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- 0:00Ralph: You've saved, you've prepared, and you know you can afford it.
- 0:03But now comes the step.
- 0:05Most people find intimidating, and that's actually applying
- 0:08for a mortgage, different loan types, interest rates, paperwork.
- 0:12It can feel like an absolutely confusing maze.
- 0:15How do you find the right mortgage without losing your peace?
- 0:18Well, stick with me today 'cause I'm gonna share how to navigate this
- 0:21process with confidence on today's show.
- 0:38Hey there.
- 0:39Welcome back to your Daily, financially Confident Christian.
- 0:42I'm Ralph and it is great to be with you again today.
- 0:44As always, this is the show that helps you answer that very pressing
- 0:48question, how can I become a financially confident Christian?
- 0:52And we're deep into the topic of home ownership as we continue our series
- 0:56dealing with the stress of money worries.
- 0:59So you've done the vital work of assessing your affordability.
- 1:02You know what you're comfortable in buying.
- 1:04You've prepared your finances, you're saving now for the down payment.
- 1:08You're building those reserves and you're polishing your credit.
- 1:11And let me just tell you right now, preparation is the key in all of this, but
- 1:16today we're gonna step into the process of actually doing the financing of that home.
- 1:20. And for many, the mortgage application is the most complex, and trust me, the
- 1:26most stressful part of buying a home.
- 1:28There's a lot of options and a ton of paperwork.
- 1:31So let's ask this question today.
- 1:33How do I navigate the mortgage maze and get a good loan without
- 1:37adding unnecessary stress?
- 1:39That's a real good thing to talk about today because I bet you've heard the
- 1:43stories, piles of documents requested, confusing terms, trying to compare offers
- 1:48with different lenders, worrying if you'll even ever get approved at the end of this.
- 1:53The struggle of the mortgage process, is very complex and a feeling of
- 1:58being outta control is very common.
- 2:00And a lot of people have said, Ralph, I just feel like I'm
- 2:03at the mercy of the lender.
- 2:05I make you feel stressed about making the wrong choice on a loan type.
- 2:08Am I getting a fixed rate or an adjustable rate?
- 2:11am I getting the best interest rate or am I, am I going to hit
- 2:14these unexpected roadblocks?
- 2:16And those roadblocks, lemme just tell you right now, they can even delay or
- 2:19derail your home purchase altogether.
- 2:22And then let's not even talk about the sheer amount of
- 2:24financial information required.
- 2:26There's a bundle of stuff you get and the high stakes involved with
- 2:30such a large loan and that can just truly add significant anxiety.
- 2:35But here's the thing you need to understand.
- 2:37I want you to accept this at the very beginning.
- 2:39The mortgage process is complex.
- 2:41It's not simple, but you don't have to navigate it blindly.
- 2:45If you understand the basics and you're prepared, that will help you tremendously.
- 2:50Think of it like seeking wisdom and counsel for a major decision, which
- 2:54is exactly what the Bible encourages.
- 2:56Look at the book of Proverbs, chapter 11, verse 14 says this.
- 3:00Now, we're not talking about nations, but I thought this was really
- 3:02appropriate for the lack of guidance.
- 3:05A nation falls, but with wise counsel comes victory.
- 3:10We definitely want victory over this mortgage process.
- 3:13And look at Proverbs chapter 24, verse six.
- 3:15It says this, surely you need guidance to wage war.
- 3:19And victory is won through many advisors.
- 3:22And like I said, a mortgage isn't a nation, but we all need to seek wise
- 3:27counsel from trusted advisors, trusted lenders, and get a better understanding
- 3:31of the process because that's crucial for victory in securing a good loan.
- 3:35And this is going to be a battle.
- 3:38Approach this process with diligence and approach it with a prayer
- 3:41for heart, trusting that God can provide clarity and guide you.
- 3:45Right.
- 3:45To the final part of this financing, and again, I'm gonna reiterate this again,
- 3:50this is truly an act of responsible stewardship to ensure the terms of
- 3:55your largest debt for most people.
- 3:57Buying a home is going to be your largest debt.
- 4:00So you wanna make sure the terms are favorable and more importantly,
- 4:03that they're manageable.
- 4:04So now you're thinking, Ralph, that sounds very complicated.
- 4:07You already told us this was complex.
- 4:09What can we do?
- 4:10How do we cut through the confusion and the stress of that mortgage maze to really
- 4:14get to the end and secure a good loan?
- 4:17Well, as always, I've got an answer.
- 4:20My answer today is pretty straightforward.
- 4:22Starts with educating yourself on the basic types of the mortgages.
- 4:26Shop around with multiple lenders.
- 4:28Get that pre-approval before you even think about making an offer on a home.
- 4:32And I'm gonna say something that's gonna be a little bit
- 4:35outside the realm of Normalness.
- 4:37I'm gonna say get that pre-approval letter before you even go shopping for a home.
- 4:41'cause you gotta understand what you actually can afford and what you're
- 4:44going to be able to qualify for.
- 4:47Because this proactive approach empowers you, I wanna empower
- 4:50you today with knowledge that can strengthen your position as a buyer.
- 4:53So, okay, here's your one vital action step for today, specifically focused
- 4:58on navigating the mortgage process.
- 5:01It all starts with a basic understanding of the mortgage type.
- 5:04So I'm gonna encourage you to take 20 or 30 minutes and research
- 5:07the different types of loans.
- 5:09You know, that could be something like a fixed rate loan where the interest
- 5:12rate stays the same over the life of the loan, gives you stability in the rate.
- 5:16Or maybe for you it's an adjustable rate where the interest
- 5:18rate can change periodically.
- 5:20Sometimes that gives you a lower initial payment, but then
- 5:23introduces some uncertainty.
