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- 0:12Speaker 1: Let's discuss the single life, Season five, episode one, The
- 0:16Speaker 1: Art of the love bomb.
- 0:18Speaker 2: Here we go, Oh, what do we think these titles
- 0:22Speaker 2: are going to be?
- 0:22Speaker 3: Then the art of the love bomb?
- 0:26Speaker 2: Could each one be the art of something else? The
- 0:28Speaker 2: art of gas lighting, the art of war, the art
- 0:32Speaker 2: of catfishing, the art of I don't know if you're
- 0:36Speaker 2: altering your face. So maybe it's the art of having
- 0:39Speaker 2: a side piece.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Here's what I'm going to say. It is because I
- 0:43Speaker 1: like you, we like to predict these things. I think
- 0:45Speaker 1: it's going to be famous book titles with one word changed. Okay,
- 0:51Speaker 1: so the art of war is a famous book. This
- 0:53Speaker 1: is the art of the love bomb.
- 0:55Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we don't know yet.
- 0:58Speaker 1: Okay, you're in the Dominican Republic. This is where we're starting. Okay,
- 1:02Speaker 1: good boy. We've got Sophie, aged twenty six from Austin, Texas,
- 1:07Speaker 1: and then we've got Liz, age thirty three from Seattle, Washington,
- 1:12Speaker 1: and for some unknown reason, a non single person, Julia
- 1:15Speaker 1: aged thirty one from Norfolk, Virginia, arrives.
- 1:19Speaker 3: Listen.
- 1:20Speaker 2: I love Julia. I did write why the fuck are
- 1:22Speaker 2: you here?
- 1:22Speaker 3: Julia?
- 1:23Speaker 2: But I do love her and she is fun so.
- 1:27Speaker 3: It's fun She's funny. And here's what I think.
- 1:29Speaker 1: I think Sophie was like, i'll do this, I'll do
- 1:32Speaker 1: the dr we'll see Pedro because he'll be on the show.
- 1:36Speaker 3: But they say, okay, Liz is.
- 1:37Speaker 1: A cast member, she's going to go with you, and
- 1:39Speaker 1: I think Sophie's like, I don't know that, bitch, and
- 1:42Speaker 1: I we're gonna have.
- 1:43Speaker 3: To have a buffer. Yeah, totally. Can we invite Julia? Okay?
- 1:47Speaker 1: Yeah, But it's funny because they they do it when
- 1:50Speaker 1: they do the Single Life, they show who she was,
- 1:52Speaker 1: so Sophie and Rob together and then they do a
- 1:55Speaker 1: tearing of the page and then a new picture of Sophie.
- 1:58Speaker 1: They do the same thing Liz and ed quick rip
- 2:01Speaker 1: it and then we just see Liz. Then Julia arrives
- 2:06Speaker 1: and they show her and Brady together and instead of
- 2:09Speaker 1: the ripping, they do like a.
- 2:10Speaker 3: Heartlow up heart. Yes, hilarious.
- 2:14Speaker 1: Okay when she walks up obviously pregnant by the way, yeah,
- 2:20Speaker 1: obviously pregnant.
- 2:22Speaker 3: Yeah. So Sophie says she's recently filed for divorce and
- 2:28Speaker 3: Liz is like, yeah, I never travel, so I really
- 2:30Speaker 3: want you to take the wheel and Liz is like,
- 2:33Speaker 3: how are the guys here in the dr anything is
- 2:35Speaker 3: an upgrade from what I had.
- 2:37Speaker 1: I mean, girl speaking the truth. Yeah. By the way,
- 2:42Speaker 1: I like everybody to be reminded that Liz has never
- 2:45Speaker 1: had a ninety day fiance. No, so there's really actually
- 2:49Speaker 1: no reason for her to be here. No, she's a
- 2:52Speaker 1: side character.
- 2:53Speaker 2: She was a side character of a main character on
- 2:57Speaker 2: a spin off show because he was on the main show.
- 3:00Speaker 3: Yes, then.
- 3:02Speaker 2: He was on Being ninety probably, and then they were
- 3:07Speaker 2: he was on the Single Life and he started dating her, Yeah,
- 3:11Speaker 2: and then I think, were they ever unhappily? But they
- 3:14Speaker 2: weren't married yet, they.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Were, they were on happily and that's when he broke
- 3:18Speaker 1: up with her, like right before the wedding.
- 3:19Speaker 2: Right. So, but none of her charactories made sense.
- 3:24Speaker 1: But also you think about Veronica. She was never a
- 3:29Speaker 1: ninety day fiance either. She was a friend of somebody
- 3:32Speaker 1: who had a ninety day fiance. So we accept Veronica,
- 3:35Speaker 1: we have to accept.
- 3:35Speaker 3: Liz now that she is a personality. I know, but
- 3:41Speaker 3: I like Liz. I listen, I'm rooting for Liz.
- 3:43Speaker 2: I think she has horrendo dis taste in men. But
- 3:47Speaker 2: and maybe I'm not gonna say anything.
- 3:51Speaker 3: I don't say guaranting, no, no, don't say it. Okay.
- 3:54Speaker 1: So when I met her, she was telling me about
- 3:56Speaker 1: her daughter was living in Japan or China or some
- 4:00Speaker 1: thing with the husband who was military her now her
- 4:02Speaker 1: ex aunt husband her ex and she was talking about
- 4:05Speaker 1: how her daughter had learned Japanese or Chinese. I can't
- 4:09Speaker 1: remember how smart she was. And she played the piano
- 4:11Speaker 1: when she was the john dragging.
- 4:12Speaker 3: About her daughter.
- 4:13Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's good, Okay.
- 4:17Speaker 1: So Sophie tells us she met Liz at the No
- 4:21Speaker 1: Limits Tell All. That's when they were in the house
- 4:23Speaker 1: together and they did not get along. She goes, but
- 4:26Speaker 1: now I like her, and Julia is my best friend
- 4:29Speaker 1: in the whole world, and she's just fun to have around.
- 4:31Speaker 1: So that's completely right. She was like, I can't go
- 4:33Speaker 1: on a trip with this girl by myself. I have
- 4:35Speaker 1: to have a buffer. So they bring Julian because she's
- 4:37Speaker 1: always up for a good time.
- 4:39Speaker 2: Is their whole season going to be in the dr Like?
- 4:43Speaker 2: Are they trying to make this Mexican Herpes house?
- 4:46Speaker 3: But like, you know what I'm saying, Yeah, I know
- 4:49Speaker 3: what you're saying.
- 4:49Speaker 1: No, I have a feeling they're gonna end up going
- 4:52Speaker 1: back home and we're going to follow Pedro dating in
- 4:54Speaker 1: Atlanta because this.
- 4:55Speaker 3: Is not gonna workout. Yeah, okay that I have no idea.
- 4:58Speaker 3: I'm just guessing. Yeah, so Liz is like my.
- 5:02Speaker 1: Type is I do like older men, and then they
- 5:04Speaker 1: joke about that. She goes, I've never really dated. I've
- 5:07Speaker 1: always just bounced from relationship to relationship to relationship.
- 5:12Speaker 3: So actually, maybe let's just be single.
- 5:14Speaker 2: Like.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Single, maybe go to Japan.
- 5:19Speaker 1: Julia is so obviously pregnant. She has got her pants
- 5:21Speaker 1: pulled all the way up over her baby bump.
- 5:24Speaker 3: Yeah, like never, she'd never see it like that, but
- 5:28Speaker 3: she's keeping it a secret.
- 5:29Speaker 2: So is this supposed to be in the weird timeline
- 5:33Speaker 2: before the tell all where she surprised everyone and told
- 5:37Speaker 2: them yeah, but remember less pregnant than at that point.
- 5:43Speaker 1: I don't know what the timeline is. But this girl
- 5:45Speaker 1: is just non stop filming. She never stops filming.
- 5:48Speaker 3: She just back to back for her.
- 5:49Speaker 2: I would do the same thing.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Yeah, And she's fun and so she's fun to be around.
- 5:53Speaker 1: So that's why they're putting on her own a show
- 5:55Speaker 1: called the Single Life. And she's not single.
- 5:57Speaker 2: I just don't know why they haven't been on pillow Talk.
- 6:00Speaker 2: Why do they keep giving us Betty and Ron occasionally
- 6:04Speaker 2: every season on pillow Talk being so annoying, or Betty
- 6:07Speaker 2: and Brandon give us Brandon and Julia, who are actually
- 6:10Speaker 2: I'm together?
- 6:11Speaker 3: I agree.
- 6:13Speaker 1: So, I mean you could literally tell in her talking
- 6:15Speaker 1: head by her face that she's pregnant. You know, you
- 6:17Speaker 1: can always tell somebody's face because the nose changes. So anyway,
- 6:21Speaker 1: she won't get in the pool. Either she's sitting by
- 6:23Speaker 1: the pool in like a lacy sports bra and pants that.
- 6:26Speaker 3: She's got pulled up to her sports.
- 6:27Speaker 2: For it is the whole thing snow or it's going
- 6:31Speaker 2: to be a plot line and otherwise they know because
- 6:34Speaker 2: they're going to find out, they're going to figure it
- 6:36Speaker 2: out where they're.
- 6:36Speaker 1: Going to be, like, girl, did you eat six burritos?
- 6:38Speaker 1: What's happening? I mean, she's obviously pregnant. So she says,
- 6:44Speaker 1: they ask, like does Brandon care? She goes, Brandon does
- 6:46Speaker 1: not care that I am here. He just reminds me,
- 6:49Speaker 1: Sophie is the single one, not you. So the talking head,
- 6:53Speaker 1: Sophie tells us, you know, my relationship with Rob has
- 6:55Speaker 1: been so toxic. We get a clip package as if
- 6:59Speaker 1: we needed to be remember, yeah, and she says he
- 7:03Speaker 1: was never going to be the man I deserved, and
- 7:05Speaker 1: I had to walk away and you know, for myself.
- 7:08Speaker 1: And we see her dump him at the last resort,
- 7:10Speaker 1: which she was like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, We're just
- 7:12Speaker 1: not good together, and he just walks off with this ponytail.
- 7:15Speaker 1: Remember that it's a ponytail fling in mind him. Yeah,
- 7:19Speaker 1: Julia says Sophie, we're here because of your special guy,
- 7:24Speaker 1: and we find out it's Pedro. Sophie tells us I
- 7:30Speaker 1: know Pedro doesn't have a great reputation, but I know
- 7:33Speaker 1: for myself not to base my opinion on someone else's reputation.
- 7:38Speaker 1: I don't think Pedro has a terrible reputation, do you No?
- 7:41Speaker 2: Actually, I thought he was done dirty by Karen And yeah, listen,
- 7:49Speaker 2: I think.
- 7:50Speaker 1: He didn't handle the end of his marriage well. I
- 7:52Speaker 1: think he could have explained more to Chantell why he
- 7:55Speaker 1: wanted to get divorced.
- 7:56Speaker 2: I think he definitely possibly was cheating with someone at
- 8:00Speaker 2: that office, and there was a long period of time
- 8:04Speaker 2: where he just played video games and would barely talk
- 8:06Speaker 2: to Chantelle. So he definitely could have done things better,
- 8:10Speaker 2: but he had been isolated by her family and racistly
- 8:15Speaker 2: accused of like harvesting the American dollar for a long time.
- 8:19Speaker 2: So I think Anna assaulted physically. He'd participated too, but
- 8:24Speaker 2: like he did, I don't think he was that terrible.
- 8:28Speaker 2: He wasn't like one of the worst we've seen by
- 8:30Speaker 2: any stretching imagination.
- 8:32Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, my god.
- 8:34Speaker 2: Like Courtney going for Colty, which we're going to.
- 8:37Speaker 3: See on this season.
- 8:39Speaker 1: Yeah, so she says, you know, she met him on
- 8:44Speaker 1: social media. They've hung out now three times total, and
- 8:48Speaker 1: she says to the girl, she goes, you know, I
- 8:50Speaker 1: told him what my perfect date would be, and then
- 8:53Speaker 1: like he did that exact thing.
- 8:55Speaker 3: And they're like, what was it, and.
- 8:56Speaker 1: She goes, well, the first time we met, like he
- 8:58Speaker 1: met me at a jewelry store and bought me a
- 9:00Speaker 1: two thousand dollars necklace. Like he's super romantic. He sends
- 9:04Speaker 1: me flowers every single week with little notes in them.
- 9:07Speaker 2: So you're perfect thing, Sophie's men spending money on you.
