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Ep. 63 "99 Won't, 1 Will" · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk about what's up? Y'all. Welcome to a new episode.
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  Speaker 1: If we talk back, it's your girl a j what
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  Speaker 1: app Hey, y'all, it's me Tim Bam. I fucking love
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  Speaker 1: you guys. Man, I missed y'all. How you doing, a J? Child?
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  Speaker 1: I'm good battling the pollen killing me? Girl? What? I
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  Speaker 1: can't even see the polo, but it's already beating my
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  Speaker 1: ass like you can't. Typically, I don't start feeling this
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  Speaker 1: bad from pollen until I can see it. But I
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  Speaker 1: can't see it on cars or nothing, but it's already.
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  Speaker 1: It's like invisible. Girl. We got what the fund is
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  Speaker 1: that calipine trees in Charleston and I can't keep my
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  Speaker 1: car clean? Like? Why im a month of pollen? I'm
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  Speaker 1: sick of this ship because I can barely breathe. Breathe again.
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  Speaker 1: I'm tired of taking take your medicine. How was your weekend, bitch?
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  Speaker 1: I went out to dinner. Um, you went on a date. No,
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  Speaker 1: not exactly. My family, Um, my sister and my nephew
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  Speaker 1: was in town, so I hung up with them and
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  Speaker 1: my sister's friends. My nephew plays football and ship. So
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  Speaker 1: I went to this little football camp this weekend for
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  Speaker 1: my weekend. Y'all, I just got to slow down. I
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  Speaker 1: just got to slow down. COVID had me stuck in
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  Speaker 1: the house, and now I'm just like stuck in the house.
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  Speaker 1: What stuck in the house? And I've just been outside outside.
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  Speaker 1: But I live alone, so it's just like, why should
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  Speaker 1: I just stay in the house by myself when I
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  Speaker 1: can be outside mingling with the masses. I don't be
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  Speaker 1: missing going out like that. That's because you'd be bowed up.
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  Speaker 1: I do not be bowed up, you know. I wish
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  Speaker 1: I do not be I ain't got no boob, I
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  Speaker 1: don't have no boot, I don't have like a potential booth.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm just kind of like hanging out with the girls.
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  Speaker 1: I like being booed up, but I definitely gonna be
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  Speaker 1: brewed up but up. But girls saying the same thing
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  Speaker 1: twice don't make it mean nothing different. Beach, I don't
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  Speaker 1: like hot girl summers like I like this dick. When
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  Speaker 1: I get off the beach, I'm sorry. I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to go out of tower, bitches, So I'm working on that.
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  Speaker 1: You can go out of town with bitches. It's still
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  Speaker 1: suck dick. Yeah, random dick, because that's what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: bitches be doing. Don't take on bitches, be fucking random.
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  Speaker 1: Nick is on vacation. I with it, Shaye. What we
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  Speaker 1: got going on in stupid ass internet news? A lot?
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  Speaker 1: This girl a lot. Jesse Williams is asking the court
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  Speaker 1: to reduce his child support payments for his eight year
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  Speaker 1: old and six year old children. So apparently he's paying
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  Speaker 1: forty dollars monthly child support and he wants to reduce. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: He was making He made six point two million and
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  Speaker 1: a hundred eighty thousands and residuals on Gray's Anatomy, But
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  Speaker 1: now he's making sixteen hundred dollars a week as a
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  Speaker 1: star of the play Take Me Out, So he's not
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  Speaker 1: making that kind of ends right now. So he said
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  Speaker 1: he don't want to pay them forty bands a month.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think about that? Yeah? I mean when
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  Speaker 1: people life changes, you go to court and you have
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  Speaker 1: things adjusted. So his ex wife still wants them to
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  Speaker 1: come up with forty a month even if he's not
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  Speaker 1: making up. I just want to say, Lord, everybody, by
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  Speaker 1: your heads, Lord, what you're doing for others. Please see
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  Speaker 1: fit to do for me in the name. But she's
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  Speaker 1: just safe man forty thousand on my Listen, we need
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  Speaker 1: to we need to see what the annual income or
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  Speaker 1: salary is for a celebrity baby mama. Be good. They're
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  Speaker 1: just making faint because apparently apparently she doesn't work, and
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  Speaker 1: she holds a New York real estate license that she's
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  Speaker 1: not using, so you want him to get a better
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  Speaker 1: paying job so you ain't gotta work, basically, right, they
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  Speaker 1: need to go on and create a major in college
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  Speaker 1: for celebrity baby mama because if he's paying forty dollars
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  Speaker 1: a month, it's a career option, all right. Hell yeah
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  Speaker 1: the fuck. You know some people, I'm pretty sure. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying I'm pretty sure, but people breathe their children.
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  Speaker 1: It's just black women don't be bred to to to
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  Speaker 1: go after those type of suitors. Does somebody straight take
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  Speaker 1: care of your ass? Like, really, you're supposed to be
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  Speaker 1: going from your daddy house to your husband house, but
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  Speaker 1: straggling and as he's supposed to have like a dowry
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  Speaker 1: or something for my motherfucking man, exactly make it rain
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  Speaker 1: on me at the wedding. You know, like they do
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  Speaker 1: at the African weddings. That's what we need, an African
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  Speaker 1: child support. But for somebody who has this kind of money,
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  Speaker 1: just seemed like should they even be on child support?
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  Speaker 1: He don't seem like the type that wouldn't take care
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  Speaker 1: of his kids. I'm sure he wouldn't be giving her
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  Speaker 1: that much. No, that's excessive. And she's not working, so
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  Speaker 1: we said that before. She is not working. She has
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  Speaker 1: a New York real estate license and she's not using it.
