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It's 5:20 Somewhere - Can You Date Someone Who Isn't Financially Stable? 👀 · Club 520 Podcast

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: It is fire twenty somewhere.
• 0:02
  Speaker 2: I am your girl, Barbie, And of course I got
• 0:05
  Speaker 2: the beautiful sister twins.
• 0:08
  Speaker 3: Sister wives, and I'm I got the beautiful trap. And
• 0:11
  Speaker 3: Kiki here with me tonight, Trap, tonight today?
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: Whatever?
• 0:16
  Speaker 4: Trap?
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: How you doing?
• 0:17
  Speaker 2: I barely made it here, y'all. We was outside. I
• 0:23
  Speaker 2: didn't get home till like six thirty in the morning.
• 0:26
  Speaker 1: I didn't get home till like eight o'clock in the morning.
• 0:29
  Speaker 2: How about you, Well, I dropped her off. She got
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: home at like six fifteen.
• 0:32
  Speaker 1: How you feeling, Kiky?
• 0:33
  Speaker 4: Y'all?
• 0:33
  Speaker 1: Got what's it called? Electro lights?
• 0:36
  Speaker 4: Girl? Oh honey, both listen?
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: But wait, why is it in Spanish?
• 0:40
  Speaker 4: What kind of stuff is that?
• 0:41
  Speaker 2: Brine is in Spanish? Because I get mine from the
• 0:43
  Speaker 2: Mexican store.
• 0:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, so that's red. Yeah, because the artificial dies.
• 0:48
  Speaker 2: They just they got the They got the flavors too.
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: They have grapefruit and flavors.
• 0:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I just like going to the Mexican store.
• 0:57
  Speaker 1: Food and stuff is fresh.
• 0:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fresh. It feels like a real grocery store.
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: Like is it explosive? Uh, it's a little I feel
• 1:05
  Speaker 2: like it's higher than Walmart to me.
• 1:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all know what else is surprisingly high? Safeway?
• 1:13
  Speaker 3: I think surprising Safelay has always been high, which is
• 1:15
  Speaker 3: crazy because they put those in like the hood Yeah,
• 1:18
  Speaker 3: and then tax it.
• 1:19
  Speaker 2: You think that's because they know they got food. Yeah,
• 1:22
  Speaker 2: but it's just crazy though.
• 1:24
  Speaker 4: But I feel.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: I don't know, like supermarkets when when? But I don't
• 1:31
  Speaker 2: know because Croger is really the only place that I
• 1:34
  Speaker 2: look at that has like the best price for groceries
• 1:37
  Speaker 2: is my Mark.
• 1:39
  Speaker 1: And I'm not a one more girly. I'm a Kroger girl. Croger.
• 1:44
  Speaker 2: Croker is cool like but still I could go in
• 1:47
  Speaker 2: Kroger and just get a few things and next thing,
• 1:50
  Speaker 2: I know, I don to spend sixty dollars.
• 1:51
  Speaker 1: I don't like Walmart's produce saying I'm all these girl too.
• 1:55
  Speaker 4: I'm definitely yes hopeful.
• 1:58
  Speaker 2: Audience for the cookers also it yeah sure because it
• 2:04
  Speaker 2: okay you be cooking? Oh has some gross ass stuff,
• 2:09
  Speaker 2: like some of the stuff like disgusting. That chunky soup
• 2:12
  Speaker 2: they got an Audie version, right, You never drink any all.
• 2:15
  Speaker 4: These juice okay?
• 2:17
  Speaker 2: Also the ice gross, they're disgusting. And y'all know I
• 2:22
  Speaker 2: love sardines, like it's just some stuff you cannot get.
• 2:25
  Speaker 1: Their produces really really fresh though.
• 2:29
  Speaker 3: I feel like on that they're healthier items like the
• 2:32
  Speaker 3: spinish artichunk dips and things like that really good.
• 2:37
  Speaker 4: They got a MEXICALI dip that is so good. Gosh. Yes,
• 2:40
  Speaker 4: what's that one stuff that hummus? I love?
• 2:45
  Speaker 2: Yes, we need to do a little We said we
• 2:48
  Speaker 2: were going to do a little scruter a dip party.
• 2:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 2:53
  Speaker 2: Also they they ice coffee is pretty good. You have
• 2:58
  Speaker 2: to mix it with creamer the playing time.
• 3:01
  Speaker 4: Oh creamer is nasty too. Yeah, don't get their creamer.
• 3:03
  Speaker 4: But there they're ice coffee.
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: Shout out to all these no foot We love y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's.
• 3:10
  Speaker 2: Why I do most of my grocery shop and you
• 3:12
  Speaker 2: get the most bang for your buck. I'm going to
• 3:15
  Speaker 2: introduce our drink for the day. I took it upon
• 3:17
  Speaker 2: myself to say that we're drinking refreshers, and then when
• 3:20
  Speaker 2: I see them come in with their electrolytes, I'm like
• 3:22
  Speaker 2: one band.
• 3:23
  Speaker 4: One literally all on the same.
• 3:25
  Speaker 3: But any drink that I make, you can make it
• 3:28
  Speaker 3: either a mocktail or a cocktail.
• 3:30
  Speaker 1: So this is a refresher.
• 3:31
  Speaker 2: I made it with strawberry juice, leachy leachy syrup, freshly
• 3:37
  Speaker 2: squeezed lemon.
• 3:38
  Speaker 4: Juice, and.
• 3:40
  Speaker 1: A tonic water. So it's a refresher.
• 3:43
  Speaker 3: I added in some like freeze dried strawberries, a limit sliccense, actually.
• 3:47
  Speaker 1: Some blueberries in there as well as a leachy.
• 3:49
  Speaker 2: And this is just so refreshing and so good. So
• 3:52
  Speaker 2: this is for the day after super super good. Malk,
• 3:58
  Speaker 2: I had a question for you. I got a question
• 4:01
  Speaker 2: for you before you ask Malcolm, Why the fuck what
• 4:04
  Speaker 2: is that on your glasses? Oh, I'm starting a new trend,
• 4:09
  Speaker 2: trying to be a fucking drin setter rock spot.
• 4:12
  Speaker 1: No, my glasses.
• 4:13
  Speaker 3: So yesterday was chaotic, so tried to be cute put
• 4:16
  Speaker 3: in some contexts. And I had put my glasses in
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  Speaker 3: like a little box, and I had the necklace in there,
• 4:20
  Speaker 3: and it's stuck. I can't get it off, and I
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  Speaker 3: don't want to.
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: Break my necklace.
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  Speaker 4: I need to figure it out.
• 4:25
  Speaker 1: Just imagine I was drunk this morning, like I tried
• 4:27
  Speaker 1: to have my dad do it like it was just crazy.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm going to figure it out for from now.
• 4:32
  Speaker 1: It's a little stylish thing, call me a little uzzybird.
• 4:35
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Hey, we was lit to them white
• 4:38
  Speaker 2: people's songs.
• 4:39
  Speaker 5: Last night.
• 4:40
  Speaker 4: They was looking at us like we was crazy. We
• 4:42
  Speaker 4: had we had fun.
• 4:43
  Speaker 2: The Fever got another wus in the chaps in the chat.
