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403 Testimonio de José Ordónez y su esposa Yasmith parte 1 · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number four hundred and three. In the next chapters of this podcast you
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  will find a small testimony of the married life of Joseph Ordoñez and his wife,
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  Jasmith. Yes, my wife and I have decided to tell you some
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  aspects about our marriage, how we met, how at some point our life
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  was divided and how, through giving our life to Jesus to start a Christian
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  family, we were able to solve all the inconveniences we had regarding our sentimental
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  relationships. But besides, I have good news for you. All the courses
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  of the Christian community of José Ordognez have been passed on to YouTube. You
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  can go to Joseph Ordoñez Christian right now on YouTube and there you can become
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  part of the Community. We have done so, because it is much easier
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  for you to access a social network to enjoy the Community. Remember that there
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  you will find the course on infidelity, the course on basic family economy and
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  the course on how to educate and discipline children, and I will constantly be
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  your foot and constantly, along with Jasmith, we will be going up more
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  courses there. So go right now and take your membership on YouTube, look
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  for José Ordoñez Cristiano and there, on the join button, you find the
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  three different categories and memberships that can lead you to enjoy not only the workshops
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  courses, but to have direct counseling, with Jasmith and with José Ordoñez very
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  well prepare yourself, because this is only a part of our life testimony.
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  It is similar to the story of many women who are here this morning,
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  the role of wife, mother, woman, with all the disagreements of life,
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  beautiful things, sad things, good things, bad things, triumphs,
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  failures, joys, sorrows, all this understanding of situations and circumstances that are
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  there in the life of each person, that are there in the history that
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  one has to tell. Today, together with my husband, we want to
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  tell you a little bit about our testimony, but we want to focus on
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  everything not on what good we are and how good we do things right for
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  nothing. We want to focus on telling you that we find Christ in our
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  heart, in the redemption of our lives, in the redemption of our home.
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  And that made a difference, because before me particularly, I had the
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  story of my life with little meaning, but it really had a different meaning
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  the day that Christ rewrote that story. I met Joseph and when I met
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  my husband, I thought my husband was perfect. I thought that in him
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  I would find everything I was aspiring, longing, that he would meet all
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  the expectations and would meet all the requirements and needs that I had. It
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  was going to be perfect, the best, confidant friend, friend, companion
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  of dreams, companion of the projects we were going to build, that we
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  were going to do, that we were going to accomplish many things together and,
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  of course, that I was never going to fail, that I was
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  always going to be that person who was going to work for and for my
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  benefit, that was perfect. I had forgotten and sometimes we forget that you
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  and I are married to a sinner, to the person who one day in
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  life can fail us, that one day in life will make us suffer is
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  forgotten. That we just have those expectations and I had those expectations because living
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  in my life, in my house, different things. I grew up in
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  a home where none of that was, none of that was visible. I
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  had the image of a man, a father or a husband, who is
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  a person who can be violent, who can be aggressive, who screams,
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  who puts a mishandled, unloving authority. That was the image I had of
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  the male chauvinist man who can be on the street all he wants and do
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  whatever he wants with his life, while the woman stayed in the house.
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  Because that' s what they told me at home. I met Jazret.
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  She was eighteen years old, a village girl, because at that time she
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  asked for a study was a newly graduated town from her high school. I
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  was his bachelor' s degree as few women, as no one had until
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  that moment fallen in love, lost me I liked him since the first moment
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  he saw me he was excited. I met that naive girl and took advantage
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  of her because, up to that point in my life, I had had
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  little success with the women as a child. We played dad and mom and
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  I had to play little graced mother- in- law and I grew up
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  with traumas as if I didn' t have the right to happiness, as
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  well as an education that was very strict, full of blows, abuse,
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  bad words directed at me. Because besides, since I was the madman of
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  the family, he who didn' t meet anyone, the one who always
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  walked under a table, bubbling with sticks and pebbles and was a rare specimen,
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  little I was going to be able to achieve in life, because that
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  ' s what I was taught in the house. In fact, we can
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  see how we end up being affected by the way they created us. They
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  created me in one way, they created my husband in another way. And
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  marriage ends up being affected, because when we go to the altar, when
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  we get engaged and make that pact, what do we do? We bring
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  two different worlds, my world, my thought, my culture, my way
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  of proceeding, his world, his thought, the way of doing things.
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  And we take those two worlds. And obviously, when we put those worlds
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  together, it creates an explosion, conflicts, and it' s supremely difficult.
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  So, when we go to the word of God, we understand that
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  it is not about bringing two worlds to have one. If it' s
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  not about abandoning two worlds, because that makes a difference. You leave your
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  world, you leave your things. I do it and together we can create
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  a new world. It is podcast number four hundred and three, but there
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  are four hundred and two more waiting for you in José Ordoñez Cristiano com remember
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  that now the Community has moved to YouTube and on YouTube you are also looking
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  for José Ordoñez Cristiano and there on the Unite button you can become part of
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  the Community that not only gives you access to all the courses, but also
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  gives you the opportunity, through a bembresia, to have direct counseling, with
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  Jasmith and with Joseph. For now I want you to have a nice day
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  and, hopefully in these podcasts you can learn the importance of Jesus not being
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  the center of a marriage that God blesses you