. Celebrities, then I don't have no
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: issue with that because you're probably not gonna meet them anyone.
• 17:21
  Speaker 12: I don't like you, like, I don't like you doing
• 17:23
  Speaker 12: that either, yeah, like nah, but and then you gotta
• 17:26
  Speaker 12: think about it.
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: Celebrities.
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: Now I'm liking me people, but that's different.
• 17:31
  Speaker 8: You're a woman.
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: I don't have no product that I'm talking about, you know,
• 17:33
  Speaker 9: as a woman liking another man's pick or a man
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: like in a woman's pick, like if you.
• 17:37
  Speaker 8: Like it, make this dallion pick?
• 17:38
  Speaker 9: Cool? And showed me right, like right, baby, look that's right,
• 17:43
  Speaker 9: show me Megan be like, look baby, look what I
• 17:45
  Speaker 9: can't do no more?
• 17:51
  Speaker 6: Well, thank you, mama, thank you. All right, let's go
• 17:53
  Speaker 6: a little more.
• 17:54
  Speaker 8: They calling the people mama, not knowing that they got kids.
• 17:56
  Speaker 6: I mean, it's just in New York.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Hello, who's this?
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: Heh?
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Yoh?
• 18:00
  Speaker 11: This swag?
• 18:02
  Speaker 13: What's up? Swag?
• 18:04
  Speaker 20: It was good?
• 18:04
  Speaker 4: Hey?
• 18:05
  Speaker 21: Yo?
• 18:05
  Speaker 7: How are you gonna get mad at somebody for liking
• 18:07
  Speaker 7: some pictures?
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: Bro?
• 18:08
  Speaker 9: I'm from Jersey, don't call it here talking like the
• 18:11
  Speaker 9: way you talk to your girls now.
• 18:15
  Speaker 11: I just don't want you to hang out because last
• 18:17
  Speaker 11: time I got through it, y'all hung up on me
• 18:18
  Speaker 11: because I was boring. I guess, but I just you
• 18:20
  Speaker 11: know what I'm saying, Listen, Cool. She been alive since
• 18:24
  Speaker 11: Instagram first came out. It was only pictures. Attagram used
• 18:27
  Speaker 11: to only be pictures to be forgetting about that because
• 18:30
  Speaker 11: of all the extra stuff that they added. So how
• 18:32
  Speaker 11: you gonna get mad at liking pictures when it's originally
• 18:35
  Speaker 11: about only liking pictures? Bro, Like, that's what I'll be
• 18:37
  Speaker 11: going through with my girl. Like, I think you're gonna
• 18:39
  Speaker 11: get mad at somebody was like as a picture.
• 18:40
  Speaker 9: It's context is what type of pictures did you liking?
• 18:43
  Speaker 9: Like if you liking a girl that just bought a
• 18:45
  Speaker 9: new car, cool, you know what I mean. But if
• 18:47
  Speaker 9: you liking a girl you know, busting that thing open
• 18:50
  Speaker 9: for a goon, it's a different whole conversation.
• 18:52
  Speaker 7: Nah, that's a fact. But she didn't say that.
• 18:54
  Speaker 11: She said liking pictures, she didn't say what type of pictures.
• 18:57
  Speaker 11: So I mean that if you on a female piege
• 18:59
  Speaker 11: and she just bought a car and you like her
• 19:01
  Speaker 11: piccher Coiler Ray is gonna be mad, right then, Coiler
• 19:04
  Speaker 11: Ray is putting an aesthetic out here for all these
• 19:06
  Speaker 11: other young girls to be mad at. They man for
• 19:09
  Speaker 11: just doing what Instagram is originally about.
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: That's messed up like that, ain't right?
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: That was it?
• 19:13
  Speaker 8: Context matters?
• 19:14
  Speaker 14: Yeah, but we don't know what crack like crack might
• 19:15
  Speaker 14: like pictures of dudes that's naked, you know what I mean?
• 19:19
  Speaker 7: Everybody always gotta do that gag like my girlbody's gonna be.
• 19:23
  Speaker 8: Mad about that, you know, keeping on his mind?
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: What don't say that all the time?
• 19:28
  Speaker 11: Every time I listen to the video. Hey Charlie man
• 19:30
  Speaker 11: used to be you Now m be starting it up
• 19:33
  Speaker 11: all the time.
• 19:34
  Speaker 9: Yeah right, I'm literally is delivering my bad crack yourself.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: You talk about.
• 19:44
  Speaker 11: Pause the jay Z, you don't even pause your.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Damn Jesus right, you too.
• 19:50
  Speaker 8: Ain't know me too. I'm delivered, I cracked, I signed it.
• 19:55
  Speaker 9: Don't say game bill, right, don't put I got to
• 20:00
  Speaker 9: don't play gay Bill in my book bag right now?
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: That's crazy?
• 20:03
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 20:03
  Speaker 6: Well, what's the moreil the story?
• 20:04
  Speaker 9: The more all of the story is, man, just show
• 20:06
  Speaker 9: some respect. I think we know what respect is and
• 20:08
  Speaker 9: what's not respectful.
• 20:09
  Speaker 8: You know what I mean?
• 20:10
  Speaker 9: And I don't think that you know, liking certain pictures
• 20:12
  Speaker 9: depending on what said woman is doing or you know,
• 20:14
  Speaker 9: if you're a woman, what said man is doing.
• 20:16
  Speaker 8: You know what's respectful and what's not respectful. You know
• 20:18
  Speaker 8: what's the liking not.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: Like all right, it's the Breakfast Club Good Morning on.
• 20:21
  Speaker 6: Everybody's dj MV.
• 20:23
  Speaker 14: Just Larious Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club
• 20:26
  Speaker 14: Law the roost is here and.
• 20:27
  Speaker 9: We got a special guest in the building, legend that
• 20:30
  Speaker 9: icon has returned.
• 20:31
  Speaker 8: The blessings with our presence once again, Ladies and.
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: Gentlemen, Jill Scott's back.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Welcome. How you feeling, thank you?
• 20:37
  Speaker 8: How do you feel?
• 20:38
  Speaker 13: It's jiff excited, excited.
• 20:41
  Speaker 9: First album in a decade, ten years, That's what I hear, Yes,
• 20:46
  Speaker 9: sir By the way. I love the way you release
• 20:48
  Speaker 9: music because it feels like you release music when you
• 20:50
  Speaker 9: feel like you want to, when the spirit moves you.
• 20:54
  Speaker 8: How do you know when it's the right time to
• 20:55
  Speaker 8: release music?
• 20:56
  Speaker 22: Because I have too much and then I it lets
• 21:01
  Speaker 22: me relax. When it's not finished, I keep tweaking touching, touching, tweaking,
• 21:06
  Speaker 22: finding new flavors, seasonings, musicians, producers.
• 21:11
  Speaker 13: And when it's done, it leaves me alone and.
• 21:13
  Speaker 22: Then I can just listen. And I have so much
• 21:15
  Speaker 22: that I could just listen to. I knew I was done.
• 21:19
  Speaker 22: It's like, Okay, now I can create.
• 21:21
  Speaker 21: I saw he talking about when you took the time
• 21:23
  Speaker 21: off and how intentional you are with just being a
• 21:25
  Speaker 21: mom in that time that you took off, and then
• 21:28
  Speaker 21: explaining to your son about like why you got to
• 21:30
  Speaker 21: get back to work and teaching him that how has
• 21:31
  Speaker 21: it been down that you're back out on the road
• 21:33
  Speaker 21: and you're doing all these things and getting back into
• 21:35
  Speaker 21: the swing of things.
• 21:36
  Speaker 22: Well, he's sixteen now, and I didn't have to explain
• 21:39
  Speaker 22: anything to him. He knew he was in the studio
• 21:41
  Speaker 22: with me. You know, he's the one that suggested Ji D.
• 21:45
  Speaker 22: He's the one that suggested Tara Wack. You know, he's
• 21:49
  Speaker 22: been a part of the whole process.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: So you got to work.
• 21:51
  Speaker 13: So here an R. He is an A and R.
• 21:54
  Speaker 13: Absolutely we'll see what else he can do.
• 21:57
  Speaker 22: Right now, he's a scuba diving, cross country uh, singing,
• 22:03
  Speaker 22: writing person.
• 22:05
  Speaker 8: Thus all of that.
• 22:07
  Speaker 22: Yeah, thus far, I'm just watching to see you know
• 22:09
  Speaker 22: what I could do? You know how I can help
• 22:11
  Speaker 22: out with the thing.
• 22:12
  Speaker 6: Does he know how special his mom is and how
• 22:14
  Speaker 6: powerful his mom is?
• 22:15
  Speaker 22: Well, he loves me, you know, like whether I do
• 22:19
  Speaker 22: well or if I you know what I have or
• 22:21
  Speaker 22: don't have, he he loves me. You know, we love
• 22:24
  Speaker 22: each other.
• 22:25
  Speaker 9: Yeah, you're special and powerful to him in ways that
• 22:27
  Speaker 9: we would never understand.
• 22:28
  Speaker 8: You was, mom.
• 22:29
  Speaker 22: I love him, I appreciate him, I respect him, try
• 22:33
  Speaker 22: to help him in any dream that he has.
• 22:36
  Speaker 13: And I don't even know what that don't even mean.
• 22:39
  Speaker 13: I don't know. I don't care. As long as he's
• 22:42
  Speaker 13: happy and uh, he can take care of himself financially, that.
