Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / Teaching Kids About Periods [with Kate Andrews from Wild Creative Australia]
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Today on The Happy Family's podcast, You Got Me Kylie Coulson,
- 0:09Speaker 1: missus Happy Families. I'm flying solo. The surf's pumping and
- 0:13Speaker 1: Justin's left me at the desk. I'm not sure how
- 0:16Speaker 1: this is going to go. What did your parents teach
- 0:20Speaker 1: you about your first period? Was it even discussed or
- 0:23Speaker 1: was it taboo? Were you nervous anxious? Did you dread
- 0:26Speaker 1: it coming? Did you feel embarrassed and want to hide
- 0:28Speaker 1: it from everyone? Today on the podcast, a conversation about
- 0:32Speaker 1: periods and the importance of empowering our girls with knowledge
- 0:36Speaker 1: about their bodies and how they work. Hello, Welcome to
- 0:42Speaker 1: the Happy Families podcast, where you get real parenting solutions.
- 0:45Speaker 1: Every day we're breaking them mold. Justin's gone surfing, He's
- 0:49Speaker 1: left me in charge. I'm not sure how this is
- 0:51Speaker 1: going to go, but we're going to give it our
- 0:54Speaker 1: very best shot. Today we're speaking with Kate Andrews. She's
- 0:58Speaker 1: the visionary founder of Wild Creative offering holistic education and
- 1:04Speaker 1: Rights of Passage programs. Nature is her classroom and she
- 1:08Speaker 1: runs a youth well being homeschool program outdoors all year round.
- 1:13Speaker 1: She also facilitates Rights of Passage retreats and camps aimed
- 1:16Speaker 1: at preteens and teens so they receive more meaningful puberty
- 1:20Speaker 1: and period education. She feels all girls deserve to know
- 1:24Speaker 1: their bodies are unique, ever, changing, and sacred, and there
- 1:28Speaker 1: is a great power within the transformation that occurs with change.
- 1:32Speaker 1: She believes all boys should feel safe enough to show
- 1:34Speaker 1: the vulnerability that's required for healthy self expression without being
- 1:40Speaker 1: criticized for it. Kate, you're a really big believer in
- 1:45Speaker 1: period education. Why how does that come about?
- 1:49Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:50Speaker 3: I really believe that menstal health is connected to mental
- 1:53Speaker 3: health and overall health outcomes. And you know how person
- 1:58Speaker 3: is made to feel about their body and period is
- 2:01Speaker 3: you know, the messages they receive during adolescence hugely impacts
- 2:04Speaker 3: how they feel about those things. And if a girl
- 2:08Speaker 3: is made to feel ashamed of her period and changing body,
- 2:13Speaker 3: that's going to impact the way that she treats her
- 2:16Speaker 3: body potentially for her whole life. So I think period
- 2:21Speaker 3: education is deeply important because a period is just the
- 2:26Speaker 3: natural function of the female body, right, Yeah, and girls
- 2:30Speaker 3: deserve to actually feel comfortable with that instead of afraid
- 2:34Speaker 3: or nervous or scared or pretending like it's not there.
- 2:38Speaker 3: So that's why I think period education is hugely important.
- 2:41Speaker 3: We also live in a culture that still really favors productivity,
- 2:46Speaker 3: which I think comes at great cost to girls and
- 2:48Speaker 3: women because we're not designed to thrive in that kind
- 2:52Speaker 3: of environment. And if a girl, you know, the hormones
- 2:55Speaker 3: that make us create, release an egg and then menstruate,
- 3:03Speaker 3: I actually they affect our mood, our energy, our focus.
- 3:07Speaker 3: And if a girl is made to feel there's something
- 3:09Speaker 3: wrong with her because she's feeling really flat, or in
- 3:13Speaker 3: pain with PMS and cramps, or just cannot focus, that's
- 3:19Speaker 3: going to affect her mental health and her health outcomes
- 3:21Speaker 3: and the way she treats herself in the future.
- 3:24Speaker 1: I'm listening to what you're sharing and I'm wondering what
- 3:26Speaker 1: your experience was growing up in relation to how you
- 3:31Speaker 1: were educated and how the messages that you received were internalized.
- 3:37Speaker 2: Yeah, great question for me. I did receive a basic education.
