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Tim Heidecker Disobeys Bridger · I Said No Gifts! A comedy interview podcast with Bridger Winegar

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  Speaker 1: And I invited you here. I thought I made myself
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  Speaker 1: perfectly clear. When you're a guest to my home, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta come to me empty. And I said, no, guests,
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  Speaker 1: your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff,
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  Speaker 1: So how do you dare to surbey me?
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Pritchard Wineger. We're
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  Speaker 2: here in the studio an Aalise, our producer is not here.
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  Speaker 2: They've cooked up some sort of some excuse I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I hung up with the phone before they could lie
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  Speaker 2: to me. I can't deal with it. But they're not here,
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  Speaker 2: and you know, hopefully they can figure it out. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm just flying free and loose here. What's going on.
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  Speaker 2: Most of my life now is just watching Little House
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  Speaker 2: on the Prairie. That's most of my days and nights.
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  Speaker 2: The Ingles family has kind of settled into their life.
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  Speaker 2: I've read some behind the scenes. You know, it didn't
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  Speaker 2: seem like it was that pleasant of a place to work, unfortunately,
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  Speaker 2: so it adds another dimension to watching the show. It
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  Speaker 2: occurred to me last night that I've been shopping for
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  Speaker 2: a lamp for five years and still have not bought one.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's the one piece of furniture I'm just
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  Speaker 2: really not capable of buying. So if you have any
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  Speaker 2: tips or tricks, keep them to yourself. So anything else.
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  Speaker 2: I've experienced a little bit of parking rage this morning,
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  Speaker 2: blinding rage. Apparently there's something about someone in a Volvo
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  Speaker 2: Crossover that just really taking their time sets me off,
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  Speaker 2: but I didn't act on it. I'm coming down from that.
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  Speaker 2: I have not had my baby belt cheese, which is
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  Speaker 2: usually pretty grounding for me. So, oh, business, We're coming
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  Speaker 2: this is a business ultimately, and we're business partners, and
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  Speaker 2: bonus episode. It's all kinds of things. It's wonderful time. Okay, oh,
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  Speaker 2: let's get into the podcast. I adore today's guest. Everybody
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  Speaker 2: loves today's guest. It's Tim highdeck Er. Tim welcome, Dyson.
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  Speaker 3: I have so many enemies. Could you're starting off in
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  Speaker 3: such a disingenuous place. It's unbelievable.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, give me a break, But give me a break.
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  Speaker 3: I am. It's so excited you brought up a little
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  Speaker 3: house in the prairie. I don't know if you did
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  Speaker 3: research on me. No, No, do you watch it? I used,
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  Speaker 3: I used to when I was a kid, and I
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  Speaker 3: was like even into I mean, I knew it from
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  Speaker 3: it when I was a kid. But in high school,
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  Speaker 3: my sister and I religiously watched it. Oh you're kidding
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  Speaker 3: after school the reruns right right. I loved it and
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  Speaker 3: I might go back and do a rewatch.
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  Speaker 2: When was the last time you saw it?
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  Speaker 3: Uh? Many years ago? But I could. I could picture
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  Speaker 3: every frame. I know all the characters. I love that show.
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  Speaker 3: And you know the story about the ending of the show.
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  Speaker 3: Because I want to ask, because.
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  Speaker 2: I don't because my boyfriend keeps hinting at you won't
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  Speaker 2: believe what happened?
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  Speaker 3: Do you not want me to tell you?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, what do you think? I mean? This is
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  Speaker 2: the thing about the show.
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  Speaker 3: It's very funds It's a very fund Hollywood story.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, then I guess I should know.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you should know. I'm sorry your boyfriend for ruining it.
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  Speaker 3: You will eventually know this. I think it's true. I
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  Speaker 3: think it's true the very end of this. The show
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  Speaker 3: has been on for it's like seasons.
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  Speaker 2: Is that it over two hundred episodes.
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  Speaker 3: But it feels much longer because you see like half
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  Speaker 3: Pint and all the family grow from a nine year
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  Speaker 3: old to like adults. So it's gone. It's on for
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  Speaker 3: a long time, and the show comes to an end.
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  Speaker 3: And I think the last episode of the show is
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  Speaker 3: some railroad company or some outside forest buys little Walnut Walnut.
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  Speaker 2: Growth, I believe creek, and I think it is a
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  Speaker 2: real place.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Walnut Grove, and the town doesn't like it. It
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  Speaker 3: means they're gonna have to change. Something's gonna happen. They
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  Speaker 3: decide that they are going to dynamite the entire town.
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  Speaker 3: They're gonna, yeah, they're gonna out of spite, they are
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  Speaker 3: going to blow up the town.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, the the citizens, the citizens, Oh, good for them,
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  Speaker 2: and and like, but I guess, but it also feels
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  Speaker 2: kind of like the opposite of the ethos of the show.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I mean, just something happening. It's the opposite
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  Speaker 2: of the show.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well if you if we can't have this, no
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  Speaker 3: one can. And what I learned is that it was
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  Speaker 3: actually the production that said, we have to tear all
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  Speaker 3: these sets down anyway, let's.
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  Speaker 2: Let's just do it on camera. Yeah, that's so wild, which.
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  Speaker 3: Is such a bummer of a way to end that,
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  Speaker 3: because that shows so wholesome about sweet It's about learning
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  Speaker 3: lessons about how to behave and do right by people
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  Speaker 3: and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And so do you see the town get blown up?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the very last episode. I'm this is a memory.
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  Speaker 3: It could be. I hope it's mean. I'm sure your
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  Speaker 3: audience will correct me or you if it's incorrect, but
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  Speaker 3: I think that's how it went down.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, wow, I can't wait to get to that
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  Speaker 2: in ten years.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, two hundred episodes of like they're like over an
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  Speaker 2: hour each of them. Yeah, and it feels over an
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  Speaker 2: hour sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I remember them getting trapped in a mine. Oh okay,
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  Speaker 3: I remember the classic Albert. Albert was like the adopted son.
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  Speaker 3: Later he gets addicted to opium. So there's like a
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  Speaker 3: drug episode. You know. The network was like, we need
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  Speaker 3: a drug.
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  Speaker 2: How do we fit this into pioneer time, yes.
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  Speaker 3: And Pauw had to like like he cold turkeyed with him,
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  Speaker 3: so he like got him and it was like I just
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  Speaker 3: remember sweat, I remember vomit. It just like it was
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  Speaker 3: like early memories of the world are through the lens
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  Speaker 3: of little House in the.
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  Speaker 2: First Wow, I didn't realize it got so tough on it.
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  Speaker 3: It's hard out there in the prairie.
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  Speaker 2: I think we're only nine episodes in.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, you have such a journey ahead.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it was it was shocking to me. I
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  Speaker 2: think I purposefully avoided it as a kid because growing
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  Speaker 2: up in Utah you were just like kind of there
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  Speaker 2: was an overflow of like pioneer stories and I felt
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  Speaker 2: like watching that would be like going to church essentially.
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  Speaker 3: And are they they remaking it?
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  Speaker 2: I think so. I was just talking to my sister
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  Speaker 2: from the phone and she said, oh, you know, they're
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  Speaker 2: they're remaking that.
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  Speaker 3: So who knows, And your sister is the executive of
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  Speaker 3: Netflix or.
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  Speaker 2: She's kind of taken the reins h No, but I
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  Speaker 2: watched We watched the pilot and it's like, I think
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  Speaker 2: it's like two hours or something. It's like a movie
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  Speaker 2: and the things the family goes through.
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  Speaker 3: It's just like, I'm going to go, where is it?
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  Speaker 3: Where can you watch?
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  Speaker 2: I think it's on Amazon? Okay, And so far we
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  Speaker 2: haven't encountered a commercial, which has been nice.
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  Speaker 3: Nice.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure that The Blindside is at some point. But
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  Speaker 2: what a show? And who who would have thought the
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  Speaker 2: ingles were going to have be such a pleasant time
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  Speaker 2: to watch? Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and Michael Landon's always he's always crying.
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  Speaker 2: Crying or looking for an opportunity not to wear his shirt. Yes, shirt,
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  Speaker 2: I realized, so.
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  Speaker 3: No shirt, no shirt, but suspenders. It's amazing. I came
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  Speaker 3: out a straight man.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's amazing. I came out gay not having seen
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  Speaker 2: the show. Maybe I'm going to double down now, but
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  Speaker 2: I'm through that.
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  Speaker 3: You watch the show, yeah, and then I then you
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  Speaker 3: have to after that, you have to watch Highway to Heaven?