- 9:13Speaker 1: Of course, when she said it, I was like, I
- 9:15Speaker 1: don't see it if I had a two thousand dollars nuckles,
- 9:18Speaker 1: I'll be wearing that.
- 9:18Speaker 3: Shit, you know.
- 9:19Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe she was in the pool, so yeah, well true.
- 9:23Speaker 3: So do you want to mess up with tan Line.
- 9:25Speaker 3: I do have to say I'm surprised.
- 9:26Speaker 2: I always thought this was gross and maybe like a
- 9:28Speaker 2: whole setup by production, but I'm actually surprised that this
- 9:33Speaker 2: show is not as flowers in the attic incestuous as
- 9:37Speaker 2: you would expect. Like we've we had Jesse and Jennifer,
- 9:40Speaker 2: which was obviously so gross and they just wanted to
- 9:44Speaker 2: still be on the show. But how do you mean
- 9:47Speaker 2: flowers in the attic incestuous? Like people from different assault
- 9:52Speaker 2: that back together to me on TV?
- 9:55Speaker 3: Okay, I got you because I was like, you mean
- 9:57Speaker 3: Petro and his sister. I was confused, okay.
- 10:00Speaker 2: And then we had Jamal and jennif Ronica Jamal Andronica,
- 10:06Speaker 2: but I can't.
- 10:06Speaker 3: Rest you the others. So they do a lot of
- 10:11Speaker 3: crossover in this universe, like a lot.
- 10:14Speaker 2: They probably would meet each other at events and stuff.
- 10:18Speaker 3: Yeah, these two on Instagram.
- 10:19Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe it's not all set up by production.
- 10:23Speaker 1: But what's so interesting, right is because on the on
- 10:26Speaker 1: the Hunt for Love, you know, Chantel was there at
- 10:29Speaker 1: the resort with Rob and then at the reunion they
- 10:31Speaker 1: talked about how they had heard Sophie and Pedro were dating,
- 10:35Speaker 1: and You're like, did Julia go right before that to
- 10:39Speaker 1: We'll never listen, We'll never be able to figure it out.
- 10:42Speaker 2: I need like a Homeland murder board with restoring too,
- 10:47Speaker 2: like the show Dark, to try to figure out.
- 10:49Speaker 1: The timeline when they filmed what yeah, so she says,
- 10:54Speaker 1: so they're there for Pedro's sister's birthday, Okay, because she
- 10:58Speaker 1: seems sweet, and she goes, I'm not trying to jump
- 11:02Speaker 1: into something super serious.
- 11:03Speaker 3: You know. I want to be.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Single for a while and I need to really be
- 11:07Speaker 1: sure of what I want this time around.
- 11:09Speaker 3: I don't want to rush things.
- 11:10Speaker 1: I don't want to be delusional about what the future
- 11:12Speaker 1: could be.
- 11:13Speaker 3: And I've been very clear with.
- 11:15Speaker 1: Him on my intention, on my intentions of just casually dating.
- 11:19Speaker 1: But I think he's catching really strong feelings and I
- 11:22Speaker 1: don't want to be forced to be somebody's girlfriend when
- 11:24Speaker 1: I'm not ready and all that, but for her, and
- 11:27Speaker 1: I'm glad because I'm good. Sophie like, stand your ground.
- 11:29Speaker 2: You know, I was 'en sure at this point if
- 11:32Speaker 2: Pedro was catching feelings or if he was catching missing
- 11:35Speaker 2: being on TV feeling.
- 11:38Speaker 3: Or she's hot and I want to bang her feelings
- 11:40Speaker 3: both feelings. Yeah.
- 11:43Speaker 1: So Pedro Age thirty three, Atlanta, Georgia, we see clips
- 11:48Speaker 1: of a hot Pedro working out and a.
- 11:50Speaker 3: Song istuitous just slow mo.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just like Keisha and I are covering Welcome
- 11:56Speaker 1: to Platform Dinner rewatch And this past episode is so
- 12:01Speaker 1: much gratuitous footage of Micah at the gym just just
- 12:06Speaker 1: so much.
- 12:07Speaker 2: At this point still he's over eighteen.
- 12:11Speaker 3: He is eighteen.
- 12:12Speaker 2: Yeah, oh okay, I don't like that at all, but.
- 12:15Speaker 1: He's trying to get his modeling career going. And so
- 12:17Speaker 1: I remember, yeah, okay, So Pedro's working out and there's
- 12:22Speaker 1: a song that's playing is like mooe mooe, mooy Mala Mala,
- 12:26Speaker 1: mooey mala.
- 12:28Speaker 2: This episode had all the bangers. I was like, yes, yes, yes,
- 12:33Speaker 2: and Baldy got good music.
- 12:34Speaker 3: And yeah music.
- 12:36Speaker 1: So Pedro says, I've put everything behind me with my divorce.
- 12:41Speaker 1: I'm moving on with my life and I'm very excited
- 12:44Speaker 1: because me and my friends are all going to meet
- 12:46Speaker 1: Sophie and her friends tonight. So we're going to decorate
- 12:49Speaker 1: the sprinter van they're going to use for them, And
- 12:52Speaker 1: he says, when I the first time I saw her
- 12:54Speaker 1: on social media, I said, oh my god, she has
- 12:56Speaker 1: it all the lips, the hair, the eyes, the tips
- 12:58Speaker 1: to ask, the leg her body is like guitar style.
- 13:02Speaker 3: Make me a little crazy.
- 13:04Speaker 1: Yeah, And then then he says, but she has a
- 13:06Speaker 1: real kind heart. She's the full package, okay.
- 13:11Speaker 3: And she talks in a baby voice that's British. Yeah,
- 13:14Speaker 3: that's nice too. Yeah.
- 13:16Speaker 2: No one's accused her of being super. She's not going
- 13:20Speaker 2: to cure cancer, but she seems like she has a
- 13:24Speaker 2: really good heart and showed a lot of trauma. Shaped
- 13:28Speaker 2: like a guitarist first and foremost though.
- 13:30Speaker 3: Yes, so he didn't make me a little crazy, so
- 13:34Speaker 3: he says. He says, I.
- 13:37Speaker 1: Thought when I met Chantell, everything in my life would
- 13:39Speaker 1: be great, but then my life went to drain. Well,
- 13:42Speaker 1: he just as my life went to the drain. And
- 13:45Speaker 1: nine years ago he moved to the US for love.
- 13:47Speaker 3: Okay, so but they.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Were together ten years married. So I think this must
- 13:52Speaker 1: have been filmed like at the end of twenty twenty
- 13:54Speaker 1: three or something like what is Yeah, Julia's baby is
- 13:59Speaker 1: like eight months old now, like, uhhh, So he said
- 14:03Speaker 1: her family caused so much drama and they were crazy,
- 14:06Speaker 1: and he said was best, but no one is perfect.
- 14:10Speaker 1: And so he's saying, I tried my best, but I'm
- 14:12Speaker 1: not perfect. She never stood up with me for her family,
- 14:16Speaker 1: and eventually the marriage could not survive. But what I
- 14:19Speaker 1: learned from my marriage is to listen and listen and
- 14:23Speaker 1: have more patient and be more flexible.
- 14:25Speaker 2: Okay, that's great so far, he's getting a way better
- 14:29Speaker 2: edit than Chantelle is having this week with that nasty dancing.
- 14:35Speaker 2: We saw it the love Why we don't need to.
- 14:38Speaker 3: See that, that's no. And again it was so awkward.
- 14:41Speaker 2: She's even cringing at the camera as Ashley is.
- 14:46Speaker 3: Grinding on her, grinding on her.
- 14:48Speaker 2: By the way, did you know people think Ashley looks
- 14:50Speaker 2: like River and they call her Riverlee he or something,
- 14:56Speaker 2: and so they're like, she's being grinded on by her
- 14:58Speaker 2: girlfriend who looks like her brother.
- 15:01Speaker 3: It's a fiance, now, don't.
- 15:02Speaker 2: Forget yeah, fiance.
- 15:03Speaker 3: Yeah, they posted like a whole video.
- 15:05Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, hey, maybe they are getting new season
- 15:08Speaker 1: of the family Chantel, and we'll get that horrible allegedly.
- 15:15Speaker 3: Not great parents.
- 15:16Speaker 1: Okay, I'll say that all right. So he's decorating the
- 15:20Speaker 1: spinner Man for Sophie. He's putting up little disco balls
- 15:23Speaker 1: and like a little you know, electric candles and confettiants.
- 15:28Speaker 2: He should have leaned into the disco ball and made
- 15:31Speaker 2: because it's a girl's trip. Yes, he should have made
- 15:34Speaker 2: it like a party striplet yes type thing. Yes, they
- 15:37Speaker 2: would have loved it and thought it was so thoughtful.
- 15:40Speaker 2: Instead he went like a romantic Yeah, he should have.
- 15:43Speaker 1: He should have done like BoA's and beads and stuff
- 15:46Speaker 1: they could sit on and glasses and be silly, yes, yes,
- 15:49Speaker 1: and like champagne and like pink little glasses and they
- 15:52Speaker 1: lean into the girls strip vibe.
- 15:54Speaker 3: Yes, I agree with you.
- 15:57Speaker 1: And his friends are talking to him like do you
- 15:58Speaker 1: think this girl is like a marriage material? And he goes, oh, absolutely,
- 16:03Speaker 1: and they're like, oh my god, you're gonna.
- 16:04Speaker 3: Make the same So she's marriage material. Yeah. Yeah. By
- 16:09Speaker 3: the way, is she an American citizen question?
- 16:14Speaker 2: I think that's why didn't we agree that there was
- 16:18Speaker 2: something terrible that Rob did and Sophie was not talking
- 16:23Speaker 2: about it on TV and they would stay married long
- 16:26Speaker 2: enough for all of her paperwork to come through.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Yeah, but also she is from Great Britain, and so
- 16:31Speaker 1: that's like it's way easier because they have that relationship.
- 16:36Speaker 2: The two countries. But she's not here on a work visa.
- 16:39Speaker 1: No no, no, no, just because what is she doing.
- 16:42Speaker 1: She's a work he's doing only bands. I don't know
- 16:43Speaker 1: she could do that wherever. So okay, So now Pedro
- 16:49Speaker 1: is in his bathroom shaving his face and his nether regions.
- 16:52Speaker 1: Oh boy, and he's telling his little puppy that he hopes, uh,
- 16:57Speaker 1: they're gonna get some action and if not, they try again.
- 17:00Speaker 3: It's okay. And he says he never thought this would
- 17:03Speaker 3: be his life, age thirty three, no kids. He this
- 17:06Speaker 3: devastates him.
- 17:07Speaker 1: Actually, he wanted the wife, the house, the kids, the
- 17:11Speaker 1: life that people dream about.
- 17:13Speaker 3: That's what he wants.
- 17:14Speaker 1: And he wants to show Sophie the time of her
- 17:16Speaker 1: life and to be in a relationship with her forever.
- 17:20Speaker 2: Geez, wow, you has she been clear about her feelings
- 17:25Speaker 2: or maybe he just doesn't understand her accent. Maybe they
- 17:28Speaker 2: just don't understand one hundred percent of what the other
- 17:30Speaker 2: person is saying.
- 17:31Speaker 3: That can be it, that could be it, that could be.
- 17:34Speaker 2: Like I think she wants to marry me.
- 17:36Speaker 3: I do love Pedro like Julia.
- 17:40Speaker 1: I love their like broken English turned a phrase, Oh
- 17:44Speaker 1: you know.
- 17:44Speaker 3: I'm up with the family chantelle.
- 17:46Speaker 1: He came up with the family chantel and I'm going
- 17:48Speaker 1: to fuck off to the Dominican Republic. It's always like
- 17:53Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go fuck off to the dr like
- 17:54Speaker 1: and then he said like we I mean, he has
- 17:56Speaker 1: come up with some very funny phrases.
- 17:59Speaker 2: This, I mean, I didn't need to see him shaving
- 18:01Speaker 2: down there, but I was like, oh, Petro's kind of funny.
- 18:04Speaker 2: I forgot they had a reality they they that family
- 18:10Speaker 2: sucked the personality and the life out of that man.
- 18:13Speaker 1: Yeah, true, true, Remember though, another thing we're talking about funny,
- 18:17Speaker 1: and Julia has funny phrases too. Last night at dinner,
- 18:21Speaker 1: we had the Olympics on or something, and my husband
- 18:24Speaker 1: was saying something about Russia and he was trying to
- 18:26Speaker 1: remember what the phrase was, what movie was from, Like,
- 18:29Speaker 1: was it from Rocky you know this whole thing.
