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The Single Life Season 5 Episode 1 "The Art of the Love Bomb" · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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  Speaker 1: Hi Valentine's. My name is Chris Farah. Welcome to Vanity
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  Speaker 1: Fair with Chris, and I am pumped to give you
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  Speaker 1: a brand new season of a brand new show I've
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  Speaker 1: never talked about on this the most holiest of weeks
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  Speaker 1: of love and whatnot, but also super Bowl happened, but
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  Speaker 1: I get to talk about ninety day The Single Life.
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  Speaker 1: This is season five, episode one, Art of the Love Bomb.
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  Speaker 1: I really am very excited to do this because obviously
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  Speaker 1: I've talked about the fact that I got to go
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  Speaker 1: to the holiday party, and when I got to go
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  Speaker 1: to the holiday party in December in New York for
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  Speaker 1: nine at a fiance, they basically had the entire cast
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  Speaker 1: of The Single Life there. Now, I sort of had
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  Speaker 1: pieced that together a little bit because why would certain
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  Speaker 1: people be there in that other but also even saying
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  Speaker 1: that there weren't like all of the Single Life cast
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  Speaker 1: members there. So now that I've gotten to spend some
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  Speaker 1: face like face to face time with people to be
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  Speaker 1: able to see what's happening in their lives me, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of exciting. I still don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: like friends with anyone, but I do feel like I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to have empathy for people, and I will get
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  Speaker 1: into that.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Having said that the Super Bowl happened, I didn't watch
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  Speaker 1: pig surprise. I am currently moving. I am in the
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  Speaker 1: process of moving. It's basically going to happen in the
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  Speaker 1: next seventy three hours, seventy four hours, seventy two hours,
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  Speaker 1: that's what it is. A couple give or take a
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  Speaker 1: couple of hours, as I get the police cleaned up,
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  Speaker 1: get the movers to move my apartment from one place,
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  Speaker 1: the place that I'm in now to the new place.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm a little all over the place literally, but
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  Speaker 1: excited nonetheless. And it does seem like a beautiful new
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  Speaker 1: week for many different reasons. So listen, if you're single
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  Speaker 1: or if you are attached, this week is going to
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  Speaker 1: be great Valentine's Day or not. However, I did watch
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  Speaker 1: parts of the halftime show, because you know, that's besides listen. Obviously,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a big football person. I do like watching basketball,
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  Speaker 1: but then if we're not gonna even talk about sports.
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  Speaker 1: Super Bowl for me for so long was just, oh,
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  Speaker 1: what friends of mine are in commercials? And boy would
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  Speaker 1: I have loved to have been in that commercial. But
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  Speaker 1: I do you know, I don't feel like I necessarily
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  Speaker 1: am even in that space now so much, although if
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  Speaker 1: I have any friends that did them, God bless you.
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  Speaker 1: But at the same time, you know, obviously bad bunny happened,
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  Speaker 1: and I was sent this very funny thread, just like
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  Speaker 1: a little line, so I wanted to shut it out.
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  Speaker 1: This is from my friend Becky sent this to like
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of my comedy girlfriends. But this thread is
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  Speaker 1: from MEA Taylor, who said no guillotine in existence could
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  Speaker 1: take away the head I would give that man in
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  Speaker 1: regards to bad money, And so I lolled for a
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  Speaker 1: long time. Tikihi. I liked it anyway, Oh my goodness. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the Single Life here's the thing. Obviously, you know I
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  Speaker 1: watch None of a Fiance. It's why you listen to
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  Speaker 1: this podcast because you assume that I have like some
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  Speaker 1: knowledge of the entire franchise, and I do. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: really ever kept up with the Single Life watching episodes.
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  Speaker 1: It's not really hard to keep up with like what's
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  Speaker 1: happening case by case if I want to like an
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  Speaker 1: individual storylines, which is why Single Life was never really
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  Speaker 1: important to me. The same thing kind of like with diaries,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, if something big happens in
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  Speaker 1: any of their lives, I find out about it just
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  Speaker 1: through social media. So I haven't ever spent a lot
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  Speaker 1: of time watching single life or diaries, but here is
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  Speaker 1: the time, you know, never say ever. At the same time,
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  Speaker 1: this first episode I was, I was pleasantly happy with
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  Speaker 1: even with some sort of like cynical aspects I came
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  Speaker 1: in with. So anyway, let me let me break it down.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to start with what seems like two single
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  Speaker 1: life people and Julia, and they be you know, they're
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  Speaker 1: a trifecta if you will, of ladies, and it's Liz, Sophie,
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  Speaker 1: and Julia. So Sophie we know, or at least I know,
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  Speaker 1: is friends with Julia because of Hunt for Love. Sophie
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  Speaker 1: had to give us the fact that she had like
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  Speaker 1: a bad situation with Liz, like on a tell all,
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  Speaker 1: but that they had gotten over it and now they're
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  Speaker 1: friends now. Sometimes when the franchise wants me to believe
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  Speaker 1: that people are friends, it's hard for me. Like I
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  Speaker 1: do believe Sophie and Julia are friends, but I just
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  Speaker 1: need to feel like Sophie and Liz's vibe maybe like
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  Speaker 1: are the same level. They just don't seem like they
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  Speaker 1: would ever hang out. And here's the thing. Julia is
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  Speaker 1: funny because Julie doesn't present as like the craziest party girl,
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  Speaker 1: but she is. But she is anyway. So we're in
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  Speaker 1: Costa Rica with obviously Julia, Liz, and Sophie, and Liz
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  Speaker 1: wears like this really cute gravel green bikini with gold hardware,
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  Speaker 1: and Sophie has a two piece, and I mean, listen,
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  Speaker 1: Sophie looks different, right, Sophia looks different. So Sophie, you know,
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  Speaker 1: likes plastic surgery. She's not the only one of the franchise,
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  Speaker 1: but she looked so different that when I was kind
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  Speaker 1: of like staring at her for what felt like five minutes,
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  Speaker 1: but let's just say in honesty, it was probably like
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  Speaker 1: twenty six seconds. And then I was like, okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: first and first and foremost, she's gotten veneers for sure,
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  Speaker 1: that they are larger teeth that she's holding into her
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  Speaker 1: mouth that has thusly changed the structure of her face.
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  Speaker 1: Now that might not be the only thing. She could
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  Speaker 1: have also gotten, like a jaw. I think she might
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  Speaker 1: have gotten like some jaw filler or you know whatnot
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  Speaker 1: the girls are loving that, you know. So yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: and she also was young when we first met her,
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  Speaker 1: so like she looks different. But yeah, specifically her teeth
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  Speaker 1: are big, are big and white, you know, they're just
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  Speaker 1: it's that thing. They are wildly big. And it's the
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  Speaker 1: thing about reality stars that like plastic surgery is that
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  Speaker 1: when they weren't on the show, they like plastic surgery,
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  Speaker 1: and then when they get on the show, billions of
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  Speaker 1: things happen. A if you were already like super judgmental
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  Speaker 1: about your looks, now it's not just you, it's like
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  Speaker 1: the entire world that watches you, and who knows what
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  Speaker 1: any of those people look like, and they're coming to
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  Speaker 1: your page and saying whatnot. And also, b you now
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  Speaker 1: have access to people who are willingly throwing free fillery
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  Speaker 1: your way, free surgeries can't wait, cannot wait for you
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  Speaker 1: to just do like one collaborative post being like I
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  Speaker 1: just had my consultation with doctor bluebde blop blop and
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  Speaker 1: can't wait for my new breasts surgery tummy tuck bluff.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it's like that's what it is
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  Speaker 1: right now. So all of that to say, like I'm
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  Speaker 1: not shaming her. But you watch that and you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you watched Sophie when she came on screen,
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  Speaker 1: you were like, why does she look different? And so
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  Speaker 1: my job is to be like, oh, veneers, if not
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  Speaker 1: more vaneers, though you know, God bless so and she's nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously a lot of almost every bachelor, I tell you this,
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  Speaker 1: the glow up from bachelor or baucherette contestant to actually
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  Speaker 1: actually bachelor or bachelorette almost always includes the dropping of
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  Speaker 1: pounds botox fillers, veneers and a spray tan hair highlights extensions. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so now when we see Julia, were also like, where
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  Speaker 1: are we in space and time? Because we know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: as I've said, you can follow people's lives through their
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  Speaker 1: own social media. So when the timelines of certain shows
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  Speaker 1: like come up, it's always a little confusing and you
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  Speaker 1: don't always have to watch them. So when this comes up,
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  Speaker 1: she's doesn't seem super pregnant, right, Like she doesn't mean
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  Speaker 1: like if she is pregnant, she doesn't seem like she's
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  Speaker 1: far along. She has to tell us that she isn't
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  Speaker 1: that she is pregnant, that she's not telling anyone, and
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  Speaker 1: that no one's going to somehow ask why she's drinking
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  Speaker 1: what obviously is just pure pineapple juice while the people
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  Speaker 1: are drinking really yummy margarita's. I will tell you that
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  Speaker 1: the thing that makes me arguably the most jealous of
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  Speaker 1: any like intake of food or drink on any reality show,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, I'll talk about food, but I
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  Speaker 1: never really want to eat the food that's like on TV.
