Latest / The BEYOND Podcast / Shahin Hassan: Resilience and Authenticity in the Face of Pressure
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- 0:00Unknown: Shane, welcome to be on the Boardroom podcast.
- 0:03Thank you. No need to be nervous.
- 0:05Yeah, I promise.
- 0:07I promise I don't bite.
- 0:08This is just easy.
- 0:10It's about your life, it's about your experience in The Apprentice.
- 0:14So I'm not asking anything terribly controversial.
- 0:17And also outta the apprentice candidates.
- 0:21You are not one of the ones that have something shall I
- 0:24say, dark or secretive or very controversial or anything like that.
- 0:29You are a lovely, hardworking person.
- 0:33Yes, you are on the show and everything, but you're a really nice guy and
- 0:36it's difficult to find dirt on you.
- 0:38So there to anyone thinking that all apprentice contestants are
- 0:43crazy, mad controversial people.
- 0:46Okay?
- 0:47Here is someone who's not that.
- 0:50You're just a lovely guy.
- 0:52Unknown: Yeah, I guess you could say that.
- 0:54Yeah, you are.
- 0:55Yeah. You're
- 0:55Unknown: hardworking.
- 0:56You're from a good home.
- 0:57Yeah.
- 0:57We're gonna get to it, but let's start with Apprentice.
- 1:00What did you think about it?
- 1:03Unknown: It was an amazing experience.
- 1:05It really was.
- 1:06Obviously it's surreal getting onto it as well.
- 1:10The whole selection process was quite challenging.
- 1:13It was quite tough, quite demanding as well.
- 1:15And then actually making it on the show was absolutely surreal.
- 1:18When you see it from the outside you think, do you know what, this
- 1:21process should be straightforward.
- 1:23You know what, how difficult can it be?
- 1:25But when you're on the other side of the fence, you realize
- 1:28how tough it actually is.
- 1:29And I was pretty naive.
- 1:31In thinking that it was gonna be a straightforward process and I'll probably
- 1:34be one of the strongest candidates there.
- 1:37Yeah.
- 1:37But actually you realize you are not really in control of anything.
- 1:42And that probably played a big part in why it was so challenging and so tough.
- 1:47Unknown: Is that the most difficult thing then for you?
- 1:49The fact that you were not in control of your, what is it
- 1:53of your brand, of your day?
- 1:54What was it
- 1:55Unknown: it is not easy filming something like The Apprentice.
- 1:58When you've got so many characters so many contestants.
- 2:01And are you
- 2:01Unknown: saying the contestants were difficult?
- 2:04Unknown: You've got a variety of people personalities and just
- 2:07recording the show as well takes a lot of effort, a lot of people.
- 2:11From the production side, you can imagine it, it's not easy.
- 2:15Try and do all that.
- 2:16But also in terms of the production and what they want to
- 2:20portray to the audience as well.
- 2:22Takes a bit of control over what you say, what you do, et cetera.
- 2:26Yeah, all of that, you're free to say whatever you want, but how it's
- 2:29edited in the end is is stands there.
- 2:31Yeah. But you
- 2:31Unknown: dunno that when you're on it.
- 2:32Do you?
- 2:33Of course not.
- 2:33Of, not of course have no idea how they're editing.
- 2:35No, you don't.
- 2:36But you can see how they wanna steer you.
- 2:37Yeah. If you're on it Yeah, absolutely.
- 2:39And intelligent enough, and you know how they're probing you and
- 2:42what they want to get from you.
- 2:44But yeah, I suppose losing control of your day, how you manage your
- 2:47day, that is quite difficult.
- 2:49I found that difficult not knowing anything.
- 2:52What's coming throughout the day, not knowing when you're going to eat, not
- 2:54knowing how long you have to wait in a room for just that loss of control.
- 2:59It's quite a challenge.
- 3:00I think
- 3:01Unknown: I agree.
- 3:02You're not allowed to take your mobile phone with you, so you are
- 3:05blocked off from the outside world.
- 3:07You are in this little bubble and you are, you're chaperoned everywhere.
- 3:11So you really can't say anything or even talk about the task even
- 3:16when you're off camera as well.
- 3:17All those things made it a lot more difficult.
- 3:20You don't have access to information or anything like that.
- 3:22Unknown: For those that didn't watch your episode,
- 3:24sum it up nicely for us.
- 3:25What happened to you?
- 3:27When did you go out?
- 3:27How'd you get fired?
- 3:28What happened to you?
- 3:29Yeah, so
- 3:30Unknown: the first task was it was a selling task and we went
- 3:33to South Africa and it was the task was to sell tour tickets.
- 3:38And yeah, it was unfortunately week one, which I had to, I was fired in.
- 3:43Yeah. Why
- 3:44Unknown: were you fired?
- 3:45Unknown: Because I didn't make enough sales.
- 3:47And that's what, did you really not,
- 3:48Unknown: or was it edited like that?
- 3:50Unknown: I did make sales, but it wasn't enough.
- 3:52And yeah I guess it was edited that way as well.
- 3:55Unknown: Were you nice too nice in the boardroom to people?
- 3:57Unknown: Do you know? In the boardroom?
- 3:58I think I was I think I, I had no other choice but to fight my corner,
- 4:02but maybe during the task I could have been a bit more aggressive.
- 4:06Which I probably didn't do.
- 4:08And maybe I was playing it safe as well, which wasn't
- 4:11the right tactic at that time.
- 4:12Yeah.
- 4:12Unknown: 'cause everyone's looking to throw someone
- 4:14under the bus from the second.
- 4:16Yeah.
- 4:16Yeah. Definitely The second you're in it.
- 4:18So I think that's what
- 4:19Unknown: happened.
- 4:20Yeah.
- 4:20Yeah. Oh, sorry.
- 4:21Too much of a Mr. Nice guy, I think.
- 4:23And too honest.
- 4:24Unknown: How did it feel being fired?
- 4:26Unknown: I was devastated.
- 4:28Really devastated because I genuinely thought I was a really strong candidate.
- 4:31And you kinda was it
- 4:33Unknown: shocking? Were you like completely whoa,
- 4:34Unknown: do you know what Yeah.
- 4:35Towards right at the end when I thought, do you know, what do
- 4:38I have an argument to stay in?
- 4:40And I saw Lord Sugar looking at me, and I knew, do you know what?
- 4:43I just had a bad feeling.
- 4:44He's gonna, he's gonna let me go now.
- 4:47And he did, but I was genuinely disappointed to be honest.
