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480: Is a Human Design Certification Right for You? What You Need to Know First · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Hello, and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design.
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Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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Nicole Laino: Now, some of you may have heard that I launched my human design certification, the Integrated Human Design certification, just a couple of weeks ago.
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Nicole Laino: And we are going to start on June 1st with our first cohort.
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Nicole Laino: So I'm very excited about this, and I called it Integrated Human Design because that's really what we're doing.
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Nicole Laino: We are integrating it.
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Nicole Laino: We aren't just, you know, I always say that information is not how we learn.
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Nicole Laino: Integration is how we learn.
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Nicole Laino: And that's the difference between this certification and many others.
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Nicole Laino: In fact, I haven't been able to find any that do what we are going to be doing in this certification.
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Nicole Laino: So in this episode, this is really going to be very much about, like, you know, do you need a certification?
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Nicole Laino: And is this one right for you?
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Nicole Laino: But even if you aren't looking to get certified, if you are just interested in human design, I still think that this is a worthwhile episode for you because I'm going to talk about the differences between the way that the philosophy behind human design.
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Nicole Laino: What are those deeper layers that we need to get to?
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Nicole Laino: So this is still very valuable, even if you are just looking to use human design for yourself and you want to go deeper with it.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm going to break down, you know, what I really think is the core benefit of human design that nobody really talks about enough.
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Nicole Laino: I don't really hear this very much.
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Nicole Laino: And I think that it's at the core, and I think it's at the core of why some human design readings and courses and things like that, you know, you're left lacking.
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Nicole Laino: You know, you're left wanting.
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Nicole Laino: When you take them or when you experience them, they don't quite deliver on what you had hoped for.
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Nicole Laino: And what's the difference between how do I get.
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Nicole Laino: You know, I did a reading the other day for somebody, and she was so moved by the whole thing, it kind of blew her whole mind about how she sees herself.
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Nicole Laino: And that's because I could really see her underneath in that chart.
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Nicole Laino: And when we just talk about and we just teach and just take in the elements of human design, this is why when you tell someone they're A projector.
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Nicole Laino: Not everybody's happy about that.
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Nicole Laino: It's.
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Nicole Laino: Are you telling them what's important for them to know so they can know themselves better?
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Nicole Laino: That's where we need to get to.
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Nicole Laino: And a lot of people don't have the tools to do that because it wasn't taught to them that way.
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Nicole Laino: They were just taught the mechanics.
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Nicole Laino: They were just taught this, like, masculine process of all of these pieces fit together, right?
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Nicole Laino: So it's type plus strategy plus centers, defined, minus centers, undefined.
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Nicole Laino: You know, whatever that formula is.
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Nicole Laino: But the truth is that we are greater than the sum of our parts.
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Nicole Laino: There is a story that every chart tells, and if you can't read that story and you don't really understand what that is, then when someone sits across from you're excited, but you end up just sort of going through, you know, what a head center is?
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Nicole Laino: This is what this means.
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Nicole Laino: This is what that means.
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Nicole Laino: And quite frankly, they could have gotten that from a book, and they don't really have anything that gave them real insight into how they work, into who they are, and into what they can see for themselves.
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Nicole Laino: So that's what I want to do in this episode.
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Nicole Laino: I want to break down how I see the chart, and I want to break down how what I think that deep benefit is that most people aren't talking about.
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Nicole Laino: I believe it gets glossed over.
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Nicole Laino: We talk about how decisions are made.
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Nicole Laino: We talk about how human design can help you make better decisions.
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Nicole Laino: We can talk about finding your gifts.
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Nicole Laino: A lot of people will talk about that.
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Nicole Laino: But there is a layer deeper than that nobody really talks about.
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Nicole Laino: And that's what I want to get to in this episode.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, so if you are interested in the certification, if you want to know more about my certification, the Integrated Human Design certification, which I've been asked for years to make, and I didn't make it before because I truly didn't feel ready.
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Nicole Laino: I didn't want to contribute to something that I consider to be a really big problem in this industry, which is that people, before they have mastery of something, start teaching other people how to do it.
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Nicole Laino: And felt like I had personal mastery over this for quite some time.
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Nicole Laino: I also recognized how much better I was getting, the more time I spent.
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Nicole Laino: And it was like, I want to make sure that I'm really at my depth here.
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Nicole Laino: When I do decide to transfer what I know, can I really teach somebody to see what I see?