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  Speaker 3: What is that Highway to Heaven? So it's Michael Landon's
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  Speaker 3: second show, second big show that he did with the
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  Speaker 3: guy from the the his friend on Little House in
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  Speaker 3: the Prayer, the goy, the Beard.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, the guy. His name's Victor French.
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  Speaker 3: Victor French, Yes, remember Victor French teams up with Michael
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  Speaker 3: Landon for Highway to Heaven, which I believe is I
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  Speaker 3: didn't see much. I didn't watch a lot of Highway
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  Speaker 3: to Heaven, but it was I think Michael Landon is
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  Speaker 3: an angel who's like back, has stuck back on Earth,
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  Speaker 3: has to do good deeds to get back to Heaven
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  Speaker 3: into Heaven, I think, And Victor French is like a
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  Speaker 3: truck driver that he keeps running into It's you gotta
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  Speaker 3: watch it if you're if you watch Little House, you gotta.
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  Speaker 2: Keep keep you think that did that show go very
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  Speaker 2: long that?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, Probably long enough. It was. It got indosyndication,
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  Speaker 3: probably Okay, Yeah, it wasn't like a one and done
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  Speaker 3: kind of deal.
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  Speaker 2: And like communication with God throughout or is it kind
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  Speaker 2: of stranded on Earth exit?
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  Speaker 3: I couldn't tell you. We'd have to we'd have to
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  Speaker 3: pull up an episode, which I'm happy to do.
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  Speaker 2: Just watch a whole episode of Have It right now.
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  Speaker 2: It feels like Victor French's role in all of these
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  Speaker 2: Landon programs is to kind of just randomly show up.
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  Speaker 2: Because the episode we're watching right now of Little House,
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  Speaker 2: they needed a babysitter because the Ingle parent Ingle's parents
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  Speaker 2: are going on holiday and they need.
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  Speaker 3: Where are they going. They're going, They're going to Europe.
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  Speaker 2: They're going to d No, they're going to some other town.
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  Speaker 2: He has to drop something off, but he's treating as
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  Speaker 2: they keep saying.
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  Speaker 3: Holiday to St. Louis or something.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. But the first night of their holiday is
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  Speaker 2: them sleeping on the ground in front of a fire,
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  Speaker 2: So I guess like that's kind of the getting away
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  Speaker 2: for them. But the the babysitter gets a sore throat
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  Speaker 2: and can't babysit.
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  Speaker 3: Which in those days means you eventually die.
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  Speaker 2: She'll probably be by the end of And then here
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  Speaker 2: comes Victor French, just kind of stumbling into town. Oh
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  Speaker 2: you need a babysitter? Right here, I am. The kids
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  Speaker 2: love me.
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  Speaker 3: That's cute.
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  Speaker 2: But what a show. I can't recommend it enough and
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  Speaker 2: there's nothing else for me to watch on TV.
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  Speaker 3: Right Yeah, I might be with you, joining you.
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  Speaker 2: A tough time. What have you been up to? Well?
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  Speaker 3: I have two kids, sure, I tend to spend a
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  Speaker 3: lot of time with them, go to their baseball games.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a big baseball fan, so I watched a lot
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  Speaker 3: of Are you watching the Dodgers or watching any baseball team,
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  Speaker 3: if you're really into it ends up taking up a
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  Speaker 3: lot of your time.
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  Speaker 2: It's a kind of a job.
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  Speaker 3: It's on almost every day.
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  Speaker 2: Do they play every day?
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  Speaker 3: Play like four days a week or five days a week?
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  Speaker 2: That does feel wild?
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  Speaker 3: And the games are like three or four hours long.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's almost a career.
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  Speaker 3: It's my part time job.
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  Speaker 2: Yet, how are they doing.
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  Speaker 3: They're doing okay, but they're not doing as good as
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  Speaker 3: they should be doing if you're looking at the stats
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  Speaker 3: and the numbers and stuff. And this the NL West,
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  Speaker 3: which is the division they're in, is very competitive at
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  Speaker 3: the moment. Padres and the Giants are doing very well
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  Speaker 3: as well. So it's it's it's exciting. I guess what
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  Speaker 3: else free time? I don't know. I run and jaw
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  Speaker 3: like you know, that's what I do in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: Is that a Have you been a runner jogger your
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  Speaker 2: whole life? Uh?
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  Speaker 3: Fits and starts. But I've kind of in the past
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  Speaker 3: few years gotten into like pretty much every day. It
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  Speaker 3: took a way to start the day.
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  Speaker 2: How far are you jogging? Running? Uh?
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  Speaker 3: Three miles? That's pretty good, pretty good, And it's it's
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  Speaker 3: it's a I lived live on a hill so I
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  Speaker 3: run halfway down and then halfway up. I mean I
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  Speaker 3: run all the way down and then half.
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  Speaker 2: The way back up, okay, and then walk.
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  Speaker 3: Then do a walk the rest of the nice.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, So it's just like you have to build
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  Speaker 2: up to that.
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  Speaker 3: I need to actually push it to the next level
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  Speaker 3: because I've been stationary. I've been at that level for
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  Speaker 3: a couple of years. Right, I get muscles. Yeh, see,
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  Speaker 3: you got muscles. How do I get muscles? Because I
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  Speaker 3: go to the gym sometimes I lift weights, but they
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  Speaker 3: never turn into muscles.
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  Speaker 2: I have a I kind of do an extreme thing.
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  Speaker 3: Extreme things.
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  Speaker 2: This is the thing I do is I go to
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  Speaker 2: this small gym and silver leg that's run by a
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  Speaker 2: husband and wife team. They're lovely, and you go for
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  Speaker 2: a half hour and they put you through. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: it's kind of up to you. They give you like
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  Speaker 2: a thing, a list of exercises to do, and like
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  Speaker 2: you're supposed to do five sets of each of them
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  Speaker 2: or whatever, and you just do as much as possible.
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  Speaker 2: And so I walk away probably every other time, dry heaving.
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  Speaker 2: Really it's very dear, not pleasant, but it's the only
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  Speaker 2: I had never worked out before, right, And so This
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  Speaker 2: is just how I've learned to exercise right. And it's
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  Speaker 2: the nice thing is it's a half hour.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it's your in and out right.
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  Speaker 2: Because if I go to a gym just by myself,
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  Speaker 2: I'm kind of I know.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I do. I go to this gym I
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  Speaker 3: go to and I just rent pick up things and
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  Speaker 3: do the same thing. And I don't push it. Really
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I mean, I don't know. I'm always you know,
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  Speaker 3: it'd be interesting to get to have a bunch.
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  Speaker 2: Of muscles go way too far with Now, when I
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  Speaker 2: go to a regular gym, I'm so insecure because I
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  Speaker 2: don't know how to work out without someone kind of
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  Speaker 2: at least keeping an eye on me.
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  Speaker 3: Well, so these people are doing that sort of.
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  Speaker 2: They kind of there. I think at Max there are
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  Speaker 2: probably seven people in the gym at once, and so
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  Speaker 2: the people wander around and if you're doing something wrong,
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  Speaker 2: they'll tell you and you can ask them questions.
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  Speaker 3: And but it's not a set time.
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  Speaker 2: No, you have to make an appointment. Oh you do,
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  Speaker 2: do you have to make an appointment? But they're great,
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  Speaker 2: they're wonderful. I think I'm suspicious. Miranda July has this
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  Speaker 2: new novel out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my wife read it. Everybody, everybody, all the women
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  Speaker 3: in my life.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, every woman I've ever met just read this book. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: of course the game.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's over there reading your lady books.
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  Speaker 2: But in this book, it's said in east eastern Los Angeles.
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  Speaker 2: The protagonist lives, probably in Silver Lake. She ends up
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  Speaker 2: going to this gym in a basement, in a basement
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  Speaker 2: run by a husband and wife team. And I have
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  Speaker 2: to imagine, right, this is the gym.
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  Speaker 3: There's I used to I used to live in Silver Lake,
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  Speaker 3: and I went to that very gay gym, you know,
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  Speaker 3: the very.
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  Speaker 2: Is it Pharaohs. It's like, that's the gayest gym I
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  Speaker 2: can think of.
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  Speaker 3: It's right on that main drag because that is like
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  Speaker 3: a traditionally gay area of Los Angeles, right like back
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  Speaker 3: in the day when it was like there were actual
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, you know.
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  Speaker 2: What I means of communities.