- 4:51Unknown: Just 'cause you're just a nice, sensible person.
- 4:55Yeah.
- 4:55Yeah.
- 4:55You weren't an aggressive shock in there that, that's,
- 4:57Unknown: no, there's some really loud characters and that their
- 5:00personality really rung through.
- 5:02And you, when you are, when you're trying to be authentic and just being
- 5:05yourself, sometimes you gotta step outside the box and go all that.
- 5:09And maybe I didn't do that.
- 5:11Unknown: You know what the thing is about some of the apprentice
- 5:12personalities and when you get stuck in that house with them and
- 5:16you have all these big characters of obviously being, selecting
- 5:19people for the big personalities, and then you're in that house.
- 5:21Did you not find that?
- 5:23It just sucks the living life out of you to be around such, I would consider
- 5:27myself quite a big personality, but I was like, oh, around these people.
- 5:32They just siphoned the energy out of me.
- 5:34I just thought, oh my gosh.
- 5:36Do you feel that?
- 5:37Unknown: Yeah.
- 5:38I just didn't understand where they got the energy from, honestly.
- 5:42Oh my gosh.
- 5:42I like my own time as well oh, you don't
- 5:44Unknown: have any of your own time.
- 5:45You don't have
- 5:45Unknown: any of your own time.
- 5:46You're always together and they even
- 5:47yeah.
- 5:48I just didn't understand where they got the energy from.
- 5:50It was just so much energy.
- 5:52Like hyperactive.
- 5:52Unknown: Now that you've gone through it, has it changed
- 5:54your view of, let's say, Lord Sugar or the whole process itself?
- 5:58Unknown: You know what, now that I've been through it you see what it's
- 6:02really like from the other side.
- 6:03O obviously I have a huge amount of respect for how it's produced how they
- 6:08select the, the candidates, et cetera.
- 6:11But I feel like it's it's done and dusted now, and I've moved on
- 6:14from that that time in my life.
- 6:17But yeah, from time to time I still watch it.
- 6:19Still a huge fan of it, but I think over the years the format's changed
- 6:23the way it's edited, obviously now that I've been on the other side,
- 6:27you know what it's really like now, you know what it's really like.
- 6:29Yeah.
- 6:29So I guess, I take away a pinch of salt now that actually it's,
- 6:33Unknown: okay. So tell me more about how it's edited.
- 6:37Unknown: You may do a task or say a certain thing, they can edit it in the way they
- 6:41see fit, best best for the audience to capture the audiences reactions.
- 6:46And obviously it's a reality TV show they need to increase ratings, et cetera, so
- 6:51they do need those big personalities.
- 6:53So yeah, I do feel like it's now become more of a game show
- 6:56rather than say a business show.
- 6:59'cause it's
- 6:59Unknown: become less of a business show over time, you'd
- 7:01Unknown: say? Yeah, over time, I would say so.
- 7:03And also the tasks are quite repetitive now.
- 7:07I think, there, there's a a formula which they've used for so many years
- 7:11now and that's quite predictable as well with those things in mind yeah
- 7:15I would say they know how to edit it to make it best for the audience.
- 7:20Unknown: Yeah.
- 7:20You can see how it becomes difficult for some candidates if they've
- 7:23been made to look a really bad way.
- 7:25Yeah, absolutely. You didn't have that, did it?
- 7:27Did it impact your career at all?
- 7:28No.
- 7:29Negatively.
- 7:29Unknown: Yeah.
- 7:30No, not necessarily.
- 7:31Luckily I came out unscathed in all honesty.
- 7:34My personality is more or less aligned to how they portrayed me.
- 7:38Unknown: What is it that you're doing now?
- 7:40What's your job?
- 7:41Unknown: So I do multiple things.
- 7:43I'm a consultant by profession in engineering.
- 7:46So I do consultancy work.
- 7:48I buy and sell cars and I invest in property.
- 7:51So buy selling,
- 7:51Unknown: cause is that a side hustle?
- 7:53Unknown: They're all side hustles.
- 7:54My main, I've always engineering's your main engineering is my main
- 7:57profession bread and and it's my bread and butter and I've been working in
- 7:59that field for the past 20 years.
- 8:01But I've always had a side hustle whether it's selling t-shirts printing t-shirts
- 8:06working in the family business or buying and selling cars or investing in property.
- 8:11Yeah. So
- 8:11Unknown: you love entrepreneurship, like I can see
- 8:13why you wanted to go on the ship.
- 8:14Unknown: Yeah.
- 8:14Yeah.
- 8:15It's not so much more, not really about the making the profit, but just doing
- 8:20something that you really like and creating value out something is what I
- 8:23like, it's the process of doing something like that really makes it interesting.
- 8:28Unknown: Okay.
- 8:29So I was just wondering how.
- 8:31If you're portrayed as not being able to sell and then your main job
- 8:34is sales, how that would impact.
- 8:36'cause that would be quite something, whereas a side hustle, it's it
- 8:39almost would help you, wouldn't it?
- 8:41But if it's a very serious corporate sales role, that might be difficult.
- 8:46Unknown: Exactly.
- 8:46And this is the kind of thing which on The Apprentice, the way they portrayed
- 8:50me doesn't really align to what I do.
- 8:52And I'm quite successful in what I do.
- 8:54Yeah.
- 8:54And also in, in The Apprentice, there are different types of selling as well.
- 8:59This was like on the street selling.
- 9:00Yeah.
- 9:01I still manage to sell, but market style.
- 9:03Market style. Market style and shouting.
- 9:04Exactly.
- 9:05And that's not really my style, but I managed to do some sales, but it's not
- 9:09what they wanted to show on the screen.
- 9:11Unknown: about sales apprentice.
- 9:13Yeah. You will.
- 9:14If you are not selling, you're gone.
- 9:16Yeah.
- 9:16It's very difficult to come out of that.
- 9:18Yeah. If your stats are low.
- 9:20Yeah.
- 9:20If you want to just for anyone wanting to go on, if you wanna remain in
- 9:25there, you've gotta be, you have
- 9:27Unknown: got, you have to be.
- 9:29Absolutely. Yeah.
- 9:29It's like no matter
- 9:29Unknown: what happens excuse me, at least I'm selling what you are doing.
- 9:33Exactly.
- 9:33Unknown: Exactly.
- 9:33Yeah. Definitely.
- 9:34Unknown: But you were lucky to not have trolling.
- 9:36That's quite a bad thing, or did you have a bit?