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Nicole Laino: And that's a tall order.
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Nicole Laino: Can I teach you what a G center is?
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Nicole Laino: Sure.
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Nicole Laino: I do that.
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Nicole Laino: I do that in workshops all the time.
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Nicole Laino: I do that in all sorts of things.
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Nicole Laino: And I kept asking myself, well, how is this going to be different than the workshops that I teach?
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Nicole Laino: It's this piece that I'm going to talk about in this episode, this deeper piece, which is the lens that we're traveling through inside this certification.
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Nicole Laino: It's.
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Nicole Laino: We're taking you on a journey through the chart in a different way than I see anybody else doing it.
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Nicole Laino: And we are actually giving you practical application.
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Nicole Laino: We are giving you sessions with me and the group to be utilizing this.
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Nicole Laino: Not in bullshit breakout rooms.
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Nicole Laino: Not in.
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Nicole Laino: Sorry, but they're silly sometimes.
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Nicole Laino: Not in bullshit breakout rooms.
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Nicole Laino: Not, you know, me just teaching a class in front of you and you answer some questions.
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Nicole Laino: No.
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Nicole Laino: Every single person being asked specific questions and being, you know, given charts to read right there to see what we're seeing, to integrate what you learned and actually have it come out of your mouth so that you have it in your body when you go to sit across from someone, it will change how you see every single person that you ever encounter.
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Nicole Laino: It'll change how you see the world and it'll change how you see yourself.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, so if you're interested in that, all linked up in the show notes so you can find it there, just go to nicolelaino.com forward/certification or DM ME certification on Instagram and you can get all the information there.
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Nicole Laino: We'll send it to you there.
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Nicole Laino: Okay, so I wanted to share this with you because there are a lot of people who have come to me that have a certification in human design.
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Nicole Laino: I have several of them in business by design with me right now.
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Nicole Laino: I have several people who have either done a clarity call with me or been in my DMs inquiring about the certification.
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Nicole Laino: And I've sat down with somebody on a Clarity call and they told me that they've been through all four levels of a really well known certification in human design and they still don't feel like they have full mastery of it.
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Nicole Laino: There was no practical application of the knowledge in that certification.
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Nicole Laino: And quite frankly, I was shocked because this is a very well known certification.
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Nicole Laino: They certify a lot of people.
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Nicole Laino: And I couldn't believe that even at the higher levels of it that there was no real practical.
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Nicole Laino: There were like Q&As and things like that, but no real like supervised practical application of the knowledge where you get real time feedback of what you're seeing.
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Nicole Laino: Because you'll never know if you're any good at it unless you have that feedback, then you're only sitting across from clients who don't know anything, so they're not going to be able to give you that feedback.
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Nicole Laino: All you'll know is that they don't come back to you for anything else.
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Nicole Laino: Or they say, that's really great, and then they move on, or they look confused, and they never go back to human design because they think it's just like a parlor trick or something.
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Nicole Laino: And that's a shame, because human design has the ability, has the power to change people's lives.
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Nicole Laino: And I know that because I've seen it, because I've done it.
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Nicole Laino: It's changed my life, but it's also changed the lives of so many of my clients.
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Nicole Laino: I've inspired a lot of people to get certifications in human design because they've been in BBD with me.
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Nicole Laino: They've been so transformed by it.
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Nicole Laino: I didn't offer a certification at the time, so they went elsewhere and went with somebody else.
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Nicole Laino: I had one client, she and I met, and she told me, she's like, I got the depth from you.
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Nicole Laino: But I felt like I needed to get that certification to just feel like I had a connection to this, that I really understood everything that I had, all that I needed.
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Nicole Laino: She was like, I got the depth from you.
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Nicole Laino: And I was like, oh, well, thank you.
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Nicole Laino: This is a core problem, though, when people don't really have the true mastery over where they can see somebody else.
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Nicole Laino: It's very difficult.
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Nicole Laino: If you are a person of integrity, and the people who end up in my world typically are.
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Nicole Laino: These are not the people who I see some other.
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Nicole Laino: You know, and it's funny, when you're in the coaching business and you see people who have worked with different mentors, and there are certain mentors that kind of churn out people that are great at selling, but maybe not so great at delivering, there is a level of integrity that.
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Nicole Laino: A low threshold, we'll call it that, in some of these programs where they attract people who are able to bypass this sense of conscience or real integrity.