- 5:25There's pros and cons for both and consider which of those loans
- 5:28might fit your financial plan and your risk tolerance best.
- 5:32So once you do that, you figure out, yes.
- 5:33I wanna get a fixed rate loan, then I'm gonna encourage you
- 5:36to shop around for lenders.
- 5:37And a lot of people don't realize that you can do this.
- 5:40Yes, you can shop around for lenders.
- 5:42You don't have to just go to the first bank.
- 5:44You think of, you don't have to go to the person.
- 5:46Well, you know, the, the, the realtor said, I need to use this person,
- 5:49or, or I gotta use this person.
- 5:51I don't agree with that at all.
- 5:53I'm gonna tell you right now.
- 5:54Every time I've went and bought a home, I've actually had lenders competing.
- 5:58So go find two or three different reputable mortgage lenders.
- 6:00Now, I'm not saying to go through the whole process with them because you
- 6:03don't want them pulling credit and all that kind of stuff, but look at banks.
- 6:06Look at credit unions.
- 6:08Go to a mortgage broker.
- 6:09Mortgage brokers are great for this 'cause they can shop around and get you
- 6:12the best interest because the truth is.
- 6:14Interest rates and fees can vary significantly, but if you shop around,
- 6:19you're going to get the best terms.
- 6:21And like I said before, get pre-approved.
- 6:24This is a vital step.
- 6:25Go through that pre-approval process with at least one lender.
- 6:28So once you've narrowed it down to, I'm gonna pick these three lenders,
- 6:31I like their rate and terms, I like their service, all that kind of stuff.
- 6:35Then get through the pre-approval with one of those lenders.
- 6:38'cause they're gonna review your financial information.
- 6:40They're gonna look at your income, they're gonna look at your assets,
- 6:43they're gonna pull your credit, and they're really gonna tell you again
- 6:45how much you qualify to borrow.
- 6:47And as I talked about two shows ago, just because they tell you you qualify
- 6:51for something, we gotta do a gut check again and go back and think, am I
- 6:55comfortable borrowing that much money?
- 6:57Because like I said, just because you qualify for a certain amount doesn't
- 7:01mean you should borrow this much.
- 7:03So stick to what you can comfortably afford.
- 7:05Like we talked about in episode one 70.
- 7:07And here's the thing, that pre-approval letter shows sellers
- 7:10that you're a serious buyer.
- 7:11And to be honest with you, most sellers aren't even gonna entertain even showing
- 7:15you the home or even giving you an opportunity to make an offer until
- 7:19you've got that pre-approval letter.
- 7:22Now you're asking Ralph, okay, this all sounds great, but why does this help?
- 7:25Because it fights that struggle and that stress of feeling
- 7:28lost in the mortgage maze.
- 7:29And that can be a lost.
- 7:30I remember when I bought my first house, I was like 21 or 22 years old,
- 7:34I bought this townhouse and I remember I kept a book about this thick of all
- 7:37the documents that I had to go through.
- 7:39I mean, the thing must have been three inches wide.
- 7:42'cause it was like, okay, ask this question.
- 7:44Ask this question.
- 7:45It's important because it's real easy to get lost in that mortgage maze.
- 7:49I'm gonna encourage you to educate yourself because it's going to replace
- 7:52that confusion and you're gonna have a better understanding what's going on.
- 7:56As I encourage shop around, could save you thousands of dollars
- 8:00over the life of the loan.
- 8:01Get that pre-approval letter 'cause that's gonna streamline the process.
- 8:05And in the end, all of this puts you in a more informed and empowered position.
- 8:10Let's pray together now.
- 8:11Father God, we just thank you for guiding us in managing our finances.
- 8:16And Lord, we confess to you right now that the mortgage process feels complex and
- 8:20it can bring significant stress to us.
- 8:23So we, this ask that you would grant us clarity and grant us understanding as
- 8:27we learn about the different loan types and really shop around for lenders.
- 8:31Show us what's out there Lord, and lead us to reputable individuals
- 8:34who can offer that wise counsel that your Word talks about.
- 8:38Guide us in that pre-approval process and help us to remember what
- 8:41we truly can afford comfortably.
- 8:44Grant us peace and grant us wisdom, Lord, in securing a mortgage that aligns with
- 8:48your plan for our financial wellbeing.
- 8:50And we ask this in confidence.
- 8:53In Jesus' name, Amen.
- 8:55Listen.
- 8:56Don't let the mortgage maze intimidate you.
- 8:59Many people have gone through it.
- 9:00You can get through this as well.
- 9:02Just empower yourself with knowledge.
- 9:04Shop around wisely.
- 9:06Get that pre-approval based on your comfortable affordability.
- 9:09Because listen, you're taking intentional steps towards securing
- 9:13your home financing, and if this episode has impacted you in a
- 9:16positive way, I'm gonna encourage you to share it with somebody else.
- 9:19There's a lot of people that are going through this process.
- 9:22Maybe you share the last few episodes with them.
- 9:24You can find resources and connect with the show at our website
- 9:27that's at financially confident christian.com, and I've got a
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- 9:58Now, tomorrow we're gonna be talking about part of the home buying that
- 10:01often surprises people and can cause some last minute stress, and that's
- 10:05understanding and more importantly, preparing for those closing costs.
- 10:09This has been a surprise to some people that I've worked with over the
- 10:12years, so you don't wanna miss it.
- 10:13So make sure you join me now.
- 10:15Let's all go out there and be financially.
- 10:18Confident Christians, you can do this.
- 10:21I have confidence in you.
- 10:23Have confidence in yourself.
- 10:24Stay financially savvy.
- 10:25God bless you, and you have a great day today.