• 22:47
  Speaker 22: Matters to us. I'm straight, like he's a good person.
• 22:53
  Speaker 22: He's so funny, he's cool.
• 22:55
  Speaker 13: So I'm glad. He suggested j I D I was.
• 22:58
  Speaker 22: We listened to him, you know, like this is our
• 23:01
  Speaker 22: music in the kitchen, this is what Jet and I
• 23:03
  Speaker 22: do when we have time together. And he said, Mom,
• 23:07
  Speaker 22: why don't you call j Id? And I was like,
• 23:08
  Speaker 22: I don't know him Jet, and He's like, just D.
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: And that's what you did.
• 23:14
  Speaker 13: Yeah, And it's like minutes later he texted back, like,
• 23:18
  Speaker 13: what's up, queen? What you want now? What you want
• 23:20
  Speaker 13: to do? And I was like, well, he said, send it,
• 23:24
  Speaker 13: and within twenty four hours he sent his verse back.
• 23:26
  Speaker 15: Wow.
• 23:27
  Speaker 22: And when I tell you, I asked him specifically. I said,
• 23:31
  Speaker 22: I need you to paint a picture with words. This
• 23:35
  Speaker 22: is what I require of the MC's that I love
• 23:38
  Speaker 22: and the MC's that I put on my projects. I
• 23:40
  Speaker 22: need you to paint pictures less than twenty four hours.
• 23:43
  Speaker 22: Bars You could see it, you could taste it. He
• 23:47
  Speaker 22: painted brilliant. So proud of him and so happy that
• 23:51
  Speaker 22: he's on my project.
• 23:53
  Speaker 8: So what made you put ab sol on old to Nikki?
• 23:55
  Speaker 9: Because I feel like Old Nicky would have been such
• 23:57
  Speaker 9: a personal record to you that you want to keep
• 23:59
  Speaker 9: that to yourself.
• 23:59
  Speaker 8: What made you you?
• 24:01
  Speaker 22: Because Nikki Giovanni inspired writers, she inspired her inspired poets,
• 24:07
  Speaker 22: and absul is an il MC. He's he's so thought provoking.
• 24:14
  Speaker 22: I have to go back and listen again and again,
• 24:17
  Speaker 22: and then I pull out books and you know, I
• 24:19
  Speaker 22: pick up Wikipedia or whatever, you know, to find out
• 24:22
  Speaker 22: exactly what he's talking about, because he's he's that thoughtful,
• 24:26
  Speaker 22: he's that prolific.
• 24:28
  Speaker 13: He's he's had quite.
• 24:29
  Speaker 22: A life experience and it represents in his writing deeply.
• 24:33
  Speaker 22: So I when I did old to Niki, She's the
• 24:37
  Speaker 22: first poet that I ever found out about at school,
• 24:41
  Speaker 22: black poet, black woman, And uh, it's just awesome to
• 24:46
  Speaker 22: see myself on paper like that, my people, my neighborhood,
• 24:51
  Speaker 22: you know, my love on paper. So when I did
• 24:56
  Speaker 22: old to Niki, she had just passed. Absoul seemed like the.
• 25:00
  Speaker 13: Right guy to me.
• 25:01
  Speaker 9: I mean, he sounds great on him, he does sound greatbody.
• 25:03
  Speaker 9: I just wanted to know the meaning because I'm like,
• 25:05
  Speaker 9: that's a big compliments.
• 25:07
  Speaker 22: Because we spend a lot of time talking, we clicked
• 25:09
  Speaker 22: really easily. So we talked about the Celestine prophecy like
• 25:13
  Speaker 22: within minutes of just talking to each other and moved
• 25:18
  Speaker 22: on from from there. So yeah, he was the right
• 25:21
  Speaker 22: person for me to choose.
• 25:23
  Speaker 14: So you look so happy, like, you look so glowing.
• 25:25
  Speaker 14: I've been watching your rollout right. I seen you with
• 25:27
  Speaker 14: a demo and I've seen you do a lot of pressing.
• 25:29
  Speaker 14: You just look and feel like a positive vibe.
• 25:32
  Speaker 13: I feel good.
• 25:34
  Speaker 22: I did something that I really wanted to do and
• 25:37
  Speaker 22: it means a lot to me, and I have an
• 25:40
  Speaker 22: opportunity to share it and perform it in front of
• 25:42
  Speaker 22: people that will be looking at me like I look
• 25:45
  Speaker 22: at them, and I get a chance to travel some
• 25:49
  Speaker 22: more and make some money.
• 25:50
  Speaker 6: You know, but you even like even when I see
• 25:52
  Speaker 6: you're blushing, it's like it's like your overly loved.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 25:56
  Speaker 13: I love it.
• 25:56
  Speaker 14: Even when you got hit this morning, you you said,
• 25:58
  Speaker 14: what time do you guys get here in the morning,
• 26:00
  Speaker 14: but you were smiling and happy about it, like I
• 26:02
  Speaker 14: love it, And I love to see artists like that
• 26:04
  Speaker 14: that loved the craft. You could tell when the artist
• 26:06
  Speaker 14: has to do something for money, or when the artist
• 26:08
  Speaker 14: has to do something because the label is requiring or
• 26:10
  Speaker 14: management required, And then you could tell when somebody just
• 26:12
  Speaker 14: loves putting.
• 26:14
  Speaker 8: Every ten years, she doesn't do anything because the label
• 26:16
  Speaker 8: wants her to difference.
• 26:18
  Speaker 21: Even your rollout felt like a hug, Like I saw
• 26:21
  Speaker 21: you you were from Gillian Wallow, then I saw you
• 26:23
  Speaker 21: on Angie Martinez. Then eventually you started doing like you
• 26:26
  Speaker 21: were posting like the letters on your Instagram and kind
• 26:28
  Speaker 21: of explaining the project. And I'm like, this just feels
• 26:31
  Speaker 21: like I'm being ushered into like a whole new world
• 26:33
  Speaker 21: of things.
• 26:34
  Speaker 13: That was the plan.
• 26:36
  Speaker 22: I have a new publicist. I think she's absolutely wonderful.
• 26:39
  Speaker 22: Her name was Erica Trucker Tucker. Forgive me. I think
• 26:43
  Speaker 22: she's fantastic. But we had a whole other idea. Like
• 26:49
  Speaker 22: two days before we started doing the rollout. Two days
• 26:52
  Speaker 22: before I just was like, hold on, hold on, hold on,
• 26:55
  Speaker 22: hold on, hold up, were's talking about beautiful people? If
• 26:58
  Speaker 22: we're gonna put beautiful people lout as an introduction to
• 27:01
  Speaker 22: the album, because really that's who I'm calling. I'm calling
• 27:06
  Speaker 22: the people that that light up from the inside, you know,
• 27:09
  Speaker 22: that that love love, yeah, love love that are again
• 27:19
  Speaker 22: financially respectful to their lives. Makes sense, okay, And so
• 27:28
  Speaker 22: if that's the if that's the intention is this is
• 27:31
  Speaker 22: the call out, well, let me represent the people that
• 27:33
  Speaker 22: have been so beautiful in helping me with this project.
• 27:37
  Speaker 22: You know, it's all been organic. I met a guy
• 27:39
  Speaker 22: at a party. It was like, I'm two shorts engineer,
• 27:44
  Speaker 22: and I was like.
• 27:46
  Speaker 13: I believe you.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: That's like.
• 27:56
  Speaker 21: It's the church and the education system too though, right,
• 27:58
  Speaker 21: could you mentioned education in the as well?
• 28:01
  Speaker 13: Yes, I'm in the pharmaceutical and yeah.
• 28:04
  Speaker 9: You ain't, I know, if you didn't lie, and even
• 28:08
  Speaker 9: just the choice to go get too short to come
• 28:10
  Speaker 9: on there and describe pimping.
• 28:13
  Speaker 13: The mentality of a pimp.
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: What is it?
• 28:15
  Speaker 22: So so we're clear, I'm not saying anything. I'm not
• 28:18
  Speaker 22: trying to be mean to you. What I want to
• 28:21
  Speaker 22: be mean to somebody for it? That's not it.
• 28:24
  Speaker 7: This is what it is. This is what it is.
• 28:27
  Speaker 13: And I have a thorough bred pimp to tell you.
• 28:31
  Speaker 13: So it feels like.
• 28:34
  Speaker 22: Like the player's ball. It feels like it's pimpy. It's
• 28:39
  Speaker 22: a failure. It's like revolutionary at the same time. And
• 28:42
  Speaker 22: I was like, yeah, okay, what am I gonna talk about?
• 28:45
  Speaker 22: This is what I want to say. I say preaching man,
• 28:48
  Speaker 22: what you're trying to do? Trying to Yeah this my
• 28:52
  Speaker 22: name is that all you do when my main got squad?
• 28:57
  Speaker 22: But you take that ye, and you ain't good for
• 29:00
  Speaker 22: the people. I ain't moved.
• 29:04
  Speaker 13: Where's the universities, where's all the food for free? People?
• 29:09
  Speaker 22: Can't fee the Veilles, but you're still riding around in
• 29:12
  Speaker 22: the coup Deville, the biggest pimp of the year.
• 29:15
  Speaker 21: Ah.
