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INTERVIEW: Mandii B & WeezyWTF 'Decisions Decisions,' New Book 'No Holes Barred,' 'Traphous' Pilates + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is d J n V
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  Speaker 2: Jess Hilarious, Charlamage the guy.
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  Speaker 1: We all to Breakfast Club. We got some special guests.
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  Speaker 3: In the building.
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  Speaker 2: Indeed, we have Mandy be and Wheezy from Horrible Decisions,
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  Speaker 2: but they chased a name.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you. It is a decision podcasts that No, yes,
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  Speaker 4: it is.
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  Speaker 5: Not any It is absolutely possibles. You grow up, you
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  Speaker 5: can move to a different city where no one knows you,
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  Speaker 5: and then.
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  Speaker 4: You can change your work. The grocery stoer said, heycome morning, ladies,
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  Speaker 4: Good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Why did feel why did y'all change the name.
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  Speaker 4: For the coins Charlotte?
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  Speaker 5: Not only that when we started Horrible Decisions, we were
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  Speaker 5: twenty six years old.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, I was still in college. I was in my
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  Speaker 4: last year of college. Weezy, we were both in corporate and.
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  Speaker 5: We was kind of living life doing doing all the things,
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  Speaker 5: and we just kind of we wasn't our whole face.
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  Speaker 5: I think everyone has a whole phase. And now we're
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  Speaker 5: out of it.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, and we just you know, are growing with our
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  Speaker 4: audience and growing with the with the dollar. To be
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  Speaker 4: fair doing this book though, you know, I was telling
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  Speaker 4: people like I want to do Drew Barrymore, I want
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  Speaker 4: to do this and that, and I just can't see them.
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  Speaker 6: Saying horror, especially not Drew Barrymore.
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  Speaker 4: And now she might be like, why did you guys?
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  Speaker 4: It's okay to be a whore, but now, I mean
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  Speaker 4: with growth, and we also wanted to be respected as
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  Speaker 4: an author. I feel like for the people that don't
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  Speaker 4: know us, everybody that like is in the podcast world
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  Speaker 4: understands our evolution, and I think that's when we started
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  Speaker 4: to gain our respect to know that, sure we talk
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  Speaker 4: about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able
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  Speaker 4: to catapult into all these different ventures. But a new person,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like they're gonna.
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  Speaker 6: Be like how you feel about your fan, Like how
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  Speaker 6: you think the fans took it? Like that y'all took
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  Speaker 6: the horror ball.
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  Speaker 4: I think the fans love it. I think the core
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  Speaker 4: fans are happy. I think the casual fans just found
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  Speaker 4: a way to get angry at you. Like people get
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  Speaker 4: very excited if they think something bad is going on,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Like literally the second they
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  Speaker 4: saw that Horrible would be going behind a paywalls, like,
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  Speaker 4: oh they fighting Charlotte one want day. I heard done
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  Speaker 4: with them, like, you know, it's they can't wait to
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  Speaker 4: feel that. And Mandy and I being that we've been
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  Speaker 4: colleagues for so long, we've had on air mess and
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  Speaker 4: things like that, I feel like that was the sexiest
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  Speaker 4: part of the story when really, now we're so much older,
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  Speaker 4: it's like.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Mandy's celibate, right, Oh.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I started the year off just a couple of months.
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  Speaker 1: Was like, I'm celipate.
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  Speaker 3: I'm starting over a couple of months ago.
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  Speaker 4: That was It was a couple of weeks ago. That
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  Speaker 4: was a magic city moment.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I love how you said club. You can let them
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  Speaker 4: know we were city. It was a magic city, you know.
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  Speaker 1: That's the first thing she told me. It wasn't like
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  Speaker 1: he has a family.
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  Speaker 3: What up, I'm celipate now. I was like, what made
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  Speaker 3: you break the celibacy?
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  Speaker 4: I saw somebody cute.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't even relationship. You already win Jesus it is.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, it was intimate, it was sensual. We kissed
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  Speaker 4: and guddle.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen him?
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  Speaker 4: Since he doesn't live in my states, so he's flying
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  Speaker 4: to see me?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? Wow?
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  Speaker 4: No? No, no? No work to go to the second stand.
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  Speaker 1: The second stand, what's the first thing.
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  Speaker 4: The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't date just okay, now I'm just.
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  Speaker 5: Elevant anymore, okay, And this is what the book is
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  Speaker 5: about about liberation, growth.
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  Speaker 4: As women getting what you want.
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  Speaker 1: Did you meet him Mages City?
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  Speaker 4: No. I met him on an island, so you know
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  Speaker 4: what which was?
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  Speaker 1: It was on vacation and you lit one of the
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  Speaker 1: island boys.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, okay, don't do that, but now I do see
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  Speaker 5: our women go to the islands, and it was it
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  Speaker 5: was great.
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  Speaker 4: You see I see that. Don't tell you they booked
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  Speaker 4: us to go to headonism if no one's ever heard
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  Speaker 4: of it. There, I didn't. I wasn't dating at anybody
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  Speaker 4: at the time, so I'm like, let me just bring somebody. Fine,
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  Speaker 4: I know. So there was a ballplayer that I knew,
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  Speaker 4: and I was like, just come. He was in Europe,
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  Speaker 4: he was off season. He got there. He wasn't even
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  Speaker 4: he's not crazy basketball player at all, but he was
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  Speaker 4: six five, dark, skinning fit. When I tell you every
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  Speaker 4: white woman with her husband, yeah, before we in the
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  Speaker 4: bushes in a bush.
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  Speaker 7: But that's what if you like, I went to heat
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  Speaker 7: his most when I used to work for Williams at w.
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  Speaker 4: B l S.
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  Speaker 7: They used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So
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  Speaker 7: hedonism is the newdest resort parts of it. And they
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  Speaker 7: have like hammicks hanging from the trees. You can have
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  Speaker 7: sex and hammicks.
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  Speaker 3: You can have sex all over the whole facility if
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  Speaker 3: you want to. It's a lot of mirrors on the ceiling.
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  Speaker 1: No disrespect, but it's a lot of like overweight white women.
