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- 0:00Speaker 1: Peaks to the plant Charalamagne of God.
- 0:01Speaker 2: Here.
- 0:01Speaker 3: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate
- 0:04Speaker 3: the Black Effect Podcast Network. It's turning five years old, man,
- 0:08Speaker 3: five years of powerful voices, unforgettable moments in the community
- 0:11Speaker 3: that keeps growing.
- 0:12Speaker 2: This is the power of the platform.
- 0:14Speaker 1: Now let's get into it. Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast,
- 0:18Speaker 1: the production of iHeartRadio and the Black Effect Network.
- 0:22Speaker 2: Talk Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women with
- 0:27Speaker 2: an opinion. Who talks? What's up?
- 0:31Speaker 1: Y'all?
- 0:32Speaker 2: Is your girl?
- 0:33Speaker 1: Aj Am? I the drama holiday? Yes, period and don't care?
- 0:41Speaker 2: What's up tim y'all is tam Bam. I love y'all
- 0:44Speaker 2: so much, Thank y'all for coming back. How was your weekend?
- 0:48Speaker 2: Aj uneventful? Y'all know I'm be doing nothing for real,
- 0:53Speaker 2: for real? What did I do this weekend? Yeah? I
- 0:57Speaker 2: ain't do much.
- 0:59Speaker 1: Ketchup work, worked out Jim rat for the weekend. That's
- 1:04Speaker 1: about it. I ate, I ate, I did eat this weekend.
- 1:08Speaker 2: That's good. We're in whole meals.
- 1:14Speaker 1: I ain't done nothing that I can think of, and
- 1:16Speaker 1: I do be doing shit, but then forget like it'd
- 1:18Speaker 1: be small shit though I was in town. I ain't
- 1:21Speaker 1: doing much what you had going on.
- 1:23Speaker 2: I went I dated this weekend. I went on different
- 1:29Speaker 2: days with different guys. How many and one day or
- 1:33Speaker 2: over the weekend? Like over the weekend, okay, it was
- 1:36Speaker 2: like one guy day, a different guy. Every day. I
- 1:43Speaker 2: went to dinner with one guy, I went to get
- 1:48Speaker 2: coffee with a different guy, and then I went and
- 1:53Speaker 2: shot pool with another guy over the weekend.
- 1:56Speaker 1: I'm dating, okay, good, right as you should. But I'm
- 2:02Speaker 1: wondering what the men that you went on these dates with, right,
- 2:05Speaker 1: if they were to listen to this episode. I think
- 2:09Speaker 1: all women are gonna be like, yeah, a great girl,
- 2:10Speaker 1: great girl. But I think the men, for some reason,
- 2:15Speaker 1: I think you're not supposed to go out on dates
- 2:18Speaker 1: with multiple people. So how do you think these men
- 2:21Speaker 1: are going to feel that they listen to this episode
- 2:23Speaker 1: and know that you went out on a date with
- 2:26Speaker 1: them plus two.
- 2:29Speaker 2: I don't think they're going to listen, But if they do,
- 2:34Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a single woman. I'm sorry, right me
- 2:38Speaker 2: the best man win, period. I don't know what else
- 2:41Speaker 2: is to you, you know, yeah, it's a marathon. What
- 2:45Speaker 2: that girl said on pointed Justice. I remember saying I
- 2:49Speaker 2: do to idy of you motherfuckers, all.
- 2:52Speaker 1: Right, and nowadays you really got to do like you know,
- 2:55Speaker 1: like in high school or middle school, elementary whatever, where
- 2:57Speaker 1: you send it like the little note are we to
- 2:59Speaker 1: get the check?
- 3:00Speaker 2: Yes? And no?
- 3:01Speaker 1: Like yeah, if we don't.
- 3:03Speaker 2: Do that, then I don't know what to tell you,
- 3:07Speaker 2: like yes, I'm free to roam. And honestly, I mean
- 3:11Speaker 2: it's very early. Two of them were first dates, so
- 3:15Speaker 2: I can't say shit, you know, one of them and
- 3:18Speaker 2: then the other one I told him I was going
- 3:20Speaker 2: on days.
- 3:22Speaker 1: So why'd you feel comfortable telling that one and not
- 3:26Speaker 1: the others? Do you think that the others would have
- 3:28Speaker 1: been like, oh, that one seems like he's more friendly.
- 3:32Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't know how it came up. I
- 3:35Speaker 2: don't think he liked it, though, honestly I didn't. I
- 3:38Speaker 2: don't think he liked the fact that I was going
- 3:40Speaker 2: out with somebody else. But there's talking about it, ay period. Yeah,
- 3:48Speaker 2: so that's what I did. But now I just don't
- 3:50Speaker 2: want to be bothered with no niggas for the rest
- 3:52Speaker 2: of it, for this whole week, because I all nike
- 3:55Speaker 2: it out. I need to recharge. That's how it'd be
- 4:00Speaker 2: man let's get this is see what going on?
- 4:05Speaker 1: Ah am I the drama Cardi Cardi B would leave.
- 4:10Speaker 2: Her second studio album and it's lit. Yes, from my opinion,
- 4:15Speaker 2: I enjoyed it. It's good. It's good your music, it's good.
- 4:20Speaker 2: I enjoy it.
- 4:21Speaker 1: I love what I think. Me too. I don't like
- 4:25Speaker 1: people really be like I feel like people be hating
- 4:27Speaker 1: on Cardi B. I love Cardi B is a flys
- 4:30Speaker 1: on the red carpet. I don't know who the hell
- 4:32Speaker 1: her stylis be Like, I think when she at the house,
- 4:35Speaker 1: she might to put on some some shit that like
- 4:37Speaker 1: a Hispanic woman would wear. But when she had the
- 4:40Speaker 1: red carpet, baby, she's always super duper flied to that.
- 4:44Speaker 1: Imaginary players. You can't you don't know.
- 4:46Speaker 2: The difference can vintage an archive. That's what in comparison
- 4:52Speaker 2: to jay Z saying like, what's the difference between the
- 4:54Speaker 2: four point h and a four point six?
- 4:57Speaker 1: Right? So, I think Kendrick Lamar and the Drake Beef
- 5:01Speaker 1: kind of opened the door for people to actually verbally
- 5:03Speaker 1: call people out on albums because she got a whole
- 5:06Speaker 1: song on there dedicated to bea and it actually helped
- 5:09Speaker 1: bea because now her her songs are getting more downloads, right,
- 5:14Speaker 1: so say thank you bea say thank you. I doubt
- 5:17Speaker 1: she'll do that, but she dedicated a whole song and
- 5:21Speaker 1: call her name out in the first went on the
- 5:25Speaker 1: Breakfast Club and talked about this bitch like car you beat.
- 5:28Speaker 1: This beef was two years ago now, so you're just
- 5:31Speaker 1: putting this album out and rekindling the bullshit. She She
- 5:34Speaker 1: threw shots at JT. I think it's all friendly fire.
- 5:39Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think it's friendly. None of it
- 5:41Speaker 2: sounded very like friendly, like all right, what about.
- 5:45Speaker 1: You can't wait for the responses?
- 5:46Speaker 2: Did you hear the the Looking Boy by Glorilla towards
- 5:52Speaker 2: Young Thug and Mariyah? Was that really? Was that? Ai?
- 5:57Speaker 2: I don't know me either.
- 5:59Speaker 1: I don't know she put that together? Not it sounded
- 6:01Speaker 1: like her?
- 6:02Speaker 2: It's not. I mean, yeah, but Ai, they can make
- 6:04Speaker 2: it sound just like the person. It was funny come
- 6:07Speaker 2: out and say it wasn't her. That shit was hilarious. Yes,
- 6:10Speaker 2: so you're right. They are calling people out just like
- 6:13Speaker 2: I'm talking to you.
- 6:14Speaker 1: Yes, I prefer that me because don't sub me, bitch.
- 6:18Speaker 1: You got to tap me on my shoulder otherwise I
- 6:19Speaker 1: don't know, you're talking about me, right, Yeah, you got
- 6:22Speaker 1: to tap me on my shoulder.
- 6:24Speaker 2: So I love it.
- 6:24Speaker 1: I love the album. I know the Breakfast Club gave
- 6:27Speaker 1: Cardy a hard time with a mad head. I'm trying
- 6:30Speaker 1: to figure out why they thought that she was supposed
- 6:34Speaker 1: to sound like jay Z on that album.
- 6:38Speaker 2: I don't know why they thought that. Either. She didn't
- 6:39Speaker 2: have to sound like jay Z. I mean she did.
- 6:43Speaker 2: She did you know pool parts, you know you could
- 6:46Speaker 2: hear like the last and talking yeah, and how she
- 6:51Speaker 2: you know, the vintage and archive and she compared it
- 6:54Speaker 2: like that was the comparison to what he was saying
- 6:56Speaker 2: about cars, and just even some ofhow the the way
- 7:00Speaker 2: she spit was similar too. So I don't know, I
- 7:04Speaker 2: don't it don't need to be She don't need to
- 7:05Speaker 2: do karaoke of his shit, you know, so I like so.
- 7:11Speaker 1: Jerry the Mouse aka DJ Academics he had a few
- 7:16Speaker 1: choice words to say about Carti's album. He said, Carti
- 7:19Speaker 1: B's am I the Drama became the fastest female album
- 7:23Speaker 1: to go platinum, but not because the album's new tracks.