- 18:32Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know.
- 18:32Speaker 1: He goes, you know that movie with Arnold Schwartzinger, and
- 18:35Speaker 1: I go, no, I can guarantee you I didn't watch
- 18:37Speaker 1: that movie.
- 18:37Speaker 3: I don't know what movie. I don't know what movie
- 18:39Speaker 3: it is.
- 18:39Speaker 1: Because I don't watch movies with Arnold Shortene's singer, which
- 18:42Speaker 1: you thought was hilarious. He goes, you know that movie
- 18:44Speaker 1: and he says the thing about Russia. I go, no,
- 18:45Speaker 1: I have no clue. I go all I know is
- 18:48Speaker 1: Julia from ninety Day Fiance says, I go Russia Usha
- 18:52Speaker 1: and he goes, well.
- 18:53Speaker 3: I don't know that reference. I was like, well, then
- 18:55Speaker 3: we're going nowhere here.
- 18:57Speaker 2: You know.
- 18:57Speaker 3: I was like, so they did not be married. Let's
- 19:00Speaker 3: let's end it.
- 19:01Speaker 1: So the girls are getting ready and Liz is telling
- 19:05Speaker 1: us that she really needs to get her spark back.
- 19:08Speaker 1: Just reminds me so much of Brittany on the Valley
- 19:11Speaker 1: going jicks.
- 19:12Speaker 3: You made me lose my sparkle.
- 19:14Speaker 2: I mean that's true. He did.
- 19:16Speaker 3: He did, and he's like rob enough with the sparkle.
- 19:20Speaker 1: So she lives in Washington State, which can be gloomy,
- 19:24Speaker 1: and she was excited to go on this girls trip
- 19:26Speaker 1: and get some sunshine. Liz, yes, not Britney from the Valley,
- 19:31Speaker 1: and she lives in Washington State. She could use some sunshine.
- 19:34Speaker 1: She's excited to meet people and to flirt.
- 19:37Speaker 3: In the past she.
- 19:38Speaker 1: Just jumps into relationships and she's given too many guys,
- 19:41Speaker 1: too many chances.
- 19:42Speaker 3: True.
- 19:43Speaker 1: Yes, And with Ed it was always a hot mess.
- 19:46Speaker 1: We get a clip package of that. But she loved him,
- 19:49Speaker 1: she doesn't know why, and she always wanted to make
- 19:51Speaker 1: it work. He ended the relationship one month before the wedding,
- 19:55Speaker 1: and we see her saying, like, I worked on you
- 19:58Speaker 1: all this time. Now you're gonna the best version of
- 20:00Speaker 1: yourself for somebody else, and he says, don't worry, I'll
- 20:04Speaker 1: always be an asshole.
- 20:06Speaker 3: Yep. True.
- 20:07Speaker 1: Then came Jason, which is who we saw her with,
- 20:09Speaker 1: and we see that was at the tell all no limits,
- 20:13Speaker 1: and we see clips of that. After four months into
- 20:16Speaker 1: dating him, she found out he had another girlfriend he'd
- 20:19Speaker 1: had for a year.
- 20:22Speaker 2: That I'm still blown away by that. What an asshole
- 20:27Speaker 2: to go against Ed and be like, you will never
- 20:31Speaker 2: treat her badly, or you have to deal with me
- 20:34Speaker 2: only I can treat her badly.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Right exactly. And there was a time when she really
- 20:40Speaker 1: needed him to step up for her because she found
- 20:43Speaker 1: out she had a mass in her stomach. She had
- 20:46Speaker 1: stage one ovarian cancer, and she found out she had
- 20:50Speaker 1: it because she had a miscarriage, and she cries and says,
- 20:54Speaker 1: you know, I'm grateful for it because I found out
- 20:57Speaker 1: I had cancer.
- 20:58Speaker 3: But the whole thing was devastating. Oh, that's so sad.
- 21:02Speaker 2: And he wasn't there for her during that.
- 21:04Speaker 3: That's what she said. He wasn't there for me when
- 21:06Speaker 3: I needed him.
- 21:07Speaker 2: To quote Madeline, why the men's be so fucking stupid?
- 21:12Speaker 3: Right, Madelene spit in some wisdom loll So she says
- 21:18Speaker 3: being sick took a huge.
- 21:19Speaker 1: Toll on her, but she was grateful she was able
- 21:22Speaker 1: to overcome it, you know, And now she's excited about
- 21:25Speaker 1: the future and she wants to find love again. She
- 21:27Speaker 1: thinks she deserves the best life and now she knows,
- 21:29Speaker 1: you know, because of this life is too short to
- 21:32Speaker 1: accept anything less, like she needs to be treated like whatever. Okay,
- 21:37Speaker 1: the Vanna arrives to pick them up, and they're like,
- 21:39Speaker 1: oh my god, and they see how it's decorated, like
- 21:42Speaker 1: he's trying to impress her with love stuff and like
- 21:44Speaker 1: not like a girl's.
- 21:44Speaker 3: Trip, and the talking head Sophie goes.
- 21:48Speaker 1: It's overwhelming, like it comes on too strong, and Julia says, no,
- 21:53Speaker 1: it's like welcome to country. But I don't know, and
- 21:57Speaker 1: Sophie goes, I don't know, and Julia goes, you're right,
- 21:59Speaker 1: candle and the car, candle in the car, and she goes,
- 22:04Speaker 1: he put in sexy vibe, but it's friends like nanny
- 22:07Speaker 1: Nanny Pedro. And Sophie looks at her and goes, I
- 22:11Speaker 1: think she means naughty, naughty, I speak Julia. Julia goes,
- 22:15Speaker 1: that's right, nanny nanny. Yeah, these two are a great duo.
- 22:19Speaker 3: I liked them.
- 22:20Speaker 1: They should be on pillow Talk together. They'd be funny,
- 22:22Speaker 1: that would be hilarious.
- 22:23Speaker 3: Yes.
- 22:25Speaker 1: So in the van, Liz goes, I think it's really
- 22:27Speaker 1: nice that he did this, and Sophie's like, I don't
- 22:29Speaker 1: know why you're here.
- 22:30Speaker 3: This is cute. Julia is right. I don't shut up Liz,
- 22:32Speaker 3: but lies in the back.
- 22:34Speaker 2: I feel like we're being so mean to Liz, and
- 22:36Speaker 2: I started it. I have nothing against Liz besides that
- 22:39Speaker 2: she helped big Ed remain on this program. Yeah, and
- 22:46Speaker 2: put her daughter through the experience of having Ed be
- 22:49Speaker 2: her almost stepfather.
- 22:51Speaker 3: Yeah, all that's true.
- 22:52Speaker 1: And also, I just think it's hilarious that Sophie does
- 22:56Speaker 1: not like Liz yet is stuck.
- 22:58Speaker 3: On this girl's trip with her?
- 22:59Speaker 1: Is that I not doing it unless Julia come, who
- 23:02Speaker 1: is married, and I know.
- 23:03Speaker 3: That that's what happened. We do not know that that's
- 23:06Speaker 3: what happens. That's what I think happened.
- 23:09Speaker 2: I love this theory though. That's the theory, and I'm
- 23:12Speaker 2: going to watch it again with like a new lens.
- 23:15Speaker 2: Like she doesn't or like her, like she giving her
- 23:19Speaker 2: side eye and talk to each other. Yeah, she seems
- 23:22Speaker 2: to be focusing most of the conversation on Julia.
- 23:26Speaker 3: I am making a note to interview Sophie. Okay Pedro.
- 23:33Speaker 1: Pedro arrives to wait for them, and they're talking to
- 23:35Speaker 1: Hetty says, it's been two and a half months since
- 23:37Speaker 1: I saw her, and I don't know, like, I hope
- 23:39Speaker 1: she still likes me, which is I mean.
- 23:42Speaker 3: So they're not serious at all?
- 23:43Speaker 1: If if they don't live that far apart Atlanta, Georgia
- 23:46Speaker 1: in Austin, Texas, it's a quick plane drop.
- 23:49Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that doesn't seem that far.
- 23:51Speaker 3: Yeah it would probably. It's probably like a one hour
- 23:53Speaker 3: plane ride. I bet does she work? She works as
- 23:58Speaker 3: only fans model. Yeah, so what does she show? Nothing?
- 24:02Speaker 2: Nothing that's saying my business. I'm not paying for it.
- 24:05Speaker 2: It's not my business.
- 24:07Speaker 3: I think she shows it all well, I mean, listen
- 24:10Speaker 3: if I'm not I'm not sure. I'm not sure. Let's
- 24:13Speaker 3: look it up. Let's look it up.
- 24:16Speaker 1: God if a listener has looked at it, and God knows,
- 24:19Speaker 1: I bet there is Sophie.
- 24:22Speaker 3: Ninety day only fans. Okay, let's click it.
- 24:27Speaker 1: Sophie Sierra, Sophie Sierra, Sophie c Okay, Oh, here's a
- 24:35Speaker 1: here's a Okay, it's an article. I've broke down and
- 24:39Speaker 1: subscribed to a celebrities only fans. Oh, okay, okay, I'm cli,
- 24:44Speaker 1: I'm scrolling. I'm scrolling. You'll be happy to find her
- 24:49Speaker 1: pages perfectly free to subscribe and look around in. But
- 24:53Speaker 1: it's a technicality, so I'll stop using it.
- 24:57Speaker 2: There was a glitch that was making free.
- 25:01Speaker 1: I think that you could go and look at the
- 25:04Speaker 1: You have to subscribe to see other.
- 25:05Speaker 3: Things, other things.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay. To do da da da, you have
- 25:12Speaker 1: to send you can send a message. Okay, this has
- 25:17Speaker 1: spoiler alert. Unless you're ready to sell the farm to
- 25:19Speaker 1: see her tits. It's not much. I tipped her simply
- 25:23Speaker 1: to get a response. Expect to do it every time
- 25:25Speaker 1: you send a message and it's fifteen to twenty nine dollars,
- 25:28Speaker 1: then you'll see the opten content, but you won't see
- 25:32Speaker 1: anything too exposing. I was seeing things I could see
- 25:36Speaker 1: almost for free anywhere else tighte bathing suit but fully covered.
- 25:42Speaker 2: Yeah, I could see that. And wow this Why are
- 25:47Speaker 2: they calling her a celebrity?
- 25:49Speaker 1: I don't know, but I want to not read this
- 25:53Speaker 1: anymore because I don't want whoever wrote this to come
- 25:55Speaker 1: up on my algorithm because there's a lot of grossness
- 25:58Speaker 1: in that article.
- 25:59Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, well yep. So she doesn't show it all.
- 26:03Speaker 3: She just shakes her ass and she does.
- 26:05Speaker 2: I don't. She looks again, she has she has the
- 26:09Speaker 2: right look for it. She shared, does she shar does
- 26:12Speaker 2: she could be a playboy model totally.
- 26:15Speaker 1: Pedro's like, oh my god, she see me. She hugged
- 26:17Speaker 1: me like a brother like side hug.
- 26:19Speaker 3: She didn't. She hugged him flat on. She just didn't
- 26:22Speaker 3: like kiss him or anything.
- 26:23Speaker 2: She just working COUCHI around his waist, humping.
- 26:29Speaker 1: So he's like, wow, you look good. She hugs him,
- 26:31Speaker 1: and then she introduces him to everybody else. Julia's like,
- 26:34Speaker 1: oh my god, and she hugs him he was like, oh, Julia,
- 26:36Speaker 1: she huggs. She hugged me with so much excitement. It's
- 26:39Speaker 1: pregnant lady. So they go to this rooftop and they
- 26:44Speaker 1: meet the friends Villa, which I'm saying wrong is Via Darling.
- 26:52Speaker 3: Darling.
- 26:53Speaker 1: That's Genesis who was a girl, and then Raphael, so
- 26:58Speaker 1: I'm talking to her. Sophie goes, it was very nice
- 26:59Speaker 1: and meet them, but it felt like a job interview.
- 27:01Speaker 1: They're all sitting down staring at me like.
- 27:03Speaker 3: This, Like none of them stood up, they all just
- 27:05Speaker 3: were staring her.
- 27:06Speaker 2: Weird that was they were appraising them like if they
- 27:09Speaker 2: were on America's Next Top Model.
- 27:11Speaker 3: They were the judges. Like, it was so weird.
