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- 0:01And our phone lines are open for you right now. If you have questions
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- 0:48ado this morning, well welcome on our retirement planning professionals CJ. Closs and
- 0:52Malia Quavis. CJ. How you doing this morning? Doing great? How
- 0:55are you Sean? I'm doing really well, Malia at the storms. Hopefully
- 1:00do too much cause any issues for you earlier this week, No, I
- 1:03think we were spared, but boy, that was a big one. It
- 1:07was Yeah, there's I always talked there were there were some treasures and some
- 1:10trash that ended up by following that stuff. So good to hear from both
- 1:15of you. And we've got an important conversation this week when it comes to
- 1:19funeral planning and people say, wait, entire planning, funeral planning. These
- 1:23are important steps to be taking to have these plans in place. So we're
- 1:26going to talk about that with you in just a moment. A couple of
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- 1:57rolling on this week's conversation, let's take a look back at last week's show
- 2:00and do the Claws Squoz question week at the question and answer there as well.
- 2:05Yes, so every week we don't just talk about death and taxes,
- 2:08although today we're talking about death. Okay, So last week we talked about
- 2:13retirement readiness and things you might want to consider as you think about when you
- 2:19might want to retire and having basically a plan. So a great conversation last
- 2:24week, and our question revolved around how many Americans are actually turning sixty five
- 2:30and twenty twenty four, so a lot of people are considering retirement readiness.
- 2:35And so the question was is it two million or more than four million people
- 2:40that are going to turn sixty five? And the correct answer was brought in
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- 3:02Speaking of last week's program, don't freg You can always listen back to
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- 3:14Coss Financial. No charge for that initial gets to know your appointment at Coss
- 3:16Financial. It will be complementary to you. So when you're helping people,
- 3:20of course figure out retirement planning, I'm guessing that that you do touch on
- 3:23funeral planning as well, don't you see j We do. Yeah. So
- 3:29we actually devote several shows throughout each year about the importance of completing your estate
- 3:35planning and the idea that everyone should have you know, a power of attorney
- 3:39in place for your health and for your property, while also having you know,
- 3:43living wills, a trust with a poor overwill, and so on and
- 3:46so forth. But the next natural area of planning that comes out of that
- 3:51should, in our opinion, be centered around funeral planning and what you need
- 3:54to know to help your loved ones carry out the process for you. So
- 4:00most people have heard of this idea of hey, do you have a will
- 4:02or do you have powers of attorney? Because it's this idea, if I
- 4:05become disabled, I need my power of attorney to act as my agent for
- 4:10my health and for my property. And then if I die, I need
- 4:13to name, you know, kind of beneficiaries of my various assets, whether
- 4:16that be a beneficiary designation or just a will that states what happens to my
- 4:21stuff or a trust that states what's happened to my stuff. So most people
- 4:25have heard of this, but they often don't take it to the next step,
- 4:29which is to say, hey, and by the way, when I
- 4:31die, Because remember everybody mortality rate is standing right about one hundred percent.
- 4:36So this isn't a this isn't an if, but it's a when. So
- 4:41when I die, you need to say how is that going to play out
- 4:46in terms of the the burial process, the remembrance process, the flowers,
- 4:50the food, the whole thing. Now, again, often people go,
- 4:53boy, you guys are exciting. As Malia just said, you talk about
- 4:57death and taxes not all the time. Can we talk about much more exciting
- 5:00things than funeral planning. But I can just say from personal experience with us,
- 5:05both as a as a family member, inside of my own family and
- 5:10then also as an advisor with clients. If you take the steps to plan
- 5:15for your own inevitability through having proper estate plans and through prepaid funeral expenses,
- 5:24you will be doing your family an incredible service. Incredible and if I can
- 5:30be more poignant than that, you will be limiting conflict. I didn't say
- 5:35eliminating conflict. I said you will be limiting conflict. Conflict tends to arise
- 5:41when there are unclear plans. Now disclaimer, we are not funeral directors or
- 5:46mortuary consultants, but we do know the simple reason you should plan for your
- 5:50funeral is that if you don't, your family will have to make the plans
- 5:55in their darkest hour. So again, we're not the experts who are going
- 5:58to actually tell you how to plan that funeral, just as much as to
- 6:00do it. We also know this is a hard topic, but doesn't It
- 6:04doesn't have to be morbid. It can be meaningful for you to make your
- 6:09wishes known and when the time comes, it can be a great relief to
- 6:12your family members that you did this for them. And according to a survey
- 6:15by the Funeral and Memorial Information Council, while sixty nine percent of American adults
- 6:21want or intend to arrange their own funerals. Only about seventeen per percent have
- 6:28put plans in place. So, regardless of your age, health, or
- 6:31financial circumstances, creating a plan for your own funeral is a smart decision.
