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Remy Ma & Tami Roman Talk Anger Management, Body Dysmorphia, Snitching Stigmas, New Movie + More · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: Wait in the Morning, Breakfast Club Morning Everybody is DJ
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Speaker 1: n V Charlomagne the Guy, we heard the Breakfast Club.
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Speaker 1: We got our co hosts with us, Miss Porsha Williams,
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Speaker 1: and we got some special guests. We got Tammy Roman,
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Speaker 1: Big Ribby not the Little One Thanne. What's happening? How
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Speaker 1: are you? I'm blessed Black and Holly favorite Mane. I
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Speaker 1: feel it. Y'all appeared from molten movies and stuff. Yes,
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Speaker 1: you know how we do. We got a new one
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Speaker 1: on a Lifetime called Girl the Closet, which is coming
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Speaker 1: March eleventh, a ate on Lifetime. I love Lifetime. Everybody
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Speaker 1: loves Lifetime. Like if you didn't grow up watching Lifetime,
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how to feel about you. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and they're bringing more of us on there. It's about time.
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Speaker 1: It's about time because I've been watching white people's stories
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Speaker 1: for what's the movie about? So it's based on actual
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Speaker 1: events of a woman who lost her daughter to and
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Speaker 1: put her daughter in the custody of her sister, who
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Speaker 1: is a very abusive and toxic individual who takes people
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Speaker 1: and um basically kidnaps them for their disability check. Basically listen,
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Speaker 1: my kid gets took in by my psycho sister. She's
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Speaker 1: crazy as hell. They picked Hammy to play. She plays
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Speaker 1: amazing role of the perfect psych psychicosis, psychotic maniac. She's
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Speaker 1: prostituting people, kidnapping. I'm still in checks. Yeah, I'm like
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Speaker 1: I'm on every level. Yes, I'm like the heartbroken trying
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Speaker 1: to find my kids. She plays my sister whose daughter
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Speaker 1: I end up kidnapping. And we've never seen Remy like
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Speaker 1: this before because this character is so so and maternal
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Speaker 1: and crying, showing us both forms a wife or mother,
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I don't be understanding.
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Speaker 1: When does this narrative come from the man. You don't understand?
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Speaker 1: I do. I'm at fifteen years, that bet, fifteen years.
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Speaker 1: I have wonderful children. And listen. I heard Remy on
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Speaker 1: the phone with her daughter last night and the daughter goes,
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Speaker 1: so listen, little girl, what you hang up on me?
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Speaker 1: And I wonder where she got so? How I was
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Speaker 1: working with Rem, how looking with each other? I should say, well,
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Speaker 1: here's the thing with rem cool person, loving person. But
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Speaker 1: when she don't want to be bothered, she don't want
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Speaker 1: to be bother, so she comes on set and it's
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Speaker 1: like hey, says and then maybe thirty minutes later we're
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Speaker 1: in the room with people and Remmy's in the corner
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Speaker 1: like just looking at everybody like, don't want to talk,
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Speaker 1: watching everything. I'm like you good. She's like, everybody was
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Speaker 1: scared Amy, There's no reason to be scared. I'm just
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Speaker 1: Sammy is a social butterfly. So she's high head. Oh yeah.
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Speaker 1: And one time that's Sammy and I'm in a corner
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Speaker 1: like yeah. She's like, but I don't know these people
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Speaker 1: be like, I'm here to do my job. Yeah, I
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Speaker 1: don't know what I'm I know people you see people
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Speaker 1: in the nice to me too? How you know that
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Speaker 1: you just met me? Right, that's a good way to be.
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Speaker 1: You can't let everybody energy in, yeah, because people be weird.
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Speaker 1: They'd be weird. Have you made the intentional transition room
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Speaker 1: like away from music? Like they say, I'm gonna do
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Speaker 1: other things? Was an album not intentional and it's on
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Speaker 1: it's actually the fiftieth anniversary of hip hop. So I
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Speaker 1: was like her perfect song into it. But I'm also
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Speaker 1: corporated my new acting thing insa. You got to see
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Speaker 1: what that happens. But I feel like a lot of
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Speaker 1: times with artists, when they know you for doing one thing,
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Speaker 1: it's hard for them to see you do anything else.
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Speaker 1: They want to keep you. We only want to see
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Speaker 1: you do music, and so they see you do other things.
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Speaker 1: Like when I started doing a lot of talk shows
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Speaker 1: and hosts and stuff like that, Oh, that's great, you
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Speaker 1: should do that. And then when I started doing acts,
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Speaker 1: it's like, oh, it's great. But when you talk about it,
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Speaker 1: they're like, no, we just want the album. That's it.
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Speaker 1: Mind the medal texts. It's crazy. So you disconnect on purpose,
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Speaker 1: then no, it's not. No, I still do last year.
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Speaker 1: I had to think about it because you not like
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Speaker 1: you have the year in wrap up, like what did
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Speaker 1: you do this year? And I'm sitting here, I'm putting
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Speaker 1: it to guys. Of course, I never post it because
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Speaker 1: I don't post um. I mean, let's pay me that
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Speaker 1: on post. But most of my posts that I played
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Speaker 1: the post I started doing that rate the long capture.
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Speaker 1: I'll never post it, but I made a like reel
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Speaker 1: of all the music that I did last year. Last year,
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Speaker 1: I did um a song with Rhapsody DJ Premier phenomenal record.
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Speaker 1: We played that. I did a song UM for Prodigies
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Speaker 1: album Wrestling Piece to Prodigy UM. I did a song
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Speaker 1: with Mary J. Blige for The Good Morning Gorgeous um
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Speaker 1: Sol's album. I did two songs with Brandy when I
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Speaker 1: was acting on Queen's They Count, I Zone Count. And
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Speaker 1: I also did my husband's record with Wayne Into Chains
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Speaker 1: and Buster. So I'm Mike. I did like seven eight
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Speaker 1: features last year. I didn't do any solo projects, but
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Speaker 1: all of them. My part was the best part. I'm
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Speaker 1: just oh my goodness. I talked about that with the
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Speaker 1: two Change in Pat record, like, sorry, guy, but you
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Speaker 1: got body. I mean, when are we getting your solo?
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Speaker 1: I be because you've been working on it for um.
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Speaker 1: You know what I do. A couple of years I do,
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Speaker 1: It's been done. It's what you're waiting for. So what
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Speaker 1: happened was when I first did it. What happened was, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: what happened was when I first did it, I got pregnant,
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Speaker 1: and because I did IVF and everything that we went through,
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Speaker 1: I put everything on hole. I'm like, I don't want
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Speaker 1: to chance it. It was a lot on my body,
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Speaker 1: it was a lot on my bank account, and I
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Speaker 1: was like, we want this to work. So I literally
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Speaker 1: just put everything music on hole for my pregnancy and
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Speaker 1: from my daughter. After I had my daughter, now I'm breastfeeding.
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Speaker 1: I was like trying to be like this super cool mom,
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Speaker 1: I'm going to do the breastfeeding thing for a couple
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Speaker 1: of months. A couple of months turned into two years
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Speaker 1: and ten months. Like she was almost three. She was
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Speaker 1: on a tity it almost three. Listen, that's why she's
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Speaker 1: a genius. But we got in the middle of that,
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Speaker 1: we got caught in COVID, so it was harder to
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Speaker 1: like lean her up. I was out and about it
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Speaker 1: probably wouldn't never went that long because he was in
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Speaker 1: the house. Nobody was really going out anywhere. It turned
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Speaker 1: to that, and then after COVID, I got into a
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Speaker 1: German COVID. I got a lot into that. We was
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Speaker 1: doing State of the Culture. Then I was hosting The
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Speaker 1: Wendy Show, and I just was doing so many other
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Speaker 1: things that music kind of got pushed to the back.
