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- 0:00Speaker 1: I want to buy a Chanel.
- 0:03Speaker 2: $ 3, 000.
- 0:03Speaker 1: I just want to.
- 0:05Speaker 3: Money.
- 0:06Speaker 1: Money, money, money, money.
- 0:09Speaker 2: And that's a big-ass ring.
- 0:11Speaker 3: So you should feel like a damn queen with a
- 0:13Speaker 3: rock like that.
- 0:15Speaker 2: But no, you take advantage.
- 0:19Speaker 1: When John say that I would like to take advantage
- 0:22Speaker 1: of the coach, I just laugh. Because advantage? What? Coach
- 0:27Speaker 1: is not millionaire. I want $ 1 million from Colt.
- 0:32Speaker 4: I am fully convinced that TLC is the best channel
- 0:36Speaker 4: on television. It's called The Learning Channel for a reason,
- 0:39Speaker 4: and that's because it has a ton of different shows
- 0:42Speaker 4: that are dedicated to teaching us all about pathological relationships.
- 0:46Speaker 4: 90 Day Fiancé being at the top of that list.
- 0:50Speaker 4: For those of you who don't know, 90 Day Fiancé
- 0:53Speaker 4: is a show where largely Americans with low sexual market
- 0:56Speaker 4: value trying to get with a partner with a much
- 0:58Speaker 4: higher sexual market value by looking in the third world.
- 1:02Speaker 4: This time, we have two couples, Larissa and Colt, and
- 1:06Speaker 4: Nicole and Azan. I have picked these two couples because
- 1:09Speaker 4: I think they both exemplify the negative consequences of not
- 1:13Speaker 4: putting effort into your life. Now, there are two ways
- 1:16Speaker 4: to motivate yourself to achieve something. One is desire, and
- 1:20Speaker 4: the other is fear. What am I going to gain
- 1:23Speaker 4: by achieving this goal? or what horrible thing is going
- 1:26Speaker 4: to happen to me if I don't achieve it. Ideally,
- 1:30Speaker 4: you want both at the same time, because then metaphorically,
- 1:33Speaker 4: it's like you have a goal to run towards, but
- 1:36Speaker 4: then also, there is this horrible guy running behind you,
- 1:39Speaker 4: trying to kill you. That fear forces you to run
- 1:41Speaker 4: faster towards the goal. If you don't bring these two
- 1:45Speaker 4: powers together at the same time, then you are not
- 1:47Speaker 4: going to find the overwhelming willpower to get stuff done.
- 1:51Speaker 4: And there is a danger to that, the danger of
- 1:53Speaker 4: not getting stuff done, is that you are doomed to
- 1:56Speaker 4: live around low-quality people because they are the only people
- 1:59Speaker 4: who will want you. You will have no other options.
- 2:03Speaker 4: So this video is going to focus on what you
- 2:05Speaker 4: should be afraid of when you don't try at life.
- 2:08Speaker 4: Our first example is Cult from Las Vegas. He is
- 2:12Speaker 4: the guy who doesn't really have any willpower. People say
- 2:15Speaker 4: he talks in lowercase, which essentially means that he has
- 2:19Speaker 4: no energy in his voice.
- 2:21Speaker 2: I feel really embarrassed right now. Larissa has no right
- 2:23Speaker 2: to start a fight with me in front of my
- 2:25Speaker 2: friends in public. Why can't we just save this for later?
- 2:28Speaker 2: If she ever does something like that again, we will
- 2:30Speaker 2: not get married.
- 2:32Speaker 4: He lives with his mom at 35, he is out
- 2:35Speaker 4: of shape, and he doesn't seem to have any high aspirations.
- 2:39Speaker 4: So if he wants a wife who is reasonably attractive,
- 2:42Speaker 4: he's going to have to make some sacrifices by shopping
- 2:46Speaker 4: for a wife in Brazil. And as a consequence... This
- 2:49Speaker 4: is how his fiancée, Larissa, greets him when she arrives
- 2:52Speaker 4: in America and sees him in person for the very
- 2:55Speaker 4: first time.
