Latest / Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel / Friday HAPPY HOUR! July 7th, 2023 | Miss Understood Podcast
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- 1:28Speaker 1: This is Rachel. You could tell you're listening to misunderstood
- 1:31Speaker 1: with myself and my producer, Kelly Brink. Thanks for joining us.
- 1:36Speaker 1: for another Friday episode.
- 1:38Speaker 2: Welcome back to happy hour. And I'm, this is like
- 1:40Speaker 2: a very extra happy, happy hour today.
- 1:43Speaker 3: I'm very happy. Are you, we just got off with
- 1:45Speaker 3: David Yontiff. That was fun. Yeah, we are actually drinking today.
- 1:50Speaker 1: So we are drinking. It's early. We're drinking. We're excited
- 1:54Speaker 1: about the weekend. So I think it was a long
- 1:55Speaker 1: weekend for a lot of people because it was 4th
- 1:58Speaker 1: of July. And a lot of people took the long
- 2:00Speaker 1: weekend to enjoy it. Yeah.
- 2:03Speaker 2: Just a weird week too, that it fell on a
- 2:05Speaker 2: Tuesday and it was kind of like a, a nothing week.
- 2:08Speaker 3: Every, a lot of people took the whole week off.
- 2:10Speaker 3: So yeah, it's been weird.
- 2:13Speaker 1: What have you been doing this week, Miss thing?
- 2:16Speaker 3: I can't talk about it. I'm no, I can't.
- 2:18Speaker 2: I'm, I'm, I'm in an undisclosed location right now, somewhere.
- 2:24Speaker 1: But with who let's talk about with who, okay. I'm
- 2:27Speaker 1: going to say it just, because you're not going to
- 2:29Speaker 1: get honest. So Kelly went out on a date on,
- 2:32Speaker 1: I'll be tame, out on a date with someone who
- 2:36Speaker 1: she liked last week. And then he invited her away
- 2:38Speaker 1: this week. And so she decided to go and he
- 2:41Speaker 1: picked her up on his plane baller and then took
- 2:45Speaker 1: her to his house and then took her to his
- 2:48Speaker 1: lake house. And that is where she is at the moment.
- 2:51Speaker 1: So we are on the path of getting her married. boom.
- 2:57Speaker 3: We'll see.
- 2:58Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, we've got a long time and
- 3:00Speaker 1: a lot of- We have a year and a half. Yeah.
- 3:02Speaker 1: And a lot of suitors that might show up in between.
- 3:05Speaker 1: But in the course of the last two days, this
- 3:09Speaker 1: guy's on your number one spot.
- 3:12Speaker 3: Oh, for sure.
- 3:13Speaker 4: Yes.
- 3:14Speaker 3: Going well. I have nothing but good things to say.
- 3:19Speaker 1: And it was funny beforehand, I made sure she gave
- 3:22Speaker 1: me her location, gave me all his info so that
- 3:26Speaker 1: if I needed to get on a plane and get
- 3:27Speaker 1: really excited about trying to find her because she went missing,
- 3:31Speaker 1: I could at least locate him because I love stuff
- 3:33Speaker 1: like that. I feel like I would be a great witness,
- 3:35Speaker 1: like eyewitness to a murder or someone great about finding
- 3:39Speaker 1: you if you were missing because I love all that stuff.
- 3:42Speaker 1: I went and looked for Chandra Levy when she was
- 3:44Speaker 1: missing in Washington, DC.
- 3:45Speaker 4: Did you?
- 3:46Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
- 3:46Speaker 2: We've never talked about that. How have we never talked
- 3:48Speaker 2: about that with my true crime stuff?
- 3:50Speaker 3: And you're like, oh, my God.
- 3:51Speaker 1: I don't know. I was so into that. I'm just
- 3:53Speaker 1: waiting for a true crime that I can be involved in.
- 3:56Speaker 1: I don't want it to be yours or anything. I know.
- 3:58Speaker 2: You were kind of hoping it was going to be mine.
- 4:01Speaker 2: You were like, oh, my gosh, that'd be so fun
- 4:03Speaker 2: if you go missing. Wyatt and I could go on
- 4:05Speaker 2: an adventure and.