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Speaker 1: I was still recording music, still doing different things like
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Speaker 1: any given time hitmakers, like yeah, what we're doing, like
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I work on music, but it's just
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Speaker 1: other things that kind of push it out the way
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Speaker 1: a little bit, but don't be um, you know, don't
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Speaker 1: don't try it anybody listen. I wouldn't recommend that depends
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Speaker 1: still works the same thing with you, Tammy. That's why
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Speaker 1: you just connected from reality TV, just to show them
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Speaker 1: like I want to get into my acting bag. Jeremy
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Speaker 1: got so much, so much thing coming down to damn
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Speaker 1: pipe bline. I just didn't want to do reality anymore.
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Speaker 1: I wanted to go back to scripted. I felt like
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Speaker 1: I had shown enough of my life, you know, in
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Speaker 1: terms of that format. You know y'all all in my business,
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Speaker 1: I feel like I've given it all to you. There's
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Speaker 1: nothing else to say. My kids have grown, and so
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Speaker 1: it's like I wanted to go back to scripted. I
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Speaker 1: wanted to go back to playing characters and doing the
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Speaker 1: things that I love, and doing unscripted in other formats,
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Speaker 1: not that ensemble stuff, you know what I'm mean. So
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Speaker 1: you know, we got caught in the act Unfaithful and
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Speaker 1: that's the Cheaters style show and I love doing that.
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Speaker 1: And then all my other projects were scripted. So in
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Speaker 1: this one it's based off of a true story. Correct, So,
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Speaker 1: like you, you jumped in on the deep end, because
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Speaker 1: when you do a movie and it's based on a
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Speaker 1: true story. You gotta stay real close to the authentic story.
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Speaker 1: You can't be changing up for none of that. Like,
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Speaker 1: how was that for y'all? How did y'all prepare for that? Um? Well,
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Speaker 1: this is my second. The first movie I ever did
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Speaker 1: that I actually started was the Big fifty del Round
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Speaker 1: the Hood score based on a woman out of Detroit,
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Speaker 1: and she was like super gangster, she's selling drugs, she's madam,
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Speaker 1: she's doing all these different things. And it was crazy
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Speaker 1: because she was actually on set while we were filming.
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Speaker 1: So it was like, you don't want to portray them
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Speaker 1: in a way that right, that's not that's unfavorable to them.
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Speaker 1: And I think when I felt and exact where I
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Speaker 1: would literally would go to side like wall right, it
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Speaker 1: was like what was it? It was like one scene
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Speaker 1: where they had her talking to her kids, and just
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Speaker 1: for me being around how I was like, I don't
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Speaker 1: think she would play with these kids like like the
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Speaker 1: way that it was really, I was like, um, if
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Speaker 1: your kids you told him to go to bed and
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Speaker 1: they were still sitting there. She was like what. I
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Speaker 1: was like, Yeah, that's what I thought. To the director,
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Speaker 1: He's like whatever you think, you know, to get more
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Speaker 1: into the character, do that. And it was one scene
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Speaker 1: where we was actually she had a scene where she
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Speaker 1: was leaving her son, she was missing his games, and
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Speaker 1: it was I turned to her and she's like on
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Speaker 1: the side crying, and I was like, I didn't messed
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Speaker 1: it up. I thought I messed it up, like because
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Speaker 1: she was crying, Like she's a very strong woman, so
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Speaker 1: crying it didn't look like look at she was pissed.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I messed that up. And she was
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Speaker 1: like yo, that was like so touching. So when that
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Speaker 1: really helped me with this one, especially considering that the
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Speaker 1: person that I'm playing, it's such a vulnerable situation, like
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Speaker 1: where you lost your child, so you know you have
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Speaker 1: to take those things. And plus I have the kids,
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Speaker 1: so you just backed that in, Like, how would you
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Speaker 1: feel somebody took your kid? Yeah, I don't think the
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Speaker 1: nobody can play with you like that, bron people crazy
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Speaker 1: people are nuts. Nobody really like that. And it's still
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Speaker 1: play with you. The streets have changed, Yeah, it's a
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Speaker 1: different time. Now, tell me, how do you have the
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Speaker 1: time to do all the things that you have between
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Speaker 1: This patch showed the unfaithful show movies down the pipeline
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Speaker 1: and like, how do you find the time and what
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Speaker 1: gives you the driver? Still want to do it. I
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Speaker 1: don't sleep. I'm very much like you, and I just
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Speaker 1: go where the work is because that's what's important to me.
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Speaker 1: But that what drives me is my kids, you know
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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, I want to be able to
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Speaker 1: leave my kids something because my mother didn't do it
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Speaker 1: for me. Her mother didn't do it for her because
10:42
Speaker 1: at that time, people didn't know about generational wealth and
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Speaker 1: establishing things and leading the legacy. Yeah, you know, you
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Speaker 1: already behind the eight ball. So for me, it's just
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Speaker 1: important to change that narrative for my family going forward,
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Speaker 1: my lineage going forward. So that's what that's what motivates me.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get if it's worked, I'm getting up and
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Speaker 1: I'm doing it, two hours asleep on the plane, whatever
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Speaker 1: it takes, I'm gonna be there to get the job done. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I seen the story they were talking about. Tammy doesn't
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Speaker 1: eat right right. I've been on set with you, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and I see Tammy. I'm like, like, where is it
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Speaker 1: coming from? Does that have a bother you? Because people
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Speaker 1: would just make up their own stories, their own rumors.
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Speaker 1: But me being on set, I'm like, no, she eats,
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Speaker 1: and she eats a lot, Yeah, I eat a lot. Well.
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Speaker 1: The thing is, I have a condition that's called body dysmorphia,
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Speaker 1: and I've had it since I was thirteen years old.
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Speaker 1: It is a mental disorder based on either trauma or genetics,
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Speaker 1: and mine is trauma based. And so what happens with
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Speaker 1: that is the way I look at myself and the
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Speaker 1: way people see me are two different things. And I
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Speaker 1: always see myself unfortunately, as you know that show like
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Speaker 1: my six hundred pound life. No matter how I look
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Speaker 1: to people, when I look at myself, I can always
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Speaker 1: pick something apart. I always feel like I'm overweight. And
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Speaker 1: so because of that, there are moments where it's like
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Speaker 1: I gotta stop eating, yeah, and then there are other
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Speaker 1: moments where I'm hungry. That's the case because you feel
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Speaker 1: a certain way about you. No, But but this is
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Speaker 1: this is like different because there can literally be nothing wrong.
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Speaker 1: But I will find something. You understand, like I can
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Speaker 1: find something. And so with the average woman, it's like, well,
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Speaker 1: I think I want to lose a few pounds, but
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Speaker 1: if they don't, they're okay. You know with me, it's like, no,
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Speaker 1: I've got to lose the you know, because I see
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Speaker 1: this fold on my risk and it may not even
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Speaker 1: really be there. Yes, but how do you deal? How
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Speaker 1: do you deal? I think this is important. I've never
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Speaker 1: actually heard you even say that you have body dysmorphia,
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Speaker 1: so thank you for that for a lot of young
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Speaker 1: girls out here. How do you deal with having body
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Speaker 1: dysmorphia where you're being so critical on yourself and you're
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Speaker 1: really kind of you're seeing yourself other than what you
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Speaker 1: actually are, which is almost the same way. That's what commentors.