- 9:38Unknown: Do you know what I didn't have that much to be honest.
- 9:41And, after the show, what did
- 9:42Unknown: you have the trolling, what did they say to you?
- 9:44Unknown: Some were like how did you make onto the show you couldn't sell?
- 9:47But then there were others who were quite like.
- 9:50Disappointed the fact that I went out in the first week because they were really
- 9:55they're aspiring, young entrepreneurs who really want to see me go to some
- 10:00fans, who are quite disappointed.
- 10:01Yeah.
- 10:02You respond to them, say, I'm really sorry I tried my best.
- 10:05And
- 10:05Unknown: yeah.
- 10:06So do you feel like a reality TV star?
- 10:10You feel like you've gone to that club now, you've been on reality tv.
- 10:13Do you feel reality TV ish or not?
- 10:15I.
- 10:16Unknown: I And you went
- 10:16Unknown: out quite soon, but still.
- 10:18Yeah,
- 10:18Unknown: It's a big show.
- 10:19It's a big show.
- 10:20It has had a huge impact on my life.
- 10:22In all honesty.
- 10:23I've had lots of opportunities, which was great.
- 10:26Something that really came to me, which I was, I, I was quite taken back
- 10:30was the amount of people who wanted me to talk to younger people go to
- 10:34schools, invitations to schools, yeah.
- 10:36Colleges.
- 10:37That was really humbling and it was a great honor, to be honest.
- 10:40So that was the positive thing that came out.
- 10:43And but I don't consider myself as a reality TV star.
- 10:46It was a reality tv.
- 10:47That's quite a
- 10:47Unknown: label, it is a label.
- 10:49Unknown: Yeah.
- 10:50And when you do meet people who find that you are on it they think you are one,
- 10:54Unknown: it's a difficult one, isn't it?
- 10:55To say.
- 10:56'cause you're trying to remain serious and corporate and things,
- 10:59but then, you can look at Trump.
- 11:03Unknown: Yeah.
- 11:04Unknown: He's probably broken that ceiling for the reality TV stars.
- 11:08You can, yeah.
- 11:09Whether you like him or not, he's broken it.
- 11:11Yeah, no, absolutely.
- 11:11So I suppose you can the sort of maybe the looking down on it or
- 11:15saying, oh, it's a little reality.
- 11:17Okay, you try get on it then go on.
- 11:19Any one of the shows, even Big Brother, please do audition.
- 11:21Yeah.
- 11:22And let's see if your personality will see you through.
- 11:24Come on, go on.
- 11:25Let's see.
- 11:26It's not easy.
- 11:27It's difficult, isn't it?
- 11:27Unknown: not easy.
- 11:28And the one thing I say to people, and even, I remind myself, is to always
- 11:33stay authentic, be honest with yourself.
- 11:36Don't lie.
- 11:37'cause people can see through all that.
- 11:39Don't create a fake persona as well.
- 11:41Just be yourself and yeah.
- 11:42That, that, that's really important.
- 11:43'cause also they recruiting
- 11:44Unknown: for personality.
- 11:45Yeah.
- 11:46And they've seen it all.
- 11:46So if you're being fake they know.
- 11:48They know the fake.
- 11:49Exactly.
- 11:49You've gotta be comfortable.
- 11:50Yeah. And unashamedly yourself.
- 11:52Yeah.
- 11:52And if you don't like your personality, don't apply.
- 11:55Exactly.
- 11:55'cause they'll, your personality's gonna be magnified to tenfold.
- 11:59They love, if you're a nerdy, they'll really work on that.
- 12:02Nerdy, if you're very nice, they'll work on the nice, if you're very
- 12:05serious, they'll work on it isn't it?
- 12:06They mag definitely magnify.
- 12:08'cause they need to have those boxes.
- 12:10Doesn't matter which show you're on.
- 12:11Absolutely.
- 12:11Everyone's got their sort of thing, don't they?
- 12:13Yeah.
- 12:14But what did it mean for you to represent your Bangladeshi background
- 12:18on such a massive platform?
- 12:19Unknown: Yeah.
- 12:20That was a huge honor, huh?
- 12:22It was.
- 12:23I didn't realize at the time how much Yeah.
- 12:25They're watching and how many people are actually watching.
- 12:28And I was taking quite aback on that front.
- 12:31But it was quite humbling real honor.
- 12:33Lots of people reached out to me who I really didn't know.
- 12:37And I wasn't on social media or anything like that as well.
- 12:39I didn't realize how big that community really was.
- 12:42And but yeah, it was really good, really nice.
- 12:44And yeah, I had lots of opportunities from that, to be honest.
- 12:47So that was really good.
- 12:48So you
- 12:48Unknown: didn't really realize how many within the bangs
- 12:50community were watching you.
- 12:51Yeah. And then they start to message you.
- 12:54Yeah. And they were rooting for you.
- 12:55Yeah.
- 12:55So it is pressure because you don't want to let anyone down.
- 12:57No. They want you to do what?
- 12:59No. You don't.
- 12:59It's difficult.
- 13:00Unknown: It's difficult.
- 13:01But even when someone from the community does something whether it's, getting on
- 13:06a, a platform like The Apprentice or do something really good for the community,
- 13:10they all do get behind the individual because it's a proud moment for them Yes.
- 13:15For the community.
- 13:16And that, that does really shine through.
- 13:19And it's a really nice thing to have.
- 13:20Unknown: proud of you.
- 13:21You're doing really well.
- 13:22Unknown: It's really good.
- 13:23Unknown: So tell me about your dad.
- 13:25Unknown: Yeah, my dad he, he's my inspiration he's a
- 13:28huge role model in my life.
- 13:29He came here when he was 15.
- 13:32He had to support his family back in Bangladesh.
- 13:35And he worked really hard throughout his life to support his family in
- 13:39Bangladesh as well as us in, in, the uk.
- 13:42And yeah he's had lots of success and lots of failures in life and I've seen him go
- 13:47through all those experiences and events and that's probably what inspired me to.
- 13:52Follow his footsteps and also apply to be on the Apprentice.
- 13:55Yeah.
- 13:56Really. He inspired you to yeah.
- 13:57Yeah, he did.
- 13:58He did.
- 13:58Unknown: Hard worker and good family values.
- 14:01Unknown: Yeah.
- 14:02He's a, he is a real hard worker still working today.
- 14:06Unknown: Old is he now?
- 14:07Unknown: He's gonna be 70 in a few months.