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  Speaker 5: No no, we we went in a black Yeah, there's
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  Speaker 5: different weekends that you could go, like I'm hosting Heato
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  Speaker 5: Labor Day weekend with a black travel Uh so when
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  Speaker 5: a group takes over.
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  Speaker 4: Like we got lucky. But then there was a few
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  Speaker 4: parts of the place they were.
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  Speaker 5: Like we come every week, and I was like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 5: the white couples definitely go to get Jamaican Jamaican pea.
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  Speaker 3: The way.
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  Speaker 4: The funniest part of this I always tell this story
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  Speaker 4: because so first of all, he's already having sex in
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  Speaker 4: the bush. We just check in. I'm like, I'm done
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  Speaker 4: with him already. So there's a nude side and a
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  Speaker 4: prude side, right, So the prue side means you can
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  Speaker 4: keep it clothes on, so you know, when you're at
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  Speaker 4: a resort, you know how to be having the buffets
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  Speaker 4: or whatever. So I'm hungry. I go to get a pizza.
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  Speaker 4: I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is
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  Speaker 4: sleep with people in the bush and I'm trying to
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  Speaker 4: get some pizza. I'm ordering his pizza and the security
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  Speaker 4: guard comes up and saying, man, you have to be
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  Speaker 4: naked on the side. I'm like, I gotta get naked
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  Speaker 4: just to eat. He's like, yeah, how long is your
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  Speaker 4: food gonna take? I had to literally take off my pajama,
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  Speaker 4: hold him in my hand, and sit there naked away
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  Speaker 4: for food. And I was like, this is the worst
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  Speaker 4: pa ever. And I say, I loved it.
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  Speaker 1: So when is it because I left it?
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  Speaker 4: What are you gonna trafficking? I know, trafficking that is
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  Speaker 4: I booked for it. Like you know, like we were
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  Speaker 4: out there and just like we had a great time.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm gone out there with friends. When are you
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  Speaker 4: going out there?
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  Speaker 3: You can't and they paying you, like these couples be paying.
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  Speaker 7: Like you might be out there and you might highlight
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  Speaker 7: at a woman and she might be like, hold on,
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  Speaker 7: go get my husband. They might come up to you
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  Speaker 7: and be y'all get fifey hundred dolls if you let
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  Speaker 7: if you let my husband watch us have said.
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  Speaker 4: We didn't get offered for those type of things.
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  Speaker 3: Charlotte were there, Oh yeah, so maybe it's the men.
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  Speaker 4: The men should go out there and make the money.
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  Speaker 1: Then, so let you careful to you and wanted to
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  Speaker 1: see your special husband.
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  Speaker 7: This context, This was like two thousand and six, two
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  Speaker 7: thousand and seven. I was on the balcony and I
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  Speaker 7: was like, yeah, you know, girl like you. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 7: she's like, hold on, let me go get my husband
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  Speaker 7: and she was like yes, and we can do it,
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  Speaker 7: but my husband gotta watch.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, to knock it off. No, I didn't knocke
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  Speaker 3: it off. I did not.
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  Speaker 4: Now that's the thing that really kind of makes that
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  Speaker 4: whole thing beautiful. As much as I'm joking about it,
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  Speaker 4: all of this is normal for these people in this world,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Like a lot of the
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  Speaker 4: things we talked about even as normal to us. If
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  Speaker 4: I say my man and I are going on a
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  Speaker 4: date with somebody, people looking at me like I'm crazy,
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  Speaker 4: But this is normal for me. So when I'm in
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  Speaker 4: Hedonism and I'm watching cuck holding going on, which is
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  Speaker 4: really what it is. This is normal for them, and
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  Speaker 4: they like to be amongst the people. I just did
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  Speaker 4: happen to be one of the people that wanted to
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  Speaker 4: get peaceful clothes on. Excuse me, it's I'm trying to
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  Speaker 4: think mine, what besides this blazer, what's the biggest rebrand
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  Speaker 4: thing of me? I will say this, I think now
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  Speaker 4: I'm so over communicative. We're in the beginning of horrible decisions.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't talking about exactly what I wanted, my feelings,
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  Speaker 4: even the type of sex that I wanted to have,
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  Speaker 4: Like situationships, I was falling into them all the time.
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  Speaker 4: I think as you evolve and you get more comfortable
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  Speaker 4: with yourself on who you are, that's when it hits.
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  Speaker 4: I actually don't think that could happen before thirty. I'll
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  Speaker 4: be honest. I think you could try to get close
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  Speaker 4: to it. But there's something that happens at thirty where
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  Speaker 4: it just clicks. You're like, oh no, this is no thirty.
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  Speaker 5: You you look better, you feel better, you make more money,
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  Speaker 5: you know a little bit more of what you want.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't dealt with enough men in your teens and
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  Speaker 5: twenties that now you can be like, Okay, I don't
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  Speaker 5: want that.
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  Speaker 3: But this is what I want.
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  Speaker 1: You want to give this relationship?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 3: Yah? Want marriage?
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  Speaker 6: Anybody want marriage?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't.
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  Speaker 1: You want to not give this relationship?
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  Speaker 4: Not monogamous? But I mean, of course I want marriage.
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  Speaker 4: I like, what, We're not gonna have sex with the nanny?
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  Speaker 4: What's the point? No? I mean, yeah, go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I don't know why?
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  Speaker 4: Why?
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 4: Why not not monogamy? Both? Yah?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 4: You just doesn't fit in my lifestyle. Like I I've
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  Speaker 4: been known for having a boyfriend and a girlfriend since
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  Speaker 4: I've been twenty years old. Like it's it's.
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  Speaker 3: Doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want,
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  Speaker 3: it's a difference.
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  Speaker 4: We had a conversation about this last night. I did
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  Speaker 4: a podcast where I mentioned that I believe Mandy and
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  Speaker 4: I have done this so well because we really lived
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  Speaker 4: this life. And a lot of times what's kind of
• 9:01
  Speaker 4: hurt me from the public is people say, oh, you're
• 9:03
  Speaker 4: just doing that to keep them, or you let your
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  Speaker 4: man have sex with someone else because you want to
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  Speaker 4: keep them, And it's like, you think I'd be doing
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  Speaker 4: this for eight years if I really didn't enjoy this.