- 7:27Speaker 1: He said, Cardi B inflated herself with the five year
- 7:30Speaker 1: old records and her new songs imaginary players and outside
- 7:34Speaker 1: were barely making were barely moving fifty k do one
- 7:39Speaker 1: hundred k streams. So basically, what he's saying is because
- 7:43Speaker 1: she added Wop and Up to the album, those are singles.
- 7:47Speaker 1: What album was she supposed to add him to rights,
- 7:50Speaker 1: he's saying that inflated her sales and streams. I don't
- 7:55Speaker 1: think so, because I have not. When I heard those
- 7:57Speaker 1: songs of it and I'm like, wait, did they go
- 7:59Speaker 1: to another album? I turned it off immediately and I
- 8:02Speaker 1: started back from the beginning of the album. I didn't
- 8:04Speaker 1: even realize those songs were actually on the album, like
- 8:08Speaker 1: without looking at my phone until I saw this headline.
- 8:11Speaker 2: And and what difference did it? Mate?
- 8:13Speaker 1: Well, I guess because it because those were huge hits,
- 8:16Speaker 1: right or I don't. I didn't like Wop personally right
- 8:21Speaker 1: Up was cool? Those are not the best songs on
- 8:24Speaker 1: this album. No, Okay, So academics is trying to discredit
- 8:29Speaker 1: Cardi B because he just loves going against women. He's
- 8:33Speaker 1: one of the girls. Okay, girls, he's one of the girls,
- 8:36Speaker 1: not girls. So yeah, like I don't, I don't understand
- 8:42Speaker 1: what the with the beef is. But shout out to
- 8:43Speaker 1: Cardi B. Because the album is a fucking fire.
- 8:45Speaker 2: I enjoy it. I'm happy for her, and I just
- 8:48Speaker 2: love her promo. She's like making it like gully, like gritty,
- 8:53Speaker 2: like she on the train, like buy my CD by
- 8:56Speaker 2: my seat, like by my out right on the train.
- 9:01Speaker 2: And then I like the one where she was outside
- 9:02Speaker 2: on the street with the blanket with the album sitting
- 9:04Speaker 2: on the blanket outside. You know. Yeah, people really.
- 9:09Speaker 1: Don't do rollouts anymore for their albums, right, They just
- 9:12Speaker 1: hit social media. They might put a video out for
- 9:14Speaker 1: maybe one of the songs, and that's it. Like she
- 9:16Speaker 1: literally did a rollout. She's doing all these reviews.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Yeah she was.
- 9:22Speaker 1: Cardi B has always been working and also she set
- 9:24Speaker 1: the precedents for women who want to also be actual
- 9:28Speaker 1: women and have families. Cardi B is doing all the things.
- 9:31Speaker 1: She's pregnant with her four child right now.
- 9:33Speaker 2: Right and don't give a fuck and don't give a fuck.
- 9:37Speaker 2: I feel like even.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Nicki Minaj may not ever give her, you know, props
- 9:42Speaker 1: for this, but I feel like that's probably what I
- 9:44Speaker 1: encouraged Nicki Minaj to go ahead and have a baby,
- 9:48Speaker 1: you know, Carti B, Cardi B did all the things.
- 9:50Speaker 1: Everything she said she was gonna do, she did it.
- 9:53Speaker 2: And it's such a beautiful Cinderella story because I remember,
- 9:57Speaker 2: you know, she was on Love and Hip Hop. You know,
- 10:00Speaker 2: I wear low cut shirts, so niggas don't look at
- 10:02Speaker 2: my teeth, you know, like you know, I respect it.
- 10:06Speaker 2: It's such a beautiful Cinerella story. So shout out to
- 10:08Speaker 2: Cardi B. Is there any other music you're listening to
- 10:12Speaker 2: right now? That's what I got you in the choco.
- 10:16Speaker 1: I just got like, I got a playlist. I got
- 10:18Speaker 1: the same playlist in heavy rotation. I'd just be adding
- 10:21Speaker 1: songs from other people albums. But I don't have like
- 10:23Speaker 1: no super favor right now. What you got?
- 10:26Speaker 2: You know who I'm fucking with so heavy right now?
- 10:28Speaker 2: And he just he just gets me key glock.
- 10:35Speaker 1: I love all right, get out. I heard a couple
- 10:41Speaker 1: of songs this weekend. I don't even know how, but
- 10:43Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is who this is?
- 10:45Speaker 2: Yeah all right. So I don't know if y'all saw,
- 10:52Speaker 2: but Jimmy Kimble got suspended indefinitely for his comments on
- 11:00Speaker 2: his show about Charlie Kirk and President Trump. And he
- 11:06Speaker 2: was suspended, but turns out they're letting him back. By
- 11:09Speaker 2: the time you hear this, he will have already aired
- 11:12Speaker 2: this past Tuesday night, And it says here Disney and
- 11:16Speaker 2: ABC will bring the comedian back to his schedule starting
- 11:19Speaker 2: Tuesday night. Last Wednesday, we made the decision to suspend
- 11:22Speaker 2: production on the show to avoid further inflaming an intense
- 11:25Speaker 2: situation at an emotional moment for our country. It is
- 11:28Speaker 2: a decision we made because we felt some of the
- 11:30Speaker 2: comments were ill timed and thus insensitive, The company said
- 11:34Speaker 2: in the statement. We have spent the last days having
- 11:36Speaker 2: a thoughtful conversation with Jimmy, and after those conversations, we
- 11:40Speaker 2: reached a decision to return to his show Tuesday. But
- 11:45Speaker 2: from what I.
- 11:46Speaker 1: He took the knee is what I'm hearing.
- 11:48Speaker 2: He' oh really what does that mean? But I feel like.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Nothing Jimmy Campbell, Okay, I can't remember his exact words,
- 11:58Speaker 1: but I did watch I didn't I watch a clip
- 12:02Speaker 1: of what he said. I can't remember exactly what he said, though,
- 12:04Speaker 1: Like so I can save orbat him here, But it
- 12:07Speaker 1: was nothing that serious to have taken his job right,
- 12:14Speaker 1: And it's almost like it still goes back to this
- 12:17Speaker 1: this particular group of people. You can't even sound like
- 12:21Speaker 1: you insinuating anything about them, right, They don't realize how.
- 12:26Speaker 1: And the they is, y'all can try, and y'all can
- 12:29Speaker 1: put a put the thing whoever they y'all want to
- 12:31Speaker 1: put in there. But they don't realize is that What
- 12:34Speaker 1: they don't realize is that when they do this thing
- 12:36Speaker 1: like taking someone's livelihood, it only helps everybody else's narrative
- 12:44Speaker 1: that they are treacherous. You know what I'm saying, we
- 12:51Speaker 1: are right now. I don't know if people realize freedom
- 12:54Speaker 1: of speech is very much and this is we talk back,
- 12:57Speaker 1: freedom of speech is very much.
- 13:01Speaker 2: Being it's just under attack right now. Under attack. Yeah,
- 13:05Speaker 2: And I don't think that people realize that.
- 13:08Speaker 1: You know, when somebody is saying something you agree with,
- 13:11Speaker 1: right you kind of then this other person you don't
- 13:14Speaker 1: agree with, you attack them. It's going to come a
- 13:17Speaker 1: time when you say something and somebody's gonna attack you
- 13:20Speaker 1: for your speech. So people should be allowed to be
- 13:23Speaker 1: able to say whatever they want, whatever their opinion is.
- 13:26Speaker 1: And then you got the court system for slander and libel. Okay,
- 13:30Speaker 1: so somebody says something that's not true, you know, you
- 13:32Speaker 1: can sue them, right, suit.
- 13:34Speaker 2: Them for that.
- 13:34Speaker 1: But people's opinions or maybe something you haven't researched yourself.
- 13:38Speaker 1: You can't just automatically say something isn't.
- 13:41Speaker 2: True right now.
- 13:44Speaker 1: Perspective and you know, perspective and perception is gonna kill
- 13:47Speaker 1: all arguments every time.
- 13:49Speaker 2: I you know, it's for the court of public opinion
- 13:52Speaker 2: to cancel somebody, okay, you know, based on what they're saying.
- 13:56Speaker 2: But when government starts to you know, decide what can
- 14:01Speaker 2: be said and what can't, that's when it becomes a problem,
- 14:04Speaker 2: a real problem, and that's scary. It really is scary.
- 14:09Speaker 1: So I don't think people are considering that though they don't.
- 14:12Speaker 1: They are not because if something is said and that
- 14:15Speaker 1: they and they agree with it, they side with what
- 14:18Speaker 1: the government. The government can't do anything to us unless
- 14:21Speaker 1: the masses are complicit with that thing. So we are
- 14:26Speaker 1: giving them the green light to since yeah, for censorship. Absolutely, Yeah,
- 14:35Speaker 1: that's not what you want. That is not what you want. Okay,
- 14:40Speaker 1: it's not what you want, but that's.
- 14:42Speaker 2: What I also saw that Disney, you know, lost like
- 14:46Speaker 2: four billion dollars since they since their Jimmy Kimmel and
- 14:53Speaker 2: they was like, yeah, let me get that boy of chairs.
