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Crystal Clear · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: This is Teddy Tea Pod with Teddy Mill and Cab Hi. Guys,
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Speaker 1: welcome to this week's Teddy Tea Pod. How fun is
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Speaker 1: it that we have a hotline now? I am obsessed.
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Speaker 1: I love talking to you guys in the moment. It's amazing.
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Speaker 1: This week joining us is Real Housewives of Beverly Hills
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Speaker 1: newbie Crystal, Come minkoff. She's going to be answering all
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Speaker 1: of our tough questions and we are so excited to
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Speaker 1: have her on. We're just gonna get right into it, guys.
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Speaker 1: So this is Crystal, and of course she gets on
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Speaker 1: and has to be like riding my ass already, Like
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Speaker 1: I can't believe. I can't believe you guys scheduled this
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Speaker 1: right now. Blah blah blah. Crystal and I are hosting
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Speaker 1: a baby shower later on today, and I took the
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Speaker 1: easy job. I was like, I'll be in charge of
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Speaker 1: booze and crystals, Like I'll be in charge of food.
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Speaker 1: But I didn't know she was going to be cooking forever.
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Speaker 1: Of course overche so literally Megan calls me because our
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Speaker 1: mutual bestie. Megan was like, because I'm in charge of
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Speaker 1: picking up the food and we're going to cook it
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Speaker 1: all for a lot of people. And she was like, okay,
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Speaker 1: So how the groceries going. I was like, oh, I
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Speaker 1: just I haven't done it yet. I'll make a list.
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Speaker 1: She goes one you're gonna get. I was like, I
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Speaker 1: don't know, Like I don't know, I'll get the day
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Speaker 1: before and she's like, it's today. That was this morning.
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Speaker 1: I have no listen, Crystal, I almost fell off the
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Speaker 1: couch last night. And you're talking head When you said
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Speaker 1: I am so organized, I was like, lies, you're ja
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Speaker 1: b I am organized except sance. You put me into this.
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Speaker 1: It was like, and I honestly, one, Crystal is always
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Speaker 1: late coming to dance every week. Two well fashionally like it,
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Speaker 1: but it's proved to be on time. Well I I
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Speaker 1: actually don't because you know, one time I got that
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Speaker 1: spanking and I've never been late since. But you do
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Speaker 1: bring delicious cocktails real coco. Margarite is like, so it's okay.
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Speaker 1: She can be forgiven for being you know, five to
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Speaker 1: seven minutes late ever three time. So Crystal. The number
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Speaker 1: one question that came in for us was were you
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Speaker 1: guys actually friends? Before Crystal joined the show and did
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Speaker 1: Teddy refer you to the show No Lies again, the
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Speaker 1: Double Lies. Well we um, Yes, I pushed for Crystal
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Speaker 1: so hard because I was like, this would be so
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Speaker 1: exciting to be on with my friend Da da da
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Speaker 1: da da. And then we found mutual friends to pretend
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Speaker 1: to host baby showers together and it's it's all you know,
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Speaker 1: it's all orchestrated. But no, we met and mommy and
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Speaker 1: what was it, Mommy, and I met you at your
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Speaker 1: house when you were hosting a baby shower for meg.
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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so we met. That means it was
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Speaker 1: eight years ago. Eight years ago we met, and you're
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Speaker 1: at the other house, but it was a long time ago. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it was at the first house. I was the house
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Speaker 1: and Mount Olympus. Yeah, so we met there and immediately
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Speaker 1: I knew that I loved Crystal because she came in
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Speaker 1: and was like dancing and fun, in the life of
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Speaker 1: the party and likely late for sure, late and not organized,
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Speaker 1: but looked beautiful. Was so much fun. Um, And yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's how we met. So Crystal, what advice did I
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Speaker 1: give you going into filming? You are you keep things
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Speaker 1: close to the nest? You gave me a lot. I
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Speaker 1: might have said, no, Um, you. Oh God, what advice
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Speaker 1: do you give me? You said be yourself and you
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Speaker 1: were really sweet. You said people love you, and m
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Speaker 1: that is challenging. That looks verience talent. It's hard to
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Speaker 1: be yourself in this, you know, And I am because
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Speaker 1: like every reaction to have as real because it's it's
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Speaker 1: truly authentic, you know. But I've never been in front
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Speaker 1: of a camera, so that environment is brand new, and
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Speaker 1: if you've never been in front of it, you can't
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Speaker 1: help but feel it, and you do lose yourself at
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Speaker 1: some point, but not not fully for me, you know.
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Speaker 1: But so I really worked hard internally two make sure
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Speaker 1: that I was projecting who I you know, I'm saying
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Speaker 1: I didn't want to act like a certain way. I
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Speaker 1: was like, this is who I am, but I had
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Speaker 1: actively do that. But you'd be self, which is really
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Speaker 1: important because I think that's the only really way to
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Speaker 1: do it, you know. Yeah, I think being yourself. And
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Speaker 1: then I remember when I first started it was being
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Speaker 1: present because sometimes my mind would like wander and think
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Speaker 1: about like, oh no, what's gonna happen here? What does
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Speaker 1: this mean? Was that? And then I was like, shoot,
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Speaker 1: is everybody talking about I'm lost and so being president
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Speaker 1: was like a big thing for me at the beginning.
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Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't like this next one. What if
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Speaker 1: you are like shady to me? Uh? What was your
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Speaker 1: first impression of me? And did we click right away? Oh?
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Speaker 1: I like to you, I think you're very but you
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Speaker 1: could you could you tell that was not real? So
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Speaker 1: you paused? You pause like to read did when she
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Speaker 1: said I like you? You know what, you, Teddy are
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Speaker 1: a force And I don't know what people really know
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Speaker 1: that And when I say force, it's genuinely super positive.
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Speaker 1: And you're so you're such a good friend and you
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Speaker 1: have such a close group of friend that I love,
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Speaker 1: you know, like we are our best friends are mutual
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Speaker 1: and um, I think it's I don't think that everyone
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Speaker 1: gets to see that that you only see of a
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Speaker 1: small part of you. Um, but you you are the
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Speaker 1: life of the party. Um my god, why do you
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Speaker 1: have to be so now? I'm like what you can
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Speaker 1: cry cry cry, No, I've done my share of crying.
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Speaker 1: But you won't see that. And that's the shame of it.
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Speaker 1: And so I'm saying it out loud that you really
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Speaker 1: are genuinely and um and that's how I really felt
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Speaker 1: about you, and you know we've been friends ever since.