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  Speaker 4: I honestly have fun with it. And I feel like
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  Speaker 4: when I'm dating someone that's more monogamous, mainly when I
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  Speaker 4: date religious man, they look at me like I'm trash,
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  Speaker 4: and I know you did religious man. You do that,
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  Speaker 4: you know, never do that again. At themnomenogamy, I want
• 9:28
  Speaker 4: to throw that word in there.
• 9:30
  Speaker 5: So that's where like it's consensual, there's like there are
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  Speaker 5: boundaries you are communicating, and it's under the umbrella where
• 9:37
  Speaker 5: you could be polly open, like there's you could be swingers.
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  Speaker 5: There's all these different labels underneath ethical nominogamy. For me,
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  Speaker 5: I like men and women, and I don't want to
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  Speaker 5: not be able to experience both off of.
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  Speaker 2: That bisexual men and the reason I asked who was
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  Speaker 2: up here and they said that it wouldn't bother them.
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  Speaker 4: Damn I heard it wouldn't bother me. No, I don't
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  Speaker 4: want to see it. For me, it's a cat. So
• 10:03
  Speaker 4: the thing that attracts me to women is their femininity.
• 10:05
  Speaker 4: Like I've never dated stood right and no disrespective stood
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  Speaker 4: I just because like Monkey got Funky, came on, Horrorball
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  Speaker 4: was like britty grind are the only stud we all
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  Speaker 4: got one. I want Brittany Grinder. As far as men,
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  Speaker 4: I love the masculinity in men, and so if I
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  Speaker 4: was dating a bisexual man, maybe like a homo Doug.
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  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying, Like there's so masculine, give me
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  Speaker 4: one of them at m like.
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  Speaker 1: So you wouldn't mind, But he just got to be
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  Speaker 1: a tell you want a thug on the thug.
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  Speaker 4: There's also levels to it, right, So I really truly
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  Speaker 4: believe every man has had some sort of I think
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  Speaker 4: everybody look gay for real, for real, even a little
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  Speaker 4: watching another like there's a there's a there's a spectrum,
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  Speaker 4: the Kinsey scale. Everyone is not.
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  Speaker 5: All the way fully straight or fully yes, and you
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  Speaker 5: are like a little like you can you can even
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  Speaker 5: and it could be as little as you can actually
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  Speaker 5: admit that another man is attractive or a good looking.
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  Speaker 4: Classified as gay? Why I can't because it's it's the attraction.
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  Speaker 3: Tray is different.
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  Speaker 1: But but no man is handsome but attractive.
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  Speaker 3: Man hand you did you? Did you have men that
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  Speaker 3: wun't even do that?
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  Speaker 4: Then? I think, you know, there's so many men that
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: would say they ran trains in high school. There's another
• 11:27
  Speaker 4: man that wouldn't get naked and trained like there is levels.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think that's gay.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, if you don't stick your penis in
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  Speaker 1: a male, that's not gay.
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  Speaker 4: But why you and another man are enjoying got you.
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  Speaker 2: Just say it's not gay if you stick your penis
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  Speaker 2: and the man I said, it's not you.
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  Speaker 4: You're not sticking your penis in the mail?
• 11:52
  Speaker 3: What you want to hear something?
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  Speaker 4: It's not.
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  Speaker 5: As long as it's oral, then no, it's okay, a
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  Speaker 5: hand job.
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  Speaker 3: No, okay, I just okay. I'm looking at the Kensey scaley.
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  Speaker 3: It's a real thing. He says.
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  Speaker 7: X no social no socio sexual contacts or reactions. Zero
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  Speaker 7: is exclusively heterosexual. One mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual. Two
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  Speaker 7: mostly heterosexual but more than slightly homosexual, three equally heterosexual
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  Speaker 7: and homosexual, four mostly homosexual but more than slightly heterosexual,
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  Speaker 7: five mostly homosexual only slightly heterosexual, and six is all homo.
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  Speaker 4: Straight o gay. That's a lot, a lot. By the way,
• 12:37
  Speaker 4: I have a friend of mine. His Dave is Christopher,
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  Speaker 4: and on New Year's five, six years ago, I'll never
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  Speaker 4: forget I kissed him like he's gay, kiss him. He
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  Speaker 4: looked at me and he was like, you bitch, I
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  Speaker 4: am gay, gay, and now you've ruined it. He's a
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  Speaker 4: six six, he's a six when I tell you, he
• 12:57
  Speaker 4: was really upset with me. I was like, I'm so
• 12:58
  Speaker 4: confused and you're having Funny's like, no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 4: I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even
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  Speaker 4: have I came from a C section. I'm platinum. He
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  Speaker 4: was like, are you kissed me? You were with this?
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  Speaker 6: You messed him up?
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  Speaker 4: Now? A little straight?
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  Speaker 7: That's who I defined as a sixth and the one
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  Speaker 7: thing Toronto might have to re six that six thing
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  Speaker 7: six is the highest on the Kinsey scale, exclusively homosexual.
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  Speaker 3: If you're a six, that's.
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  Speaker 4: What all the way gay, No hot straight girl that
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  Speaker 4: got one lesbian. Afraid that she'd be doing this, she
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  Speaker 4: was like, no, bitch, yeah that's me. But I ain't
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  Speaker 4: gonna lie back in the day. Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: I had a couple of gay experiences. Yeah, like kiss,
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  Speaker 6: a little bit more to kiss, but you know, h yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I dated a stud for like a little minute, so
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  Speaker 6: I found out she was married and she ended up
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  Speaker 6: being a clown.
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  Speaker 3: Two and then mostly had a sexual but more than
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  Speaker 3: slightly homosexual.
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  Speaker 4: Not that she dated a stud, so that always tells
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  Speaker 4: me like you kind of are the straight girl that's like.
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  Speaker 6: Where you can dive, because I don't. I don't find
• 14:02
  Speaker 6: like the Felms to be like, yeah, you're beautiful to me,
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  Speaker 6: but I'm not. I wouldn't be attracted to a feminine girl.
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  Speaker 6: Like it's like I get it, no, you know.