• 4:50
  Speaker 1: We're the Fever good luck charm.
• 4:52
  Speaker 2: So at this good luck charm, not groupies, Jeffrey, Oh my.
• 4:56
  Speaker 4: God, No, for real. They can't lose a game. When
• 4:59
  Speaker 4: the five two goes.
• 5:00
  Speaker 1: Their next home game, we won't be here, will be
• 5:02
  Speaker 1: in can Kun. But good luck to our girly pops.
• 5:06
  Speaker 4: And y'all need to get off.
• 5:08
  Speaker 2: They did calling uh calling.
• 5:11
  Speaker 4: Motherfucker's coons and ship.
• 5:12
  Speaker 2: First of all, somebody commented on our real when we
• 5:16
  Speaker 2: went to the Fever game or whatever.
• 5:20
  Speaker 4: Are one of them, and they were.
• 5:22
  Speaker 2: Like, what they invite black people to Fever games, Like,
• 5:25
  Speaker 2: don't do that, y'all.
• 5:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's not.
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: Indiana has a stigma, but.
• 5:30
  Speaker 3: I mean mostly everywhere in the United States is races,
• 5:33
  Speaker 3: and I feel like the Fever for the majority of
• 5:36
  Speaker 3: places it is the whole world is however we want
• 5:39
  Speaker 3: to spend it. But the Fever are very welcome into
• 5:41
  Speaker 3: their to their employees and their teammates. It's a lot
• 5:44
  Speaker 3: of black women and black men that are involved and
• 5:47
  Speaker 3: they try to be very inclusive with even like Pride
• 5:50
  Speaker 3: and and Black, so I feel like they're definitely trying.
• 5:54
  Speaker 3: It's when people, I think the thing is, it's people
• 5:57
  Speaker 3: that are online like fans and stuff that make very
• 6:01
  Speaker 3: nasty comments and even other podcasters that really pushed that,
• 6:05
  Speaker 3: and it's just like it's unfortunate that the players and
• 6:07
  Speaker 3: the team have to get that smut on them from
• 6:10
  Speaker 3: people sitting at home on the computer just talking.
• 6:12
  Speaker 2: And even the fans like I saw like on X
• 6:15
  Speaker 2: like they were saying, if you're a Fever fan, then
• 6:18
  Speaker 2: you just a mega like whatever can we say that?
• 6:21
  Speaker 4: On here they were just saying, if you if you
• 6:24
  Speaker 4: black and you a Fever fan, then you're a coon like.
• 6:27
  Speaker 2: Insane or you were you were just born and raised
• 6:31
  Speaker 2: in Indianapolis?
• 6:32
  Speaker 4: Are you exactly being a Fever fan?
• 6:35
  Speaker 2: Since like Tamika Catchings and there are a lot of
• 6:39
  Speaker 2: new fans to the space, but come on now, y'all
• 6:43
  Speaker 2: can't do all Fever fans like that, and y'all can't
• 6:45
  Speaker 2: do And that's what Girly's on.
• 6:47
  Speaker 1: The team w NBA.
• 6:49
  Speaker 2: The women in the w NBA have been going really
• 6:52
  Speaker 2: really hard and I'm so glad that now that I'm
• 6:54
  Speaker 2: a little more tapped into it and.
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: It feels good, I'm like, yeah.
• 6:59
  Speaker 2: Stay out there ball, and they out there playing very hard,
• 7:02
  Speaker 2: them reffs. Another another day, I give my basketball terminology up, refs.
• 7:11
  Speaker 2: I'm coming for y'all because y'all worse than them. Y'alls
• 7:16
  Speaker 2: on it, yea, Like what heck is?
• 7:19
  Speaker 1: She didn't even touch her.
• 7:21
  Speaker 2: The refs are wold and they do not like us.
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  Speaker 2: I saw y'all be acting like, oh, we just get
• 7:26
  Speaker 2: so many calls. No we don't man, Yeah, we be
• 7:29
  Speaker 2: there alive in five k and that it just do
• 7:32
  Speaker 2: not be going our way for real. Also, I do,
• 7:34
  Speaker 2: let me just say this too, I feel like it
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't be such a huge thing.
• 7:38
  Speaker 4: Y'all wouldn't be spewing all this.
• 7:41
  Speaker 2: Autist hate and autist friction if they wasn't popping their
• 7:45
  Speaker 2: ship like they're really they're really like popping their ship
• 7:50
  Speaker 2: right now. They really got a chance to like win
• 7:52
  Speaker 2: the ship and every wind the ship and everything. So
• 7:54
  Speaker 2: it's like, also, I feel like that's part of the
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  Speaker 2: reason why y'all doing all that.
• 8:00
  Speaker 4: Amen.
• 8:00
  Speaker 2: Amen, But that just made me kind of think so
• 8:04
  Speaker 2: super random how my brain works but do you know why.
• 8:07
  Speaker 1: People with tourette say the craziest stuff ever?
• 8:10
  Speaker 2: I be thinking that's like I think I think some
• 8:14
  Speaker 2: of it, some of it, especially the ones that capitalized
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  Speaker 2: on social media because of it, like ain't no way
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  Speaker 2: you just walking through life saying this, Yeah the people.
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  Speaker 3: And people have those disabilities they and they do. But
• 8:26
  Speaker 3: I just want to know what. I guess they said
• 8:29
  Speaker 3: something in their brain function takes the filter off.
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  Speaker 1: But they say some crazy stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like why you ain't? Why you ain't? Like what's
• 8:36
  Speaker 2: that ship called? When they be doing their little outbursts
• 8:40
  Speaker 2: and ship?
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  Speaker 4: But why them? Yeah? Why you don't just be like
• 8:44
  Speaker 4: praise Jesus?
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: Like you never hear them say ain't good?
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  Speaker 4: Are you saying? Like racist and feel shy.
• 8:55
  Speaker 3: GT on g t A going into our words from
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  Speaker 3: the block young mouk What the heck does own g
• 9:04
  Speaker 3: t A mean?
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: And where did it come from?
• 9:07
  Speaker 5: G t A basically like a fake thing like I'll
• 9:13
  Speaker 5: be like, yeah, I'm about to hurt this person my
• 9:16
  Speaker 5: own g t A.
• 9:19
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, so to keep it keep it clean so
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: you don't.
• 9:22
  Speaker 2: Get so like allegedly yeah basically mmmm so like GT
• 9:29
  Speaker 2: we can sit and we can say some crazy ship
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  Speaker 2: on the couch and be like on g t A
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  Speaker 2: and then you don't gotta like cut it so like.
• 9:39
  Speaker 4: Props.
• 9:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and no in real life you say on g
• 9:43
  Speaker 5: t A. But they don't know that though.
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: Oh oh, so we still get flagged. So we can't
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: say on g t A. Okay, well cutting that out.
• 9:52
  Speaker 4: Thank you. We can't say that.
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: No, you can't even say do you be bleeping our stuff?
• 10:01
  Speaker 2: Well?
• 10:02
  Speaker 4: Can you write that down that you gotta beleep that
• 10:04
  Speaker 4: I said that at the time. You good, you got it.
• 10:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, it's gonna be We're gonna log on.