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  Speaker 1: But almost always I always want like the yummy tropical
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  Speaker 1: drink or margarita that has just been given to the
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  Speaker 1: reality show contestant, like from a server. Maybe it has
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  Speaker 1: taheena on the rim, maybe it's a beveled glass or
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  Speaker 1: etched in some way, but you can tell there's a
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  Speaker 1: heaviness to it. If it's in a pool, then you like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I like, would I love to just
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  Speaker 1: be like in a pool just like fully handed a
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  Speaker 1: skinny guava margarita on the rocks with to heen and
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  Speaker 1: salt on the ream. I obviously would. I obviously would.
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  Speaker 1: I mean obviously a little coconut water, you know what
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  Speaker 1: you want to do in there? Anyway, I really would
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  Speaker 1: love a vacation anyway, So I'm moving so anyway, uh,
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  Speaker 1: Liz gets to have a little of her single lifeness
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  Speaker 1: in this too, because we are going to be in
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  Speaker 1: Costa Rica specifically for Sophie. Sophie has met Pedro and
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  Speaker 1: she's been talking to Pedro, and Pedro has fallen in
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  Speaker 1: I mean, complete amore with her, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: And then as Julia says, she knows that Sophie likes
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  Speaker 1: Latinian men, Latinian Latinian men. Now when Julia says things
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  Speaker 1: wrong in English, it's adorable. Liz likes older men. We know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why she was with the person that
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  Speaker 1: was she was with normally, but that is what what happened.
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  Speaker 1: We have. I just always assumed she did it for
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  Speaker 1: the fame. And but when I met Liz, I really
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  Speaker 1: liked her personality. So I don't have to tell you
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give her a second shot. Okay, she seems nice.
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  Speaker 1: So uh. Basically, Sophie's version of like how she came
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  Speaker 1: to talk to Pedro is fake, fake. This is what
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  Speaker 1: she says. She said that she found Pedro on social
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  Speaker 1: media and she did not know him, did not know him,
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  Speaker 1: didn't know what show he was from, the very show
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  Speaker 1: that she's on the same show that you're on. Didn't
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  Speaker 1: know that he had his own spinoff, The Family shoun,
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  Speaker 1: didn't know it that he had harvested the American daughter,
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  Speaker 1: I mean daughter Dollar. He actually harvested both the American
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  Speaker 1: daughter and Dollar. Sophie was like me, next, Sophie, how
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  Speaker 1: dare you, girl? How dare you try and tell us
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  Speaker 1: that you didn't know who he was and that you
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  Speaker 1: just like found him on social media. That's why I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm going to be at a holiday party with
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  Speaker 1: all of you guys at this point, you could be like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, honestly I was at like I was
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  Speaker 1: right after we had shot, right after we had done
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  Speaker 1: Single Life, I had gone to a tell all party
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  Speaker 1: and he was there. I mean, I don't know or
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  Speaker 1: I knew that he was on the show, and he
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  Speaker 1: reached out to me, he knew that I was on
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  Speaker 1: the show. I mean, it is just the idea that
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  Speaker 1: she was just scrolling and found him and then just
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  Speaker 1: so happens, by like pure serendipity, that this one hot
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  Speaker 1: man is also a cast member on the very reality
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  Speaker 1: show that she's on. It's just I'm not THEMB girl.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, he Okay, Hou's Claire, Sophie. Every time that
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  Speaker 1: you are on TV, you need to like give us
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  Speaker 1: a little fucking Claire update, Claire date, Claire update. It's
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  Speaker 1: not so much that you aren't interesting. I do find
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  Speaker 1: her interesting. And by the way, I like Sophie. I
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  Speaker 1: like her voice, Like I've always liked Sophie's voice. It's
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  Speaker 1: obviously real soft, but it's also like so funny because
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  Speaker 1: I always like loold how different her voice was from
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  Speaker 1: her mother in so many ways. A the accent, be
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  Speaker 1: the tone, you know, all of it. I like Sophie.
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  Speaker 1: I think that she has like a demereness and a
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  Speaker 1: sweetness to her. I do think that she might have
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  Speaker 1: might have issues. I do need to know what's happening
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  Speaker 1: with Claire. Claire is a character. She's a character, and
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  Speaker 1: like I need, I need Claire to be on the season,
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  Speaker 1: like she's gonna have to call her. And here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: If Sophie's like no bitch, Claire's you know, very toxic
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  Speaker 1: and I don't want to talk to her anymore. Great,
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  Speaker 1: but I want to know that, like as you know Julia,
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  Speaker 1: because Julia is my friend. I'm trying to pass off
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  Speaker 1: Julia as one of my best friends, so as Julia knows.
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  Speaker 1: So I could have a conversation with Julia on camera.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not talking to Claire right now. She's she doesn't
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  Speaker 1: call even anymore. She's living in Kasmania with this guy
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  Speaker 1: named Dylan. He likes to eat kangaroo. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I don't know. Could you imagine I could?
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  Speaker 1: So Basically, Sophie recounts that she had told Pedro like
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  Speaker 1: what her ideal first date is, and then okay, this
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  Speaker 1: is I find this wildly fascinating because every part of
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  Speaker 1: her relationship with Pedro is something that I've never experienced
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  Speaker 1: and never like never I feel like will experience, which
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  Speaker 1: for some ways and you know, is fine, and also
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  Speaker 1: some ways would just like a moment of it because
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  Speaker 1: it's the opposite. But let me just say this. So
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  Speaker 1: she says that she's talking to Pedro and they're talking
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  Speaker 1: about meeting up for the first time, and she's like,
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  Speaker 1: I told him where I places I'd like to go out,
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  Speaker 1: and gifts I like to get and things. Okay, one
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  Speaker 1: time I went on one date and a guy gave
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  Speaker 1: me one pair of sex dice, which isn't a gift.
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  Speaker 1: That like makes you feel well, it's not definitely a
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  Speaker 1: two K necklace. It's not a necklace that's two thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 1: It's a gift that's like someone's like, well, can we
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  Speaker 1: do this later, and you're like, oh cool, it's not awkward.
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  Speaker 1: But in this situation, Pedro took her out and then
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  Speaker 1: gave her a two thousand dollars necklace, and she was like,
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  Speaker 1: it's a lot. That's a lot. But something about Sophie
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  Speaker 1: is transactional and the way that she looks if you
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  Speaker 1: this is how it is to me if you are
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  Speaker 1: a man that wants a Sophie. I've always assumed this
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  Speaker 1: that you know, you have to pay for Sophie. So
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  Speaker 1: when men like and that's for men who look like Pedro.