- 6:36Talking this morning with CJ. Klass and Molyia Quavis, our retirement planning professionals
- 6:41from Class Financial, phone lines are open if you've got a question. Six
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- 6:46Love to have you join us this morning. The website for Class Financial eighty
- 6:49is class Financial dot com. That's coss klaas Financial dot com are telephone number
- 6:55six oh eight four four two five six three seven. So as we talk
- 6:58about you know you mentioned and the importance of it, and you're really doing
- 7:02something good for your family and for those you know. Confuse. Used to
- 7:08watch my kiddo used to watch this Thomas the Tank Engine program when he was
- 7:12little. I think a lot of kidtles did. And I remember the railroad
- 7:15boss used to say, it causes confusion. You don't want to cause confusion
- 7:19and delay, And we talk about this stuff. Obviously, delay is not
- 7:23a big thing with death. It's inevitable, but you don't want to leave
- 7:25folks confused. Do you see j You don't, but I'm just impressed by
- 7:30how many different cartoons the storylines that you remember. We'll move on from that,
- 7:36So yes, the good news. Planning your own funeral is actually very
- 7:41easy and won't take as much time as you would think. First, realize
- 7:45all you're really doing is documenting exactly how you would like to be remembered.
- 7:48The best part is once you've done it, you really don't have to do
- 7:51it again unless you want to make minor tweaks. Taking a little time to
- 7:56plan this ahead of time will pay huge dividends in the future. You'll save
- 8:00your family from a lot of grief and they will know how much you cared
- 8:03about them when this is done. But yeah, in this kind of first
- 8:07step you need to think about You need to think about something like do I
- 8:11want to be buried, cremated, or donate your body to science, because
- 8:16these are all options. Now. If you choose to be buried, you
- 8:18then have to select what you want done with the casket. If you wish
- 8:24to be cremated, then you have to choose where the urn or the ashes
- 8:28will be placed. If you want to donate your body to science, you'll
- 8:31need to take the steps ahead of time to put this in place. And
- 8:35believe it or not, there's quite a few options and pros and cons to
- 8:37each, so decide which one you think suits you best. We will point
- 8:43out that the rate of cremations compared to traditional burials continues to rise. I've
- 8:48mentioned this on the show. I think it was a few years ago now,
- 8:52but in my own family, on my wife's side of the family,
- 8:56there is a funeral director who owned a funeral home for many, many years,
- 9:01and their business transformed over a generation from eighty ninety percent traditional burials with
- 9:09caskets to really flipping and being much more cremation focused. So according to the
- 9:16National Funeral Director Association known as NFDAA in twenty twenty three Cremation and Burial.
- 9:22Their twenty twenty three report, the rate of burial was projected to be thirty
- 9:28four point five percent compared to a cremation rate of sixty point five percent.
- 9:33So you can already see it's flipped. There's more people being cremated than buried.
- 9:37By the year twenty forty five. If the rate can continues, it
- 9:43would be expected to reach almost eighty percent of burials would be cremations instead of
- 9:50a traditional burial. One thing that the funeral directors communicate to families is that
- 9:54all the services normally thought of in relation to a burial, such as a
- 9:58traditional funeral service which includes viewing, can still be held for the individual who
- 10:05was cremated. An NFDA twenty twenty three Consumer Preferences survey details insights into the
- 10:11factors driving the increased desire for cremations, and according to the survey, a
- 10:16significant fifty four and a half percent of respondent cited cost effectiveness as the primary
- 10:22reason for choosing cremation. Additionally, forty two and a half forty two and
- 10:28a half percent expressed that cremation is easier, simpler, simpler, and just
- 10:31more convenient. So here's here's the point. You need to decide what's going
- 10:37to happen to your body after you pass away and how you want that to
- 10:39be handled. Do you want to donate it to science? Do you want
- 10:41to be buried in a casket? Do you want to be cremated? And
- 10:45where do the earn and ashes go? This is kind of one of the
- 10:48first steps as you head down the funeral planning process. But as you can
- 10:52imagine, Mollia, we'll get into this, there's a lot more than that.