• 29:18
  Speaker 14: If everything is a signed, do you ever feel see
• 29:20
  Speaker 14: a sign that says I'm not going in that direction,
• 29:23
  Speaker 14: I'm not going there or management.
• 29:25
  Speaker 6: Let's not do that, because that does not feel right.
• 29:28
  Speaker 22: It's not as easy. It's abrupt, it's harsh, it's a
• 29:33
  Speaker 22: it's a jerk back. And I haven't really No, I
• 29:36
  Speaker 22: don't know how to like navigate that part yet, but
• 29:38
  Speaker 22: I will. I will get I will get away. I
• 29:42
  Speaker 22: will get away. I've learned that too. But when the
• 29:45
  Speaker 22: spirit says no, when your whole energy says no, what
• 29:49
  Speaker 22: are you doing? Don't talk to this person. I remember
• 29:53
  Speaker 22: talking to somebody at a party and.
• 29:54
  Speaker 13: I was like, why are you got covid all in
• 30:02
  Speaker 13: my face? Now got covid?
• 30:04
  Speaker 9: I was like, see, girl, everything makes so much sense
• 30:09
  Speaker 9: now because you know, one of my favorite records on
• 30:11
  Speaker 9: the album is pay You on Tuesday, Right, And it's
• 30:13
  Speaker 9: so funny because my niece had put out a tweet
• 30:15
  Speaker 9: yesterday and she put af you Young Black and gifted
• 30:17
  Speaker 9: get Away from Right, and I just thought that was hilarious,
• 30:21
  Speaker 9: and then I heard pay You on Tuesday. But now
• 30:23
  Speaker 9: I'm like, oh, she's staying away from the poor me
• 30:27
  Speaker 9: energy type. I mean, now, did I hear you talk
• 30:29
  Speaker 9: about the book so much? I'm like, oh, that's why
• 30:31
  Speaker 9: she wrote that record.
• 30:33
  Speaker 13: Part of it. Part of it part of it.
• 30:35
  Speaker 22: And I know I keep saying financial, but I am
• 30:37
  Speaker 22: really over us spending and buying things that we can't
• 30:42
  Speaker 22: afford for who, for what?
• 30:45
  Speaker 13: It's so many things to do, to taste, to see, places,
• 30:48
  Speaker 13: to be like.
• 30:51
  Speaker 20: I just what.
• 30:52
  Speaker 22: I just don't see how it profits us to You know.
• 30:56
  Speaker 22: I like nice stuff too, I really do. But I
• 30:59
  Speaker 22: buy the stuff that I can afford. And somebody else
• 31:02
  Speaker 22: was like, you could afford. You don't know what I
• 31:03
  Speaker 22: could afford, and you don't know what I want?
• 31:07
  Speaker 8: But you accurate? Wag I do?
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: I do?
• 31:11
  Speaker 15: I do?
• 31:12
  Speaker 13: I think it's a wise decision. I saved properly. I invest.
• 31:17
  Speaker 22: I really want to switch out of this poverty mindset,
• 31:22
  Speaker 22: or the lacking mindset of some you know, my family,
• 31:27
  Speaker 22: break away from these things. I'm not interested in doing
• 31:30
  Speaker 22: that anymore. I want to crawl and I want to
• 31:34
  Speaker 22: make a whole lot of money, like a whole lot,
• 31:37
  Speaker 22: and I'm going to do great things with it.
• 31:39
  Speaker 13: Enjoy it.
• 31:40
  Speaker 22: I already do enjoy the money I have. I do
• 31:42
  Speaker 22: dope it on the regular, I really do. It's been
• 31:46
  Speaker 22: it's been so nice.
• 31:48
  Speaker 13: Oh my god. You know, my son went to Tanzania
• 31:52
  Speaker 13: to get his school certification. I've never been.
• 32:02
  Speaker 8: Beautiful.
• 32:03
  Speaker 14: I've never been but he has, like, yes, But that's
• 32:06
  Speaker 14: the most important thing, right when we get to a
• 32:08
  Speaker 14: place where it's like none of this matters. You just
• 32:10
  Speaker 14: want your kids to be happy. Whatever it takes to
• 32:14
  Speaker 14: be happy. Like I tell my daughter my son, I
• 32:16
  Speaker 14: don't care what you do. If you want to do nails,
• 32:18
  Speaker 14: if you want to do heir, if you want to
• 32:19
  Speaker 14: do sanitation. As long as you're happy, life is too short.
• 32:22
  Speaker 13: Joyful, happy is fleeting, joyful, joyful. Look for it. That's
• 32:29
  Speaker 13: an insight as well, to constantly look for the joy.
• 32:32
  Speaker 22: Taste the food, taste it, feel the water. It's nice
• 32:39
  Speaker 22: and it sparks creativity.
• 32:41
  Speaker 9: I can't afford to eat that, Jill, and I can't
• 32:43
  Speaker 9: afford to go there the swimming that water.
• 32:44
  Speaker 8: So can you lower me something quick?
• 32:48
  Speaker 22: I've learned this. If someone wants to borrow something from you,
• 32:51
  Speaker 22: you give them a job. If they do the job
• 32:55
  Speaker 22: and do the job well, then that you're showing me something.
• 32:59
  Speaker 22: I want to give you a small reimbursement contract. I'm
• 33:05
  Speaker 22: going to say twenty five dollars a month.
• 33:09
  Speaker 13: Fair.
• 33:09
  Speaker 22: Yes, you don't pay the twenty five dollars I don't
• 33:12
  Speaker 22: know how when it's gonna stop. It's gonna stop if
• 33:14
  Speaker 22: you're consistent. If you're consistent. If you're not consistent, you
• 33:19
  Speaker 22: never have to worry about me again. You never have
• 33:22
  Speaker 22: to ask me anything again, because this was a contract.
• 33:26
  Speaker 22: It didn't have any interest.
• 33:28
  Speaker 13: This was respect.
• 33:29
  Speaker 22: So I enjoy helping people, but I have to see
• 33:34
  Speaker 22: what they want. I have to see what they're doing.
• 33:37
  Speaker 22: I gotta see something. You gotta show me something. Can't
• 33:39
  Speaker 22: just tell me a dream. Okay, when did you get
• 33:43
  Speaker 22: to that point in your life? Because I saw you
• 33:44
  Speaker 22: talking to Angie Martinez about that right and set in
• 33:46
  Speaker 22: these boundaries. But then I also hear you talk a
• 33:48
  Speaker 22: lot about like you carry so much for your family
• 33:51
  Speaker 22: for a long time because you were trying to, like
• 33:53
  Speaker 22: y'all were trying to get out of the situations that
• 33:54
  Speaker 22: you guys were in. And I think that there's like
• 33:56
  Speaker 22: a sometimes there's like this tug of war of like
• 34:00
  Speaker 22: I'm able to help, so I want to help. But
• 34:01
  Speaker 22: at the same time, I got us set these boundaries.
• 34:03
  Speaker 22: When did Jill Scott say I didn't did enough. I
• 34:06
  Speaker 22: gotta stop this now now something had I turned fifty
• 34:12
  Speaker 22: and the light popped on again. Yeah, that's what happened.
• 34:19
  Speaker 22: Time creates wisdom, you know, if you're paying attention. If
• 34:24
  Speaker 22: you're not paying attention, it just creates age. But yeah,
• 34:28
  Speaker 22: I've been paying attention, and I know that that doesn't
• 34:30
  Speaker 22: make me feel good to watch people do things that
• 34:36
  Speaker 22: are outside of their particular space financial space, like going
• 34:42
  Speaker 22: on a cruise. Okay, you're going on a cruise, but
• 34:45
  Speaker 22: you didn't pay the mortgage.
• 34:48
  Speaker 13: I can't help you with that. I can't.
• 34:51
  Speaker 22: And the fact that you would ask me to it's ridiculous.
• 34:55
  Speaker 22: You made a choice, that is your choice. It wasn't
• 35:00
  Speaker 22: like something happened like you know, the car broke down
• 35:03
  Speaker 22: or you know the tuition is behind or it's nothing
• 35:07
  Speaker 22: like that. And even if tuition is behind, how them grades,
• 35:12
  Speaker 22: how they doing, what activities are they in? Because it's
• 35:16
  Speaker 22: mine and I can share with you as i've seen
• 35:20
  Speaker 22: fit and deemed fit. It might seem harsh, but I
• 35:24
  Speaker 22: don't know, it feels right to me.
• 35:26
  Speaker 13: I feel better. I don't feel way down by people's stuff.
• 35:30
  Speaker 8: I don't think that's harsh.
• 35:31
  Speaker 9: And then also, what about when you give somebody money
• 35:33
  Speaker 9: for mortgage, but then you go see them on a
• 35:35
  Speaker 9: cruise after they just asked you, I.
• 35:37
  Speaker 13: Didn't get invited to the crew.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: What is blues to you?
• 35:43
  Speaker 6: That's his favorite song?
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: By the way, Oh no, no, I got a lot of.
• 35:49
  Speaker 9: Favorite records, but that record was hit for me yesterday
• 35:53
  Speaker 9: in a real way. I got a lot of favorite
• 35:54
  Speaker 9: record on that, but that one really was it.
• 35:57
  Speaker 22: Okay, music is medicinal. It'll hit you when you need it.
• 36:00
  Speaker 22: So what do you mean by like, what what does
• 36:02
  Speaker 22: it do for you?
• 36:04
  Speaker 19: Man?