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  Speaker 1: So basically, you need him to go get a higher
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  Speaker 1: paying job so you can continue not to work. Are
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  Speaker 1: we mad at her? Yeah? Because kids are both parties responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: But I guess you know, once you married, she's a
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  Speaker 1: full time custodian though sounds like okay, but I know
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  Speaker 1: a full time job in itself for who because a
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  Speaker 1: lot a lot of people. Yeah, that's what I was
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  Speaker 1: about to say, Like in a marriage, I guess once
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  Speaker 1: you divorce somebody, if he was making a certain amount
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  Speaker 1: of money, he has to pay for you to maintain
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  Speaker 1: this lifestyle. Mm hmm. But if he's not making that
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  Speaker 1: money anymore, the courts should adjusted. And I feel like
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  Speaker 1: if she ever loved him, she would want to adjust
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  Speaker 1: it to Alexa play was Love Got to Do With It?
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  Speaker 1: By Tina Turner. No, I agreetars is a lie. I
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  Speaker 1: mean you can survive off much less much much less,
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  Speaker 1: or get back to work since uh, everybody doing real
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  Speaker 1: estate now, I go ahead and get back to work.
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  Speaker 1: But she living in New York? Like, how good is that? Realist?
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure. Like the fucking sh
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  Speaker 1: is astronomically nobody vinyl houses right now? For real? She
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  Speaker 1: unify her some damn investors. That's just buying up some
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  Speaker 1: damn property somewhere. Good luck, Jesse. Guess what Tyler Perry
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  Speaker 1: admits to using my dia voice in bed Ill? What
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  Speaker 1: the fund is that about? Could you imagine he'll put
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  Speaker 1: his dick and you tell my heiler, Oh, this is
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  Speaker 1: pussy good hler Is it pussy m that he's using
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  Speaker 1: that voice? One? Oh? That is that is a good question.
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  Speaker 1: Is he using that voice when he gets some dick?
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  Speaker 1: Tyler Perry is not gay. Tyler Perry is a straight
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  Speaker 1: black man. I know again nigga stole his credit card
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  Speaker 1: one time. How did that happened? How this nigga, How
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  Speaker 1: this young nigga got your fucking wallet. Please tell me,
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  Speaker 1: because because I know how I get nigga's wallets. The fun.
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  Speaker 1: I thought he ty Perry had a girlfriend at one point.
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  Speaker 1: He might do. He might be bisexual, but I don't
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  Speaker 1: think he's ever said he's had a sexual I just
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  Speaker 1: don't understand why media would ever need to come up
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  Speaker 1: and again like at all, gay, straight, whatever whatever you like.
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  Speaker 1: MDIA needs to stay the funk out, Yeah, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: definitely not sucking media dog me neither. She got the
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  Speaker 1: big as cities though. The closest I'm sucking to the
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  Speaker 1: closest I might fun to media is Oprah. You bitch,
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  Speaker 1: girls gonna beat your ass. I'm just playing girl and
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  Speaker 1: stay at me. Oh y'all, we can only aspire to
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  Speaker 1: beat their motherfucker's when we get that a shot. So
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  Speaker 1: I heard Jannet Jackson used to date Tyler Perry. You
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  Speaker 1: heard a motherfucking like bitch. Ain't no way Tyler Perry
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  Speaker 1: got no Jenny Jackson. Listen, Tyler Perry was sucking with
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  Speaker 1: Jamaine dupri Why the funk would she not with? Uh? See,
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  Speaker 1: that's how room will start. Tyler Perry was sucking Jamaine Dupris.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I meant, Janie Jesson. See that's how
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  Speaker 1: room will start right there, welcome to Atlanta, like and
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  Speaker 1: you know, I feel like she only did he Jamine
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  Speaker 1: dpre to get at one up on the Ridkerry for
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  Speaker 1: hits for songs. She was definitely acting on a on
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  Speaker 1: a couple of Tyler Perry films. She want she don't
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  Speaker 1: have to funk for no job. That's Jennie Jensen. Janet
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  Speaker 1: Jackson was sucking for them lead roholes, Honey, Janet bo.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't understand why she Jermaine and Tyler Perry.
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  Speaker 1: That just don't seem right. She all got no preference.
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  Speaker 1: She just probably right. I don't see. She's probably just
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  Speaker 1: like good people. That's how she She probably just based
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  Speaker 1: it on goodness and ship. You know her voice sound
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  Speaker 1: like that's how she feels, like fucking rainbow bright Cariburians, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: I just really like people who are good and kind. Heller.
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  Speaker 1: You can imagine him doing that to her room to
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  Speaker 1: Janet Jackson, Chad Tyler, I like it when you do
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  Speaker 1: my dear voice in the bed, do it, Tyler, do it? Tyler, Heller,
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  Speaker 1: hellerge it. Let me stop, y'all so I guess we
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  Speaker 1: got to talk about the elephant in the room, what
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  Speaker 1: the whole world is talking about out. But before we
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  Speaker 1: do that, let's go to a break. We'll be right back.
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  Speaker 1: I know you've been talking about it all week, but
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  Speaker 1: we're about to talk about a little bit more. Will Smith,
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  Speaker 1: Chris Rock, Jada Pinkett smacks slapgate. Yo. Was it necessary? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes no, because we just got finished having an episode
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  Speaker 1: saying domestic violence is never necessary. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: that's counted as domestic violence, but it was violence, So
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  Speaker 1: violence is never necessary. How most change comes with violence.
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  Speaker 1: So maybe now Chris Rock will watch his sucking mouth
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  Speaker 1: about to do a comedy tour. His ticket sales went up,
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  Speaker 1: and he's about to say worse ship than he said
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  Speaker 1: then because Will Smith won't be there to smack his
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  Speaker 1: ass this time. I'll be unpaid and niggo to be
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  Speaker 1: there just in case, because I said, keep my wife
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  Speaker 1: therebut your motherfucking mouth. No, he's about to go crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that little part was added for us
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  Speaker 1: to meet. Okay, first of all, let me listen. Let
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  Speaker 1: y'all know that I believe that ship was fucking staged.