- 4:06Speaker 1: Go find you. Well, now that I'm friends with Bo Dietl,
- 4:08Speaker 1: I mean, we can, you know, knock down doors and
- 4:12Speaker 1: find you. I don't even need him, though. I'm good
- 4:14Speaker 1: enough on my own.
- 4:16Speaker 2: You do.
- 4:16Speaker 3: I mean, you don't need anybody.
- 4:18Speaker 1: Right. So, all right. Just to recap though, we're not
- 4:21Speaker 1: going to get into it because you're there with the guy.
- 4:22Speaker 1: He's right in the background, but things are going well.
- 4:25Speaker 1: And we'll recap next week when he's not in the room.
- 4:28Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fun.
- 4:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 4:30Speaker 1: Okay, good.
- 4:31Speaker 3: It's been real fun.
- 4:32Speaker 1: So it's interesting because you're having a good week. There's
- 4:35Speaker 1: a lot of people having bad weeks. So there's been
- 4:39Speaker 1: some news about a lot of breakups. Kyle Richards and
- 4:42Speaker 1: Mauricio have split. They're not announcing a divorce, but they
- 4:46Speaker 1: have announced that they are splitting. Not only that, Billy
- 4:49Speaker 1: Porter and his husband, Adam Smith, announced that they were
- 4:52Speaker 1: getting a divorce. Ricky Martin and I can't pronounce it
- 4:57Speaker 1: right now, but are getting a divorce after six years.
- 4:59Speaker 1: Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner are in a major issue
- 5:04Speaker 1: with court and her not wanting to vacate the property.
- 5:07Speaker 1: That came up this week. And then Brittany Snow is
- 5:10Speaker 1: getting a divorce from her husband, Tyler, who was one
- 5:15Speaker 1: of the guys on selling the OC. I don't know
- 5:17Speaker 1: if you watched that. So there was four big announcements
- 5:19Speaker 1: in the last three days about people who are separating
- 5:21Speaker 1: or getting a divorce. What are your thoughts on that?
- 5:24Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I have to say with Kyle
- 5:26Speaker 3: and Mauricio, you and Dave.
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- 5:47Speaker 2: They'd called that way before it was on anyone's radar, really,
- 5:51Speaker 2: when you had him on the show the first time.
- 5:53Speaker 1: You know, it's so hard to speculate on things because
- 5:56Speaker 1: so many people in the Bravo world will come and, like,
- 5:58Speaker 1: attack you for your thoughts. So, like, you know, who
- 6:03Speaker 1: knows what goes on behind closed doors. But, you know,
- 6:06Speaker 1: it seemed like where there's smoke, there's fire. Where there's
- 6:09Speaker 1: a lot of rumors, there's something to it, you know.
- 6:11Speaker 1: But there are rumors right now that she's involved with
- 6:15Speaker 1: a woman.
- 6:16Speaker 2: Morgan Wade.
- 6:17Speaker 1: Morgan Wade, a country singer who no one's ever heard of,
- 6:19Speaker 1: by the way.
- 6:20Speaker 3: I had never heard of her.
- 6:21Speaker 1: Yeah. But everyone I'm sure is listening to her music now. But,
- 6:25Speaker 1: you know, I don't know about this whole lesbian late
- 6:28Speaker 1: in life thing. Like, would you become a lesbian late
- 6:30Speaker 1: in life?
- 6:31Speaker 2: So.
- 6:31Speaker 1: Oh, my God, you would?
- 6:34Speaker 2: I mean, no, but it's like a whole epidemic. Like,
- 6:37Speaker 2: I'm just, no, I'm just saying it's happening a lot.
- 6:40Speaker 3: What's the other woman?
- 6:42Speaker 2: What?
- 6:42Speaker 1: Bronwyn from The Other Housewives. She was married with like
- 6:45Speaker 1: seven kids and then talked about her orgasms all over.
- 6:50Speaker 2: Yeah, went through a whole lesbian phase. You guys were
- 6:53Speaker 2: talking about Madonna earlier. You know, same thing. It is,
- 6:56Speaker 2: there is kind of an epidemic of that.