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Nicole Laino: And they're just like, if, you know, I will sell you anything, I. I will charge you so much money because I know how to play the game.
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Nicole Laino: And that's not the people who end up in my world.
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Nicole Laino: I get the people who are on the opposite side of things where they're like, I'm really good at what I do, but I can't sell it because I'm so afraid that, what if I don't have the answer to somebody's question?
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Nicole Laino: And they're paying me and then I feel like I failed them.
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Nicole Laino: Those are the people that I get.
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Nicole Laino: I get more of the heart centered people and my job is to help boost them up and help them find that confidence so they can go out and sell.
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Nicole Laino: But here's the other thing that sits between these two aspects is a lot of times people can't sell.
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Nicole Laino: And it doesn't have to be human design, but we'll talk about it in the context of human design.
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Nicole Laino: But this could be anything.
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Nicole Laino: This is coaching or, you know, whatever it is that you sell.
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Nicole Laino: If you don't truly feel that you have mastery over it, if you really don't feel confident in it, then integrity will get in your way of being able to sell it.
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Nicole Laino: And that will come from two places.
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Nicole Laino: One way it's going to come from is that you don't really understand what the selling points are because you don't have a deep enough knowledge of it.
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Nicole Laino: You can't really tell people what the transformation is because you haven't really worked with it enough to know beyond the things that everybody else is saying, right?
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Nicole Laino: You either haven't had your own transformation with it, which is part of it, or you haven't been able to get anybody else a transformation.
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Nicole Laino: You don't really see what's happening.
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Nicole Laino: So you end up just saying things like, yes, it'll help you make better decisions in your life.
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Nicole Laino: And I look at people's websites and I look at their copy and I look at their, you know, when they're selling things on their sales page with human design and I see it and it's just like, make better decisions in your life, live in alignment.
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Nicole Laino: And some of that is copywriting where it's, you know, we're not getting specific enough about the transformation that we offer people.
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Nicole Laino: But a lot of it is just there's something missing in the way that you see your work.
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Nicole Laino: You know, okay, I can make better decisions.
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Nicole Laino: Why?
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Nicole Laino: How does that help me?
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Nicole Laino: How does that change me?
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Nicole Laino: And when I press people on that, they can't really deliver me answer.
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Nicole Laino: And that to me says that there's maybe some more work to do in connecting you to this work.
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Nicole Laino: Because I could talk about it for days, I could tell you all the benefits of human design.
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Nicole Laino: I could tell you why decision making affects you in every aspect of your life.
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Nicole Laino: I can tell you.
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Nicole Laino: And really what it comes down to is the mind.
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Nicole Laino: The mind is currently.
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Nicole Laino: And this is one of the big transformations of human design.
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Nicole Laino: This is so fundamental and I don't Think people really get it.
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Nicole Laino: This is why authority is so important.
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Nicole Laino: Authority is not just important because it's your authority.
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Nicole Laino: Yes.
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Nicole Laino: And it's important because we're going into the 2027 change and now where we have outsourced authority, we've outsourced it to governments, we have felt safe, you know, oh, they'll take care of it.
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Nicole Laino: I don't have to make that decision.
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Nicole Laino: I don't have to trust over there.
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Nicole Laino: I have trust in all of these things to keep me safe.
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Nicole Laino: But now we're in this barrage of everybody has a platform, everybody has a microphone, everybody has a TV stat on Instagram or whatever platform they choose.
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Nicole Laino: So how do we know what's right for us and what's not?
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Nicole Laino: How do we know what advice is good for us and what's not?
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Nicole Laino: You know, until you've had so much experience with it, you don't really get it.
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Nicole Laino: That this human design, the reason it takes you out of all of that mess and all of that conditioning, because it is conditioning.
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Nicole Laino: If it doesn't come from you, it's coming from the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: It's outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: You are grasping at outer authority.
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Nicole Laino: You are.
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Nicole Laino: The authority isn't coming from you.
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Nicole Laino: It's coming from the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: When it's coming from the outside world, then you're influenced by the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: And now the outside world is run by different things.
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Nicole Laino: So we are being challenged now as human beings.
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Nicole Laino: You know, went through the cross of planning for the last 400 years so we would learn how to build institutions, so we would learn how to grow, so we would learn how to really build things.
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Nicole Laino: Societies take care of each other.