- 10:56Where's a service going to be held? What's the funeral home? Where
- 10:58will you be buried? If you're going to be buried? Uh? Are
- 11:01you going to prepay for food and flowers and services? But again, believe
- 11:05it or not, there's people who do this for a living. We actually
- 11:07work with two of them in the local community and they have it pretty organized
- 11:13and so you just kind of answer some questions, maybe supply some information and
- 11:18it's a one time event that you get prepaid. Talking this morning with CJ.
- 11:20Closs and Malia Quavis, they are our retirement planning professionals from Class Financial.
- 11:24You've got a question, We've got a phone line for you right now.
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- 11:41charge for that initial get to know your apployment at Colss Financial, it will
- 11:45be complimentary to you again, they're number six oh eight four four two five
- 11:48six three seven. So Malia, as we talk then about the funeral market
- 11:52and kind of the value, I thought, I think I saw in the
- 11:56notes about twenty billion dollars annually. And I've got a guest then, as
- 12:01consumers, I guess we'd call ourselves got to be aware of those cost costs.
- 12:05And A CJ mentioned choices for funeral and plan on that accordingly, don't
- 12:09we exactly. So it is a big industry and a necessary industry. So
- 12:16you know, alongside talking about retirement readiness last week, talking about funerals this
- 12:20week, kind of looking at that trend. There's over two point four million
- 12:24funerals that actually take place in the US every year. So I think it's
- 12:28important to be familiar with recent trends. It doesn't mean you have to follow
- 12:33the trend. In fact, I'm probably the one that never follows the trends
- 12:37out there at the right time perhaps, but you might be interested in hearing
- 12:41what those current trends are. And one of the significant preferences that we saw
- 12:46in our research, and it was highlighted last year was that sixty percent of
- 12:50the population is interested in exploring the green funeral options out there because you know,
- 12:56there's some reasons to do that, potential environment benefits, sometimes for cost
- 13:01savings and for other reasons. And there's organizations like Green Burial Council they promote
- 13:07green burial options including natural burial, the use of biodegradable urns, and other
- 13:15options. There's other organizations such as Betterplaceforests dot Com. So something to definitely
- 13:22look into because we are seeing a lot of people look that direction. Another
- 13:26trend we see is COVID nineteen. Since the pandemic, we're seeing the virtual
- 13:31virtual funeral services continue and so sometimes it's out of necessity, but most funeral
- 13:39homes now do offer some streaming services. And what's really nice with that is
- 13:45because you know, oftentimes elderly people, cousins, brothers, sisters, they
- 13:50want to be able to attend, but maybe physically they can't, So having
- 13:54those streaming services available, I've seen a lot of families doing it for graduations
- 13:58now as well. That can really help people, especially if they happen to
- 14:01be having health issues at the same time. So that's a positive trend I
- 14:07think for a lot of people. But the second step in funeral planning is
- 14:11obviously deciding how to budget for this. And just like we talk every single
- 14:18week about how we need a budget for retirement, this is a cost and
- 14:22it's a real cost. So speaking about what you might pay, on average,
- 14:26a typical burial service will cost anywhere between seven and ten thousand dollars.
- 14:33Median cost is about seventy eight hundred. At the same time, a cremation
- 14:39cost cost will be around fifteen hundred to five thousand, and again, as
- 14:45CJ mentioned, there's always so many options. We've seen cremations cost as much
- 14:50as burial services. So if you are going to include all the bells and
- 14:54whistles that you want, which is great, there might be a higher price
- 14:58tag than what I'm quoting. And finally, if you consider donating your body
- 15:01to science, that will usually cost nothing, so that's something to look into
- 15:05as well if you're inclined to do that. We like to give a shout
- 15:09out to prices in Wisconsin because a lot of our listeners come from there.
- 15:15Average price in Wisconsin for burial is around eight thousand, nine hundred dollars and
- 15:22for a full service creation around sixty seven hundred. So you're going to need
- 15:26to factor into this funeral service if there's gonna be a hearse involved a funeral
- 15:33home service fee, a casket, a headstone, a burial plot. Do
- 15:37you want to viewing staff fees for any of those services? And as CEJ
- 15:43mentioned, we really really, you know, we're not necessarily saying people have
- 15:46to pre pay, but to pre plan really does help, because what we've
- 15:50seen is that many families tend to overspend on funerals due to the emotional impact.