- 2:56Speaker 5: Larissa!
- 2:57Speaker 1: Where's my flowers? Where's my flowers? Ready to go home, darling?
- 3:04Speaker 4: Oh, please.
- 3:06Speaker 2: Larissa has only been in Las Vegas for three hours,
- 3:09Speaker 2: and she's literally not stopped complaining since she arrived here.
- 3:13Speaker 4: I gotta say that if she greeted me like that
- 3:16Speaker 4: the very first time I saw her... I would have
- 3:18Speaker 4: sent her right back home. Not only did Colt pay
- 3:22Speaker 4: for her plane ticket to America, but because she didn't
- 3:25Speaker 4: get her visa in time for the first flight, she
- 3:27Speaker 4: missed it, and he had to pay for a second ticket.
- 3:31Speaker 4: After that, the first thing she says to him is,
- 3:34Speaker 4: Where are my flowers? Then she proceeds to complain for
- 3:37Speaker 4: several hours? Screw that.
- 3:40Speaker 1: I'm not a good cook, you know. When I speak
- 3:43Speaker 1: to Colt, I lie to him about my cooking skills
- 3:47Speaker 1: because I thought, what do men like? Sex and good food.
- 3:53Speaker 4: Okay, so she's a liar too. Understand that she's on
- 3:56Speaker 4: a K-1 visa, so she can't work, which also means
- 4:00Speaker 4: she can't be paid for the show. So the only
- 4:02Speaker 4: way she can be of value to Colt is to
- 4:05Speaker 4: take care of his home and but she doesn't have
- 4:07Speaker 4: the skills to do so, which means she basically is
- 4:09Speaker 4: going to sit around all day. It's not like you
- 4:12Speaker 4: could maybe spend that free time learning how to keep
- 4:15Speaker 4: a home.
- 4:16Speaker 3: How is your life hell? You have a man paying
- 4:19Speaker 3: for you. Your man pays for everything. Your man pays
- 4:22Speaker 3: for everything. Because you don't do a thing right now.
- 4:27Speaker 4: You have to understand how bad this all is. Colt
- 4:30Speaker 4: is so trapped in thinking that Larissa is the best
- 4:33Speaker 4: he can do, that it doesn't matter what his friends
- 4:35Speaker 4: or family say. Even though everyone in his life doesn't
- 4:39Speaker 4: like Larissa, he won't listen.
- 4:41Speaker 2: I think that he's naive right now and he's excited
- 4:44Speaker 2: to have somebody in his life. You know, he hasn't
- 4:46Speaker 2: had a girlfriend in a long time. He's got his
- 4:48Speaker 2: blinders on right now. You could always break this off.
- 4:51Speaker 2: I just want you to think about it. You're not
- 4:54Speaker 2: just coming over here to marry my man for a
- 4:55Speaker 2: green card.
- 4:56Speaker 5: Are you?
- 4:57Speaker 2: No, I think they're pretty much screwed. You know, I
- 4:59Speaker 2: think that she's coming to America to enjoy the, you know,
- 5:02Speaker 2: high life.
- 5:04Speaker 4: So naturally, they get married, despite everyone telling him not to.
- 5:08Speaker 4: We haven't even gotten to the good part yet. Larissa
- 5:12Speaker 4: abuses Colt quite heavily, and she has a secret she's
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- 5:45Speaker 4: As if Larissa didn't have enough red flags already, she's
- 5:48Speaker 4: also extremely physically and verbally abusive. Before I give you
- 5:52Speaker 4: examples though, I want you to listen to this, because
- 5:56Speaker 4: it's a very common tactic that abusers use. But I just.
- 5:59Speaker 1: Would like that you think the good things that this
- 6:02Speaker 1: person made you, not only the bad things.
- 6:05Speaker 4: You understand me? This is a diversion tactic from Larissa.
- 6:09Speaker 4: I'm not all bad. I do good things too. I
- 6:12Speaker 4: want you to remember all the good times we had.