• 10:10
  Speaker 4: It's gonna stops because.
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: The gods I kept saying bull job just like, stop
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: saying it stops.
• 10:19
  Speaker 4: Can you say BJ what's what's what's y'all's word for bj?
• 10:27
  Speaker 3: Nick sounds disgusting with things that you do with your mouth.
• 10:37
  Speaker 3: I had a random question if you could do.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: Y'all remember y'all first kids? Yep, okay, describe it in
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: one word.
• 10:49
  Speaker 4: I don't know. I was nervous. I was nervous.
• 10:53
  Speaker 2: White what what white?
• 10:57
  Speaker 4: White? A white boy? What was really? Oh wait, because
• 11:03
  Speaker 4: you told us about this, weren't you really young?
• 11:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: I was in elementary school.
• 11:07
  Speaker 2: Okay, my first kiss was in preschool, but it was
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: for the Christmas play though, but it wasn't a real
• 11:13
  Speaker 2: kiss though.
• 11:13
  Speaker 4: It was like a kiss on the cheeks, so that
• 11:15
  Speaker 4: don't count. Yeah, I don't care. Yeah, my first kiss
• 11:18
  Speaker 4: was I don't know it was it was. I would
• 11:22
  Speaker 4: say it was like dry that nigga didn't know how
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: to kiss.
• 11:25
  Speaker 5: Dry.
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: I thought you got to start saying the N words
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: so much that man.
• 11:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah that boy.
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I was nervous. I was in seventh grade.
• 11:36
  Speaker 2: My first kiss was that one.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: I'm even talking about count but my parents always had
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: me in.
• 11:41
  Speaker 4: Like it don't count. When was your first real kiss? Mmmm?
• 11:46
  Speaker 3: It was with another white boy in like fifth grade?
• 11:50
  Speaker 4: Girl I was in.
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: I was in like these predominantly white schools when I
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: was youngest. So it's just like when y'all first started kissing, Like,
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: did y'all use feel like tongue kiss and French kiss?
• 12:03
  Speaker 4: No?
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: That was later on in last do y'all like kissing?
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: So I saw this, I saw this real, and the
• 12:11
  Speaker 2: lady was like, you know who tongue who French kisses?
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: After however many years of marriage, I want to say,
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: she said like twenty years of marriage.
• 12:20
  Speaker 4: And I don't know.
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: I think that like getting sloped down and getting I
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: don't like people trying to put their tongue in in
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: my mouth.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: It going crazy.
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we gotta be like the movie type of breaking
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: close off and it gotta be that type of vibe.
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: Like but bro, if we just if we're just sitting
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: here and we're not about to do mister Nasty time, like,
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: don't I don't know. It's like like at this point
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: in the game, it's like a form of four play, Like, yeah,
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: it'll get you, it'll help get you there and get
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: you going.
• 12:53
  Speaker 4: But outside of that, I'm not really trying to.
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: If you're just saying goodbye, I do not want a
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: French kid or tongue kiss.
• 13:00
  Speaker 4: Like then who wants to kiss? No, Black people say
• 13:03
  Speaker 4: to kiss, and white people say French kiss. What do
• 13:06
  Speaker 4: y'all say? Tongue kiss? That sounds pretty ignorant, but also.
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: So but no, also I say, like we we tongue kissed,
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: are French kissed a lot when we were younger, because
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: that's like some ship you do when you can't when
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: you're not Yeah, because you can't have sex yet or
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: even what you do on the beginning of the relationship,
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: like they were saying, because you're trying to stick to
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: your ninety day rule or some ship.
• 13:32
  Speaker 4: It's not like.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: But you just never had a minute. I just want
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: to kiss on all the time.
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, not heck, I don't have or like a wet peck,
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: you know, like but I don't see I don't want
• 13:43
  Speaker 2: your I don't want your tongue in my mouth.
• 13:45
  Speaker 4: And it's like a double triple peck. It's cool, that's like,
• 13:48
  Speaker 4: that's like and my tongue is like a sister. I
• 13:52
  Speaker 4: don't want to stick that in somebody's mouth. Do you
• 13:54
  Speaker 4: know how many bacteria you swap?
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: Millions of bacteria when you tongue kiss somebody.
• 13:59
  Speaker 4: It's actually kind of gross.
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: It is gross when you think about it.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: But these niggas be drinking. I mean, these men be
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: drinking and smoking and.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: Gold like people to spit in your mouth? Okay again not.
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: Like if you kissing me goodbye, I don't want you
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: to to in my mouth.
• 14:22
  Speaker 4: Is like crazy.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: Did y'all have like I remember when I was like
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: young and wild and in the club I used to
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: be in the clubs kissing all the girls.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: Did you have a kissing in the club era era.
• 14:33
  Speaker 4: I think I've definitely done that.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: I used to be in the club kissing.
• 14:38
  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: One time I did that and the bitch posted it
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: on her story.
• 14:42
  Speaker 4: Y'all, man was my top on my time.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know who the girl was. He's like,
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: I know her. I had a writer and tell her
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: to take it down and every look. Man, One time
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: I was in the bathroom like and we're like in
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: the mirror and it's just like you're like.
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: Oh, you're a bad bitch. No, you're a bad bitch.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: And then like we're in the mirror and she's like
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: recording and stuff, and then like she sticks her tongue out.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: You know back when we used to stick our tongues
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: out and pictures and stuff. So we're just like sticking
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: our tongues out, and next thing, you know, they touch
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: and then we just go and we just like start
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: tongue wrestling and then like I'm coming. So she posted
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: on her story. I followed her. I reposted it. My
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: best friend was like, I hate that bitch. I'm like what,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I didn't even I didn't know and didn't know,
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: but I'm just like, Bro, she was cool with me. Shit, Yeah,
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: I'm telling some fifty girls in the club to the
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: next day be like.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I just sucked every nigga dick in
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: the party.
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, Like that is so disgusting.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: What I'm beat? I'm beat, like Taco, No, literally, y'all.
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: I was while getting dressed.
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: I had to call trop to literally, like we had
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: to talk each other through that get ready session because
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: I was throw up. But once I vomited, y'all. I
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: threw up like three times. And once I did that, yep, I.
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: Threw up that white castle we had likes.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, but I'm glad that we
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: did that because like put something on your stomach to
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: absorb out all that liquor.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: Bro.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: I was fine after that, A okay, man. We was
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: just drinking for a long time. And then when you
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: go to the games, like you get just free drinks,
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: free everything.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so we were just and we were we were
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: able to stay out so long ago because we had
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: food on our stomach.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: So we were drinking, but we were still functional. So
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: then it was like once we crashed, it was like, y'all, I've.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Been everybody's been on my top about me partying so much,
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: and which I feel like I parted a lot this
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: week because we went to two games and then you know,
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: I host r and be being go on Thursday.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: But everybody's like, yeah, you're just a party girl.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: On that post, they the dude was like, Barbie, I
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: would I would, I would say forget all my standards
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: for you or something like that.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that's not a compliment.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Like he was like, I'm just saying you be out
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: and about I'm like not really, like I really and
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: if I had a man, I wouldn't be exactly exactly.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: But they don't put me up as exactly. But they
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: want you to be sitting at home just waiting. I'm
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: gonna meet you if I'm at home, literally say that
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna meet you in the club, but listen.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: And I just like, I'm not even my best friend.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: She was like, you are? You are always outside, and
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm really not.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: It looks I was out three times this week because
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: of the we are delusional.