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  Speaker 1: You know, like if someone like Gino wanted to be
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  Speaker 1: with Sophie, like you can't, you know, you literally but
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  Speaker 1: if you unless you were like Jeff Bezos, and you
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  Speaker 1: would have to be paying her so much all the time,
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  Speaker 1: everything she wanted. But she just gets to move in
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  Speaker 1: this space of like I have robotically put together a
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  Speaker 1: contraption that is so ideal and attractive, a model of
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  Speaker 1: girlfriend so attractive to some men that upon seeing me,
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  Speaker 1: they immediately know that I'm expensive and that in order
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  Speaker 1: to get me, it's an installment membership like monthly plan,
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  Speaker 1: and you have a buy in and then you keep
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  Speaker 1: up with those things. It's not that I want that,
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  Speaker 1: I surely don't. I just want to be able to,
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  Speaker 1: like somehow move the needle away from men just being.
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  Speaker 2: Really lazy with me or avoidant of me, or treating
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  Speaker 2: me like I have no specialness in me, you know,
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  Speaker 2: like or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Like I wonder how, and I don't want to. But
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing. I'm like, Okay, I wonder how to
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  Speaker 1: just move the needle a little bit, But I also
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  Speaker 1: don't want to get so much copious plastic surgery all
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  Speaker 1: over myself that it's like there's bruises and drains all
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  Speaker 1: the goddamn time. You know what I'm saying. It's just
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  Speaker 1: so interesting, I uh, you know, obviously, but I'm happy
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  Speaker 1: for her. And it's funny because she wants to be
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  Speaker 1: treated well, but up unto a point and then it
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  Speaker 1: becomes obviously too much an icky and I don't blame her,
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  Speaker 1: but anyway, let's get into it. So she tells the story,
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  Speaker 1: and she's now hung up with him a couple of times,
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  Speaker 1: and now she's come to Costa Rica with a girl's trip.
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  Speaker 1: And it's also she drops his sister's birthday that she's
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  Speaker 1: gonna go to. When I fought that was nuts, like
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  Speaker 1: and then so then I'm like, well, what was this conversation?
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  Speaker 1: Because if I went out twice with someone and then
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  Speaker 1: they invited me to their sister's birthday, I think I
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  Speaker 1: would be like, in your hometown of a different country,
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  Speaker 1: I think I would have picked up in the fact
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  Speaker 1: that maybe this was serious. I don't know who's she
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  Speaker 1: gets to have her friends with her, that's good. She,
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming is paying for her or her own hotel,
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  Speaker 1: just kidding. It's production. He is putting together a van,
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  Speaker 1: and what we realize from Pedro is that he is
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  Speaker 1: offering this van to her as like his token of
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  Speaker 1: appreciation and taking care of her, like from his masculine place.
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  Speaker 1: While she's on the island. They give him literally bad
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  Speaker 1: bunny esque b music so much showed that it's like
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  Speaker 1: Spanish music that literally says you a bad bunny. Mala,
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  Speaker 1: mala mala. And I was like, oh my god, it's
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  Speaker 1: a little little on the nose. It's a little on
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  Speaker 1: the natties nise. Okay, So he has friends, which is great.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he looks great, he's doing well. You know,
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  Speaker 1: he's living in Atlanta, but obviously he's back in Costa Rica.
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  Speaker 1: His plan, his friends plan to meet Sophie and the
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  Speaker 1: girls at the club later. And they're like, yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: every time that you just get with a girl, you
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  Speaker 1: just like jump in. You're so romantic. And he's like,
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  Speaker 1: what are you talking about? As he decorates this fan
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  Speaker 1: with roses, like like a bed like roses, like decorates
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  Speaker 1: the veil like you know, and candles like little key
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  Speaker 1: candles that are electric. But like like it's a bed,
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  Speaker 1: like it's a sexy bed. It's like a it's not
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  Speaker 1: a sprinter van. It's you know, just a van. It's
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  Speaker 1: a nice van. I mean, I'm so happy about it.
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  Speaker 1: Then he later is also decorating himself. He is getting
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: himself ready for the club. He is trimming. He is
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: trimming downstairs. He's trimming little poppy I think, like a
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: beard trimmer or you know, right now I'm using like
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: one of those little like I have, like a little
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: like stick trimmer. I think it's supposed to be like
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: something you stick up your nose. I've been using that
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: to just like go in and just like trim downstairs,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: and I just find it so nice. I like just
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: my preer for me. If you want opinions, if you
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: can just laser or electrolysis the majority of your life
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: and then just keep up with like a little beard trimmer,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: it's so nice. It's so easy. Anyway, he wants to
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: get married and have kids. He's like, I feel like
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna happen. Obviously wish santell with
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: this backstory, and it didn't happen. And I'm like thirty three,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: and I want it, like I want the house. I
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: want the you know. And it's it's always. Let me
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: say this. It's it's interesting when you hear people say
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: that he's like traditional, you know, I can see him
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: wanting that. Some men say it when they think that
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: people want to hear it, and some men truly want that.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I some people want it, like you know, and some
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: people don't want it. I don't have to say men.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: It's interesting. I think that, like probably for a majority
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: of people that are a little bit either way. Definitely,
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: people are like absolutely not, And if you really want kids,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: there is a part of you that has to understand
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: it might not happen, you know, for a variety of reasons,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: and it's so hard to deal with. But at the
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: same time, radical acceptance of where life brings you and
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: where you and what you can do in the present
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: moment is just like such an important emotionally intelligent trait
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: to have, but also like survival mechanism, you know, I
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: think about that a lot, like if you have hard
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: and fast needs without taking into account like something more
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: important like how you feel or your just own happiness,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: or just like sharing connection with others, if that's not
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: more important than something like having children, you might find
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: yourself depressed or sad if that doesn't work out, or
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: if it works out and it's not like you planned life.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Shit is so difficult. I like single life though, I
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: on paper, like Sophie and Pedro makes sense. And also
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: it really makes me feel like Hunt for Loves could
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: be like ready a ready part of the franchise, because
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: single life kind of feels like what could happen after
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Hunt for Love If people meet people like in those
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: situations and are in relationships that then expire, because I
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: again don't love the fact that we were supposed to
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: believe that they met online. I would have loved them
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: to have met in situation that we watched, and then
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: for this single life to happen after that, because single
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: life is basically happily ever after for single people. Okay,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: So going back, going back, we to Liz. You know,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: we know that she obviously had the situation with Big D,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: but then she got cheated on by that guy Jason
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: that like had stood up to Ed and that sucked,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: like he had a whole other girlfriend and he wasn't
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: there for her. But unfortunately she also I had known
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: one thing about this, but then she laid like another
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: piece of the puzzle and I did not know that
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: bad about her. I unfortunately knew that Liz had gone
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: through like a health cancer journey and that, you know,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: is so difficult and scary, and she's so young, and
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: my heart goes out to people that have to deal
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: with cancer. I wish we could just be gone with it.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: At the same time, she's like, you know, how I
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: fucking found out about the cancer. I had a miscarriage
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: with that asshole Jason, And so she's like, and so
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I was like happy about that because then I found
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: out and I was like, oh my god, Liz is glowing.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Liz looks so different in every way. Like obviously she's
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: lost weight, so it's not just the losing weight, you know,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: from the ed situation, but Liz's eyes look different, like
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I do love a lighter hair, you know, like she
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: really seems to be some like she really seems to
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: have like light and joy within her. Their happiness is like,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: you know, spewing out of her. And so even if
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Sophie and her like don't seem like the best of
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: some friends, Sophie's energy is low. She's a low energy girl,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: you know, like she's not super funny, she's not super
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: you know, jovial, like that's obviously Julia. Sophie is hot
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: as hell, you know, like she's she is very attractive,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: specifically in like the male gaze, and beauty is beauty.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: So I'm not judging her, like god bless, you know,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: like I don't know what that life's like, but she is.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: And so she you know, doesn't have to be like funny.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I'm sure being funny or being too loud goes wildly
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: against the entire image she's crafted, which you know, speaks
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: to like probably why we have different situations anyway. So yeah,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: but Julia is loud and Liz is fun, like Liz
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: is fun and engaging. So I'm happy that Liz is there.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: I just yeah, I'm like, I just don't know if
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: you guys are really close friends, but I want I
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: want Liz to have fun, and Liz wants to have fun.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Liz is like, I want to meet man, I want
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: to like get out there, and also she's getting paid
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: to be on vacation. Go Liz. She wears like this muted,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: cute body chndress and she's like out there to like
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: have some fun. Sophie's like, I mean I clubbed two
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: days before coming to the DR. They're like, oh, okay,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: well do min in Republic? Now? I think I might
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: have said she was in Costa Rica before, but I
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: think I might have messed up, and I'm so sorry.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I think that they were in I thought they said