- 14:55Speaker 2: We're just playing with y'all, come on back. We thought
- 15:00Speaker 2: about it, and yeah, we're gonna let him say some worship. Yeah,
- 15:04Speaker 2: so that like, I can't wait to watch and hear
- 15:08Speaker 2: what he has to say the night because I think
- 15:09Speaker 2: it's gonna be interesting.
- 15:11Speaker 1: You know, when somebody takes your voice away, it's like
- 15:13Speaker 1: it's hard to talk after that. Yeah, I'm interested in
- 15:17Speaker 1: seeing what he says, too, because I I don't ever
- 15:20Speaker 1: want to feel censored, Like I can't say something in
- 15:23Speaker 1: fear of. Right, it's tough being in the public eye
- 15:26Speaker 1: and any capacity and simultaneous simultaneously being your system and
- 15:32Speaker 1: fear of I'm not I'm not afraid of critique.
- 15:36Speaker 2: I definitely kind of try to have emphasis. It's almost impossible, though,
- 15:43Speaker 2: you know, to have to acknowledge the light of every
- 15:48Speaker 2: human experience.
- 15:49Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't consider everybody and while you're doing that,
- 15:52Speaker 1: who's considering you?
- 15:53Speaker 2: Right? It's hard. It's impossible, not, isn't it. You know,
- 15:58Speaker 2: it's not hard. It's impossible.
- 16:00Speaker 1: So everybody ain't gonna fuck with you? And that's okay.
- 16:05Speaker 1: Have y'all been following this story and we got to
- 16:07Speaker 1: get a little bit more research going. But have y'all
- 16:10Speaker 1: been following this story with this singer David His real
- 16:12Speaker 1: name is David Anthony Burke. So apparently, mister Burke, he's
- 16:20Speaker 1: under fire because he had a tesla that was I
- 16:23Speaker 1: don't know if it was repossessed or just told because
- 16:26Speaker 1: it was abandoned somewhere, and apparently there was a body
- 16:31Speaker 1: of a deceased teenager who had been missing since twenty
- 16:35Speaker 1: twenty four in California. So this this read is coming
- 16:38Speaker 1: from bill Board Hip Hop. It says David's his name
- 16:41Speaker 1: is his stage name is d four VD Yeah, but
- 16:46Speaker 1: his real name is David. It says David's rise as
- 16:49Speaker 1: one of gen Z's most promising pop stars has taken
- 16:53Speaker 1: a shocking turn. The twenty year old artist who first
- 16:56Speaker 1: broke out with viral hits after pivoting from YouTube into music,
- 17:01Speaker 1: and had been in the middle of a massive world
- 17:04Speaker 1: tour before canceling all remaining dates last week. The decision
- 17:08Speaker 1: came after a tragic discovery. On September eighth, authorities confirmed
- 17:12Speaker 1: that the decomposed body of fifteen year olds Celes Revas,
- 17:18Speaker 1: who'd been reported missing since April twenty twenty four, was
- 17:21Speaker 1: found in the trunk of David's impounded tesla at a
- 17:24Speaker 1: Los Angeles to loot. Investigators are treating Revas' death as
- 17:28Speaker 1: a homicide, while the singer's rep says David is fully
- 17:31Speaker 1: cooperating with authorities. No charges have been filed against him.
- 17:35Speaker 1: The devastating news has sparked widespread speculation online, with fans
- 17:39Speaker 1: and onlookers piercing together potential connections between the Late teen
- 17:45Speaker 1: and the Rising Star. Just months ago, David was known
- 17:48Speaker 1: for johnred blending songs and skyrocketing career. Now his name
- 17:53Speaker 1: is tied to tragedy, just left both so and then
- 17:56Speaker 1: he had a song, what's the damn song?
- 17:58Speaker 2: Hold On? Hold On y'all? Yeah, because he had a
- 18:01Speaker 2: song like with her name in it that sounded like.
- 18:05Speaker 1: Yeah, he had been releasing songs on her birthday also, right,
- 18:09Speaker 1: So that was like a weird thing. But the song
- 18:14Speaker 1: that he released and all the gen z ers love
- 18:19Speaker 1: is something homicide, like beautiful homicide or something like that,
- 18:25Speaker 1: like this Nigga is going to jail Romantic homicide. Released
- 18:29Speaker 1: in twenty twenty two.
- 18:31Speaker 2: Oh, but that's before she went missing, ain't it.
- 18:35Speaker 1: Well, that's her before they reported her missing. I don't know.
- 18:40Speaker 2: Romantic homicide is crazy.
- 18:42Speaker 1: Maybe he was, you know, maybe he was singing about
- 18:46Speaker 1: doing the thing.
- 18:47Speaker 2: Right and he finally did it. Maybe you just got
- 18:51Speaker 2: to be careful. I just pray over everybody that's listening
- 18:54Speaker 2: to the sound of my voice that you do not
- 18:56Speaker 2: encounter anybody that wants to harm you, that wants to
- 19:01Speaker 2: end you. Oh yeah, like twenty years old. So if
- 19:07Speaker 2: she went missing last year, they're saying she's she's a
- 19:10Speaker 2: fifteen year old, but she wasn't fifteen at the time
- 19:13Speaker 2: of her disappearance. So essentially this adult adult male right
- 19:20Speaker 2: was engaging with aner.
- 19:25Speaker 1: Because I think the legal legal age of consent in California,
- 19:28Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I'm not even about to lie anyway,
- 19:33Speaker 1: she was a miner, not the miner has been missing.
- 19:36Speaker 1: And I did see another headline that I hadn't way down.
- 19:39Speaker 2: The back hole.
- 19:41Speaker 1: She yeah, they found her body. And then like yesterday
- 19:44Speaker 1: or the day before, I saw something saying that they
- 19:47Speaker 1: found like fetal tissue or something near his home.
- 19:51Speaker 2: That's insane, and maybe the pig about that other rapper,
- 19:56Speaker 2: I wish I knew his name who killed his homeboys
- 19:58Speaker 2: and they made a song about Kim his home.
- 20:00Speaker 1: Oh you talk about Wyth and Mellie. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 20:05Speaker 1: heard on my mind that song. That dude's name is
- 20:08Speaker 1: demon like, his last name is demon like what we thought?
- 20:14Speaker 2: Yeahs demons. Yeah, they are believing, absolutely absolutely, Like so
- 20:22Speaker 2: when niggas tell you like they got crazy nicknames, don't
- 20:26Speaker 2: fuck with him.
- 20:27Speaker 1: Do you remember that dude? I think he either went
- 20:29Speaker 1: to Benedict or he went to Alan, but he had
- 20:32Speaker 1: Troublesome tattooed on his forehead.
- 20:34Speaker 2: Do you remember that nigga for Florida?
- 20:36Speaker 1: No, why are you in college? What troublesome tattooed in
- 20:40Speaker 1: your forehead?
- 20:41Speaker 2: Get that removed? Like, what was the thought from?
- 20:45Speaker 1: I believe he ended up killing somebody. So he is
- 20:47Speaker 1: in prison.
- 20:48Speaker 2: Yeah, because you manifested that for yourself. You looked in
- 20:51Speaker 2: the mirror every day with troublesome what Lord Mercy.
- 20:59Speaker 1: I remember one time I needs pulled up to my
- 21:00Speaker 1: house with a skinny jean wearing nigga. I'm looking at himself.
- 21:03Speaker 1: I'm looking like girl, this nigga don't look too kosher.
- 21:06Speaker 1: But he had just tattooed uh focused, No, it's like
- 21:12Speaker 1: right here, he tattooed focused like on his forehead.
- 21:14Speaker 2: I'm like a fresh tattoo. I'm like, you couldn't just
- 21:17Speaker 2: be focused, right, you had to put it on your face.
- 21:21Speaker 2: Everybody can know that you're focused. But that's also like
- 21:25Speaker 2: remem we went to school with a guy named Psycho?
- 21:29Speaker 2: Was it really Psycho? It wasn't that bad though. I
- 21:31Speaker 2: really like I like Psycho. But as an adult woman,
- 21:36Speaker 2: I will not want my daughter hanging out or dating
- 21:39Speaker 2: anybody who would refer to themselves as that, right, because
- 21:43Speaker 2: if something happened, it's like, well he told you, right,
- 21:47Speaker 2: So don't bring cycle to my goddamn house. Don't bring
- 21:51Speaker 2: him here. Same what we're talking about today, I don't know.
- 22:00Speaker 2: It's fall. It's fall, y'all. It's the first week of fall.
- 22:05Speaker 2: It's my favorite season of the year. Girl.
- 22:09Speaker 1: You are so like, what is what those little dye
- 22:12Speaker 1: what was it? The little books back in the day?
- 22:14Speaker 2: Diary?
- 22:15Speaker 1: Uh? I just know you watched a lot of Nickelodeon
- 22:20Speaker 1: and did I did?
- 22:22Speaker 2: I used to love Are you Afraid of the Dark?
- 22:24Speaker 2: My shit, it's my season, y'all. I love Halloween. I
- 22:29Speaker 2: love scary movies. I love cozy socks, I love pumpkin spics.
- 22:35Speaker 2: I'm just so happy right now, like this is my
- 22:38Speaker 2: time to shine. Bitch. Why are you so giggily about this?
- 22:43Speaker 2: Because all the year this is it.