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  Speaker 1: This is a j also here and Will Smith had
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  Speaker 1: to add that keep my words name out your mouth
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  Speaker 1: to make it more convincible, because you know, that's like
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  Speaker 1: black people talk. If somebody say that ship, it gotta
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  Speaker 1: be real, right, Why what reason would they have to
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  Speaker 1: do that? Because the motherfucker Oscars ratings have been in
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  Speaker 1: the fucking trash can for hot for a decade or more.
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  Speaker 1: That's why this is the first year it was produced
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  Speaker 1: by a black man. Will Smith got his first Oscar.
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  Speaker 1: You smack a nigga, right, and then get the Best
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  Speaker 1: Actor awards shortly thereafter? You just acted and then you
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  Speaker 1: got an award for doing it. I don't think that
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  Speaker 1: was a nact. I really feel like he felt some
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  Speaker 1: type of way. I don't feel like Jada would want
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  Speaker 1: to use her ball head as a catalyst for ratings
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  Speaker 1: for the Oscar Awards, Like I'm sure they would be like,
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  Speaker 1: can we come up with something different to get in
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  Speaker 1: a fight about exself? For Jada ball is Like you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, I don't think that was it.
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  Speaker 1: I feel her pain ship. I would have been mad too,
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  Speaker 1: because I'd be feeling my ship and all the time
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  Speaker 1: with a shadow, so I was feeling my ship in
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  Speaker 1: watching the oscars like me and Jade ain't the same boat.
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  Speaker 1: God damn. All right, so let's talk about it as
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  Speaker 1: if it were real, right, Let's just say, let's just
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  Speaker 1: let's just say how to leave the fucking smack? Was
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  Speaker 1: the smack was real? Yes? But was the whole ordeal nonstage?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, it's real questionable. It's just like how
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  Speaker 1: Chris Rock look hands behind his back like he prepared
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  Speaker 1: to get smack. So do you feel like Jada Pinkett
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  Speaker 1: really got alopecia or she shaved her hand to be
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  Speaker 1: a part of the conspiracy theory? I believe she has alopecia.
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  Speaker 1: Her daughter has shaved her has had her head and
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  Speaker 1: shaved for the last how many years, and solidarity you
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  Speaker 1: know with her mom. So yeah, I believe that she
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  Speaker 1: does have alopecia. And she's a lot of black women
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  Speaker 1: have alopecia, a lot of us so a lot of
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  Speaker 1: women period. So if it were real, right, y'all know
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  Speaker 1: my stands on it, So let's say, was legit? Right?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Chris Rock pobably should have got smacked.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and and they're trying to
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  Speaker 1: say that he didn't know about her her medical condition
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  Speaker 1: right with just some bullshit because she's very vocal about it.
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  Speaker 1: And we talked about Will Smith and Jada Pekett. These
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  Speaker 1: ain't no regular niggas. Okay, he's there, Pick, that's the
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  Speaker 1: pit his peers. You see what I'm saying. This ain't
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  Speaker 1: no stranger. And even if they're not friends, even if
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  Speaker 1: they haven't kicked it in the last few years, they
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  Speaker 1: know each other. They know of each other Rock, but
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  Speaker 1: he may not. I didn't know she had alopecia to
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  Speaker 1: this ship happened. I heard, I heard she had alopecia.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know. I just thought she was just embracing
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  Speaker 1: her head like that. You know, older women like to
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  Speaker 1: cut their hair off, like especially. I can't speak for
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  Speaker 1: white women, but I know a lot of Black women.
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  Speaker 1: They'd be like, funk their hair. Once they start getting
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  Speaker 1: close to fifty, they'll be cutting it off or sister
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  Speaker 1: locks wanted the two. Y'all remember Chris Rock had that
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  Speaker 1: documentary Sorry good you remember? Do you remember Chris Rock
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  Speaker 1: had that um that good hair documentary? Yeah, so he
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  Speaker 1: knows like how important black women here is, Like Nigga
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  Speaker 1: you literally traveled the fucking world to see how much
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  Speaker 1: we spend on our hair. Not to mention Nigga spend
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of dumb money on stupid ship all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Why are you so concerned about black women in their hair?
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  Speaker 1: So I really feel like he probably should have been
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  Speaker 1: got smacked. And then like the g I Jane ship
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  Speaker 1: is like, you know, the strong black woman, like he
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  Speaker 1: was taking a punch of that too. It was a
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  Speaker 1: poor joke. Nobody even laughed at that ship, for they
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  Speaker 1: did kind of get up. I think Will Smith even
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  Speaker 1: might have chucked up a little bit. And then he
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  Speaker 1: looked over, Oh we're mad. I'm about to come up
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  Speaker 1: there and smacked the ship out of you. But I
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  Speaker 1: feel like his Everybody keeps saying that, but I feel
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  Speaker 1: like his laugh was a residual laugh from the previous
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  Speaker 1: whatever what was said, He was still in the midst
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  Speaker 1: of that. Now. You know how somebody can say some
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  Speaker 1: ship to you and you don't really catch it, but
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  Speaker 1: you did, is like subconsciously you heard it. I think
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  Speaker 1: that's what happened. We don't see when he got mad
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  Speaker 1: because it was off camera. We saw Jada rolling her
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  Speaker 1: eye and we saw him laughing, and the camera then
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  Speaker 1: went went to Chris. We don't know exactly when he
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  Speaker 1: got mad. We know the nigger got mad and he
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  Speaker 1: went up there and smacked the black man. Yep, smacked
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  Speaker 1: another black man right across the face. Um, live television.