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Speaker 1: So well, I always have so much fun for you
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Speaker 1: and you guys. Crystal is not only like the most
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Speaker 1: amazing host. She always comes into every event having fun,
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Speaker 1: ready to like take action. Like every time she'll be
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Speaker 1: the bartender, she will get her hands dirty, which I love. Like,
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Speaker 1: I know you're seeing a side of Crystal that's like
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Speaker 1: very like proper, but she's also like the girl that's
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Speaker 1: like I got the ice bags and this and that,
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Speaker 1: Like you make stuff happen so huge, you know, huge
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Speaker 1: shape so much. Yeah, I think that's what's weird. And again,
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Speaker 1: it's only only two episodes in UM. And when you
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Speaker 1: really break it down, I think I've been on camera
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Speaker 1: for I don't know, seven minutes, so you know that
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Speaker 1: you time it out. Was that like you know my calculations,
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Speaker 1: you know, and you know when people that people have
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Speaker 1: formed such strong opinions, And that's okay. I understand that
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Speaker 1: because when I watch any kind of show, that's so
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Speaker 1: that's the nature of it, and that's okay. There's no
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Speaker 1: blame in that. UM. But yeah, so it's definitely a
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Speaker 1: a real and very specific part of who I am. UM.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, hopefully then people get to see me, you know,
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Speaker 1: slipping ice bags and well, do you realize that, even
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Speaker 1: though we've been friends for eight years, you never told
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Speaker 1: me that you worked at an escort service. Okay. I
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Speaker 1: saw the preview and I was like, oh my god,
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Speaker 1: I forgot. I'd say, yeah, you know, it's like not
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Speaker 1: eight nine months ago, so long ago. And I was
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Speaker 1: telling my friends where I was a tennis and I
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Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, they're going to use this
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Speaker 1: thing there like you worked where Okay, So I just
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Speaker 1: need to clarify because it's very very It's not the
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Speaker 1: editing that's a problem. It's just, you know, it's very
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Speaker 1: limited to what he said. So it was an advertising
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Speaker 1: company that was for escort. It was resting. Yeah, So
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Speaker 1: I like, how you trying to sugarcoat that there? Yeah.
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Speaker 1: So I did not send girls out. I received the
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Speaker 1: calls that I received were from the girls, and then
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Speaker 1: they pay us as an advertising company to put their
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Speaker 1: picture up and phone number. So I worked with the
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Speaker 1: girls actually, but escorts is like, you know, they're like
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Speaker 1: they got to dinner with you and stuff like like
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Speaker 1: I don't know, try Okay, Yeah, they trips to they
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Speaker 1: have your hang out with you or there's like then
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Speaker 1: what how were you? How did they reach out to
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Speaker 1: to bring you on as a madam? That was not
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Speaker 1: part of that. Oh that was the lie. No no, no,
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Speaker 1: no, no no, that happened to separations. Yeah. The lie was
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Speaker 1: me um the law. It was me getting arrested because
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Speaker 1: it sounded such an easy like maybe she you know,
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Speaker 1: like ridiculous. I actually do have a I have a
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Speaker 1: warrant for my arrest and that's actually kind of that
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Speaker 1: would be great. Oh what did you do about Arizona?
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Speaker 1: And I talked to the judge and he's like, just
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Speaker 1: don't are you gonna come back here? I was like no,
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Speaker 1: and he's like, just don't come back. That's a whole
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Speaker 1: remind me not to bring you to Arizona. Well I can't.
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Speaker 1: I can't drive there or I'll get arrested. So it
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Speaker 1: is with the madam story. Rob was super super into
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Speaker 1: like when you know, like World Porka Tour was really
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Speaker 1: popular and that we just watched it endlessly, watched m XC,
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Speaker 1: which is like that Japanese game show and all all date,
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Speaker 1: all night, and so Rob got really to poker and
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Speaker 1: then we go to the commerce casino and there was
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Speaker 1: this woman there and very loud and you know, like
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Speaker 1: throwing money on the table and just and I'm just
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Speaker 1: like two years old sitting there and she's like looking
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Speaker 1: at me. She's like, come here, come here, and she
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Speaker 1: was I could tell she was Korean, and so I
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Speaker 1: feel like like it was like a mama to me,
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Speaker 1: you know. And I'm like okay. And then Rob's like
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Speaker 1: like she's asking to go with her, and like he's like,
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Speaker 1: are you okay. I'm like I'm okay. So Just we
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Speaker 1: walked through the casino out to these like double doors
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Speaker 1: and but their glass doors. It was like a pat
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Speaker 1: like a kind of a patio, so he could see me,
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Speaker 1: I could see him, and she's like what are you
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Speaker 1: doing here? I'm like my friend, and she's like, you know,
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Speaker 1: I can make you some money. And then out walks
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Speaker 1: a guy like Just and he just immediately like he
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Speaker 1: was ready. Yeah. It's just like standing there next to
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Speaker 1: her and I'm like uh and she's like I can
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Speaker 1: you know, make good money. I was like no, like
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Speaker 1: I'm so scared, like no, thank you, you know, and
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Speaker 1: then she was okay, go go to him. She's like
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Speaker 1: get out of here. And she was okay, so I
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Speaker 1: see a lot of me and you, and then it
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Speaker 1: was okay, this girl's not going to do that. Maybe
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Speaker 1: I could be a little like a protege. So that
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Speaker 1: that was that's the story, you know what. I know,
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Speaker 1: I have a weird and by the way, it's like
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Speaker 1: I didn't ask for it just came to me, don't
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Speaker 1: you know what. You're just lucky that way. Commit opportunities
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Speaker 1: are always finding you. Crystall all right. Next back to
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Speaker 1: you know, housewives. They want to know you're new to
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Speaker 1: the group, who has been the most welcoming and who
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Speaker 1: has been the most standoffish. So this question is asked,
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Speaker 1: like people, really, I don't know. I feel like Jurie
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Speaker 1: was super welcoming. Um, And when I answer this question,
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Speaker 1: I immediately think about the very first time I met
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Speaker 1: the group as a whole. You know. That's that's sort
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Speaker 1: of how I can approach it, because everyone was actually
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Speaker 1: welcoming in different stages. So I think about that first Nigeria,
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Speaker 1: big arms open, and I didn't know what to expect.