- 6:15Speaker 4: This is such an effective tactic that abusers use, so
- 6:19Speaker 4: allow me to use a metaphor to point out how
- 6:21Speaker 4: dumb this argument is. Let's say you're in a relationship
- 6:25Speaker 4: with a girl, and once every 100 days, she freaks
- 6:28Speaker 4: out and beats the crap out of you. Every day
- 6:31Speaker 4: during that period, she is a perfect angel, except for
- 6:34Speaker 4: that one day. She's not so bad. Once every hundred
- 6:39Speaker 4: days is only 1% of the time. She is almost
- 6:42Speaker 4: always a good person, except for that tiny 1%. Or,
- 6:47Speaker 4: let me say it this way. Once every three months
- 6:50Speaker 4: or so, your wife screams at you and beats the
- 6:53Speaker 4: crap out of you. Is she a good wife? Should
- 6:56Speaker 4: you remember the good times? That is literally what happened
- 7:00Speaker 4: with Larissa and Colt. They were married for less than
- 7:02Speaker 4: a year, and she was arrested three times for domestic violence.
- 7:06Speaker 4: The most recent time, she punched Colt in the face,
- 7:10Speaker 4: inflicted a bunch of wounds on herself, and then called
- 7:12Speaker 4: the police on him. Thankfully, the Las Vegas police didn't
- 7:16Speaker 4: believe her, and they threw her in jail instead of Colt.
- 7:20Speaker 4: Here's a picture of her mugshot.
- 7:22Speaker 5: Wow.
- 7:23Speaker 4: Having no makeup on makes a huge difference. She also
- 7:27Speaker 4: says things like this. And she tries to isolate Colt
- 7:35Speaker 4: from family members that she doesn't like, particularly the ones
- 7:39Speaker 4: who point out that she is an abuser.
- 7:40Speaker 2: You are not alone.
- 7:44Speaker 4: In my wedding.
- 7:46Speaker 3: Don't come to my wedding, okay?
- 7:48Speaker 4: What do you think that you are?
- 7:49Speaker 1: Everyone that's against.
- 7:50Speaker 4: Me is not my wedding, okay? Who is against.
- 7:54Speaker 3: The queen will die.
- 7:55Speaker 4: It doesn't matter if Larissa is capable of having good times.
- 7:59Speaker 4: Your character is measured by what you do when things
- 8:02Speaker 4: aren't going well. When things don't go well for Larissa,
- 8:06Speaker 4: she gets violent and abusive. Now, as I said earlier,
- 8:10Speaker 4: she has a secret which functions just perfectly as the
- 8:14Speaker 4: cherry on top to this whole situation.
- 8:16Speaker 1: I have a cube.
- 8:21Speaker 4: Yes, you heard it. Larissa is a single mother. Two
- 8:25Speaker 4: kids by two different fathers. Two kids who she ditched
- 8:30Speaker 4: back in Brazil so that she could get a million
- 8:32Speaker 4: dollars from Colt. I don't believe she has revealed the
- 8:35Speaker 4: ages of her kids, but judging by the things that
- 8:38Speaker 4: she said during interviews and during the show, they're young.
- 8:42Speaker 4: She has been divorced from Colt for over a year,
- 8:44Speaker 4: and she hasn't moved back to Brazil to be with
- 8:46Speaker 4: her kids. She straight up abandoned them. However, She has
- 8:50Speaker 4: started an OnlyFans account. If you don't get your act together,
- 8:55Speaker 4: then people like Larissa will be all over your life.
- 8:58Speaker 4: You will have friends like Larissa. You will have girlfriends
- 9:02Speaker 4: like Larissa. You will have co-workers in management like Larissa.
- 9:06Speaker 4: And you will have family like Larissa. They may not
- 9:10Speaker 4: be as toxic as her, but they will still have
- 9:12Speaker 4: a very detrimental effect on your life. On to our
- 9:16Speaker 4: next couple, Nicole and Azan. Unlike Colt, Nicole is someone
- 9:20Speaker 4: who has high aspirations and energy in her voice, but
- 9:24Speaker 4: at the same time, has zero follow-through when it comes
- 9:27Speaker 4: to carrying anything out. With that said, she doesn't really
- 9:31Speaker 4: have any traits that any quality guy would want. Nicole
- 9:34Speaker 4: is morbidly obese, she is physically abusive, she doesn't know
- 9:39Speaker 4: how to cook, and she is a single mother. So
- 9:42Speaker 4: in order to find the quote, man of her dreams,
- 9:45Speaker 4: she has to go to Morocco and just to find
- 9:47Speaker 4: a man who was willing to pretend to like her.
