Latest / Bless This Mess: A Southern True Crime Podcast / Replay: [Florida] Tamara Tucker
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- 0:19Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome to bless this message at your Cup podcast.
- 0:22Speaker 1: I'm care here, what's to do? So hast right? All right,
- 0:24Speaker 1: so we're back this week. We're actually doing a kind
- 0:27Speaker 1: of a special episode because we are going on if
- 0:30Speaker 1: you heard last week, we're talking about we're going on
- 0:31Speaker 1: a cruise. This is our first cruise. Very excited. So
- 0:37Speaker 1: we will have well, there's gonna be maybe like a
- 0:42Speaker 1: we're trying. I'm gonna try to put something out next week,
- 0:44Speaker 1: but I may just catch up on the a little
- 0:46Speaker 1: less messes that we're behind on because I'm actually going
- 0:49Speaker 1: out of town for work, so we won't be in
- 0:52Speaker 1: the same room to record. So next week there may
- 0:56Speaker 1: not be a new like one of these types of episodes.
- 0:58Speaker 1: But so so sorry about that, are you? Well? We
- 1:03Speaker 1: you know we still we both work full time. I
- 1:08Speaker 1: have to travel for work a lot. We have two
- 1:10Speaker 1: small children. You know, there's a lot going on. Okay, So.
- 1:15Speaker 2: Anyways, but we are trying to justify this to mayor
- 1:17Speaker 2: or somebody else, I mean to them, Well you're looking
- 1:20Speaker 2: like I need to acknowledge.
- 1:21Speaker 1: That the public anyway, So yeah, next week there won't be
- 1:23Speaker 1: a new episode with me and Stu but I might
- 1:25Speaker 1: try to do something because I can record something on
- 1:28Speaker 1: my own or just catch up on the a little
- 1:29Speaker 1: less message. So, but we are going on a cruise,
- 1:32Speaker 1: We're going to try to because I have to go
- 1:34Speaker 1: to town for work and then I'm gonna come back
- 1:35Speaker 1: and then we're going to be leaving. I only be
- 1:37Speaker 1: home like a day or two and then we're gonna
- 1:39Speaker 1: leave on the cruise. So we're going to try to
- 1:42Speaker 1: record something that evening before we head out to go
- 1:45Speaker 1: to the cruise. But we are excited if you.
- 1:48Speaker 2: We're not going to record on the cruise.
- 1:50Speaker 1: No, we're not going to record.
- 1:51Speaker 2: We're not going to do that.
- 1:52Speaker 1: No, No, I'm not spending my time on the cruise
- 1:56Speaker 1: recording an episode.
- 1:57Speaker 2: Sorry, guys, you're not that deadic.
- 1:59Speaker 1: I'm not that dead anyway. So hopefully we don't have
- 2:02Speaker 1: a gap of two weeks, but we're gonna try just
- 2:04Speaker 1: to have a gap of one week. But anyway, so
- 2:07Speaker 1: this is a special episode because we are going on
- 2:08Speaker 1: a cruise. I found a whole series on Discovery, like
- 2:13Speaker 1: Discovery Network, on the ID channel, there's Discovery app about
- 2:17Speaker 1: cruise ship killers. So, like, I didn't realize there were
- 2:20Speaker 1: so many people got murdered on cruises. I thought it
- 2:23Speaker 1: was like a pretty rare event. But they had enough
- 2:25Speaker 1: for two seasons, like twenty plus episodes per season, and
- 2:29Speaker 1: these weren't just like your typical throwing people overboard and
- 2:33Speaker 1: everything that some people were like murdered in their room.
- 2:35Speaker 1: And it's like, how do you not think you're gonna
- 2:37Speaker 1: get caught stabbing someone in your cat in your stateroom.
- 2:41Speaker 1: I don't understand that. So anyways, so we're gonna do
- 2:45Speaker 1: a special one, this one that is a cruise out
- 2:47Speaker 1: of Florida, so technically it's still in the South. But anyways,
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- 3:22Speaker 1: be doing some cruise content. I'm gonna show you. I'm
- 3:26Speaker 1: gonna show you, guys, how I looked at all the
- 3:28Speaker 1: different tips of packing and everything. So if you're going
- 3:31Speaker 1: on a cruise, you want to follow me on the
- 3:32Speaker 1: Instagram or the Facebook probably, and I'm gonna show you
- 3:35Speaker 1: all the little cruise packing tips I got. So when
- 3:38Speaker 1: we get there, I'll show you how I set up
- 3:39Speaker 1: our stateroom. Because we have two small children. One of
- 3:42Speaker 1: them is going to be in a pack and play
- 3:44Speaker 1: the other ones at Toddler. So I'm gonna show you
- 3:46Speaker 1: how I did that because I was I was looking
- 3:48Speaker 1: up all the tips. So make sure and check us
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- 3:56Speaker 1: guess that's it. Stu, Yes, are you still with us?
- 4:01Speaker 2: I am with Youhanni.
- 4:01Speaker 1: All right, So with all of that, let's go ahead
- 4:03Speaker 1: and get into this week's episode. Tamara Lorraine Tucker was
- 4:08Speaker 1: born January seventeenth, nineteen sixty eight, to William and Wanda
- 4:12Speaker 1: Tucker in Rolla, Missouri. I guess unpronounced that right? Rl
- 4:16Speaker 1: La sure, Rolla. I don't know how else rolla who knows?
- 4:22Speaker 1: Who knows what these names are? And be like it's
- 4:24Speaker 1: pronounced relala.
- 4:27Speaker 2: A freaking comment somewhere.
- 4:29Speaker 1: So Tamara would have a son, Jonathan Tucker in June
- 4:32Speaker 1: of nineteen ninety one. Her passion in life was teaching
- 4:34Speaker 1: and helping with helping children that were in abusive situations.
- 4:39Speaker 1: She served as a program director at at Child Abuse
- 4:42Speaker 1: Prevention Association, where she led policy change on both I
- 4:47Speaker 1: cannot read today's story, where she led policy change on
- 4:51Speaker 1: both the state and national level and advanced child education
- 4:55Speaker 1: and support. So she's like this was her main passion
- 4:57Speaker 1: in life was helping children, try to help rescue them
- 5:03Speaker 1: from these abusive situations and then give them the resources
- 5:05Speaker 1: to be able to overcome this.
- 5:08Speaker 2: And grow up in and pass laws to help help.
- 5:12Speaker 1: Prevent and help support these kids once because you know,
- 5:15Speaker 1: we've seen it lots of times kids get pulled out
- 5:17Speaker 1: abusive situations, but then they get sent it to the
- 5:19Speaker 1: foster system and then well, I mean not all of them,
- 5:24Speaker 1: but there are people that just you hear stories all
- 5:26Speaker 1: the time about people that get the foster kids because
- 5:28Speaker 1: they get the money for fostering kids. I mean, we
- 5:31Speaker 1: have friends that foster children and they're they're absolutely wonderful
- 5:34Speaker 1: and they love the children and everything that, But there
- 5:37Speaker 1: are those cases where you hear about the foster parents
- 5:41Speaker 1: just taken in kids so they can get money and
- 5:42Speaker 1: stuff like that, and yeah, I guess or they could
- 5:48Speaker 1: be an abusive situation. I've been listening to the Karen
- 5:52Speaker 1: Slaughter books, the Will Trent series, so I have some
- 5:55Speaker 1: Really he was in the foster system, and Will Trent was,
- 6:00Speaker 1: if anyways, familiar, and I've just if anybody's read her books,
- 6:03Speaker 1: they're very dark. So I've heard horror stories about the
- 6:08Speaker 1: foster's system even though it was fictional in this I'm sure.
- 6:11Speaker 2: It happens based on some of.
- 6:13Speaker 1: It, probably based on something she's.
- 6:15Speaker 2: Some actual events that have happened.
- 6:17Speaker 1: So anyway, so she's working in this child abuse Abuse
- 6:21Speaker 1: Prevention Association. She's making all these changes and then starting
- 6:25Speaker 1: in two thousand and eight, she became a professor for
- 6:27Speaker 1: Park University, teaching social work. Now her students loved her.
- 6:31Speaker 1: She was a favorite teacher on campus. Tamara had many
- 6:34Speaker 1: interests along with teaching. These included travel, photography, gardening, and genealogy,
- 6:39Speaker 1: just to name a few. She was she had like
- 6:42Speaker 1: a passion for life, love doing all sorts of things.
- 6:45Speaker 1: She had all sorts of hobbies. Now, she was described
- 6:48Speaker 1: as eclectic as you can imagine, even signing all of
- 6:52Speaker 1: her emails with namas day Stuart.
- 6:55Speaker 2: Oh Lord, yeah, a little Haippie type.