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  Speaker 1: For me, But you'll have the same crush too many
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  Speaker 1: You're man the same, Brittany.
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  Speaker 4: I think a lot of you have a crush.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, until I call Until I heard her call herself Pops,
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, damn, I know.
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  Speaker 4: There's certain things that you can say that make you
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  Speaker 4: just instant like no, you see what I mean. I
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  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, Like, well, she already got the
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  Speaker 4: voice of God.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, but I mean, I just you know she
• 14:40
  Speaker 6: she ain't like when she was doing an interview with Shane,
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  Speaker 6: Like when somebody was like the girl was like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: you're about to be.
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  Speaker 4: A mom, you know, she was like no, Pops, like serious.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: I was like, damn, but I but I wouldn't.
• 14:55
  Speaker 6: Just assume that if I never heard her say that,
• 14:57
  Speaker 6: Like I wouldn't start congratulations you your mom. I wouldn't
• 15:00
  Speaker 6: just be like your graduations it's like you pops now,
• 15:02
  Speaker 6: because I think that that would offend her, but she
• 15:05
  Speaker 6: was offended at her being called her mom. Yeah, bring
• 15:11
  Speaker 6: the good.
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: I would let me tell you when I when all
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: that stuff was going on, I was like, we gotta
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: get her out, we gotta get her out.
• 15:16
  Speaker 6: But I'm okay what we still have the crash. I'm
• 15:19
  Speaker 6: okay with letting her go Mandy Cab because my boyfriend
• 15:21
  Speaker 6: looked just like.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: That is crazy.
• 15:26
  Speaker 4: As someone that also has a pretty boyfriend, I know
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: how it feels. I went and took him to a
• 15:31
  Speaker 4: show and it was a lesbian show, uh like literally
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: like a queer comedy night. And she was like, oh yeah,
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: I saw you were there with your girlfriend. I was like,
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: that's a man. He just got dressed and he's pretty.
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: It sucks, but it's crazy man.
• 15:45
  Speaker 7: Flight shooter though, no, he does get shooter a slight shooter, right,
• 15:50
  Speaker 7: he gets slight shooter too.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: But he's a hotep. It's weird, like he looks like
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: he's a what he's a hotel. Hotel, the hotel he
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: makes we're fasting right now. I'm so I'm about to
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: die on this table. He's we fast.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: He was a whole tap.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: The hotel.
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: That is not what it is. The way this is,
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: there's no way that this hasn't crossed over to you.
• 16:15
  Speaker 7: The whole tap, what the is the whole tap charm
• 16:18
  Speaker 7: like the I know the whole tap is. I don't
• 16:20
  Speaker 7: know what the whole tap is, but I know what
• 16:21
  Speaker 7: the hotel.
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: It's a hotel, Okay, I'm being I'm as a hotel.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: A hotel is like you know, one of them, like meditative,
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: like all pro black power to the people, like we
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: can't be doing.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: X y Z like the.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: You're still on the whole part of it.
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: To be Do you know who nineteen keys is? Whole time?
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: I joke, Yes, she's.
• 16:49
  Speaker 7: An Egyptian word that means to be at peace, at peace,
• 16:52
  Speaker 7: which was but y'all said, hoole tap.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: So I'm just thinking something.
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: Of course you are, of course.
• 16:58
  Speaker 6: Together, so with decisions decisions, is it less sex talk?
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: Like? Is it less?
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 17:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we're leaning more into the conversations around relationships, so
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: non traditional relationships, non monogamy, all the ways that you
• 17:13
  Speaker 5: don't have to go about the traditional way of dating
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: and pursuing love essentially because us growing up, what.
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: Is it get married? Have kids, live happily ever after.
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: That's not everyone's reality. But it's cool because we're diving
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: into history, which we always kind of did during Horrible
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: but now it's fun. Like we're talking we talk about
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: the history of romance, the first date, even the history
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: of romance is dope. I was when we were first date,
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: Like how the first date was different. There had to
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: be a male caller at your home knocking on the door,
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: asking your parents. They were supervising you.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: I'm an idiot. I thought you meant like y'all documented
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: the first date.
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: How it evolves over time. Even the history of romance,
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: how you know you married.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: For I'm not a whole retired a long time ago.
• 18:04
  Speaker 4: Now, the history of the romance shot was crazy because
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: it basically romance was a sickness and they believed when
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: people were in battle or in war, they would start
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: a war over love. And they were like, oh, yeah,
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: you can't fall in love, so that's why you would
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: marry for agriculture, socioeconomic stuff. And it's just fun to
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: dive into this because we already have been talking about
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: sex and dating so long, so now we just get
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: to go back and people enjoy learning about stuff with.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: Us, and we're not scholars, so that's what makes it
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: fun to be not now also so then you've got
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: a book coming out as well.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: We do.
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: We do under Charlamagne's imprint No Holes Barred. It's a duo,
• 18:40
  Speaker 4: no hose barred.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: Listen all of them.
• 18:42
  Speaker 5: It's a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: so we each dive into our journeys as women.
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: I did a lot of.
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: Diving in therapy, like going all the way back to
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: like my childhood as to maybe why I date the
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: type of men I date, my views, I mean everything
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: that's not my daddy, so non short Jamaicans. But I
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: go into that and even as as early as me
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: like talking about my journey of having anal sex and
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: how I used to think any man that wanted it
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: was was gay because I was like, well, why would
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: you want that back hole when there's another hole?
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: And so I five, oh that was funny because.
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: Just me, No, it like it like goes through my
• 19:32
  Speaker 5: journey of even like having to relearn and unlearn the
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: things that aren't true. And then we even get deep
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: and we talk about like our sexual assaults. I talk
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: about my abortion six.
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: The book is broken down. It's cool because like when
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: we get into that stuff, so it's pleasure, pain, progression,
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: and power. So like in the pain section, that's when
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: story of a dude bdsm bdsm like ying me up,
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: spanking me, choking me, like Mandy getting electrocuted. That's my favorite.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: I went to a dungeon with my ex and we
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: agreed to both do two things that we had never
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: done before. So he agreed to put allow me to
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: put him in a chastity voute, which took some time
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: to lock him in. And then I allowed him to
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: uh do electro shock inside of me with a tool happens, yeah,
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: and so like it like spawned all of these electro
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: currents inside of me, and it was the best feeling.