- 15:58It's a lot just to go through mental let alone having to make financial
- 16:02decisions. And so we sit with clients and we usually hear our male clients
- 16:07say just throw me in a box, and the wife is sitting there going
- 16:11no, I would never do that. Well, part of it's, you
- 16:15know, a cost factor perhaps, So really having those plans in place beforehand
- 16:21helps everybody. You should also know your rights, and this is an important
- 16:26feature of Federal Trade Commission. They introduce the funeral rule way back in nineteen
- 16:32eighty four that gives you the right to buy only by the goods and services
- 16:36you want. Therefore, even when you go to a funeral parlor, they
- 16:41will get there required to give you an itemized statement of all goods and services.
- 16:47So that's so important because we don't want to see you feed in areas
- 16:51that maybe you didn't even want. As we talked this morning with CJ.
- 16:55Colss and Maliaquavis. As Malia mentioned there are some costs here, you may
- 16:57be wondering how to pay for those costs. The options out there, We're
- 17:00going to get those from Malia in just a moment right now, though,
- 17:03if you've got a question, got time to get you on their six oh
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- 17:22We'll continue our conversation with CJ and Mollien. We'll talk about paying for
- 17:26use those expenses. We'll get the details on some of the options there and
- 17:30do the Class quiz question a week and take your call next. Does Money
- 17:33in Motion with Coss Financial continues here on thirteen ten Wi b A talking with
- 17:41our retirement planning professionals CJ. Coss and Malia Quavis. Of course they come
- 17:45to us from Class Financial the web side Coloss Financial dot com that's Coss k
- 17:48l a As Financial dot com and their telephone number six oh eight four four
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- 17:57appointment at Loss Financial. It will be complimentary to you again. They're number
- 18:00six oh eight four four two five six three seven. Talking this week about
- 18:06funeral planning and the importance of really doing your family and loved ones and friends
- 18:11of favor by having these these things in place. If you listen to this
- 18:14program for any amount of time, you know Malia and CJ are both planners.
- 18:18Planning is a big important and for good reason. They see at firsthand
- 18:21of what happens when folks don't plan properly. And Malia, in that last
- 18:23segment we were talking about the average costs for a funeral in Wisconsin and of
- 18:29course across the country, those can be big numbers for folks. They say,
- 18:33well, how should I then pay for those costs? Yeah, so
- 18:37normally the first thing that comes to mind is is well I have life insurance
- 18:41and that's going to pay for it. And honestly, we typically see that's
- 18:45a very popular option because it affords some immediate protection. So many people carry
- 18:52older life insurance policies into retirement exactly for that purpose. Now, the funeral
- 19:00funeral director does not really care where the money comes from, or maybe clear
- 19:03on that they don't care if it's coming out of a bank, out of
- 19:06a life insurance policy, from your investments. That's not really what's important here.
- 19:11What's important is is do your loved ones have immediate access to be able
- 19:15to pay for this because life insurance doesn't just show up the next day in
- 19:19your mailbox. Okay, so you really want to plan ahead, make sure
- 19:23you have people that can access funds to pay for really what is unplanned,
- 19:30even though we know it's going to happen. So the life insurance, you
- 19:34know, sometimes we see this on TV. There's burial insurance for seniors or
- 19:40final expense life policies. Those are a little different. Sometimes those policies are
- 19:45particularly helpful for people over eighty who might not be able to qualify for a
- 19:48traditional life insurance policy. So life insurance definitely is probably number one and how
- 19:56these costs will eventually be paid for. Another option is setting aside money for
- 20:02your funeral. We call these sinking accounts or sinking funds that our clients have
- 20:07put away at a bank a certain amount that they know will cover the expense
- 20:11at the time they pass away. So you know, the obvious drawback to
- 20:15that option is that if you're funding it monthly and you pass away before you
- 20:18saved enough, your family's going to have to come up with a difference,
- 20:22right, So you want to set asite enough that you feel will cover what
- 20:25you need. You know, something you can do with a specific funeral home
- 20:30is established a pre need contract. So basically you design your funeral service with
- 20:36them and they tell you how much it's going to cost. They will often
- 20:38want to sell you some life insurance to back that as well. So many
- 20:42people do do that and they do make payments toward that. And again we're
- 20:48not opposed, but we are not critical about just pre planning and not necessarily
- 20:53pre pain. That is each person's decision. And then, finally, as
- 20:57I mentioned funds funds for your state, wherever it comes from, you're going
- 21:02to need to rely on your family liquid aiding some of your investments to pay
- 21:06for this. The final expenses could be an ambulance trip, et cetera,
- 21:10et cetera. So we want to make sure it's as easy as possible for
- 21:14family members to be able to pay for what is inevitable and just make a
- 21:18plan on how you you want to do that. Great tips this morning Melia
- 21:22Quavis and CJ. Closs. They are our retirement planning professionals from Class Financial
- 21:26talking this week about funeral planning. We're going to talk about some of the
- 21:30other things to think about when it comes to the funeral funeral planning process.
