Latest / Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter / George Clooney praises Chrissy Teigen for clapping back, Former ‘Sexiest Man Alive’ John Legend relieved to hand title off, Mariah Carey & Ariana Grande collab confirmed.
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- 0:08Speaker 1: Advice. Hello, Hello, welcome to the Naughty Bird Nice Show.
- 0:16Speaker 1: It is Thursday. I'm in such a good mood and
- 0:18Speaker 1: our friend Mark Lupo joins us today, which makes me
- 0:21Speaker 1: even happier. Mark, are you there? Here? Are? Hello? My friend?
- 0:26Speaker 1: I see you're up in Harlem. Your apartment looks absolutely lovely, lovely, lovely.
- 0:31Speaker 1: I woke up. That's not true, I did. I decided
- 0:34Speaker 1: that I was going to be in a good mood today. Mark.
- 0:36Speaker 1: I didn't wake up in a good mood, but I
- 0:38Speaker 1: was walking around. I was a bit bluer. And it's
- 0:40Speaker 1: amazing how you can control your mind. So I said
- 0:43Speaker 1: to myself, Mark, that's it. No more, no more moodin
- 0:47Speaker 1: us today. You're going to be in a good mood.
- 0:48Speaker 1: It took me ten minutes. I listened to my favorite song,
- 0:51Speaker 1: and now I'm going to have a happy day. Has
- 0:52Speaker 1: that ever happened to you? Is it just my craziness? Now?
- 0:55Speaker 1: It's so true? And I you know, I wake up
- 0:57Speaker 1: every Thursday morning in such a good mood because I
- 0:59Speaker 1: know I get to spend it with you. You are
- 1:02Speaker 1: a dog. Do you know what time it is? Mark?
- 1:05Speaker 1: It is t time. I love this story. At the
- 1:09Speaker 1: top of the show. So George Clooney fancy George Clooney
- 1:13Speaker 1: is praising Chrissie t Gun for clapping back at critics online.
- 1:19Speaker 1: Let me explain. Some millions of people follow Chrissy and
- 1:22Speaker 1: we love her epic clap backs, including apparently George Clooney.
- 1:28Speaker 1: So Clooney told g g Q magazine that he follows
- 1:31Speaker 1: her and he loves watching people go on to try
- 1:34Speaker 1: and pick a fight with her, and he's like, oh, dude,
- 1:36Speaker 1: don't do that. He's like, you brought a knife to
- 1:40Speaker 1: a gunfight. He also confessed to that he has a
- 1:43Speaker 1: stack of angry letters that he sent out over the years.
- 1:47Speaker 1: He doesn't do it on social media. He actually sends
- 1:49Speaker 1: you a letter if you've upset him, and his assistant
- 1:52Speaker 1: calls them George versus the world letters. So he really
- 1:56Speaker 1: enjoys this. He enjoys watching Chrissy fight back. He also
- 2:00Speaker 1: encourages people to pick a good fight. What do you
- 2:03Speaker 1: think about this, mark? Do you clap back or do
- 2:06Speaker 1: you ignore people? It's so funny. Rob. Over the years,
- 2:10Speaker 1: I've worked with George Clooney's publicist whenever I had to
- 2:13Speaker 1: reach out for a comment or a state Hello, stands
- 2:17Speaker 1: the publicist. You know, he's old school and he always
- 2:20Speaker 1: has a witty, funny response from George, so I'm not
- 2:23Speaker 1: surprised by the story. But as for me, I don't
- 2:26Speaker 1: love to clap back online. I just clap back. You know,
- 2:29Speaker 1: the ultimate clap back is your success. So whatever you
- 2:32Speaker 1: do in life, you know, just keep winning, keep focusing
- 2:34Speaker 1: on yourself and let the haters hate. Yeah, I have
- 2:37Speaker 1: really mixed feelings about it. Whenever I've clapped back, I'm
- 2:39Speaker 1: not really very witty, so I think I'm really smart
- 2:42Speaker 1: and slick and like no cowards, and I'm not. I'm
- 2:45Speaker 1: no Christy Tigan. So when I'm ide clap back, I
- 2:48Speaker 1: don't express myself very well, so I always end up
- 2:51Speaker 1: looking a fool, or I misspell things because I'm too angry.