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: We always say we're not outside. What we do, yes,
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: I mean, but we be working in networking is.
• 17:50
  Speaker 5: Thanks from from a girl standpoint, where did y'all go
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: to fun a good nigga as from a church church?
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: No, I've.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: Let's go to all the good guys are already taken.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Actually they are, but I would say they are.
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: They really are? There are. No. I'm sorry.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: If you're my age and you're not married yet, it's
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: something wrong with you.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: I'm talking about the man.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about the man because us, for us, we
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: probably invested.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: This is what I did.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Anyways, I invested in the wrong man at a young age.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm single now.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: So what if he did the same thing?
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: Bro? What No men be the villains. It don't be
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: us majority of the time.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Like, bro, like say, all right, you gotta bake mama,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: right if not you, But if a man gotta bake mama,
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: why do you have a baby mama?
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: What did you do for her to leave you? You did something?
• 18:58
  Speaker 6: Nah?
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: He did something that that girl?
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: That's that's hurt. No, that is a hot take.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: I bro, because what woman? We're all we're single moms. Unfortunately, bro,
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: do it it looked like I.
• 19:14
  Speaker 4: Want to be a single mom.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: No, Like I tried, like I tried so hard to
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: make it work with this man, and I took so
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: much before I finally left, and a lot of women
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: do that, Like, Bro, do you think I want to
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: wake up and be the sole provider.
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: For two kids?
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: No?
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: I would have. No, I would have stayed with my
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: baby daddy if I could have, But I couldn't. We
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: leave because we literally have to.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: We put our mental health at steak by staying with
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: these men, like and.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Then get knocked for it like they be oh, you're
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: a single mom, like I'm the fucking problem.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Like no, Literally, when a guy tells me that he's
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: a bad I'm just looking at him, like, bro, what
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: did you do to that girl? Because don't nobody want
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: to leave a man while she got a baby on
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: her head?
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: Bro, I would rather have a man splitting the parenthood
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: with me.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: I love Miss Ninja because that's valid.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: Like that's how they're looking at us stuff like what
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: did you do to him that he doesn't want to
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: be with you?
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: And that's just the same.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I like, for the most part, are going to try
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: to fight for the relationship and try to stay in it.
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: It, bro, dumb? Would that be messing it up? Not
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: not one hundred percent of the time, but ninety nine
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: percent of the time.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Majority of the time, like even if we want to
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: be nice, we could say like seventy even if we
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: want to be nice. But it's just like, bro, nobody
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: wants to sign No woman wants to sign up for
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: being the head of the household.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: Oh now, I got it.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Bro, nobody wants to sign up for taking care of
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: their kids by theyself.
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: The shit's hard.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: And the worst part is you have to bump your
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: head to literally like learn that.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: Lesson, Now I'm already already got the kid. Now, yeah,
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: I'm already.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: People change, and I don't like that.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: They say, oh, y'all knew y'all was having a baby
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: by this is that because if you ask somebody, can
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: people change and be mean and spiteful if you met
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: him you thought they was a good person, they can
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: be like, yeah, people change all the time. But then
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: when it comes to a baby day.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: They like, nah, you knew, you knew. But see.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: But also there are different levels as well, Like some
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: man's issue is not the next man issue. Maybe the
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: issue is money, and maybe you got money and you
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: can afford to support y'all. You know, y'all little world
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: until he gets on his feet. There's nothing that can
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: prep you or tell you like, oh, this man's gonna
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: be a broke nigga for life, Like how do you
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: know that? Or this man's abusive, or this man is
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: obsessed with lust and he has a fidelity issues and they're.
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: Never he's never gonna fix that.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Like, I feel like red flags do be there when
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: it comes to abusive men or when it comes to
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: certain certain characteristics.
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: I feel like the red flags do be there.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: And honestly, even with the bro guys, they probably were
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: broke when you met him. But if I can, if
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I know that I can get up and I can
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: get some money, I'm gonna believe that you can do
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: the same.
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we project, that's what we do.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: But and then that goes to say they say women
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: don't love don't like men that don't have money, and
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: I just think.
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: That that is that is.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: I think that I don't know about y'all. I don't
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: mean me and Tripe have definitely, like have broke men before.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I've dated a broke man. I've dated broken years before.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: And honestly, I'm traumatized. And this is the thing too,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: because we were talking about it last week or whatever,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: it's not even.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: It's not even that you've never dated broke man. Congress
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: to you, Queen. I love that for you.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: But also it's a it's a mentality thing too. That's
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: why I don't want a man that can't get no money.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: It's not even just all financial. Yeah, and the men
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: be so in a comment so triggered, Like bro, Bro,
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: we're saying broke men.
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: We're not saying like normal men.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: Because somebody clipped up me saying nine to five ers,
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: and they took it as if I was saying men
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: were broke or people who got a job is broke.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, Bro, I was including me and Kiki
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: and that conversation and you even though you don't have
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: a job right now. But Bro, I was including all
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: of us as no shade. I was just a disclaimer.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: So I'm including all of us in the nine to
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: five or umbrella? What made you say because he I
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: thought we were gonna be together forever? Like that was
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: I ain't Oh god, I can't even be descriptive because
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be like mean, but to be honest,
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: I thought that he was gonna get on his feet.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: And then also I feel like broke men they like
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: are a little manipulative as well. They'll tell you like, oh,
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get it, or oh I'm gonna get to it,
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: or I'm gonna get right whatever. I don't know what
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: is in the water that broke niggas be drinking. Why
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: y'all can't just get y'all some money, I don't understand.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: And then I just sat there and I just believed
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: in him for years and then to the point where
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, all right, I gotta go, because.
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: Clearly you were staying with for years. How broke was he?
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: He couldn't have been that.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: I mean, I was literally funding our whole, our whole
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: talking about my own situation, I was, I was funding
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: our whole life, ass like bills.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: And what was he doing he was he wasn't going
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: to work or nothing.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: I mean, he was being a good father and stuff
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: and which, yeah, but but it's obviously if you're working,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: if you're a working mom and your kids are.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: Small, then somebody. But I don't want that for myself.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: I want to I want a guy that's got a
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: good job and we're gonna pay this day care. I
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: don't need a motherfucker that day job is staying at home,
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: not at this same.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: At home that at home.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I honestly I would be okay with that.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: I would love to come home to a nice home.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I say that all the time. I would love I
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: don't mind working. I enjoy working. I actually enjoy working.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: It's having to work, be a mom, cook clean, try
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: to have.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: A life, try to stay cute. That's just I can't
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: do it all. Y'all literally put too much on our plate.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Like I feel like we we share, y'all, we get
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: too much of a load. Like my life when I'm single,
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: it's so looks so totally different than my life when
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: I have a man, like.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: Because they was like, why would you? I don't get
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: it when y'all say men are work.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: They because it's like, so we're we're sitting at home
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: when we're single. We do what we want to do.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: We eat what we want to eat. You know, we
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: clean up when we feel like it. We don't got
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: to make full course meals. And y'all know, y'all steak
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: and lobster tail and want me and the kid's gonna
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: butt down some hamburger helper.