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Costa Rica before, like I don't know if they had
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: flown in and then went to the DR after that. Okay,
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: you know what, my love, it's I know that I
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: know where. I know where Pedro's from so I think
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I had just written the wrong thing down. So here's
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: the thing. Sophie and all the girls are now in
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: their club attire, and Sophie's wearing like, oh my god,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: this number that really accentuates like how small that waste is.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: And I mean, Pedro talking about Sophie's body is like, well,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: it's exactly what you think. It's exactly what she wanted.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: He's like, look, I saw Sophie and I was like, hair, lips, tits, ass,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: then waist. I saw it all and I was like,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: she is fine, and yeah, those are the exact moments
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: that he you know, he she wanted to hit I.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: You know what it is. It's always there's It's an
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: interesting thing to me when beauty for for the male
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: gaze lies in like to me, the compartment of like
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: mildly cartoonish and just in how big things are? You know,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: because then where is the line, like where is the
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: line from you know her to like Amanda Lapoor, you know,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: like where is it's funny like Jessica Rabbit, you know,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: like Betty Boop, you know, Sophie or Kim Kardashian or
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: this kind of extreme when it comes to like silhouette
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: and male idealistic beauty traits. It's just yeah, it's it's
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: funny because I know that there's like it takes all
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: kinds to make a world, and Sophie has like picked
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: her lane and she gets men who, like you know,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: obviously are like little fishies to her bait. It's interesting
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: when Pedro was like, yeah, I want to be with her,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: like I want to make her my girlfriend after this
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: because I want to be like, why do you think
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: that she's going to be like a good mother to
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: your kids? And I'm not saying Sophie wouldn't be, but like,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: what is it? Where does the connect happen between? Like
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: this person is otherworldly, a sexual goddess, and I want,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you know, to be with her, and she is so
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: so hot to this is like my wife. Cause I
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: think that some men have like different versions of what
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: that means, and I think some men don't. And I
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: wonder for Sophie, like what her day in and day
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: out interaction interactions with men are really Like she must
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: truly get a version of pretty privilege. That is why
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: that phrase exists. She must be just idolized in certain
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: like transactions like, you know, like when she gets her
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: car changed, or you know, her oil changed in her car,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: or when she's getting her groceries bagged. It must be
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: like a situation where the way that she looks and
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: like the way that she's manufactured her aesthetic genetically drives
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: certain people bananas. Anyway, But I think that's like there,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: you know, I think that she's not the oly. Yeah,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: there's a whole science to it, and I feel like
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: it's so interesting to watch it play out, Like the
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: sociology of it is fascinating. So okay, So basically, she's
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: wearing a hotty toddy dress. He's obsessed with it and
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: he cannot wait to see her, and she like, you know,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: looks great. Julia's wearing a little like play suit. I
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: already told you what Liz wears. They're all super cute.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: They get into the van. The van is decked out,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: and Julia is so funny because she's like.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: Candle in a car, ca, candle in a car? Can, uh,
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: there's a candle in the car. She cannot get over
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: the fact there's candles in the car. It overwhelms her,
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: It blows her mind. She's like, why would this person
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: do it. It's absolutely too much. Sophie is like, gets
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: the eck, gets the hardcore. Liz is trying to make
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: it better because Liz.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: Is like, this is nice, This would be nice if
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: someone did this to me, because and even Sophie is
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: like trying. It's hard when someone is doing too much.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: It's difficult to be like, oh no, this is making
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: me get the ick, it's making me go inward and
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I suddenly can't be excited or I can't be attracted,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: you know, or I suddenly feel like a certain way,
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: And the truth of the matter is too much too
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: soon can do that. But at the same time, if
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: someone starts to like come on a little strong, and
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: you've like hung out with them after a while and
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: you're not into it, I think it's at the end
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: of the day, like the telltale sign that you guys
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: aren't supposed to be together. I think that coming on
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: too strong in the very beginning, like I said, is
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: never good. But as people get to know each other,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: if someone's energy starts to pick up and your energy doesn't,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: it's just like, well, that's a great opportunity to check
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: in and be like, well, I guess not the checking
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: in of how you feel in relationships is so difficult.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: First of all, can you hear me? There's like literally
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: trash cans coming right now. I hope if I say
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: this right now, because this is like not sponsored or whatever.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: This doesn't like end up in your algorithm, but whatever,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: God bless, I randomly got Instagram ads or this like
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: somadic matchmaking speed dating service where it's like a speed
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: dating thing where you go to an event and instead
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: of it being like sitting down and just like conversations,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: it's like you have meaningful, so madic experiences with people,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: like trust falls, or like staring at each other in
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: their eyes for a long time, or like a breathing exercise,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: or like holding hands or something where you have to
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: not talk and somehow access like other parts of your
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: body and your nervous system to truly either make a
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: connection with someone or at least get yourself attuned to
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: how you feel with someone else around you. And so
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I'm like somewhat fascinated by it, not so much that
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: I think I'm going to meet someone at one of
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: these events, but just so the practice of seeing how
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: I feel next to someone, because I think I get
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: over stimulated, and I can like just talk a lot,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: and I think that I can let my mind just
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: like jump from thought to thought, and in doing so,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: I tend to like not pay attention to again how
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I feel or how someone else is making me feel,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: and how like how attentive they either are like energetically
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: or not. And I think it could be like a
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: really great, great practice because it almost seems like the
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: opposite of phone culture, scrolling culture, or like dating app
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: culture anyway, So I just have you guys gone so
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: now Having said that, if you have gone to anything
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: like that, this one's called the feels, but I'm sure
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: there's other things like that. Tell me. Also, thank you
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: so much for something. Also give me five stars. Okay,
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: back to business. All right, So, yeah, she's she's she's
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: not into it, but god bless at one point, ain't
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Julia's like it's nanny nanny, And then Sophie has to
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: be like, I know how to speak Julian who's trying
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: to say naughty naughty, and Julia is so super cute.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: And also Sophie's like high class, you know, non rhotic
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: English accent is lovely to hear naughty naughty, Okay. So
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: Sophie gets to the club and she gives Pedro an
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: awkward side hug, and he is cognizant of it, and
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: not just him his friends. Villa is one of his friends.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: Villa's cute. You know who thinks Hila's cute, Liz, And
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: we're like, yep, Liz and Villa, we're into it. He
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: I mean Pedro again is like, she's stunning. She looks stunt.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: You are wildly gorgeous. She's like, thanks, you look good.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: She does say you look good anyway, how nice? Okay,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: So Villa's there, like we said, uh, there's also Genesis Rafael,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: someone named Darling. And Sophie is just like, the expectation
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: of me is too high, Like it's too much. It
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: feels like everyone's staring at me like I'm on a
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: job interview. Like she's also a shy girl already. Like again,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: she's not coming out there like Julia, you know, like
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: there's a cartwheel involved as she like comes on stage
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: and you know, jokes, she's like, and she looks the
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: way she does, so she's a beautiful girl. And so
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: again everyone's like judging her. She knows it to think
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: about whether Pedro thinks that this hot girl is actually hot,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: you know, or whatever she is afraid these people are
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: going to think which is true. Like the unfortunate thing
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: of being gorgeous and or beautiful or whatever is that
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: you kind of have to consider whether people still think
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: you are presently like because there seems to be like
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: a fickleness with beauty and or love like that it
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: can change, which I think, like when you read a
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: lot of like the Marilyn Monroe letters and diaries, that
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: fear or that like unspoken you know, well she spoke it,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: but I mean, you know if she wrote it, that
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: just kind of like pervasive feeling that the ground's gonna
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: fall from underneath you, like some weird imposter syndrome that
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: people think that you are beautiful or sexy or gorgeous,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: but that they'll rub their eyes and blink and look
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: sideways and suddenly see you differently. It's just like a nightmare.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm assuming or just that age happens to
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you and then you wake up and suddenly you're not.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I mean, who knows the budget of things? You know,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Like it's why you can't, you know, put all your
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: stock in that why you got to put your eggs
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: in multiple baskets, little bunnies. Okay, So basically again, Liz
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: and Villa look like they're going to have some fun.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: Pedro and Sophie end up having some alone time and
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: seeing if they can get back to like a flirty space.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: And Julia is just I don't even know, like hanging
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: out with other people, you know, like like do they
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: know that Julia's pregnant and married? Do those people? Julia?