- 9:51Speaker 5: Physically, I'm attracted to Nicole, but it's not like, just like,
- 9:55Speaker 5: for example, 55%.
- 9:56Speaker 1: What?
- 10:00Speaker 2: Because I always want my wife to go to the
- 10:03Speaker 2: gym with.
- 10:04Speaker 4: Me and be healthy.
- 10:06Speaker 5: 55%?
- 10:06Speaker 4: That's an F. Azan gave Nicole, the woman he deeply loves,
- 10:11Speaker 4: an F. I'm surprised that she kept a straight-up poker
- 10:14Speaker 4: face when he called her ugly. Just like Colt, that
- 10:18Speaker 4: lack of reaction is probably due to the fact that
- 10:21Speaker 4: she knows she hasn't done anything to deserve a better partner.
- 10:25Speaker 4: And that's because she gives up on literally everything that
- 10:28Speaker 4: would improve her life as soon as it gets difficult.
- 10:31Speaker 5: I tried to eat healthy for a little bit, and
- 10:33Speaker 5: it was going well, but I got stressed out, so
- 10:36Speaker 5: I kind of stopped.
- 10:39Speaker 4: I would love to see what her attempt at eating
- 10:41Speaker 4: healthy food was like. especially considering that she has no
- 10:45Speaker 4: idea what real produce looks like.
- 10:48Speaker 5: Green beans like this?
- 10:49Speaker 4: Are those green beans or peas?
- 10:51Speaker 2: Green beans.
- 10:52Speaker 4: I'm used to vegetables in a can.
- 10:54Speaker 5: This is definitely different than what I'm used to. If
- 10:57Speaker 5: I even see fresh products, it's usually in a supermarket,
- 11:01Speaker 5: in a refrigerated section. That's what I'm used to for
- 11:06Speaker 5: fresh ingredients.
- 11:07Speaker 4: This is what I imagine when I see all the
- 11:10Speaker 4: fat acceptance people saying things like, I tried to eat healthy,
- 11:14Speaker 4: but it didn't work. I bet if you took them
- 11:17Speaker 4: to a supermarket, most of them would not be able
- 11:19Speaker 4: to show you what a peach looks like outside of
- 11:22Speaker 4: a dull fruit cup. How am I supposed to believe
- 11:25Speaker 4: that Nicole actually tried to eat healthy? So the backstory
- 11:30Speaker 4: to this visit to the market was that 22-year-old Nicole
- 11:33Speaker 4: went to go visit Azan in Morocco. He had trouble
- 11:37Speaker 4: getting a K-1 visa to America, so she had to
- 11:40Speaker 4: visit him. Keep in mind that she had a kid
- 11:43Speaker 4: who was only a year and a half old at
- 11:45Speaker 4: the time of her first trip, and that trip to
- 11:47Speaker 4: Morocco was five weeks. That's like an eternity to a child.
- 11:52Speaker 4: She abandoned her daughter for over a month so she
- 11:55Speaker 4: could meet some stranger in a different country. Like, holy crap,
- 11:59Speaker 4: these single mothers do not care about their kids. Then worse,
- 12:02Speaker 4: when her daughter was two, she brings her to Morocco,
- 12:05Speaker 4: a country that Nicole... blatantly stated that she did no
- 12:09Speaker 4: research on to see if it was safe before her
- 12:11Speaker 4: first trip.
- 12:12Speaker 5: Did you do research?
- 12:14Speaker 4: On Morocco?
- 12:15Speaker 5: No.
- 12:16Speaker 4: I mean, America is a very wealthy country, but there
- 12:19Speaker 4: are still plenty of places where you shouldn't take your kid.