- 6:58Speaker 1: You know, I'm so into A-type. personalities alphas that like
- 7:05Speaker 1: and by the way I am like I would love
- 7:07Speaker 1: to date me because I'm an alpha I take care
- 7:09Speaker 1: of everything I handle everything no one is better than
- 7:13Speaker 1: me in handling the biggest crisis scenarios down to like
- 7:18Speaker 1: figuring out flights to go on vacation do you know
- 7:20Speaker 1: what I mean like yeah And it's hard for me
- 7:22Speaker 1: to date someone because I haven't found someone who's as good,
- 7:25Speaker 1: if not better than me. And I would like to
- 7:27Speaker 1: be the female. I'd like to lay back and be like, sure,
- 7:30Speaker 1: handle it. I want to be the woman here and
- 7:32Speaker 1: just like sit back and be sexy and hot. But
- 7:35Speaker 1: like I can't because I'm handling too much shit. So
- 7:38Speaker 1: it's very hard to find a manly man, much less
- 7:41Speaker 1: a manly woman. So it just wouldn't work for me
- 7:44Speaker 1: because I'm not about to like pretend that I'm interested
- 7:47Speaker 1: in all that. sexual stuff with women because I don't
- 7:52Speaker 1: even get into that with myself. So whatever. All right.
- 7:55Speaker 1: Let's move on from this conversation.
- 7:58Speaker 3: Okay.
- 7:59Speaker 2: But back to Morgan, Wade and Kyle, I don't really
- 8:03Speaker 2: buy it either.
- 8:03Speaker 3: I know there's the tattoos, the, the, the rings or
- 8:07Speaker 3: whatever it was.
- 8:08Speaker 2: Lots of things that could, could, you know, but maybe
- 8:10Speaker 2: it's just like, I had a best friend necklace with
- 8:13Speaker 2: my best friend.
- 8:14Speaker 3: In, in sixth grade.
- 8:16Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 8:16Speaker 3: Lesbians. So it's, I don't really think she's going that
- 8:21Speaker 3: way now.
- 8:21Speaker 2: Plus Mauricio, geez, he's like very attractive. They were together
- 8:26Speaker 2: almost 30 years. I just, I really don't see it.
- 8:29Speaker 1: So yeah. Yeah. It's hard, but whatever, you know, we
- 8:31Speaker 1: don't know about what goes on behind closed doors. I
- 8:33Speaker 1: think it's really hard to speculate.
- 8:35Speaker 3: If so, good for them.
- 8:37Speaker 1: Great. For sure. Who gives a shit? Yeah. Good for them.
- 8:39Speaker 1: As long as they're happy. The next big thing that
- 8:42Speaker 1: happened this week was news about airport freak outs. The
- 8:46Speaker 1: most recent one from today is that Well, basically bad
- 8:49Speaker 1: behavior at airports and on commercial flights has plagued the U.S.
- 8:53Speaker 1: and now it's spread to Mexico. A woman was caught
- 8:56Speaker 1: destroying a bunch of electronics because she didn't get a
- 8:58Speaker 1: refund because they didn't find her flight information, blah, blah, blah.
- 9:02Speaker 1: And so that was all caught on camera. And then
- 9:04Speaker 1: something that we all by now have seen is the
- 9:06Speaker 1: video of the woman on the flight who I think
- 9:10Speaker 1: they were going from Dallas to Orlando maybe. And the
- 9:13Speaker 1: woman who thought she saw someone who didn't exist in
- 9:18Speaker 1: the back of the plane and kind of had a
- 9:20Speaker 1: freak out, wanted to get off. Everyone ended up having
- 9:22Speaker 1: to get off the plane and it was delayed for
- 9:24Speaker 1: five hours. So that was all over the news. What
- 9:27Speaker 1: I found interesting about that is like no one, two
- 9:30Speaker 1: things actually, no one got to the bottom of like
- 9:33Speaker 1: who the guy was at the back of the plane
- 9:34Speaker 1: that didn't exist. Don't we want to know who that is?
- 9:38Speaker 1: Because a lot of people, a lot of people popped
- 9:40Speaker 1: up on Instagram being like, I believe that it was
- 9:43Speaker 1: You know, something weird going on back there and no
- 9:47Speaker 1: one's getting to the bottom of it? I mean, okay, well,
- 9:50Speaker 1: let's get to the bottom of it. What happened? And
- 9:52Speaker 1: I want to know, when they all deplaned and they
- 9:54Speaker 1: all got back on, she didn't get back on, but
- 9:57Speaker 1: did the guy who didn't exist get back on?