- 2:55Speaker 1: So I've learned personally that I just ignore, and actually
- 2:59Speaker 1: I it's more more hurtful, more more devastating to be
- 3:04Speaker 1: ignored than actually have a fight. Often on social media,
- 3:08Speaker 1: I do think people are all looking for a little
- 3:10Speaker 1: bit of attention and looking for a fight, and so
- 3:14Speaker 1: I try to not do it. But George might have
- 3:16Speaker 1: inspired me, So come at me today, everybody, come back,
- 3:20Speaker 1: Come at me. Throw your best punch to day, and
- 3:23Speaker 1: I promise I'll pinch back. I'm not really a punching
- 3:26Speaker 1: type of guy, but it brings us to our pole
- 3:28Speaker 1: question of the day, Very important. George Clooney is praising
- 3:31Speaker 1: Chrissie tign for clapping back at the critics that come
- 3:35Speaker 1: after her online. Do you do you? Not me? Not Chrissy,
- 3:39Speaker 1: not Mark, not Clooney? Do you clap back? I can't
- 3:43Speaker 1: wait to hear. Let us know by going to our
- 3:45Speaker 1: Twitter page at Naughty Nice Rob. Our facebook page is
- 3:49Speaker 1: Naughty Gossip. You can leave a comment there and be
- 3:52Speaker 1: sure to check back tomorrow to hear your results. I
- 3:55Speaker 1: can't wait. What are you working on? Mark? Yes? So,
- 3:58Speaker 1: speaking of Christie Tige, her husband John Legend, who is
- 4:02Speaker 1: the former Sexiest Man Alive, is sharing that he's feeling
- 4:07Speaker 1: relieved to uh let the title go so Rob. As
- 4:11Speaker 1: you know, Michael B. Jordan was just announced to People's
- 4:14Speaker 1: Sexiest Man Alive of twenty Jimmy Kimmel Alive. Well now,
- 4:19Speaker 1: John Legend is saying it's time to move on and
- 4:22Speaker 1: he's ready to kind of take a set back and
- 4:24Speaker 1: and let the quarantine weight pylon. He said, quote. I
- 4:28Speaker 1: can now keep gaining this quarantine weight in peace without
- 4:31Speaker 1: the pressure of maintaining this title. Michael B. Jordan is
- 4:36Speaker 1: also kind of feeling their pressure. He said that this
- 4:38Speaker 1: title is um the expectations now a bit unreasonable. He
- 4:42Speaker 1: said it's cool to have the title, but he wasn't
- 4:45Speaker 1: really expecting it. I love this this pick. I love
- 4:49Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan's I do think he is the sexiest
- 4:51Speaker 1: man alive of Where do you stand on all this?
- 4:54Speaker 1: I think he's too perfect. I do get it, and
- 4:57Speaker 1: I'm not taking anything away from him. He deserved this,
- 5:00Speaker 1: But if I was in charge, I would have picked
- 5:03Speaker 1: somebody a little bit more quirky, less obvious. I like
- 5:06Speaker 1: Dan Levy from Ship's Creek, so I think he's so adorable.
- 5:11Speaker 1: I didn't know. I've Also, everybody knows I have a
- 5:13Speaker 1: crush on Jimmy Kimmel, so I like the funny guys.
- 5:17Speaker 1: I don't know. I think his body is a little
- 5:19Speaker 1: bit too perfect. His abs are a little bit too perfect.
- 5:22Speaker 1: It felt a little bit obvious to me now in
- 5:26Speaker 1: my PR days, though I used to work with People
- 5:28Speaker 1: Magazine a great deal, particularly on this issue. Many of
- 5:31Speaker 1: my clients, including Bon Jovi, he was on the cover.
- 5:34Speaker 1: I think once did he have been the sexiest men
- 5:38Speaker 1: alive or at least in the issue. People really want
- 5:41Speaker 1: to get into this issue. If you're a male celebrity
- 5:44Speaker 1: and you're in this issue, you really do enjoy it.
- 5:46Speaker 1: The one rule they have, the People magazine has the
- 5:49Speaker 1: following rule. You cannot be on the cover. You can't
- 5:51Speaker 1: be crowned the sexiest. You can be in the issue.
- 5:54Speaker 1: You can be one of the sexiest, but you can't win.