- 3:41Speaker 3: From my mum when I was twelve, and I got
- 3:44Speaker 3: my period at thirteen, but there was absolutely nothing about
- 3:49Speaker 3: the energy shifts within the month and how I could
- 3:52Speaker 3: harness them to better get through life and manage my
- 3:56Speaker 3: own energy and moods. It was much more again of
- 4:00Speaker 3: that pushing through and the most important part really is
- 4:04Speaker 3: I'm perimenopausal now, which is the second adolescence, and no
- 4:09Speaker 3: one gave me, i think, any of our generation and
- 4:11Speaker 3: probably one hundreds going back, any education about what perimenopause is.
- 4:16Speaker 3: But this is what made me write the body Wise
- 4:20Speaker 3: of Puberty in Period Guidebook, because I realized that it
- 4:24Speaker 3: isn't just getting a period and oh, welcome to womanhood.
- 4:28Speaker 3: It's actually an entire life cycle where you are completely
- 4:34Speaker 3: reconfiguring yourself at key points. So you know, at puberty,
- 4:39Speaker 3: we are completely our brains, our bodies, the way we
- 4:42Speaker 3: think about ourselves, our identity, the way we interact, the
- 4:45Speaker 3: way we feel emotionally, everything is completely reconfigured.
- 4:50Speaker 2: And that same thing happens at perimenopause.
- 4:53Speaker 3: So I really feel our period education was severely lacking,
- 4:58Speaker 3: because it's something that a period is something you get
- 5:01Speaker 3: four hundred and fifty times on average in your life,
- 5:04Speaker 3: and we should be made to feel empowered by it,
- 5:07Speaker 3: not to ignore it.
- 5:09Speaker 1: It's interesting because my experience was very similar to yours
- 5:12Speaker 1: growing up. I wasn't phased by getting a period. I
- 5:17Speaker 1: didn't get mine until I was about fourteen, but I
- 5:20Speaker 1: didn't understand the cycle that my body was going through
- 5:24Speaker 1: and all of those things, And it just makes me
- 5:27Speaker 1: wonder how much harder it was for our parents and
- 5:31Speaker 1: even their parents going through this process, which happens to
- 5:34Speaker 1: more than fifty percent of the population, and not fully
- 5:38Speaker 1: understanding it and understanding how to empower themselves through that process.
- 5:44Speaker 1: And I thought it was interesting you mentioned this idea
- 5:47Speaker 1: of women having to push through to keep busy, and
- 5:52Speaker 1: I really resonate with that because I think so many
- 5:54Speaker 1: times women feel that in order to I guess, have
- 5:59Speaker 1: a sense of war eth they they have to be busy,
- 6:03Speaker 1: they have to be producing something that suggests that they
- 6:07Speaker 1: have meaning and worth in life in general. And I
- 6:10Speaker 1: think that that's a really that's really important for us
- 6:14Speaker 1: to kind of, I.
- 6:15Speaker 2: Guess, be gentler on ourselves, right.
- 6:18Speaker 1: Yeah, be gentler on ourselves and debunk that myth. Yeah, Like,
- 6:21Speaker 1: our worth isn't about busyness, about production, about you know,
- 6:26Speaker 1: our output. Our worth is just being you know, we're
- 6:30Speaker 1: worthy beings just for being here. So we're talking about
- 6:34Speaker 1: period education and I know that for you, you think
- 6:38Speaker 1: that early education is vital for our girls specifically. Why
- 6:43Speaker 1: is this?
- 6:44Speaker 3: Well, I think that the key thing is it's actually
- 6:47Speaker 3: about relationship building. So as a parent, if you make
- 6:52Speaker 3: yourself a trusted resource for your kid to come and
- 6:54Speaker 3: ask you real questions, honest questions, awkward questions. Because we
- 6:59Speaker 3: didn't have a lot of foundational information to draw on.
- 7:03Speaker 3: We're all flying by the seat of our pants, really,
- 7:05Speaker 3: aren't we. In so many ways. I really feel that
- 7:09Speaker 3: you get to control the narrative. You also get to
- 7:12Speaker 3: create yourself as a trusted resource for when things get
- 7:15Speaker 3: curly when they're adolescents, and it will get curly, right,
- 7:20Speaker 3: And it's actually about empowering them to understand what's happening
- 7:25Speaker 3: inside their bodies like it's real, you know, it's not
- 7:29Speaker 3: something that we can sort of pretend and gloss over.