- 10:00Speaker 3: I mean, we don't know.
- 10:01Speaker 1: Maybe she was the only one.
- 10:03Speaker 3: Yeah. Maybe she's the only one who could see the guy.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Weird.
- 10:08Speaker 3: What also is.
- 10:09Speaker 2: Weird to me, the only camera angle, the only clip
- 10:12Speaker 2: we have that I've seen is that one and only
- 10:15Speaker 2: one that's gone.
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- 10:36Speaker 3: Gone viral on Instagram.
- 10:38Speaker 2: You would think everybody would have had their cameras out
- 10:40Speaker 2: filming it, but we've only seen one video of it.
- 10:43Speaker 2: And it just really quickly pans to the back. You
- 10:46Speaker 2: can't see anything really.
- 10:48Speaker 1: And no one from the back took any video. I
- 10:50Speaker 1: think that's weird.
- 10:51Speaker 4: Right.
- 10:51Speaker 3: Which is weird.
- 10:52Speaker 2: I think so many people would have been taking video. But,
- 10:55Speaker 2: you know, I think I said this before. Carrot Top
- 10:58Speaker 2: was documenting this because he was on that flight.
- 11:01Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:01Speaker 2: I think we should talk to him and get his
- 11:04Speaker 2: take on it. He was super pissed because he was
- 11:06Speaker 2: supposed to be watching the fireworks in Orlando that night.
- 11:09Speaker 2: They were all they had to the plane. They were
- 11:11Speaker 2: like delayed by like five hours, everyone on the plane.
- 11:13Speaker 2: So it was a huge ordeal. Her name hasn't come out,
- 11:17Speaker 2: I don't think.
- 11:18Speaker 1: No, and a lot of people have actually said, Rachel,
- 11:21Speaker 1: you should try and get her on the show because
- 11:22Speaker 1: we want to hear her story. I want to hear
- 11:24Speaker 1: her story. So the woman on the plane who saw
- 11:28Speaker 1: the fake man in the back, I'm inviting you on
- 11:32Speaker 1: Misunderstood with Rachel. You could tell we would love to
- 11:35Speaker 1: hear your story. We want to hear all about it
- 11:38Speaker 1: and get to the bottom of what happened on that flight.
- 11:41Speaker 1: So this is an open invitation to make yourself known,
- 11:45Speaker 1: Write me on DM and let me know how I
- 11:48Speaker 1: can book you because that's a story I want to hear.
- 11:51Speaker 1: Because I think she's misunderstood, this poor woman. I mean,
- 11:53Speaker 1: she either had a mental breakdown, she was hopped up
- 11:57Speaker 1: on some sort of edibles, drinking, or she really saw
- 12:00Speaker 1: something she believed was, you know, something that she couldn't
- 12:04Speaker 1: fly with. So I want to know what happened. And
- 12:07Speaker 1: I want to know what's happening in the aftermath.
- 12:09Speaker 3: Yeah. All right.
- 12:10Speaker 1: So the other big news.
- 12:12Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:12Speaker 1: Big news. So the third story I found very interesting
- 12:16Speaker 1: and close to my heart, because I'm a New Yorker,
- 12:17Speaker 1: even though I live in Florida now, former New York
- 12:20Speaker 1: mayor Bill de Blasio and his wife are separating after
- 12:24Speaker 1: all these years of being married and staying together. Yeah.
- 12:27Speaker 1: They said they did not plan a divorce and continue
- 12:30Speaker 1: living together for now in their Brooklyn townhouse, but they
- 12:33Speaker 1: did announce they're going to start dating other people. So
- 12:36Speaker 1: I found that that was very interesting that they're going
- 12:38Speaker 1: to live under the same roof, date other people. He's
- 12:41Speaker 1: probably on Bumble. I'm on Bumble. I'm going to swipe
- 12:44Speaker 1: through and see if he's on there and I'll let
- 12:46Speaker 1: you guys know.
- 12:46Speaker 2: Oh my God. I think it's odd that they would
- 12:49Speaker 2: even have to say, we're going to start dating other people.