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  Speaker 1: What Will Smith has smacked white man or a bigger man?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think? Yeah? I think so. I think he
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  Speaker 1: would have smacked anybody up there who was making them jokes,
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  Speaker 1: Will Smith, maybe not another woman. Jada would have went
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  Speaker 1: up there and smacked the bitch. Why she didn't smack
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  Speaker 1: Regina Hall? Then maybe those jokes were approved because um,
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  Speaker 1: they said that that joke was on the fly. Wasn't
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  Speaker 1: one of the jokes that had been approved for the show.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't coming from teleprompter. It was You think Will
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  Speaker 1: Smith and Jada was at home like okay? Because I
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  Speaker 1: remember two thousand sixteen, I think Chris Rock close to
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  Speaker 1: that oscar and they weren't there. Jada Pinkett was actually
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  Speaker 1: trying to boycott the Oscars and Chris Rock was talking
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  Speaker 1: shit about them, not he was a whole. So I
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  Speaker 1: wonder if they were at the house like shit, if
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  Speaker 1: this nigga said anything tonight I'm a smack as sucking ass,
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  Speaker 1: and she bright, I dare you, I dare you. I
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  Speaker 1: bet you, I will I bet you, I'll go up there.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna do ship? Will you ain't gonna do?
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  Speaker 1: She I dare you? And they probably had some drinks
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  Speaker 1: flowing that that ship. He was gonna go, Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: the joke wasn't that bad, Like, it really wasn't that bad.
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  Speaker 1: But I can, I can, I understand it. But was
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  Speaker 1: it like smack warranted? No, it wasn't. I don't feel
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  Speaker 1: like it was smack warranted. But I get why he
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  Speaker 1: got smacked. But he could have fought him after the
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  Speaker 1: show when everybody was drunk. That seemed like more like
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  Speaker 1: he would have did remember remember that ship you thought
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  Speaker 1: was so funny earlier tonight and then hit him like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I hit him with the Oscar across the dead He definitely,
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  Speaker 1: he definitely would have been looking at some other fucking
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  Speaker 1: charges at that point. That would have been a more
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  Speaker 1: professional way to handle it. I think, to smack him
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  Speaker 1: at an after party with the Oscar award after what
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  Speaker 1: after he got his award, you know, not during the
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  Speaker 1: actual show. Oh so, black women around the world are
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  Speaker 1: applauding will Smith, while black men are very divided and indifferent.
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  Speaker 1: You got a lot of black men that's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm smacking whoever about my wife, no matter what. But
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  Speaker 1: then you got others is like that wasn't you know,
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  Speaker 1: like we're saying like maybe it wasn't warranted, Like maybe, um,
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't that serious. They keep talking about August south Cinia.
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  Speaker 1: They keep bringing him into the equation like that should
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  Speaker 1: be Will Smith shouldn't stay take up for his wife
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  Speaker 1: because she sucked somebody else, Like y'all don't be fucking
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  Speaker 1: other people. All the time they had, they were in
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  Speaker 1: an open relationship. Apparently he not mad no more. White
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: y'all still mad about it. I don't have nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with the person to your china, Like I ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna fight over no woman who fucking more than me.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: That's what people are saying today. That was from I
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: was about to say, tain who was that? That was applied? Girl.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: First of all, you don't have a wife, Okay, let's
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: be clear. And y'all they talk about Jada Smith like
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: everybody loved Jada, loved Jade into that August has seen
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: a ship. Now she's just like the worst fucking woman
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: in the world. And that's not fair because men get
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: a second chance a million times, they get a million
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: second chances. And not only are y'all talking about her
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: like she's like the worst one in the world, you
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: also saying she's not worthy of being protected by her
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: own husband. Y'all stupid. Don't give a fun like if
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: they choose, if they wake up and choose each other
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: every day, no matter what's going on and their fucking lives,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: whose business is that? That's beautiful to me? Yes, like
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I want somebody who be about me like that too, Like,
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: no matter what's going on. They got children together, so
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: at the least that's his baby mama the fuck y'all stupid?
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: So you think Chloe should choose Tristan every time like that?
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: Did you you see how I throw a monkey rich
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: in that ship at y'all last? That is not her husband.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: You saw what Lamar Oldham said? What he said? Yeah,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: he said if he would have showed up for his
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: wife more, they probably still would have been married, if
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: he would have showed up for her emotionally. All those
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: this is what what black women are talking about when
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: we say we want to be protected, you know what
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, most of all, emotionally, we want to be
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: protected absolutely. So do you feel like you want your
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: husband to physically violate other people in your name even
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: though they're not being physical, because I mean, he could
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: have really gotten in some trouble you know for that.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: So are we protecting our men if we're saying yes,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: slap that niggas for saying that, are we protecting them? Okay? So,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: first of all, I'm never gonna intentionally send somebody I
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: love into harm's way, right, But we all know there
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: are such things as fighting words and fighting words are
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: could be subjective. You know what I'm saying. Certain things
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: might be fighting worries to you, sir, things might be
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: fighting worries to me. On that particular day, him calling
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: her g I Jane was fighting words. I mean, she
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: didn't really send him in there, but she didn't stop him.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's not now is Jada
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: also the bad person because she didn't stop him from
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: getting in trouble? But then we're supposed to let men
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: do what they want to do, right, We're supposed to
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: let men handle Let him man be a man and
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: just stay in y'all can't have it both ways. So
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: what I would saying earlier is that black women are like, yes,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: that's a smack for all black women who be getting
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: disrespected or whatever going for from this day for everybody
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: getting smacked, Like that's how black women feel now from
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: what I'm hearing. Yeah, but the only problem with that
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: is somebody's niggers got good. You bet. I'll be sitting
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: your man out the smack to see anybody because of
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: what they say, because your man might end up shot.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: It's not the same as the oscars. Every time real
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: life you can get pop. Yep, you're gonna get pop.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: You're going to jail. And these are things that people
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: do have to consider before they just roll up. Because
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: we're talking about two prominent people in the community, right
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: well everybody most we knew. Nobody was gonna die behind that,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: you know. And she was not an imminent danger, right
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: you know, she wasn't in danger. Chris Rock wasn't really
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: in danger. He just got smacked a little little tapped
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: on the face to be reminded not to play with
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Mike Laurie. He smacked the shut out of Pooky. It
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: wasn't even really like all right, wasn't really a smack
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: the ship out of it. Wasn't really we all saying
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: he got we'll smacked the ship out of Chris Rock.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: But then he really smacked the ship out of him.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: He had it was like it was like it was
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: like a faux finger slap, you know, it wasn't. It
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: was like a pap that nigga got papped. Okay, he
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: moved for most of it, like he was going down
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: as it was coming, So it wasn't. It wasn't like
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: a real slap. I feel like Rick James was smacking