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  Speaker 3: Yea, right now it feels like it doesn't matter. Hopefully
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  Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. But this felt like real, like muscle
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  Speaker 3: muscle men, you know, village people's style, you know, guys
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  Speaker 3: working out in leather kind of. I went to that
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  Speaker 3: gym for a while.
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  Speaker 2: But that was like a traditional gym. There wasn't a
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  Speaker 2: it was.
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  Speaker 3: Not only husbands, your husband material. But I had a
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  Speaker 3: trainer and I didn't like that experience. You don't like
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  Speaker 3: being told what to do well, I didn't like the
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  Speaker 3: chit chat. I don't like this a small talk as
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  Speaker 3: we're working out. So what'd you get up to this weekend?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I don't really want to check it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: The chit chat at my gym is limited to almost
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  Speaker 2: exclusively what we're watching on TV, and they have good
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  Speaker 2: tastes in TV, so there's just a lot of me
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  Speaker 2: complaining to them and them complaining back, and it feels good. Uh.
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  Speaker 2: The place I don't like to chit chat is my
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: haircut and my This has been a weird thing actually,
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  Speaker 2: where my barber doesn't talk to me at all, and
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: my boyfriend has started going to the same person and
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  Speaker 2: apparently has these long conversations. I don't know if it's
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  Speaker 2: just I'm so off putting as a person that he
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  Speaker 2: doesn't want to talk to me, or if he's just catching.
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  Speaker 3: He's resting and yeah, yeah, interesting.
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  Speaker 2: But he comes back and my boyfriend and talking about
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  Speaker 2: everything with this person. I mean, I have no complaints,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to talk right, but I'm feeling left out.
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  Speaker 3: I could feel that. I imagine you would. Now this
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  Speaker 3: sounds hacky. I always worried about this sounding hacky, but
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: it's true. It's very true.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: I think true things are sometimes hacky.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: But I get it at that. I get the small
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: talk at the dentist. Oh, sure of course, and I
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: got literally got so how are the kids doing? Like
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: I can't believe it's happening when it's happening, Like you don't.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: It's fine, right, you guys. You guys have plans over
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: the summer.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Well do to me if I'm the hygienas or the dentist.
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: I'm never getting clear answers from the patient like I
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: would eventually be like, I'm just not gonna ask them.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: I'm not having a healthy conversation with them.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: Yes, and maybe do it before you get the stuff
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: in the mouth.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Just ketch up, real ketchup, real.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: Quick, as a as an icebreaker or whatever.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: But I wonder if it's just because it's such an
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: intimate thing they feel like it's.
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: The whole thing is awkward. Can you imagine you end
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: up becoming you end up you're a dentist and you're
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: like or a dental hygienist. You Thank god they're people
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: that are willing to do it, but just in people's
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: mouths and scraping away.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: Oh awful. My problem with my dentist is they've installed
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: some of those overhead lights that are kind of a
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: bluish yeah, and I can't so I get they give
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: me migrants. I have to wait outside of the waiting
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: room until they let me in. Really, and I don't
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: have the heart to tell them. Just would you get
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: something a warmer light?
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: Right? Well? Can you wear certain glasses?
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Maybe I should wear sunglasses?
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: They give me sunglasses at my dentist really, yeah.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: Like tinted lenses. Oh that's interesting. But see this is
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: when I'm in the waiting.
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: Room, even in the waiting room, it's yeah.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: It's I think it's almost worse. So I don't, uh,
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: I don't know how to approach that.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: I would approach it.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: And it's hard to find a good dentist, and I
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: like this person.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: I have a great I do have a great dentist.
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: But I would just talk to them about.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: It, Okay, yeah, maybe just leave an anonymous c LP
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: review or something.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: Well, well, I mean this is not something that they
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: can change. You mean the blue lights in the waiting room.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: In the waiting room, it's it's almost that like they're
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: like led lights or whatever, and they obviously just put
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: no thought into like which bulb they should buy, and
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: so they're blinding really blue. And if you wait too long,
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: I guess I'm too sensitive.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: Maybe you treat it like empathy, empathy towards the person
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: that is in the in the reception. Oh my goodness,
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: how do you deal with these lights all day long?
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: That's such a good weight to approach. Yes, I'm worried
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: about you, right, I'm fine with it.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have a problem with the daylight lights
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: being used in interiors. Do you know how that's been
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: going on?
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not familiar.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: So there's like color temperatures for different kinds of lights,
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: And this would be like the lights here, like an
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: indoor tungsten light as opposed to a day and a
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: daylight light feels like it's you're in outside, right, too bright?
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: It's too bright. But also it has a temperature to it,
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: a color to it that is like whiter. I guess
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: you'd say, right. And a lot of times people, especially
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: in airbnbs or hotels, Oh yeah, they will put in
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: daylight bulbs interior lamps, and it's hard. You'll know it.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: It's like bathroom lighting in your living room.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, it's so bright so you can see every pore. Yeah,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: which you just don't need.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: In living spaces.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Living spaces, well, I mean thinking of I mean speaking
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: of unpleasant things and things that I don't want to
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: deal with. I was excited to have you here today.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Thank you. We've met a couple, we've.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Met a couple of times. We've spent enough time together
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: that I thought we would have a nice time, we
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: would chat, move on with our days. The podcast is
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: called I said no gifts. I assume at least one
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: email was sent to you with the title I would hope.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: I hope that someone within this production is a professional.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: So it was a little thrown when you walked into
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: the studio holding what couldn't more clearly be a gift,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: This beautifully wrapped, kind of book sized gift. It's got
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: kind of a Santa Claus, very cute, little little stration.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Is that a gift for me?
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: It is? I apologize if it sets you off or anything.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: But I thought it was sarcastic or ironic of a title.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: I just didn't. I mean, I don't. I'm not a
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: gift giver. Okay, I don't. It's my wife's department, right,
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: I don't. I'm not a guy that likes to introduce
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: more waste into this world. Most of the people I
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: know have everything they want, right, and if they don't,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: they should be able to get it whenever they want.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: And you surround yourself with people who are just kind
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: of living simple people.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, sure, simple people. So this was an interest. So
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: I saw that Emai, I said, well, this is an
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: interesting challenge for me to see if I can embrace
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: the idea of gift giving. I don't even know how
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: to wrap presence, and I figured it out.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: You did a nice show.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: This isn't the best back here.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: But it's better than I could have done.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I don't know that the.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: Corners are so clean. My corners with a gift wrapping,
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: they're always kind of puffed out or too much tape
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: on them.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Right, But in the spirit of not wasting, I got
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: you something that I don't think involved any waste. Oh, Okay,
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: if you will accept that, I'd appreciate you.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: Should I open it here on the podcast.
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: Is that how you do it?
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: I mean maybe we'll make an exception. Tokay, okay, let's
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: oh crispy, okay. So it is a book.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: It is a book.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: It is a book, Songs of the Doomed, with an
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: introduction by you, written by Hunter S. Thompson.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: Oh so I want you to read the inscription in
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: the Is that what it's called? Inscription?
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Let's see, this is Bridger. They sent me six copies
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: of this book. I hope you can read.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: Well, it looks like you can.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I can't back out now, I can't lie about reading.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: And I love tim. They sent you six copies of.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: This book, right because I wrote the introduction?
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: And what am I going to do with six copies
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: of the same book? I don't need six, guys.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: It's a weird thing for the publisher to do. Is
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: this to pump up the sales numbers?
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I don't know, but now I have five copies, which
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: is too much? Right as well? I'm so I'm on.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you consider a regift or whatever,
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: but I'm offloading some stuff. So you're doing me a
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: favor as well.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Hate to hear it. Well, this is a weird position
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: that they've put you in, because if you were to
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: just drop them off at Goodwill, that's keeping people from
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: buying book, right, if you were to give them to friends,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: it feels weird. I can't imagine, do you. Is it
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: a thing you leave on the table in case somebody
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: comes over and they say, hey, I had like a copy.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: No, I don't. I just had. I have a bookshelf
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: and I have six copies of that book on it.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Now I have five.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: What are you possibly supposed to do with this?
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean I didn't read it, but
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: revolved that I wrote the introduction. Uh. The publisher wrote
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: me and asked me to write the intro, and I
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: I did read some of it. It's a collection of
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: his It's a collection of some of his writings from
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: various points of his life. And I mean, I grew
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: up reading hunter S. Thompson and knew enough about him
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: to And he said, just write a couple of pages
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: about Huntress Thompson and how you feel about it. Right,
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: I'll do that.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Have you talked to it? I assume you've talked about
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: this publicly about Hunter S. Thompson at some point. It
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: wasn't just a wild swing by the publisher.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I think he was just he knew me
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: in general from my podcast and from whatever. He probably
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: just said, do you I mean, he might have asked,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: did you are you? Are you a fan of Huntress Thompson?
