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WAR of the ROSES: Angie & Phil · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: He dumman.
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  Speaker 2: If you get free roses, it's a trap.
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  Speaker 3: The War of the Roses starts.
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  Speaker 4: Right now on John Jay and Rich what.
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  Speaker 5: O four to seven Kiss FM, John Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 5: It's time for War of the Roses. You think so
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  Speaker 5: much cheating on you, you come to us and we
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  Speaker 5: will find out for sure.
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  Speaker 3: Let's say hello to Annie Anngie, good morning, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: What's your story?
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  Speaker 4: Ugh, So I hate that I'm even calling, but I
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  Speaker 4: want to make sure that I'm not just being paranoid
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  Speaker 4: or that my gut is actually telling them truth, because
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  Speaker 4: I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me. And
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  Speaker 4: the reason why that I feel this way is because
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  Speaker 4: it's happened to me before. Like literally, I've been cheated
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  Speaker 4: on by all my boyfriends in the past, and so
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  Speaker 4: I have just been noticing all these things from my
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  Speaker 4: boyfriend who been acting super weird. He's like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: using his son like almost in secret, taking calls in
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  Speaker 4: the other room, and he just put a password in
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  Speaker 4: that he's never had before. And when he's going out,
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  Speaker 4: he's really vague about it. He'll just say, oh, I'm
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  Speaker 4: just going out with the guys, and if I'm asking
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  Speaker 4: basic questions he just gets super defensive, and.
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  Speaker 3: So there's like live right there, five tells right there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and there was also this one night, and I
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  Speaker 4: know I wasn't crazy, but he came home smelling, like
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  Speaker 4: with a different cologne, and when I asked about it,
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  Speaker 4: he thought he just said I was being ridiculous, And
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  Speaker 4: so I don't want to be that crazy girlfriend. But
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  Speaker 4: I also don't want to be that girl that's just
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  Speaker 4: ignoring these red flags without asking about it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, those are some pretty solid red flags.
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  Speaker 3: And did you say that everybody that you've ever dated
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  Speaker 3: has cheated on you?
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  Speaker 4: Ugh? Unfortunately, yes, And I don't know. Maybe this is
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  Speaker 4: like me self prophetizing every guy and that's why I
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  Speaker 4: feel like he's cheating on me.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, so was it when.
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  Speaker 5: You said he smelled a different cologne? Was it cologne
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  Speaker 5: or perfume? Because it was cologne that he's obviously hooking
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  Speaker 5: up with a guy obviously.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I have no idea. I know it was
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  Speaker 4: definitely not his, and he said I was being crazy,
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  Speaker 4: and so I just let it go.
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  Speaker 5: Oh So when I think when they say you're being
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  Speaker 5: crazy when it's a legitimate question, that's kind of a
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  Speaker 5: red flight, Like Rich said, there's a lot of red flags.
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  Speaker 3: What's your boyfriend's name? How long you guys been together?
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  Speaker 4: Two years?
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  Speaker 3: So all right?
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever felt like he's cheating before or is
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  Speaker 2: this the first time?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think it's just that it's we've had a
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  Speaker 4: really good relationship and it's just latly he's been distant
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  Speaker 4: and he's just you know, like I said, just being
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  Speaker 4: weird with his phone. And so I've just and it
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  Speaker 4: could be I don't know. I don't know. Like I now,
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  Speaker 4: because of my past drama, look at every little thing,
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  Speaker 4: and because he's been distant, so I look even more
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  Speaker 4: at the things he's been doing, and you know, especially
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  Speaker 4: the cologne thing, which just yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what I'm hoping. I'm hoping that.
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  Speaker 6: Because you've had such a terrible past, I feel like
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  Speaker 6: you deserve someone good. Like maybe he's hiding his phone
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  Speaker 6: because he's just not that great at like coming up
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  Speaker 6: with a surprise, Like he's trying to surprise you, but
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  Speaker 6: just do get in a really stupid way and he
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  Speaker 6: doesn't know what to say to get out of him.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, you're crazy, and then he's like, dude, I
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  Speaker 2: have to get this gift asap, like it's done.
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  Speaker 6: So that's I'm hoping for you that maybe he's just
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  Speaker 6: trying to trying to get like a great surprise.
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  Speaker 2: Surprise I got to do Colone, You like he's getting
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  Speaker 2: you a gift or something. Valante's is not that far away.
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  Speaker 2: That's true, valid pointing.
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  Speaker 5: So because you've been so hurt in the past, you
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  Speaker 5: could be reading into things. Maybe he's not hiding his
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  Speaker 5: phone right, Maybe he's putting his phone down and then
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  Speaker 5: going away from his phone because he doesn't want to
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  Speaker 5: be by his phone.
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  Speaker 3: He's trying to detox a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe the cologne is you know, from giving a buddy
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  Speaker 5: high five or something like, or being in the same
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  Speaker 5: room with somebody else. That's a broha.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm having a long.