- 12:52Speaker 3: Like who cares?
- 12:53Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you why that is. I know why
- 12:55Speaker 1: that is. Because I've dated men and you guys all
- 12:59Speaker 1: faulted me for it. I have dated men who are
- 13:02Speaker 1: getting a divorce and separated but live in the same
- 13:06Speaker 1: residence as their ex-wives at the time. And just because
- 13:09Speaker 1: the divorce hasn't gone through, people go nuts. They say,
- 13:13Speaker 1: I'm a mistress. They say, I'm cheating.
- 13:14Speaker 4: True.
- 13:15Speaker 1: But people don't understand. It takes years sometimes to get
- 13:17Speaker 1: a divorce, people. So it's like, I was faulted and
- 13:21Speaker 1: called out and all this stuff happened. They called me
- 13:24Speaker 1: a mistress, blah, blah, blah, because I dated a guy.
- 13:26Speaker 1: By the way, I went on three dates with this
- 13:27Speaker 1: dude whose wife got pissed because I think she just
- 13:33Speaker 1: got jealous that he actually was going out with someone
- 13:35Speaker 1: who you know, was known in the press or whatever. Yeah.
- 13:39Speaker 1: And she called the Daily Mail and let them know
- 13:42Speaker 1: that he was dating me, that he had, I had
- 13:46Speaker 1: taken him away from her and her kids. By the way,
- 13:49Speaker 1: I got so pissed because of the press that I
- 13:51Speaker 1: called his divorce lawyer, I made sure that he had
- 13:55Speaker 1: actually filed for divorce when he told me he had.
- 13:58Speaker 1: He lived in the guest house. I confirmed all of it,
- 14:00Speaker 1: but no journalist cares to confirm it. So it looked
- 14:03Speaker 1: like I was a mistress to everyone else. And it's
- 14:04Speaker 1: just so wrong. I mean, people do all sorts of
- 14:07Speaker 1: things when they're getting a divorce. And I think nowadays
- 14:10Speaker 1: it makes a lot of sense to announce what your
- 14:12Speaker 1: plans are so that if you're seen out with another
- 14:15Speaker 1: woman or you're seen on Bumble, like you know, people
- 14:19Speaker 1: are going to make sure that they're not shaming you
- 14:20Speaker 1: for it. Cause at least it's been announced that you
- 14:22Speaker 1: guys are not together anymore. So I think that's what.
- 14:24Speaker 3: I never thought of it that way. Actually. I was like,
- 14:27Speaker 3: why would they do that? Who cares?
- 14:28Speaker 4: Nope.
- 14:28Speaker 3: I get it now.
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- 18:39Speaker 1: being your best self. Guys, we want to let you
- 18:45Speaker 1: know that we really appreciate you coming on and listening
- 18:47Speaker 1: to Happy Hour because it's a lot of bullshit for
- 18:50Speaker 1: this little episode. But no, we want to get into
- 18:53Speaker 1: some of our former episodes so we can kind of
- 18:55Speaker 1: break them down so that if you... haven't caught up
- 18:58Speaker 1: or you just started listening, you can go back and
- 19:00Speaker 1: listen to some episodes that we loved that we think
- 19:02Speaker 1: you should reconsider when you're, instead of just going forward,
- 19:06Speaker 1: you can go back and binge on some when you're
- 19:08Speaker 1: taking long drives, when you're on an airplane, whatever it is.
- 19:11Speaker 1: So Kelly, do you have some that you want to
- 19:13Speaker 1: steer people towards and tell us why you like them?
- 19:16Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:17Speaker 2: So especially right now, since relationships have been weighing heavily
- 19:21Speaker 2: on my mind, we've had some kick-ass relationship experts on
- 19:26Speaker 2: the show.
- 19:28Speaker 3: Dr.
- 19:28Speaker 2: Gary Lewandowski, world-renowned love scientist. Everybody needs to go back
- 19:34Speaker 2: and listen to that. He's written books. He's just an
- 19:37Speaker 2: expert in his field. He had so much good advice
- 19:40Speaker 2: on red flags and communication and things like that. I
- 19:45Speaker 2: loved that episode. And it was one of our earlier ones.