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I love to I would love to know, like where
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Brandon is in this very moment in time, And the
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: answer is like with his parents in the hot tub,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I guess. Okay, so let's move on to kim Bally.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: So kim Bally is doing laser tag with a gentleman
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: named Javier in a blue shirt. You know, she gives
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: us a little bit of her backstory, which we've been knowing.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: But basically, if you don't remember when she was nineteen
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: she enlisted in the army, I don't remember her telling
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: us if she was a sharp shooter then, but I'm
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: glad she reminded us she was a sharp shooter. And
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: what However, through the course of this story, I feel
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: like we certainly get clarification of like what happened with
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Jamal's dad and all the things, I mean, not everything,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: but uh, we definitely get more information about that. Kim
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Bally feels so wildly different now than and she also
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: felt when we first met her kind of like Liz.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: Liz also had lost weight. Kim Bully has also gone
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: through like a health journey, so that's one part of it.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: But also a lightness of being, I mean, a joy
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: of being, you know, like they both have great highlights,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: you know, and they were both with in some ways
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: hard to deal with men. Also, they were both with
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: hard to deal with men that we the audience had
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: already seen on this show and had already known were nightmares.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: So when we met Kim Bully, we were like, girl,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: did you see Baby Girl Lisa and raw Dog and like,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: what are you talking about? What? So? But okay, but
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: we and by we I mean collectively the ninety day
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: audience liked Kim Bully one hund percent more than we
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: liked Baby Girl Lisa. Baby gir Liza never came back
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: to the franchise. Baby Girl Lisa looks a little bit
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: like the Lisa of Lisa and Danielle okay with Liz.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: We were again I said this already, we were like
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: curl big Ed. We've been seeing how big Ed treats
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: women and it's it's so horrific for you to have
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: access to that footage and sign up. Then what is
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: happening here? Like what is what is right from wrong?
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Do you know it?
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: But again, the women are back, They're living their lives
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: two point zero and I'm happy to have like a
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: fresh space to see how they're living and like give
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: myself some understanding of why they did what they did before.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: She's kind of flirting with this guy hobby Air. She
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: says that, well, you know, he's kind of handsome, but
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: she obviously like just getting her really handsome. And then
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: he says, you know, gracias, and she's like Danada, she
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: loves flavor.
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Then we get a scene with Jamal. Jamal and her
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: are obviously hanging out. He comes over to her house,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: He has no problem grocery shopping through her frigeration, grabs
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: a potato, she says, though things are kind of tense.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: At the holiday party, both people were there. Jamal again
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: is someone who came into the franchise having dated someone
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: who already saw in the franchise. Now it was a
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: different situation because he dated Veronica and Veronica was the
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: ex girlfriend of Tim, and Tim had come on the
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: franchise to date Jennifer. Okay, So then when I think
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: maybe it was a single life or happily of her
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: after who knows, I watched it, so I'm assuming it
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: was a happily of her after we watched what did
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I just say? Jamal and Veronica and in Jamal Veronica's story,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: I had the same reaction I normally do, which is
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: that if Jamal, who was already adjacent to the franchise,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: is suddenly on the franchise, I'm assuming this person wants
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: to be famous. And I also didn't buy the chemistry,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: sexual or romantic of their relationship. What I saw was, yes,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: a much younger man be like wishy washy whatever, too
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: cool cash to like, an an older lady who like
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: seemed heavily into it and was trying to get him
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: to admit or commit to a relationship, and he would
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: do neither. So to me, I was like, I don't
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: have an understand where why we're watching this. This is
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: not even a relationship. This feels like a bad feels
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: like a hinge communication that's happening on TV where you
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: guys are so not even on the same page of
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: being interested in each other. It's awkward. I say, hinge,
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: like you know, when you're just like walking, when you're
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: just like I don't know if you're on the app.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I will be honest, I want to rip myself from them,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I mean the process of doing so. But it didn't
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: even feel like they had made it to the stage
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: of dating. They were still talking. So at that point
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't have like any of like
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: truth or authenticity in Jamal's storyline in this to make
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: me like him, because I think that what makes me
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: connect with a person or a character, like there's always
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: like a moment of vulnerability that they show, or like
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: a moment of heart that they show, or like a
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: struggle or something real. It's like I need realness, like
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: I need authenticity or sincerity. What are they moving through
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: and like what do they know about themselves? And what
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: are they like learning about themselves and what are they
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: saying about themselves or this situation that either rings true
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: with me or makes me feel like they have a
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: soul about them. If those things don't happen, I'm usually
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: not going to be like a fan of yours and
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: fans a big word, you know what I'm saying. So Okay,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: So when I met Jamal at the holiday party, I
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: was like, hey, hey, hey, hi. I think that he
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: was like, what do you say about me? And I've
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: or maybe had asked that, or maybe I had offered
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: the fact that nothing horrible, but also nothing great. I
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: don't really know who you are. I don't know why
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: you're dating her, I don't know who your type is.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: You seem again, like I said, like you just are
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: unbothered moving through life, you know, like waiting to see
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: like what thing is going to spark an interest in
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: you before you act. So this Jamal, though we're getting
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: on this single life, already seems like a completely different Jamal,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: like someone who is sitting in like who they are,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: and like is willing and able to, like I don't know,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: talk about what's happening with themselves, isn't just putting up
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: weird kind of like bro esque walls of like yeah
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: whatever you know anyway, So I'm not making myself clear,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: but already I can tell that Jamal's relationship with his
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: mother is going to give us a different Jamal, and
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: a different Jamal will be like a to me, a
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: great one because it didn't seem like he was truly
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: affected enough by Veronica to showcase who his personality is,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: and we ended up getting kind of like a surface
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: level maybe like too cool for school Jamal that I
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: was just like not interested in, bored by, But I
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: like his mom. I like Kimberly. So Kimberly is working
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: now at a spa. I'm like so happy for her.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: She's like I love it. It's like, you know, I get
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: to just be super organized and I enjoy that from
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: the military thing. I'm like, okay, girl, But also, do
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: you get free facials and free massages because the good
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I mean a spa ritual like at a hotel. I'm
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: sure they're great there. I'm sure they do. Like all
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: the hydro facials, Oh my god. Half of me being
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: like I bet those highlights come from that spa. I
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: bet that, you know, like half of your disc glow
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: comes from the fact that you're getting like massages like this,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Kimberly is like getting it in like we've alreadyn me
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: hat hovey here, we're gonna meet some another guy named
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Bee later. Like Kimberly is on the prout, Kimberly is
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: hormonally active. She is getting it in and I'm really
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: happy about that. And I think if I was to
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: put anything on this, it's that I'm happy that she
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: works at a SPA because I think that it gives
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: her a lot of things. A a job that she likes,