- 6:58Speaker 1: Yeah, a little bit. Now. She lived a very full life,
- 7:01Speaker 1: and when her son had a daughter, she embraced her
- 7:03Speaker 1: role as grandmother and doated on her granddaughter. Now, at
- 7:06Speaker 1: some point, Tamara meets Eric Newman. Eric is a heavy
- 7:10Speaker 1: equipment operator living into Peka, Kansas. Now. The two hit
- 7:13Speaker 1: it off and it is the start of a long
- 7:15Speaker 1: term relationship for Tamara. She calls Eric the love of
- 7:18Speaker 1: her life, and they seem very happy together. They were
- 7:22Speaker 1: She still lived in Missouri and he lived in Tapeka, Kansas.
- 7:26Speaker 1: I didn't look at how far those were. I think
- 7:27Speaker 1: maybe an hour away or something like that. But anyways,
- 7:30Speaker 1: they didn't live together, but they were long. They were
- 7:32Speaker 1: just kind of more of a I guess, a modern relationship.
- 7:35Speaker 1: They weren't getting married or anything, but they were. They
- 7:38Speaker 1: were together for a long time.
- 7:40Speaker 2: They were together. It sounds like they were an hour apart.
- 7:44Speaker 1: Well, they were together anyways.
- 7:47Speaker 2: On January twenty eighth or eighteenth, twenty eighteen, Tamara and
- 7:53Speaker 2: Eric had to Jacksonville, Florida to embark on a four
- 7:56Speaker 2: day cruise to the Bahamas.
- 7:58Speaker 1: That's the party cruise.
- 7:59Speaker 2: Let me tell you to Carnival stuffs.
- 8:01Speaker 1: Well, oh yeah, yeah, we'll read what both they were on.
- 8:05Speaker 1: But because what I read, so we're going on a
- 8:07Speaker 1: seven day cruise and we're going on Royal Caribbean. Because
- 8:09Speaker 1: what I heard was it's not necessarily it's not necessarily
- 8:13Speaker 1: that it's Carnival or Royal Caribbean or any of them.
- 8:15Speaker 1: It's the length of the cruise you got to look at.
- 8:18Speaker 1: So like, just because it's Carnival, a seven day cruise
- 8:21Speaker 1: on a Carnival is gonna be a lot more tame
- 8:23Speaker 1: than a three or four day cruise on a Carnival
- 8:26Speaker 1: or Royal Caribbean. Because it's the group of people. You're
- 8:30Speaker 1: gonna get young people that maybe can't afford a full
- 8:32Speaker 1: seven day one or have a short period of time
- 8:34Speaker 1: like a weekend, and they're on the booze cruise. They're
- 8:37Speaker 1: going for it, you know. But the seven day one
- 8:39Speaker 1: you might get, especially if you get into like ten
- 8:41Speaker 1: day or fourteen day they say, it's a bunch of
- 8:42Speaker 1: like old people on the ship.
- 8:43Speaker 2: That's what you get to well, these young people have
- 8:45Speaker 2: bought the drink package. You can drink not to mention
- 8:49Speaker 2: that get the money right.
- 8:51Speaker 1: Well, not to mention we learn because of the whole
- 8:53Speaker 1: drink package thing. They say cruises are it seems like
- 8:57Speaker 1: cruises are inexpensive, but they're not because then you got
- 8:59Speaker 1: to pay for the drink package. Well, you have to
- 9:01Speaker 1: pay for everybody in your cabin, and you have to
- 9:03Speaker 1: pay for it every single day, even port days. So
- 9:06Speaker 1: if you're a younger person that maybe's like in your
- 9:09Speaker 1: twenties or whatever that's want to go party, you can't
- 9:11Speaker 1: afford seven days for a drink package for two people
- 9:14Speaker 1: was like eleven or twelve hundred dollars. It's like ridiculous.
- 9:18Speaker 1: So a short one four days. You only have to
- 9:20Speaker 1: pay for four days of the boot of the alcohol
- 9:22Speaker 1: package and.
- 9:23Speaker 2: It's usually only one or two parts in there.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Yeah, so so they're definitely on like the more of
- 9:28Speaker 1: the booze cruise party.
- 9:30Speaker 2: She is eclectic, she has eclectic.
- 9:34Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that either. I mean she's wrong woman, go.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Have fun, nah, I guess, but I mean I don't
- 9:41Speaker 2: know if my lever.
- 9:41Speaker 1: Case, oh I know at that age, yes.
- 9:43Speaker 2: She's she's fifty, trying to drink her weight.
- 9:46Speaker 1: Well, we don't know, we don't know her drinking her tolerance. Yeah, anyways, anyway,
- 9:54Speaker 1: I was just going to share that what I learned
- 9:55Speaker 1: about the cruise lifestyle.
- 9:57Speaker 2: Why, thank you? Okay, are you going to anyway? Yes,
- 10:03Speaker 2: I did lose my spot. They were on their way
- 10:05Speaker 2: to celebrate Tamara's fiftieth birthday and this was a gift
- 10:09Speaker 2: from Tamara's parents. The cruise was the Carnival Elation and
- 10:13Speaker 2: the ship Carnival Ship holds almost twenty two hundred guests
- 10:19Speaker 2: and nine hundred crew members. It was built in nineteen
- 10:22Speaker 2: ninety eight, so it's not as large as some of
- 10:25Speaker 2: those ones you see on Mighty cruise ship shows that
- 10:28Speaker 2: Stu may watch.
- 10:29Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been watching them, Moneys. We're going on the
- 10:32Speaker 1: We're going on the Oas, one of the Oasis class
- 10:34Speaker 1: ships from Royal Caribbeans. So those are the really big ships.
- 10:38Speaker 2: One of the ones that holds approximately five thousand people.
- 10:42Speaker 1: Yeah, so if we go down, we're making the news.
- 10:45Speaker 1: People for ship goes down.
- 10:47Speaker 2: Really, I think any cruise ship that sanks will make
- 10:51Speaker 2: the news.
- 10:51Speaker 1: Well, I started reading about cruise ships sinking and stuff,
- 10:54Speaker 1: and they said that they're so large now, these really
- 10:57Speaker 1: big ones, that you could evacuate everybody by the time
- 11:00Speaker 1: if it did start sinking, like it's not it's going
- 11:02Speaker 1: to take so long to sink, you could actually evacuate everybody.
- 11:06Speaker 2: We will see in case it has toad. Anyway, the
- 11:09Speaker 2: Carnival Elation is operating in the day. In case you're
- 11:12Speaker 2: one of those weirdos that likes to go.
- 11:14Speaker 1: It is operating today.
- 11:15Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, that's what I just said.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Oh did I put that in there?
- 11:19Speaker 2: No, I looked it up.
- 11:20Speaker 1: Okay, well I looked it up too. It is operating today.
- 11:22Speaker 1: I think they're working out a floor right now. Right now,
- 11:25Speaker 1: Well not today, But when I wrote this, I wanted
- 11:28Speaker 1: to see. I mean, it's just weird that somebody. But
- 11:30Speaker 1: there's lots of cruise ship that people died on and
- 11:32Speaker 1: they're still out there, just chugging around.
- 11:34Speaker 2: They cost a lot of day of money to build.
- 11:35Speaker 2: You can't just shut one down just because somebody died
- 11:37Speaker 2: on it.
- 11:38Speaker 1: I know some of these were like on our mighty
- 11:40Speaker 1: cruise ship we were watching like a billion dollars.
- 11:42Speaker 2: Yes, they got to operate for quite some time to
- 11:44Speaker 2: get their money, right, Okay. Anyway, Tamara is very excited
- 11:49Speaker 2: about the cruise because her job she deals with heavy
- 11:53Speaker 2: things such as child abuse, social work, just all the
- 11:55Speaker 2: ins and outs. I mean, I can't even imagine. It's
- 11:58Speaker 2: kind of like first responders. You can get to see
- 12:00Speaker 2: how this crap happening there in the day.
- 12:02Speaker 1: It's just a lot.
- 12:03Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot of stuff going on.
- 12:05Speaker 1: I wouldn't I couldn't do that job. Or they say,
- 12:07Speaker 1: the other really bad job is the one the people
- 12:09Speaker 1: that have to do the image checks on like Google,
- 12:12Speaker 1: that sit in a room and have anything that's flagged
- 12:14Speaker 1: have to look at it. Oh yeah, and they said
- 12:16Speaker 1: that that people don't last very long in that job.
- 12:18Speaker 2: Now you see some messed up stuff, I'm sure.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Because there's people getting murdered, people doing things to animals,
- 12:23Speaker 1: probably child.
- 12:24Speaker 2: Abuse, all sorts of war, and all kinds of weird
- 12:26Speaker 2: stuff that people are trying to put on the internet. Anyway, Yeah,
- 12:30Speaker 2: so based on her job, she's excited to go on
- 12:33Speaker 2: this cruise. Laugh them at all. So they board the
- 12:36Speaker 2: crewise her and Eric, and they check out all the
- 12:40Speaker 2: ship pass to offer. Now, since it was Tamara's birthday,
- 12:43Speaker 2: the ship did make sure that her time was very special.