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Nicole Laino: Hopefully we don't lose those lessons.
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Nicole Laino: Hopefully they're still existing in some of us.
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Nicole Laino: Some of us carry the cross of planning in our design.
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Nicole Laino: So that's hopefully all of you, if you're really in alignment with yourselves, with who you are, truly that you don't get swept up in all this stuff and forget who you are.
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Nicole Laino: Because that's your job is you're supposed to be an ambassador for these things.
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Nicole Laino: You are meant to carry this energy forward.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: Well, you can't do that if you're conditioned by the outside world and it's changing and now it's going to give you a whole different set of conditioning circumstances.
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Nicole Laino: We need you to be the same.
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Nicole Laino: We need you to be you.
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Nicole Laino: That's what's so powerful, the outer authority, the rest of the world being your authority, looking to the outside world for the answers, allowing that to Guide you?
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Nicole Laino: No, that's data.
15:02
Nicole Laino: That's interesting.
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Nicole Laino: It is not how you make decisions.
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Nicole Laino: It's why we take the power away from the mind.
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Nicole Laino: That's what is so powerful about human design.
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Nicole Laino: We're taking that Outer Authority and we're saying, nope, because the mind is the outer Authority.
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Nicole Laino: The mind is going to attach to everything in the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: The mind is going to say, well, let me read this book.
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Nicole Laino: Let me listen to this person.
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Nicole Laino: Let me check the news.
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Nicole Laino: Let me see what the President is saying.
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Nicole Laino: Let me hear what this is going.
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Nicole Laino: What's happening over here?
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Nicole Laino: Let me see what's happening in our schools.
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Nicole Laino: It's going to be this.
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Nicole Laino: And all of that's feeling very chaotic right now, isn't it?
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Nicole Laino: How do we quiet that?
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Nicole Laino: You take the power away from the mind.
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Nicole Laino: The mind is not.
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Nicole Laino: That's not its job to make decisions.
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Nicole Laino: Its job is to come up with ideas and insights and opinions and all of these great things.
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Nicole Laino: The Authority's job in your inner authority.
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Nicole Laino: Your inner authority guides you to what's right for you.
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Nicole Laino: To hell with what the outside world is saying.
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Nicole Laino: So for all the Phoenixes out there, for all the people who carry the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix, I get asked all the time.
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Nicole Laino: They're like, what does it mean for me if we're going into this phase of the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix, and I'm a Phoenix, what does that mean?
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Nicole Laino: Well, it means I hope you're in alignment.
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Nicole Laino: I hope you're following your alignment and your authority and not the outside worlds.
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Nicole Laino: Because again, you can be an example of what that looks like.
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Nicole Laino: You have great potential in this, just like the rest of us do.
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Nicole Laino: You're just going to be.
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Nicole Laino: You know, I could go on for days about what this means for you.
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Nicole Laino: The 55th gate under pressure, the 59th gate under pressure.
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Nicole Laino: You know, changing, mutating.
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Nicole Laino: It probably can feel very chaotic in you, which would make you want to look to the outside world for stability more.
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Nicole Laino: The goal for you is with all of that change that's happening within you, feeling the pressure, feeling the coming change that aligns with your own design, it's going to be really important for you to stabilize from the inside.
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Nicole Laino: I call this show unshakable with human design.
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Nicole Laino: This is why be rooted in you, not in the outside world.
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Nicole Laino: Be rooted from your own core, from what's true for you.
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Nicole Laino: That's where real power comes from.
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Nicole Laino: That's the first fundamental change.
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Nicole Laino: Right?
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Nicole Laino: But that wasn't even the Deep Benefit that I was going to talk about.
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Nicole Laino: That's the process.
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Nicole Laino: But you can only do that if you're really teaching somebody to see themselves through this system.
17:23
Nicole Laino: And in order to do that, you have to be able to see them through the system.
17:28
Nicole Laino: I did a business reading for one of my BBD clients the other day, and she teaches human design.
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Nicole Laino: I have a lot of people who teach human design who are certified, who have gone through their own trainings with this.
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Nicole Laino: She knows her strategy and authority.
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Nicole Laino: She knows her gifts.
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Nicole Laino: So why is she even working with me?
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Nicole Laino: And what could she possibly get out of a reading with me?
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Nicole Laino: Well, one, I do think it always helps for us to have someone reflecting back some things.