• 36:05
  Speaker 9: For me, it just put things in perspective based off
• 36:09
  Speaker 9: what you're saying, because you're saying a lot of that
• 36:10
  Speaker 9: throughout the song as you're singing. But it's also it's like,
• 36:12
  Speaker 9: I don't want no money to lose. Stop putting your
• 36:15
  Speaker 9: problems on me. I can wake up in the morning
• 36:17
  Speaker 9: and be good, and then by the end of the
• 36:19
  Speaker 9: week I'm feeling way down.
• 36:21
  Speaker 8: And then when you realize why you're way.
• 36:22
  Speaker 9: Down, it's because you're trying to help everybody else with
• 36:25
  Speaker 9: the I don't want no more.
• 36:27
  Speaker 22: It's exhausting. Yes, it's exhausting. I love to inspire. I
• 36:32
  Speaker 22: want people to do better, but if they don't want it,
• 36:35
  Speaker 22: what am I supposed to do? Just keep pouring into
• 36:39
  Speaker 22: an empty well.
• 36:39
  Speaker 13: I can't do it. The things that you do don't
• 36:43
  Speaker 13: benefit you, so why do I have to?
• 36:48
  Speaker 8: Damn, that's a bar.
• 36:51
  Speaker 9: I wonder when you do records like pressure, when you
• 36:53
  Speaker 9: do records like me, for is that when you do
• 36:57
  Speaker 9: the actual record, is that when the closure comes, do
• 37:00
  Speaker 9: you have closure before in order to do the record.
• 37:03
  Speaker 13: I never thought about it. I don't know if that
• 37:05
  Speaker 13: I'm looking for closure Necessarily.
• 37:08
  Speaker 22: I need to say it. I need I need it,
• 37:12
  Speaker 22: I need to say it it is true, I need
• 37:14
  Speaker 22: to lie, I get it out. I think that's how
• 37:17
  Speaker 22: I feel about that. Yeah, and then when I listen
• 37:20
  Speaker 22: to it, it becomes an affirmation for me because I've
• 37:23
  Speaker 22: said it, and I was like, yeah, you said that,
• 37:25
  Speaker 22: because that's that's what it is.
• 37:27
  Speaker 13: That's exactly what it is.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you went too far. It was like, we take
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: this out, man.
• 37:33
  Speaker 22: Many many times, many times, many times. I typically write
• 37:37
  Speaker 22: the thing before I get into the studio so I
• 37:40
  Speaker 22: can find how it feels when I get.
• 37:42
  Speaker 13: In there, or I'll already know how it feels.
• 37:47
  Speaker 22: It wasn't something I don't I don't know if I
• 37:49
  Speaker 22: necessarily went too far, And be clear, I just said
• 37:53
  Speaker 22: something I probably.
• 37:54
  Speaker 13: Shouldn't have said. I don't know it was the right thing.
• 37:59
  Speaker 22: And when I listened to it, I'm like, yeah, that's right,
• 38:01
  Speaker 22: you know that was that was real there, but I
• 38:05
  Speaker 22: probably shouldn't have shared it.
• 38:08
  Speaker 8: Went on this album.
• 38:09
  Speaker 20: Oh yeah, you said you married a bitch? Yes, I
• 38:18
  Speaker 20: got pretty self exflanatory.
• 38:20
  Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 38:21
  Speaker 22: I think I just needed to get that get stuff
• 38:23
  Speaker 22: out too. You know, music is healing, or the artist
• 38:27
  Speaker 22: as well supposed to be.
• 38:28
  Speaker 6: What's the moral compass with that? Is it yourself?
• 38:30
  Speaker 20: Said?
• 38:31
  Speaker 15: Now?
• 38:31
  Speaker 6: Is it your son?
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: Is it your homies?
• 38:34
  Speaker 22: Like else?
• 38:35
  Speaker 13: I haven't had that. It didn't come up.
• 38:37
  Speaker 22: Nobody said anything, you know, and my son listens to
• 38:40
  Speaker 22: everything and we talk about everything.
• 38:45
  Speaker 13: Yeah, so it didn't come Nobody said he you probably shouldn't.
• 38:49
  Speaker 22: Nobody did not. I don't know if I would agree
• 38:52
  Speaker 22: or disagree about it. Did you see how everybody's going
• 38:55
  Speaker 22: crazy about squeezing My Meat. It's a song called Don't Play.
• 39:02
  Speaker 8: I didnt see people going crazy about.
• 39:04
  Speaker 13: Oh boy, I did. They were like, squeeze my meat.
• 39:11
  Speaker 6: She said, squeeze my meat.
• 39:16
  Speaker 13: And I was like, I did.
• 39:17
  Speaker 8: Ain't not used to that for you yet.
• 39:19
  Speaker 13: At this point, it's a new generation of people who
• 39:21
  Speaker 13: just be on Twitter.
• 39:23
  Speaker 22: I'm just I'm just confused. Maybe you all can help
• 39:26
  Speaker 22: me out here, because I would love to know. I've
• 39:29
  Speaker 22: heard lyrics that way.
• 39:32
  Speaker 8: Worse on money the cop they're thinking about eating I heard.
• 39:41
  Speaker 13: I heard.
• 39:41
  Speaker 22: I listened to a lot of music, And because I
• 39:45
  Speaker 22: listened to a lot of music, I was just like,
• 39:47
  Speaker 22: what exactly is so radical about squeeze my meat? But
• 39:55
  Speaker 22: what But besides being a fan or not, like, what's
• 39:58
  Speaker 22: radical about that? I just thought I miss something.
• 40:00
  Speaker 9: Probably the way you sung it when you sing it
• 40:02
  Speaker 9: with yes, you know, because it sounds amazing, so you
• 40:04
  Speaker 9: might be just randomly find yourself singing it even as
• 40:06
  Speaker 9: a guy, you know.
• 40:07
  Speaker 8: What I mean.
• 40:08
  Speaker 21: I also think it's I think it's too like with
• 40:10
  Speaker 21: the new generation, they get it different ways, like.
• 40:16
  Speaker 9: A point at the end of the spirit of more
• 40:20
  Speaker 9: meat and I'll just be coming around the corner squeeze
• 40:22
  Speaker 9: my meat.
• 40:23
  Speaker 6: You better never sing that if you're in the bathroom
• 40:24
  Speaker 6: with me.
• 40:25
  Speaker 8: Bro, That's all I think.
• 40:28
  Speaker 13: It's the fact that you got to say squeeze like
• 40:32
  Speaker 13: they said it was. They was deeming the big areola music.
• 40:36
  Speaker 21: I heard that too, Yeah, I would say, yeah, because basically,
• 40:41
  Speaker 21: if you don't know what to do with it, don't
• 40:42
  Speaker 21: come over here.
• 40:43
  Speaker 13: That's the conversation. And I think it's just right now.
• 40:47
  Speaker 21: In music, you either get stuff like that very straightfor
• 40:50
  Speaker 21: forward to the point where it's not sensual, and that
• 40:52
  Speaker 21: has always been you to be able to communicate those
• 40:55
  Speaker 21: types of things in a very unique way, right. But
• 40:57
  Speaker 21: there is a new generation of like creators and and
• 41:00
  Speaker 21: artists who are listening to this and discovering your ability
• 41:03
  Speaker 21: for the first time, and they they just think it's
• 41:05
  Speaker 21: so powerful and forward, and I'm like, welcome.
• 41:08
  Speaker 9: That's like people like that. It's I hate people that
• 41:13
  Speaker 9: I don't want to have to I don't want to
• 41:14
  Speaker 9: catch up with you. Okay, Like we over here celebrating
• 41:17
  Speaker 9: Jill Scott because of who Jill Scott always has been.
• 41:20
  Speaker 9: I don't have time to explain it. They'll get there,
• 41:22
  Speaker 9: the greatness of Jill Scott. You know, ketch up in
• 41:24
  Speaker 9: your own.
• 41:24
  Speaker 6: Time, fair enough, They'll get there time, right, I gotta
• 41:28
  Speaker 6: explain it.
• 41:28
  Speaker 22: They'll get there, life will happen, and then there all
• 41:31
  Speaker 22: be your love and ninety with so many stories to tell,
• 41:36
  Speaker 22: so many life experiences to share, so many lessons learned
• 41:41
  Speaker 22: so much music.
• 41:43
  Speaker 9: My last question, when it's all said and done, what
• 41:45
  Speaker 9: does piece look like? For Jill Scott? And did this
• 41:48
  Speaker 9: album bring you closer to whatever that is?
• 41:52
  Speaker 13: Life is bringing me closer to my piece.
• 41:56
  Speaker 22: And my kid doing well for her and my mother
• 42:03
  Speaker 22: living so comfortably and she's happy. My my private, my
• 42:10
  Speaker 22: personal life, it's solid. I love my home, I love
• 42:16
  Speaker 22: my friends. I have beautiful friends, y'all. You were with them,
• 42:21
  Speaker 22: anybody would like they're so so, so many levels of it.
• 42:26
  Speaker 22: It's not a lot of them, but they're powerful. I'm
• 42:30
  Speaker 22: I'm you know, i'd say, you say you're happy, you
• 42:33
  Speaker 22: say it joyful, and people get upset about it.
• 42:37
  Speaker 13: I feel sorry for that for you. People be upset
• 42:40
  Speaker 13: about you saying it. People are upset about other people
• 42:43
  Speaker 13: feeling joy and being happy. Yes, they do it all
• 42:47
  Speaker 13: the time. I see it.