- 22:45Speaker 1: I love fall too. This is the best, the wet,
- 22:47Speaker 1: best weather. Yeah, I got three kites. I don't know
- 22:51Speaker 1: if y'all know, but like flying a kite will definitely
- 22:53Speaker 1: heal your inner child. But this is like the best
- 22:56Speaker 1: windy weather to five kite.
- 22:58Speaker 2: I'm gonna give me a kite this year. I'm gonna
- 22:59Speaker 2: get order a Costco girl, order for Costco.
- 23:02Speaker 1: I got a big I got three dragons.
- 23:04Speaker 2: Okay, Costco, And that's a sponsorship check. We needed this
- 23:10Speaker 2: mintion y'all every time she can. But listen, I need
- 23:12Speaker 2: to get a Costco card because at this point, the
- 23:15Speaker 2: way you reap for them, I really need to see
- 23:18Speaker 2: what's going on over there.
- 23:19Speaker 1: Everything in there. I mean, you know, you kind of
- 23:22Speaker 1: waste money. Sometimes a single person buys it and bulk.
- 23:25Speaker 2: But all right, so y'all, when we get back, we're
- 23:29Speaker 2: gonna get into it. It's fall, all right, y'all. It's
- 23:38Speaker 2: the most wonderful season of the year. All right. Just imagine, y'all,
- 23:45Speaker 2: you're sipping a warm drink some tea or some warm
- 23:48Speaker 2: coffee under a blanket. There's candles flickering in the atmosphere.
- 23:55Speaker 2: You got your favorite your your favorite person right next
- 23:59Speaker 2: to you, or you're by yourself. You have peace, there's
- 24:05Speaker 2: nobody around, and you turn on your favorite show or
- 24:08Speaker 2: movie or you open your favorite book that you're reading.
- 24:11Speaker 2: It's a page turner, Isn't that like the best? I
- 24:18Speaker 2: love like because summertime is just like very high energy.
- 24:22Speaker 2: You outside when the most you're trying to have the
- 24:25Speaker 2: greatest experiences. But when that fall hits and it's time
- 24:29Speaker 2: to just slow down a bit. Mmm, nothing gets me going.
- 24:34Speaker 2: This is when the babies start getting made and everything.
- 24:37Speaker 1: Absolutely. I know I was born around in time. I
- 24:40Speaker 1: mean I was conceived around this time.
- 24:42Speaker 2: M h.
- 24:44Speaker 1: I like fall weather. You know you get to wear
- 24:49Speaker 1: the best clothes in the fall too.
- 24:51Speaker 2: It is the best time for fashion for me because
- 24:56Speaker 2: I listening, I don't like summer is cool. But back.
- 25:00Speaker 2: You know, I know everybody has seen that back picture,
- 25:02Speaker 2: that girl with that black dress up against that ledge.
- 25:06Speaker 2: My back.
- 25:06Speaker 1: I definitely on my phone and my pictures like I
- 25:09Speaker 1: need that back.
- 25:10Speaker 2: Every all we all need that back, but we all
- 25:12Speaker 2: don't have that back at all. We can wear clothes
- 25:17Speaker 2: that cover your back, don't. Nobody got to see what's
- 25:20Speaker 2: back there, and you just it's more layers, it's cuter.
- 25:25Speaker 2: Like what's like a fall ritual or like something that
- 25:30Speaker 2: you start doing once the season changes.
- 25:33Speaker 1: I guess like same thing like with spring, I do
- 25:36Speaker 1: do a deep clean, trying to get rid of shit.
- 25:38Speaker 1: I've been trying to get rid of shit for a
- 25:40Speaker 1: year now, so I did start. This is one thing
- 25:43Speaker 1: I did this weekend, right, just trying to declutter, get
- 25:46Speaker 1: rid of stuff, because you really, like, in my mind,
- 25:48Speaker 1: I'm preparing for January really because it's just like over.
- 25:52Speaker 1: Once Halloween hits, it's like the year is over for real.
- 25:55Speaker 2: It's the best time because Halloween, then there's Thanksgiving and
- 25:58Speaker 2: then there's Christmas.
- 25:59Speaker 1: It's crazy.
- 26:01Speaker 2: I get so happy.
- 26:03Speaker 1: Pumpkin spice, like yesterday was the first You like pumpkins spice?
- 26:06Speaker 2: You know, God, pumpkin wrap me, roll me, eat some
- 26:10Speaker 2: pumpkin spice off of me. That's how I feel about it.
- 26:13Speaker 2: Like Sennamon, buddy, put your dick in the pumpkin spice.
- 26:17Speaker 2: I'm gonna eat it off.
- 26:21Speaker 1: I don't like pumpkin spice. Candles. Either you like that
- 26:24Speaker 1: and you burn. He loves like all the girls candles.
- 26:28Speaker 2: I love it so girls. I encourage girls and guys.
- 26:32Speaker 2: I encourage you and everybody else. I encourage you to start.
- 26:37Speaker 2: You know, you gotta be inclusive, y'all. Everybody don't identify
- 26:41Speaker 2: as one of those no more. And that's cool. You know,
- 26:44Speaker 2: whatever whatever flows your boats to make you happy. Morning ritual.
- 26:48Speaker 2: I encourage everybody this fall to get the morning rituals
- 26:52Speaker 2: started after you listen to this, So like start with.
- 26:58Speaker 2: I found like this Asian I don't know, I can't
- 27:02Speaker 2: remember what because it was a word I couldn't pronounce
- 27:05Speaker 2: and I can't spell it for y'all, but look online.
- 27:09Speaker 2: It is like an Asian morning wake up ritual. And
- 27:13Speaker 2: it's like different movements to wake your body up, like
- 27:17Speaker 2: swinging your arms behind your back, swinging them like like
- 27:22Speaker 2: a windmill on both sides, doing like one heel up
- 27:27Speaker 2: and then stretch to the other side with your feet
- 27:30Speaker 2: and like just opening up your hips and your back
- 27:33Speaker 2: and your spine. And I started doing that in the
- 27:36Speaker 2: morning because ever since I broke my foot and I
- 27:40Speaker 2: was like standing on that you know, one knee scooter
- 27:42Speaker 2: for six months. I just feel like my hip alignment
- 27:46Speaker 2: is all.
- 27:47Speaker 1: You need to go to the chiropractor.
- 27:48Speaker 2: That's what I know. I need it. I need to
- 27:50Speaker 2: make it up because when I get up in the morning,
- 27:53Speaker 2: all right, Mike Apps need to stand up? I know
- 27:57Speaker 2: I think it was No, it wasn't Mike Apps. What's
- 27:59Speaker 2: the dude? Dion co Oh. Dion Cole did this stand
- 28:01Speaker 2: up comedy show, y'all, and he talked about the women
- 28:04Speaker 2: who look younger than they are, but you can tell
- 28:07Speaker 2: that they oh how they get up out of chair.
- 28:13Speaker 2: And I've been That's how I'm starting to feel like
- 28:15Speaker 2: when I get up out the bed or if I
- 28:17Speaker 2: been sitting a long time, my hips feel stiff. Girl,
- 28:23Speaker 2: what the fuck is that? And there like it's the
- 28:27Speaker 2: sound that happened with him now bis what the fuck?
- 28:30Speaker 2: And I really think it's from my hips being off alignment,
- 28:33Speaker 2: from being one sided for six months. I really need
- 28:37Speaker 2: to go get adjusted so that asion rich my right
- 28:40Speaker 2: side of the body.
- 28:41Speaker 1: My right side is fucked up because when I'm getting
- 28:43Speaker 1: on that deck, I had a hip crack and a
- 28:45Speaker 1: knee cracked, and my right dick too is fucked up.
- 28:49Speaker 1: So I can't do lungeons on that side. It's all
- 28:52Speaker 1: fucked up on the right right, the whole right side. Girl,
- 29:00Speaker 1: one of their homegirls, she was saying her guy friend
- 29:02Speaker 1: this past weekend to like just random, imagine you're just
- 29:05Speaker 1: talking to somebody you fucking with, like a guy, and
- 29:07Speaker 1: he's like, I heard your hip the other dirt.
- 29:16Speaker 2: Why fuck you? Why fuck you?
- 29:19Speaker 1: Because why are you mentioning that over dinner?
- 29:21Speaker 2: Cause you hurt my hip crack.
- 29:23Speaker 1: I am a woman of a certain age, Like, yeah,
- 29:26Speaker 1: like I might need to go do a couple more
- 29:29Speaker 1: sas as a pilates and yoga that is, like, yo,
- 29:32Speaker 1: get into yoga for the fall.
- 29:34Speaker 2: Y'all pilates, That's what I want to get into pilates.
- 29:38Speaker 2: I keep seeing all the girlies like that's the thing.
- 29:40Speaker 2: Now everybody's doing pilates, So I'm gonna try to get
- 29:44Speaker 2: in there because this hip can't be cracking every time
- 29:47Speaker 2: that chair.