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: You're so picky.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: And then I mean, what what else do niggas gotta
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: do that aside from y'all, what do y'all do?
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: Take out the trash? That's about it? Like what extra
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: do you gotta do? When much I gotta wash your clothes.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: Now you go digger and now you want this and this,
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: this is that and not to that's and they stay
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: up late and they want you to stay up with them.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: Like, bro, I gotta work in the morning.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: You got you gotta hand out cool to you gotta
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: hit a nigga like hand out that I'm always going
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: oh and which also brings me back. Like that's why
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: I said, if you come over here, you have to
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: contribute something as much work as I have to put
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: in to make a nigga happy. Yeah, it's just like
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: bring something or else. It's not worth my time. It's
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: not worth my life, honestly, like entertaining somebody is.
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: It's amazing.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Like sometimes like do they not ever be like dang,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: I'm sure they think this too, Like damn, I just
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: want this bitch to get out my face. We want
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: you to get out of our face too. Well, seemed
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: like I be in love in love love love everyone
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: in and you'll go too hard, right, you'll go super duper.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: I've just been single for so long, Like I really
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: don't even know how to answer some of these questions.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: But with the broke thing, though, like that's it's it's
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: more has always been more of a mentality for me
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: because I know that I want to work so hard.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I know the goals that I have for myself. We
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: want a line. We can't even have conversation.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know how any man could want to lay
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: around and not bring no money home when I'm not.
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: Making The thing is, they don't even be laying around.
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: They just don't know how to get no money.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: And I don't get that.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: When I'm not when my money's not right, I'm sick. Yeah,
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: I can't think straight, I can't eat, I can't even
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: when I was something to believe I was getting paid
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: from my job.
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: But still I'm just like sitting at home for months
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: and I'm just like, I don't have anything to do
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: but learn how to fout taxes and everything I was tax.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: And that's the thing.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: Women are hustlers and not, like you said, we have
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: made some mistakes. Not all men are like this. I
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: understand that, but it's just like women get to it.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: We don't. We can't make excuses. There are bitches to
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: do it, but you can't make excuses. We have no choice.
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: Literally, we know what we want.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: We know what we want for our kids, know what
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: we want for farm, so we're gonna get to it.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: But yeah, that broke. Then I've never I've never, I've
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: never done that. I had sex with somebody that was
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: broke before his dick was this big.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: And I'm saying, but the broke man bro it's like
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: they be working on their craft so well, they be
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: so good in the bedroom because that's all they got
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: to know.
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I'm about to fuck the ship out
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: of this bitch. I got to Oh my god, it's
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: all I got going for me. Was probably attached to
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: a broken.
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: He broke he broke my sure, yeah, broke my TV
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: and didn't replace it like arm gedding on their way
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: out like whoa.
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: And that's another thing to like it.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Also, and they destroy your property because they don't pay
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: for anything. Like I'm the type, like you know, we
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: can joke about being crazy and toxic all day long,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: but I do not. I don't vandalize or mess up.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: No man I'm not messing up your shit, bro, because I.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: Pay for all my life.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I know how that is and I know
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: how it, bro, and I'm just not doing it. But
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: it's niggas want money who do the same thing, but
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: at least they can like replace it.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: And that's where do you want to cry in the
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: Honda or mayback. That's that's where that came from.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: And also being with being with a broke man is
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: stressful as hell because one thing about a guy with money,
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: at least you know y'all always gonna be straight, and
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: y'a always gonna be stable. It's not You're not gonna
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: really run into no issues real And that's why I
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: would like.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: That's when I love when people find real, genuine love
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: and they find a teammate where.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: You lacking somebody like that's.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: All I am, and I'm willing to hold out until
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: I can find and if somebody loves you, then they
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: gonna step it up and kick it in gear.
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: Even if they ain't.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: I've got no money before they gonna make the sacrifice
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: and take the ass the worker do something. But these
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: niggas them, not all of them, but they just be freeloaders,
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: and they know that we gotta get it and that
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: we're going to get it, and they just will like
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: bro mooch off of that, Like what am.
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: Okay? I ain't got no money though, but all he
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: got is man, it's never that deep.
• 30:37
  Speaker 6: He got the locks from his face my birthday.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: That's how they be sounded.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know, this is hilarious. Juice Ski is like goaded.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: That's pretty funny. He'd be really clocking tee uh.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: That just made me hot.
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: While that's literally all they have.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: Just made me want to go because why is it
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: like that.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Brou I had When I my most traumatizing relationship, it
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: was with financially challenged man and Bruh, his only responsibility
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: was the cable bill, y'all. Why after we broke up,
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: I found out and realized that he had been paying
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: the cable bill with my credit card. Said the broken
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: the poorest ship it ever did? You should have said,
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: I suppressed those memories. Honestly I could. I could probably
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: write a whole book on but yeah, and and I am.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: My ship was like by that time, it had been
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: just climbing up and climbing up, and girl, I was
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: over my limit because of cable bills.
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: That's insane.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: He needs to go to jail.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: That was don't even be that. He was in jail
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: at the time, but cable bills don't even be that high.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: Literally because what yeah so, but did he have good dick? Yeah, but.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: I didn't care back then. That wasn't like a priority
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: to me. I didn't care about it. You do prioritize, yeah, well, okay,
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: but it's never that serious like that, not like that.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: You can get the fuck like. I don't even play
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: like that. I don't prioritize dick at all. I don't
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: feel like I really don't like.
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: I don't feel like I should.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Men are the ones who's supposed to be slaves to sex.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Pussy is powered that is our.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: But I don't. I don't. I don't value it like that.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: It's just like you, if I know you got some
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: good dick, even if I know our shouldn't.
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: Be fucking with you that little hooky okay, it's it's
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: never the dick for me.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: I am I literally, even when I dated a broke nigga,
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: it was I'm just a lover girl. I was in
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: love and trying to stay down and it was so
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: he did have good dick though, But you said that
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: men should be a slave to sex. Do y'all use
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: y'all lemon drops as a former punishment relationship?
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: Oh that's a good one. No, I don't.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: And it's the thing. That type of ship will get
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: you cheated on. They don't cheat anyway, I mean, but
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: that don't get you cheated on. Actually yeah, But I
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: feel like even like I used to do stuff like this, like, oh,
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: we might get into an argument and I'm like, that's cool.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: I'll leave a house at like midnight and go sit
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: in the target parking lot for three hours, like trying
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: to make his mind wander. And it's like I look
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: back at that ship and it's like, bitch, you are
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: so stupid. That was so dumb, like and I'm looking
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: at it like I'm not doing shit right And he
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: knows I'm not doing ship, but know the fuck he
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: don't and he be abule to go cheat what you
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: think about? I can't wait till the next day, wait
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: till you bring the car back so I can drop it.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: But I know girls who do stuff like that, or
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: like they'll go out and or like turn a phone
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: off or be ignoring a man's text messages or phone
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: calls while they outside, and it's like, stop doing that, bitch, it's.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: Gonna get you cheating on. Yeah, you're poking the bear him.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: He's thinking you're cheating because he's projecting what he if
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: he's not answering you, it's because he's cheating. So he's
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: projecting onto you the fact. Oh you're not answering all
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: that bitch cheating she getting she's sucking dick right now.