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Speaker 1: They don't know you here. He just said you eat.
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Speaker 1: Some people say you don't eat. How do you deal
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Speaker 1: with them reflecting how they think you should look onto you?
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Speaker 1: How do you deal with hearing yourself being hard on
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Speaker 1: you and hearing the commentors? How do you shut it
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Speaker 1: out or how do you do that? See? Here's the thing.
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Speaker 1: When I feel I look good, people will comment and
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Speaker 1: say you're too skinny, you look like a bobble head.
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Speaker 1: She needs to gain some weight. All of that, in
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Speaker 1: my mind, is a compliment. So they're viewing it as girl,
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Speaker 1: get your life together. I'm seeing bones and I'm like, really, yes,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, I look like a crackhead. Thank you.
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Speaker 1: You know. It's like it's like that, so the thin
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Speaker 1: the thin anybody. But so when you have when you're
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Speaker 1: dealing with a person that has body dysmorphia, you're not
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Speaker 1: helping them by making those type of comments because their
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Speaker 1: mind works in reverse. So like if I had to
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Speaker 1: put anything out there to people, it's like it doesn't
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Speaker 1: take much to be kind and you don't know what
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Speaker 1: a person's going. Just mind your business and don't comment
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Speaker 1: on women's way and don't comment on it, and then
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Speaker 1: it looks I'm a diabetic too, so like all of
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Speaker 1: that comes into play for me, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 1: So it's just kind of like, leave me alone, let
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Speaker 1: me deal with my issue and try to, you know,
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Speaker 1: work my way through it to the best of my ability,
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Speaker 1: which every day is a struggle. I'm glad you're sharing
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Speaker 1: your story. You feel a need to explain yourself just
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Speaker 1: because people comment. I have, and so once I've explained it,
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Speaker 1: whatever their comments are, then that's just you know, do
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Speaker 1: what you feel you need to do to get it
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Speaker 1: off your chest, because that's what everybody feel. That no, no, no, you.
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Speaker 1: You can go through therapy, but there is no cure,
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Speaker 1: and so you just have to learn how to manage
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Speaker 1: and retrain your mind to not overthink and really process
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Speaker 1: what you're seeing versus what you feel you see. If
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Speaker 1: that makes any sense, you know what I mean. So
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Speaker 1: it's I've been in therapy for years and I still
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Speaker 1: deal with it. It never goes away. Well, I think
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Speaker 1: you are with me hearing this now that that's your truth.
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Speaker 1: I think you are possibly one of the strongest women
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Speaker 1: in reality TV because being on reality TV, you are
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Speaker 1: living your whole life there and people are critique and
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Speaker 1: everything about you, your looks included, and not only them,
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Speaker 1: you to yourself. You see yourself on Cameron it's like,
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Speaker 1: oh I look bigger, Oh my god. Like each season
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Speaker 1: I would drop like fifteen twenty pounds because it's like
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Speaker 1: I'm looking at last season and I see what the
15:53
Speaker 1: way was. And so now, not being in reality TV
15:58
Speaker 1: is it helping some to where you are just living
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Speaker 1: your own life. You're the owner of it and you
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Speaker 1: don't have that reflection from reality TV. Being in the
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Speaker 1: real world of Hollywood now and not in reality world, well,
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Speaker 1: I think the world's are synonymous right, reality TV people
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Speaker 1: are still looking at you and judging, And then when
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Speaker 1: they watch you on a TV show, they're still looking
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Speaker 1: at you and judging, but it's not as personal because
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Speaker 1: when we see you acting, we could almost think that
16:22
Speaker 1: you could be Selemer for the role. Yeah, you know,
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Speaker 1: and we don't. They get a little less into that
16:28
Speaker 1: because you know, reality fans are kind of crazy. They
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Speaker 1: really are invested in you like they are your sister.
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Speaker 1: Yet I think that would be the case if I
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Speaker 1: had never done reality TV and if it was always
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Speaker 1: just scripted, then it's like, oh, these are the things
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Speaker 1: she's doing for a role. But because so many people
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Speaker 1: have been a part of my life already, they know
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Speaker 1: the story. It's like, this was the girl who got
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Speaker 1: her mouth wired in nineteen ninety three. You've seen battle
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Speaker 1: this forever. It's just that nobody knew what I was
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Speaker 1: actually deal with exactly. So yeah, I mean, I just
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Speaker 1: let people do and say what they feel they need
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Speaker 1: to do and say, and I try. You know, my
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Speaker 1: husband is a good support system for me to try
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Speaker 1: to keep me just on track. We can't win fluid.
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Speaker 1: Like you, You're a good person, and a lot of
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Speaker 1: people don't know that because they see the reality. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: but as a person outside of that, you are a
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Speaker 1: beautiful person inside the house. Me and my wife love you,
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Speaker 1: and you know we got a lot of love for you.
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Speaker 1: But you can't win. Sometimes they'll say you too thin,
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Speaker 1: But then they'll be like, oh dammy, be photoshopping her
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Speaker 1: ass and pictures. I ain't got no BBL. But I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna fix my pictures right, because if you want to
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Speaker 1: see me in the raw, I got a whole page
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Speaker 1: called Bono Chronicles for that. You see that, making you
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Speaker 1: get it all how you want to live. But on
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Speaker 1: my page, it's gonna it's gonna be edited down to
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Speaker 1: the ground. But I do not have a BBL. I
17:52
Speaker 1: did get my ass done. I got some you know,
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Speaker 1: shots in my ass way back when, and you know
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Speaker 1: that's I'll tell anybody the truth. You know. I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: fix what I feel I need to fix because of
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Speaker 1: who I am and what I deal with anyway, So
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Speaker 1: if I don't like something, I'm gonna fix it, right.
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Speaker 1: I'm good to see Ramy and Tammy together, especially this
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Speaker 1: Grown of All version, because ten years ago this would
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Speaker 1: be the tag team champion of the world. I'm talking
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Speaker 1: I literally just said, us together, this could be something here.
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Speaker 1: You know, we're like the same person, we just handle
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Speaker 1: it differently. No, I don't think that's the truth because Tammy,
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Speaker 1: Tammy's triggered to right. Do you see this new Tammy? No? No.
18:34
Speaker 1: So I was on set with we were on set
18:36
Speaker 1: with Unfaithful and uh it's a cheatah show. And I'm
18:40
Speaker 1: on a couple of episodes with Tammy helping her out
18:43
Speaker 1: and this one girl says something to Tammy and the
18:46
Speaker 1: whole Tammy changed. Tammy was motherly like, you know, you
18:49
Speaker 1: need to change that, you need to look out for this.
18:50
Speaker 1: And then Tim's like, got on you say no because
18:54
Speaker 1: she said, don't make me get up out. She said
18:57
Speaker 1: that to me up out this chair. So I said,
19:03
Speaker 1: if you get up out that chair, you're gonna get
19:06
Speaker 1: what you want right on the edge of the see
19:09
Speaker 1: like this idea. The host in turn, Yeah, everybody was like,
19:13
Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't think you should do that
19:20
Speaker 1: to nobody. Don't really told crazy man person into it
19:24
Speaker 1: like away from me. I'm to be honest, I haven't
19:27
Speaker 1: really had anybody physically in my face or anything crazy.