• 42:50
  Speaker 22: Yes, Yeah, I don't know what it is. I don't
• 42:54
  Speaker 22: care what it is. It's not my bag to carry.
• 42:59
  Speaker 22: I'm will let the little light of mind shine.
• 43:02
  Speaker 8: That light gonna irritate some demons and others.
• 43:04
  Speaker 13: You see what I'm That's what I'm saying. That's what
• 43:07
  Speaker 13: I'm saying. I have a force field. I put it on.
• 43:11
  Speaker 22: It goes under my feet, above my head anytime I
• 43:14
  Speaker 22: think about it, or I just put my force field
• 43:16
  Speaker 22: on and I walk through my life. We're superheroes. We
• 43:20
  Speaker 22: can do really anything. We want, anything, we can imagine.
• 43:24
  Speaker 22: You just need the power to do it. The power
• 43:26
  Speaker 22: is love, The power is sincere friendships. The power is guidance.
• 43:31
  Speaker 22: My mentors outside somewhere like having that is and anybody
• 43:38
  Speaker 22: can attain it. Anybody at any time, in any state
• 43:43
  Speaker 22: of their life, can get all of the things my mentor.
• 43:47
  Speaker 22: Sometimes life will be a little stressy, stressful. She'll come
• 43:52
  Speaker 22: in swinging, swinging like boys in the hood, swinging, she'll kick.
• 43:57
  Speaker 22: It's a physical manifestation of a spiritual thing. She's fighting
• 44:03
  Speaker 22: off whatever can't happen. And then she says, WHOA, And
• 44:09
  Speaker 22: I love that. I want to you know, I'm like, damn.
• 44:16
  Speaker 13: I really like to got everything.
• 44:19
  Speaker 6: As I got everything.
• 44:23
  Speaker 8: Praise God.
• 44:23
  Speaker 13: Amen, Oh my god, Oh my.
• 44:27
  Speaker 16: God, oh my god.
• 44:29
  Speaker 13: Everything. Wow, It's okay. I feel that.
• 44:37
  Speaker 21: That's why I've been feeling all interviews. I'm like something,
• 44:39
  Speaker 21: she there's a feeling here. I just don't know what
• 44:41
  Speaker 21: it is, but I'm so glad that you in this space.
• 44:44
  Speaker 21: You deserve it. You worked hard, ma'am for a long time.
• 44:49
  Speaker 21: You've been literally like the Jill Scott my whole life.
• 44:51
  Speaker 13: I'm thirty four.
• 44:53
  Speaker 9: I just want you to know what you mean to
• 44:54
  Speaker 9: so many people like I hope you know that we
• 44:56
  Speaker 9: really love you and we value you, appreciate, appreciate you.
• 44:59
  Speaker 9: Even you putting out new music means so much, like
• 45:02
  Speaker 9: this isn't event like, oh my god, Jill Scott putting
• 45:05
  Speaker 9: up putting out new music like that matters. Like a
• 45:07
  Speaker 9: lot of people that put out music, I can take
• 45:10
  Speaker 9: it to leave it. Some people put out music. The
• 45:12
  Speaker 9: world stops for me that that is what you're doing
• 45:15
  Speaker 9: to who they make concern.
• 45:19
  Speaker 13: I'm to take a nap.
• 45:23
  Speaker 6: Ladies and gentlemen.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: Appreciate you so much.
• 45:33
  Speaker 8: I hope you get that nap. That's divine.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: Go get that nap. You deserve it.
• 45:38
  Speaker 8: Your soul deserves it.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, it's Jill Scott.
• 45:44
  Speaker 6: It's the Breakfast Club.
• 45:47
  Speaker 9: It's the craziest people in America. Come from the Bronx
• 45:50
  Speaker 9: and all of four. Yes, you are a donkey, the
• 45:54
  Speaker 9: Breakfast Club, bitch, donkey.
• 45:56
  Speaker 6: Of the day with Charlam Hane to God, I don't
• 45:58
  Speaker 6: know why y'all keep it letting him get y'all like this.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: You've got to give Florida credit for they crazy, now, donkey?
• 46:03
  Speaker 8: Did they've go to an eighteen year old Florida girl.
• 46:05
  Speaker 9: Named Farak Kurrn? And what does your uncle Shalla always
• 46:08
  Speaker 9: tell you about the great state of Florida?
• 46:09
  Speaker 8: Say it with me.
• 46:10
  Speaker 9: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
• 46:13
  Speaker 9: all of Florida, and today is no exception.
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 46:17
  Speaker 9: Earlier to day on the show Envy, Yes, you said
• 46:20
  Speaker 9: that being a big back as an epidemic in America,
• 46:22
  Speaker 9: didn't you. Yes, you said these little fat ass kids
• 46:25
  Speaker 9: out of control and she'd be rounded up and sent
• 46:27
  Speaker 9: the chalkie camp, didn't.
• 46:28
  Speaker 6: Yes, they said by ten years, half of the population
• 46:31
  Speaker 6: will be fat.
• 46:31
  Speaker 8: I mean obese.
• 46:33
  Speaker 9: Well, not only are these kids fat, damn, they're dangerous
• 46:37
  Speaker 9: and they are extremely violent with their food. Okay, imagine
• 46:40
  Speaker 9: using your rations as a weapon against your mother. What
• 46:43
  Speaker 9: do you mean, uncle Shawla, She used her rations as
• 46:46
  Speaker 9: a weapon against her mother. Well, let me read you
• 46:48
  Speaker 9: this headline. Teen arrested for battery after allegedly striking mother
• 46:52
  Speaker 9: with a pork chop. According to a problem with call.
• 46:57
  Speaker 9: This is a serious according to probable cause. AFFI David You, Deputy,
• 47:02
  Speaker 9: responded to a residence on January twenty second regarding a
• 47:04
  Speaker 9: verbal dispute between a teenager and her mother. At some
• 47:07
  Speaker 9: point during the argument, eighteen year old Pharah Curring slapped
• 47:11
  Speaker 9: her mother across the face with her right hand. Okay,
• 47:15
  Speaker 9: apparently she had been consuming alcohol earlier that day. Then,
• 47:18
  Speaker 9: the mother told authorities that before she was slapped, Currnin
• 47:22
  Speaker 9: threw a pulk chop at her. What's the snicker slogan?
• 47:25
  Speaker 9: You're not You're not you when you're hungry? Yeah, okay,
• 47:28
  Speaker 9: they gotta eat his snickers because there's no food around.
• 47:31
  Speaker 9: You got plenty of food in front of you, of Pharah,
• 47:33
  Speaker 9: and you still acting like this. Well, this must be you.
• 47:36
  Speaker 9: So let's discuss. First of all, if you're out here
• 47:38
  Speaker 9: food fighting, you must be rich.
• 47:40
  Speaker 8: Okay.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: Culinary combat cost?
• 47:43
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: Have you seen the price of groceries?
• 47:44
  Speaker 21: Do you know?
• 47:45
  Speaker 9: Pulk chops are four to seven dollars a pound, depending
• 47:49
  Speaker 9: on the cut.
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, bone in, boneless, loine, brust stirloin. Y'all got money
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: like that?
• 47:52
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 47:53
  Speaker 9: Times must be must not be that hard if y'all
• 47:55
  Speaker 9: out here throwing gravy grenades at each other. Okay, it
• 47:57
  Speaker 9: costs to launch a mass potato missile, all right, I know,
• 48:00
  Speaker 9: Uncle murder An Tony Yo was here last hour talking
• 48:03
  Speaker 9: about having a food fight. But those two brothers got paper. Okay,
• 48:06
  Speaker 9: you all can't afford to have a sloppy Joe showdown.
• 48:09
  Speaker 9: Not to mention, the headline for this story was teen
• 48:13
  Speaker 9: arrested for battery after allegedly striking mother with a pork chop. Okay,
• 48:18
  Speaker 9: to me, culinary combat is not the headline of this story.
• 48:21
  Speaker 9: When she would be the headline of this story is
• 48:23
  Speaker 9: that before this woman decided a punk chop was her
• 48:26
  Speaker 9: weapon of choice, she slapped her mother, and her mother
• 48:30
  Speaker 9: called the police while her mother's friend was recording her
• 48:33
  Speaker 9: getting slapped.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: Let's play a game. Okay, I can't wait. I want
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: to play this.
• 48:37
  Speaker 16: Yes, what.
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: Farck Curning, eighteen years old, let me finished.
• 48:49
  Speaker 9: Far Curran nineteen years old, got drunk, smacked her mother,
• 48:52
  Speaker 9: and then threw a pork chop at her, and her
• 48:54
  Speaker 9: mom called the police while her friend recorded DJNDY.
• 48:57
  Speaker 6: Yes, what racious?
• 49:00
  Speaker 8: What all right? Just hilarious?
• 49:05
  Speaker 9: Paraic Curnin, eighteen years old, got drunk, smacked her mother,
• 49:08
  Speaker 9: and then threw a pork chop at her, and her
• 49:10
  Speaker 9: mom called the police while her friend.
• 49:11
  Speaker 8: Recorded, gess what right she is black?
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: It's the pork chop.