- 14:09And that is the mindset that he's got, he can retire, but it's the, you can
- 14:15never take that away from someone, when they've got grit and entrepreneurialism
- 14:19and a vision or a passion for something.
- 14:22You can never change that in someone.
- 14:25It'll always be instilled and they'll, and I think they'll keep
- 14:27doing that up until they, when it's time, when it's their time to go.
- 14:31Yeah.
- 14:31Yeah. What's
- 14:32Unknown: he taught you about family values?
- 14:34Unknown: Family values are really important.
- 14:36Being, having integrity is doing the right thing even when someone's not looking.
- 14:41Doing the, doing it honestly.
- 14:43And yeah.
- 14:45Making sure that, your family is really important.
- 14:48And that's the main thing is making sure family first, the
- 14:50first look after your family.
- 14:51Yeah. Yeah.
- 14:51Unknown: So you experienced a hard start, didn't you?
- 14:54Unknown: We've, we come from a working class background and we all had to work
- 14:58really hard and but seeing my dad go through various businesses where he's
- 15:04made successful businesses and failed at some as well, has taught me the value of,
- 15:08being resilient through difficult times.
- 15:11And that has given me the motivation to work at something
- 15:17and giving it a hundred percent.
- 15:19Yeah.
- 15:19Yeah.
- 15:19Because you know what will happen if you don't.
- 15:23Yeah.
- 15:23Fully commit yourself to it and obviously you gotta be smart about it
- 15:26as well and make the right decisions.
- 15:28But yeah, that's what I'd say.
- 15:30Yeah.
- 15:30Unknown: Resilience really is something, isn't it?
- 15:32Yeah.
- 15:33Stay and be strong and work through it and be prepared for the up and the down.
- 15:38Yeah. For the things that matter.
- 15:40You stay resilient, consistent, and it just pulls you through, doesn't it?
- 15:44Yeah, absolutely.
- 15:44It's so important.
- 15:45Unknown: Ev even, going through the apprentice process, coming
- 15:48out of it as well, you need to be really tough and resilient.
- 15:51You do.
- 15:52Because you can fall into a trap where you have a really high and then a really
- 15:56low and your mindset will change as well.
- 15:59So because of that, you need to be really steadfast in what you do.
- 16:03Unknown: This was an interesting journey for me too.
- 16:04I didn't know where this podcast, like what's gonna happen, which of
- 16:08the candidates are gonna come on?
- 16:09Is anyone gonna wanna come on?
- 16:11Who would want to talk to another apprentice?
- 16:13Crazy candidate.
- 16:14Like I was thinking like, do I even do this?
- 16:17And, why would I wanna do this?
- 16:19And so on.
- 16:19And when I was in the process of looking at candidates and reaching out to them
- 16:23and asking if they would come on or not, there were huge number that just
- 16:27didn't wanna come on for so many reasons.
- 16:29And one of them, the resilience thing, what you're talking about, some of them
- 16:35really took a battering that show broke.
- 16:38Broke them.
- 16:38They've had to their mental health problems, medication,
- 16:42depression social isolation.
- 16:47Some of them, they want nothing to do with it.
- 16:48It's like a bad experience.
- 16:50And then obviously you've got the other group that's, they wouldn't
- 16:52necessarily mind that they're not depressed or anything but also the
- 16:55pressure of you're in oppressed going, what are you doing now?
- 16:56Whatcha are doing? Come on.
- 16:57Are you making money?
- 16:58You richer?
- 16:59And going I don't wanna talk about what I'm doing because I'm not
- 17:02as successful as I want to be.
- 17:03In my mind.
- 17:04Even though you're like, listen you don't need to be rich.
- 17:06Just talk about your experience.
- 17:07Talk about yourself.
- 17:07We're doing very few, actually, very few, the minority.
- 17:12Were like, we're gonna come on, we're gonna talk about it.
- 17:14Whether it's good, whether it's bad.
- 17:17There are some that don't wanna talk about the very controversial
- 17:19things, which I can understand.
- 17:20They're like, we don't wanna talk about it, but they're
- 17:21confident enough to come on.
- 17:23That's a small percentage.
- 17:25Yeah, it really is because after all that.
- 17:29When you sift through it, only that little group is left that are willing
- 17:32to still talk about it and yeah.
- 17:34Acknowledge I've even been on it and are okay with that.
- 17:37Majority know.
- 17:39Unknown: Yeah.
- 17:39Unknown: It's crazy.
- 17:40Unknown: Yeah.
- 17:40Yeah.
- 17:41And that's the the other side of reality TV v is no one really knows what's going
- 17:47on in someone's life and it's easily misrepresented and what the audience see
- 17:52for that, half an hour or 45 minutes.
- 17:55You can't judge someone by their actions in that moment because number one, it's
- 18:01edited anyway and so you probably won't see them in the best light or you might
- 18:05do, but then you dunno what's going on.
- 18:08Yeah.
- 18:08In their mind you don't know what's made them go on The Apprentice.
- 18:11You don't know what their origin story is or what their belief system is.
- 18:15And yeah.
- 18:15And as you say, people are going through
- 18:18Unknown: some are bad Yes. Really bad.
- 18:18Are really bad,
- 18:19Unknown: Mental health issues Yeah.
- 18:20And whatnot.
- 18:21And it's the other side which should also be respected as well.
- 18:25So Absolutely.
- 18:25I totally agree with you.
- 18:26Yeah, absolutely.
- 18:27Unknown: Because also when you come out of something like that what
- 18:30sort of home is this person going back to?
- 18:32What support system do they have?
- 18:34You can psychologists and everything, but who's at home to give you a hug?
- 18:38And have a little cup of tea with, you've got your dad, your family,
- 18:41I've got my family and the big arms are waiting for Oh, and that hug
- 18:45and that like the support network.
- 18:47It makes everything okay.
- 18:49Yeah. Doesn't it?
- 18:49Yeah. It's oh, alright.
- 18:51But if you don't have that, and let's say you go home and there's an empty house and
- 18:54you're on your own and your mind's going, then you know, that's a different story.
- 18:59Unknown: Yeah. No and that's the thing.
- 19:00When you do go on a show like that, and if you don't have that
- 19:04network is who do you go to?
- 19:06And you can find yourself alone.
- 19:09And this is where you get into a depression mode and it's
- 19:11really hard to get out that.
- 19:13If you don't have, or if you don't speak to someone about it, because everyone
- 19:16assumes, oh, you've been on The Apprentice or you've been on a reality TV show.
- 19:19Yeah.
- 19:19You must be set for life now.