- 19:49Speaker 2: And so if you haven't you know, caught up, go
- 19:51Speaker 2: back and listen to that one. He was one of
- 19:53Speaker 2: my favorites.
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- 20:15Speaker 1: Skip that also because they don't know his name. So
- 20:17Speaker 1: they probably skipped to somebody that they do know their name.
- 20:20Speaker 1: But that was a great episode to really break down
- 20:24Speaker 1: red flags. Exactly what you said. I mean, it's a
- 20:26Speaker 1: great episode for sure.
- 20:27Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. Yeah, it was great. And then Dr.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Drew, of course, he was one of the very first, second, first, second,
- 20:34Speaker 2: I can't remember.
- 20:34Speaker 1: I think he was the second.
- 20:36Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked about love addiction, things like that.
- 20:41Speaker 1: A lot of.
- 20:43Speaker 2: Your time together that you guys have spent when you
- 20:45Speaker 2: did the show with him. That was a great episode.
- 20:47Speaker 2: So all of these relationship experts are the ones that
- 20:51Speaker 2: I've gone back and listened to more than once because
- 20:53Speaker 2: the advice that they had to give was really great.
- 20:55Speaker 2: And then Aliza Ben Shalom from Jewish Matchmaking. You don't
- 20:59Speaker 2: have to be Jewish to enjoy that episode. She had
- 21:04Speaker 2: so much wonderful dating advice, you know, advice for taking
- 21:07Speaker 2: it slow, really getting to know somebody.
- 21:10Speaker 3: So those were some of my favorites.
- 21:12Speaker 1: Those episodes.
- 21:13Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 21:13Speaker 1: And we've gotten so many people from Netflix, from the
- 21:15Speaker 1: top shows on Netflix. We've been really lucky that they
- 21:18Speaker 1: come on our show. Another one that- And there's more
- 21:20Speaker 1: to come.
- 21:21Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 21:21Speaker 1: Oh, for sure. We have some really exciting, good ones
- 21:24Speaker 1: coming up, but we really have our finger on the
- 21:27Speaker 1: pulse of what's going on on Netflix, basically because I'm
- 21:29Speaker 1: a homebody and I watch Netflix all the time. And
- 21:32Speaker 1: when I see a show I like, I just DM
- 21:34Speaker 1: them and hope that they'll come on the show. And
- 21:35Speaker 1: they usually do, actually.
- 21:37Speaker 3: They usually do.
- 21:38Speaker 1: But we had a bunch of people that I think
- 21:41Speaker 1: are interesting. The one that I wanted to bring up
- 21:43Speaker 1: was Siri Dahl, who starred in Money Shot, the Pornhub story,
- 21:50Speaker 1: which a lot of people might not think is up
- 21:52Speaker 1: their alley. Super interesting episode. She's a porn star.
- 21:55Speaker 3: So interesting.
- 21:56Speaker 1: And she talked about how Pornhub affected her life. And
- 22:01Speaker 1: what it's like to be a porn star and in
- 22:02Speaker 1: a relationship. And I think that was very interesting. And
- 22:05Speaker 1: by the way, you should watch that on Netflix. It's
- 22:07Speaker 1: a great show. It's a great documentary on Netflix.
- 22:10Speaker 3: So good.
- 22:11Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 22:11Speaker 3: And who hasn't seen Pornhub? I mean, come on. Everybody's
- 22:16Speaker 3: seen some Pornhub stuff.
- 22:17Speaker 1: You mean been on the site. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
- 22:20Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not saying, but, you know.
- 22:23Speaker 1: Another interesting one I wanted to bring people's attention to
- 22:26Speaker 1: is Craig Schmell. Sort of an odd name, and people
- 22:32Speaker 1: probably don't know him, so they probably didn't want to
- 22:35Speaker 1: click on that when they're first looking through episodes. But
- 22:39Speaker 1: he wrote a book called The Uninvited. He was somebody
- 22:42Speaker 1: who got into all sorts of events, but he went
- 22:47Speaker 1: as an uninvited guest and kept getting in because... he
- 22:51Speaker 1: would like fake it till he made it. Do you
- 22:52Speaker 1: know what I mean? And it was a very, very
- 22:54Speaker 1: interesting episode. I find him interesting. I find him very cute.