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Speaker 1: I thought maybe I'd just get coldness, you know, and like,
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Speaker 1: who's the new ber I don't like her? And Durie
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Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, you have kids and Dada
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Speaker 1: and Teddy told me that, you know, and obviously you
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Speaker 1: and Deret her friends. So I think that there was
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Speaker 1: that connection. And I felt that from Garcela too, because
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Speaker 1: she was like, oh my god, your Rob's wife like
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Speaker 1: years ago. And so for me, that sort of experience
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Speaker 1: is like safety of like when you have one connection,
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Speaker 1: you feel you know, welcomed. And I would say Sutton
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Speaker 1: and she knows to hear all the time. Sutton was
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Speaker 1: definitely less warm, but from the beginning, yeah, not super cool,
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Speaker 1: but just not as like bubbly as I would say.
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Speaker 1: The other people were alright, alright, well Rob, he's directed all,
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Speaker 1: you know, all of these things. He's so talented. I
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Speaker 1: personally love Rob. He is that person that like when
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Speaker 1: you're sitting at dinner, you're gonna be laughing, you're gonna
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Speaker 1: be learning. He's such a great guy. But um, how
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Speaker 1: did he feel about you joining the show? Um? You know,
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Speaker 1: like his first reaction and I said, oh, Teddy called me.
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Speaker 1: He's like nope, Um, you know, it took us a
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Speaker 1: long time and you know, you were on the journey
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Speaker 1: with me and you know, he just it's scary it's
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Speaker 1: a scary thing to put ourselves out there, you know.
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Speaker 1: And he's though he's never done reality or you know,
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Speaker 1: been an act or anything like that, you know, you
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Speaker 1: sort of know what might come with the territory. But
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Speaker 1: you know the biggest fear was when people say, oh,
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Speaker 1: people get divorced, and we would just be like, well,
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Speaker 1: that's that's our issue, Like we are solid. And I
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Speaker 1: think that was the reason why I said yes. If
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Speaker 1: we felt that that would not hurt our family, then
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Speaker 1: we could potentially say yes. So once we you know,
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Speaker 1: pass that threshold, then it was sort of diving deeper
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Speaker 1: into what you know would be positive and negative. And
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Speaker 1: you know, I did the charts, I did the pros
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Speaker 1: and con I wrote him now and we you know,
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Speaker 1: went through each one. Well, I've now, this reminds me
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Speaker 1: of another piece of advice that I gave you that
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Speaker 1: obviously you forgot, but I said, if you have any
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Speaker 1: dark secrets that you don't want to come forward, do
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Speaker 1: not do the show that that's the only reason other
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Speaker 1: than that do it. Like for me, that was the
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Speaker 1: same thing. I'm like, I know I'm in a good marriage.
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Speaker 1: I know that I have good you know, like my
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Speaker 1: family's good, life is good, business is good, Like there's
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Speaker 1: no reason and there's nothing I have to hide, right,
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Speaker 1: So I once like like that I felt comfortable with
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Speaker 1: and then when you dive deeper, it's so why do
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Speaker 1: you do it? You know, as opposed to like I don't.
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Speaker 1: I really don't understand why people do it if they
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Speaker 1: have that kind of stuff for fear of it, Like
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Speaker 1: I didn't have fear in that aspect. So then it
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Speaker 1: was the approach was why why yes and um, and
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Speaker 1: then that's why you know you dive deeper into what
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Speaker 1: it means for you and your family? Yeah, for sure.
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Speaker 1: And I was like the first thing you said, come on,
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Speaker 1: well now that you're a season in, like, are you
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Speaker 1: happy that I brought you in? Or are you like
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Speaker 1: you knows I'm gonna say, okay, we'll say this because
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Speaker 1: I always try to be a positive person. I'm camera
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Speaker 1: close it. I'm like, okay, ER's a right. No. I
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Speaker 1: have grown so much and it sounds so sappy. I
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Speaker 1: have grown so much as a person in the last
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Speaker 1: year then ten years combined in my life. I have
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Speaker 1: seen so much that I never thought I would see,
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Speaker 1: including working at you know, an advertising Govinie. That's you know,
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Speaker 1: it's it's so um it's it has made my life
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Speaker 1: so expansive and insular in a weird way. Um So,
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Speaker 1: But do I regret it? No, not, No, I don't
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Speaker 1: regret it. I want to see what it's going to
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Speaker 1: look like, to be honest, you know, I don't know
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Speaker 1: how that's going to play out, and and and then
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Speaker 1: I'll assess whether that's it's you know, to move forward.
15:48
Speaker 1: But um, you know it's I've grown a lot, and
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Speaker 1: I think that's if I can take anything positive out
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Speaker 1: of it, is you know i'd say that. Yeah, And
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Speaker 1: I'm just to put it in perspective for for the listeners,
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Speaker 1: Like people think that like we already know how the
16:03
Speaker 1: show is gonna look like weeks or months in advance. No,
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Speaker 1: like Housewives get the episode the day before, that's it
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Speaker 1: and then and there's no changes, Like it's it is
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Speaker 1: what it is, and you just have to sit there
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Speaker 1: and live with it. You have what the night before
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Speaker 1: it actually airs, after you've seen it is the worst.
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Speaker 1: It's not a good episode for you. It's horrible. And
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Speaker 1: I have to say, like episode two, I was really
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Speaker 1: down in the docks about it and then I don't
16:31
Speaker 1: know why. I think you're just so self critical and
16:33
Speaker 1: so like, what if I had done this or how
16:36
Speaker 1: I approached that? And then you know, the feedback is
16:39
Speaker 1: so interesting, you know, and then you sort of seen
16:41
Speaker 1: a different light. But yeah, it's you know, but I
16:45
Speaker 1: know from what you and all the girls have said,
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Speaker 1: there will be great episodes and hard episodes for everyone,
16:51
Speaker 1: and she's designed to do that. So what part what part?
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Speaker 1: In particular? How did you feeling that way after watching
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Speaker 1: the episode? Of course, I mean the ending, it's it's
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Speaker 1: really hard to watch, and it's you know, even though
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Speaker 1: I feel so strongly, I'm so convicted in my in
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Speaker 1: my how I feel about this topic about race and
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Speaker 1: stuff like that. Um, I don't want to ever. I
17:20
Speaker 1: don't ever want to become an argument or where someone
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Speaker 1: feels uncomfortable, and you know, and I and I look
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Speaker 1: at that, and it's that I don't like that. That's hard.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys did have an intense conversation about race.
