Latest / Black Girls Are Easy Podcast / G.L. Lambert Podcast Preview - Law Of Attraction
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- 0:01That's it, ain't. They'll drag their feet knowing that you're a placeholder until
- 0:15they find that next woman. And sometimes the scary thing is that next woman
- 0:19doesn't come, so the woman assumes, Oh, he hasn't left me yet,
- 0:22or he leaves and comes back, I must got what he wants.
- 0:25No, he's just lazy and the game's changing and he can't find somebody as
- 0:28fucking dumb as you. And that's a good strong word that you use.
- 0:31They're lazy, belet Even a lot of women are also lazy as well.
- 0:35We don't want to play the artist seduction. We don't want to take the
- 0:38time to unravel a man, get to know a man his mind, you
- 0:44know what he's willing to do. We're just going for Okay, he looks
- 0:48good, he he has money. He might not be spending it on me,
- 0:50but I would sleep with him and the sex is going to be so
- 0:52good that I'm an lock him down and like so many girls have that mentality,
- 0:56he can come back. Oh pluse, he must be good, he
- 0:58must love me. And it's like, no, I don't think that's because
- 1:00if he's coming back, that means he's leaving, you know exactly, some
- 1:06of it's daddy issues, you know, the abandonment, some of its self
- 1:08esteem issues growing up. Maybe they were teased about certain things. They never
- 1:14really felt confident growing up as a youth. So I mean, what you
- 1:17think you cross twenty one and all of a sudden turn into Cinderella. It
- 1:21doesn't happen like that. It's like a constant, like it's a daily like
- 1:25practice. It's like brushing your teeth. You know. You have to just
- 1:27validate yourself every single day. Validate yourself, validate yourself, validate yourself.
- 1:33So that way, when a man comes along, you're not seeking it from
- 1:37him, you know, but you're recognized. Like this man sees in me
- 1:41what I see in myself. Okay, he understands, Okay, we can
- 1:45move forward, and I kind of backtracks him to what he originally wanted to
- 1:49speak to me about, which the law of attraction, the law of attraction,
- 1:51the law of attraction, the law of attraction, the law of attraction,