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: Would you be interested?
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: And then was it difficult writing the intro? Let me
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: see you feel like that's high stakes?
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: Uh No, I don't. I couldn't have met. I don't
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: think it was very difficult. It was really only look,
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: this is page one of it. This is page and
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: we're done. That's what he said. He goes, we only
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: need like whatever the page and the number is.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: It's a very short which I appreciate because when when
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: there's an intro in a book, I usually skip it
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: because it's it's like, you know, a full chapter, and
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: I'm like, well, let me just read the book. I
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: don't need anyone else's opinion right now. No, yeah, And
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: I don't want to waste any more time. I'm already
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: wasting time reading, so why why would I possibly do that?
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: But this feels like this is a low pressure intro.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: There's no excuse to not read my intro.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of embarrassing if you don't. You should
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: almost read it by accident.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see here. And then there's always like an intro,
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: and then there's a preface, well what is the difference?
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: And an author's note and an editor's note in this one.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, so they've gone too far.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: I also love when they say editor's note and then
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: it's like three pages like it should be, just like,
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: I hope you enjoyed the book.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: The editors just stepping in and giving themselves a few pages.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: I'm sure you know. We went to great length to
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: make sure that the work we did was at the
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: highest level of quality.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: At this point, you've already got the reader hooked. You've
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: got them to either buy or get into the library.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: Damn editor, I have to say. Shortly before this book
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: went to press, we were stunned and profoundly demoralized by
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: the newsbook that had been seized certain I don't know
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: what anyway, and then you got quotes from other books.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: It's I was like the quote from other books, I
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: don't know.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, setting a tone, Oh.
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: I see, who is this one from George Barker, Sacred
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Elegy five, nineteen forty three. Fiend, Behind the Fiend, Behind
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: the Fiend, Behind the Fiend, all right. I also kind
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: of threw him under the bus here a little bit,
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: I think, really well, because then you read more like
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: I think my point was like, when you're in high school,
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: there's something cool about her, of course, very cool. Then
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: you get older and you're like, well, this is no
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: way to live. There's no way to behave.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: It's a bad life.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: You're like doing all these drugs and response shooting, shooting
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: stuff and not doing your work.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: No one can count on you, I know, and everybody
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: for whatever reason it's working.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're getting rewarded. Ye and bad behavior.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: He should have been jailed. Yeah, he should have been
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: in prison. No, I never read Hunter s Thompson, and
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I think then got to a point where it's like, well,
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: now it's too late, and I feel like it is
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: the sort of thing where like the season need to
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: be planted early, so like, yeah, I wonder if he
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: would annoy me.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: Now Yeah, I don't know. I mean it's where I think,
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: you know, the big ones are, well, they're exciting to read.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Right, I feel like he's probably it's it's one of
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: those like.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: But of its time as well, and a lot of
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: it was very contemporary, writing about Nixon or whatever's going
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: on in the country at that time. That feels like
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: he must have been really exciting to read in the
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: moment as it's happening.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: But I'm sure a lot of those things still apply now.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: They do as well, obviously obviously.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: But interesting. Is there any do you feel like this
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: is a good starting point for me to start reading Hunt.
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: I don't think so. No, I don't think I don't
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: think so. I mean, this is his stuff from the nineties,
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: you know, it's like my first Rolling Stones record is
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: is about Bridges to Babylon or something.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: You don't associate him with the nineties at all. I mean,
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: what is he writing about in the nineties, Well, that's.
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: When he kind of moved to Colorado and is like
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: living off the grid and stuff and hanging out some
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: value down. Yeah, you know what, dig dive in. Maybe
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: it'll be right up your alley. Start with the introduction.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to think of I guess Fear and Loathing.
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: It feels like a god.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: Then fear and Loathing on the campaign trail of nineteen
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: seventy two, the McGovern campaign. Look at me, I'm so smart.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm trying to give you opportunities. Are you
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: reading anything right now?
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: What am I reading right now? I've been doing a
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: lot of audiobooks. Does that count? That counts? Right?
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: I think that counts.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: The Room to Dream is this biography slash memoir of
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: David Lynch. Oh, that's real great. The premise of this
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: book is they of every chapter. You know, let's say
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: they're talking about Twin Peaks. So the chapter on Twin
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: Peaks is read by the author of who's writing like
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: a biography, you know, right right, he met him and
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: this is how that happened and all that stuff. And then
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: after that chapter David jumps on, I remember that was
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: the first time I worked with so and so, and
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: it really was something else, and we didn't get all
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: of it the first day, but I dropped my impression,
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: but I was there for a second. And then it's
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: it's his perspective on that period.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Is there any like him correcting the record or anything?
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, But it does have that feeling of
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: not something he's reading. It feels like he's just on
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: the mic. Yeah, totally.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: It's such an entertaining person to just hear talk.
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: The other one that was like that that I recently
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: had as read was al Pacino's.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: Memoir Oh does he read the whole thing?
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: Yes, And it's the bad And it does feel like
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: he's either reading it for the first time and finding
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: out about it for the first time, or he's remembering
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: and kind of he keeps talking about losing and then
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: I lost all my money, I ran the money. What
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: are you gonna do? And I had to do an
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Adam Samla movie. But it's great. He's like I loved
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: him so much more than I already loved him after
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: reading that.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: He's an incredible person.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: He really is. And what's funny is like there's this
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: perception of him as like this tough guy, you know,
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: scar faced godfather, and he's like a wacky art guy,
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: you know, interesting, real, wacky, real, you know, he's a
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: New York theater actor guy who's not tough at all.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: But anyways, it's a very very good memoir, maybe the best.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: One of the best actor memoirs I've ever.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Read, was there any like shocking fact you learned or
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: anything interesting.
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: I don't remember you think.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, this is it's a gun beare question for
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: me to ask.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: I mean, there's the funny ship was like towards the
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: end where he's like he's got all these kids, and
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: he's got all these ex wives and and and he's
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: like spending money like a madman. But just because I
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: know he's talking, he told one story about like flying
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: to London private on a private jet and staying at
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: taking a whole floor of some hotel, and and and
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: then he has like all these cell phones that he's
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: paying for and all the and then like meanwhile, his
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: his like age is a business manager has been like
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: ripping him off for ten years and he's finding out
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: about that. And he's like, I don't have any money.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. But then I get
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: another job and the money comes in. But he's like,
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: you really, He's like sometimes these old guys like their
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: expenses are through the rule because living like kings in
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: the seventies.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: And eighties, family members who are used to a certain life,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: see who are probably creating new expenses all the time. Wow, Yeah,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: I kind of getting to that age and still worrying
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: about like, oh my god, I'm out of money I've got.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: I can't imagine it. Yeah, I know, I can't believe
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: I might personally have like worked myself into this life
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: where I'm like, you know, don't think about it. But
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: then here I am at almost fifty and being like
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: I have two kids, and I'm like, I gotta have to.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: I'm just have to. Like I'm doing well, but there's
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: no guarantees.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: No, especially in this horrible business.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that business is changing so dramatically. You know. It's
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: occasionally these jobs come in. It's like, oh, that's nice,
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: that's a lot of money. Wow, Okay, why would they
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: pay me that much money? But then you're like, man,
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: that might be the last time that ever happens. Then
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: what do I fucking do?
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: But I think the thing you have going for you
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: is you you lead a pretty stable, reasonable lifestyle.
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: Yes, it's true, it is true. I don't My expenses
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: are fairly reasonable, and I have no boats or anything.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: Right, I don't foresee you making any giant swings. It's
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: suddenly like you're just out of control.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: And yes, it's true, I'm very conservative.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: Grambling that way, Wow, al Pacino, I need to read that.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: So you're reading the book, I've already forgotten what book
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: you're Oh the data.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't really gone into like novel world in
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: a while and feel bad about that.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: I think it's uh, reading nonfiction is easier.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I enjoy you're hearing about real people.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like, I don't know if.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: You're going to make stuff up, I'll watch it as
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: a TV show or a movie, or if the book
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: is so good they'll make it into a movie.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: I'll wait. Yeah, yeah, I uh, fiction more and more,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: I'm like getting halfway through a novel, like I'm not
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: enjoying myself and I'm not learning. Whereas if I'm not
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: enjoying a piece of nonfiction, I'm like I can be like, well,
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: at least new facts are entering my brain that I
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: could eventually share on a podcast or this kind of thing. Yes,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: a dinner conversation, conversation, that's my entire life now. I
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: was just trying to think of new things that I
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: can share with friends.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: What else could I They don't want to hear about.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: The absolutely want nothing to do with and then they'll
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: kind of say the same things back to me and
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: we'll go home.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: I'm reading about Facebook right now.