- 12:23Speaker 4: Did Nicole care to check to see if Azzan lived
- 12:25Speaker 4: in the Moroccan version of that before she took her
- 12:27Speaker 4: daughter there? Not to mention that she parents her kid
- 12:30Speaker 4: with an iPad. And when Azzan was having trouble getting
- 12:33Speaker 4: a visa, probably because he didn't actually want one, She
- 12:37Speaker 4: was willing to abandon her child for more than a
- 12:39Speaker 4: year so that she could marry Azan in Morocco and
- 12:42Speaker 4: get him a visa that way. Because just like Colt,
- 12:46Speaker 4: Nicole knows that she can't get a guy as physically
- 12:49Speaker 4: fit as Azan in America, and she doesn't want to self-improve,
- 12:52Speaker 4: so she ignores all of the completely stupid shit that
- 12:56Speaker 4: is going on in her relationship. Like the fact that
- 12:58Speaker 4: she has been his fiancé for four years and has
- 13:01Speaker 4: mysteriously failed to marry him twice. She also sends him money.
- 13:06Speaker 4: She cheated on him.
- 13:07Speaker 5: You know, before I cheated on him, things were amazing.
- 13:12Speaker 5: After I cheated, it changed.
- 13:16Speaker 4: He cheated on her. They argue all the time, she
- 13:19Speaker 4: is physically abusive, and when she attacked him, he had
- 13:22Speaker 4: to run up some stairs just to get away from her.
- 13:25Speaker 4: There is likely far more to this story than we
- 13:28Speaker 4: are being told. Nicole has wasted four years of her
- 13:31Speaker 4: youth on a relationship that is not going to work out,
- 13:34Speaker 4: She has fostered a terrible relationship with her daughter, and
- 13:38Speaker 4: her family has zero respect for her.
- 13:40Speaker 5: Oh my god. This is so hard. Oh my god.
- 13:47Speaker 6: I can't go up there.
- 13:52Speaker 5: I don't exercise, okay? This is not a thing for me.
- 13:56Speaker 4: Look at that. She gives up on walking up that
- 13:58Speaker 4: hill from the very start after a tiny bit of struggle.
- 14:02Speaker 4: The hill isn't even that big. Azan practically has to
- 14:05Speaker 4: force her to go up. Eventually she makes it and
- 14:08Speaker 4: does the camel ride, but the whole time she just
- 14:11Speaker 4: wants to quit. If she stays on this path, then
- 14:15Speaker 4: she is never going to have anything good. And that's
- 14:18Speaker 4: how your life will turn out when you don't try.
- 14:21Speaker 4: You don't get good things out of life when you
- 14:24Speaker 4: don't put any effort in. Instead, you get to live
- 14:27Speaker 4: with your mom at 35 and marry a person who
- 14:30Speaker 4: abuses you. Or you get to be let on for
- 14:32Speaker 4: four years in a toxic relationship with a guy who
- 14:36Speaker 4: clearly doesn't love you. What other options do they have?
- 14:40Speaker 4: If you don't work hard, you don't get good options.
- 14:43Speaker 4: And this will affect every part of your life. You
- 14:46Speaker 4: need to develop the ability to push through challenges, even
- 14:50Speaker 4: if you think there is no way that you can succeed.
- 14:53Speaker 4: That's what creates successful people. They push through tough times
- 14:56Speaker 4: and defy all the odds. Now, I know a lot
- 14:59Speaker 4: of you play video games. so I will explain this
- 15:01Speaker 4: with video games because there are tons of things you
- 15:04Speaker 4: can learn from them, especially if the game is competitive.