- 19:21Exactly.
- 19:21And it's not the case.
- 19:23It's not the case at all.
- 19:24It really, you have to make it work.
- 19:26You have to make the moves and in a way it's harder
- 19:30Unknown: because you go on and especially if you're in a
- 19:32corporate field, they're like, oh, come on an apprentice candidate.
- 19:34Or you're another, you're probably horrible and you're
- 19:37Unknown: Yeah.
- 19:38Unknown: Stupid and you dunno how to sell and you're arrogant and you
- 19:40have to overcome all those obstacles.
- 19:42Actually I'm professional.
- 19:43I'm very serious.
- 19:43Exactly.
- 19:44Unknown: Exactly.
- 19:44Yeah.
- 19:45Creates,
- 19:45Unknown: it can create a problem.
- 19:47Absolutely.
- 19:47And it can also be an, it depends how you milk it and use it.
- 19:50But yeah.
- 19:51So you built your career in engineering, you're branched into business.
- 19:54So what keeps you motivated and comfortable in yourself?
- 19:59Unknown: My motivation has always been to be successful, but getting that
- 20:05balance which is, at one point, am I gonna be happy in, in, in life.
- 20:11And I feel like you need to get that balance right in terms of,
- 20:14when are you gonna be happy?
- 20:15And when do you start realizing actually, time is precious as well.
- 20:20You gotta make the most of it.
- 20:21Time is like a currency.
- 20:22Weighing that up it's I'm at a point in my life where I think I, I did
- 20:27the hard work in my twenties and thirties where now I can relax a bit
- 20:32now and enjoy time with the family.
- 20:35So that's quite important to me.
- 20:37And yeah, when I think about the future, I think about my kids and so
- 20:40they, they're my motivation as well.
- 20:43How old are they, your kids?
- 20:44So I got two girls nine and seven, and then I've got a baby boy.
- 20:48He is gonna be two in January.
- 20:49Unknown: Okay, so quite young still, you're like Yeah, quite young.
- 20:52Unknown: I want to be able to provide for them and give them
- 20:54a good basis a good foundation.
- 20:58So they have a decent start in life.
- 21:00Unknown: So are you happy then?
- 21:02Yeah.
- 21:03Sounds like you're,
- 21:04Unknown: I think I am.
- 21:04I think I am.
- 21:05And one of the main things is having a belief system as well.
- 21:08Making sure that whichever religion you follow for me, I need to make
- 21:13sure that we follow our faith.
- 21:15And that's something that I instill in my family as well.
- 21:17Unknown: So you, that's important, your kids, they
- 21:19have to their faith follow?
- 21:20Yeah, absolutely.
- 21:21Yeah.
- 21:21Unknown: Yeah, because, 'cause that's what grounds me as a person.
- 21:24Yeah. It does ground, doesn't it?
- 21:24We talked about depression or when you have times in your life where you're
- 21:28feeling a bit low, for me that was, reaching out to my faith and yeah.
- 21:32Unknown: percent
- 21:33Unknown: that, that, that helps me.
- 21:34Unknown: We don't talk about faith enough at all, I feel
- 21:37and it's almost I dunno, in the west it's become oh yeah, whatever.
- 21:40I just think it's quite harsh to say not everyone, but it has become diminished.
- 21:43Europe, it used to be based on Christian values back in the
- 21:46day and I'm Roman Catholics.
- 21:48Yeah.
- 21:48It is for me I will pray like when I'm traumatized or something.
- 21:51Yeah.
- 21:51I get really upset then I pray, I pray to my God angel.
- 21:53I pray to God.
- 21:55And also things like it helps you like in when you're sad about something,
- 21:58in our religion it's it teaches you that you have to allow for the morning
- 22:02and then you must put it down and.
- 22:05Yeah.
- 22:06Too bad, yeah.
- 22:06It's gone.
- 22:07You grieve, but the grieving ends.
- 22:09Yeah.
- 22:09Yeah.
- 22:09It's not something you carry through that's, that you're right.
- 22:12Those are the stabilizing grounding values that if you have
- 22:15them, it makes things easier.
- 22:17So much easier.
- 22:18Yeah. Doesn't it?
- 22:18Unknown: Yeah. No, absolutely.
- 22:19Unknown: Tell me about classic cars.
- 22:21I don't know anything about classic cars.
- 22:22My sister's husband he lives in South Africa.
- 22:25He's all into that kind of thing, and they go to all these shows.
- 22:27Yeah.
- 22:27And they've got all these fancy cars and things and I don't
- 22:31know, like why classic cars.
- 22:33Yeah. What's cool about classic cars?
- 22:34Yeah. Sell it to me.
- 22:35Unknown: So I've always had a passion for cars.
- 22:38Yeah.
- 22:38And ever since I was a kid, and obviously growing up, you see all these
- 22:42cars on the road and it's a passion.
- 22:45It's grown over time.
- 22:47And why, I guess they're like modern classics.
- 22:50So from the, like the nineties era and the eighties and you see these
- 22:55cars when you were growing up and now I've got the opportunity to buy
- 23:00them restore 'em, and then, okay.
- 23:02And sometimes, if I really like them, I'll keep 'em, otherwise I'll sell 'em on.
- 23:06So
- 23:07Unknown: Like what cars what do you buy?
- 23:08Unknown: Let's see classic Mercedes cars, like a, a 90 92 Mercedes sl.
- 23:13Two seats, a convertible.
- 23:15They're really nice to buy and sell.
- 23:17I've currently got a a Mercedes s class, which is a 1998.
- 23:21It's a modern classic, but it's one that I've always seen when I was at, when I
- 23:25was going to school, I always used to really have a soft spot for that car.
- 23:29And I used to see it in magazines and luckily I had the chance to
- 23:33buy one about four years ago.
- 23:35And yeah I've had that ever since.
- 23:37And that stored away.
- 23:38And yeah, OO other cars vintage or classic Ferraris as well.
- 23:42Unknown: quite an expensive hobby.
- 23:44This one.
- 23:44Yeah.
- 23:45Unknown: Yeah.
- 23:46It's liking
- 23:46Unknown: cars.
- 23:46Let me collect some, it's not toys like like in the old, when you're a
- 23:50kid, you have your little toy cars.
- 23:51These are proper big cars and you're buying, restoring, keeping some of them.
- 23:55Yeah.
- 23:56So you end up collecting cars.
- 23:57That's crazy.
- 23:58Unknown: Yeah it's, it is an expensive hobby.
- 24:00We could start off small.
