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Desire, Denied: Why we shame the women we watch.
You’re allowed to want her. You’re just not allowed to admit you paid for it.In this episode, hosts Cylla Kavanaugh and Katy Jayne dig into the double standard that lets men consume OnlyFans and adult content… then shame the women creating it. Katy breaks down the post that sparked a full ambassador-board thread, while Cylla layers in the psychology, history, and research underneath.
We unpack:
Why the backlash isn’t really about ethics (it’s about control)
Projected shame, moral disengagement (Bandura), and the difference between guilt and shame (Brené Brown)
The Madonna-whore complex…
The skinny
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