19:31
Speaker 1: Um No, I don't. I'm tired of paying people money.
19:35
Speaker 1: I'm tired of getting locked up a lot of going
19:41
Speaker 1: in and talk to these people. I don't I don't
19:42
Speaker 1: like that, that's not cool. But I'll tell people of
19:46
Speaker 1: the time you can. I've changed, like I've changed it,
19:49
Speaker 1: meaning that I've changed the way I react to things,
19:52
Speaker 1: the way that I even received things. The certain things
19:55
Speaker 1: that you used to really piss me off, doesn't really
19:57
Speaker 1: bother me as much. But be very clear, I'm still
20:01
Speaker 1: the same person. And she's like right underneath the surface,
20:07
Speaker 1: deep down inside, like what you gotta be very careful.
20:17
Speaker 1: But I feel like I give people respect, Like I'm
20:21
Speaker 1: not a bully. I don't just go if something somebody
20:24
Speaker 1: did something, I'm doing something. Somebody did something. I'm not
20:28
Speaker 1: that person, right, No, because most of the time it's
20:32
Speaker 1: my reaction. People never pay attention to what caused them.
20:36
Speaker 1: Correct so, and I I don't want to say because
20:40
Speaker 1: I don't think I overreact. Other people think like it's
20:42
Speaker 1: like you step on my foot on my shoe, I
20:46
Speaker 1: want to like amputate your whole leg like I don't
20:48
Speaker 1: want to, like i'mn step on your shoe back like no,
20:50
Speaker 1: it's no tip at It's like tipper. Don't make me
20:55
Speaker 1: do until you done it because I overdo it. Stop.
20:59
Speaker 1: But you don't get the cheese. It's my reaction to people.
21:01
Speaker 1: People want to do things to you, and but like, oh,
21:03
Speaker 1: but I don't even think it was that serious. You
21:05
Speaker 1: shouldn't have done nothing serious. You have a four year
21:08
Speaker 1: old love that's about to start playing sports and go
21:10
Speaker 1: to school, and she's I'm gonna get into it into
21:13
Speaker 1: like all kids do. I already told her the meaning
21:19
Speaker 1: of cousins because she's where she's at. We live not
21:22
Speaker 1: too far from you, wonderful school. But she she's very
21:26
Speaker 1: close with her cousins that's still living queens. She will
21:30
Speaker 1: tell you quick. I'm watching my cousin's color the Power
21:35
Speaker 1: Up Cousins. You got to know how it is. But
21:37
Speaker 1: she's she's so different, she's so sweet, Like she's me
21:41
Speaker 1: without all the trauma that I would do. Because I
21:43
Speaker 1: feel like I was actually a really nice person before
21:46
Speaker 1: the world just started working with me and myself to
21:50
Speaker 1: you know, deal with the world. And I think that's
21:52
Speaker 1: with a lot of people. A lot of people we
21:54
Speaker 1: don't know. There's some people that I think started out evil.
21:56
Speaker 1: Let me not say you have anybody, but for the
21:58
Speaker 1: most part, most people out so gay people and then
22:01
Speaker 1: the things that you go through in life, it tends
22:04
Speaker 1: to make you like okay, in order to protect myself
22:07
Speaker 1: from this, this is how I got to be right,
22:08
Speaker 1: in order to survive through this. This is how I
22:11
Speaker 1: got to be and a lot of things that I
22:13
Speaker 1: went through in my life. I couldn't be walking around
22:15
Speaker 1: like hey, hi, you in the cupcakes. No, it wouldn't work,
22:18
Speaker 1: Like that's that's that's just not gonna happen. But I
22:21
Speaker 1: do feel like me and her dad my husband be
22:24
Speaker 1: installed like you know, all the good things. Like it's
22:27
Speaker 1: so crazy because we talk about it all the time
22:29
Speaker 1: that she has no idea that this world is like horrible.
22:33
Speaker 1: She literally walks in the store just throws everything in
22:36
Speaker 1: the car. She doesn't understand the concept of money. She's like,
22:39
Speaker 1: it's twelve o'clock and like, come on, I would have fun,
22:42
Speaker 1: Like no, I need more, Like she just even that
22:46
Speaker 1: is different for her to say, like no, it's time
22:48
Speaker 1: to go to bed, Like that's that's a different Remy
22:51
Speaker 1: than the Remy we know that, you know when she's
22:54
Speaker 1: Mommy Remy because me, I'm like, why are you up
22:57
Speaker 1: at twelve, like, you know, like my kids, my kids
23:01
Speaker 1: is in the bed at nine, and I'm not going
23:02
Speaker 1: I wanted to be a kid for as long as
23:04
Speaker 1: she could be a kid. I feel like you're a
23:06
Speaker 1: gentle parent. A lot of no, I'm not. I'm not
23:09
Speaker 1: one of those like, oh I'm gonna talk you go
23:11
Speaker 1: in the corner quiet time. When I do them, it's
23:16
Speaker 1: like fine, fine, not fine, fine, doing like this is definitely.
23:26
Speaker 1: But I feel like with me, with my siblings, a
23:29
Speaker 1: lot of my friends that grew up, we all had
23:31
Speaker 1: to grow up way sooner than we should have, Like
23:35
Speaker 1: we didn't really get a chance to be a kid.
23:36
Speaker 1: Like I want her to be a kid for as long.
23:38
Speaker 1: I want her to play with dolls, I want her
23:41
Speaker 1: to watch cartoons, I want her to you know, have fun.
23:44
Speaker 1: I don't want her to feel like because when it happens,
23:47
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen if I feel that pressure of the
23:50
Speaker 1: world prematurely, are you the saying with Pollard, I'm the
23:52
Speaker 1: exact same way. And yeah, I mean I used to
23:55
Speaker 1: be a little tough too back in the day, and
23:57
Speaker 1: but having a child, my daughters also, for um, it
24:00
Speaker 1: just automatically changes something in you, you know what I mean.
24:03
Speaker 1: Like when I went to Angerman management for like maybe
24:07
Speaker 1: like six sessions. Out of what I got up from
24:10
Speaker 1: it was I don't the power is given to you
24:13
Speaker 1: soon as I react, So I almost get like a
24:15
Speaker 1: turn one in order for you to say something to
24:18
Speaker 1: me and me not even react to it. You know
24:20
Speaker 1: my react and my reactions. Now I'll walk away from something. Yeah,
24:24
Speaker 1: and I get in my car like, yeah, I did that,
24:27
Speaker 1: even though back into day I have to show you
24:29
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. Me not reacting or handling in
24:32
Speaker 1: a different ways. It's more powerful for me now. So
24:36
Speaker 1: it's it does and management classes made me mad. It
24:43
Speaker 1: type like this is stupid. Only thing I learned my
24:47
Speaker 1: physical cues. Now i'd be like, oh, I'm getting sight
24:49
Speaker 1: hands a sweating because they're sitting there like it's it's
24:55
Speaker 1: just dumb to me. I want to be angry, That's
25:01
Speaker 1: the thing. The first thing mine told me was your anger.
25:05
Speaker 1: You being pissed is all in emotion and it's okay.