- 24:01Some of the classic cars are, not that expensive.
- 24:03You can start off with a couple of thousand pounds to be honest.
- 24:06And spend some time restoring them.
- 24:07But yeah, it's a nice hobby.
- 24:09Now then I'll sell one and but yeah, that keeps me busy on the weekends.
- 24:13What
- 24:14Unknown: is it about the car? Is it.
- 24:14It's look, is it the manufacturer?
- 24:17Is it the engine?
- 24:18What is it?
- 24:20Unknown: It's a bit of everything.
- 24:20It's a bit, and it's something like what can I say?
- 24:24How you relate to it.
- 24:25So how you relate to a brand.
- 24:26There might have been a certain time in your life where
- 24:29you've grown up with a brand.
- 24:31And when you start reading into the, the stories of the brands as well,
- 24:35that makes a huge difference to what as a collectible to yourself.
- 24:39You read the Ferrari brand story and how Ferrari became brand.
- 24:44It's a sporting pedigree.
- 24:46And winning races, and it's all about the cars dynamics how the engine was
- 24:53designed how it feels on the road.
- 24:55So that's a sporting, pedigrees, a sporting brand.
- 25:00And then you compare other brands like Mercedes more about the technology,
- 25:05about the luxuriousness and how they built German engineering.
- 25:09And then you look at British brands like let's say Bentley.
- 25:11Handcrafted Handbuilt.
- 25:13Now with technology, they do it a lot with automation.
- 25:16But yeah, it's every brand has a story and when you could tell it and experience
- 25:21that and drive that it really does.
- 25:24Connect you emotionally as well.
- 25:25Unknown: Which is your favorite and why, which one
- 25:28are you most connected with?
- 25:29Unknown: Because I've owned a Ferrari and having been through that process
- 25:33of kind of restoring a classic Ferrari it was a Ferrari 4, 5, 6 I would say
- 25:39I'm quite attached to that brand.
- 25:41And when you read the story of the Ferrari story it's very much
- 25:45connected to the racing pedigree and how they became a, a major brand in.
- 25:52In the world.
- 25:53That I guess would be the one brand that I really do connect with.
- 25:57Yeah.
- 25:57Intimately. Isn't
- 25:58Unknown: Hamilton going to Ferrari?
- 26:00It's, what do you think about that?
- 26:01I
- 26:01Unknown: think it's an amazing move for him to go into the Ferrari family.
- 26:07It'll be an interesting season next year.
- 26:10Unknown: Do you think he's gonna perform on the same level,
- 26:13Unknown: He's a lot older now.
- 26:14And you want, everyone probably will compare 'em to Schumacher and
- 26:17I hope he does make a big impact.
- 26:20He's had a difficult time at Mercedes, so I think because he's
- 26:25had the opportunity to go to Ferrari now he's got something to prove.
- 26:29So I think mentally he'll push himself as hard as possible, and I think everybody
- 26:34in Ferrari will also be right behind him.
- 26:36Unknown: What's the one value from your upbringing, the one
- 26:41that you want them to carry forward?
- 26:42Unknown: The one value, I would say is to have a good belief system.
- 26:46Because by being grounded in, in, in your belief system, you have you,
- 26:53you'll automatically get things like integrity, as I said before, doing
- 26:58the right thing when no one's looking.
- 27:01And yeah, I think that would be the.
- 27:04The key value is having a belief system.
- 27:07And automatically, integrity plays a huge part in that.
- 27:10And being yourself, being honest to yourself and yeah.
- 27:15Unknown: Okay.
- 27:15Important in terms of, cultural heritage and background.
- 27:19So as a Bangladeshi British engineer, entrepreneur, what do you think we
- 27:23often overlook about the contribution of immigrants to this country?
- 27:27Unknown: Look, immigrants in this country have played a huge
- 27:30part socially, economically.
- 27:33We play a huge part and because we do play such a important part without us,
- 27:40Britain isn't Britain as it is today.
- 27:45And yeah, we do play a huge part.
- 27:48Unknown: Yeah.
- 27:48And what do you think about the UK's direction on immigration?
- 27:52Unknown: Look the challenges that they have at the moment with, immigrants
- 27:57coming in illegally, that's not right.
- 27:59And there should be mechanisms in place and you gotta follow the
- 28:03process to get into the country.
- 28:05So that must be followed.
- 28:07And we want the right people coming into the country who will contribute
- 28:11to society, to the economy, who will help the economy grow.
- 28:17That's what we want to make it a more diverse and strong place to live.
- 28:22And so that is what I support.
- 28:24Unknown: Is.
- 28:24It is it is a bit like you wouldn't let everyone and anyone come into your house.
- 28:28You look, who is that?
- 28:29Yep.
- 28:29Security, this, that you can come in, you're a friend, whatever.
- 28:32Then you let people in.
- 28:33But it can't be free for all, I think, isn't it?
- 28:35Yeah.
- 28:36But at the same time, you need the skills and you need to be able to pull
- 28:40in and I love the way that the UK's diverse and there's a lot going on and
- 28:45it's that international like sizzle.
- 28:47It does put it on another level.
- 28:49Yeah. There's massive advantages to that.
- 28:51Yeah. Massive advantages.
- 28:52But yeah, it needs to be safe, secure, doesn't it?
- 28:55It just,
- 28:56Unknown: yeah, no.
- 28:56If you look at say, NHS for example the, I think it's like a quarter of the workforce
- 29:04are from ethnic minority backgrounds and, they provide such an important
- 29:08service to everybody without them.
- 29:12It will cripple pretty much and come to a standstill.
- 29:15That's just an example of the NHS.
- 29:16But then if you look at, say, technology, the amount of scientists the engineers,
- 29:22the programmers that UK need to compete on a global scale, we do need that influx of
- 29:29the right talent to come through to help these companies in the UK who are based in
- 29:33the UK to really thrive and make England or uk a superpower to compete against
- 29:40the likes of say, America, China, India.
- 29:43Unknown: In that case, we can't have brain drain.
- 29:44No.
- 29:44'cause there's so many intelligent, qualified people leaving because they're
- 29:47getting higher paid jobs elsewhere,
- 29:49and there's this whole thing like the labor government and, raise
- 29:52taxes, let's punish the rich.
- 29:54Let's do that.
- 29:54But I'm, I am really not of that mindset.
- 29:57I am genuinely of a mindset of create an environment in your country that
- 30:02encourages that growth, that sizzle, make it a fertile landscape that
- 30:07businesses wanna set their roots in.