- 15:08Speaker 4: One of the games I play a lot is Smash Ultimate,
- 15:11Speaker 4: and something that you learn when you start getting good
- 15:13Speaker 4: is mental game. Your mentality has a very heavy effect
- 15:17Speaker 4: on the outcome of the match. If you're going to
- 15:20Speaker 4: play at a high level, then you need to have
- 15:22Speaker 4: the mentality of, I'm never going to give up no
- 15:25Speaker 4: matter how far behind I am. For those of you
- 15:28Speaker 4: who don't know, Super Smash Bros. is a fighting game
- 15:31Speaker 4: where you try to knock your opponent off the stage
- 15:33Speaker 4: and out of bounds. The more you hit the other player,
- 15:36Speaker 4: the higher their percentage goes and the easier it is
- 15:39Speaker 4: to knock them off the stage. Online matches typically play
- 15:43Speaker 4: with three lives. There have been plenty of matches where
- 15:46Speaker 4: I was down to my last life while my opponent
- 15:49Speaker 4: was on their first life, but I still ended up winning.
- 15:52Speaker 4: Look at this match. I'm playing young Link, and this
- 15:55Speaker 4: Roy player has me completely beat. After he hits me
- 15:59Speaker 4: with the sword, I know that there is no way
- 16:01Speaker 4: I can make it back to the stage with Link. So,
- 16:04Speaker 4: basically I should just let myself fall and die, right?
- 16:08Speaker 5: Nope.
- 16:09Speaker 4: I still try to recover anyway, and it turns out
- 16:11Speaker 4: that he fucked up, missed the ledge, and fell out
- 16:14Speaker 4: of bounds before I did. If I didn't try to recover,
- 16:17Speaker 4: I would have fallen first and lost. There are tons
- 16:20Speaker 4: of matches out there where things like this happen, and
- 16:23Speaker 4: where giving up will cause you to lose a match
- 16:26Speaker 4: that you could have won. When it comes to mental game,
- 16:29Speaker 4: there are different roles to play. If you are losing,
- 16:33Speaker 4: understand that very often your opponent will get arrogant and
- 16:37Speaker 4: lazy because they are ahead. That's your chance to fight
- 16:40Speaker 4: harder and catch up. Even if you think that there's
- 16:43Speaker 4: no way you can win, you say to yourself, I
- 16:46Speaker 4: might lose the match, but before that happens, I'm at
- 16:49Speaker 4: least going to take one of his lives. I'm not
- 16:51Speaker 4: going to let this guy embarrass me. That mentality very
- 16:55Speaker 4: often leads to a victory that you wouldn't have otherwise gotten.
- 16:59Speaker 4: If you are winning, then your goal is to intimidate
- 17:02Speaker 4: and demoralize your opponent so that they give up. Don't
- 17:06Speaker 4: even give them one second to catch their breath. You
- 17:08Speaker 4: want to make them completely hopeless. With that said, what
- 17:13Speaker 4: do you think the media is doing when the local
- 17:15Speaker 4: ABC News channel almost exclusively reports rape, murder, and robberies?
- 17:20Speaker 4: Why do you think their narrative is always negative? No
- 17:23Speaker 4: matter how good things get, every year is the worst year.
- 17:27Speaker 4: Everything is unfair and you will never get ahead no
- 17:30Speaker 4: matter how hard you try. Why do you think they
- 17:33Speaker 4: do that? It's because they want you to give up
- 17:36Speaker 4: and they want you to stop trying so they can
- 17:38Speaker 4: obtain more power. And a lot of people fall for that.
- 17:41Speaker 4: That's the black pill. Man, some things are a little bad,
- 17:45Speaker 4: so I'm just going to give up.
- 17:47Speaker 5: Great.
- 17:48Speaker 4: Mainstream media and all the corrupt people in the world
- 17:51Speaker 4: didn't have to do anything to because you just quit
- 17:54Speaker 4: without a fight. They were bluffing, and you didn't call it. Well,
- 17:58Speaker 4: you should have, because they are losing. Look at what
- 18:02Speaker 4: has happened in these past four years. The ferocity with
- 18:06Speaker 4: which they are trying to cheat shows their complete desperation.
- 18:10Speaker 4: So don't make the mistake of going blackpill or giving up.
- 18:13Speaker 4: Keep pushing through difficult struggles. That's how you win. Nothing
- 18:18Speaker 4: worthwhile is going to come to you without a fight.
- 18:21Speaker 4: But I think that will be enough for this video.
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