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Speaker 1: How did it feel like when she said, I'm not
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Speaker 1: talking about racial stereotypes. I also have a stereotype, but
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Speaker 1: I don't want to bring it up. How would you
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Speaker 1: have preferred that conversation about well, as you said, nothing's planned.
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Speaker 1: I mean that thing was that happened so organically and
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Speaker 1: at one in the morning, and you know, you know,
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Speaker 1: I know people are like, oh, like drinking and all
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Speaker 1: that stuff adds fuel to the fire. I was not.
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Speaker 1: I was holding a drink, but I really didn't drink
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Speaker 1: that whole trip. And um, you know, I mean, we
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Speaker 1: haven't seen the next episode. I have not seen the
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Speaker 1: exact I don't. I think it resolves by ending, you know, Um,
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Speaker 1: but you know, for me, it's like in any conversation
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Speaker 1: race or other. You know, you want it to be
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Speaker 1: open and honest and accepted on both sides. Do you
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Speaker 1: want to hear all sides? And I think, um, sadly,
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Speaker 1: a lot of what she wanted to say and what
18:45
Speaker 1: I wanted to say was not heard. And um, but
18:49
Speaker 1: that's also again a growth experience amongst people. Just that
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Speaker 1: was the That was the second Dame at her wow
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Speaker 1: I think about. I know I met her at Dereats
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Speaker 1: for jin Are and that one when you went on
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Speaker 1: the trip and went on the trip and I hate
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Speaker 1: to do this, but we have to take a quick
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Speaker 1: break and then we'll come right back. Okay, guys, welcome back.
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Speaker 1: And to start off, we are going to open the
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Speaker 1: hotline for a couple of questions before I go into
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Speaker 1: the instant questions after that. So let's bring on Sarah. Hi.
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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so excited to talk to you guys.
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Speaker 1: Hi um, Yes, Sarah, hi um. So my question is
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Speaker 1: for Crystal Um. I would love to know more about
19:41
Speaker 1: your brother. I you said he would a pop star
19:43
Speaker 1: and he was living with you guys, Like was that
19:46
Speaker 1: crazy growing up? Or like how long has he been
19:49
Speaker 1: doing that? Oh my god, I'm so glad you asked
19:52
Speaker 1: my brother brother so much. We're like, so Jeff and
19:55
Speaker 1: I are nineteen months apart, he's older whatever he says.
19:59
Speaker 1: By the way, I have to make this clear. If
20:01
Speaker 1: you google me, I'm trying to spread this far and
20:04
Speaker 1: wide right now, if you google me, it says I'm
20:06
Speaker 1: born in five and I'm not. I was born eighty three.
20:10
Speaker 1: And because there was I guess another Crystal Kong who's
20:12
Speaker 1: an artist, and our profiles got merged. So people think
20:16
Speaker 1: I'm younger than I am. And that would be great
20:20
Speaker 1: if it didn't date me and Rob situate and making
20:24
Speaker 1: a problem like no I do, but my honey, it's
20:27
Speaker 1: like I don't know what to do, but I know
20:29
Speaker 1: how old I am, and so I'm like, I just
20:32
Speaker 1: want to say that for the record, I'm thirty eight
20:35
Speaker 1: and born in eighty three. Okay, that's all so um
20:38
Speaker 1: and Jeff was born eighty one. So Jeff actually went
20:41
Speaker 1: to Michigan and he studied abroad in China like I did.
20:45
Speaker 1: Our parents sent us for a year to Beijing. And
20:47
Speaker 1: when he was there, he had Um called. I was
20:51
Speaker 1: senior in college and and he or in high school
20:54
Speaker 1: and he called and said, oh I did like a demo,
20:58
Speaker 1: like it was a song. We're like, what the hell
21:01
Speaker 1: is that? That was going to Michigan like international business,
21:05
Speaker 1: like we're normal, you know, sort of classical Chinese things
21:09
Speaker 1: that we're doing right, and and I almost like what?
21:13
Speaker 1: And then he called us and it's like okay, they
21:14
Speaker 1: want to record an album. And my mom was like
21:17
Speaker 1: over my dead body. But then he said, okay, what
21:19
Speaker 1: if I promise you'll finish college. So he finished like
21:24
Speaker 1: literally that year. He just like flew back to Michigan,
21:26
Speaker 1: got it done and came back. And then he was
21:29
Speaker 1: twenty years old and he won Best New MTV Asia
21:33
Speaker 1: Best New Artist and that was it. That was twenty
21:37
Speaker 1: years ago and he had been since so um, which
21:42
Speaker 1: is so weird, you know. But he was here in
21:45
Speaker 1: l A with us while we were filming because he
21:49
Speaker 1: had left China. Um and of February when things were
21:53
Speaker 1: starting to get locked down there for COVID and we
21:55
Speaker 1: didn't know what was happening here yet, and he called
21:57
Speaker 1: us was like, you guys, this is like a serious thing,
21:59
Speaker 1: and we were like, well, you have an American passport
22:03
Speaker 1: and maybe you won't be able to get out, so
22:05
Speaker 1: maybe it's best to get out here. He thought maybe
22:07
Speaker 1: four to six weeks. It wasn't four to six weeks.
22:11
Speaker 1: So he was ended up in lockdown here in l
22:15
Speaker 1: A with us, which ended up being great. Um. But
22:18
Speaker 1: that's so that's what happened. So he doesn't normally live here. Um.
22:22
Speaker 1: He's back in China now, um, but he's planning a
22:25
Speaker 1: buying house in l A next year because we're born
22:27
Speaker 1: and raised here. So that's about my brother and he's
22:30
Speaker 1: like the best uncle. Do you think too? Do you
22:33
Speaker 1: guys think together? I mean, I'm an incredible shower singer.