- 30:09Yeah. Make it fertile for them.
- 30:10Because with these businesses come, jobs come the intelligent, the brain powers
- 30:15coming in, and then the economy starts moving because you can raise taxes
- 30:18as much as you want, and you can make life very unpleasant for everyone here.
- 30:22But where's your growth coming from?
- 30:24Unknown: Yeah.
- 30:24Unknown: And even the growth plan that we have now in the UK
- 30:26for growth, I don't buy into it.
- 30:28I don't buy into the whole, I dunno how much you know about it, but
- 30:31the whole like let's just invest in this green energy and everything.
- 30:34Yeah. I love the environment.
- 30:35I'll do anything like I'm crazy about birds and I'm
- 30:37obsessed with the environment.
- 30:38Okay.
- 30:39But at the same time, you've gotta be realistic.
- 30:41Yeah.
- 30:41And wind and solar energy, I was actually researching it this morning.
- 30:47I was looking into it is, it's very good and they're investing it or whatever.
- 30:51On some level it's, it seems good, but actually when you look into what you need
- 30:55the components that comes from China.
- 30:58And it's if you wanna be independent with your energy, then why are you doing that?
- 31:03And also, nuclear, it's more reliable because the output is like 90%.
- 31:08Whereas with wind and solar it's 30% or 35, so you're not really
- 31:11getting banged for your buck.
- 31:12Unknown: Yeah.
- 31:12Unknown: But the UK is investing massively.
- 31:15Yeah.
- 31:15Into wind and solar.
- 31:16Unknown: We do need a a bed of, businesses who are gonna be thriving, who are
- 31:22gonna be creating new opportunities.
- 31:24And if you do deter those entrepreneurs or those startups that really
- 31:29want to be based here, but then if you scare them off, they'll go to
- 31:32other countries, because they'll be providing them with grants
- 31:35potentially lower taxes and whatnot.
- 31:37They really do need to focus on, what's it gonna take to make the UK a superpower?
- 31:42Because China are increasing their manufacturing capabilities.
- 31:48You got the likes of India as well who are real superpower now.
- 31:52Now you've got Trump in, he wants America to be a, establish themselves
- 31:57as a as, as a manufacturer.
- 31:59Now, they're gonna be investing a lot of money into the rust
- 32:03Belt to create new opportunities.
- 32:05So for the UK to compete with those economies, we do need to
- 32:10make it as and, interesting and enticing as possible for Yeah.
- 32:15UK startups and businesses in general and give them some relief
- 32:18on, on, on some of these Yeah.
- 32:20Technologies.
- 32:20You've got
- 32:21Unknown: an entrepreneur running the country, so he's
- 32:22gonna look at the assets.
- 32:24What do we have, what are our resources?
- 32:25What are the people?
- 32:26How much money do we have?
- 32:27How much debt do we have?
- 32:28And then manage the books, and make it so you're growing and getting profitable.
- 32:31It's like business.
- 32:32It's business.
- 32:33Come on.
- 32:33Unknown: Trump has appointed Elon Musk Yeah.
- 32:35To do some efficiencies.
- 32:37Yeah.
- 32:37Unknown: I think it's fantastic, to be honest.
- 32:39It's really interesting.
- 32:40You've got someone who is highly intelligent, who has run successful
- 32:45companies all his life, and now he's managed to get a seat at
- 32:48the table with president Trump.
- 32:51And now he has the opportunity to cut out waste.
- 32:55Waste and imagine if,
- 32:57which, there's a lot of it.
- 32:58Yeah, of course.
- 32:58And, in this government, if you had to, if you looked into the nhs Yeah.
- 33:01You know how many spiderwebs cobwebs Absolutely.
- 33:05You Oh my God.
- 33:06Unknown: And I'm certain some people are worried in the government
- 33:10that, oh, if America have done this, why can't we do something?
- 33:13Yeah. Because they're
- 33:13Unknown: hiding. They're hiding.
- 33:14Yeah.
- 33:14Not there's employees in the office, they hide.
- 33:16Yeah, absolutely.
- 33:17They.
- 33:17And
- 33:17Unknown: I was on LinkedIn just this morning.
- 33:19And the owner of BrewDog, even, he was saying, do you know what, maybe
- 33:23I should apply for a job like this in the UK government, there's an
- 33:26opportunity here to cut out waste.
- 33:28And, but they
- 33:28Unknown: don't want you to 'cause they wanna continue hiding.
- 33:30Unknown: Yeah, exactly.
- 33:31And that's the scary bit.
- 33:32And, for someone, like a party like labor that's not good.
- 33:36Unknown: On Elon Musk, he released the tweet actually.
- 33:38Okay.
- 33:39About energy costs in the uk and it's like lists like a whole bunch of, top
- 33:44countries, important countries, whatever.
- 33:47And their energy costs.
- 33:48And then you've got the UK at the top with the costs almost off the chart and then
- 33:54everyone else there and with low costs.
- 33:56Yeah.
- 33:56So this is what I'm talking about, the UK.
- 34:00Already it's 50% Yeah.
- 34:02Renewables.
- 34:03And we're going heavy into that.
- 34:04We're spending money.
- 34:05It's very expensive to get this going.
- 34:08Yeah.
- 34:08Very expensive.
- 34:10We're massively in debt.
- 34:11How are we rich enough to start going to the most expensive energy when look at
- 34:17our costs, look at our debt, our growth,
- 34:21Unknown: Yeah.
- 34:22And that's I guess the good thing about Trump is he has that belief
- 34:26that they can do it themselves.
- 34:28Yeah. And he is taken on the right people.
- 34:30Yeah.
- 34:30And he's not scared of, politicians who are bullies Yeah.
- 34:33And always been there bullies and know it all.
- 34:35And I think UK obviously, don't have that stance and they can't do that.
- 34:39Really?
- 34:40Unknown: Yeah. We need someone for the uk.
- 34:42That's okay, you putting America first, we're putting the UK first.
- 34:45We're putting the UK back on the map.
- 34:46We need like a Thatchers style tough, put its arms around the country and go
- 34:52Right world, the UK's back and we're all about Britain and this is how it's gonna
- 34:57be from now on and use what we've got.
- 34:59Use what we've got in house and grow that instead of, stop wasting money.
- 35:04Unknown: I agree.
- 35:05But it's really difficult.
- 35:06Who would do that?
- 35:07We need
- 35:07Unknown: someone with guts that's brave.
- 35:09Pretty smart.
