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- 0:00Speaker 1: It was going on.
- 0:00Speaker 2: It's Romeo and a guy was telling me that he
- 0:02Speaker 2: wants to have more sex with his wife, but she
- 0:04Speaker 2: has some pro condition that makes it uncomfortable for her.
- 0:06Speaker 2: So we'll talk a little bit about that, and of
- 0:08Speaker 2: course things that you'll never do again, or maybe things
- 0:10Speaker 2: that you'll never stop doing. Let's go, all right, I
- 0:13Speaker 2: got this, and I want to tell I thought this
- 0:15Speaker 2: was funny. Hey, rome Yesterday at my job, we were
- 0:18Speaker 2: talking about how I grew to love my now husband
- 0:22Speaker 2: and how a lot of my coworkers did as well.
- 0:25Speaker 1: But we had this one coworker.
- 0:28Speaker 2: They said it was love at first sight with their husband,
- 0:31Speaker 2: like she knew he was the one from day one.
- 0:35Speaker 2: We ended up looking up how many Americans believe in
- 0:37Speaker 2: love it first sight, and it was like fifty six percent.
- 0:40Speaker 2: That's a lot of dumbass people, right, do you believe
- 0:43Speaker 2: in love it first sight? First of all, I'm gonna
- 0:46Speaker 2: tell you this. Your co worker is a jackass. Your
- 0:51Speaker 2: co worker is trying to make herself better than you. Guys, like, oh,
- 0:58Speaker 2: she's better than you because she knew the love of
- 1:01Speaker 2: her life. It was love at first sight. You guys,
- 1:03Speaker 2: actually maybe put in a little work. Maybe he you know,
- 1:06Speaker 2: whatever the case. Maybe it's just like high school sweethearts.
- 1:09Speaker 2: High school sweethearts think they're better than any other relationship.
- 1:13Speaker 1: Oh we met when we.
- 1:14Speaker 2: Were sixteen and we've been together. Yeah, you're not better.
- 1:18Speaker 2: You're actually dumber because of all the things that you
- 1:21Speaker 2: missed out on that you have to justify to yourself
- 1:25Speaker 2: that it was some sort of love it first sight,
- 1:28Speaker 2: fate that brought you together, and you disregard the fact
- 1:33Speaker 2: of all the things you missed out on because you've
- 1:35Speaker 2: only had sex with one person your entire life. Okay, Yeah,
- 1:39Speaker 2: you didn't grow together. You missed out on everything together. Okay,
- 1:42Speaker 2: that's really what it is. So your co worker over
- 1:44Speaker 2: here is trying to make herself better, feel better, or
- 1:52Speaker 2: you know, she trying to make herself feel.
- 1:53Speaker 1: Better at your expense.
- 1:55Speaker 2: Oh I knew it was love at first sight. Love
- 1:58Speaker 2: it first sight does not excit. Okay, And I'm gonna
- 2:01Speaker 2: tell you lust at first sight exists. The first thing
- 2:07Speaker 2: you see when you're looking for somebody is their outward
- 2:12Speaker 2: physical appearance. Okay, that's not love. Those butterflies in your
- 2:19Speaker 2: heart is not love, it's lust. Okay, Love at first
- 2:24Speaker 2: sight does not exist, and anybody that says it does
- 2:29Speaker 2: is insecure and trying to make themselves feel better at
- 2:32Speaker 2: your expense, or trying to justify their relationship. It's okay
- 2:39Speaker 2: for you, like you said, it's okay for you to say,
- 2:41Speaker 2: you know what, I grew to love my husband, because
- 2:44Speaker 2: that's what dating is, growing, getting to know, falling in love.
- 2:50Speaker 1: Okay.
- 2:51Speaker 2: Anybody that says love at first sight, no, you're lying,
- 2:56Speaker 2: trying to make yourself feel better. You want to make
- 3:00Speaker 2: everybody else think that you're better than them, and you're not.
- 3:04Speaker 2: ALRIGHTY four two, five four or seven to seven got
- 3:06Speaker 2: this yesterday and I thought it was kind of an
- 3:08Speaker 2: interesting topic about love.
- 3:10Speaker 1: At first sight. They asked me if I believe in
- 3:12Speaker 1: love it first sight. I don't.
- 3:13Speaker 2: Hey, Romeo, yesterday my job, we were talking about how
- 3:16Speaker 2: I grew to love my husband and how a lot
- 3:18Speaker 2: of my coworkers did as well. But this one lady
- 3:20Speaker 2: or one coworker said they had love at first sight
- 3:23Speaker 2: with their husband, like she knew he was the one
- 3:25Speaker 2: from day.
- 3:26Speaker 1: One, and that is not.
- 3:28Speaker 3: No.
- 3:28Speaker 2: And first of all, knowing someone's the one from day
- 3:31Speaker 2: one isn't love. You know, you just might like who
- 3:35Speaker 2: they are as a person. It's not love. You don't
- 3:39Speaker 2: just love somebody the first second you meet them. It's
- 3:42Speaker 2: that this is so stupid. It's just people trying to
- 3:44Speaker 2: make themselves be better than you. Like this whole we
- 3:47Speaker 2: we have this relationship game, right, and the hierarchy of
- 3:51Speaker 2: relationships is people who got married in college are people
- 3:54Speaker 2: who got married, you know, out of high school. Supposedly
- 3:57Speaker 2: they're the big winners because they didn't have to go
- 4:00Speaker 2: through a lot of dating, they didn't have to meet
- 4:02Speaker 2: different people. It's just like the person who got married
- 4:05Speaker 2: in high school. They'll make fun of the person who
- 4:10Speaker 2: maybe is on their second marriage, and their second marriage
- 4:13Speaker 2: may be better than your marriage that you got in
- 4:16Speaker 2: high school. But because you didn't have to go through one,
- 4:19Speaker 2: yeah you've won, all right. And so we ended up
- 4:24Speaker 2: looking up how many Americans believe in love at first sight?
- 4:26Speaker 2: It was fifty six percent. With what a lot of
- 4:30Speaker 2: dumbass people out there? Do you believe in love and
- 4:32Speaker 2: first sight? Is what they ask me?
- 4:33Speaker 1: And I don't.
- 4:34Speaker 2: I don't already four two, five, four, seven to seven.
- 4:39Speaker 2: Hey Romeo, I believe in love at first sight. My
- 4:43Speaker 2: wife and I met in high school. We've been together
- 4:47Speaker 2: for twenty five years, so I think you're wrong. Being
- 4:52Speaker 2: together for twenty five years has nothing to do with
- 4:55Speaker 2: love at first sight. And if you think you're in
- 4:58Speaker 2: love this, if you think you meeting in high school.
- 5:03Speaker 1: In high school, you're a dumb ass kid. You don't
- 5:05Speaker 1: know what love is. You're an idiot. So to sit
- 5:08Speaker 1: there and have the audacity.
- 5:09Speaker 2: To go, you know what, I met my wife in
- 5:11Speaker 2: high school and it was love at first sight.
- 5:13Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. You don't even know what love.
- 5:16Speaker 2: Is at that age, all righty four two five four
- 5:21Speaker 2: seven seventh. So do you believe in love at first sight?
- 5:25Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now if you do, Yeah,
- 5:28Speaker 2: we need to have a conversation. This text message from
- 5:31Speaker 2: a woman who says at my job, they were talking
- 5:33Speaker 2: about how we how I grew to love my husband,
- 5:35Speaker 2: and how a lot of my coworkers did as well.
- 5:37Speaker 2: But this one woman or one coworker said they had
- 5:40Speaker 2: love at first sight. Roome, do you believe in love
- 5:43Speaker 2: it first sight?
- 5:44Speaker 4: No?
- 5:44Speaker 2: I believe she was doing that to try to make
- 5:47Speaker 2: herself and her relationship look better than yours. That's all
- 5:51Speaker 2: of us already. Four two five four is seven to seven,
- 5:54Speaker 2: good morning to how what's going on?
- 5:57Speaker 5: By?
- 5:58Speaker 1: What's up?
- 6:00Speaker 5: Talking about love at first guy?
- 6:02Speaker 1: Yes, she ain't.
- 6:08Speaker 2: Alrighty fourteen five, four seven seven, all right, So love
- 6:12Speaker 2: it first sight? Is it real? No, it's not real.
- 6:17Speaker 2: It is lust at first sight. Okay, then you learned,
- 6:22Speaker 2: then you get to know somebody, then you fall in
- 6:24Speaker 2: love with them. That all started because this woman had
- 6:25Speaker 2: sent me a text me and says, hey rom Yesterday
- 6:27Speaker 2: at my job we were talking about how I grew
- 6:29Speaker 2: to love my husband now, and a lot of my
- 6:32Speaker 2: coworkers did as well. But there was one coworker who said, no,
- 6:36Speaker 2: she was love at first sight, and she's wrong.
- 6:39Speaker 1: It wasn't love at first sight. You said that.
- 6:42Speaker 2: Your coworker said that because she wants to floss on
- 6:48Speaker 2: you guys.
- 6:49Speaker 1: She wants to.
- 6:50Speaker 2: Make her relationship better than your relationship, and that's not true.
- 6:56Speaker 2: Love it first sight don't exist unless you're an insecure
- 6:59Speaker 2: psychopath who has.
- 7:00Speaker 1: You know, daddy issues. What is that?
- 7:05Speaker 2: What is it?
- 7:07Speaker 1: What is that? Cleaner?
- 7:09Speaker 2: A stage five clinger? Yeah, remember when that was a thing.
- 7:15Speaker 2: You got into a relationship too fast? Right already four
- 7:19Speaker 2: two five, four, seven to seven. But no, there's nothing
- 7:23Speaker 2: wrong with learning to love somebody. I mean, there are
- 7:26Speaker 2: people that have been in relationships for years now that
- 7:29Speaker 2: will tell you, Hey, I love my partner more today
- 7:32Speaker 2: than I did when I met them.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Yeah, of course you do, because you have more.