22:37
Speaker 1: Why don't you show us a little bit, Crystal. I'd
22:39
Speaker 1: love to hear you just you know, throw something out,
22:41
Speaker 1: just something casual from Lyon King, because like, I don't
22:44
Speaker 1: think anyone knows that we're all directable annoying, like why
22:48
Speaker 1: do you talking about liking him? Because they told me
22:49
Speaker 1: to keep talking about lying like I don't talk. How
22:51
Speaker 1: do you think I feel John Mellencamp, like they've lost
22:54
Speaker 1: those questions. I'm not sitting there like, hey, my dad's
22:56
Speaker 1: the coube. You answer those questions and then you look
23:00
Speaker 1: like such a douche after totally like oh, by the way,
23:06
Speaker 1: did you know? But all these things that it's so
23:11
Speaker 1: insane to me, like look at his awards, look at
23:16
Speaker 1: up there, you know what do you know? So funny
23:18
Speaker 1: because so Rob is um up north finishing his movie
23:21
Speaker 1: and he's because it's so sad, like of course, like
23:24
Speaker 1: all COVID you've been home and now like you're away
23:27
Speaker 1: during the first week and he's like, oh wow a
23:30
Speaker 1: little I'm like, shut up, you idiot. I was like
23:35
Speaker 1: I'm a big timer. Yeah. I was like, He's like, wow,
23:39
Speaker 1: I didn't know I was going to get so much
23:40
Speaker 1: free press is so funny. Yes, I seen in the
23:44
Speaker 1: shower but not professionally. Thank you so much, Sarah. Thank
23:52
Speaker 1: you Bye Sarah. Now we're gonna bring on Alex. Hi
23:58
Speaker 1: you guys, Oh my gosh, how such a big fan
24:01
Speaker 1: of the show. Christal. My question is for you. I'm
24:04
Speaker 1: so curious who the bff on the show? Oh Um, Well,
24:12
Speaker 1: my bff on the show is definitely Kathy. You know,
24:15
Speaker 1: Kathy and I've been friends for fifteen years and people
24:19
Speaker 1: always asked, how how did you guys know each other?
24:21
Speaker 1: You know, what's the origin? So um, Rob's producing partner,
24:27
Speaker 1: Kimberly was married to Kathy's brother, so they were sister
24:33
Speaker 1: in laws. Um and so I. So Rob's partner has
24:37
Speaker 1: been his partner forever. And when I first met Rob,
24:40
Speaker 1: that's my first people I met, and so um they've
24:44
Speaker 1: always been super close as sister in laws. Even though
24:46
Speaker 1: Kimberly had divorced. So I had met Kathy so long ago.
24:50
Speaker 1: So when you know she was seeking about doing the show,
24:53
Speaker 1: it just made it another great opportunity to do it together.
24:57
Speaker 1: And you know, having her, they're kind of helping me
24:59
Speaker 1: now the gate, the whole experience was super, super helpful. Yeah,
25:04
Speaker 1: Cathy is a trip, as you guys can all see,
25:07
Speaker 1: she's so fun. The Three Truths last night, I was like,
25:10
Speaker 1: so good. And all of her t shirts with the
25:12
Speaker 1: words on it. I was like, Kathy, I'm not searing
25:15
Speaker 1: a teacher with words. Okay wait, so like literally your
25:19
Speaker 1: bestie Kyle every time she come downstairs, like who do
25:23
Speaker 1: you come on? What are you wearing? I look great?
25:27
Speaker 1: So don't change. So good and the fan all of it. Um.
25:33
Speaker 1: Next up we have Bella, Bella what you got for us? Hey? Um,
25:37
Speaker 1: I was wondering, um, for both of you guys, who
25:39
Speaker 1: was each of your most cringing moment of the episode
25:42
Speaker 1: so far? Well, watching you guys, what was my most
25:45
Speaker 1: cringe part? I mean I think, you know, watching the
25:50
Speaker 1: scene between Crystal and Sutton, you know, when you know,
25:55
Speaker 1: when she said the redneck like I think that. I
25:57
Speaker 1: was like, no, you do say it? Like you know that?
26:02
Speaker 1: For me, I was like I could see where she
26:04
Speaker 1: was starting to go and I was like, I really
26:06
Speaker 1: just hope she doesn't say it. So, um, yeah, that
26:09
Speaker 1: was my the cringeest part for me to watch. Yeah. Um,
26:15
Speaker 1: it's so like I think I understand obviously, I understand
26:18
Speaker 1: that being not the two people in it. Um. Every
26:23
Speaker 1: moment for me is a little cringe e like of
26:26
Speaker 1: how I could approach things differently. And you know that's
26:29
Speaker 1: the interesting part of the shows, Like it's already done,
26:32
Speaker 1: so I can't analyze it and do it next time,
26:35
Speaker 1: like it is what whatever has happened happened. That's authentic
26:40
Speaker 1: and organic. Um. But yeah, it's you know, I mean
26:45
Speaker 1: for me, it's like other than that, just like when
26:50
Speaker 1: I talk about, oh, this and this is when you're bragging,
26:56
Speaker 1: you know me, I don't do that. It's like I've
26:58
Speaker 1: never seen a side like because you know, somebody even
27:02
Speaker 1: asked her like it's Christ and I'm just saying it's
27:04
Speaker 1: crystal stop. I'm like no, Like, I mean a snob
27:08
Speaker 1: comment is so weird because I understand why people think
27:11
Speaker 1: of It's not like I get it, you know, because
27:13
Speaker 1: they say, so tell us about this. I'm like, I
27:15
Speaker 1: don't want to tell about this, okay, and then they
27:17
Speaker 1: just use that like and I have this and I
27:20
Speaker 1: have this and they're like, oh god, so like so
27:22
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I'm not like mad people thinking
27:25
Speaker 1: of it's stop. There are worse things, but it is
27:29
Speaker 1: so not my personality. But that's okay. I understand. I
27:32
Speaker 1: don't believe me. She wears croc flip flops when she
27:34
Speaker 1: comes over, I think, so I wrote, like, you know,
27:39
Speaker 1: I hate this girl and her Walmart clothes. I want
27:42
Speaker 1: to be like, what's wrong with Walmart? I don't know. Well,
27:46
Speaker 1: you pretty much have a uniform except when you're on Housewives.
27:49
Speaker 1: Do you have like your standard uniform? You come over,
27:51
Speaker 1: it's a button down, it's shorty shorts with like a
27:55
Speaker 1: draw string and you're crop. Do you have them on now?
27:59
Speaker 1: Ida and your croc flip flops? Okay, so I buy
28:05
Speaker 1: things in bulk. These shorts, ladies, the old navy, y'all,
28:08
Speaker 1: they're linen. I didn't even tie them for you. Okay,
28:11
Speaker 1: they're linen. I think they're like twelve and they're my
28:15
Speaker 1: favorite shorts. So what I do is I end up
28:17
Speaker 1: buying like five and White and five and Peak. But
28:19
Speaker 1: like I, it's just and she wears them, guys, she
28:22
Speaker 1: wears them to the end. Any hating on my fashion,
28:28
Speaker 1: I literally could care less. Could care less, So go
28:33
Speaker 1: for it. It's my favorite. By the way, I learned
28:35
Speaker 1: this the hard way. It's I got so much heat
28:38
Speaker 1: for saying it on the show. It's couldn't care less?