- 5:56Speaker 1: You can't be the sexiest unless you give them an
- 5:59Speaker 1: inter you and a photo shoots. They won't use what
- 6:02Speaker 1: we call stock art or old art, or or photographs
- 6:05Speaker 1: of you that were taken on the street. It has
- 6:07Speaker 1: to be an exclusive photo shoot. Do you know the
- 6:09Speaker 1: only celebrity that I believe turned this down? Do you
- 6:12Speaker 1: want to guess? I think every man I can think
- 6:16Speaker 1: of has been on the cover. Ryan Goslin said, said
- 6:21Speaker 1: they wanted to do Ryan Goslin, he didn't want to
- 6:23Speaker 1: do the photo shoot, He didn't want to do the interview.
- 6:25Speaker 1: He didn't really want the honor. Some actors, actors, some
- 6:29Speaker 1: really serious types look down there nos that this a
- 6:32Speaker 1: little bit. I think they think it's frivolous and shallow,
- 6:35Speaker 1: and it probably is, but it's awfully a lot of fun.
- 6:38Speaker 1: So pick up an issue, flick through. There are a
- 6:40Speaker 1: lot of really cute guys. I wanted to ask you
- 6:42Speaker 1: this too, Mark. I look through the issue. Michael B.
- 6:46Speaker 1: Jordan's doesn't have his shirt off in any pictures. Do
- 6:49Speaker 1: you think that was a requirements they did a photo shoot.
- 6:51Speaker 1: He's always shirtless on Instagram. He's not shirtless in the issue.
- 6:55Speaker 1: That's a bit strange, you know what. Rubbed to your point,
- 6:58Speaker 1: I think we all get it. Like with we can
- 7:00Speaker 1: get that he's perfect. I think we are can kind
- 7:02Speaker 1: of see pass that. I think this year especially, people
- 7:05Speaker 1: don't need to be reminded of other people's successes and
- 7:09Speaker 1: you know, privilege. So I'm kind of into the fact
- 7:11Speaker 1: that he's toned down for this this issue, you would
- 7:14Speaker 1: be shirtless mart General. Also to what he said, his
- 7:18Speaker 1: number one quality is in a person when he's looking
- 7:20Speaker 1: to meet somebody, a sense of humor. I like that.
- 7:25Speaker 1: This story is wonderful. So Mariah Carey and Ariana Grande
- 7:29Speaker 1: are going to collaborate on some sort of Christmas Christmas things,
- 7:33Speaker 1: So we're inching closer and closer towards the holiday season.
- 7:37Speaker 1: When you think Christmas, come on after Santa, you think
- 7:40Speaker 1: Mariah Carey, we have to. She's got a new holiday
- 7:44Speaker 1: special and she's got some great performers in it, including
- 7:47Speaker 1: arian Grande, Jennifer Hudson, and Snoop Dogg. Or That's gonna
- 7:52Speaker 1: be fun. It airs on December four on Apple TV. Also,
- 7:56Speaker 1: two guest stars include Tiffany Haddish, also to her two
- 8:00Speaker 1: twins are going to make an appearance. Are you down
- 8:04Speaker 1: for a Mariah Ariana Christmas duet? Mark Rob, I cannot
- 8:09Speaker 1: think of a better holiday duet than Ariana Grande m
- 8:12Speaker 1: Maria carry. It's the ultimate ultimate diva, silent night holiday tune.
- 8:17Speaker 1: Whatever it is, it's so much fun. They're going to
- 8:20Speaker 1: be riffed on the melody, doing octave jumps up and down.
- 8:23Speaker 1: Do you think there'll be a little bit of competition?
- 8:25Speaker 1: Like the two of them maybe are the greatest singers
- 8:28Speaker 1: alive today? I think we can go that far these two.
- 8:31Speaker 1: I mean, I think they have like a five octave range.