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: That's cool?
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: So what what is a healthy way though?
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: That you should put a man on punishment?
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Put him on punishment.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: But like if you're upset, like, okay, so what you
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: did wasn't wasn't a healthy way outside of communicating, do
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: y'all feel like you should take like.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Like do y'all go to bed mad?
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: Do y'all do you let your partner leave to get
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: some steam off? Like not cheap, but like separate y'allselves,
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: Like how do y'all do healthy?
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: I am a ghoster. I will shut the fuck up.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: I won't talk to you, I won't answer the phone,
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: oh shoulder, even sometimes I go to her house and
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: stay the night off of there for real, Like I
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: don't know what.
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: Do you think? What's a as a man? What?
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: What do you what do you think would be like
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: approp inappropriate way for us to act once where upset
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: or you did something wrong or whatever.
• 35:40
  Speaker 5: I feel like, I mean at the end of the day,
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: like say you mad and y'all got a little argument.
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: At the end of the day, there's still your partner. Yeah,
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: so like either right or wrong. He's so much sure
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: you should be like, hey, yeah, like we just got
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: an argument. I'm about to go at my sister house.
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: So the he's not thinking, oh, you're going somewhere. The
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: reassurance is we mad at each other. I'm gonna see
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: her tomorrow, instead of you being like, oh, I'm about
• 36:08
  Speaker 5: to leave.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I think one of my dawn falls though.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm an over communicator and some people need that space.
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: They don't want to talk about it right then and there,
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: but I'm gonna keep pushing, like no, address it. Yeah,
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: like let's address it, let's get it over. But some
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: people need that. So it comes to knowing your partner.
• 36:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: I guess that speaking of over communicating, have y'all ever
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: had it?
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: Because you were talking about projecting.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Have y'all ever had a guy that just like constantly
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: accused you of cheating or talking off?
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: Sure?
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Have I'm not a cheater, so I don't think that.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I can't think of a time that a man.
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: Ever I'm not either. But the thing is these men
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: be projected.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: The last guy that I had constantly like accusing me
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: of doing stuff like he would accuse me of I'm like,
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: where the hell is he getting these ideas from? Like
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: he was like, you're pregnant, you want to you want
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: to keep uh? Or like you're pregnant, you want to baby?
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: You want to you want.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: A baby with?
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Like the guy had that I had talked to before
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: or whatever I had just stopped talking to before me
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: and this guy spent the block on each other.
• 37:11
  Speaker 4: He's like, you're pregnant, ain't you? You're pregnant by that nigga,
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: And I'm just like, no, I'm not.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: And then bro come and find out the nigga had
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: a baby on the way.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: I'm like, you were projecting.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: And then like he would say stuff like you got
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: niggas coming up to your job, or you like got
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: people bringing you lunch and shit, I'm like, where the
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: fuck like he would stay like very specific stuff like oh,
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: you're trying to go work out with a nigga, And
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, what the fuck? They definitely and then
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: like I went through his phone like a couple of
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: months later, and he was doing it like that, like
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: going up to jobs or having bitches come to his job.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: I was just like, Wow, he was really accusing me
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: of everything he was doing. And I learned like, Bro,
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: when a nigga just constantly blaming it or like, uh,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: accusing you of shit, it's like, Bro, you has he's
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: probably on that.
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: That's probably what you're doing.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: Wait, speaking of cheating, I had seen on social media
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: a ninety nine year old man left his seventy seven
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: year marriage after he found out his wife was cheating.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: Back in nineteen forty. He found the letters that her
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: in the what is.
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: The statue of delimitation on cheating?
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: Because he said obviously never nine years he divorced her,
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: and I think she was like seventy years.
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: Oh, she was younger.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what it was. She was younger
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: than him, though she was definitely younger than him. I
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: don't know if she was seventy, but yeah.
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: No, it's more two weeks cancel that hole.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: He found he found the letters, and enough he didn't
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: give a hell.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Nah, he's because I'm about to die tomorrow, but I
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: ain't dying next.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: To you, bitch.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they said in the comments, they said he about
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: the tear up the the what's it called the nursing home,
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: and they say they probably added about eight more years
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: to his life because he got a point to prove.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: But yeah, you kept those that's she's not seventy.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: She kept the letters for over six In the years
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: she's tweeting, Yeah, like what, I ain't keeping no evidence, honey.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: You filthy, raggedy old burger bitch.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: At the fireplace, they said, how y'all just got to
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: realize how good that man's did have to be for
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: her to keep them letters, and the letters he's probably reading.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: He's reading the stuff this man is saying to her.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: So it's like, wow, you was you was really feeling
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: this guy, wasn't you?
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: So y'all be deleting the pictures of y'all old niggas
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: out your phones?
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: Yep, I don't like a nice little hitting album, have
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: y'all ever?
• 39:38
  Speaker 5: Though?
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: Got caught like got y'all text messages read I got
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: one that was so bro bad, Like what I was
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: telling the guy, like how much I like to give
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: him flatio?
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: And he's seen that. I was like, and he said,
• 39:50
  Speaker 4: who another guy?
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's seen it and was just like you, you're
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: so dumb.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: Were talking about giving him flatio and your screen broke.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: He can't even buy you another fall. He said, he
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: got an iPhone, this is a low eight and over here,
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: get ahead.
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: I'm like, why see?
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: And this is the thing, like they don't want us
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: to transactionalize relationships and and sex, but then.
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: They say sh they say stuff like that, like over.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: The men say, y'all don't y'all don't have Chanel bags.
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: So that what I thought we were not. I thought
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: we're not supposed to transactional.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know what they won't ladies don't they don't.
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: They stay trying to use that against you when we.
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: All we all want to say, that's why the Ginger
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: Wars need to really end, because we've all burd brings.
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: And that's the cap shit are we talking about?
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: We say dumb ship. Y'all say dumb ship. Y'all have
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: crazy standards. We have crazy standards. We just need to
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: just coexist.
• 40:42
  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna lie.
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: It was just like it's like a year or two
• 40:46
  Speaker 5: ago a girl send me like a test shoe. Was
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: like some some something none of your business. Will never
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: be hitting on what I'm hitting on. So I sent
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: through a picture on yourself. I ain't telling myself because
• 40:59
  Speaker 5: I ain't. I ain't gotten a live about her. Tongue
• 41:03
  Speaker 5: was on my and I sent the picture and I
• 41:06
  Speaker 5: was like, ooh, it's my bad my phone tweaking male that.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: Now, that wasn't That was just some spieful what's your signal?
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Makes sense? Y'all? Crazy? That was fired though.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: What they say, call your dude in the middle of
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: the night, moan and put your phone, cut your phone off,
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: your door, be kicked in house.
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: I can't.
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: I'm not playing with nobody like that. That's how you
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: get I ain't about.
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: To do it.