- 7:32Speaker 3: Puberty and adolescence and some of those seismic changes, they're
- 7:36Speaker 3: sismic changes. They are profound to the individual. And I
- 7:40Speaker 3: think we have a responsibility to really give the education
- 7:44Speaker 3: that our kids deserves so they can better just manage
- 7:49Speaker 3: how they change and why they change.
- 7:52Speaker 2: You know.
- 7:52Speaker 3: It's like, I guess again, I want to fall back
- 7:55Speaker 3: on my experience of paramenopause, because in the first few
- 7:59Speaker 3: years I just had no framework and I was just
- 8:02Speaker 3: reactive and feeling like I was falling apart.
- 8:04Speaker 2: And that's a horrible feeling. You feel like you're failing
- 8:07Speaker 2: no matter what you're trying to do, and our kids
- 8:11Speaker 2: feel like that.
- 8:12Speaker 3: I think puberty is equally seismic and profound because it
- 8:16Speaker 3: changes you on every single level. And instead of creating
- 8:20Speaker 3: a support structure for that, we really are just pushing
- 8:24Speaker 3: through and kind of glossing over moments that could be
- 8:28Speaker 3: really profound in terms of our kids feeling like, oh, yes,
- 8:33Speaker 3: I know what that is because Mum or Dad or
- 8:35Speaker 3: you know whoever it is told me.
- 8:37Speaker 2: I get it. Thank goodness for that. You know that information.
- 8:42Speaker 3: Now I know what to do with myself. I know
- 8:45Speaker 3: that this will pass. You know, these sorts of things
- 8:47Speaker 3: sound really obvious when you say them, but you really
- 8:51Speaker 3: don't feel that way when you're the person that's changing.
- 8:54Speaker 2: It's like just white knuckling through.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Today we're speaking with Kate Andrews. She's the visionary founder
- 9:08Speaker 1: of Wild Creative. She also facilitates Rights of Passage retreats
- 9:12Speaker 1: and camps aimed at preteens and teens so they receive
- 9:16Speaker 1: more meaningful puberty and period education. We have six girls
- 9:20Speaker 1: in our house, and clearly there is a lot of
- 9:23Speaker 1: hormones going on regularly. But one of the things that
- 9:30Speaker 1: I have been really grateful throughout my process is just
- 9:34Speaker 1: learning to be a little bit more gentle with myself.
- 9:36Speaker 1: And I've learned that probably a lot later in my
- 9:38Speaker 1: life than I would have liked to. And I would
- 9:44Speaker 1: say it's that self education as we've gone through perimenopause
- 9:49Speaker 1: and just feeling that lack of control over what's going
- 9:54Speaker 1: on and understanding it. But I think that you're right.
- 9:58Speaker 1: It has gifted my girl an opportunity to watch me
- 10:02Speaker 1: go through it and recognize the areas in which they
- 10:06Speaker 1: can be gentler on themselves as well. So I love
- 10:10Speaker 1: that you've written a book, you said, called body Wise,
- 10:15Speaker 1: a Puberty and Period Guide. Tell me about that. What's
- 10:19Speaker 1: the education process that you're taking people through? Is this
- 10:22Speaker 1: written for teenagers like girls going through puberty? Is this
- 10:27Speaker 1: for parents? How does this work?
- 10:30Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 10:31Speaker 3: So a lot of the books out there, as a parent,
- 10:33Speaker 3: I felt like I couldn't leave in the bookshelf because
- 10:36Speaker 3: there'd be like a section that was, for example, around
- 10:38Speaker 3: sex education or things like that that my kids weren't
- 10:42Speaker 3: ready for.
- 10:43Speaker 2: So I really designed this book to be left around.
- 10:46Speaker 3: It can be read from seven years plus. It can
- 10:50Speaker 3: be read with your parent or alone. There's journal pages
- 10:54Speaker 3: in there to encourage self reflection because often kids have
- 10:58Speaker 3: a lot more resilience, a lot more emotional intelligence, and
- 11:02Speaker 3: a lot more self awareness than we give them credit for,
- 11:05Speaker 3: or that they actually have an opportunity to share because
- 11:08Speaker 3: often we are telling them things, we're not asking questions.
- 11:12Speaker 2: So that was a really important.
- 11:13Speaker 3: Part of it. It's also designed to be like a
- 11:17Speaker 3: personal resource, but the way it's designed, it's got a
- 11:21Speaker 3: lot of nature elements throughout. Visually that I work in nature.