- 8:34Speaker 1: I think this is so so excited. I sort of
- 8:37Speaker 1: want a little battle between them to see who can
- 8:39Speaker 1: hit the highest note and hold it the longest. I
- 8:42Speaker 1: think it might be Ariana. Oh my goodness, I'm going
- 8:44Speaker 1: to upset the labs. Let's move along quickly, Mark, what
- 8:46Speaker 1: are you think? What are you working up? Rather? This
- 8:48Speaker 1: is such a juicy story. Tire Banks has not been
- 8:52Speaker 1: kind to her, and I hate the share that. I
- 8:54Speaker 1: have another story to bring you. Rob Um Niam and Campbell,
- 8:58Speaker 1: her her former nemesis, just shared an article calling Tira
- 9:02Speaker 1: Banks mean. Okay, so we all thought that Naomi and
- 9:07Speaker 1: tire had ended their feud years ago, but apparently not so.
- 9:10Speaker 1: The article that Naomi shared it's from the Things The Things,
- 9:15Speaker 1: and it's titled Here's why fans are starting to think
- 9:18Speaker 1: that tire Banks is the real mean girl, not Naomi came.
- 9:22Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know. So the article called
- 9:25Speaker 1: out Tira for some of her controversial moments from America's
- 9:28Speaker 1: Next Top Model Now Rob Last year, Tires told The
- 9:32Speaker 1: Wall Street Journal that there really wasn't a riff between
- 9:36Speaker 1: her and Naomi. She said she's a very sensitive person.
- 9:39Speaker 1: She said that she felt that Naomi was more dominant,
- 9:42Speaker 1: more aggressive during their feud, but it turns out that
- 9:46Speaker 1: Naomi is kind of not really feeling the same way
- 9:49Speaker 1: on two thousand five, Naomi came on the Tira Banks
- 9:52Speaker 1: Show where they kind of they aired out their dirty laundry,
- 9:55Speaker 1: and you know, Tira complained in wine and cried uh
- 9:58Speaker 1: and you know they eventually called the truth. But Robert
- 10:01Speaker 1: seems like some reignited. And I know that you've you know,
- 10:05Speaker 1: you've worked with Tira in the past, you worked with Naomi,
- 10:07Speaker 1: You texted color, I worked for Tyra. What do you
- 10:10Speaker 1: think about this? I did. I worked for for both
- 10:14Speaker 1: of them, with both of them. I worked with Naomi
- 10:16Speaker 1: for for several years. I really like Naomi. Tyra was
- 10:19Speaker 1: my first famous person when I was very young. I
- 10:22Speaker 1: was her public issue, was my first famous sort of clients.
- 10:24Speaker 1: And I love her too. For me, and this is
- 10:26Speaker 1: going to sound shocking, they're the same person. They're both dominant,
- 10:31Speaker 1: they're both strong, they're both powerful. And I say that
- 10:33Speaker 1: as a compliment. These two, these two ladies are bosses.
- 10:37Speaker 1: And that's what really made me excited about them. And
- 10:39Speaker 1: I think in life we do like to pick people
- 10:42Speaker 1: against each other, particularly when they might be similar. Gay
- 10:46Speaker 1: men are pitted against other gay men, women against other women,
- 10:49Speaker 1: people of color. I do understand why this happened. But
- 10:53Speaker 1: I think there's room for both of them. I think
- 10:55Speaker 1: they both have extraordinary careers. Naomi is still on the
- 10:58Speaker 1: cat walk and looking better than ever. Tyr is doing
- 11:01Speaker 1: great now hosting, and she's on Dancing with the Stars.
- 11:04Speaker 1: So I don't think there's any big problem here. I mean,
- 11:07Speaker 1: we should be so lucky to be half as successful
- 11:10Speaker 1: as either one of them. When I worked with them,
- 11:12Speaker 1: though the other one didn't come up, it wasn't like
- 11:15Speaker 1: they spent all day. Do you have a friend who
- 11:17Speaker 1: all they do is moan about other people? Neither one
- 11:20Speaker 1: of them was that girl, and I think that is
- 11:22Speaker 1: why they're so successful. Both of them are focused on
- 11:26Speaker 1: their own career, not the other ones, and that's why
- 11:29Speaker 1: these two are superstars. So quickly before we go to
- 11:32Speaker 1: break Laurie Lucklin, it appears that she's been calling her
- 11:36Speaker 1: publicist from prison. So there's this amazing, amazing positive story
- 11:40Speaker 1: about Laurie in People magazine and saying that she doesn't
- 11:44Speaker 1: have any specific problems in jail. She's adjusted to the routine.