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: Oh and uh oh is there a new book.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: That it might be new? It's called Careless People?
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: Mmm, like from an insider's perspective.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Yes, this woman who was like in charge of pushing
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: it into new countries or she she kind of looked
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: at it as like, we're going to this is going
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: to be a worldwide thing we need to be responsible for.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: And I was trying to convince everyone at Facebook that that.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Mattered, right, and they said, they said.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Not really, as long as we're growing our numbers, it
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: doesn't really matter how our behavior is. I haven't really
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: learned I mean, everything you would possibly assume about Facebook, yes.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Or whatever that is, like, oh yeah.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: But it is fun to have a little stories about
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Mark Zuckerberg being a loser. Sure, well, I've got this book.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Is there anything else we need to say about Hunter S. Thompson?
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: No, I don't think so.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Do you do any prose writing outside of intros to.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: Well? I mean I write a lot of the stuff
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: Sure.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: I put out a tour diary book last year through
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: McSweeney's that was exciting. Yeah, So yeah, I did that
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: every day on tour and that it was. It worked
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: well enough that I sent it to Dave Eggers and
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: they put it in their one of their issues as
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: like a book that you can read, Oh lovely and
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: every on my Patreon for office hours. Every Saturday, I
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: write a blog. I oh, that's nice, and I really
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: like it. I really enjoy writing. Some more things in
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: the works maybe that are not official, but you know.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: What are you blogging about?
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: Oh, you know, whatever's in my head, whatever, my trip
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: to the dentist last week. Politics, things i'm worried about,
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: if something funny happened in my life that deserves some attention, right, Yeah.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: And also like, oh, here's this thing I'm working on,
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: and here's a little bit about why I do it,
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: or you know, just a little self introspection or whatever.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: No, I think that's nice almost journaling, Yeah it is.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: It is a bit thing I.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Miss blogging, you know, in the late oughts, the blogging
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: of all of that.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's I mean, it feels like it's
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: coming back because everyone's doing substats and I don't really
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: I follow like a couple of people, but uh, I don't.
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: I don't want to go there. Because it's one of
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: the value benefits of the patriots.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Of course one of my yes got to have some
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: sort of things.
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, of course it costs me nothing but time,
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: which is valuable. But I like doing it. I get
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: up on Saturday, but it's always Saturday morning, and I
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: get up and before everyone's up, I have some coffee
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: and I sit there and I try to put something.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: You give yourself a time limit or not really.
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: No, it usually, I mean I usually eventually have other
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: things to do, so I try to wrap it up.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Sub sex for me, I feel like I'm ambitious
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: about reading them. I subscribe to them constantly, and then
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: it just becomes this annoying thing in my email. Then
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I start feeling guilty and I don't want to unsubscribe,
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: and I guess that just reflects poorly on me. Yeah,
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: I should be reading more, but or being more selective
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: about who I'm Well.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: Did they do a thing on there where you can
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: it like collects them all into like a digest or
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: something a smart thing.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: Like an app or something that does that.
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're just like more. It's more of like
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: a magazine experience, right, reading a bunch of emails that
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: we don't want to read a bunch of emails.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Getting a long emails and unpleasant things.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: I just got one this morning about my h this
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: commercial I'm doing show. I'll show you just the email length.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: No way, no way, that's probably two printed pages.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: There's a lot of numbers in here. Times.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: I have to imagine that could be boiled down to
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: like four bulleted points. That person is wasting their time.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a brain dump. It's like you write that
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: separately and then then you'll answer your own.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: Questions to figure out what you actually have to convey.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: That's a bad email, right or that's like almost an
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: old fashioned type of email.
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And there's like a couple of questions question marks
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: at the end. Too many question marks at the end. Okay,
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: calm down, reset?
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: Have you responded to it yet? No? See that sort
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: of thing. That would I would hit snooze on that
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: probably four times before I got back to it.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: Do you want to hear a funny text exchange my
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: mom and me and my wife. Maybe you need a
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: little more context of who we're dealing with here, But
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: let's just pretend we all have moms.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: We've all they all have a certain texting style.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so this was there. She's coming. She's in Palm Springs,
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: so it's it's she comes to visit us quite a bit.
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: I met your mom's yes, of course in Palm Springs.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: So she's coming for the weekend. And she texts my
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: wife and I yesterday, Okay, we'll come. This is this
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: okay comes out of nowhere.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's like.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: It's a news thread, a new thread.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: Okay is a response to yeah.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, we'll come sat. We'll just say we'll
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: come Saturday unless you need me Friday for some reason.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Exclamation point, question mark heart. My wife says, sounds great,
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: thumbs up. My mom says, sorry, did you mean coming
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: question mark Saturday? Question mark comes great? Or Friday sounds great? No,
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: So she then clarifies, Oops, was in card doing verbal
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: and didn't understand my accent accent because I understand my accent.
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: I'll come Sat unless here different my wife. My wife,
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: very patient, says, but this is a little little attitude here.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: Oh interesting, she's getting hurt.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: You said will come Saturday. I said, sounds great. Clown face.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Calling your mama clown.
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: Clown. Yes, I realized, she says, yes, I realized that
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: when I reread it. Sorry about that, but I'll see
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: you Saturday. Can't we see you? But it was like,
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: will come Saturday unless you need me Friday for some reason.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: Sounds great. Your reaction to that would be see you Saturday.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Of course, it's a very I mean, it's just a
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: clear there's not that many options there.
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: No, no, yeah, anyways, I was just watching all that.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: I didn't get involved.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: I did not Oh you were, but you're you were
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: on the text.
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: On the time said no no chiming in.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: If I open a text thread and there's like more
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: than three things going, I just wait for it to
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: similar back down. I'm like, I'm not going to answer
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: everybody's questions here. If two more two or three people
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: are communicating, they'll figure it out, and then I could
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: say the final thing for sure, heart something. I won't
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: do a thumbs up, because then it just seems like
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: I was mad the whole time.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: People get mad about the thumbs up.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: It's a cold response. I don't know, and it's a
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: strange thing that it is, because it's just a neutral thing.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: I guess if you I think we're too over zealous
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: with the hearts. Yeah, and I say that those things
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: are like conversation enders.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, completely right. It's like I don't want to say
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: any other things to you, even if it's a heart,
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, but the thumbs.
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: Up got it, it's a got it without being that brusque.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: About it, right.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: I think if we just moved back to more thumbs
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: up on everything, less hearts, then the heart would mean more.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: You know what drives me? That's in a in a sorry.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: I keep going on that.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, if you're in a group thread and somebody
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: goes and if let's say it's a happy birthday, sure,
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: happy birthday scenario. The person that goes back and then
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: likes the all the various bing bing bing, you're getting
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: all these alerts that this person is going back and
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: liking things.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: Sam, Yeah, that's so unfair to every fo.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: We assume that you liked or I mean we maybe
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: we don't. Maybe we we should assume it. It doesn't
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: matter to you that other people said happy birthday in
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: this thread.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: I think it's almost it's not about you. They don't care,
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: and so they're just like checking boxes here. Oh a
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: little check is a decent one. They should add my.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: Friend who's who's also my tour manager when we tour,
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: a longtime great friend. His go to reply is the
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: check mark emoji, like when things are like clear, final, right,
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: che market.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: That's way better than the thumbs up, because I do
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: think a thumbs up in real life is almost always sarcastic.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: I mean rarely do you do that great? Well yeah, yeah,
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: but the check people love to see a check Yeah.
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: There we go, all right, self issue, And your mom's
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: coming Saturday.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: We'll see she might, she might. It's Friday now she
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: might be there. Oh, I thought you said, And I
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: want to say to her, this is where I want
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: to come from. Come whenever you want. Yeah, Like she
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: we have a little guest house that she has full
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: access to. Yes, she can come and go as she pleases.
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: We love to have her, of course, and she's welcome anytime.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: We We don't when we were when the kids were younger,
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: there was more of that feeling of like can you
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: come and.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Right we need your help right now, we need your help.
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: Now we're kind of like the kids are, they're older
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: and they can kind of like do their own thing.