- 23:00Speaker 1: And so I think people will like his episode. It's
- 23:03Speaker 1: a shorter episode, but something interesting to listen to. But
- 23:05Speaker 1: even if.
- 23:06Speaker 2: You didn't know his name, I was going to say,
- 23:09Speaker 2: I knew the story before I knew that that was
- 23:11Speaker 2: his name.
- 23:12Speaker 3: I had heard of him. Yes. Yes. Yeah.
- 23:15Speaker 1: And they're in talks to make a movie. about his book.
- 23:18Speaker 1: So you heard it here first. We found him interesting
- 23:22Speaker 1: and you guys will now, you know, know his name
- 23:25Speaker 1: if he does get a movie out of it. So
- 23:28Speaker 1: I also wanted to bring up Oz Perlman. Oz, excuse me,
- 23:32Speaker 1: I get that wrong every time. Oz Perlman, super interesting guy.
- 23:36Speaker 1: He's a mentalist. You guys might know him from America's
- 23:39Speaker 1: Got Talent, but he is If you look at his Instagram,
- 23:43Speaker 1: he has over a million followers and he is constantly
- 23:46Speaker 1: working with celebrities. But he came on our show. He
- 23:49Speaker 1: did one of his mentalist tricks with me. And I
- 23:52Speaker 1: thought I was going to literally be the one that
- 23:56Speaker 1: broke him. Like, you know, I thought of a name
- 23:58Speaker 1: that I knew he would never think of. I had
- 24:00Speaker 1: just interviewed Sarma, but no one knew it hadn't come
- 24:02Speaker 1: out yet. Sarma's name was in my head, Sarma from
- 24:07Speaker 1: Bad Vegan. And I had just gone to dinner with
- 24:08Speaker 1: her the night before. I was like, this poor guy
- 24:11Speaker 1: is never going to get this name. And he picked it.
- 24:15Speaker 1: I don't know how he did it. I was speechless.
- 24:17Speaker 1: I don't know if you could see it in the
- 24:19Speaker 1: episode or hear it. When he picked it, I was
- 24:22Speaker 1: completely speechless and didn't know how he did it.
- 24:26Speaker 3: I still don't know how he did it. I think
- 24:28Speaker 3: he is literally psychic. It was crazy.
- 24:31Speaker 1: Yeah. Other people we've had on, we had Mama June.
- 24:36Speaker 1: She's kind of back in the news this week because
- 24:40Speaker 1: the father of Honey Boo Boo, Mike Thompson, who goes
- 24:43Speaker 1: by Sugar Bear, he's off to rehab today, as a
- 24:45Speaker 1: matter of fact. He's going to Lamar Odom's rehab facility,
- 24:49Speaker 1: and he's going for prescription drug addiction. So He's checking
- 24:53Speaker 1: himself in. He contacted Lamar over the weekend. We are
- 24:57Speaker 1: friendly with the manager of both of them because she
- 24:59Speaker 1: helped us get a couple of people on. And so
- 25:02Speaker 1: we wish him the best. But, you know, we did
- 25:03Speaker 1: interview Mama June and she, you know, I've actually heard
- 25:07Speaker 1: a lot of feedback from people that thought she was
- 25:09Speaker 1: pretty incredible and smart for how she's kind of represented
- 25:13Speaker 1: in TV. So that was interesting.
- 25:15Speaker 3: She is.
- 25:15Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 25:16Speaker 1: So Allison Mack was released from prison early. After the
- 25:19Speaker 1: NXIVM sex cult case, she did two years out of
- 25:23Speaker 1: a three-year sentence. She was convicted on racketeering and conspiracy charges. Meanwhile,
- 25:28Speaker 1: Keith Raniere got 120 years in prison. We interviewed Josh Block,
- 25:34Speaker 1: who did a whole podcast on NXIVM and that cult.
- 25:38Speaker 1: That was really interesting. The Lost Kids. Well, The Lost
- 25:41Speaker 1: Kids was the one about SEDU. Oh, sorry.
- 25:44Speaker 3: Yes.
- 25:44Speaker 1: But he did the NXIVM. We talked about that in
- 25:47Speaker 1: our episode. And he also talked about the SEDU cult.
- 25:50Speaker 1: I went to that school. Paris Hilton went to that school.