- 11:26Speaker 3: I'm a holistic educator, so I run like a nature
- 11:28Speaker 3: school for social emotional learning. So I spent a lot
- 11:31Speaker 3: of time outdoors and seeing the connection that we have
- 11:35Speaker 3: not just as women, but as human beings with the
- 11:37Speaker 3: natural world. So there's a lot of threads of that
- 11:39Speaker 3: throughout because I feel like that's deeply relatable. You know,
- 11:44Speaker 3: instead of telling someone that you know there's seasons within
- 11:47Speaker 3: your cycle, your monthly cycle.
- 11:50Speaker 2: By observing nature and its seasons and it's.
- 11:54Speaker 3: You know, life, death, rebirth cycle, you actually are organically
- 11:59Speaker 3: and you know, yeah, you're organically honoring what's happening within
- 12:03Speaker 3: you as people?
- 12:05Speaker 2: Does that make sense?
- 12:05Speaker 1: Yeah? I love that.
- 12:06Speaker 3: We just don't get kids enough kind of credit that
- 12:10Speaker 3: they can take in information, you know that doesn't have
- 12:13Speaker 3: to be cartoony, you know what I mean? So this
- 12:15Speaker 3: is really I work with a lot of neurodiverse kids too.
- 12:18Speaker 3: I mean to me, it's all diversity because I work
- 12:21Speaker 3: in nature and we need diversity to thrive. But that's
- 12:24Speaker 3: a whole other podcast, isn't it. Yeah, So there's a
- 12:29Speaker 3: lot of you know, a lot of that in the book,
- 12:31Speaker 3: and it's really it's We've got everything from anatomy and
- 12:35Speaker 3: the physical changes to the mental emotional ones, and how
- 12:38Speaker 3: looking after your mental emotional health is equally important as
- 12:42Speaker 3: looking after your physical health, and just looking at it
- 12:45Speaker 3: from a really holistic standpoint.
- 12:47Speaker 1: So did you envisage that this is something that parents
- 12:50Speaker 1: would work alongside their kids or is this being written
- 12:55Speaker 1: like in a way that a seven year old could
- 12:57Speaker 1: pick it up and actually work through it on their own.
- 13:00Speaker 3: Absolutely, it's written in a way that's it's not walls
- 13:03Speaker 3: of text.
- 13:05Speaker 2: So I've written it really.
- 13:06Speaker 3: Consciously where the illustrations will say what I'm saying in
- 13:10Speaker 3: the words. If you know, because kids sometimes don't want
- 13:13Speaker 3: to read. This is not a topic that kids go grouse. Yeah,
- 13:17Speaker 3: let's read about pubity. Awesome, thanks, I want to know
- 13:19Speaker 3: about my period. It's interactive with the journal pages and
- 13:22Speaker 3: self reflection stuff as well as educational.
- 13:27Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. I love that. I was thinking
- 13:30Speaker 1: about this idea of rights of passage and I with
- 13:36Speaker 1: Justin's work. We have talked a lot about different cultures
- 13:39Speaker 1: and there are definitely some cultures that do this process
- 13:44Speaker 1: better than others, and I think as an Australian culture
- 13:50Speaker 1: in general, we kind of lack when it.
- 13:52Speaker 2: Comes to passage.
- 13:55Speaker 1: We do tell me about your rights of passage work,
- 13:59Speaker 1: What is an rop and why is it important?
- 14:03Speaker 2: Yeah, our culture really doesn't do it well. We're right,
- 14:07Speaker 2: a writer.
- 14:07Speaker 3: Passage is really a ceremonial event that honors and marks
- 14:12Speaker 3: a transition or a big change in someone's life. So
- 14:16Speaker 3: this could be puberty, it could be like a pregnancy blessing.
- 14:19Speaker 2: It could be mothering.
- 14:21Speaker 3: There's not nearly enough rituals and ceremonies around mothering and
- 14:25Speaker 3: all of the the wild ride education that brings perimenopause,
- 14:29Speaker 3: menopause aging. These are sort of seismic changing. I've use
- 14:33Speaker 3: that word a lot, haven't I seismic? I think that
- 14:35Speaker 3: that obviously embodies, you know, the intensity of change.
- 14:38Speaker 2: I guess the point I'm trying to make is big.
- 14:41Speaker 3: It's big, It's so big, and it's so important because
- 14:45Speaker 3: a writer, passage is really important because it's actually.
- 14:48Speaker 2: About acknowledgment and belonging.