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: We still have to, you know, we we still have
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: to pick them up and do that stuff. But we
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: have lots of where so that maybe is feeling a
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: little there's a little transition there where it's like, you know,
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: we were it's not so much about the childcare, but
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: if you're if you want to come early, come down.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I can't imagine she's going to be that much,
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: you know, a trouble.
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: No, it's not trouble.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: No. I think that's that lines up with my mom's behavior,
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: where you almost have to beg her to do things
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: that are fine.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she thinks being doing.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Normal behavior is overstepping her boundaries. Right, No, that's fine.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: And the fact that we've had to ask you, now
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: that's trouble exactly.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: It's like, did you want me to empty the dishwasher?
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't, like, do you want to? If
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: you want to have to a dishwasher? Like that would
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: be great helpful, sure, but don't ask me if like
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: would I I rather do it? No? Like you know
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: what I mean? Like, now we're talking about emptying the dishwasher.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: What about me makes you think I would be mad
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: that you emptied the dishwasher?
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Exactly? Yeah, sweet sweet people absolutely.
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: Lovely let me always are the best.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: Intentions, best intentions. I want to I'm curious about your
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: policy on locked doors at your house because my boyfriend.
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: Is this is pretty now okay, I mean, I can't
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: imagine your audience is full of bunch of burglars and
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: MS thirteen gang members.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: We have a very gang heavy audience. Yeah. Uh, my
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: boyfriend is very like, even when we're at home, every
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: door needs to be locked at all times.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm not. I'm not that way. My
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: wife is more that way. I just can't imagine a scenario,
• 45:45
  Speaker 3: but it would certainly happen. I also remember my so
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: my dad had They had a body shop, like a
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: tow truck company and that kind of thing in Pennsylvania, right,
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: And so they had this lot that was not fenced
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: or anything, and it was but it was where the
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: cars would be parked, be waiting to get service done
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: or waiting to get body shop work done or something, right,
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: and they would get occasionally broken into. Sure, and his
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: line was always like, it's cheaper for it would be
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense, we will never do it, but
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: it truly would be cheaper just to have the doors
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: open and and the windows rolled down right, because they're
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: going to get in there, yes, and they just have
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: to Now we have to play for the broken window
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: to right right.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my thing where I'm like, if we ever
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: get in such an extreme scenario that someone who's entered
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: the house while we're here, they're going to do it
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: either way. Yeah, yeah, they have bad intentions, let them
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: in right. At least it'll be smoother, it be less scary, right.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know where I guess there's
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: just maybe I'm too care free.
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: I think it's a little bit of both, a little
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: I think it's you know, it's sure lock lock them
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: up at night.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, lock it up at night, I hope.
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we lock it up at night. Believe me, folks,
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: we will. We lock it up at night. You're not
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: getting into our house at night.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: Do you have alarms?
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: Yes, we do have an alarm. We have an alarm
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: that I'm asking all these questions.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: Also, just say your address on the podcast.
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: We have alarms that I don't I'm not fastidious about. Okay.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: See that's how I am sure.
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: And then you got to go in there and turn
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: it off.
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: Right, And I'm always worried that I'll forget and then
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: set it off.
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: And we've had the cops come a couple of times.
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you, I'll tell you a story about the
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: cops coming.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: I would love to hear it.
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: Now. You said earlier in that everybody loves me, right, yes,
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: everybody else. It's not true because I have created many
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: enemies on the far right. Oh sure, right, another part
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: of your listenership. Right. So, a few years ago I
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: went to war with this guy named Baked No, what's
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: his name, Baked Potato or something. It was one of
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: these I don't know, it's one of these YouTuber right
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: wing lunatics who went to the capitol at you were.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Six gutter scum, yeah.
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: Bad guy. And he would go around and he would
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: film live streamers. Oh yeah. And you would go into
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: like seven elevens and like accost people and harassed people,
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: and people would like send him money over the like
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: it was like a game they were playing. It's really
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: kind of fascinating but also the most disgusting thing. And
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: I called him out, and I was calling I was like,
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: YouTube should not YouTubers. I was like, why why am
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: I using YouTube?
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: I love YouTube, yes, but they're also airing this like
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: this nazi walking around like abusing people. Yeah so but
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: of course that makes me come out like scold and
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: all this. Anyways, I like riled up his crowd. They
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: started coming after me. They were live streaming, like went
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: to my old office and they're like going and so
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: I was like really on edge. And the day that
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: they went to my office, we were at home. It
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: was Sunday, and I was watching this guy like which
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: our office is like three miles away, and she was
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: like live streaming out there like throwing. It was not
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: it wasn't. He was an idiot and he wasn't like
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: but it was like, oh god, this guy's like called
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: the cops. I get this guy out of here right right.
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: The office was closed. It was a Sunday, And about
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: ten maybe like a half hour later, I get a
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: bang bang bang on the door.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Before that, I asked my wife to make sure that
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: our alarm was on sure right, so she I don't
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: hear anything. I said, can you make sure that the
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: alar like that this works because there's this guy like
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: three miles away. I get a bang bang bang on
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: the door. My kids are there. My mom is there.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: It's Sunday, she's there. I look out the window. We
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: have a little peephole thing. I'm trying to think. I'm
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: trying to get this.
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: Order correct for our baked potato listener.
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, bang, bang bang. I say, get the fuck away
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: from the door. Oh, get the fuck away, and they
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: go it's the police. It's cop. And I'm screaming at them,
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: and they're about to break through the.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: Door because I sus scenario.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this is like a swatting thing. Yet there, you know,
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: they're treating me like I'm barricading my family in the
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: house of the shotgun. They don't know. And what happened
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: was and eventually, like they show their badge, they open
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: the fucking door, like you know, I don't know. I'm
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: out of my mind, of course, and I opened the door.
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: They sit me down. I don't. They don't handcuff, they
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: sit me down. They have to clear they have to
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: go in the house, make sure that nothing that there's
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: that they like, they get everybody out of the house.
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: They have to search the house. Helicopters are above. And
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: what happened was my wife pressed the panic button this
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: little fob and then her phone was dead. When they
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: tried to call, which they do. They call, say is
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: this an emergency? No one answers, and the protocols began.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: And the cops come and they just assumed the worst,
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: that terribles happened. But three other cop cars come and
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: then within about I would say thirty seconds, the cops
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: started to understand what was going on, and I was,
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: you know, under they explained it. But it could have
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: gone could have.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: Been oh so so badly.
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: But it did stem from this, like true, you know,
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: fear of the lunatics out there right totally. I have
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: to be a little careful about, like, yeah, keeping keeping
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: the family.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Safe, of course. And let me ask you this about that.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: Do they is there like a fine, do they charge
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: you anything?
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: They did not. I think that was I'm pretty sure
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: that didn't happen. I think it might have been. There
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: was a warning, don't do this, keep your phone charged. Yeah.
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Did you follow that story about the Weezer basis.
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, a little bit. I don't know if we know
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: everything about that story, do we?
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: I don't know. All I know is there was a
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: high speed chase. Yeah, and there's footage of the one
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: of the suspects in someone's backyard. I don't know if
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: you saw this, like trying to disguise himself as the
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: person living there, and he's hosing down the garden like
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: he's gardening.
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: Oh that's smart and incredible idea. Yeah.
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: And then apparently she came out of the house and
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: was holding a gun.
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: Because why, that's what That's the big question.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: I guess you thought that there was something wrong that
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: she had to defend herself from. And uh and then
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: gets shot and then.
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: Drop the gun.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: And she wouldn't drop the gun.
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you drop the gun?
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Great question?
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: Bad morning, bad morning? Maybe was it in the morning?
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: I think so? Okay, I mean I get I'm just
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: saying this because when I found out it was the
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: morning shows a lack of imagination would be in the
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: middle of the night.
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: But I don't know the.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: Footage of the guy hosing down there is daytime unless
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: this was like a twenty four hours.
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: Nothing to do with whatever Chase was going on. She's wrong.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: But this woman has led kind of an interesting life
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: because I texted a friend and he said, oh, she
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: was on my storytelling show in twenty eleven. Oh, she
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: was in a harem. So she's got a whole life.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: She's got a very rich life, this woman, and now
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: she's been shot and is now.
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: I wonder I'm trying to think of like the bass
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: player for Weezer. He probably makes a pretty good living, sure,
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: but not probably maybe not as good as you. Right,
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: she's like not a he's like a hired gun.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not the song right right, he's not getting
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: could be replaced at any moment.