- 7:37Speaker 2: Life together, you've bond. Your bond has got closer and
- 7:41Speaker 2: closer over the years. How can you sit there and say,
- 7:46Speaker 2: the first time you see somebody you're in love with them.
- 7:49Speaker 2: Doesn't that seem a little psychotic already? Four two, five,
- 7:53Speaker 2: four or seven at seven? Rome I don't believe in
- 7:55Speaker 2: love it first sight, but I do believe in sex
- 7:58Speaker 2: the first night. A Hey Romeo, you're just bitter because
- 8:04Speaker 2: you don't know what love is.
- 8:06Speaker 1: That's why you say that.
- 8:08Speaker 2: Or maybe I'm smarter than you and I understand how
- 8:11Speaker 2: humans act with each other and how you justify your
- 8:15Speaker 2: lives to make yourselves feel better. I got this text message,
- 8:18Speaker 2: but I thought was kind of funny. It says, hey, Romeo.
- 8:20Speaker 2: Yesterday at my job, we were talking about how I
- 8:23Speaker 2: grew to love my husband and how a lot of
- 8:25Speaker 2: my coworkers did as well. But we had one coworker
- 8:28Speaker 2: say they had love it first sight with their husband.
- 8:30Speaker 2: She knew he was the one from day one. We
- 8:32Speaker 2: ended up looking up how many Americans believe in love
- 8:34Speaker 2: it first sight, and it's about fifty six percent. It's
- 8:37Speaker 2: a lot of dumbass people. Do you believe in love
- 8:39Speaker 2: it first sight?
- 8:40Speaker 1: No, I don't.
- 8:41Speaker 2: I believe in lust at first sight. I believe you
- 8:44Speaker 2: see somebody and you're attracted to them, and if you
- 8:48Speaker 2: mistake it for love, then you probably should go to therapy.
- 8:53Speaker 1: But no, you know who came up with love at
- 8:56Speaker 1: first sight?
- 8:57Speaker 2: Women who are trying to justify the fact that they
- 9:00Speaker 2: jumped into bed with the dude on the first date.
- 9:03Speaker 2: Those are the love at first sight girls. Alrighty four, two, five, four,
- 9:06Speaker 2: seven to seven. Hey, roam, I believe love at first
- 9:09Speaker 2: sight is just a myth. You can see someone for
- 9:11Speaker 2: the first time and feel a connection when you guys interact,
- 9:16Speaker 2: but that's not love.
- 9:18Speaker 1: It isn't love. That's the point. Yeah, you're absolutely right.
- 9:21Speaker 1: It's not love.
- 9:22Speaker 2: It's something and but you know, it may be it
- 9:29Speaker 2: may be something, but it's not love. It may be lust,
- 9:31Speaker 2: it may be I don't know. It just two people
- 9:36Speaker 2: meet and you get along, you know, think of it.
- 9:39Speaker 2: Think of it also in this way, like you have
- 9:40Speaker 2: you've ever met a person, uh maybe it's your best
- 9:43Speaker 2: friend now and you.
- 9:45Speaker 1: Have a you just you get along with each other.
- 9:48Speaker 1: It's not love, you know.
- 9:51Speaker 2: Have you guys ever gone out of town, go to bars,
- 9:54Speaker 2: you meet somebody, maybe you meet whoever, guy, girl, whatever, couple, whatever,
- 10:00Speaker 2: and you guys just kind of have a rapport.
- 10:04Speaker 1: It's not love.
- 10:07Speaker 2: Already four two, five, four or seven to seven? What
- 10:10Speaker 2: else do you send me here? Hey? Rome, not love
- 10:13Speaker 2: it for love at first night don't exist.
- 10:16Speaker 1: You fall in love with time of knowing your soulmate.
- 10:22Speaker 2: I was thirty years old when I fell in love,
- 10:24Speaker 2: real love. I'm thirty seven years now and I'm still
- 10:27Speaker 2: in love with him, even though he went his own
- 10:31Speaker 2: way and me mine. Okay, okay, might want to let
- 10:36Speaker 2: that go, but okay, but that's what I'm saying.
- 10:40Speaker 1: Love is a learned behavior.
- 10:44Speaker 2: That two people build together based on life, based on experiences,
- 10:50Speaker 2: based on communication, based on respect, based on all these factors,
- 10:56Speaker 2: and you learn to trust somebody you learned. Love it
- 11:00Speaker 2: first sight is so ridiculous, Like I said, your coworker
- 11:05Speaker 2: only said that because she is she for some reason,
- 11:09Speaker 2: she wants to make you, guys believe that her relationship
- 11:14Speaker 2: is better than yours because oh, it happened immediately, and
- 11:18Speaker 2: it didn't.
- 11:20Speaker 1: She's lying. Lady texted me. Instead, her and coworkers were
- 11:23Speaker 1: talking about love at first sight.
- 11:24Speaker 2: She was talking about how she grew to love her husband,
- 11:26Speaker 2: and a lot of her coworkers said the same thing.
- 11:28Speaker 2: But one, there's always one right, came out and said, No,
- 11:31Speaker 2: me and my husband we were love at first sight.
- 11:34Speaker 1: No, you weren't.
- 11:35Speaker 2: Stop trying to make yourself out to be something that
- 11:37Speaker 2: you're not. Like you're you know, like you won the
- 11:40Speaker 2: relationship game, and your coworkers the rest of them didn't
- 11:43Speaker 2: because it took time to fall in love with their husband,
- 11:46Speaker 2: which is what really happens your partner. You don't love
- 11:51Speaker 2: them at first, you learn to love them and by
- 11:54Speaker 2: your life's experiences as a relationship as a couple already
- 11:57Speaker 2: four two five four or seven seven eight?
- 11:59Speaker 5: Room.
- 12:00Speaker 1: I wonder if that man thinks it was love at
- 12:02Speaker 1: first sight or is she just psycho? GOODR you not?
- 12:05Speaker 1: What's up? Gians?
- 12:06Speaker 2: Going on?
- 12:07Speaker 5: Ain't no love at first sight?
- 12:10Speaker 1: I know?
- 12:12Speaker 5: Okay?
- 12:13Speaker 6: So when I the first time I ever saw my
- 12:16Speaker 6: ex husband, I knew he was the one The one
- 12:20Speaker 6: I was gonna marry, but there was no love. There
- 12:22Speaker 6: there was I'm sorry there was less.
- 12:25Speaker 5: There is less big time.
- 12:26Speaker 6: It's didn't a while to get that love. So obviously
- 12:29Speaker 6: it wasn't loved because we were divorced.
- 12:31Speaker 5: Now we were married twenty years old.
- 12:35Speaker 1: You could still be in love. I mean you could
- 12:37Speaker 1: still learn to love somebody. Divorce somebody.
- 12:40Speaker 6: I have to learn and love somebody, because once you
- 12:42Speaker 6: move in together, it's a whole new faull.
- 12:45Speaker 1: Let me ask you this question, are you still in
- 12:47Speaker 1: love with him?
- 12:48Speaker 5: I love him, I have feelings, but with him, I'm
- 12:52Speaker 5: not in love with him.
- 12:52Speaker 2: I would do anything for that man.
- 12:54Speaker 4: But he's not my husband, he's not my boy. He's
- 12:56Speaker 4: nothing to me right now.
- 12:57Speaker 2: He's just my kidding's father.
- 12:58Speaker 6: But yes, I still love him.
- 13:00Speaker 5: I will do for.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Him and the only ones.
- 13:02Speaker 2: The only reason I said that is because to say
- 13:04Speaker 2: you're in love with somebody, which means you can fall
- 13:07Speaker 2: out of love with somebody and in it. Yeah, so
- 13:10Speaker 2: anybody said there, oh it was love at first sight.
- 13:12Speaker 1: No it wasn't because it didn't.
- 13:14Speaker 4: You have to know a person to really love them.
- 13:18Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, there's no love efforts, So you saw something
- 13:21Speaker 6: did that's what it.
- 13:22Speaker 5: Is, that's all it is.
- 13:24Speaker 1: Or she gave it up on the first night and
- 13:26Speaker 1: had to justify it. I got pregnant, We're not what's
- 13:34Speaker 1: going on, and morning brow me out.
- 13:38Speaker 6: So a few weeks back, I'm not sure if you recalled,
- 13:41Speaker 6: but we were talking about how like some relationships that
- 13:48Speaker 6: start by like the man just moving in and like
- 13:51Speaker 6: never leaving. I'm not sure if you're.
- 13:53Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I thought that. Yeah, I remember that.
- 13:55Speaker 1: I remember that.
- 13:56Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, this lady is giving me that vibe. Maybe
- 13:58Speaker 6: the guy just moved in and ever left, because there's
- 14:01Speaker 6: no way, there's no such thing.
- 14:02Speaker 3: As love at first sight.
- 14:04Speaker 6: Like you have to grow to the to find the
- 14:07Speaker 6: person that you like, Like you have to kind of
- 14:09Speaker 6: like grow to know who they are. Like I'm sure
- 14:11Speaker 6: she didn't look at this guy was like, oh my god,
- 14:14Speaker 6: I love everything about you when you don't know anything
- 14:16Speaker 6: about them, you know what I mean?
- 14:17Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely think it's just crazy.
- 14:21Speaker 2: Though that Yeah, but I'll see this.
- 14:24Speaker 1: It's crazy that somebody.
- 14:25Speaker 6: Moves in, one of them moved in and never left.
- 14:29Speaker 1: That's what it is.