- 35:10You don't have to even be that smart 'cause this is quite basic stuff, not with
- 35:12Unknown: sugar, right?
- 35:16Unknown: Come on.
- 35:17Absolutely not.
- 35:18No.
- 35:19No.
- 35:19I don't think the country can.
- 35:21No deal them.
- 35:22Unknown: No.
- 35:22Unknown: I mean you would have them as advisors,
- 35:24like the sugars and that.
- 35:25Yeah.
- 35:25I totally would believe in bringing people, like getting it right.
- 35:28You tell me from business perspec perspective, what
- 35:31would you like to see on tax?
- 35:32Unknown: The other, the challenge that we have is obviously that's one
- 35:35group of people who want that, but then you've got socialists who want.
- 35:39Unknown: Oh, socialists.
- 35:40Unknown: The, the come on the great, for the greater good for people
- 35:43who are struggling, it's a greater
- 35:44Unknown: good for them when you know.
- 35:45Unknown: Yeah. So you know, it's getting that balance.
- 35:47Okay. But
- 35:48Unknown: socialist countries, so like in Sweden.
- 35:50Yeah.
- 35:50So their healthcare system is incredibly efficient.
- 35:53Yeah.
- 35:54It's, but it's built for a socialist system.
- 35:57Yeah.
- 35:57It's designed in that way.
- 35:59It's quite centralized.
- 36:00Not like our NHS with multiple units and divisions.
- 36:04It's run in a way that's good for socialist type government, but their
- 36:07debt is very low compared to us.
- 36:10We have a totally different scenario going on.
- 36:13And we need to look at it like that.
- 36:15Unknown: I, you are, as you were talking, I was just thinking, yeah.
- 36:18You look at salaries.
- 36:19Yeah.
- 36:19The average salary in the uk versus the rate of inflation
- 36:24and the cost of house prices.
- 36:26How do you tackle that?
- 36:27You compare that to say the nineties even, early noughties.
- 36:31There's no way that a, a buyer now who's just come out of university
- 36:37is able to afford to buy a house.
- 36:39And what the government's doing now is obviously restricting all these
- 36:44landlords and investors in not to buy property and give them a chance.
- 36:49But then that's the opportunity is you need investors.
- 36:53You need those people who will create those opportunities, the jobs who will
- 36:57be developing properties, et cetera.
- 36:59And yeah.
- 37:00By trying to tax heavily tax those investors and developers, it still
- 37:06alienates these, first time buyers because they still can't get
- 37:09onto the, property land anyway.
- 37:12So it, it's a real, difficult situation that they've put a lot of people in.
- 37:16When it comes to investing in the uk,
- 37:19Unknown: difficult.
- 37:19Yeah, no, it's not a good place to invest right now.
- 37:22And the other thing, Musk said, actually, I dunno if you saw this, was he also
- 37:25attacked the labor government now.
- 37:27So on free speech saying that they're releasing criminals from overcrowded
- 37:31prisons, but then putting people into jail for opposing, contradictory Yeah.
- 37:37Views to the government.
- 37:38What do you think about that?
- 37:38Unknown: I don't see why Elon Musk is getting involved in British
- 37:42politics, to be honest with you.
- 37:43I don't care that he owns Twitter, but there's no need for him to
- 37:46meddle in UK politics and he's quite controversial himself, to be honest.
- 37:51He was he didn't support Trump all his life.
- 37:53He, it is only been the last few years last few Mo a couple of
- 37:57years probably where he switched sides, to be honest, though.
- 37:59Unknown: He was, yeah.
- 38:00He was Democrat.
- 38:01Yeah.
- 38:02So I turned,
- 38:03Unknown: I don't see why he's meddling in UK politics.
- 38:06There's no need for him to do that.
- 38:07It's
- 38:07Unknown: okay to change your mind, but yes.
- 38:09Vance changed his mind.
- 38:10His, yeah.
- 38:11He hated him, and then now he likes him.
- 38:13Oh, there you go.
- 38:13Yeah. But you're allowed to, yeah.
- 38:15Unknown: Allowed to, Elon Musk probably has a, a hidden agenda.
- 38:17Anyway.
- 38:18He's now made it into the White House.
- 38:21Yeah.
- 38:21You never know what, who do you think's gonna be the next president?
- 38:24Elon Musk might be knocking.
- 38:26I'll tell, you'll tell you what I like on the door.
- 38:27Unknown: I want someone that's gonna really like with every single cell
- 38:32in their body want the best for Britain.
- 38:34Yeah.
- 38:34And bring Britain like properly back on a map.
- 38:37We've got very political Yeah.
- 38:38This is just really swung in that direction.
- 38:41I don't know, it's obviously a hot topic, but what, in your
- 38:44opinion, that makes a good leader?
- 38:45And then I've got one more question after that.
- 38:47Unknown: It's how to motivate your people and empowering them and trusting them.
- 38:55And what Covid has taught us is that you need to trust your employees, the
- 39:00people that work for you, because work can still be done even when you're
- 39:04at home or not on site and stuff.
- 39:07Yes.
- 39:07So I think that shift, that mindset has shifted and it's
- 39:10probably changed a lot of peoples.
- 39:11Unknown: Last question.
- 39:12It's twofold.
- 39:13What's next for you?
- 39:15And also how would you like to be remembered?
- 39:18What do you want people to know about you?
- 39:21Unknown: Yeah.
- 39:22Next for me, I still.
- 39:25We'll be investing in property.
- 39:27So I'll continue doing that.
- 39:28Continue buying and selling cars.
- 39:31And yeah try and keep fit, stay healthy.
- 39:35I think those are the kind of, and enjoy life, to be honest.
- 39:38Unknown: How do you wanna be remembered?
- 39:39Unknown: To be remembered?
- 39:40Someone who's authentic and honest?
- 39:42A realist, one thing I'd probably say is to, your audience is don't
- 39:47be phased by what on social media because it's not always real.
- 39:52A picture.
- 39:53Can say a lot of things.
- 39:55You look at someone and you think they're really successful, they don't
- 39:58have any problems in life and whatnot.
- 40:00But actually when you look deep into their life, you realize they have problems,
- 40:06everyday problems that you have as well.
- 40:08So don't think that they are someone really special.
- 40:11They just everyday people.
- 40:13Unknown: That's life.
- 40:15Thank you for coming on the podcast.
- 40:16Thank you for having me.
- 40:17It's been lovely having you.
- 40:17Yeah. Thank you so much.
- 40:18Unknown: Thank you.