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: Yes, so he probably makes a nice away like a
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: weekly like a salary right when they're on the road.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, how does that work for when you're a you
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: are a member of the band, you're on in all
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: the press photos. Yeah, you must be contractually something.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I would think you're more. I don't know. It's
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: different for every band from what I could tell, but
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: there are band like I remember I heard the Rolling Stones,
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: Like the only actual owners in like is Mick and Keith.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: That makes sense.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: But if you were the drummer and the bass player
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: Bill Wyman or Charlie Watts ron Wood, you're you're just
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: on your being paid a salary to be in the Stones.
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because you don't really think about that. You
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: just think everybody's part of the team.
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, all the money gets thrown into the pot in
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: the middle of the table.
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: Dive on split it up. Yeah. All I know is
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: that the bass player played Coachella the next day.
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: So it couldn't be that bad. Couldn't be that Do
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: they have kids? That's what I want to know.
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: I think there was a babysitter outside while this is happening,
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: maybe from another house. I don't know. Again, I should
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: have done a little more research before talking about it publicly. Yeah,
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: but these are the things that I kind of wah.
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: Gap between what we're doing now and when this comes out.
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: Do you guys try to keep it tight?
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: That's a great question. Oh wait, Tentative released June thirty.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: That can't possibly be true.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: It's going to age like old milk.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: There's no that's wrong.
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's wrong. Okay, Well they deleted the whole sentence
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: that he's got a monitor here, and they deleted the
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: whole sentence.
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: They're shutting down the podcast as we speak. The episode
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: will never be I imagine it's may ish good oh Ano,
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: they're typing goodbye. So now now I think too much
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: bomb enough is enough? I think two weeks from it'll
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: still this will be definitely old Jews. Well, we will
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: have all the facts of the case. Hopefully she'll be
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: out on bail and maybe she can come to the podcast. Yes,
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: missus uh shriner reach out.
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: You know that? So you know? Now you know who's
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: the bass player for Weezer.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Well, this is the problem to him. Have a very
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: complicated past with Weezer. You do growing up listening to Weezer,
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: and then I was a real fan through high school. Yeah,
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: and now just know everything about them forever, right, And
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: so this guy was hired. Maybe he's like to.
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: Tell you what I was a big fan of Weezer.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: Did you grow up listening to.
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: Well, I didn't grow up listening to him. I was
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: in college. Oh yeah, little older. So but I love
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: that Blue album. That first album is so it's poor,
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: so elemental. And on tour the last second to last
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: night of tour, we didn't do this a lot, but
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: everyone's in a while. We do like music. We'd play
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: music in the on the bus after the show and
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: we'd all sit around listen to music. And second to
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: last night it was like we're listening to the whole
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: Blue album and we everybody. Eight of us we sat
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: there blasted it like we're at the concert and like
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: sang through the whole record. Everybody knew it, everyone loved it,
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: and we're like, there's just not a bad song on it.
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: It's like a perfect.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's one of those rare things just beginning
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: to end.
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but so I but then, you know, if they
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: as as the kids say, they fell off.
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: I think their first two albums are perfect, and then
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: you know, you can't, you can't be great.
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: The Green Album's good, The Green Album's fine.
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fun enough to listen, and they've they've written
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: plenty of fun songs since. But you know, yeah, most musicians,
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: the road gets bumpy eventually. Sure, Okay, I think we
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: should play a game. We're going to play a game
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: called Gift or a Curse. But I need a number
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: between one and ten from you.
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: Oh, easily eight eight.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: I love that number. I have to do some light
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: calculating to get our game pieces. Right now. You can promote, recommend,
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: do whatever you want. I'll be right back.
• 57:24
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• 57:28
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• 57:31
  Speaker 3: to Patreon dot com slash Office hours live on Cinema
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: is the thing I hold deepest to my heart at
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: the moment as far as my creative output. You could
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: find that on our self funded subscription based streaming service
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: High Network, h EI Network, Dot TV and Go Dodgers.
• 57:51
  Speaker 3: I know they're They've got all the best players their
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: the payroll is extremely high. But it's an important team
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: in the history baseball. We should support them. Even if
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: you're not a fan. We have to support them.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: Get behind the boys.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: They are the boys in blue in our city. If
• 58:10
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• 58:14
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• 58:16
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• 58:18
  Speaker 2: You, listener. I already told you about Patreon, et cetera,
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: et cetera. Chicago, don't forget, don't let us down. Okay, Tim,
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: this is how we play Gift or a Curse. I'm
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: going to name three things. You'll tell me if there
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: are a gift or a curse and why, and then
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you if you're right or wrong, because there
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: are correct answers. You can lose the game, you can
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: win the game. You can do fine. This first one
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: is from one of our Patreon listeners, Randall Gift or
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: a curse Life on Earth?
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: It's a gift. Why I love it? I love living.
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: I know I love living because I've been in situations
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: where I thought I might die and I it was
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: very upsetting to me. And the older I get, the
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: more I am so disappointed that it comes to an end. Right,
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: you know that it will come to an end, And
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: it's a terrible deal actually to think that you will
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: eventually not be around. So with that in mind, it's
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: not always easy, and sometimes it's hard and not always pleasant.
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: And I wish I didn't have to eat every day.
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: I wish I didn't have to go to the bathroom
• 59:20
  Speaker 3: all every twenty minutes.
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: We've had to stop down the podcast ten times.
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: I haven't gone. I mean I have to go, but
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: I haven't stopped. At the end of the day, it
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: all shakes out to being a gift, correct, thank you?
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, of course, And I think this is right.
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: With everything going on, it might be the obvious answer
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: might be cursed.
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, I'm very blessed and lucky. I mean, I'm sure
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: there are people out there who feel like it's a curse.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: But I'm happy to not be one of those people.
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: Right, I think ultimately there's a gift to be completely
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: sincere and honest about this one. How could you not
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: say unless? Yeah, I'm sure if people we're all having
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: are relatively difficult times with whatever situation, but it's a gift, Randall,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: How dare you even put this on the list? Forget it? Okay,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: so you've gotten one correct so far.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: Let's gonna be the easy one.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: That's an easy oneye. This next one is from a
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: listener named Emily. Gift or a curse going to bed
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: with wet hair?
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: Well, it's neither, but uh, for the if we're gonna,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: if we're gonna binary this, for me, it would be
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: a curse. I don't like that feeling. Yeah, I don't generally.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 3: I generally shower in the morning, so it's not really
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: an issue.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: If I was going to shower at night, I would
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: dry my hair best as possible. I don't want to
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: sleep on a wet pillow, obviously, right.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: Wrong curse, I mean I said curse. What you said curse?
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm actually I was gonna say wrong gift. I
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: was so excited to tell you you're wrong. Unfortunately, I'm
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: on record on this podcast is saying taking a shower
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: at night is a gift, and so I find I
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: feel like I kind of have to go. This lines
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: up with that. It means you got to take a
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: shower at night, which is lovely.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: Your such work for me that at the end of
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: the day or the end of the you know, at
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: the end of the night, I'm already in bed, I
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: lie down in bed, I start watching things, listening to things,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: and the idea of getting up and showering, it's like,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 3: that's how I start my life, sorry, start my day.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: My wife takes showers at night.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: Though, so it can be I don't shower at night
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: every night, but it's like a little treat. It feels
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: nice on occasion because there's no utility to it, you know,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: it's just I'm doing this just because to relax. Whereas
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: in the morning, you know, I'm well, I still have
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: endless time during the day, but I have to get
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: things started. I have to actually be clean and go
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: out into the world, whereas at night I can get
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: my hair wet and lie down on a pillow and
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: start the mildew growing.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 3: You have very short hair, fairly short hair being an issue,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: and yours is really long. Yeah, it's a lot of hair.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see why someone might have a problem
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: going to bed with soaking, wet hair, but I don't.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: I think it's a gift. Finally, this is from a
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: listener named joe Anne. Gift or a curse using a
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: kitchen knife to open a box.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: Well, I'll see it's I'll just have again. It's right
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: down the middle. It's not ideal, it's not the end
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: of the world. It's probably what I do half the time,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: Like a steak knife.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like i'msuring not a bread knife.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: Yay, do it you throw it in the sink, throw
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 3: in the dishwasher if you really, you know, why not?