- 29:50Speaker 1: Right, And now the comparison I do like for social media,
- 29:53Speaker 1: like it's never gonna be stuff right it is the
- 29:56Speaker 1: workout girlies. Okay, I got so many y'all bitches saved
- 29:59Speaker 1: with so many you work out saved and the older
- 30:03Speaker 1: workout girls, the fifty eight year olds with the six packs. Yeah,
- 30:07Speaker 1: fast goals. That is one of us doing all these
- 30:11Speaker 1: dead lists, and she was doing a bunch of you know,
- 30:14Speaker 1: squats with the weights and stuff. I'm like, on Sunday,
- 30:17Speaker 1: my knee was about to give out with seventy pounds
- 30:20Speaker 1: of weight pound plus forty five the bar, so a
- 30:24Speaker 1: lot of weight right for me, My knee was about
- 30:27Speaker 1: to give out. Man, what was dating hip through squats? Squat?
- 30:32Speaker 2: Okayeah?
- 30:33Speaker 1: Yeah, my knee was definitely screaming like girl stop. And
- 30:37Speaker 1: I feel like it was a white bitch and there
- 30:38Speaker 1: laughing at me too. Like I had to look out
- 30:41Speaker 1: a little bit and I could see her face in
- 30:43Speaker 1: the mirror that she was standing in front of, and
- 30:45Speaker 1: I swear she was like smirking at me, like she
- 30:48Speaker 1: probably wasn't.
- 30:49Speaker 2: What do you think about brain? My mind right in
- 30:52Speaker 2: your mind because mentally you smirking at yourself somebody seeing
- 30:56Speaker 2: me struggling here right, Well, fuck that because that's what
- 30:59Speaker 2: the fo Yeah, it's there for that. So yeah, add
- 31:04Speaker 2: something add yoga and pilates and something physical that opens
- 31:10Speaker 2: up them hips, baby and like strictes you out. Add
- 31:13Speaker 2: that to your ritual. Okay, what about like nighttime a
- 31:20Speaker 2: hot bad.
- 31:21Speaker 1: Always feel like because it starts getting darker early. You know,
- 31:25Speaker 1: it just always feels like the days just aren't long enough, right,
- 31:31Speaker 1: And I still don't go to sleep until like twelve
- 31:33Speaker 1: one o'clock, but I'm always into bed by like seven
- 31:35Speaker 1: o'clock when it gets darker. Side, I feel like the
- 31:37Speaker 1: time I lay down, you be.
- 31:39Speaker 2: In a bed by seven, but don't sleep till one.
- 31:42Speaker 2: Is crazy in the.
- 31:44Speaker 1: Mad like doing all the things that I didn't get
- 31:46Speaker 1: to do, like the things that you gotta do, like
- 31:48Speaker 1: on your phone. Like last night I was up ordering
- 31:51Speaker 1: new bedding, so that's one of my things.
- 31:53Speaker 2: Like I ordered me some new sheets, a new mattress cover,
- 31:58Speaker 2: all the plus shit, y'all.
- 32:00Speaker 1: Peacock Alley is my favorite Peacock Alley or s Fair,
- 32:03Speaker 1: so it really I really have to like convince myself
- 32:07Speaker 1: that it's okay to spend as much money on betting
- 32:09Speaker 1: because that stuff is important.
- 32:11Speaker 2: Check the labels, y'all.
- 32:13Speaker 1: Buying a thousand count a thousand three count polyester, it's
- 32:17Speaker 1: not cotton.
- 32:18Speaker 2: So you wondering while your back broken out, your face
- 32:21Speaker 2: bro your hair, your scarf came up, and now your
- 32:25Speaker 2: hair looked like a fucking miss.
- 32:28Speaker 1: Get some good sheets. Change your pillows for the fall.
- 32:32Speaker 2: Yeah, get new pillows.
- 32:33Speaker 1: You don't had them pillows for eight years, girl, It's
- 32:36Speaker 1: time to get some new pillows.
- 32:37Speaker 2: And pillows is heavy, ain't not worse than a flat ass,
- 32:39Speaker 2: So you got the full full times for it to
- 32:41Speaker 2: feel like something.
- 32:43Speaker 1: I kind of like a flat pillow a little bit
- 32:46Speaker 1: like I have some extra fluffy pillows and I have
- 32:48Speaker 1: recently bought these linen pillows I found in TJ Max
- 32:53Speaker 1: and home Goods Sort Home Home Home Goods, and they
- 32:56Speaker 1: got flat really quick, and they only a couple months old.
- 32:59Speaker 2: But the I know, it's like breathable linen. They say
- 33:03Speaker 2: flat pillows are better for you, but really.
- 33:07Speaker 1: We're not supposed to be sleeping on the bed like
- 33:08Speaker 1: that ship because your body's like going into the mattress
- 33:11Speaker 1: like you're really supposed to be sleeping like on the floor.
- 33:14Speaker 2: And that's why Japanese are you know that It says
- 33:16Speaker 2: that there are more one hundred year old people over
- 33:19Speaker 2: one hundred in Japan than anywhere else in the world.
- 33:21Speaker 1: There's like one hundred thousand of them.
- 33:23Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, right in America, your life is expectancy is
- 33:27Speaker 2: in the eighty years. That's it. So, yeah, we ain't
- 33:32Speaker 2: shitting right, we don't ship right, we don't sleep right.
- 33:35Speaker 2: We'll eat right. Yeah.
- 33:38Speaker 1: So have you ever used the toilet that's that uh,
- 33:42Speaker 1: ceramic hole on the floor?
- 33:45Speaker 2: Oh, like in another country? Yeah? I went. When I
- 33:48Speaker 2: was in the Ukraine. We went to this beautiful theater
- 33:51Speaker 2: to listen to opera, right in gowns, and then when
- 33:56Speaker 2: I went to the bathroom it was a hole in
- 33:58Speaker 2: the float. I'm like, y'all got be I'm not.
- 34:03Speaker 1: Did they not have a western toilet as another option
- 34:07Speaker 1: in there?
- 34:07Speaker 2: No?
- 34:07Speaker 1: Oh wow, the gowns.
- 34:10Speaker 2: I was confused and like, did somebody stealed the toilet
- 34:13Speaker 2: out of this bitch? You use it? No? I couldn't.
- 34:16Speaker 1: I didn't. It was terrible too, because I just needed
- 34:22Speaker 1: to pee. When I went to China, I took a
- 34:26Speaker 1: train into guang Zhao. So China, I mean Hong Kong
- 34:29Speaker 1: has like regular toilets, they have both. When you go
- 34:32Speaker 1: to like third world countries like gang Zhao, they literally
- 34:35Speaker 1: most places have that porcelain hole in the floor. And
- 34:39Speaker 1: when it's stunk so bad in the train station's bathroom,
- 34:44Speaker 1: Oh my god, I had to pee.
- 34:46Speaker 2: I definitely outside. I'm not.
- 34:53Speaker 1: But they say that, you know, people like the brag
- 34:56Speaker 1: on how good the Asian Gucci is. I mean, I'll
- 34:59Speaker 1: never know because I'm a but men seem to think
- 35:01Speaker 1: that Cuchi is different. And it's probably because the way
- 35:04Speaker 1: in which they are using the bathroom. Maybe their situation
- 35:10Speaker 1: inside is a little bit different. I don't know.
- 35:13Speaker 2: Do we have an extra curve? Do they have an
- 35:15Speaker 2: extra curve?
- 35:15Speaker 1: Like something's happening because they say they got bomb Kuchi
- 35:18Speaker 1: over there. Maybe we need to start squatting because the
- 35:26Speaker 1: way we even have our kids isn't right. Laying on
- 35:29Speaker 1: your back, having a kitchen, the way we use the bathroom,
- 35:32Speaker 1: you need your feet need to be elevated. So squatting
- 35:34Speaker 1: kind of puts you in that same position. Kind of yeah,
- 35:37Speaker 1: or just buy a squatty party. You can get those
- 35:40Speaker 1: and that'll help you in that to be in that
- 35:42Speaker 1: position over you know, the toilet instead of trying to
- 35:44Speaker 1: stay in your big ass up on the toilet seat.
- 35:47Speaker 1: I got a funny story about that, this truck drive
- 35:50Speaker 1: I used to date. He said he was at a
- 35:52Speaker 1: truck stop and he was using a stall and he
- 35:54Speaker 1: heard like shit dropping into the toilet in the stall
- 35:57Speaker 1: next to him. But he looked down and he didn't
- 35:59Speaker 1: se no feet right, He just kept hearing and he
- 36:03Speaker 1: started hearing like like you know. So when he finished
- 36:06Speaker 1: in his stall, he said he kicked the door. He
- 36:10Speaker 1: kicked the door of the other stall, and it was
- 36:12Speaker 1: an Asian guy and there squatting on the toilet and
- 36:15Speaker 1: he was like, no, you got your dirty ass feet
- 36:23Speaker 1: on the toilet. An American Western toilet squad. I guess
- 36:28Speaker 1: he thought it was a ghost over there taking a
- 36:29Speaker 1: ship or something.
- 36:37Speaker 2: I imagine you buy your business taking the ship and
- 36:39Speaker 2: somebody kicked the door in. You're so vulnera ship, you
- 36:49Speaker 2: very This is a very vulnerable position to be. One
- 36:53Speaker 2: wrong move, one wrong move, that.
- 36:55Speaker 1: Ship gonna be everywhere.
- 37:01Speaker 2: Shame. All right? So what are your favorite fall foods?