- 21:33This morning and Money in Motion with COSS Financial. Their website colssfinancial dot com.
- 21:37That's coss k l aas Financial dot com. Great website, Class Financial
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- 21:45No charge for that initial get to know your appointment Ach Loss Financial.
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- 21:52five six three seven. We'll talk about some of the other tips for funeral
- 21:56planning process, what you need to know Wilso the Class quiz week. We
- 22:00will do that next as Money in Motion with Class Financial continues here on thirteen
- 22:03ten WIBA talking with our retirement planning professionals CJ. Closs and Malia Quavis.
- 22:11Things can happen in the blink of an eye, so you want to be
- 22:15prepared. As we talk about, of course regularly retirement planning and those type
- 22:18of things, it's never too early to get that stuff going. You never
- 22:22know, And of course we talk about funeral planning as well. It's important
- 22:26to start that conversation, start that planning as soon as you can. And
- 22:30as we talk with Cjmlie, if you've been to the website recently, you
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- 22:45will be complementary to you. Again, they're number six oh eight four four
- 22:48two five six three seven. So CJ. As we kind of round this
- 22:52program out in this week's show out, what are some of the other tips
- 22:56you can suggest to help us kind of complete that funeral planning process. So
- 23:00I want to start by just emphasizing what Malia just mentioned there, I do
- 23:04think thinking about the way you're going to fund the funeral, whether you're just
- 23:08planning and then funding later, or whether you're funding ahead of time, it
- 23:12is an important consideration, especially if there's the potential for you to run out
- 23:17of money before you run out of life. Then this idea of oh,
- 23:21how can I prepay to make sure that if I end up in a nursing
- 23:23home, you know, I still have my funeral services paid for. So
- 23:27many things that consider there. Talk to your financial advisor, your accountant,
- 23:32or even a funeral director or what they call an advanced planning specialist at a
- 23:36funeral at a local funeral home, and they can help you with that.
- 23:41But to kind of answer your question, Sean, we would suggest you write
- 23:44down your wishes and gather some of the following items and place them in a
- 23:48folder. Whether it's a physical folder or a digital folder, that doesn't matter.
- 23:53And perhaps, as I just mentioned, visit your local funeral director so
- 23:57they have your wishes recorded. But either way, make sure that these items
- 24:02I'm about to tell you about are kept in a safe place that your family
- 24:04knows about so that they can follow your instructions when the time comes. So
- 24:11first things first, consider having some photos maybe of you, your spouse when
- 24:15you're a child. Just pick it doesn't need to be a ton, by
- 24:18the way, pick you know, a few dozen photos and put them in
- 24:22a box somewhere your life story. Nobody knows your story better than you.
- 24:26Don't leave it to your family to get all the facts right as we age,
- 24:30even our spouses won't always remember what year we graduated from high school,
- 24:34or our job titles or other details of our life. So truly, it's
- 24:38like it's kind of like prepping for your tax return. You don't do it
- 24:42all, you know, in February or March, at least, anybody who
- 24:47wants to stay sane doesn't do it that way. You take this information and
- 24:51just set it aside throughout the year and do a folder, and then when
- 24:53the time comes you need to follow your taxes, you just kind of pick
- 24:56up the folder and give it to your accountant. So, in a similar
- 25:00way, planning for your eventual death doesn't need to be a oh boy,
- 25:03I've got to spend this entire weekend doing this massive project. It can be
- 25:07just this idea of like, nope, I'm going to begin planning, and
- 25:11over the course of the next number of years, I'm going to set aside
- 25:15this kind of information, including my life's story. I will just write portions
- 25:21of it as it plays out. Your next item would be your burial plans.