- 27:14Speaker 1: I agree, and she goes, I feel like he thinks
- 27:17Speaker 1: like this is my girlfriend and it's freaking me out,
- 27:20Speaker 1: Like it's overwhelming that he's like that. I feel like
- 27:22Speaker 1: I'm on display. So the girls immediately all go.
- 27:24Speaker 3: To the bathroom.
- 27:25Speaker 1: Yeah, and they were like this is kind of awkward.
- 27:28Speaker 1: She was like, it was weird, right, it's all weird.
- 27:30Speaker 1: And then the talking head he goes, I don't know
- 27:32Speaker 1: what she's doing. She's acting like a totally different person. Well,
- 27:35Speaker 1: it's because now cameras are here and everybody's staring and yeah,
- 27:38Speaker 1: of course. So in the bathroom she was like, I
- 27:41Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like he thinks we're in a
- 27:43Speaker 1: relationship and it's freaking me out. And Julie goes, we're
- 27:47Speaker 1: just gonna have fun. We're just gonna have fun. Don't
- 27:49Speaker 1: worry about it. She goes, I don't know if he's
- 27:50Speaker 1: gonna let me have fun, Like, let's just see how
- 27:52Speaker 1: it goes, like he thinks I'm his girlfriend, And Liz goes,
- 27:56Speaker 1: can everybody just help me meet my man tonight?
- 27:59Speaker 3: Yeah, and then she says.
- 28:00Speaker 2: I wanted them to go, oh oh oh, Liz, when
- 28:05Speaker 2: did you get.
- 28:05Speaker 3: On this trip? She says, Kitty's thirsty. Yeah. I didn't
- 28:11Speaker 3: like that, Liz.
- 28:12Speaker 2: That that moment made me go oh. Her and big
- 28:17Speaker 2: Ed might have been more evenly yoked than I thought.
- 28:21Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, come on, Liz, come on.
- 28:24Speaker 1: So in the talking head, Sophie goes, you know, it
- 28:27Speaker 1: seems lighthearted and everything, but now the vibe is getting
- 28:30Speaker 1: more serious and like, you know, So they go back out,
- 28:34Speaker 1: Liz meets the friend via, they do shots, they do cheers,
- 28:39Speaker 1: they do bachada dancing. So much Buthada on TLC.
- 28:43Speaker 2: Just does TLC have stock in Butchada? I mean, what
- 28:48Speaker 2: if Kara had been the one performing Pashada music.
- 28:51Speaker 3: She's like, I'm a professional, Butchada singer. Okay, and the
- 28:55Speaker 3: talking head, she says.
- 28:57Speaker 1: Sophie says, you know, when I'm with him, I can
- 28:59Speaker 1: tell we're very at ty acted to each other. He
- 29:01Speaker 1: smells good, he dressed as well. But I don't want
- 29:04Speaker 1: to lead him on because I really don't know if
- 29:07Speaker 1: I want to be in a relationship with anybody.
- 29:09Speaker 3: And by the way, you guys don't live in the
- 29:10Speaker 3: same city. You're just doing this for the show. Stop. Okay? Yeah,
- 29:14Speaker 3: Via and Liz do some Butjada dancing.
- 29:16Speaker 2: He has no problem moving around for a man. You
- 29:19Speaker 2: know that's multiple times.
- 29:21Speaker 1: So she was great Britain to Mexico, to La to Austin.
- 29:27Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so and before that show, oh, I and
- 29:32Speaker 2: I see I keep getting confused. Are we talking about
- 29:34Speaker 2: Liz or are we talking about Sophie?
- 29:36Speaker 1: Sophie, I was saying, moves around for a man, so
- 29:39Speaker 1: does Liz. Okay, all right, so Liz, not Sophie. Liz
- 29:45Speaker 1: and Via are doing bajada dancing. He was like, oh,
- 29:48Speaker 1: you said you didn't know how, and you're actually pretty good.
- 29:51Speaker 1: Julia is dancing with somebody. She's just like fullinging some
- 29:53Speaker 1: poor guy around.
- 29:54Speaker 3: She's just like.
- 29:57Speaker 1: Hilarious. And then Via and Liz are of chatting and flirting.
- 30:01Speaker 1: She's a Gemini, he's a Libra. He has a kid
- 30:04Speaker 1: that's no, she has a kid that's twelve, and he
- 30:07Speaker 1: has a kid that's eight. And she's like, whoa, let's
- 30:09Speaker 1: get a shot. Okay, Lizen here for a good time,
- 30:13Speaker 1: not for a long time.
- 30:14Speaker 2: So now Sophie I think she's looking for She says
- 30:18Speaker 2: she's feeling butterflies with Via. Yeah, And I was like,
- 30:22Speaker 2: do you mean in your fanny area or like in
- 30:25Speaker 2: your belly? Like are you feeling romance? That's not what
- 30:29Speaker 2: the show is about.
- 30:30Speaker 3: No, I think she's feeling like her kiddy's thirsty. And
- 30:34Speaker 3: she's yeah, I think that's what she feels. So sorry
- 30:37Speaker 3: that I had to say that, guys. So Sophie and
- 30:40Speaker 3: Pedro go off to talk. Now Sophie has.
- 30:42Speaker 1: Got her sisters out on display. Yeah yeah, and she's like,
- 30:49Speaker 1: the eyes are here, Pedro. Julia is trying to listen.
- 30:53Speaker 1: She's like falling off a chair. To try to listen
- 30:55Speaker 1: to the conversation that's hilarious, which was funny, and Sophie's like, well,
- 31:00Speaker 1: I'm in the dr so I had a peanutle out
- 31:01Speaker 1: of for breakfast.
- 31:02Speaker 3: Huh.
- 31:03Speaker 1: And he's like, okay, all right, and he laughs, and
- 31:07Speaker 1: then she says, because she sees Via and Liz together,
- 31:11Speaker 1: she says, is your friend to Hoe? And she is
- 31:14Speaker 1: saying that about Via. Yeah, he I don't think he
- 31:18Speaker 1: understood the language barrier. He turned and looks and goes,
- 31:21Speaker 1: oh what, and she goes, no, it's fine if you're
- 31:23Speaker 1: friend to Hoe. Because Liz is in her single era.
- 31:25Speaker 1: He's like, wait, what I didn't say my friend was
- 31:27Speaker 1: a Hoe? Like it was like who's on first a
- 31:29Speaker 1: little bit and she goes, but same for me, I'm
- 31:33Speaker 1: in my single area. Like I'm so glad I'm not
- 31:35Speaker 1: in a toxic relationship anymore. And he goes, so you're
- 31:39Speaker 1: you're a divorce what's going on with that? And she says, oh,
- 31:42Speaker 1: I'm in the process of divorce. And he says like
- 31:46Speaker 1: when she goes, like this week, like yesterday, like.
- 31:51Speaker 2: I have to call the lawyer for the first time tomorrow.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Like do you know one? And she goes, you know,
- 31:59Speaker 1: I never it never felt like the end, like because
- 32:02Speaker 1: he kept calling me and he just called me like
- 32:04Speaker 1: last week, Like it never feels like the end. And
- 32:07Speaker 1: Patrick goes, why does he feel like he's obsessed and
- 32:10Speaker 1: he won't move on? Like why does he keep calling
- 32:12Speaker 1: you even if you block him? And she goes, I
- 32:14Speaker 1: don't know. I mean she's like, look at me, I
- 32:15Speaker 1: mean hello, And he says, have there been any hookups
- 32:19Speaker 1: with him? Which is an interesting question to ask to
- 32:21Speaker 1: somebody you're dating, And.
- 32:24Speaker 3: She says, yeah, we hooked up like after a.
- 32:26Speaker 1: Few months, Like, I mean he was horrible, but when
- 32:28Speaker 1: he was nice, I forgot about the bad things and
- 32:31Speaker 1: so yeah, we slept together. Another weird thing to tell
- 32:34Speaker 1: a guy you're dating.
- 32:35Speaker 2: I think she's trying to scare him off.
- 32:37Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, good call, And she goes, you know,
- 32:41Speaker 3: I find it hard when you love somebody to just
- 32:43Speaker 3: say goodbye, like even though they're terrible and you don't
- 32:46Speaker 3: want to be with them and you want to divorce them.
- 32:47Speaker 1: I find it really hard to say goodbye. And then talking,
- 32:51Speaker 1: Eddie's like, I don't know what we're doing here, Like
- 32:53Speaker 1: what are we doing here?
- 32:54Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, like Why am I dating this girl where
- 32:57Speaker 3: she's not over her ex? Who do you think you
- 33:00Speaker 3: can be with him? Just say I really like you, Pedro.
- 33:03Speaker 2: But I've I've told you how serious I was about
- 33:06Speaker 2: just being single, and I got a little freaked out
- 33:10Speaker 2: and in my head about the van A lot.
- 33:14Speaker 3: It's a lot from party City. But I did like
- 33:16Speaker 3: that necklace and I do like the flowers every week.
- 33:18Speaker 2: So keep that part up, spend the money, but maybe
- 33:22Speaker 2: just about the romance.
- 33:24Speaker 3: M do you think in a fight, who would win
- 33:27Speaker 3: Pedro or Rob?
- 33:30Speaker 2: Oh a physical fight Pedro? I think Rob is a all
- 33:36Speaker 2: talk and no is actually a little scared cat.
- 33:40Speaker 1: I think Pedro has like a black belt and mooie tie. Remember, yeah, yeah,
- 33:44Speaker 1: I think he would kill him. I agree with that.
- 33:47Speaker 3: Rob. Don't come at me. Okay. Let's Rob only.
- 33:50Speaker 2: Likes to beat up on people much.
- 33:54Speaker 3: Smaller than him mentally and physically. Yes, I think that's right. Okay,
- 34:01Speaker 3: let's talk about Gino Kimberly, Gino Michigan. Here he is.
- 34:08Speaker 2: I am so glad that Gino's back on our tvs'.
- 34:11Speaker 3: You are me too. I'm so.
- 34:17Speaker 2: He has a huge collection of smelly hats. He has
- 34:20Speaker 2: shark teeth. He has beda cheese feet, yes, back on
- 34:24Speaker 2: the market, and he's ready to make a special lady
- 34:27Speaker 2: out there very very unhappy.
- 34:34Speaker 3: Amen.
- 34:35Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah, I about to ask if you're ready
- 34:40Speaker 1: with your hat?
- 34:41Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
- 34:43Speaker 2: He's doing more of the the Panama back he's back
- 34:47Speaker 2: more on the Panama than the backwards set.
- 34:50Speaker 3: But I don't have a Panama.
- 34:51Speaker 1: So why does he go to Turkey? You get his
- 34:53Speaker 1: whole head transplanted?
- 34:56Speaker 3: Do those look good?
- 34:58Speaker 2: No?
- 34:58Speaker 3: But I mean if.
- 34:59Speaker 2: He's he's so paranoid about it, you know, yeah, it
- 35:02Speaker 2: would look maybe better than all the.
- 35:04Speaker 3: Hats, at least maybe. Yeah.
- 35:07Speaker 2: So he sa in spin class and smiling like a weirdo.
- 35:10Speaker 2: I don't trust anyone who's smiling that much in cardio.
- 35:14Speaker 2: I think you're a serial killer if you're like.
- 35:17Speaker 3: During spin class. Yeah. And of course the instructor's like,
- 35:21Speaker 3: go Gino.
- 35:22Speaker 2: Gochino, he says, after everything I've been through with Jazzmin,
- 35:28Speaker 2: I want some young beautiful ladies, baby whoo, and we
- 35:34Speaker 2: all just dried up like the Sahara Gross. Yeah, why
- 35:38Speaker 2: do you fifty six year old man need a young
- 35:42Speaker 2: beautiful lady?
- 35:44Speaker 3: You better mean fifty four by Young Yeah.
- 35:48Speaker 2: Yeah, so he has the teacher take a photo of
- 35:52Speaker 2: him on the bike after class for his Instagram, and
- 35:57Speaker 2: he says, I'm not good at choosing women. And we
- 36:00Speaker 2: see the best of Gino and Jasmine clip package and
- 36:04Speaker 2: where she throws the toothbrush and almost attacks him and
- 36:06Speaker 2: the producer has to get her to stop and then
- 36:09Speaker 2: I forgot that he deserved it. She had been he
- 36:14Speaker 2: had sent his ex her notes. Yeah, so he says,
- 36:18Speaker 2: Jasmine always beat me down and then she had a
- 36:21Speaker 2: baby with some random dude down the street.
- 36:25Speaker 3: Not exactly the way that went, but okay.
