Porn Isn't Sex Education

The SIPS Experience Podcast · Oct 22, 2026 · 11m

I spent 20 years on the other side of the camera, so when urologist Dr. Rena Malik went viral for saying porn is not sex education, I felt that one in my bones. She is right. In this episode I take you inside a scene I shot years ago, one that looked effortless from the outside, and show you everything the edit hid: the stops, the breaks, the staging, and a finish that was filmed at a completely different point in the day.

In this episode:

- The four stops inside one "effortless" scene, and why the big finish was not the end of anything

- Why a scene is a construction project where sex is the…