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Nicole Laino: Because while we are learning to be our own authority, while we are learning to trust what is correct for us, sometimes it can feel almost egotistical, looking at our own gifts and saying, like, yep, I have that.
18:11
Nicole Laino: But when someone else tells you something that you've already known deep down, but maybe you couldn't admit to yourself, or maybe because you were made to feel like you were too much or too big for your family to palette or your friend group or the kids you went to school with or whatever it was that you were taught to shrink, and your chart says that you're big, you might see that and be like, well, that's just what I want to see.
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Nicole Laino: Am I really seeing the right thing?
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Nicole Laino: Is that really true?
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Nicole Laino: And that's where someone else can help.
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Nicole Laino: When you go to a reader, when you go to somebody who can coach you to not only seeing that, but being able to navigate life through this paradigm versus the one that you grew up with.
18:56
Nicole Laino: That's what deconditioning is, babe.
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Nicole Laino: That's it.
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Nicole Laino: Living in alignment with what is true for you versus the conditioning of the circumstances that you have faced up until this point.
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Nicole Laino: That's what deconditioning is.
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Nicole Laino: Now, how we do that, you know, all of this, it's an art.
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Nicole Laino: It's not a total science, which is how I think RA would have explained it, that it's the science of differentiation, that it's this mechanical process.
19:21
Nicole Laino: And I do think that at its heart, it is.
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Nicole Laino: It's a mechanical process, and it's telling you how your mechanics work as an individual.
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Nicole Laino: So this is how you make decisions.
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Nicole Laino: This is how you are correct.
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Nicole Laino: This is how you end up on your path of your purpose, right?
19:38
Nicole Laino: But we're humans.
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Nicole Laino: And even though we might mean to follow that process, that might be difficult for us.
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Nicole Laino: So the process of deconditioning takes some time.
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Nicole Laino: It's why they say it's Seven years.
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Nicole Laino: Because, you know, cellular turnover takes that long.
19:53
Nicole Laino: You know, if you started today and you lived in alignment from today onward, in seven years, there wouldn't be a cell in your body that remembered how you were yesterday.
20:02
Nicole Laino: That's how it works.
20:03
Nicole Laino: How can we make that go faster?
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Nicole Laino: Well, we can do inner work so that we are less attached to those circumstances and emotional triggers from the past that keep us aligned with the patterns of the past.
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Nicole Laino: So the way that I see it is that the number one benefit of human design, the life changing thing about it, is it gives you a new lens to look at yourself through, a new way of operating, through feeling, not through thinking.
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Nicole Laino: So what do I mean by it gives you a new lens to look at yourself through?
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Nicole Laino: I mean, that view that you have of yourself based on how people made you feel when you grew up, how you thought about yourself, your failures, your successes, your experience, your lack of experience.
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Nicole Laino: And instead, it gives you this unbiased view of your potential.
21:08
Nicole Laino: And this is why I don't just teach human design.
21:10
Nicole Laino: I teach the gene keys as well.
21:12
Nicole Laino: I work with the gene keys as well.
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Nicole Laino: I think that you need both.
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Nicole Laino: I think human design, you quickly hit a wall with it because it will feel like things will just always be hard.
21:25
Nicole Laino: This will always be a bad thing.
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Nicole Laino: I do think that in his effort to shock people, Ra ended up just kind of making it feel hopeless for people, myself included.
21:37
Nicole Laino: I don't think I read a positive thing about anything in my design when I first found it and I just read his stuff, it was so defeating.
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Nicole Laino: Everything from my cross to my conscious son, to being a manifesting generator who's emotional, to being a 5:1.
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Nicole Laino: Oh, my God.
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Nicole Laino: It was just like, this is gonna suck and this is gonna suck.
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Nicole Laino: And oh, I feel bad for these poor individuals.
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Nicole Laino: That felt like how he started every single thing.
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Nicole Laino: So that lens that I looked at myself through that pure human design, traditional teaching was not a positive lens.
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Nicole Laino: It actually reinforced all of the things that scared me the most, all of the things that I didn't like about myself.
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Nicole Laino: And then I found Gene Keys and realized that those were just shadow states of those things, that there were gifts that were associated with them.
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Nicole Laino: And Ra just kind of left those out.
22:33
Nicole Laino: And, you know, I get it.
22:34
Nicole Laino: He had his way, and everybody has their way.