- 36:27Speaker 2: This revisionist history. You kicked her out and she was
- 36:30Speaker 2: living with this man.
- 36:32Speaker 3: All true.
- 36:33Speaker 2: Yeah, So he says I got knocked down, but I
- 36:37Speaker 2: got back up, and I'm time for Gino to get
- 36:40Speaker 2: his groove back. He didn't say that, but that's what
- 36:43Speaker 2: he's That's what the implication was. And then he's going
- 36:46Speaker 2: to a singles kickball event he hasn't been to. He
- 36:51Speaker 2: hasn't had to meet or ask a woman out in
- 36:54Speaker 2: person in over thirty years. And I know what you're thinking,
- 36:58Speaker 2: but he's only dated g Jasmine for this many years
- 37:02Speaker 2: because before internet dating. He placed classified ads for women,
- 37:10Speaker 2: and he says that was scary because I didn't know
- 37:13Speaker 2: what they looked like.
- 37:15Speaker 3: God forbid.
- 37:16Speaker 2: They were an ugo prison gino.
- 37:19Speaker 3: Because he's so hot.
- 37:22Speaker 2: And then he goes, I'm lucky I didn't get scammed,
- 37:25Speaker 2: and I thought, I bet those women feel like they
- 37:28Speaker 2: were lucky they didn't get stabbed. And that's right there.
- 37:31Speaker 2: The Margaret at would quote, men are afraid that women
- 37:35Speaker 2: will laugh at them, and women are afraid that men
- 37:36Speaker 2: will kill him. That's exactly what just happened. Yeah, yes,
- 37:42Speaker 2: so he meets also they were sugar babies, Like, let's
- 37:47Speaker 2: be honest.
- 37:47Speaker 3: That's all it was. Just since he's so cheap, it's
- 37:50Speaker 3: crazy that he's had this sugar baby experience when he's
- 37:54Speaker 3: so cheap.
- 37:55Speaker 2: Well, look who's a sugar mama, freaking Lisa who's homeless.
- 38:00Speaker 2: So apparently it doesn't take much to be a sugar person.
- 38:03Speaker 1: Okay, you're right, you're right, you're right. That's Lisa and
- 38:06Speaker 1: Daniel of BT ninety.
- 38:09Speaker 2: Yeah, he meets some ladies and he's feeling awkward, so
- 38:13Speaker 2: they go to play kickball, and his girly little hands
- 38:17Speaker 2: when he was running like a little kid on the playground.
- 38:22Speaker 3: But he made he made a goal or he made
- 38:24Speaker 3: it what call it?
- 38:26Speaker 2: And he says, I thought those ladies are finding me
- 38:31Speaker 2: pretty sexy because they're high fiving him because he scored
- 38:35Speaker 2: and their team won. And then we learned that the
- 38:38Speaker 2: events are usually seventy percent women, so they are hard
- 38:42Speaker 2: up for men. So if anything, that's why they find
- 38:45Speaker 2: him sexy.
- 38:47Speaker 3: He was like, oh, I like those odds seventy five women.
- 38:50Speaker 2: All right, he needs to move to Alaska where the
- 38:54Speaker 2: no wait.
- 38:54Speaker 3: No, not Alaska, there's too many men there.
- 38:58Speaker 2: Lisa Leads needs to move to Alaska because she might
- 39:01Speaker 2: be a prize in a small town that has no women,
- 39:05Speaker 2: so they wouldn't even make her wear her wig.
- 39:09Speaker 3: So he.
- 39:12Speaker 2: Yeah, these ladies ask his situation and he's like, I'm
- 39:16Speaker 2: getting divorced. They're like they he says, I was in
- 39:19Speaker 2: a relationship, so you're divorced. No, I'm not divorced. I was.
- 39:23Speaker 2: I'm working on getting a divorced. But the divorce lawyer
- 39:26Speaker 2: is really expansive. I'm surprised he didn't go into the finances,
- 39:30Speaker 2: and that bitch owes me seventy thousand dollars. She doesn't
- 39:35Speaker 2: he They think it's a red flag that he's at
- 39:38Speaker 2: these events and he's not yet divorced. I don't think
- 39:44Speaker 2: try red flag.
- 39:45Speaker 3: He's what did you.
- 39:47Speaker 1: Say, not even trying to get divorced, not even trying
- 39:49Speaker 1: in the process of the divorce.
- 39:51Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
- 39:52Speaker 2: And one the two ladies in their talking head one goes,
- 39:56Speaker 2: he's like shaking and his voice is cracking.
- 39:59Speaker 3: Why is he so nerve? I said, that's just you know, you.
- 40:03Speaker 2: Need to watch this show. That's just how he is.
- 40:06Speaker 2: So he tells them his version of events, how Jasmine
- 40:09Speaker 2: cheated on him.
- 40:10Speaker 3: And with a random dude down the street.
- 40:13Speaker 2: Down this street from the gym, and he thinks, I
- 40:18Speaker 2: shouldn't be telling them this. This is not gonna, you know,
- 40:21Speaker 2: go over. Well. I think it could maybe get him
- 40:24Speaker 2: a sympathy bang because I keep thinking of On Seinfeld.
- 40:29Speaker 2: George was practicing all of his different stories, and or
- 40:33Speaker 2: Jerry was and he found out that George's widower story
- 40:36Speaker 2: was like the biggest hit. So I think he either
- 40:39Speaker 2: needs to kill off Jasmine in his story and be like,
- 40:43Speaker 2: we were going to get married and she never cheated
- 40:46Speaker 2: on me, and she loves sucking my toes and we
- 40:48Speaker 2: always banged, and I didn't need little blue bills. And
- 40:50Speaker 2: then she died, and then he might get a sympathy bang.
- 40:54Speaker 2: But even just she cheated on me and left might
- 40:57Speaker 2: get him a sympathy bang or a sympathy first date.
- 41:00Speaker 2: And then you're in the door.
- 41:02Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and like Pedro says, and then if it
- 41:05Speaker 1: doesn't work, you just try again.
- 41:07Speaker 3: Try again.
- 41:08Speaker 2: So he says, what are you ladies looking for in
- 41:12Speaker 2: a man? And for some reason, the ladies find this
- 41:16Speaker 2: so funny and they start laughing and they're whispering to
- 41:21Speaker 2: each other, and one's like, is he for real? And
- 41:23Speaker 2: then they're like, wait, could you hear that? Can you
- 41:25Speaker 2: hear us?
- 41:27Speaker 3: Did I miss something?
- 41:28Speaker 2: I we around like ten times. I did not think
- 41:31Speaker 2: that what he said was awkward at all.
- 41:34Speaker 3: No, I don't think it was. I think is it
- 41:37Speaker 3: just his demeanor. I think it's he's he's weird. Yeah.
- 41:41Speaker 2: Well, he does like wave his hands a lot and
- 41:43Speaker 2: do a lot of hand gestures a bit like he's
- 41:47Speaker 2: on seeking sister.
- 41:49Speaker 1: And he's also very fidgety, you know what I mean, Like, yeah,
- 41:52Speaker 1: somebody for a man, You're like, quit moving.
- 41:54Speaker 2: Yeah, But it wasn't like they just burst out laughing,
- 41:58Speaker 2: and I thought, that's why no men are coming to
- 41:59Speaker 2: you your event. You ladies are bitches. And I can't
- 42:03Speaker 2: believe I'm sticking it for Gino.
- 42:05Speaker 3: Is it because they they had a sexual connotation to like,
- 42:09Speaker 3: what are we looking for a man like ten inches?
- 42:11Speaker 3: Or I mean, you know, like I.
- 42:13Speaker 2: Like that though, And I would have picked up on
- 42:15Speaker 2: it because I hate him, so I would have immediately
- 42:17Speaker 2: thought he was being pervy. Did you think he was
- 42:19Speaker 2: saying it like that?
- 42:20Speaker 1: No?
- 42:21Speaker 3: I didn't, but it would be like, what do you
- 42:22Speaker 3: mean a guy with hair? Get out of here.
- 42:27Speaker 2: The perfect place for him is a sporting event, singles thing,
- 42:30Speaker 2: because he can wear a hat and it doesn't look
- 42:33Speaker 2: out of place.
- 42:34Speaker 3: Yeah, and you.
- 42:35Speaker 1: Know he's now that he's working on his fitness, you
- 42:38Speaker 1: know maybe he could.
- 42:39Speaker 2: Yeah a home run, not with the ladies, but on
- 42:43Speaker 2: the court. So he then he is at a supermarket
- 42:49Speaker 2: and he says, this is a great deal five two
- 42:54Speaker 2: for five dollars of and it's prey goo, which made
- 42:58Speaker 2: me think of Jenny and this fagette.
- 43:00Speaker 3: Yeah, like you should ask Jenny for that recipe. Yeah.
- 43:03Speaker 2: First of all, Uncle Marco would kill you, Gino if
- 43:06Speaker 2: he saw you using prego out of a can.
- 43:09Speaker 3: Yes, he in the garage exactly.
- 43:14Speaker 2: So he says, I am budget conscious and some women
- 43:18Speaker 2: think it's cheap, but I just need a girl who
- 43:21Speaker 2: appreciates value and then we'll hit it up in the
- 43:24Speaker 2: grocery store. No, you're you're cheap.
- 43:28Speaker 1: Is there a single site for coupon clippers? Would that be?
- 43:32Speaker 2: That's a genius idea.
- 43:38Speaker 3: Yeah, that's genius.
- 43:40Speaker 2: So he should get on like the Reddit forums or something.
- 43:42Speaker 3: Ye find a lady who loves a bargain.
- 43:46Speaker 2: Yes, Michigan bargain hunters. That's a great idea. So he
- 43:54Speaker 2: goes to the meat counter and asks where the package
- 43:56Speaker 2: meat is.
- 43:58Speaker 3: This is so stupid. This is so stupid. What the
- 44:01Speaker 3: fuck is package meat? I know you're a vegetarian, but
- 44:06Speaker 3: packaged meat.
- 44:08Speaker 2: Is like though he says package meat.
- 44:12Speaker 3: Oh, maybe he went to say packages of meat or
- 44:16Speaker 3: packaged meat.
- 44:17Speaker 1: Maybe he just missed a letter. Maybe that's why the
- 44:20Speaker 1: ladies were laughing at him because he miss speaks. But
- 44:23Speaker 1: it's stupid that he tells the woman behind the counter like, wow,
- 44:26Speaker 1: I asked why it was real vegan, bitch, And now
- 44:29Speaker 1: I can eat all the meat I want. Are we
- 44:31Speaker 1: to believe this since you and Jasmine broke up and
- 44:32Speaker 1: she now has like a two year old that you
- 44:34Speaker 1: haven't had a hamburger, Like.
- 44:36Speaker 3: Come on exactly.
- 44:37Speaker 2: Yeah, the awkward clerk is like, okay, fall and chain,
- 44:42Speaker 2: I guess enjoy your meat.
- 44:45Speaker 3: Enjoy your meat.
- 44:47Speaker 1: She said that, And then I was like, are we
- 44:51Speaker 1: supposed to believe he's hitting on this lady or is.
- 44:53Speaker 2: This like no, I don't know. It obviously was production,
- 44:58Speaker 2: but he is that awkward because remember he that soup
- 45:00Speaker 2: maker and then he didn't even buy a suit.
- 45:03Speaker 1: And he did that he was doing like the doing
- 45:07Speaker 1: because his pants were so giant.
- 45:09Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he goes and he finds the hamburger meat,
- 45:13Speaker 2: which I just would have said, where's the hamburger meat?
- 45:15Speaker 2: But it's also the easiest thing to find in the store.
- 45:17Speaker 2: It's always against the wall, and like, yeah, I'm a vegetarian,
- 45:21Speaker 2: and even I know.
- 45:22Speaker 3: That this is just stage for him to be able.
- 45:25Speaker 3: I got rid of that bitch.
- 45:27Speaker 2: Yeah, and he puts hamburger meat in his cart and
- 45:30Speaker 2: he says, take that, Jasmine.
- 45:33Speaker 3: Oh I'll show you. Yeah.
- 45:35Speaker 2: Now the subtitle said take that, Jeff, And I thought, gino,
- 45:40Speaker 2: you need to even stop talking about Jasmine and stop
- 45:43Speaker 2: talking about Jeff if you need to move on and
- 45:45Speaker 2: start dating someone else, because you're always talking about your axes,
- 45:49Speaker 2: Jeff and Jasmine, and nobody's gonna like that on a
- 45:52Speaker 2: first date.
- 45:53Speaker 1: So I just I'm divorced. That's all you need to say.