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: motherfucker's harder than that in the eighties. Already he's backed
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: the ship out. Charlie Murphy got the ship smacked down
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: to him rest in peace. But I don't think it
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: was the same. So I guess I touched on a
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: little bit. So what I really want to talk about
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: today is what does it mean when black women say
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: they want to be protected. You know, we want men
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: to show up. Financially, we say we want a man
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: that's a provider, right, so we want provision. The other
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: major thing is protection, which is two different things. I
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: heard a man say yesterday how can I provide if
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I don't have any money? I mean, excuse me, how
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: can I protect if I don't have any money? And
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I'm like, provision and protection it's just two different categories.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: What you're talking about, willis it's two different things. Provided
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: for somebody and protecting somebody is two different things. So
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: what do black women mean or what do women mean
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: period when they say they want to protect her? What
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: does that mean to you? So you can have you
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: can be a protector with money, and you can be
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: a physical protector because I know it's a lot of
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: men who can protect you because they got security guards
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: and they can afford them, but they can't physically protect you.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of men out here like
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like I felt like I've
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: been with some niggas, Like if she really popped off,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: were both gonna have to fight our way out. I'm
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: not gonna be able to just stand back in let
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: my man that man save the day. He wasn't that
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: type of nigga, but I knew that about him. But
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: does that mean make him not a protector? He would
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: try We probably both get the ass beat out there
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: with him. I mean, everybody bound to lose at some
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: point in life, like some you all lose sometimes, But
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: do you just want to nigger that? I feel like, Okay,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: so let me tell you the difference to what I'm seeing.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock may not have made it, Like, say, for instances,
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Beyonce was in there with that same ball head. Would
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock have made that comment to to jay Z's wife?
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: But Beyonce, We're sitting there with a ball head right now,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I'm comparing. I'm comparing Will Smith and jay Z as men,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: the two type of men, right. I don't think that
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock would play with jay Z. I don't think
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock would have said that to Beyonce had Beyonce
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: been sitting there with a ball head because of who
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: her husband is and just the energy that comes with
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: jay Z. Like he don't feel like energy from Chris Rock,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I mean from Will Smith. Because people only play with
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: people they feel like they can play with. Well, yeah,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: I feel like people have been playing with Will Smith
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: for the past year or two. But that's because they
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: opened themselves up to be played with. With these red
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: table talks. You know, when you put yourself out there
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: like that, you do you do open yourself up for
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: that type of criticism. We don't know shit about what
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: jay Z and Beyonce really got going on, so they
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: don't make themselves the butt of any joke. Honestly, except
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: for in that elevator. That was the only time we
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: could ever make some fun, have some fun with jay
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Z and Beyonce, and it was barely then she wind
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: have made a song. Time out of course should go
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: down when it's a billion dollars on the elevator they
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: got the last laugh again. Oh my god, they have
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: my sick of y'all. Motherfucker's don't never lose boy. Yeah,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: but what I'm saying is we want we want a
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: man with that jay z Aura. Yeah, that's the like
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: even and I think that's what Will Smith was trying to,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: like reaffirming himself in that moment, not not just for
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: everybody else, but for himself as a man, like you're
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: gonna stop playing with us? And I don't, And I
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: don't think a lot of people consider that part of it,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: like consider that like perceiving in that way, like it
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: might not even have shipped to do with Jada, It
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: might have all to do with him in his manhood.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: That could be something he talked about a therapy. I know,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I have seen a review of his book. That's like
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: one of the things he talked about in his book.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: It's just like times he didn't show up. Oh he
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: didn't defend himself and ship like that. So that could
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: have been, Yes, that could have been therapeutic for him.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: It may not even have had ship to do with
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Jada was like his manhood has been being tested for
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: the last I don't know how many years now, at
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: least four years since that August has seen a ship,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: and now Jade with the ball head and now people
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: are like, oh, she's a man in the relationship. Come on,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: y'all right with all the memes and jokes, and I
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: know I didn't staying on here and crack some jokes too,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: you know, so everybody had jokes, but do it, but
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't have did it with Will sitting
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: right here. I propise you I wouldn't have did that.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: That's why he had to get smacked because I'm on
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: the front run. You're trying me and you're trying to
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: play with me like that. That's why he had to
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: get smacked and maybe maybe it wasn't that big of
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: an issue. Maybe he didn't say nothing that wrong. Now, honestly,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I haven't watched the full Oscars did you? Did you
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: watch the jokes leading up to the smack? I know,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I ain't never I ain't never watched the Oscars, the Oscar.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I respect, it's Oscar, Mayah, Like I don't eat them ship.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: So yeah, so that's not even for us. I feel
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: like I don't even know why we feel like. I mean,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I guess it's an accolade that people aspire to when
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: they're actors actors, But but we've just we we put
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: out so much great Why is Will Smith just getting
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: an Oscar the pursuit of happiness? Ali, think of all
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: these great ass roles that he has played and he's
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: just now getting an Oscar. Because you know, it's not
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: even for us, I'll be feeling like, So, I don't know.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: That's a different story. It was a lot of first
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Oscars in that knife for black people, and I just
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: hate that. I hate that first black person at first.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I hate that ship because it's just like fun the
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: people ship. Man. Yeah, like implying that we're just now
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: being great enough. No, you're just now recognizing the greatness
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: that's always been there. And that's the problem for me.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Now they always recognize it, that's the whole problem No
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: with within the ward, they see it, but they don't
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: recognize it within the war like they should, right right right,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: right right, yeah, but um for me just to go
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: circle back around. For me, protection looks like like me, Okay,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I always say partner selection is important. I'm not going
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: to select a partner that I don't feel like it's
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: going to protect me. Like if somebody run up in
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: our house, I gotta be the one getting a pistol,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I know I'm gonna
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: protect mine. So that's the same energy I need out
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: of a man. And even if jay z ain't ain't
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: a bout that life, he puts that energy off so
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: people might just not funk with him. It's just like
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: a dog that shows teeth at least, like you want
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: to bark a little bit something like I don't want
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: a passive, timid man that anybody can just play with, yes,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: because now you can't play with me. So now here