- 14:30Speaker 2: That is the most insane thing, all right, That is
- 14:35Speaker 2: the most that is the dumbest thing ever. Although I
- 14:39Speaker 2: do know a couple. I do know one couple that
- 14:43Speaker 2: got married. My friend's parents got married. They went out
- 14:48Speaker 2: for two days, got married, They were together two days met,
- 14:52Speaker 2: went out first date, and were married. I think they
- 14:54Speaker 2: were married within a couple of days of meeting each other,
- 14:58Speaker 2: which I thought was kind of weird.
- 14:59Speaker 1: But yeah, what's wrong?
- 15:02Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 15:03Speaker 2: What up?
- 15:04Speaker 5: I always thought the man.
- 15:09Speaker 3: Always our right.
- 15:13Speaker 4: I fall in love, take my money.
- 15:19Speaker 1: I don't you feel the same, but I love You're
- 15:23Speaker 1: an idiot.
- 15:29Speaker 5: Oh.
- 15:29Speaker 2: I got this text message. It was a rough one. Boys,
- 15:31Speaker 2: I don't know how we're going to handle this. It says, okay,
- 15:35Speaker 2: so I'm trying to find out how much of a
- 15:37Speaker 2: bad guy I am.
- 15:38Speaker 1: Romeo.
- 15:39Speaker 2: My wife and I are in our forties now. Sex
- 15:41Speaker 2: has slowed down to once a month if I'm lucky.
- 15:44Speaker 2: She has an enlarged bladder, so she gets ut. I
- 15:47Speaker 2: s a lot, and she says sex hurts. The messed
- 15:51Speaker 2: up part is I have to give her massages every night,
- 15:53Speaker 2: and it drives me crazy because she's really sexy to me.
- 15:57Speaker 2: I don't know how to fix the urge to find
- 16:01Speaker 2: I don't know how to fix the urge to find
- 16:03Speaker 2: sex somewhere else, so you don't want to cheat on
- 16:05Speaker 2: your wife. You still love her, you still like her,
- 16:07Speaker 2: she's still sexy to you. She just has a medical
- 16:09Speaker 2: condition that doesn't allow her to have sex with you
- 16:13Speaker 2: as much as you like. Wow, that's a tough one.
- 16:21Speaker 2: She's maybe a lot of self love, bro.
- 16:24Speaker 1: I mean I don't know.
- 16:24Speaker 2: Wow, that's just tough. Already four two five, four or
- 16:28Speaker 2: seven to seven.
- 16:29Speaker 1: Maybe maybe she can do some other thing.
- 16:32Speaker 2: Maybe she can massage you instead of actually having sex,
- 16:36Speaker 2: you can do that more.
- 16:37Speaker 1: I just wow. Yeah, that's a that's a tough one.
- 16:42Speaker 2: I mean, you never want to have it's a tough
- 16:45Speaker 2: Maybe she should let you go have sex with other people,
- 16:48Speaker 2: you know.
- 16:50Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a tough one.
- 16:51Speaker 2: Man. Already four two five, four or seven to seven. Oh,
- 16:55Speaker 2: man is in a real predicament when it comes to
- 16:57Speaker 2: his wife. There's nothing worse than still finding your wife
- 17:00Speaker 2: sexy and loving and wanting to have sex with her
- 17:03Speaker 2: and she can't.
- 17:04Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough.
- 17:05Speaker 2: Already four two five, four or seven to seven. Guys
- 17:08Speaker 2: sent me a text mentione. Man, this is a rough situation,
- 17:11Speaker 2: and I know what you guys are gonna say. I
- 17:12Speaker 2: already know what you guys are gonna say when you
- 17:14Speaker 2: text me or call me A four two, five, four,
- 17:16Speaker 2: seven to seven.
- 17:18Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm trying to find out how much of
- 17:20Speaker 1: a bad guy I am.
- 17:22Speaker 2: My wife and I are in our forties now. Sex
- 17:24Speaker 2: has slowed down through to to around once a month
- 17:27Speaker 2: if I'm lucky. She has an enlarge bladder, so she
- 17:30Speaker 2: gets UTIs a lot, and she says sex hurt. The
- 17:33Speaker 2: messed up part is I have to give her massages
- 17:35Speaker 2: every night and drives me crazy because she's sexy to me,
- 17:38Speaker 2: and I don't know how to fix the urge to
- 17:40Speaker 2: go have sex with other people. It's a that's a
- 17:42Speaker 2: tough situation, right, I mean, the other the worst than
- 17:46Speaker 2: your wife being you know, still sexy to you and
- 17:48Speaker 2: you want her and for some reason you can't have sex,
- 17:51Speaker 2: especially a medical thing. I mean, I don't know anything
- 17:53Speaker 2: about uh in large. Is there something she can do
- 17:57Speaker 2: for that? Is there is there a medical Is there a.
- 18:00Speaker 1: Well she can take? I don't know. I don't know
- 18:01Speaker 1: anything about that.
- 18:02Speaker 2: I'm not a doctor. So is there anything that could
- 18:05Speaker 2: be done to alleviate that situation for her? Medically? I mean,
- 18:09Speaker 2: that would be my first question. Have you guys looked
- 18:11Speaker 2: into that?
- 18:12Speaker 1: Alrighty? Four two, five, four or seven seven?
- 18:16Speaker 2: Yo?
- 18:16Speaker 1: Rome, this is what I thought.
- 18:19Speaker 2: This is exactly what I thought you were guys were
- 18:21Speaker 2: gonna say. Her mouth doesn't have a uti. Oh maybe what.
- 18:31Speaker 1: Somebody else text today? Watch Rome.
- 18:32Speaker 2: The first call is gonna be she's cheating exactly. That's
- 18:36Speaker 2: where I actually thought you guys were gonna go with it.
- 18:38Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say, oh, she's cheating, Romeo.
- 18:41Speaker 2: She's cheating, Romeo. That's why she's just lying about having
- 18:44Speaker 2: a enlarge bladder. I don't know that that's true. You
- 18:48Speaker 2: guys went the other way with it, but I mean,
- 18:51Speaker 2: it's just I don't even know what to say. First
- 18:53Speaker 2: of all, have you seen a doctor. She's seen a
- 18:54Speaker 2: doctor's there's something that can be done about it to hopefully,
- 18:57Speaker 2: you know, first get her healthy and then maybe that'll
- 19:00Speaker 2: change already four two five, four or seven to seven.
- 19:04Speaker 1: I don't know, man, that's a that's a tough deal.
- 19:09Speaker 2: Well, this is a rough dude. Man, This dude's going
- 19:10Speaker 2: through a rough time right now, which I actually don't know.
- 19:15Speaker 2: He says, Okay, Rom, So I'm trying to find out
- 19:17Speaker 2: how much of a bad guy am. My wife and
- 19:18Speaker 2: I are in our forties now, sex has slowed down
- 19:21Speaker 2: to once a month if I'm lucky. She has an
- 19:23Speaker 2: enlarge bladder, so she gets UTIs a lot and she
- 19:26Speaker 2: and she says sex hurts. The messed up part is
- 19:29Speaker 2: I have to give her massages every night and drives
- 19:31Speaker 2: me crazy because she's sexy to me. I don't know
- 19:34Speaker 2: how to fix it. Oh, I don't know how to
- 19:36Speaker 2: fix the urge to find sex somewhere else, which I mean,
- 19:42Speaker 2: first of all, is there and I don't know? I mean,
- 19:45Speaker 2: you ladies will know how UTI works. Is there a
- 19:51Speaker 2: a medical procedure or something that could help with that
- 19:55Speaker 2: so that she doesn't have so she doesn't get these
- 19:58Speaker 2: UTI's a lot and or something that she could do
- 20:02Speaker 2: to feel better.
- 20:03Speaker 1: First, from a.
- 20:04Speaker 2: Medical standpoint, then maybe sex won't hurt. The other thing is,
- 20:10Speaker 2: I mean, what do you do when what does he do?
- 20:14Speaker 2: He still loves her, still finds her sexy, wants to
- 20:17Speaker 2: have said. They're in their forties. Okay, so sex is
- 20:21Speaker 2: not off the table anymore. I mean, I'm gonna be
- 20:25Speaker 2: honest with you. Would you let your husband if you
- 20:28Speaker 2: couldn't have sex with him, would you let him have
- 20:31Speaker 2: sex with somebody else and let me put it to
- 20:33Speaker 2: you like this, and not somebody else but an actual
- 20:38Speaker 2: pro a prostitute, because then it's just a transactual sexual.
- 20:43Speaker 2: You know, Then it's just transactual Unlike if he had
- 20:47Speaker 2: sex with somebody else, might fall in love might you
- 20:50Speaker 2: know whatever, you can't fall in love with with the prostitute.
- 20:52Speaker 2: I don't think at least that you don't go in
- 20:54Speaker 2: with that mindset. But if he starts having sex with
- 20:57Speaker 2: somebody else just for the sexual part of it, because
- 20:59Speaker 2: it's I can't have it and he still has the
- 21:01Speaker 2: love and relationship with.
- 21:03Speaker 1: His wife, does uh? Is that wrong? Maybe she did?
- 21:08Speaker 2: Maybe she lets you see a prostitute once in a while.
- 21:11Speaker 2: Already four four or seven to seven, Good morning Romeo.
- 21:15Speaker 2: He better start asking his wife about her mouth.
- 21:17Speaker 3: See.
- 21:18Speaker 2: But seriously, if she can't have regular sex with her husband,
- 21:22Speaker 2: she should figure out ways to satisfy him differently.
- 21:27Speaker 1: I mean, maybe that's what it is. Maybe that's enough.
- 21:31Speaker 2: I don't know. That is a very good question, though,
- 21:35Speaker 2: But my first question would be, can you do something?
- 21:39Speaker 2: Can you go see a doctor? Can she do something?
- 21:42Speaker 2: Medically that will make her feel better?
- 21:45Speaker 3: Is that?