28:41
Speaker 1: I thought, could I got killed for that? I couldn't.
28:45
Speaker 1: I could. Oh yeah, So if he's liked could less,
28:49
Speaker 1: they make you care Yeah, and so I got killed
28:52
Speaker 1: for that. And I also got killed for saying electronical.
28:55
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not electronically savvy. Electronicals, lady, you can't
28:59
Speaker 1: say electronic call? What is the right word? What? What
29:03
Speaker 1: are you trying to say? Like, I'm not savvy on
29:06
Speaker 1: like like my phone technologically savvy. Oh well, okay, maybe
29:12
Speaker 1: I want to text. Maybe I should have phoned a friend. Yeah, well,
29:16
Speaker 1: or it could be a new word like choog e.
29:18
Speaker 1: Oh choogie is all the rage right now. So you
29:21
Speaker 1: can just create a word technology technological, electronically, electronically Okay,
29:27
Speaker 1: it's a good word. Okay, yeah, all right, Oh my gosh, Sam,
29:31
Speaker 1: come on in hi. Um, I have a question. I
29:35
Speaker 1: want to know, Crystal, where do you stand with Sutton
29:38
Speaker 1: right now? So you will see that our friendship it's
29:44
Speaker 1: an arc, as all friendships do, and it's a roller coaster,
29:51
Speaker 1: not what all friendships do. Um, But I will say this,
29:56
Speaker 1: I think that we have come to a better understanding
30:02
Speaker 1: of each other. If I can say that, Okay, I
30:07
Speaker 1: think should be all right, That's what I'll say. Well,
30:11
Speaker 1: following up with that, how hard after that? You know,
30:14
Speaker 1: I know we have a lot to stay tuned for,
30:16
Speaker 1: but like, now that you kind of knew her mindset,
30:19
Speaker 1: was it hard for you working with her going forward?
30:22
Speaker 1: I mean after that, yeah, after after last night? What
30:26
Speaker 1: what's coming? Yeah, it was hard and I and it
30:30
Speaker 1: completely affects me to where I've never been affected for
30:34
Speaker 1: my life actually, and so I'm not quite It's funny
30:38
Speaker 1: watching it because I've been trying to analyze it this
30:40
Speaker 1: morning of sort of what's coming and quickly comes and
30:45
Speaker 1: I'm like, I didn't. I'm just like I'm still processing it,
30:52
Speaker 1: you know, because it happened, but I was it was
30:55
Speaker 1: such a crazy fog. And then now I'm watching it
30:57
Speaker 1: back and I'm like, so I just to know for
31:00
Speaker 1: myself internally, like how did that affect me? And it did? Um,
31:05
Speaker 1: and yeah, you're gonna see it. You're gonna see how
31:07
Speaker 1: it affects me because I feel like I look cool
31:10
Speaker 1: and whatever. And then it's I you know, I'm gonna
31:13
Speaker 1: I can be emotional and I try to keep everything
31:16
Speaker 1: cool at the time, and I think I just I
31:19
Speaker 1: just couldn't you know, so well, we're humans and we
31:22
Speaker 1: uh that's what happened. But I cannually have not. I've
31:27
Speaker 1: not had a confrontation like that in my life. So
31:31
Speaker 1: it's weird that it happened. And that's what I'm saying.
31:33
Speaker 1: What's it's organic like it happened on camera two days
31:38
Speaker 1: after meeting her, and I've literally I you'll say, I
31:41
Speaker 1: say something like, I've never met anyone like you. So yeah, intense,
31:50
Speaker 1: I can't even I mean, wow, Um, well, thank you
31:54
Speaker 1: so much. Sam. We got to bring in tomorrow. Hi Betty, Hi,
32:01
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan. I'm so happy to be talking
32:03
Speaker 1: to you. Thanks for having me on of course, Um
32:08
Speaker 1: so of course I want to know, um what you
32:11
Speaker 1: think of the new season so far? And then I
32:14
Speaker 1: want to ask Crystal who she's bonded with the most. Okay, well,
32:20
Speaker 1: how I think about the season so far? You know,
32:22
Speaker 1: it's it's been, you know, a completely different experience. I
32:25
Speaker 1: I didn't watch Housewives before I became a housewife, so
32:28
Speaker 1: I didn't have like that knowledge going into it, and
32:31
Speaker 1: now I can watch it as like a legitimate like
32:34
Speaker 1: fan versus you know, like these are my girlfriends. These
32:38
Speaker 1: are people I care about. So I can watch in
32:40
Speaker 1: a completely different way without being self critical, without you know,
32:44
Speaker 1: having anxiety, without beating myself up for every little thing
32:47
Speaker 1: that I did wrong. So you know, there's pleasant like
32:50
Speaker 1: that part's pleasant and I, you know, I enjoy it
32:53
Speaker 1: as entertainment as what it is. But of course there
32:56
Speaker 1: are moments where you like have like you know a
32:58
Speaker 1: little bit of like satis fans. Wow, you know, I
33:01
Speaker 1: miss I missed this camaraderie. I missed the trips like
33:04
Speaker 1: are the plane rides are always the most fun? You know,
33:06
Speaker 1: like those types of things. Um, but I you know,
33:09
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a great season. I'm so
33:10
Speaker 1: excited for you know all the girls. Are you already
33:13
Speaker 1: watching it wondering? Oh, I wouldn't have said that, or
33:16
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have done that, would the two episodes so far? No,
33:20
Speaker 1: I'm not watching it with a critical I versus them
33:23
Speaker 1: like for me, like the way I like to watch
33:26
Speaker 1: my shows, like a reality shows is like is this good?
33:30
Speaker 1: Like am I enjoying the content? Am I learning? Am
33:33
Speaker 1: I laughing? Am I? You know? Am I wanting to
33:35
Speaker 1: purchase that thing? Whatever it is? Not like, oh, I
33:38
Speaker 1: would never do that or that's so you know, those
33:40
Speaker 1: types of things, because you know, I feel like I've
33:42
Speaker 1: been on the other end of it and I don't
33:44
Speaker 1: need to go there. Uh what about what? She had
33:49
Speaker 1: a follow up question about who you bonded with? She
33:51
Speaker 1: said earlier Kathy, but other than Kathy because we can't. Um,
33:55
Speaker 1: Cathy is like an easy answer, I would say Dree, uh,
33:59
Speaker 1: Drey and I she was just always I could just
34:03
Speaker 1: feel she was very honest and wanted to help me
34:06
Speaker 1: through this experience. Um. You know, her husband reached out
34:11
Speaker 1: to Rob a lot and checked in. They had dinner,
34:15
Speaker 1: So like, I appreciate that in a person a couple
34:19
Speaker 1: to sort of actively do that with us. You know,
34:22
Speaker 1: it's not especially guy. The guys don't just call each old.