25:08
Speaker 1: So first you have to agree with what your body
25:11
Speaker 1: is doing and what you're feeling is okay. Then you
25:13
Speaker 1: can recognize it. Then you can say okay, that's these
25:16
Speaker 1: are triggers that cause me to react it away knowing
25:18
Speaker 1: my physical cues, because I man, I'd be sitting and
25:21
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh ship yeah with going down nas
25:27
Speaker 1: splaring what's tapping, it's up. Skipped the whole part of
25:33
Speaker 1: that part of my parole. I didn't go there because
25:43
Speaker 1: let me see all the stuff that I do before,
25:45
Speaker 1: because I used to like when I go from zero
25:47
Speaker 1: one hundred, I'd be like zero. But that's how you
25:49
Speaker 1: saw you really really not yeah we gradually, Yeah, that's
26:01
Speaker 1: how you stop yourself. But that's what she says. She's
26:03
Speaker 1: not stopping, that's what she's work in progress, working it incredible. Halt.
26:20
Speaker 1: I gotta ask herd you on j CON talking about
26:23
Speaker 1: when Cardy B changes her profile, pick to you, when
26:26
Speaker 1: did you see that? And how does that make you feel?
26:28
Speaker 1: Because you just wake up and all of a sudden,
26:30
Speaker 1: you again you feel like I really don't be on
26:32
Speaker 1: social media as much as people probably would think I do. Like,
26:34
Speaker 1: if I'm posting something, I'm literally in the moment I'm like, oh, yeah,
26:38
Speaker 1: we're all posting, but or somebody's faming the post. I
26:40
Speaker 1: don't really be Just why did she change it. I
26:43
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what rooted. And she was
26:47
Speaker 1: beefing with it with Nikki at the time. And when
26:49
Speaker 1: they were beefing, and she posted her profile pick and
26:51
Speaker 1: she posted her cousin. She cousin, but she was okay,
26:57
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. She was CARDI was in
27:00
Speaker 1: support of Remy like I wasn't even doing nothing like
27:07
Speaker 1: at old period. I was like telling somewhere in mind
27:10
Speaker 1: in my own little one too, that's what I do.
27:12
Speaker 1: I minaged my business. Yeah, it is interesting room because
27:18
Speaker 1: like female rappers, like I don't even call a female rap,
27:20
Speaker 1: but a lot of women in rap are popping right now.
27:22
Speaker 1: It's a wonderful thing. Yeah, And it's just like your
27:25
Speaker 1: people would love to hear your voice on the mix.
27:28
Speaker 1: I think that's so thank you. I appreciate that. You
27:35
Speaker 1: know what it is if you're not constantly in people's
27:38
Speaker 1: face and giving them your music. My thing is, I
27:41
Speaker 1: don't feel like that I have to validate myself by
27:44
Speaker 1: doing it. I am who I am, Like, I don't
27:48
Speaker 1: count like people like old men men law women law.
27:51
Speaker 1: Numbers don't men law women law, and numbers don't always
27:54
Speaker 1: mean any number and even that they lie. They not
27:57
Speaker 1: always didn't say all right if you have all the
28:00
Speaker 1: numbers in the world, like when everybody knows what it's
28:02
Speaker 1: up when it comes to me, and I'm okay with that.
28:04
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I got to drop a project
28:06
Speaker 1: to show people I got I'm cool. I'm all right,
28:09
Speaker 1: I live great, I'm cool, calm, collected, look good. I
28:15
Speaker 1: ain't stressed out right. These people should be stressed out,
28:18
Speaker 1: stress you out. I'll be looking at that. I'm like, oh,
28:21
Speaker 1: she's stressed. I can see the stress so in the face. Yeah,
28:26
Speaker 1: you can't what rappers out right now that you respect?
28:29
Speaker 1: Like since we are we look we're didn't ask you
28:31
Speaker 1: about five different times where you needed to get who
28:33
Speaker 1: would you say right now? Could possibly hold the candle
28:38
Speaker 1: to you? Like possibly does? You can't? I don't like
28:44
Speaker 1: I don't like to hold the candle um idea. But um,
28:50
Speaker 1: I think everybody in their own respect has something that
28:53
Speaker 1: I like about them, Like I like I love Actually,
28:57
Speaker 1: I love Lola. I like her like she's just so
29:02
Speaker 1: energetic and just seems fun and she's really like enjoying
29:04
Speaker 1: her Momentum. I like Glow, like Glarella, I like um,
29:11
Speaker 1: I like Lotto, I like spice, like everybody for different reasons.
29:15
Speaker 1: I'm at one point it was a point where it
29:17
Speaker 1: seemed like everybody was doing the exact same thing. Oh
29:20
Speaker 1: it still feels like that a little bit maybe where
29:22
Speaker 1: you can kind of Okay, this is her sound, and
29:25
Speaker 1: this is what she sounds like, and this is like
29:27
Speaker 1: it's people starting to carve out their little niches and
29:30
Speaker 1: I and I think we need that. I've never been
29:34
Speaker 1: a hater. I've never been to I've always been like, yoh,
29:36
Speaker 1: I don't know no rappers that started out with money.
29:39
Speaker 1: We all come from about someone people talking my I
29:41
Speaker 1: got We all got money, so I've got a little
29:43
Speaker 1: bit more to us. But we all came from nothing.
29:45
Speaker 1: So anything that you're doing right now is a plus
29:48
Speaker 1: from where you came from and where you could have been.
29:50
Speaker 1: So I'm just happy to see all of them. I
29:52
Speaker 1: don't really have a favorite, because when I see them,
29:55
Speaker 1: it's the same love and sep. I'm like, oh my god, yeah,
29:58
Speaker 1: I hope you're enjoying it. And I'm always trying. I'm
30:00
Speaker 1: the one that's what we're trying to make sure you
30:01
Speaker 1: do this. You staying on type of that safe some
30:03
Speaker 1: of your money my house. Don't like what I'm saying.
30:05
Speaker 1: I try to do something the things that I wish
30:06
Speaker 1: people would have told me or they're on and that
30:10
Speaker 1: I think that's what it's about. A lot of times
30:12
Speaker 1: people feel like it's always about who can hold a
30:15
Speaker 1: torch to you or whose competition? Who's that? Nah, It's
30:17
Speaker 1: not about that. Like I wish I had somebody that
30:20
Speaker 1: came and he was like, Yo, I'll see what you're doing.
30:21
Speaker 1: I approach, Yo, let me tell you something. Let me
30:23
Speaker 1: put you with this lawyer real quick. Let me put
30:25
Speaker 1: your financial adviser. Yo. Are you into stocks? And this
30:28
Speaker 1: is maybe you should look into this, like just to
30:30
Speaker 1: give people a different because that's people that are secure,
30:34
Speaker 1: that that want to share knowledge and information. When you're insecure,
30:38
Speaker 1: it goes back to how you feel like you got
30:40
Speaker 1: to validate your position and whole court. You know what
30:43
Speaker 1: I mean, to make sure people remember this is what
30:45
Speaker 1: I did. This is how it's secure. You probably shouldn't
30:48
Speaker 1: even be in this business because you you'll be ready
30:50
Speaker 1: to Insecurity has never stopped anybody. You know. People just
30:56
Speaker 1: gonna get up in there and get in where they
30:58
Speaker 1: fit in. But I think with music in particular. I
31:01
Speaker 1: am hoping that it gets back to that era that
31:04
Speaker 1: I grew up in, where everybody had their own lane
31:08
Speaker 1: because you got to wrap it in your house. I
31:11
Speaker 1: do slash actress, I do yes Jazz, Hey, shout out
31:14
Speaker 1: to Jazz. Who loves you, by the way, you already
31:16
Speaker 1: know that. But um in the movie with us, yes
31:19
Speaker 1: she is. She plays my daughter. Angela daughter plays her daughter.