- 25:53Speaker 1: I graduated from it. So really interesting episode. I encourage people,
- 25:57Speaker 1: if they want to get to know something about me
- 25:59Speaker 1: or cults, um, or therapeutic boarding schools to listen to
- 26:03Speaker 1: that episode. It was, it was a very good one
- 26:05Speaker 1: and emotional one for me. Agree.
- 26:08Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 26:08Speaker 1: Um, next week we'll talk about some more, but we
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- 26:17Speaker 1: helpful for us. It lets us know how we're doing and, um,
- 26:20Speaker 1: it helps us, you know, move forward in our, um,
- 26:24Speaker 1: you know, platform.
- 26:26Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 26:27Speaker 4: Yep.
- 26:28Speaker 2: So we do have to wrap it up really quick
- 26:30Speaker 2: for today. This is a really short happy hour. We're
- 26:32Speaker 2: going to have a lot more next week though. We're
- 26:34Speaker 2: going to be together from your kitchen.
- 26:37Speaker 1: Kelly is flying to Palm Beach, Florida on Sunday for
- 26:41Speaker 1: an entire week. And we have so many things happening.
- 26:44Speaker 1: We have so many interviews. Then we were flying to
- 26:46Speaker 1: New York to have dinner at Rao's with two major,
- 26:51Speaker 1: major guests. And then we're filming in New York on Friday,
- 26:54Speaker 1: like three major guests. So like we have so much
- 26:57Speaker 1: going on next week. I'm so excited you're going to
- 26:59Speaker 1: be here. We're going to do a bunch of beach
- 27:02Speaker 1: shots and a bunch of pool shots. Kelly in a
- 27:04Speaker 1: bathing suit.
- 27:06Speaker 3: Rachel in a bathing suit. Whatever. Nobody wants to see me.
- 27:10Speaker 1: Everyone wants to see you. Yes.
- 27:13Speaker 3: It's going to be great.
- 27:14Speaker 2: So I'm so excited. And I leave Sunday, so I
- 27:18Speaker 2: will see you soon.
- 27:19Speaker 1: Yes. I'm so excited. And we have some really interesting
- 27:23Speaker 1: guests next week. Who are we hearing from next week? Oh, gosh.
- 27:27Speaker 2: Next week, we've got Chris Hansen coming up.
- 27:30Speaker 3: We've got Nick Ritchie. Great.
- 27:32Speaker 1: Two great episodes. Yeah.
- 27:34Speaker 4: Yep.
- 27:35Speaker 3: Really great. Chris Hansen, I mean, he's an icon.
- 27:38Speaker 1: Oh, and you guys, I do want to say, I
- 27:40Speaker 1: have had on my bucket list forever Tia Torres and
- 27:44Speaker 1: her daughter Mariah to come on to talk about pit
- 27:46Speaker 1: bulls and parolees. It's a show on Animal Planet about
- 27:49Speaker 1: second chances. Pit bulls are the most misunderstood breed, and
- 27:53Speaker 1: Mariah and Tia only hire parolees to work at Villa Lobos,
- 27:59Speaker 1: their dog rescue. So it's so fitting for the show.
- 28:03Speaker 1: It's taken me so much stocking to get them. But Mariah,
- 28:08Speaker 1: who also has a new show coming out, which is
- 28:10Speaker 1: very interesting, they're coming on our show next week. And
- 28:13Speaker 1: it'll air a week after just because we're going to
- 28:15Speaker 1: be promoting her new show. So we are so excited
- 28:17Speaker 1: to have her on. And that's something I've been working
- 28:20Speaker 1: on for like four months now. So feeling good about it.
- 28:23Speaker 3: You got it. Yep.
- 28:24Speaker 2: All right.
- 28:24Speaker 1: Well, cheers, everybody. Cheers, everybody.
- 28:25Speaker 4: Yep.
- 28:27Speaker 3: Have a great weekend.
- 28:28Speaker 1: We'll see you next week. My cup's not showing.
- 28:30Speaker 4: Oh, here it is.
- 28:31Speaker 3: Put it in front of your, there, in front of you.
- 28:33Speaker 2: Okay.
- 28:35Speaker 4: All right.
- 28:35Speaker 3: Cheers.
- 28:35Speaker 4: Bye.
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