34:25
Speaker 1: Are It takes like the women to bond and you know,
34:28
Speaker 1: and so for like they would have dinner alone and um,
34:31
Speaker 1: and it was just a really they've shown a lot
34:35
Speaker 1: of grace and um and friendship and welcoming to me.
34:39
Speaker 1: So I appreciated that. Oh that's awesome. And p K
34:42
Speaker 1: is hilarious. He's so fun. Yeah, life of the party. Um, well,
34:47
Speaker 1: thank you for calling in. You guys, we gotta take
34:49
Speaker 1: a little break and then we'll come back and finish
34:51
Speaker 1: up your questions. All right, So now that we're back,
35:03
Speaker 1: we're gonna start a little a little heavier and then
35:06
Speaker 1: good lighter as we finished. But with all the anti
35:09
Speaker 1: Asian stuff and all these movements, like how how could
35:13
Speaker 1: you give our listeners a better way to approach everything?
35:17
Speaker 1: Good question? So for me, I think everyone has a
35:21
Speaker 1: different Obviously, everyone approach to anything and people. This is
35:25
Speaker 1: a very heated topic, and I think that your approach
35:32
Speaker 1: is going to be based on your history, right, whether
35:34
Speaker 1: you've been attacked or it's a constant you know, you're
35:38
Speaker 1: living in fear and stuff like that. For me, you know,
35:42
Speaker 1: I and very obviously very much open to this conversation.
35:46
Speaker 1: I like to talk about it. We talk about it
35:49
Speaker 1: with the kids all the time. It's like, is a
35:52
Speaker 1: very important topic for me. So but I don't I
35:56
Speaker 1: don't want to come from judgment, and so I really
36:00
Speaker 1: try to have empathy and understanding where the other persons
36:04
Speaker 1: coming from who I'm talking to. So if you it's
36:07
Speaker 1: like one of our friends at Teddy you know, who
36:10
Speaker 1: were hosting with us. It's like she said to me,
36:13
Speaker 1: I've never where she grew up. I've never met an
36:15
Speaker 1: Asian person, a black person, like a person like never
36:18
Speaker 1: my life. And if I and she has said something
36:22
Speaker 1: that like offended us. When I met her and I said,
36:25
Speaker 1: I called her out, I was like, you cannot say that,
36:27
Speaker 1: like that's not okay, And she was like, I am
36:29
Speaker 1: so sorry. I've I had no idea, and I give
36:33
Speaker 1: grace to that. You know, it's it's taking ownership. And
36:38
Speaker 1: but I didn't want to attack her. I just said,
36:39
Speaker 1: this is not okay with me. It hurts me, it
36:42
Speaker 1: hurts other people, and I want you to know that.
36:44
Speaker 1: And I think there's a way to um talk to
36:48
Speaker 1: people without judgment. You know, you have to be I
36:52
Speaker 1: think there you can do it in a soft way.
36:54
Speaker 1: I think the softer you are actually is when people
36:56
Speaker 1: hear you more too hard, they close it off. It's
36:59
Speaker 1: too scary. Uh So, I think it's about showing people
37:03
Speaker 1: right your cultures and and you know, but if you
37:06
Speaker 1: want to talk about it, it's trying to tread in
37:10
Speaker 1: a softer way. That's to serve my approach. And if
37:12
Speaker 1: somebody has questions, what are what's you know? I know,
37:15
Speaker 1: you know personally sometimes I struggle with the right way
37:19
Speaker 1: to ask questions, so how or even talking to my
37:22
Speaker 1: kids certain way, like how would you say the best
37:24
Speaker 1: way to talk to your kids? And then like how
37:26
Speaker 1: to start bringing up those questions so that you can
37:28
Speaker 1: have a more fluid conversation. Right, So I totally understand that.
37:34
Speaker 1: So when I tell people I'm an open book, ask
37:36
Speaker 1: me any question, that's what that's one person. So I
37:39
Speaker 1: know that that's easier said than done, because you know,
37:42
Speaker 1: if someone else is open, or they're going to think
37:44
Speaker 1: that that's offensive or I know, it's like it's a
37:47
Speaker 1: hard time to ask these questions. So I think maybe
37:51
Speaker 1: starting with your inner circle if you you know, or reading.
37:54
Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of books out there, and
37:56
Speaker 1: now it's out there, right if you don't have a
37:58
Speaker 1: person of color, who's this friend, you know, then google it,
38:03
Speaker 1: start researching what people are looking for, you know, um
38:06
Speaker 1: when it comes to your So for me, it's I'm
38:08
Speaker 1: an open book, but I can see that if someone
38:11
Speaker 1: is not and they get sort of push back, then
38:14
Speaker 1: you're going to clam up, right, You're never gonna open
38:17
Speaker 1: up again, and that's could be a scary thing. So
38:19
Speaker 1: with kids, you know, I I don't. I don't feel
38:23
Speaker 1: like they're in a situation, a situation meaning they're they're
38:28
Speaker 1: half Chinese that have Jewish I don't want them to
38:33
Speaker 1: feel nervous about that. You know where I grew up
38:37
Speaker 1: being taught to if someone attacks me, like verbally, to
38:40
Speaker 1: put my head down, like um, like, you can't change
38:43
Speaker 1: the way you look, so just like, don't but they
38:45
Speaker 1: don't like you, so just look down, you know. Where
38:47
Speaker 1: my kids, I want to sort of have them speak
38:50
Speaker 1: out on who they are so people know who they
38:53
Speaker 1: are before it comes back. And maybe that's a defense
38:56
Speaker 1: mecham I don't know, but I encourage them to acknowledge
39:01
Speaker 1: skin color and their friends like, oh where are you from?
39:04
Speaker 1: You know, and like Lucier, you know Lucier family. Lucy
39:07
Speaker 1: by the way, she she steals the shows. Literally, people like,
39:13
Speaker 1: we don't want Crystal, don't Lucy. I'm like, I get it, Lucy.