- 37:06Speaker 1: Like? What I have been drinking a lot of lately
- 37:10Speaker 1: is macha, y'all maatcha tea cold? Actually I don't really
- 37:16Speaker 1: like warm. I like warm tea at night, I might
- 37:19Speaker 1: do like a Yeah, I've been being kind of fat
- 37:21Speaker 1: when it comes to the drinks because I usually drive
- 37:24Speaker 1: thirty minutes to this Thi Thie restaurant. This Vietnamese restaurant
- 37:28Speaker 1: downtown Charleston for my boba tea and shrimp summer rolls.
- 37:33Speaker 1: But I've been making them here at home, and I
- 37:35Speaker 1: have done so much research. That's another thing I did
- 37:37Speaker 1: over the weekend, research your macha. So I didn't realize
- 37:41Speaker 1: that macha could be upwards one hundred and fifty dollars
- 37:45Speaker 1: for one ounce. Okay, So now I got like, yes,
- 37:48Speaker 1: I have like three because macha's also like natural caffeine camfeine. Right,
- 37:54Speaker 1: So if you want to get like the workout in
- 37:56Speaker 1: for the fall, right, drink your some machya. Take your vitamins.
- 38:00Speaker 1: It your vitamin D. We're going to need a lot
- 38:02Speaker 1: of that for the fall. Have the sun. We already
- 38:05Speaker 1: don't get enough sun even in the summer, right, So
- 38:08Speaker 1: beefing up on your vitamin your vitamin D is essential
- 38:13Speaker 1: right for the winter and the fall and winter months.
- 38:17Speaker 1: But man, my workouts have been real good, just hitting it,
- 38:23Speaker 1: hitting the gym thirty minutes after the macha and just
- 38:25Speaker 1: taking my vitamin D like for real, because it just
- 38:28Speaker 1: gives you that nice little rush and I'm sweating, is there?
- 38:32Speaker 1: Let me add in there? I did I did?
- 38:34Speaker 2: I do?
- 38:34Speaker 1: Be taking creatine now too. Oh yeah, creatine them extra
- 38:39Speaker 1: reps in Yeah, and that set a particular brand. So
- 38:45Speaker 1: I used to buy this macha brand that was already
- 38:48Speaker 1: like a pre made little shot. It's called I Love Macha.
- 38:53Speaker 1: So I ordered. They don't sell it in the store anymore.
- 38:56Speaker 1: So I ordered their powder Macha, which is like twenty
- 39:00Speaker 1: four dollars off Amazon for the small ass in the
- 39:04Speaker 1: middle of my hand, low metal container. So Love Macha
- 39:07Speaker 1: is a good one. And this other hold on, let
- 39:11Speaker 1: me tell y'all because I'm I guess it's pronounced naoki.
- 39:22Speaker 1: It's n a o k i. It's fine Japanese machya.
- 39:26Speaker 1: And so you want to do this ceremonial grade macha
- 39:29Speaker 1: because you they have the macha you could cook with,
- 39:34Speaker 1: right I ceremonial grade is going to be like the
- 39:36Speaker 1: highest con concentration of caffeine. Also, and it has thigh
- 39:42Speaker 1: nine in it, and is it cathagens? Yeah?
- 39:51Speaker 2: Anyway, uh Naoki Naokia? And how much are you using?
- 39:56Speaker 2: The guy that's a small little container, are you using
- 39:58Speaker 2: just like a table that.
- 40:00Speaker 1: It's tea spoon one teaspoon, So I do like a
- 40:02Speaker 1: tea spoon and a half though I didn't realize how
- 40:05Speaker 1: much caffeine was in Macha. One day, I did two marches,
- 40:08Speaker 1: and I liked to pass out, pass out every I thought.
- 40:11Speaker 1: I felt so sick, like I had to go lay down,
- 40:15Speaker 1: So be careful. One tablespoon a tea tea spoon, one
- 40:19Speaker 1: teaspoon to a tablespoon, no more than that.
- 40:22Speaker 2: I forgot to tell y'all this why you said that
- 40:25Speaker 2: that you passed out bruh this weekend. I didn't want
- 40:31Speaker 2: to drink no liquor. I had that nowadays THC beverage.
- 40:38Speaker 2: I never seen that, and I didn't listen to the
- 40:42Speaker 2: recommended dosage. And I took two big gulps of that
- 40:46Speaker 2: ship because it's got a nice taste. Y'all. When I
- 40:51Speaker 2: tell you I was in this bitch, I'm starting to
- 40:55Speaker 2: see spaceship, some bank bitch. I was so. I was
- 41:01Speaker 2: so high. I was scary high, like I thought I
- 41:03Speaker 2: was gonna start. I think I might have started hallucinating
- 41:06Speaker 2: a little bit, y'all. Like I got in them. I
- 41:08Speaker 2: called my friend. He's in LA, so it's like three
- 41:10Speaker 2: hours behind. I said, I really need your help. I
- 41:13Speaker 2: really need you to talk to me. I am starting
- 41:15Speaker 2: to trip. He's like getting the shower. I was in
- 41:18Speaker 2: the phone in the shower with the phone like just
- 41:21Speaker 2: talking to me about something. I took a cold shower.
- 41:24Speaker 2: I took a hot shower. I got back out. I
- 41:26Speaker 2: was just staring in the mirror at myself, like close
- 41:29Speaker 2: to the mirror. I'm talking about like my nose was
- 41:32Speaker 2: almost touching the mirror. That's how close I was looking
- 41:34Speaker 2: at myself in the mirror. I was trying to watch TV.
- 41:37Speaker 2: I was just trying not to spast And I had
- 41:41Speaker 2: this bottle of kombucha and I swear that motherfucker was sizzling.
- 41:47Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 41:49Speaker 1: I don't know even can butcher do be sizzling. It
- 41:52Speaker 1: had system to it. No, it wasn't open though. It
- 42:03Speaker 1: was about white a minute. Motherfucker, Y're gonna drugs?
- 42:09Speaker 2: Tell you that happened to me, Like, and I was
- 42:11Speaker 2: scared to go to sleep. Don't listen. So I say
- 42:14Speaker 2: all that to say, like Ashley is telling y'all. AJ
- 42:18Speaker 2: is telling y'all to make sure you look at the
- 42:20Speaker 2: recommended dosage of the macha. If you purchase it, please
- 42:24Speaker 2: follow the container instructions.
- 42:26Speaker 1: Guys, where did you get the drink from? Did it
- 42:29Speaker 1: come from like one of those corner stores or something.
- 42:30Speaker 2: I know it came from one of the yeah, the
- 42:36Speaker 2: CBD places. Yeah, and it's called Nowadays and it's like
- 42:41Speaker 2: a THC And it comes in a bottle that looks
- 42:43Speaker 2: like a liquor bottle, you know, it's glass is tall
- 42:46Speaker 2: like a liquor bottle. And it does have a recommended dosage.
- 42:50Speaker 2: And then it also does like so when I google
- 42:53Speaker 2: if you overdose on it, like what would happen in it?
- 42:55Speaker 2: You know, said you could start to hallucinate, but don't
- 43:01Speaker 2: just try to stay calm, which made me not stay calm.
- 43:04Speaker 2: That's when I was like, like I started hyperventilating. It
- 43:10Speaker 2: was crazy. I don't want no more of the 'all.
- 43:13Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, be careful.
- 43:15Speaker 2: Be careful with that happened this weekend after one of
- 43:18Speaker 2: my days. But okay, back to your.
- 43:22Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's the macha, and make sure you're refrigerating
- 43:25Speaker 1: watching and the greener, the lighter like lime green looking color.
- 43:28Speaker 1: You don't want like a dark, doody brown looking orange green.
- 43:32Speaker 1: I'm exacuse me green looking macha. That's not like the
- 43:34Speaker 1: good macha. Your macha should be like like really really green,
- 43:38Speaker 1: like a light green that's gonna be like the better green.
- 43:42Speaker 1: Try it, man, I'm addicted. I'm addicted to machia because
- 43:45Speaker 1: I don't like coffee.
- 43:47Speaker 2: I don't I like mancha. I always get like a
- 43:49Speaker 2: macho lte from Starbucks.
- 43:52Speaker 1: But it's if y'all want to complain about the price
- 43:55Speaker 1: of it, just think when you go to Starbucks every
- 43:57Speaker 1: single day for your machio latte, your lavender matcha latte,
- 44:00Speaker 1: whatever that shit costs, how much? So I can get
- 44:04Speaker 1: at least thirty of them? About this, you know, yeah,
- 44:07Speaker 1: at least twenty of them drinks.
- 44:11Speaker 2: And that's definitely a lot cheaper if you think about it.
- 44:14Speaker 2: So my thing for a fall is a crop crockpot.
- 44:19Speaker 2: I hate to see me coming during the fall because
- 44:21Speaker 2: everything you could just dump off. There's so many crockpot
- 44:24Speaker 2: recipes that are so easy that you can wake up
- 44:27Speaker 2: in the morning, throw that shit in the crockpot, and
- 44:29Speaker 2: by the time you get home, it's done. A soup,
- 44:32Speaker 2: a soup. Hate to see me coming during the fall.