- 12:47Speaker 2: They eat dinner that evening, and then they head to
- 12:50Speaker 2: one of the party areas where they can drink, dance,
- 12:52Speaker 2: and watch them entertainment.
- 12:54Speaker 1: Not strippers do, okay.
- 12:56Speaker 2: Now, there's no strippers on these now. After quite a
- 13:00Speaker 2: bit of drinking, at around eleven thirty PM, Tabara decides
- 13:04Speaker 2: that she's tired, so she heads up to the room,
- 13:06Speaker 2: leaving Eric at the lounge to continue drinking and enjoying
- 13:11Speaker 2: his evening. That's a red flag.
- 13:14Speaker 1: Why is it a red flag? They're on a ship.
- 13:18Speaker 1: If I left, if you I was done drinking and
- 13:20Speaker 1: I left you and I was like I'm tired, and
- 13:23Speaker 1: you were like I'm gonna hang out for and have
- 13:25Speaker 1: another drink or Job'll be like.
- 13:26Speaker 2: Okay, why why on this cruise ship with all these
- 13:29Speaker 2: weird people that you don't know?
- 13:32Speaker 1: No, but why, I wouldn't think anything of it if
- 13:34Speaker 1: I was to leave and be like, hey, Stue, I'm tired.
- 13:36Speaker 1: I'm gonna go up and go to bed, and you're like, hey, ye,
- 13:37Speaker 1: I'm gonna finish my drinking. I'll meet you up there
- 13:39Speaker 1: and be like.
- 13:39Speaker 2: Okay, well, what are you gonna do by yourself?
- 13:42Speaker 1: Drinking people please, used to sit in bars all the
- 13:45Speaker 1: time and drink by yourself.
- 13:46Speaker 2: I didn't have no one to be home to though.
- 13:49Speaker 1: Okay, well, I appreciate you'd want to go up to
- 13:51Speaker 1: go to the bedroom with me. I appreciate your dedication
- 13:54Speaker 1: to me.
- 13:54Speaker 2: I'm just saying if I was going to go to
- 13:56Speaker 2: bed and you're like, yeah, I'm gonna be down here drinking,
- 13:57Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh that's fishy.
- 13:59Speaker 1: M really yeah, Okay.
- 14:02Speaker 2: You end up in one of them rooms with pineapple
- 14:04Speaker 2: on the door or something.
- 14:05Speaker 1: I know, I did read that like we got like decorations.
- 14:08Speaker 1: I was gonna surprise the kids and like, I know
- 14:10Speaker 1: they're little, but I just go overboard anyway, so you
- 14:13Speaker 1: might I was gonna deck shut up stew Oh my god,
- 14:19Speaker 1: I walked right into that one. Anyways, I decorated thing,
- 14:26Speaker 1: but everybody was like in the cruise group, I mean,
- 14:28Speaker 1: was like, don't put pineapples on your door because apparently
- 14:30Speaker 1: it's a real thing. The swingers.
- 14:32Speaker 2: I told you. I've told you plenty of times.
- 14:36Speaker 1: Anyways, so I don't.
- 14:37Speaker 2: Anyways, I don't.
- 14:38Speaker 1: Put pineapples outside your house either. I did buy that
- 14:42Speaker 1: pineapple light for our other house. I bought that outdoor
- 14:45Speaker 1: pineapple light, and there was.
- 14:46Speaker 2: A bunch of people starting knocking on our doorway to
- 14:48Speaker 2: take it out. Anyways, Anyways, now, sometime past midnight, when
- 14:55Speaker 2: they were about thirty nine aicle miles from Florida, Eric
- 14:59Speaker 2: and crew members make a horrific discovery. Tamara's lifeless body
- 15:04Speaker 2: is found on the eleventh deck and it appeared that
- 15:06Speaker 2: she had fallen from their fourteenth deck balcony.
- 15:11Speaker 1: Medical personnel from the ship arrive on scene. They attempt
- 15:14Speaker 1: to save Tamara, but it was just too late. She
- 15:17Speaker 1: was already gone. The medical team pulls Tamara's blood and
- 15:21Speaker 1: is measured to be at point two two percent, which
- 15:25Speaker 1: everybody knows around here the legal limit for driving is
- 15:28Speaker 1: point eight percent, So point.
- 15:30Speaker 2: Two two is like she's smashed.
- 15:33Speaker 1: She's yeah, she's schlitz, which there's nothing wrong with that.
- 15:35Speaker 1: She's in a controlled environment, she's not driving like whatever.
- 15:38Speaker 1: I'm sure we've all been there, I'm sure you have.
- 15:43Speaker 2: Now.
- 15:43Speaker 1: Experts say that at this point Tamara would have blurred
- 15:47Speaker 1: vision from this this most people would have this type
- 15:50Speaker 1: of reaction. This blurred vision and an inability to stand
- 15:53Speaker 1: on her own. Now, blackouts could even occur at this level. Now,
- 15:57Speaker 1: looking back at the amount that they were served, it
- 16:00Speaker 1: came up to twenty one drinks between the two of
- 16:02Speaker 1: them in a four hour period. I don't know who
- 16:05Speaker 1: drank what, but twenty one drinks between two people in
- 16:07Speaker 1: four hours.
- 16:09Speaker 2: That's a lot.
- 16:10Speaker 1: That's a lot. Now, due to being in international waters,
- 16:14Speaker 1: the closest officials were called in and this is the
- 16:17Speaker 1: Central Detective Unit from Grand Bahama. Now the officials are
- 16:21Speaker 1: looking at the options as to what could have possibly
- 16:23Speaker 1: happened to Tamara. This could have been an accident, a suicide,
- 16:27Speaker 1: or someone pushing her overboard.
- 16:30Speaker 2: Stuart, Hmmm, that's what you're gonna do.
- 16:32Speaker 1: To me now, Looking you're the one that said that
- 16:35Speaker 1: I was going overboard.
- 16:36Speaker 2: I said you might. You said you were going overboard.
- 16:38Speaker 2: I said you might.
- 16:41Speaker 1: Everybody, if I don't make it back from this, do
- 16:44Speaker 1: not listen to this podcast with Stuart's new wife, that
- 16:47Speaker 1: he can my girlfriend or fiance, that he continues this.
- 16:51Speaker 1: He's like, in loving memory of Kara, we're going to
- 16:54Speaker 1: continue on by covering her murder.
- 16:57Speaker 2: Yes, that.
- 16:59Speaker 1: This this podcast would blow up if one of us
- 17:02Speaker 1: got murdered. To who wants to take one for.
- 17:04Speaker 2: The tea, not me, I wouldn't be able to enjoy
- 17:07Speaker 2: the revenue.
- 17:09Speaker 1: Now, looking at Stewart, you should really just be generous
- 17:12Speaker 1: and I can shove you overboard. Now, looking at it
- 17:16Speaker 1: from an accident standpoint, while Tamara was highly intoxicated, the
- 17:20Speaker 1: railings on cruise ships are designed to prevent people from
- 17:23Speaker 1: accidentally falling over them. Now, by law, cruise ship railings
- 17:26Speaker 1: must be forty two inches tall, with a three inch
- 17:29Speaker 1: variants allowed, meaning it could be as short as thirty
- 17:31Speaker 1: nine inches or as tall as forty five inches. Now,
- 17:34Speaker 1: Tamara would have needed to intentionally climb on top of
- 17:37Speaker 1: the railing to fall over. Now investigators need to look
- 17:40Speaker 1: at it as a possibility. Although falling over a relling
- 17:43Speaker 1: on a cruise ship is rare, but it does happen,
- 17:46Speaker 1: so they say. Whenever they had the experts that I
- 17:50Speaker 1: watched through in this, they said, it's just very difficult
- 17:52Speaker 1: to accidentally follow. You have to really be like climbing
- 17:56Speaker 1: up on top of the railing.
- 17:57Speaker 2: So doing something stupid, yeah, stupid.
- 18:00Speaker 1: But with the point too too alcohol blood alcohol content.
- 18:04Speaker 1: People do stupid things all the time, Yes they do.
- 18:08Speaker 1: There's a whole industry in Vegas based on them. Y, it's.
- 18:12Speaker 2: Called wedding chat. Yes, So then they started looking at
- 18:17Speaker 2: an intentional jump suicide of some sort. So they looking
- 18:21Speaker 2: to Tamara's past to see if there were any warning
- 18:24Speaker 2: signs or previous suicide attempts. She had never tried to
- 18:28Speaker 2: commit suicide in the past, and she had never mentioned
- 18:30Speaker 2: feeling hopeless to friends or family. She had a love
- 18:34Speaker 2: for life and excellent relationships with friends, students, and family members.
- 18:39Speaker 2: So none of these were any signs of pointing to
- 18:42Speaker 2: Tamara Bean suicidal.