- 21:47Speaker 1: Am I wrong?
- 21:47Speaker 2: Is that not an option already? Four two four or
- 21:51Speaker 2: seven to seven? That sounds like the best plan, if
- 21:54Speaker 2: that's possible. All Right, So this guy texted me and
- 21:57Speaker 2: he doesn't know what to do, right, he says, Okay,
- 21:59Speaker 2: Rome trying to find out how much of a bad
- 22:01Speaker 2: guy am My wife and I are in our forties now,
- 22:04Speaker 2: sex has slowed down to once a month if I'm lucky.
- 22:06Speaker 2: She has an in large bladder, so she gets UTI's
- 22:09Speaker 2: a lot. She says, sex hurts. The messed up part
- 22:11Speaker 2: is I have to give her massages every night, and
- 22:13Speaker 2: it drives me crazy because she's still sexy to me.
- 22:16Speaker 2: I don't know how to figure out how to fix
- 22:18Speaker 2: the urge to find sex somewhere else. Well, I don't
- 22:20Speaker 2: know that you're ever gonna fix that urge, right, I mean,
- 22:24Speaker 2: if you're not having sex.
- 22:26Speaker 1: Whether you you know you can or can't, whether you love.
- 22:30Speaker 2: Your wife or not, or find your sexy or not,
- 22:33Speaker 2: I don't know that you're ever gonna fix that urge.
- 22:36Speaker 2: I guess the real question is if you actually do it,
- 22:42Speaker 2: what do you do? Arentie four two five, four seven
- 22:46Speaker 2: to seven morning, Rome, ask her how her hands are?
- 22:49Speaker 2: Her hands feel good? Guys, I mean there are other
- 22:56Speaker 2: ways to pleasure each other.
- 22:58Speaker 1: Absolutely. I don't disagree with what you guys are saying.
- 23:04Speaker 2: But she has some sort of medical condition, right, so
- 23:09Speaker 2: maybe we figure out how to fix the medical condition
- 23:13Speaker 2: and then see where we go from there. I'm not
- 23:16Speaker 2: really sure, Rome, did he forget there are other places too? Well?
- 23:27Speaker 1: I mean it just it sounds so.
- 23:35Speaker 2: It sounds so juvenile when you guys text me this stuff.
- 23:38Speaker 2: But in all fairness, you're not wrong. There are other
- 23:44Speaker 2: ways to do things. There are other ways to do
- 23:47Speaker 2: sexual things for pleasure.
- 23:48Speaker 1: Okay, So.
- 23:51Speaker 2: Have you had that conversation with her yet? Are you
- 23:54Speaker 2: nervous to have that conversation with her? I mean, you
- 23:58Speaker 2: guys are still really young and you're four. I mean
- 24:03Speaker 2: you're gonna end up cheating on her, and not out
- 24:06Speaker 2: of any malice, but I yeah, I mean I don't.
- 24:11Speaker 1: You're in a bad spot.
- 24:13Speaker 2: You're gonna have to figure out other ways to get
- 24:16Speaker 2: your needs met. Let me put it in Michael Bean terms.
- 24:18Speaker 2: You're gonna have to find other ways to get your
- 24:21Speaker 2: needs met from your wife, and you're gonna have to
- 24:23Speaker 2: have that conversation about it, and is she I mean,
- 24:28Speaker 2: does she not wanna? I guess the next question would
- 24:32Speaker 2: be how does she feel about the fact that you
- 24:35Speaker 2: you guys are not having sex?
- 24:37Speaker 1: Is she upset about it?
- 24:39Speaker 2: Does it bother her? Or is she just well, I'm
- 24:43Speaker 2: sick and I can't have sex. Is she nonchalant about it?
- 24:46Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's another question. Is she feels a
- 24:50Speaker 2: certain way about it? And maybe you need to have
- 24:54Speaker 2: a conversation about other ways to get your needs? Bet
- 24:57Speaker 2: already four two, five, four or seven to seven, And
- 25:00Speaker 2: I got this text message, Hey roam, So I'm trying
- 25:03Speaker 2: to find out how much a bad guy I am.
- 25:04Speaker 2: My wife and I are in our forties. Now sex
- 25:06Speaker 2: will slowed down to once a month if I am lucky.
- 25:08Speaker 2: She has a large bladder, so she gets UTI's a
- 25:11Speaker 2: lot and sex hurts for her. The messed up part
- 25:14Speaker 2: is I have to give her massages every night. Drives
- 25:16Speaker 2: me crazy because she's still sexy to me. I don't
- 25:19Speaker 2: know how to fix the urge to find sex somewhere else.
- 25:23Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a problem. Eight four, two five, four
- 25:28Speaker 1: seven seven Would you send me hey Romeo? It's like
- 25:36Speaker 1: warm apple pie. I don't what is that from? I
- 25:39Speaker 1: don't I don't know what that's. Oh, is that from
- 25:41Speaker 1: that old movie, that old whatever that movie was. I
- 25:45Speaker 1: don't even know the name.
- 25:46Speaker 2: Of it already, four two, five, four, seven to seven.
- 25:50Speaker 2: My question, though, is have you had a conversation about it?
- 25:53Speaker 2: Have you talked about it? Have you went to see
- 25:55Speaker 2: a doctor? Have you tried that first? And then after that?
- 26:02Speaker 1: If there's no.
- 26:04Speaker 2: Medical you know, there's nothing medically that can be done
- 26:09Speaker 2: to help her get better, then if you tried other
- 26:12Speaker 2: ways to get your needs met, and then if that
- 26:15Speaker 2: doesn't work or she doesn't want to do that, then
- 26:19Speaker 2: maybe you gotta start looking at, you know, prostitutes. Maybe
- 26:24Speaker 2: she'll let you do that.
- 26:25Speaker 1: That's just Yeah, Hey, Rome.
- 26:29Speaker 2: Tell him to wear a uh, tell him to wear
- 26:33Speaker 2: a condom so he's not throwing her pH balance off?
- 26:37Speaker 1: Is that real?
- 26:40Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't know anything about UTIs. I don't know
- 26:42Speaker 2: anything about him. There's got Is there something medically that
- 26:45Speaker 2: can be done?
- 26:46Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 26:47Speaker 2: Is that true what you just said about the condom?
- 26:50Speaker 2: I don't know already four two, five, four or seven seven.
- 26:53Speaker 2: But there's got to be a solution somewhere, right, You
- 26:56Speaker 2: can't just expect him to not have sex with his
- 26:59Speaker 2: wife anymore, right in their forties?
- 27:02Speaker 1: Is that that's too much to ask? Right?
- 27:04Speaker 2: Hey, I got the hall pown.
- 27:06Speaker 1: Yeah, coach, now you got perfect.
- 27:10Speaker 5: My daughter needs a lot of backpacks.
- 27:12Speaker 1: Such all right, well you got that Hall pass Rodriguez
- 27:18Speaker 1: and Associates. So you're gonna get a backpack full school supplies.
- 27:22Speaker 2: And then some of them have grand prizes in them,
- 27:24Speaker 2: like laptops and gift cards and things like that.
- 27:26Speaker 1: Okay, oh heck yeah, man, all right, brother, what's your name?
- 27:31Speaker 1: All right, hold on a second, we'll get you all
- 27:33Speaker 1: the details. Okay, all right, all right, everybody, So we only.
- 27:37Speaker 2: Got ninety four backpacks, so we're giving them away. You
- 27:40Speaker 2: gotta win one of those Hall passes to.
- 27:43Speaker 1: Get a backpack.
- 27:44Speaker 2: Daniel Regus Rodriguez and Associates is helping us out like
- 27:48Speaker 2: he does every single year.
- 27:49Speaker 1: I don't want you guys to forget though.
- 27:53Speaker 2: On August fifth, we're also gonna be getting your kids haircuts,
- 27:57Speaker 2: you know, get Faded barber and beauty school. They are
- 28:01Speaker 2: they do it every year with us. They're amazing. It's
- 28:04Speaker 2: absolutely free. The first ninety four kids get at an
- 28:07Speaker 2: absolute free haircut for school, and then after that, I
- 28:10Speaker 2: think they're six bucks. But yeah, we'll get your kids
- 28:13Speaker 2: ready for school. There's nothing better than getting a fresh
- 28:15Speaker 2: haircut for school, right. So a guy was having some
- 28:19Speaker 2: problems with his wife because she's got a medical issue,
- 28:23Speaker 2: and I guess she just, you know, she can't be
- 28:26Speaker 2: as sexually active as he wants.
- 28:28Speaker 1: What did you send me here? Hey, come going to Rome.
- 28:32Speaker 2: Tell that guy to go to a hustler Hollywood. They
- 28:35Speaker 2: have options that he needs. My man works in Texas
- 28:39Speaker 2: and your girl has. My man works in Texas, your
- 28:42Speaker 2: girl has needs. I did some shopping there and I'm
- 28:45Speaker 2: able to satisfy myself until he comes home. No need
- 28:50Speaker 2: to cheat, I mean, it's a little bit of a
- 28:54Speaker 2: different scenario. I get what you're saying. I mean, it
- 28:57Speaker 2: makes a lot of sense. There is no reason to cheat.
- 28:59Speaker 2: But the guys, I mean, obviously, the guy said he
- 29:02Speaker 2: still loves hers. Why his wife is hot to him?
- 29:04Speaker 1: He's still into her.
- 29:06Speaker 2: She just has a medical issue that you know, makes
- 29:08Speaker 2: it difficult for her to, you know, to have sex
- 29:12Speaker 2: or want to have sex. So he's not getting into
- 29:15Speaker 2: It's just a tough situation to deal with. I mean
- 29:18Speaker 2: your situation. I get your man's out of town. You
- 29:20Speaker 2: need to handle business by yourself till.
- 29:22Speaker 1: He gets back.