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: be friends like Lily that she enjoys, see access to
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: beauty treatment like that make her feel good about herselfs.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: But also, like I said, d massage literally human touch,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and I think for like people that are single, I
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: think everyone deserves Okay, first all, everyone needs human touch, period.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Everyone needs human touch period. B No one's getting it
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: unless you're in a relationship or currently a baby or
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: like you know, I don't know, in a cuddle group.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: It's so rare that you get it. And so yeah,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: getting massage is important. Talk to Aneline about it, Okay,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Javon and Anneline, that's who I mentioned. So basically, after work,
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: she and Lily are going to go hang out and
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: Lily is like a lovely friend who truly cares about Kimberly.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: And in this little confessional, I'm like, you can tell
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: that Lily has like a genuine relationship with Kimberly. She's like, yeah,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: she's a great person, she does a lot for other people.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: She's never experienced love, and I want her to find it,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: you know, she deserves. Now. Kimberly saying that she's never
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: experienced love when she says that, I think that she
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: thinks that that's going to be like shocking, and I
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: think that probably for a lot of people, maybe it is,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: but to me it's not. I haven't And just because
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: Kimberly had one child or two or really or maybe more,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: you know, it doesn't mean that that has ever happened
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: for her. And I think that there's a certain kind
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: of like necessary time where the relationship is so symbiotic,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: where like the giving and taking and trust, communication and
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: comfort has been so has has had a version of
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: stability that allows someone to sit in the idea of
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: being in love, because if you were to break down
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: what love is, and I mean I wish, I mean
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I wish someone would for me because again I haven't
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: been in it. But to me, again, someone who hasn't
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: been in love, I'm assuming it's some version of a
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: one turning like a hormonal style love, sick crush, or infatuation.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: That is, you know, not is comes from both sides,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: not unrequitted. If that situation sustains through healthy communication and
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: emotional intelligence by both parties to an actual relationship. You know,
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: I think that that could be love. I also think
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: that maybe, and I do again, don't know. It could
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: be where you just are friends with someone and suddenly
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: some moment happens where you guys just either get struck
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: or wake up or settle in or just pick up
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: on the fact that you're in love. I have. I'm
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: assuming one of those things happen, or you're just slowly
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: casually dating, and then at one point one of you
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: thinks maybe that it is, and then later on the
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: other one maybe considers that it could be, but no
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: one says anything until one moment someone says something and
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: they're like, oh, yeah, me too. I mean, you know,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: it could be. I don't know why it hasn't happened
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: for Kimba. But the truth is, even if she said it,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: even if it's been said to her, upon reflection, upon
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: like introspection and time spent, it's I think incredibly brave
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: to be open and honest of what love is and
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: if you've experienced it. They go to Maverick's Beach Club
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: with her friends Laurie and Jody, and they go to
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: an event that is a pitch a friend. So basically
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: at a bar, there's going to be a PowerPoint presentation
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: where a host will have people come up and pitch
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: their friends. Now, the host of the event is this
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: super cute girl that looks like she's wearing like jeans
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: from like the two thousand eighths and it's like Cargo
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: Indigo blue baggy jeans, and she has I assume tailored
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: the waist to nip it in such a way that
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I was like, I love it. Give me those jeans.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: She looks great. So then they put up the Kimbally presentations.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Her friends go up and they're like, okay, get to
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: know Kimbali basics. First slide. She's fifty five years old.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: And then they say she's a true San Diego Native
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: and for some reason, they wrote San Diego Native as
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: one word no capitalization, Sandy GOGNIDIV. She says, true sandygnitdiv.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: You know, you're just like what happened to the space
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: bar was or just not enough I mean not enough
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: characters there. She's a military veteran and she in huge
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: huge cap says has a son, has a son?
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: End?
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, next line fun facts. Loves marine life and aquariums
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: marine the M and marine is capitalized for some reason.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: She's not afraid of a lot dot dot toad except
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: for snails. She loves big strong men, and she doesn't
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: suffer fools. They also then go on she's like, they
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: love cats. She loves cats. So anyone that you know
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: doesn't love cats, I mean yeah, even Kibili was like
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: you could have like held off the cat thing. Everyone
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: there is young. The youngest person that's forty three, you know,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: is a young forty three specific specifically because of what
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: I'm about to say next. Remember the first guy that
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: went up was forty three and she was like, no,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: that's too young. So she doesn't meet him in there
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: because again, no one is in her age range. But
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: she also gets a booty call text from someone she
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: says is named Be and she's like, I gotta go guys.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: BE is you know, texting me? And B is my
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: booty call? Yeah? Bee will always book like a fancy
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: hotel room because he has roommates and already and I can,
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: you know, obviously have a place where Jamal will just
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: come over at anytime trying to find a potato. And
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: it's funny to me because half of me is like, oh,
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: how fancy are these hotel rooms? Only because if he
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: can afford so many fancy hotel rooms, like why I
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: have roommates. But that's a very bitchy thing for me
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: to say. Okay, I'm not done though. So basically, she
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: goes over to bees. She has an LV that she's
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: carrying honey she loves at ELV. She goes over to
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: B and B is be is nice. B does not
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship. She obviously wants to
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: be in a relationship. She does this thing where she's like, hey, yeah,
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: I just came from this event. I just love that
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I can talk to you about things like this. You know, sorry,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: just put this mid up. And she's like, I when
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: did this pitch me event? And you know my single
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: friends are trying to get me, you know, to get
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. I love it. I can just like
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: not have you be jealous if I say, you know,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: how I'm being pitched to other man? How you're okay?
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Hearing man? He's like, yeah, baby, I am, and she's
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: like great, because what she really wants be to be
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: like is like, baby, why are you doing that? Like
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to be pitched to other men like
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: you are mune. Oh, well you all for me? But
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: you know what he doesn't say that he doesn't and
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: I want for her. I want him to, but but
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: he doesn't, you know, like, and that's annoying. He should,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: he absolutely should, she would do. She deserves it. So
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: basically they hold hands, then she takes a shower, then
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: they bone, and then she goes back the next morning,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: like walk a shame. By the way, this is B.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: She goes back walk a shame to her own home
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: and Jamal's there and she's like, it just came back
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: from Bee's house. And then she says that B is
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: forty four, and I want to you to know that
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: he is not, that he is not forty four. And
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: if he is forty four, then he has lived so
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: hard I can't believe he's alive. And not just because
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Bee is you know, has is black and therefore like
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: should look younger. He isn't forty four. The man that
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: like was at the pitch show that he was forty three,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: you know, looks twenty two in comparison to this forty four.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: You know, who's forty four? So guess what? No, So anyway,
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: God bless, Jamal and Kimberly are putting together, you know,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: like a piece of fron nurture. She needs to put together.