31:24
Speaker 1: But the pen game is what I'm used to with rap,
31:28
Speaker 1: and I feel like all the women were sounding the same,
31:30
Speaker 1: and it's got to be a torte situation, you know.
31:33
Speaker 1: And I grew up on like Latifa with Unity and
31:35
Speaker 1: Eve with Friday, you know, and Light was doing her thing,
31:38
Speaker 1: and you know we had all those little Kim was sexy,
31:42
Speaker 1: you know, like we don't have enough diversity in women
31:46
Speaker 1: in rap now and I would like to see us
31:48
Speaker 1: get back. And I think even some of them looked apart,
31:52
Speaker 1: but still can spit like a JT, you know what
31:54
Speaker 1: I mean, Like JT can spit to me, Glorilla, Can
31:57
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Rhapsody? Of course that's different thing.
32:03
Speaker 1: Can you spend your chewing the whole interview? All right?
32:11
Speaker 1: Thank thank thanks from so when you when you got
32:14
Speaker 1: you know, this new industry, it seems like everybody's telling
32:16
Speaker 1: on each other, right, snitching immediately when you got locked up.
32:19
Speaker 1: I'm sure you could have told on some people and
32:21
Speaker 1: not at the time involved what I was talking about.
32:32
Speaker 1: What do you think about this new world? And in
32:34
Speaker 1: the snitching and how it ever goes now crazy? He's
32:39
Speaker 1: the son of a cop. You gotta know, you gotta
32:44
Speaker 1: know what is so this's all your civilian. So it's
32:49
Speaker 1: just like if you're telling something, you're telling your cooperat
32:52
Speaker 1: and that's just that. And I feel like a lot
32:54
Speaker 1: of times people are like, well, you know, they're a
32:56
Speaker 1: civilian and the like, if you a civilian, stay hanging
32:59
Speaker 1: with billions and be around civilians. Don't be a civilian
33:02
Speaker 1: and hang out with people that are like that. Don't
33:05
Speaker 1: do it. No, but trying to justify what you did
33:08
Speaker 1: because you know, y'all know I wasn't really like that.
33:09
Speaker 1: And the people that y'all this is what y'all do,
33:12
Speaker 1: and y'all in that line out, keep these people that's
33:16
Speaker 1: really not built like that away from me because when
33:18
Speaker 1: the precious or they gonna fall. And I blame I
33:20
Speaker 1: blame both parties. You shouldn't have been hanging with them
33:22
Speaker 1: and you should have had them around you, but you're staying.
33:24
Speaker 1: Don't make yourself a witness. Don't make it. Don't make
33:27
Speaker 1: yourself a witness because now what luckily we live in
33:31
Speaker 1: times where witnesses can just walk around party post where
33:34
Speaker 1: they at happen to like and I remember tim where
33:38
Speaker 1: your family wouldn't even family, like we don't deal with
33:41
Speaker 1: him because they didn't want any problems, Whereas you have
33:45
Speaker 1: to protect yourself. And I tell anybody that, like, that's
33:48
Speaker 1: because I can't tell people how to live. You don't
33:51
Speaker 1: know what this situation. Some people they're in a certain
33:53
Speaker 1: situations because that's all they know. That's only half. Like
33:56
Speaker 1: you got certain parts of the world where you either
33:58
Speaker 1: gonna be in this gang or you're gonna be in
34:00
Speaker 1: the ground, like which side of you on, Like that's
34:03
Speaker 1: just the culture that they are growing up in that
34:05
Speaker 1: they're living in. All right, If that's what it is,
34:07
Speaker 1: you got to be smart enough to know that you
34:09
Speaker 1: can't just have anybody in your circle because they will
34:12
Speaker 1: come a time where they're gonna be given an option
34:15
Speaker 1: and it's every there's no loyalty there's no cold. Every
34:18
Speaker 1: man is for themselves and and a lot of the stuff,
34:22
Speaker 1: unfortunately that we were taught growing up, don't snitch, don't
34:25
Speaker 1: do this, don't do that. We was taught wrong, like
34:27
Speaker 1: they taught us, like they really had us jammed up
34:30
Speaker 1: thinking like but for most of my life people, that's
34:32
Speaker 1: why people have this perception of who they think I am,
34:34
Speaker 1: because you couldn't show feelings, you couldn't show emotions. You
34:37
Speaker 1: gotta hide everything. People only see this part of you
34:39
Speaker 1: are they're gonna try you or whatever. And that's not
34:42
Speaker 1: really how you get through life. Once you see what
34:44
Speaker 1: the world really is outside of the hood, outside of poverty,
34:48
Speaker 1: you don't need to be like that. You can be vulnerable,
34:50
Speaker 1: you can you know, express how you are, you can
34:53
Speaker 1: move accordingly to the way the world works. But unfortunately,
34:57
Speaker 1: for a lot of people that are like us, that
34:59
Speaker 1: look like us, that's not their reality, and they getting
35:02
Speaker 1: jammed up and they're giving them a whole bunch of time.
35:04
Speaker 1: Like I was lucky enough to, you know, do as
35:07
Speaker 1: much time as I did and come home still with
35:09
Speaker 1: a little bit of my sanity. You have much I
35:11
Speaker 1: had before I went in, But um, a lot of people.
35:14
Speaker 1: They don't make it out, Like so many people that
35:17
Speaker 1: we don't hear about dying present get strung out on drugs, Twitter.
35:20
Speaker 1: They are zombies where they come home and never recover
35:23
Speaker 1: and they go back because you've been ripped out of
35:26
Speaker 1: society for so long, you don't know how to even function. Yeah,
35:29
Speaker 1: Like when I came out, I don't know how to
35:30
Speaker 1: use it. I've never seen an I phone in my life.
35:32
Speaker 1: I've never seen Instagram, Twitter. Now I had to learn
35:35
Speaker 1: all of these things, like on the fly while I'm
35:37
Speaker 1: in it. I'm telling you, I'm telling them, Okay, I
35:42
Speaker 1: feel like if I'm involved with you and I know
35:46
Speaker 1: the dirt you're doing, and so I'm clear that I'm
35:49
Speaker 1: a participant in that something go down, I gotta take
35:53
Speaker 1: my el. But if I don't know and you just
35:57
Speaker 1: kind of happen, if something happened and I don't know,
36:01
Speaker 1: and now they're trying to jam me up, I'm telling
36:04
Speaker 1: I'm not going to jail for some shit that I
36:07
Speaker 1: didn't know. I was even a party too, Like, who's
36:09
Speaker 1: gonna do that? That's fine? Right? Telling me, I'm saying,
36:24
Speaker 1: if we if we're rolling out together and I know
36:26
Speaker 1: that this is what it is, and we're doing this
36:28
Speaker 1: even if I didn't partake in whatever the crime may be.