- 29:25Speaker 2: So I well, I guess he was saying what they
- 29:28Speaker 2: had sex like once a month or something. I mean, okay, yeah,
- 29:33Speaker 2: I mean you're right. I don't know what other options
- 29:36Speaker 2: there are, but yeah, you're right to your text messages
- 29:39Speaker 2: and what you've sent me about the situation.
- 29:41Speaker 1: You know, Rome, Yeah, the wife can have sex with Uh. Oh,
- 29:47Speaker 1: you guys are so stupid. Sometimes you guys say dumb.
- 29:49Speaker 2: Thing is a serious situation. We've had conversations like this
- 29:52Speaker 2: before in the past. You know, people in relationships having
- 29:56Speaker 2: problems and how they're trying to help them Egg one
- 29:59Speaker 2: to Rome, Yeah, that's really a tough topic today. One,
- 30:02Speaker 2: she's willing to be intimate with him, but it's uncomfortable
- 30:05Speaker 2: for her. Two, there are more ways that she can
- 30:09Speaker 2: take care of him. Three, if she's not willing to
- 30:12Speaker 2: take care of him, then she needs to give him
- 30:14Speaker 2: a hall pass because as men, we have needs too,
- 30:19Speaker 2: and if those needs don't get taken care of, that's
- 30:22Speaker 2: when temptation starts to creep in. Well, I mean, he
- 30:25Speaker 2: made it very clear that he's still very much in
- 30:28Speaker 2: love with his wife even though she has a medical condition.
- 30:31Speaker 2: I mean, he did make it very clear though that he, yeah,
- 30:37Speaker 2: that he still wants his wife. He doesn't want to
- 30:41Speaker 2: be intimate with somebody else. But I get what you're saying.
- 30:46Speaker 2: It's just a hard situation, right agobarn and Romeo. As
- 30:49Speaker 2: for allowing him to have sex with someone else would
- 30:53Speaker 2: be a would be he too well, would be held
- 30:59Speaker 2: in the No for me, she can do other things
- 31:02Speaker 2: if she really wanted to take care of her man,
- 31:05Speaker 2: just my opinion.
- 31:07Speaker 1: You know, you guys keep saying that other things, but
- 31:13Speaker 1: other things are not sex.
- 31:19Speaker 2: In a in kind of a traditional way of speaking,
- 31:22Speaker 2: other thing. I mean, I don't know, Like I said, Man,
- 31:26Speaker 2: it's a tough it's a tough scenario. It's a tough situation,
- 31:30Speaker 2: you know. I mean, obviously the conversation is they still
- 31:34Speaker 2: love each other. She just has a medical issue that
- 31:37Speaker 2: kind of prevents her or prevents her from, you know,
- 31:42Speaker 2: from sex with her husband. Already four two five, four
- 31:46Speaker 2: seven to seven. Let's see here, good morning, Romeo. Let's
- 31:51Speaker 2: see a sex doll replica of his wife. Rome That's
- 31:54Speaker 2: what he needs to get. The way they're making robots
- 31:59Speaker 2: nowadays artificial intelligence, you might be able to do that.
- 32:02Speaker 1: To be honest with you anyway, poor guy, he loves
- 32:06Speaker 1: his wife.
- 32:07Speaker 2: There are issues in the bedroom because well, she has
- 32:10Speaker 2: a medical issue and a medical issue where she just
- 32:12Speaker 2: doesn't feel comfortable having sex as much as he'd like it.
- 32:17Speaker 1: He doesn't want sex with anybody else. He wants his wife.
- 32:20Speaker 1: He doesn't know what to do. Is in a tough position.
- 32:22Speaker 1: They're both in a tough position, right, all.
- 32:27Speaker 2: Righty four for seven to seven egg morning, Romeo. There
- 32:31Speaker 2: is a medication, and there is more than one way. Well, see,
- 32:37Speaker 2: you guys keep trying to say that there's well there's
- 32:39Speaker 2: more than one way, but that's.
- 32:41Speaker 1: Not what he wants, you know. That's I mean, I
- 32:44Speaker 1: guess I don't know. I really don't know what the
- 32:47Speaker 1: option is, to be honest with you, because.
- 32:52Speaker 2: It's a tough position to be in from both parts.
- 32:55Speaker 2: You know, it's probably it's not like she doesn't want
- 32:57Speaker 2: to have sex with her husband. She just saw a
- 32:59Speaker 2: medical issue that makes it uncomfortable for you can't blame
- 33:04Speaker 2: her for that, you know, So what do you do? Hey,
- 33:08Speaker 2: Rome and my girl gets going about her pain. I
- 33:12Speaker 2: know the girls at the the vou won't that's very uh,
- 33:19Speaker 2: that's very respectful of you, yo, Rome, Hey, Romeo, she
- 33:24Speaker 2: does have another you know what she has to come from.
- 33:28Speaker 1: Well that's not what if that's not what they want?
- 33:30Speaker 1: That's you guys all just think that there is one
- 33:35Speaker 1: solution and I don't know. I don't know, I don't know.
- 33:43Speaker 1: I don't have an answer.
- 33:44Speaker 2: All right, Ay, four two by four, seven to seven.
- 33:48Speaker 2: Let's see what you sent me here, yo, Rome Oh,
- 33:52Speaker 2: rad day of corporate barbecue today, and guys pick me
- 33:56Speaker 2: to grill.
- 33:57Speaker 1: We'll shoot Rader day.
- 33:58Speaker 2: How come I didn't get invited to the court. Really,
- 34:01Speaker 2: that just messed up, man, sub Rome. So what did
- 34:05Speaker 2: her dentist say? Oh my god, do you guys understand?
- 34:11Speaker 1: Oh you guys, Oh, you guys are terrible.
- 34:15Speaker 2: You guys are the worst. Aermuh she I mean you
- 34:18Speaker 2: guys keep saying that. Okay, yeah, a room. It's happy recovery.
- 34:25Speaker 2: Will we'll be seeing you at the backpack giveaway this year? Absolutely,
- 34:29Speaker 2: Oh yeah, happy recovery. Those guys are great guys. Well, yeah,
- 34:33Speaker 2: we'll see you there. We'll see there. You guys gonna
- 34:35Speaker 2: come down to you're talking about get faded the haircutting also,
- 34:40Speaker 2: or just the just the backpack giveaway a room he
- 34:46Speaker 2: needs to get a sex toy.
- 34:51Speaker 1: She needs to buy. Uh, Oh is that how you
- 34:56Speaker 1: do that?
- 34:57Speaker 2: Oh?
- 34:57Speaker 1: I guess that's some I never heard of what you're
- 34:59Speaker 1: talking about. Yeah, it's a tough spot to be in
- 35:02Speaker 1: for both of them. It really is what do you do?
- 35:04Speaker 2: What do you do?
- 35:04Speaker 3: What do you do?
- 35:05Speaker 2: What do you do? Obviously, not ask you for the answers,
- 35:08Speaker 2: because you idiots just think, oh, she.
- 35:10Speaker 1: Can just do that, or oh can she just do that?
- 35:12Speaker 1: Sometimes people just you know.
- 35:16Speaker 2: What, if he wants to just have regular old intimacy
- 35:18Speaker 2: with his wife because he loves her and wants you know,
- 35:21Speaker 2: thinks she's hot and everything he said.
- 35:22Speaker 1: About her, you know what, if they don't want to
- 35:27Speaker 1: do it other way. I don't know. I don't. I don't.
- 35:30Speaker 2: Sometimes you guys say some of the most idiotic, idiotic ideas.
- 35:34Speaker 2: You have the most idiotic ideas about things. This is
- 35:36Speaker 2: a serious issue for some people have in the relationship,
- 35:39Speaker 2: and that's why it was asking me. That's why I
- 35:41Speaker 2: didn't make jokes about it. I was very serious about
- 35:45Speaker 2: the conversation. Obviously, you can't be all right A four two, five,
- 35:49Speaker 2: four or seven seven when you sent me here. Hey, Rome,
- 35:52Speaker 2: all these guys, make sure we got you, Okay, all
- 35:54Speaker 2: these guys that keep saying the same thing that her
- 35:58Speaker 2: dentist didn't tell her couldn't stuff or idiots.
- 36:01Speaker 1: Let's get real. It gets boring to have the same
- 36:04Speaker 1: thing over and over again.
- 36:06Speaker 2: And I understand if you can't do it, but there's
- 36:08Speaker 2: got to be some decision made in the relationship or it's.
- 36:12Speaker 1: Time to move on.
- 36:13Speaker 2: I mean, I agree with what you're saying, but here
- 36:16Speaker 2: is the problem, he said. The guy said he loves
- 36:23Speaker 2: his wife, he does, and she has some sort of
- 36:26Speaker 2: medical condition that sex is uncomfortable for her.
- 36:30Speaker 1: So it's not that she doesn't want to so he
- 36:32Speaker 1: said they only have sex once a month.
- 36:34Speaker 2: That, well, hey, they have a problem. You know, moving
- 36:39Speaker 2: on is obviously not what either one of them wants.
- 36:43Speaker 2: She doesn't want the problem. She doesn't want the condition
- 36:46Speaker 2: that prevents her from being with her husband, you know.
- 36:50Speaker 1: So, yeah, good morning.
- 36:52Speaker 5: How what's going on your room?
- 36:54Speaker 6: Did you give away the backpack already?
- 36:56Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 36:56Speaker 1: I got a few more to give away. Just keep listening, man.
- 37:00Speaker 2: Nope, you gotta win them, No, you gotta win them
- 37:03Speaker 2: already once you bought four or seven to seven, listen
- 37:06Speaker 2: for the hall pass, and we'll get to the backpacks.
- 37:09Speaker 2: I think I got Universal Studio Studio tickets that I
- 37:12Speaker 2: gotta give a bunch of stuff away.
