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360: Your Hidden Gifts: Conscious Sun or Earth In Undefined Centers · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
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  helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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  flow without sacrificing results.
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  Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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  according to your human design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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  Hello and welcome to Unshakeable With Human Design, everybody.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Leno, and today we are talking about, this is a question
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  that I saw come up on my YouTube and it's a question that's come up a lot,
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  but this recently came up on YouTube and I was like, you know, this would
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  be a great episode for the show.
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  Great conversation to have there because I think that a lot of people,
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  including myself, have dealt with this and there's all things in human design.
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  We have some good information out there and we have some not
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  great information out there.
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  And then the other thing that I wanna say is that I think a lot of people look for
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  black and white answers from human design.
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  Okay, so I have this, it means this, right?
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  And that's just not where we usually get the best results.
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  Human design, astrology, all of these type of modalities, they live in the gray.
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  Therefore, those of us who maybe in a black and white world
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  have not found ourselves there.
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  So stop looking for the black and white.
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  Look in the gray.
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  We're all living in the gray.
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  Black and white eventually blows up in your face because if you're all one
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  thing and you're counting on one thing, the minute that that one thing is not
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  there anymore, everything falls apart.
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  But if you live in that gray.
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  If you can find comfort, stability, and trust in the gray, then suddenly
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  everything feels figureoutable.
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  Everything feels manageable.
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  Nothing feels all that scary.
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  I call that I've got this energy I've got this energy all the time.
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  Why?
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  Because the gray is my home.
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  It is my land.
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  I am so good in the gray.
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  Then we can play with all the different tools that are out
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  there when we can navigate this mysterious, interesting world.
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  So the question that came up was someone was asking what happens?
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  Is it bad?
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  Was really what they were asking, is it bad?
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  Is my conscious son and my conscious earth are in an open center?
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  Is it bad if my conscious son and my conscious earth are in an open center?
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  So let's just start right there.
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  There is no bad or good.
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  There is just, it is, and a lot of us, when we get our chart, will find ourselves
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  trying to, you know, we, we usually we're wishing it were something else.
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  We are.
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  Using it as, validation for why our life was so hard and or trying
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  to find answers in it that will help our life become easier.
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  And the first thing we have to do is just say, well, this is what is.
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  Isn't that interesting?
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  Because everything is meant for you for some reason.
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  Your soul chose for you to have this aspect, right?
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  I'm digging into astrology now further, and, you know, looking at
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  a birth chart in astro looking at a natal chart in astrology is different
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  than looking at a human design chart.
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  So I'm, taking some courses in that just to sort of get deep in
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  my, understanding and my knowledge around that, because I feel like
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  it will help me in all that I do.
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  And there's some triggering stuff in there.
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  It's like, oh.
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  I have a lot of enemy planets that are sitting right next to each
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  other, and so just recognizing that those are the things that are not
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  wishing they were something else.
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  Not getting mad at it, not wondering, how do I fix it?
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  We don't need to be fixed, but my conscious son and my conscious
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  Earth are both in undefined centers.
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  They're in the same undefined center, which adds oomph to the
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  challenge that I have there.
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  Right.
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  So it's not a bad thing, but when I first heard this, I absolutely did
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  venture into that space of being like, oh my God, my life is gonna be so hard.
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  And the truth is, is that I was already like 40 something
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  years old when I found this.
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  My life had already been hard.
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  You know, sometimes I think we're looking for the chart to tell us like
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  what was the wrong turn we made, and oh, if we just knew this one thing,
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  life would've been so much easier.
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  And once I know it, then life will immediately take a turn for the better.
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  And in my experience, that does happen.
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  It's just usually we just have to have more patience and openness
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  and surrender to it and be curious and explore it and see what lessons
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  our soul came here to learn.
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  What are the lessons that it chose and.
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  Our open centers, where our open centers are, and where we have
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  gates defined in those open centers.
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  Whether they're your prime gifts or not, any of them, they're
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  going to be lessons for you.
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  But let's talk about conscious sun and or conscious Earth.
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  'cause you might have one, you might have, unconscious sun or earth in open centers.
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  So yes, that's probably gonna be a challenge for you.
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  It's probably gonna be something that the analogy that I have for
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  this, when you have, like for me, conscious sun, conscious earth, both
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  in an undefined head center, I look at that after I stopped being mad
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  about it and feeling like I got dealt a raw deal and a crummy hand at life.
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  After I got over that, I was like, no, I was given a horse that needed
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  to be broken before I could ride it.
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  But you know, all those movies in the eighties and nineties and stuff
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  where they would be like, you know, the, we'd break the horse and then
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  the kid, it was a lot of kids in the movies and eighties and nineties, but
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  the hero of the story, once they broke that horse, the bond between that
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  person and that horse was unbreakable.
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  They did amazing things together.