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: I am always trying to defend me and my man,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: and they already say black women aggressive, and that's the
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: whole g I. Jane ship. That's why I get from that,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: That's what I get from that. You're saying that in
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: a room full of soft white women that you have
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: this ball head, militant g I Jane black woman like
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: we we we we we can never be soft, we
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: can never. And she was beautiful, she looks so beautiful. Listen,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: everybody can't rock the ball head like that girl hard
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: for me, me too, this schoolball had I got with
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: that girl. I'm looking stupid girl. Everybody cannot rock a
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: ball hair like that would be a real like I
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: would be like depressed about that ship. I would be
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: at the Oscars with a wigging like. But listen, she
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: she may have been depressing, you know, try to reaffirm herself.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: And what was you know said she don't give a
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: funk about that ball head like she had a pickin. No,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: she find its hell like she come from a long
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: lineage and find bitches obviously because her mom wall find
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: it hell. So I don't think that. But you know,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: black women we know like the hair like we're big
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: on hair. Chris Rock also knows that. Like I said,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: you you did the whole good hair thing the funk
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: with us. Then then then here comes Jim Carrey ass
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: with an opinion stay out of black people business. That
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: was a black that's a black moment, and stay out
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: of it. And it's just like black people like, oh
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: not at the Oscars. Why would we do that in
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: front of people, first of all white people, in front
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: of these good white folks. That's how they was at
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: hand peg nigga, no stop a sim I'm tired of
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: assimilating the codes with you. Y'all gonna get this realness.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: You're allowed to have emotions, were allowed to have feelings.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: We don't have to be good good dot said black
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: people for y'all. All right, so y'all want to hear
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: my conspiracy ship about already said I have the leadership
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: was real now, but oh, let me pour me a
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: drink first before we do this ship. I want you already.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I just want y'all to google like humiliation rituals and
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: the things that these people do in holly weird like
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: people like to call it. Just google it. The statue
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: that you receive at the Oscars is actually a uh
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Egyptian mythology. God Pata just look it up. And if
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: you look at the back, like behind the people speaking
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: at the oscars, you see all these pyramids and triangles
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: and ship. Was it a ritual? Was it a humiliation
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: ritual for Chris Rock? Maybe it was one for Will Smith?
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Will never know, but I just want to put that
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: out there in your brains. I know people think I'm insane,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: but a lot of ship be making sense. I'm right around.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: And that's what we have. In this week's episode of
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: A Jay's Conspiracy Theory, Lollo had mercy. Y'all, No, but
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: I saw that movie oswy Shut and they was doing
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: something weird. That is one of man that movie right there.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Yes see, I like to feed the beat sometimes, y'all
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: see how hype? Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: That's that ship right there. They put, They put ship ins,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: They put things in movies because they have to. They
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: have to get our consent. That's all it's about. It's
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: about consent and compliance, consent compliance. So they put these
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: things out there right maybe via movies, news, something on Instagram, timeline.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: They have we have to comply, We have to give
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: our consent for them to do the dumb ship to
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: us and we can't. We can't continue to give our consent.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: So if that ship a J was talking, really get
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: your juices flowing, you should watch love Craft Country. Have
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: you ever seen that? You know? You know why I
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: got canceled. I know that made your a little pussy
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: with Look. I love love Craft Country because and it
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: got canceled because it shows black magic, like the real
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: black magic, black magic that black people possess. And now
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: you're from Charleston, I know they'd be down there doing that.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Ship Me bitch, why don't you fucking zessed up me
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: some money, put something in your cauldron, Put in your cauldron,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: pot a spell for me to be a rich bach. Okay,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: but one thing for sure, Philly was turned up this week,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: ain't God damn? And I just want to say, just
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: because Will Smith smacked somebody, don't mean all of y'all
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: won't get y'all as be you have because you called
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: niggers from up north come down South and yeah, yeah
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: it really Yeah, Philly, bitch, I hear meat meals all
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: right down the street. Everybody playing meat meals. Everybody ordered
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Philly cheese steaks sandwich. Is this week like relax? Relax,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: you're doing too much. Okay, because well Smith was living
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: fresh Prince the Bare forever. Okay that they finally snap
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: a motherfucker. Okay, y'all feeling people was extra filling yourself
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: this week, the dreams of nightmares and niggers relaxed. Ye
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: oh goodness, shame, shame. Look y'all, we got a dumb
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: bitch story. We're gonna take a break. We'll be right
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: back dumb bitched stories because we've all got a dumb
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: bitch at least once in t our. Al Right, So
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: I got a dumb bit story. The email comes from
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: one of our listeners. It says, what's up, Tam Bam
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and a J. I'm your number one fan. Don't you
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: like um? Let's see you hold on. I'm your number
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: one fan. I love your podcast. We talked back. I
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: feel the conversations and topics are necessary and should be
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: discussed because everyone goes through real ship when listening to
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: the show. It's time for me to get away from
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: real life and enjoy a good old girl time with
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: you too. So here's my dumb bitch story. I feel
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I never truly got away from being a dumb bitch
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: because frankly, a girl is lonely because all I do
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: is work, take care of my kids, and go to school.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: Also and the voice of viral TikTok video voice over,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I don't want peace, I want problems always. I never
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: heard that. You heard that before. I don't know that
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: one me either. Okay, but anyway, more moving forward, she says, So,
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  Speaker 1: I am currently pursuing my graduate degree in social work.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: I attend to class every Saturday and cohort of twenty
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: one students. We have been together through the whole m
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  Speaker 1: s W. That's the Masters of Social Work program for
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: almost three years, in which I graduate in excuse me,
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: and which she graduates on twelve. Okay, girl, then some
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: nice numbers can't fucking wait me. There's a guy in
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: my class that I have a huge crush on. He
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: has a great body, he's smart and has big dreams
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: regarding achieving his goals, and he already has his own business. Anyway,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: my ass is supposed to be focusing in class instead
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: of mesmerized. Excuse me, let me go. Anyway, he was
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: doing good, girl, you allow was proud of you. Shut up. Anyway,
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: my ass is supposed to be focusing in class. Instead,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: I'm mesmerized by his chest, the way he moves, how
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: he smells, the way he looks at me. I know
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: I'm crazy as hell. My class has gone to lunch
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: a couple of times between classes, down to a bar
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: called Slides. Him and I had flirted back and forth
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: a couple of times, but we don't go further than
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: that because he has a girlfriend and I'm married. I
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: was only here come exactly right, so she says. I
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: was only twenty one years old when I got married,