- 11:47Speaker 1: She was a little bit weepy on the first night,
- 11:49Speaker 1: but she's pulled herself together and now she's going to
- 11:52Speaker 1: finish her sentence with her head held high. No bullying
- 11:55Speaker 1: is going on, The guards are not treating her any
- 11:58Speaker 1: different to anybody else. A very very positive, positive story
- 12:03Speaker 1: basically how she's now humble and bigger and better. I'm
- 12:07Speaker 1: not completely buying it, Mark, this seems a little one sided.
- 12:12Speaker 1: It seems like she's almost there, I say, enjoying prison
- 12:16Speaker 1: like it's a kibbutza somewhere she is. I don't completely
- 12:20Speaker 1: buy this one about you. I don't think i'd buy
- 12:23Speaker 1: this either, But I think this prison sentence will do
- 12:25Speaker 1: Laurie some some good and hopefully she comes out on
- 12:28Speaker 1: the other side. Uh, you know, a better person. I
- 12:32Speaker 1: hope so too. Also to if she is calling her
- 12:35Speaker 1: publicists from jail on the one call you're allowed to
- 12:38Speaker 1: each day. I don't know the rules. I don't know
- 12:39Speaker 1: how many calls you're allowed. Oh that makes me sad
- 12:43Speaker 1: to call your daughters, call your family. Hey, we're going
- 12:47Speaker 1: to call our mom and dad while we take a
- 12:50Speaker 1: quick break. We will be right back. Hey, welcome back
- 12:58Speaker 1: to me. Naughty but nishaw. I'm your host rum Shooter
- 13:01Speaker 1: with Mark Looper, and we're in a great mood today
- 13:03Speaker 1: that both of us we hope you are to Mark,
- 13:06Speaker 1: Let's get to the polls, dumb, Thank you, Darling. So
- 13:11Speaker 1: yesterday we talked about George Clooney gifting fourteen one four
- 13:16Speaker 1: of his closest friends a million dollars each. He had
- 13:21Speaker 1: them over for dinner, Mark and gave them all the
- 13:23Speaker 1: suitcase and it had a million dollars of cash in
- 13:26Speaker 1: Who went to the bank and picked up all that money?
- 13:28Speaker 1: And did you did you check it? Like if you
- 13:29Speaker 1: went to the bank and they gave you fourteen million
- 13:31Speaker 1: in twenties, who counts it? I wouldn't trust them. I
- 13:34Speaker 1: wouldn't in any case, he gave fourteen friends a million
- 13:38Speaker 1: dollars eed? Is this a good idea or a bad idea?
- 13:42Speaker 1: Seventy two percent said it is a good idea. Where
- 13:45Speaker 1: are you on this, Mark? I would love, love, love,
- 13:48Speaker 1: love a soup case full of cash, a million dollars,
- 13:51Speaker 1: ten dollars or whatever it is for give me some money, please,
- 13:54Speaker 1: would you? And I don't? I mean, yes, it sounds lovely,
- 13:58Speaker 1: But then doesn't Georgia own me now for the rest
- 14:01Speaker 1: of my life. I often find that when people give
- 14:04Speaker 1: me something a little too generous, if it's a little
- 14:07Speaker 1: too good, to be true, then it normally normally isn't
- 14:12Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Mark, Like when people
- 14:14Speaker 1: send us silly gifts they want us to write about them,
- 14:17Speaker 1: or when people are a little over generous with me.
- 14:20Speaker 1: It's never quite without any strings. I know they're friends.
- 14:24Speaker 1: I think this is lovely and I'm trying to be
- 14:26Speaker 1: generous with my friends. I'm happy to buy you a
- 14:28Speaker 1: vodka soda, giving you any cash. Okay, don't forget to
- 14:32Speaker 1: vote on today's pole. You can get to at Twitter
- 14:35Speaker 1: page at Naughty Nice Rob. Do you clap back? Is
- 14:38Speaker 1: it a good idea? Do you clap back? Naughty Nice Rob.
- 14:41Speaker 1: Our facebook page is Naughty Gossip And hey, thank you
- 14:43Speaker 1: all the new people that are signing up to both accounts.