36:32
Speaker 1: But I know, and I'm hanging with you and something
36:34
Speaker 1: go down. No, I'm not telling on you. But if
36:37
Speaker 1: we're rolling down the car down the road and I
36:41
Speaker 1: don't know, you got a couple of keys in the back,
36:43
Speaker 1: and now they like these your keys, I'm like, no,
36:46
Speaker 1: the funk They not say, yeah, I don't know. I
36:51
Speaker 1: don't know, but I know it's not mine. That's as
37:05
Speaker 1: saying it's her. That's what gonna okay, But I feel
37:12
Speaker 1: like that's not the same. People have to understand and
37:16
Speaker 1: then you you have to know your rights. I feel
37:20
Speaker 1: like a lot of times people just be scared, ye
37:22
Speaker 1: and they be talking and the goal. Let me let
37:27
Speaker 1: me just drop something goal. Because I tell people this
37:31
Speaker 1: all the time. Everybody that is in prison is not guilty,
37:35
Speaker 1: the same way that everybody that's walking around in these
37:37
Speaker 1: streets is not innocent. Yeah, I think all the all
37:39
Speaker 1: the guilty people are in jail right now. Yeah, And
37:41
Speaker 1: then how many times have we protested for wrong doings
37:45
Speaker 1: and things? You think every cop, every prostitutor, every da,
37:49
Speaker 1: every judge got it right. Every time, but every single
37:52
Speaker 1: person that's in jail. So that's the first thing that
37:54
Speaker 1: you need to understand that everybody is and it's not
37:57
Speaker 1: always exactly as it happened because thinking about when you
38:00
Speaker 1: telling the story, you're gonna try to put it to
38:02
Speaker 1: the way that it favors to you. People don't go
38:04
Speaker 1: in there and tell the truth, the whole truth, and
38:05
Speaker 1: nothing but the truth will help them. Well, they've bend it,
38:08
Speaker 1: they squeeze it out a little bit, so a lot
38:10
Speaker 1: of things don't be exactly how it is. Also, their
38:14
Speaker 1: job is to convict. If you look at any DA
38:18
Speaker 1: and prostitute anything, the federal government, their bragging rights is
38:23
Speaker 1: such a such percentage conviction rate, right, So that means
38:27
Speaker 1: you don't want a twenty percent conviction rate, that means
38:29
Speaker 1: you trash. They want the hot ninety ninety percent conviction rate.
38:33
Speaker 1: They're not trying to find out if you're innocent or not.
38:35
Speaker 1: They're trying to get a conviction. And when people understand that,
38:40
Speaker 1: they will understand. Like I've seen so many times with
38:43
Speaker 1: people like yeah, and they wasn't trying to find the truth.
38:46
Speaker 1: When the last time you when have you at bar
38:49
Speaker 1: seen cops with a Pito pass Fews being yes, man,
38:52
Speaker 1: did you see anything of a magnifying glass, little hat
38:55
Speaker 1: with the Capitan moviment? You don't. They sit there and
38:58
Speaker 1: wait for somebody to call them, tell them information. They
39:01
Speaker 1: lurk on social media, listen to rats, all these differents.
39:04
Speaker 1: They're not doing no real investigation work, like and so
39:07
Speaker 1: what's the gem. Yeah, it's up to you to prove
39:12
Speaker 1: your innocent. You have to prove that you're innocent. They
39:15
Speaker 1: don't have to prove that you're guilty. So you're saying,
39:17
Speaker 1: because you have to prove that you're innocent, you don't
39:19
Speaker 1: have to snitch on somebody to do it. You don't
39:21
Speaker 1: have to tell them about it, because either way, it's
39:23
Speaker 1: not about the truth. The truth. They don't care about
39:25
Speaker 1: the truth. They do not care. They want to convict.
39:28
Speaker 1: I feel it's crazy that you can say I did
39:30
Speaker 1: a crime, you did a crime, and she did crime.
39:33
Speaker 1: We all did it together. But if she goes and
39:34
Speaker 1: tell them everything that we did, she goes home and
39:36
Speaker 1: we go to jem that's right. So but Tammy trying
39:39
Speaker 1: to say she ain't going to jail for nobody. We
39:41
Speaker 1: all gone, but not as we did the crime together.
39:44
Speaker 1: But we did the crime together, then we just all
39:46
Speaker 1: gonna be up here together. Y'all did the crime, and
39:48
Speaker 1: I don't do it together. One of us could decide
39:53
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna tell everything, I'm gonna go home a
39:57
Speaker 1: little bit of time, and everybody else. How was that, like,
40:01
Speaker 1: how was that you have people out here that'd be like, yeah,
40:04
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this, this and this, and if I
40:05
Speaker 1: get caught, I'm telling and I'm gonna go home. Yea insane.
40:12
Speaker 1: And that's how it works the way you're speaking on
40:15
Speaker 1: this one particular case. It's clear who they want. Yes, correct,
40:18
Speaker 1: it's very clear the person that they want. So you
40:20
Speaker 1: could go, you could go, You can go and you
40:21
Speaker 1: go home to your kids, You go home to your kids.
40:23
Speaker 1: You're gonna this is who we want, and that's okay,
40:26
Speaker 1: and that's justice. Nah, I'm not I'm never jacking that.
40:30
Speaker 1: I'm never. I'm never And people don't never point these
40:33
Speaker 1: things out. They well, they shouldn't have been doing this.
40:35
Speaker 1: You're rich, you should like just because you got money, Like,
40:38
Speaker 1: it's worse when you got money, because what happens when
40:41
Speaker 1: you have money. Everybody that you know, you still got
40:43
Speaker 1: cousins that live in the hood siblings that ain't really
40:46
Speaker 1: got like people ain't Jeff Bezos rich where they could
40:49
Speaker 1: take their whole family and buy an island somewhere. So
40:51
Speaker 1: you still have certain affiliations, and you will be surprised
40:54
Speaker 1: the situations that you get put into because people look
40:57
Speaker 1: at you as a target, as a human age ten machine,
41:01
Speaker 1: and you get jammed up. And if you rail and
41:03
Speaker 1: you stand up and you were bored up on certain principles,
41:05
Speaker 1: you're gonna find yourself sitting in the courtroom like this
41:08
Speaker 1: taking the l while everybody else acting like they innocent
41:11
Speaker 1: and acting like they're good and living their life. Unfortunately,
41:14
Speaker 1: it mainly affects our community. All I'm hearing is why
41:18
Speaker 1: people highly request Remy mad to be a co host
41:20
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. You know what I mean? Oh
41:22
Speaker 1: you tried? Remy wants to know how much you pay?
41:27
Speaker 1: I'm serious, I'm not joking, Like, yeah, how much is like?
41:31
Speaker 1: Hold up, let me set them tell your something. I
41:35
Speaker 1: did a lot of stuff in my life, like seriously,
41:38
Speaker 1: almost everything, and I thought about it. I thought about
41:40
Speaker 1: it with this, like, dam is this one of those situations?
41:42
Speaker 1: Almost everything that was life changing in my life. I
41:46
Speaker 1: did for free. When I did any every mix, I
41:50
Speaker 1: was a teenager. I was straight out of high school.
41:52
Speaker 1: I begged my A R To get me the instrumental.
41:54
Speaker 1: I put my verse on. I was like, just let
41:56
Speaker 1: them hear it. Changed my life. When I did Lean Back,
42:00
Speaker 1: I didn't even have a record deal. We win. The
42:03
Speaker 1: studio was at Callahouse in Miami. Stole Joe's verse off
42:07
Speaker 1: of it, put myself on the song. Changed my life.