- 37:13Speaker 1: I got to get to that too as well. I
- 37:14Speaker 1: won't forget, I promise, But I mean back to the situation.
- 37:18Speaker 2: They both want each other, but there is a problem,
- 37:22Speaker 2: and it is not a problem that either one of
- 37:26Speaker 2: them caused, So it's just a bad situation in their marriage.
- 37:31Speaker 3: Yo.
- 37:32Speaker 1: Rom Hey, you've said a hundred times love is to
- 37:34Speaker 1: learn trait.
- 37:35Speaker 2: He'll figure it out. And I'm not saying they have
- 37:37Speaker 2: to move on. I'm just saying that she may need
- 37:40Speaker 2: to go into a give into other ideas for him.
- 37:46Speaker 1: Well, yeah, was going on, all right?
- 37:53Speaker 6: I was just calling about the backside.
- 37:56Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up?
- 37:58Speaker 6: I just I wasn't sure how to like enter.
- 38:01Speaker 1: Oh, you just got to listen. When when you hear
- 38:03Speaker 1: the hall pass, that's when you call in.
- 38:07Speaker 6: Oh okay, all right, thank you much good.
- 38:09Speaker 2: Yeah. For those of you who don't know, we're giving
- 38:10Speaker 2: a way backpacks. Rodriguez and Associates ninety four backpacks. When
- 38:15Speaker 2: a backpack full school supplies got some grand prizes.
- 38:17Speaker 1: Things like that. So listen for the hall past. You'll
- 38:19Speaker 1: uh when you hear that bee called twenty nine.
- 38:22Speaker 5: Uh.
- 38:23Speaker 1: The thing is this, though, how how do you state I.
- 38:29Speaker 2: Wish I wish I had somebody I knew, somebody who
- 38:33Speaker 2: was like a sex therapist or somebody who dealt with
- 38:36Speaker 2: this stuff for couples in their relationship. Because everybody keeps
- 38:39Speaker 2: saying the same thing, you need to give into other
- 38:41Speaker 2: ideas for him. But those other ideas aren't the same.
- 38:46Speaker 2: I know you guys keep saying it, Oh, we'll do it, this,
- 38:49Speaker 2: do it that. They're not the same.
- 38:53Speaker 1: They're just not.
- 38:54Speaker 2: There is a there is, believe it or not between him.
- 39:00Speaker 2: Uman beings an intimate way one that is the most intimate.
- 39:07Speaker 2: All the other things are different versions of having sex.
- 39:11Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not that simple.
- 39:15Speaker 2: Oh, let me check these text messages and see exactly
- 39:19Speaker 2: what you sent me. Hey, Rome, good morning. Unfortunately it's
- 39:26Speaker 2: that easy. All he's trying to do is get okay
- 39:30Speaker 2: other uh with his wife A man.
- 39:35Speaker 1: Will Okay, Yeah, you guys are morons. A good morn
- 39:39Speaker 1: and Rome?
- 39:39Speaker 2: Uh man, all these dudes saying the same thing. Don't
- 39:42Speaker 2: understand this dude loves his wife and wants that intimacy
- 39:47Speaker 2: with her, not just the same exactly, And I don't
- 39:50Speaker 2: think that. Sometimes the curious part about it is that,
- 39:59Speaker 2: you know, I guess all these text messages from these guys,
- 40:02Speaker 2: and I don't understand or if you're really that stupid,
- 40:05Speaker 2: or if you actually believe it. You know, sometimes I
- 40:10Speaker 2: wonder how you know, because I don't know everybody that
- 40:13Speaker 2: texts or calls or whatever. I don't know them personally,
- 40:15Speaker 2: so I don't know if they actually believe the dumb
- 40:18Speaker 2: stuff they're saying and they're that stupid, or if they're
- 40:22Speaker 2: just trying to get a rise, if they're trying to
- 40:24Speaker 2: make a joke, if they're trying to But a lot
- 40:27Speaker 2: of you guys come off like morons when you say
- 40:30Speaker 2: stud it's a good thing. It's text messaging. There's no
- 40:32Speaker 2: real accountability for the stupid stuff you say. So it's
- 40:36Speaker 2: all good already, four two, five fours. Uh, let's get
- 40:41Speaker 2: some tickets out. I gotta give away some stuff before
- 40:43Speaker 2: I get out of here. I got some other stuff
- 40:45Speaker 2: I want to talk about.
- 40:45Speaker 1: So what do I got? Tickets for Universal.
- 40:50Speaker 2: Studio Studios, Hollywood, the New Fast and the Furious Ride
- 40:54Speaker 2: Hollywood Drift. I got a pair of tickets for you
- 40:57Speaker 2: right now, calling number twenty nine and four two five, four,
- 41:00Speaker 2: seven to seven.
- 41:01Speaker 1: What's going on? Hey going betweent nine? Congratulations, dang man, Jimmy,
- 41:10Speaker 1: all right, Jimmy got you take us Universal Studios? What
- 41:13Speaker 1: is the Hollywood Drift? And whom I'm pasting the fears?
- 41:16Speaker 4: Right?
- 41:16Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thanks.
- 41:18Speaker 2: I want to talk about something that was funny to me.
- 41:22Speaker 2: And I don't know if you ever really think about this,
- 41:25Speaker 2: never doing something again.
- 41:27Speaker 3: And I.
- 41:30Speaker 2: I was a friend of mine she got this has
- 41:32Speaker 2: happened a few years ago. She was going through divorce,
- 41:35Speaker 2: got divorced. Now she's single again, and at one point
- 41:38Speaker 2: during a conversation, she was telling me, hey, you know,
- 41:42Speaker 2: I thought I would never have to do this again.
- 41:44Speaker 2: In the bedroom, she and you guys all know what
- 41:47Speaker 2: she was referring to. You know what most wives don't
- 41:49Speaker 2: stop doing after they get married. But she had made
- 41:53Speaker 2: that comment, and it was amongst a group of friends,
- 41:56Speaker 2: close friends, we all grew up together, and everybody just.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Kind of laughed. And she's because she really said that,
- 42:01Speaker 1: I thought I would never have to do that again.
- 42:04Speaker 2: But that's got me to thinking about Well, we all
- 42:08Speaker 2: started talking about things we thought or think will never
- 42:12Speaker 2: do again or know that we'll never do again.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Right, do you have something that you know you'll never
- 42:18Speaker 1: do again. I know, I had sushi for the first
- 42:22Speaker 1: time about.
- 42:24Speaker 2: Probably about fifteen years ago, and I got so sick
- 42:29Speaker 2: the night I had it that I will never touch
- 42:31Speaker 2: it again.
- 42:32Speaker 1: I'll never try it.
- 42:33Speaker 2: I won't I'll never have it again. I can adamantly
- 42:36Speaker 2: say that one percent. I will never eat sushi again
- 42:41Speaker 2: in my life. And then I started to think about
- 42:45Speaker 2: other things that I will never like there's a good shot.
- 42:48Speaker 1: And you know, we've been.
- 42:49Speaker 2: Giving away Magic Mountain tickets. I've been to Magic Mountain.
- 42:55Speaker 2: I have actually been to Magic Mountain in high school.
- 42:59Speaker 2: Since I've lived in Bakersfield, I have never I have
- 43:02Speaker 2: never gone, not for any reason. I just have. I
- 43:05Speaker 2: guess I have no reason to go. I'll probably never
- 43:08Speaker 2: go to Magic mount again. I'll probably never go to
- 43:10Speaker 2: Disneyland again. And we used to go to Disneyland a
- 43:12Speaker 2: couple of times a year for years, you guys know.
- 43:16Speaker 2: So I was just thinking about some of the things
- 43:20Speaker 2: that I will never do again. And do you guys
- 43:25Speaker 2: have something that you just know you'll never do again
- 43:29Speaker 2: already four two five, four seven seven. Gosh, I'm just
- 43:35Speaker 2: trying to think in my head.
- 43:38Speaker 1: What I will what I've.
- 43:40Speaker 2: Done in the past and will never do again. Or
- 43:43Speaker 2: I've done it once and we'll never do it again.
- 43:48Speaker 2: You guys got anything, What do you think you'll never
- 43:51Speaker 2: do again? Something you've tried, or maybe it was something
- 43:53Speaker 2: you've done regularly and now all of a sudden you
- 43:55Speaker 2: just know you'll never do it again.
- 43:58Speaker 1: You'll never do it again already four two seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
- 44:04Speaker 1: So I got to tell you this.
- 44:05Speaker 2: When my wife turned fifty, she wanted to go skydiving,
- 44:10Speaker 2: and she convinced me that that is what we should
- 44:13Speaker 2: do for her birthday.
- 44:16Speaker 1: So we went and did it.
- 44:17Speaker 2: It was the most scariest thing I've ever done. We'll
- 44:23Speaker 2: never do it again. My wife wants to try it
- 44:25Speaker 2: all over again, but I told her I'll never do it.
- 44:27Speaker 2: She'll have to do it on her own.
- 44:29Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 44:29Speaker 1: I would never do that to begin with. I would
- 44:32Speaker 1: never even skydive to begin with. But yeah, what do
- 44:35Speaker 1: you think you'll never do again? You know if you
- 44:38Speaker 1: had if.
- 44:42Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think you'll never do again, lady
- 44:43Speaker 2: four two, five, four, seven to seven. Let's see Rome
- 44:48Speaker 2: the Legends of the Deep. Last time I went to
- 44:51Speaker 2: Six Flags, I got a nosebleed on one of the rides.
- 44:55Speaker 1: I don't think I'll ever go back again.
- 45:03Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I just wonder that there are there
- 45:08Speaker 2: things you'll never do again. You know, you gotta have something, right,
- 45:12Speaker 2: everybody's gotta have something.
- 45:13Speaker 1: Good morning, Rome. Uh.