- 14:46Speaker 1: It's lovely to see. You're welcome and be sure to
- 14:48Speaker 1: check back tomorrow to hear your results. And now it's
- 14:53Speaker 1: time for our Nicest of the Day, Robert Nicest of
- 14:59Speaker 1: the Day. It's her old friend, Duchess Camilla. Yes, so
- 15:04Speaker 1: she's going to be joining apparently the millions of people
- 15:07Speaker 1: will be watching the new season of The Crown now, Rob,
- 15:11Speaker 1: as you know, Camilla is going to be an integral
- 15:14Speaker 1: part of the storyline and royal sources are saying she'll
- 15:18Speaker 1: be tuning in with a big glass of red wine
- 15:21Speaker 1: to watch. She's watched previous seasons. She's a wonderful sense
- 15:25Speaker 1: of humor and this won't fuss in the slightest. What
- 15:29Speaker 1: do you think, Oh, I don't know about this. I
- 15:32Speaker 1: mean the Crowns, they're their life this this season, it's
- 15:36Speaker 1: about Camilla, Diana and Charles. She's the main character in
- 15:41Speaker 1: the show. If there was a soap opera, a TV
- 15:45Speaker 1: show based on the Shooter family, would I watch? You bet?
- 15:49Speaker 1: I would. I would watch every moment of it. Would
- 15:53Speaker 1: he be too painful? How are you Mark on watching
- 15:58Speaker 1: stuff that involves you, like when you're on TV? Mark,
- 16:01Speaker 1: do you video it and watch yourself back? Do you
- 16:03Speaker 1: listen to this podcast back? How are you about watching yourself? Yeah,
- 16:08Speaker 1: it's it's so hard for me to watch or listen
- 16:10Speaker 1: to myself. But I will say that it's it's important
- 16:13Speaker 1: to learn and see what you do, you know right
- 16:16Speaker 1: and wrong, and that's the way you get better. Right.
- 16:18Speaker 1: So I know, if I was Camilla, I would probably
- 16:21Speaker 1: get out a whole bottle of red wine because the sources,
- 16:24Speaker 1: of course, you know, and the people who worked on
- 16:26Speaker 1: the show said that she's going to kind of appear
- 16:28Speaker 1: as one of the bad characters. So it's gonna be
- 16:31Speaker 1: watching it. It's not good for her. It's done, Camilla.
- 16:35Speaker 1: If you're listening, Hello, Darling, I don't know if you
- 16:38Speaker 1: should watch the whole season. It gets worse. I'm an
- 16:40Speaker 1: episode two, Steve A, Look, this is not going in
- 16:43Speaker 1: a good way. Joan Rivers once told me that every performance,
- 16:47Speaker 1: every comedy club, every big venue Joan performed at, she
- 16:50Speaker 1: had in her pocket a little tape recorder. It was
- 16:52Speaker 1: before iPhones, I guess, and she recorded every single show
- 16:56Speaker 1: and then she would go back home and she would
- 16:58Speaker 1: listen to herself, not because she wanted to bask in
- 17:01Speaker 1: the glory or celebrate herself, but she would make notes.
- 17:05Speaker 1: And she thought doing a stand up show was like
- 17:09Speaker 1: it was like an art, It was a craft, it
- 17:11Speaker 1: was a performance, and so by listening to herself, she
- 17:15Speaker 1: learned how to get better. I do listen to our podcasts.
- 17:19Speaker 1: I do, and there's things that make me cringe normally
- 17:23Speaker 1: what Mark saying, there's things that made me cringe. But
- 17:26Speaker 1: there's things that I wish I'd phrased a little differently.
- 17:29Speaker 1: But what I do love is we're all in this
- 17:31Speaker 1: together and we're sort of figuring it out by ourselves.
- 17:35Speaker 1: So because of the pandemic, we sort of all by ourselves.
- 17:38Speaker 1: It's just us. It's just us my piano altogether, giggling
- 17:41Speaker 1: and laughing. So Camilla, maybe it's a good thing. Okay,
- 17:44Speaker 1: let us do and Naughtyoust of the Day and Norty Norty, Norty,
- 17:49Speaker 1: Nordy naughty. So a man was instantly rejected from a
- 17:53Speaker 1: job interview before it even started. Let me explain. This
- 17:57Speaker 1: is popped up on Reddit under the title life pro tips.