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: It felt like almost like an alien. I was like,
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: tongues inside of me giving me oral at once.
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: It was it was the best feeling. I was like,
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: I just sayin't a normal feeling you gotta get?
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: It was great though one person, one person can't.
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: Just to be honest, I don't ride. I don't ride.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: So I would love for my partner to be able
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: to experience everything he wants to experience that I'm not down.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: I don't get on top. Let me go get you
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: somebody acrobatic.
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: You mean you can be.
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: On time, but I ain't getting on top. Nope. Oh yeah.
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: I just came back from Carnival and the way them
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: girls were winding their hips and doing.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: All the splits. I said, my man deserves to experience
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: a woman that flexible. It ain't me though.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Isn't that a position of powerful woman? When again, when.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: It's strong, that's great that you receive it that way. No, no, no,
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: I'm half white. No I know. So it goes, it goes,
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: it goes both, it goes.
• 21:39
  Speaker 6: You know, I do a little bit of okay, all right, Well,
• 21:41
  Speaker 6: what what makes you have an orgasm?
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: Oh, penetration, which is why I can't be fully gay
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: like and I want. I want a member with a
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: with a pose that is literally gay.
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, I want I want right here,
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: not like that I want, but I like a man body.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: There's just so many things a girl couldn't knock you
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: up with a strap on, all right, you know.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: It needs to have a pulse. I like the finishing.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: What comes girls, it's just finish, And I like.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: The I like. I like like when I had a girlfriend,
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: we maybe want in the blue, used them for fun,
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: and after a while we're like, it's just something about it.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: Maybe because her and I both slept with men before.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: It's just like, no, that's not what weird. Oh you know,
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: And I like the finish. I've always felt that toys.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: So something I talk about in the book even is
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex,
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: as far as lesbian sex is that we see, it's
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: really for the may Old gates. It's not that sexy,
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: it's not that pretty. Sometimes you be rubbing, you be
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: on the neck, arm, it's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: It's not exactly what we think.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: It is nothing crazy.
• 22:51
  Speaker 7: And then watching two lesbians with a scrap on and
• 22:53
  Speaker 7: one of them sucking the scrap on, and the person
• 22:54
  Speaker 7: that got the scrap on is money.
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: Because sex is a psychological okay, so no one moans
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: when they suck you. But but I'm feeling anything by
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: giving it to you, and I'm I made.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: I got to scrap on what they tell you. Nothing.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: You may tell you right now, but I'm just saying
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: it just seems.
• 23:21
  Speaker 6: Because right after you finished second, I could take it
• 23:25
  Speaker 6: off and throw it in the car.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: So I think that's what he's saying, Like.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: How okay, it's like you giving phone sex and you moan,
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: and like she said, it's you. There's something about the action.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: And also keeping in mind because it's sexy watching you
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: do this is all BD s M right, So you're
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing it
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: get off. It's like they know that you're on your knees,
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: you're being submissive, humiliate, whatever the word is. So that's
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: where they're getting to.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Turn off from.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: It was your crazy sexual experience. If that was was
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: getting electrocuted, what's yours?
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Hers nasty? No, it actually can't go on radio, but
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: I'll just say we'll put it behind the Patreon ahead.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: She got something about blood. Yes, okay, here's what happened.
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: Boy.
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: My man was just like, uh, I think I was
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: having a bad day and I was like, oh my god,
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: you don't love me. I feel bad, you know, but
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: just be complaining. I've dated them, so I know. And uh.
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: He was like, why are you feeling like that? What
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: do you feel like just because you in your period?
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: I don't love you, I'm not attracted to you. And
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: I was like, I just feel that way. And we
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: were in the car and he put the car in
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: park and he said, put your fingers inside of yourself.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: I'm like no, and then he did it. He ate
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: it and he said, you think I love you now?
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: And it was like it was like Saltbury.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: Broke up with what you mean my man? Know that?
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: But god, I would say.
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: He from Brooklyn, right, fampire from the Bronx.
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: Then God, but you know what it is that's really
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: dope about it. Yes, you're listening to this right now,
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: watching this, you're like, this is disgusting. But I think
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: it's just that when you have no boundaries with someone,
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: it's sexy.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: You got to get married. Oh of course you told
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: everybody in the radio we gotta get married now. Blood
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: was like a little bit.
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: I did put that in the book because I was like, yo,
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: every time we really you think you've reached a level
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: sexually something that so so many things on our list,
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: life like we we had this woman went on a
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: date with her. Was a wild night, so wholesome. And
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: my father he's in a nursing home right now and
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: we had to make sure we were there in the
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: morning to go see him. We got up with sitting
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: there playing checkers and stuff. We looking at each other
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: like we really just having his family moment. It's like
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: our sex life is our sex life.
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: That's what he really.
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's what's funny about it.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: And your mama thank you, and she.
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: Would love to hear that. You know, she loves you.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: She went to go to Charlottage's book to her, she
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: was like, he was looking at me and I was
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: like it because he knows who I am, or he's
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: looking at me girl. Okay, happy birthday thirteenth, Sorry, okay,
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: whatever day is. I don't know, we're hose, we don't know.
• 26:49
  Speaker 6: Have y'all ever been sexually never?
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: Okay never?
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: He said, that's so fast, Like I don't even look at.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: Her, like, have y'all had sex? And we've never?
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Never?
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: Would you? Was you really about to ask me? Why
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: do people think that?
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: Are you? Are you serious? I do.
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: I feel like Mandy and I give the energy like
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: we've never for a long time.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: It was a point where they got to be some secure.
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: Definitely.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: I did feel like that.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: Now, Oh my god, it's just yeah.
• 27:20
  Speaker 6: I mean no, no, y'all don't seem like lovers at
• 27:23
  Speaker 6: all and nothing like that. But I mean with all this,
• 27:26
  Speaker 6: y'all got it and in Calmon and how y'all.