- 45:15Speaker 2: Sometimes it makes me happy and sometimes it makes me
- 45:18Speaker 2: sad that I will never have kids again or get
- 45:21Speaker 2: married again.
- 45:23Speaker 1: You know, there was an old.
- 45:26Speaker 2: It's funny that you bring that up, because you guys
- 45:30Speaker 2: remember the show Friends, right, there was some Friends episode
- 45:33Speaker 2: where Monica is that her name, the one the one
- 45:38Speaker 2: that the brother Ross's brother, Ross's sister. Well, she said,
- 45:43Speaker 2: I'm never gonna have a first kiss again. I'm never gonna,
- 45:45Speaker 2: you know, have that feeling again.
- 45:48Speaker 1: And what was the what was the old school kind
- 45:55Speaker 1: of the same thing, all right, like you're never gonna
- 45:57Speaker 1: sleep like for some of you, or you know, you're
- 46:01Speaker 1: never gonna have sex with ever again, with somebody else
- 46:05Speaker 1: than the person you're with right now.
- 46:08Speaker 2: Maybe that's kind of I mean, maybe you don't want to,
- 46:13Speaker 2: but just the idea. You're never gonna kiss another girl
- 46:15Speaker 2: again or another guy again. You're never I mean, these
- 46:17Speaker 2: things are it's kind of interesting when you think about it.
- 46:20Speaker 2: Already four two, five, four, seven to seven. Uh, Hey,
- 46:25Speaker 2: good morning, Rome. I will never trust a family anymore,
- 46:28Speaker 2: from my own parents to both sides of the family
- 46:31Speaker 2: as well, if that makes any sense.
- 46:34Speaker 1: Sure, sure, I mean I have family members that I'll
- 46:37Speaker 1: never see again. And I know that for a fact.
- 46:41Speaker 1: You know, and I grew up with them. You know,
- 46:45Speaker 1: our friends I'll never see again. Things like that.
- 46:47Speaker 2: What do you think you know already? Four two, five, four,
- 46:50Speaker 2: seven to seven? What will you never do again? What
- 46:54Speaker 2: will you never do again?
- 46:55Speaker 1: Something?
- 46:56Speaker 2: You know, there's something that you've done or regularly and
- 47:00Speaker 2: in your life and you'll ever do it again?
- 47:04Speaker 1: What is it already? Four two, four or seven?
- 47:06Speaker 2: Seven? Hey?
- 47:08Speaker 1: Rome?
- 47:08Speaker 2: Have you ever gone to the super Bowl? A few
- 47:11Speaker 2: years back when the Super Bowl was in New Orleans?
- 47:13Speaker 2: I went to the Super Bowl, me and some buddies.
- 47:16Speaker 2: I can promise you I will never do that again.
- 47:19Speaker 2: It was so busy, it was so crowded, it was
- 47:22Speaker 2: so hard to do anything. It just wasn't fun. On
- 47:27Speaker 2: top of that, we didn't have great seats, so we
- 47:30Speaker 2: didn't even really get to to see the game. I
- 47:33Speaker 2: will never watch a super Bowl again live. I'll just
- 47:36Speaker 2: sit on my couch with my buddies. I've heard that,
- 47:41Speaker 2: by the way before. Somebody else told me that. Oh
- 47:45Speaker 2: it was Mark Mark Carroll of Carpent Outlet Plus he told.
- 47:48Speaker 1: Me that once. He said always he goes you want
- 47:51Speaker 1: to go to a super Bowl? I think it was him.
- 47:53Speaker 2: You want to go to a super Bowl once just
- 47:55Speaker 2: to see that, You'll never want to go again because
- 47:57Speaker 2: it's just not as fun.
- 47:59Speaker 1: Fair enough already fourteen pot four, Seve, would you send
- 48:03Speaker 1: me here?
- 48:04Speaker 2: Yo? Rome Going to a live football game is like
- 48:07Speaker 2: getting married. You do it once, so you know you never.
- 48:10Speaker 1: Want to do it a second time.
- 48:12Speaker 2: Actually going to a live football game is amazing, depending
- 48:17Speaker 2: on where you sit in the game. So I don't
- 48:20Speaker 2: know what you're talking about. Already four two five, four
- 48:23Speaker 2: or seven to seven? Okay, Hey, Romeo, I will never
- 48:28Speaker 2: get married again. And my first wife was so crazy
- 48:32Speaker 2: and things got so out of hand. I don't think
- 48:35Speaker 2: I can ever do it again. I mean, that's a
- 48:39Speaker 2: fair statement if you can't handle it once. Already four
- 48:41Speaker 2: two five, four seven to seven. You think there's anything
- 48:44Speaker 2: that you've done that you'll never do again. We're talking
- 48:46Speaker 2: about some things that you think you'll never do again,
- 48:49Speaker 2: all right, A poort two five four seven to seven.
- 48:51Speaker 2: This is funny what we're talking about. Hey, Romeo, let
- 48:55Speaker 2: me ask you a question. To talk about things you'll
- 48:57Speaker 2: never do again? How about things you'll never stop doing?
- 49:01Speaker 2: My husband is forty four years old, He has a
- 49:05Speaker 2: good job, we have a family, but he will not
- 49:09Speaker 2: stop playing video games. Rome Don't you think at some point,
- 49:14Speaker 2: once you become an adult, a father, a husband, that
- 49:18Speaker 2: you gotta let it go. I don't think he'll ever
- 49:21Speaker 2: stop playing video games. Romeo, maybe you should ask that question.
- 49:26Speaker 2: What will these men never stop doing that their wives
- 49:29Speaker 2: want them to? I mean, I yeah, it's funny that
- 49:38Speaker 2: you say that, because I stopped playing video games years
- 49:40Speaker 2: ago and I used to really enjoy him.
- 49:43Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean a great question, things that you'll never
- 49:48Speaker 1: stop doing.
- 49:48Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure a lot of guys are out
- 49:50Speaker 2: there saying my wife will never stop shopping, you know,
- 49:53Speaker 2: for nonsense.
- 49:54Speaker 1: So maybe it's a great question. You got a great question.
- 49:59Speaker 2: Maybe after you want maybe is he playing video games
- 50:01Speaker 2: with the kids or just by himself. I'm assuming he's
- 50:03Speaker 2: playing one of those uh idiotic third person games or
- 50:07Speaker 2: first person or second whatever they.
- 50:09Speaker 1: Are games, right, I'm guessing.
- 50:11Speaker 2: All right, it's a good question though, before two, five,
- 50:13Speaker 2: four or seven to seven, throw me on, brother.
- 50:18Speaker 5: It ain't then, don't need to stop playing video games.
- 50:24Speaker 1: Yeah, there is.
- 50:26Speaker 5: Sitting at home. You know what I mean.
- 50:28Speaker 1: You ain't doing nothing wrong.
- 50:29Speaker 5: You on the screens, you ain't. You ain't after wilding out,
- 50:33Speaker 5: you know what I mean?
- 50:33Speaker 1: It's all good home.
- 50:35Speaker 3: No, no, no, no.
- 50:37Speaker 4: Playing video games as an adult is embarrassing unless you're
- 50:42Speaker 4: making money off it or you want whatever whatever those
- 50:44Speaker 4: damn gaming twitch or whatever it is.
- 50:47Speaker 5: Now, hey on now, noah, you know what you must
- 50:50Speaker 5: not still be good at him no more because I
- 50:52Speaker 5: remember when my phones be me get met and I
- 50:54Speaker 5: stopped playing for a little pig for me.
- 50:58Speaker 3: Up.
- 50:58Speaker 5: And now I'm beIN.
- 51:03Speaker 1: No video games. If you're over if you're over forty playing.
- 51:07Speaker 4: Video games and you got a wife and kids, you
- 51:09Speaker 4: are you're pretty pathetic.
- 51:11Speaker 1: I mean, unless you're playing with your kids. I can't.
- 51:15Speaker 1: I can't go with you on that one. I mean
- 51:16Speaker 1: unless unless well yeah, that's see, that's different.
- 51:22Speaker 4: There are a lot of guys right now that are
- 51:25Speaker 4: so pathetic that they're sitting around playing video games while
- 51:28Speaker 4: their wife's over there looking for something to do, and
- 51:31Speaker 4: then they wonder why they get cheated on because he
- 51:33Speaker 4: was too bad. Those video games are very time consuming,
- 51:37Speaker 4: but if you're playing with their kids, that's a different.
- 51:39Speaker 1: That's different.
- 51:40Speaker 6: I mean, that's the only way I really get it,
- 51:42Speaker 6: get it in.
- 51:43Speaker 5: You know that we should have had the time, but
- 51:45Speaker 5: I like to play.
- 51:45Speaker 4: That's but you could literally say, let me, what's the
- 51:49Speaker 4: longest you've ever played a video game in one day
- 51:53Speaker 4: in one city?
- 51:55Speaker 2: Wow? Well, no more than probably an hour?
- 51:59Speaker 4: Okay, See that's the I know clowns that play video
- 52:02Speaker 4: games ten twelve hours a day. I mean adults who
- 52:05Speaker 4: got jobs and families, And how do you fit in
- 52:08Speaker 4: a twelve hour video game day?
- 52:10Speaker 1: And you got a family, a wife, and a job.
- 52:13Speaker 6: Okay that's a little bit.
- 52:15Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, just.
- 52:20Speaker 5: Got you though. Did you ever put the mustard on
- 52:22Speaker 5: your your ribs?
- 52:23Speaker 3: No?
- 52:23Speaker 1: No, no, I haven't made ribs in a while.
- 52:26Speaker 4: I haven't done it again, I haven't, just I just
- 52:28Speaker 4: I haven't made ribs recently since the last time we
- 52:31Speaker 4: talked about.
- 52:32Speaker 5: It all right, Well, you know we waiting for you.