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: never had any opportunity to explore life. Now I'm forty
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: five years old. My husband and I have had our
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: ups and downs. My husband seems not to want to
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: evolve with me. I try to motivate him, but he
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: wants to start projects and not finish them, creating uh websites,
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: giving up or pursuing certificates and data analysis training and
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: then stopping. This leaves us to financial binds, but has
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: made me depend on myself. I'm pretty sure I still
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: have scars from the time. During our marriage. Things became
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: so financially challenging that I was almost homeless with our
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: two children, and he went to live with his mom
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: to pursue a degree in business, but did not achieve
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: much after that. They say marriage takes two. So that's
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: why I begin to work on myself, pursue my education
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: to become financially independent. But it seems that the more
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: I work on myself, the more the more it separates us.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: I love my husband, but the romance is gone. It
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: feels that just do your best, baby. Oh no, let
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: me find my dad plays. It feels that he is
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: with me for convenience. What is a girl supposed to do?
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'd be wasting my life trying to
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: stay in marriage that does not seem to evolve with
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: time best regards love you guys, should you stay with
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: your husband or get with the dude in your class?
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: That's essentially that's essentially the U. And it's really not
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: the guy in her class because he has a girlfriend, right,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: But it's just it sounds like, you know, moving on.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. So I feel like she's doing the right
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: thing by focusing on herself, because you know, the whole
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: family goes down with mom ain't good, right, so she
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: has to um And then that is that's really rough
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: because your husband has put you in a position like to,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: you can't depend on him. And that's the thing we
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: were talking about, the protection and providing, like those things
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: go together. Now you can you're now you're in a
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: marriage where you can't depend on your partner to make
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: sure y'all are okay. That's you and your two kids
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: and him because you love him too, so you care
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: about his well being. So what do you do in
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: that situation? And then she's saying, the more education she gets,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: the better she's becoming, the more distant they're growing apart,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: all right. Yeah, So the whole in me saying, girl,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: have your fun, live your life. You only get one.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Maybe have a rendezvous with the dude and declare room
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: and then keep your husband. That's the whole in me.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: But the suitable sensible woman in me says, focus on
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: the paperwork in your head lap and not the nigga
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: in the chair in front of you, and see if
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: you can save your marriage. And if you can't save it,
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: if you find that it's in salvageable is that a word.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: If you can't salvage your marriage, then it's hot girl,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: summer baby, come back outside. I've been Mary since one.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: She never had one, She never had one. Yeah, but
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: hot girl summer at forty five two kids is different, Tanny.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Let's just be honest, says who says forty five year
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: old woman with two kids? Like, what are you talking about?
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: Like you have a lot more responsibilities. She has a
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: lot more responsibilities than you and I having a hot
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: girl summer. That's why I said, Like, if her relationship
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: is not salvageable, I said, try to salvage it. But
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: if it's not salvageable, she has to decide what she
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: wants for her own happiness. Right, So I've seen this
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: post one time. It was like, is happiness killing marriages?
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: You know, because that's always the woman's thing. I'm not happy,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I want to be happy. Do men sacrifice their happiness
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: for their families? Men? They might go outside to complete
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: the happiness, but they used exactly. So you know, there's
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: always a study that comes up. Men love to read
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: the study about how it is. You know, whatever the percentages,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: it's a higher higher percentage of women that file for divorce.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: We know as fact that married women don't live as
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: long as single women been married men live longer than
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: saying longer, right, because women's been like trying to be
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: happy in an unhappy space, and they only wanting to
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: cheat on their husband and they want to divorce and
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: then go out. And that's that's why I that the
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: hole of me said, go do what he they do.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: But the good girl to me says, try to say,
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: alvage you're marriage. But getting the dick on the side
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: is not going to give and it's not going to
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: provide for her family. Getting that side dick is not
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: going to provide for a family. She says, she already
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: provided for her family. That's what I'm saying. But how
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: does the dick on the side. She she wants a provider,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: She wants her partner to help her. How does a
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: dick on the side solve that issue? It doesn't you
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: just letting somebody else use your pussy? I say, leave
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: the marriage if it comes down to that, y'all, can't
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: you know, go to therapy, try to work on things.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: If you can no longer communicate with your partner. Because
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: she said, the romance is gone, gone, And that's where
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: the dick and the side come in. What you're talking about,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. She said, the
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: romance is gone. I said the hole in me says,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: have your fund and then work on your marriage like
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: men do all the time. Or you can focus on
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: your school work and all your goals and work on
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: your marriage and if it's not salvageable, then come outside.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Those are your options. Those are really her options. Is
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: there any other option? Do what's right and try to
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: make it work, or do what's wrong and have fun.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: Those are the only two options. God, dad, boy, women
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: got it hard. You niggas always be like, oh, what
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: what do we get out of marriage? What y'all get
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: a bitch whole life? What do you mean y'all get
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: our bodies, y'all suck the body up with the babies,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: all these different things. What do you mean what do
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: you get out of goddamn marriage? I say, go try
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: therapy first, man, this try therapy. You don't know what
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: type of du with this is in your class. You
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: don't know what type of issues his girlfriend dealing with
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: from him. And if he even just flirting with your ass,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: he probably dtf down to the grass. Ain't always greener,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: she said. Her nigga left her almost homeless with two
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: kids and went to his mama house. You know, actually
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: it's said homeless. So it sounds like he went to
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: his mom this. I would assume this would have been
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: earlier on in their relationship, but they had the two
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: kids at the time. She didn't really need She didn't
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: list like the age of the children currently, so I
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: can't I can't gauge how old. It sounds like there's
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: some resentment there. M hmm, right. I would definitely resent
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: have some resentment if I knew that. Like, I'm out
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: here with these kids and you at your mama house.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Is she making you tuna sandwiches and ship and you
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: gotta degree you ain't using it for real? It sounds
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: like so she probably had some resentment. She might not
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: even want to make that ship work. She probably tired.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: I told you, like, listen, one person forever sound like
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: a long time to me. I don't know. When you
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: get married at twenty one, Yes, it's a long time.