- 45:56Speaker 1: I'm divorced. That's all the end.
- 45:57Speaker 2: So he still has so much anger and he can't
- 46:00Speaker 2: move on if he keeps talking about her as a bitch.
- 46:03Speaker 2: So he says, I get nervous meeting women in person.
- 46:07Speaker 2: So I'm revamping my Instagram game. And these captions and
- 46:12Speaker 2: photos feeling so relaxed by the pool love the downtown
- 46:17Speaker 2: riverfront with a hang ten hand.
- 46:21Speaker 3: Gesture, Gotta go surfing on the river.
- 46:26Speaker 2: Taking time for some R and R, getting back in shape.
- 46:31Speaker 2: And he posted a picture of him at the spin
- 46:33Speaker 2: class again doing the hang ten no, and then a
- 46:37Speaker 2: desperate woman or a plant from TLC commented on the
- 46:41Speaker 2: spin class photo, sexy man. I definitely would not be
- 46:47Speaker 2: able to go with you because I'll be looking at
- 46:50Speaker 2: you instead of the trainer while I'm drooling. Ma'am, who
- 46:55Speaker 2: are you?
- 46:56Speaker 3: Go ahead, just get a wellness check on this woman.
- 46:59Speaker 3: Damn that l she thinks you're hot, Go ahead.
- 47:02Speaker 2: Is this really a woman or a catfish?
- 47:05Speaker 3: So give it a try.
- 47:08Speaker 2: No, there's no self she's well, she's not a self
- 47:12Speaker 2: respecting woman. She's either a catfish or a.
- 47:17Speaker 3: Bot bot or production or a.
- 47:23Speaker 2: Tlc PA who is paid to do.
- 47:26Speaker 3: This, or somebody that Jasmine hired.
- 47:28Speaker 1: She's trying to get more dirt on him because we
- 47:29Speaker 1: see he's He puts that out all the time, that
- 47:31Speaker 1: Jasmin's hiring people to look at his social media and stuff.
- 47:35Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't look terrible in the photo.
- 47:39Speaker 3: I mean, his eyes are not as.
- 47:40Speaker 2: Close together as they normally are, and his his he
- 47:44Speaker 2: doesn't look like out of shape, and his his hat
- 47:47Speaker 2: looks appropriate because he is in a spin class.
- 47:50Speaker 3: So yeah, but I would never.
- 47:52Speaker 2: Comment on someone's photo that I'm drooling and cannot focus on, like, come,
- 47:59Speaker 2: so respect ladies. So he says, the women are sliding
- 48:03Speaker 2: into my DMS all the time, and I freaking love it.
- 48:07Speaker 2: And then he hears a notification and he says, Natalie
- 48:11Speaker 2: is commenting, good job on my photo of me at
- 48:14Speaker 2: the gym. So after the disastrous Danna's Birthday party, they
- 48:19Speaker 2: didn't talk for a year, but they reconnected at the
- 48:22Speaker 2: Happily Ever After. Tell all, so Sean Robinson bringing people
- 48:27Speaker 2: back together who should not be together.
- 48:29Speaker 1: Natalie wants to be on television, everybody, Okay.
- 48:32Speaker 3: Natalie never existed.
- 48:34Speaker 2: I don't even believe she's a real person and that
- 48:36Speaker 2: it's not even her name, so she always wanted to
- 48:39Speaker 2: be on television.
- 48:40Speaker 3: I think she's an actress.
- 48:41Speaker 2: So a woman would get into a hot tub with.
- 48:45Speaker 1: Jeff rob told me at the JLS December party, rob
- 48:50Speaker 1: told me the Jazz was started that rumor that Natalie
- 48:53Speaker 1: was an actress, and all the bloggers and everything took that.
- 48:56Speaker 1: And that's because Jazz started that rumor that Natalie was
- 48:59Speaker 1: an actress. She was not an actress. She is a
- 49:01Speaker 1: girl that Gino's dating.
- 49:03Speaker 2: Okay, a, I don't read Jasmine's blogs, and I don't
- 49:07Speaker 2: even think she blogs.
- 49:08Speaker 3: So Jasmine said the bloggers.
- 49:11Speaker 2: Oh well, I don't read out. I have common sense.
- 49:16Speaker 1: And also we still don't believe a woman that looks
- 49:18Speaker 1: like that, staying Gino, we just don't.
- 49:20Speaker 2: Ye And so he then he's in this the bread
- 49:25Speaker 2: aisle and he's squeezing the white bread, which is probably
- 49:29Speaker 2: what he calls masturbating. And he says it's soft like
- 49:36Speaker 2: I like my women. This man is a serial killer. Ladies,
- 49:42Speaker 2: you can see this man in the bread aisle, leave
- 49:45Speaker 2: the store, get a security guard to walk you to
- 49:49Speaker 2: your car.
- 49:50Speaker 1: If you are in the Safeway in Canton, Michigan and
- 49:53Speaker 1: you see this man, turn on your bill, leave your cart, in.
- 49:59Speaker 2: Fact, give up read completely go keynot. I took a
- 50:03Speaker 2: picture of it because he's like glare. He's smiling at
- 50:07Speaker 2: the camera with the.
- 50:08Speaker 3: Bread like ew.
- 50:11Speaker 2: It's buffalo bill. It's all kinds of creep. I'll send
- 50:14Speaker 2: you the picture. Okay, okay, you see this is a
- 50:17Speaker 2: screen shot.
- 50:17Speaker 3: Okay, thank you.
- 50:18Speaker 2: It's horrible. Uh So, also in his cart, I did
- 50:22Speaker 2: survey a bunch of orange gatorades, orange juice, and chocolate milk.
- 50:29Speaker 2: So he's hydrated and is a teenage boy.
- 50:33Speaker 1: Yes, right, he's going back to his old ways. It's definitely.
- 50:36Speaker 1: I'm sure he had lots of like TV dinners. Remember
- 50:38Speaker 1: how Dasma went to his house. It was stacks and
- 50:41Speaker 1: TV dinners.
- 50:42Speaker 2: Yeah, because he never took out the trash and always hungry.
- 50:46Speaker 3: Man gross.
- 50:47Speaker 2: So he wants to prove himself and win Natalie back,
- 50:50Speaker 2: and then he makes a quick joke about posting a
- 50:53Speaker 2: photo of a huge cucumber on his Instagram because he's hilarious.
- 50:59Speaker 2: Then he's packed. You have to go visit Natalie. And
- 51:01Speaker 2: the producer says, why are you packing that shampoo?
- 51:06Speaker 3: You know?
- 51:09Speaker 2: And g says, I've got to take care of the
- 51:12Speaker 2: little patch on my head and on my back, Gros Gros,
- 51:17Speaker 2: I gotta take care of the little hairy have. And
- 51:20Speaker 2: he's visiting her in DC because she's working remotely there,
- 51:23Speaker 2: and he's like, I got this these new sweaters and
- 51:26Speaker 2: they're so colorful, and look at this underwear.
- 51:29Speaker 3: Isn't this sexy?
- 51:30Speaker 2: That's some sexy ass underwear.
- 51:36Speaker 3: I do have a picture of that.
- 51:38Speaker 2: Reevaluate, where is it? Everything you just said?
- 51:42Speaker 1: I do have the picture of that, and I'm going
- 51:44Speaker 1: to pull it up just to torture you. But I
- 51:46Speaker 1: might not have it here. It might be on my
- 51:47Speaker 1: other computer.
- 51:48Speaker 2: Shoot, well, I'll find the bread photo it.
- 51:52Speaker 3: Hold on, I'm gonna pull it up. I know that
- 51:55Speaker 3: I downloaded it. Dang it. Where is it? Oh?
- 51:57Speaker 2: Here it is, And then get their own underwear. I'll
- 52:12Speaker 2: get that face squeeze in the bread. That's a serial killer.
- 52:16Speaker 1: This picture is better than my picture. I want to
- 52:19Speaker 1: save it and use this for the cover art.
- 52:22Speaker 2: From that man.
- 52:24Speaker 3: He looks like he's doing an ad for the grocery store,
- 52:27Speaker 3: doesn't he?
- 52:28Speaker 2: But like, that's the outtake where you just blinked weird.
- 52:31Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is so creepy. So what's worse
- 52:35Speaker 2: this one or this not great?
- 52:40Speaker 3: Oh my god, that is so funny. Okay, thank you
- 52:43Speaker 3: for sending me.
- 52:45Speaker 2: So all I'm saying is, if Gino turns out to
- 52:48Speaker 2: be on a list somewhere, I would not be at
- 52:50Speaker 2: all surprised.
- 52:51Speaker 3: Oh, he's on a list somewhere, all right.
- 52:53Speaker 2: Yeah. So he says that his talks with Natalie had
- 52:59Speaker 2: been very surface lately, so he doesn't know how she's feeling.
- 53:03Speaker 2: And he says, I'm not packing my little Blue pills
- 53:07Speaker 2: because I only need to use them with someone who's
- 53:10Speaker 2: ugly on the inside and a constant bitch, and I
- 53:15Speaker 2: won't need them because Natalie has a wonderful personality. I'm
- 53:19Speaker 2: gonna get it up, man.
- 53:22Speaker 3: You know that's it. The show's over. I have to
- 53:27Speaker 3: go vomit. That is. I could not believe he said
- 53:30Speaker 3: I'm going to get it up, man.
- 53:33Speaker 2: I was more disturbed by again calling Jasmine an ugly
- 53:37Speaker 2: person on the inside and a constant bitch. Yeah, it's
- 53:40Speaker 2: just non stop with the bitch, just NonStop. He has
- 53:44Speaker 2: so much anger, so disturbing. Don't grant this man a
- 53:50Speaker 2: license for a weapon because he is a danger to
- 53:56Speaker 2: her and to every woman out there. And I don't
- 53:59Speaker 2: just mean his stinky feet with the cheese, I mean
- 54:03Speaker 2: his whole personality. And Natalie run because Natalie seems fairly nice,
- 54:08Speaker 2: so we'll see.
- 54:10Speaker 3: Yeah, John's out on Jurry's out on Natalie.
- 54:13Speaker 2: Yeah, or Schmatalie as her real name is on her ptificate.
- 54:17Speaker 2: Natalie is her stage name. So he says it's not
- 54:22Speaker 2: often you get a second chance, especially with a woman
- 54:27Speaker 2: as great as Natalie. So he flies to DC and
- 54:32Speaker 2: he tells the taxi driver, I'm meaning the most beautiful,
- 54:36Speaker 2: kindest woman with the most beautiful personality and soul. And
- 54:41Speaker 2: she is also a hot, sexy, passionate Latina. So he
- 54:46Speaker 2: started off nice, and then he couldn't resist slipping back
- 54:51Speaker 2: into his old fetishizing ways.
- 54:54Speaker 3: He's a guy, He's just a guy.
- 54:56Speaker 1: He's sucking to another guy, guy like Johnny.
- 55:01Speaker 2: So they're meeting at a tee shop and then they're
- 55:04Speaker 2: gonna go check out her apartment.
- 55:07Speaker 3: All right, I think, okay, I can't picture Gino in
- 55:11Speaker 3: a tea shop.
- 55:12Speaker 2: And I wondered if this was like a test, like
- 55:16Speaker 2: if it goes, well, we'll go to my apartment, or
- 55:20Speaker 2: so he says, his heart is, he goes, my heart
- 55:22Speaker 2: is racing because Natalie, you're old too, so you should get.
- 55:26Speaker 3: That checked out and then you than me.
- 55:31Speaker 2: Well listen, he does. He looks.
- 55:37Speaker 3: Older, older. Okay, you should never be in six feet
- 55:43Speaker 3: of batman.
- 55:47Speaker 2: Natalie walks in, and then we don't know what happens.
- 55:49Speaker 2: It's hard to gauge her vibe. It looked like she
- 55:52Speaker 2: was about to smile when she walked in.
- 55:54Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure it's fine, but I'm sure if he's
- 55:56Speaker 1: on this actual season, then he's going to date more
- 55:58Speaker 1: than just her. Yeah, all right, let's go to Kimberly
- 56:05Speaker 1: also known as kim Bali, age fifty five, San Diego, California.
- 56:11Speaker 1: We love Kimberly, we love her. So she's on a
- 56:16Speaker 1: date with a guy named Javier and they go laser tagging.