• 49:21
  Speaker 9: Oh mmm, not a bad context clue you used there,
• 49:27
  Speaker 9: j just hilarious. But m On sounds very trailer parkish
• 49:32
  Speaker 9: to me.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: I'm a chop trailer port.
• 49:36
  Speaker 12: The trailer park people cannot have pot, no goddamn.
• 49:38
  Speaker 14: Polk drinking in the morning, and you throw a pork
• 49:39
  Speaker 14: chop at somebody, that's really trailer parking.
• 49:42
  Speaker 9: One of y'all was right, one of y'all was wrong.
• 49:44
  Speaker 9: I better be me aenie meani miney mom. Catch your
• 49:49
  Speaker 9: fat Caucasian by its toe. Dj n B. You are
• 49:52
  Speaker 9: absolutely correct, man. Baron Curnin was absolutely right. Okay, you
• 50:01
  Speaker 9: want to see her.
• 50:01
  Speaker 6: Yeah, please let me say the type of white she Come.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: On, man, that's kind of the right way.
• 50:06
  Speaker 9: My god. This is make excuses for ice agents killing
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: American citizen white, all right. This is putting mayonnaise on everything,
• 50:14
  Speaker 9: including French fries.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: White.
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: Dang.
• 50:16
  Speaker 9: Okay, she looks like she loves mayonaise with a concerning
• 50:18
  Speaker 9: level of fashion. Look, this is I think pepper is
• 50:21
  Speaker 9: whizy white. All right, this is let's circle back white. Okay,
• 50:26
  Speaker 9: you ain't slapping your mother and living to throw a
• 50:29
  Speaker 9: pop chop at her in a black household a.
• 50:31
  Speaker 12: Talk about they must not have been real pok chops.
• 50:33
  Speaker 13: Then shut up.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: Even if the father ain't in the house, he coming home,
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: He's still coming home.
• 50:40
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: Please let Chelsea handle give Farrock kurnin the biggest he
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: huf hee haw hee haw. That is way too much
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: dan mayonnaise.
• 50:51
  Speaker 12: Now, y'all know sometimes our people can act out and
• 50:54
  Speaker 12: slap they mother.
• 50:55
  Speaker 6: I didn't watch so.
• 50:55
  Speaker 12: Many videos of kids beating up their damn grandmothers.
• 50:58
  Speaker 6: Very few there refue, but there there, you don't.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: See him too much more.
• 51:02
  Speaker 13: Have some exceptions to that.
• 51:04
  Speaker 6: Shut up name telling you man, I've seen it.
• 51:08
  Speaker 12: I went down a rabbit hole on TikTok these young
• 51:10
  Speaker 12: people beating up their grandmothers. No, some grandmother's be getting
• 51:12
  Speaker 12: with their little ass, but some of them be putting
• 51:14
  Speaker 12: their hands on their peeples and.
• 51:15
  Speaker 6: They are black.
• 51:16
  Speaker 9: What happens after the yeah, because yeah, the video goes
• 51:19
  Speaker 9: off grandma and we come from a different area. We're
• 51:24
  Speaker 9: recording what I'm about to do to you after you
• 51:26
  Speaker 9: don't put your hand and your mama or your grandma.
• 51:29
  Speaker 13: You're right, I'm sorry. I let the blacks down.
• 51:31
  Speaker 8: Let me tell you something about these fruit cups.
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: The food be cool.
• 51:34
  Speaker 8: That's like the way it makes me feel.
• 51:36
  Speaker 12: And I need that, especially when he throw back a
• 51:41
  Speaker 12: couple of said of them big mangos.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: He opened the mouth.
• 51:44
  Speaker 12: Why why little? You need to shoot sometimes sometimes it's
• 51:48
  Speaker 12: like right down your tongue.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: Yo.
• 51:50
  Speaker 8: Yep, he'd be serious eating them fruits.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: All right, Well, stay for that donkey today.
• 51:58
  Speaker 6: And just Hilary Chelamaine the guy we are the breakfast club.
• 52:02
  Speaker 6: Lola Roses here as well.
• 52:03
  Speaker 14: We got some special guests in the buildings in some
• 52:06
  Speaker 14: family Kelly Rowland.
• 52:07
  Speaker 6: The Brother Met the Man, and Devone Franklin.
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: Welcome back.
• 52:15
  Speaker 9: Relationshipship. What made you want to turn relationship Goes into
• 52:20
  Speaker 9: a movie? It's a book by paftor Michael Todd want
• 52:22
  Speaker 9: to turn into a film?
• 52:23
  Speaker 21: You know what?
• 52:24
  Speaker 23: One of my greatest inspirations as a producer is my
• 52:27
  Speaker 23: brother Will Packer, and and I saw what it did
• 52:31
  Speaker 23: with Steve Harvey's book Think like a Man. I said,
• 52:33
  Speaker 23: wait a minute, this relationship goes. Book has so many
• 52:36
  Speaker 23: great principles, why don't we do that that with this?
• 52:38
  Speaker 23: And so that was the inspiration. And then also what
• 52:40
  Speaker 23: was so cool is when Pastor Todd released the book.
• 52:43
  Speaker 23: He put it out during the pandemic, and as an author,
• 52:46
  Speaker 23: when you can't tour that book usually doesn't work.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: He did everything virtually.
• 52:50
  Speaker 23: It went to number one on the New York Times
• 52:51
  Speaker 23: bestsellers list, and when you look at how people were
• 52:54
  Speaker 23: responding and how many lives are being changed, I just
• 52:57
  Speaker 23: thought it was the great foundation for romantic comics.
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: Break down what the movie's about for people that haven't
• 53:03
  Speaker 6: seen or I haven't seen the trail as yet without
• 53:05
  Speaker 6: giving it away.
• 53:08
  Speaker 23: Well, basically, you know, Kelly plays Leah, meth plays Jared,
• 53:12
  Speaker 23: and they have a history, but in the present moment
• 53:16
  Speaker 23: of the story, they're competing for the same job, and
• 53:18
  Speaker 23: Methic comes up with the idea they're in the news world,
• 53:21
  Speaker 23: and Method comes up with the idea his character, Jared
• 53:23
  Speaker 23: comes up with the idea, Hey, why don't we do
• 53:25
  Speaker 23: a story on the book relationship goals for Valentine's say
• 53:28
  Speaker 23: exactly exactly. And then that begins everyone in the group
• 53:32
  Speaker 23: beginning to think about their aim and think about their
• 53:35
  Speaker 23: love life and think about their relationships.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna give it away, but that's kind
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: of the catalyst for the movie.
• 53:40
  Speaker 8: Absolutely, how do y'all? This is random? But the song complicated?
• 53:44
  Speaker 8: Like the song is dope?
• 53:45
  Speaker 9: Well, what made y'all want to go do a song
• 53:47
  Speaker 9: so earlier with that part in the contract? Okay, we
• 53:49
  Speaker 9: got Kelly and Mesie, they got to do a song
• 53:50
  Speaker 9: for No.
• 53:51
  Speaker 15: It just happened, like you know, I got the script,
• 53:54
  Speaker 15: I read the script, I was inspired, went into the studio.
• 53:57
  Speaker 15: I've been working on music, so I literally just started
• 53:59
  Speaker 15: writing them from Leah's perspective, myself and Jessie ray Is
• 54:03
  Speaker 15: and then it came out and then I sent it
• 54:05
  Speaker 15: to de Vaughn and Anne Raspberry over at Amazon. I
• 54:08
  Speaker 15: was like, I wonder if it'll work, and it just
• 54:11
  Speaker 15: kind of worked. I said to Math and he was like, yeah,
• 54:13
  Speaker 15: let me.
• 54:14
  Speaker 16: Let me do my.
• 54:18
  Speaker 9: Y'all been in that situation in real life where you
• 54:20
  Speaker 9: got to do business with somebody that you was in
• 54:22
  Speaker 9: a relationship with.
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: That would be.
• 54:26
  Speaker 13: I mean, it just kind of happened.
• 54:28
  Speaker 16: That's all.
• 54:29
  Speaker 8: That just kind of happened.
• 54:30
  Speaker 12: No, is there any aspects of the characters lives that
• 54:39
  Speaker 12: relate to y'all real life.
• 54:41
  Speaker 16: Absolutely.
• 54:42
  Speaker 15: I mean, I think the way Leah has when you
• 54:44
  Speaker 15: meet her, she's holding on everything.
• 54:46
  Speaker 16: She's so in control, you know what I mean.
• 54:48
  Speaker 15: And I think that for her, like when she has
• 54:50
  Speaker 15: control of everything, she's feeling like I got this and
• 54:54
  Speaker 15: she and she does.
• 54:56
  Speaker 16: But she also is dealing with a whole bunch of
• 54:58
  Speaker 16: internal stuff.
• 54:59
  Speaker 15: Grief.
• 55:00
  Speaker 16: It's a big one, you know what I mean.
• 55:02
  Speaker 15: And it's kind of like drifting into everything else in
• 55:05
  Speaker 15: her life, and you see how it plays a big
• 55:08
  Speaker 15: role in her decision making and everything.
• 55:10
  Speaker 16: It's really interesting. So yeah, that I definitely understood.
• 55:13
  Speaker 6: Just What's the one thing I tell you about it?
• 55:15
  Speaker 6: As soon as I started watching What's the first thing
• 55:16
  Speaker 6: I tell you?
• 55:17
  Speaker 8: What I tell you.
• 55:19
  Speaker 16: In the wardrobe?