- 14:52Speaker 3: So acknowledgment of the individual who's changing and as they
- 14:57Speaker 3: change and feel change is stranged in many ways, like
- 15:02Speaker 3: for example, if it's a child moving into adolescence and
- 15:05Speaker 3: young adulthood, you feel odd and kids are breaking away,
- 15:10Speaker 3: they are leaving their childhood. A rite of passage, ceremony
- 15:13Speaker 3: or event says, we see and acknowledge that you are
- 15:17Speaker 3: growing up.
- 15:18Speaker 2: We see and acknowledge you are becoming independent and your
- 15:21Speaker 2: own person, and we love that. But you still need support,
- 15:25Speaker 2: and here's your support crew. So the way it should work.
- 15:28Speaker 3: Ideally is with the individual, the child or teenager, and
- 15:34Speaker 3: then the family members should be involved because as a
- 15:38Speaker 3: child changes, we need to alter the way we parent.
- 15:41Speaker 3: As you would know very well, you've done it six
- 15:44Speaker 3: times over. You know you would be best placed out
- 15:47Speaker 3: of many, you know, so you really have to alter
- 15:49Speaker 3: the way that you're parenting them because they're growing up
- 15:51Speaker 3: sounds really obvious that I think we miss that as
- 15:54Speaker 3: parents sometimes. And then the next kind of I see
- 15:58Speaker 3: it like a series of concentric sir. The child is
- 16:01Speaker 3: at the middle, the family is right outside that, and
- 16:04Speaker 3: then their you know, grandparents, aunties, uncles, then their community.
- 16:09Speaker 3: So naturally, as kids reach adolescents, they really want to
- 16:12Speaker 3: break out of that family unit. But a lot of
- 16:14Speaker 3: them don't know where to go because we haven't created
- 16:17Speaker 3: a sense of belonging and anchored them into community. And
- 16:20Speaker 3: that's why things like the manisphere are so huge, because
- 16:24Speaker 3: you've got a lot of boys who and I think
- 16:27Speaker 3: for boys in particular, they really seek mentors.
- 16:31Speaker 2: Naturally, I think it's really.
- 16:33Speaker 3: In their wiring and their DNA, and we are not
- 16:36Speaker 3: providing that for them. And then when they get online,
- 16:39Speaker 3: because that's where they seek it these days, there's a
- 16:42Speaker 3: manisphere and a whole other host of things, and it's like, oh,
- 16:45Speaker 3: but you know, they feel welcome, and they feel like
- 16:47Speaker 3: a sense of belonging, and they feel understood and acknowledged,
- 16:52Speaker 3: and that's where the problems lie.
- 16:53Speaker 2: So right of passage is deeply important in acknowledging, but
- 16:58Speaker 2: also helping individuals connected to the people that loved them
- 17:02Speaker 2: the most.
- 17:04Speaker 1: I love that.
- 17:05Speaker 3: I love that.
- 17:05Speaker 1: There's a quote it takes a village to grow a child,
- 17:10Speaker 1: and it's something that has resonated with me my whole life.
- 17:14Speaker 1: I remember as a young girl, I had a very
- 17:18Speaker 1: contentious relationship with my mum, and I was really grateful that,
- 17:23Speaker 1: in spite of the fact that we didn't necessarily have
- 17:25Speaker 1: a great relationship, she provided a village. And it was
- 17:31Speaker 1: those women that supported me and loved me, and most importantly,
- 17:37Speaker 1: they actually taught me of my mum's humanity. When I
- 17:41Speaker 1: was in my deepest struggles with her as a teenager
- 17:44Speaker 1: and was being a little bit rebellious based on what
- 17:48Speaker 1: she would like me to do. These were women who
- 17:51Speaker 1: honored her, honored her heart, honored her goodness, and reminded
- 17:55Speaker 1: me that one experience or one behavior or one challenge
- 18:00Speaker 1: didn't define who she was as a person. And so
- 18:03Speaker 1: as a mum, that is something that I have really
- 18:06Speaker 1: strived to bring into my girls' lives. I recognize that
- 18:10Speaker 1: as one person, I can't be everything to them. I
- 18:13Speaker 1: would love to be, but I can't. I can't give
- 18:15Speaker 1: them all the things that they need. But I know
- 18:18Speaker 1: beautiful women who have supported each of my children in
- 18:22Speaker 1: different ways at different times and done it so beautifully.