- 52:37Speaker 1: Okay, later I will try with mustard on the ribs.
- 52:41Speaker 1: Don't worry, don't worry. So we're talking about things that
- 52:43Speaker 1: you'll never do again.
- 52:44Speaker 2: And then somebody, a woman brought this to our attention,
- 52:48Speaker 2: some things that you'll never stop doing. She was referring
- 52:51Speaker 2: to her husband. Apparently he plays video games all the time,
- 52:55Speaker 2: and she doesn't understand. You know, he's forty four years old.
- 52:59Speaker 2: I guess, right, so at a certain age you should stop, right,
- 53:03Speaker 2: I mean, once you got kids and everything, right, would
- 53:07Speaker 2: you say, here, Romeo, I don't mind that my husband
- 53:13Speaker 2: plays his video games.
- 53:14Speaker 1: He works so hard.
- 53:16Speaker 2: The least he could do is enjoy playing his video
- 53:19Speaker 2: games being at home while I while I cook dinner
- 53:22Speaker 2: for my husband, and once everybody is already settled down,
- 53:25Speaker 2: I like to also play my video games.
- 53:28Speaker 1: I have the home monitor screen and I'm thirty three,
- 53:31Speaker 1: he's thirty four.
- 53:31Speaker 2: Well, I guess if you guys, if that's the thing
- 53:34Speaker 2: you guys do together, that's different. I mean, I think
- 53:37Speaker 2: there's there's adult men out there who would rather play
- 53:41Speaker 2: video games than spend time with their wife and kids.
- 53:44Speaker 1: You know.
- 53:45Speaker 2: So yeah, all right, already fourteen five four or seven
- 53:48Speaker 2: to seven more than not?
- 53:49Speaker 1: What's going on?
- 53:52Speaker 3: I got one thing that I'll never do again.
- 53:55Speaker 1: Man, what's up?
- 53:56Speaker 3: And this happened to me this year. I will never
- 53:59Speaker 3: buy another off of Facebook Marketplace.
- 54:03Speaker 5: As soon as I drove away.
- 54:05Speaker 3: From some guy in Lost Hills the hood king flying
- 54:08Speaker 3: off on forty six, I was yeah, it was oh
- 54:16Speaker 3: five ultima wow, And I was like a good deal man,
- 54:20Speaker 3: and I'll never buy a car off of Facebook.
- 54:23Speaker 1: Market That is hilarious, That's what it was.
- 54:28Speaker 3: It's not hilarious now, I mean it is hilarious now,
- 54:31Speaker 3: it wasn't at the time.
- 54:33Speaker 1: All Right, all right, you could never buy.
- 54:35Speaker 3: A car from Facebook marketplace.
- 54:39Speaker 5: Wow.
- 54:40Speaker 1: Already board seven seven year ron.
- 54:43Speaker 2: What if we flip that woman's question, what do guys
- 54:47Speaker 2: want their wives to start doing? Maybe if she starts,
- 54:51Speaker 2: the husband would put that controller down. Entertain your man
- 54:56Speaker 2: more than the game home girl. Okay, so it's her
- 55:04Speaker 2: job to entertain her man.
- 55:05Speaker 1: Is that what you're trying to say?
- 55:06Speaker 2: If if the guy has a if the guy has
- 55:11Speaker 2: a choice between playing video games for entertainment or his girls,
- 55:17Speaker 2: she's the one that has to entertain him.
- 55:19Speaker 5: Right, Okay, hey, ro she complain about him, about him
- 55:24Speaker 5: playing the game. Man, what she want him to do?
- 55:26Speaker 5: Go play with another six?
- 55:29Speaker 1: Well? Why why is that an option?
- 55:32Speaker 5: Wait? What do you mean he trying to obligate his
- 55:35Speaker 5: mind there playing the game? He focused, you know what
- 55:38Speaker 5: I mean? What she want? She want him throlling on
- 55:41Speaker 5: his phone and ain't nothing but women and you know
- 55:43Speaker 5: what I mean on the phone.
- 55:46Speaker 1: You really, really, you really didn't go from one extreme
- 55:50Speaker 1: to another.
- 55:51Speaker 4: You went from just innocently playing video games and nor
- 55:55Speaker 4: and his wife to cheating on her.
- 55:57Speaker 1: That there's a big gap between that doesn't.
- 56:02Speaker 5: Get there, that would come with it nowadays. The game.
- 56:09Speaker 1: Okay, later, that's hilarious. I mean that's a big jump.
- 56:16Speaker 1: That's a big jump. Alrighty four two four seven seven?
- 56:21Speaker 1: Oh what do you got here?
- 56:22Speaker 2: Yo?
- 56:23Speaker 4: Roam.
- 56:24Speaker 1: I used to tell my my ex wife, don't trip,
- 56:27Speaker 1: I'll take care of the baby. Go do what you
- 56:30Speaker 1: gotta do.
- 56:30Speaker 2: My baby was about one. Put a controller on his
- 56:35Speaker 2: on his lap and I played. We were bonding, playing together.
- 56:39Speaker 2: But as a father of two at thirty five years old,
- 56:43Speaker 2: it's hard to find time for video game. Well, you
- 56:46Speaker 2: shouldn't be playing video games at thirty five years old,
- 56:50Speaker 2: once you're a father.
- 56:51Speaker 1: And a husband, I mean video games.
- 56:54Speaker 2: And I don't think you guys are understanding why I'm
- 56:58Speaker 2: saying this, because just as much as I'm not really
- 57:01Speaker 2: saying it because it's a childish game, I'm saying it
- 57:05Speaker 2: more so because it's an addictive game. You know, you
- 57:09Speaker 2: just like a phone's addictive. I mean, it's an addictive thing.
- 57:13Speaker 2: That's why I'm saying it. I mean, you can sit
- 57:17Speaker 2: and play a video I know guys that'll play video
- 57:19Speaker 2: game ten twelve hours. I mean that's a long time
- 57:26Speaker 2: to be addicted to something, you know what I'm saying,
- 57:28Speaker 2: especially as an adult.
- 57:30Speaker 1: So that's why I say that video games. What do
- 57:33Speaker 1: you got going on here? Hey, rom I don't know.
- 57:37Speaker 2: Maybe some wives are different, but I'll for sure sit
- 57:40Speaker 2: with my husband playing the games with him too.
- 57:44Speaker 1: As long as these pills. I don't mind the video games.
- 57:47Speaker 1: I mean, he could be out doing worse. Why is it?
- 57:50Speaker 4: You're just like the last person who called in, Why
- 57:54Speaker 4: is it out?
- 57:55Speaker 5: Why is.
- 57:58Speaker 2: That's a stupid justification, by the way, he could be
- 58:01Speaker 2: doing worse or he could be doing better.
- 58:05Speaker 1: Oh well, at least he's not doing this. Well, okay,
- 58:08Speaker 1: that you could say that about anything.
- 58:11Speaker 2: Well, my husband's he'd be drinking all the time in
- 58:14Speaker 2: the garage with his buddies. Well at least he ain't
- 58:16Speaker 2: doing cocaine off strippers. I mean, to make justifications like
- 58:21Speaker 2: that makes you look ridiculous.
- 58:25Speaker 1: Aerome, is only an addiction. If you make it an addiction.
- 58:28Speaker 1: You gotta know when it's time to put the game
- 58:31Speaker 1: down to handle business.
- 58:32Speaker 2: Well okay, okay, you make your justifications to make you
- 58:37Speaker 2: feel better about your husband not paying attention to you
- 58:40Speaker 2: and that a video game is more important. Man room,
- 58:43Speaker 2: You blaming Lou, blaming marketplace when he probably forgot to
- 58:46Speaker 2: close the hood, fully stupid Seahawk fan, well losing idiot.
- 58:50Speaker 1: Anyways, Hey, Aerom, I'm married and fifty one. I play
- 58:55Speaker 1: video games as stress relief. Well, I mean, do you
- 58:59Speaker 1: play it for ten hours? Hours? That's my point. You
- 59:02Speaker 1: guys are kind of missing the point in what I'm
- 59:04Speaker 1: talking about. It could be anything.
- 59:07Speaker 2: She just brought up video games. I know, you know,
- 59:10Speaker 2: I play a lot of golf. Golf can take anywhere
- 59:13Speaker 2: from three hours to six hours depending on what's going on.
- 59:20Speaker 2: And I know guys that do it three or four
- 59:22Speaker 2: times a week, five times a week. You think their
- 59:25Speaker 2: wife likes.
- 59:26Speaker 3: It, you know.
- 59:27Speaker 1: That's that's my point. Things that are.
- 59:29Speaker 2: Time consuming that take you away from your relationship and
- 59:35Speaker 2: your uh you know what.
- 59:36Speaker 1: I think we'll talk about that tomorrow.
- 59:39Speaker 2: Things that give between you and your spouse, things that
- 59:41Speaker 2: give between you and your partner that are time consuming,
- 59:45Speaker 2: you know, like video games, they're time consuming, your phone,
- 59:49Speaker 2: things like that. Yeah, that's what I'm talking to, Golf.
- 59:52Speaker 2: I'm talking about things that you do. You already spend.
- 59:58Speaker 2: You already spend the least out of time with your partner.
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: Uh you only spend like four or four hours a
- 1:00:05Speaker 2: day something. It's statistically, it's something so weird, so uh unbelievable,
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: how much time you actually spend with the person you
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: supposedly love and want to spend the rest of your
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: life with, or the person you care about. Because you
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: got work, you got friends, you got family, you got golf,
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: you got video games, all you got television, you got
- 1:00:25Speaker 2: all these idiotic things that take your attention away from
- 1:00:28Speaker 2: your relationship.
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: And we're gonna, yeah, we'll talk about that tomorrow morning.
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: Every morning morning four one