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: And Kimberly is already hinted at the fact that there
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: is tension between them and that there are secrets, and
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: we dive into what those secrets are. So Jamal's dad
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: and Kimberly were both in the military, and they obviously
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: were in a relationship off and on or whatnot. He
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: cheated on Kimberly a lot. They had a child together
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: early on in Kimberly's career. That child was named Larry,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: and she gives Larry up for adoption. Jamal's dad continues
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: to cheat on her, but she's still in a relationship
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: with him. She obviously gets pregnant again and that's Jamal.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: She never tells, and then, of course, you know, she
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: gets out of the army. We're not quite sure what's
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: happening with Jamal and Larry's dad, we catch up to
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: where we all now. We know that Jamal and Kimberly
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: have a very close relationship. A year ago, Larry, through
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: like my twenty three and me, reaches out and finds Kimbally,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: and so Kimberly, who has sat on the secret for
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: a long time, has to tell Jamal you know that
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: he has a full brother, a full older brother. Yeah,
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: and you know when Jamal hears this, he finds it devastating.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: He finds it devastating that like his closest like ally
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: in this world, like the person that he sees the most,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: his mother, who like looks in his eyes, like the
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: person that he spends the most time with, would have
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: and could have lied about something so like integral to
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: the family unit and in his life. And I think
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: it rocked him. And in a very real way. It's
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: like what I was saying before, like I would see
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: how would he's like a young man when you are
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: when you are human, like you're kind of feels like
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: you're constantly building your life on the truths that you
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: assume to be true, but that you tell yourself are true.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: Like in order to find our place in this world.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: It's like we're trying to like find our footing, you know,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: and there's so many ways, like what is the ground? Okay,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: what does that feel like? If that is the ground,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: then I can stand. Okay, then I can you know,
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: like move on from there. If I could put the
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: light out of the room, then I can see. It's
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: like you need to have certain like things to hold
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: on to, to grasps, to grasp And I think that
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: something like the way that you view your family though,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: your understanding of your family unit sort of gets put
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: into like the identity of who you are. So if
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: things are shaken or if truths are revealed, it can
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: really like shake up who you think you are and
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: what you thought was real. So I mean this part
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: for me, I was like Jamal, I would like a
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: need like a bunch more information for you from you,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: Like are you in therapy? What was it like for
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: you to meet Larry? You know, because we do get
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: this is all from Kimberly's point of view, so even
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: though Jamal's there, we do get a little bit from him.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: But like Kimberly's like, yeah, I hit Larry for so long.
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: So when I went to go meet Larry. I was
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: so happy because he was such a lovely, you know,
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: man that had his whole life together, and I knew
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: that he probably would not have been in such great
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: shape if I had raised him. Then Kimberly says that
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: she needs to have a deep talk with Jamal about
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: the other one. And I mean this becomes like wildly
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: intensely dramatic. I mean, it's quite a different place to
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: be than just like, oh I'm minniggbling. Was someone named
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: he Javier and money, you know, I'm going to a
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: pitch thing with my fun friends. It was a lot
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: of like real life, you know, like trauma, and I
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: was I didn't. I mostly just felt like it was
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: really brave of Kimberly and Jamal to like let it
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: be known. So I wonder if we're gonna meet Larry
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: obviously as a sister involved now I want to know more,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: but more will more so with KIMBALI I think Javier
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: was cute. If she wants to date him, I think
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: that someone really has to tell her that b is
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: not it. Kimberly, you live by yourself and you have
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: a job, want you deserve a man that lives by himself.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: And has a job and also wants to date you.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: B doesn't want to. I think that there is something
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: too jealousy. I can't imagine a world in which I
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: would want someone who I'm interested in telling me about
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: their sexploits and romantic things. I wouldn't. I cannot. I
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: would rather not. It doesn't make me feel good. It's
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: a waste of my time. If I want to be
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: with you, then it's a waste of my time for
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: you to like drown on about other interests than what
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: is happening here, you know. And so it's very telling
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: that he doesn't care. Also, the hotel didn't look that nice. Okay,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: so let's move on to Gino. Honey, Gino, Gino. I'm
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: it almost feels like okay, may say this way Gino
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: says it himself. Gina is like, I need to change
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: my pr image. I look like a whiny, sad, cheap, disturbed,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: you know, sugar daddy, but mad about being a sugar daddy.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: And I need to look like a fun hip does
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: fun things. Is exciting, man, And so the entire episode
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: is him trying to do that. But the best part
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: is when he's looking for bread. Okay, so here we start.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: He's at a spin class and he's spinning, and you
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: know he's doing it, Like, for instance, when I first
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: saw him on the spin bike, I was like, is
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: he going to even actually have the shoes that clip in?
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: Or is he going to have sneakers? And then try
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: and make us think that he actually spins when they're
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: velcrowing the sneakers, you know, to the petals. He does spin,
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: he's not bad at it. There's a girl next to
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: him who obviously production was like, please please sit next
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: to this man. It's going to look so awkward if
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: there's like four people in the first row and he's
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: in the second row and there's no one next to him,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: and also, please please sign off so that we can
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: use you know, your image in this shot. She's like okay,
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: but the entire time she's looking at the side and
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: she's looking at the camera. Uh. Gino then is like, hey,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: to the instructor, will you help me by taking a
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: selfie for me? And then he makes the instructor take
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: what he says is a selfie for him, And I
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: feel like we all know that a selfie literally means
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: a picture that you take yourself a selfie is a
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: picture you take yourself. A selfie isn't a picture just
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: of you. I don't call like my school pictures selfies,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: you know anyway, So then at that point we're like,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: oh my god, Gino okay, And they know that that's
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: why they're saying things like that, that they keep things
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: like that in so that I talk about it. So
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: then he goes to like a single event and it's
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: not a somatic on where he's gonna do, trust falls.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: It seems like an adult gymnasium with there's a bunch
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: of like the kind of adults that like have zoomies.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: There's like kickball happening. One guy's playing kickball barefoot. I
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: have no idea why there's two women who I'm like,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: first of all, what is your stories? Are you here
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: to meet men? Are you fans of the show? Do
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: you watch the show? Because it's interesting like at this point, yes,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: they do watch the show. They know who Gino is,
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: you know, like they anytime he talks, anytime Gino talks
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: about Jasmine, I assume they know who Jasmine is. Just
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: like when Kimberly was at the pitch Sesshon, someone asked
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: her like oh, Kimberly, would you date my dad? He
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: lives in New York, like a long distance relationship. And
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: she's like, well, my last relationship was from Nigeria. And
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: the way that girl laughed it was obvious that she
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: was a fan of the show. She's like, you mean
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: Solgia boy, right, HI know? Maybe, girl says Soljio boy,
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: I know you really can I know? Okay. So basically
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: he starts talking to these two women, and these two
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: women these two men are like, oh hey, like how
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: are you you know, like what's happening? And he just like, yeah,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm just going on a relationship now I'm married. Still, like,
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: you know, the jazzmin happened. I should have never done
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: a jazzmine, you know. I brought her back from you know,
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: Panama and it was really bad. And they're like okay,
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, uh, maybe you should change the subject. Uh.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: Instead of being like hey, ladies, like are you excited
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: to play dodgeball? Or how long have you been coming here?