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: Just so watch have sex? And she reminded me, so
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: we're sitting with I didn't really watch. I was just
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: on the bed. Okay. Now, she was scared because she
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: met him at the club.
• 27:42
  Speaker 5: We was like sixteen, using fake Id's down in Miami
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: Memorial that weekend she found.
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: Got like the club. Yes, crazy about twenty years. I
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: forgot this story right, So she forgot about our co Arthur,
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: and she's trying to dig stories out of us. So
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: I said, you know, crazy, I've never had a one
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: nice stand man. He's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no,
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: it's not. She I was right there on the bed like,
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: oh not anything pre titties. I feel like, don't count.
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: See this is why, see the wholeness could be deleted.
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: She's talking about planting slice you can take miles off
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: a car. No, it was like yeah, literally, I mean
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: that was back in the day, you know, like selfon
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: I think we had pye kicks back then, Like it
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: wasn't to where you know, you had so much access.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: So she wanted to him. I was like, okay, I'm.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Gonna sit at sixteen.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, in Miami.
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: We drove to Miami, we live. We had no teen pregnancies.
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: We know were I said, we have a team pregnancy. Yeah,
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: I got rid of it clearly. I think they were eighteen.
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: It was like, I'm not trying to be in Miami
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: at least bro to be in a club in Miami.
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: It's twenty one and forgot we have fake You think
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: they didn't got fakes many?
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: No, they some They were staying together because you didn't.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: Even remember him.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Don't try to sit here and can Back then, everybody
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: was staying with each other's back then.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Nobody had no money.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: It was like nine.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: It was no shame, no shame.
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: He had money. So he wasn't nineteen because he had
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: his own room. He wasn't shared with nobody. That was
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: no courtyard. It don't remember, yo, Let me tell you
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: when I was really reflected, I thought this.
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: Was gonna be way more different. You came in with
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: a blazer, I have on plaid. I don't understand how
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: we're taking it here.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: Y'all wanted us to spice up y'all morning, to see, like,
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: let's go back to being okay. So what is trap house?
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: Oh girl? So I've been going to workouts in New
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: York for almost a decade and I love Pilates inspired
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: movement and I love lifting, and so literally I went
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: to a plate class. I'm not even joking. It was
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: February this year, and I was saying to the instructor like,
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: oh my god, girl, that was such an amazing workout.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: Thank you, Like I needed some like some trap or something.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: She's like, I'd never play that here and made me
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: feel so small like and I was like, I'll make
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: that ship and so I And it's funny because someone
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: said to me when I made it, do you know
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: Envy wants to do hip hop plates?
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: Who told you that?
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: Maybe it was just someone I.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: Mentioned it about it because I don't tell nobody, especially
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: not him. But I go to Pilate's right, Why do
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: I care if? Because I don't want you to pull
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: up on me. Look at my ass when I'm out there,
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: but anyway.
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: I'm looking at his ass, and.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: I said, looking, what's on your mind?
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: So you listen three or four years, but when you
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: go to pilates, there's never no music that you's no
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: hip hop hard.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: You're shaking, you know what I'm saying. So literally my
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: favorite genres of music of all time, and I listened
• 30:42
  Speaker 4: to everything. It's trapping house music. So I was gonna
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: buy an apartment in New York right I had money.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: I was like one hundred fifty gamma buy a million
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: dollar house and I was like no, it's either that
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: to start a business. So because I'm not a fitness
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: and trainer, I had to you know, partner with someone.
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: And so I found my favorite instructor in New York
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: black dudes name Jeff Blue, and I was like, yo,
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: I want you to make this and he literally was
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: like trapped and pilates. I'm like, I'm telling you, dog,
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: and he did everything. We flew him to La to
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: learn lagree. That's the really hard kinds and like training
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: these instructors to do things that people have never done.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: So and it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: come in doing it. They come in and they shake
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: in like crazy, and then they go on the other
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: one and they're shaking. And then the little girls that
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: are super tiny can't do lifting. So everybody's doing something different.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: But even as I've evolved, my partner Brionda, she's like,
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: all right, who's making the music. I'm like, me, I
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: got good music sation. She's like, that's not anough. So
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: I had to get a music director. And every step
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: of the way I've tried to make this elevated just
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: so a bitch cane. Now you know, when it's a
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't got this.
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: Even the candles. I want to find all the candles.
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: I'm like, gotta be a little libo. Every single thing
• 31:51
  Speaker 4: I made that I wanted to be luxury, especially because
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: you're walking in there and you hear Jesus talking about
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: how chitto like it get real ghetto.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: It looked like business woman though from what I see
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: on Instagram, I.
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: Haven't been able to take a class because it's been
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: so busy. I wait, because that's what's said.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I want to do a group trip there, right, and
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: and you got to come to well, I want to.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: I don't want to be sexually arased, but.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: I want to take a group trip there and put
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: everybody in pilates for fifty minutes.
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's hard, especially for the people that
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: haven't done It's it's not.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I used to go four times a week, five times
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: a week. My wife and my dough we go together.
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: Oh so you're gonna be good. It's megrant former.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's that's fine.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: We do it all.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: But I enjoy it.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: People don't know how difficult it is, but how it
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: helps you as well as far as strength is.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: They don't either. The look of pilates is skinny lawn white.
• 32:49
  Speaker 6: Yeah, honestly, I'm sitting here like I never had a
• 32:51
  Speaker 6: desire to do it.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: I was making jokes like, Oh, we're gonna open how
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: these white girls They're gonna be like, oh, what is
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: Gucci man break? Like I really thought that was gonna
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: happen when I tell you all black women, and it's
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: But just TikTok. We were literally working out when I
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: was in the other.
• 33:07
  Speaker 6: Day and it was but none of my coochie I
• 33:10
  Speaker 6: was like, this is crazy, none of my couchie.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, how did you promote it? How did you
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: get the worried out so fast?
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: Okay? So I truthfully was really worried about strategy because
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: I didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: You know when you can have a taste maker vibe,
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: like people know I like the party, they know I
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: like music. I thought that would work. It literally was
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok. It's just
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: genuine a girls like listen.