- 44:38Speaker 2: I like to make a taco chicken tortilla soup. That's
- 44:45Speaker 2: what it is. Chick I love to make there in
- 44:48Speaker 2: the fall and then the zupa tuskana. I think that's
- 44:50Speaker 2: how you pronounce it. I don't know. It's kind of
- 44:52Speaker 2: like the one that they got at Olive Garden, but
- 44:54Speaker 2: at home it's got like the potatoes, the caw yo,
- 45:01Speaker 2: the ground beef.
- 45:04Speaker 1: Like wedding soup. This isn't it called wedding soup?
- 45:08Speaker 2: Has like those little I've never noodles in it, those
- 45:11Speaker 2: little I don't think. It ain't no noodles in it.
- 45:15Speaker 2: I don't think. It's just potatoes and spinach and cheese
- 45:20Speaker 2: and bacon. Some you know, put bacon on top. That's
- 45:23Speaker 2: why you probably don't know, because you don't eat none
- 45:24Speaker 2: of that shit.
- 45:27Speaker 1: Not the meat anyway. Yeah, uh, crock pot stuff, I see,
- 45:31Speaker 1: I don't now. I did recently start making me some
- 45:34Speaker 1: shrimp and gravy because I love shrimp and gravy, but
- 45:37Speaker 1: I hadn't been eating it for years because I don't
- 45:39Speaker 1: eat bacon. That's that would be the only one I did.
- 45:41Speaker 1: Used to eat meat. I love shrimp and grits and
- 45:44Speaker 1: shrimping shrimp and rice, but you got to cook it
- 45:46Speaker 1: with the bacon. That's really the only time I would
- 45:49Speaker 1: eat the bacon. But I have since learned y'all how
- 45:54Speaker 1: to cook my shrimp and gravy without meat. I use
- 45:59Speaker 1: seafood stock.
- 46:00Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
- 46:01Speaker 1: So you brown your shrimp with the flour just like
- 46:04Speaker 1: you would do, you know, making the regular one, and
- 46:06Speaker 1: you do the seafood stock instead of putting water in there,
- 46:10Speaker 1: and put a little bit of that smoke flavored in there,
- 46:13Speaker 1: because that's really what the meat is for. Like that
- 46:15Speaker 1: smoke flavor from the bacon is what you're looking for.
- 46:18Speaker 2: Bitch good, It's lit.
- 46:20Speaker 1: That's a whole week, a whole week worth of shrimp
- 46:24Speaker 1: and gravy with some rice or grits in the morning.
- 46:28Speaker 2: That's a fat ass episode. It's okay. Next week we're
- 46:33Speaker 2: gonna talk about how not to be fat football. What
- 46:44Speaker 2: about like what you have in your home? Like do
- 46:48Speaker 2: you I know you said you upgraded your bed, but
- 46:51Speaker 2: like is there anny like decorations you do for the
- 46:54Speaker 2: fall or.
- 46:55Speaker 1: Is it m not so much. I am in the
- 46:58Speaker 1: middle of kind of redecorating. I'm looking for a sofa.
- 47:00Speaker 1: I've been on TikTok every day all day looking at
- 47:04Speaker 1: the clouds sofa girlies and all these beds that are
- 47:09Speaker 1: on like Amazon, Wayfair, all these different sofa companies. It's
- 47:14Speaker 1: hard to know what shit gonna be like when you
- 47:15Speaker 1: get it home, when it comes delivered to your house.
- 47:19Speaker 2: Yeah, and they come in a plastic bag like is
- 47:20Speaker 2: it blocked bag? And you gotta shut it over that shit.
- 47:24Speaker 1: Or like five or six boxes and then you have
- 47:26Speaker 1: the the cushions. Yeah, Like I'm afraid to order a
- 47:31Speaker 1: damn three thousand dollars sofa and that should be some
- 47:33Speaker 1: bullshit when it gets.
- 47:34Speaker 2: You where I like to look for stuff like that
- 47:36Speaker 2: Facebook marketplace.
- 47:38Speaker 1: I don't want a sofa though. I don't want to
- 47:41Speaker 1: use for from like hell no, because you just never know.
- 47:44Speaker 1: People be having bad bugs, animals, Like I got a cat,
- 47:47Speaker 1: but I don't want your shit with a cat on it.
- 47:49Speaker 1: That's fair, right, And so now because I'm living alone,
- 47:52Speaker 1: now I can get what I want and not have
- 47:55Speaker 1: a man fuck it up. Okay, That's where I'm at,
- 47:59Speaker 1: Like I really holding off, Like look at my little cute,
- 48:02Speaker 1: little little my little dining table seating area here, you
- 48:09Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I could not have done
- 48:12Speaker 1: that with a man living in here, Like you could
- 48:15Speaker 1: have brown Girl without nagging him about sitting down on it.
- 48:20Speaker 2: Why are you sitting on those chairs.
- 48:24Speaker 1: Watching has every move with this white like I want
- 48:27Speaker 1: a white sofa, Like I gotta do that before I
- 48:30Speaker 1: have kids and another man living in the house.
- 48:32Speaker 2: I think my greatest accent for fall is candles I loved.
- 48:37Speaker 2: I love to like throw a pumpkin somewhere in the house.
- 48:41Speaker 2: New tones, like neutral, new colors. There's got to be
- 48:45Speaker 2: like a pumpkin somewhere, a little punkin it. Don't have
- 48:48Speaker 2: to be a real pumpkin, but a pumpkin got to
- 48:50Speaker 2: sit somewhere in this motherfucker just to let everybody know
- 48:53Speaker 2: that it's fall. And then it's the fragrances that are
- 48:57Speaker 2: in the home. That cozy fragrance just sits off the
- 49:00Speaker 2: vibe in your house.
- 49:00Speaker 1: I feel like, ooh, my favorite fragrance, like perfume fragrance
- 49:05Speaker 1: for fall winter months is that vanilla tobacco from tom Ford.
- 49:09Speaker 1: Oh yeah, vanilla, that's my ship. Yeah around this time,
- 49:13Speaker 1: because it just goes. That's probably the only pumpkin spice
- 49:16Speaker 1: smelling something I want to smell. I love that on
- 49:18Speaker 1: my skin.
- 49:19Speaker 2: It doesn't it's like my you know how, there's your
- 49:22Speaker 2: invisible note that is you? That one don't that don't
- 49:26Speaker 2: smell good. I don't do it for you. They don't
- 49:28Speaker 2: smell nice on my my skin for whatever reason. That tobacco,
- 49:32Speaker 2: that that musky tobacco. This just make me stink. I
- 49:39Speaker 2: love vanilla, vanilla, vanilla anything. Yeah, like that vanilla candle
- 49:45Speaker 2: you're supposed to get.
- 49:47Speaker 1: You said you already got it, you.
- 49:49Speaker 2: Have it, but I can have to. I can have too.
- 49:52Speaker 2: So there's there's that.
- 49:54Speaker 1: I didn't see them. They're not in there no more
- 49:56Speaker 1: for real. Now they're gone me not Yeah, they're gone.
- 50:00Speaker 1: They might come back for fall, they might come back.
- 50:04Speaker 1: Is this the first week of fall?
- 50:05Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 50:06Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the very first week of fall. What
- 50:08Speaker 1: y'all bitch is wearing? Because you know winter and and fall,
- 50:12Speaker 1: it's really for like bitches who can put that shit on?
- 50:15Speaker 1: Because I feel like them young girls don't know what
- 50:17Speaker 1: the hell to wear if they can't be naked, Like
- 50:21Speaker 1: this is boots season, nice fly sweater season. Everything could
- 50:24Speaker 1: be so form fitted, but you gotta get you gotta
- 50:27Speaker 1: really put that ship on or know how to for
- 50:29Speaker 1: winter and fall. Yes, and layers, the layers, the boots, boots.
- 50:37Speaker 2: I'm ready to pull my boots out now. And I've
- 50:40Speaker 2: been shopping for boots in summer. Yeah, I mean if
- 50:45Speaker 2: you got if you bought some boots in the summer
- 50:47Speaker 2: and spring, you got good sales. But now they're going up.
- 50:51Speaker 2: Steve Manner got some Q boots that they came out too,
- 50:54Speaker 2: like for this season. I was like, Okay, Steve mann
- 50:58Speaker 2: y'all came out with some really nice up this season.
- 51:01Speaker 1: Steve Madden be having some nice stuff. I don't know
- 51:03Speaker 1: who's copying who though. Could it be that some of
- 51:06Speaker 1: the designers are copying them. We would never know, Like
- 51:09Speaker 1: they just always look like they got to knock off
- 51:11Speaker 1: or some shit. But who came out with it first?
- 51:14Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like Steve Madden came out with it first.
- 51:17Speaker 2: Right, and then and then the upper designers copy. You
- 51:21Speaker 2: never know. Yeah, we'vesign got some cute boots too for
- 51:24Speaker 2: this fall that I ain't getting. I don't know.
- 51:31Speaker 1: That's another thing. Like listen, I sell. I resell a
- 51:33Speaker 1: lot of things. That's another thing I do. End of
- 51:35Speaker 1: the year, start reselling shits. I could buy more shit.
- 51:38Speaker 1: I will buy somebody's preloved boot, the soling all fucked
- 51:43Speaker 1: up with it, depending you know, I can get it
- 51:45Speaker 1: at a fraction to cost because there's some.
- 51:48Speaker 2: Oh you got Fendy boots that were like, uh.