• 55:21
  Speaker 6: Anyway, what I say, I didn't say.
• 55:26
  Speaker 12: That guy he couldn't help, but he loved the wardrobe
• 55:31
  Speaker 12: of liv and he was like, uh, you showed.
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: I said. The wardrobe was dope.
• 55:36
  Speaker 14: The suit made it was powerful, but it gave me
• 55:39
  Speaker 14: like a little Janet Jackson with it too, the way
• 55:41
  Speaker 14: to change.
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: Well, it was just dope.
• 55:42
  Speaker 6: I've never seen you don't really see shows. Usually the
• 55:45
  Speaker 6: wardrobe was cheap, but it just seemed like they put
• 55:47
  Speaker 6: a lot into it. Our show was dope.
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: What was that your idea?
• 55:50
  Speaker 12: Like, did you style yourself for the movie?
• 55:52
  Speaker 8: Dressed me?
• 55:56
  Speaker 15: Because Devon is a producer and he's so graciously a
• 56:00
  Speaker 15: me to ep on this project as well.
• 56:02
  Speaker 16: I was like, Devon, I have somebody.
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: Show them a picture board, you know what I mean
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: of how I saw every everybody and all the characters,
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: and so you know, he obliged and allowed us to
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: just have a little bit of fun.
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: That's all. Man, she killed it.
• 56:15
  Speaker 23: I mean our wardrobe, our costume designer was named Gersha Phillips,
• 56:18
  Speaker 23: and so but you know, Kelly, you know, would just
• 56:21
  Speaker 23: be sending pictures and then also use all her relationships
• 56:24
  Speaker 23: in the fashion world.
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: That it was dope wardrobe. Yeah, thankfully we didn't have
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: to pay for all of that. Yeah, we gave stuff.
• 56:36
  Speaker 13: Was great.
• 56:36
  Speaker 21: What do the power suits mean for Kelly as an actress?
• 56:39
  Speaker 21: Because I know a mea copa. It was all about
• 56:41
  Speaker 21: the Powa suits and the silhouttes as well too. And
• 56:43
  Speaker 21: then I see you here again and that was a
• 56:44
  Speaker 21: personal decision. So like as an actor, like what are
• 56:47
  Speaker 21: you saying to the people that are watching you by
• 56:49
  Speaker 21: choosing to be specific about that?
• 56:50
  Speaker 15: I mean, I think that women are powerful, and I
• 56:53
  Speaker 15: think it should be unapologetic. And sometimes it does start
• 56:55
  Speaker 15: with like how you feel on the outside, your wardrobe
• 56:57
  Speaker 15: on outside, because when somebody sees you all put together, like.
• 57:00
  Speaker 16: Okay, I got to step up, you know.
• 57:02
  Speaker 15: So for me it was just like stepping up, whether
• 57:05
  Speaker 15: it's for myself for expecting others to step up as well.
• 57:08
  Speaker 15: So I feel like, you know, you got to put
• 57:09
  Speaker 15: on to like really sometimes it's like when it's not
• 57:13
  Speaker 15: here immediately you get to have to put on.
• 57:15
  Speaker 16: But I feel like that, thank you.
• 57:18
  Speaker 21: So I wanted my character to make sure she felt
• 57:20
  Speaker 21: like that, because once we start peeling back the layers
• 57:23
  Speaker 21: of your character, I feel like she was she was
• 57:25
  Speaker 21: trying to learn how to accept love in so many
• 57:27
  Speaker 21: different ways. About the movie, correct, but you show up
• 57:29
  Speaker 21: as like you don't even talk to me, like you
• 57:32
  Speaker 21: can't sit.
• 57:33
  Speaker 16: Yes, it's a shield. It's a bit of a shield.
• 57:35
  Speaker 4: You know that.
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: As well.
• 57:38
  Speaker 15: The shield was just walls, just layers and layers of everything.
• 57:42
  Speaker 15: But that's even deep. So we don't want to give
• 57:44
  Speaker 15: away that that too much.
• 57:45
  Speaker 14: They're either yeah, and what did you get comfortable with acting?
• 57:48
  Speaker 14: Because you know, looking at you never comfortable. Never it
• 57:51
  Speaker 14: looks it looks so comfortable.
• 57:52
  Speaker 6: Now you don't look like now.
• 57:53
  Speaker 24: I want you as comfortable, you know, so I like
• 57:57
  Speaker 24: to explore outside my comfort zone. Yeah, yeah, so I
• 58:01
  Speaker 24: don't think I'm ever going to be comfortable with acting.
• 58:05
  Speaker 16: Really, I don't think you should be, right, Yeah, I
• 58:08
  Speaker 16: don't think you should be.
• 58:10
  Speaker 9: Then you get drawn the roles emotionally or creatively. Both okay,
• 58:13
  Speaker 9: both wore to this one. This one was more emotionally.
• 58:18
  Speaker 9: I see Jared as a man going through a transition.
• 58:21
  Speaker 24: He's thinking more along the lines of legacy, you know,
• 58:25
  Speaker 24: leaving something behind, having something that really shows meaning to
• 58:29
  Speaker 24: fulfill himself. And he I think that when this job
• 58:33
  Speaker 24: opportunity comes up, yes, I mean that is a great
• 58:36
  Speaker 24: way to start.
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: But oh, Lea works there as well.
• 58:40
  Speaker 24: This is a sign and it's something that he could
• 58:43
  Speaker 24: either take advantage of in the moment or you know,
• 58:47
  Speaker 24: stay focused on what the prize is, which he thought
• 58:51
  Speaker 24: was the job, but it.
• 58:52
  Speaker 16: Was actually Leah.
• 58:57
  Speaker 9: The movie it's like it talks about expectations versus reality,
• 59:00
  Speaker 9: and like these modern relationships, Like, where do you think
• 59:02
  Speaker 9: people get the most unrealistic expectations from.
• 59:05
  Speaker 16: This social media?
• 59:06
  Speaker 6: Y'all talk about it all the time, don't try it?
• 59:10
  Speaker 15: Absolutely and ps I think that social media and everybody
• 59:15
  Speaker 15: actually believe in the hype, like they've done a fine
• 59:18
  Speaker 15: job of just adding fuel to the fire. So to me,
• 59:21
  Speaker 15: I think that we have an obligation, especially now for
• 59:24
  Speaker 15: this next generation that's looking at us like thinking that
• 59:27
  Speaker 15: it's just also great and we have to peel back layers.
• 59:31
  Speaker 15: And I think that this movie does a really great
• 59:32
  Speaker 15: job of peeling back layers and being honest in that way.
• 59:35
  Speaker 15: I actually love the fact that Pastor Michael Todd named
• 59:38
  Speaker 15: the book relationship Holds, because that's the draw and that's
• 59:42
  Speaker 15: where people are like, what the heck is a relationship? Go?
• 59:45
  Speaker 15: You know what does that look like? It's actually something
• 59:47
  Speaker 15: for you to define what it is. Because I'm not
• 59:50
  Speaker 15: somebody else. I'm not a decision making somebody else, you
• 59:52
  Speaker 15: know what I mean. I'm making decisions for me and
• 59:55
  Speaker 15: somebody else. Me and this other person are making decisions
• 59:59
  Speaker 15: and figuring out our relationship. I can't bite that. That
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 15: come with a whole other set of trauma whole another
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 15: set of issues on another set of everything else. So
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 15: I can't make that my relationship go. I don't know
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 15: what the background is.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 24: I feel like everyone wants to live in their purpose.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 24: Sometimes they just don't know what it is. And when
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 24: they watch movies like this or even social media, they
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 24: live vicariously through the people they connect with. And it's
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 24: always gonna be someone who wants to keep up with
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 24: the Joneses, but there are very few Joneses.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 8: They want to keep up with anybody.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 24: So when you find yourself in these spaces where you
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 24: want to live that fantasy and have that happy ending,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 24: and it turns out not to be that happy ending,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 24: you have to bear with that and then move on.
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  Speaker 2: And that's it.
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  Speaker 6: Can you have a relationship in the workplace now?
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  Speaker 2: Though, you know?
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  Speaker 14: Because I look at these movies and I always say,
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  Speaker 14: if my son works somewhere, I would that's where he's
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  Speaker 14: gonna meet somebody, right because you're at your job eight
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  Speaker 14: to nine hours a day, so that's where you're most
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  Speaker 14: likely to meet somebody. But in the society they tell
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  Speaker 14: you that you can't work with somebody that you have
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  Speaker 14: a relationship with happen.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you can meet some I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, I care.
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  Speaker 12: When you're working some way and you mess with somebody,
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  Speaker 12: it's cute at first, but then when things turn, I
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  Speaker 12: gotta come to work, and I got to see this
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  Speaker 12: break worm. I so to your own discretion, I feel
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  Speaker 12: like it can be done when when two people know
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  Speaker 12: what they want, when they know how to clearly distinguished
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  Speaker 12: business from you know, work from our personal You know,
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  Speaker 12: when we're at work, we are co workers. You gotta
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  Speaker 12: treat you, you gotta be a line of boundaries.
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  Speaker 16: I think you make an excellent point.