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Speaker 1: You guys don't even understand the Lucy situation. So Crystal
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Speaker 1: was out of town one Halloween. It's so Crystals like,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna send Lucy with the kids to trigger treat
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Speaker 1: with you guys. I have never laughed so hard in
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Speaker 1: my entire life from that evening with her, because she one,
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Speaker 1: she's going to tell you exactly how it is and
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Speaker 1: she's gonna boss you, and she like, you guys are
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Speaker 1: the best dynamic. When she said that dress was ugly,
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Speaker 1: it's she's I mean, she's not wrong, Crystal, I haven't
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Speaker 1: worn did don't let me your makeup. Girls are just
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Speaker 1: like you see what he thinks. She's like, so ugly,
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Speaker 1: and it's Lucy hate me. I'm like, she says everyone,
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Speaker 1: it's not like personal. So with Lucy, she'll say it's
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Speaker 1: like Zoe like, look at my skin, and she'll have
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Speaker 1: her look at it, and so she's like, see how
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Speaker 1: brown I am compared to you? Like we really lean it,
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Speaker 1: we really talk about it. So it's not a taboo thing.
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Speaker 1: It's like it's embrace it, you know, and celebrate it.
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Speaker 1: And so we're like, well, I want to be more
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Speaker 1: dark and I want to get you know, like and
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Speaker 1: it's that's you know, and those kinds of comments if
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Speaker 1: you are not open as an adult, can feel you
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Speaker 1: know whatever, but like nerve racking. But actually, from what
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to instill in them is how great and
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Speaker 1: positive saying something like that is so but anyways with Lucy,
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Speaker 1: like she deserves her own show and she's she's incredible.
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Speaker 1: You guys are so great, Like what is the full dynamic?
40:55
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are so busy. What's the full
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Speaker 1: dynamic of your house? Especially like once filming all that
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Speaker 1: kind of stuff, Like how does it? How does it?
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Speaker 1: Pre COVID, I'm very social, Like she's the most social
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Speaker 1: person ever. You guys like you've never she schedules two
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Speaker 1: dinners a night. Yeah, it's yeah, it's a problem and
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Speaker 1: it's a problem. Um. So with COVID it was like
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Speaker 1: depression shut down and then filming, so that was weird. Um.
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Speaker 1: But you know, we are a very active family. Like
41:30
Speaker 1: I'm always on the like wet mom websites in l A,
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Speaker 1: what's going on? You know. So Rob will be in
41:37
Speaker 1: the studio working until maybe three his movies um in Canada,
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Speaker 1: so he's dooming to Canada. So he's off at three.
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Speaker 1: You know, I'm doing what I don't ask about it.
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Speaker 1: And then we're like we take organizing things organizing. I'm
41:51
Speaker 1: just looking at my laundry basket like I can't wake
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Speaker 1: to put it away. And we'll go golfing and we
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Speaker 1: do like whatever we do movie nights, Rob is up
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Speaker 1: tessed with the kids. If they watched TV, it's like
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Speaker 1: it has to be erected on a giant scrape, and
42:07
Speaker 1: so we do outdrecter so often. It's not normal. Um,
42:12
Speaker 1: but I don't know what's their daily routine. We're just
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Speaker 1: like a normal I don't know we're normal. She's just
42:16
Speaker 1: like everybody else. You guys, like you call me exercise
42:19
Speaker 1: and I always find an excuse him as before that
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Speaker 1: I can't make it. She didn't make it to one though,
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Speaker 1: you made it to one. Even in COVID, we like
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Speaker 1: we're separated socially distance. She did a workout video with me.
42:31
Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for that, and you coming here. Um,
42:34
Speaker 1: A couple of other people were curious, how do you
42:36
Speaker 1: know Tiffany Moon from Dallas? Oh, so it's funny. She
42:41
Speaker 1: was face timing before this. So Tiffany and I met
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Speaker 1: because of this. Really yeah, yeah, we didn't know each other.
42:49
Speaker 1: And she I noticed that she was like following me
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Speaker 1: and liking me. I think she you know, she found
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Speaker 1: out I was on it, and and you know, you
42:56
Speaker 1: do have an automatic connection, you know. And and her
43:00
Speaker 1: series was clearly very hig. This race issue was very heightened. Um,
43:06
Speaker 1: and we're both from northern China. We're just two years apart,
43:09
Speaker 1: so we had a lot of connection. And you know,
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Speaker 1: I was starting to be a doctor and so I
43:13
Speaker 1: felt like I understood what her life was and we
43:17
Speaker 1: just started texting calling. She had dinner here a couple
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Speaker 1: of weeks ago. She's been pressing here in l A.
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Speaker 1: And Um, she's a great um person to talk to
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Speaker 1: with kind of exact experience six months prior. Yeah, like
43:31
Speaker 1: telling what happened this, you know, like she does exactly
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Speaker 1: what I'm going through, but six monther earlier, so I
43:36
Speaker 1: had in real time. Yeah, she's a good girl, but
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Speaker 1: she she had it really hard. I was unbelievably hard,
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Speaker 1: really hard. Yeah that's yeah. Yeah, that Twitter. You gotta
43:49
Speaker 1: that Twitter. Believe me. I'm going I'm not on Twitter.
43:54
Speaker 1: You know what. Instagram is a safe and safe and
43:56
Speaker 1: fuzzy place. So I really have to wrap. But if
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Speaker 1: you could change one thing about your first season, what
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Speaker 1: would it be? M I already know. I just ain't
44:16
Speaker 1: gonna give too much away. Is that we're worried about
44:19
Speaker 1: it's coming up very soon, Okay, but it's related to
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Speaker 1: my arc was sune, and I wish that I didn't
44:29
Speaker 1: take it on so hard. I'll say that I wish
44:33
Speaker 1: it wasn't that big of a deal to me, but
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Speaker 1: I was so emotional about it, and I just wish
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Speaker 1: I wasn't And not because I don't like crying on
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Speaker 1: camera or whatever. It's like, it is what it is.
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Speaker 1: I just I'm a pro at that cry baby. That's me.
44:48
Speaker 1: I remember Judge some of crying and too. The whole
44:52
Speaker 1: thing was too overwhelming and I wish I could have
44:54
Speaker 1: stepped back from him and like, it's actually not a
44:56
Speaker 1: good deal, just handle it. And I felt sort of
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Speaker 1: mmm uh, blocked to do that properly. So well, thank
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Speaker 1: you so much, Crystal. Make sure you guys tune into
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45:11
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