- 18:44Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, it doesn't mean like someone's always displays,
- 18:47Speaker 1: but usually there's some sort of indication that this would
- 18:52Speaker 1: have suicidal tendencies or something like that.
- 18:55Speaker 2: I have tendencies.
- 18:57Speaker 1: That's a band, right, yes, okay, the band.
- 18:59Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a couple other albums.
- 19:01Speaker 1: Okay.
- 19:02Speaker 2: Anyway, they quickly rule this out as an option as
- 19:06Speaker 2: to what happened to Tamara.
- 19:08Speaker 1: Now, investigators interview Eric to see if he saw something
- 19:11Speaker 1: or saw someone following Tamara. He tells the police that
- 19:14Speaker 1: he left about twenty minutes after Tamara. He then entered
- 19:17Speaker 1: the room and looked over the rally and saw Tamara
- 19:21Speaker 1: lying several decks down, so he goes in, can't find her,
- 19:23Speaker 1: goes out to the balcony looking. It happens to look
- 19:26Speaker 1: overboard and then he sees her. He then runs down
- 19:29Speaker 1: to go to help her see if she's still alive.
- 19:32Speaker 1: He told investigators he saw no one suspicious that evening
- 19:35Speaker 1: around Tamara. This is where he made a mistake.
- 19:38Speaker 2: He should have said people.
- 19:40Speaker 1: Yeah. Now there is little to no more information to
- 19:43Speaker 1: get out of Eric, so they release him. Tamara's body
- 19:46Speaker 1: undergoes an autopsy. It was determined that she died from
- 19:49Speaker 1: blunt force trauma due to the fall. Since she was
- 19:53Speaker 1: an American citizen, the Grand Bahaman Bahaman Bohemian Bohemian Bahaman,
- 20:00Speaker 1: the government turns over the investigation to the FBI. Now
- 20:03Speaker 1: this isn't a requirement, but they said, I read in
- 20:06Speaker 1: like the cruise ship situations like this most of the time.
- 20:10Speaker 1: The other ones are just like here, the FBI, we
- 20:12Speaker 1: don't want to do this, Okay, take it now. Tamara's
- 20:16Speaker 1: body is sent back to the United States. Her family
- 20:19Speaker 1: and Eric are grieving the loss of Tamara. Eric starts
- 20:22Speaker 1: posting many times on his social media about losing love
- 20:25Speaker 1: his life. Starts a whole Facebook page dedicated to Sarah's
- 20:29Speaker 1: Sarah Jesus.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Christ is with you, Sarah.
- 20:34Speaker 1: I told you I've been reading the Will Trent books.
- 20:36Speaker 1: That's Sarah Linton. I mean, I've been in these books
- 20:40Speaker 1: to it. That's all I've I've been listening to the audiobooks.
- 20:43Speaker 1: That's all I've listened to. The last like how many
- 20:45Speaker 1: ever days, I've foregone any podcast or anything, and I've
- 20:48Speaker 1: just been like listened to him. So Sarah Tamara at
- 20:52Speaker 1: least it rhymes. So he's he creates a Facebook page
- 20:57Speaker 1: dedicated to Tamara's life, so people are going on there
- 20:59Speaker 1: and interacting with people all the time. Like he's really
- 21:02Speaker 1: into this like social media persona of himself as the
- 21:06Speaker 1: Green I don't know, he's just like really really into
- 21:11Speaker 1: like posting about how upset he is about Tamra and
- 21:14Speaker 1: everything that and interacting with strangers. Because obviously someone dies
- 21:18Speaker 1: on a cruise ship, it's going to make the news.
- 21:20Speaker 1: So then there's always people that are going to be
- 21:22Speaker 1: have like this, you know, people that won't want to
- 21:24Speaker 1: reach out and like I'm so sorry. And he's like
- 21:27Speaker 1: he's like in instick.
- 21:28Speaker 2: Same people that write the Prisoners and all that other stuff.
- 21:32Speaker 1: Yeah, well I don't know if it's the same people,
- 21:34Speaker 1: but well, not.
- 21:34Speaker 2: The same people, but the same type of mentality.
- 21:37Speaker 1: Yeah, or like people want.
- 21:38Speaker 2: To like celebrities that like, I'm going to write this
- 21:41Speaker 2: letter to this so and so and maybe they'll see
- 21:43Speaker 2: it and we'll live happily.
- 21:44Speaker 1: Ever after No, I don't know. That's not even remotely closed.
- 21:47Speaker 1: Just some people feel some people some people feel very
- 21:50Speaker 1: empathetic to other people. I'm not I have a hard
- 21:54Speaker 1: time with that. But they have empathy and they want
- 21:58Speaker 1: to reach out to somebody and tell him how sorry
- 21:59Speaker 1: they are that they lost a loved one and everything
- 22:02Speaker 1: like that. So this same it's not the same people
- 22:06Speaker 1: that are writing to prisoners.
- 22:07Speaker 2: Well after this, praise y'all. Do not have to write
- 22:10Speaker 2: to me when I'm dead or missing.
- 22:14Speaker 1: Don't you haven't decided how you're gonna how it's gonna
- 22:18Speaker 1: play out.
- 22:19Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know what could happened in Okay.
- 22:23Speaker 2: Tamara's family continued to wait for results from the investigation.
- 22:26Speaker 2: The FBI was conducting a medical examiner in the US
- 22:30Speaker 2: completed in another optop so you to look for any
- 22:32Speaker 2: signs of foul play, and the results, according to them,
- 22:36Speaker 2: were eye opening. Because Tamara had signs of being strangled
- 22:40Speaker 2: prior to fall into our death.
- 22:43Speaker 1: I think this is why they release these some of
- 22:46Speaker 1: these smaller islands. I mean, obviously they're not going to
- 22:48Speaker 1: have as many resources as say the FBI or a
- 22:52Speaker 1: larger country does with in terms of investigation. So it's
- 22:55Speaker 1: a good thing that they do say, you know what,
- 22:57Speaker 1: we might not be able to handle this the best,
- 22:59Speaker 1: and they handed over were to the FBI, who was
- 23:02Speaker 1: able to figure this out, because otherwise it would have
- 23:04Speaker 1: just been she fell and that's it. You know, there
- 23:07Speaker 1: was no other evidence than anything bad happened.
- 23:09Speaker 2: Plus, why would you want to spend your country's resources
- 23:12Speaker 2: and money on investigations when you can hand it off
- 23:15Speaker 2: to the hotel?
- 23:15Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and there's no point where like we're trying
- 23:17Speaker 1: to like live our lives in paradise.
- 23:20Speaker 2: We're trying to make money and we don't want to
- 23:22Speaker 2: be spending it on investigating. Yeah you're citizens, Yeah, how
- 23:25Speaker 2: about you with that?
- 23:26Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 23:28Speaker 2: So basically what this means is her death was no accident.
- 23:32Speaker 2: So the family isn't shocked. Police believe Eric is responsible,
- 23:37Speaker 2: but they only knew the couple as being very happy.
- 23:41Speaker 2: He had been in constant contact with Tamara's family after
- 23:45Speaker 2: her death, telling them that he missed her so much
- 23:48Speaker 2: and that she was the love of his life.
- 23:50Speaker 1: Yeah again, they said they were just he was just
- 23:52Speaker 1: caught like still like they had been together, you know,
- 23:54Speaker 1: a decade. So he was still reaching out to the
- 23:57Speaker 1: family saying, Oh my god, am I supposed to go
- 23:59Speaker 1: on with doubt her? She's living my life and he's
- 24:01Speaker 1: doing all this Facebook stuff, social media stuff, saying how
- 24:05Speaker 1: much he loved her. I mean, yeah, doth protest too much? Yes?
- 24:11Speaker 2: What happens if you don't protest at all? Oh that sucks.
- 24:16Speaker 2: I gotta go to work.
- 24:17Speaker 1: Yeah, well you can't. You gotta get the happy medium.
- 24:20Speaker 1: Otherwise you look guilty.
- 24:23Speaker 2: You're gonna look guilty regardless of Yeah.
- 24:25Speaker 1: Cool.
- 24:25Speaker 2: I don't think there is a happy medium, because somebody's always.
- 24:27Speaker 1: Gonna be like the husband always did it.
- 24:30Speaker 2: You just ain't quiet enough.
- 24:31Speaker 1: The husband always did it?
- 24:32Speaker 2: Did he?
- 24:33Speaker 1: Yes?
- 24:34Speaker 2: What if it was the boyfriend?
- 24:35Speaker 1: The boyfriend always did it? Shut up stew Jesus.
- 24:39Speaker 2: Now, based on the evidence they collected the night of
- 24:42Speaker 2: the murder, Eric is the only one who could have
- 24:45Speaker 2: had access to Tamara and a motive to Harmer. On
- 24:49Speaker 2: September fifth, twenty eighteen, they arrest him and charge him
- 24:52Speaker 2: with second degree murder. He denies the allegations, but they
- 24:57Speaker 2: get him anyway, and he posts fifty thousand DOS bond
- 25:02Speaker 2: and gets out of.