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  Speaker 23: You just have to also, you know, use discretion because
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  Speaker 23: also in the movie their colleagues. You know, it's not
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  Speaker 23: like one is higher than the other. And I think
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  Speaker 23: you just have to be very very mindful of your
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  Speaker 23: position professionally when you're making a decision on you know,
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  Speaker 23: who to date in the workplace and how to date
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  Speaker 23: that person. But really thinking with discretion and integrity is
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  Speaker 23: important because once that's gone, you know, thinking is I
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  Speaker 23: for gratch at that point.
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  Speaker 9: So how did the movie challenge or even affirm your
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  Speaker 9: own beliefs about love?
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  Speaker 13: I mean.
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  Speaker 15: When it comes to grief, Like I understood my character
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  Speaker 15: holding it together because remember, like right after I had tightened,
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  Speaker 15: that's when my mom passed, So I didn't realize like
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  Speaker 15: I was like trying.
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  Speaker 16: To keep it together. So I remember when we shot
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  Speaker 16: the scene that day, I was like, I literally was like.
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  Speaker 15: Like not letting it go before because I felt like
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  Speaker 15: I felt that so tough because we are like a
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  Speaker 15: lot of people are dealing with grief, but you don't
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  Speaker 15: know that it comes in ways. And so I love
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 15: the way Regina Hall talks about us, Regina King talks
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 15: about it. It's so honest and just really authentic. And
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  Speaker 15: when she said it, I completely understood that. It's actually
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  Speaker 15: in my notebook, My relationship goes journal a notebook. Her
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  Speaker 15: quotes that she was talking about agree, but I just
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  Speaker 15: let it all go. So I understood that with her,
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  Speaker 15: and as it equates to love, what about you let one?
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  Speaker 8: How did affirm?
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  Speaker 15: You know?
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  Speaker 2: I watch the movie though.
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  Speaker 23: For me, what I love in the movie is, you know,
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  Speaker 23: all the main characters, you know, are reading the book
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  Speaker 23: and wrestling with what it means for them. And one
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  Speaker 23: of the biggest tenets in the books is fixing your
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 23: aim and knowing what you're shooting at. And so For me,
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  Speaker 23: what I love about the movie is like, I believe,
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  Speaker 23: I really, sincerely believe love is the most powerful force
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  Speaker 23: in the universe. And I think that it's really easy
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  Speaker 23: in our culture to get cynical about it, especially when
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 23: you go through things and difficulties and challenges in the
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 23: area of love, dating and relationships. But for me, it
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  Speaker 23: was about we got to keep this area of hope.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 23: This is an area where people hurt so much, so
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  Speaker 23: for me personally, making the movie was like, this is good,
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  Speaker 23: it's therapeutic, it's it's positive to put this out there
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  Speaker 23: that we can't give up on love. I believe it'sucially
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  Speaker 23: as a man, I think it's important for us as men.
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  Speaker 23: And when you see you know his character, Jared's character
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 23: in The Mess character in the film named Jared, he's
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 23: a man who believes in love. He has a past
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 23: and he's reckoned with that past and he's making amends
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 23: for that past. But one of the things that the
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 23: book does is reminds him that love is the aim.
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  Speaker 23: And I just think that that's something that I wanted
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 23: to put in the culture.
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  Speaker 2: Right now.
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  Speaker 14: With all that Band said, how do you shut down though,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 14: right because you guys do so many projects. You are
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 14: on tour, you do so many different things. You do
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 14: so many different things. How do you shut down for
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 14: that love at home? You know, because you still got
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 14: to work, but then you still got a home life
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 14: that you got to make sure the home is good.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: How do y'all two separate worlds?
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 24: I think home life is more grounded in reality for me.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 24: I can't speak for everybody whose life is grounded more
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 24: in reality for me.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: All this TV.
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  Speaker 14: Period, you ever have to shut that TV down and
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 14: make sure you spend that quality time that we forget about.
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  Speaker 24: When I'm outside, I'm outside, when I'm indoors, that's a
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 24: totally different energy.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: So I know how to separate the two, you know, but.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 8: They are I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 24: I'd rather be inside than outside at this point in
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 24: my life, so you know, but I do know how
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 24: to separate the two. Not saying it always works. Something
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 24: has to suffer in the end. He can definitely speak
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 24: to that. You know, some one thing's going to be
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 24: imbalanced and the other is gonna you know, whatever, But
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 24: you learn to deal with it. You learn to move forward,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 24: and you learn to say, this is what our life
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 24: is and we have to accept that.
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  Speaker 8: I'm glad you said that, because work life balance is
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 8: a myth.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 16: No, it doesn't.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 15: And then you put all the other variables in which
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 15: you are in it and you're like, oh, today motherhood
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 15: is my priority.
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  Speaker 16: Then it's like, oh, well, I haven't spent any time
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 16: with him. I need to go spend time. Okay, So
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 16: tim is a priority today. Oh I need to get
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 16: back to this project. Okay. So music is like everything,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 16: like Trump's the other one.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 15: Everything, everything, everything is more of a priority than others
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 15: on certain days. I just think they like you, Like
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 15: you said, it's no such thing as a balance. You're
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 15: just figuring out which one is the priority of the day.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: Well know, I was just going to say so.
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  Speaker 23: I think it's also integration because even when you're busy
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 23: and your way, consideration if you prioritize that, and consideration.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: Can just be a text yes you babe, look at this.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 15: You know.
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  Speaker 23: It's just always keeping your relationship with priority mentally and emotionally, spiritually,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 23: and even when you're not there, that will then produce
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 23: different forms of consideration.
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  Speaker 2: And that's that's how you do it. Because there's there
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: is no.
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  Speaker 15: In real life, no literally before I left the house,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 15: like the other morning, to come here, I did what
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 15: do you call it?
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 16: Posted?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 15: Like post it notes, like in the closet, like in
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 15: Tim's closet, like just to remind of like have a
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 15: great day of school today, Babe.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 16: I can't wait to see when you get back. All
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 16: that stuff is really important. It definitely sells the sea consideration.
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  Speaker 13: Go ahead, Gov.
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  Speaker 12: Specifically, what do you believe is the healthiest balance of
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 12: using faith and therapy to seek love?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think.
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  Speaker 23: Listen, listen, listen. They both work together, but they're both separate, right.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 23: I believe that anybody who has found love or wants
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 23: love has to have faith because it is a miracle
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 23: on a planet with billions of people that two people
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 23: can find each other and make the decision to do
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 23: life together.
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  Speaker 2: That is like a miracle.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 23: So you got to have a level of faith, even
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 23: if you don't realize it, because if you're on an
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 23: app or you're going out, you're having the faith that
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 23: one day I'm going to find a person that's going
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 23: to be my partner.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: So that's faith to me.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 23: When it comes to therapy, therapy is about the trauma, right,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 23: and and and most of us have had a lot
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 23: of trauma in this area of love, dating and relationships.
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  Speaker 23: So I do believe that in order to be a
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 23: great partner and just a great person, therapy is important.
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  Speaker 23: You know, I got into therapy what six seven years
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  Speaker 23: ago and what it does.
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  Speaker 6: My kids are watching there.
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  Speaker 2: You go for the coach, you but for me.
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  Speaker 14: But what you don't realize is you think like, oh,
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 14: I'm good, but you don't realize when you get into therapy,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 14: you realize, oh wow, there's some wounds. And then what
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 14: you don't realize when you don't do therapy, then you
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 14: bleed on your partner and then get you want them
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 14: to be your therapist.
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  Speaker 2: And for me personally, I had to work.
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  Speaker 23: On what my wounds were, getting that type of healing
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 23: so then I can be a better individual and better partner.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 23: So I think they work together, but they definitely are
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 23: are individual pursuits.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 14: We got more with Devon Franklin, Kelly Rowland met the
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 14: Man when we come back. The new movie Relationship Goals
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 14: is out right now. It's the Breakfast Club, Good Morning
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 14: and salute to Starbucks. You know, if you listen to
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 14: the Breakfast Club or watch the Breakfast club. You know
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 14: that I usually have a refresher in the morning.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: That's just my thing.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 14: I don't drink coffee, but I do enjoy the mango
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 14: dragon fruit refresher, and that's something that I drink every day.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 6: But now they got a twist to it.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 14: They have an energy refresher where they give you a
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 14: little caffeine and that Starbucks refresher. So whether you like
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 14: the strawberry I sie, the pink drink, the dragon drink,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 14: or my favorite, the mango dragon fruit, it just adds
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 14: a little bit of caffeine. Now, sometimes I'm not gonna lie.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 14: I need any type of drink to deal with long
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 14: en Rosa.
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  Speaker 21: Don't do that to me, because I don't say nothing
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 21: about when you get in here and be all energy
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 21: up and start dancing around the room like an old
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 21: pop park.
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  Speaker 14: Well, I dance regardless because I can dance. I actually
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 14: taught my kids how to dance.
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  Speaker 2: Hello. No, but these drinks are new.
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 14: So if you're out and about, whether you're in the
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 14: morning or your afternoon, and you need a little uplift,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 14: definitely check out Starbucks and check out their brand new
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 14: energy refreshes.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 6: So I have one in my hand.
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  Speaker 2: I know you have one.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 6: Cheers all right, Charleman, you got a positive note.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 9: Listen, there's a lot of people out there right now
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 9: listening to the side of my voice, and I want
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 9: to tell y'all man, you know.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: In your heart was right and wrong. So do the
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: right thing.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 9: And please remember that wrong is wrong even if everyone
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 9: is doing it, and right is right even if no
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 9: one is doing it.
• 1:10:20
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