- 51:51Speaker 1: Those is brand new age when I got them. I
- 51:53Speaker 1: got those from the real real. I show up on
- 51:55Speaker 1: the real reel a lot and some of that stuff
- 51:56Speaker 1: on there is new with tags and bags and box.
- 52:00Speaker 1: Yeah it's not always from an individual. Oh even yes,
- 52:04Speaker 1: sometimes it is from an individual, but unworn. I got
- 52:08Speaker 1: shipped with tags on that I put on to the
- 52:10Speaker 1: real real. So yeah, I in my boots and shit
- 52:15Speaker 1: from the real real child. It's some it's some some
- 52:20Speaker 1: Giuseppe boots on there right now I want, but I
- 52:23Speaker 1: don't know if my leg gonna be like my cafe
- 52:27Speaker 1: going in and you know now, and they charge you
- 52:30Speaker 1: to return. So when you buy an item from there,
- 52:32Speaker 1: you can just purchase it for the price that they
- 52:34Speaker 1: have or it's like you got to add fifteen dollars
- 52:37Speaker 1: to be able to return it just the case, Yes.
- 52:41Speaker 2: So you got to add fifteen dollars, like if advance
- 52:44Speaker 2: if you might want to return it. Yes. Other than that,
- 52:48Speaker 2: it'sifying itself.
- 52:51Speaker 1: That a skill, it is, But I mean people probably
- 52:54Speaker 1: buying shit and returning it like you buy, use it
- 52:56Speaker 1: in returning it.
- 52:58Speaker 2: Using it and returning it, using it.
- 53:00Speaker 1: And returning it.
- 53:01Speaker 2: So they probably got to put a stop to that.
- 53:03Speaker 2: I really need to, like because I see people like
- 53:06Speaker 2: selling their clothes online, I probably need to do that.
- 53:09Speaker 2: I got so much shit that I don't wear. I'm
- 53:12Speaker 2: talking about so much shit, like I think I'm a
- 53:15Speaker 2: clothing hoarder. I buy shit and then never wear it.
- 53:18Speaker 2: It's so much shit with tags on it that I
- 53:20Speaker 2: can't even fit. And then I'd be like, I'm gonna
- 53:22Speaker 2: get into that. Ain't got into it yet.
- 53:26Speaker 1: That'd be the motivation.
- 53:29Speaker 2: Girl.
- 53:29Speaker 1: I got some jeans from bb Bitch. I got some
- 53:32Speaker 1: BB and ardent B jeans that I still be holding
- 53:34Speaker 1: on too in YO closet because I'm gonna get in them.
- 53:38Speaker 2: I got. I got some dresses that I wore the
- 53:41Speaker 2: homecoming when I was still in college.
- 53:48Speaker 1: I got a wedding dress. I got a wedding dress
- 53:51Speaker 1: and a funeral funeral dress that I probably have worn
- 53:55Speaker 1: this dress to several weddings, and I have warned this.
- 53:59Speaker 1: I wore my funeral dress at my friends friend's funeral
- 54:01Speaker 1: the other day and I have had that dress since
- 54:05Speaker 1: nineteen since I was like nineteen to twenty, I've had.
- 54:08Speaker 2: That's your funeral dress.
- 54:11Speaker 1: Yes, it's very cute if you will always give a
- 54:13Speaker 1: comp on it.
- 54:14Speaker 2: It's like it's new need more clothes like that, because
- 54:17Speaker 2: I definitely have the dress that I wore to my
- 54:19Speaker 2: grandmother's funeral in my closet and I never will wear
- 54:23Speaker 2: that again. But it's just I still have it because
- 54:26Speaker 2: it was the dress I wore to my grandmother's funeral.
- 54:29Speaker 2: And that's the exact definition of hoarding, because I've associated
- 54:35Speaker 2: a memory with this item and that's why you can't
- 54:38Speaker 2: go into it. Yeah, okay, but that's a cop. That's
- 54:41Speaker 2: another episode. Let go all right, So let's get into
- 54:48Speaker 2: like a guided meditation to start our fall season.
- 54:54Speaker 1: Yeah, so if y'all are driving, please don't partake in this. Okay,
- 54:59Speaker 1: just I don't know. Listen to the episode again. Yeah,
- 55:01Speaker 1: give us another download when you get home and stationary.
- 55:05Speaker 1: But we're gonna do a quick, low, five minute guided
- 55:09Speaker 1: meditation for fall. Okay, all right, so we want you
- 55:14Speaker 1: to sit. You're gonna do it town.
- 55:17Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm about to turn my mic off and close
- 55:19Speaker 2: my eyes, all right.
- 55:21Speaker 1: So we're gonna sit comfortably, okay, either on a chair
- 55:26Speaker 1: with your feet flat on the ground or on a cushion,
- 55:30Speaker 1: Rest your hands gently in your lap, close your eyes.
- 55:35Speaker 1: If that feels safe, go ahead and do it now. Okay,
- 55:38Speaker 1: So we're gonna begin with the breath. Okay, you're gonna
- 55:44Speaker 1: take a deep breath in through your nose and out
- 55:53Speaker 1: through your mouth, real heavy, just full mouth breathe out
- 55:59Speaker 1: and nose, full breath out through your mouth. Okay, it's
- 56:07Speaker 1: to take one more slow, deep inhale through your nose
- 56:11Speaker 1: and release it fully through your mouth, as if you're
- 56:16Speaker 1: inhaling a soft fog into winter air. Did this spout
- 56:22Speaker 1: one more time, letting each exhale carry away all of
- 56:28Speaker 1: that summer hustle, bustle, tension. All right, Now, I want
- 56:34Speaker 1: you to visualize winter's calmness, okay, because you know fall
- 56:39Speaker 1: leads us into this colder, cozy month. So picture yourself
- 56:45Speaker 1: in a quiet, you know fall landscape. Perhaps you know
- 56:50Speaker 1: trees are falling. You see all that nice orange brown reds,
- 56:56Speaker 1: all the different tones right blanketing the earth and its stillness.
- 57:02Speaker 1: The air is so crisp, clear and fresh. Just notice
- 57:07Speaker 1: how nature slows down in this season. The trees are
- 57:10Speaker 1: getting kind of bare, the animals are resting and the
- 57:13Speaker 1: world moves more softly, okay, And this is your affirmation
- 57:20Speaker 1: and stillness. As you continue to breathe, don't forget to breathe,
- 57:25Speaker 1: as y'all know, when we're stressed out, we don't breathe.
- 57:29Speaker 1: So when you catch yourself not breathing, take a deep
- 57:31Speaker 1: breath in and deep breath out. And it's okay to
- 57:34Speaker 1: keep restarting as many times as you need to. Then
- 57:37Speaker 1: here's our affirmation here. And we talked back. I welcome rest.
- 57:42Speaker 1: You know last week we had a challenge where we're
- 57:46Speaker 1: going to challenge you to get eight hours of sleep.
- 57:48Speaker 1: We are doing that for fall. So I welcome rest.
- 57:53Speaker 1: I honor this season of quiet stillness restores me. Okay,
- 58:02Speaker 1: scan your body, take one last deep breathing, holding the
- 58:08Speaker 1: quiet strength of fall inside, and exhales slowly, releasing what
- 58:14Speaker 1: no longer serves you. And when you're ready, open your
- 58:18Speaker 1: eyes and carry this stillness into your day.
- 58:24Speaker 2: Ell no, no good, jay yay. I loved that. I
- 58:30Speaker 2: imagine for the fall. I imagine myself walking in a
- 58:36Speaker 2: park and like rustling leaves under my feet, holding something
- 58:41Speaker 2: hot to drink in my hand. Yes, I can't wait
- 58:47Speaker 2: to go on.
- 58:47Speaker 1: Three more dates.
- 58:48Speaker 2: Yes, it was a nigga beside me and my imagination,
- 58:52Speaker 2: but I ain't say that part. Y'all enjoyed that, y'all
- 58:56Speaker 2: like that. I really love it. I really loved that.
- 58:58Speaker 2: I really love fall. Do you have a last last
- 59:05Speaker 2: release release for the fall while all the.
- 59:10Speaker 1: Leaves are dying. That's the thing about nature, right, how
- 59:13Speaker 1: it restores, how it gets red and grows a new
- 59:19Speaker 1: This is what you do in the fall, right, So
- 59:22Speaker 1: map out next year this fall, and all the things
- 59:29Speaker 1: that aren't serving you, let them go. That's my last last.
- 59:35Speaker 2: Uh yep? I agree with her. You know, Fall teaches
- 59:38Speaker 2: us the beauty of release and letting go. So saying
- 59:43Speaker 2: let go of all the things that don't serve you,
- 59:46Speaker 2: I love yourself more this fall. Be a little selfish
- 59:51Speaker 2: this fall. It's okay, be a little self serving this
- 59:56Speaker 2: fall and let go to things that ain't serving you.
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: And I love y'all so much, and I'm so excited
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: that you're entering this season. When we talked back.
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: And if you get pregnant, okay, just know you'll have
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: that baby bite summertime.
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: And you can be back o. God do it now?
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: Though, all right, y'all, if you enjoyed this episode, y'all
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- 1:00:32Speaker 2: All right, y'all, so let go of grace, rest with
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: intention and trust that the spring within you will bloom again. Y'all.
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: Remember to speak now and I don't know, never hold
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: that old shit.
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