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: That's why I listen that that ain't going away on
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: the night. A whole lot of it's gonna fake the
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: e kindom. It's like there's a lot of people that make.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Money off of their Frank Mccording Project Liberty.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: There's nothing like that.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: And I always say that the biggest business is what
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: makes people riches is to have something that nobody else has, right,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: And there's so many minorities that love Platt. I'm the
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: guy when I do I'm black. But when I do go,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: I hate the music. So the fact that I was there,
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: the first thing I said, where is it I want
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: to go you know what I mean, because I want
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: to try it out, because I would love to do it.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: Because it's already painful, right, you already trying to focus.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: But if I had the music that I enjoy, it
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: makes it fun now when I can really go through it.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: So I'm we're gonna do a family trip there.
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: I made a code for everybody breakfast. There's ten bucks off.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: Even if you've already been you can still use it.
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: But with the house music. By the way, my mom
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: is a Studio fifty four girl. She's a black woman.
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: I've been listening to the house music my whole life.
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: I've always thought it was black. I feel like all
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: we know is showed me love, but house music is black. Yeah,
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not playing out rant.
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: I'm playing that shit followed me hus because I'm bougie, okay,
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: because I mean it can still read as traps, oh.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: Sothing like why why did you spell it like that?
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: To be honest, it was because I feel like when
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: we see the year or like a different version of house,
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: we always say, oh, this is like kind of you know,
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: And then I felt like a house if someone gooted
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: it it by like a weed stores. Yeah, trap House
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: by the way, I wanted to call it Trapilates, but
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: shout out. I don't know who they are, but you know,
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: the trademark was taken in Atlanta. So but we already
• 35:09
  Speaker 4: know Atlanta got trapp Lot. But I mean my goal,
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: Like people be asking me the franchise. We've been opened
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: six days, people like, oh, can you franchise it? I'm like, oh, yeah,
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: Like I got to learn from every wed, so congratulations.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: But yeah, money, don't talk about your entrepreneur ventures enough.
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You got WTF media man,
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: you had the.
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: Studio, I still have it open. Yeah, it's just now
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: need to know studios.
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I I relocated to Atlanta. I have other
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: opportunities professionally down there. But yeah, and right now I'm
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: proposal for a book after writing the book with you.
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: I definitely just love the process. I want to continue
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: doing that.
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: And yeah, I think over the.
• 35:49
  Speaker 5: Last eight years, I think that's why we've been able
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: to keep this going, because we've both been able to
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: just branch out individually and do the things that we really.
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: Turning over Your money that you make. Like when we
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: got our first Black Effect check, it was so dope
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: because to be on salary for a podcast, it's just
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: like unheard of, and we were making We quit our
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: jobs before, you know, so like we were in this
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: doing this. But it's just mind blowing that we've been
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: able to take that business acumen and flip it because
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: a lot of people think when you're a podcaster, people
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: really don't know how I make money, Like I think
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: so many people think I have only fans when they
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: meet me, which I get it. I feel like I
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: could have the look, but t is already out like okay,
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: but content creation is one thing, and then it's like,
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: well businesses, no, no, not only that, it's just diversifying
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: as well how you bring in money. So between Black
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: Effect now the book which Charlemagne as well, then we
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: have Patreon, then we tour, shout out to Justin and merchandise,
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: we have five different means of income just for the podcast.
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: So even though we're not in the write ups like
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: the other white podcasts talking about one hundred million dollar deals,
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: are our business and what horrible decisions does make seven
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: figures a year? We are a seven figure podcast.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: We're not one hundred.
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: We are, but we we have seven figures, like and
• 37:02
  Speaker 4: we make that yearly.
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: So I love it.
• 37:05
  Speaker 4: And then again, that's just one form of income. Again.
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: She has her studio, I have my studio. We have
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: other things that we do as well outside.
• 37:12
  Speaker 7: So the decision is a business that generates money, and
• 37:14
  Speaker 7: I love how y'all use that money to build other
• 37:16
  Speaker 7: other businesses.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Don't have to be brick and mortar, but like, literally,
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: oh yeah, shout out to you. What is you got
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: into brick and mortar?
• 37:26
  Speaker 5: Even having the studio, like dealing with an actual location
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: and staff And I'm.
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: Like, oh, that ain't me. Do you know the owner
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: of the building that you have? A SOHO? So we
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: got three buildings, four different studios, right. The SOHO dude
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: hits me up about how someone filed an insurance claim
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: and I'm like what they were like, yeah, they fold
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: my the bathroom. I was like, I'm so sorry to
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: hear that. He was like it's good, Like he has
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: huge buildings. He's like, I've already got this covered.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: But like, that's what's building business.
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: I've been trying to make sure it's spit in the studio.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: Gott yeah, how house. It's crazy to me all the businesses.
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: Though, all the projects, everything that we do creatively, those
• 38:06
  Speaker 5: are my babies as a woman that doesn't want kids.
• 38:09
  Speaker 5: And when people talk about what legacy looks like and things,
• 38:11
  Speaker 5: the things that I'm creating are going to outlive me
• 38:15
  Speaker 5: and my kids if I had any their kids. So
• 38:18
  Speaker 5: to me, my legacy and what I'm leaving are the
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: things and businesses that I'm creating. And I think Weezy
• 38:23
  Speaker 5: and I talk about it as well. I think it's
• 38:24
  Speaker 5: wonderful that we're able to like provide salaries and pay people,
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: like even our Horrible Decisions team, it's like ten people.
• 38:32
  Speaker 5: And then she has her studio team. I have my studio,
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: and it's just like, it's great, how do y'all.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Take with you in Atlanta? And you hear New York?
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: How do y'all take the podcast?
• 38:38
  Speaker 6: We both record?
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: And she was just in Atlanta. I go to la
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: whenever we're in the same city, we find a studio
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: on record.
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: Gotcha.
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: It's honestly too, like, I mean, you wasn't even do
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: you live here now? I do now you do, but yeah,
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: like you make it word, you know what I'm saying.
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: I remember when I first heard that, like just didn't
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: live here when she was first working. I was like wow,
• 38:58
  Speaker 4: but like you got your home is at home, Like
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: what are you gonna do your job? I think she'd
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: be secondary. So Mandy, I felt that Atlanta coming and
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: I was like, Oh my god, she's gonna do it.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: She's gonna do it.