- 18:02Speaker 1: So a gentleman went for a job interview and he
- 18:04Speaker 1: blew it in the first five minutes because he entered
- 18:06Speaker 1: the building. He was dismissive to the receptionist. She greeted him.
- 18:10Speaker 1: He barely made eye contact. She tried to engage him
- 18:13Speaker 1: in a little chit chat. No, I didn't want any
- 18:15Speaker 1: part of it. Well, the person behind the reception desk
- 18:18Speaker 1: turned out to be the actual hiring manager. He was
- 18:22Speaker 1: rude to her, and then he walked back into the
- 18:26Speaker 1: room for the interview. She walked him and sat down.
- 18:29Speaker 1: Have you seen this? My husband, Bruce is a songwriter
- 18:32Speaker 1: and he has a musical coming to Broadway. And they
- 18:34Speaker 1: did a ton of auditions and I went to meet
- 18:37Speaker 1: Bruce for lunch while the auditions were going on. I
- 18:40Speaker 1: got there ten minutes early, and before they went into
- 18:43Speaker 1: the audition room, all the cast members were sitting outside
- 18:45Speaker 1: in the hallway and they had to sign in. I
- 18:47Speaker 1: noticed a few were a little bit ruded they didn't
- 18:50Speaker 1: get the jobs. I'm not saying that's the reason they
- 18:52Speaker 1: didn't get it, but when I was a publicist, I'd
- 18:55Speaker 1: say to all my clients the minute you leave your house,
- 18:58Speaker 1: you have to be nice. What where are you on
- 19:01Speaker 1: this market? Remember one question I get asked from people
- 19:04Speaker 1: in my life is who is the meanest celebrity? Who
- 19:09Speaker 1: robs to say? You're always whenever I see you out,
- 19:12Speaker 1: you're always the nicest person. People always approach you and
- 19:14Speaker 1: you have a friendly demeanor. It's people, don't you know?
- 19:17Speaker 1: This is an experience for people when they get to
- 19:19Speaker 1: meet someone they know they hold on to that moment.
- 19:22Speaker 1: So I totally agree, you have to be nice if
- 19:24Speaker 1: you're a person the public eye, and you don't even
- 19:27Speaker 1: have to be in the public eye to be nice.
- 19:28Speaker 1: Being nice, we all interact with people every single day,
- 19:32Speaker 1: and I've got to admit some of the people that
- 19:34Speaker 1: have given me my biggest breaks, my best opportunities, I
- 19:37Speaker 1: didn't know they were powerful. I was just nice to them.
- 19:40Speaker 1: Be nice everybody. I promise you it will pay off.
- 19:43Speaker 1: This brings us to our moments. Are rob you get robber.
- 19:47Speaker 1: So when your gradg becomes the main story of your life,
- 19:51Speaker 1: it also becomes the main obstacle to your healing. Instead
- 19:56Speaker 1: of looking for empathy everywhere you go, be the person
- 20:00Speaker 1: that gives it. Give out empathy, Take back the responsibility
- 20:05Speaker 1: for caring about your own suffering, because caring about you,
- 20:08Speaker 1: it's far important to be trusted to anybody else. Give
- 20:13Speaker 1: yourself the kindness that nobody else showed you. I'm really
- 20:18Speaker 1: kind to myself, Mark, are you? I am more kind
- 20:21Speaker 1: this year to myself than I have been in a
- 20:23Speaker 1: long time. And it really does that. Nurturing really does
- 20:26Speaker 1: bring you to a better place. Be kind everybody. Hey,
- 20:29Speaker 1: that's it for today. Mark, Thank you for being kind
- 20:33Speaker 1: and joining us every Thursday. We love having you, and
- 20:36Speaker 1: thank you for listening to the Naughty but Nice with
- 20:39Speaker 1: Rob Shower and production of I Heart Radio. Don't forget
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- 20:54Speaker 1: a review. I do get it. I'm like this too.
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- 21:00Speaker 1: when somebody annoys you, but it's awfully important that we
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- 21:06Speaker 1: you do have a moment, they make a huge difference,
- 21:09Speaker 1: leave us a review, and remember all together. Now, if
- 21:13Speaker 1: you're going to be naughtier, you've got to there nice take.
- 21:22Speaker 1: It's not even nice with bro