- 25:04Speaker 1: Jail to go back to his social media go.
- 25:07Speaker 2: Back to his social media post.
- 25:09Speaker 1: Now, due to the murder occurring offshore, the case is
- 25:12Speaker 1: taken by federal prosecutors who begin building the case against
- 25:16Speaker 1: Eric now and looking into his past, there are several
- 25:19Speaker 1: red flags that he is a violent man. Now. In total,
- 25:23Speaker 1: they find four misdemeanor convictions from Kansas from two thousand
- 25:26Speaker 1: to twenty thirteen. Three of those involved an ex fiancee
- 25:31Speaker 1: and an ex wife where he had strangled them in
- 25:34Speaker 1: some way. So this is like, and this is happening
- 25:37Speaker 1: while this is happening while Tamara and Eric are together,
- 25:42Speaker 1: that he's that he's convicted of these things. But I'm
- 25:45Speaker 1: telling they seem to live they work together, but they
- 25:49Speaker 1: live separate lives almost you know that he's an hour
- 25:51Speaker 1: or however far Topeka was from where she was. They
- 25:54Speaker 1: weren't living together in this It wasn't a typical relationship
- 25:59Speaker 1: where you might be aware of stuff like this. It
- 26:01Speaker 1: was like a long distance relationship and long distance man
- 26:04Speaker 1: they can get rid of, get away with a lot
- 26:06Speaker 1: of shit. You know.
- 26:07Speaker 2: It sounds like having friends, fiances and wives and well,
- 26:11Speaker 2: I mean these.
- 26:11Speaker 1: Were extances and ex wives. I don't think he was
- 26:13Speaker 1: with I think he like met up with them at
- 26:15Speaker 1: this time and attacked him or something like that. So now,
- 26:18Speaker 1: when the family learned about his past, they were in disbelief.
- 26:21Speaker 1: They had never heard of Eric doing anything violent to Tamara.
- 26:25Speaker 1: So please are not sure if Eric had a period
- 26:26Speaker 1: where he was not violent and snapped, or if Tamara's
- 26:29Speaker 1: family was just unaware of his abuse, because they did say,
- 26:33Speaker 1: you know, while Tamara worked with people that were like
- 26:36Speaker 1: children that were abused and like things like that, it's
- 26:39Speaker 1: not uncommon for someone who works in that to advocate
- 26:42Speaker 1: for other people. Has it happened to them? And they
- 26:45Speaker 1: might be ashamed or embarrassed to say anything because they're like, well,
- 26:49Speaker 1: I'm just I'm out here telling all these women and
- 26:51Speaker 1: children and stuff what they need to do if they're
- 26:53Speaker 1: in an abusive relationship. And here I am in an
- 26:56Speaker 1: abusive relationship and not wanting to get out or can't
- 26:58Speaker 1: get out or whatever. It is, and no, there could be.
- 27:02Speaker 1: I mean they don't know. They're just saying it could
- 27:04Speaker 1: have been. He could have been violent. They find it
- 27:06Speaker 1: odd that he just went from not being violent at
- 27:08Speaker 1: all with Tamara, but he was still having violent episodes
- 27:12Speaker 1: with other people during this time that she didn't wasn't
- 27:15Speaker 1: on the receiving end at some point of this of
- 27:17Speaker 1: his behavior. Maybe it wasn't as severe. I don't know,
- 27:21Speaker 1: but or maybe she was just ashamed to talk about it,
- 27:23Speaker 1: or it.
- 27:23Speaker 2: Was just verbal and no physical stuff.
- 27:25Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't know. Or it could have been. He
- 27:27Speaker 1: could have been the greatest guy with her. And then
- 27:29Speaker 1: I mean, look at freaking BTK. His wife said he
- 27:32Speaker 1: was great. He's out there murdering people left and right,
- 27:36Speaker 1: so it could have been something like that and she
- 27:37Speaker 1: didn't even know.
- 27:38Speaker 2: He just gets his frustrations out killing other people or
- 27:41Speaker 2: smacking them around.
- 27:42Speaker 1: Yeah, they come home and it's like when he sees Tamara,
- 27:44Speaker 1: he's just happy and like he also had the option of,
- 27:47Speaker 1: you know, they live, they didn't live together. He could
- 27:49Speaker 1: have let you know, things like that.
- 27:51Speaker 2: Now, with evidence stacking up against him, Eric decides he's
- 27:55Speaker 2: going to play guilty. On December nineteen, twenty nineteen to
- 27:59Speaker 2: one count of second degree murder. He has sent us
- 28:02Speaker 2: to twelve years in prison with five years of probation
- 28:05Speaker 2: in federal prison.
- 28:07Speaker 1: I think he saw the writing on the wall, because
- 28:09Speaker 1: I do I believe there were I thought someone that
- 28:13Speaker 1: one of the shows had mentioned there were cameras. I
- 28:15Speaker 1: couldn't find it. There wasn't a lot of information about this,
- 28:17Speaker 1: besides in the cruise ship Killers no episode, So but uh,
- 28:23Speaker 1: there would have been cameras I believe in on those
- 28:25Speaker 1: ships because this is twenty eighteen, and they would have
- 28:28Speaker 1: showed him as the only person who entered the room.
- 28:30Speaker 1: I mean, like it was all a question as to
- 28:33Speaker 1: that that autopsy is really what did he meant? Because
- 28:35Speaker 1: before they could there was no proof that he pushed
- 28:38Speaker 1: her she was They just said she's drug and she
- 28:40Speaker 1: fell over. They knew he was the only one that
- 28:42Speaker 1: went in the room. But once they found out that
- 28:44Speaker 1: they knew he was only in the room and she
- 28:46Speaker 1: was strangled, So that I mean, like his.
- 28:48Speaker 2: Lawyers cameras in the hallway would have.
- 28:50Speaker 1: Been like, yeah, that was They knew he was the
- 28:53Speaker 1: only one that had gone in the room. They just
- 28:54Speaker 1: didn't know was it an accident that she had already
- 28:57Speaker 1: fallen or was it him doing that? And thankfully that
- 29:00Speaker 1: autopsy revealed that, so he saw his lawyers are probably like, dude,
- 29:03Speaker 1: you ain't getting away with this.
- 29:04Speaker 2: They're going to play it out. You're going to forty
- 29:07Speaker 2: years because.
- 29:08Speaker 1: You're going to federal prison. This isn't like state prison.
- 29:12Speaker 1: This is federal prison.
- 29:14Speaker 2: I'm sure they all suck.
- 29:15Speaker 1: I know they also, But I've heard federal prison is worse.
- 29:18Speaker 2: Well, I've heard stories about saying Quentin and Angola.
- 29:20Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be particularly bad.
- 29:23Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to be in those either.
- 29:24Speaker 1: I think those are particularly bad ones. But I've heard
- 29:27Speaker 1: federal prison is worse, or maybe federal prison is nicer.
- 29:29Speaker 1: I don't know anybody who's been in the two.
- 29:32Speaker 2: Could you please let us know or not? I don't
- 29:34Speaker 2: know if I want what you want to know?
- 29:37Speaker 1: They might be listening in their JEL sales right now.
- 29:40Speaker 1: Stew I've have podcasts on the Stuart we what were
- 29:43Speaker 1: we watching that said that what they had available? We
- 29:47Speaker 1: were watching something or something. It was all about everything
- 29:49Speaker 1: they got, like iPads and all sorts of things in prison.
- 29:52Speaker 2: Now, yeah, somebody did have an iPad.
- 29:54Speaker 1: Yeah, they were. It was something, and it was a
- 29:56Speaker 1: really terrible person too. It wasn't like one of these
- 29:59Speaker 1: like drug offens things. It was like a real bad
- 30:01Speaker 1: person and he had access to iPads. And so, yeah,
- 30:05Speaker 1: there might be some listeners out there in prison.
- 30:08Speaker 2: Well they are not contacting, and says of.
- 30:10Speaker 1: Yet, Well we did remember we covered that one where
- 30:14Speaker 1: the lady was married to the guy and he would
- 30:17Speaker 1: write her letters and then she would put it out
- 30:20Speaker 1: on his blog.
- 30:22Speaker 2: Yeah, but I knew the girl that was in the
- 30:29Speaker 2: lily Lid.
- 30:31Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, we're going somewhere anyway.
- 30:36Speaker 2: Okay, So anyway, Eric plaid out, but he didn't say
- 30:39Speaker 2: what happened, so prosecutors were left to speculate as to
- 30:42Speaker 2: what happened. And so what they're figuring out is they
- 30:47Speaker 2: start off, they start off, everything's going great. First night
- 30:52Speaker 2: on the ship or whatever it is. Second night, they're
- 30:55Speaker 2: getting drunk, way too many, going down, going down too fast,
- 30:59Speaker 2: and something is. Eric gets triggered and he follows Tamara
- 31:03Speaker 2: back to the room shortly after she left the lound.