- 18:26Speaker 1: And I'm so grateful for that because there is so
- 18:28Speaker 1: much power in recognizing our own limitations but accepting that
- 18:33Speaker 1: there are other people out there who can give so
- 18:36Speaker 1: much to them to help them grow into these beautiful,
- 18:38Speaker 1: healthy people.
- 18:39Speaker 3: I think that's a great point. I also, you know,
- 18:42Speaker 3: I feel and see like the emotion that comes with
- 18:44Speaker 3: that memory, and it is because you know, when we're
- 18:48Speaker 3: leaving our childhood, it's a profound you know, you would
- 18:53Speaker 3: have seen like the memes and stuff.
- 18:55Speaker 2: It's the longest breakup.
- 18:57Speaker 3: It's painful for both parties for different reasons. And when
- 19:01Speaker 3: I think you felt held by that community that your
- 19:04Speaker 3: mother put in place, that's really powerful because that would
- 19:08Speaker 3: have kept you anchored into something safe and often if
- 19:13Speaker 3: we again this ties into the right of passage stuff,
- 19:16Speaker 3: if we don't provide that or put really important, solid
- 19:20Speaker 3: people in front of our kids to go out to
- 19:22Speaker 3: when they're seeking help and support, it's kind of like
- 19:26Speaker 3: they're a balloon or a kite that's been let go
- 19:28Speaker 3: of and they feel really it's frightening.
- 19:31Speaker 2: The world is frightening.
- 19:33Speaker 3: And I'm reminded of doctor Lisa Damore, who wrote a
- 19:36Speaker 3: brilliant book of Untangled, and she uses the analogy of
- 19:41Speaker 3: you know, the parents of the swimming pool, and the
- 19:44Speaker 3: world is the water, and any good swimmer, when they've
- 19:47Speaker 3: been buffeted around or dumped a few times, comes back
- 19:50Speaker 3: to the edge. And that is really important that the
- 19:54Speaker 3: edge just isn't only parents, it's their community because sometimes
- 19:59Speaker 3: they don't want to spin back to.
- 20:00Speaker 2: Us and it hurts.
- 20:03Speaker 3: But like you say, it's so important we recognize we
- 20:06Speaker 3: can't provide everything and nor should we.
- 20:09Speaker 1: So as we wrap things up, Kate, if you could
- 20:11Speaker 1: give parents two or three take homes from what we've
- 20:15Speaker 1: discussed today, what would you want them to hold on
- 20:19Speaker 1: to and move forward with?
- 20:20Speaker 2: Great question?
- 20:22Speaker 3: The number one thing that comes to me is have
- 20:28Speaker 3: honest conversations. Our kids feel and see what's going on.
- 20:34Speaker 3: They observe more than listen. And be honest about what's happening,
- 20:38Speaker 3: no matter what it is. Not just about puberty periods,
- 20:42Speaker 3: be honest about your perimenopause, be honest about where you're at.
- 20:45Speaker 3: I think that really counts for a lot because honesty
- 20:49Speaker 3: is relationship building and it is tied to your authenticity.
- 20:55Speaker 3: And I would also say don't shy away from difficult
- 20:58Speaker 3: topics because they're going to go looking in a lot
- 21:01Speaker 3: of funkier places than you want them to. It's so
- 21:04Speaker 3: important that we have the guts. We need the guts
- 21:08Speaker 3: to have the difficult conversations. And I have great compassion
- 21:12Speaker 3: for our generation because the pendulum has really swung from
- 21:16Speaker 3: like this isn't happening, sweep it all under the rug,
- 21:19Speaker 3: to neuro divergence and emotions that all emotions are valid,
- 21:23Speaker 3: Like the pendulums really swung to opening up everything that
- 21:25Speaker 3: needs to be shut down. So we are really learning
- 21:28Speaker 3: on the fly. I feel our generation of parents about
- 21:33Speaker 3: what to do and how to do it openly and honestly.
- 21:36Speaker 3: But I think when we show our kids that we
- 21:38Speaker 3: can make mistakes but muddle through with them honestly, I
- 21:43Speaker 3: think that they will value that beyond anything.
- 21:47Speaker 1: So if people wanted to grab a copy of your book, Kate,
- 21:49Speaker 1: where would they go?
- 21:51Speaker 3: Yeah, they can get the copy of the book on
- 21:53Speaker 3: the website which is wild Creative Australia dot com.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Thanks for a great conversation, Kate. The Happy Families podcas
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