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  Speaker 5: No but like you know what I mean, i'd be
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  Speaker 5: I remember right the elevator with this woman in here.
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  Speaker 5: There may that one woman she caked herself in perfume.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I hold my breath in the elevator. That's
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  Speaker 5: one of the reasons I started taking the stairs. But anyway,
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  Speaker 5: so we're gonna call him, We're gonna offer him a
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  Speaker 5: dozen red roses to see who he says them too. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 5: all right, you hang tight, Angie wore The Roses continues
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  Speaker 5: next with John Jay and Rich, John Jay and Rich,
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  Speaker 5: John Jay and Rich. We're in the middle War of
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  Speaker 5: the Roses. You got Phil and Angie. You've been together
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  Speaker 5: about two years, Angie says. Phil's been acting kind of
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  Speaker 5: strange lately, kind of hiding his phone, put a new
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  Speaker 5: code on his phone, came home to smell with a
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  Speaker 5: weird cologne, kind of being vague about where when he's
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  Speaker 5: out with the guy. So now she thinks something's up,
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  Speaker 5: and one of the reasons is she's been burned before.
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  Speaker 5: She's been cheating on a lot in the past. So
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  Speaker 5: we're gonna call Phil right now and see who he
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  Speaker 5: sends the followers too. I pretty much got a good
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  Speaker 5: recap right there, right ranch Aie, Yes, okay, are you
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  Speaker 5: guys ready, Kyle Hi?
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  Speaker 2: Is Phil available?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? This is him?
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  Speaker 2: Perfect Ti Phil. So my name is Henley. I'm part
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  Speaker 2: of a new company. We are called JANR.
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  Speaker 6: Flowers, trying to get the word out about how great
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  Speaker 6: we are. And this is really cool. Phil, You've actually
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  Speaker 6: been chosen to be a part of our social media campaign.
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  Speaker 6: So what this means for you is you get to
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  Speaker 6: send our most romantic booquet of roses to anyone you want,
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  Speaker 6: really anywhere, and it's totally free for you. We just
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  Speaker 6: kind of asked that you share a song whichever social
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  Speaker 6: media platform you use the most.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that sounds awesome.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it is really really cool, and we will get
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  Speaker 6: them sent out today, which is awesome.
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  Speaker 2: I don't need any personal information from you.
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  Speaker 6: Like credit card or anything like that, but I will
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  Speaker 6: send the roses out with like a nice little card,
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  Speaker 6: and I usually tell people this is your chance to
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  Speaker 6: put your personal touch on it. So depending on the
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  Speaker 6: nature of your relationship, it is a pretty romantic bouquet
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  Speaker 6: on its own.
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  Speaker 2: But some people like to get fun or flirty. Some
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  Speaker 2: people get like dirty on the card. You just don't
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  Speaker 2: be shy. I've kind of heard it all.
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  Speaker 6: Let me know the message you want and then we
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  Speaker 6: can go name an address and get them sent out today.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, sounds good. All right here, how about you
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  Speaker 1: are the love of my life for the message.
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  Speaker 2: I love that one. You are the love of my life?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, obviously, Well I'm sorry, I'm sorry, sorry, can you
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  Speaker 1: put you are truly you truly are the love of
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  Speaker 1: my life.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, truly are the love of my life. Love Phil? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: that's really beautiful. Who do you want me to address
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  Speaker 2: this too?
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  Speaker 3: To Angie?
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  Speaker 2: Oh and just gonna love that and what a great surprise.
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  Speaker 4: So hey Phil.
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  Speaker 3: And Angie.
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  Speaker 4: I know, I know this is weird, but I had
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  Speaker 4: to do something to make sure you weren't cheating on me.
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  Speaker 3: So you're on the radio, Phil, Phil, You're on the Radioie.
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  Speaker 1: What time? Wait? Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa holp pause, pause, pause.
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  Speaker 1: We're doing We're doing a lot right now. Wait wait, Angie,
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  Speaker 1: what what's going on here?
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  Speaker 4: I just needed answers because you were just acting so
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  Speaker 4: secretive and weird and I didn't know if you were
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  Speaker 4: talking to someone else. I just didn't want to feel
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  Speaker 4: stupid anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Angie. Every day, every day you asked me this, why?
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  Speaker 3: Why? Why?
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  Speaker 1: Why is the radio?
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  Speaker 3: What are we doing?
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  Speaker 4: I just I know, I know, and you you said it,
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  Speaker 4: But I mean, you came home with a different cologne,
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  Speaker 4: and so what I'm supposed to ignore the signs the
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  Speaker 4: way that you've been acting weird.
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  Speaker 1: You set this whole thing up to ask me if
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  Speaker 1: I'm cheating on you after you already asked me every
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  Speaker 1: time I go to work out, after you always text
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  Speaker 1: me this in the middle of the day.