- 31:06Speaker 1: Maybe it was her wanting to leave. You know, you
- 31:08Speaker 1: never know what these guys because a lot of guys,
- 31:10Speaker 1: they say, you know, aren't violent until they get they
- 31:12Speaker 1: start drinking, then all of a sudden they snap. It
- 31:14Speaker 1: could have been her saying I want to go to bed,
- 31:16Speaker 1: I'm tired, and him getting pissed off about that. It
- 31:19Speaker 1: could have been something as simple as that, that they
- 31:22Speaker 1: these guys that are abusive. That just sets them off
- 31:25Speaker 1: for no reason.
- 31:27Speaker 2: What do you know about that? What you've read? Yes,
- 31:32Speaker 2: he's kind of like an expert.
- 31:33Speaker 1: Well that's maybe I am Stuart, Maybe I am Maybe
- 31:36Speaker 1: I know it all. Maybe I'm Bethany Frankel and I
- 31:39Speaker 1: know it all. Oh, she knows it all. You want
- 31:43Speaker 1: to know any of it?
- 31:43Speaker 2: Go to her anyway. Prosecutors speculate that while in the room,
- 31:50Speaker 2: they get into an argument, he snaps starts strangling Tomara.
- 31:55Speaker 2: He then pushes her out onto the balcony and then
- 31:58Speaker 2: eventually over the balcony. He then runs down to the
- 32:01Speaker 2: eleventh floor, pretending to be surprised to find her because
- 32:05Speaker 2: he was supposedly in the lounge. Still, he went back
- 32:11Speaker 2: to the room, saw and then went back down. Yeah, anyway,
- 32:14Speaker 2: however you slice that, the story sounds full of crap,
- 32:18Speaker 2: But anyway, that was the speculation. That the prosecutors had
- 32:21Speaker 2: as to what actually happened, since Eric was not with
- 32:25Speaker 2: anything that happened.
- 32:27Speaker 1: Now, Tamara's family does not want her to be remembered
- 32:30Speaker 1: for the way that she died, rather for the for
- 32:33Speaker 1: the people she spent her life helping. They are pushing
- 32:36Speaker 1: lawmakers to create a database similar to the sex offender database,
- 32:39Speaker 1: but for domestic violence offenders, which I think is a
- 32:41Speaker 1: good thing. Yeah, if you have if you're a violence
- 32:47Speaker 1: domestic violent person or whatever, so you can look him
- 32:51Speaker 1: up on the Yeah, you can, just like sex offenders.
- 32:53Speaker 1: I mean, why wouldn't you want to know that someone
- 32:55Speaker 1: has like beat his wife or something and you can
- 32:57Speaker 1: look him up on a database and know that he's
- 32:58Speaker 1: been charged at least.
- 32:59Speaker 2: There's so what if federal law makes like if you
- 33:03Speaker 2: got a dating profile that you can just click at
- 33:07Speaker 2: their link.
- 33:08Speaker 1: Yeah, it should be in the link. The sex offender
- 33:10Speaker 1: database and the domestic violence database should be in the
- 33:13Speaker 1: dating profiles right there, automatically required to be linked, so
- 33:18Speaker 1: you can see.
- 33:19Speaker 2: They see a lot of people out on the dating side.
- 33:22Speaker 1: More so, I think that's a great thing to be
- 33:24Speaker 1: advocating for.
- 33:26Speaker 2: Now.
- 33:26Speaker 1: They say that this would have allowed Tamara or her
- 33:28Speaker 1: family to see Eric's violent pass prior to her starting
- 33:31Speaker 1: relationship with him, so she might have seen it, or
- 33:33Speaker 1: her family could have looked him up and seen that
- 33:35Speaker 1: Tamara might have been if he was abusive to Tamara
- 33:38Speaker 1: during the time, they could have seen that who he
- 33:40Speaker 1: was and said, you know, intervened and tried to get
- 33:43Speaker 1: her out of that situation. Now, Eric Dwayne Newman is
- 33:46Speaker 1: currently serving out his sentence in uh this is FCI
- 33:50Speaker 1: set's Federal Corrections Institute Institute.
- 33:52Speaker 2: I think I would thank so somebody would research that.
- 33:56Speaker 1: FCI Williamsburg in South Carolina. He is scheduled to be
- 34:01Speaker 1: released on September fifteenth, twenty thirty.
- 34:04Speaker 2: So shortly, yeah, seven years. Shortly.
- 34:11Speaker 1: He's not been This happened in twenty eighteen. He hadn't
- 34:12Speaker 1: even been in jail that long.
- 34:14Speaker 2: He got twelve years.
- 34:15Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got seven more.
- 34:18Speaker 2: Knocking him down.
- 34:19Speaker 1: Well, he'll be what twelve, he'll be sixty two or
- 34:23Speaker 1: some somewhere around in there. He was like fifty or
- 34:25Speaker 1: fifty five, I think. Anyways, So now because I got
- 34:30Speaker 1: interested in since we're going on a cruise, I usually
- 34:33Speaker 1: get overly interested in things like that or like if
- 34:37Speaker 1: we're going to go do something. So then I start
- 34:38Speaker 1: looking up things. I'm sure all of you are like
- 34:40Speaker 1: that as well. You just like you're like, let me
- 34:42Speaker 1: go down the rabbit hole. So I know how to
- 34:44Speaker 1: pack for a cruise. Now, we've watched the mighty cruise ships.
- 34:48Speaker 1: We watched the one that go to Antarctica.
- 34:50Speaker 2: It's probably how I ended up going on a cruise.
- 34:52Speaker 2: We're watching mighty cruise ships before then.
- 34:54Speaker 1: Anyways, I've been looking at all the cruise ships. So
- 34:56Speaker 1: I found some creepy facts about cruises to that I
- 34:58Speaker 1: was going to share with everybody, things I found surprising. Now,
- 35:02Speaker 1: there was a study published in the International Journal of Travel,
- 35:06Speaker 1: Medicine and Global Health found that there were six hundred
- 35:09Speaker 1: and twenty three reported deaths on cruise ships between two
- 35:12Speaker 1: thousand and twenty nineteen. I find that number high globally.
- 35:16Speaker 2: I don't think that's that high globally dead, just dead and.
- 35:20Speaker 1: Twenty three deaths. Now, the study concluded that for passengers,
- 35:24Speaker 1: falls were the most common cause of cruise deaths, followed
- 35:27Speaker 1: by cardiac arrests and suicides. Now, for crew members, suicide, murder,
- 35:32Speaker 1: and falls were the leading cause of death. So they
- 35:34Speaker 1: had suicides them cruise just murdering each other were the
- 35:38Speaker 1: global Okay, whatever, and you don't find it.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Short nineteen years. No, that's not that, man.
- 35:43Speaker 1: I thought one or two people died on a cruise ship.
- 35:45Speaker 1: It's like people getting killed by a blimp. It's like
- 35:47Speaker 1: one a year or something. I didn't realize it was
- 35:49Speaker 1: six hundred and twenty three. I guess, Okay, fine, then
- 35:52Speaker 1: whatever' stu? Fine, okay, fine, Let me move on to
- 35:55Speaker 1: the next fact I found on this is better. Cruise
- 35:59Speaker 1: ships are legally required to carry body bags and maintain
- 36:02Speaker 1: a morgue. They typically have space for three or four bodies,
- 36:05Speaker 1: depending on the size of the ship. That's creepy.
- 36:09Speaker 2: It's called a walking cooler.
- 36:11Speaker 1: No, no, I sent you, potato. Are you gonna do
- 36:13Speaker 1: the y'all need Jesus that I sent you about cruise
- 36:15Speaker 1: ship to go along with this theme, I suppose I
- 36:18Speaker 1: can about a walk in cooler.
- 36:20Speaker 2: I suppose I could.
- 36:21Speaker 1: Okay. My last one is cruise ships have brigs, which
- 36:25Speaker 1: is the nautical term for gel on a vessel, including
- 36:28Speaker 1: a cruise ship. Now I know people know this that
- 36:31Speaker 1: have selled at sea. It's called a brig, but I
- 36:33Speaker 1: wanted to tell you where the word came from. It
- 36:36Speaker 1: came from the word brigantine, which is a type of
- 36:39Speaker 1: two masted sailing ship formally used to house criminals.
- 36:43Speaker 2: Put a bunch of criminals on a ship.
- 36:45Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was called a brigantine, so that's why
- 36:47Speaker 1: they call it the brig I did not know that. Okay, well,
- 36:50Speaker 1: there you go, because I knew you were already starting
- 36:52Speaker 1: with your little face about whenever I said the brig
- 36:54Speaker 1: you're lying. Everybody knows it's called a brig on a
- 36:57Speaker 1: ship now. Anyways, So we'll get back with the only
- 37:02Speaker 1: Jesus that I found that Stu's going to tell us about.
