Psychology Professor Harry Reis's HOW TO FEEL LOVED

Booktalk with Diana Korte · Mar 7, 2026 · 20m

Host Diana Korte speaks with Harry Reis whose newest title is "HOW TO FEEL LOVED. The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most." We can be loved and still not feel loved. Many people believe that if they behave the right way, say the right things, or make themselves more lovable, they will feel more loved. Turns out it doesn’t work that way. In this exceptional book the authors, a relationship expert (Reis) and a happiness researcher (Lyubomirsky), present a hopeful science-backed shift in how to think about love. As they say, don’t change yourself—change the conversation.