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  Speaker 3: She crossed the line.
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  Speaker 1: You're really crossed the line today, and I can't believe
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  Speaker 1: you're embarrassed.
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  Speaker 4: I guess like this, I'm not trying to embarrass you.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just trying to find out the truth. And I
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  Speaker 4: didn't know that you were telling me the truth, and
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  Speaker 4: so if I did, and I'm I'm I'm gutted that
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  Speaker 4: you wrote that on the card.
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  Speaker 1: And I just needed to know every time something is off,
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  Speaker 1: just by a little bit, I swear you have to
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  Speaker 1: jump straight to cheating. I'm not your exes. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: I'm not your exes. What else do I have to
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  Speaker 1: do to prove to you like this is ridiculous?
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  Speaker 5: Well, so why why she says you're hiding your phone
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  Speaker 5: and you changed the code and you came home with
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  Speaker 5: a weird smelling cologne.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe you could address those really quick for us.
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  Speaker 1: I just got a different sit like i's awhere. I've
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  Speaker 1: had one sitting at the house for since Christmas that
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  Speaker 1: I got as a gift from my mom, And hey,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I decided to wear it today.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's what about What about your phone? Why you
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  Speaker 3: change the coat on your phone? Or why are you
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  Speaker 3: hiding your phone? Or are you hiding your phone?
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, I keep getting locked out of that thing. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be honest with you. I have to change it
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  Speaker 1: just because I forget what I put into my pass code.
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  Speaker 3: Interesting, I guess this is OK. Well, you say he
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  Speaker 3: did send the flowers to Angie.
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  Speaker 5: You guys he did? True, Yeah, he did. So Angie,
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  Speaker 5: there is that and he sounds like a nice guy.
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  Speaker 5: He likes you, and I mean, and he obviously you've
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  Speaker 5: been hurt a lot and you know, and he says
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  Speaker 5: you keep it. I mean, it's got to be uncomfortable
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  Speaker 5: to live like that where you're getting accused of cheating.
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  Speaker 3: All the time.
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  Speaker 6: Well, and I think he asked a very important question
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  Speaker 6: to you, Angie. What is it going to take for
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  Speaker 6: you to trust him? Because maybe that there's some boundaries
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  Speaker 6: that you can put in play that will make you
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  Speaker 6: feel more comfortable that you can let off him a
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  Speaker 6: little bit, because you're going to push him away, and
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  Speaker 6: you know, not force him to, but you're going to
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  Speaker 6: push him away if you keep, you know, being like this,
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  Speaker 6: but obviously I want to feel secure in your relationship,
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  Speaker 6: and he's asking you, what is.
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  Speaker 2: It going to take.
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  Speaker 4: I mean now that he I mean now that he
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  Speaker 4: told complete strangers that he loved me, then I feel
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  Speaker 4: much better. And I obviously misread some of the things
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  Speaker 4: that were happening. And I'm so grateful that you know
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  Speaker 4: I was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I just.
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  Speaker 3: Is this going to be enough? Is this it?
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  Speaker 1: Are we finally at the end of this? Because I
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  Speaker 1: don't think I can live like this anymore. This is
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  Speaker 1: It's insane. How many people are going to hear this, Like, I'm.
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  Speaker 6: Millions, But I wouldn't be that embarrassed. You did send
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  Speaker 6: the roses to her. She was you know, you were
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  Speaker 6: not accusing you anymore. We're kind of trying to back
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  Speaker 6: you up, So I don't think it's like embarrassing.
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  Speaker 1: Really, I thought I was just talking. I just thought
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  Speaker 1: I won something. This is just I'm just very uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure. Yeah, that's understandable.
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  Speaker 4: You understand why I did it, right. I mean the cologne.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, you should have just told me that that
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  Speaker 4: was from your mom. You never told me that. You
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  Speaker 4: just told me I was being weird and crazy when
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  Speaker 4: I asked about it.
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  Speaker 1: You were there when when I got the gift, Like,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I about, Like, I.
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  Speaker 4: Just wanted to make sure that you were not one
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  Speaker 4: of those other cheater guys that you are. I know
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  Speaker 4: you're a good person, but it was just it was
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  Speaker 4: just killing me that that all these things were were
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  Speaker 4: things that happened in the past, and I just wanted
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  Speaker 4: to make sure it wasn't happening again.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, so he's not cheating. You believe that you guys
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  Speaker 5: are in love, and you're going to stop accusing him
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  Speaker 5: and just communicate more.
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  Speaker 1: How's that absolutely all right?
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  Speaker 5: So let it be written, let it be done, all right,
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  Speaker 5: you guys, thanks for being on there with us.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you Angie, thank you Phil.
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  Speaker 5: That's a war of the roses. I think about positive
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  Speaker 5: one for a while time. Yeah, yeah, yeah. With John
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  Speaker 5: Jay and Rich