- 37:05Speaker 1: But I found this one is cruise ship themed, all right, Stew,
- 37:09Speaker 1: you ready to go? This one isn't. Apparently the last
- 37:12Speaker 1: one I sent was too dark for him. He didn't
- 37:14Speaker 1: like appreciated.
- 37:15Speaker 2: I mean, it was a little dark.
- 37:18Speaker 1: I told you, I've been.
- 37:19Speaker 2: Listening a box full of genitals, and that's nothing on
- 37:23Speaker 2: different torsos.
- 37:24Speaker 1: You should listen to the Karen Slaughter books.
- 37:27Speaker 3: Stew.
- 37:27Speaker 1: It's nothing on that.
- 37:28Speaker 2: Okay, that's all fictionalized. This was real ship, though I.
- 37:32Speaker 1: Don't know what Karen Slaughter did in a different life.
- 37:34Speaker 2: Stewart, Okay, well she might have been the one that
- 37:36Speaker 2: put all the genitals in a box. She might have
- 37:40Speaker 2: chopped them off just saying that. Yeah, we said, maybe
- 37:44Speaker 2: we're covered legally. I think anyway, I would ask you
- 37:48Speaker 2: Florida or not Florida. But it's a cruise ship.
- 37:53Speaker 1: Oh Florida. It could be Texas they sell out of
- 37:56Speaker 1: they have those ones we were talking about that said
- 37:59Speaker 1: was called a fall foliage ones.
- 38:01Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and go up to Quebec. Yeah, up in
- 38:03Speaker 2: Canada anyway. CBS News Miami celebrity cruises improperly stored dead
- 38:11Speaker 2: body in cruise ships cooler instead of more, lawsuit can claims.
- 38:16Speaker 1: Yeah, and everybody acts like Royal Caribbean and Carnival or
- 38:18Speaker 1: the trashy ones. And then you've got celebrities supposed to
- 38:21Speaker 1: be the high fallutin and they're over here pulling.
- 38:23Speaker 2: This celebrity hlu.
- 38:24Speaker 1: I don't know what's that one celebrity like. I think
- 38:27Speaker 1: they are just more expensive celebrity princess, the MSc nothing, nothing,
- 38:33Speaker 1: nothing tops Disney though that's the most expensive.
- 38:37Speaker 2: I don't know. I've seen some of them. No kids cruises,
- 38:40Speaker 2: they're quite expensive.
- 38:41Speaker 1: Well, Virgin Atlantic has cruise ships and they're only adults,
- 38:45Speaker 1: but they're not that. No, the Disney one is just outrageous,
- 38:50Speaker 1: three times as much as this Royal Caribbean.
- 38:53Speaker 2: You've seen their damn park ticket prices.
- 38:55Speaker 1: Huh yeah, it's insane. But I would if I were to.
- 38:58Speaker 1: I haven't been on a Disney cruise yet. Maybe day,
- 39:00Speaker 1: because I really want to go on the Halloween one. Now.
- 39:01Speaker 1: Our daughter's like obsessed with Mickey Mouse, like, I mean,
- 39:04Speaker 1: we're full in it. We're head to toe every day
- 39:07Speaker 1: Mickey Mouse. But I would never. If I don't have
- 39:12Speaker 1: to ever go back to Disney World, I'll be okay.
- 39:15Speaker 1: But I think that the cruise ship might be the better.
- 39:17Speaker 2: What if they start sponsoring this podcast, well, I mean,
- 39:20Speaker 2: all right, selling out.
- 39:21Speaker 1: Oh well for sure. Yeah, but I think I'd rather
- 39:25Speaker 1: spend the money on the cruise because everybody says you
- 39:27Speaker 1: actually get to meet like your kids get to meet
- 39:28Speaker 1: the characters, and it's a lot. It's just it's much.
- 39:32Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you're not at the theme part getting rise,
- 39:34Speaker 1: but we went there. It's like two and a half
- 39:35Speaker 1: hour wait in those lines. Unless you have a bunch
- 39:39Speaker 1: of money to pay to jump to the front of
- 39:41Speaker 1: the line. Anyways, go on with your stories too.
- 39:45Speaker 2: Are you sure? Yeah, okay, the story comes to us
- 39:49Speaker 2: April twenty third, twenty twenty three for Lauderdale, Florida, A Florida.
- 39:56Speaker 2: Well though, yeah, it's fairly recent that happened. The story
- 39:59Speaker 2: is very recent. A Florida woman and her family have
- 40:02Speaker 2: filed a lawsuit against Celebrity Cruises, claiming the cruise line
- 40:06Speaker 2: and properly stored her husband's body in the ship's cooler
- 40:10Speaker 2: as opposed to the morgue after he died on board.
- 40:13Speaker 1: Mike stew was talking about I said, there's a morgue
- 40:15Speaker 1: versus a walk in cooler, and this is where we
- 40:18Speaker 1: differentiate in it's a lawsuit.
- 40:20Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want you beer next to a corpse.
- 40:23Speaker 1: Nope.
- 40:24Speaker 2: The lawsuit was filed in the U. S. District Court
- 40:26Speaker 2: for the Southern District of Florida on Wednesday. According to
- 40:30Speaker 2: the complaint, Robert L. Jones died to a cardiac event
- 40:34Speaker 2: while on the Celebrity Equinox cruise ship in August of
- 40:38Speaker 2: twenty twenty two, traveling from Fort Lauderdale to ports in
- 40:42Speaker 2: the Eastern Caribbean or Caribbean if you prefer. The lawsuit
- 40:48Speaker 2: states that after Jones' death, his wife, Marilyn Jones, was
- 40:51Speaker 2: told that she had two options for what could be
- 40:54Speaker 2: done with her husband's body. According to lawsuit, those options
- 40:57Speaker 2: were to either have mister Jones' body removed from the
- 41:00Speaker 2: ship in San Juan, Puerto Rico, or to have his
- 41:04Speaker 2: body stored on the ship until it reached Port and
- 41:07Speaker 2: Fort Lauderdale, Florida, approximately six days from the date of
- 41:11Speaker 2: his passing. And this, people, is why you get travel insurance,
- 41:17Speaker 2: so you can be removed in San Juan, Puerto Rico
- 41:20Speaker 2: and flown repatriots.
- 41:22Speaker 1: Okay, but that was his wife's decision. Okay, Yes, she
- 41:25Speaker 1: would have had to pay to transport his body.
- 41:28Speaker 2: She didn't have insurance, or she was like, hey, I
- 41:30Speaker 2: just paid for this cruise.
- 41:32Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. I mean, if you die from
- 41:34Speaker 1: a cardiac arrest, God rest your soul. We pay for
- 41:37Speaker 1: this cruise to we got to continue to enjoy it.
- 41:39Speaker 2: We got an excursions, we got excursions plan. We're gonna
- 41:45Speaker 2: go see the monkeys this laws, we got the beach
- 41:48Speaker 2: day ride cruise back.
- 41:50Speaker 1: It probably was very expensive to transport the body and
- 41:52Speaker 1: they weren't going to pay for it, so.
- 41:54Speaker 2: You could always back when you could always just call it,
- 41:56Speaker 2: say yeah, transport off follow clan with the insurance company.
- 41:58Speaker 2: Where we're going to continue on.
- 42:00Speaker 1: Well that sounds really cold though, which his body was
- 42:04Speaker 1: obviously not not okay, we're terrible people.
- 42:09Speaker 2: Too soon. It's only a year wo So Jones's body
- 42:17Speaker 2: stayed on board the ship for approximately six days, according
- 42:21Speaker 2: to the lawsuit, When the funeral services employee in Fort
- 42:25Speaker 2: Lauderdale was brought onto the ship to retrieve mister Jones's body,
- 42:29Speaker 2: his body was not located in the ship's morgue, The
- 42:32Speaker 2: lawsuit said. Instead, mister Jones' body had been, at some
- 42:37Speaker 2: time not yet known, been moved from the ship's morgue
- 42:41Speaker 2: to a cooler on a different floor than the ship's
- 42:44Speaker 2: more but why we don't know. This story does not
- 42:47Speaker 2: even tell us what this is.
- 42:48Speaker 1: Some weird shit going on.
- 42:49Speaker 2: We're gonna have to go to court to find out.
- 42:51Speaker 1: Wow, I want, let's go to court.
- 42:53Speaker 2: This has not been gone to court yet, so we'll
- 42:55Speaker 2: have to wait. Now. The cooler in which mister Jones'
- 42:59Speaker 2: body was found by the few in your employee had
- 43:02Speaker 2: drinks placed outside of the cooler, so it sounded like
- 43:04Speaker 2: a drink cooler. They moved the drinks out to put
- 43:06Speaker 2: the body in there, and it was not at a
- 43:09Speaker 2: temperature which was sufficient for proper storing of a dead
- 43:13Speaker 2: body to prevent decomposition, according to the lawsuit. The lawsuit
- 43:19Speaker 2: also says the body was found in a bag on
- 43:23Speaker 2: a palette on the floor of the cooler and that
- 43:25Speaker 2: it was in the advanced stage. It's a decomposition.
