250. How to Plan to Get the Best Divorce Outcomes

Your Extraordinary Life & Dating After Divorce · Feb 16, 2026 · 20m

You tell yourself it won't happen. You avoid the word "divorce" like saying it out loud will make it real. You wait. You hope. You pray things shift.

Meanwhile, assets move. Attorneys get hired — just not by you. And when it hits, you're blindsided.

That was my story. I lost assets, lost leverage, and watched my divorce drag on because I refused to face what was happening. I thought I could handle it. I thought we'd figure it out. I was wrong.

If you are in a difficult, abusive, or high-conflict marriage — this episode is for you. Not every divorce requires deep planning. But if your spouse…