- 56:19Speaker 1: Now the scene is kind of nothing, but she doesn't
- 56:22Speaker 1: like this guy. She's not going to date Javier. This
- 56:24Speaker 1: is just sort of an intro into kim Bali. There's
- 56:28Speaker 1: too many red flags with this guy. He lives with
- 56:29Speaker 1: his ex as a roommate, and he shouldn't be that
- 56:31Speaker 1: all of living with roommate.
- 56:32Speaker 3: So she's like, that was fun.
- 56:34Speaker 2: But no, who is this friend who set her up
- 56:36Speaker 2: with this loser?
- 56:38Speaker 3: Sarah? She said, But we don't meet Sarah.
- 56:40Speaker 2: Sarah does not respect you, kim Bally. Also, he lives
- 56:44Speaker 2: like two hours away from her, at least like three hour.
- 56:46Speaker 2: He lives up in La It's.
- 56:49Speaker 1: He just agreed to fill. So we learn that she
- 56:52Speaker 1: has lost fifty seven pounds. She's been on a year
- 56:55Speaker 1: long journey, and she says, I feel fifty five and fabulous.
- 56:59Speaker 1: I have so much more energy. I fell back to
- 57:01Speaker 1: my old self and now I'm like ready to date.
- 57:05Speaker 1: She reminds us that when she was nineteen, she went
- 57:08Speaker 1: in the military.
- 57:09Speaker 3: She was a sharpshooter. We see her little picture of
- 57:11Speaker 3: her little beret.
- 57:12Speaker 1: And she jumped out of planes and she says, I
- 57:15Speaker 1: was a bad bitch and now I'm ready to get
- 57:17Speaker 1: my groove back, all right, that we love it.
- 57:21Speaker 3: Now she goes back home and Jamal, now Jamal is.
- 57:24Speaker 1: Thirty is there. He's rating all her groceries. She's like,
- 57:27Speaker 1: don't take my ranch.
- 57:28Speaker 3: I use that. I was like, I feel that Kimberly.
- 57:32Speaker 2: She tells us catch oh, sorry, no, I think you're
- 57:34Speaker 2: about to say it.
- 57:37Speaker 3: What say it? You say it? No, I was just
- 57:40Speaker 3: going to say. She says. Jamal is everything to her.
- 57:42Speaker 3: She's so proud of him.
- 57:44Speaker 2: Yeah, she says, I am the most proud of him.
- 57:46Speaker 2: And I said, what exactly are we proud of Jamal for?
- 57:49Speaker 1: She didn't go into details of why she's proud of him,
- 57:54Speaker 1: because he's in the ninety eight World Tour. That was
- 57:58Speaker 1: tour listen unclear it's her child, Yeah, bad dancing, Okay,
- 58:04Speaker 1: So she says, Look, she goes, oh, hey, Jamal, like,
- 58:07Speaker 1: I went on this date and it was fine. We
- 58:11Speaker 1: laser tagging, but too many red flags. And he says
- 58:14Speaker 1: because he's been trained by production. He says, Mom, maybe
- 58:17Speaker 1: dating is not what you need to be worried about.
- 58:19Speaker 1: You have other things to worry about. Dun dune, dun dun.
- 58:24Speaker 1: She tells production there's no easy way to say what
- 58:27Speaker 1: she's gonna need to say, and there's no easy way
- 58:30Speaker 1: to discuss what she's done. She has broken Jamal's trust,
- 58:35Speaker 1: she has kept things from him. She preaches about being genuine,
- 58:39Speaker 1: but she's been living a lie and when the lie
- 58:41Speaker 1: comes out, it's gonna hurt other people, and she knows
- 58:44Speaker 1: she will never be able to forgive herself. So we
- 58:47Speaker 1: don't know what this is at this time. And I
- 58:49Speaker 1: did not know what it was because, like I said,
- 58:51Speaker 1: Amy told me it was like a big thing and
- 58:54Speaker 1: that I wasn't gonna believe it.
- 58:55Speaker 3: But I didn't watch forward. I just let it play out.
- 58:58Speaker 2: And our guess was she stole money. I don't know
- 59:01Speaker 2: why that. People on the show seem to have embezzlement issues.
- 59:05Speaker 2: And then I thought maybe she actually married usman. Oh
- 59:11Speaker 2: that's a good one and had lied about it or
- 59:15Speaker 2: was like sending money to him and like had to
- 59:18Speaker 2: refinance her house. And I was like, that can't be right.
- 59:20Speaker 2: That's not something that would hurt a bunch of people.
- 59:24Speaker 3: Uh huh. I didn't know. I didn't know it was.
- 59:26Speaker 2: The time frame, and I was like, oh my god.
- 59:30Speaker 2: Then I had more guesses. When she says the time frame, I.
- 59:34Speaker 3: Had no guesses.
- 59:35Speaker 1: So Kimberly is the spa manager at a hotel casino
- 59:40Speaker 1: there in the San Diego area.
- 59:42Speaker 3: We see her at work. The spa does look really nice.
- 59:47Speaker 1: We meet her friend Lily, who is her closest work friend.
- 59:50Speaker 1: They're going to go out for a girl's night and
- 59:52Speaker 1: she was like, I wasn't involved in the planning. I
- 59:54Speaker 1: don't know what we're doing whatever. She tells Lily about
- 59:57Speaker 1: her date with Javier, and it was like, okay, you know,
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on with this guy, but
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: I'm not gonna settle. I need a guy who's financially stable,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: age appropriate. I definitely want, you know, above mid forties.
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: And then she says I want to feel real love
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: once before I die. M sad, and the talking head
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: Lily goes, you know, Kimberly is such a beautiful person.
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: She deserves somebody who will cherish her and treat her
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: like a queen, and so she doesn't need to settle,
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: and I'm I'll be really you know, happy for her.
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: Whatever.
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: So she and Lily go to a bar and they
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: see the two friends Laura and Jody, and they're going
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: to do something called pitch a friend, like a dating show.
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: No thank you, Oh that's so embarrassing. That got me
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: so in my anxiety and she goes.
- 1:00:44Speaker 3: Oh my god.
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: She was like, they get up there and they pitch me,
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: and they like, you have to love cats. You've got
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: to want to at least twelve to forty two cats in
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: your home. If you want to be with Kimberly, you
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: got I want to cover your house and cat air.
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, like could have just like
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: not played up the cat thinks so much. Everybody's gonna
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: think I'm a crazy cat lady. So she tells them,
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: all right, this was fun.
- 1:01:08Speaker 3: I gotta go. I didn't get a boyfriend here.
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: Somebody over there wants to set me up with their
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: dad in New York, but this is San Diego, so
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: that's pretty far.
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: She tells them, I gotta go.
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: I have a booty call with b and she says,
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: I'm going to fuck him.
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa wow, Okay, she's horny, horny, she BALI she is, I've.
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: Been talking to Kim explains to us what a booty
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: call is. I think we're all aware. I think we
- 1:01:38Speaker 1: don't need that.
- 1:01:40Speaker 3: She says.
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: Benjamin, who they call Bee, is a good friend. She
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: met him before Usman, but started dating Usman in the middle,
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: so they broke up.
- 1:01:50Speaker 3: But when she was.
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: Done with usman, he slid right back into her DMS
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: and they started hooking up again.
- 1:01:56Speaker 3: But they're just friends with benefits. But when they dated.
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: Five to six years ago, when it was serious, he
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: wanted her to be in a throupple and have sex
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: with the woman and she says, no, I was not
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: into that. So we ended up breaking up because he
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: was like two into some freaky ship for me.
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: That was also a plot line on one of these spinoffs,
- 1:02:16Speaker 2: and it was one of the worst plot lines. And
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: we've never seen that couple again, do you remember. And
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: he wanted to like Beaul. He wanted to have a
- 1:02:27Speaker 2: threesome like that was his goal in life was to
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: have threesomes. Yes, and she just not into it, and
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: she told him repeatedly, I'm not into it, and he
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: kept bringing it up.
- 1:02:39Speaker 3: It was the guy from Italy. It was the guy
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: from Italy. Yes, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right,
- 1:02:43Speaker 3: you're right.
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: So she says they go to nice hotels every couple
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: of weeks, which is really fun. And she says, I
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: never know when Jamal is just going to show up
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: at my house, and this guy has roommates. I thought
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: having roommates was a red flag. Yeah, okay, so it is.
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: If he's in his fifties and has roommates, I think
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: that's a red flag. I think you can afford to
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: slip by yourself.
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: Also, tell your son to text you before he comes over. Right,
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: he shouldn't have a key, have your own house. You
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: should be able to bang whoever you want.
- 1:03:17Speaker 3: So we meet Bee. He says his name is Benjamin.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: Everybody calls him be because he's like a bumblebee, always
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: buzzing around and you never know where he's going to land.
- 1:03:26Speaker 3: I don't like it. I don't like any of that.
- 1:03:29Speaker 3: I don't like it. He's too old to fact like that.
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: But he and Kimberly keep coming back together because they
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: really have a great friendship.
- 1:03:37Speaker 3: So she goes to the hotel and she's.
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: Laying on the bed talking to him and she tells
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: him about the picture friend. She's like, you know, we
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: have this kind of thing where I could tell him
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: about my dates and stuff. And she says, you know,
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: I am hoping with age that you would calm down
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: and want to be in a monogamous relationship. And she says,
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: you know. To him, she says, you know, I love you,
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: and I think it's great. You know, we're free with benefits,
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: but I would like for it to grow and see
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: what else it could be.
- 1:04:06Speaker 3: And he just looks at her and goes.
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: Yeah, with time, with time, we could maybe when we
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: could Like sure, No, he's like no.
- 1:04:15Speaker 2: No, she hasn't gotten that many much better at reading
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: people's body languages.
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: Either, And she goes, you've never even been to my house,
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: and he goes, well, on soon, I'll yeah, one day,
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: I'll do that.
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: I'm busy in my calendars, just.
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: Coming to my paper, and I'm busy the name in
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: the name girl where I might land next. So she goes, well,
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: I'm going to take a shower, but then I'll give
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: you a massage. She's like, oh, give me like a
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: little warm up to that massage.
- 1:04:43Speaker 3: She's like okay.
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: So in the talking head, she goes, I want to
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: be in a relationship with me, but he's not picking
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: up what I'm throwing down, and I don't want to
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: be shuffling into a hotel room on a walk or
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: when I'm eighty. She basically says he needs to step
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: up or it's going to be over. I would have
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: taken that. She said, we need to maybe work about
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: our relationship.
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: And he goes with time later on when they could
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: and no, I thought we had seen him in a
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: previous Oh you do episode? It was maybe it was
- 1:05:13Speaker 2: not a Diaries, so we've already met this man. Or
- 1:05:16Speaker 2: maybe it's just that she just talked about him. He
- 1:05:19Speaker 2: is not new though, and it's the same thing, just
- 1:05:23Speaker 2: friends with benefits or are we more? He doesn't want
- 1:05:26Speaker 2: to be more. He can be more clear.
- 1:05:29Speaker 3: You know. So the next day, literally walk a shame.
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: She gets out of a cab. She's in the same outfit.
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: I was like, hilarious, and she.
- 1:05:37Speaker 3: Goes back to go bag and her Yeah, she.
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: Seems to have it with her at all times, and
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: she says, you know, the thing is is Bee is
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: really good in bed, and you know we're great friends
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: and everything. But whatever, so she's like, oh, got you
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: shower comes out. Of course Jamal is coming over. He's
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: going to help her build a dresser, and she says,
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: but also they need to talk. So she's telling Jamal
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: while they're looking at this dresser stuff about the pitch
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: a date and she goes and I went over with
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: Bees last night, you know, for a booty call.
- 1:06:04Speaker 3: And he's like, okay, I don't no, no, thanks, don't
- 1:06:07Speaker 3: need to know.
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: By the way, it's so weird to see the location
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: of pillows with normal lighting instead of the production lighting.
- 1:06:17Speaker 2: It's I was like, that's the same couch.
- 1:06:21Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's the couch and it's the kitchen in
- 1:06:23Speaker 3: the background and the whole thing.
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: Yeah, I was dan girling over the location. Oh yeah,
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: Like I was like, because they're one of my favorites.
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: I pillow talk. So it's like, that's where this happened.
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: That's what that's where the magic happens. So she says
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: to the production she says, things have been tense with Jamal.
- 1:06:40Speaker 1: I hid things from him and then when I told him,
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: it was devastating. And as long as we don't talk
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: about that thing.
- 1:06:46Speaker 3: It's okay.
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: Otherwise if we do talk about it, he'll hang up
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: on me or just walk out. Ready to get rid
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: of him. Jamal, I've got something serious, slam you come over.
