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Sled Shaming & Double Standards: Why ‘Slut Shaming’ Hurts Everyone · A Capture Deep Vibs A Positive Space For Inspiration And Embracing Of Heart

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  Speaker 1: Okay, quick update before I start this video. Number one,
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  Speaker 1: Yo, what up?
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  Speaker 2: It's your boy, Destin Pipkins, a.k.a.
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  Speaker 1: Jimmy NoFro, a.k.a. Jimmy the Legend, a.k.a. the Legend of
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  Speaker 1: Hip Hop. Today's topic, I'll be talking about slut-shaming. I'll
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  Speaker 1: be talking about whether it is really good or bad,
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  Speaker 1: the history of slut-shaming, and why sex is freedom.
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  Speaker 2: So without further ado, let's get started. Let's go.
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  Speaker 1: So the world has seen slut shaming. We've seen it
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  Speaker 1: happen before. We've read about it on tweets and text
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  Speaker 1: messages and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we've seen people do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we always hear the words hoe, slut, whore.
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  Speaker 1: We call it mainly towards girls. So in society today,
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  Speaker 1: it is still, still, still said that women can't do
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  Speaker 1: as much as what a man can. Especially when it
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  Speaker 1: comes to sex. If a guy like me were to
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  Speaker 1: go around and have sex with women, I would be
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  Speaker 1: a player, a pimp, I would pretty much be glorified.
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  Speaker 2: You know, all this cool stuff I guess people say
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  Speaker 2: about you as a man.
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  Speaker 1: But as a woman, like, they can't do what a
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  Speaker 1: man does. And if they do, they get judged badly
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  Speaker 1: for it.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's not right. See, as human beings, we are supposed.
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  Speaker 1: To be equal.
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  Speaker 2: Both man and woman. Man, woman, do whatever we want
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  Speaker 2: to do. Equal human beings. And to me, in my opinion,
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  Speaker 2: I really think it is good.
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  Speaker 1: That women do whatever they want as much as men
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  Speaker 1: do whatever they want. Men are independent and so are women,
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  Speaker 1: especially when it comes to sex. You know, people make
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  Speaker 1: decisions on sex. They have their own sex lives and.
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  Speaker 2: How they use it.
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  Speaker 1: A girl can do whatever she wants with her sex,
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  Speaker 1: so why should she be judged for it? That's something
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  Speaker 1: I truly want to know from a guy. Why do
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  Speaker 1: you call a girl a hoe? Why do you call
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  Speaker 1: her a slut when you do the same thing?
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  Speaker 2: Like, why do you do that? I just want to
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  Speaker 2: know why.
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  Speaker 1: Pretty sure the answer I'll probably get is that either
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  Speaker 1: I learned it from my father that it's a man thing,
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  Speaker 1: That it's supposed to be glorified for that and a
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  Speaker 1: woman can't be glorified for that.
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  Speaker 2: Or the fact that I learned from my homeboys the
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  Speaker 2: same thing. That's just something that we really.
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  Speaker 1: Have to take into perspective and realize that men and
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  Speaker 1: women are the same.
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  Speaker 2: We can do what we want. This is our lives.
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  Speaker 1: We can use our sex the way we want to.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, there's nothing wrong with it. But then again,
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  Speaker 1: this is not just the first time that we've seen
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  Speaker 1: this stuff, right? I mean, we do have a history
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  Speaker 1: of slut shaming. And it goes all the way back
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  Speaker 1: to the old days.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to call it the old days. But I
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  Speaker 2: do have the information. So yeah, here we go.
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  Speaker 1: So this article is about a dress, the rap dress.
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  Speaker 1: And the title is because of sledge shaming, the rap
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  Speaker 1: dress still matters. Now, I know I was supposed to
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  Speaker 1: find the history of sledge shaming, but it was a
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  Speaker 1: little bit hard to find. But then I found this
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  Speaker 1: article and it is amazing. This was posted by the aura.
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  Speaker 1: I hope I said your name right. She is the
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  Speaker 1: author of I Am Not a Slut, Slut Shaming and
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  Speaker 1: the Age of the Internet. And it was posted on
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  Speaker 1: July 14th, 2015. Now, basically this rap dress is over
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  Speaker 1: four decades old, but it still matters in today's environment,
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  Speaker 1: today's society. You know, how people think on, you know,
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  Speaker 1: what a girl wears. You know, is it slutty? Is
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  Speaker 1: it provocative? I mean, is it really sexy? Is it
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  Speaker 1: really supposed to be this way of the female body?
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  Speaker 1: There's just so much in this article that all of
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  Speaker 1: you just have to get the chance to read it.
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  Speaker 2: So the link will be in the description box below
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  Speaker 2: for all of you to read. When it comes down
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  Speaker 2: to sex, just know that it is freedom.
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  Speaker 1: You have the power to do whatever you want with
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  Speaker 1: your body, your mind, your soul, your heart.
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  Speaker 2: No one else can tell it for you. The way
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  Speaker 2: you express yourself, this is you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to be the one to be like, she
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  Speaker 1: can do whatever she wants. It's her sex.
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  Speaker 2: Just do what you want. I'm not going to judge
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  Speaker 2: you for it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty much going to find it sexy, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to judge you for it. This is me
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  Speaker 1: and my honest nature about sex, alright? You can do
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  Speaker 1: whatever you want and just live your life and be happy,
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  Speaker 1: because sex is freedom. So now I have some questions
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  Speaker 1: for you. Number one, have you ever been slut shamed?
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  Speaker 1: Number two, have you ever slut shamed somebody else? Number three,
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  Speaker 1: how do you feel when you hear someone else slut
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  Speaker 1: shaming another human being? Let me know what you guys
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