When Compliments Cross the Line | Huntsville News

Huntsville News Today | 2 Min News | The Daily News Now! · Jul 6, 2026 · 2m

Tired of being patronized by service workers? Miss Manners tackles the growing frustration among older women who’re getting flattered with phrases like “Gorgeous” or “You’re doing so great!” — comments that feel condescending, not complimentary. These workers often mean well, thinking they’re being friendly, but the tone can imply you’re not quite “all there” or need extra encouragement. It’s not about age, but about assumptions — like calling someone “young lady” when they’re clearly not. Miss Manners advises staying calm, especially if the person has a drill, and suggests the real victory…