- 43:28Speaker 1: Like what, I don't understand what's going on on this ship?
- 43:30Speaker 1: When I read this story, I was like, what is
- 43:32Speaker 1: happening on this ship? How are these employees just walking
- 43:35Speaker 1: around this dead body laying on a pallette next to
- 43:38Speaker 1: the core's light?
- 43:39Speaker 2: Like, I mean, how are you fine with you? And
- 43:40Speaker 2: be like no, you people need to come get this
- 43:42Speaker 2: body out of my cooler cooler, take it to the morgue.
- 43:45Speaker 2: I'm not working in here. I mean, who are these
- 43:47Speaker 2: people that are just okay for it to be down there?
- 43:50Speaker 1: I don't know?
- 43:51Speaker 2: And who are these people that put it down there, like, hey,
- 43:53Speaker 2: we're going to bring this down here. Maybe they had
- 43:56Speaker 2: some maintenance on the more cooler. They had to have
- 43:58Speaker 2: somebody come out and They're like, we just need to
- 44:00Speaker 2: move it for you know, a couple hours.
- 44:01Speaker 1: And then somebody forgot to move the body back. I
- 44:03Speaker 1: would think, I think, I think you remember, the only
- 44:06Speaker 1: dead body on your entire cruise ship would be kind
- 44:08Speaker 1: of something you'd have like the cruise director be like, yeah,
- 44:11Speaker 1: let's not forget the dead body.
- 44:13Speaker 2: That's not the cruise director's problem. I don't think that
- 44:16Speaker 2: is not Julie's problem anyway. So Marilyn Jones and her
- 44:21Speaker 2: family are asking for compensatory damages in the amount of
- 44:24Speaker 2: one million dollars.
- 44:26Speaker 1: I'll let your body rot on a palette next to
- 44:28Speaker 1: some beers for one million dollars.
- 44:30Speaker 2: And are demanding a trial by jury.
- 44:33Speaker 1: That's what we need, a trial by jury because they
- 44:36Speaker 1: don't want this. They don't want the cruise lines. They're
- 44:38Speaker 1: always getting out of this shit, you know, except for
- 44:41Speaker 1: they did you know who was that? You know that
- 44:42Speaker 1: was the one that was real bad when the grandpa
- 44:44Speaker 1: dropped the child or whatever, and then they and they
- 44:48Speaker 1: tried to lie and say that the family tried to
- 44:51Speaker 1: lie and s the cruise ship. It was real Caribbean,
- 44:53Speaker 1: I think, and I have to say the cruise ship
- 44:55Speaker 1: was correct. He so you saw the video that they
- 44:58Speaker 1: had or whatever, and he he knew the glass wasn't there.
- 45:01Speaker 1: He hung the child out for over thirty seconds outside
- 45:05Speaker 1: of the glass like it was obvious, and then they
- 45:07Speaker 1: lied about it trying to get a bunch of money
- 45:08Speaker 1: from Royal croupying. That whole thing is sketchy to me, Like,
- 45:12Speaker 1: I don't understand. I got some bad vibes off that
- 45:16Speaker 1: family and the grandpa and stuff like that, because why
- 45:18Speaker 1: would you hang your eighteen month old granddaughter and then
- 45:21Speaker 1: try to sue the cruise line for a bunch of money.
- 45:25Speaker 1: I'm just saying a little sketchy, A little sketchy.
- 45:28Speaker 2: Yeah, that was terrible. I can't even think about that.
- 45:30Speaker 1: Yeah, because we started panicking. I was like, oh my god,
- 45:32Speaker 1: are these children going to acidentally fall off this cruise ship?
- 45:35Speaker 1: And then I looked it up and it's very difficult
- 45:37Speaker 1: for a child to fall off a cruise ship. It
- 45:38Speaker 1: doesn't happen. That's why whenever it does happen, it's like
- 45:41Speaker 1: in the news. And then this whole thing when you
- 45:43Speaker 1: first read it and what the family says, whenever you
- 45:46Speaker 1: first just hear about it, it's like, oh, well, there
- 45:48Speaker 1: was glass there and it just went away or we
- 45:50Speaker 1: didn't know there wasn't glass there, and then you actually
- 45:52Speaker 1: start looking at it makes you feel better because I mean,
- 45:53Speaker 1: it makes you feel better about the fact that they
- 45:55Speaker 1: can't accidentally fall off a cruise ship. The baby was
- 45:58Speaker 1: intentionally put over the window and hung outside for a
- 46:03Speaker 1: long period of time. This was not like a quick
- 46:06Speaker 1: little Michael Jackson thing. Yeah, this was a and then
- 46:09Speaker 1: for them to have to try to sue for money
- 46:11Speaker 1: is like sketchy to me. But I'm a pessimistic person
- 46:17Speaker 1: that doesn't see the good in anybody.
- 46:19Speaker 2: So now.
- 46:22Speaker 1: Anyways, still alive today though because of it almost got
- 46:27Speaker 1: taken when I was that four year old little girl.
- 46:31Speaker 1: When I was four. We told the story last time
- 46:33Speaker 1: about me being scared of the teenagers in the truck.
- 46:36Speaker 2: You weren't going to be taken.
- 46:38Speaker 1: It's not going to be taken, at least not without
- 46:40Speaker 1: a fight.
- 46:41Speaker 2: You had a special set of skills anyway.
- 46:43Speaker 1: So we'll see. Maybe this will get some more information
- 46:45Speaker 1: because I don't understand how the body was in the
- 46:47Speaker 1: morgue and got removed from the morgue. They obviously didn't
- 46:49Speaker 1: have like we had read. There's like three to four
- 46:52Speaker 1: spots for bodies on these cruise ships. They're obviously what
- 46:57Speaker 1: I think that would have been mentioned, like there was
- 46:58Speaker 1: multiple deaths on this, so they ran out a room
- 47:02Speaker 1: something like that, there's something weird going on, and for
- 47:04Speaker 1: the employees just to be like very casual about it all.
- 47:07Speaker 2: I configure as there was maintenance on that cooling unit
- 47:11Speaker 2: for the Morgan it was supposed to be a temporary
- 47:13Speaker 2: move what they my logical guess, and then they forgot
- 47:17Speaker 2: about it somehow.
- 47:18Speaker 1: Well, what they should have done if there was maintenance,
- 47:20Speaker 1: they should have told a lady there's been something going
- 47:23Speaker 1: on with the Morgue units. We need to work on him.
- 47:25Speaker 1: So we're gonna have to get him off at the
- 47:26Speaker 1: next port and we'll fly him. We'll pay to fly
- 47:29Speaker 1: him back his return his body to the United States.
- 47:33Speaker 1: But anyways, all right, so that's our cruise ship themed episode.
- 47:38Speaker 1: Since we're going on a cruise, we're going out of Galveston.
- 47:41Speaker 1: We're staying at a haunted hotel. I didn't even know
- 47:43Speaker 1: it was haunted. I just picked it and then come
- 47:45Speaker 1: to find out it's haunted. So we might do something
- 47:47Speaker 1: on that, maybe kind of like the Crescent hotel. Yeah,
- 47:53Speaker 1: that's it. Check out the show notes to support us
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- 48:01Speaker 1: instagram if you want to see any cruise tips or
- 48:03Speaker 1: anything that I have got some real cool packing tips,
- 48:06Speaker 1: real cool.
- 48:07Speaker 2: You posted those. No, I'm going to when.
- 48:11Speaker 1: When we're on the when I unpack everything on the
- 48:13Speaker 1: cruise ship so I can show everybuddy how I did it,
- 48:16Speaker 1: and like what my little all the tips I found,
- 48:19Speaker 1: all the little things I found to pack to hopefully
- 48:22Speaker 1: make things go better.
- 48:23Speaker 2: So we shall see. So if it goes to hell,
- 48:27Speaker 2: then you're not posting.
- 48:28Speaker 1: I'm not posting it. It will just be like it never happened.
- 48:30Speaker 1: Pretend this conversation never happens. But all right, I guess
- 48:33Speaker 1: we will again. Maybe not. There won't be an episode
- 48:36Speaker 1: next week. Might just be catching up on a little
- 48:38Speaker 1: less messes and stuff. So I guess we will see
- 48:41Speaker 1: you next time. Bye, everyone, say bye ste Bias.
- 48:44Speaker 3: Do tell you know it's bad to be SUPERSTI shots
- 48:53Speaker 3: by not being else. It's working at sigu is worried
- 49:04Speaker 3: boundly by cand