• 41:33
  Speaker 6: M m mmmm.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Last call confessions.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: We have been slacking on our last call confession, but
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: this one, since we're on the topic of men, I
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: think this is great. He went too personal in it,
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: so I'm gonna kind of like summar phrase.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: So basically he said he's a guy that likes female company.
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: He likes to hang out with. He likes to hang
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: with a bad bitch, is what he said. I like
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: to hang with a bad bitch. So when I'm going
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: out to eat or I'm going out of town, I.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: Want females to come with me.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: It doesn't mean that it has to be a sexual transaction.
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: I just like hanging with a bad bitch. He took
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: a girl out out of town and she kind.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Of like pressured him to have sex, and he felt
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: like he had to because a he didn't want to
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: look gay, and also he didn't want her to feel like.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Something was wrong with her.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: He said, it was just afterwards he felt really really
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: bad about it. It's just he just didn't want to
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: do it, and it was nothing wrong with her. He
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: just didn't want to do it.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: He said.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: Now I see what females go through, and he was
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: just like, it's kind of weird.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: He hasn't talked back to the girl.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: So he wanted to get our opinions on like and
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: other male opinions, and make this known that men go
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: through the same thing.
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: Like my opinion is where are you at? I'll go
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: with you.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: You want to hang with some bad bites. We want
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: to go to Miami.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: Yo cut in. Yeah, yeah, that's my type. But we
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: just found a new five too.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I get that.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: Get out the way, but I know I think that, Yeah,
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: women definitely go through that, like not you know, everything
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: doesn't have to be sexual, like let's vibe.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: It's to the point though, like I'm not saying yes
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: to a trip or getting flud out unless I know
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: I want to do that with you or you.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Know, And maybe that's what she thought or did it
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: or whatever.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: You know, but.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she thought that, like she had to like
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: type thing because it is that stigma if I fly
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: you out, you know. He said he never pressed up,
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: like nothing like that, but she she kind of she
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: just pressured him to do it.
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: He was uncomfortable. He didn't want to.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: I'm like, dang, that's that's pretty deep. But I guess
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: because of the stigma, because of the Internet. If you
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: get fluid out, you got it, you got this is
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: that she wanted to keep it going.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: She wanted maybe she wanted to lock it in.
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: That is just so amazing. She hit the lottery. I
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: love that. Have y'all ever had had.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: A guy that like wasn't good at initiating. Nope, I
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: have and we never we never ended up doing it.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like, this is great. Wow, yeah, oh, like some
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: men are literally like that, you're gonna you're especially for
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: the first time, you're gonna have to push up on
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: them mm hmm.
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: And that's not even.
• 44:19
  Speaker 5: So I'm gonna call it thirsty.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: But like nothing a little hand on the thigh.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, like yeah, do little cute stuff like that.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: But I love to sit on the coochies. So it's like,
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: that's cool for me because I ain't gonna push up
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: on you neither. Born again, that's great, that's superle just
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: gonna lay here dead ass.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Skinned the skin now, skin of skin is crazy what
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: you have on you.
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, we didn't. We didn't do skinning skin
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: for I was just I love skin. Skin.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: So sli the stuff as a man, do you think
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: that's How do you feel about that? The whole man
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: flying the girl out and feeling like uncomfortable when it
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: came time to.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: Do it.
• 45:08
  Speaker 5: If she want to, if you want to me personally,
• 45:11
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna do it.
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: You're not gonna feel taken advantage of it?
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: Said, why not I ain't on that.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: But what if you're just not on it? Like sometimes
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: people just don't we You're still young. You ain't never
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: gonna be not in the mood, are you?
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: No? I ain't gonna I'll be on that. Some really
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: just feel like I'll be holding like no, that's how
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: bad feeling could.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Be going reverse psychology.
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: They probably be like not trying me and make them more.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: I seen on also on social media it was party,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: he had a real He was like getting ready to
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: take a good girl on the first date so we
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: can crack afterwards, Like you know, all good girls have
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: that standard that you have to take me out on
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: a date one date?
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: Like what's that?
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: It was in the comments going crazy, but I don't
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: know do y'all have a standard with dates or like
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: is it a VID thing?
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: It's about.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: So, but also it's it's like I done got to
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: the point to where it's not like a ninety day
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: rule thing just for the principle, you know, but it's
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: more like you got to like give it time to
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: feel these men out and really like see what they
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: what they about for real, cause they be capping about
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: their lives like time will tell.
• 46:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and that shit is scary.
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: I remember when I was like freshly single, that shit
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: was giving me anxiety.
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: I'm like, damn, I gotta date again. I gotta get
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: to know somebody again. And it was giving me anxiety
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: because I'm like, these niggas are fucked up. They be
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: hide and shit and all kind of stuff.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: No, and the conversation we had in the car right
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: before we got here talking about he was like, so
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: you pay rent.
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: My sister need her rent, her mortgage paid or whatever,
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: and he's like yeah. I was like I was. I
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: was like I thought he was broke.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: She was like no, I'm pretty sure he got some money.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, shit, well, I ain't trying to. I
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to be around him because
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: he's like the type to press like push up on you.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm sorry, I don't got time to
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: be cracking out later that you can't even afford.
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a reflect too, but some sometimes it might
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: just be just because they horny or whatever. They're used
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: to getting that easily or whatever. But sometimes you might
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: just be trying to hurry up and get the cool
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: stoked before a bitch.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: See what's really going on over there, and I'm not
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: trying to like get tripped out the kuchie.
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: I want to know. I hate man who just press
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: press pressed like that.
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: As if you're messing with bad bitches, maybe like she might.
• 47:46
  Speaker 5: I just feel like first date or two, we're just bothering,
• 47:51
  Speaker 5: like if you a bad bitch?
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: What I'm hungry?
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: No, I am the bitch.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: My stomach over here, like, oh my gosh, remember yesterday
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: last night, I was working on y'all and I just
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: like stopped abruptly, and I'm like, hold on, let me
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: stop for our part.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: You stayed in front of everybody, bitch because.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: I ain't want want to let loose, bro, And then
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: don't get on me because y'all bitches.
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: What was that that first game we went to when.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: Y'all kept parting, Bitch, they kept on walking off, Bro,
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, that was you and her.
• 48:29
  Speaker 4: I was not game. No, I was not.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: No, they'd bitch standing in the corner by herself.
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: She's going politely. That's what they got out of her business.
• 48:43
  Speaker 5: Bro.
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, you bitches are killing me.
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: It was both of y'all.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: You does it fart?
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: She was firing that night and she was in. It
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: was one no, it was one time. One of y'all
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: had walked off.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: And then the other one came over here, like where
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: we're such and such, And then I was like, she's
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: over there far, and then the other one walked up
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: and said, I got.
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: A fart too. It was you know what I'm talking about.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Anyway, Sorry, And I wanted to close with hotty tities,
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: but I don't want to do hot takes with y'all.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Y'all gonna be being sensitive.
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: Oh lord, what I'm not.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: We'll put it back up.
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: What are real?
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Put our real back up? I've never coming back.
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: Just do your hot take. Word, let's let's.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: Talk about it. My I had multiple hot takes because
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: I say, you know.
• 49:41
  Speaker 4: What, I'm excited. What are they?