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: So and then she says, well, Larry is coming out
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: here to visit, and he goes why. We find out
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: her secret is she's been hiding that she had this
- 1:07:13Speaker 1: child named Larry. She's been hiding a secret for thirty years.
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: She and I'm shocked, shocked. I thought Larry was going
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: to turn out to be Jamal's dad too. He was,
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: because she's kept saying around thirty years. And I was like,
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: how old is Jamal?
- 1:07:31Speaker 3: And I thought he was.
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: Like mid thirties, but he's actually he's thirtier.
- 1:07:36Speaker 3: He's thirty.
- 1:07:37Speaker 2: So I was just like below, I thought I had
- 1:07:40Speaker 2: to do with Jamal's dad, Like this was not in
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: my radar, me me either.
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: I was, And I'm so glad that I didn't like
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: it a spoiler or anything.
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: So but keep listening, don't turn off now if you
- 1:07:50Speaker 2: were just waiting for us to stay with the secrets.
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: There's more, because there's more. Because there's more.
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: So she says she's been hiding a secret for thirty years.
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: She and Jamal's dad together for seven years, but he
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: was a serial cheater, like every day was something new.
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: And at age twenty one, she had a son she
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: gave up for adoption, and that was Larry. Okay, so
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: she had Jamal when she was twenty five. Because she's
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: fifty five and Jamal is thirty okay, thanks at age
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: math okay, so at age twenty one, she went to
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: the military. At nineteen, her career was just getting started.
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: At age twenty one, she had a son that she
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: gave up for adoption because she knew she just could
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: not handle having a kid with this guy who was
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: such a serial cheater.
- 1:08:35Speaker 2: And then a few years later she had Jamal kept Jamal, Yes,
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: my same man, same father.
- 1:08:42Speaker 3: Yeah, she says she.
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: Knew that it just would not work for her to
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: have a child at that time. She gave him up
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: for adoption, and she never told Jamal about it ever
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: until last year when Larry found them through an ancestry website.
- 1:08:58Speaker 3: Now, this is what you hear.
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: So many people have stories like this.
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: It's very interesting because if this guy reached out to
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: Jamal and said, you came up on my twenty three
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: and me as a full sibling, Yeah, I wonder if
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: that's how it happened.
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: I think that's how it happened because Jamal is so angry,
- 1:09:20Speaker 2: and Jamal is not the most sensitive person, and the
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: bad Boys for Life of the ninety day Universe are
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: not known for being very intuitive about women's emotions and
- 1:09:32Speaker 2: the struggles his poor mother must have been going through
- 1:09:35Speaker 2: at that time, being with such a piece of shit
- 1:09:39Speaker 2: that she had to and being so young and having
- 1:09:42Speaker 2: to give up a baby, and it was obviously very traumatic.
- 1:09:45Speaker 2: And he's not at all putting himself in her position.
- 1:09:49Speaker 2: He has made it completely about himself. I can't imagine
- 1:09:53Speaker 2: the shock it must have been for him. Yeah, I
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: have no idea what that feels like. So I'm not
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: gonna like go too hard. But he's not handling it
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: the best. And if he learned about this a year
- 1:10:04Speaker 2: ago and he's still this mad, still this mad.
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: Yeah, So so she says, Larry found us through an
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: ancestry website. So I don't know if Larry reached out
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: to her her or him or what happened. But Jamal says,
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: when she told me, I thought I was a joke.
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: Like no way, So she says Jamal.
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: She had told him like a couple of years before,
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: just like out of nowhere, just like.
- 1:10:32Speaker 3: In case this ever comes up, Right.
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: Because of all the ancestry stuff you keep hearing about,
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: maybe you might want to head your bets and tell
- 1:10:40Speaker 2: him because now it seems like you only told him
- 1:10:43Speaker 2: because you had to, because you got caught.
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: Jamal's big thing is, I don't think you would have
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: ever told me if this didn't come out.
- 1:10:52Speaker 3: And I don't know why, but I don't think you
- 1:10:53Speaker 3: would have ever told me.
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: And she says, Juel, in my head, I wanted to
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: protect myself and I wanted to protect you, and I
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: did not know how to handle it. I just did
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: not know how to handle it. I had to think
- 1:11:05Speaker 1: about it. And he goes, I can't even think about
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: forgiving you yet, like who would do that? And he
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: goes and I can't even look at you when we
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: talk about this, and she is.
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: Crying, like he's very cold, no sympathy towards her.
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: Like so what she went through as a young woman
- 1:11:23Speaker 1: like this is upset.
- 1:11:24Speaker 2: Like Jamal I think is super immature and was not
- 1:11:28Speaker 2: great with Veronica and Tim. But if they're watching the
- 1:11:32Speaker 2: show and we see someone on ninety day and they're
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: on pillow talk and who you see like a twenty
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: one year old who's making like a horrible decision and
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: like crying, he would be like, oh, that's sad, Like
- 1:11:43Speaker 2: he's not artless, like unless he's sitting with Rob and
- 1:11:46Speaker 2: then they're being douchebags. But like, this is your mother
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: put her yourself. She had had to make a really
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: difficult decision, and she made a choice, and I think
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: she did what was right for her. And like he's
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: so mad, like it's been a I don't know, he's
- 1:12:05Speaker 2: being kind of a jerk about this.
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: And the talking to Jamal says, yeah, I found out
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: last year that I had a full brother, like the
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: same mom, the same dad. And when she told me,
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: like I didn't believe it, Like I thought she was
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: completely joking. I could not understand this, he said, you know,
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: I was really pissed off, really pissed off she didn't
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: tell me that I had an older brother and the
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: mom is the one person in the world you should trust,
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: and if you can't trust her, then they can't trust
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: anybody in the world. And so I see that point
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: as like, my mom's the one person I should trust.
- 1:12:36Speaker 3: But she felt she was.
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: Doing the right thing, and then as they got older,
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: she felt like she just was in a bad situation
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: to tell. I mean, like I said, I've got two
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: friends that have found their birth families through this, and
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: one situation is really great and they have all melded
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: families and gone on vacation together and then one is
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: not great, you know, go either way.
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: And I think it's hard for people, especially men, maybe
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: especially women too, maybe especially immature people to realize their
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: parents had whole lives before them, and whole experiences and
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: struggles that didn't have to do with them. You were
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: not even born yet, and she made this decision, and
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: maybe there was a sooner time she could have told you,
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: like when you were younger, when you turned eighteen. I
- 1:13:29Speaker 2: don't know, as say, I'm so proud of what is
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: sympathetic compassionate man is a compliment sandwich, Jamal, I think
- 1:13:39Speaker 2: you are so compassionate towards some women, and which is
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: not true, but let's just say it is, like you know,
- 1:13:46Speaker 2: and it makes me feel like I can trust you
- 1:13:48Speaker 2: with the scariest, worst time of my life. Yes, and
- 1:13:51Speaker 2: let me tell you something, please. I only kept it
- 1:13:55Speaker 2: from you because I was scared, but I know you
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: can handle it because you're such a wonderful.
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe that would have worked better. And in the
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: talking Head, Kimberly says, you know, keeping Larry from Jamal
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: was the wrong decision, and I'm just trying to repair
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: what I fucked up, and last year, Jamal and I
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: went to meet Larry, his wife and his son.
- 1:14:19Speaker 3: So Jamal went. So I was happy to see that
- 1:14:21Speaker 3: they were all you know that he got to meet
- 1:14:23Speaker 3: Kyling and like doing a pose.
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: And that's why I can't get past Jamal. I was like, Jamal,
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: are you actually this angry? Like are you being this
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: angry for the show?
- 1:14:31Speaker 3: Trying?
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: The show wasn't filming at that time, so like, why
- 1:14:35Speaker 2: are you being so angry now you've already gotten to
- 1:14:37Speaker 2: meet this guy?
- 1:14:39Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: Yeah, and she says, like technically, you know, I'm a grandma,
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: Like this is a person that has my same face
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: and I don't know him at all. He's a stranger,
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: she says. But she says, so it's all just you know,
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: coming together. She says, you know, I'm so relieved because
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: he's such a good man and I have no idea
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: how would you have turned out if I would have
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: kept him, And I'm meeting him is seeing how great
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: mother turned out. She says, you know, I'm sure I
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: did the right thing by giving him up because he
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: was obviously adopted into a wonderful family and turned out
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: to be a wonderful person. Yeah, So Jamal says, so,
- 1:15:15Speaker 1: what are you gonna do with Larry when he's here?
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: And she goes, well, I'm just gonna like show him
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: around and show him where I grew up. And and
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: she goes, and I have to talk to him, And
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: then Jamal kind of gives her a look like he's
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: being a dick and goes about what and she says,
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: the other one. And then she says, I lost it.
- 1:15:35Speaker 3: I lost she says, And he's gonna be so pissed.
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: She says, I have another child that I gave up
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: for adoption, a daughter. I was like, whoa, here's that clip,
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: Here's this about the other.
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: One, the other one. It was very much like lost
- 1:15:58Speaker 2: the others Kay, what I can't I lost it? I
- 1:16:05Speaker 2: was is this with the same father too?
- 1:16:09Speaker 3: What? I wonder if were they twins.
- 1:16:12Speaker 2: Or was there it go this new kid, the girl,
- 1:16:15Speaker 2: then Jamal.
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: I don't know, was it Larry a daughter that she
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: gave both up for adoption and then Jamal And then
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: maybe she left the dad because because she was with
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: this guy for seven years. She had Jamal when she
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: was twenty five, she had Larry when she was twenty one.
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: So wonder if in the middle she had this daughter
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: that she gave up, and then she had Jamal. And
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: after she had Jamal, she was like, I have to
- 1:16:41Speaker 1: stop this, Like I have to leave this man.
- 1:16:43Speaker 3: I'll tell you would.
- 1:16:44Speaker 2: Be even crazier, Jim. It goes other kid, Jamal. She
- 1:16:50Speaker 2: gets pregnant with this other baby. She's like, Jamal's rubbing
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: his mommy's stomach even though he's only like a year old.
- 1:16:57Speaker 2: And then she gives up the new baby for adoption
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: the girl. So Jamal was there for that new baby,
- 1:17:03Speaker 2: but then she's maybe brainwashed him and gaslit him in timing,
- 1:17:08Speaker 2: but it's a baby, so he wouldn't remember anyway.
- 1:17:12Speaker 3: No, I don't think that's what happened.
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: That would be a good soap opera.
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: That would be a very good soap opera.
- 1:17:19Speaker 3: Anyway.
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: This is when Amy said, like, this is a very
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: compelling story. I didn't know what it was gonna be,
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: but I am glad I didn't know, and I'm glad
- 1:17:27Speaker 1: I got the shock at the end, and this is
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: gonna be.
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: It's just what the whole season should be about. Fuck
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: the single life. I don't care about seeing her going
- 1:17:37Speaker 2: on dates now, I don't care about be super Bumblebee.
- 1:17:40Speaker 2: You need to focus on this plotline because this is
- 1:17:43Speaker 2: fascinating human drama.
- 1:17:47Speaker 3: It really is.
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: And it's sort of like on Love After lock Up,
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: we had Brittany and Marcelino, and Brittany was searching for
- 1:17:54Speaker 1: the children that she gave up for adoption, you know,
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: and that was so compelling because she had the one
- 1:18:01Speaker 1: child she had when she got out, the little boy,
- 1:18:03Speaker 1: and then she had two more kids. So she and
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: Barcelna had the three kids, but she had at least two,
- 1:18:09Speaker 1: if not three kids she had given up for adoption,
- 1:18:11Speaker 1: and she was pregnant. She was like fifteen sixteen. I
- 1:18:13Speaker 1: find this like thirty something year old man. Yeah, and
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: I believe she has been reunited with them now now
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: that they're over eighteen.
- 1:18:22Speaker 2: It's crazy, yeah, crazy, Well, I think this is it
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: happened on my big, fat, fabulous life. The dad had
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: kid a kid in secret. The kids knew nothing about.
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: It was when he was in the war. He was
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: overseas and like or something like that, or stationed somewhere,
- 1:18:41Speaker 2: and they all went to go visit the new family
- 1:18:44Speaker 2: and they all melded. And she made it about herself
- 1:18:47Speaker 2: because she's horrible and it's a bad show, but like
- 1:18:50Speaker 2: they were in Her Chap, they should have gotten a
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: spin off. The New Family was way better than the
- 1:18:53Speaker 2: cur but like it's crazy.
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: Well, I am very excited for this season and thank
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