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I
• 39:10
  Speaker 5: had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended,
• 39:13
  Speaker 5: and it was amazing ending it and so now that
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: I don't have to be here weekly to do a
• 39:20
  Speaker 5: current event pod. Yeah, as soon as I ended that,
• 39:23
  Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, which, by.
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: The way, many and I have left it so long.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: When that show ended, we already got to say. See
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: the thing is it was another show that I had people.
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: We've been together so long, so if someone is a
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: casual listener, they're thinking it's Mandy and I. I woke
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: up to all these texts. It was my birthday. I
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: think when it happened, I was like, what am I
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: talking about? And then my mother called me because Mandy
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: made a video. That's who made our rollout so good.
• 39:47
  Speaker 5: When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh,
• 39:50
  Speaker 5: of course I became I'm the villain whatever, and they
• 39:54
  Speaker 5: made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner,
• 39:55
  Speaker 5: she can't keep a podcast up, she can't And it
• 39:58
  Speaker 5: was like we played until that, especially with me ending
• 40:01
  Speaker 5: the pot last year, my mom called me.
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: Like, Mandy is on the internet comment off on you
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: and when did you do this?
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: I'm like, when did you do this?
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: It wasn't me. I'm like, if another like to get
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: a walk back, but yeah, real celebrity drama. It's you're
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: running naked in the halls. It's all the news like
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: it is something.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: You know, it is serious. Well, I'm proud of y'all.
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: Man, thank you.
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: Thanks.
• 40:28
  Speaker 7: The book No Holds Bar, The Dual Manifesto of Sexual
• 40:31
  Speaker 7: Exploration and Power, will be in stores June twenty fourth.
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: June twenty tonight.
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: That's right, you got them nails them to show.
• 40:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah, take a play with It's for men and women. No,
• 40:42
  Speaker 5: it's for I'm thoughtful by other people. Okay, all right,
• 40:46
  Speaker 5: because I was on one handed purposely.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, when you go to the nails law and you'll
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: be like, no, no, no, no, not these two open.
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: They have to ask why, and you tell.
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: Me, don't you know it's either I braid here or
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: type a lot. They'm sure they do.
• 41:07
  Speaker 5: They do.
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: They asked, by the way, Jess, I cannot wait till
• 41:09
  Speaker 4: your auntie age. You said, now, no, you're not.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: I'm not forty.
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: You have an undertone of auntie when you just said
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: to them, oh, that's what you do, all right, age forty.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: But she's not forty.
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: She be fun. Don't let you have a lesbian you
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: and that girl.
• 41:29
  Speaker 6: Your sister, Yeah, my little sister, she just she too
• 41:33
  Speaker 6: new though she ain't get out the trial period.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: My little sister she gay. She believe that it's a It's.
• 41:40
  Speaker 6: Twenty one though, so you know, she she she still
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: could be, you know, trying. I'm not saying that she
• 41:44
  Speaker 6: won't be gay forever, but she's still When she said little,
• 41:48
  Speaker 6: she got a little twickle on eye for these little
• 41:51
  Speaker 6: guys out here, so she can't be fully gay.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: Has three.
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: A pretty nigga gonna be straight.
• 42:00
  Speaker 6: Right right, because she don't like to sexually engage with men,
• 42:04
  Speaker 6: but she's still like to look at them and ship.
• 42:06
  Speaker 6: But she likes having sex with girls. So that's all
• 42:10
  Speaker 6: I don't know, is that A seven?
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: Like, Okay, that's gay.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, she put you on new music, she put me on.
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: It's this new song. You ever heard this song?
• 42:20
  Speaker 6: I forgot his name, but it'd be like, niggas can
• 42:23
  Speaker 6: be gay to listen, niggas can be.
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: Like you ain't never heard.
• 42:40
  Speaker 6: You know, they're talking about black men, like, yeah, you didn't.
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: Already already? Oh he didn't. I like his new song,
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: y'all gotta have little NOx up here to talk about. Know.
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: different now and it's really good. I really like him,
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: you know that. Steve Lacy, I love Tyler. My little
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: sister played right. Listen. Trump, Trump would be like, if
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: you're Tram.
• 43:29
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  Speaker 4: That story you got that was five dollars maybe.
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  Speaker 3: And the whole hive is so active that when the
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  Speaker 5: course we will be touring. We'll announce that later, but
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: you guys will be able to see us do this live.
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: I know you got to go, but just to tell
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: you about there was a girl that's a really big
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: fan of yours at the live show we just had
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: and she was taken. I know she's taking a picture
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: of me, and I'm like, oh, I know you will
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: go to all his books. Did you see him? She's like,
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: who hive? He always here? That almost made me hear.
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: But I know y'all said, no king shaman? Yes, what
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: if the king is animals?
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: Oh no, So we have rules. Uh no kids, no animals,
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: no dead bodies. Those are the three and consensual and
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: of course consensual like everything consensual.
• 44:48
  Speaker 5: But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: for uh necrophilia.
• 44:55
  Speaker 7: Got because there was a guy in Florida who I
• 44:57
  Speaker 7: gave donkey the day two this morning he put his
• 44:59
  Speaker 7: penis in the is that is.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: That is that's also animal abuse. But that's crazy, that's crazy.
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: And what color was tea.
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: And white?
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: I mean, but Florida, Florida in Florida, I don't even
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: go based on color. It's just watching Florida. Florida man
• 45:18
  Speaker 4: is good eating them.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: It's good.
• 45:21
  Speaker 7: It ain't as good as the regular Florida stories we
• 45:23
  Speaker 7: read in the news, though, but it's good.
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: Now that black man and a white dude with no
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: teeth and he burned the house over it was still together.
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: It's good, but it's it's re enactments of Florida man stories.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: But I think what's so crazy about Florida were from there,
• 45:38
  Speaker 4: from Florida, and we be it's embarrassed. Do you think
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: I was? We were doing bam pire hello, because you're
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: not not we, not we not we Sometimes you have
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: to speak for yourself first away, all.
• 45:55
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