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: First thing? First, I'll start with the easy one.
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: Hot.
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: If I was a man, I would date a younger
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: woman mm hmm, not underage, a younger woman. You know
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: how with me being an older woman, I'd be looking
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: at me in a day old younger women like, what
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: the why, what's the connection? Why do you want a
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: younger girl? If I was an older man, I would
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: date a younger girl. Their life's not as serious. They're
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: gonna still be fun. They not gonna be tired. They
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: gonna give me they don't care. They're gonna give me
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: that little edge that I need. They young and turn
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: like they young, These young girls is fly.
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of men like older women, and then
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: the older man like younger women.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. If I was an older I
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: get it.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: At first, I was just like, I don't get why
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: a man, why wouldn't you want someone your age and
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: why wouldn't you just is not And then they trying
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: to get them young before they get all these bodies,
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: because men care so much about bodies, but.
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: They come in catching bodies they beginning in. But no.
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: But also I think that the older niggas once they
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: get older and they're like, they don't got that same
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: like they used to and now they y'all like a
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: little washed up and stuff. They can't get a woman
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: who is their age and knows them for real, like
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: we know we went to school with you, We was
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: your age with you, we was outside with you.
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: We know you not shit. So you gotta go get
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: a girl who.
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: Doesn't know, who doesn't know your background or your history,
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: and also it is mouldible and you can like mind.
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: Fuck exactly, your stomach is non existent.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I think it's a lot easier for them
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: to approach a younger girl versus the older woman. You
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: can lie so easily to a young girl versus an
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: older woman who knows that you know.
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I mean I understand the characteristics that you explained,
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: but I don't know me personally.
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: I wouldn't want to date like no law as boy, Mmm,
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: like I can go younger, I don't know somebody like
• 51:56
  Speaker 4: how young are you thinking? Like, well, okay, so I
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: know somebody.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: I know somebody who literally who's literally dating like a
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: twenty two year old and he's pushing forty, and so
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: in my brain, I'll just.
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: Be thinking like the exactly.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: But again, I think it's oh, you can't get a
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: girl your age. You can't get a woman your age
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: or even like thirty. You can't because you just you don't.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: You're not shit niggas. So the only person who's going
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: to go for that is a kid.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: I want a young un give me my spark back.
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: I want no old dusty ku.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: It's not enough sparkling world, Like I feel like older
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: women can.
• 52:40
  Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know. I'm not about to
• 52:42
  Speaker 4: be the older women advocate as you should I am.
• 52:45
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: I say it, but I'm just telling the truth. And
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: that's back to those standard situation. We say shit and
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: we do shit, but we would you know, would do
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: the other things.
• 52:53
  Speaker 4: I don't care how old he is at this point.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: Just send me your older women just don't, in my opinion, don't.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Require you don't think oh wow, young girls require more.
• 53:08
  Speaker 4: What do you mean though, like attention.
• 53:11
  Speaker 5: Older woman like r A. Y'all got kids? I know
• 53:15
  Speaker 5: you got a kid. It's it's the Lewis ship, like
• 53:18
  Speaker 5: all being considered of your kid. Don't you gotta clean up? Cook?
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: It's like you take some of that offer. Oh I
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: seem and another the gold.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: Say yeah, because we got ship that we gotta do.
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: And I'm not texting nobody all day.
• 53:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that be together all the time.
• 53:43
  Speaker 4: Y'all remember them days though, wanting to be up under
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: a nigga all day? Yes you never had that?
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: What you work alike? Though? Girls? Yeah, I don't. I
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: don't like this.
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: You don't like clean girls just want to be a lege.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: The only time we separate is when I go to work.
• 54:04
  Speaker 4: So he worked a lot.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: That's cool, so you don't in his free time. He
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: needs to be inside of my vagina.
• 54:11
  Speaker 4: If I was in paper chasing, probably much. It's like
• 54:15
  Speaker 4: I want to live in my nigga balls. You do here,
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: I bro, it's a it's amazing, I know, but I do.
• 54:24
  Speaker 4: I would I still if I was in I promise you,
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: if I was in a relationship this, this would not
• 54:31
  Speaker 4: this situation would not go as smoothly. What what I oh? Yeah,
• 54:37
  Speaker 4: she man, it's going to be there when one show
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: a week. It would be hard for it would be hard,
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: hard because she got to spend the whole day every
• 54:54
  Speaker 4: day and all her free time with her.
• 54:56
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: If as a nigga, you shouldn't even want.
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: Niggas be wanting. They be wanting. A tentative bitch though,
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: even if even if they do like to spend a
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: lot of time with you. I like niggas like that
• 55:10
  Speaker 4: take me everywhere.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: I don't not at least, and I want you to
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: drop me off with your friends to do.
• 55:17
  Speaker 4: I love to live. I love to do stuff. I
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: don't want to sit at the home and sit at
• 55:21
  Speaker 4: the house and be bored, but I like to do stuff.
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: Drop me off. I got.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: You gotta be able to miss each other.
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: But can we just spend our day separate and then
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: we'll go we'll sleep together at night, and then we'll
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: go do our.
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: Own thing again. Like I don't. I don't want to
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: spend my whole day with the motherfucker.
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: As soon as you spend a whole day with him
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: in then you gotta spend the night too, Bro, that's
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: too much time. I don't want to do a twelve
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: hour shift, like, even if I like him, like I
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: like my kids too. I like my home too, like
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: I like my girls too, I like doing other stuff.
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: I'm definitely evolving, though, because I'll i'll her like, all right,
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: we don't got to spend two three days in a
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: row together. That's crazy, everybody, we need her on the show,
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: So don't don't even try to talk to it.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: Don't even look at her, please.
• 56:14
  Speaker 4: We're shutting her damn down.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be contracting every time. Watch out.
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna be boxing niggas out in the club, and
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: bitches get away from her.
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: Are gay?
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: I was I was watching when we went out. I
• 56:31
  Speaker 5: was like let me just make sure cool. She's like milk,
• 56:35
  Speaker 5: make sure I'm cool. And nobody talked to me.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we oh, we didn't even talk about it.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: I was a fucking field fifth wheel, y'all. Oh yeah,
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: Oh it was fun though. I had a good time.
• 56:49
  Speaker 4: But you and the kids. Yeah, for the girl, Yes,
• 56:57
  Speaker 4: they were being nice. They were so sweet. Uh, his
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: little booty, she's so cool.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: We knew that she was cool.
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: She was. She was triking on me and everything. We
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: were having a grand all time.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: Because you're the nice twin, cute girl, cool girls.
• 57:12
  Speaker 4: Girl, last heart takes on this couch anytime.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: No, she cannot spot.
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: You gonna take this. My ass was wet. That was
• 57:29
  Speaker 4: not cool.
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: That was not I think it's so funny. And now
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: apparently Fred need something on the couch. Yeah, actually, girl,
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: I don't like.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: Don't cut it either.
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: Don't cut it either. He looked like he want why
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: why Fred can't come get on the couch with.
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: This Fred filthy? He probably was all up on this couch.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: He already said he's a little.
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: Why are you going that the couch is white?
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: Go go have sex on your little basketball couch.
• 57:59
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• 58:22
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