42:11
Speaker 1: When I did All the Way Up, I don't even
42:12
Speaker 1: think you're satning paperwork. To this day, I'm out of
42:14
Speaker 1: the culture. It was just an idea. If it comes
42:18
Speaker 1: out good, you know, rockwe If it don't, nobody never
42:21
Speaker 1: know who did it changed my life. All the little
42:23
Speaker 1: times that I was doing Wendy and stuff like that,
42:26
Speaker 1: they paid me, but they didn't paint changed my life.
42:30
Speaker 1: So I feel like I paid my dues. I did
42:33
Speaker 1: a lot of things, like the reason why people were
42:35
Speaker 1: quest because I'm really good at what I do. This
42:37
Speaker 1: is this is I feel like not too many people
42:41
Speaker 1: that look like us. If you look at all the
42:43
Speaker 1: talk show people and they're talk show host they're all
42:46
Speaker 1: fifty plus. They Melaniin challenged the wipe if they're not
42:56
Speaker 1: they not really swaggy, just a little like, you know, uptight,
42:59
Speaker 1: because they just how you feel you supposed to dress
43:01
Speaker 1: if you're on TV and ain't really been through nothing.
43:05
Speaker 1: I've been I've been, I've been married, I've been I've
43:08
Speaker 1: had children at a kid when I was a team,
43:10
Speaker 1: I had a kid since I've been an adult. I've
43:12
Speaker 1: been inconcerated, I've been famous, I've been poor, I've had rich,
43:16
Speaker 1: I've been poor after I was rich. Like, and all
43:18
Speaker 1: of these things make you and I'm kind of really smart.
43:22
Speaker 1: A lot of people think rappers are dumb and we're
43:25
Speaker 1: really not, well the whites, but when you meet the
43:31
Speaker 1: eminems and the jess and because they are really smart, absolutely,
43:36
Speaker 1: and they also most of them are really funny. That's
43:38
Speaker 1: how they come up with so all of these things.
43:40
Speaker 1: And that's what comprises the amazing reminisce that you're basically
43:46
Speaker 1: change your life. They can't change your life, or they
43:51
Speaker 1: need to pay you what you're worth. I got to
43:54
Speaker 1: sit here and look at this guy. I still don't
43:59
Speaker 1: like NB get my house. It protects your house. Wait,
44:04
Speaker 1: you really have a dog in her house? No? Her
44:06
Speaker 1: husband called me one day when moving to Jersey and says, hey,
44:09
Speaker 1: you know sometimes we travel, And I said, well, I
44:11
Speaker 1: have a dog, me do protection to protect the house.
44:19
Speaker 1: I didn't understand the purpose of him giving the number
44:21
Speaker 1: for the dog when he had already gave us the
44:23
Speaker 1: number for the security system. It was like that said
44:30
Speaker 1: the first they bo the Jersey that said, this is
44:32
Speaker 1: a good security system that got cameras everywhere. You can
44:34
Speaker 1: see it everywhere in the phone, and got motion senses.
44:36
Speaker 1: It will secure your house. But just in case, keep
44:39
Speaker 1: my dog. No, I said, just in case you out
44:41
Speaker 1: of town, the rams out of town and you want
44:43
Speaker 1: extra protection, there's a dog that will bite somebody's head off.
44:46
Speaker 1: This dog. What kind of doing these seven thousand dollars,
44:50
Speaker 1: what kind of doing? They have a Belgian molly wall. No, no,
44:54
Speaker 1: that's what you have. We got the Camma. We have
44:56
Speaker 1: the German shopman. Okay, the German shutter is what I
45:02
Speaker 1: like to call. That's my wife calls it real quick,
45:04
Speaker 1: because you gotta go back to something you never got
45:05
Speaker 1: paid for, none of those classic verses. I got my
45:08
Speaker 1: publishing because I write my own material, and I got
45:11
Speaker 1: my royalties. But like as a feature feel no wow
45:16
Speaker 1: and and then all the Way Up and Lean Back
45:18
Speaker 1: were both my songs. Like people always say fat Joe's,
45:21
Speaker 1: but it's actually if you ever look as fat Joe mmy,
45:24
Speaker 1: like it's not a feature, but um yeah, And I
45:28
Speaker 1: was okay with that. Yeah, I was okay with it.
45:30
Speaker 1: And I tried to explain to people in time, like
45:32
Speaker 1: everything is not about someone. When it was calling me
45:34
Speaker 1: about this, I was like, it's just one of those situations.
45:36
Speaker 1: I should just do it. Fine. We talked about something
45:39
Speaker 1: to promote, and I told him I was doing my
45:41
Speaker 1: rat Battle thing and I wanted to come last month
45:44
Speaker 1: before my Rat Battle came by. I guess you had
45:45
Speaker 1: some other whack people and that was nowhere in there.
45:48
Speaker 1: Nobody told me I'll come later on when we have
46:03
Speaker 1: any time you want to know, anytime you want to come,
46:05
Speaker 1: fairly member, but a very very long time. Don't tell
46:10
Speaker 1: any old story to stop making you. And the same
46:13
Speaker 1: thing with me. I'm gonna tell them he risked my life.
46:15
Speaker 1: He had me in the sticks. And so it was
46:17
Speaker 1: summer to South Carolina dirt roll to show there was
46:24
Speaker 1: no roll while you got on a mud rolling joint
46:29
Speaker 1: o like that. We didn't have a kitchen time. It's
46:34
Speaker 1: literally might have been twenty years ago. Ya literally joint.
46:38
Speaker 1: He brought me southwest south southwest and now you and
46:43
Speaker 1: no like wait the old seven eight this one me. Yeah,
46:48
Speaker 1: I was going by that, no. Five. I know you
46:53
Speaker 1: guys gotta go. I know you got TV. So y'all
46:54
Speaker 1: got yes, yes, yes, Please everybody, don't forget to check
46:58
Speaker 1: out Girl in the Closet, which is a lifetime at eight.
47:02
Speaker 1: Please check us out, check us as an amazing woman
47:05
Speaker 1: in the old talents. So you're gonna tell them about
47:07
Speaker 1: a production thing and how you have all these movies
47:09
Speaker 1: that you're doing. I do have all these movies and
47:15
Speaker 1: them I'm behind the scene high to me. You know, yes,
47:17
Speaker 1: I did doing another project together and then envy. I
47:21
Speaker 1: can't wait for people to see you, uh this season
47:23
Speaker 1: on camera? It's yes, yes, and I was so excited
47:32
Speaker 1: to have him. And let me tell you some of
47:33
Speaker 1: the gems he drops because people are like, why is
47:36
Speaker 1: he that you know? Like whatever this dude like on
47:38
Speaker 1: some for real like like relationship expert, like here is
47:42
Speaker 1: the truth of how this can happen in your life,
47:45
Speaker 1: what you should do experience he has experience in it,
47:49
Speaker 1: but that's the best place to speak from, right, like
47:51
Speaker 1: life experience and the wisdom of all that, and so
47:54
Speaker 1: everybody really love him. Shut up show. I'm playing like
48:03
Speaker 1: it like it's good. It's good. So yeah, girl in
48:08
Speaker 1: the closet, Girls in the closet, all right time. Well,
48:10
Speaker 1: thank you guys. It's Tammy Roman, it's remy ma. Mister
48:13
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, good morning. Wait that ass up in the
48:16
Speaker 1: morning club, Breakfast Club