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: That's why I feel like when people should get married
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: closer to, like, you know, thirty five, maybe thirty five forty, Like, honestly,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: you gotta have time to have funds to really know
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: what you want in the marriage with somebody not supposed
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: to be with. I don't know, something must be y'all listen.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Don't listen to nothing I say because I just don't
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: motherfuck no, because it sounds like I just haven't met
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: nobody that I could see past five years. I won't
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: say that. Okay, So I feel you can love somebody
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: longer than five I mean, not love them, but like
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: want to fund them over and over again after if
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: things are good. If things are good, yeah, if they
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: I don't like the same, that same old stroke coming
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: into being are day because it's not all about it.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: I like sex, don't get me wrong, bitch. I love
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: like good sex. But intimacy to me, it is not
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: just sucking sex. It's all the other things telling me
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I look good, just complimenting me, just touching, all that stuff,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: all that ship weans and wanes off, overturn and then
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: you roommates, and no, man, let me tell you, if
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: you are not doing things daily to continuously fall in
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: love with you're mate, you're falling out of love. So
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: every day I have to choose each other, just like
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Well and Jada, no matter what the situation is, every
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: day they choose each other. They are a good example,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: but they was getting dick and pussy outside of the relationship.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's the answer. That might be the key. Yeah. Okay,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: so here for our listener, maybe you should suggest to
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: your husband an open relationship boom solve everything. I bet
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: you he'd be slapping motherfucker's by you by next summer. Bitch,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: are you ball headed? Because if you're ball headed, he's
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: gonna be smacking niggas about your ass by next summer.
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: I promise, or introduced him to that nigked from your class.
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: If you see that, you know other niggas that's doing well,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: might that might uh, that might make him put a
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: little pep in his step if you know he got
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: a little bit of friendly competition. Friendly. Yeah, but listen,
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: congratulations to you on your education, my sister. We're very
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: proud of you. Keep raising them sweet babies, and let
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: us know what you decide. We want to hear. I
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: don't want to hear what you decide. But don't listen.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: Listen to a j don't listen to me. I don't
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: know that I ain't got no man or no husband.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Yes man, oh wait, I have a random sex fact
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: for us, so it says most of us don't know
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: that all babies have the exact same genital tissue. When
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: they are conceived. At about twelve weeks, each baby's genitalia
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: begins to differentiate into a penis or a labia. We
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: are more like than we are different. The clitterers and
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: the penis are the same materials assembled in a different way.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: The clitterers has glands, a foreskin, a ractile tissue, a
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: very small chaft, and all the parts that the penis has.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: It even swells when rowse. So basically we just have
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: dicks that didn't grow Where the hole comes from. Now,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like the ureadthrough hole like for
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: a man. I'm talking about our vaginal hole. Where did
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: that whole come from? If we were all the same
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: sex at some point, So they grow a dick out
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: their hole and we have that opening the vaginal canal. Listen,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to sk psychology today dot com. That
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: question sitting there with email beach, that's all they put.
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know, imagine imagine being our big age and
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: not knowing about this pussy. A lot of women don't
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: know a lot about their vaginas in that way. Did
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: you know that Jina was a dick? I mean, I
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: mean not really a dick, but like no, like a
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: little dick. No, no, the yeah, the clotorius is essentially
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: a small penis. But I've always thought that all embryo's
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: war were not a sexual. I guess maybe we were
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: all a sexual at some point, but I always and
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: then the penis grows for the ones that's going to
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: have a penis, That's what I always says. It says
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: we don't have a sex yet. At twelve weeks, that's
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: when our gender tellia begins to get a sexual into
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: a penis or a labia. So we just little tadpoles,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: little yeah, little tadpoles waiting to give the fuck Christ
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: the funk man. Y'all want her? Who want me? For real?
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: I don't nobody want me? By my mom and my daddy.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: He said, what's the moral of today's episode? Smack a
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: motherfucker if necessary. That's not the morals. I thought you
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: was gonna say something like there's all these different religions
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: and groups out here, and they're waiting to humiliate you
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: the first chance they get so they can have a
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: ritual under the moon, like some bullshit like that. Shut up,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: it's not anyway. I'm gonna start a whole conspiracy podcast
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: without your asks. You watch listen, you we should. We're
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: gonna start a segment for you just on our show
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: that's called A J's Conspiracy Theories, so you and your
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: tribe can come together. And yeah, I'm gonna start breaking
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: down some of this ship that we'll be seeing on TV.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: I'm just start giving my little little takes on it. Girl,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: you don't even watch TV because that right, And that's
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: why my mind is so open, because I don't be
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: watching them. The television telling me lies visually, you know
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: what say? Yeah, I'm a hole, tap hotel up, just me,
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: I come in peace. That's it. You spell a whole
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: wrong bit, ain't no tell just a whole all right,
• 52:12
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• 52:32
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