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: Or you know, are either of you single, he's just like,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: what are you guys looking for in a man? Which
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: is an awkward thing to say, like first question to
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: someone I don't even care if you if you like,
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: even if you're at a speed date, like an actual
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: speed dating sitting across from someone. If the first thing
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: that you say to someone is what are you looking
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: for in a woman? What are you looking for in
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: a man? That's weird. It's creepy already. Your first questions
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: be like, hey, how are you good? Yeah? Have you
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: done one of these things before? Yeah? No, I like
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: your tie, you you get me. So there's there's just
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: so many ways of getting in conversations. Are you an
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: accounting I don't know it's a bad thing, but you know,
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: like talk about the music that you're into, you know,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: talk about get to know someone first, their essence of
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: who they are before assigning them the role and job
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: of being a potential suitor for you or like fuck
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: toy for you. That's where it gets awkward. Oh I'm
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: not a person. I'm just either an option or not
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: an option. Weird. So the women though, are like is
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: he for real? In front of him, and then weirdly
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: are like did you hear that? And he's like no,
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: and they're like good, I feel like they wanted him
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: to hear that, hey, because they didn't want to talk
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: to him anymore, or they wanted him to know that
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: he was being weird, or they wanted to be kind
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: of rude on TV. Like, here's about it. If I'm them,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: let's just pretend I am them, And let's just pretend
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know his whole backstory. Let's just pretend I'm
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: at this weird adult matchmaking kickbox sing Jim and there's cameras,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: I've had a sign off my release, and there's a
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: man a Gino saying these things. I mean, I would
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: just assume that he was a very nice gentleman, maybe
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: like neurodivergent or something. I would just never be mean
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: to him. I would never be like, is he for real?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: I would just be like, oh, okay, buddy, yeah you're
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: still married. Well, here's the thing. I know. It's it's
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: difficult when things end and can take longer, but patience
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: is a virtue. I hope you have fun here though, bye,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: and I leave you know, Like that's right? I don't know.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: So after that, he goes grocery shopping, and this is
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: to me, the best part of the entire episode. So
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: he's grocery shopping, okay, and he was wearing glasses like
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: down his nose, like they're reading glasses, and he loves
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: a bargain. He picks up two things a prey go.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: He's like, two for one preg my god, it's usually Ragu.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: Usually Ragu is the cheapest one. But I get to
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: have preg Go tonight. He's like, women are upset, usually
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: about how cheap I am, but I can't wait to
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: find someone who is happy with my lifestyle. My frugalness
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: is impressed with my ability to spend absolutely nothing because
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: I don't think I'm worth anything, whatever it is. And also,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: as we know, Jasmine didn't eat me. So he's like,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: I get to eat meat. So then he decides to
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: go to the nice butcher at Foodland, who's wearing a
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: hairnet and who is unfortunately tasked to have a conversation
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: over nothing with Gino for this show. Now here's what's interesting.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: Gino's like, where do you have packaged ground beef to
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: a butcher? Now, packaged food package ground beef like in
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: a grocery market's almost always in the exact same place.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: But if you know you're gonna get ground beef and
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: they have a butcher, why you wouldn't just go and
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: get like fresh ground beef, except that it's cheaper. That's
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: a geno. So he of course is like, wow, where's
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: your package ground beef? Because I used to date Jasmine
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: and I used to be married to Jazzmine. Any of
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: you know Jazmine. You know one thing about her is
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: that she was a vegetarian, also very mean, also very loud,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: and so I never got to do anything I didn't want,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: and now I get to do everything I want, which
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: includes sending no money on all the cheap beef I
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: can possibly have. Where's the ground beef? That's what's for
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: dinner every night of the week. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, He's just gonna put that
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: ground beef into the Prego. He's gonna make bowlonnais. He's
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: gonna call his uncle and be like, I'm the best
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: Italian chef of the family. We're gonna be like, oh
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: my god, you know, no, Matt. Here's the thing. You
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: know who likes Prego. Jenny, Jenny of Jenny in Simith
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: watched the two for one Prego go into this single
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: Life's cart and she was like, oh, yes, Gino, yes
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: you know who would appreciate Gino's thriftiness, Jenny. You know
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: who would a pre she ate Jenny's spaghetti, Gino. So
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: just think about that, Just think about it. So then
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: we got you know, him looking at Oscar Minor, Oscar
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: mier Wieners and all the colbases in the meat department.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: He's like, you know, really looking at all of the
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: like salty casings, all the balgonney. And then later on
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: he picks up some white bread and he gives it
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: a squish and he goes, you know this is soft.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's exactly how I like my women. Soft.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: Now we know that's not true because when we met Jasmine,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: she was a gym hardcore goer. She still is like
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: a gym hardcore goer. This so, when we first met Jasmine,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: she has like a very fit, thin, muscular but body
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: can't talk. She had built whatever ass. At this point,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: she gets plastic surgery, she gets butt implants, she gets
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: breast in plants. You know, soft as relative, I don't
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: necessarily think those things are soft. So I don't know
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: if like he's ever really had like a soft woman.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: But I don't know what men think soft are. Soft
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: is you know, so funny, like do people does Petro
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: think that Sophie is soft, like a soft She's soft
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: in her demeanor, in her voice, but I don't think
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: her body isn't soft. I'm assuming that when you feel
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: those boobies, they're you know, plastic surgery boobies. I guess
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: soft as relative, right, I'm made of pure down pillows.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: But I also, yeah, I you know, I'm not trying
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: to be like Gino's like cup of tea, but you
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: know Gino can't wait to like give the camera men gold.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: They were like, go squeeze that bread, say something about
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: the bread. I mean, that's exactly how I like my women.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: And then they're like, go grab Folger's coffee and say
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: something about that. I like my lemon dry in the morning.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: You're like, well, what you know, you just like keep
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: making him do it. We also get like a smiled
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: because you know, I'm obsessed with the tis shot of
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: his cart and we've seen what he's been putting it in.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: But just to really think about the prego the white bread,
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: the simply orange juice, the chocolate milk, and what looks
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: like a twelve pack of like sunny Delight gatorade. He's thirsty,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: thirsty man. That was the end of the episode. My loves.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. Oh my goodness. Let
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: me tell you on the docket traders, I'm gonna do
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: a combo episode for the next three episodes, and then
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: on Thursday a new episode drops. As we know because
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: of Super Bowl Sunday, we did not have a before
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: the ninety days. That's coming back. Love is Blind is coming.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: If you guys are interested in that, please let me
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: know because I want to know if you will be
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: interested in some recaps. Goodness, gracious, thank you so much
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: for giving me five stars. Wherever you listen to podcasts
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: like Apple or Spotify, it truly means a lot. At
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: the same time, you can follow me. I'm at Chris
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: Elfara on social media such like Instagram and TikTok. I
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: have a Patreon Chris Fara, which is where I'm putting
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: the visuals of everything for the podcast before it goes
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: live on YouTube, and maybe it won't even go on
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: like live on YouTube. I'm not quite sure. So if
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: you want the visuals first and foremost before anyone else,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: it's Patreon Chris Fara. I also have a sub stack.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: Chris Farra Facebook exists. Still there's Chris Farah, like the
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: page there and the private group Vanity Farah. All of
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: that is happening. At the same time, thank you so
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: much for your patience with me as I get everything
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: lined up with this podcast. Also, I'm, like I'm said, moving,
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: so it's all been a little slower than I would like.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: At the same time, patients, it's a virtue, like I've said,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: so at the same time, Happy Valentine's Day, No more
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: same times. We're going to breathe together and we're going
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: to go on our merry ways. But I've enjoyed hearing
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: the sound of my voice. I certainly hope you have.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: I really am thankful that anyone would want to listen
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: to me just like shout about this show. But at
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: the same time, oh my god, cut that out, Christina.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: I'm really excited to talk about single Life because it's
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: sort of new and a new format, and the fact
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: that I got to hang out with people from the
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: show during the holiday party gives me an extra spidy
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: sense to see what's real and what's not and like
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: what could be happening in the future. I feel like
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: a little like science experiment co laboratory assistant. All right,
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: my babes, two breaths. Presently we are all together. If
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: you're listening to this, for some reason, you decided to
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: push play and in time and space, it's hard while
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: we're moving through our lives to find a pocket of mindful,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: present breath. So I think that maybe if you don't mind,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: let this be remind to do it and why not now?
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: So just two breaths. One's a rehearsal breath. One is
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: an actual breath. You can use a sound of my voice,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: or your own breath, or the sound of my breath,
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: so we can bring ourselves to this present moment. Stop
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: worrying about the future, stop remembering and playing all the
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: awkwardness of the past. None of it's actually going to
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: serve you if you can't also control your mind by
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: being present, because right now is what's real. It's a
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: good reminder, it's a nice grounding mechanism. Let's do it,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: blow it all out, break it in twice. Ah, All right,
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: my loves, I can't wait to see what happens when
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: te meets Natalie, who I can't believe is back. I'm
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: really mad about the fact that Natalie's back, because it
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: makes me feel like she didn't learn her lesson that
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: he's disgusting, and also makes me feel like she just
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: wants to be famous, and I don't like people who
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: want to be famous. I want people who or truthful.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: All right, thanks for being truthful with me. And at
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: the same time, it's imperative that you take care of
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: yourselves so that you can take care of one another,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: so that you can stand up for what you believe,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: which sometimes happens by making art. I'll talk to you later, babes.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day. Bye,