- 25:25Again, talk about where your final resting place might be, and then
- 25:29buy the plot now so that your family won't have to guess if you wish
- 25:33to be buried, or how you want to be buried, so on and
- 25:36so forth. Consider your service preferences, music, flowers, reading of scripture,
- 25:42eulogy, or none of the above. Maybe you don't want much for
- 25:47services. If you talk to a to a funeral home, they'll admit where
- 25:52people well two things. They will admit that the greatest cost of your death
- 26:00will be related to the services that you hold bar none right. If you
- 26:03want calling hours as they have it, if you want viewing hours, if
- 26:10you want a full funeral service. This is where the costs go up,
- 26:14because now you have to rent the place where this is going to happen,
- 26:18you have to have staff on site. The costs really go up. However,
- 26:22the funeral home would also tell you the following, this isn't about you.
- 26:26I often have to Malia mention that men will often say, Jah,
- 26:30just throw me out in the woods, you know, cremate me and throw
- 26:33me in water somewhere or something like that, and I go, hold on,
- 26:37this was never about just you. It's about the memory of you.
- 26:41So really, this is about other people getting to come together to grieve and
- 26:47to have closure. If you've ever heard of somebody who died and then just
- 26:51got cremated and there was no service, you'll often speak to family members and
- 26:55they'll say, it doesn't even feel real because I never participate. I never
- 27:00saw. There was never final conversation, there was no service, there was
- 27:03nothing. What you're doing by not having any services is you're eliminating the grieving
- 27:08process, and that has some real internal problems. So I would just highly
- 27:15encourage you to be cautious of just thinking, Ah, it doesn't matter,
- 27:18We'll just you know, cremate it and I'm going to be thrown into the
- 27:19woods somewhere. It was never about you in the first place. You're gone.
- 27:26It's about giving people the opportunity to celebrate the life that you lived,
- 27:30to find closure of your death. The next item would be contact lists.
- 27:34Consider having a contact list that your family knows where that that resides, whether
- 27:38it be a physical or electronic contact list, so that they can easily just
- 27:41invite your friends and family members and then just consider again lining out as many
- 27:47of those details is possible. You know, similar to like a wedding planner,
- 27:52a funeral planner has so many options that you just want to try to
- 27:56get those details lined out ahead of time. Music, how it's going to
- 28:00be paid for, the photos, the life story, so on and so
- 28:03forth. So listen, I know most of your your your eyes are rolling
- 28:07in the back of your heads, going, oh man, did I really
- 28:11want to talk about funeral planning? Listen. I just cannot suggest it enough.
- 28:17If you, If if this matters to you, about limiting conflict within
- 28:21your family and making it a life giving instead of a life sucking process,
- 28:26your pre planning will pay huge diffidends to your family. Really good guidance this
- 28:30morning from CJ. Closs and Malia Quavis. They are our retirement planning professionals
- 28:34from Class Financial. The website is class financial dot com. That's Coss k
- 28:38l A A S Financial dot com. Their telephone number six oh eight four
- 28:42four two five six three seven No charge for that initial get to know you
- 28:45appointment at COSS Financial eight will be complimentary to you again their number six oh
- 28:49eight four four two five six three seven. Want to hold on to that
- 28:52telephone number as well. Now it's time for the COLSS Quiz Question a week.
- 28:56It works like this. In just a moment, I'll ask you the
- 28:57class quiz question week. You will then have thirty minutes from the today's program
- 29:00to call the Class Financial office right here in Madison at six oh eight four
- 29:04four two five six three seven. If you are the first car correct answer,
- 29:08he will win this week's prize, which is a twenty five dollars gift
- 29:11card to Starbucks. This week's class quiz question the week is this in the
- 29:17US, what percentage of Americans choose cremation over burial in twenty twenty three?
- 29:23Was it forty percent or over sixty percent that choose cremation? Telphone number six
- 29:29O eight four four two five six three seven. Again, that's Class Financial's
- 29:33office right here in Madison. First call with correct ance win that twenty five
- 29:36dollars gift card to Starbucks. CJ. Maleia, It's always great chatting with
- 29:40you guys. Enjoy this fantastic day and have a fantastic weekend. Thanks Joe,
- 29:45Thanks Sean, thank you guys. News comes your way. Next here
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