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  They were this dynamic, crazy duo saving people and saving the world,
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  or going on great adventures.
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  That's how I look at an open center with your defined conscious sun, conscious
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  earth, or one of your prime gifts.
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  And when I say prime gifts your conscious sun, conscious earth, unconscious
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  sun, unconscious earth are considered your prime gifts in the gene keys.
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  So if you have any of those in an open center, can you choose to
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  look at that and say, I was given a horse that needs to be broken.
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  that I need to form a bond with, that I need to build trust with that it's going
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  to take me a little bit longer probably to learn how to ride this thing, but once
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  I do, man, am I gonna be unstoppable?
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  Wow.
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  Is this gonna be the key to everything?
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  This is gonna open up doors that would never have been possible.
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  I didn't do that work.
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  But here's what happens.
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  Before you find a tool like human design, you are probably fighting against this
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  and either hiding from it because the way that this is experienced, when you
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  have a prime gift in an undefined center, what that really means is you're not
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  gonna have access to it all the time.
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  It's not gonna be on all the time.
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  Your my head center is not on all the time.
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  In its openness, reaching for new things to be inspired by waiting for
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  the light bulb to go on, waiting for the lightning aha idea to strike, right?
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  That's what it's doing.
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  It's waiting for all of that.
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  And then in the transits, I'll get a hookup to gate 47 or I'll get a hookup
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  to gate four where my, one of my prime gifts, or both of them at some point.
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  We'll be hooked up where I get those two channels and I get
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  stability there, and then I feel that, I feel that access to it.
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  Or someone like my son comes in, my little boy, he's got a defined head center.
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  He comes in, I get a feel for his definition there.
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  I get a little bit of that.
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  I will not say that.
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  That always feels good.
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  I will not say that.
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  It always feels good to have my head center defined.
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  It doesn't.
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  Sometimes it feels like a lot.
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  It's a practice of to know myself and what happens when I get access to this.
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  Sometimes it feels like a lot.
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  It's a pressure center.
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  Feels like a lot.
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  So if you have your conscious sun in an open solar plexus, right?
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  So say you're somebody who's not emotional, but your conscious sun is
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  sitting in that open solar plexus, the final frontier for you, the terrain that
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  your whole movie is gonna play out on the big battle scene of your life is gonna
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  be in the world of emotions, probably.
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  I don't know you, but I will say that you'll probably have some real
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  deep lessons with emotions, and then you look at what that gate is.
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  Is it Gate 36 in an open emotional center?
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  Is it Gate 22?
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  Is it gate six?
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  I don't know.
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  Is it gate 30 where you're always feeling like you're being
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  smacked in the face by fate?
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  Just the hand of God is coming in and wiping away everything for you.
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  I have all these hopes and dreams, and then they just get, destroyed by
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  nothing that I have any control over.
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  These are the ways that you are going to What gate it is is gonna tell you
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  what that particular flavor of your lesson in that theme is gonna be.
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  If you have your conscious sun conscious Earth in the open root center, it's gonna
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  be on the frontier of the root center.
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  you're gonna have lessons with pressure in a different way.
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  You're gonna have to learn to master stress and creative energy,
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  and trusting timing in a different way than everybody else you.
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  That is gonna be such a core lesson for you.
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  So, yes, we can look at these aspects.
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  We can look at these, definitions and undefined aspects as being curses or
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  blessings, but really they are just telling us where our lessons are.
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  Deconditioning in an open center where you have a prime gift,
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  should be a high priority for you.
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  That should be something you are looking at.
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  That should be something that you are paying very, very close attention to.
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  If you haven't downloaded our deconditioning guide
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  already, please do that.
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  This guide is so great.
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  It's free, it's so simple, and it can get you started.
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  Just DM me the word decondition on Instagram.
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  I'm at Nicole Leno official.
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  You can get that guide there and if you wanna take it a step further,
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  we have actually just released something really, really cool.
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  I do tapping is what I use to decondition fast.
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  To start to really move the energy around our shadows, and this is how
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  we do it faster than what they say in human design, which is that takes
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  you seven years to decondition.
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  So I've released some core tappings that you can buy individually.
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  So this is like the cheapest way for you to dive into Deconditioning hardcore.
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  If you're interested in that, just DM me the word tapping on Instagram.
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  I'm at Nicole Leno official and we will, send you the link right
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  there to go purchase those.
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  Those are for purchase, but they're really cheap.
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  And honestly, you wanna change your life.
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  You have to make some investments, and this is like the tiniest,
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  tiniest investment for something that is so valuable.
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  So many of my clients always say that.
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  They came for the human design, but it's the tapping and the
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  deconditioning library that I give them that shifts their whole world.
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  So please download the guide, the Deconditioning guide, and then if you
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  wanna go deeper, check out those tappings, purchase the ones that are, resonate
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  for you the most, and that feel the most connected for you and for your design.