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: Just it's probably fine. So I'd say it's a gift
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: because it's convenient. You're not searching around for like one
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: of those you know, work not utility knives or something.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: Is that a exact o, exact exactly, thank.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: You, correct gift? What else? What else is anybody using
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: to open up box? This is the only knife I ever,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: This is the only knife I own.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, day to day knives. You can take a scissor
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: and open it up and right.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: I don't mind the scissor. Yeah, but even then that
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: is a trip to the junk drawer, and my knives
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: are just there on the counter, and there's kind of
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: a danger, kind of a thrill. I don't see anything
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: wrong with it. I think, yeah, mild thrill, but you
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: have to look for mild thrills. Well, you got two
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: out of three great, not absolutely horrible.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: No, that's pretty good, decent.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: Well, I think we should answer a listener question people
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: are sending in the voice notes the emails to I said,
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: no gives at gmail dot com. Could we play one
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: of those.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 4: H'm bridger and scurrilous, guest. I think that's a word.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 4: I am calling in because I have a query for you.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 4: I still have my ex husband's last name, but I
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 4: would like to change it before I have a baby,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 4: and I don't know what to change it to. My
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 4: maiden name doesn't quite feel right anymore, and I need
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: some suggestions for what my new last name should be.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 4: Would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 3: Starting to get why this marriage didn't work out.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: This person needs a new last name and they've turned to.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: Us well, and also, what's wrong with the originally to
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: go back to your original last name.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: I guess she's a new person. I just found a
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: new chapter.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: Well, here's the things. These these are the unknown unknowns.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: We don't know her first name, do we?
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: No? Not? She didn't mention it.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: So what are we doing? What are we working? We're
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 3: working with We're in the docuum, We're we're working in
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: the dark.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: What would you change your last name too?
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't change my last name. I'm not I don't
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  Speaker 3: care about I don't you don't. I don't have any tattoos,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: I don't any piercings. I don't care about any of that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care about my identity. You want to call
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  Speaker 3: me a woman, I don't care. Years ago, I happen
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  Speaker 3: to be a man who gives a ship.
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  Speaker 2: Ibout forty years ago, you and I would have both
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  Speaker 2: had to change our last names for show business.
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  Speaker 3: Ah, yes, Tim Heidecker, I never loved that name.
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  Speaker 2: Hard name to pronounce.
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  Speaker 3: Or Yeah, your name's a burden, it's a mess. Uh yeah,
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  Speaker 3: tim uh tim uh. Miller, that's a nice name.
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  Speaker 2: It's a safe guy. Tim Jones Miller Jones are both
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  Speaker 2: nice last names that this person could take on.
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  Speaker 3: That my Miller is my mother's my grandmother's maiden name.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, oh that's a nice name. Why not?
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  Speaker 3: I mean this there is a Tim Miller is like
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  Speaker 3: a political he's like as a political guy.
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  Speaker 2: Good or bad.
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  Speaker 3: He's good. He was like a Republican who's gone anti Trump.
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  Speaker 2: Good for him?
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: Who's gay?
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: Wow?
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  Speaker 3: Gay? It's like when my dad would say, like, he's
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: this guy is actually gay. But he's like, but it's
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: not bad. He's not bad.
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  Speaker 2: He's nice enough.
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  Speaker 3: He's a really nice guy.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to hang out with him. Uh, Miller Mill,
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  Speaker 2: Tim Miller. That's a nice last name. Obviously, wine girl
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  Speaker 2: or hide is a name she could take on.
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  Speaker 3: Again, not knowing the first name is criminal.
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  Speaker 2: It's a huge mister.
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  Speaker 3: Can we find out? Did this? Is there an email?
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: Actually I can?
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  Speaker 3: I just see here.
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  Speaker 2: I forwarded the email earlier.
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  Speaker 3: Because if you had a first name, we could work
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: with that I could play around with.
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  Speaker 2: My idea is Sarah Jane. That's the name, Sarah Jane,
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: Sarah Jane, Sarah Jane Carter, Sarah Jane Carter. That's a
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: nice that seems almost a little house.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: Yes, ingles, we could do Sarah j Ingles.
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  Speaker 2: That's great.
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  Speaker 3: You don't want to do who's the the the oh
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  Speaker 3: Nelly Olsen? Yeah, Sarah Jane Olsen.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you don't want to be part of the
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: Olsen family.
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  Speaker 3: I think Sarah Jane Potter, Sarah Jane Carter, Sarah Jane Miller, Cruise,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: Sarah Jane Cruse. I don't like that.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: Cruise is a made up last name, isn't it Tom Cruise?
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: That's real last name.
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  Speaker 3: I think it is his real name, but I don't
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: really know.
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  Speaker 2: No, I think he has like kind of a strange,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: like a last name that's hard.
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  Speaker 3: To spell or oh really, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Now I'm going to look it up because now I'm embarrassed.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 2: Let's see Tom Tom Cruise.
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  Speaker 3: There should be a rule, a law that podcasts aren't
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: allowed to look things up.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: Everything just has to be kind of sent out into
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: the public.
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  Speaker 3: Check.
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  Speaker 2: His middle name is Cruse. His last name is my
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 2: pother Mapither.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, that is a mess and he's the fourth. Wow.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: Well then Sarah Jane Cruise, Mypather the fourth. There we go.
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  Speaker 3: See.
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  Speaker 2: How would you pronounce m A p O t h
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: e R MAPI my pother? Yeah, I can see why
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: he got rid of that. Ah, Sarah Jane, We've given
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: you several options.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, we've done our due diligence.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: S Thompson. I'm just looking around the room, Sarah JM.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 3: Sarah Jane Thompson's nice. It is nice.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: That's a strong name.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the thing.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: I'll say. Find a name that people can immediately identify
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: and bell and pronounce. Don't curse yourself with some difficult thing.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 3: Oh yes, I mean I do a lot of casting
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 3: with this in this commercial. I'm a very the epidemic
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 3: that it's occurring. Forget all the stuff that RFK Junior
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 3: is talking about, the epidemic of names of young people.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: Now, what are you hearing?
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 3: Bryson and uh I can't, I don't. You don't remember
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 3: them because they're they're not they're unfamiliar to you. Well,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 3: you're raiding.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 2: You're talking to a bridger, which that's true. To be fair, say.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 3: These are there's way worse ones, and people know what
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: I think Utah and uh Utah culture is kind of
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: the ground zero for a lot of these names. Famously,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: there are a lot of creative names coming out of Utah.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: For whatever reason, I.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 3: Wish I could remember these names. I saw like a
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 3: hundred of them, Like, this is just such a burden
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: for these kids as they get older, they're gonna have
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: to get what is that again?
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: Abreno was a nick you nurse and the names that
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: she was coming across nick nurse, Yeah.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 3: Like Neo. Oh god, I thought you said her name
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 3: was is nick nurse?
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 2: My sister Nick nurse? I never heard that one the
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: name she would provide, there was somebody named Americus. Someone
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: named their daughter Americus, which.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: I don't like it.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: I don't love to hear.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: And now let me just retract and say every I love.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 3: I love a big, beautiful, diverse world.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: And of course names are just sounds and stupid. Yeah,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: they're stupid, made up words. But some are way more
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: stupid than others, I would say, in our opinion, in
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 2: my opinion, and they're ultimately Harry, Tom Dick, and Harry
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: what happened to Tom? Sally, Jane, Sue, Mary Show.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 3: Those are the four names you can choose from. That's it.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 3: At the at the hospital and a baby you should
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: have like eight names to choose from.
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: It's like picking a license plate. Whatever. Well, we answered
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 2: the question perfectly. Sarah Jane, good luck. Don't send another
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: thing back in I can't hear back from you. Tim.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: I have this lovely book to put on my bookshelf.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: Now I'll read at least your intro, yes, and we'll
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: see how I feel about that and see where I
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 2: go from there. And I've had a lovely time with you.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 3: That was great.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 2: Thank you, real pleasure. Thank you for having me listener.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: The podcast is over. You obviously knew this was going
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: to happen. Hopefully you did, otherwise you're really this is
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: coming out of nowhere for you, and I don't know
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 2: what to tell you. Get moving. I love you, goodbye,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 2: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. Our
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: senior producer is on Alisa Nelson, and our episodes are
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: beautifully mixed by Ben Tolliday. The theme song is by
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 2: miracle Worker Amy Mann, and we couldn't do it without
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 2: our booker, Patrick Cottner. You must follow the show on Instagram,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: and I said, No Gifts, that's where you're going to
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 2: see pictures of all these one wonderful gifts I'm getting.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: And don't you want to see the gifts?
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: And I invited you here thought, I made myself perfectly clear.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: When you're a guest in my home, you gotta come
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: to me empty. And I said, no guests, you're our presences.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: Presents enough. I already had too much stuff, So how
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: did you dare to survey me?