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Just communicate BRUH · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: It's John Jay and Rich Joseph. Good morning, Thanks for
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  Speaker 1: holding what's up?
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  Speaker 2: So I need advice because I don't know. I think
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  Speaker 2: I'm going a little insane here. So let me let
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  Speaker 2: me explain this. So my girlfriend, she goes out with
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  Speaker 2: her friends and you know, they go clubbing, they go
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  Speaker 2: and and you know, they spend hours dressing up and whatnot,
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  Speaker 2: and then you know, crently, that's normal, that's totally girl time, right,
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  Speaker 2: So just keep that in mind. But then you know,
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  Speaker 2: when I want to go out and you know, when I,
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  Speaker 2: let's say, I go do top golf or the shooting
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  Speaker 2: range for whatever on my butt with my with my
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  Speaker 2: friends on a Tuesday, APM. Mind you APM. We don't
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  Speaker 2: go out clubbing until three am and come home and whatnot.
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  Speaker 2: And she acts totally insane when I when I ask
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  Speaker 2: or tell her that I'm going out. She thinks I
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  Speaker 2: live a double life. So I'm trying to understand wrap
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  Speaker 2: my hand around about that kind of mentality.
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  Speaker 3: You know, well I worry about that. Well, so is she?
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  Speaker 4: So what is she doing? Is she texting you like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: where are you at? Who are you with? Or is
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  Speaker 4: she like send me pictures of where you're at. I
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  Speaker 4: don't believe you drop your location because I'm very much
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  Speaker 4: like that, Like with my fiance if he's out with
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  Speaker 4: his friends, like what you're doing? Who are you with? Like,
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  Speaker 4: But that's just because I'm curious, not because I'm trying
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  Speaker 4: to like catch him in anything.
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  Speaker 2: Well you know, yeah, I mean I spend time with
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  Speaker 2: my buddies and she's blowing up my phone, like who's there?
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  Speaker 2: And why you're answering me whatever? You know, I'm trying
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  Speaker 2: to have me go. That's a me time, you know.
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  Speaker 2: So it's just to me, it's just kind of crazy
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  Speaker 2: that you're blowing up my phone every minute, and you know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't do that to her because you know, I'm
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  Speaker 2: letting her have her own her time. So it's just
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just to me, doesn't it doesn't
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  Speaker 2: doesn't seem like a normal behavior for me.
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  Speaker 5: I'm all about like having separate interests, you know what
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  Speaker 5: I mean, Like my husband golf. I don't have any
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  Speaker 5: interest going golfing with him, and I do you know, girls'
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  Speaker 5: trips just had one this weekend. But what I see
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  Speaker 5: here as a complete red flag is like the activity,
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  Speaker 5: like she's going clubbing and you're going to top golf
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  Speaker 5: or the shooting range. It's like totally two totally different
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  Speaker 5: environments and a.
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  Speaker 4: Lot of timetimes on Saturday night.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but a lot of times when someone has this
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  Speaker 5: type of behavior and they're overly jealous, feels like maybe
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  Speaker 5: she's a little feeling guilty of something and accusing you
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  Speaker 5: of possibly the same thing without hearing her side of
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  Speaker 5: the story. That's what it sounds like to me, A
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  Speaker 5: bit like kind of a big red flag.
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  Speaker 1: You know what. We got people calling already, Joseph, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: let's say hi to Ebony. Hold on a second. Okay, Ebony,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, you're on the air. Your take on this.
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  Speaker 6: I literally had to pull my car over because, sir,
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  Speaker 6: are you serious?
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  Speaker 3: Iright?
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  Speaker 6: Know, like you're complaining because your girlfriend texting you a
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  Speaker 6: couple of times while you were out, like stoppish?
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  Speaker 2: Are you? I'm not asking for anything else, just on advice,
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  Speaker 2: So I'll I just feel like I was just asking
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  Speaker 2: for advice, not asking for marriage counseling.
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  Speaker 6: You know, well, well this is advice. I'm giving it
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  Speaker 6: to you straight and hard. So you weren't at work,
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  Speaker 6: you weren't with family, you were literally hitting balls nachos
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  Speaker 6: with who's about like ex bodies right.
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  Speaker 2: Oh there? And you know I don't know you, and
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  Speaker 2: I don't you know. I'm not insulting you. I'm just
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  Speaker 2: saying that it's kind of crazy that you blow up
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  Speaker 2: my phone when I'm out with the guys, and all
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  Speaker 2: of a sudden, I'm the bad guy because I'm trying
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  Speaker 2: to understand what's happening here. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you this, Joseph, Are you having
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  Speaker 1: sex with these guys every time you go out the
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  Speaker 1: top golf? When you up means something else, shot ranges,
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  Speaker 1: something else stopped you. You guys will know that world
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  Speaker 1: I do. I do. I never heard of that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, say no, So that's good.
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  Speaker 3: I do think there's something about when people accuse you
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  Speaker 3: of something and you're absolutely doing nothing, but they come down.
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  Speaker 3: You got to watch out, like are they are they smoking?
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  Speaker 3: Mirroring you? You know, like is there something going on?
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  Speaker 3: To Kyle's point, that's the first thing that jumped out
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  Speaker 3: at me when you said that two.
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  Speaker 1: Sides every store. We don't know her side where she's
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  Speaker 1: like top golf.
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  Speaker 5: Every day without hearing her side.
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  Speaker 1: I know, but maybe she's that.
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  Speaker 5: But the way Joseph lays it out, it sounds like
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  Speaker 5: a red flag. Now, now she may be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: he's not telling you all the things right, staying atop
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  Speaker 5: golf till after hours, and.
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  Speaker 1: I'm with you. But am I right?
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  Speaker 6: Yes, I'm just saying check in you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 6: Just say back, oh, yeah, I'm good. All good, because
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  Speaker 6: then our mom's just wandering. We wander, we wander. Just
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  Speaker 6: stop it by saying, hey, I'm good, I'm still you know,
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  Speaker 6: I'm I'm beating all the fellas. That pop cough is
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  Speaker 6: all good.
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  Speaker 1: See what I'm saying. The whole gay thing, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think talking about She's like he man beating all the fellas.
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, Joseph, I think you got some
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  Speaker 1: good advice from Ebany, from Kyle, from Peyton for Rich,
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  Speaker 1: don't listen to me all right. Thank you guys for
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  Speaker 1: going on the air with us. Thanks for listening. All right,
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  Speaker 1: it's Jay and Rich