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  These are, this is how we work with the chart.
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  The chart isn't something to just say, this is good, this is bad, and this
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  is your lot in life, so deal with it.
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  The chart is there to help you navigate life better than you have up until now.
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  Most of the people who are looking to human design for anything,
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  if you're curious about it, it's probably because you either
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  feel out of touch with yourself.
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  You feel like you have untapped gifts where you feel like you have potential
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  that maybe you are not living up to, or maybe life has been tough.
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  Maybe you're somebody who has more challenges in their chart, and it has
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  been a challenge to figure out how to navigate that, this human design chart by
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  diving into it and really doing the work behind it, not just looking for an answer.
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  Looking for a process to help you find your answers, to help you remove
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  resistance in your life more easily.
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  I had so much resistance around thought I had a hard time really feeling creative.
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  All the things that have to do with the head center, inspired
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  by everything but so distracted.
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  Just all of the things that we know being able to come up
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  with, answers to things quickly.
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  Being able to not get caught in my head, all of that.
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  Those were lessons I had to learn that if I had found human design sooner,
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  like if I had found human design in my twenties and learned to master this
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  aspect of my life, I can only imagine what I would've been able to do and
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  achieve by the time I was this age.
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  But for some reason I was meant to find it Now.
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  I was meant to find it when I found it.
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  Kudos to everybody who's 24 listening to this show, who's diving into their
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  chart and learning their lessons, seeing how they find their alignment,
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  because it will open doors for you.
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  That logic will not.
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  So where do you have openness in your chart with defined centers?
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  Where do you have a white center with a defined gate in
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  it or multiple defined gates?
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  You start to look at your chart and if you have an open center, if you have
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  a white center with lots of defined gates, then pay attention to that.
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  It's not just limited to the prime gifts, although those are gonna
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  tell you probably what are gonna be the most seductive for you.
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  But like if I look at somebody who has an open G center, that's the diamond
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  in the center of the chart, and I see that they have, so many defined gates.
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  In that open center, I know that identity is going to be a thing
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  for them environment and the way that they feel around people.
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  Maybe how?
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  much they're able to really connect with themselves as an individual.
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  They're either going to be so great at it because they learned lessons
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  early and they learned to break this horse to tame the stallion.
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  They figured it out.
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  So they are a master and they are magnetic as hell.
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  These people who have that open center with tons of gates in it,
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  this is a huge opportunity for you.
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  This is a place where you can make money.
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  This is a place where you can make an impact.
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  Why?
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  Because you have mastered something.
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  Truly.
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  I can help people with confusion.
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  I can help people with doubt.
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  I can help people overcome their mental.
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  Stuff, they're, limiting beliefs and limiting mental processes that
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  they have, how their mind gets in the way of their success, their
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  inability to see possibility.
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  Why?
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  Because I've had to master it myself, and it is a daily practice for me.
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  So now I can offer that to people.
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  I have something real to offer them, and they feel that.
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  This is how we start to use it in our business.
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  This is how we do it.
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  But you have to embody that.
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  You've gotta learn the lesson or you can't sell the lesson.
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  You can't sell mastery to something you haven't mastered.
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  Now, that's not to say that we have to wait till we're Buddha before
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  we can sell something or offer something, but we have to be able to.
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  With integrity gauge whether we're really ready to offer something or
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  are we so desperate to have something to sell, that we will sell anything,
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  even if it's not an integrity for us.
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  You gotta check ourselves.
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  So I'm gonna keep this one short.
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  I hope that you got value out of this.
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  I hope that you're looking at your chart.
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  Go look at your chart, find those open centers.
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  Look at your conscious, unconscious earth, unconscious, sun,
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  unconscious, earth, and notice.
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  Are there any in undefined centers?
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  Are there any in white space?
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  Here's the good news.
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  That is an opportunity.
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  Those are the greatest opportunities for you if you learn to work with them.
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  And if you have them all defined, then you probably had
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  a little bit of an easier time.
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  Your cross, your purpose has been pulling you probably without you having to try
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  a whole lot, unless you were conditioned out of that at an early age which
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  then that's the work you have to do.
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  This is how we start to work with this.
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  I hope that you found this helpful.
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  I hope it inspired you to go look at your chart, to go tame that stallion.
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  That is your openness with something defined in there, something that's calling
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  out to you, saying, we could be great.
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  We could be so great.
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  You just have to have the patience to work on this with me.
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  I hope it inspired you to do that.
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  Tell me what they are.
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  Share this on Instagram, go share it.
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  Let me know what you thought about this episode.
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  Let me know what your openness is, what's the stallion that you are taming?
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  Tell me.
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  I would love to know.
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  I love hearing from you guys.
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  I appreciate you.
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  And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must
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  first become an unshakeable human.
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  So thanks for letting us help you become unshakeable with human design, everybody.
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  We'll see you next time.
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