22:36
Nicole Laino: I have mine.
22:37
Nicole Laino: And that's why I think that the evolution of these teachings, that other voices getting added to the conversation and teaching through the lens of teaching it.
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Nicole Laino: In the 90s, people had different values.
22:53
Nicole Laino: We lived in a different world in the 90s.
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Nicole Laino: So if you learned human design in the 90s and you were dealing with people, you know, watching 12 channels on the television versus what we have today, a 24 hour news cycle, social media, cell phones in our pockets, it's a complet.
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Nicole Laino: Completely different world.
23:15
Nicole Laino: So the challenges change.
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Nicole Laino: Life evolves, things change.
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Nicole Laino: We are now on the precipice of 2027.
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Nicole Laino: This is a very different point of view than back then.
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Nicole Laino: Now some people would say, well, the circumstances shouldn't change anything.
23:29
Nicole Laino: They change the people that you are trying to wake up.
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Nicole Laino: Life now is far more complicated than it was back then.
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Nicole Laino: I think that there are, you know, obviously there are advancements that make it easier and better and all of these things, but then there are also things that make it a whole lot more challenging.
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Nicole Laino: So that's why I think new voices being added to this that are integrity, that are planning to train people to meet the moment, I think is a good thing.
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Nicole Laino: And it's why I decided to do this, because I want to give other people the ability to help people wake up.
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Nicole Laino: Because remember, the Phoenix is asleep.
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Nicole Laino: All Phoenixes are asleep.
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Nicole Laino: Because that's the other thing.
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Nicole Laino: You know, when people ask me, I'm a Phoenix, what do I what does this mean for me?
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Nicole Laino: Well, it means you better wake up.
24:22
Nicole Laino: I hope you wake up.
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Nicole Laino: Because if you're asleep, you're really going to be asleep.
24:26
Nicole Laino: I hope you wake up.
24:28
Nicole Laino: But now the collective is going to have to wake up.
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Nicole Laino: And I do believe in, with, at the risk of sounding corny and potentially self aggrandizing here, but I do think that those of us who teach this, we play a potentially a beautiful and important role in this transition to help usher people in from what we've always been to what we are becoming, which is different from this old world to the new world.
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Nicole Laino: I do see this as a calling.
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Nicole Laino: And if you have that calling, it's a shame to join something and think you're getting one thing and then come out the other side and say, well, I felt like I was following my calling, but I still feel like I don't know enough.
25:18
Nicole Laino: I don't know how to use this.
25:19
Nicole Laino: I can't get the transformation for people that I set out to.
25:25
Nicole Laino: And that's what we're solving.
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Nicole Laino: With the Integrated Human Design certification.
25:29
Nicole Laino: I want to pass on to others the ability to transform people.
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Nicole Laino: Not from giving them advice, not from telling them what to do, but from.
25:38
Nicole Laino: And this is harder.
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Nicole Laino: It is harder to do this because people will want you to tell them they Will want you to be the outer authority for them.
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Nicole Laino: And it takes a lot to both help them, but also teach them to help themselves, to give them their process the whole time and to be able to point out to them to not just abdicate and say like, oh, well, it's like the people that say like well, what is your intuition telling you?
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Nicole Laino: No, we're not doing that.
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Nicole Laino: Because that can feel like a cop out a lot of times, like, oh, I hired you and you just keep telling me to like tune into my intuition.
26:16
Nicole Laino: No, you have to draw them back to a process that you can help articulate for them so that they understand it, so that they can actually do it.
26:24
Nicole Laino: You have to be able to see because they may not come to you with a question, they might come to you with something that is completely not seeming like a human design problem.
26:36
Nicole Laino: But you need to be able to hear their, you know, the fact that they are ignoring their sacral response.
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Nicole Laino: Or you need to be able to hear the Line 5 projections in the story that they're telling.
26:50
Nicole Laino: And you need to draw them back to the aspect of them.
26:53
Nicole Laino: So you're training them to see themselves through the lens of their own human design.
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Nicole Laino: I can't even explain to you the level of a gift it feels like to be able to do that for people because it truly does change them.
27:07
Nicole Laino: In that business reading with my client, you know, they get this big long report where I kind of give them the whole story of them and that's the underlying story that is not just keynotes, although it starts with those.
27:20
Nicole Laino: But to be able to weave a story about like what you're here for, to see her feel so validated in what she's here for and what has felt right for her.
27:30
Nicole Laino: And now in business by Design, we get to work together for a year, so I get to guide her through that and help her in whatever way she needs from me to her process.
27:41
Nicole Laino: And it's the most exciting thing in the world to be able to do that for people.
27:45
Nicole Laino: You could do it for the people that are close to you.
27:47
Nicole Laino: I do this for my family.
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Nicole Laino: I do this sometimes without them knowing.
27:53
Nicole Laino: Because when you get good at this, you don't have to say, well, you're a projector, so this means that's information, it's not integration.
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Nicole Laino: If you can go beyond information, then you can guide somebody without them knowing you're doing it.
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Nicole Laino: And that's not a manipulative thing.
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Nicole Laino: You're just asking people the right questions.
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Nicole Laino: Knowing that my husband is a self projected projector I'm not saying that to him all the time.
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Nicole Laino: I'm not like, well, you're a self projector, so what you need to do?
28:22
Nicole Laino: I just tell him, I'd be like, well, why don't you talk it out to me?
28:25
Nicole Laino: Why don't you tell me what you have going on?
28:28
Nicole Laino: What are your thoughts on this?
28:29
Nicole Laino: And then I ask him pointed questions that are in alignment with his specific design.
28:35
Nicole Laino: Sometimes, of course, I will offer something from his unique design, telling me like, well, you're an innovator.
28:41
Nicole Laino: I say that instead of saying that he's a three line.
28:45
Nicole Laino: Well, you're an innovator.
28:46
Nicole Laino: So if you're choosing between two career paths, which one feels better to you?
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Nicole Laino: Is it the one where you're managing people or is it the one where you're building stuff?
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Nicole Laino: And you are.
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Nicole Laino: Every day you wake up and you think about like, what's a cool thing that I could build or a new way that I could think about this?
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Nicole Laino: And to him he's like, oh, the second one, it's his design.
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Nicole Laino: I know this.
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Nicole Laino: And I'm not guiding him anywhere.
29:09
Nicole Laino: I'm asking him questions and helping him arrive at the answers that are correct for him in that moment.
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Nicole Laino: We can do that when we understand how this really works.
29:19
Nicole Laino: I guide him back to his process.
29:21
Nicole Laino: He needs to soundboard things with me.
29:24
Nicole Laino: So I just sit there and let him talk a lot.
29:29
Nicole Laino: And that's something that, like, he doesn't know that I'm doing that, but it helps and it's helped him in a million ways.
29:37
Nicole Laino: And he does know about human design and he actually does accept it in a lot of ways.
29:41
Nicole Laino: I'm just not always telling him that I do it.
29:43
Nicole Laino: That's the beauty of this.
29:45
Nicole Laino: You can change people, you can shift people.
29:48
Nicole Laino: And the people who are in on it and who do come to you for this transformation, what an amazing partnership that can be.
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Nicole Laino: If you are somebody who feels called to guide people, I would really honor that calling, especially now.
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Nicole Laino: We are all being called to an individual path.
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Nicole Laino: We are all being called to something new.
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Nicole Laino: Everything about the individual is about new stuff, something we've never seen before.
30:20
Nicole Laino: And with this world being individual cross, going into an individual cross with Uranus, moving into Gemini about like just the ways that we communicate and the ways that we do things and all of these different changes that are coming that are so out of the norm and so new.
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Nicole Laino: If you feel called to this path, you very well may be part of this change, that is exactly what you are meant to do.
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Nicole Laino: And if this feels right to you, I invite you to check out the Integrated Human Design certification.
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Nicole Laino: If you desire to work with somebody on your education, in this department, in this industry, in this, with this modality, and you gravitate to the way that I explain things, this is a chance for 12 weeks to be truly trained by me.
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Nicole Laino: So I hope that you take us up on it.
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Nicole Laino: I'm so excited to invite all of the people who feel called to this work into this first cohort with me.
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Nicole Laino: It's going to be a really fun time.
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Nicole Laino: For information on it, you can go to the Show Notes, but go to nicolelaino.com certification or DM ME certification on Instagram and we'll send you the information there.
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Nicole Laino: All right, thanks for being here with me.
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Nicole Laino: I appreciate you.
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Nicole Laino: And remember, in order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
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Nicole Laino: We will see you next time.
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Nicole Laino: We'll see you there.